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to my side of the crystal Va. We've got a doozy tonight. Well,
first of all, we've got a short and suite wwrs. But my
guests tonight joining us definitely for leaning. The little girl from Rhode Island happens
to be a mental giant and powerhouse. She just happens to be a TikTok
influencer, psychic, intuitive, healer, occultists and I say occultist because of
all the knowledge and all the information that she has, as well as the
way she processes her information, the way she comes up with all these fantastic
and very real theories and processes. And this young woman is merely twenty four
years old, and she already is breaking and making her name around the world.
And she's going to be the guest for the entire evening in the expert's
chair. Before we get to the expert chair in WWRS, I've got a
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cant all and let's hear what ww r S is about tonight. You know,
the other morning, I was out for a walk with my dogs as
we always do. The sun had just just come up. It was starting
to get bright, and as we were walking across the field, I saw
this gorgeous fox running across the field and there was a squirrel in a month.
And the very first thing I thought was the foxes babies have breakfast this
morning. And the second thing I thought was the squirrels babies don't have their
breakfast this morning. I thought about it for a couple of moments, and
I thought, should I interfere? Should I try to save the squirreld?
And I thought it for about a little bit, and then I didn't do
anything because I realized that it wasn't my business. I didn't have I don't
have the awareness, the knowledge and the judgment to decide what babies get fed
and what ones don't. I realized that some time it's not our business,
and that what we need to do is just let it go. And that's
what Robert has to say. My guests and I sitting in the experts Share
comes all the way from Rhode Island. Stephanie for Reading is known around the
world as a TikTok influencer and as a TikTok influencer, she uses her influence
around the psychic intuitive things, psychic ability. She does ratings on TikTok.
She is the psychic. She isn't intuitive, She's far more than that.
And she's a really brilliant young woman. And the concepts, theories, ideas
that she has already are truly beyond her years. It's been fascinating talking with
her and George just going to love her. And here is my guest tonight
from the great state of Rhode Island is Stephanie for Leamy. I'm thinking,
how does a young woman mid twenties become an internationally known psychic intuitive and TikTok
influence? How does that and this young woman from Rhode Island, how does
that happen? How did you do this? So it was one hundred percent
by accident. Yeah, I was. This is never my intention, really
like, I'm really excited about it, and I love this path, but
I never foresaw this path kind of coming my way. It is interesting,
definitely because Rhode Island is literally the smallest state in the United States. But
I had actually started out even more interestingly, I was raised religious, and
then I was an atheist, and then I went to law school and then
I just basically did every other path that I could have done, and then
the universe was kind of like, hey, nope, that's not it.
So then I kind of started, you know, playing connect the dots on
my own and then I just started sharing my journey on TikTok and I was
like, this is interesting. Nobody in my you know, personal in real
life community want to talk about this, so maybe somebody on the internet will
care. So your TikTok videos are about your spiritual and psychic abilities. That
is that correct, yes, and a lot of modalities they are regarding that,
and pretty much it always ties in with some kind of research because,
like I'd mentioned, coming from that law school background, I was very very
what's the word I'm looking for? I was very u you know, instation
curious, definitely investigative. I needed to understand why it made sense. So
I basically started looking at my experiences and trying to find some explanation for it,
because nobody else had explanation for it. So, so, from your
religious background and as a child, did you have psychic or intuitive senses or
feelings from other people? So it's interesting because I feel like I remember parts
of my childhood like that, but mostly I remember being kind of shut down
in that context. And I even asked my parents now and I'm like,
was I like this as a kid? And they were like not at all.
And I think that maybe they were just like trying to, you know,
pretend I wasn't like this, But how did you end up being like
this then? Or recognizing your like this? So I on it. It
was honestly happenstance. I guess. I don't think anything's a coincidence. I
think the universe is pretty like, hey, we'll, you know, push
your this way, and then we'll push you that way, and then she'll
figure it out. And I really just got a lot of nudgets from the
universe. And then I went to law school and I really was miserable.
And I went because like I could academically do it. I was going on
almost a full ride. So I was like, all right, I mean,
maybe this is my path. And I had tried so many different majors
in college. I graduated with psychology. I didn't know what I wanted to
do, and I was like this, nothing feels right. So then when
the pandemic hit and I was working in corporate America as a recruiter for legal
professionals, I started doing my own research when I had some more downtime and
I was trying to understand some phenomena that I had experienced as a kid.
I did have some memories of things occurring as a kid that nobody could explain,
people didn't remember, and I was like, well I remember it.
That was traumatizing. So yeah, starting to just poke around, and then
it felt more and more right. The further and further I got down the
rabbit hole. What kind of things did you see or sense that other people
either that didn't see or did see and forgote, what were the things that
you were sensing or so a lot of it. I think my main no,
I don't like to use the word ability, but like I think my
main sense is really just like knowing. I really just like know a lot
of things for no reason. And one of them especially, it happened a
lot with my religious upbringing. The church did not like me. I was
very vocal about the things that I was like, this isn't true, and
the things that they were trying to tell me, and I would ask questions
and be like, okay, well how does this make sense? Or like
what is what is that about? And then nobody would have answers. So
it was interesting and I was just like, I don't know why I know
this, but I know this. And then there were other experiences where I
one of them I talked about in my TikTok channel. And I know that
this doesn't relate to a lot of people. But have you ever seen Stranger
Things? I haven't seen it, Okay, so you might really enjoy I
have seen Strangers Things, but but not the video or the movie. Okay.
So it's a series on Netflix. I think it might be elsewhere too,
but I watched it on Netflix, and it's essentially based on a true
story regarding the Montok Project and the government experiments done with children in regards to
psychic abilities and stuff like that. So they have a concept in Stranger Things
called the upside Down, which basically one of the characters slips into the upside
Down, which is like a mirror universe basically. And I was so fascinated
with this series, and then when I saw things like that, it jogged
my memory when that happened to me as a kid, I literally slipped into
a different dimension. I guess you want to call it that really. Yeah,
So I had been like looking for answers, and nobody had answers,
and my parents were like, we would have remembered it, because like,
what did you see in that alternate reality or that mirror real? What did
you see? So I all right, so everything pretty much looked the same,
just like creepier, like darker. I guess a little bit, and
then I what had happened? The really like the way that it happened was
I was six years old. I found this out. I thought I was
five. When I was six and I was painting my toe on eils in
the living room and I zoned out. And I had a lot of instances,
especially as a kid and even in college, where I would just like
zone out. I would be forced into a zone out, and then I
would zone out, and then you know, when you come back in from
zoning out, you're doing the same thing. This time I wasn't. So
when I had zoned out, I was painting my tone nails, and when
I snapped back from the zone out, I was already chugging nail polish remover,
which like is not safe obviously, right, So I threw it on
the ground and I screamed, and my parents were right there, and I
ran over to them, and I was like, Mom, Dad, help,
I don't know what's happening. They couldn't hear me, they couldn't see
me. It was like I wasn't even there. At first, I thought
they were ignoring me, and I was like, why aren't you responding to
me right now? And they just like didn't acknowledge that I was even there,
Like they literally could not hear or see me. And that's it's interesting
because that's the exact same thing that happens in the upside Down on Stranger Things.
