1 00:00:00,160 --> 00:00:04,559 Yesterday a young woman went viral and opened a debate on the issue of motherhood 2 00:00:04,559 --> 00:00:09,839 and parenthood. I see a lot of things in this young lady' s 3 00:00:09,919 --> 00:00:15,320 video if you saw him eduardo the video of this young woman crying because she 4 00:00:15,439 --> 00:00:17,760 ' s not overwhelmed with her daughter. I see there I see a person 5 00:00:17,879 --> 00:00:24,519 with serious mental health problems, starting because you have to have a very sick 6 00:00:24,519 --> 00:00:30,519 mind, I mean, you have to be very sick of the mind I 7 00:00:30,519 --> 00:00:35,799 did. I don' t know, psychiatrists could give you some kind of 8 00:00:35,880 --> 00:00:40,719 idea that behavior can lead someone to film, upload it to Tiktok and that 9 00:00:40,759 --> 00:00:47,679 video of Tiktok you then go viral where you make it clear that you' 10 00:00:47,759 --> 00:00:50,560 re sick of your daughter. I didn' t think my mom would have 11 00:00:50,600 --> 00:00:53,520 done it. I' ve got hide- and- seek akin to cry. 12 00:00:53,960 --> 00:01:00,399 Let' s listen to the pathetic that stars this video and let' 13 00:01:00,719 --> 00:01:03,640 s eat out of the no in the way, but from the bottom. 14 00:01:04,159 --> 00:01:12,840 There is an announcer named Tom lek Lankees, who is in English the dialogue 15 00:01:12,879 --> 00:01:18,560 he has with a listener, but I' m also going to put him 16 00:01:18,599 --> 00:01:21,079 for that and I' m going to translate to him some of what he 17 00:01:21,159 --> 00:01:23,840 discusses with and the background of what he discusses with the broad. After we 18 00:01:23,879 --> 00:01:32,000 listen to this lady who has gone viral on social networks, where she, 19 00:01:32,519 --> 00:01:37,920 then, expresses that grossly what you are about the daughter or misses very much 20 00:01:38,000 --> 00:01:44,519 the father of the daughter she has and is the mother of two children. 21 00:01:45,200 --> 00:01:49,840 They tell me that she is from the city of Moca, which is mocana, 22 00:01:51,400 --> 00:01:55,400 so she will be able to confirm me to someone and really is from 23 00:01:55,519 --> 00:02:00,120 her and that this video also told me a source yesterday, this video came 24 00:02:00,159 --> 00:02:05,439 to the school address and that from the school address they communicated with her as 25 00:02:05,519 --> 00:02:08,159 to draw her attention. A call must also be made to the authorities concerned 26 00:02:08,240 --> 00:02:14,240 with the welfare and safeguarding of children in the country, to approach this young 27 00:02:14,240 --> 00:02:19,840 woman and explain to her that what she is doing is not right for her 28 00:02:19,919 --> 00:02:28,000 daughter' s health and good development. Let' s not go with the 29 00:02:28,000 --> 00:02:30,319 video at all. Let' s hear what she says to see if we 30 00:02:30,319 --> 00:02:37,840 have, like she says stomach to bear it. Let' s listen, 31 00:02:37,840 --> 00:02:44,240 let' s listen. I' ll give you my room crying the silence 32 00:02:44,400 --> 00:02:45,879 I' ll look for my daughter at school. Now I' m gonna 33 00:02:45,879 --> 00:02:47,080 make him something to eat because he doesn' t see me like that anymore. 