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Hey, hey, Hey, I'm
back with something for you to think about.

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Peace is priceless. Let me say
it again. Peace is priceless.

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If you don't understand that, if
you don't realize that, if you don't

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acknowledge that you're going through something in
your life, you're going through something and

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you have that mindset that is causing
you to go through whatever you're going through.

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Peace is priceless. So many people
in this world, some of you

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listening to me right now, So
many are dealing with terrible situations, add

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relationships, so many people. I
was telling you about something a few weeks

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ago, and I've mentioned it on
a few of my episodes, But it's

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ironic that I was watching a movie
last week and the woman actually tried to

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commit suicide because she was in such
a explosive relationships, just trouble all of

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the time, drama, drama,
drama. She did not try to commit

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suicide because she was so in love
with the guy and she wanted to be

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with him. It wasn't that she
didn't try to commit suicide because the guy

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was forcing her and being abuser to
her. It wasn't that she tried to

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commit suicide because to her that was
the only way out to her. She

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could not see any other way out
of her bad situations other than to kill

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herself. That is the wrong mindset
for anyone to have. What all you

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have to do is walk out that
door. And as I've told you many

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times, I'm not telling anyone to
leave their relationship, but I could tell

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you this doubt, without a doubt, Peace is prices. There are so

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many people in this world who are
opening themselves up to so much unnecessary self

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inflicted pain, suffering, headache,
heartache every day. Every day you're going

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through with your significant others, some
of you don't even want to go home

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because you're so tired of all the
myths that takes place as your house or

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that you have to deal with.
You're so tired of it you don't even

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want to go home. Some of
you are full of anxieties because you don't

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want to go home. You know
you have to go eventually. It's terrible.

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People continue to go through life in
these bad relationships, but they're not

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trying to fix them, or they're
not trying to fix their situations. You

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just say, because for many they
would rather stay in a relationship in a

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terrible one than to be by themselves. I've said it many times, but

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the price for peace, I mean, it's priceless, priceless. Some of

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you have not had peace in your
life ever, because many people in this

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world are carrying the pains of yesteryear
from their childshood. They never held from

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those episodes, those experiences, They
never healed from those things, so they

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carry all of their pains from their
childhood. They grew up as adults thinking

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the same way they did back then, feeling the same hurt because they have

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not yield from it. Then you
getting relationship because you're seeking love, all

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you're getting returned is drama, drama, drama. You have no peace,

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none whatsoever. And this is very
unfortunate because no one can change your situation.

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No one can change your life other
than you. You have to do

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that for yourself. I've told you
several times. You are waiting on your

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significant other to change. You may
be waiting until the day you die,

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because most times they're not gonna change, And if they do, it's gonna

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be temporary because it's not what they
really want. Sometimes they do it just

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to shut the next person up.
When you deal with what ails you,

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you become a better person. When
you deal with it and heal from it,

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you become a better person. You
will make better choices and decisions.

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So many people do not give themselves
a fair chance because they're in relationships they

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shouldn't be in with people they shouldn't
be with, and they have absolutely no

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peace. Some of you, you
want who you're with so bad. Some

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women they go and they get pregnant, thinking that's going to save the relationship,

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only to find out it made it
worse. You have to get to

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know yourself, love yourself. Stop
trying to change who you're with. You're

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not going to do it. People
change because they want to change, they

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feel it's necessary. That's when change
really occurred. That's when change is permanent,

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when the individual wants to change too. Many of you are in relationships

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trying to change your significant other,
but you're getting nothing but push back.

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You're getting nothing but drama, but
you're still trying. You're very hardest to

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make it work. You're miserable inside, you're very unhappy, but you're still

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trying to make it work. You
have no peace. It shows in your

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physical body, It shows how you
think, how you behave You have no

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peace. You've let your significant other
and the relationship rob you of your peace.

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And when they're no peace, it
absolutely affects you mind, body,

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and soul. You're restless, you're
jumping, You're anxious, some of you

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are angry, you're resentful, you're
bitter, so many things. When you

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have no peace, your significant others
definitely can't give it to you. Only

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you can do that for yourself by
making changes in your life. Only you.

