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Welcome back to the podcast, Jenny
and everyone else. I'd like to start

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the podcast with a joke I saw
on a meme yesterday, Why did six

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want to Fuck seven? All I
can think of is seven eight nine?

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It was like a seven joke because
seven eight ass? It doesn't even make

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sense. I'm like, I don't
know, Okay, sorry, what's the

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joke? Why did six want to
fuck seven? Because seven eight ass?

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And I don't even know what it's
about. And I sent it to Steve

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and he was like, I don't
get it, but it I'll laugh.

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And I was like, yeah,
that makes no sense. I think they

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just wanted to include that. So
anyway, okay, he's coming out there,

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Steve, that little fucker. What
He sent me a happy Thanksgiving text,

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which is so nice, but the
way he does it is such a

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Steve thing. He found a picture
of me from some random YouTube like submission

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for an interview for a job I
did when I was like twenty one years

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old. Lots of people have found
that video where it's like and you think

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it's private, it's not, and
people still send it. And so he

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took a screenshot was like happy,
Happy Thanksgiving, and I was like you

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know what I'm thankful for, Steve. I was like, I'm thankful I

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discovered eyeliner pencil so I can pencil
my eye lines, and friends like you

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that reminded me that that's what I
used to I found a video or a

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picture of me from Reno and I
was like that when I first moved here,

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where I would do the black on
like my waterline all around and I

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really loved it. And then I
just saw this picture of the day.

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I was like, oh man,
I really went so hard on the eyeliner.

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But it was for a while.
I was gonna say, we all

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did like right on your like inside
lid. Oh yeah, yeah, oh

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yeah, thunder, oh yeah.
I had to make sure it was like

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really dark on there. I never
went through like a smoky eye phase because

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it just never I could how to
do it and I never looked right.

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But even when it was like popular, I think maybe I had a couple

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of events where maybe a professional did
it so it looked better than if I

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would have done it. But I
never went through that phase. Luckily.

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Well, welcome from to Heati.
Thank you, You're welcome. We want

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to know all about the trip.
Yeah, so is that where you want

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to start. Let's h okay,
all right, So it was an amazing

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trip, I will say, because
I've gotten so many messages from people who

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are like, did you go through
a travel agency? How did you do

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this? Blah blah blah. Fallon
and I are very similar when we plan

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trips. We are like psychos,
where we look at travel bloggers, we

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look at Instagram, we look at
TikTok. We make I mean, I

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make an itinerary. I don't know
if you fully do stuff like that,

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but I don't do an itinerary.
I just do like a list of things.

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That's exactly what I do because I
do not like wasting time trying to

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figure out things and research and I
like to have multiple options. Do what

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kind of food? Do? We
feel like here are three places I found

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that are these types of food or
three activities or whatever. Yeah. So

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I did plan the entire trip on
my own via travel blogs, TikTok,

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Instagram, all that stuff, and
I kept it. I mean, it

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was by no means cheap. It
is still too Tahaiti, but I kept

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it reasonably cheap because we did airbnbs
instead of the nice like Hilton Ho tells

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that have the overwater bungalows yep,
And I know I posted about one of

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the airbnbs that was like a bungalow
itself that was right on the ocean.

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That thing was probably nicer than like
the overwater bungalows at the Hilton almost.

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I mean, it didn't have air
conditioning, so there was that, but

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it really wasn't that bad because there
was such a breeze from the ocean that

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it kept it decently cool. Yeah, that's really nice, but yeah,

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the trip was great. Andrew and
I were not intending on doing so many

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extreme hikes that we did, and
we ended up doing two pretty hard hikes.

