1 00:00:00,640 --> 00:00:16,239 Made a decision out face sunny, so I had a vision by sot Hey, 2 00:00:16,239 --> 00:00:21,079 everybody, it's for crying out loud. I'm so excited to be here. 3 00:00:21,280 --> 00:00:24,600 I'm so I'm excited out of my house. I'm excited to hear the 4 00:00:24,640 --> 00:00:28,879 story of why I have a big boot on my yes leg. Yes, 5 00:00:29,399 --> 00:00:33,920 Well, let's say hello to our fabulous people. Let's do that. Nicky 6 00:00:34,000 --> 00:00:41,079 Collier, Yeah, that's my Nikki. She's a Collie. I don't NICKI 7 00:00:41,320 --> 00:00:45,920 pick up pop your collar, pop your collar. That's a work in progress. 8 00:00:46,280 --> 00:00:51,439 We'll figure you out, Nicky. Ashley so chic Leslie accosted you in 9 00:00:51,520 --> 00:00:59,159 that Jacobs Growley. Rita rocks that bassinette with all those babies of Elizabeth Williamson's 10 00:00:59,200 --> 00:01:04,480 in it. Hero Happy father, Happy Father's Day. 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Really did shout outs. So UM 21 00:02:01,840 --> 00:02:07,480 shout out to my daughter Elbie, who just graduated from Oh my God, 22 00:02:07,800 --> 00:02:15,879 so Thursday night, UM was her the big graduation. There's there's something too. 23 00:02:16,479 --> 00:02:23,800 First of all, well, we talked on Patreon about UM a whole 24 00:02:23,800 --> 00:02:27,120 other story. But in that within that story, there was a lot of 25 00:02:27,159 --> 00:02:30,560 like, you know, do we get invited to do stuff with our kids, 26 00:02:30,800 --> 00:02:32,960 right? And there was UM, I told you about the prom, 27 00:02:34,039 --> 00:02:37,439 how there was a pre prom party that I only got invited to like the 28 00:02:37,520 --> 00:02:42,000 day before. This is the thing. I have a kind of an extended 29 00:02:42,039 --> 00:02:45,400 mom group. I have my close mom friends, and then there's like a 30 00:02:45,400 --> 00:02:49,439 few moms that are like cousins, cousins, you know, they're like, 31 00:02:49,639 --> 00:02:52,599 they're not They're going to be the first ones that but and a lot of 32 00:02:52,599 --> 00:02:55,400 them are Jewish, which means that, um, they're very warm and they 33 00:02:55,479 --> 00:03:00,479 check it out on you. Yes, interested, Yeah, they want to 34 00:03:00,520 --> 00:03:02,800 know everything, you know. I don't get a temple with them. God 35 00:03:02,840 --> 00:03:12,800 bless him, you know, Jesus loves him. Yeah, Jesus loves you 36 00:03:12,800 --> 00:03:19,360 guys. And I told you I met Laura, like my closest friend. 37 00:03:19,360 --> 00:03:23,280 I met her at a temple Mommy and Me. Right. I talked about 38 00:03:23,319 --> 00:03:27,159 this even in my book in Sippy Cups Are Not for Chardonnay, I talked 39 00:03:27,199 --> 00:03:30,120 about her. I met her a Mommy and me because I was literally desperate 40 00:03:30,159 --> 00:03:36,680 for friends and I was and I was googling mommy and me's and one of 41 00:03:36,719 --> 00:03:38,800 the ones that I came up with was at a temple. And I'm like, 42 00:03:38,800 --> 00:03:40,439 well, I'm Jewish. You know. Do you think I would have 43 00:03:40,439 --> 00:03:45,520 been accepted at that? Oh my god, yes, really, you're you're 44 00:03:45,560 --> 00:03:49,879 like an honorary Jew. I know a thing. I know. No, 45 00:03:50,159 --> 00:03:53,199 it's nobody would care. I mean it was the temple I went to. 46 00:03:53,319 --> 00:03:55,560 It was like, it's not like we were praying or doing Tora readings. 47 00:03:55,639 --> 00:04:00,439 We were like singing, you know, little blackbirds, sand tree, so 48 00:04:00,080 --> 00:04:05,960 anyway, Laura's my friend, and by extension, they all sort of go 49 00:04:06,000 --> 00:04:09,800 to the same temple, well a lot of them do, but anyway, 50 00:04:09,879 --> 00:04:14,840 they include me as if I'm a Jew. So they all all all of 51 00:04:14,879 --> 00:04:18,439 our kids are friends with each other. We all have daughters, and also 52 00:04:18,600 --> 00:04:21,000 some of them have sons too, but all of our daughters are at the 53 00:04:21,040 --> 00:04:24,839 same age. Right. Oh, actually no, my other one friend, 54 00:04:24,879 --> 00:04:30,480 Sharon her son. But they're all friends. So they all know about these 55 00:04:30,600 --> 00:04:33,680 get togethers, you know. So I'm I'm hearing about like the prom get 56 00:04:33,720 --> 00:04:36,839 together, you know, a week in advance, and I have to just 57 00:04:36,920 --> 00:04:40,680 keep going. Yeah, I haven't heard about it yet from my child, 58 00:04:40,839 --> 00:04:42,959 right. And then all of a sudden, Elbe's like, oh, by 59 00:04:43,000 --> 00:04:46,199 the way, so tomorrow night before prom, we can take pictures if you 60 00:04:46,240 --> 00:04:48,319 want to come, Like some of the parents are invited. I'm like, 61 00:04:48,439 --> 00:04:53,319 oh some, don't you mean, like thirtys are invited. Don't you mean 62 00:04:53,360 --> 00:04:57,800 they've already decided who's bringing what? I'm just finding out about it. So 63 00:04:57,839 --> 00:05:01,199 anyway, same thing happened for the graduate where I get except for this time 64 00:05:01,240 --> 00:05:06,720 I get told an hour before Elby says, oh, by the way, 65 00:05:08,079 --> 00:05:11,240 we're going over to my friend's house who lives around the corner, to take 66 00:05:11,279 --> 00:05:15,079 pictures. And I was like, oh cool, when when were you gonna 67 00:05:15,199 --> 00:05:17,600 tell me? And she's like, no, I mean yeah, it's just 68 00:05:17,639 --> 00:05:20,759 sort of came up. Anyway, I'm gonna go pick up my boyfriend and 69 00:05:20,800 --> 00:05:24,720 I'm going to bring them over there, but like, you're welcome to come 70 00:05:24,720 --> 00:05:30,399 meet us there. So now, so her graduation was at she needed to 71 00:05:30,399 --> 00:05:32,040 be there at six o'clock. The thing was starting at seven, but she 72 00:05:32,079 --> 00:05:35,720 needed to be there at six. She didn't really want to drive herself, 73 00:05:35,800 --> 00:05:41,639 which I understood, So I came over there to take some pictures. I 74 00:05:41,720 --> 00:05:44,120 walk in the house. It's one of the mom, one of the mom 75 00:05:44,199 --> 00:05:49,000 friends. It's a whole freaking spread. It was a party. Yeah, 76 00:05:49,160 --> 00:05:54,720 and all of my friends are there with their relatives, like woh yeah, 77 00:05:54,759 --> 00:05:57,800 Like all of my friends are there with all the like the guests that they're 78 00:05:57,839 --> 00:06:00,720 bringing to the ground. Everybody freaking knew about it. Now, I don't 79 00:06:00,720 --> 00:06:03,759 know who to be mad at. Maybe elbe, But what about these moms? 80 00:06:03,839 --> 00:06:06,800 Yeah, how come the moms? They should have said how come they 81 00:06:06,800 --> 00:06:11,000 didn't say, like, hey, are you going over to someone's house? 82 00:06:11,120 --> 00:06:16,040 Like, so, yeah, whatever, right, whatever, this mom hadn't 83 00:06:16,040 --> 00:06:18,920 told, hadn't texted me and said hey, all, but maybe she just 84 00:06:19,120 --> 00:06:23,240 assumed Elbie would have told me. I mean I was invited, that's the 85 00:06:23,279 --> 00:06:26,240 thing. Yeah, I think that every parent thinks that the kid is going 86 00:06:26,279 --> 00:06:29,120 to invite. Yeah, but I didn't know about it. So I walk 87 00:06:29,199 --> 00:06:31,560 in. It's like I'm walking into a party. Yeah, all these parents, 88 00:06:31,680 --> 00:06:34,839 all these kids. Anyway, I go outside, I take a few 89 00:06:34,839 --> 00:06:39,839 pictures. It was fine, and then Elbie's of course like, mom, 90 00:06:39,879 --> 00:06:45,480 we gotta go. I'm like, oh, okay. So when Elbie gets 91 00:06:45,519 --> 00:06:49,360 anxious about stuff, she just gets um. It's not pushy, it's just 92 00:06:49,439 --> 00:06:53,319 she just gets She just gets anxious. So she like, we need to 93 00:06:53,360 --> 00:06:55,959 go, right, Like that's it, Like, you know, don't make 94 00:06:56,000 --> 00:06:59,959 me more anxious. Bye, oh dilly Dolly, let's go. Let's get 95 00:07:00,079 --> 00:07:03,560 Carl, let's go. So I take her. So John drives separate because 96 00:07:03,560 --> 00:07:08,000 he's taking Sadie and Xander and they're gonna beat us there. And because Elbie 97 00:07:08,000 --> 00:07:10,720 has to get there so early that I'm like, you don't need to get 98 00:07:10,759 --> 00:07:14,759 there, like at six, it's start till seven. What about her boyfriend? 