Heading to Manchester. Kayla went on a great first date, but now she
is being ghosted. What's going on, Kayla? Hi, Yeah, I'm
being ghosted, all right, So tell Savannah and I about this great first
date you had. Yeah, so I went Derek and I went on a
date with a Foxwoods. It was so fun. We went go karting.
We had like an amazing time. Like we had so much fun. We
like got food after and like we were talking and it was awesome and like
sparks were flying. And then he ghosted me. And I have no idea
why. Wait? What like you guys, you guys had an activity date.
I feel like those are the dates where you bought the most. Sounds
like a lot of fun. I know, I felt like we were,
so it makes zero sense to me. I have no idea what happened now.
Did you only try to reach out to him once or did you like
try to text them multiple times? Like I know when I'm texting people sometimes
I'll read a message when I'm in the middle of something and then I just
totally forget to answer. So I don't know. No, No, I
texted him a couple of times, like you know, I texted a couple
of times, like I, I don't know what's going on. I don't
know how to put this. God here we go, well, like,
uh no, I'm just saying are you Are you a good driver? I
mean maybe maybe if you're best, I'm the best driver. I like a
perfect driving record. Okay, I was gonna say, because maybe if you're
a bad driver driving a go carts, maybe I just want to get involved
with that. I know Savannah. Sometimes I'll follow Savannah out of work and
I can't even keep up with a girl. She just got a lead foot.
Excuse me. I am an excellent driver, but this is not about
me. This is about Kayla. Kayla. If you're ready, we'll go
ahead and call your date. I think the producer said his name was Derek.
We'll give Derek a call and find out while you're geting ghosted. Sure.
I don't know how all this works, because Courtney usually does all the
work. You got to dial the I tried to do it last week and
it was it was really hard. I don't want to know why the phone
is so complicated. I hope that was the right number. That'd be awkward,
could you imagine? So? Who? Yeah? Why not? Hi?
Is this Derek? Uh yeah, did Derek speaking? Hey Derek,
this is Savannah. Hey it it's Walmart Jeff from Kiss ninety five to seven.
How are you? Oh? Oh cool? Oh cool. I'm doing
good. I'm doing good. How you guys doing I'm doing pretty good.
Thanks for asking. I'll tell you what. My lower back hurts. I
think I need a new bed bother and that I'm pretty good. Thank you.
All right. Well, now that we've got that established, Derek,
we're calling to let you know that you are on a feature that we do
here called Second Date Update. Apparently you went on a great day with Kayla
to Fox with you guys, went go karting, sparks were flying, and
it wasn't just from the go karts. So what's going on? Like,
why are you not calling her back? Okay, look, okay, well
all right, look yeah, okay, So yeah I went out with Kayla.
I went out with Kayla. It's kind of wild, but yeah,
okay, so I went out with Kayla. It was just just kind of
it was cool, like we had a good time, like you said,
like we went out to Foxwoods, did our thing with go cart. Honestly,
I was having a pretty good time. But I don't know, the
thing is that she's a she's great, she's a cool girl and all that,
but like she's I don't know, she's so super competitive, you know
what I mean, Like, oh oh man, Like we were doing this
go carton and she was just and she was just getting into it. And
I don't know. For me, my thing is like she's winning and doing
her thing. She's just she was just acting very very competitive and like in
my face about it. She wasn't very ladylike, if that makes sense.
Yeah, And like I just I'm not super into that. She was just
kind of in my face. It felt like I was with one of the
boys, you know what I mean. Yeah, Now, Jared, let
me ask you a question. Did you let her win or did she beat
you? No? Can I tell you something serious? I was legitimately,
I was working. I was trying so hard. She was smoking me and
there was nothing I could do about it. And she was just beating me,
and and she would and she would get super like in my face about
it, doing the kind of like you know the thing when you kind of
flinch at someone, Yeah, you pinch your body at them, kind of
like what you know what I mean she was doing kind of like what I
think she was being flirty, but like it was off put to me or
mine, to me and my homie Daniel. I'm kind of thinking she's just
not very lady like deep down. You know, she's kind of got an
energy tour that's a little more I don't know, more more more more masculine
than than like I want to be the top dogs, you know what I
mean? Yeah, yeah, okay, wait, wait, I think I
see what's going on here. So I feel like your issue is more with
the fact that she beat you than the fact that she was like ultra competitive.
I mean because no, because I mean like I'll take the w I'll
come back with it. I just look, I don't know. She was
just competitive and she was winning. It was just super. It was just
super not ladylike. And I just I wasn't too interested in it. I
don't know, And that's why I think, Yep, I'm here, that's
k I feel like you just sound like a sore loser. I'm sorry,
you sound like a sore loser. I mean a sore Look. Look,
I paid for it. You couldn't let me win. I don't know,
I just feel like, what are you talking about? I mean, if
I'm paying for no card, you can't like throw me one, you know,
I don't know. It was it was afoot. You were like winning
and you were like telling me that you were gonna take me out, and
so it was weird. It was. It was kind of a lot.
Wait wait, wait, wait wait, Derek, you're literally ghosting Kayla because
she didn't let you win a round of go karting. I mean, I
look, she couldn't just let me win. I just don't get that she
couldn't. She saw that it was bugging me out, feel like, and
she's still she kind of leaned into it, and I think she just got
made her go harder, you know, like and then she was just she's
just smoking me out there, and I don't know, it just made me
feel I don't know. It just wasn't the most attractive thing. This girl
like just smoking you at go card she lapped me. I gotcha, I
gotcha? Okay, all right well now I mean yeah, I mean,
let me ask you a question, Kayla, would you want to go on
a second date with Derek? I feel like you would have to take him
to an amusement park and win him a Teddy Bear or something like that.
Oh my god, her, how about dinner where there's no competition unless we're
doing an eating contest. I mean I had a Oh I feel like,
what am I supposed to do? Like shrink for the rest of my life?
If I like date this guy, I don't think. So I don't
know. I don't know. I think I need somebody who's like gonna go
toe to toe. Okay, Okay, Okay, So I think we've established
there's gonna be no second date. This is screaming toxic masculinity. Thank you
guys so much for being on second date. Update Kayla, looks like you
got your answer. Great. Okay,