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Hello, and welcome to Reality TV
Cringe. I am one of your hosts,

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Delia here with my real tight homegirl
and my daughter in law. Hi

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everybody, we are here to discuss
unexpected teens. We got some babies on

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the way, we got some pre
eclampsia, We've got some danger girls.

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Yeah. Now, before we get
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you a disclaimer. Please hid your
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thank you in advance. So,
Beatrice, how about those debates? Girl,

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this is not a political podcast,
but you don't have to be partisan

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in any way. I mean,
we're all here in America, most of

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us are here. Wat that?
Right? Was that hilarious? I was

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texting with my brother and he's like, I forget where I was. I

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was out somewhere. Yeah, And
he's like, are you watching this horseshit

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right now? Just like I'm absolutely
not watching. Is it all right?

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Is it good? He's like,
it's not good, it's bad. It's

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a dark way first watching. If
you've ever seen him, we are living

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in class. It's appropriate. I
think that we're in a dumpster, yes,

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observing it. All the memes were
fired though. After the debate,

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I mean it was I was just
like, wow, this is better than

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reality television. It's real. It's
reality with it's crazy. Wow. Wow,

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this is an interesting year of twenty
twenty four. We're in it together,

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Rackley. All right, let's talk
unexpected. We just watched this together,

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you and I because I have the
day off to day. That's great

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when this happened, enjoying it,
hanging out. We'll kick us off,

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all right. Well, let's start
with Anaya and Day Day Honey girl,

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honey, Anaya's mom. What's her
name? Ashley? Ashley, She's the

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word. I was triggered. She
was the word. I don't understand.

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I mean, how can you look
at your kid who's saying I feel unwell?

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I really look it. She looks
terrible, and you say, you're

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being dramatic. I mean, where's
the maternal instinct? She hain't got none.

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She doesn't care. She sits in
every single scene with her stink ass

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face, just upset at the world
for whatever reason, but taking it out

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on her daughter, who's clearly ill, who has a history of high blood

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pressure pre eclampsia, who does not
look good, and you're just like,

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I can't be arsed to drive her
to the hospital because it's far away.

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This is my only day off.
I work hard. I work over forty

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hours a week. I'm like Jesus
Christ literally watching seriously, like, I

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get it, you're tired, you're
working a lot, but you have a

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daughter who's pregnant, she's about to
burst, she's about to have this baby,

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heavy with child, and you're not
gonna like take any kind of concern.

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They call her aunt, Anaya's aunt, who's twenty four, and it's

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like, yeah, you should go
to the hospital, duh, and as

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she's like, I'm gonna sit here
and wait, I'm gonna wait for something,

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and it's dramatic. Oh my god. Absolutely, And so day Day

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is the one who ends up taking
Anaya to the hospital and he's got to

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at some point carry her into the
hospital because she's crying, she's in terrible

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pain. They finally get into the
hospital, they wheel her into a room

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and she's going to need to be
induced. So now we're gonna have to

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call Ashley, her mother, and
Ashle's like, yeah, what's going on,

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what's happening? And the doctor or
the nurse says, yeah, well

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we have to induce her. And
she's like okay, well I guess I

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better haul my ass down to the
hospital, which is what you should have

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done in the first place. Can
somebody please tell me out there that this

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woman is getting dragged on social media
because I'm not up on social media like

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that, but is she getting dragged
because she needs to be dragged for being

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a piss poor mother? I mean, she is absolutely horrible. It's like

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wild to me. And even when
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an attitude and she's like, well, can you just wait? Do you

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have to induce her? Why can't
you just wait? And then nurses like,

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there's literally no benefit. Your daughter's
freaking blood pressures one sixty over seventy

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four. We need to just do
this now. And Anaya on the couch

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as she's recounting this, is like, yeah, if it's precampsia, there's

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like a risk of death, and
her mom calls her dramatic again on the

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couch. It's wild. Also,
Anaya tested positive for COVID too, so

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she's got COVID. We saw that
in the preview. So her mom's calling

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her dramatic while she's got COVID and
she's got preglamsy yet. So I'm wondering

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when this was actually filmed because I
know that, like the copyright date was

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twenty twenty three for the show,
although we're in twenty twenty four obviously,

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but I'm wondering if this was filmed
in twenty twenty one or twenty twenty two,