99 00:07:14,879 --> 00:07:17,319 Is he drives with us. Yeah, yeah, yeah, but is 100 00:07:17,360 --> 00:07:23,360 he graduating too? He graduates two. So I drive them together, drop 101 00:07:23,439 --> 00:07:29,040 them off now by myself anyway, walk around find people I know. John 102 00:07:29,079 --> 00:07:33,560 gets no. So the graduation itself was like I'm I'm gonna keep it real 103 00:07:34,040 --> 00:07:41,519 boring. Like listen, last year, the Sadie and Xander graduated middle school 104 00:07:41,680 --> 00:07:45,439 and they had only been at that school for like, you know, eight 105 00:07:45,480 --> 00:07:47,560 months or whatever, and oh my god, that was one of the most 106 00:07:47,560 --> 00:07:53,399 boring things I've ever I was watching paint dry. Yeah, didn't know a 107 00:07:53,439 --> 00:07:56,839 single other person there. You know. It's just like I don't know one 108 00:07:56,879 --> 00:08:00,680 of these fucking people. And it's huge. It's a huge school you got 109 00:08:00,759 --> 00:08:05,480 to sit through, and it's on time being called up there, and all 110 00:08:05,560 --> 00:08:11,600 the songs like this person, oh, Zoe and Chloe have a dance number 111 00:08:11,680 --> 00:08:13,839 they're doing, and this bitch and that one. I'm doing a speech that 112 00:08:15,160 --> 00:08:18,759 makes no sense, you know, and I don't care and oh shout out 113 00:08:18,759 --> 00:08:22,040 to this teacher. Never met him. I couldn't care less what I mean. 114 00:08:22,120 --> 00:08:24,319 I was like, this is I'm gonna kill myself. And John and 115 00:08:24,360 --> 00:08:26,959 I, luckily both of us, we were just like sitting on our phone. 116 00:08:26,959 --> 00:08:31,160 So right, I was gonna say. It was like we wake up. 117 00:08:31,160 --> 00:08:37,120 It's like, oh right, I'm Sanny right together, but dead last 118 00:08:37,759 --> 00:08:43,240 Taylor a few z's and then that's the that's it. So I'm buckled up 119 00:08:43,279 --> 00:08:48,440 for like a boring evening. Luckily well and it and it was it did 120 00:08:48,480 --> 00:08:54,240 not disappoint in the boring department. It was like, forgot what Anthony Nick 121 00:08:54,600 --> 00:08:58,399 Nick mulvoyan, who's the l a us D head of l a us D. 122 00:08:58,720 --> 00:09:05,639 He gave like everybody gave a speech, everybody's speech. Kids and adults 123 00:09:05,639 --> 00:09:11,440 alike were like, these kids had to persevere over COVID nineteen, then the 124 00:09:11,480 --> 00:09:16,759 COVID nineteen. Now listen, I get it, but it was ninth grade 125 00:09:16,480 --> 00:09:22,080 and tenth grade. I'm not trying to like COVID sped and it really took 126 00:09:22,120 --> 00:09:26,639 a bite out of these kids high school experience totally. You can't deny that 127 00:09:26,799 --> 00:09:31,600 they started ninth grade. Halfway through the ninth grade, they went home, 128 00:09:31,759 --> 00:09:33,480 never to go back to school, and then they stayed home all of tenth 129 00:09:33,519 --> 00:09:39,120 grade. Yeah, but as you and I have discussed many times, we 130 00:09:39,360 --> 00:09:43,720 figured out I would say it was tougher for a lot of other kids than 131 00:09:43,840 --> 00:09:48,960 for like my kids, because my kids probably your kids had rougher because they 132 00:09:48,960 --> 00:09:52,360 missed all of ninth grade. They missed they missed half of eighth grade and 133 00:09:52,360 --> 00:09:56,639 all of nine. They didn't get to graduate eighth grade, right, because 134 00:09:56,639 --> 00:10:00,440 they missed the second half of eighth grade and all of ninth They had to 135 00:10:00,480 --> 00:10:05,240 start a school all new in the tenth grade. So at least Elby had 136 00:10:05,279 --> 00:10:07,879 been to her school right first half of ninth grade, but then she'd been 137 00:10:07,919 --> 00:10:11,519 gone for a year and a half and then she was there all of junior 138 00:10:11,600 --> 00:10:15,759 year and all of senior right. Right, It wasn't ideal, but like 139 00:10:16,200 --> 00:10:18,759 every single person didn't need to talk about it, like he got it, 140 00:10:18,799 --> 00:10:22,639 Like we were there, we remember, right, you know, and it 141 00:10:22,720 --> 00:10:26,320 was like everybody was like and then like each speech was like because there were 142 00:10:26,320 --> 00:10:30,879 a lot of speeches. There was like the valedictorian, there was the student 143 00:10:30,919 --> 00:10:35,440 body president, there was the president of the whole ASB, there was the 144 00:10:35,519 --> 00:10:39,919 senior class, so many speeches, right, and then the officials like the 145 00:10:39,960 --> 00:10:43,919 principle of the school and then and the head of LAUSD and somebody for like 146 00:10:43,960 --> 00:10:50,519 some city assemblyment. Right, every single person was like and then COVID nineteen 147 00:10:50,639 --> 00:10:54,399 hit right right. It was like, we know, and you guys should 148 00:10:54,440 --> 00:10:58,320 have compared notes a little bit. Somebody should have you should have run through 149 00:10:58,320 --> 00:11:01,279 your speech and somebody should have been like, we covered COVID. Yeah. 150 00:11:01,320 --> 00:11:03,679 Yeah, there should be a director of the whole thing, right, a 151 00:11:03,720 --> 00:11:11,559 producer. So nobody knew everybody was doing COVID hitch. It's like, okay, 152 00:11:11,600 --> 00:11:15,919 so now we're all sad. And then there was some orchestra played and 153 00:11:16,000 --> 00:11:20,600 you know high school orchestras hot on, they're doing their best. I get 154 00:11:20,600 --> 00:11:24,320 it. Yeah, but like and then there's like solo. I don't know 155 00:11:24,399 --> 00:11:28,879 there was you know solo. The high point was my like one of my 156 00:11:28,919 --> 00:11:35,440 extended mom group friends, her son was chosen to give the commencement another speech, 157 00:11:35,519 --> 00:11:39,320 but he did it. He did like a poem. It was cool, 158 00:11:39,399 --> 00:11:41,480 like a RAMI, you know, like all the places you'll go kind 159 00:11:41,480 --> 00:11:46,360 of doctor and it was it was fun and anyway, so that happens, 160 00:11:46,559 --> 00:11:50,240 I was like, oh my god, this is boring. Luckily I bought 161 00:11:50,240 --> 00:11:54,240 some popcorn that has something to eat. Yeah, okay, so that happens. 162 00:11:54,679 --> 00:11:58,320 Now. The kids were not allowed to bring their phone and elbe onto 163 00:11:58,320 --> 00:12:03,320 the field right, So there was for it took I'm not exaggerating when I 164 00:12:03,360 --> 00:12:07,039 say it took thirty minutes for the kids to walk in and be seated because 165 00:12:07,039 --> 00:12:09,759 there were so many of them. There were five hundred and twenty eight kids 166 00:12:09,759 --> 00:12:15,320 in their senior class. So imagine five hundred kids walking in two by two 167 00:12:15,360 --> 00:12:18,519 and being seated endless right right. A lot of phone times, right, 168 00:12:18,720 --> 00:12:22,080 So, but Elbie wasn't allow to bring her phone, and like the rule 169 00:12:22,159 --> 00:12:26,080 follow where she is, she didn't bring her phone. Many other kids brought 170 00:12:26,080 --> 00:12:28,000 their phones. They just they just like starting at a bar or whatever, 171 00:12:28,399 --> 00:12:31,120 you know. Elbie was like, oh, no, you have to take 172 00:12:31,159 --> 00:12:37,039 my phone. Now we go to leave and we're on these like steep bleachers. 173 00:12:37,039 --> 00:12:43,159 Because the graduation happened at Pierce College campus, big graduations teage. Yeah, 174 00:12:43,360 --> 00:12:48,240 big place in like a little stadium area, right, deep bleachers. 