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Hey, hey, hey, I'm
bad with something for you to think about.

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I know someone's little heart gonna be
hurt. I'm gonna step on their

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feet, their toes. But I
gotta tell you, you just don't mean

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that much. I know you wanna
think you do, you wanna believe it,

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your mind telling you, your heart
is telling you that you do.

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But I'm telling you, without even
knowing you, that you don't mean that

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much. It's not about you for
them. For them, it's about who

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they are, what they desire,
what they want, self gratification, there

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wants, need, desires. It's
not about you. You just don't mean

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that much to them. Now that
may sound cruel, and I'm sorry if

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it does. I'm sorry if it
sounds cruel, but it's the truth.

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Until a person learned to love self, care about self, care about if

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who they are, figure out self, you are not gonna matter to them.

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You just won't mean that much.
Every day people get into relationships.

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Every day they say, oh I
want to be with this person or that

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person, I love him, I
love her. What their actions tell you

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the truth, but you want to
ignore it. You just don't mean that

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much. You don't mean that to
them. You don't mean to them what

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they mean to you. Too many
people are out there and these one sided,

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lopsided relationships. You're looking at what
you want, how you feel,

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but you're not looking at reality for
them. You just don't mean that much,

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not at the current moment. You
don't because it's not about you.

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Now, it's up to you how
long you settle for that? How long

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do you settle for a person doing
you any kind of way whenever they feel

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like it, talking to you crazy, doing crazy things, as long as

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you allow and accept it, and
it's okay, it's gonna happen. Maybe

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nine percent of the time is not
even okay. You just take it because

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you want to do with that person. Women are so terrible, some of

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them, to the point they would
say things such as, well, I

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don't care what he does as long
as he come home or as long as

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he brings the money home to me. That's ridiculous. Anybody who feel like

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that you got a problem, because
you shouldn't. It shouldn't matter. You

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should care what the problem is the
real problem. You don't matter that much

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to them, You don't. You
don't matter that much. You don't mean

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that much to them. Because they're
still looking at self. They're selfish.

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It's about self gratification, gratification of
the flesh in all types of ways,

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not just sexually, all types of
ways to gratify the flesh. You have

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people who it does not matter how
much you please with them, It does

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not matter how much they tell you
they're sorry. They will mess up.

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They will continually feed their little egos. They're gonna get that ego struggled by

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someone. They're gonna continue to cheat
and do you wrong because you just don't

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mean that much to them. And
I know some of some of your significant

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others tell you to your face,
I love you, my life willn't be

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the same without you. But yet
they treat you like that best telling you

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the truth. There are options,
but some of you you just ignore it

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when in reality you don't mean that
much to them, You don't mean enough.

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And it's not you, really,
technically, it's not. It's them.

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They still got things they wanna do, they still have people they want

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to see. They're not ready to
let it go and do the right things.

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They're not ready for commitment, dedication, faithfulness. Although they're in a

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relationship, they're not ready for those
things, but you accepted them that way.

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You accepted them that way. What
does that say about you? They've

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shown you clearly you don't mean that
much, but you just had to have

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him, you had to have her. Now you're feeling some type of way

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because now you see that you're ignored, You see that you talk too badly,

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you see that you're treated badly.
Yeah, you get to the point

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sometimes where your eyes open. Now
you see how unhealthy your relationship is.

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Now you want to find yourself.
You need to love yourself. Now you

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have this epiphany, Oh, I
need to love myself. I lost myself.

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Oh oh oh okay, you should
have found yourself before you ever got

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into relationship. That's why I tell
you all the time, figure you out,

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get to love you. If you
do, I promise you you will

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not go through the crap that a
lot of you are going through. Your

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significant other who is showing you that
you don't mean that much to them.

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They are in it for herself,
selfish lead. It's not that they found

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his or herself. They know who
they are. It's none of that.

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They are still that immature person who
is seeking self gratification in every way,

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shape, from and fashion. That
they can. All they care about is

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getting what they want. You just
don't mean that much to them. I'm

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not saying that they don't care,
but they don't care enough. They can't.

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Do you understand that it don't matter
what you have to offer. They

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cannot love you the way you deserve
to be loved, the way you need

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to be loved. They are not
capable at this point because they're still immature.

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They are still seeking what they want
to satisfy the flesh. They're not

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ready for someone like you who's ready
for a real commitment. But many of

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you settle for these types of people. But you live a life of misery,

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total misery, because you've subjected yourself
to this person, and now you

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treat it like crap because you allowed
it. When he and she talked to

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you any kind of way, you
don't mean that much, because if you

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did, if they really loved you
and was in love with you, there's

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no way they're gonna disrespect you by
talking down to you and degrading you.

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I was out yesterday and I tell
you this, lay older white ladies.

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She was talking so terrible to her
husband. There is no way on earth

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I would let a man talk to
me the way she was talking to her

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husband. He was like, I'm
just trying to help you out. She

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I mean, she was going all
the way in just so disrespectful. But

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it's obviously it was what he's been
used to. Just his reaction, but

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I thought it was pathetic. But
I've heard this so much. I've seen

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it so much. You allow your
significant other, the person who's supposed to

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love you, talk to you any
kind of way in front of people,

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behind closed door. They do it
because you allow it. It's terrible.