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because she's wearing her COVID mask.
COVID's a big deal, and we

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find out because we were watching the
preview for the rest of the season,

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because we are on TLC Instagram at
Aline and we were we found out that

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Ashley always forget her. Ashley kicks
Data out of the birthing room. Yes,

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so he gets to miss his yeah
son's birth because Ashley's mom doesn't like

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her like him, or if it's
COVID time, maybe only one person can

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be there in the it's just the
room. I don't know. We're gonna

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have to see why he gets removed. But I'm just like this woman,

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everything about her is terrible. I
feel awful for Anaya. I feel bad

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for day Day. And also in
the preview for the rest of the season,

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we see that day Day's going to
I guess enlist in the Air Force

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and he's going to leave and he's
going to bounce. I mean it sounds

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like, well, that's how Anyah's
framing it, because her mom is probably

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saying that to her, like,
oh, day Day's going to be a

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shit father because all men are terrible. All men are going to walk out

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on you, like she's probably telling
her that. Meanwhile, Dada on the

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couch is like, I don't want
to be a dead beat because my dad

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was a dead beat, and I
would feel immense regret if I did that,

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And I want to believe him.
Yes, I hope that he does

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that. He's he's a chad beat. I mean exactly, He's doing the

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very best that he can. And
it's like in so many of these different

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scenarios with these different teen mothers,
their parents and especially their mothers are looking

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through the filter of their own trauma
and trying to get their daughters to make

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these decisions based on the shit that
they didn't do in their own lives.

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And you can see it with Ashley, you can see it with Kaylee's mom,

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Mandy. You can see it with
Lily's mom. Oh my god,

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she's probably the worst. She's terrible, trying to force their opinions on these

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kids that they already fucked up because
they weren't good parents in the first place,

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Right, Ashley, I mean,
let them make their own mistakes,

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even if you think it's a mistake, Let them fucking do it. When

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I got married to your daughter,
my biological father, who was a deadbeat

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and is a dead beat, tried
to message me and be like, oh,

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you're making the biggest mistake. You're
so young, blah, blah blah,

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And I'm like, first of all, I'm a whole ass adult,

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Let me make my own choice.
Second of all, who are you exactly?

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Yeah? Who and where are you? You were even a part of

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my life? So shut the fuck
up. But I hate that kind of

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stuff. It's like, just let
your kid make the mistake, learn from

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it. That's what they're supposed to
do. You don't need to be telling

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them what to do and how to
live their lives just because you fucked your

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own life up? Right? What
makes you an authority after you fucking trashed

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your own timeline to come in on
this kid's timeline and tell them how to

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live their life according to you,
so trashed your own timeline exactly. Anyway,

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all these mothers can get it from
me today. Oh they're all terrible,

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Starting with Ashley. She's the worst. She's so mean. She's willing

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to sit on her ass and watch
her daughter be in pain and suffering instead

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of taking her to the hospital where
she needs to be because she could die

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and this baby could die as well. Yes, it's wild to me.

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I just couldn't believe that. And
then she's going to show up acting all

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worried in the delivery room, and
she's going to act like she's she actually

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cares, but she can start taking
control as well and telling everybody what to

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do. Oh, I do not
like her. I do not like her.

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I do not prefer her me neither. Then we have Kayleie and Graham

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right and they're setting up for her
baby showering Jicky Becky, Graham's mother,

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meth mom Becky. So if you
recall last week, they were talking about

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the baby shower for Kaylee and they
were wondering whether Graham the dad and his

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mother, Becky were going to show
up to the baby shower much less to

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help set it up and to break
it down. But of course the night

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that they were supposed to join them, the night before the baby shower,

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Graham and Becky don't show up because
Becky's sick and apparently Graham's always sick and

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Becky's always sick, and Graham's like, well, we couldn't come to help

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you set up the baby shower because
my mom was in the hospital. And

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then on the couch when Becky's talking
about her sickness, it's actually bipolar,

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and she's like, you know,
I get really anxious. I spend a

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lot of time in my bed.
So it doesn't even sound like she went

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to the hospital. No, she
was coming down off of something off of

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me. I really think so,
I mean really, because she's got the

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look. Yeah, I mean I
have family who has bipolar, like actual

