WEBVTT 1 00:00:00.360 --> 00:00:04.639 It is Naughty Tuesday on the Minnesota Goodbye Saved. Yeah, okay, yeah, 2 00:00:05.360 --> 00:00:07.599 you know, there's not a lot. Honestly, I did get an 3 00:00:07.599 --> 00:00:12.279 email from Lisa who says, Dave Jenny Drake, perhaps the naughty segment should 4 00:00:12.279 --> 00:00:15.759 be renamed it Titillating Tuesday. Not a bad idea, But do you think 5 00:00:15.759 --> 00:00:20.160 I'm going to remember that for next week? No, So thank you, 6 00:00:20.199 --> 00:00:23.320 Lisa. You should have sent in a Naughty Tuesday one. I'm going to 7 00:00:23.359 --> 00:00:27.199 save those for a little bit later on in the podcast. So if you 8 00:00:27.239 --> 00:00:30.239 don't want to hear the Naughty Tuesday, then you can just you know, 9 00:00:30.399 --> 00:00:33.799 I will let you listen to this part that is not naughty, and then 10 00:00:33.880 --> 00:00:37.960 we will get to that a little bit later. This one says I want 11 00:00:38.000 --> 00:00:43.240 to let you know a series on Netflix called Northern Rescue. You might like 12 00:00:43.359 --> 00:00:47.399 since you got me into Suits, which I completed watching. By the way, 13 00:00:47.479 --> 00:00:51.200 Wow, you were vigorous with that because there's a lot of episodes and 14 00:00:51.280 --> 00:00:56.000 Donna Paulson, Sarah Rafferty FYI is coming out with a show called My Life 15 00:00:56.039 --> 00:00:59.920 with the Walter Boys. Not sure when on Netflix. Thanks. That is 16 00:01:00.039 --> 00:01:02.399 from Ruth and I will take a sticker if you have any left, yes, 17 00:01:02.439 --> 00:01:04.519 I will get you a sticker. Ruth and Maplewood. Donna on Suits 18 00:01:04.599 --> 00:01:08.000 is the sexiest woman on TV right now. And I know, do you 19 00:01:08.040 --> 00:01:11.079 know who Donna is on the phone? I think I've looked her up, 20 00:01:11.079 --> 00:01:15.719 but she's the redhead on the show. She's a tall, gorgeous redhead and 21 00:01:17.200 --> 00:01:22.359 she's in I mean, her character is incredibly intelligent and intuitive, and she 22 00:01:22.519 --> 00:01:26.519 has a walk like no other walk on TV. And the thing about Suits 23 00:01:26.519 --> 00:01:32.040 is everybody's gorgeous except the villains. The villains are all not very attractive. 24 00:01:32.840 --> 00:01:38.519 Some of the villains are gorgeous, but everybody in the show's gorgeous. And 25 00:01:38.519 --> 00:01:41.680 the fashion is amazing. And I'm not even a fashion person. So thank 26 00:01:41.719 --> 00:01:46.799 you, Ruth, I appreciate that one. Let me delete that onto the 27 00:01:46.840 --> 00:01:52.560 next one. So this is kind of funny. I'm riding from the beautiful 28 00:01:52.719 --> 00:01:57.560 Diamond Lake neighborhood in South Minneapolis. Okay, something came up last week that 29 00:01:57.640 --> 00:02:00.599 seemed very appropriate for the minute to Goodbye. It's a little glow gross, 30 00:02:00.640 --> 00:02:06.040 but just a little here goes. I was taking a nice hot shower with 31 00:02:06.079 --> 00:02:08.599 my boyfriend the other day. Due to the hot hot water I needed to 32 00:02:08.639 --> 00:02:13.560 blow my nose. I turned away from him, put my hands up to 33 00:02:13.639 --> 00:02:15.039 my face in the same way I would if I was using a tissue and 34 00:02:15.080 --> 00:02:17.680 I blew my nose. Then I rinsed off what came out, and I 35 00:02:17.759 --> 00:02:22.800 moved on with my shower. This would turn out to be the first time 36 00:02:22.800 --> 00:02:24.439 in over six years that he watched me blow my nose in the shower, 37 00:02:24.479 --> 00:02:30.360 and he immediately proceeded to look shocked and tell me that it's weird. Nobody 38 00:02:30.439 --> 00:02:34.400 blows snot into their hands and then to rinses. He is genuinely shocked. 