WEBVTT 1 00:00:00.960 --> 00:00:08.519 Hey, hey, hey, I'm bad. Listen. This is something for 2 00:00:09.679 --> 00:00:14.720 many, many, many people. I want to tell you something. I'm 3 00:00:14.720 --> 00:00:19.320 not trying to hurt any feelings, but people are so lost and confused. 4 00:00:20.120 --> 00:00:29.600 I just need to tell you this. Beauty isn't a fix for inner suffering. 5 00:00:33.799 --> 00:00:38.119 You may not understand what I'm saying, but just stick with me. 6 00:00:38.759 --> 00:00:49.880 Beauty isn't a fix for inner suffering. A lot of people are caught up 7 00:00:50.159 --> 00:00:58.320 in looks, beauty, the way person, the way a person looks, 8 00:00:58.359 --> 00:01:07.760 the way a person body is shaped, different features. People are caught up 9 00:01:07.120 --> 00:01:19.879 in these things because of what society says. I've told you. Societies all 10 00:01:19.920 --> 00:01:26.000 around the world are made up of people like you, me them. They, 11 00:01:26.719 --> 00:01:33.640 all of us make up society, and the world is filled with more 12 00:01:33.760 --> 00:01:44.799 broken people than those who are not Those who are not broken, many at 13 00:01:44.799 --> 00:01:53.719 some point were, So you're listening to people who probably nine out of ten 14 00:01:53.799 --> 00:02:00.760 times don't even have themselves together. But that's who you're listening to. You're 15 00:02:00.799 --> 00:02:07.159 listening to a person who have a eating disorder. You're listening to a person 16 00:02:07.199 --> 00:02:17.919 who's depressed or suicidal. You're listening to a person who hate themselves. I 17 00:02:17.960 --> 00:02:22.960 mean, I can go on and on, So I think you get the 18 00:02:23.000 --> 00:02:30.639 point. Many of you. You're bleaching your skin or you're tanning your skin. 19 00:02:31.960 --> 00:02:38.319 You're having these bb l's, you're getting all these oversized boobs and butts. 20 00:02:39.719 --> 00:02:47.199 You're sticking this stuff in your chest for pecks. You're sticking crap in 21 00:02:47.240 --> 00:02:58.919 your stomach to get a six pack. You're plumping up your cheeks, your 22 00:02:59.000 --> 00:03:07.599 lips. You're even during surgery to change your eye color. It's horrible the 23 00:03:07.719 --> 00:03:13.000 things people are doing. Now. I can understand if you needed a surgery 24 00:03:13.039 --> 00:03:20.639 because your boots were super huge, that's not good for you. So I 25 00:03:20.759 --> 00:03:27.000 understand something like that. But to do those things bleaching your skin or teanning 26 00:03:27.080 --> 00:03:36.159 your skin because you think it's what society called beautiful, are pretty, that's 27 00:03:36.280 --> 00:03:43.599 nuts. You getting these bbls, risking your life because you think it's in 28 00:03:43.719 --> 00:03:49.840 the booty. It's all about the booty. Yes, you're gonna have people 29 00:03:50.080 --> 00:03:54.879 who're going to look because of immature minds. They think, oh my gosh, 30 00:03:55.240 --> 00:04:02.919 the butt, the boots, the body. That's immaturity. A mature 31 00:04:03.039 --> 00:04:10.400 person can appreciate a person who have a really nice body or a person who 32 00:04:10.479 --> 00:04:15.800 don't have a nice body. It depends on who the person is inside. 33 00:04:18.759 --> 00:04:25.720 Because you can be the most beautiful, but because your attitude is so terrible, 34 00:04:26.639 --> 00:04:31.879 nobody is looking at you. And then you could be a person who 35 00:04:31.920 --> 00:04:41.800 have nobody, but you're such a beautiful soul and everybody love you. So 36 00:04:41.879 --> 00:04:49.839 it depends. But because mindsets are unhealed and hearts are unhealed, people think 37 00:04:50.160 --> 00:04:57.839 beauty is what they need to be, or they think they have to be 38 00:04:57.959 --> 00:05:06.959 a certain skin tone or a certain size because society says that's what beauty is. 39 00:05:11.439 --> 00:05:16.879 But I'm here to tell you beauty isn't a fix for your inner suffering. 