175 00:12:50,279 --> 00:12:54,360 Now I successfully navigate the bleachers. I felt sorry. I was like, 176 00:12:54,399 --> 00:12:56,600 look at all these seniors, a lot of grandparents there. I was like, 177 00:12:56,639 --> 00:13:00,720 these poor grandparents hard they got to climb these bleachers. I was like, 178 00:13:00,759 --> 00:13:03,159 oh, I'll be careful the whole time. Little did I know that 179 00:13:03,679 --> 00:13:09,960 the only person was going to get hurt was me so oh so I'm you 180 00:13:09,000 --> 00:13:13,879 know. In fact, at one point I kind of got irritated at some 181 00:13:13,039 --> 00:13:16,279 people. I was like, excuse me, let these people go in for 182 00:13:16,399 --> 00:13:20,480 They were like two seniors that were trying to navigate the bleachers. I was 183 00:13:20,519 --> 00:13:24,279 like, do you see that? There's some people like yeah, you know, 184 00:13:24,639 --> 00:13:30,159 Oh my god, by the way, so obnoxious, Like do you 185 00:13:30,159 --> 00:13:33,200 ever go to an event like this? These people were screaming for their kids, 186 00:13:33,600 --> 00:13:37,440 but like but not just like when they walked the stage, but like 187 00:13:37,519 --> 00:13:45,840 the whole time. Oh god. I was like, like, Emily's gonna 188 00:13:45,919 --> 00:13:50,720 hear them go, oh oh, I'm sure, Emily, absolutely, We're 189 00:13:50,840 --> 00:13:54,679 so fucking loud. It was insane and it was embarrassing. And I was 190 00:13:54,720 --> 00:13:58,360 like, Elbie would have died a million death if I did that. But 191 00:13:58,480 --> 00:14:03,120 the you know, the girls like waving at her. It's like a whole 192 00:14:03,279 --> 00:14:07,039 mass. It's like a you know, scen era, yes, you know, 193 00:14:07,279 --> 00:14:11,600 party going on. It was screaming for their kids, like several, 194 00:14:11,759 --> 00:14:16,919 like not just one, but like totally so many people screaming for their kids. 195 00:14:16,960 --> 00:14:22,399 I was just like, oh my god, this is yeah speaking of 196 00:14:22,440 --> 00:14:24,840 assault on ears. You know, my dad used to do at any school 197 00:14:24,840 --> 00:14:28,000 events. Is he would do like the loudest whistle, oh, like the 198 00:14:28,440 --> 00:14:35,320 like it I knew and I could see him doing it, and I was 199 00:14:35,360 --> 00:14:39,399 so whistling. People brought noisemakers they weren't supposed to. Oh. And it 200 00:14:39,440 --> 00:14:43,440 was funny because I was telling Robin about this and she was like, did 201 00:14:43,480 --> 00:14:46,879 anybody have the big signs? The big face blown up face? Oh, 202 00:14:48,120 --> 00:14:52,120 I've seen that, am I have a picture of it. It was horrible, 203 00:14:52,559 --> 00:14:56,440 people holding up this giant head head of the kids. First of all, 204 00:14:56,480 --> 00:15:00,519 you're not allowed to bring balloons. What fucking planet are you on that 205 00:15:00,559 --> 00:15:03,279 you think that if you can't bring balloons, you could bring a giant like 206 00:15:03,480 --> 00:15:09,200 billboard side blow up of your kid's face right and in front of so you're 207 00:15:09,519 --> 00:15:15,080 so they're blocking the people behind that. I have a picture because it's in 208 00:15:15,240 --> 00:15:16,759 one of the pictures I took of Elby. That sign is like in the 209 00:15:16,799 --> 00:15:24,240 background. Post it on our Instagram. But anyway, leaving finally leaving there, 210 00:15:24,240 --> 00:15:26,519 trying to meet up, We're trying, We're knowing that we're going to 211 00:15:26,559 --> 00:15:30,639 have to go through throngs of people to find elbe right, and there's all 212 00:15:30,679 --> 00:15:33,840 of the people have to walk out of this one area of a fence, 213 00:15:35,519 --> 00:15:39,559 so too. You know, if each kid brought four people, or five 214 00:15:39,639 --> 00:15:43,840 people, or ten people, and it's five hundred kids, imagine it's thousands 215 00:15:43,879 --> 00:15:48,519 of people trying to get out. And I'm walking and all of a sudden, 216 00:15:48,559 --> 00:15:50,919 I take a spill. I don't see it coming. Apparently there's a 217 00:15:52,000 --> 00:15:54,120 curb there, because some of my friends were saying that they saw that curb 218 00:15:54,120 --> 00:15:56,639 and it was so dangerous. They were telling everybody, look out, look 219 00:15:56,639 --> 00:16:00,679 out, look out for this curb. I didn't see anything. There's people, 220 00:16:00,159 --> 00:16:03,960 there's people crunched in front of me and crunched behind me. So I 221 00:16:04,120 --> 00:16:08,360 spill into into the crowd. All these people like are like, oh my 222 00:16:08,399 --> 00:16:11,559 god, are you okay? And they picked me up. Well, I 223 00:16:11,600 --> 00:16:15,600 had my foot. I was walking and like not a super high shoe, 224 00:16:15,639 --> 00:16:18,279 but I like kind of a high yeah, not like a spiky heel, 225 00:16:18,360 --> 00:16:23,759 but like a like a chunky little platform, and my foot turned to the 226 00:16:23,840 --> 00:16:30,159 side and it hurt. It hurt, but like it didn't kill. It 227 00:16:30,240 --> 00:16:33,039 wasn't like, oh my god, my foot. Oh no. I was 228 00:16:33,080 --> 00:16:37,159 like, okay, I'm okay, Like it rolled your ankle. I kind 229 00:16:37,159 --> 00:16:40,679 of rolled my foot. Yeah it didn't. I didn't sprain my ankle, 230 00:16:40,679 --> 00:16:44,480 I broke. I fractured my foot, so my foot went to the side 231 00:16:44,759 --> 00:16:49,799 and hit the ground and and then but it didn't hurt that bad like when 232 00:16:49,840 --> 00:16:52,759 I did it. I mean I hurt. I felt like my ribs kind 233 00:16:52,759 --> 00:16:56,960 of hurt because I fell felt and I was like, I'm okay, I'm 234 00:16:56,960 --> 00:17:02,519 okay, I'm okay, but like my foot was hurting. But I'm also 235 00:17:02,639 --> 00:17:06,799 now I have adrenaline because yeah, yeah, in front of all those people, 236 00:17:06,839 --> 00:17:10,119 and there's a thing, Yeah, there's a thing where for me, 237 00:17:10,279 --> 00:17:15,240 when I see somebody that I love and care about fall, it hurts. 238 00:17:15,240 --> 00:17:18,839 It breaks my even like it breaks your foot, it hurts me. Like 239 00:17:18,440 --> 00:17:22,680 even I remember seeing my brother who I'm not very attached to, and I 240 00:17:22,680 --> 00:17:25,880 don't really like that much. Even then I saw him trip and fall like 241 00:17:25,920 --> 00:17:29,799 we're I at a restaurant and I just I don't know, it breaks my 242 00:17:29,799 --> 00:17:33,599 hands hot, Oh yeah, that's sad. Yeah, I don't. I 243 00:17:33,599 --> 00:17:34,920 felt bad for other people around that had to. I was like, I'm 244 00:17:34,920 --> 00:17:38,319 okay, I'm okay, I'm okay. I know, but then so then 245 00:17:38,640 --> 00:17:41,799 but now, meanwhile, I hadn't found Elbie yet. So we're looking for 246 00:17:41,839 --> 00:17:45,599 Elbie. My foot is starting to hurt, you know. But I'm like 247 00:17:45,720 --> 00:17:49,559 I'm okay, I'm okay. We we finally find Elbie and now I'm like 248 00:17:49,680 --> 00:17:52,880 limping a little bit, you know. And then I tell Elbie, you 249 00:17:52,920 --> 00:17:56,519 know, the kids Sadie and Xander like mom fell right, and Albis like, 250 00:17:56,559 --> 00:18:00,680 oh, you're okay. Yeah, I know. She's like the mom 251 00:18:00,720 --> 00:18:03,319 of a toddler, right, okay, walk it off. Yeah, and 252 00:18:03,359 --> 00:18:04,240 then she's like, I have to find my friends. I have to find 253 00:18:04,279 --> 00:18:07,759 my friends. So I'm like okay. So then I'm like, oh, 254 00:18:07,799 --> 00:18:11,960 it is hurting, but like, let me just go and like sit by 255 00:18:11,960 --> 00:18:15,440 the side by this. But I don't want to sit. I don't want 256 00:18:15,440 --> 00:18:18,880 to get away from people because I'm so crowded right that I'll never see them 257 00:18:18,880 --> 00:18:21,799 again, right, you know. So um, then John's like, do 258 00:18:21,799 --> 00:18:25,319 you want me to like take you home? And we can just give Albi 259 00:18:25,400 --> 00:18:27,480 the keys, but Alby doesn't have keys at this point and doesn't know where 260 00:18:27,480 --> 00:18:32,359 we parked the car. And it's like parking is like for a concert, 261 00:18:32,680 --> 00:18:34,960 like there's like different parking lots, like it's not going to be possible. 