Hey, hey, hey, I'm bad. Listen. This is something for
many, many, many people. I want to tell you something. I'm
not trying to hurt any feelings, but people are so lost and confused.
I just need to tell you this. Beauty isn't a fix for inner suffering.
You may not understand what I'm saying, but just stick with me.
Beauty isn't a fix for inner suffering. A lot of people are caught up
in looks, beauty, the way person, the way a person looks,
the way a person body is shaped, different features. People are caught up
in these things because of what society says. I've told you. Societies all
around the world are made up of people like you, me them. They,
all of us make up society, and the world is filled with more
broken people than those who are not Those who are not broken, many at
some point were, So you're listening to people who probably nine out of ten
times don't even have themselves together. But that's who you're listening to. You're
listening to a person who have a eating disorder. You're listening to a person
who's depressed or suicidal. You're listening to a person who hate themselves. I
mean, I can go on and on, So I think you get the
point. Many of you. You're bleaching your skin or you're tanning your skin.
You're having these bb l's, you're getting all these oversized boobs and butts.
You're sticking this stuff in your chest for pecks. You're sticking crap in
your stomach to get a six pack. You're plumping up your cheeks, your
lips. You're even during surgery to change your eye color. It's horrible the
things people are doing. Now. I can understand if you needed a surgery
because your boots were super huge, that's not good for you. So I
understand something like that. But to do those things bleaching your skin or teanning
your skin because you think it's what society called beautiful, are pretty, that's
nuts. You getting these bbls, risking your life because you think it's in
the booty. It's all about the booty. Yes, you're gonna have people
who're going to look because of immature minds. They think, oh my gosh,
the butt, the boots, the body. That's immaturity. A mature
person can appreciate a person who have a really nice body or a person who
don't have a nice body. It depends on who the person is inside.
Because you can be the most beautiful, but because your attitude is so terrible,
nobody is looking at you. And then you could be a person who
have nobody, but you're such a beautiful soul and everybody love you. So
it depends. But because mindsets are unhealed and hearts are unhealed, people think
beauty is what they need to be, or they think they have to be
a certain skin tone or a certain size because society says that's what beauty is.
But I'm here to tell you beauty isn't a fix for your inner suffering.
It's not. You can get all of these things done, but you're
still miserable because you're still you. I don't care if you get your skin
lightened, you put in fake hair, you put in fake eyes, whatever
you need to do, you're still you. You're still you. You're still
dealing with that inner man, that inner woman. Because men do it too,
Men get the soul ins that look real. I'm like wow, just
like women. Men get their stomachs done, men get their pets done,
they get their butts done, just like women. People want to point the
finger at one species, but not the other when both male and females are
doing it again, beauty is in a fix for your inner suffering. I
don't care what you do, it's not going to change who you are on
the inside. Money don't change it, titles, positions, none of that.
It don't change who you are on the inside. You just take all
of that stuff going on inside of you and you project it or you put
it on other people. That's what projection is. You cause drama in the
lives of other people, and most of all, yourself self inflicted pains is
what a lot of people do. Self inflicted pain because of what you open
yourselves to, what you allow in your lives, because you're so caught up
on what society says that look good, that is the way a person supposed
to appear. But you're taking that information from people who are like you,
unheal hearts and minds, and a lot of people have died because of these
things because you think it's you have to look a certain way or you have
to build a certain size. So people have gone under the knife and end
up dying, losing their lives trying to get these surgeries. I mean,
it's just crazy. It's absolutely crazy and it's completely out of control. No
matter how many people have died, people are still doing it. It is
not the beauty, it is the heart and the minds of people. That's
what it is. That's what you need to fix your mindset. You have
to allow yourself to heal from whatever it is, whatever it is to make
you think you're not beautiful the way you are, whatever it is. I
don't have the biggest but I've never had the biggest. But I got enough.
But let me tell you, I will never try to get any more
because I don't care about people like that, meaning I don't care what you
think of me. I love people, but what you think of me is
not my problem. It's yours and I will not take on that burden from
anyone. So what I have is not enough. Oh well, your loss,
your loss guaranteed. You have to love your self enough not to care.
I see people, I'm like, well, who are they? I'm
not even gonna name this family, but everybody look like they bleached their skin.
I'm like, how can you even think people can't see that everybody in
the whole family have bleached their skin, look like It's ridiculous. It's ridiculous.
You look crazy, You look crazy, bleaching yourselves and changing your faces.
You look crazy. God still recognize you as a broken People are doing
just way too much, too much. You're running off, you know,
and doing these surgeries and taking this medication and this and that. When you
need to be dealing with your inner man, your inner woman. That's what
you need to be dealing with. Because if you fix that, your mindset
changes. When you heal from whatever it is that's ailing you, that has
you in that negative mindset, everything changes. You don't care what people say
about you. You love the skin you in. You love the body you're
in because let me tell you, if you're too little, you can always
gain weight. If you're too big, you can always lose weight always.