40 00:05:17.480 --> 00:05:25.720 It's not. You can get all of these things done, but you're 41 00:05:25.759 --> 00:05:31.079 still miserable because you're still you. I don't care if you get your skin 42 00:05:31.279 --> 00:05:38.920 lightened, you put in fake hair, you put in fake eyes, whatever 43 00:05:39.000 --> 00:05:48.000 you need to do, you're still you. You're still you. You're still 44 00:05:48.040 --> 00:05:54.240 dealing with that inner man, that inner woman. Because men do it too, 45 00:05:54.600 --> 00:05:59.040 Men get the soul ins that look real. I'm like wow, just 46 00:05:59.199 --> 00:06:03.480 like women. Men get their stomachs done, men get their pets done, 47 00:06:03.839 --> 00:06:12.879 they get their butts done, just like women. People want to point the 48 00:06:12.959 --> 00:06:18.199 finger at one species, but not the other when both male and females are 49 00:06:18.199 --> 00:06:28.600 doing it again, beauty is in a fix for your inner suffering. I 50 00:06:28.600 --> 00:06:33.279 don't care what you do, it's not going to change who you are on 51 00:06:33.319 --> 00:06:40.079 the inside. Money don't change it, titles, positions, none of that. 52 00:06:41.319 --> 00:06:45.000 It don't change who you are on the inside. You just take all 53 00:06:45.040 --> 00:06:51.399 of that stuff going on inside of you and you project it or you put 54 00:06:51.439 --> 00:06:59.439 it on other people. That's what projection is. You cause drama in the 55 00:06:59.480 --> 00:07:05.480 lives of other people, and most of all, yourself self inflicted pains is 56 00:07:05.519 --> 00:07:15.000 what a lot of people do. Self inflicted pain because of what you open 57 00:07:15.040 --> 00:07:19.319 yourselves to, what you allow in your lives, because you're so caught up 58 00:07:19.399 --> 00:07:28.279 on what society says that look good, that is the way a person supposed 59 00:07:28.279 --> 00:07:41.240 to appear. But you're taking that information from people who are like you, 60 00:07:41.360 --> 00:07:46.879 unheal hearts and minds, and a lot of people have died because of these 61 00:07:46.959 --> 00:07:53.040 things because you think it's you have to look a certain way or you have 62 00:07:53.079 --> 00:07:58.120 to build a certain size. So people have gone under the knife and end 63 00:07:58.199 --> 00:08:05.759 up dying, losing their lives trying to get these surgeries. I mean, 64 00:08:05.839 --> 00:08:16.759 it's just crazy. It's absolutely crazy and it's completely out of control. No 65 00:08:16.759 --> 00:08:22.000 matter how many people have died, people are still doing it. It is 66 00:08:22.160 --> 00:08:31.759 not the beauty, it is the heart and the minds of people. That's 67 00:08:31.759 --> 00:08:39.679 what it is. That's what you need to fix your mindset. You have 68 00:08:39.759 --> 00:08:43.120 to allow yourself to heal from whatever it is, whatever it is to make 69 00:08:43.200 --> 00:08:52.000 you think you're not beautiful the way you are, whatever it is. I 70 00:08:52.120 --> 00:08:56.559 don't have the biggest but I've never had the biggest. But I got enough. 71 00:09:00.039 --> 00:09:05.759 But let me tell you, I will never try to get any more 72 00:09:11.240 --> 00:09:16.759 because I don't care about people like that, meaning I don't care what you 73 00:09:16.879 --> 00:09:20.399 think of me. I love people, but what you think of me is 74 00:09:20.480 --> 00:09:26.000 not my problem. It's yours and I will not take on that burden from 75 00:09:26.080 --> 00:09:33.120 anyone. So what I have is not enough. Oh well, your loss, 76 00:09:33.840 --> 00:09:41.200 your loss guaranteed. You have to love your self enough not to care. 77 00:09:43.080 --> 00:09:46.919 I see people, I'm like, well, who are they? I'm 78 00:09:46.919 --> 00:09:52.200 not even gonna name this family, but everybody look like they bleached their skin. 79 00:09:54.320 --> 00:10:03.519 I'm like, how can you even think people can't see that everybody in 80 00:10:03.559 --> 00:10:11.200 the whole family have bleached their skin, look like It's ridiculous. It's ridiculous. 81 00:10:11.399 --> 00:10:18.320 You look crazy, You look crazy, bleaching yourselves and changing your faces. 82 00:10:18.519 --> 00:10:31.480 You look crazy. God still recognize you as a broken People are doing 83 00:10:31.639 --> 00:10:35.879 just way too much, too much. You're running off, you know, 84 00:10:37.039 --> 00:10:43.080 and doing these surgeries and taking this medication and this and that. When you 85 00:10:43.320 --> 00:10:50.399 need to be dealing with your inner man, your inner woman. That's what 86 00:10:50.440 --> 00:10:56.240 you need to be dealing with. Because if you fix that, your mindset 87 00:10:56.399 --> 00:11:01.960 changes. When you heal from whatever it is that's ailing you, that has 88 00:11:03.159 --> 00:11:09.840 you in that negative mindset, everything changes. You don't care what people say 89 00:11:09.840 --> 00:11:13.720 about you. You love the skin you in. You love the body you're 90 00:11:13.759 --> 00:11:18.440 in because let me tell you, if you're too little, you can always 91 00:11:18.480 --> 00:11:24.919 gain weight. If you're too big, you can always lose weight always. 