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What changed your mind? You were
sitting on board and like, no,

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no, it wasn't that. It
was like we had planned on hiking,

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but we didn't plan on doing that
hike, and then we changed our

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minds and we're like, fuck it, let's do this peak hike. So

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the first one we did in Tahiti
was like there were a couple sketchy areas

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where if you had the wrong footing
you could fall and like truthfully fall to

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your death potentially, and so and
so on that hike. About halfway through

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Andrew goes. I think that we
should split up the food because if one

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of us falls, make sure that
there's food for the otter one. My

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god, okay, I literally ever
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we are turning around and we are
going back down. That is psychotic.

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So literally we find like the next
spot where we have more footing to be

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able to like move around, because
that's how small the paths were, and

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so I and I was the one
carrying the food, so I would have

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been good, but yeah, I
split up the food. And then we

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didn't end up getting to the peak
of that one because we got to what

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we thought was the peak and then
realized it was still very far away.

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Isn't so funny? It's like things
look so much closer. Well, it

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wasn't even that, it was because
we already got into the clouds, and

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so we were like, eh.
And so we get to this place and

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it has a hut and it has
this water thing, and we read about

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it on all trails. We thought
we were there, we weren't, and

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so we were like, we're not
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We're only going to see more clouds. Keeping going, So we didn't

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get to the top of that one. No, but I did get a

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photo from that that night that wasn't
that one, but that one I did

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want to send you, Okay,
So I sent Fann a photo of my

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crotch sweat because Fall and I are
discussing. We do this and we send

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each other photos of you there,
like our sweat left over on a machine

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that we just worked out, our
hunderboob sweat, or our crotch sweat.

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So on that hike, though,
I was sweating so much, So this

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is the first one I was just
talking about. And I'm like, as

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soon as we get to the top, you're taking a picture of my crotch

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sweat, I'm sending it ton.
Well, we get to the top and

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there's this German guy just like taking
in the scenery and we like which you

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couln't see much because we were in
clouds, but we're sitting there and we

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ended up talking to him for like
forty five minutes at the top, and

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by then the crotch sweat had disappeared. For the most fortunate, say wow.

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So anyways, then we did another
hike when we went to a different

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island. It's called Molrea. I
hope I pronounce that right. I still

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have no idea, and that hike
was terrifying. Like I'm telling you that

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the physical part was very challenging,
but I have never been mentally challenged so

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hard in my life on a hike
because of they once again basically cliff drop

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off on either side, because it
was straight ridgeline. Yeah, there was

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like very little footing. Videos and
pictures don't do justice to how scary it.

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That's the one you posted kind of
footage of you hiking that you did

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more footage of me hiking. Oh
probably, Yeah, that one looked You're

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right, you couldn't tell how scary
it was as far as like cliff drop

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offs, but you could tell how
untraveled the path was. And that to

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me, Like the comments I saw
were like absolutely where everyone's like I would

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be I don't know if snakes are
there, but I would be afraid there

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were snakes there. And that's what
I was like, Yeah, for sure,

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but usually like when you do a
hike, uh huh, you can

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tell it's been hiking four years,
looked like off trail kind of hiking.

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Yeah, it was wild. Truthfully, I was making it further mentally than

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Andrew was Andrew started getting more scared
before I did, and then because he

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started voicing his fear, then I
started getting more scared because Andrew's way more

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fearless than I am. So I
was like doing okay, but then he

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started being like, I don't obabe, maybe we should turn around. And

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eventually we got to a point where
we saw clouds over the peak again,

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and we were like, we're not
going not gonna make a good view anyway.

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And it wasn't even the view situation
like this looked like clouds would have

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passed through and we still would have
had a decent view. We were truly

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scared that it was going to rain, and we would have like died going

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down if it was raining because the
paths were so already kind of had some

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mud to it. If it got
slippery or anything, we could have fell

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off basically a cliff in seconds.
So we were like, we're not gonna

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be those dumb people. And it's
like we hike, but never hikes that

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are dangerous like that, Like we
do pretty extreme. We've done like some

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intense hikes in Colorado in the teetan
stuff like that, but never something where

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like you get the wrong footing or
you slide a little bit and you fall