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bipolar. I see what it does
to people. I'm not saying she doesn't

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have it or whatever, but like
I have family that have bipolar. They

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have kids, and they show up
and they still do things, and they

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try their best even when they're having
their really low moments or they're really manic

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moments. But I'm like, Becky, you on drugs, bitch, something's

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going on. You ain't doing shit. And she expects to be in the

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delivery room. Girl, this was
news to me. We heard it in

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this episode. Mandy's talking about how
Becky's never there. Becky's never facilitating the

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kids getting together or having Graham show
up at the appointments. Becky's not doing

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dick, not doing shit, but
she wants to be there when the baby

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comes into the world. And I'm
like, are you fucking kidding me?

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A birth is not a spectator sport. No, just because you're related to

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the woman having the baby doesn't mean
you get to be in the delivery room

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for all they ask is out No, that's my coochie yeah to be seeing

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this is my quarter cat to me. And if I don't even want the

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father in there, he's not going
to be in there. This is a

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medical procedure happening to my body exactly. And you and your bum ass forty

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two year old grandma bullshit can get
the fuck on. I know she triggers

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me too. All these mothers they're
terrible, are triggering to me. They're

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really freaking terrible. And then she's
talking about how she wants the baby to

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know her and she wants to be
the grandma and I'm like, and she

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wants the baby to be able to
come over to her house without Kaylee there,

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I know, which is wild.
I would never try ever a kid

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to be with you, meth mom. No. And poor Graham, Like

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I mean, with Graham, I
can understand him being sick, like in

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terms of his stress and like being
upset. He's fifteen, he's a child

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and he can't drive himself, so
like, I get it, But like

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Becky, you're the adult, be
mature, drive your son over to see

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his baby. Mama, Like,
it's not that hard. She's in bed

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the entire time. Hi. But
then we were listening to Mandy, who's

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Kaylee's mother, talk about all that
she has done to facilitate the relationship between

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Graham and Kaylee. And she talks
about how she would drive over to Graham

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to get Graham, bring Graham back
to her house, but she was also

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the one I imagine taking Kaylee over
to Graham's house really yeah, which is

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where Kaylee ultimately got pregnant. Yep. Because we heard Becky say last week

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that you know, she wasn't there
because she's working, and she'd come home

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and she'd find Kaylee there and they
were obviously bugged. They were getting it

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on. And that's because Mandy delivered
her yep, like a gift to Graham's

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house. Pretty much. Yeah,
all of these people suck so deeply and

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terribly. They're really terrible. And
like, Mandy, I get that you're

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frustrated that you have to do all
this stuff, but I'm like, your

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fifteen year old daughter's pregnant, and
like, how about we talk about your

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irresponsibility as a parent as well.
Right, And there's the scene with Kaylee

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and Mandy again. Mandy her mother, and Kaylee's driving them to the Lions

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Club so that they can set up, and she's just bitching at her mom.

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And at some point she's say,
is there anything else you want to

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say to me? I know,
I'm just like, I wish my daughter

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would have tried. I wish my
daughter would have tried talking to me the

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way that Kaylee feels so free to
talk to her, I know mother,

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and Mandy just takes it. She
doesn't say, stop the goddamn card,

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give me these keys. This is
no longer your car. If you don't

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like it, you can walk.
I was, ma, I'm like,

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this girl is just reading Mandy,
and Mandy's letting her. So, Mandy,

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you get what you settle for if
you're going to allow your kids to

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do this. Well, now you
got a kid with a kid, I

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got a sixty year old husband.
You're terribly unhappy, and you got Becky

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walking all over you. Right,
this is the life that you're creating for

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yourself. Everything is just you pushed
out Mandy reader to filth. Well,

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and that's the thing. Mandy was
like, I feel like it's unfair the

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way Kaylee treats me. Because I
take all of the brunt when she should

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direct it towards Graham and his mom, Becky, And I'm like, okay,

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then give her a consequence, a
repercussion. I mean, teach her

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how to be a person in the
world. All she does is spoil the

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I'm doing. You think Kaylee's going
to be in ten years? What kind

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of parent do you think Kaylee's gonna
be if you continue to spoil her like

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this? She's not going to be
a good one. I can tell you

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that, no at all. And
then they actually get everything set up for

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the baby shower and people start arriving, and of course Graham and Becky show

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up late. They show up after
everything's been set up right, they don't

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have to do any of the work, and Becky tries to be all super

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friendly with Kaylee like their best friends, and Kaylee's like, this is weird

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because she's never like this. So
it's all for show because the Grammers are

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there and Mandy's there, so she
has to pretend like she cares. And

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they show up for like ten minutes
and then leave. Yep, don't help

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them to clean up, don't help
them to break down in and out.

