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Cancel high passage, cansage. It's
not sorry, Andy. What's up?

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Positive bitches? How are we doing
today? If you're hearing this episode,

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then you are meant to be here. So keep listening on that Bitch's Positive

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Podcast. Sometimes we will laugh,
other times a baby girl, We're gonna

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cry, but we will always walk
away feeling at our most empowered, positive

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bitch self. That is Babe in
true connection with herself. On this podcast,

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we unbecome who we are not so
we can fully step into exactly who

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we came here to be. That's
right. Today we are talking about why

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they don't like you. They can
be your friends or should I say friend

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of mees. They may be your
co or they might be the guy or

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the girl that just ghosted you.
What we failed to realize as human beings

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is that there are many energetic levels
that are all corresponding to one another at

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all times. Everything you see in
this three D reality has a corresponding energetic

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roots, and even though we can't
see that energetic root, they exist.

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I can't see gravity. I don't
even have to believe in gravity for it

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to be applied in my life.
It's the same thing with the energetic laws

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of this universe, one of those
laws being the law of correspondence. This

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states that one level of reality always
corresponds to the next, as above,

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so below. So if people aren't
liking you in this three D reality,

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it's not about what you think.
It's about something so much deeper, which

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we're going to talk about today.
After today's episode, you will not only

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have p you will not only release
anxiety. You will not only have a

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better understanding about yourself and these other
people and this reality, but you will

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be empowered to stay focused on you
and not get mad, but get everything

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you've ever wanted. Baby Girl,
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without further ado. So let's get into

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today's episode because we have so much
to uncover. Why is it that some

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people seemingly just do not like us? Well, this brings me to page

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one sixteen in my book, I
have something to share with you. There

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are many different types of people we
attract into our universe because we are energy,

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and our energy attracts the people,
places, and opportunities that we come

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into contact with. One of the
types of people that we align with and

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attract towards us are those of opposite
vibration. We attract what we really want

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and what we really don't want.
If I have an extreme hatred for rude

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people, I will attract rude people. Whatever traits we push down in ourselves

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become part of our shadow self.
The shadow self is the parts of ourselves

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we deem unacceptable or unlovable and try
to hide. Although we do not allow

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ourselves to express these traits, it
does not mean we don't have the capacity

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to embody them. Being in denial
of a trait does not mean it is

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not part of you. It simply
means you are denying that it's there.

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The more I push down the part
of myself that can be rude, the

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more I will hate rudeness in others. The more I will attract rude people

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into my experience as well. We
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as humans. We can be loud, we can also be quiet. We

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can be rude, but also kind, and so on. We can experience

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and express a whole spectrum of characteristics. The more you allow your self room

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to experience all different traits, the
less you will hate them in others.

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We will discuss how to bring your
shadow self into the light in further detail

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in this chapter. So what I
want you to understand is that as much

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as you are attracting people into your
experience, other people are also pulling you

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into them. You are going to
be drawn towards people who push down parts

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of themselves and then hate you because
you allow yourself to embody them. If

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you're coworker pushes down the part of
themselves that is confident, your coworker is

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gonna hate the confidence that you embody. If your friend pushes down in herself,

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her ability to place herself on her
own pedestal. She's gonna hate the

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fact that you place yourself on your
own pedestal, because you have to understand

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these people are thinking, well,
I don't allow myself to do that.

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I don't allow myself to partake in
that. Where do you get off partaking

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in that action? Where do you
get off engaging with that mindset? If

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I don't do it, why are
you allowed? The thing is misery loves

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company. That's why it's lonely at
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It's not lonely at the top.
Are you kidding me? It's lonely at

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the bottom. We have that so
backwards, so backwards. Someone not liking

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you actually has to do a lot
more with them than it does to do

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with you. They're hating aspects in
you. They hate your light because they

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don't allow themselves to embody their own
light. This is not personal. This

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is vibrational. This is energetic,
and when we take things personal, we

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get in our own head and we
hurt ourselves. But baby girls, really

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not about you. It's about the
energy you're broadcasting. It's about the energy

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you're allowing yourself to embody, and
it's about their own limitations. There is

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this Bible verse that I would like
to read before we wrestle, not against

