Yesterday a young woman went viral and opened a debate on the issue of motherhood
and parenthood. I see a lot of things in this young lady' s
video if you saw him eduardo the video of this young woman crying because she
' s not overwhelmed with her daughter. I see there I see a person
with serious mental health problems, starting because you have to have a very sick
mind, I mean, you have to be very sick of the mind I
did. I don' t know, psychiatrists could give you some kind of
idea that behavior can lead someone to film, upload it to Tiktok and that
video of Tiktok you then go viral where you make it clear that you'
re sick of your daughter. I didn' t think my mom would have
done it. I' ve got hide- and- seek akin to cry.
Let' s listen to the pathetic that stars this video and let'
s eat out of the no in the way, but from the bottom.
There is an announcer named Tom lek Lankees, who is in English the dialogue
he has with a listener, but I' m also going to put him
for that and I' m going to translate to him some of what he
discusses with and the background of what he discusses with the broad. After we
listen to this lady who has gone viral on social networks, where she,
then, expresses that grossly what you are about the daughter or misses very much
the father of the daughter she has and is the mother of two children.
They tell me that she is from the city of Moca, which is mocana,
so she will be able to confirm me to someone and really is from
her and that this video also told me a source yesterday, this video came
to the school address and that from the school address they communicated with her as
to draw her attention. A call must also be made to the authorities concerned
with the welfare and safeguarding of children in the country, to approach this young
woman and explain to her that what she is doing is not right for her
daughter' s health and good development. Let' s not go with the
video at all. Let' s hear what she says to see if we
have, like she says stomach to bear it. Let' s listen,
let' s listen. I' ll give you my room crying the silence
I' ll look for my daughter at school. Now I' m gonna
make him something to eat because he doesn' t see me like that anymore.
This happens to me almost every day because I don' t know what
more difficult if you create or maintain You put alimony on a man, we
' re going to assume the one you put it on and we' re
going to assume it' s missing, we' re going to assume it
' s irresponsible and pay it. But who makes it up to you that
I' m up this morning to raise up my anger to go to the
cops, to have breakfast, to eat that nela seeks school. There I
have to pay to take care of her or teach her to take care of
herself so I can work, because if I don' t work, I
can' t feed her or I can' t support or support her and
my other son. Who compensates me that I am raising the human being,
teaching him everything he knows, touching him courage, taking care of her,
sacrificing my life very polygrate you that decided to have her, but this was
between two. No and here, like nothing does anything, only you'
re going to put up a pension and already the father says I work.
I can' t take care of him and now who makes up for all
that to me, oh mother, and if I asked the mom, if
the badly changed girl, the mom and I now go out, I pull
out the tear that I throw deep and there I have to be fine for
me because I forget about myself and I know that I get a sability,
but this isn' t easy, I don' t know. Me.
That is why I admire more and more the women who have surrounded me,
because they never made me feel that what they were doing for me was a
sacrifice. I don' t know. I have a lot of mixed ideas,
but I' m all that' s wrong with the idea of being
a woman. Today, I mean, that' s mine, I think,
but I don' t think she' s crying about being a mother
anymore. She doesn' t cry because she needs the other key, the
child' s dad wants her other things and she wants the other thing to
sleep. She wants here, she wants to listen to street, she wants
to drink, she wants it because if she doesn' t misinterpret, she
talks about who makes up for me, so the sacrifice, the sacrifice that
they sacrificed, is a sacrifice. But honestly, that two- eyed idea.