262 00:18:36,000 --> 00:18:40,039 To describe where the car is. So let's take a quick break and then 263 00:18:40,079 --> 00:18:44,480 I'll tell you what happened. 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Some people were going out after. 310 00:22:03,119 --> 00:22:07,119 But I hadn't really planned that because I knew Elbe was going out doing 311 00:22:07,160 --> 00:22:10,759 things that she had to work the next day, and then she was going 312 00:22:10,799 --> 00:22:15,640 to a party that two parties the next night. So I asked her. 313 00:22:15,680 --> 00:22:17,839 I was like, do you want to plan to like go to dinner with 314 00:22:17,960 --> 00:22:19,039 us or I don't know how late it's going to be, and she was 315 00:22:19,079 --> 00:22:22,440 like, you whatever, let's just see. Let's just see, we'll see 316 00:22:22,480 --> 00:22:25,759 what my friends are doing. So we ended up going. We didn't she 317 00:22:25,839 --> 00:22:29,359 didn't have a specific plan. She could have like gone with a friend if 318 00:22:29,359 --> 00:22:33,559 she wanted to, but I think she wanted Her boyfriend was going to dinner 319 00:22:33,559 --> 00:22:36,880 with his parents and just going to be for like an hour, and then 320 00:22:36,880 --> 00:22:38,279 she was going to go over there, I see, and be with him. 321 00:22:38,519 --> 00:22:41,960 So whatever, did you see the boyfriend's parents when you were there? 322 00:22:42,160 --> 00:22:45,279 YEA saw them and hung out with them a little bit. They're so nice. 323 00:22:47,720 --> 00:22:52,240 So I'm like, a foot is starting to hurt, and John's and 324 00:22:52,319 --> 00:22:56,480 I'm like, now, I'm like fully kind of limping around, and then 325 00:22:56,119 --> 00:23:00,799 John's like, well, we should go, and so LB drove me home. 326 00:23:02,039 --> 00:23:04,319 Elb I drove with LB. She drove and then John drove with the 327 00:23:04,359 --> 00:23:07,960 other car. I get home. I'm like, okay, now I have 328 00:23:08,079 --> 00:23:11,160 like a big like goose egg on my foot, and I'm like, well, 329 00:23:11,200 --> 00:23:15,839 this isn't looking good. I've never broken a bone though in my life. 330 00:23:15,920 --> 00:23:18,839 I did not think it was broken, right, So I was like, 331 00:23:18,920 --> 00:23:22,839 oh, probably feel better tomorrow. I put ice on it, you 332 00:23:22,880 --> 00:23:25,319 know, And John's like, no, it's probably gonna feel worse tomorrow. 333 00:23:25,640 --> 00:23:27,559 I probably sprained it, right, you know. And I was like, 334 00:23:29,279 --> 00:23:32,519 okay, So it was just swall. I was getting swall, very swollen. 335 00:23:33,000 --> 00:23:37,839 Yeah, so like a bump, like a big like a goose egg, 336 00:23:37,839 --> 00:23:40,200 like if you hit your head and then you get like a big bump 337 00:23:40,240 --> 00:23:41,400 on it. It was like that, but on like the side of my 338 00:23:41,440 --> 00:23:45,119 foot. So then okay. So I wake up in the morning and I 339 00:23:45,200 --> 00:23:49,559 was like, oh, holy shit, it hurts so bad. Now I 340 00:23:49,599 --> 00:23:52,799 can't I cannot walk. Like I go to try to take a step out 341 00:23:52,839 --> 00:23:56,559 of bed and I'm like, oh my god, I can't walk. And 342 00:23:56,599 --> 00:24:00,119 then I start feeling like, oh, I'm being so dramatic, but I'm 343 00:24:00,160 --> 00:24:02,920 like, I so John. But John is very caring. He's like, 344 00:24:03,000 --> 00:24:06,000 let's get you. Let's go to urgent care, right, and like get 345 00:24:06,000 --> 00:24:08,440 it x rayed, you know, yeah, sure it's not broken. Yeah, 346 00:24:08,480 --> 00:24:11,599 I'm like it's not broken, but like, yeah, let's go make 347 00:24:11,599 --> 00:24:15,799 sure I cannot get to the car like John has like hold me up. 348 00:24:15,880 --> 00:24:21,920 Every step I put on some slippers. Every step is like excruciating pain. 349 00:24:22,480 --> 00:24:26,599 We go to the my normal urgent care that I love, and uh, 350 00:24:26,640 --> 00:24:30,319 I mean, I'm like hopping. It's so so much drama, you know 351 00:24:30,319 --> 00:24:34,079 what I mean. I'm just like hot, literally like hopping on one foot. 352 00:24:34,319 --> 00:24:37,039 We get in there. The woman takes one look at us and she's 353 00:24:37,079 --> 00:24:41,839 like, oh, uh, you hurt yourself And I was like yeah, 354 00:24:41,839 --> 00:24:44,920 and she's like our X ray tech is not here, and I was like 355 00:24:45,240 --> 00:24:47,799 she goes, but if you want to wait, like the doctor can have 356 00:24:47,839 --> 00:24:48,759 a look at it. I'm like, well I could have a look at 357 00:24:48,839 --> 00:24:52,599 it to see right, like it needs to be X ray. Yes, 358 00:24:53,559 --> 00:24:57,799 why don't look at it? Oh, let's let me take a peek. 359 00:24:59,480 --> 00:25:03,359 Well here, like there's something to see, right, And where's this refomission? 360 00:25:03,480 --> 00:25:07,720 You're urging care? Don't you have there out for the day? They 361 00:25:07,759 --> 00:25:11,759 didn't come in that day. Yeah, anyway, so I'm like okay, 362 00:25:11,079 --> 00:25:14,880 so I go, We're gonna just go to a different urgent care. Good. 363 00:25:15,079 --> 00:25:18,039 So then she's like, do you want a wheelchair to wheel you back 364 00:25:18,079 --> 00:25:21,599 out to the car. And I was like, oh, hell yes yeah. 365 00:25:21,599 --> 00:25:25,640 But I'm just you know that feeling though where You're like this, this 366 00:25:25,880 --> 00:25:30,319 seems so extra, like I'm being extra cannot but if foot touches the ground, 367 00:25:30,440 --> 00:25:33,160 yea, so painful. You gotta keep it up. Like I can 368 00:25:33,200 --> 00:25:37,440 imagine as soon as you put it down, all the blood rush. It's 369 00:25:37,519 --> 00:25:41,200 kind of just touching the ground. Any weight on it was so painful, 370 00:25:41,400 --> 00:25:44,440 and I'm trying to like so John is holding me up, you know whatever. 371 00:25:44,480 --> 00:25:47,079 So we get into the other urgent care and I hop in there. 372 00:25:47,440 --> 00:25:52,359 I have to hop on one foot and h They're like, oh yeah they 373 00:25:52,000 --> 00:25:55,599 have so they have an X ray person. So I go into the room 374 00:25:55,720 --> 00:25:57,519 and they're like what, so what are you here for. I'm like what, 375 00:25:57,720 --> 00:26:02,079 my foot is on the table. I was like this and she was 376 00:26:02,119 --> 00:26:07,200 like everybody that looks at it though, was like oh yeah, yeah, 377 00:26:07,279 --> 00:26:11,680 oh yeah, Like that's not good. So anyway, they take an X 378 00:26:11,759 --> 00:26:15,519 ray of it um and then as soon as she looks at the x X 379 00:26:15,640 --> 00:26:18,400 ray she's like, yeah, it's fractured, and I was like, oh 380 00:26:18,440 --> 00:26:21,960 serious. Wow. But then as I was telling you before, I was 381 00:26:22,000 --> 00:26:26,359 like a part of me did feel better because like, yeah, I was 382 00:26:26,400 --> 00:26:27,920 like, think of all the drama if she was like, oh, just 383 00:26:27,960 --> 00:26:33,559 a bruise. Yeah, and I'm yeah, now you're validated. Yeah. 384 00:26:33,599 --> 00:26:37,039 I felt a little validated card even though I almost started crying because I was 385 00:26:37,079 --> 00:26:42,160 like, this is not possible for me to have a break because what am 386 00:26:42,160 --> 00:26:45,240 I gonna do. I'm saying I'm not gonna be able to drive, like 387 00:26:45,359 --> 00:26:48,640 my feet. Yeah, I was like, am I gonna be able to 388 00:26:48,720 --> 00:26:52,640 drive? She's like, no, You're gonna need your right foot, my 389 00:26:52,799 --> 00:26:56,400 right foot. So I go in. So then the guy, the doctor 390 00:26:56,480 --> 00:27:00,319 comes in and he's like ninety five, so you know that, and he's 391 00:27:00,359 --> 00:27:03,680 so he's looked at the X ray now, and he comes in and he's 392 00:27:03,720 --> 00:27:07,480 speaking another language that I don't know what it was. It could have been 393 00:27:07,519 --> 00:27:12,200 FARSI I can't I realily was I think so. I think he was speaking 394 00:27:12,240 --> 00:27:18,119 like very very thick accent and it was so much to the point that you 395 00:27:18,160 --> 00:27:19,519 know, you don't want to be rude, but I was like I am 396 00:27:19,559 --> 00:27:22,920 not I don't understand what you're saying, right, And he was like slowing 397 00:27:22,960 --> 00:27:26,599 it down a little bit. But it's like when an American person like slows 398 00:27:26,640 --> 00:27:30,920 down, you know English, like you think a person speaks Spanish is going 399 00:27:30,960 --> 00:27:36,200 to understand you better if you're like I need to know, Like it's like 400 00:27:36,240 --> 00:27:38,680 that, but it's like you're still speaking in such a strong accent. I 401 00:27:38,720 --> 00:27:42,440 don't know what the words are that you're saying. And he's like, so 402 00:27:42,559 --> 00:27:45,400 in my mind he's I was like, do I need He's like, bla 403 00:27:48,720 --> 00:27:52,039 orthopedis And I'm like, so, do I need to see an orthopedis? 