Yeah, I don't think I've ever had an experience it's like that one.
Yeah. I still am looking for answers for it, honestly, because
I mean, even just recently, I've started to get some kind of answers.
So I are you familiar with the Acousha records. Yes, sure,
So the Acoshic records also hold like our soul blueprints if you're aware of that
concept. Beautiful. So I did a soul blueprint restoration. I'm actually getting
certified and soul blueprint restoration as well because of my experience with this. So
I had a soul blueprint restoration from this lifetime and the practitioner asked me,
like, something when you were six years old corrupted your soul blueprint. It
corrupted the code of the soul blueprint. What was what happened when you were
six? And I was like, the only thing that I can think of,
I thought I was five, but it was, you know when I
literally just what I described as slipping dimensions and stuff like that. And she
was like, it was that. So I'm still looking for answers there.
I have some interesting theories regarding it, but I'm definitely trying to pick it
out. We could talk about that perhaps another time. Then that was that
the theory we were that you were just discussing before. That's another one.
Oh, I can hire you wait up to hear more. So, UM,
how did you take being detached like that the way the way you did,
or or going into another state of mind? Um? How did it
go from there to being able to see or sense for other people? Um?
So that's a really good question, honestly, I think the answer to
I mean, I have so many theories on things just because I'd looked for
answers to all of this and nobody had answered. So I was like,
I know, I'm not just making this up. You know. So I
started kind of just piecing together the puzzle on my own, and that I
guess started probably I don't know, I want to say, like my teenage
years. And I definitely think it had a lot to do with trauma.
And I feel like that that's like a theory that I had working with it
as well. It's like trauma can be like a partner. It's been my
experience over my career. UM, anyone that does this work, UM,
we all have in common that that common denominator we come from a traumatic background
and often early in life. That that's what I've noticed. UM, I've
noticed the really good ones, the more traumatized, usually the better, the
better you are in this work. It's it's part is part of the training
for the job. And if you don't become a narcissist, you become an
EmPATH. So the ones that do our work, we we we go through
that trauma and we become empathic. Absolutely. Yeah, that's exactly where I
am kind of piecing together theory as well. But I concur on all of
the assertions you've just made. It really started regarding some trauma, and I
didn't know what was happening with me. I thought I was just getting you
know, angry or whatever. It turns out my energy was literally just rejecting
other people's energies. And I didn't know that me being in a massive public
space was me just picking up so many people's energies. I thought I had
mechanic disorders and I didn't know how to manage it. I didn't know what
was going on. Nobody had answers for me. So I was really just
like, I don't know what's happening with me. And I again went for
a degree in psychology, and when I had, you sought out treatment for
excellent, like ten years, and nobody had answers for me. Nothing was
helping. My doctor was like, we don't have any medication. I was
like, I can't help but think maybe it's not mental illness, Like maybe
there's not something wrong with me here because nothing you can do can help me.
Okay, So I got so unwrapped in in what you were saying relating
preparing how I went through. You know, I completed Grade eight um and
one semester of Grade nine. Then I lived on the street. Um so
um, I'm comparing how I dealt with that outside world the way you did,
and it's very very different. I just knew that I was intuitive and
I was supposed to do psychic things. Um, and I didn't go down
that h academic road. You went down the academic road looking for for for
for the the answers, Yeah, I think a lot of that has to
do with like my family and my own course. By the way, thank
you. Um, yeah, I wasn't. I mean, I'm glad that
I rooted back here, but I think it's important everybody has different experiences for
absolutely, and I think that this happened, you know, this was my
path because I, you know, was meant to get to the other side
here and then help other people that might be stuck along the way. You
know, because with my upbringing and with my family and everything like, it
was just kind of expected that I went to college. It was like,
it wasn't like what do you want to do after high school? It was
like, where are you going to college? And I was like, well,
I don't even know what I want to do. So I mean it
was kind of just that was the route, and I had, you know,
followed it. I played the game for so long and then I was
in law school when I was like, wait, why am I even doing
this? This is awful? Like I wasn't always an artistic kid. I
was always very intuitive, Like I didn't know that it was intuition because everybody
around me had kind of gasol at me and been like, nope, you
have problems, and I was like, okay, I just had problems.
So I just had been told to shut down every part of me. When
did you start doing like in looking at people and giving them information, guidance,
direction. When did you start doing that? Probably I think I was
twenty three, so two years ago. Oh, consciously doing that? Because
certainly because certainly before that, yeah, consciously, And that's when I first
realized that that's what I was doing. And okay, all right, So
when did you first start doing what? You weren't conscious that you were doing
that you became conscious. When do you think you started that? Definitely childhood.
I was definitely saying things to people in childhood, and I think it
was in trouble Yeah oh yeah, oh did you Yeah, me too?
Okay, can you remember any of those? I mean a lot of it
resonates from the church experiences when I would say things that would just be like,
what are you talking about, you know, and it was just like
an intuitive kind of a download type of thing. But even a lot of
it, I think is sensing a lot of other people's emotions. I'm really
really I have to try to not I have to try to not pick up
on people's emotions. Like I can feel things as other people feel them.
I literally think things like I can literally tap into people's thoughts. But it's
not intentional. I don't know how to control that yet. I'm still working
on it. Well, when you find that answer, would you let me
know, Yeah, it's a lot, Okay, would you share that one
with me? Because because that is that is you know, classic for us,
and and it just happens where it is like not hearing, you know,
when we're walking down the street when we have hearing, you know,
and it's it. Sometimes you just can't lock it. I get affected in
crowds, and I also get affected. You know. One time I was
at a Simply Read concert years and years ago, and it was a beautiful
concert. I used to really like that band, and the singer and the
and the keyboard player hated each other's guts or they were having this horrible fight
because the energy between them on stage was so intense and angry. It interfered
with my feeling about about the concert itself, and I couldn't get that sort
of aftertaste away. That's that's what it was like. Yeah, And I
totally understand with that. And I feel like it's one of those things where
you had said a lot of us, we don't know how to not do
that. It just is like that. That's because that's what we are.
Yeah, It's like not seeing big sponges or like big radio receivers with just
like a super wide antenna. Yeah, something like that. Um, and
some of us, some of us can use it for helping others, and
some of us UM use it to to learn the darker sides of life or
get hurt or or or and stay in that stay in those places to you
know. Um. So it was about two years ago that you started doing
reading, but you must have been doing readings with terror and things like that
just a little before twenty three. So I had a tarot deck around nineteen.
I like dabbled, I dabbled a little bit. I really got like
fully into it when I was twenty three. So what deck do you like?
Or so I have a whole. Like, I have literally so many
decks right here. There's like probably thirty. My favorite is the Quantum Oracle.
I don't know if you're familiar with that deck. I'm not. I
don't, please, please please, but this one is my favorite. Okay.