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You don't mean that much to them. You don't. You just don't.

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When you tell a person their actions
make you sad, they hurt you,

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and they still do, they still
continue with those things. You don't mean

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that much. You don't. You
can believe what you wanna believe, it's

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your prerogative. But if they don't
stop their behaviors, it's because you don't

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mean that much. What they want
means more. I know you don't want

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to hear it, but it's the
truth. Want a person do not change

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their behavior. You don't mean enough. It's still about him or her.

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So many people are in these one
side of relationships, in these toxic,

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unhealthy relationships, so many, so
many. You just don't mean that much.

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Some of you will do anything for
your significant other because you feel that

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you really love him or her,
But just like him or her, they

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don't know what love is. Neither
do you. If you're going along with

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it, if you're taking it,
you don't know what love is either.

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Moo, you don't. I know
you think you do. I know you

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really have these strong feelings for this
person, and you think you really love

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him or her, but you don't
know what it is if you're taking that

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type of treatment. See, they've
shown you that you don't mean that much

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to them, But what you're doing
is showing them that you don't mean that

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much to yourself. Why because you're
allowing it, you're taking it, you're

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going along with it. So if
you don't mean that much to yourself,

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you definitely don't mean that much to
him or her, but you don't to

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yourself. If you're taking it,
you don't. You don't know what love

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is. They certainly don't. Some
of you swear, oh that's my soul

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mate, he's my soul mate,
she's my soul mate. Get out of

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here. First of Evolved ninety nine
percent of you didn't seek God. You

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don't know God, you don't have
no relationship with God. But that's your

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soul mate. Okay, believe that
if you want to. And I'm not

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trying to down anyone or make you
feel bad. I never ever, ever

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try to do that. But when
the truth is the truth, it steems,

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it hurts, people don't want to
receive it. Yet it's still the

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truth. It's still the truth.
So I want you to think about that.

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When they leave home and you don't
know where they are, and you

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call or you text, and they
don't respond. When they're gone a couple

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of days, you don't know where
they are, they don't respond to you.

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You don't mean that much. Guess
what. You let them come back,

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no questions asked. You're hurting about
it, you're mad about it,

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you're upset about it, but you
do nothing about it. So they turn

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around, and when they feel like
it, they'll turn around and do it

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again. Because you, at this
point currently don't mean that much to them.

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It's about what they want, what
they desire. When that behavior does

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not change, you don't mean that
much. You don't because first of all,

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they have to change who they are
as individuals. They have to become

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more mature. They have to understand
who they are as a person and love

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of his and herself before they ever
can love you. That's why they keep

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doing what they are doing. That's
why they talk to you any kind of

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way. That's why they treat you
any kind of way. That's why they

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show you other people and things are
more important than you are. You just

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are not that important to them.
You don't mean that much to them.

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They don't love you in that way. Some of them tell you, oh,

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I love you, but then you
don't know where they are. They're

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out all times of the night,
in the morning, and for days.

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They're trying to coherse you to bring
someone else into the relationship. They're cohersing

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you into doing drugs, They're cohercing
you into helping them steal from somebody.

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It's because you don't mean that much
to them. If you did, they

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would care about your well being.
They would not put you in danger.

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Your safety would mean something to them. And as I said earlier, I'm

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not saying that they don't care about
you, but they don't care enough.

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They care more about what they want
than they care about you or your safety

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because they are selfish, selfish beings. They're very selfish. You have to

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realize what you are involved in,
who you are involved with. People always

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show you who they are without fail. It's no accident, coincident, then

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a none of that. They show
you who they are. It doesn't not

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sneak up on you. They show
you in some way who they are.

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But when you cannot see it because
of your heart, because of your mind,

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you find yourself eventually in a toxic, unhealthy situation, miserable, more

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miserable than before you got into it. You're unhappy because the person that you

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think you love obviously don't feel the
same towards you. I've heard people say

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I love her. I mean I
just go out and see other people or

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be with other people, but I
love her. No you don't, or

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I love her, but then she
looking at you with a black eye that

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you just gave her. But you
love her, No, you don't.

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You love you and what you want? I love you, but I can't

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stop cheating because you don't love yourself. So again, I just want people

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to think about, just start thinking
about what you have allowed yourself to get

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in and with room. I want
you to really think about that. Situations

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will not ever, ever, ever
become better if people do not be honest

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with themselves. If you don't be
honest with yourself and really grass hope to

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the truth, you're gonna remain in
this situation with who you're with, miserable.

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You don't have to be willing to
be honest, honest about what you

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are involved in, who you are
involved with, and how things are going.

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You have to be honest when it's
bad, You allowed it, you

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open yourself up to it. No, you cannot dictate what someone will do.