404 00:27:52,680 --> 00:27:59,240 No, It's what I gather is that I didn't dislocate the bone. Thank 405 00:27:59,440 --> 00:28:02,920 god, it's still like connected. It's just got a crack in it, 406 00:28:03,039 --> 00:28:06,400 right, So he says it'll heal. He basically tells me. I was 407 00:28:06,440 --> 00:28:08,240 like, do I need a cast? He's like, nope, you need 408 00:28:08,279 --> 00:28:14,119 a boot. You can't move no weight on it or it'll break it worse. 409 00:28:14,240 --> 00:28:15,640 Right, you can't put any weight on your foot. I'm like, 410 00:28:17,240 --> 00:28:19,559 well, I can't put any weight on my foot anyway, right, So 411 00:28:19,640 --> 00:28:25,319 he says, and then you need crutches, And like I'm like, okay, 412 00:28:25,960 --> 00:28:32,519 so then so but you can't my friend brings me. My friend brought 413 00:28:32,559 --> 00:28:36,599 me crutches, so so we so John takes me. He's like, once 414 00:28:36,599 --> 00:28:37,960 I get the crutches, he's going to take me to the medical. So 415 00:28:38,119 --> 00:28:41,160 we have to go to a medical supply store. So if anybody's been through 416 00:28:41,200 --> 00:28:45,160 this, so okay, have you ever been to a medical supply store? 417 00:28:45,319 --> 00:28:48,920 Yes, it is the creepiest, weird and there's all kinds of shit. 418 00:28:48,079 --> 00:28:52,119 There's like stuff to sit on the toilet for, right, but like a 419 00:28:52,279 --> 00:28:56,000 don't never this. There's a a sling thing for that. But it's not 420 00:28:56,039 --> 00:29:00,279 a showroom, or at least the place I went to, Like I think 421 00:29:00,319 --> 00:29:04,200 these days everything has done mail order, so there's nothing to see, right, 422 00:29:04,519 --> 00:29:08,279 So I walk in and it's just boxes piled as and this one was 423 00:29:08,359 --> 00:29:12,960 rated well oh, because we found one place, the one that the guy, 424 00:29:14,119 --> 00:29:18,240 the FARSTI guy recommended had one and a half stars. And it was 425 00:29:18,279 --> 00:29:22,119 all these people saying that this place tried to do medicare fraud or whatever. 426 00:29:22,960 --> 00:29:26,400 Yeah, so like they tried to. They started sending these stuff to my 427 00:29:26,480 --> 00:29:30,400 house and it was like charging medicare like eight hundred dollars for this. So 428 00:29:30,440 --> 00:29:32,559 we're like, hey, we're not going there. So we find one that's 429 00:29:32,640 --> 00:29:36,200 rated, well, go in. It's just all boxes that I can see 430 00:29:36,680 --> 00:29:40,559 online. It says that they have the they have boots for your foot. 431 00:29:40,880 --> 00:29:44,279 I walk in. This lady, this lady, there's no one there, 432 00:29:44,559 --> 00:29:49,640 right, no one. This lady comes out of the back. Oh my 433 00:29:49,759 --> 00:29:56,640 god, probably having lunch. She looked at us like what like she's never 434 00:29:56,640 --> 00:30:03,640 seen a person like on my love shower, like go order on anybody else. 435 00:30:03,960 --> 00:30:07,039 I was like, I need a boot now though, So I'm like, 436 00:30:07,119 --> 00:30:11,039 Hi, do you guys have I'm looking for like a boot, like 437 00:30:11,400 --> 00:30:15,319 for my foot, and she I swear to god, she went what I 438 00:30:15,400 --> 00:30:18,599 was like, like a boot, like like I broke my foot, I 439 00:30:18,640 --> 00:30:22,359 need a boot for that. Like this is a medical supply sts like, 440 00:30:22,079 --> 00:30:26,400 um, just a minute. She also has a very thick accent that I'm 441 00:30:26,440 --> 00:30:33,519 not understanding. How old is this person? Probably sixty five. She walks 442 00:30:33,519 --> 00:30:37,119 through the back, comes back out. She's like, ah, we only 443 00:30:37,160 --> 00:30:41,759 have one, and it's like it's like thigh high. It's like if I 444 00:30:41,880 --> 00:30:47,240 wanted like a sexy ye like to make my foot stable. It's just so 445 00:30:47,440 --> 00:30:51,359 it's it's like a lot, right, And I was like, uh. 446 00:30:51,559 --> 00:30:53,440 Meanwhile, I had already looked on Amazon and I saw they were like forty 447 00:30:53,480 --> 00:30:57,279 dollars on Amazon, but I was gonna have to wait till the next day. 448 00:30:57,200 --> 00:31:02,039 Yeah. So anyway, she was like, uh, it's it was 449 00:31:02,079 --> 00:31:04,319 like one hundred and fifty dollars for this boot. I'm like, uh no. 450 00:31:04,599 --> 00:31:07,079 I was like, that's the only one you have. She's like yes, 451 00:31:07,160 --> 00:31:10,240 but do you want to put it through your insurance? I was like 452 00:31:10,559 --> 00:31:15,720 no, I don't, right, I don't. I'm pipped to you with 453 00:31:15,799 --> 00:31:18,400 one and a half stars, right, going to charge my insurance like eight 454 00:31:18,440 --> 00:31:22,599 thousand dollars for a boot, you know? And I'm gonna be getting bills 455 00:31:22,640 --> 00:31:25,839 and then I'm gonna be on the phone with blue shield R Rooster. That's 456 00:31:25,880 --> 00:31:29,279 all I need right now. So I go home order the boot off of 457 00:31:29,319 --> 00:31:32,759 Amazon and yeah, but I still can't walk. Oh my god, So 458 00:31:32,880 --> 00:31:37,720 how did you get here? So John drove me and then I have crutches 459 00:31:37,960 --> 00:31:41,359 so that I could scoop my way? Is he waiting outside? No, 460 00:31:41,839 --> 00:31:47,119 he's gonna come back when we literally shit. I told him I would take 461 00:31:47,160 --> 00:31:51,119 an uber, you know, but he was like, that's ridiculous. Yeah, 462 00:31:51,160 --> 00:31:52,920 he's doing everything. It's so sweet. He really is, Like he 463 00:31:53,000 --> 00:31:56,799 won't let me. Like that's nice. Every time I try to get up 464 00:31:56,839 --> 00:32:00,559 on my own and like limp around, He's like to get back in bed. 465 00:32:00,720 --> 00:32:05,440 Yeah. But oh my god, do I have so many TV shows 466 00:32:05,440 --> 00:32:08,359 to talk about? Oh Friday? Oh I can't wait. Yeah, oh 467 00:32:08,440 --> 00:32:12,640 my god. But before we get to that, Kaylin, you went to 468 00:32:12,720 --> 00:32:17,079 the ar before any of my shenanigans happened. You had to go to the 469 00:32:17,319 --> 00:32:22,960 ar. Yeah. So this happened on Saturday, when we were supposed to 470 00:32:22,079 --> 00:32:27,720 when you did record with Teresa. And so what happened was it started Friday 471 00:32:27,880 --> 00:32:31,119 and I woke up and I had this feeling in my leg that so ever 472 00:32:31,200 --> 00:32:37,240 since my blood clot, I've got these kind of tangles in my calf and 473 00:32:37,279 --> 00:32:40,440 they say, you know, it's just it's just remnants of the damage that 474 00:32:40,480 --> 00:32:44,920 the clot did or whatever. But I woke up Friday and did like my 475 00:32:44,960 --> 00:32:46,720 pawn work. So I was up and like standing on it a lot, 476 00:32:46,759 --> 00:32:52,720 and it was this feeling where it felt very much like the last couple days 477 00:32:52,720 --> 00:32:54,759 of my clot before it like moved into my lungs, which is whenever, 478 00:32:54,960 --> 00:32:58,799 especially when I got out of bed in the morning and I put pressure on 479 00:32:58,839 --> 00:33:00,799 it for the first time in a day, it would it would hurt like 480 00:33:00,799 --> 00:33:04,559 a lot worse than normal, and then when I take pressure off, like 481 00:33:04,599 --> 00:33:07,160 I could feel it, and then it would kind of get better throughout the 482 00:33:07,240 --> 00:33:10,440 day. But this happened Friday to a minor degree. So I was like, 483 00:33:10,480 --> 00:33:14,839 Okay, well, this is gonna go away, and then just you 484 00:33:14,880 --> 00:33:17,680 just let it feel like it You're just gonna let it ignore it. It 485 00:33:17,720 --> 00:33:22,119 wasn't it wasn't really painful at that point. It was starting to get uncomfortable, 486 00:33:22,480 --> 00:33:25,160 and then I was like, Okay, this is gonna go away. 487 00:33:25,160 --> 00:33:28,559 This is just the thing. And then Saturday rolled around and it got worse. 