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flesh and blood, but against principalities, against powers, against rulers of darkness

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of this world, against spiritual wickedness
in high places. Please, you must

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understand that the battle isn't really against
your coworker. It's really not against your

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ex best friend. It's really not
against your ex. It's about the entities

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that work through them. It's about
the energies that cycle through them and are

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anchored into their being. Most people
are not consciously aware enough to actually embody

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their authentic frequency and use their own
free will. Most people are driven by

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the entities that are attached onto them. It's not about Sally or Brad or

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Rick. It's about the entities that
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That's what's actually going on. And
how do we keep ourselves safe from

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these entities not attaching onto us.
You do not allow them to bring you

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down. You do not allow them
to lower your vibration. The best way

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to ensure yourself safe from these lower
vibrational entities is to send that person love

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because you know that they're being held
captive by these entities, and it's not

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about them. You know that the
this is actually about you, safeguarding your

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heart, your mind, your spirit, and your body. And the way

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to safeguard your body, mind,
and spirit is to send them love.

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Because negative entities attach onto us.
They are invited into us when we allow

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ourselves to drop into a lower vibration. They attach onto us when we allow

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ourselves to think negative, when we
believe other people's projections and make them our

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own predictions. That is, when
we allow these entities to attach on to

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us. You have to realize that
if someone's jealous of you, it's because

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they have the spirit of jealousy within
them. They have a spirit that they

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don't even know is attached on to
them. And now that spirit is trying

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to attach on to you. It's
trying to bring you down, so it

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has more people to control. So
what do we do. We realize that,

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m Okay, this is not what
I originally thought it was. This

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is much deeper, This is much
different than what I originally thought it was.

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This is spiritual, this is energetic, This is beyond the realm of

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possibility I originally understood my life to
be and once you understand this, you

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really can't go back. It's not
gonna be a choice for you. The

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entities I'm speaking of some people will
call these entities monitoring spirits, So let's

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understand what that actually means. A
spirit that is monitoring is an unclean,

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evil spirit that monitors someone's behavior for
the purpose of inflicting hurt or pain into

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that person's life. These spirits are
manifested through jealousy. They go hand in

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hand. Someone can grow to be
jealous of you, which means anyone can

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be subjected to be used as a
monitoring spirit at any time. This spirit

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is sometimes called a masquerading spirit or
a watcher. The monitoring spirits come to

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gather information to facilitate spiritual tax deal
blessings. In fact, with sickness,

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sabotage, success, and general wreak
havoc in your life. God does send

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warnings about these spirits being present,
and usually it will show up in your

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dreams as the following someone who just
stares but doesn't speak, black cats,

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dogs, blackbirds, rats, wolves
and sects whatever. Now, before I

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continue to explain, know that your
family member or friends may not be aware

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they carry this spirit. Everything is
spiritual. Remember, everything has its energetic

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root. So although to them they
may be asking random questions or their intentions

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are pure, the monitoring spirit may
be upon them, collecting data and planning

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to use for bad. A conversation
that started about news will redirect to your

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plans. This is why it's important
to know when to speak about certain things.

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Funny how after you told Auntie Becky
you were getting a new home,

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now the builders suddenly found a foundation
problem. Or Funny how you told your

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friends you met a nice guy and
everything was going well for you. Now

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the person changes their demeanor. Friends
look to connect, but these monitoring spirits

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look to inspect. The Bible says
to be wise as serpents. Stop being

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so quick to offer information to people. You don't owe them anything. Here

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are some signs you're dealing with these
types of spirits. You will feel uneasy,

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dreamed, and violated after you told
them great news. Your thoughts to

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yourself will most likely feel like,
wow, why did I just share all

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that? Usually, after you shared
so much, you almost feel as though

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you couldn't control it. Listen to
your body please and pay close attention to

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how you feel. Some monitoring spirits
are so strong that at some instances you

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will feel pressured to answer those questions. But fight that feeling. You will

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feel restrained. When it comes to
having them on social media. You may

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get this feeling to hide posts from
them if you don't feel comfortable expressing or

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posting great news without hiding a specific
person. This may mean they carry a

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monitoring spirit. As much as we
may love our friends and family, they

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too can carry spirits sent from the
enemy to not allow our dreams to prosper,

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but rest assured and know that whatever
God has planned for you will come

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to pass. Be mindful so we
don't have to blindly just absorb everything that

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post said. But there is patterns
here. There are things that run through

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quantum physics, energetic universal laws,
the Bible. We got to start connecting

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the dots here. There are similarities
that we need to wake up to.

