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Let's make a love match. We're going to West Hartford. Second Date
Update. Ryan is getting a ghosted after a first date. We need to
find out whine. Good morning Ryan, Hey, good morning guys. Oh,
welcome to the show. Ryan. Obviously you know about second date update.
You need to tell us about this great first date. I guess that
is her name, Laura. Her name is Laura. Yes, okay,
so what did you guys do? So? I had an idea just to
try to do something different, you know, I wanted to start off on
the right foot and show her that I'm kind of creative and you know,
memorable. I wanted something that we would both enjoy. So I thought I
would take her to a cooking class, which I've heard about and I always
wanted to take somebody too. I had some friends that have done it and
they loved it and it was great. The food was good, great chefs.
So we did that. Okay, we had a great meal. We
sat, we ate the meal. I brought flowers, I brought wine.
You know. Basically, I thought it was great and I haven't heard from
her since. Okay, Oh, my God, first of all, sounds
like an awesome, awesome date. Did you try to reach out to her?
I have, Yes, I've tried a few times. You know,
I didn't want to be too overbearing, but you know, I'm kind of
taken the hint now that it's no return call, no overturn message, nothing,
so I want to know what's up. Okay, So, Ryan,
do you know that she likes to cook? Because I am a horrible baker
and I hate baking. So if somebody brought me, like on a baking
first date, I would be just mortified and embarrassed the whole time. Well,
I didn't know that. I mean, I think we all can agree.
Food is the common denominator and for most people, I mean, we
all enjoy eating. I think for the most part, most people I know
do. So I just again, I didn't want it just to the same
old Barring movie dinner type of thing. I wanted to, you know,
make it memorable. It's a chance for us to work together, you know,
get our hands you know dirty so speak and work together. I was
excited about it, and I would I would write it a you know,
pretty high score after all is done. Then yeah, I don't know why
she doesn't call me back? All right, Well listen right, it sounds
like a fabulous, creative date to me. I don't know why she's not
calling you back, and we're gonna get to the bottom of it. We're
gonna call up Laura. You're gonna be listening in. You'll hear everything she
has to say, and you can jump in and talk to her if you
want. Are you ready for that? I am ready for that? He
sounds fabulous? Does he sounds like a good, great guy. It's too
much for a first date. If you ask me, women want easy and
basic. All right, I mean, maybe you're right, But hello,
Hi, is Laura there? Yes, this is she. Hi Laura,
This is Courtnay. Hey, what's up. It's Walmart Jeff. Hey,
Laura, Savannah. We're calling from Kiss ninety five seven. You're on the
radio this morning. I'm sorry, what well, Laura, you're on the
radio. You're on Kiss ninety five seven, and I will tell you,
Oh my god, Yes see, you are on something called it's called second
date update. We get phone calls, we get emails, messages. If
you go on a first date, you have a great time, but you
get ghosted. Call us when we get answers, and that's why we're calling
you this morning. Laura. Oh okay, So Ryan, I'm just gonna
be honest, and I want you to be honest. Called us. Said
he took you on a date. He was trying to be creative. He
took you to a cooking class. He brought wine and flowers. He said,
you guys got along great, and he felt a connection. He didn't
want to be overbearing, but he has reached out to you, I think,
he said a couple of times. And you're ghosting him. Why are
you ghosting him? Yeah? I mean I was just surprised because he actually,
you know, didn't take me where I thought we were gonna go.
Like, I got all dressed up and he took me to a cooking class.
So, you know, I put on a nice dress and here I
am in an apron, you know, and my idea of a date is
not cooking my own meal. You know, I want to go on a
nice date, order a nice meal. He's a great guy. It's just
I don't know. I was turned off, you know, by that,
and also had joked a few times, you know, he said that I
looked good cooking a meal, and to me, that's just a little rude.
That's something you would have said Walmart, Jeff that I did. He
but it was joking when he said you look good in the kitchen, or
you feel like he was that, But I mean, that's not a really
funny joke. You know, that's not nice to say to a lady.
You know, you don't say that. Can we can? I just he's
on the line. Can I bring him on? Are you are you there?
Are you there? Ryan? I'm here? Hi, Laura, okay,
Hi, oh my okay. So I just want to first start by
apologizing profusely for the comment of you took it the wrong way. It was
not my intention at all of saying you look good in the con kitchen did
not mean you belong in the kitchen. I was truly commenting on how beautiful
you looked. And it was just that moment and I got caught up in
it and I think the words came out wrong. But I those were not
my intentions to be off putting by that at all. I appreciate you saying
that, and I just want to make sure you know, like you should
not say that to a woman ever, like it definitely will come across the
wrong way. I definitely took it the wrong way, but I do appreciate
you clearing it up. I know first dates can be very stressful and you
can get anxious and say weird things. So hearing that, I'm okay chalking
it up to that, can I just jump in for a second lore because
it sounds like I mean, it sounds like Ryan's a great guy. I'm
hoping that that was just, you know, he said something that he didn't
you know, me, and it came out the wrong way. But he
had told us he was trying to be really creative, and his friends suggested
the cooking class, and the friends said it would be great, you know,
something memorable and creative. Obviously it's memorable now, But I don't think
he meant like anything by it. I mean, I think it's something that
like two people have to agree to do. You don't just say surprised someone
and say hey, here's a job for you, Like, hey, I
know you, you're going to have a really nice, relaxing, enjoyable evening,
you know, getting to know someone. But no, actually you're going
to be sweating. You're gonna be working that new dress you bought is probably
going to get a stain on it. Make sure that the person dresses appropriately,
you know, like I got a little bit of like the soft stuff.
I'm yeah, it just wasn't okay, I yeah, no, can
you got to make sure the other person knows. Can I make a suggestion
because I feel like you are great and Ryan is great, and I feel
like if you guys would agree to a second date somewhere where you're not like
cooking a meal or doing you know, like what you said, like relaxing,
you get dressed up, you get to know each other. I will
pick up the tab. If that's something you guys want to do, I'll
pay for it. I think Ryan is a really nice guy, and I
would be interested. As long as I do not have to cook my own
meal, I am fine with that. I would be interested. I mean,
and I can promise you you will not do any cooking on that date
whatsoever. Okay, Okay, that sounds much better. I'm loving this.
I'm gonna put you both on hold and give you the scoop and let you
know, you know, uh, let you know all of the things you
know you can do it basically, go and do whatever you want and then
we'll pick up the tab Okay, okayible, I mean, this is what
a weird day. Okay, thank you, all right, hold on, guys,