34 00:02:49,800 --> 00:02:59,960 This happens to me almost every day because I don' t know what 35 00:03:00,280 --> 00:03:04,479 more difficult if you create or maintain You put alimony on a man, we 36 00:03:04,520 --> 00:03:12,039 ' re going to assume the one you put it on and we' re 37 00:03:12,039 --> 00:03:14,120 going to assume it' s missing, we' re going to assume it 38 00:03:14,120 --> 00:03:15,439 ' s irresponsible and pay it. But who makes it up to you that 39 00:03:15,520 --> 00:03:20,719 I' m up this morning to raise up my anger to go to the 40 00:03:20,719 --> 00:03:25,599 cops, to have breakfast, to eat that nela seeks school. There I 41 00:03:25,639 --> 00:03:30,280 have to pay to take care of her or teach her to take care of 42 00:03:30,280 --> 00:03:32,639 herself so I can work, because if I don' t work, I 43 00:03:32,680 --> 00:03:36,319 can' t feed her or I can' t support or support her and 44 00:03:36,319 --> 00:03:39,039 my other son. Who compensates me that I am raising the human being, 45 00:03:39,759 --> 00:03:46,400 teaching him everything he knows, touching him courage, taking care of her, 46 00:03:50,439 --> 00:03:53,080 sacrificing my life very polygrate you that decided to have her, but this was 47 00:03:53,080 --> 00:04:00,919 between two. No and here, like nothing does anything, only you' 48 00:04:00,000 --> 00:04:09,039 re going to put up a pension and already the father says I work. 49 00:04:09,159 --> 00:04:15,639 I can' t take care of him and now who makes up for all 50 00:04:15,800 --> 00:04:19,319 that to me, oh mother, and if I asked the mom, if 51 00:04:19,319 --> 00:04:26,199 the badly changed girl, the mom and I now go out, I pull 52 00:04:26,240 --> 00:04:30,839 out the tear that I throw deep and there I have to be fine for 53 00:04:30,839 --> 00:04:32,959 me because I forget about myself and I know that I get a sability, 54 00:04:36,160 --> 00:04:36,879 but this isn' t easy, I don' t know. Me. 55 00:04:36,920 --> 00:04:41,120 That is why I admire more and more the women who have surrounded me, 56 00:04:43,319 --> 00:04:48,639 because they never made me feel that what they were doing for me was a 57 00:04:48,639 --> 00:04:51,639 sacrifice. I don' t know. I have a lot of mixed ideas, 58 00:04:53,160 --> 00:04:56,120 but I' m all that' s wrong with the idea of being 59 00:04:56,120 --> 00:04:59,680 a woman. Today, I mean, that' s mine, I think, 60 00:04:59,720 --> 00:05:01,319 but I don' t think she' s crying about being a mother 61 00:05:01,319 --> 00:05:05,439 anymore. She doesn' t cry because she needs the other key, the 62 00:05:05,519 --> 00:05:10,680 child' s dad wants her other things and she wants the other thing to 63 00:05:10,680 --> 00:05:13,879 sleep. She wants here, she wants to listen to street, she wants 64 00:05:14,800 --> 00:05:21,079 to drink, she wants it because if she doesn' t misinterpret, she 65 00:05:21,079 --> 00:05:28,839 talks about who makes up for me, so the sacrifice, the sacrifice that 66 00:05:28,839 --> 00:05:31,560 they sacrificed, is a sacrifice. But honestly, that two- eyed idea. 67 00:05:32,279 --> 00:05:38,360 I was commenting on a twitter yesterday and I think a lot of people 68 00:05:38,360 --> 00:05:43,360 are retweeting it. I don' t want to get away from my words 69 00:05:43,519 --> 00:05:49,560 because maybe you see, maybe, maybe, maybe one can not know and 70 00:05:49,800 --> 00:05:55,439 can fit into the case, that this is a drama of her to get 71 00:05:55,480 --> 00:06:00,600 attention, go viral and invite radio foques. We can' t let him 72 00:06:00,600 --> 00:06:05,319 go. I don' t rule it out and for me what makes the 73 00:06:05,399 --> 00:06:10,519 most sense to me is that that' s the possibility that Santiago Matías will 74 00:06:10,519 --> 00:06:14,120 invite him there to make them a figure because there' s Tik Tokker has 75 00:06:14,199 --> 00:06:18,439 fifty- four thousand followers on his Twitter account and