I was commenting on a twitter yesterday and I think a lot of people
are retweeting it. I don' t want to get away from my words
because maybe you see, maybe, maybe, maybe one can not know and
can fit into the case, that this is a drama of her to get
attention, go viral and invite radio foques. We can' t let him
go. I don' t rule it out and for me what makes the
most sense to me is that that' s the possibility that Santiago Matías will
invite him there to make them a figure because there' s Tik Tokker has
fifty- four thousand followers on his Twitter account and she posts a lot of
it' s his lifestyle and sheath. Then I wrote yesterday reflecting on this
I said I did not seem to explain to her about the responsibility of being
a mother or father. People raised her in a society that has eroded the
idea and concept of what a family is. That' s what we'
re seeing here. We have these models where you make many women think wrongly
that she alone can with everything and they are overwhelmed when they clash with doubt
the harsh reality in mind that they also do not accept the result of the
bad choice that they have made the moment to decide who to give them pregnancy
and chachas throw it at me Daddy and the give me the daddy loves the
papers take. You' ve bought spank right there and then it turns out
the guy is, like there' s a lot of ladies who say,
well. I think we saw the debate now that the guy is good and
he' s got it big, the important thing, although Chiquito showed that
he has it. Little boy' s got a video going around. Second
you saw what a disappointment, but breast milk. But in the case of
this young woman, I don' t know. I wouldn' t want
to. Let' s hear what she said to a listener. This is
an announcer who was quite popular. He had a syndicated program on American radio
called Tom Hnks, not Tom Lankees, a very good radio character. His
programs are out there on the Internet, the guy' s tough. I
' m going to translate some of what he' s discussing with this listeners
Let' s hear this sheath please her. I don' t know if
the Internet here tends to get slow in the morning, but not the rain.
Not every day so far it' s super slow, so it'
s impossible to load the page. Let' s listen to w whio and
tas as well. Hey the John Fisho says why you don' t talk
about men who don' t pay maintenance for their children. Aha wemus g
gus Light, because women like you open their legs to men like that.
Tells the announcer ay guagua and c the spacho say we man a joues eir
shpunks boo emails why you don' t talk about women who choose irresponsible men.
He keeps telling him or little and there weyera with them eter Wane I
have not heard t of gender women who decide to understand a night with a
bartender or a guy on a motorcycle museum or a musician. Those are all
irresponsible. Listen to your p and j d we go nobody to talk to
you. He says read the subject or take you can talk to me all
day. It responds to that statement. He does, John trum and d
the ratio shup n on the Jane Jorge is there arguing. It tells him
what kind of sheath you make doesn' t talk about measures how you make
a Radioecho, a radio show. I' m twenty- five in this
pod. I can tell you I' m ont to form on, but
it' s not Harth chill Getter. I had a married thiema a while
ago. Previously, my husband and I had a son we Bering chiers I.
Before she quit, the pipe says the guy hit her t h r.
He' s telling him he really beat you pretty much for the va.
Why you tolerated it for two years. Keep saying the tiger that I
have or can you tell me why you tolerated this guy beating you for two
years. He keeps telling these eva to big n ok says My answer is
that because I was young and stupid. Stupid Ay Gray I remember, you
' re stupid bay chas bur m you complain to the voice of a guy
who doesn' t pay you maintenance for your son, the guy who hit
you for two years. Or the h no wey I am observant w s
and are less hist learn sns of fillint the he tuol the prooy we what
you are telling him. In summary, that she was the one who chose
this irresponsible guy, who beat her up, etcetera, and that she was
the one who had that one in which she made that decision A s s
a Segi Chutsbor I I tell you I suck at your stupid old woman.
He listens to the t toupet oh my got o or charlismo says still stupid.
You' re waiting for the guy who beat you up before now to
be responsible, man. The man changed already after he left you that he
' s going to be responsible. I was giving you the horn for two
years and the guy' s gonna be responsible now. No better. You
me the s t is crazy. I want to play watch there on tells
you I can' t believe you' re still on the radio and the
guy answers to Monera. He tells him I' m on the radio because
I' m right, other than I have millions of listeners. Tom Lake
responds to the Eva chats Wa and I do i wic b the ke you
if you want the demographic target, so it doesn' t matter to me
Negre, black up Pike qui chusport snt then those. This cut has gone
pretty viral in the last few years in the United States. Wherever this discussion
is between this woman and this is the announcer who played these issues on the
Los Angeles radio, and I think it goes very well with what this jeva
speaks, which, I repeat, gives me the impression that she is not
bothered by being overwhelmed by having to raise a boy. My aunt, having
worked for years, had her home and her own roof and a steady job,
separated from her husband with four boys, one of a year old two
teenagers and already an adult, and my aunt went on with her life.
