Hey, hey, Hey, I'm back with something for you to think about.
Peace is priceless. Let me say it again. Peace is priceless.
If you don't understand that, if you don't realize that, if you don't
acknowledge that you're going through something in your life, you're going through something and
you have that mindset that is causing you to go through whatever you're going through.
Peace is priceless. So many people in this world, some of you
listening to me right now, So many are dealing with terrible situations, add
relationships, so many people. I was telling you about something a few weeks
ago, and I've mentioned it on a few of my episodes, But it's
ironic that I was watching a movie last week and the woman actually tried to
commit suicide because she was in such a explosive relationships, just trouble all of
the time, drama, drama, drama. She did not try to commit
suicide because she was so in love with the guy and she wanted to be
with him. It wasn't that she didn't try to commit suicide because the guy
was forcing her and being abuser to her. It wasn't that she tried to
commit suicide because to her that was the only way out to her. She
could not see any other way out of her bad situations other than to kill
herself. That is the wrong mindset for anyone to have. What all you
have to do is walk out that door. And as I've told you many
times, I'm not telling anyone to leave their relationship, but I could tell
you this doubt, without a doubt, Peace is prices. There are so
many people in this world who are opening themselves up to so much unnecessary self
inflicted pain, suffering, headache, heartache every day. Every day you're going
through with your significant others, some of you don't even want to go home
because you're so tired of all the myths that takes place as your house or
that you have to deal with. You're so tired of it you don't even
want to go home. Some of you are full of anxieties because you don't
want to go home. You know you have to go eventually. It's terrible.
People continue to go through life in these bad relationships, but they're not
trying to fix them, or they're not trying to fix their situations. You
just say, because for many they would rather stay in a relationship in a
terrible one than to be by themselves. I've said it many times, but
the price for peace, I mean, it's priceless, priceless. Some of
you have not had peace in your life ever, because many people in this
world are carrying the pains of yesteryear from their childshood. They never held from
those episodes, those experiences, They never healed from those things, so they
carry all of their pains from their childhood. They grew up as adults thinking
the same way they did back then, feeling the same hurt because they have
not yield from it. Then you getting relationship because you're seeking love, all
you're getting returned is drama, drama, drama. You have no peace,
none whatsoever. And this is very unfortunate because no one can change your situation.
No one can change your life other than you. You have to do
that for yourself. I've told you several times. You are waiting on your
significant other to change. You may be waiting until the day you die,
because most times they're not gonna change, And if they do, it's gonna
be temporary because it's not what they really want. Sometimes they do it just
to shut the next person up. When you deal with what ails you,
you become a better person. When you deal with it and heal from it,
you become a better person. You will make better choices and decisions.
So many people do not give themselves a fair chance because they're in relationships they
shouldn't be in with people they shouldn't be with, and they have absolutely no
peace. Some of you, you want who you're with so bad. Some
women they go and they get pregnant, thinking that's going to save the relationship,
only to find out it made it worse. You have to get to
know yourself, love yourself. Stop trying to change who you're with. You're
not going to do it. People change because they want to change, they
feel it's necessary. That's when change really occurred. That's when change is permanent,
when the individual wants to change too. Many of you are in relationships
trying to change your significant other, but you're getting nothing but push back.
You're getting nothing but drama, but you're still trying. You're very hardest to
make it work. You're miserable inside, you're very unhappy, but you're still
trying to make it work. You have no peace. It shows in your
physical body, It shows how you think, how you behave You have no
peace. You've let your significant other and the relationship rob you of your peace.
And when they're no peace, it absolutely affects you mind, body,
and soul. You're restless, you're jumping, You're anxious, some of you
are angry, you're resentful, you're bitter, so many things. When you
have no peace, your significant others definitely can't give it to you. Only
you can do that for yourself by making changes in your life. Only you.
Some of you have paid the ultimate price, I mean seriously. Some
people have lost their lives. Some people have lost their mind, some people
have lost their health trying to maintained in an unhealthy relationship. That's because of
your mindset, how you think you stay, because of your mindset, how
you think everything else is an excuse. Kids are not gonna make it better.
Money is not gonna make it better. Material things is not gonna make
it better. None of that until change occurred within you and within your significant
others. That's why the inside work must take place in order for things on
the outside to work. People just giving in so much of their time and
there or Jesus and many other things. When peace is priceless, you're not
gonna find it in that rocky relationship. You're not gonna find it in your
significant other. It has to come from within you. It must. You
know, if you listen to me before how I feel about Jesus, he
can definitely give you perfect peace that your passes. All understand that people will
think something wrong with you. But people are not seeking that because they're seeking
that tangible. They're seeking that tangible, what they can see in their faces,
what they can feel. So many people in New World are seeking love.
I mean they're doing any and everything for love when they don't know what
it is. You don't even love yourself. If you did, you wouldn't
be going through what you're going through. That's power I know. I know
when I meet someone, whether they love self or not, all I have
to do is observed, look at what they're going through, look at their
choices and decision, look at what they allowed and accept in their life.
That tells me all I need to know. Many people don't love self.
If you loved yourself, you would do better. You would want to do
better. If you loved yourself, you would know that your significant others should
enhance your life, not make it worse. You would know that. But
most people don't because they can't see beyond their desires and their wants, their
feelings what their eyes can see. So they never get to that level of
understanding because they're so stuck on I want, I love him, I love
her, when you don't even love yourself. And I'm sorry, but that's
a fact. That's a fact. I will guarantee anyone. I'll put anything
on it. Most people who are in relationships are unhappy. So many faith.