39 00:02:35.240 --> 00:02:38.960 I am equally mystified. We are both sure that we are in the majority. 40 00:02:38.599 --> 00:02:42.400 Please help settle our debate. Is it okay to use your hands as 41 00:02:42.479 --> 00:02:46.479 tissue in the shower or no? I love listening to y'all a lot. 42 00:02:46.560 --> 00:02:50.159 I'm thankful you're part of my days. If you got one, I'd love 43 00:02:50.199 --> 00:02:53.039 to staff wrider sticker. I promise to send y'all a picture of where it 44 00:02:53.120 --> 00:02:55.439 lands. Thank you. I'll end it with I have told my fourteen year 45 00:02:55.479 --> 00:03:00.240 old son Teddy before school every day before since pre k have a great day 46 00:03:00.360 --> 00:03:05.840 and make good choices. I love you, Sarah in Minneapolis. I'm gonna 47 00:03:05.840 --> 00:03:08.960 take a picture of your address, Sarah, Jenny you begin, Okay, 48 00:03:09.280 --> 00:03:13.919 I'm on her side. I think a lot of people do do this. 49 00:03:14.080 --> 00:03:15.960 I don't know if I've done it, but not necessarily in the same form 50 00:03:16.000 --> 00:03:19.639 that she does, where it's actually like a full blown, like cleaning situation 51 00:03:19.719 --> 00:03:23.599 with my hands. Mine's more of a I stick one finger in the nostril 52 00:03:23.639 --> 00:03:29.560 that's super plugged, and I try to like flick, will use as a 53 00:03:29.599 --> 00:03:32.680 word this not out and blow a little bit. Oh, okay, keep 54 00:03:32.719 --> 00:03:36.919 going. But I am sick right now, so I have been experiencing this 55 00:03:37.159 --> 00:03:40.039 in the shower, so I am on her side. I would probably not 56 00:03:40.319 --> 00:03:44.840 do it. However, if Andrew is in the shower with me, Wow. 57 00:03:45.080 --> 00:03:46.479 But yes, I have done things like that in the shower, absolutely. 58 00:03:46.560 --> 00:03:52.479 Okay. Now that's so interesting because we talk about whether you know, 59 00:03:52.719 --> 00:03:53.639 we pee in the shower. Oh, I pee in the shower. That's 60 00:03:53.680 --> 00:03:58.400 funny. Everybody peas in the shower. Why wouldn't you? It's your own 61 00:03:58.560 --> 00:04:03.199 urine, and so what most people do. But I've never heard it brought 62 00:04:03.280 --> 00:04:08.439 up. Blowing your nose in the shower. That is a question that people 63 00:04:08.479 --> 00:04:14.240 will not want to admit to I've done it once or twice only because if 64 00:04:14.280 --> 00:04:15.800 I get in the shower and I really need to blow my nose, I'm 65 00:04:15.800 --> 00:04:18.839 not going to get out, dry my hands, get a clean X. 66 00:04:19.360 --> 00:04:21.800 So I've done in the shower the same way that you did, Sarah. 67 00:04:21.839 --> 00:04:25.759 You blow it into your hands and then you rinse it off. I mean 68 00:04:25.800 --> 00:04:29.000 it rinses off. Yeah, so you're okay, but it's still kind of 69 00:04:29.079 --> 00:04:36.160 gross because it's not so snot is grosser than you'urine? Agree or disagree. 70 00:04:36.279 --> 00:04:40.519 Agree, but I don't want someone peeing in the shower while I'm in there 71 00:04:40.560 --> 00:04:45.959 either, that's not Has it happened before, not like like on me, 72 00:04:46.120 --> 00:04:49.800 but in the shower? Yes, somebody I date currently has done that to 73 00:04:49.920 --> 00:04:53.319 me, And I'm like, bro, come on, I'm right here. 74 00:04:53.480 --> 00:04:56.480 Can you just not want show Andrew peas while you're in the shower? Every 75 00:04:56.720 --> 00:05:00.240 not often, but he has a time or two, and I'm I'm like, 76 00:05:00.319 --> 00:05:02.160 can you not while I'm in here? I wouldn't mind if it didn't 77 00:05:02.199 --> 00:05:05.360 stank. I mean, you know, some urine is basically like odorless. 