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All the hits, Kiss ninety five
seven, Courtney and Kiss in the morning.

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Let's make a love match. We're
going to West Hartford. Second Date

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Update. Ryan is getting a ghosted
after a first date. We need to

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find out whine. Good morning Ryan, Hey, good morning guys. Oh,

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welcome to the show. Ryan.
Obviously you know about second date update.

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You need to tell us about this
great first date. I guess that

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is her name, Laura. Her
name is Laura. Yes, okay,

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so what did you guys do?
So? I had an idea just to

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try to do something different, you
know, I wanted to start off on

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the right foot and show her that
I'm kind of creative and you know,

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memorable. I wanted something that we
would both enjoy. So I thought I

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would take her to a cooking class, which I've heard about and I always

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wanted to take somebody too. I
had some friends that have done it and

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they loved it and it was great. The food was good, great chefs.

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So we did that. Okay,
we had a great meal. We

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sat, we ate the meal.
I brought flowers, I brought wine.

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You know. Basically, I thought
it was great and I haven't heard from

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her since. Okay, Oh,
my God, first of all, sounds

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like an awesome, awesome date.
Did you try to reach out to her?

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I have, Yes, I've tried
a few times. You know,

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I didn't want to be too overbearing, but you know, I'm kind of

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taken the hint now that it's no
return call, no overturn message, nothing,

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so I want to know what's up. Okay, So, Ryan,

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do you know that she likes to
cook? Because I am a horrible baker

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and I hate baking. So if
somebody brought me, like on a baking

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first date, I would be just
mortified and embarrassed the whole time. Well,

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I didn't know that. I mean, I think we all can agree.

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Food is the common denominator and for
most people, I mean, we

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all enjoy eating. I think for
the most part, most people I know

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do. So I just again,
I didn't want it just to the same

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old Barring movie dinner type of thing. I wanted to, you know,

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make it memorable. It's a chance
for us to work together, you know,

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get our hands you know dirty so
speak and work together. I was

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excited about it, and I would
I would write it a you know,

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pretty high score after all is done. Then yeah, I don't know why

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she doesn't call me back? All
right, Well listen right, it sounds

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like a fabulous, creative date to
me. I don't know why she's not

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calling you back, and we're gonna
get to the bottom of it. We're

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gonna call up Laura. You're gonna
be listening in. You'll hear everything she

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has to say, and you can
jump in and talk to her if you

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want. Are you ready for that? I am ready for that? He

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sounds fabulous? Does he sounds like
a good, great guy. It's too

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much for a first date. If
you ask me, women want easy and

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basic. All right, I mean, maybe you're right, But hello,

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Hi, is Laura there? Yes, this is she. Hi Laura,

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This is Courtnay. Hey, what's
up. It's Walmart Jeff. Hey,

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Laura, Savannah. We're calling from
Kiss ninety five seven. You're on the

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radio this morning. I'm sorry,
what well, Laura, you're on the

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radio. You're on Kiss ninety five
seven, and I will tell you,

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Oh my god, Yes see,
you are on something called it's called second

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date update. We get phone calls, we get emails, messages. If

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you go on a first date,
you have a great time, but you

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get ghosted. Call us when we
get answers, and that's why we're calling

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you this morning. Laura. Oh
okay, So Ryan, I'm just gonna

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be honest, and I want you
to be honest. Called us. Said

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he took you on a date.
He was trying to be creative. He

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took you to a cooking class.
He brought wine and flowers. He said,

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you guys got along great, and
he felt a connection. He didn't

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want to be overbearing, but he
has reached out to you, I think,

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he said a couple of times.
And you're ghosting him. Why are

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you ghosting him? Yeah? I
mean I was just surprised because he actually,

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you know, didn't take me where
I thought we were gonna go.

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Like, I got all dressed up
and he took me to a cooking class.

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So, you know, I put
on a nice dress and here I

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am in an apron, you know, and my idea of a date is

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not cooking my own meal. You
know, I want to go on a

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nice date, order a nice meal. He's a great guy. It's just

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I don't know. I was turned
off, you know, by that,

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and also had joked a few times, you know, he said that I

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looked good cooking a meal, and
to me, that's just a little rude.

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That's something you would have said Walmart, Jeff that I did. He

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but it was joking when he said
you look good in the kitchen, or

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you feel like he was that,
But I mean, that's not a really

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funny joke. You know, that's
not nice to say to a lady.

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You know, you don't say that. Can we can? I just he's

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on the line. Can I bring
him on? Are you are you there?

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Are you there? Ryan? I'm
here? Hi, Laura, okay,

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Hi, oh my okay. So
I just want to first start by

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apologizing profusely for the comment of you
took it the wrong way. It was

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not my intention at all of saying
you look good in the con kitchen did

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not mean you belong in the kitchen. I was truly commenting on how beautiful

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you looked. And it was just
that moment and I got caught up in

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it and I think the words came
out wrong. But I those were not

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my intentions to be off putting by
that at all. I appreciate you saying

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that, and I just want to
make sure you know, like you should

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not say that to a woman ever, like it definitely will come across the

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wrong way. I definitely took it
the wrong way, but I do appreciate

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you clearing it up. I know
first dates can be very stressful and you

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can get anxious and say weird things. So hearing that, I'm okay chalking

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it up to that, can I
just jump in for a second lore because

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it sounds like I mean, it
sounds like Ryan's a great guy. I'm

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hoping that that was just, you
know, he said something that he didn't

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you know, me, and it
came out the wrong way. But he

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had told us he was trying to
be really creative, and his friends suggested

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the cooking class, and the friends
said it would be great, you know,

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something memorable and creative. Obviously it's
memorable now, But I don't think

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he meant like anything by it.
I mean, I think it's something that

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like two people have to agree to
do. You don't just say surprised someone

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and say hey, here's a job
for you, Like, hey, I

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know you, you're going to have
a really nice, relaxing, enjoyable evening,

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you know, getting to know someone. But no, actually you're going

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to be sweating. You're gonna be
working that new dress you bought is probably

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going to get a stain on it. Make sure that the person dresses appropriately,

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you know, like I got a
little bit of like the soft stuff.

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I'm yeah, it just wasn't okay, I yeah, no, can

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you got to make sure the other
person knows. Can I make a suggestion

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because I feel like you are great
and Ryan is great, and I feel

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like if you guys would agree to
a second date somewhere where you're not like

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cooking a meal or doing you know, like what you said, like relaxing,

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you get dressed up, you get
to know each other. I will

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pick up the tab. If that's
something you guys want to do, I'll

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pay for it. I think Ryan
is a really nice guy, and I

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would be interested. As long as
I do not have to cook my own

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meal, I am fine with that. I would be interested. I mean,

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and I can promise you you will
not do any cooking on that date

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whatsoever. Okay, Okay, that
sounds much better. I'm loving this.

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I'm gonna put you both on hold
and give you the scoop and let you

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know, you know, uh,
let you know all of the things you

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know you can do it basically,
go and do whatever you want and then

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we'll pick up the tab Okay,
okayible, I mean, this is what

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a weird day. Okay, thank
you, all right, hold on, guys,