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I will start out by saying,
I walked in the studio this morning,

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and apparently tomorrow if we got the
date right and I never remember, is

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my thirtieth anniversary. So June third
is my thirtieth anniversary. I walk in

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this morning, and the first thing
I see is like fringy silvery the decor

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on the stage studio door, and
I walk in, there's thirty thousand balloons.

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A big congratulations balloon streamers. What
time did you guys get here to

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do all this? While we actually
did it yesterday. They taken us so

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long it took a long time to
blow up the balloon. So yeah,

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there's yeah, thank you. That
was very, very sweet and totally unexpected

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because I had the big shin dig
five years ago for the twenty fifth and

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I did not expect anything. But
that is so appreciated. Jenny, thank

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you very much. Let's get into
the Minnesota Goodbye there's I'm gonna start off

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with one that is we debated whether
we should even read it because we don't

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want to like trigger anybody, and
this talks about being overweight. So let's

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get started. Cool question. I
don't want to sound horrible or to body

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shame anyone but is fat contagious.
They go on to say, let me

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explain what I mean. Last year, I was two hundred and sixty five

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pounds. My doctor said, you
need to lose weight well through a lot

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of extremely hard effort, getting ten
thousand steps a day, counting calories,

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etc. I'm now at a weight
of one ninety five ish. Now,

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in no way do I care about
somebody's weight. I'd never judge anybody for

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it. But I'm finding it difficult
to hang out with a lot of my

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overweight friends because all they want to
do is eat out at restaurants, and

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my willpower at restaurants is not the
greatest. Whenever I ask them to go

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kayaking or jog or even a walk
because I need to get my steps in,

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they always come up with an excuse
not to and just want to go

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to a bar and drink or ead
and do something that involves sitting and doing

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nothing. I would be curious to
hear your thoughts. That is a tough

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one because it is kind of a
lifestyle change if you're going to maintain it.

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And congratulations, by the way,
on seventy pounds off. That's I

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mean, most of us losing even
ten pounds is really tough. So good

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for you. Don't go back,
don't go back to your old ways.

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Keep it up. I don't know
what to tell you about your friends,

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but I will say there is no
question a correlation between sitting drinking a lot

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of beer, having some waffle fries
with seasoned sour cream, and being overweight,

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because when we live that way,
it tastes so good, it's delicious,

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and it's great, but there is
a correlation between that and being overweight.

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Yeah, I would say when I
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lifestyle in general will change a lot
from living in kind of a smaller town

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in Wisconsin. And when I go
back there, it's just a very different

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lifestyle of people doing the same thing
that this person just mentioned of going out

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to eat all the time, going
to bars, and that's kind of what

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they do for fun, and like
nothing against that, but like I like

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to be active and go out and
move my body on top of like going

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to the bars every once in a
while. So I've always said that,

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like I think if I lived in
my hometown, I would probably be over

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like pretty overweighted, you think,
So that's interesting, Okay, So because

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between the culture, I also have
parents who like don't like they eat healthy.

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But my mom is like the overfeeder, Like she's like, you need,

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you need another meal, you need
more of this, you want this

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whatever. So it's always like pushing
a ton of food on me. So

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I always come home from a weekend
home and come back to Minneapolis, and

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I'm like, I need to like
just cleanse myself for a week because I

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feel like garbage from being back in
my hometown. So I just I don't

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know what I would be like if
I lived around that kind of a lifestyle,

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whereas up here, I'm much more
active and get outside a lot.

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And you do. You're always outside, You're always at the gym. Jenny's

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always like, oh my trainer kicked
my ash yesterday, or I went for

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a bike ride or whatever. So
I don't know what to tell you.

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I think that you know, maybe
find a friend who you can be like,

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well, maybe concentrate on the friend
that's most likely to go kayaking or

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running or whatever. But still you
got to go hang with your friends and

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we're in restaurant. Maybe you know, do the tricks where you have like

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a light meal before you go or
like, you know, have some vegetables

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or a salad before you go,
so you're not so likely to be tempted

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to have the wings. That's a
tough one, but good for you.

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Next one, as listening to Dave
talk about, is testosterone, and I

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wanted to have him think about something. For as long as I've been listening

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to the show, Dave will always
tear up talking about kids or Christmas wish

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or something sad, and You've always
had very strong feelings. I think right

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now what is happening is there is
just a lot going on with life changes

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and your kids, so there is
just more for you to tear up about,

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not because your testosterone is running out
of your junk. You were just

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fine, but now you have grandchildren
and your kids are all out of the

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house and there are different things going
on. The boy, it's very true,

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so you're still just being the same
you. You just didn't always have

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so much going on like this when
life was more settled, and it will

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get settled again. So please don't
think anything is wrong with you. Because

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I was thinking about somebody said,
well, if you cry easily like I'm

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hearing up right now just reading this, that it could be low testosterone.