So it's kind of similar in nature to the tarot where it has different
suits. There's no major arcana minor arcana though, so I'll show you if
you're interested. It has like all these different cards and they have different suits
of like events or intention or consciousness and spirit and cycle and I think there's
one for bowl energy. So it's got a lot of different like suits and
things like that. So it's kind of read similarly to the tarot um,
but a little differently in that nature. And I think it's I really like
the you know, original tarot deck and everything as well. I think they
give different aspects to questions and you can kind of get more in depth answers
with this one in regardless situations. And the Tarot's really great for kind of
piecing things together generally. Do you use a specific spread or have you invented
your wrong? You have to invented your wrong, you'd you're too independent to
be doing. I definitely am working on my own, like I tailor it
to the situation. Start with the Celtic cross, okay. And then and
then if I, um, you know, have different questions, I'll kind
of be like, all right, well here it is, okay. So
how did you get a tarot deck? Um? That's a really good question.
Honestly, I think I think I bought it myself when I was nineteen.
I was very I don't even remember how I got introduced to it,
but I remember being like, this is really interesting and I've you know,
seen things about this. Let me you know, let me see. So
are you more intuitively focused on the cards or are you more knowledgeably focused on
the cards? Because the terror is based on on many different sciences and and
studies, right, Um astrology, numerology, Um, uh the um,
I'm just just um astrology, numerology, UM, Greek mythology, I think,
UM, I think um Egyptian and um the Jewish Kabbala? Is that
correctly? Is there anything else? So? I Egyptian hieroglyphics as well?
Yeah? Are you? Are you? And I guess leaning towards more of
how I interpret them? Or yes? Do you do it? Bye?
By like I know people who study the meaning of the cards, you know,
when they become experts on the meaning of the cards. And I know
people like me that when I did that, I just put them down.
I didn't know what they meant, and I would just look at them.
So what area do you fit in? I think I've done both. I
think my area and like my path kind of in things. I think it's
really interesting that I have the more like scientific kind of academia background, because
I still have that part of me that like has that analytical you know,
what does this mean? What is this supposed to be? But also that
intuitive piece that I like merge together. You are the new era. Yeah,
you are the new generation. So you're doing doing all these things the
new way. It's fabulous to see. Thank you very much. I I'm
glad it's interpreted that way too. I kind of just was like, what
works for me, you know what I know other people it can totally be
done so many different ways, but for me, this is what makes sense.
And because I had been on that academic road for so long, I
need that part of my brain to understand things. And that's how I had
to like translate the intuition I had always felt but never knew it was that,
and then the academia that never fully made sense, but like merging them
together, I'm like, I get it. Wow, that's that's that's really
that's really powerful. So, um, when you're doing readings, what type
of things are you focused on? Is there an area that you are particularly
good in or or or are you drowned all areas. I'm drawn to all
areas, honestly, and it pretty much depends on who I'm reading for and
what kind of their question. Is a lot of general readings which I find
very interesting, and I read tarot as like a big I explain, it
always is like a big puzzle. So when I do the Celtic Cross or
whatever it may be, I go card by card and I'm like, this
is one piece of the puzzle. So I'm gonna, you know, interpret
this one piece of the puzzle, and then this next piece of the puzzle
and how it relates to the first, and then keep going and building on
that, and then we cycle back and kind of look at the entire puzzle.
Wow, Okay, that's so, and that entire puzzle would be the
reading. Okay, I was trying to say that where that person's at and
where where they're going and where they've been totally okay, and so departs of
the puzzle are the issues that that they're dealing with. Is that? Is
that how you're thinking? Okay, yeahs present, future, the aspects,
what the lesson you know, what is their energy about, what is their
you know, hop spheares, the outcome all of that like kind of just
the whole collaperation. Okay, Well that's interesting. I use I don't use
a medium per se um. So so when when I do readings, I
just I just sit down. Inevitably, I just start to talk and I,
you know, I tell the person where I'm going to talk about and
then and then it's a monologue throughout the whole session. But but I do
have a structure and and there are I have an area that I talk about,
and there's things and I and I and I add live through that that
time, um, and then I go to the next level and to the
next level. UM. Similar to to how you're doing it, but but
but differently again coming from a different way. I do by instinct and and
you've done it by you you know, your your mental abilities and your psychic
abilities. That's why I was saying, wow, so, um, what
how do you take this awareness and these skills and then become a TikTok influencer.
That that's the That's the one that that that I've addressed in too,
like how does that happen? And and and and and and One of the
reasons that Michelle and Kayla you know, wanted you to, um, you
know, be on with me is so that you can explain this so that
I can grasp it. That's really the reason. Totally, um, thank
you for that. I so again, like I mentioned, it really wasn't
ever my intention to kind of have this following. Of course, you know,
it's nice and that would be you know, very cool, and it
is one hundred percent awesome that I'm able to reach the people that I'm able
to reach. But going into it, I think the reason that it worked
for me, I always think of things in kind of like a formula kind
of a way. I think like the formula was just literally my genuine authenticity
of like, I'm so interested in this and I'm trying to understand, and
I think it's relatable for a lot of people because a lot of people have
been kind of shoved down this academic path and had these intuitive abilities, had
these insights, and then they were shut down. And I'm trying to,
you know, merge the two. I'm trying to understand how they can both
coexist, because I mean the same thing if you think about even string theory,
for example, and there's like, oh, well this doesn't work and
that doesn't work, and that's why it's not the theory of everything because there
are those little caveats. So I'm like, you can't just have an entirely
you know, intuitive world, and you can't just have an entirely like academic
world. They merged, So I think I think the formula for why it
worked for me was really just like the authenticity of me just being like,
what's going on, you know, like, let's let's look into this.
So I try to explain the spiritual and more psychic practices with the academia because
I think a lot of people have just kind of been shoved down that path
too, and they're also very curious the Okay, so I listened. I've
been listening to every single single thing that you've said, and the things that
you're talking about are the exact same issues that we were dealing with fifty years
ago as well, only not so much the academic part and and people that
did this kind of work. We're nowhere near as evolved as knowledgeable or educated
as you. But but these were the very issues that we were dealing with
when when, when, when doing readings and meeting with people, it's the
same ones that you're talking about right now. It's astonishment. That's so interesting,
And yeah, I think we're getting closer. I think if you think
of it as like the Fibinaci spiral, where it's like not like we're going
in circles, but we're going in circles on a lower like another layer and
then another layer. We're getting closer. The difference is that we can talk
about it now, and the difference is that we're becoming mainstream or more so
main strength. That's that's the difference. So what do you do on TikTok
then, so it can't be it can't be that complicated on TikTok is so
what they're Honestly, it definitely depends. I guess where the person is coming
from and their level of understanding with this, because I've had a lot of
feedback that it's either very complicated and it's like some people are just like I
literally can't follow what you're saying, or some people are kind of on par
with Oh, I thought that too, So a lot of it. It
actually really started and my biggest video it ended up on like World Star and
all of these tabloids and stuff like that, But it was regarding the CIA
declassified documents. So I stuck my nose really far in the CIA to classified
documents regarding Project Stargate, and Project Stargate is the CIA's declassified now project regarding
psychic abilities and all of that. Okay, so how how did you do
all that in in the TikTok Um video. So what I essentially would do
is I would, you know, off the video, I would go into
the database and search Project Stargate and whatever topic I wanted to find, like
telepathy or um like anything like that. I would find a document to talk
about, and then I would go in. I would annotate the document,
and then I would use it as a green screen for the background of my
video where I was like, hey, look at this, and then we
would talk about the document. Okay, yeah, okay, all right,
well I I I I understand the concept of what you're doing. It's certainly
it's certainly um more evolved in the way that that that that I have I've
done it so far. Um, this is this has been one of the
most fascinating, exciting and enlightening conversations that I've had. And one of the
things that is really special is I know now the future, um, the
young generation coming up, You're you're representative of it, and you know you're
you guys are going to do a great job. Wow. I feel so
proud of what you're doing. Thank you, Thank you for doing what you
do. Thank you. Honestly, like it's I always I don't know.