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There are entities that are attached to
other people that will try to get into

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your life, and if they can't, they're gonna watch you through the lens

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of someone else and try to wreak
havoc through that person. So what do

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we need to do? One you
have to be so checked in and tuned

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into your body. If you don't
feel good talking to your coworker, talk

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to them less. No one can
take your power away. You can only

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willingly give it away. If you
feel like a friend is a friend of

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me, listen to that emotion.
Stop hanging out with them every damn day.

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Being alone is better than being in
the presence of a moditing spirit.

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Being alone is better than being in
the presence of a negative entity that's trying

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to wreak havoc in your life.
Being alone is oh so much better than

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sharing in to someone that doesn't have
the best intentions for you. And even

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if they do have good intentions,
the spirits that are attached to them may

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not so. Rule one, listen
to your body. Rule two, stop

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over sharing everything with everyone. You
don't owe everyone your life and all the

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information that is going on with you. Only you need to be cognizant of

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that. Only you need to be
plugged into that. Page one twenty one.

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Let's talk about this. They can't
take your power if you don't give

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it to them. These spirits can't
reak havoc in your life if you're not

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talking to them. They're not omnipresident
like God, they're not understanding why we

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align with certain people, and using
that knowledge to study ourselves is always helpful.

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Obsessing why someone has left us is
not. I'll say this loud so

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even the people in the back can
hear. Not everyone is meant to stay

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in our life forever. And that's
okay. If God removes someone from your

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life, let them go. Okay. We might not know why, we

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might be sad, but you know
what will end up being great, better

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in the end, better off,
So let them go. Positive bitch tip.

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Life has the meaning you give it. Give the relationships that have ended

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a positive meaning instead of a negative
one. I see the friendships that have

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left my life as a double positive. They not only served me for many

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years and I them, but when
we fell out of vibration, it showed

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me my frequency was rising and so
we were no longer in alignment. If

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we tried to hold on to people
who are no longer in vibrational alignment with

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us, we can stunt our growth
and block our blessings. Trying to hold

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on to lower vibrational people lowers our
vibration. We become the average frequency of

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the people we hang out with most, so that means we're not becoming only

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the energetic average of the people we're
hanging out with. We're becoming the energetic

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average of the entities that are attached
onto that person. No one is worth

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stunting your growth. No one is
worth you missing out on your own potential.

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No one is worth you putting yourself
in a box and missing your blessings.

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No one, no one. Are
these lower vibrational people worth you hurting

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your own life. No, this
is a waste of time and energy.

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No one is worth missing out on
the life you incarnated here for it's helpful

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to write out the relationships that have
expired in your life on one side of

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a piece of paper, and then
use the other side to write out one

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to three lessons, realizations, or
positive meanings you can derive from those relationships.

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We tell ourselves many stories, but
why not tell ourselves a good one.

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Now you might be thinking, c
See, I feel like there's someone

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in my life I have to get
rid of. But ugh, I don't

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want to. I don't know how, I don't know how to remove them.

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All you need is one moment of
courage of motivation to remove this person

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from your life, and Lord,
let it be right now, I'll fit

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al wait, go do your thing. Tell them you can't hang out.

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Tell them you're busy. Tell them
that you're focused on your goals. Tell

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them that you just don't have time. Do what you need to do in

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order to separate yourself from this individual, because you know that they're not good

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in your life. And if you're
thinking of someone right now, that's exactly

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who you need to have this conversation
with. And no, you don't even

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have to tell them, but you
do have to put your foot down and

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create space. I always think that
we always are praying for God to remove

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people from our life, but God
gave us the God give an ability to

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remove people from our life on our
own. Use that free will and do

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yourself justice. Baby girl, you
know what you need to do. I

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don't care if it's a coworker or
a family friend, it does not matter.