488 00:33:28,759 --> 00:33:30,880 I got out of bed Saturday morning and I was like, oh, 489 00:33:30,960 --> 00:33:32,880 this is like starting to hurt, and it's starting to hurt the same exact 490 00:33:32,920 --> 00:33:37,200 way that my clot was the first time. Oh no, yeah. And 491 00:33:37,279 --> 00:33:39,680 so then I told my girlfriend and her mother about it, and they were 492 00:33:39,759 --> 00:33:43,359 like, nope, you're going You're going to the year. I like, 493 00:33:43,400 --> 00:33:45,480 no, no, no, you don't understand. It's Theresa Strausser. We've 494 00:33:45,519 --> 00:33:49,000 been waiting this whole time, like she's got this. She's like, no, 495 00:33:49,079 --> 00:33:50,680 you're going to the ear. They'll figure it out. I was like, 496 00:33:50,799 --> 00:33:52,359 yeah, okay, I guess I'm going to the er. So yeah, 497 00:33:52,400 --> 00:33:55,559 you were so funny though, because you were texting us as if you 498 00:33:55,680 --> 00:34:04,839 were producing our show. You're just like okay, so everything did it. 499 00:34:05,720 --> 00:34:08,639 Appreciate it and we felt bad. We were like, don't worry about Kitlin. 500 00:34:08,719 --> 00:34:12,000 We got it, Like, don't we'll figure it out. We got 501 00:34:12,079 --> 00:34:15,039 Dylan Patrick and well and Stephanie knows what to do, like, we'll figure 502 00:34:15,079 --> 00:34:20,480 it out. About it. Get up because the board was over on the 503 00:34:20,519 --> 00:34:23,079 table so I couldn't mark for commercials, so you probably had to sit and 504 00:34:23,199 --> 00:34:25,760 listen. That was probably That's okay, that's that's not a big deal. 505 00:34:27,119 --> 00:34:30,239 Um, we were we were consoled. Okay, so you get to the 506 00:34:30,239 --> 00:34:34,000 ear. Yeah. I got to the er and Amy came with me and 507 00:34:34,039 --> 00:34:36,719 she stayed with me the whole time I was in total, I was there 508 00:34:36,719 --> 00:34:40,519 about five hours. Oh yeah, and most of that the first three and 509 00:34:40,519 --> 00:34:45,679 a half we're waiting for the ultrasound. Then I got the ultrasound, and 510 00:34:45,719 --> 00:34:50,320 then I had to wait another hour for them to get the report and for 511 00:34:50,400 --> 00:34:53,599 the er doctor to look at it, and he essentially said, they didn't 512 00:34:53,599 --> 00:35:00,480 find a clout in there. So this is like a chronic pain results from 513 00:35:00,840 --> 00:35:05,559 your initial blood clot. Oh so yeah, it's so it's like I kind 514 00:35:05,599 --> 00:35:07,960 of almost was like, I kind of hope there's a clot because then I 515 00:35:07,960 --> 00:35:13,320 could get rid of it with blood thinners. Yeah, because then there's actually 516 00:35:13,360 --> 00:35:17,559 something in there. But now it's like my it's sometimes it's hurt as much 517 00:35:17,559 --> 00:35:21,559 as it did, but other times it'll go away. But ever since then, 518 00:35:22,159 --> 00:35:25,039 I've felt it in my leg. My leg is uncomfortable, and so 519 00:35:25,119 --> 00:35:30,039 I'm just kind of walking around. Missed it. No, she checked, 520 00:35:30,599 --> 00:35:36,239 she did a very thorough ultrasound check. Well what did they say exactly? 521 00:35:36,639 --> 00:35:40,760 Yeah, it's like chronic damage from the initial clot, And how do they 522 00:35:40,800 --> 00:35:44,480 treat that. I can't treat it, really, I mean, I am 523 00:35:44,559 --> 00:35:47,599 now probably gonna have to go back on blood thinners. My hematologists said at 524 00:35:47,599 --> 00:35:51,800 my last visit, like everything's good, like you you'd be good to go 525 00:35:51,840 --> 00:35:52,599 off blood then, and I was like, Okay, I guess I'm going 526 00:35:52,599 --> 00:35:55,840 off blood thinners. And then this happened, and so then I did I'm 527 00:35:55,840 --> 00:36:00,360 seeing him again on Thursday. So yeah, I'm gonna probably just go back 528 00:36:00,360 --> 00:36:06,119 and plit dinners. Oh my god. Wow that sucks. Yeah, there's 529 00:36:06,119 --> 00:36:07,719 no clot which is good or it's bad. But my life still kind of 530 00:36:07,800 --> 00:36:12,599 hurts. It's uncomfortable. It's getting anxiety. Oh yeah, I thought it 531 00:36:12,679 --> 00:36:15,679 was done with, but it's just keeps going. And they don't really know 532 00:36:15,719 --> 00:36:22,559 what caused it in the first place, not entirely. I mean, yeah, 533 00:36:22,599 --> 00:36:23,679 I've heard a lot of different Oh it could be this, Oh you 534 00:36:23,719 --> 00:36:27,239 have this, Oh and then I didn't have that, and then it turns 535 00:36:27,239 --> 00:36:30,559 out ron cast but blah blah blah. Yeah, it's it's all over the 536 00:36:30,599 --> 00:36:35,360 place. That sucks. I'm sorry. Well, we're happy you're back. 537 00:36:35,639 --> 00:36:38,360 I'm happy to be back. Yeah. You know what might be good for 538 00:36:38,400 --> 00:36:45,119 you? Tell me? Yeah? Microdosing? Yeah say that so interested. 539 00:36:45,199 --> 00:36:50,800 Everybody's interested in this. It's good for anxiety. Hello. Yeah. Our 540 00:36:50,840 --> 00:36:55,360 show today is sponsored by microdose Gummies. John, who also has anxiety, 541 00:36:55,719 --> 00:37:01,280 loves this product. It's Loomy Labs. 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You went to the zoo? Yeah? Yeah. 596 00:40:52,199 --> 00:40:58,039 I took me and Amy and the girls all went to the zoo on Saturday 597 00:40:58,119 --> 00:41:05,800 and we went with Patrick as Patrick Hickey from bab Yes our audiences where uh 598 00:41:05,840 --> 00:41:08,880 We went with Patrick and his wife Shari and their daughter Elliott. And it 599 00:41:08,960 --> 00:41:12,960 was a lot of fun. And Sari is like super pregnant now yeah, 600 00:41:13,000 --> 00:41:19,280 she's very she's doing about two months and so down in Long Beach, our 601 00:41:19,360 --> 00:41:22,599 regular thing is the aquarium, Like that's where we go when we need Yeah, 602 00:41:22,679 --> 00:41:24,920 that's our place. That's me and Blake's place. You know, I 603 00:41:25,000 --> 00:41:27,880 was in school, Me and Blake got to do something. We go to 604 00:41:27,880 --> 00:41:34,440 the aquarium. Um and so the zoo is Patrick and Schari's place. So 605 00:41:34,519 --> 00:41:37,559 we got yeah, okay, So we got there and they were like I 606 00:41:37,639 --> 00:41:39,639 was like, oh, well, let's look at the map. Where's the 607 00:41:39,639 --> 00:41:43,679 there, Like, don't look at the map. I got my place. 608 00:41:43,719 --> 00:41:45,440 I'll take you wherever you need to go. I go where's the monkeys. 609 00:41:45,440 --> 00:41:49,760 Monkeys are this way, we go that way and um so yeah, we 610 00:41:49,800 --> 00:41:51,960 had a lot of fun at the zoo. Was the first time we've actually 611 00:41:51,960 --> 00:41:57,320 been to a zoo here or San Diego where it's not like just so hot 612 00:41:57,360 --> 00:42:00,360 out. Every time we go to the zoo, I'm just sweating a few 613 00:42:00,360 --> 00:42:02,960 see, I'm tired. So it was actually nice to not to go there 614 00:42:02,960 --> 00:42:07,440 when it wasn't so hot out. Yeah, and uh yeah, we had 615 00:42:07,440 --> 00:42:08,800 a good fun. I thought it was gonna last a little longer than it 616 00:42:08,840 --> 00:42:12,719 did. You know. I was given it like five six hours. Yeah, 617 00:42:12,760 --> 00:42:15,639 it's like three. Yeah. Before there's only so much and a lot 618 00:42:15,679 --> 00:42:20,239 of exhibits are closed, like, oh, let's go see the alligators. 