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You should be proud that you have
so much to tear up about, because

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the things that you tear up about
are amazing things that you've either created or

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come from what you've done in your
life, or from your family. So

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be proud of yourself and cry.
I like it when you guys make me

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cry because it helps me feel better. So keep it up. Your junk

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is just fine. Have Susan tested
out? Okay, Kelly, that's a

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good one, thank you, and
I appreciate the perspective for sure. Next

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one. That one's about the podcast
being out of order, so that's something

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we're always working on. Here's something
interesting, Sammy Rights. Listen to the

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last few weeks of episodes of the
Minnesota Goodbye. There have been quite a

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few people writing in to say they're
struggling with one thing or another. True,

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while all of these issues are relatively
separate or very different, I thought

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i'd share a piece of advice that
was given to me at a tough time

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in my life. This is the
worst it's ever going to be. While

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I understand this is not one hundred
percent fool proof, it reminded me of

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Dave bringing up being mentally tough.
Sometimes just telling yourself you're at the absolute

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bottom can help push you forward thinking
things can only get better, kind of

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like tricking yourself. There's an old
song for the eighties that I loved to

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listen to when I was like down
in the eighties. It was by guy

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named Howard Jones. Things can only
get better and if you throw it all

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the way, things can only get
beat. Dad, does that ring a

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bell um? I'm gonna sing it
for you a couple more times. It

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was just and it was true,
and that used to I used to tell

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myself that things can only get better. And I think that's what she says.

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This is the worst it's ever going
to be. To paint a picture

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briefly, my sister and I had
both sister in law and I both gone

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through very hard personal career et cetera. Struggles at different times, her about

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one and a half years before me. I was to a point where waking

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up was hard, everything hurt.
I was at my lowest, and when

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something would start to get easier,
something worst would happen. I remember her

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telling me this is a phase that
got a phrase that got her through the

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hard times. This is the worst
it's ever going to be for us.

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As hard as things continued to get, somehow this was helpful to pull us

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out of the rut enough to keep
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different hands. We were able to
remind ourselves this is the worst it's ever

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going to be, and it made
us feel hopeful that'd be a good state

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fair shirt. Yeah, I'm happy
to report luckily, for now we are

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both extremely happy and healthy in all
aspects of our life. It really is

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crazy how much time does heal,
even though it feels so slow going through

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the ship that life gives you.
I hope someone can hear this and maybe

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it can be the little light that
they need to help them through the hard

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time or dark spot you find yourself
in. All the love from Sam,

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I'll repeat it one more time,
this is the worst it's ever going to

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be. That's really powerful. Thank
you for that. I really appreciate that.

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One. Here we go. I
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Minnesota city people to come up here
rude, drive like total assholes, and

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act like they're superior to us locals
go home, Love you guys, but

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don't come here to skate the city
only to expect it to be like the

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city. Okay, what do you
think? Is there anything to that?

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Well, I don't know. I
guess I don't know what part of Wisconsin

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that the person is living in.
But I don't think I act any different

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rolling over the border in the Wisconsin
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But maybe I'm a jerk in the
Twin Cities. I just thought that was

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funny. They call it touchy subject, So maybe we can bring that up

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on the air and see what people
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more emails here on the Minnesota Goodbye. I'm gonna skip that one.

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And this is from Dan. Now, Dan has been on our show a

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couple of times. You will recognize
Dan's voice because Dan had a severe brain

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injury and he doesn't speak the same
way that he used to. And I

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met Dan at Taco John's and came
by and he makes license plates like decorative

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license plates, and he made me
one, So shout out Dan. He

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goes on to say, I had
the choice when I wrapped the front tires

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of an ATV around a tree,
causing them to pop each other. I

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chose to be an inspiration and I
chose to have an awesome attitude, I

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collect disability and everything else is a
win. All the small wins add up

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to a big win. I love
my stress free life. Yeah, I

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have to deal with my blind eye
and I don't drive, but the staff

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at my home is my best Friend's
shout out Paul for letting me love life

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especially. I know times can get
hard, so keep going on. Surround

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yourself with good people, and good
things will happen. They may not be

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big at the time. They may
not be big, but all the winds

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can be a big win. Sincerely, Dan. And here's a guy who

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lost so much of what we take
for granted, living independently, driving,

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being able to speak the way he
spoke when he was eighteen years old.

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And here's a guy with a very
positive attitude. And I met him several

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times and he is just a happy
son of a bitch. He just is.

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Love you, Dan, so thanks
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that. All right, let me
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I don't skip anything that Okay,
here's the last one day fallon Jenny and

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Drake. I simply adore you all. You're a required part of my day.