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Limit your time with them. And
if you can't take away all time

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from them, limit the information you
share with them. If you have to

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be somewhere that they're also at.
It doesn't mean you have to spill the

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beans on your own whole entire life. It doesn't mean you have to tell

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them about the new person that you're
talking to. You don't know what entities

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are attached to these people. That's
why. Also, your power does not

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lie in your promiscuity. It lies
in what you can receive from others.

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Stop sharing everything, including your body, with just Joe Schmoel you met on

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the street. You don't know their
demons, you don't know what they're holding

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onto. They are not worth you
derailing your vibration and your energy. Nobody

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is. It's not always easy to
just turn off the love you have for

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another, but that is not what
I'm asking you to do. You can

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love others from afar, that's fine. What I want you to do is

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just lower the volume of love you
have for them and raise the amount of

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love you have for yourself. When
we keep trying to hold on to others,

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obsess about our exes, or allow
others to tell us who we are,

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we start to erode from the inside
of ourselves. Over time. As

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we continuously allow mistreatment from others,
we further betray ourselves and end up hating

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ourselves for allowing such treatment. If
you cannot let them go for you,

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let them go for your younger self. This little you has so many dreams

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and aspirations, and they did not
come here to let Brad or even Brittany

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block them from their purpose. You
have a commitment not only to this current

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version of you, but to the
past version of your self too. You

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came onto this planet with such a
beautiful frequency, a beautiful vibration. Do

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not allow it to be eroded by
these negative entities that are coming through these

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negative people. All energy seeks to
do is align with like vibration and expand

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I can't blame Brad and Brittany for
wanting to lower my vibration because that is

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what negative energy likes to do,
pull high vibration down to meet it.

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I'm not gonna get mad at them. I'm gonna send them love, remove

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myself self, listen to my body, and limit what I share with them.

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Even on social media, there are
so many people who follow you,

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who interact with your posts. You
don't know what they have going on with

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them. Why even invite in negativity? Keep it to yourself until it's done,

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baby girl, Limit what you share. Let's recap for a moment,

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shall we. People might not like
us because their shadow self is highlighted in

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our self. The traits they push
down. We allow ourselves to embody,

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and therefore they get jealous. Where
do you get off allowing yourself to be

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free and embody your true authentic energy. Or maybe they have lower vibrational entities,

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the spirit of jealousy, monitoring spirits, whatever it may be. Or

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maybe they don't like us and they
are leaving our life because simply cosmic cancelation,

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our soul contract is over. I
see cosmic cancelation when two people just

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fall out of energetic vibration. They
fall out of one another lives. That's

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what happens. When you are raising
your mind, your body, your spirit.

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You're taking yourself to new heights and
standards. If people around you aren't

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doing the same thing, cosmic cancelation
will take place. You will energetically just

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fall out of one another's lives because
you are not in alignment anymore. So

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it's not that they don't like you, that they're hating on you. It

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just might mean that you're going in
different directions, and that's okay. Be

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oh so careful not to create meaning
negatively when there might not be any Why

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create a disempowering meaning that's a lie
when really you're just falling out of energetic

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vibration. That's so much closer to
the truth. So why aren't we telling

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ourselves this information. If you're going
through any sort of difficulty and you feel

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like people are hating on you,
they're jealous of you, maybe they have

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these monitoring spirits on them, whatever
it may be. If people are talking

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bad about you, sending you negative
energy, don't forget that energy is energy.

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So whether they're sending you positive energy
or negative energy, you can take

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that energy and alchemize it, transmute
it. You can use that energy as

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fuel to not get mad, but
get everything you want. If everyone at

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the office is talking bad about you, you're gonna laugh all the way to

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the bank, baby girl, because
as they talk bad about you, you're

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gonna use that as fuel to really
get those boots on the ground and focus

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on your work. You're gonna use
that as fuel maybe to go home and

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start that side hustle. Maybe if
these coworkers never bullied you, you wouldn't

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have taken a risk on your own
side hustle that ended up growing into a

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multimillion dollar business. Maybe if these
people didn't make you feel so uncomfortable,

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you would have never left the fish
bowl for the ocean. Maybe if these

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people didn't push you so far,
you would never have found out how truly

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high you can go and you can
travel. Let them talk bad about you,

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let them send negative energy your way, because guess what, You're gonna