she posts a lot of 76 00:06:18,519 --> 00:06:24,079 it' s his lifestyle and sheath. Then I wrote yesterday reflecting on this 77 00:06:24,199 --> 00:06:27,360 I said I did not seem to explain to her about the responsibility of being 78 00:06:27,439 --> 00:06:30,800 a mother or father. People raised her in a society that has eroded the 79 00:06:30,839 --> 00:06:34,680 idea and concept of what a family is. That' s what we' 80 00:06:34,680 --> 00:06:39,800 re seeing here. We have these models where you make many women think wrongly 81 00:06:41,040 --> 00:06:46,279 that she alone can with everything and they are overwhelmed when they clash with doubt 82 00:06:46,399 --> 00:06:56,720 the harsh reality in mind that they also do not accept the result of the 83 00:06:56,759 --> 00:07:02,399 bad choice that they have made the moment to decide who to give them pregnancy 84 00:07:02,560 --> 00:07:06,959 and chachas throw it at me Daddy and the give me the daddy loves the 85 00:07:06,959 --> 00:07:11,839 papers take. You' ve bought spank right there and then it turns out 86 00:07:11,959 --> 00:07:15,519 the guy is, like there' s a lot of ladies who say, 87 00:07:15,519 --> 00:07:16,959 well. I think we saw the debate now that the guy is good and 88 00:07:17,000 --> 00:07:19,519 he' s got it big, the important thing, although Chiquito showed that 89 00:07:19,519 --> 00:07:21,040 he has it. Little boy' s got a video going around. Second 90 00:07:21,160 --> 00:07:29,959 you saw what a disappointment, but breast milk. But in the case of 91 00:07:30,160 --> 00:07:33,680 this young woman, I don' t know. I wouldn' t want 92 00:07:33,680 --> 00:07:39,240 to. Let' s hear what she said to a listener. This is 93 00:07:39,439 --> 00:07:46,560 an announcer who was quite popular. He had a syndicated program on American radio 94 00:07:46,680 --> 00:07:53,839 called Tom Hnks, not Tom Lankees, a very good radio character. His 95 00:07:53,879 --> 00:07:58,240 programs are out there on the Internet, the guy' s tough. I 96 00:07:58,319 --> 00:08:01,800 ' m going to translate some of what he' s discussing with this listeners 97 00:08:03,600 --> 00:08:11,639 Let' s hear this sheath please her. I don' t know if 98 00:08:11,680 --> 00:08:16,360 the Internet here tends to get slow in the morning, but not the rain. 99 00:08:16,279 --> 00:08:20,160 Not every day so far it' s super slow, so it' 100 00:08:20,279 --> 00:08:26,920 s impossible to load the page. Let' s listen to w whio and 101 00:08:26,920 --> 00:08:31,360 tas as well. Hey the John Fisho says why you don' t talk 102 00:08:31,439 --> 00:08:37,639 about men who don' t pay maintenance for their children. Aha wemus g 103 00:08:37,159 --> 00:08:41,960 gus Light, because women like you open their legs to men like that. 104 00:08:43,039 --> 00:08:48,039 Tells the announcer ay guagua and c the spacho say we man a joues eir 105 00:08:48,240 --> 00:08:52,840 shpunks boo emails why you don' t talk about women who choose irresponsible men. 106 00:08:54,960 --> 00:09:01,799 He keeps telling him or little and there weyera with them eter Wane I 107 00:09:03,039 --> 00:09:09,120 have not heard t of gender women who decide to understand a night with a 108 00:09:09,279 --> 00:09:13,879 bartender or a guy on a motorcycle museum or a musician. Those are all 109 00:09:13,960 --> 00:09:22,159 irresponsible. Listen to your p and j d we go nobody to talk to 110 00:09:22,159 --> 00:09:28,960 you. He says read the subject or take you can talk to me all 111 00:09:28,120 --> 00:09:33,759 day. It responds to that statement. He does, John trum and d 112 00:09:33,840 --> 