If you're familiar, you're probably familiar with the Dolores Cannon Three Waves of Volunteers.
No, no, okay, so you would love, you would love.
You have to check it out. There's books and then there are YouTube
snippets if you want to kind of get a feel for it. But Dolores
Cannon did a lot of work with hypnotherapy and regression and a lot of the
people that she had done sessions with talked about this concept of the three waves
of volunteers. So basically, there are three generations of people like us that
have been you know, incarnated here doing this work. And it's why,
you know, I never found my peace with you know, like law school,
or I never found my piece with you know something else that like it
just never fit. It wasn't the right puzzle. And it's because I feel
like my purpose now I'm understanding at twenty five is this work. And I
this is the most on path I've ever felt. And as I'm staying more
and more down this path, the more and more things just keep falling in
my lap with like, hey, you were looking for this, and I'm
like, yes, I was looking for that. So I think there's the
concept of different generations here to all kind of pave the way for the same
work. You know, well absolutely and dig down we do the same work.
And um, it's really been fascinated and talking with you. Um UM,
I understood, Um, I understood just about everything, well related to
just about everything, except for on the educational part. For me, um,
reading and writing has been very difficult, and I didn't learn to read
and write until I was in my lateeen So I was about nineteen or twenty
when I actually started to read, um like words, So so UM,
I survived on my instinct, in my intuition, and I lived on the
street, you know, as a teenager fifteen sixteen or fourteen fifteen, surviving
on my insects and psychic ability. So the parts that that are different in
your era is the education and the knowledge that you bring, which is wow
wow, I think, thank you. I think it's so interesting too how
we can have such different paths but get to like the same end result.
And I think, like I mentioned, I think it's all for helping to
translate to other people, you know, because a lot of people could relate
with my story, but a lot more people could relate with your story,
and there's just different avenues to get to the same end result. And I
think it's interesting where I definitely have the theory that I'm working on, and
it's actually like a theory of reality of like how this reality works. That's
a really interesting thought. Don't tell me more about that new reality that you're
working on. Yeah, So the theory of reality that I'm working on,
it pretty much has been accumulation of almost case studies, if you want to
call it. That. I have that background in psychology that was like one
way, you know, people can research because a lot of the times you
can't just make these things happen in experiments because they're very random. And I
mentioned previously I went into the ciat classified documents. That's one of the things
from Projects our Gate that they talk about as well, where it's like you
often can't replicate the circumstances required for these events to take place. Were you
allowed to do that the CIA document like like did you get permission or did
you just like manifest yourself there or something, or like what happened? So
it's actually it's actually like a set of declassified documents according to the Freedom of
Information Act because it's yeah, because it's like taxpayer dollars that pay for it,
and you found that and you did you really you did that? Yeah?
Yeah, so they I actually didn't really, I don't even know how
it kind of came up, Like I think initially I was working remotely and
this is around the time that the Pentagon release information about okay, the UFO,
So I was like, well, what else has been released as info?
Like I don't know, So I searched, you know, like declassified
the government documents, and that's how I stumbled into the reading room and then
upon searching psychic phenomena, I found out that they had ant higher absolutely an
entire project called Project Stargate where they studied all of the psychic information. Well,
I did that psychic work with the security service in the RCMP. Oh
yeah, I didn't know that. Of course you wouldn't know that. We
didn't talk about it. I know. It's interesting though. I love that.
How was that? Oh, you're it's more important with you. We
can we can talk about me another time. This is this is your more
so so, And I'm not dismissing you. I actually just you know,
everybody knows you know here sees me every way. You're the story today.
All right, um, so um, what's your concept of the new reality
or what's your new reality concept? So? Um? As I mentioned,
I was using pretty much case studies of my personal experiences only for um continuity
across all of like the background of all of the the constants I guess being
me and my experiences in my belief system and everything are the same. So
it does actually touch upon some work that It's interesting because I academically have no
business knowing any of this, but I've gotten like a lot of intuitive downloads
and things just kind of piece right together. So it's a lot having to
do with explaining the glitches and explaining how the glitches in reality work. If
you've ever heard the term like that's a glitch in the matrix, yes,
I have. So I've had many a glitches in the matrix, and I
can you tell me share one? Yeah? So actually, okay, yeah,
so the first one being actually probably the biggest one that I had ever
experienced. This is when I was atheist and I was at probably the lowest
point in my life. Like I was at work one day just like crying,
and I was, you know, ready, I was like I hate
it, Like I don't know what's going on. And I was alone because
it was like a shitty day. And I was a shift manager at an
ice cream store, so I was there working by myself. And then all
of a sudden, well, we had Pandora Radio. And this was like
twenty fourteen, so that's an important note. It was like twenty fourteen we
had Pandora Radio, which is a radio station that back in the day,
you couldn't put on specific songs, you couldn't repeat songs, you couldn't go
back. I really only had power to turn on the radio and then potentially
pick like a seventy station or an eighty station, but there was no like,
you know, nothing I programmed, right. It was just kind of
like the genre of the playlist. So I've worked there about two years at
this point, and I was there, Like I mentioned, it was a
really slow day, and I was just like crying, and I was thinking
about how people all the time get you know, I've heard stories of people
that have miracles and all of these signs and whatever. So I was like,
you know what, not for nothing. I feel like if I were
to ever have a sign, like if I ever like I didn't really believe
in anything at this point, and I was like, well, I you
know, I wish I believed in something so that that could happen. And
then all of a sudden, the next song that came on the radio was
my field good song, which was Build Me a Buttercup. And it was
my field because I did some volunteer work with Mothers Against Drunk Driving and I
was a I was a project coordinator and I helped kind of organize the event
and we worked with earlier high school kids and basically helped with you know,
victims of you know, drunk driving crashes and working with the families and then
helping to promote kind of you know, just being authentic and being a good
person and things like that. So it was really fun and it gave me
like that wholesome vibe because we had done a flash mob to build me up
Buttercup at that camp, so it kind of reminded me of that in that
moment. It just like shot me back to all of those like kids had
such good intentions and such pure vibes, and I was like, oh my
god, like if I literally passing thought in my head. I was like,
wow, if that could play for an hour straight, I would literally
be okay. And then like again, I was an atheist, So I
just went back to work and I was like, that can't happen. Whatever,
So I started scooping ice cream again, and then after that song ends,
it comes back on and then again and then again, and I watched
the clock and it was for an hour straight, and I was sitting there
and I was like, I get chills every time I say it. But
I was like, okay, So something heard that because that was a thought
and I had worked there for at least two years at that point, and
I'd never even heard a song repeat once. What happened a glitch? A
glitch in the matrix, I don't know, And how did that affect where
you were at? And then did it change the direction where it happened after
that or was it just a glitch? So in that moment, it was
really just a glitch, and that glitch like pretty much like save my life
right then at that point, like I was very very in need of some
kind of a sign, some kind of a hey, like it it'll be
okay, you're here, how we're okay? So so from that step,
what was this next one? From there? The ice cream store? Or
just was that how do you mean? Well, when that glitch happened,
you you you stop, you had that awareness? What was the next step
after that awareness? Um? Well, in that exact moment, it was
definitely some like happy crying and I was like, oh my god, I
don't know what's going on, Like that's crazy, that's literally my thought.