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to your right. So anyways,
besides the extreme hike, yeah, we

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did some fun things. We snorkeled. It works out great. I did

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my research on where the sharks and
sting ray kind of lagoon Aio was,

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and so our airbnb was right in
front of it. So we literally kayaked

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out to it, skipped having to
pay one hundred and fifty dollars per person

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for an excursion, and went out
and did it ourselves. Our airbnb hosts

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gave us fish for bait to bring
the sharks, and and you are,

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oh, why was terrified? What
kind of sharks were they? They were

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the blacktip reef sharks. Okay,
so they would not they could, but

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they're not. They're not known to
be aggressive at all. You just don't

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try to touch them like they swim. I would do it. I think

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I would do it, but I
think I would be like so uncomfortable.

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I'd be like I'd get four pictures
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little kayak. Well, so I'm
all about, like just gotta go pro

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So I'm like, Andrew, get
all this footage, you know, and

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I'm getting in the water. Is
that where your pictures are from to the

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GoPro Yes, Okay, I was
gonna ask if you got like a little

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one of those waterproof bags for your
phone. Okay, oh no, we

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had those in Thailand and they would
not have worked as well for like taking

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as good of pictures. But yeah, so we got out and these I

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wish I should posted this video.
These stingrays. They smell the bait and

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they're like puppies, like thinking you
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They're literally above the water on you, and I started freaking. I

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was like, babe, I don't
even have the bait. Andrew had all

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the bait. I was like,
throw a bait away because the hosts our

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host told us to just throw it
like far away if you want them to

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get away from you, like just
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And like once we did that,
I'm like bummed that we kind of wasted

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all of our bait because we realized, like they really are just friendly creatures.

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They're not going to hurt you.
Yes, there is a huge risk

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with a sting ray, like if
you step on their stinger, I'm eating

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Steve my story Jenny. Okay,
to be fair, Steve Irwin pulled this

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the like stinger thing out of his
heart and that's what caused him to die.

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He wouldn't have died had he left
it there. Why did he do

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that? He should have known because
that's what I'm thinking, right, I

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know that. So anyways, so
that was super Steve. When with stingrays,

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god, no, I didn't even
know that until Andrew told me.

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I just assumed the sting ray venom
killed him, but Andrew was like,

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no, he died because the stinger
went into his heart and it punctured something

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and had he left it in there, he would have been able to like

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survive. But anyways, that was
one of the highlights of the trip and

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one of the main things I wanted
to do was like snorkeling and stigrays.

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But outside of that, I had
like a couple funny stories. We already

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talked about the crotch pic that I
sent found, so that was from the

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second hype. That was super terrifying
and I have never I truly wish we

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would have weighed ourselves before and after
both of these hikes, because that's how

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much weight I feel like I lost, Like three to four pounds on these

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hikes because we were drenched in sweat. It was insane and that humidity.

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Well, in that picture of Jenny's
crotch she sent me, it would not

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even be defined as crotch sweat.
It went down to her knees, and

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I was like, I can honestly
say I've never seen crotch sweat go so

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low in my whole It was so
bad, and I looked absolutely hideous in

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all of these like videos and pictures, so you might notice any ones that

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you've seen are kind of fire away
because I sweat so much. I also

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had made the mistake which I didn't
think of at the time. I got

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a spray'stand before this, because of
the way I sweat, it started melting

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off in different areas. And then
like I legitimately had to tie the shirt

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that I brought for protection against the
sun, this long sleeep shirt, so

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that's what I thought I was going
to use for I had to tie it

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around my head to stop the sweat
from dripping down, making the sunscreen drip

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into my eight eyes, burying my
eyes. It was like, like,

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I know a lot of things look
so glamorous on Instagram, and I try

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to relay that like it's not definitely
always like that, because there were moments

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where I was in so much like
sweating pain that I was like, I

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need to just lay in a bath
right now and not move for Alur.