They faith as if they're so happy, put their miserable by choice.
Anytime you deal with misery, head ain't heartache, it's a choice. It's
a choice. When we were young children, some things we had to go
through because we were young children. But as adults, you don't have to
go through anything that it's causing friction and problems in your life. No one,
but people are just so adamant about loving someone. They're willing to do
anything, They're willing to go through anything for love when love is nowhere and
I do mean nowhere near the relationship. But you can't tell people that they
really think they're in love. So tell me, how can you love someone
when you don't even love yourself? You think you'll be able to properly love
someone. If you don't love yourself, I think not. I think not
because you're gonna make bad choices and decisions in the name of love. You're
gonna allow and accept the wrong things in the name of love. People are
blind to it. They're totally blind. And I did a whole episode on
it. If a person is not enhancing your life, if they're taking from
you, if they're making your situation better, I'm telling you that is your
eye opener. That's telling you so much. That's telling you not only about
him or hunt, but about yourself. If you're in a relationship and they're
not enhancing your life, you're making a bad choice and decisions. You've made
a bad choice and decisions because any person you choose to be with you in
your life should enhance your life, not take from it. I don't care
who you are. You can be rich, famous, have all the titles
in the world, all the material things, all the money. I don't
care. It don't matter because some of the richest people make the worst choices
and decisions for themselves in the name of love. Some of the richest people
do, like anyone else, kill themselves, harm themselves, harm others,
kill others, because none of that money or fame, fortune, none of
it changes what's inside of you. So if you're seeking peace, if you're
not willing to look up to Jesus, then you must look in to yourself.
Look inward. You have to look inward because that's where everything is.
The core of us holds all of the negativity, that bad part of us,
and it changes for the better when you make a decision to change.
When you're sick and tired of yourself, forget about your significant other. You
should have been sick and tired of him or her long ago. But when
you get sick and tired of yourself, then you're gonna realize that you're sick
and tired of him or her. Guarantee you, some of you think it's
the opposite way. I'm tired of him, I'm tired of her, But
you're really tired of what you've allowed yourself to go through. So when you
get to that point you don't make a change, you'll absolutely make a change,
and if there's anything other than for the better, you've made a bad
choice. You've made a bad decision. I've told you before that the first
relationship outside of God that you should worry about or care about not worry care
about, is loving yourself. I'm telling you, when you love yourself,
I can't even explain the peace that you have in your life because you're not
going to tolerate foolishness from no God or a woman that say they love you.
You're not You're not. People will not understand you, but that's okay.
You will have peace and it's priceless. If you don't understand that peace
is important in your life, I really, really, really really really feel
sorry for you. So many people give up their peace, so many many
not only for their relationships, but for their lives period, because they're holding
norm to negativity that they should have let go long ago. So they give
power to their past, they give power to things of the past, people
of the past, and they go through life literally with no peace. We
can have it in their own life and in the lives of others. When
the price for peace it's niceless, no amount of nothing, money, glint,
slam, thing, fortune, material things, nothing, nothing, nothing,
nothing, nothing, It's worth losing your peace over it is priceless.
Some of you cry your eyes out every day because you're always in drama.
You always have to argue and fight with your significant other. Some of you
don't even communicate. You don't have nothing to say to him, you don't
have nothing to say to her because there's no peace within the relationship. But
it's what you choose. It's absolutely what you choose. When you do nothing,
you get the same results. When you keep doing it the same you
get the same results. Nothing changes until you make a decision to change your
life. I've told you so many times. You can sit there all you
want, wish and hope and praying and everything else that your significant others will
change. It's just time wasted because they're never gonna change until they feel they
need to change for self. People put so much unnecessary stress in their own
life. By what you open yourself up too. I mean this thing,
regardless of what you think. This thing is simple. It's simple. Living
life is simple. Relationships are simple. But people go about it the wrong
way. They go about their lives the wrong way. You're looking here and
there, searching everywhere for things you should first have inside of you. You
should you should possess those things first within yourself, peace, love, happiness,
satisfaction. But instead people are seeking, seeking, seeking, seeking,
and in their quest for love, they're accepting all countercrafts, going through all
types of meths looking for love. And that is what I mean when I
say creating munsters in your life. That's what I mean when I say self
inflicted pain, because that's what you're gonna get. You're gonna create that munster
because now he will know how he can treat you. They know they can
do whatever they want. Or she will know how she could treat you.
She knows she could do whatever she wants. People watch what you allow them
to do to you. Simple as that, you create that munster. Whatever
you go along with they'll do. If you think you need to buy their
love, they're gonna sit back and let you do it. It's so many
things, so many scenarios that could be relatable. But the bottom line is
you create monsters in your life, that significant other can definitely become a monster.
And let me explain this. When I say create a monster in your
life, I'm saying you have created a person who will treat you any type
of way because you've allowed it. That could be your significant other, which
it is a lot. It could be your children, anyone any person can
become that monster in your life by what you allowed in accept from them.
So I just want you to know it is so important to love of yourself.
It is so important to get to know yourself. It is so important
to understand that the price for peace it's priceless. There is no price.
It is priceless. But so many people have learned. Your peace belongs to
you, no one else, and you should never allow anyone or anything to
take your peace. As long as you live. Every day that you live,
you have the opportunity to get your peace back. It's help to you
if you want to go through life the same by all means, it's your
life. But if you want better, you have to do it another way.
If you want better, you have to do better. You have to
do better. So that's all I'm saying on this. I'm leaving it right
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