That so, I mean not pretty much shattered my entire worldview right there,
because I was like I was so sure there was nothing. I was so
sure I was an atheist. I was so sure, you know, this
was it, and then in that moment, I was like, oh,
okay, like something happened in accordance to my thought. So then it pretty
much took a very slow like snowball effect after that. So it was just
like in that moment, I was still, you know, early in college,
and I had been looking for answers at right after that, but at
the time this was like around twenty fourteen, and it wasn't even that long
ago, but even still there were no answers really when I looked and nobody
had answered, So I was like, all right, I'm going to keep
this in the back of my mind and then like maybe I'll find out eventually.
So I had started, you know, dipping my toes into like tarot
cards and manifestation and like kind of like researching these phenomena and snowball effect right
here, Okay, that's actually what I was asking. Yeah, that was
that was the answer to the question that that I was asking. How did
that affect you? And how did it affect the direction your life was going?
And I think it changed it profoundly, so not immediately, but yes,
after. So it's actually kind of funny because I can imagine. I
mean, and I am sure you're aware of the concept of spirit guides and
things like that. Oh I've heard of those, so okay, love it.
So I believe I know a little bit about that. Yeah, yeah,
I believe in you know, spirit guides are my higher self or whatever,
um, whatever you want to call it. I think it's all like
a potato tomato situation, whatever I want to call it. And um,
there's just you know, there is more than we can see that's like helping
us out. So I think it's funny and I like to illustrate kind of
the direction that my life took, especially right after that, as an analogy
of playing like a game of bowling with bumpers, because it's like I went
this way and then it was like no, and I went this way and
it was just like I went like really crazy and then eventually it evened out
right in the middle. And here I am, now I want moments a
gang. I'm not quite sure what to say. Yeah, it's I mean,
I like analogies like that. It just kind of I like to um,
kind of give it a good visual. A lot of times I found
that a lot of people whoever's like listening or whatever. If they haven't had
an experience like that, it's hard for them to kind of empathize what that's
like. So I like to use kind of analogies to give it that imagery.
But yeah, I really was still in college, and I mean at
the time, they didn't have you know, a study for you know,
psychic phenomena paranormal thing. So I ended up going with psychology. And then
after that I was still like I don't know what I want to do.
And then I ended up going to law school because of this whole event that
happened there because I was like, I don't know what to do. And
then after a year of law school, I had like not like a glitch,
but it was pretty much a very obvious, like roadblock where it was
like hey, stop, Like I had something that happened that in the entire
history of the law school, probably definitely over a hundred years old, they
had never had a circumstance like this, and they were like, we don't
know what to do. Would you care to share it? Yeah? Sure,
yeah, sure. So I was there on almost a full ride,
like I mentioned earlier, and that's only significant because I wasn't taking out that
much in loans, like I was doing it because I was like, okay,
well I can do it. You know, I'm getting some scholarship help,
like perfect, it's going well. I had to take out some money
for living expenses because Boston is crazy. And it was the second semester of
my first year one l of law school, and I sat down for my
very first exam of that series of that semester. And for reference, I
had five exams, each of them because I had accommodated testing because I was
diagnosed with ADHD for you know, accommodated timing stuff like that. They it
was at least I think it was like five hours for each exam period that.
So we would sit down and each exam was a five hour exam for
me because of accommodated timing. And in law school, at least my law
school, we didn't have any grades besides the final, so your entire grade
depended on that one exam. So that's awful to begin with. But anyhow,
so we didn't have any frame of reference as to how my professor tested.
We had like you know, past exams and stuff like that, but
I had never you know, been familiarized directly like that. So we sit
down, we take I take the exam, and the procter had come over
and she was like, Stephanie PURLINI this is your exam. And I was
like, okay, perfect, and you know, me being anxious, I
was waiting for the second she said go so I could flip it and start
going because I needed every second because it was so much. So I did
that and my professor was like, I can't tell you what will be on
it, but I can tell you there will be no multiple choice. So
after doing a two and a half hour essay for this class, I flip
it and then the next thing I see is multiple choice. So I was
like, that's not good. So I keep flipping like erratically, and I
looked to the very front and there was like tiny print under my name and
it was like the other professor's name for same class. So I was like,
that's not good. Yeah, So they had handed me an exam with
my name on it and the other professor's class section. It was the other
section of Constitutional laws exam, which doesn't maybe seem like a big deal except
for the fact that again it's the only grade I get in that class.
It is my professor the one that I should have had the exam for.
He was the one that wrote the book that we were studying from, so
he was very well versed. And we read different cases, different types of
concepts about the same thing, and the multiple choice was very specific to the
cases we didn't have to read, so it was a lot. And they
basically were like, we don't really know what to do because this hasn't ever
really happened. And I was like, okay, well I don't know.
And then they were like, okay, just try to finish the exam and
I was like all right, So I did that, and then afterwards basically
they were like, Okay, we're going to work it out with the professor
that you know, we can figure some out, like some grading system,
because again I was there on scholarship and I had to maintain a higher GPA
than just like the minimum because I needed that scholarship. So that was the
highest weighted class that I was taking at the time, not to mention my
best subject. So I took it pass fail. I did pass it,
but the thing is I only got like the credit to pass. I didn't
get any weight towards my GPA. And then they were like, okay,
well, I mean, well, you can do it past fail like that,
like, which I decided to do because I did have five full exams
of that, like twenty five hours of exams in addition to the studying required
for that, so it's just too much. I was like, I literally
can't take another exam right now, not to mention it wouldn't be graded with
my peers anyway, it's kind of the same thing, so I can't,
so I'll just do it past fail. And then I asked the dean and
I said, well, what would happen if I you know, I literally
said what would happen if I just came so close to my scholarship requirement,
like like literally so close. And she was like, Oh, don't worry,
We'll help take care of that. If it happens, I lost my
dollarship I point zero one GPA credits, and I asked the dean immediately because
I got a scholarship letter saying it was being revoked. So I asked her
and I was like, hey, you said that you would help with this,
and she was like, yeah, I don't know. You could try
emailing financial aid. So I mean, in that moment, I was very
like disgusted, where I was like, you guys kind of screwed me here,
and then I have to be the one begging for the scholarship back,
like there really should have been no reason that that even happened in the first
place. So I was just like, really the unwillingness, and I kind
of sat there and realized and I was like, wait, I hate this
anyway, Like I don't want to do this anyway, and you quit stop?