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You cannot control what someone will do, but you can control whether or

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not you take it. You can
control whether or not you allowed and accept

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it. You can control that when
you feel you can't. Something is wrong,

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you're fearful, you can place it, be comfortable. You lack confidence

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many things that mindset that you have
making you believe he or she is your

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best choice when obviously they're not.
I'm not even saying to anyone leave your

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relationship because sometimes people change. I'm
just saying, how long do you go

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through what you're going through? Aging
yourself, stressing yourself out. You know,

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stress causes heart problems. You can
have a stroke, all kinds of

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things, and mental stress also turns
into some form of mental illness. That's

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why so many in the world have
all types of mental illness, is because

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mental stress turns into mental illness when
it has nowhere to go. It affects

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you mentally, which in turn affects
you physically. That's what people are dealing

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with in the world today, all
walks of life all over the world.

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It's all about what you open yourself
up to, who you open yourself up

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to. So many people are blind
by their hearts and their minds because they

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have yet matured, got to know
self, and they have yet learned to

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love self. So because of it, you have people who are gonna treat

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you badly, and you have people
who are gonna take it. If you

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take it, it's on you,
if you allow an accept it, it

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is on you. People do to
you what you have taught them that they

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can do. That's the bottom line. It's the truth. Whether you like

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it or not. It hurts,
but it's the truth. Don't take it

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as a form of of mean,
being mean, talking bad about your situation,

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or anything negative. Take it as
what it is. For what It

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is the truth because if if you
allow a person to teach you any kind

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of way, they will, and
they will because you have taught them that

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they could. When a person continually
do the same thing that they keep saying

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I'm sorry for, or they they
keep asking you from forgiveness for, or

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they keep doing knowing it hurts you, you just don't mean that much to

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them, not currently, you don't. I mean I keep saying not currently,

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because people can change. All I
want people to do is start opening

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your eyes in these relationships because it's
so many that are dead and there's so

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many that have failed. I just
want people to realize that their lives could

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be much better when they start with
the with the friendship of self. By

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knowing yourself, getting to know you, figuring you out, loving you.

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That's the the act out of the
relationship with Jesus Christ and God the Father.

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That's the best relationship a person can
have, and the greatest that they

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should have is with self. Getting
to know thyself, loving thyself. And

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I always tell you, not in
a narciss system egotistical way, but a

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healthy way, meaning you get to
know yourself and love yourself. And when

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you do, you don't have to
put up with people not loving you,

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you know, not caring enough about
you, do whatever they want to do

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to you, because you don't matter
that much to them. You don't have

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to worry about that because you would
not put yourself in that situation. You

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would not get involved with those people. You will be able to walk away.

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You don't care what they have,
how good they look, they're either's

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positions, None of that matters.
When your eyes are open, none of

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it matters because you can see them
for who they really are. So you

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don't care about all these the things
when they are not an individuals that it's

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good for you. You can look
over all the rest of that stuff.

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There are not a lot of people
who are at that point in life,

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and we see it every day.
People are miserable in their relationships. They

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may never admitted to you, but
they are miserable not being loved, loveless,

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sexless, all types of things less
lacking because people are about self gratification

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as me, me, me,
me, what I want, how I

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feel, and that either lands you
with someone who's treating you any kind of

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way, or you that person who
just do anything because it's about what you

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want and what I mean by you
that person who's who end up with that

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individual is because you're looking at it
in the same way. It's just a

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different way. Like, for instance, you still looking at me, me,

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me, what I want, what
I feel, because you want that

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person, you love that person,
you want to be with that person.

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So technically you still looking at me, me, me, and they're looking

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at me, me me because they're
in the relationship with you, but they

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still want what they want. That's
why they still a treat That's why they

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do you any kind of way.
That's why other people they treat better than

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you. They open the doors for
other women, but don't open it for

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you. They're nicer to other people
than they are to you. They speak

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nicer to other people than they speak
to you, because it's about them to

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them. I just want you to
think about it. That's it. Just

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think about your situation. Think about
it. Are you truly happy? Most

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of you think you are, But
happiness starts within, and a lot of

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people are not happy inside, don't
even like self yet they're in relationships with

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people going through it. You hear
me going through it because they're putting up

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with nonsense foolishness, shenanigans of others. Far I really want you to just

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think about it. Nothing can be
better if you don't make it better.

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No change your purse. If no
change happens, you have to want change.

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You have to welcome change, You
have to embrace it in ort afford

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to occur. So it's your life, living how you want. If you

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want to stay on that will,
that's your choice as well. If you

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want to get off of that will, that's your choice. I just pay

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people eyes open and they want better
for self. Become the best that you

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can be for yourself. On that
note, I'm leaving it right there.

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Thank you for sharing. Please,
please don't hesitate to reach out to me.

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If you have any question, shoes, our concerns, go to my

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podcast page. It would tell you
how to reach me. Thank you for

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listening. Thank you for sharing.
Continue to share. Also, go to

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my other podcasts. It is called
Relatable Life Chronicles. Check it out and

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share. Thank you so much.
You know I end every episode the same

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and I hope that you do it. Thank on it