00:09:37,639 the ratio shup n on the Jane Jorge is there arguing. It tells him 113 00:09:37,960 --> 00:09:41,639 what kind of sheath you make doesn' t talk about measures how you make 114 00:09:41,720 --> 00:09:43,519 a Radioecho, a radio show. I' m twenty- five in this 115 00:09:43,519 --> 00:09:50,360 pod. I can tell you I' m ont to form on, but 116 00:09:50,480 --> 00:09:56,200 it' s not Harth chill Getter. I had a married thiema a while 117 00:09:56,200 --> 00:10:01,840 ago. Previously, my husband and I had a son we Bering chiers I. 118 00:10:03,519 --> 00:10:09,000 Before she quit, the pipe says the guy hit her t h r. 119 00:10:09,639 --> 00:10:13,080 He' s telling him he really beat you pretty much for the va. 120 00:10:13,279 --> 00:10:16,399 Why you tolerated it for two years. Keep saying the tiger that I 121 00:10:16,600 --> 00:10:24,360 have or can you tell me why you tolerated this guy beating you for two 122 00:10:24,480 --> 00:10:33,639 years. He keeps telling these eva to big n ok says My answer is 123 00:10:33,799 --> 00:10:39,080 that because I was young and stupid. Stupid Ay Gray I remember, you 124 00:10:39,080 --> 00:10:46,679 ' re stupid bay chas bur m you complain to the voice of a guy 125 00:10:46,840 --> 00:10:50,399 who doesn' t pay you maintenance for your son, the guy who hit 126 00:10:50,480 --> 00:11:01,159 you for two years. Or the h no wey I am observant w s 127 00:11:01,399 --> 00:11:07,519 and are less hist learn sns of fillint the he tuol the prooy we what 128 00:11:07,600 --> 00:11:09,919 you are telling him. In summary, that she was the one who chose 129 00:11:09,960 --> 00:11:13,480 this irresponsible guy, who beat her up, etcetera, and that she was 130 00:11:13,639 --> 00:11:20,639 the one who had that one in which she made that decision A s s 131 00:11:20,759 --> 00:11:30,759 a Segi Chutsbor I I tell you I suck at your stupid old woman. 132 00:11:31,679 --> 00:11:43,279 He listens to the t toupet oh my got o or charlismo says still stupid. 133 00:11:43,360 --> 00:11:48,120 You' re waiting for the guy who beat you up before now to 134 00:11:48,639 --> 00:11:50,279 be responsible, man. The man changed already after he left you that he 135 00:11:50,320 --> 00:11:54,159 ' s going to be responsible. I was giving you the horn for two 136 00:11:54,200 --> 00:11:54,960 years and the guy' s gonna be responsible now. No better. You 137 00:11:54,960 --> 00:12:05,080 me the s t is crazy. I want to play watch there on tells 138 00:12:05,159 --> 00:12:07,960 you I can' t believe you' re still on the radio and the 139 00:12:07,000 --> 00:12:13,759 guy answers to Monera. He tells him I' m on the radio because 140 00:12:13,840 --> 00:12:18,639 I' m right, other than I have millions of listeners. Tom Lake 141 00:12:18,759 --> 00:12:24,600 responds to the Eva chats Wa and I do i wic b the ke you 142 00:12:26,440 --> 00:12:33,000 if you want the demographic target, so it doesn' t matter to me 143 00:12:33,320 --> 00:12:50,960 Negre, black up Pike qui chusport snt then those. This cut has gone 144 00:12:52,039 --> 00:12:54,080 pretty viral in the last few years in the United States. Wherever this discussion 145 00:12:54,120 --> 00:12:58,679 is between this woman and this is the announcer who played these issues on the 146 00:12:58,759 --> 00:13:03,120 Los Angeles radio, and I think it goes very well with what this jeva 147 00:13:03,200 --> 00:13:07,519 speaks, which, I repeat, gives me the impression that she is not 148 00:13:07,600 --> 00:13:13,000 bothered by being overwhelmed by having to raise a boy. My aunt, having 149 00:13:13,000 --> 00:13:18,240 