619 00:42:20,639 --> 00:42:24,519 There's they're not they're sleeping. They're sleeping. I know they're lazy. Yeah. 620 00:42:24,559 --> 00:42:28,920 The thing that I don't love about the zoo when my kids were young 621 00:42:29,159 --> 00:42:32,400 is that, um, you always think they're gonna walk around and they never 622 00:42:32,440 --> 00:42:37,079 want to walk around like this. And I it was like my place where 623 00:42:37,079 --> 00:42:38,920 I'd be like, you know what, we're going to try it with no 624 00:42:39,039 --> 00:42:42,760 stroller, right, you know, the strollers starts to be a pain in 625 00:42:42,760 --> 00:42:45,400 the ass. The kids are getting a little bit older, like five, 626 00:42:45,000 --> 00:42:49,280 and then you're like, we're gonna try this. I feel like I remember 627 00:42:49,320 --> 00:42:55,199 the twins were probably like two and maybe Elbe was five and oh and immediately 628 00:42:55,559 --> 00:43:00,559 yeah I've died yea where a Yeah I know. So I had to go 629 00:43:00,639 --> 00:43:05,320 rent like for like forty bucks like a double stroller. You know that you 630 00:43:05,400 --> 00:43:07,719 end up using for an hour and a half, right, and you're like, 631 00:43:07,800 --> 00:43:10,519 oh my god. Yeah. That was the you know, the zoo 632 00:43:10,639 --> 00:43:16,039 and also near Griffith Park they had the ponies. That was the place that 633 00:43:16,119 --> 00:43:20,159 I would take the kids because they had the trains and then they had the 634 00:43:20,199 --> 00:43:22,960 ponies. But I guess the ponies are gone now that's just sad. But 635 00:43:23,079 --> 00:43:27,639 I used to love taking them there. The zoo reminds me of Sonny, 636 00:43:28,039 --> 00:43:30,920 and because Sonny would love to go to the zoo as he got older, 637 00:43:31,480 --> 00:43:35,079 you know, like I go, what do you you know, Natalia is 638 00:43:35,119 --> 00:43:37,280 busy, Sonny, you want to do something? Can we go to the 639 00:43:37,360 --> 00:43:40,159 zoo? Like? He loved taking me around and showing me like the birds 640 00:43:40,199 --> 00:43:45,599 and the different this and apes and all that. But now I'm Sonny is 641 00:43:45,679 --> 00:43:51,480 in Japan. Oh my gosh, Yeah, how's he doing it there? 642 00:43:51,679 --> 00:43:55,000 That's a good question. I don't know if his heart would fucking answer me. 643 00:43:55,599 --> 00:44:00,280 I you know, like his friend's mom will send me a pick sure, 644 00:44:00,320 --> 00:44:02,519 And I'm like, oh, that's great. So your son is communicating 645 00:44:02,559 --> 00:44:07,960 with you, but my son doesn't ads and answered me in two three days. 646 00:44:07,519 --> 00:44:09,760 Once in a while, you know, well, first of all, 647 00:44:09,800 --> 00:44:14,480 they're like, way, they're fifteen hours ahead. It's like the next day, 648 00:44:14,760 --> 00:44:21,039 right, But um, the night So the night he left, I 649 00:44:21,119 --> 00:44:24,239 was in I was in Mexico with Italia, which I'll talk more about on 650 00:44:24,360 --> 00:44:28,920 Friday Show. But he all of a sudden, you know, he's mister 651 00:44:29,000 --> 00:44:30,440 easygoing, but then all of a sudden he's like, wait, do you 652 00:44:30,480 --> 00:44:34,320 know where my seat is on the plane? Am I in the middle seat? 653 00:44:34,400 --> 00:44:37,239 Can you make sure? I'm I'm like, I can't do anything. 654 00:44:37,280 --> 00:44:39,199 You're with your school. They booked the tickets, Like, I don't know, 655 00:44:39,480 --> 00:44:42,440 Well, can you look into it? So now I'm like, I'm 656 00:44:42,679 --> 00:44:47,360 United Airline trying to look into it. You can never look into shit that 657 00:44:47,360 --> 00:44:50,679 your kids want you to lik. I know, the stuff that you do 658 00:44:50,760 --> 00:44:53,079 look into for them? They don't care right exactly. I don't really I 659 00:44:53,119 --> 00:44:55,559 don't need to know that. Right then it's like, oh, can you 660 00:44:55,559 --> 00:45:00,559 look into no access to or way to find right right. So I'm like, 661 00:45:00,639 --> 00:45:05,440 Sunny, you're just gonna have to whatever. Um. So then he 662 00:45:05,599 --> 00:45:07,679 leaves. So yeah, So then he gets there and he tells me that 663 00:45:07,719 --> 00:45:12,320 the plane line was fun. He was fine, he was he was you 664 00:45:12,360 --> 00:45:17,159 know, he was comfortable and um, and then he's he's been there. 665 00:45:17,320 --> 00:45:22,280 He's coming home like day after tomorrow. Oh yeah, so it's been a 666 00:45:22,280 --> 00:45:27,159 while, but once in a while, so the teacher will send pictures. 667 00:45:27,159 --> 00:45:30,719 So there's pictures of him at the fish factory, at the soy sauce factory. 668 00:45:30,760 --> 00:45:34,920 You know. They're up at like five thirty six in the morning. 669 00:45:34,960 --> 00:45:37,239 They have breakfast and then they have a couple hours to themselves, and then 670 00:45:37,280 --> 00:45:40,519 they got the tour guide. They're going to the next city. They're going 671 00:45:40,599 --> 00:45:46,800 to Hero Sheet, the um Mount Fuji that that you know where the volcano 672 00:45:46,960 --> 00:45:52,280 is, and he's they're going. So they're last night, they're going karaoking 673 00:45:52,800 --> 00:45:54,840 and then I get a text. Then I get it, so then I'm 674 00:45:54,880 --> 00:45:58,679 like, so so far, so good. He's having five seat pictures of 675 00:45:58,760 --> 00:46:02,719 him at the sush factory making his own sushi's having fun. Whatever. Then 676 00:46:02,719 --> 00:46:08,800 I get a text from him yesterday and it's a picture of like like two 677 00:46:08,840 --> 00:46:14,599 pieces of really small chicken that looks like it's been baked with terake sauce, 678 00:46:14,880 --> 00:46:16,960 like the kind you get at the at the mall. Yeah, and like 679 00:46:17,039 --> 00:46:21,639 a little thing of like noodles on a tray. And he was like, 680 00:46:22,039 --> 00:46:23,599 this is our dinner. He goes, this is my dinner. And this 681 00:46:23,639 --> 00:46:27,159 has been my dinner two nights in a row. And he's like, I 682 00:46:27,199 --> 00:46:30,800 don't know what our what our tour guide is thinking, and even missus g 683 00:46:31,199 --> 00:46:35,719 here their teacher is pissed. Like that's the text I get. Oh my 684 00:46:35,760 --> 00:46:37,440 god. So now I'm like the worst. That's not even a look into 685 00:46:37,480 --> 00:46:42,320 this, like yes, and that's now like I'm not eating as an Italian 686 00:46:42,400 --> 00:46:45,840 mother, I freak. I'm like, are you not eating? Oh my 687 00:46:45,920 --> 00:46:47,360 god? Is that? Please tell me you're eating okay? And I was 688 00:46:47,400 --> 00:46:50,840 like, I texted him, I go, at least you have lunch time 689 00:46:50,840 --> 00:46:52,440 to yourself. Are you eating good at lunch? Blah blah blah, And 690 00:46:52,559 --> 00:46:55,679 he writes back and he said, I had the best lunch of food I've 691 00:46:55,679 --> 00:47:00,559 ever had my lifetime. We didn't tell me what it was, but him 692 00:47:00,559 --> 00:47:04,159 and his friends went off and got lunch. He goes, but the dinners 693 00:47:04,199 --> 00:47:07,400 have been like epic fails. And I was like, all right, wells 694 00:47:07,480 --> 00:47:12,000 Leasy's getting a good lunch. So now I don't feel whatever. There's nothing 695 00:47:12,039 --> 00:47:15,599 I can do, you know. So anyway, he's they're coming home on 696 00:47:15,679 --> 00:47:20,400 Wednesday. I can't wait to see him. I have barely talked to him. 697 00:47:21,000 --> 00:47:24,519 He did call me. I was on the plane coming home from Cabo, 698 00:47:25,000 --> 00:47:30,000 and it was the day after he left. He called me through WhatsApp 699 00:47:30,079 --> 00:47:32,679 and it came through on the plane, so I got to talk to him 700 00:47:32,679 --> 00:47:36,000 for like five minutes and he was That's when he told me. He's like, 701 00:47:36,039 --> 00:47:39,920 the flight was fine, having fun and with my friends fine, you 702 00:47:39,920 --> 00:47:43,280 know it was it was you know, and that was it. And I 703 00:47:43,320 --> 00:47:46,760 was like, keep in touch, and then you know, I kept yeah, 704 00:47:46,840 --> 00:47:54,039 exactly, good luck with the girls. But like I get I'm texting 705 00:47:54,119 --> 00:47:57,679 him, I'm like, you should listen to this. If you get bored, 706 00:47:57,679 --> 00:47:59,760 listen to this podcast. I think you'll like it. You know. 707 00:48:00,079 --> 00:48:04,880 Yeah, that's enough now, it was like a Bill Simmons Goodfellas something podcast, 708 00:48:05,000 --> 00:48:08,039 and so I'm like listening and I'm constantly texting him. He's not answering. 