Yeah, I did. Honestly, it was like it had to.
I thought about it, and I was like, you know what, it
almost had to happen that way though, where it was like some kind of
like a little injustice to show me again where it's like, hey, you
don't even like this. And I realized in that moment, I was like,
wait, I'm doing this for society, because society told me this is
what success is. My parent you know, everybody told me this is what
you should do. This is success. So I was like, wait,
I actually hate this, So why would I, you know, make myself
miserable for another two years in addition to a lifetime of work of course for
this. So yeah, what what you what you did is you learned as
much about the law as you wanted to learn. UM, and you you
you learned how to what it feels like when you're doing something you don't want
to do. So it was it was a you know, a really great
experience. Successful. Yeah. Yeah, No, I totally agree that everything.
I think that everything, um there is there is a lesson in everything
if you find it, you know what I mean. Like, I'm not
saying that every experience totally, I'm not. People always see it sometimes where
I'm not saying I'm justifying, you know, trauma, I'm not saying I'm
justifying shitty things. But if something shitty happens, you can either look at
it glass half empty is oh this is shitty, or you can choose to
see the glass halfl and be like, I understand something here, so let
me take this forward and move forward. That's exactly right. That's once again
another moment of how can you know this? You're much too young to know
this. That's incredible. I'm wow, it's it's I'm I'm I'm so besides
being um, a young wise person, besides being that, um, what
other things do you do? Um? Do you do? You are your
readings like like the way you speak now. Yeah. So one interesting thing
about my reading. So I do have a store that I started a few
years ago when I started my TikTok channel. It really kind of started because
I was just making kind of jewelry and crystal things for myself and I was
posting just me making them, and people were like, wait, I love
this, I want to buy this, And I was like, oh wait,
really, like maybe I would. I could sell these like these are
cool, and I thought that was really interesting and different. So I got
a lot of encouragement on that. So I ended up starting a store where
I sell you know, jewelry, crystals, herbs and things like that,
and I started doing readings for clients and stuff. So it's really interesting because
a lot of times when I do my readings, I find that a lot
of things come out channeled and I don't even know that I'm doing it where
I just I'm reading the cards as I normally would, and then it kind
of just pops in as like a thought of something and then I say it.
But I realize after I say it, I'm like, that's not how
I would normally say that, Like I wouldn't say it in that wording at
all. So then I asked them and I'm like, does that phrasing mean
anything to you? And they're like, yes, it does, and I'm
like, got it all right. So a lot of times it's just like
channel okay, UM, I've noticed that, um, you're pricing has interesting
numbers to them. Are you a study or of numerology? By any chance?
I find numerology very interesting and it mostly started with, you know,
seeing the synchronistic numbers all the time, and for me that was a really
big indicator that you know, you're on the right path. And I think,
I think that there's totally different ways of interpreting the numbers, numerology,
angel numbers, whatever you want to call them. But um, yes,
I do follow and subscribe to the meanings behind the numbers and everything, which
is why I followed that pricing on my website. It was just something that
kind of resonated with my soul. Um, so I went with it.
And it's interesting. I actually have a one of my tattoos on my finger
here three three, Yeah, repeating numbers. There, there's some significance for
you with repeating numbers. What's what's the significance to you? Um? So
in terms of meaning, they have some kind of effect on you. You
know, for sure earlier on one one one in our right as three three
three that you like, that was so much. It's on is on,
it's on you, so right, Yeah, So the numbers essentially it had
kind of just happened. It was very happenstance, where I mean, I
don't again I don't believe in coincidences, but it was at first I was
like, oh, that's really interesting. And then at some point I was
seeing them like numerous times a day, and it's not like I'm looking for
it. It's like I get a notification on my phone, I look down
and it's two too too, you know, like when I get that notification
or yeah, or like I see a license plate and it's seven seven seven,
or it's just like they're everywhere and it's not like I'm looking for them.
It's just like it's screaming at me. So I found it really interesting
because a lot of a lot of it. In the beginning I was just
like, Okay, well, what is what is this? I don't know
what to do with this? And then I realized, okay, well,
what was I just thinking about when I saw that or what was I just
doing when I saw that? And then I kind of you know, reverse
engineer it, so to speak. I kind of like, okay, I
saw one one one one, and then I was thinking this, okay,
so what does that mean? And then I'll look up like one one one
one, you know, something like that, and then I'll piece it together
where it's like, oh, you're on the right path. It's mostly like
an encouragement of hey, you know, you're right, good job. You
know. It's like almost like a like a I think, okay, here's
Have you ever seen the Hunger Games? The Hunger Games? Yeah? Yeah,
well, well wait a minute, I which one? What do they
do in the Hunger Games? And I probably know? So the Hunger Games
is where they basically pick tributes from each district and then they have to like
go in this arena and like kind of fight to the death. It's I'm
not that's not the reference I'm talking about, but that's okay, okay,
Oh no, I don't know that one. Okay. So essentially in the
movie, you know, they're in this arena like fighting, you know,
for the victory, and then they're, um, they're sponsors. They're like
watching the whole thing. So if they need something in the arena, the
sponsor can see it and they'll send something in and they might like in the
moment, the person that needs it might not even know that they need it,
and then they get it and it's like oh, And I think of
synchronicities like that where it's like your sponsors are like, hey, good job,
like right, okay, okay um, and how do you do your
mentoring um? So I really it focuses mostly on what the individuals kind of
needing at the time. So I really think it's important to kind of start
where each and every person is like that of course, where you know if
somebody's you know, not that there's like how did I describe it to somebody
once? It wasn't it. It's not like there's like levels of like this
is one, two or three. It's just like it's a whole puzzle.
So if you start in this corner, I know that next you're going to
need these pieces and then these pieces, and like it's kind of like working
outward into the middle of the puzzle. So if somebody's stuck on a concept
or they're like I just don't get this, or you know, could you
maybe show me some guidance, like what did you do here? It's always
kind of like, I'm definitely not telling you what's the way, because everybody
has their own way and there's totally different ways to go about everything. But
this is what worked for me. And based on what you're saying, have
you tried this? And then they'll be like, okay, let me check
that out. You are very evolved being you. I'm yeah, I'm kind
of speechless. You are wise for your years. What's your theory on manifesting.