92 00:11:24.200 --> 00:11:31.799 It's all about what you do to your body. If your nose is too 93 00:11:31.840 --> 00:11:37.840 big, hey, that's what God gave you, that's what you came into 94 00:11:37.879 --> 00:11:41.799 this world with. Embrace it. I can see if you had a nose 95 00:11:41.879 --> 00:11:48.039 on your forehead, or if you had an ear on your face, you 96 00:11:48.159 --> 00:11:54.360 got three ears. That's a different story. That's an app normality. But 97 00:11:54.519 --> 00:11:58.480 just because you don't have a butt as big as someone else, or boobs 98 00:11:58.480 --> 00:12:09.559 as big as someone else. You should you should not feel less than or 99 00:12:13.279 --> 00:12:20.480 You shouldn't lack confidence or self esteem because of that. Somebody always gonna look 100 00:12:20.519 --> 00:12:26.000 better than you, Somebody always gonna be more shapier than you, Somebody always 101 00:12:26.039 --> 00:12:30.960 gonna be smaller than you. Someone is always gonna be larger than you. 102 00:12:33.279 --> 00:12:37.080 Just love you, be yourself, Be the best you that you can be. 103 00:12:39.200 --> 00:12:43.279 You cannot be the best you that you can be by remaining the same, 104 00:12:43.960 --> 00:12:50.039 by listening to people who are worse off mentally than you. You cannot 105 00:12:50.039 --> 00:12:56.679 be the best you can be by putting any and everything in your body. 106 00:12:58.240 --> 00:13:03.200 You just can't. So the one that you need to be concerned about is 107 00:13:03.240 --> 00:13:11.799 yourself. Getting your mind right, because when you do, I promise you, 108 00:13:11.799 --> 00:13:16.919 you're not thinking about what everybody else is saying. You're not thinking about 109 00:13:16.039 --> 00:13:22.879 what everyone else is doing. You wouldn't dare do that to yourself. But 110 00:13:22.960 --> 00:13:26.960 when your focus is off, and when your mind is not healthy as it 111 00:13:28.320 --> 00:13:31.720 could be, you're worrying about what other people saying. You're trying to do 112 00:13:31.799 --> 00:13:41.039 what everybody else is doing, and I'm telling you it's not a good thing. 113 00:13:43.480 --> 00:13:52.720 Looking good is never going to fix your internal suffering. That's why people 114 00:13:54.360 --> 00:14:05.440 still doing the most craziest things. You're beautiful, you look good, but 115 00:14:05.519 --> 00:14:15.759 you're crazy. I mean, you're just out there, but you look good. 116 00:14:18.759 --> 00:14:26.159 I was talking about last week where this guy put a message on social 117 00:14:26.200 --> 00:14:35.080 media. He was a I guess what people assume a good looking guy, 118 00:14:35.840 --> 00:14:41.080 and all of these women responded to him. I just shook my head, 119 00:14:41.240 --> 00:14:48.840 just shameful because people think that's what it's about. Oh, you look good. 120 00:14:48.200 --> 00:14:56.399 I remember this guy was in prison, you heard me, prison And 121 00:14:56.799 --> 00:15:03.200 just because he was a nice looking guy, the pretty eyes, light skin, 122 00:15:03.000 --> 00:15:07.200 this guy got out of jail, out of prison. I mean, 123 00:15:07.240 --> 00:15:13.279 because it's a difference. He got out of prison and became a movie star 124 00:15:15.320 --> 00:15:22.360 just because of his looks. I'm not saying that he didn't have any talent 125 00:15:24.679 --> 00:15:31.039 when he got out, but the lys is what got him where he is 126 00:15:31.080 --> 00:15:39.840 now. To me, that's just whoo. And that's why so many people 127 00:15:39.879 --> 00:15:48.919 would do anything anything. You've ever seen a movie called Imitation of Life. 128 00:15:52.039 --> 00:15:58.759 If you've never seen Imitation of Life, please go see that movie. Find 129 00:15:58.799 --> 00:16:03.759 it. You can google and fine words streaming. That's a really good movie 130 00:16:03.039 --> 00:16:10.360 where this woman, this darker woman had this really really fairsty, fair