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I was even freaked out by the
video you posted of you and what looked

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like a like silky satin dress.
I'm like, oh my god, you're

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wearing that and a humid location and
bad at night. At night, it

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really was bad because I was like, I would have swass, I would

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have underboop sweat would be so gross. No, it's just like when you

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get into like these jungly areas,
that's where the humidity really got to you.

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It wasn't so bad when you were
by the water. Would you go

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back there? I would. Andrew
and I both kind of made it like

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a bucket list thing that we both
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but there were so many beaches around
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one of the pictures, I think
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face looked so puffy because and you
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one of his eyes looked like he
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okay, so this is the typical
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like my diet being very off on
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issues where I was just shitting my
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the hotel, and so Andrew was
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on being sick, but then he
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then he'd take a roll with him
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in the bathroom and there's only like
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and I'm like, babe, I
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paper. So there was that.
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in Tahiti is that I could not
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think they think we're trash. They
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iced coffee. Like the first time
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a single iced coffee. So I
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if I need to, but if
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not want like a hot tut I'm
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to be fair, I did find
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which is where we spent most of
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we finally found this amazing like bakery
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shop, and I'm trying They speak
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unaware, and I'm trying to relay
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latte or whatever, and they kind
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it's all in French, so I'm
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yes, this, yes, so
this and this, and she's kind of

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pointing at things that she was going
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with coffee and put like a weird
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was all liquified. It wasn't like
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thought that's what she was going to
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a liquid of ice or like of
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into it to the point of it
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would you how would you rank it
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it's just it's so hard to say
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is very high up there on places
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say that because but that it's hard
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Thailand. I did plan it so
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much more to offer, Like it's
a it's an island in like the middle

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of the Pacific Ocean, Like there's
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to do. That's not what I'm
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there, the activities, like there's
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Tahiti because there is a lot of
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European because it's French. So I
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Andrew and I like, yeah,
we want to go back and do these

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hikes, but we don't feel the
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we literally feel like we could go
spend another month there and still not scratch

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like the space of everything we want
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side would say Thailand because it was
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to do on vacation. I'm more
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eat. And truthfully, we had
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some pretty shitty restaurants there. But
Moilrea, I did a lot of research

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and it was good food. But
there's a point where you cannot eat any

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more seafood and that's like their specialty. So it's like they do have some

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good pizza there, though they have
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that then, But yeah, so
that was it. I'm I will say

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that most trips, I feel like
I get really sad and I don't want

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to come home, and I'm like, oh, I wish I could have

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a few more days this one.
I feel like we did so much that

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I finally was like, yeah,
I'm good. I'm like, I'm good

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to go home. I'm tired,
I'm ready to get back into a routine

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of things, and so yeah,
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I like the water and stuff was
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you want it to look like.
So it looked so pretty. Yeah,

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and you looked super hot in your
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okay. I had like ideas of
things I wanted to post on social media

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going into the trip, per looking
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you know, but there was no
part of me that ever thought I was

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going to post some like kind of
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Andrew and I just did like this
photo shoot, and I was like,

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we both look pretty good and this
like it is a beautiful background. I'm

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gonna post this, yeah, and
not feel like it feels conceited for me

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to post something like that, Like
I just don't love to. I mean,

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you work out hard. I get
it. I'm I would be the

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same way. I would feel like
uncomfortable doing it and then be like screw

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it. But also you're on a
beach, so you're obviously wearing a bathing

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suit, so it's like it's funny, but I it's funny when you go

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to like beautiful places like that.
Nothing I have no video or picture I

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take ever does it justice. And
it also never looks like any actual influencer

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because I don't have all their photo
editing tools. Took super contrast things to

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make it look crazy, and I
did not edit anything on my photos besides

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I have one. On the swimsuit
photo, I did use face tune,

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just sort of edit. There was
such a difference between the tan on my

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legs and my feet because my feet
had sweated off all the tan that I