78 00:05:05.360 --> 00:05:10.720 Another one is like good God, asparagus, howre you dehydrated? What's going 79 00:05:10.759 --> 00:05:15.680 on. So yeah, I never really I don't think I've had anybody p 80 00:05:15.839 --> 00:05:18.000 on the shower in the shower with me. I don't really take a lot 81 00:05:18.040 --> 00:05:21.480 of showers with people anymore, as it turns out. Yeah, Sarah, 82 00:05:21.519 --> 00:05:27.639 thank you very much. Onto the next email, I wanted to write, 83 00:05:28.279 --> 00:05:30.480 Hey, BFFs. I wanted to write and say thank you for the staff 84 00:05:30.480 --> 00:05:33.079 writer stickers really made my day. My three year old is home with COVID 85 00:05:33.120 --> 00:05:36.519 and now I have it too. I was supposed to start work again today 86 00:05:36.680 --> 00:05:41.160 from my maternity lea, but that was a no go. Honestly, I 87 00:05:41.199 --> 00:05:44.240 feel like death. However, when I opened the mail to find my stickers, 88 00:05:44.480 --> 00:05:46.920 it put a big smile on my face. So thank you. Also, 89 00:05:46.959 --> 00:05:49.240 thank you for reading my email last week. I about died laughing when 90 00:05:49.319 --> 00:05:54.160 Drake said I deserved a margarita and a nap. That's funny. One more 91 00:05:54.199 --> 00:05:58.519 thing of Thanksgiving. I subjected my family to the whale joke and they were 92 00:05:58.639 --> 00:06:02.399 less than impressed. Obviously they don't know good comedy when they hear it. 93 00:06:02.839 --> 00:06:08.920 Staff writer Alyssa, Thank you, Alyssa. I admire you for trying out 94 00:06:08.920 --> 00:06:12.279 the whale joke. Yeah, it takes a certain personality to be willing to 95 00:06:12.360 --> 00:06:15.439 do that, because I would say ninety five percent of the time that joke 96 00:06:15.480 --> 00:06:20.560 will probably fall flat with your audience because it's a weird one, but I 97 00:06:20.600 --> 00:06:24.079 find it hilarious. It is hilarious, but I think it's one of those 98 00:06:24.079 --> 00:06:27.399 things where they go what the fuck? What? Yeah, and then they 99 00:06:27.439 --> 00:06:30.720 go, oh, Okay, I just listened to like a way long, 100 00:06:30.839 --> 00:06:34.399 stupid, meaningless joke for no punch lune can. I'm going to tell you 101 00:06:34.600 --> 00:06:39.600 the short version of the Henry the Wasp joke. Okay, yeah, this 102 00:06:39.720 --> 00:06:43.240 is a Scout camp joke and I don't like it because it goes on way 103 00:06:43.279 --> 00:06:47.079 too long, but I'm going to tell you this short version. So Henry 104 00:06:47.079 --> 00:06:50.959 the Wasp was a young wasp, and he was a remarkable young wasp. 105 00:06:51.399 --> 00:06:56.319 And he was talking when he was only about two months old. He could 106 00:06:56.360 --> 00:06:59.360 talk. He learned to walk when he's like three months old, and he 107 00:06:59.439 --> 00:07:02.560 was doing like calculus and trigonometry when he was like five years old. And 108 00:07:02.639 --> 00:07:05.519 so he entered the spelling bee and they put him up against these kids that 109 00:07:05.560 --> 00:07:11.720 were in college, and Henry the Wasp won this spelling bee when he was 110 00:07:11.800 --> 00:07:15.040 like just a little kid. So he goes off to Harvard and he graduates 111 00:07:15.079 --> 00:07:19.480 the top of his class in Harvard