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Heading to Manchester. Kayla went on
a great first date, but now she

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is being ghosted. What's going on, Kayla? Hi, Yeah, I'm

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being ghosted, all right, So
tell Savannah and I about this great first

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date you had. Yeah, so
I went Derek and I went on a

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date with a Foxwoods. It was
so fun. We went go karting.

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We had like an amazing time.
Like we had so much fun. We

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like got food after and like we
were talking and it was awesome and like

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sparks were flying. And then he
ghosted me. And I have no idea

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why. Wait? What like you
guys, you guys had an activity date.

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I feel like those are the dates
where you bought the most. Sounds

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like a lot of fun. I
know, I felt like we were,

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so it makes zero sense to me. I have no idea what happened now.

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Did you only try to reach out
to him once or did you like

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try to text them multiple times?
Like I know when I'm texting people sometimes

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I'll read a message when I'm in
the middle of something and then I just

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totally forget to answer. So I
don't know. No, No, I

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texted him a couple of times,
like you know, I texted a couple

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of times, like I, I
don't know what's going on. I don't

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know how to put this. God
here we go, well, like,

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uh no, I'm just saying are
you Are you a good driver? I

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mean maybe maybe if you're best,
I'm the best driver. I like a

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perfect driving record. Okay, I
was gonna say, because maybe if you're

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a bad driver driving a go carts, maybe I just want to get involved

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with that. I know Savannah.
Sometimes I'll follow Savannah out of work and

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I can't even keep up with a
girl. She just got a lead foot.

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Excuse me. I am an excellent
driver, but this is not about

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me. This is about Kayla.
Kayla. If you're ready, we'll go

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ahead and call your date. I
think the producer said his name was Derek.

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We'll give Derek a call and find
out while you're geting ghosted. Sure.

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I don't know how all this works, because Courtney usually does all the

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work. You got to dial the
I tried to do it last week and

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it was it was really hard.
I don't want to know why the phone

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is so complicated. I hope that
was the right number. That'd be awkward,

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could you imagine? So? Who? Yeah? Why not? Hi?

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Is this Derek? Uh yeah,
did Derek speaking? Hey Derek,

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this is Savannah. Hey it it's
Walmart Jeff from Kiss ninety five to seven.

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How are you? Oh? Oh
cool? Oh cool. I'm doing

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good. I'm doing good. How
you guys doing I'm doing pretty good.

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Thanks for asking. I'll tell you
what. My lower back hurts. I

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think I need a new bed bother
and that I'm pretty good. Thank you.

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All right. Well, now that
we've got that established, Derek,

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we're calling to let you know that
you are on a feature that we do

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here called Second Date Update. Apparently
you went on a great day with Kayla

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to Fox with you guys, went
go karting, sparks were flying, and

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it wasn't just from the go karts. So what's going on? Like,

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why are you not calling her back? Okay, look, okay, well

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all right, look yeah, okay, So yeah I went out with Kayla.

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I went out with Kayla. It's
kind of wild, but yeah,

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okay, so I went out with
Kayla. It was just just kind of

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it was cool, like we had
a good time, like you said,

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like we went out to Foxwoods,
did our thing with go cart. Honestly,

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I was having a pretty good time. But I don't know, the

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thing is that she's a she's great, she's a cool girl and all that,

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but like she's I don't know,
she's so super competitive, you know

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what I mean, Like, oh
oh man, Like we were doing this

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go carton and she was just and
she was just getting into it. And

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I don't know. For me,
my thing is like she's winning and doing

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her thing. She's just she was
just acting very very competitive and like in

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my face about it. She wasn't
very ladylike, if that makes sense.

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Yeah, And like I just I'm
not super into that. She was just

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kind of in my face. It
felt like I was with one of the

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boys, you know what I mean. Yeah, Now, Jared, let

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me ask you a question. Did
you let her win or did she beat

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you? No? Can I tell
you something serious? I was legitimately,

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I was working. I was trying
so hard. She was smoking me and

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there was nothing I could do about
it. And she was just beating me,

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and and she would and she would
get super like in my face about

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it, doing the kind of like
you know the thing when you kind of

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flinch at someone, Yeah, you
pinch your body at them, kind of

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like what you know what I mean
she was doing kind of like what I

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think she was being flirty, but
like it was off put to me or

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mine, to me and my homie
Daniel. I'm kind of thinking she's just

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not very lady like deep down.
You know, she's kind of got an

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energy tour that's a little more I
don't know, more more more more masculine

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than than like I want to be
the top dogs, you know what I

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mean? Yeah, yeah, okay, wait, wait, I think I

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see what's going on here. So
I feel like your issue is more with

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the fact that she beat you than
the fact that she was like ultra competitive.

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I mean because no, because I
mean like I'll take the w I'll

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come back with it. I just
look, I don't know. She was

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just competitive and she was winning.
It was just super. It was just

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super not ladylike. And I just
I wasn't too interested in it. I

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don't know, And that's why I
think, Yep, I'm here, that's

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k I feel like you just sound
like a sore loser. I'm sorry,

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you sound like a sore loser.
I mean a sore Look. Look,

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I paid for it. You couldn't
let me win. I don't know,

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I just feel like, what are
you talking about? I mean, if

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I'm paying for no card, you
can't like throw me one, you know,

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I don't know. It was it
was afoot. You were like winning

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and you were like telling me that
you were gonna take me out, and

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so it was weird. It was. It was kind of a lot.

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Wait wait, wait, wait wait, Derek, you're literally ghosting Kayla because

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she didn't let you win a round
of go karting. I mean, I

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look, she couldn't just let me
win. I just don't get that she

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couldn't. She saw that it was
bugging me out, feel like, and

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she's still she kind of leaned into
it, and I think she just got

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made her go harder, you know, like and then she was just she's

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just smoking me out there, and
I don't know, it just made me

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feel I don't know. It just
wasn't the most attractive thing. This girl

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like just smoking you at go card
she lapped me. I gotcha, I

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gotcha? Okay, all right well
now I mean yeah, I mean,

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let me ask you a question,
Kayla, would you want to go on

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a second date with Derek? I
feel like you would have to take him

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to an amusement park and win him
a Teddy Bear or something like that.

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Oh my god, her, how
about dinner where there's no competition unless we're

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doing an eating contest. I mean
I had a Oh I feel like,

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what am I supposed to do?
Like shrink for the rest of my life?

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If I like date this guy,
I don't think. So I don't

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know. I don't know. I
think I need somebody who's like gonna go

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toe to toe. Okay, Okay, Okay, So I think we've established

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there's gonna be no second date.
This is screaming toxic masculinity. Thank you

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guys so much for being on second
date. Update Kayla, looks like you

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got your answer. Great. Okay,