worked for years, had her home and her own roof and a steady job, 150 00:13:18,679 --> 00:13:22,960 separated from her husband with four boys, one of a year old two 151 00:13:24,039 --> 00:13:30,840 teenagers and already an adult, and my aunt went on with her life. 152 00:13:31,720 --> 00:13:35,440 I' ve never heard her complain about having to raise alone, four boys 153 00:13:35,519 --> 00:13:41,080 and have to live like a pool ball until today. Maybe the women of 154 00:13:41,080 --> 00:13:43,200 the past were different from today' s. They raised her with the idea 155 00:13:43,200 --> 00:13:46,639 that one day they would have to take responsibility for a life that would depend 156 00:13:46,720 --> 00:13:54,360 on them. But since women' s empowerment has made them think that the 157 00:13:54,440 --> 00:13:56,679 children raise it to the nanny, that it is raised by the domestic mother, 158 00:13:58,159 --> 00:14:01,440 your mother. I went to women because when I was little, Mom 159 00:14:01,440 --> 00:14:05,120 helped me not. Today' s grandmothers aren' t like our grandmothers. 160 00:14:05,639 --> 00:14:09,200 I believe that before there was more of a tendency to create women, to 161 00:14:09,320 --> 00:14:20,120 prepare women to be mothers and to know have passed the global society and Dominican 162 00:14:20,279 --> 00:14:24,679 republic is not exempt from them. They have gone through a process of social 163 00:14:24,679 --> 00:14:28,720 reengineering, which many of the things that previously had you in society have already 164 00:14:28,759 --> 00:14:33,200 disappeared. And one of those things was the idea of what a family was. 165 00:14:37,000 --> 00:14:43,919 There are many solutions to that and I and most importantly, if today 166 00:14:43,080 --> 00:14:50,879 there are unhappy women overwhelmed by the problems that come upon them, also those 167 00:14:52,360 --> 00:14:58,039 empowered and unhappy women must understand that they are the ones who have made the 168 00:14:58,200 --> 00:15:03,799 decision and taken the give of everything that has gone wrong. Makes you responsible 169 00:15:03,840 --> 00:15:09,519 for your bad decisions. They don' t make you less people. Why 170 00:15:09,679 --> 00:15:13,799 most of the boys are good. You can easily give your daughter' s 171 00:15:13,879 --> 00:15:24,679 parental authority to your father and take that away from you. Then let' 172 00:15:24,799 --> 00:15:28,759 s go with some ideas found in this block without pause, after talking about 173 00:15:28,799 --> 00:15:33,240 the Jeva that went viral complaining because she' s overwhelmed by having to raise 174 00:15:33,360 --> 00:15:37,279 a dad' s daughter. Just give her the child support or, the 175 00:15:37,360 --> 00:15:43,080 support, the pension and or call it here that she says how she said 176 00:15:43,120 --> 00:15:48,639 Peter Basketball in tears. Not that the sacrifice that he who recompenses them always 177 00:15:48,879 --> 00:15:52,639 compensates for his sacrifice. Good morning to you, good morning, of course, 178 00:15:52,799 --> 00:15:56,279 good morning. Yes look in the case of this many is as you 179 00:15:56,360 --> 00:16:00,720 say Alberto, already trying to attract attention and when she who rewards me they 180 00:16:00,879 --> 00:16:07,799 refer as if they were looking for a financial compensation. But I' ve 181 00:16:07,919 --> 00:16:11,399 raised myself at one stage of my life, well, you know me. 182 00:16:11,480 --> 00:16:18,879 The best reward of parenting is the human being you make. It' s 183 00:16:19,000 --> 00:16:23,600 not a monetary thing, it' s not something you' re looking for 184 00:16:23,840 --> 00:16:29,200 a house that millions, that' s when your children are away from you 185 00:16:29,320 --> 00:16:30,399 that people say how much education their children have. Your mom can tell that 186 00:16:30,559 --> 00:16:37,320 she was present in your life and all that already. It' s like 187 00:16:37,600 --> 00:16:42,039 good can also influence that now he wants to sell you a pink motherhood. 