Law school, opens up his own law 112 00:07:19.519 --> 00:07:25.800 firm. That's just four wasps okay. And so if a law wasp was 113 00:07:26.120 --> 00:07:30.040 injured in a in sort of a hive accident, or you know, maybe 114 00:07:30.040 --> 00:07:32.920 somebody lost the fellow wasp when it hit the windshield of a car, Henry 115 00:07:33.120 --> 00:07:39.560 the Wasp would represent this Wasp family and he would always win. He never 116 00:07:39.879 --> 00:07:44.639 lost a case. So then he went on to open up his own computer 117 00:07:44.920 --> 00:07:47.839 business as well, and he became a multi billionaire, the matter of fact, 118 00:07:47.879 --> 00:07:55.560 the world's first WASP billionaire. And so he was a remarkable wasp in 119 00:07:55.600 --> 00:07:59.319 every way. And so he lived out in Silicon Valley and he was practicing 120 00:07:59.360 --> 00:08:01.079 law and building computers, in developing software, and he was one of the 121 00:08:01.079 --> 00:08:07.920 first wasps ever to get involved in AI artificial intelligence. And so, I 122 00:08:07.920 --> 00:08:11.279 mean, such a remarkable wasp. So back at his home, he lived 123 00:08:11.279 --> 00:08:13.199 in the East Coast, he lived out in Rhode Island. So in his 124 00:08:13.240 --> 00:08:18.839 little town in Rhode Island, they were having a Henry the Wasp Day to 125 00:08:18.920 --> 00:08:22.800 honor Henry the Wasp. So he came back and so there was a big 126 00:08:24.399 --> 00:08:28.079 parade and he was the Grand Marshal and he waived and there was confetti, 127 00:08:28.120 --> 00:08:33.440 and afterward he's posed for a million selfies and he signed autographs and everybody from 128 00:08:33.639 --> 00:08:39.360 little wasps to big wasps and even humans really admired Henry the Wasp. And 129 00:08:39.440 --> 00:08:41.600 so Henry was, you know, after he was like, you know, 130 00:08:41.639 --> 00:08:46.080 he did a big speech and afterward he was a little bit of he was 131 00:08:46.120 --> 00:08:50.639 a little bit tired and a little bit hoarse. Yeah. So so he 132 00:08:50.720 --> 00:08:54.879 went to get some water and there was a big line to get water. 133 00:08:56.039 --> 00:08:58.200 He's like, I don't want to wait in line for that. So he 134 00:08:58.240 --> 00:09:03.840 goes over to get some coca cola and there was a big line for the 135 00:09:03.879 --> 00:09:07.279 coca cola. He's like, I'm not gonna wait in a long line like 136 00:09:07.399 --> 00:09:11.799 that. So he went to get some punch and there was no punchline. 137 00:09:13.360 --> 00:09:18.279 Oh my god. Yeah. Now I was wondering if this was a joke 138 00:09:18.320 --> 00:09:22.840 where you were testing me to see at what point I was going to jump 139 00:09:22.840 --> 00:09:26.759 in and be like fucking wrap it up. Like I was like, is 140 00:09:26.799 --> 00:09:28.080 that what the point of the joke is? Like? Are you waiting for 141 00:09:28.120 --> 00:09:31.360 me? Like you're you're testing your audience to see how long you can go 142 00:09:31.639 --> 00:09:35.879 no, no, and you you do. But if your audience ever says 143 00:09:35.919 --> 00:09:37.799 wrap it up, you go no, no, no, I'm getting there. 