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looked like a cave woman, Like
that's how different than my color and the

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half collar. So I had to
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I go to go glow for spray
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and that looked like so bad that
I was like, I can't be posted

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on tag us bitch, I don't
want anything like that. I was like,

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well, I did not have nearly
as exciting. Yeah, your life

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you can have. I'm nothing excited
to share. I will say I did

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have. I posted on my Instagram
a humbling experience because I don't know like

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a lot of the people at Fox
very well since I've been doing the Jason

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Show or whatever. But I did
go in yester not yesterday, sorry,

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Friday, because that's day. It
was Sunday and I had to go potty.

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Yeah, for a long Nothing is
more embarrassing than when you are sitting

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on a toilet in a business and
the light goes out. I was sitting

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there. I was like, oh
my god, because then then not only

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first of all, you have to
walk at Fox where I am, you

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have to walk through the sales pit
and they're all like, hey, fallon.

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Yeah. So then when I come
back twenty minutes later, but so

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he's like, oh my god,
oh my god, oh my god,

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there's nothing I can do to get
this light back on. Like I tried

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waving my house. It's not it. Someone comes in and then the lights

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come on, and now they know
you have been sitting in the dark for

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god knows how long, and it's
so awkward. I fucking hate that,

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like quit having I get it's for
like energy purposes, but it is so

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embarrassing. And I'm like, I
do not know these people here well enough,

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so I wasn't ask you to.
So Jake has his company, they

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have like it's not a party,
his boss hosts like a dinner at his

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house and we and like he invites
a bunch of people. So we have

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that on like the fifteenth. But
they just emailed our the Fox people just

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said, like with the Jason to
oh, we have the Fox Party on

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the fourteenth. You should And I
was like, I wasn't invited. They're

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like, no, you are through
us because you should. And I'm like,

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what do you think should I go
to that? Because I've gone back

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and forth in my head like it
would be good to go and see people

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maybe, but part of me is
like we're already doing Jake's on Friday.

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time I ever get invited to the Fox

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party. But then I also like
I know everyone, but also is it

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a kind of cocktail walk around chat
and you can leave right away if you

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feel like it. I right away, But leave at your own discretion.

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I think so, but then I
would still have to get like a babysitter

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for two nights in a row.
Yeah, I mean, aka, my

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mom, that's tough. I'm all
for like trying. I feel like I

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try to put like holiday parties as
a higher priority on my list. And

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like Andrew has always missed his with
his work because of a snowboarding trip the

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last two or three years, and
he finally is here this time, so

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I'm gonna go with him to his
in like a week. And then I

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think I missed our iHeart one last
year because I was on a snowboarding trip

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or something was happening. I was
gone. I missed it because no one

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said it was a holiday party.
I was so frustrated about that I got

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we got the invite. Yeah,
but like, I'll be honest, we

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had a girl takeover, like and
she plans fun outings and things all the

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time. We have never had that
in the history of iHeart. We maybe

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have one thing a year. So
now there's something like every month, which

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is so nice. But I'm obviously
not gonna go to something every month.

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So it was like, hey,
we're gonna be at a brewery and I'm

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like, cool, it never said
on the thing this is our company holiday

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party, but apparently everyone else knew, so it's the one event every single

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person went to. I was on
my couch and then I saw everyone posting.

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I was like, oh fuck.
And then Dave came in being like

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who was unlimited everything? He was
open bar and I was like, oh

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no, So if they do want
to get this year, then I probably

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will go. And I'm like,
I don't know, but I think I

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don't know. I don't have the
respective of having to get a babysitter for

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two nights in a row, and
Mom, it's not like it's a real

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thing. Mine's more guilt of me
not being with all of two nights more

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so than having to get a babysitter. If you will, I mean,

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if it's just a quick thing,
and is it like is it right when

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she's going to bed or is it
before that? I actually don't know,

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yeah, because I could love the
fox one, but she's starting to be

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like sleeping half the time. I
mean she has about like eight now,

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so it's not Yeah. Also,
did you see the video that Jake posted

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of her skiing again? Yes?
I say where were they They always go

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to Highland because Dylan is yeah,
Dylan's uh, he does ski lessons for

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kids. He did last year and
he does again this year, and so

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it's her third ski season and she
is just she loves it, and I'm

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so happy she does, because I'm
just so happy that that he's passing that

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on to her since I would clearly
not. And because they're doing a big

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ski trip this March, he's taken
the kids and that'll be really fun.