I' ve never heard her complain about having to raise alone, four boys
and have to live like a pool ball until today. Maybe the women of
the past were different from today' s. They raised her with the idea
that one day they would have to take responsibility for a life that would depend
on them. But since women' s empowerment has made them think that the
children raise it to the nanny, that it is raised by the domestic mother,
your mother. I went to women because when I was little, Mom
helped me not. Today' s grandmothers aren' t like our grandmothers.
I believe that before there was more of a tendency to create women, to
prepare women to be mothers and to know have passed the global society and Dominican
republic is not exempt from them. They have gone through a process of social
reengineering, which many of the things that previously had you in society have already
disappeared. And one of those things was the idea of what a family was.
There are many solutions to that and I and most importantly, if today
there are unhappy women overwhelmed by the problems that come upon them, also those
empowered and unhappy women must understand that they are the ones who have made the
decision and taken the give of everything that has gone wrong. Makes you responsible
for your bad decisions. They don' t make you less people. Why
most of the boys are good. You can easily give your daughter' s
parental authority to your father and take that away from you. Then let'
s go with some ideas found in this block without pause, after talking about
the Jeva that went viral complaining because she' s overwhelmed by having to raise
a dad' s daughter. Just give her the child support or, the
support, the pension and or call it here that she says how she said
Peter Basketball in tears. Not that the sacrifice that he who recompenses them always
compensates for his sacrifice. Good morning to you, good morning, of course,
good morning. Yes look in the case of this many is as you
say Alberto, already trying to attract attention and when she who rewards me they
refer as if they were looking for a financial compensation. But I' ve
raised myself at one stage of my life, well, you know me.
The best reward of parenting is the human being you make. It' s
not a monetary thing, it' s not something you' re looking for
a house that millions, that' s when your children are away from you
that people say how much education their children have. Your mom can tell that
she was present in your life and all that already. It' s like
good can also influence that now he wants to sell you a pink motherhood.
And these young girls want to get pregnant, they want to have children,
but they want to keep having a single life. And that' s not
like that. Thank you Manuela Bora day or good morning, five, three,
ninety- two who was fifty. How well look you know that God
was created by a mother who gave up, you know, and you really
bought them back who rewarded her. I reward her and I know that I
reward her for what she believed, what she did to that woman. Now
that she' s my mother, they' re not missing anything because of
the work she did. I am extremely grateful for everything you did for me
and that is appreciated then. Like that aside, on the side that there
seems to be a problem on the roof of his roof you know if he
says around here on Twitter a person who is able to record himself crying on
social networks, he is able to get clear and upload it because you film
the video is there, you see it and you raise it point, you
see it, brother, you can do anything. Good morning there, I
cried well, good morning. Look at that girl from my point. You
may want to get attention, but I see her with mental health problems.
I also made a 13- year- old child that I' ve wanted
alone since the boy was a year old, because he made a bad choice
with his dad but I don' t tell him pension. What I'
ve done is I' ve tried every day to make sure that that child
doesn' t miss anything, doing, changing jobs, training myself, looking
for the means so that that child doesn' t lack anyone. When I
arrive with that child who tells me what educated the child is, what I
have measured, I don' t know what else reward that lady is true,
really. I agree with you on that sotella It' s not going
well. Good morning. Dale Ho, good morning. Come on, good
morning. Look, my nephew' s gonna turn three now because she was
born for the pandemic. He was born on the 22nd and the 30th.