I'm just curious about that. Dude, think that that's possible or do
you think, oh, yeah, yeah, manifesting. I totally believe that
manifesting is possible, and kind of how I mentioned, I don't think there's
just one way to do it. I think there's lots of different ways,
but essentially I think they're all if you take each and every formula so to
speak, of manifesting, and you boil it down to you know, the
rare I mean, the raw ingredients, the essentials of manifesting. It's pretty
much like your genuine desire for something and then your like will for it,
and then your ability to just kind of forget about it afterwards. You need
to like release it almost sort of like I use the analogy of a like
a waiter at a restaurant if you're ordering something. If you like order something,
you're like, hey, okay, i'd like this, and you have
to like let them, you know, go put it in. It's get
processed and then it comes back to you. But if you're incessantly like pulling
the waiter before he even to the kitchen, you're like, wait, but
I still want it, and he's like, I know, you give me
a second. And it's the ability to kind of separate yourself from that desire
and it's coming from a place of non attachment and like, you know,
it's not like a desperation like I need this because I feel like that Beacons
to the universe is like I don't have this, But it's more of like
a you know, that would be really cool, Like that would be really
cool if it happened. So I see manifesting as so you think, so
you are what you focus on. What you send out comes back. When
you send energy out, if you identify what it is you want, um,
the energy will will come back. It's it's like miracles are only miracles
until you know how to do them, and and and then it's not a
miracle anymore. It's it's something different, but it's not a miracle. And
and and the way you learn how to do miracles just you start with with
the little ones. Right, you don't you don't walk on water like like
that's the gold medal round out the Olympics, Right, you get that?
You know, you get that metal. Right, you stand on the podium,
you know they play the national anthem or whatever it is right for that,
that's what you get. So you don't start there. Um, you
start with learning how to always get a parking spot. Or you look at
which may not be a big deal in Rhode Island, but but it's but
it's certainly a big deal in a place like Toronto or New York or something.
Um so or and and or you can learn you can you you and
the way that you do it. It's simply if you believe it, you
can do it. It's not you want to believe it. It's if you
believe it, you can do it. So when you set a goal,
set it not for the highest what you really you know, your your greatest
dream, set the goal to the highest level of what you believe you can
do, then you will get it and then you can go more. So
I see manifesting as as focusing on something and it manifesting in front of you,
whatever that may be, whether it be money, whether it be an
experience, whether it be a place to live, whether it be a place
to fight, whatever it is. So you think, so you are like
that? Yeah, and oh sorry. And one of the things I point
out to people that are, you know, unconscious manifests, and I say
them, you know, hey, um, when I explained to them that
they are a manifestor. And then I say, when you find yourself in
a negative state, when you find yourself going through a really difficult time,
ask yourself the question what am I thinking about? And I bet you that
what you're thinking about is the problem that you're going through, And if you
just change your focus a few degrees, you'll also change what you're drawing to
you. Yeah, no, it's very true. I concur with that,
and I like that way that you just put it, because now that you
say that, I think about it. Where the thing that really pretty much
changed my whole life, even very recently, was being my own best friend
rather than like my own worst enemy. If you think about it, a
glass of water is like half full, where I see a lot of people
have a lot of hard time with this, and I think about it where
I mean, this glass is obviously more than half and I have a little
bit of lemon juice in here, but it's obviously a little more than half.
But if there's a glass of water that's half full, it's both,
you know, half full and half empty at the same time. It's just
your perspective that changes it absolutely, and both are correct, right, So
if you want to be your correct enemy, you can't. You want to
be your own best friend, you can. But I switched to being my
own best friend and like, you know, doing you know, supporting myself
and thinking like that, and then my whole life changed absolutely, and and
happiness UM is a conscious choice. So our instinct, though, uh is
we're hardwired to to um expect and focus on the worst case scenario. We're
hardwired for that. Now, now the reason we're hard and it's good in
some ways that we're hardwired for that, because that's what helped us evolve and
get out of the caves. You know, if you think of you know
the Flintstones, and you know, imagine Fred and Barney going out for uh,
you know, they're out hunting and they have this wonderful time and they
you know, they get you know, they catch some food and they have
a barbecue and and it's a fabulous time. And Barney gets up and goes
to have a drink water from the river. In a big crocodile eats Barney.
Um, if Fred only remembered the wonderful time they had before Barney got
eaten, then Fred's going to be next. If Fred remembers that, if
Barney that that what Barney did, then it's not going to happen to Frend.
So being hardwired for the worst case scenario has is important. But we
also have to learn, uh that we're in control of that hardwired and and
we have control over seeing from different different points of view we have to work
at. Yeah, it's really interesting that you say that because that's the book
that I'm working on right now, and that's the book I was literally just
working on before this call. Um. Really, yeah, that's the way
I think. Yeah, And it's it's very much about the same exact thing
where it's like that's our I call it default modem. That's like our brain's
default mode. You know. We were we are in that sense, a
product of our environment. We can't be something that we have never experienced.
We can only mimic behaviors. So like, if you know, like how
we were talking about earlier, with like dysfunctional relationships and stuff like that,
if you've never seen, you know, a healthy relationship, that's why people
fall into abusive relationship patterns literally and really why And you're like, you don't
get it, you know, you don't know it from their view. Yes,
And when we're doing our work, if we have never experienced something,
we won't be able to see it, identify it, explain it. So
if we've never been injured, we will never be able to sense it in
someone else. So everything that we do in our work is because we've experienced
something like it. So we have to have something, some kind of experience
to compare it to. Regardless of how that spirituality comes through, it's coming
through your being or or the medium's being, and the information coming through is
limited to the capacity of the medium. Yeah, I love it. Have
you ever heard of the book It's the Freedom of Freedom of Choice? No,
it's by doctor Thomas Chucko UM. He has it's like a PDF on
his website and it's like my donation UM. And it's really fast anating because
it was talking about the same thing too, where it's like the first example,
so to speak, is if there's a dog and the dog has,
you know, a million dollar diamond or a pile of dog poop in front
of it, Like, what's the dog going to pick the poop? Obviously,
like it's not going to be like the value in this diamond. It's
probably the book said, it will probably pee on the diamond because and the
jog will be perfectly happy about its choice because it doesn't know what it's you
know, it doesn't know the value of what it hasn't experienced. It doesn't
have a capacity. So it's like not that it's good or bad or worse
or better, it's just that it is. And everybody has a different level
of consciousness for this information where it might not resonate at the time, but
later down the road, Oh, I might understand, you know why.
So yes, So if you've never had an experience with something, there's nothing
in your brain to compare it to and you won't be able to identify it
and help that and get over it. Right. So that's why, um,
we light workers or whatever, we have such a broad um expanse of
experience. It's it's also part of the job. It's part of it,
right, I totally agree, And I think it's because, as I briefly
mentioned earlier, it really helps us be relatable, I guess for the people
that are potentially in the spots that we were stuck in, you know,
where we were able to be like, you know, I empathize and I
was there too, And because I think if we, like you mentioned,
if we just you know, started at the you know, heaven or whatever
and we were just like up here knowing all of this, it's an a
and not relatable and people don't understand. So it's like it's that bridge that
helps people like we throw that rope back over you know what I mean,
absolutely climbed out of there like you know, because we absolutely because because that's
because we were were doing it and working on at ourselves totally. Um.
You might also notice that the type of people you'll deal with will be When
when I was doing a lot of work on my UM, the sexual abuse
that I experienced as as a child. Um, and some of the things
I had to do on the street when I was working on that, just
about everybody who came to me for readings had had sexual abuse issues. Um
and and um I was about, you know, a page ahead of them
in the book. You don't need to be any farther ahead. So so
I was and and and I was learning by sharing the information that I had
learned. So um, there's always I've had experiences like that too, where
it's like I'm like, I just learned that, Like I just I just
absolutely now I can now I can help you get on the same page.