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Did I tell you that I booked
my birthday than you did it? Okay?

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So I had gone back and forth, I know, even on this

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podcast about Alaska, but I decided
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And the one of the places I
really want to go is Catmi and

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it's like all chrisly Bears and Jake's
like, we can't take all of that.

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I'm like, I don't plan on
going to Alaska a ton, so

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when I go, I want to
like do a lot of things. So

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I'll just wait maybe until the kids
are a little older, or she's older.

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So I kind of was like,
I think I just want my birthday

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to be for me and Jake and
I don't want to party. He's like,

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what about a dinner. I was
like, I would be open to

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doing a dinner with friends, because
I feel like I'll be sad if I

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don't do anything with like my friends
or family. But I was like,

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I really would rather just spend money
on a trip. So it's not a

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big trip. It's like three nights, and I did book big, sir.

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So what I booked was I got
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it was like the ultimate all inclusive
of girls trips, and there are id

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I'm like, I feel like when
you think of all inclusive, you only

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think of like Mexico, And so
I was like, are there nice all

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inclusive places in the States. Well, first of all, it's fucking laughable

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this article because the places they recommended
were so spectacular. But I'm like,

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none of my friends could afford this. This is not something I could afford,

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like a full week of so but
I was like, for my fortieth

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I am spending the most I have
ever spent in my life on an all

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inclusive for just three nights for me
and Jake, and so I booked it

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and so cool because the way the
place is positioned I guess it's like,

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you know, half on the ocean, half redwood. So the it's all

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inclusive, so it involves like they
take you on hikes, or they'll give

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you like make you a picnic basket
to go to the ocean, or like

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all these different things. So it
looks very cool. You could have upgraded

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to a luxury status and you get
a beside every single day or there.

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I did not upgrade to that,
but I thought that was really cool.

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But we'll have access to like all
the grounds and stuff. So I was

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like, now what it's had to
figure out where we're going to fly into

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and all that stuff. But I
booked it over my actual birthday and I'm

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excited. I tell Jenny before we
got on the podcast. Next year is

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my year. I can just tell
I'm fine turning forty. I just feel

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like everything is going to fall into
place for me next year. And I

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don't know what that means, but
I feel like, because I've wondered sometimes,

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I've wondered, am I a person
who's capable of ever being truly happy?

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Like I'm such a the glass is
half empty person, and I don't

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think I'm capable of being like the
optimistic person for like you know what I

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mean. But I do think that
I can like finally feel content and happy

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in life while still bitching about minor
thing. And I just feel like I've

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already like started that shift and adjustment, and so I'm looking forward to I

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think it's going to be a good
year. I do too. I think

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you're gonna have a great year,
you too, Jenny, I agree,

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I'm looking forward to it too.
I want to say real quick about Big

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sir, Well, I just have
a question. So it's a hotel you're

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saying that, mm hmm okay,
because I'm like thinking of Big Sur.

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And when we did our road trip, I saw like campgrounds and stuff like

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that, but we didn't get far
into it because it was like wildfires and

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stuff when we went. But I'm
so excited to see all that because that's

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like on our list of like we
want to go back and do our road

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trips, starting basically in Big Sur
and then going down to like San Diego

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to finish the West Coast road trip. But you're gonna have a super fun

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time and don't sleep on like maybe
flying into I think it's San Jose might

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be an easier option. Than San
Francisco, and it might be cheaper because

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I didn't look at like a lot
of different airports when I was booking our

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West Coast road trip, and there
were more than just San Francisco around.