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use that negative energy as fuel,
and you're gonna get everything that you truly

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desire. You're gonna use it to
build you, to push you, to

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elevate you in ways that the current
circumstance could never I truly believe sometimes God

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will put these people in our line
of sight. He will put them in

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our life to make us so uncomfortable, so upset, that we say no

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longer. We say you know what, that was the thing that crossed my

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line, That was the threshold.
I'm out of here. In a couple

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of years, you might be thinking
these people for making you so uncomfortable,

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because they gave you the strength to
get up and leave. You can always

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state your truth, you can always
set your boundary, you can always remove

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yourself share less, but also no. Simultaneously, as they send you energy,

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you can use it. That's a
secret that every magnetic woman knows.

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She magnetizes the energy sent to her
she transmutes it, she alchemizes it,

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she changes it over. Even though
they're sending you negative energy, Well guess

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what you go home, You're gonna
feel really pent up. Go create that

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song, Go create that side,
hustle, go for that walk, or

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whatever you want to do. Do
not sleep on energy sent to you.

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Now, we have to understand that
we deserve to be on our own pedestal.

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We deserve even if they don't like
us, we deserve to like ourselves.

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So let's have that come to Jesus
moment. I'm on page one twenty

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four. You did not fall out
of God's back pocket and stumble upon Earth.

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You are here for a reason.
Your life has purpose, and you

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are inherently worthy just by being born. The same creator who wanted the ocean

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to span seventy percent of Earth's surface, the sky to encompass the whole planet.

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The birds and the bees also thought
you were important enough to exist and

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take up space in this realm.
One thing about God, this loving energy

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does not make mistakes. As humans, we mess up a ton, but

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God, Yeah, no mistakes there. Even if your caregivers didn't intend for

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you to be here, God did, And that's why you are reading these

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words right now, no mistakes.
God is the ultimate artist, and no

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artist purposely creates ugliness. I've never
met a painter, architect, or dancer

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who told me they wanted to create
something ugly. You are beautiful down to

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your cellular level, and you deserve
to feel good. Just because you cannot

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see that yet does not mean it's
not true. It means your perception is

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fuzzy. To build ourselves up,
we must accept where we are at.

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I tried to pretend I didn't binge
eat. I tried the whole false positivity

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thing. I tried faking it till
you make it, but none of that

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helped. Being in denial parts of
you will not allow you to release those

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parts. Pretending you are happy with
parts of yourself that you despise will not

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allow you to change or release those
parts either. We don't have to remain

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the same if we do not love
what's in front of us, and we

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don't have to love what's in front
of us to accept what is positive.

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Bitch tip, we can't hate ourselves
into loving ourselves. So here's the thing

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I really want you to understand.
Not everyone's gonna like you. They don't

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have to You don't even like everyone. The one person you do have to

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like is you. Is you.
And you know when I became my happiest,

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It's when I just started to do
what I want to do. I

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did no harm to others, but
I also didn't take and allow harm onto

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myself. I literally ask myself every
single day, where is my fun?

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How can I go towards that?
Where is love? How can I go

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towards that? You do not want
to be in places where you're being tolerated,

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You have to go in places where
you are celebrated. And yeah,

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there's gonna be a season where there's
awkward change because you're gonna have to not

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hang out with the people you've known
forever, and that will feel uncomfortable.

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You might feel a little bit fomo, But I would rather you have fomo

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on going out and drinking with your
friends than you having fomo on your own

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damn potential. But I don't know
is that just me? Or are we

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feeling what I'm putting down here?
No one is worth you missing out on

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what you came here to do.
So maybe this season isn't about focusing on

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why don't they like me? Maybe
this season is about focusing on, well,

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actually, what don't I like about
myself? What don't I accept about

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myself? And maybe I'm so focused
on the fact that they don't like me

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because I don't like myself, and
they're just reflecting back to me the fact

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that I'm unhappy in my own skin, in my own body, in my

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own life. If you don't like
things about yourself, I'm not going to

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become a part of these social media
movements that are screaming at you to just

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love yourself. That's a bunch of
bs that makes no damn sense. What

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I'm gonna tell you is, if
you don't like something about yourself, your

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life, your body, your hair, your regimen, your routine, your

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job, your friends, your relationship, guess what you have free will.