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Some of you have paid the ultimate
price, I mean seriously. Some

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people have lost their lives. Some
people have lost their mind, some people

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have lost their health trying to maintained
in an unhealthy relationship. That's because of

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your mindset, how you think you
stay, because of your mindset, how

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you think everything else is an excuse. Kids are not gonna make it better.

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Money is not gonna make it better. Material things is not gonna make

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it better. None of that until
change occurred within you and within your significant

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others. That's why the inside work
must take place in order for things on

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the outside to work. People just
giving in so much of their time and

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there or Jesus and many other things. When peace is priceless, you're not

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gonna find it in that rocky relationship. You're not gonna find it in your

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significant other. It has to come
from within you. It must. You

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know, if you listen to me
before how I feel about Jesus, he

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can definitely give you perfect peace that
your passes. All understand that people will

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think something wrong with you. But
people are not seeking that because they're seeking

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that tangible. They're seeking that tangible, what they can see in their faces,

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what they can feel. So many
people in New World are seeking love.

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I mean they're doing any and everything
for love when they don't know what

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it is. You don't even love
yourself. If you did, you wouldn't

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be going through what you're going through. That's power I know. I know

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when I meet someone, whether they
love self or not, all I have

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to do is observed, look at
what they're going through, look at their

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choices and decision, look at what
they allowed and accept in their life.

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That tells me all I need to
know. Many people don't love self.

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If you loved yourself, you would
do better. You would want to do

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better. If you loved yourself,
you would know that your significant others should

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enhance your life, not make it
worse. You would know that. But

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most people don't because they can't see
beyond their desires and their wants, their

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feelings what their eyes can see.
So they never get to that level of

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understanding because they're so stuck on I
want, I love him, I love

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her, when you don't even love
yourself. And I'm sorry, but that's

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a fact. That's a fact.
I will guarantee anyone. I'll put anything

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on it. Most people who are
in relationships are unhappy. So many faith.

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They faith as if they're so happy, put their miserable by choice.

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Anytime you deal with misery, head
ain't heartache, it's a choice. It's

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a choice. When we were young
children, some things we had to go

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through because we were young children.
But as adults, you don't have to

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go through anything that it's causing friction
and problems in your life. No one,

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but people are just so adamant about
loving someone. They're willing to do

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anything, They're willing to go through
anything for love when love is nowhere and

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I do mean nowhere near the relationship. But you can't tell people that they

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really think they're in love. So
tell me, how can you love someone

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when you don't even love yourself?
You think you'll be able to properly love

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someone. If you don't love yourself, I think not. I think not

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because you're gonna make bad choices and
decisions in the name of love. You're

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gonna allow and accept the wrong things
in the name of love. People are

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blind to it. They're totally blind. And I did a whole episode on

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it. If a person is not
enhancing your life, if they're taking from

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you, if they're making your situation
better, I'm telling you that is your

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eye opener. That's telling you so
much. That's telling you not only about

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him or hunt, but about yourself. If you're in a relationship and they're

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not enhancing your life, you're making
a bad choice and decisions. You've made

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a bad choice and decisions because any
person you choose to be with you in

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your life should enhance your life,
not take from it. I don't care

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who you are. You can be
rich, famous, have all the titles

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in the world, all the material
things, all the money. I don't

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care. It don't matter because some
of the richest people make the worst choices

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and decisions for themselves in the name
of love. Some of the richest people

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do, like anyone else, kill
themselves, harm themselves, harm others,

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kill others, because none of that
money or fame, fortune, none of

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it changes what's inside of you.
So if you're seeking peace, if you're

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not willing to look up to Jesus, then you must look in to yourself.

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Look inward. You have to look
inward because that's where everything is.

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The core of us holds all of
the negativity, that bad part of us,

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and it changes for the better when
you make a decision to change.