skinned 131 00:16:10.519 --> 00:16:18.559 child who passed all of her life as a white lady up until her mom's 132 00:16:18.600 --> 00:16:23.679 death. And then she was so sad and snotting and crying and carrying on 133 00:16:25.279 --> 00:16:30.720 at her mother's funeral. It was too late. She showed her mom. 134 00:16:30.240 --> 00:16:36.000 All her mother's life was that she was not good enough because of her skin. 135 00:16:37.200 --> 00:16:44.360 Her skin was too dark. This owned her own mom because of that, 136 00:16:44.679 --> 00:16:48.559 the woman who birthed her into the world, because she thought her skin 137 00:16:51.559 --> 00:16:59.240 was a disgrace. I mean, this is stuff that is going on today. 138 00:16:59.440 --> 00:17:04.240 You have fa family members who are picking and choosing who they like more. 139 00:17:04.759 --> 00:17:10.920 They have cliques and families because they don't like them because they're the dark 140 00:17:11.000 --> 00:17:21.519 side of the family. That's ignorant, oppressed minds, ignorant. So you 141 00:17:21.640 --> 00:17:30.759 have colorism going on within, racist just in maturity at its finest. So 142 00:17:30.839 --> 00:17:38.839 people are caught up in the looks, the beauty. But you wouldn't be 143 00:17:40.319 --> 00:17:45.000 if you had the right mindset, you just wouldn't be. I don't knock 144 00:17:45.279 --> 00:17:55.440 anyone at all for wanting to look good, but when it's not natural, 145 00:17:57.880 --> 00:18:11.799 that's an issue looking good. I'm all for it because I know I want 146 00:18:11.839 --> 00:18:15.759 to present myself the best that I can. I want to look the part 147 00:18:17.079 --> 00:18:22.559 when I leave my house because I care about how I present myself. So 148 00:18:22.640 --> 00:18:27.119 I get that. But trust me, I'm not putting on all these all 149 00:18:27.400 --> 00:18:40.599 these long eyelashes and all of this makeup and mm hmmm mm hmm. I'm 150 00:18:40.599 --> 00:18:48.160 not going to get nothing injected or nothing taken out. I'm not never would. 151 00:18:49.400 --> 00:19:00.319 But people are doing all of these dangerous things that you may think you're 152 00:19:00.920 --> 00:19:07.319 feeling good and happy for the moment, but you know internally you're still suffering. 153 00:19:07.759 --> 00:19:12.200 And guess what, You're going to suffer the consequences of them in the 154 00:19:12.319 --> 00:19:22.200 long run when you need your health the most. This stuff is gonna be 155 00:19:22.200 --> 00:19:27.079 affecting you. You cannot get these things done and think it's not going to 156 00:19:27.119 --> 00:19:37.200 affect you in some kind of way. Injecting foreign things in your body. 157 00:19:37.759 --> 00:19:45.240 That's never good, never good. So just know, no matter what you 158 00:19:45.559 --> 00:19:53.640 do, it's not gonna change what's inside of you. The only person or 159 00:19:53.839 --> 00:20:07.000 thing that can do that is you taking the time and the initiative to allow 160 00:20:07.039 --> 00:20:11.640 yourself to heal and to learn to love yourself. That's it. Nothing else, 161 00:20:12.440 --> 00:20:18.440 nothing else, no one else. You are the only one who can 162 00:20:18.599 --> 00:20:26.480 complete this task. So that's all I'm gonna say. I really really hope 163 00:20:26.119 --> 00:20:33.279 people get something out of this because it's sad what we're seeing. It is 164 00:20:33.640 --> 00:20:41.119 sad. I mean, I'm seeing some women that it's sad. It's a 165 00:20:41.160 --> 00:20:48.160 sad thing. It's a sad thing. Bodies just look deformed, and they 166 00:20:48.240 --> 00:20:56.839 think it's cute. These fake hips and these fake booties. I mean, 167 00:20:56.119 --> 00:21:03.720 everybody, some of the white, black, and others all shape the same, 168 00:21:06.359 --> 00:21:11.319 all shape the same, and sooner or later that stuff is going to 169 00:21:11.440 --> 00:21:22.960 affect you internally because it's foreign substance in your body. Anyways, do you 170 00:21:23.119 --> 00:21:27.440 boo. I'm leaving it right there, Thank you for listening. Much love. 171 00:21:27.519 --> 00:21:30.960 I hope everyone is doing well. I hope your families are doing well. 172 00:21:33.400 --> 00:21:40.240 Take care of yourself, forget about what society thinks. Please. I 173 00:21:40.440 --> 00:21:45.480 end every episode the same, and I hope you do it. Think on it.