Her mother passed away and my brother took that girl out of the way without
seeing the other part of the family, or anything, education, food,
all burdened, trouble, home payment, cars and he took her out without
having to claim anyone, and no one will think anything of her. Well,
yes, the girl when she gets big and pretty and beautiful and you
dance her in the fifteen, uh, have affection for the boys. I
think that, I repeat with Nani you must go to help this child,
because I believe that the little friends of this child. You don' t
give him that they' re gonna watch this video and they' re gonna
start telling him your mom doesn' t love you. You weigh on your
mom, uh, your mom doesn' t love you. I don'
t know, I don' t have kids, but I feel ugly.
It' s you putting a creature into public scorn knowing your face knows it.
A lot of people, that is today in the village where this lady,
everyone knows that she' s sick of her daughter with Ai gave that
post like or. Nani gave her the one to grab onsen Good morning,
well, yeah, uh, good morning, beautiful darling look, alone guys
and girls two hours or s I had two daughters. Now they' re
twenty- two and twenty- one. You sound, very young, good
young. I' m forty years old, ah young loves, hey,
hey, I look great. Oh, that' s good, and he
owes you beer, not much, but he feels. You raised two girls,
twenty and twenty- two, twenty- one and twenty- one,
twenty- two, two thousand and two. Feeling and risk left you breathing.
Nothing gives my love. Hey, hey, hey, hey, hey,
hey, hey, hey, hey, hey, hey, hey,
hey, hey, hey. I' m done with it, but it
still follows my compensation. Right now I' ve made two people useful to
society. Or I' ll make up for society. My daughters also make
up for me, and if she, having a little girl, is hard
to imagine when they' re teenagers. For me it is a compensation to
have some girls who tell me on the street listen to me, but how
well your daughters are, how educated they are, they are in college they
are preparing and they are very applied. This is my compensation, that'
s my satisfaction. And that every woman goes through difficult times. Yeah,
' cause it' s hard for you to raise kids alone. It'
s not easy, it' s not pink, as someone who called earlier
said. It' s hard, but you have to accept, because you
decided to be a mother and before you were a woman, you have to
be a mother. And if you' re not ready for that, don
' t have it as simple as it is. Oh I don' t
know, because well, everybody' s not me no, because that'
s very, very, very personal. But the children, from the point
of view that I see him receive a gift, the first, which is
a responsibility, no no, but receive a reward. So because I have
a son, to seek a rep for raising him, for your fulfilling something
that is inherent in the fact of my study, when you impriminate the woman,
yours whatever you want or not. You weren' t going to get
a washing machine because of you, the chaze inside, I' m sure,
and a case was going out there A child is going to come out
the same moment you introduce him. You are aware that there may be a
consequence that is called a child. So, starting from that fact, you
have to take responsibility for yourself in poquet was an adult. You have responsibilities
to look for that as assuming the consequence of the decisions that you make and
that it is rich warm in truth, to what done then the boy goes
warm. Yeah, I think people who really miss the life they had before
they had a boy who might have this one to leave certain things, for
example, in the economic aspect, the social aspects. That kind of thing
changes a little, because all your energies are focused on other things, other
priorities. Priorities will change and maybe that' s what you miss. But
I take it, that' s the logical thing, that' s the
natural thing. Here' s the pause before the break. Eduardo Mira says
here, our friends, Rolando married and I agree very much with him,
that what happens is that today' s woman, he says, while the
man paints more bad, he has tattoos, the bacon wants to have the
children and that he likes malons. If the guy tells him to put on
the thirty- mom, women are wet right now what' s cute looks
like taking a nasty goat, especially that they live with a ten thousand pofs
vapez. A. If tom X says it well enough, that' s
what you decide to do to an irresponsible man. Then don' t come
to me either with the idea that because the woman should actually have, no,
no, no. I also do not believe that your irresponsibility should pay
for it with your life and the consequence of your irresponsibility. Or not anymore,
because the abortion of seeing doesn' t tell me about abortion there'
s a predator. All that is called a condom or a patilla the day
after avoiding planning. There are many methods before avoiding reaching that point. The
responsibility that no one wants to assume is the word after less understood freedom in
the world.