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I would be so pissed. Yeah, but you really can't blame Graham because

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once again, he's a child and
he's under the influence of his parental figure,

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Becky, and this is how Becky
is teaching him to show up in

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a co parenting relationship. So he
thinks this is okay because this this is

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how Becky shows up in her parenting
relationship. She spends all of her time

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in her room sleeping or anxious or
yelling. Because I'm telling you right now,

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she looks mean to me. She's
probably screaming and yelling. And when

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you look at Graham's affect, the
way he carries himself, that's an anxious

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kid. That's a kid that's been
traumatized. I wonder where that comes from.

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Well, Becky, methm that's where
it comes from. And so Mandy

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and Kaylee don't feel like Graham and
Becky are going to be involved really at

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all. Wants the baby's born,
they're not going to but she wants to

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be in the delivery room, of
course, just to say that she was

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there. But then she'll never be
involved, and then she'll take pictures and

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she'll show it to her friends.
Look at my grandbaby that doesn't even know

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my name, right because she's high
on myth all the time. Right.

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And then, last, but not
least, we have Lily and Lawrence,

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who are kind of a boring couple, but it's Christmas Day for them and

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they got all these toys for their
kids and their kids. I'm super happy.

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And we were talking about that,
and I was just telling you,

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like, that is the most precious
and beautiful experience when your little ones when

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they're like three, four, five, sixty seven, when they're little and

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they wake up at like four in
the morning and they can't wait to get

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to the presence under the tree and
they come into your bedroom and they wake

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you up, and you were up, you know, until two in the

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morning, wrap it those presents and
having whiskey and stuff. Yeah, so

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you're tired, you're hungover, but
it is such a beautiful experience to like

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take those little ones to the tree
and open the presents. But Lawrence wasn't

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feeling it. No, Lawrence is
like, can I go back to bed?

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I'm like, this is this is
the These are the best moments of

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your life. Oh and these are
the best years ever because the kids have

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the most magic and the most fun. You believe in Santa. Yes,

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they had the little footprints for Santa. I love that so much. And

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once they get older, they're not
gonna give a shit. No, they're

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gonna be like, give me money, Yeah, don't wake me up,

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give me a new Xbox or a
PlayStation. You're gonna be paying so much

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money for that Christmas. But like
when they're little, everything's cheaper. They're

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happy with everything, and they're talking, they're so they're just so lovely.

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But that's the thing about life,
Like when you're that young and you're so

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harried and the kids are screaming and
running around, you don't really have the

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wherewithal to understand that these are the
most beautiful moments in your life. Yeah,

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not until you're my age, some
old lady looking back thinking to yourself.

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I would give anything to go literally
anything to go back to when my

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daughter was three years old and it
was Christmas morning. I'm like, oh

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my god, if I could just
experience that with new eyes, I would

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cherish every moment. Yes, yeah, And like Lily for the most part,

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is trying her best. Like she's
talking about how she grew up super

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poor like us, and how she
didn't get anything for Christmas, and so

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she went all out. I mean, she had so many fucking gifts there

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for her kids and everything. And
it was weird though that she spent all

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this money and like didn't talk to
Laurence about it. Yeah, And we

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recall last week he was kind of
complaining about it because he was just learning

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that she had spent I guess over
budget for the Christmas presents, and she

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was just like, well, it's
Christmas. Yeah, it's one time a

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year. It's a crazy, special, magical time of the year. And

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Lawrence doesn't really have any say yeah
in that, And I was like,

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what's going on with that? Why
do you feel like you can just go

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out and buy whatever you want and
not talk to your husband about it?