188 00:16:44,200 --> 00:16:48,639 And these young girls want to get pregnant, they want to have children, 189 00:16:49,120 --> 00:16:52,320 but they want to keep having a single life. And that' s not 190 00:16:52,320 --> 00:16:59,279 like that. Thank you Manuela Bora day or good morning, five, three, 191 00:16:59,720 --> 00:17:03,319 ninety- two who was fifty. How well look you know that God 192 00:17:03,359 --> 00:17:10,119 was created by a mother who gave up, you know, and you really 193 00:17:10,200 --> 00:17:12,240 bought them back who rewarded her. I reward her and I know that I 194 00:17:12,319 --> 00:17:15,359 reward her for what she believed, what she did to that woman. Now 195 00:17:15,720 --> 00:17:19,839 that she' s my mother, they' re not missing anything because of 196 00:17:19,839 --> 00:17:23,640 the work she did. I am extremely grateful for everything you did for me 197 00:17:25,079 --> 00:17:30,079 and that is appreciated then. Like that aside, on the side that there 198 00:17:30,200 --> 00:17:33,079 seems to be a problem on the roof of his roof you know if he 199 00:17:33,480 --> 00:17:37,480 says around here on Twitter a person who is able to record himself crying on 200 00:17:37,519 --> 00:17:41,440 social networks, he is able to get clear and upload it because you film 201 00:17:41,519 --> 00:17:45,519 the video is there, you see it and you raise it point, you 202 00:17:45,599 --> 00:17:48,400 see it, brother, you can do anything. Good morning there, I 203 00:17:48,480 --> 00:17:52,880 cried well, good morning. Look at that girl from my point. You 204 00:17:53,319 --> 00:17:56,000 may want to get attention, but I see her with mental health problems. 205 00:17:56,079 --> 00:18:00,480 I also made a 13- year- old child that I' ve wanted 206 00:18:00,599 --> 00:18:04,240 alone since the boy was a year old, because he made a bad choice 207 00:18:04,279 --> 00:18:06,839 with his dad but I don' t tell him pension. What I' 208 00:18:06,960 --> 00:18:10,799 ve done is I' ve tried every day to make sure that that child 209 00:18:10,799 --> 00:18:17,519 doesn' t miss anything, doing, changing jobs, training myself, looking 210 00:18:17,559 --> 00:18:18,039 for the means so that that child doesn' t lack anyone. When I 211 00:18:18,079 --> 00:18:22,480 arrive with that child who tells me what educated the child is, what I 212 00:18:22,519 --> 00:18:26,440 have measured, I don' t know what else reward that lady is true, 213 00:18:26,720 --> 00:18:30,039 really. I agree with you on that sotella It' s not going 214 00:18:30,039 --> 00:18:34,160 well. Good morning. Dale Ho, good morning. Come on, good 215 00:18:34,160 --> 00:18:38,880 morning. Look, my nephew' s gonna turn three now because she was 216 00:18:40,519 --> 00:18:44,039 born for the pandemic. He was born on the 22nd and the 30th. 217 00:18:44,359 --> 00:18:49,799 Her mother passed away and my brother took that girl out of the way without 218 00:18:49,960 --> 00:18:55,319 seeing the other part of the family, or anything, education, food, 219 00:18:55,920 --> 00:19:00,359 all burdened, trouble, home payment, cars and he took her out without 220 00:19:00,480 --> 00:19:04,400 having to claim anyone, and no one will think anything of her. Well, 221 00:19:04,480 --> 00:19:07,640 yes, the girl when she gets big and pretty and beautiful and you 222 00:19:07,680 --> 00:19:11,359 dance her in the fifteen, uh, have affection for the boys. I 223 00:19:11,440 --> 00:19:18,119 think that, I repeat with Nani you must go to help this child, 224 00:19:18,319 --> 00:19:22,200 because I believe that the little friends of this child. You don' t 225 00:19:22,319 --> 00:19:26,039 give him that they' re gonna watch this video and they' re gonna 226 00:19:26,079 --> 00:19:27,720 start telling him your mom doesn' t love you. You weigh on your 227 00:19:27,799 --> 00:19:36,279 mom, uh, your mom doesn' t love you. I don' 228 00:19:36,279 --> 00:19:41,160 t know, I don' t have kids, but I feel ugly. 229 00:19:41,359 --> 00:19:48,079 It' s you putting a creature into public scorn knowing your face knows it. 230 00:19:48,559 --> 00:19:52,079 A lot of people, that is today in the village where this lady, 231 00:19:52,519 --> 00:19:56,400 everyone knows that she' s sick of her daughter with Ai gave that 232 00:19:56,480 --> 00:20:06,160 post like or. Nani gave her the one to grab onsen Good morning, 233 00:20:07,599 --> 00:20:11,839 well, yeah, uh, good morning, beautiful darling look, alone guys 234 00:20:11,920 --> 00:20:15,880 and girls two hours or s I had two daughters. Now they' re 235 00:20:15,920 --> 00:20:19,920 twenty- two and twenty- one. You sound, very young, good 236 00:20:21,000 --> 00:20:22,960 young. I' m forty years old, ah young loves, hey, 237 00:20:23,160 --> 00:20:29,279 hey, I look great. Oh, that' s good, and he 238 00:20:29,279 --> 00:20:30,640 owes you beer, not much, but he feels. You raised two girls, 239 00:20:30,960 --> 00:20:36,279 twenty and twenty- two, twenty- one and twenty- one, 240 00:20:36,640 --> 00:20:37,480 twenty- two, two thousand and two. Feeling and risk left you breathing. 241 00:20:40,039 --> 00:20:41,799 Nothing gives my love. Hey, hey, hey, hey, hey, 242 00:20:41,799 --> 00:20:41,799 hey, hey, hey, hey, hey, hey, hey, 243 00:20:41,799 --> 00:20:47,240 hey, hey, hey. I' m done with it, but it 244 00:20:47,240 --> 00:20:51,400 still follows my compensation. Right now I' ve made two people useful to 245 00:20:51,519 --> 00:20:55,359 society. Or I' ll make up for society. My daughters also make 246 00:20:55,519 --> 00:20:59,880 up for me, and if she, having a little girl, is hard 247 00:21:00,079 --> 00:21:04,240 to imagine when they' re teenagers. For me it is a compensation to 248 00:21:04,359 --> 00:21:08,480 have some girls who tell me on the street listen to me, but how 249 00:21:08,480 --> 00:21:14,640 well your daughters are, how educated they are, they are in college they 250 00:21:15,440 --> 00:21:18,160 are preparing and they are very applied. This is my compensation, that' 251 00:21:18,200 --> 00:21:21,880 s my satisfaction. And that every woman goes through difficult times. Yeah, 252 00:21:22,440 --> 00:21:26,359 ' cause it' s hard for you to raise kids alone. It' 253 00:21:26,519 --> 00:21:30,599 s not easy, it' s not pink, as someone who called earlier 254 00:21:30,599 --> 00:21:34,119 said. It' s hard, but you have to accept, because you 255 00:21:34,200 --> 00:21:37,960 decided to be a mother and before you were a woman, you have to 256 00:21:37,960 --> 00:21:41,119 be a mother. And if you' re not ready for that, don 257 00:21:41,240 --> 00:21:44,440 ' t have it as simple as it is. Oh I don' t 258 00:21:44,640 --> 00:21:48,319 know, because well, everybody' s not me no, because that' 259 