144 00:09:39.080 --> 00:09:41.320 I'm almost done, okay, and then you keep going. You make 145 00:09:41.360 --> 00:09:45.679 shit up and you We did this in boy Scouts, and I don't like 146 00:09:45.759 --> 00:09:50.440 telling that joke because it's it's it's really is one where it has to be 147 00:09:50.559 --> 00:09:54.279 long to be effective. Uh huh. And don't do that one because you'll 148 00:09:54.279 --> 00:09:56.000 only get groans and people will be pissed off and you'll never tell it. 149 00:09:56.039 --> 00:10:00.480 The whale joke is funny because it's it sounds. It's your stupid sounds that 150 00:10:00.519 --> 00:10:03.080 you make. But the Henry the Wasp joke is one that a kid told 151 00:10:03.080 --> 00:10:07.360 it at Scout camp and I thought, oh, that's clever. So then 152 00:10:07.600 --> 00:10:11.240 the kids in our troop would tell it to the younger kids. And there 153 00:10:11.279 --> 00:10:13.480 was one kid that told I mean it was like a fifteen or twenty minute 154 00:10:13.600 --> 00:10:18.320 version of the wasp joke, and I'm like, fucking get on with it, 155 00:10:18.919 --> 00:10:24.559 and it was like, okay, too long is like now it's not 156 00:10:24.919 --> 00:10:28.519 funny at all. I will admire the fact that you got through that entire 157 00:10:28.600 --> 00:10:31.039 joke. To the punchline point because I sat there and I'm like, man, 158 00:10:31.080 --> 00:10:33.639 he really remembers this joke like I would have been like and then he 159 00:10:33.679 --> 00:10:37.399 got diarrhea and he you know, like I would have started making up the 160 00:10:37.440 --> 00:10:41.240 most stupid shit because I wouldn't remember what to say. I didn't remember I 161 00:10:41.360 --> 00:10:45.879 made all of that up. Every version of the wasp joke is different. 162 00:10:45.919 --> 00:10:48.720 I mean he can be. I was like, wow, he really remembers 163 00:10:48.759 --> 00:10:52.039 as well. Totally made it up as I went along. So there is 164 00:10:52.080 --> 00:10:54.960 the wasp joke. Henry, the wasp joke. Let me know if you 165 00:10:56.039 --> 00:10:58.960 ever heard it before? And how pissed were you when I got to the 166 00:10:58.960 --> 00:11:01.440 park and I said, then there was punchline. Okay, next one, 167 00:11:01.600 --> 00:11:05.519 it says from Cayenne. Hi all bit selfish and random. But the holidays 168 00:11:05.559 --> 00:11:09.120 are coming up. I wanted to share a quick tip for anybody with kids 169 00:11:09.120 --> 00:11:13.240 in daycare looking for an easy gift for the daycare teacher. Yes, parents 170 00:11:13.320 --> 00:11:16.840 like to get us gifts and we very much appreciate them. Hand cream. 171 00:11:16.879 --> 00:11:20.120 We wash our hands about a million times a day and our hands are suffering. 172 00:11:20.159 --> 00:11:24.360 That is all, thank you, and I hope you all have a 173 00:11:24.360 --> 00:11:26.679 great week. Hand cream. Would have never thought about that one, so 174 00:11:28.000 --> 00:11:33.440 thank you very much. Okay, how are we doing for time, Jenny? 175 00:11:33.480 --> 00:11:37.759 We have a couple of minutes here, Okay, all right, I'm 176 00:11:37.759 --> 00:11:39.559 gonna try to get this one in. Dave. I thought it was a 177 00:11:39.559 --> 00:11:43.000 great question, and I'm lucky enough to immediately say, yes, have you 178 00:11:43.120 --> 00:11:48.480 ever found your happily? Have you found your happily ever after? We mentioned 179 00:11:48.480 --> 00:11:52.679 that on the show yesterday. Have you found your happily ever after? And 180 00:11:52.720 --> 00:11:54.279 I think it's such a good question because a lot of people are married, 181 00:11:54.600 --> 00:11:58.919 they're stuck in a marriage, They're doing okay, but they're not they're happily 182 00:11:58.960 --> 00:12:01.440 ever after. We are young, going on thirty, been together six years. 