Yeah, that's right. You only have to be a page. You only
have to be a paragraph ahead of your students or your clients, Right,
that's so. And I also think it's like there's a I don't know the
word, I'm looking for a parable maybe, but it's like every you know,
every good teacher is also a student, like from every encounter, you
know what I mean. I really think that every single person I encounter,
every single situation, I think that there could be a lesson and I think
that I could always learn something. You know. It's like, oh,
like, did I learn you know, oh, like that showed me to
you know, like I don't know, have more compassion in this area or
consider it from a different perspective. We teach what we need to learn,
and when we have learned enough about what we're teaching, will go on and
teach something else. So I often say to people, if you want to
learn how to do something, teach it. Teach it and you'll learn.
You learn how to be it and how to do it. I like that
a lot. Yeah, well yeah, so so um, yeah, if
you want to learn how to do something, teach it because you only have
to be a paragraph I had. Yeah, you're the expert. And you
know what's an expert? You know, somebody from out of town with a
briefcase. Yeah, yeah, I like that. That's funny. It's true
though. I mean like these you know, quote unquote qualifications where I think
it's so interesting that I mean, even you know, people with degrees or
whatever. What does that mean? You know, like do you actually are
you actually an expert in the field or do you know what the textbook has
showed you? You know, do you know these real life examples you know
how to That's right. I think it's I think it's a whole lot different
dealing with somebody when you've read the experience in a book as opposed to going
through the experience in real life. I mean, I'm definitely not I'm not
like knocking educational learning for sure. I think that experiential learning is more crucial
honestly, Like you need to be able to understand and like, actually,
even if you're teaching yourself, you know what I mean, you actually need
to understand. And I always say sometimes where I'm like I knew that,
but I didn't understand, and like I intellectually knew it, but then when
it came up and I was able to apply it, I was like,
oh, like I get it, Like I get it now. Yeah,
So the next thing I have to ask and if I don't, uh,
Michelle yelled at me, Um, tell me about being a tik talk influencer.
That that is the right word, isn't it. Yeah. Again,
I definitely think it's influencer. It's it's interesting, especially with being in such
a niche as like spirituality or consciousness. It. Yes, Um, it's
definitely really interesting and I get lots of comments. I think would be one
of the most like it's obviously got upsides and downsides. I feel like everything
does. It's that duality, you know, you can't have one without the
other. That's where I say what we are one way, we are equally
the opposite totally. So it's interesting because yes, I absolutely have been able
to work with really cool institutions. I've gotten to interview with the Monroe Institute.
I was actually able to get them to release page twenty five. So
more about what tell me about your Like what what do you do on TikTok?
I M I'm being dragged along kicking and screaming to doing doing stuff on
TikTok? Like what do you do on TikTok? So um? Personally TikTok
is using. I have an array of videos. I guess there's some trend
videos where it has a specific audio and you kind of put your message to
the audio, and I do some of those, and then I do somewhere
I talk about documents and I have the green screen behind me. I use
somewhere I kind of just give some insight as like, oh this is you
know, here's my opinion that literally nobody asked for, like here it is
um. And then sometimes I respond to questions and then I'll be able to
like answer somebody's question like that. So there's like sing, So how do
you go from um, you know, I'm mid twenties, young woman from
Rhode Island in Rhode Island to a world influencer on TikTok How did how did
that miracle happen? Um? I honestly that was decently happenstance again, UM,
where I think it just maybe my message resonated. Maybe a lot of
people resonated. And the more that my videos get shared and commented on,
the more the algorithm boost it to more people. Um. And I I
actually am genuinely very surprised that my content has reached internationally the way that it
has. I have people joined my lives sometimes from like South Africa or m
Lebanon, like these these places where I'm like, that's I would never have
even thought that my content would reach you. Yes, and yeah, it's
literally everywhere, Like it's it's awesome. It's really cool. And the way
that much how much time do you do you spend on you TikTok? So?
Um? It depends. I I try to respond to my comments and
um questions and things like that because the interaction is also very important. Um
it's it's difficult, I guess with that aspect of I guess one of the
the not like downsides, but one of the least favorite parts of mine is
like fielding really not nice comments. Some people are pretty aggressive and very opinionated
in lots of ways, which is fine, but like, it's really interesting
that something I said trigger them so much. So it depends on like fielding
the comments. So I really try to get that balance. But on TikTok
generally, I don't watch too many TikTok's. I really post more than I
watch. But the posting videos, I'm pretty sure they're up to like three
minutes now. I heard that they're going up to ten. I don't have
that feature yet, and I think that's very excessive for TikTok for in my
opinion. But ten minutes you mean for time? You mean yeah, for
a time of a video. So it depends because video. For example,
if my videos three minutes long, I spend however long it takes me to
record it. I usually do multiple recordings. If I'm like, I didn't
love the way I said that here, so I'll do many recordings. I
do different drafts of them, and then I have to edit them, and
then I have to and like by editing. By editing them, I put
you know, some music to the background, and then I put captions on
it, and um different and things like that. So it can take a
decent chunk of time. UM. Yeah, it's interesting. But and um
with doing readings um, um, mentoring, um, using TikTok and your
mystical store. Um, You're you're making your living. And is it is
this what you want for your life? I don't know, honestly, Like
I think it is. I think it is, but I have this,
Uh, there's non attachment. I guess it's weird where you know, you
get to you know, learning about things in different perspectives and it's like I've
I find that it's it's really fun and I like it and I think it's
cool and it's very different than the lifestyle I was living even two years ago,
and I like it a lot. I'm writing a book now, working
on a theory, and I think this is the most on path I've ever
felt, the most in touch with myself I've ever felt, and I had
spent so long kind of looking for that. I'd spent so long. You
know, everybody else said I had to do it this way. So I
tried it this way because I was like, all right, yeah, you're
older than me, got it whatever. So I tried it and everything felt
misaligned, everything did not feel right. And there's times of course where like
I even recently it was my old co worker's birthday from my past corporate job,
and I had posted a video that we took at work. It was
like we were all kind of messing around doing like a like we had like
a bet going on. It was just like funny. So I miss of
course that capacity of just the you know, casual like Shenanigans. But I
also for my soul, this is what resonates with my soul one hundred percent.
I understand that. So why more thing? If people want to get
in took with you, how do they find her? Um, thank you
very much for asking that. So I have my TikTok channel. My name
on TikTok is Stephanie with a pH and then amber like the color Stephanie amber
seven kay, and my website also is Stephanie with a pH again for Leaney
dot com. I guess that's all it takes. UM. Thank you,
Thank you, thank you. This has been so much fun. This has
been really awesome. Thank you very much. It was such a pleasure speaking
with you and being on your podcast. So I hope, I hope everybody
likes the other side of the Crystal Ball. Wow, get out the oxygen.
What an amazing um guests we had tonight. Thank you for Stephanie,
for Leaney all the way from the wonderful state of Road Island. Thank you
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