00:21:48,319 --> 00:21:55,319 s very, very, very personal. But the children, from the point 260 00:21:55,359 --> 00:22:00,720 of view that I see him receive a gift, the first, which is 261 00:22:00,799 --> 00:22:03,400 a responsibility, no no, but receive a reward. So because I have 262 00:22:03,519 --> 00:22:07,480 a son, to seek a rep for raising him, for your fulfilling something 263 00:22:07,640 --> 00:22:11,720 that is inherent in the fact of my study, when you impriminate the woman, 264 00:22:11,759 --> 00:22:15,480 yours whatever you want or not. You weren' t going to get 265 00:22:15,559 --> 00:22:18,519 a washing machine because of you, the chaze inside, I' m sure, 266 00:22:18,599 --> 00:22:22,039 and a case was going out there A child is going to come out 267 00:22:22,039 --> 00:22:22,880 the same moment you introduce him. You are aware that there may be a 268 00:22:22,960 --> 00:22:26,200 consequence that is called a child. So, starting from that fact, you 269 00:22:26,240 --> 00:22:33,240 have to take responsibility for yourself in poquet was an adult. You have responsibilities 270 00:22:34,000 --> 00:22:37,559 to look for that as assuming the consequence of the decisions that you make and 271 00:22:37,680 --> 00:22:41,200 that it is rich warm in truth, to what done then the boy goes 272 00:22:41,200 --> 00:22:45,319 warm. Yeah, I think people who really miss the life they had before 273 00:22:45,759 --> 00:22:52,400 they had a boy who might have this one to leave certain things, for 274 00:22:52,519 --> 00:22:56,920 example, in the economic aspect, the social aspects. That kind of thing 275 00:22:57,559 --> 00:23:04,319 changes a little, because all your energies are focused on other things, other 276 00:23:04,440 --> 00:23:08,880 priorities. Priorities will change and maybe that' s what you miss. But 277 00:23:10,000 --> 00:23:12,839 I take it, that' s the logical thing, that' s the 278 00:23:12,839 --> 00:23:15,799 natural thing. Here' s the pause before the break. Eduardo Mira says 279 00:23:15,839 --> 00:23:18,599 here, our friends, Rolando married and I agree very much with him, 280 00:23:18,799 --> 00:23:21,559 that what happens is that today' s woman, he says, while the 281 00:23:21,720 --> 00:23:26,359 man paints more bad, he has tattoos, the bacon wants to have the 282 00:23:26,480 --> 00:23:30,720 children and that he likes malons. If the guy tells him to put on 283 00:23:30,759 --> 00:23:37,680 the thirty- mom, women are wet right now what' s cute looks 284 00:23:37,839 --> 00:23:41,839 like taking a nasty goat, especially that they live with a ten thousand pofs 285 00:23:41,960 --> 00:23:47,319 vapez. A. If tom X says it well enough, that' s 286 00:23:47,400 --> 00:23:52,359 what you decide to do to an irresponsible man. Then don' t come 287 00:23:52,400 --> 00:23:55,640 to me either with the idea that because the woman should actually have, no, 288 00:23:55,720 --> 00:23:59,480 no, no. I also do not believe that your irresponsibility should pay 289 00:23:59,519 --> 00:24:03,279 for it with your life and the consequence of your irresponsibility. Or not anymore, 290 00:24:03,359 --> 00:24:07,119 because the abortion of seeing doesn' t tell me about abortion there' 291 00:24:07,119 --> 00:24:10,359 s a predator. All that is called a condom or a patilla the day 292 00:24:11,039 --> 00:24:17,519 after avoiding planning. There are many methods before avoiding reaching that point. The 293 00:24:17,680 --> 00:24:25,759 responsibility that no one wants to assume is the word after less understood freedom in 294 00:24:25,880 --> 00:24:26,079 the world.