183 00:12:01.519 --> 00:12:03.759 Long story, I'll keep it short. My husband and I met in 184 00:12:03.840 --> 00:12:09.360 high school, friends until only friends until I graduated from college. I was 185 00:12:09.360 --> 00:12:11.759 home for Christmas when I reached out to him to get dinner and everything changed 186 00:12:11.799 --> 00:12:16.480 on that date. From that day on, we were inseparable. We fell 187 00:12:16.519 --> 00:12:20.440 in love hard. It was the most natural thing I've experienced. We just 188 00:12:20.720 --> 00:12:24.399 knew and we were engaged six months later. As somebody who's seen a lot 189 00:12:24.399 --> 00:12:26.279 of divorce, came from divorce and is now the only sibling who is not 190 00:12:26.399 --> 00:12:30.480 going through a divorce. I can honestly say I didn't know that real love 191 00:12:30.519 --> 00:12:35.559 existed. I thought the best you could get was tolerable cohabitation. But I'm 192 00:12:35.600 --> 00:12:37.519 so lucky I was wrong. Don't get me wrong. We still have our 193 00:12:37.559 --> 00:12:43.799 tips. We've gone through some tough things in our five years. She goes 194 00:12:43.799 --> 00:12:46.360 on to name some of them, but at the end of the day, 195 00:12:46.799 --> 00:12:50.000 he is my safe space and I know it will never change. It also 196 00:12:50.080 --> 00:12:52.679 doesn't hurt that before we were married, we were invited to church where we 197 00:12:52.759 --> 00:12:56.080 both felt Code's presence for probably the first time, and have grown in our 198 00:12:56.120 --> 00:12:58.240 faith together over the years. That may not mean much to every buty, 199 00:12:58.399 --> 00:13:03.320 but to us that was huge. I hope everyone finds there happily ever after. 200 00:13:03.360 --> 00:13:07.639 Having a partner that's your automatic, best friend, confidante, safe space 201 00:13:07.720 --> 00:13:11.559 is the best feeling in the world, and I'm so grateful. I can 202 00:13:11.639 --> 00:13:15.480 only tell you that right now there are people that wish they had what you 203 00:13:15.559 --> 00:13:18.519 have, Dominique. I mean that is so You're right. It's your best 204 00:13:18.519 --> 00:13:24.120 friend, your confidant that you can tell anything too, and your safe space 205 00:13:24.159 --> 00:13:28.679 that's always supporting you. I love that for you. Not everybody has that. 206 00:13:28.759 --> 00:13:31.679 You're very blessed. Side note, Dave, you follow me on Instagram 207 00:13:31.080 --> 00:13:35.039 and it's my only claim to fame. I'm so proud of That's funny. 208 00:13:35.159 --> 00:13:37.679 I am such a huge fan. When I moved here at thirteen, after 209 00:13:37.720 --> 00:13:41.360 my parents divorced, I randomly started listening to your show and it brought me 210 00:13:41.399 --> 00:13:43.639 so much comfort and joy in such a confusing time. So thanks for all 211 00:13:43.679 --> 00:13:46.559 the laughs over the years. You're welcome. I'm sorry this got long, 212 00:13:46.639 --> 00:13:50.240 but thank you for letting me share. Happy holidays, Merry Christmas of the 213 00:13:50.279 --> 00:13:54.840 Day Ryan Show crew and all seven of your listeners from Dominique. Thank you, 214 00:13:54.879 --> 00:13:58.440 Dominique. That is very sweet and I'm very very happy that you did 215 00:13:58.480 --> 00:14:05.799 find your happily ever after. Let me see what else I got here one. 216 00:14:05.840 --> 00:14:07.279 Okay, yes, thank you, Jenny. I think were ready for 217 00:14:07.360 --> 00:14:09.879 Naughty Tuesday. We don't have a whole lot, but but let's see what 218 00:14:09.919 --> 00:14:15.600 we do have here. Okay, this was talking about the swingers parties and 219 00:14:15.639 --> 00:14:18.360 the big group sex parties where they take over hotels. Did you were you 220 00:14:18.360 --> 00:14:22.279 here? We had