It's all about what you do to your body. If your nose is too
big, hey, that's what God gave you, that's what you came into
this world with. Embrace it. I can see if you had a nose
on your forehead, or if you had an ear on your face, you
got three ears. That's a different story. That's an app normality. But
just because you don't have a butt as big as someone else, or boobs
as big as someone else. You should you should not feel less than or
You shouldn't lack confidence or self esteem because of that. Somebody always gonna look
better than you, Somebody always gonna be more shapier than you, Somebody always
gonna be smaller than you. Someone is always gonna be larger than you.
Just love you, be yourself, Be the best you that you can be.
You cannot be the best you that you can be by remaining the same,
by listening to people who are worse off mentally than you. You cannot
be the best you can be by putting any and everything in your body.
You just can't. So the one that you need to be concerned about is
yourself. Getting your mind right, because when you do, I promise you,
you're not thinking about what everybody else is saying. You're not thinking about
what everyone else is doing. You wouldn't dare do that to yourself. But
when your focus is off, and when your mind is not healthy as it
could be, you're worrying about what other people saying. You're trying to do
what everybody else is doing, and I'm telling you it's not a good thing.
Looking good is never going to fix your internal suffering. That's why people
still doing the most craziest things. You're beautiful, you look good, but
you're crazy. I mean, you're just out there, but you look good.
I was talking about last week where this guy put a message on social
media. He was a I guess what people assume a good looking guy,
and all of these women responded to him. I just shook my head,
just shameful because people think that's what it's about. Oh, you look good.
I remember this guy was in prison, you heard me, prison And
just because he was a nice looking guy, the pretty eyes, light skin,
this guy got out of jail, out of prison. I mean,
because it's a difference. He got out of prison and became a movie star
just because of his looks. I'm not saying that he didn't have any talent
when he got out, but the lys is what got him where he is
now. To me, that's just whoo. And that's why so many people
would do anything anything. You've ever seen a movie called Imitation of Life.
If you've never seen Imitation of Life, please go see that movie. Find
it. You can google and fine words streaming. That's a really good movie
where this woman, this darker woman had this really really fairsty, fair skinned
child who passed all of her life as a white lady up until her mom's
death. And then she was so sad and snotting and crying and carrying on
at her mother's funeral. It was too late. She showed her mom.
All her mother's life was that she was not good enough because of her skin.
Her skin was too dark. This owned her own mom because of that,
the woman who birthed her into the world, because she thought her skin
was a disgrace. I mean, this is stuff that is going on today.
You have fa family members who are picking and choosing who they like more.
They have cliques and families because they don't like them because they're the dark
side of the family. That's ignorant, oppressed minds, ignorant. So you
have colorism going on within, racist just in maturity at its finest. So
people are caught up in the looks, the beauty. But you wouldn't be
if you had the right mindset, you just wouldn't be. I don't knock
anyone at all for wanting to look good, but when it's not natural,
that's an issue looking good. I'm all for it because I know I want
to present myself the best that I can. I want to look the part
when I leave my house because I care about how I present myself. So
I get that. But trust me, I'm not putting on all these all
these long eyelashes and all of this makeup and mm hmmm mm hmm. I'm
not going to get nothing injected or nothing taken out. I'm not never would.
But people are doing all of these dangerous things that you may think you're
feeling good and happy for the moment, but you know internally you're still suffering.
And guess what, You're going to suffer the consequences of them in the
long run when you need your health the most. This stuff is gonna be
affecting you. You cannot get these things done and think it's not going to
affect you in some kind of way. Injecting foreign things in your body.
That's never good, never good. So just know, no matter what you
do, it's not gonna change what's inside of you. The only person or
thing that can do that is you taking the time and the initiative to allow
yourself to heal and to learn to love yourself. That's it. Nothing else,
nothing else, no one else. You are the only one who can
complete this task. So that's all I'm gonna say. I really really hope
people get something out of this because it's sad what we're seeing. It is
sad. I mean, I'm seeing some women that it's sad. It's a
sad thing. It's a sad thing. Bodies just look deformed, and they
think it's cute. These fake hips and these fake booties. I mean,
everybody, some of the white, black, and others all shape the same,
all shape the same, and sooner or later that stuff is going to
affect you internally because it's foreign substance in your body. Anyways, do you
boo. I'm leaving it right there, Thank you for listening. Much love.
I hope everyone is doing well. I hope your families are doing well.
Take care of yourself, forget about what society thinks. Please. I
end every episode the same, and I hope you do it. Think on it.