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I would feel incomplete without your presence
in my ears. Thank you,

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Julia. You're always inquiring how people
found your show in other states. Well,

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allow me to tell you a tale. I will reveal my location at

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the end, so stay tuned.
In twenty twelve, I was asked out

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by a guy with a strange Southern
lilt an extremely intact confidence. He was

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a gym rat, not my usual
type, but I said, why not?

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Pickens are slim around these here parts. It was an interesting relationship that

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lasted about a month. He would
say things as we would walk into a

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bar, like people are gonna hate
us what. He was also quick to

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tell me the fun fact that certain
girls wore flipsloth as the bar because they

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were person their feet hurts, okay. He also told me his best friend

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had a radio show in Minnesota.
He had a picture of himself and said

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radio hosted an airplane cockpit as his
profile picture. However, he would not

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be friends with me on Facebook because
I might not like what I see,

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so we ended up parting ways eventually. I really mean, no disrespect for

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them. He was fun and funny. A couple of years later, I

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was searching for a decent podcast to
listen to. I happened to find yours,

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and I was extremely impressed. I
couldn't find one that even compared.

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Wow. After quite a while listening, you mentioned your best friend named,

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wait for it, Brentley. A
light bulb went on over my head and

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my jaw dropped on the floor.
Imagine that small world you might have guessed.

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I live in Toledo, Ohio.
Oh my gosh, so she isn't.

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It's all coming together now. So
Brentley was my best friend many years,

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and we don't even talk anymore because
he pissed me off and I pissed

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him off. Maybe he'll come back, I don't know, but Brentley lives

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in Toledo. So this woman met
a guy and he's got a little bit,

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just a little bit of Southern extremely
intact confidence. Yes, he was

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a gym rat and he would definitely
say things like walk into a bar and

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say people are gonna hate us,
and the strippers are wearing flip flops because

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their feet hurt. Yeah, so
that is my friend, Brentley. I'm

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so glad I found you all.
I've never emailed before, but finally decided

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it's a story worth telling. Keep
doing what you do. Love you all,

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Julia ps Brentley is now my ex
husband's insurance agent. Boy. She

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goes on to say, I'm gonna
forward that one to you because I think

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we should read that one on the
radio too, So I'm gonna forward that

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over to you, Jenny, And
Okay, that what. I did not

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see that coming. As I was
reading that, I was thinking, who

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could that be? As soon said
his best friend works in radio? And

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then I put the pieces together on
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and the confidence, I was like, that has got to be Brentley and

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Brentley's talking about Dave. That is
so funny. I almost feel like I

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should reach out to Brentley. Last
time I talked to Brentley, I got

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mad at him because we've been kind
of on thin ice for a few years.

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Because he got mad at me.
He said I'm a terrible friend,

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and I got mad at him for
being controlling and like possessive. And so

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when Julie, my son Chase's mom
died in November, I called Brentley and

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I said, yeah, I just
want to let's know. Just got home

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from Phoenix and Julie died and went
to her funeral blah blah blah, and

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he's like, what do I care? All you did was bitch about her

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for twenty years. I don't care. I can't believe you're sad about it.

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All you did was bitch about her, and said Brentley. She died,

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I don't care. Why are you
telling me this? I don't care?

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And I'm like, are you drunk? Are you on something? And

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I said, I'm not having this
conversation. So I hung up. That

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was November. Haven't spoken to him
since. Was not the reaction that I

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Maybe he thought he was being funny. Maybe that was his way of being

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consoling. Brentley does have an odd
sense of humor. I'll tell you my

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favorite Brentley moment. Okay you've heard
it before. Yeah, So five is

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six is years ago, Susan went
in to get her gallbladder out and they

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found a giant, like shoe sized
tumor in her belly. And the surgeon's

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like, yeah, I'm taking the
gallbladder out. There's a tumor in there.

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It honestly, it might be cancer. And Susan and I were like,

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we really thought that this could be
it. I mean, you've got

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a giant tumor in her belly.
And so that night we're in the hospital

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and she's looking at me with tears
in her eyes and and she looked at

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me and she said, I don't
want to die. So I was so

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upset. Like an hour later,
I called Brentley and I was talking to

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him, and he's like, you
know, listening, And I said,

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yeah, Susan looked at me and
she said, I don't want to die.

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And Brentley, taking note of the
fact that Sue and has wonky eyes

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and one looks this way and one
looks that way. Brentley, in this

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moment of pain and sadness, he
said, how could you tell she was

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looking at you? Which was exactly
what I needed at that moment. Was

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just a tacky, fucking remark from
somebody who gets it knew that I would

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find it funny that here is a
woman worried that she's going to die,

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looking at me with tears in her
eyes and her eyes are wonky, and

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Brentley's like, how could you tell
she was looking at you? Good shit?

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Okay, that is it for the
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