Yeah, we had that swinger on over like early summertime 221 00:14:22.399 --> 00:14:26.159 where she's down she lives down in Chicago with her now husband. Well, 222 00:14:26.200 --> 00:14:28.799 this week, you're right, I remember that one. This is a woman 223 00:14:28.919 --> 00:14:33.320 who wrote in last week I think you were on vacation, and she wrote 224 00:14:33.360 --> 00:14:37.519 in and talked about all these swinger parties and sex parties and you know, 225 00:14:37.639 --> 00:14:41.320 all the things that go on, and they rent out hotels and you wear 226 00:14:41.360 --> 00:14:43.759 a wristband in and there's everything from buy to gate, and she goes on 227 00:14:43.799 --> 00:14:48.679 and on and on and on and on, and it was really fascinating because 228 00:14:48.720 --> 00:14:52.679 for people like me who don't know anything about this, it is hard to 229 00:14:52.759 --> 00:14:54.399 imagine. You know, you walk through the halls at work, and you 230 00:14:54.399 --> 00:14:58.879 know an average person over here and an average guy over here, they might 231 00:14:58.919 --> 00:15:01.000 be swingers, and they might go these swingers parties and let everybody bang each 232 00:15:01.039 --> 00:15:05.240 other and bang their wife and bang other guys and bang other win whatever. 233 00:15:05.799 --> 00:15:09.559 And so that to me is such another planet. It's such another universe. 234 00:15:11.799 --> 00:15:15.600 So Ashley goes on to say, maybe you wanted to know more about the 235 00:15:15.639 --> 00:15:18.120 social media site. Events are planned regularly, and some are as simple as 236 00:15:18.200 --> 00:15:22.879 group meetings in a public place to get to know one another, and they 237 00:15:22.879 --> 00:15:26.840 all get what they call verified, meaning you are who you say you are. 238 00:15:26.519 --> 00:15:30.879 That way, you'll be giving the address as an invite to a particular 239 00:15:30.960 --> 00:15:35.840 event that you have rsvped to. Other events are private gang bangs for a 240 00:15:35.879 --> 00:15:43.440 birthday, or electric devices meaning things that will shock you. There's men's only 241 00:15:43.519 --> 00:15:48.039 events, public events like the hotel takeover, even at campgrounds that are nude. 242 00:15:48.600 --> 00:15:52.200 There's a guy who has a party a couple of times a year who 243 00:15:52.200 --> 00:15:56.320 has a bunch of acres out in Ramsey with upwards of two hundred attendees. 244 00:15:56.840 --> 00:16:03.080 People just banging and getting it on everywhere. Mind blowing, mind blowing. 245 00:16:03.240 --> 00:16:07.320 I think the most surprising some of that I've heard it before, but the 246 00:16:07.320 --> 00:16:11.799 most surprising to me was the campground ones, like people are just getting wild 247 00:16:11.840 --> 00:16:15.200 and tense and then switching to another tent and like you got a mosquito bite 248 00:16:15.240 --> 00:16:18.679 here, you got the bud here, you got things in your face, 249 00:16:19.039 --> 00:16:23.120 flies buzzing around your crotch. I don't know, I mean to me, 250 00:16:23.679 --> 00:16:32.320 I just I think sex to me is more special than sure. There's like 251 00:16:32.399 --> 00:16:34.600 fantasies like yeah, that'd be really cool to like bang all these ten different 252 00:16:34.600 --> 00:16:38.120 people and go from this person to this person to this person. I mean, 253 00:16:38.159 --> 00:16:45.120 sure, that sounds fun, but it's also not something that I can 254 00:16:45.200 --> 00:16:49.000 even picture. Yeah, I know what happens. I'm that naive. I 255 00:16:49.000 --> 00:16:52.159 know it happened, sure, And I think, like, I don't know. 256 00:16:52.200 --> 00:16:56.960 I think a lot of people view sex and emotion as completely separate things. 