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You can change the things in your
life that you do not like. Stop

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accepting mediocrity. You didn't come here
to be average. You came here to

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experience a good freaking life, have
fun, grow, develop and learn.

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If you don't like what's in front
of you, change it, decide differently,

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remove yourself, remove them, Change
that's your proximity to the circumstance,

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the situation, or the person,
and decide differently. I really think we

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become hyper focused that people don't like
us when we are not happy with ourselves.

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When I first started my journey,
I was so afraid to do things

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that were going to bring me happiness
because I was more focused on how people

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were seeing me and judging me than
I was focused on my own happiness.

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But once I just had that moment
of well, I'm gonna do it anyway,

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I received happiness, so much fulfillment, so much joy, and I

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realized, holy cow, no person
on this planet could fulfill me the way

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I can fulfill myself. No person
on this planet can fulfill me like my

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own purpose can. So when I
started to do what actually brought me joy

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and I found I could create join
myself, I no longer was starving for

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it in other people. I no
longer cared if people liked me or not.

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If you don't like me, that's
none of my business. It sounds

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like a you problem, and I
simply don't care if you don't like me.

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It sounds a lot like you actually
just don't like yourself. You might

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be jealous, you might be insecure, but that's got nothing to do with

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me. That's between you and God, baby girl, that's something you have

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to bring to your creator. That's
something you have to reflect on. People

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not liking you is more about them
than it is about you. You being

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hyper focused on the fact they don't
like you is more about you than it

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is about them. That hyperfixation tells
me that you have not made peace with

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this current version of you. That
hyperfixation tells me that you have not made

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peace with your reality. That hyperfixation
tells me that you don't like yourself either.

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So what do we do? What's
the answer. What's the next step?

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We start to make changes? Think
about your health, your home,

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your career, your friendships, your
relationships. What don't you like? Jot

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it down, because being in denial
of what you don't like it doesn't help

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you change anything. The first step
to change is awareness, and then it's

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acceptance, and then it's well,
I can make changes from here. But

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if you're in denial that you hate
your life, if you're in denial that

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you don't like yourself and you try
to push it down, all that's gonna

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do is make you hate other people. All that's gonna do is make you

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feel insecure, uncomfortable, jealous.
It's not gonna move the needle. It's

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just gonna make you feel worse.
You have to be constantly reading the writing

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on the wall. Everything is data, everything is information. If you are

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hyper focused on the fact that people
don't like you, you have to come

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to the realization that, damn,
maybe it's because I actually agree with them.

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Maybe I'm so hyper fixed on the
realization that people don't like me because

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I actually don't like myself either.
Maybe I just agree with them, and

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that's why it bothers me so much. Maybe I don't know how to fulfill

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my own life, and that's why
it bothers me so much. I'm trying

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to outsource validation, connection and happiness
and joy and acceptance. And because I'm

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not getting that acceptance, this feels
like death every single day. But a

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really funny thing happens when you say
to yourself, I'm gonna take responsibility over

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my joy. I'm gonna take responsibility
over my happiness. I'm gonna take responsibility

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of the energy I'm bringing to the
energetic table. And instead of outsourcing my

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needs, I'm gonna turn this table
on its head and I'm gonna start fulfilling

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my happiness, my need for acceptance, my need for joy. I'm gonna

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start giving myself what I know I
need, and when you do that,

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you're no longer starving for that love, acceptance and joy from others. This

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has been a pleasure as always,
I hope you've learned something and as always,

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a sparkle in me honors of sparkle
in you. If you've not yet

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ordered your copy of Show Up as
Her, be sure to order your copies.

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You can follow along with us.
We're gonna definitely be diving deeper into

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topics in this book. I'm gonna
have you asking questions about specific concepts and

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are going to go so deep.
If you have not yet left a positive

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review on Apple Podcasts or Spotify,
please do because it really helps the podcast

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grow. And if not for me, do it for you because good karma.

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If you do want one on one
sessions, you can d m me

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on Instagram at vibe in with C
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I I C I I. All
the links will be in the show notes

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and I will see you in the
next one. What cancage I, cancage

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me, canceage me