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But for me, they have the
closest is Monterey. Obviously it's going to

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be a smaller nobody. Actually I
didn't know about that either, and we

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were ending our trip in Monora and
it was going to be cheaper to just

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fly out of there, and I
didn't realize it until like a month later

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that they had an airport. So
you should check that out too, I

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wanted. I'm looking at Monterey and
looking at even though I know it would

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be like a lovely drive I've I
was like, again, I might like

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order like a car to take us, because once we're there, we're not

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going to be, yeah, with
the car driving anywhere. So I think

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we're going to spend all of our
time like at the resort, going to

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like the ocean or to the woods, and you don't need a car for

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any of that. I think,
yeah, I don't think. So I

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was like, maybe I'll just get
a car that takes us there and then

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takes us back to the airport.
That'll be nice. So how long are

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you going? Just three nights?
Okay, it's like you said you weren't

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going to do a week, but
I was like, you got to at

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least go for a cup few nights. Yeah, and I think it'll be

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it'll be short, too short,
and we'll be like, oh, I

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wish you were staying longer. But
it's fine. It's still fun. And

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I might do like a like I
said, at dinner with friends or something,

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because Jake was like, what if
we like do one of those fancy

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things where you hire people to come
into your house and cook. And I'm

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like, I love my friends,
but I don't want to spend like three

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thousands. So you don't spend three
thousand dollars, but I don't want to

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spend that. I would rather honestly
host a pot luck with my friends and

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make everyone bring a dish. Maybe
I should do it. You have to

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come, Jenny, Well, obviously
I'll be there. I'll be there at

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whatever option you decide to do.
But also I don't want you to feel

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the pressure of like having to host
people on your own birthday. Yeah,

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I love that, and you'd like
be stressed about cleaning too, and like

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organizing the house. And your house
is always like clean and organized, so

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whatever. But I always feel like
when you put on the stress of like

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you're excited to host something, but
then you forget about, like the day

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before and the day of, how
stressful it is to actually have your house

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together for it. It's so stressful, it is. Yeah, But anyway,

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book that and excited and that's awesome. Catch me. I'll be wearing

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a G string, will you.
Yeah, I'll be posting photos. Yes,

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No one wants it. Nothing wants
it. Thank you for listening.

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Welcome back, Jenny. Thank you. Here real quick, I'm just going

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to give a quick up date.
But I know the last podcast I talked

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about having like a really bad bout
of anxiety, and truthfully, it last

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much longer than just the duration of
that podcast in that day, and it

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did inspire me to finally get therapy
started. Yeah, Jenny, I did

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set that up. I'm not sold
on my therapist yet. I think I

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might for me to find someone,
truthfully who has a little more education,

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like a higher up, because I
think she's just she's not that she's not

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educated and has like the right credentials, but I think I need to go

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to like a psychiatrist instead, and
someone who can potentially prescribe medication honestly,

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So we're I got another appointment with
her this week though, and I'm not

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like saying no to her yet because
she was great for like a first session.

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But I have another appointment this week
and We're gonna see how it goes.

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I'm feeling much better than two weeks
ago. But yeah, thank you

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for everyone. I have gotten a
lot of messages and I appreciate everyone's messages,

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and you all have such kind words, and I hope that me talking

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about it has helped out some people, because, like I said on the

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last podcast, I know how lonely
it can feel sometimes when your brain is

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thinking crazy things and making you feel
all weird and you feel all alone,

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and to know that someone else knows
what you're going through makes you feel les

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alone. So thank you for the
messages and the emails. I super appreciate

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it. Well, thank you.
Yeah, I'm glad that you finally found

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your way to someone and you're starting
that journey because I think that it will

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be helpful for sure. And yeah, thank you for listening