709 00:48:08,079 --> 00:48:12,400 He's not answering. And then the one answer I get is, this 710 00:48:12,519 --> 00:48:15,000 is our dinner. Two nights in a row. What the you know, 711 00:48:15,079 --> 00:48:19,519 what the fuck? But anyway, he's coming home, and I'm excited. 712 00:48:21,320 --> 00:48:25,119 Ten days, oh, ten days, ten days wow? Yeah, yeah, 713 00:48:25,159 --> 00:48:29,880 ten hours. Like they flew from LA to San Francisco, which is 714 00:48:29,880 --> 00:48:35,360 like an hour, and then San Francisco to Tokyo was ten hours, okay. 715 00:48:35,679 --> 00:48:37,920 And that's when I was like, oh, this poor kid, Like, 716 00:48:37,960 --> 00:48:39,840 oh, I hope he's okay on his flight. And I was texting 717 00:48:39,920 --> 00:48:45,360 him while he was on the plane, sitting on the tarmac to go to 718 00:48:45,360 --> 00:48:49,119 Tokyo, and he did say He's like, I'm my seats are fine, 719 00:48:49,239 --> 00:48:52,159 I'm with my friends. I'm okay, I'm comfortable. So I was like 720 00:48:52,199 --> 00:48:55,559 okay, and then he was like, how do I get WiFi? God 721 00:48:55,719 --> 00:49:00,679 a quo? And I'm like, you can figure it out. You're united, 722 00:49:00,840 --> 00:49:04,320 you can figure out how to get ask somebody, you know, you'll 723 00:49:04,360 --> 00:49:07,440 get why whatever, And he's like you think and then he was like, 724 00:49:07,679 --> 00:49:09,880 how does Wi Fi work in Japan? And I was like, I don't. 725 00:49:12,559 --> 00:49:15,519 I'm sure they have Wi Fi there. Yeah, they probably made our 726 00:49:15,559 --> 00:49:20,920 phones right exactly. You'll be fine. Yeah, yeah, but you'll be 727 00:49:20,960 --> 00:49:23,960 fine. They'll yeah, you'll have wified out. He figured it out. 728 00:49:24,559 --> 00:49:30,800 So anyway, But the fresh raighting part was the other moms of his friends 729 00:49:30,119 --> 00:49:34,480 were like sharing pictures and I was like, oh, that's so nice. 730 00:49:34,519 --> 00:49:37,079 I wish I would have gotten something like that, like I'm glad they're keeping 731 00:49:37,079 --> 00:49:40,280 in touch with you, and you know, but it's sunny. He's having 732 00:49:40,320 --> 00:49:45,159 fun. But yeah, he's coming home on Wednesday. It's just been me 733 00:49:45,199 --> 00:49:52,840 and Natalia. It's been fine. She's out of school. Yeah, and 734 00:49:52,000 --> 00:49:57,159 the house is for sale, so there's been showings of the house. Yeah. 735 00:49:58,079 --> 00:50:01,960 And Phil has been gone with Adam and Malibu, which is which is 736 00:50:02,079 --> 00:50:06,639 nice because then I don't have to worry about like a hair dog hair if 737 00:50:06,639 --> 00:50:10,239 Phil making a mess the house because there's been showings and blah blah blah. 738 00:50:10,280 --> 00:50:16,039 So you know, it's been fine. It's been good, Okay, Yeah, 739 00:50:16,079 --> 00:50:21,440 but uh yeah, okay, well let's I want to hear more about 740 00:50:21,440 --> 00:50:27,199 the showing the house on im. Yeah, I got a story about Mexico 741 00:50:27,239 --> 00:50:30,519 and for Friday. Oh okay, all right, well before we go, 742 00:50:30,920 --> 00:50:32,079 we have a couple of shout outs. We have a new shout out. 743 00:50:32,679 --> 00:50:38,079 Um, it's a podcast. Yes, the person who is a listener of 744 00:50:38,119 --> 00:50:42,559 our show. I'm not going to say her name because it's an anonymous podcast. 745 00:50:42,679 --> 00:50:49,480 Because so it's called The Family Skeptical and it's a podcast about raising children 746 00:50:49,519 --> 00:50:54,519 without religion. So if you're any kind of non believer, welcome you are 747 00:50:54,599 --> 00:50:58,880 people, She's just saying, yeah, they only do an episode once every 748 00:50:58,920 --> 00:51:02,199 three weeks, but they they have quite a few episodes up there. Um. 749 00:51:02,800 --> 00:51:07,119 Yeah, so it's kind of about like raising kids. Like she's an 750 00:51:07,159 --> 00:51:13,119 atheist and it's about raising kids without religion and like what that what that's like? 751 00:51:13,480 --> 00:51:15,920 Yeah, Um, it's really cool. Check it out The Family Skeptical. 752 00:51:16,559 --> 00:51:22,000 Also Wilma and Frieda, The Palm Springs and Palm Desert. Really good 753 00:51:22,039 --> 00:51:25,199 food if you're out in the area, grab some of the best brunch in 754 00:51:25,280 --> 00:51:31,199 town, you guys. Um they have Housemaide, English muffins and pop tarts 755 00:51:31,199 --> 00:51:37,079 and eggs, Benny and um MONI hallapeno cilantro. I just want to get 756 00:51:37,119 --> 00:51:40,079 the car and drive over right now they were down the street. Yeah. 757 00:51:40,280 --> 00:51:44,480 Um, and if you mentioned f CL, you get a latte or a 758 00:51:44,519 --> 00:51:50,159 mimosa. Also, uh, our girl Basic Becky, I love a girl. 759 00:51:50,360 --> 00:51:53,079 I'm getting my mug. I ordered my quad squad. Oh that's a 760 00:51:53,119 --> 00:51:58,320 great session and I put, I had it. Um, I put the 761 00:51:58,480 --> 00:52:02,480 kids and then peep bo Beau. I knew John wouldn't really enjoy his own 762 00:52:02,519 --> 00:52:08,480 picture on his money, so I thought that was cute. Yeah. Yeah, 763 00:52:08,519 --> 00:52:13,639 So just go to just basic Becky dot com or get fine hook up 764 00:52:13,679 --> 00:52:16,360 with her on Facebook. You can put any design she'll she'll design it for 765 00:52:16,400 --> 00:52:21,320 you or pick some of her designs and yeah, do that the best. 766 00:52:21,599 --> 00:52:25,360 Also, uh, I'm gonna do all the shout outs now we won't have 767 00:52:25,400 --> 00:52:29,599 any. Oh well, I'll have one on Friday. Um. Maren is 768 00:52:29,599 --> 00:52:32,679 our friend who lives in Kawai and she has a shop with her husband called 769 00:52:32,719 --> 00:52:37,760 Sugar Skull and it's a bakery and gift shop and they do wedding cakes and 770 00:52:38,400 --> 00:52:42,760 all kinds of stuff. You could check them out on Instagram. You can 771 00:52:42,880 --> 00:52:47,039 order stuff from them at sugar Skull eight oh eight. Uh, you know, 772 00:52:47,400 --> 00:52:51,559 or if you're on the island, of Kawai. Go check out the 773 00:52:51,880 --> 00:52:55,199 doore Yeah sugar skull um fifteen percent off you fuse the codefu O. Well, 774 00:52:55,559 --> 00:53:00,199 and my friend Adam Lerner, uh he is he will get you a 775 00:53:00,199 --> 00:53:05,440 car. I'm gonna have him get me a car, Get me a car, 776 00:53:05,599 --> 00:53:07,480 get me he's shopping me a car for LB right now. Wow, 777 00:53:07,519 --> 00:53:13,519 there you go. Because she's probably not getting into a off the wait list. 778 00:53:13,639 --> 00:53:16,760 Probably not. We haven't heard anything yet, so we said we'd get 779 00:53:16,760 --> 00:53:20,760 her a car. She's going to be local. So yeah, he's getting 780 00:53:20,840 --> 00:53:24,480 us a car. So his phone number is three one zero nine nine eight 781 00:53:24,800 --> 00:53:29,159 seven zero four eight. Write that down. Also, though he has a 782 00:53:29,199 --> 00:53:35,159 website, you can go to Adams got a Car dot com Adams got a 783 00:53:35,280 --> 00:53:38,760 car dot com. Yes, okay, Well we love you guys, Thank 784 00:53:38,760 --> 00:53:43,119 you so much, thank you, thank you. Kayline, you're a parent, 785 00:53:43,199 --> 00:53:49,199 now, don't f it up. Letting