257 00:16:57.080 --> 00:17:00.960 But for me, I think emotion is a huge part of sex, 258 00:17:00.039 --> 00:17:04.960 So it would be hard for me to go from one person to another one 259 00:17:06.200 --> 00:17:08.920 within an hour span of time, you know. But I'm like, I 260 00:17:10.039 --> 00:17:11.640 get it that a lot of people that's what like gets them going, and 261 00:17:11.680 --> 00:17:15.680 that's awesome for them. But I think I would have a hard time even 262 00:17:15.799 --> 00:17:21.920 getting going for like another person if I was just banging someone else, Like, 263 00:17:22.000 --> 00:17:23.839 I don't know, that's yeah, that's hard for me to imagine. 264 00:17:23.839 --> 00:17:26.240 But I'm not saying that it's bad that you do that. I think that's 265 00:17:26.279 --> 00:17:29.519 awesome. No, And I don't think it's bad either. It's just to 266 00:17:29.599 --> 00:17:32.640 me, it's like I can't look at somebody Like I found out a couple 267 00:17:32.680 --> 00:17:36.279 of my friends were swingers, and I was kind of shocked, like because 268 00:17:36.319 --> 00:17:38.400 they were normal, not well, they're all in whatever, but they were 269 00:17:38.480 --> 00:17:42.680 married whatever. I don't know anything about their sex life. And then they 270 00:17:42.680 --> 00:17:48.039 got a divorce and they met somebody who was in the lifestyle, and they 271 00:17:48.079 --> 00:17:49.759 would go to these parties where you'd like, you know, sit around, 272 00:17:49.839 --> 00:17:52.400 have a glass of wine, and then you'd like pair off or go to 273 00:17:52.400 --> 00:17:56.039 this bedroom or whatever, and you'd bang this guy while you're doing this girl, 274 00:17:56.079 --> 00:17:59.599 and he'd be banging this other girl and you'd be doing this other guy 275 00:17:59.640 --> 00:18:06.400 and whatever. And to me, it was like that seems so I don't 276 00:18:06.440 --> 00:18:11.920 even know what the word is. If I found out that an X was 277 00:18:11.960 --> 00:18:15.119 a swinger now, I'd be like, I don't even know what to think. 278 00:18:15.160 --> 00:18:18.880 It's just so weird. Yeah. At a friend of mine, I'm 279 00:18:18.880 --> 00:18:22.960 not gonna say who, but she had a date with a guy in Chicago 280 00:18:22.799 --> 00:18:26.359 and they went to a house and she didn't know what it was, and 281 00:18:26.400 --> 00:18:30.640 it was a swingers party. They'd walk by like these bedrooms and in this 282 00:18:30.759 --> 00:18:33.759 room was a pile of people on this bed, and in this room was 283 00:18:33.759 --> 00:18:37.480 a man and a woman on this bed. And they would go from room 284 00:18:37.519 --> 00:18:40.759 to room and like bang and whatever. And it was like she was like, 285 00:18:40.920 --> 00:18:44.079 it is not my thing. I want to leave. Hey, I 286 00:18:44.079 --> 00:18:45.599 mean, I would say, don't not going to until you try it. 287 00:18:45.640 --> 00:18:49.039 But I think for me personally, I don't know that I would ever try 288 00:18:49.039 --> 00:18:53.039 this one. Yeah, and that's the interesting thing is, well, Okay, 289 00:18:55.079 --> 00:18:57.119 we got another email and we are actually, you know what, we're 290 00:18:57.119 --> 00:19:02.000 gonna wrap with that because we're short on time and we're fighting the clock again. 291 00:19:02.119 --> 00:19:06.400 So send your emails to Ryan's show at KDWB dot com. We're a 292 00:19:06.440 --> 00:19:07.960 little short, so we'd appreciate that