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When you're sick and tired of yourself, forget about your significant other. You

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should have been sick and tired of
him or her long ago. But when

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you get sick and tired of yourself, then you're gonna realize that you're sick

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and tired of him or her.
Guarantee you, some of you think it's

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the opposite way. I'm tired of
him, I'm tired of her, But

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you're really tired of what you've allowed
yourself to go through. So when you

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get to that point you don't make
a change, you'll absolutely make a change,

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and if there's anything other than for
the better, you've made a bad

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choice. You've made a bad decision. I've told you before that the first

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relationship outside of God that you should
worry about or care about not worry care

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about, is loving yourself. I'm
telling you, when you love yourself,

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I can't even explain the peace that
you have in your life because you're not

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going to tolerate foolishness from no God
or a woman that say they love you.

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You're not You're not. People will
not understand you, but that's okay.

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You will have peace and it's priceless. If you don't understand that peace

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is important in your life, I
really, really, really really really feel

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sorry for you. So many people
give up their peace, so many many

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not only for their relationships, but
for their lives period, because they're holding

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norm to negativity that they should have
let go long ago. So they give

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power to their past, they give
power to things of the past, people

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of the past, and they go
through life literally with no peace. We

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can have it in their own life
and in the lives of others. When

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the price for peace it's niceless,
no amount of nothing, money, glint,

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slam, thing, fortune, material
things, nothing, nothing, nothing,

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nothing, nothing, It's worth losing
your peace over it is priceless.

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Some of you cry your eyes out
every day because you're always in drama.

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You always have to argue and fight
with your significant other. Some of you

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don't even communicate. You don't have
nothing to say to him, you don't

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have nothing to say to her because
there's no peace within the relationship. But

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it's what you choose. It's absolutely
what you choose. When you do nothing,

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you get the same results. When
you keep doing it the same you

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get the same results. Nothing changes
until you make a decision to change your

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life. I've told you so many
times. You can sit there all you

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want, wish and hope and praying
and everything else that your significant others will

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change. It's just time wasted because
they're never gonna change until they feel they

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need to change for self. People
put so much unnecessary stress in their own

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life. By what you open yourself
up too. I mean this thing,

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regardless of what you think. This
thing is simple. It's simple. Living

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life is simple. Relationships are simple. But people go about it the wrong

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way. They go about their lives
the wrong way. You're looking here and

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there, searching everywhere for things you
should first have inside of you. You

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should you should possess those things first
within yourself, peace, love, happiness,

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satisfaction. But instead people are seeking, seeking, seeking, seeking,

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and in their quest for love,
they're accepting all countercrafts, going through all

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types of meths looking for love.
And that is what I mean when I

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say creating munsters in your life.
That's what I mean when I say self

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inflicted pain, because that's what you're
gonna get. You're gonna create that munster

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because now he will know how he
can treat you. They know they can

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do whatever they want. Or she
will know how she could treat you.

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She knows she could do whatever she
wants. People watch what you allow them

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to do to you. Simple as
that, you create that munster. Whatever

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you go along with they'll do.
If you think you need to buy their

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love, they're gonna sit back and
let you do it. It's so many

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things, so many scenarios that could
be relatable. But the bottom line is

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you create monsters in your life,
that significant other can definitely become a monster.

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And let me explain this. When
I say create a monster in your

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life, I'm saying you have created
a person who will treat you any type

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of way because you've allowed it.
That could be your significant other, which

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it is a lot. It could
be your children, anyone any person can

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become that monster in your life by
what you allowed in accept from them.

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So I just want you to know
it is so important to love of yourself.

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It is so important to get to
know yourself. It is so important

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to understand that the price for peace
it's priceless. There is no price.

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It is priceless. But so many
people have learned. Your peace belongs to

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you, no one else, and
you should never allow anyone or anything to

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take your peace. As long as
you live. Every day that you live,

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you have the opportunity to get your
peace back. It's help to you

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if you want to go through life
the same by all means, it's your

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life. But if you want better, you have to do it another way.

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If you want better, you have
to do better. You have to

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do better. So that's all I'm
saying on this. I'm leaving it right

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there. Thank you for listening.
Please share this episode. Also go to

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my other podcast, Relatable Life Criticles
check it out. Also share. Thank

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you so much for listening. Much
love to each and every one of you.

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Please stay safe out there. If
it's your first time listen, thank

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you and please come back again.
For those who listen, thank you so

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much. I end every episode the
very same because I like it, and

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I hope and pray that you really
truly do it. They've gone it