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Yeah? I don't really like that. Like I understand you want to go

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crazy and you want to give your
kids a good experience, so that's fine,

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but like maybe agree upon a budget
and go from there, especially when

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you have a wedding date set in
three months and you want to spend twenty

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thousand dollars. Girl, right now
she wants to spend thirty thousand, and

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Lawrence is putting his foot down and
saying it's going to be twenty thousand,

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but like, how's anybody going to
raise in this economy? Yeah, twenty

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thousand dollars thirty thousand dollars of extra
money in three months, I don't understand

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it. But you could also tell
with Laurence that he didn't know about any

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of the presents that she bought.
He didn't participate in any of the purchasing

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of the presence, and he was
kind of just checked out. But we

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have to give him props. He
is a young man. He is taking

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care of Lily's first daughter, Aliyah, he's taking care of his son.

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He's working hard, and he's showing
up on Christmas, and so that's wonderful.

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Yeah, And he kind of reminds
me a little bit of how my

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dad was when I was a kid, because my dad was working swingshift all

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the time, and he was always
kind of like reserved, kind of quiet.

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And I look back on it now
and I'm like, he was tired,

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Yeah, and he's working a lot, and he was like trying to

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make ends meet for us and we
still had, you know, good Christmases

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as kids. So it's like I
kind of look at Lawrence in that light

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Lily's kind of being critical of him, like he's not helping out with like

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picking up after all the kids is
mess after opening all the presents and stuff

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like that. I'm like, well, maybe he's just tired and stressed and

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it's a lot of money, lest
maybe let's give him a little bit of

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grace. And then later that day, Lily's parents show up, and Lawrence's

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mom shows up because they're going to
have Christmas dinner there, and Lily's meth

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dad shows up with his no teeth, missing some teeth, but like he's

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been sober sounds like for a little
while. Ye maybe I was hoping that

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we had some sobriety spanning some years. But apparently Lily had taken both of

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her kids over to see him last
winter. Lj's only like two something like

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that last winter, and he was
pissed, drunk, drunk, didn't know

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who he was. He was completely
out of it, and apparently he went

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to rehab since then, so now
he's showing it for Christmas. But like,

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well, Lily's not like super hopeful
about it, because I guess that's

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what he does. Like he'll get
clean for a little while and then he'll

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go back to it and judge it
by those teeth. I'm sure he's going

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to go back to my God,
So judge, where do you get that

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from? I don't even know.
Listen, i grew up in Methtown,

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Oregon. I'm allowed to judge.
You can clock it. I can well.

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The biggest thing that's happening though,
in this scene is that Lily is

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preparing to tell everybody, including Laurence's
mother, ooh, my love, she's

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great thought, she was fantastic that
they're getting married in three months time.

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And she knows that her mother has
some ancient trauma and is looking through the

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filter of her own bullshit. Her
mom, who is still not divorced from

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her metht Out dad even though she
left him like fifteen years ago, and

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has been with this other guy for
the entire time, who's treating her well

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and continuously proposes to her, but
she keeps saying no because it's too expensive

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to get divorced. And I've been
divorced seventeen thousand times, and I can

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tell you right now, if it's
amicable, it's not expensive, not at

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all, hardly anything. You can
get a mediator. You don't even need

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a lawyer. But I digress.
So Lily's nervous, and she's also tired

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of her mom's bullshit because anytime Lily
tells her the mom what she wants to

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do, the mom comes here,
she comes on or bullshit talking about what

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Lily needs to be doing and how
marriage is bad and it's really expensive when

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it doesn't work, and shut up
Lily's mom. I mean, just let

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them get married again, Like I
said, let the kids make their own

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fucking mistakes. It's not your life, Like, let them do it.

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Plus was it Lawrence's mom? She's
like, it makes sense to me.

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I'm super excited. We'll throw a
dope party. It's gonna be great.

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Like, you guys should get married
because you guys have been living together since

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you were nineteen, Like might as
well, it's just a piece of paper.

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Yeah, And Lawrence has been here
the entire time taking care of Lily

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and all of these children, and
so they should be married and get the

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benefit of that because there are benefits, tax benefits and health benefits and otherwise,

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and so yeah, get married.
And just because it didn't work for

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you, Lily's mom, doesn't mean
it's not gonna work for Lily, which

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Lily tries to tell her in the
kitchen. She's like, I'm already in

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a better position than you were at
my age, even though you had a

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baby when you were sixteen, Like
I had a baby when I was sixteen,

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Like Lawrence is sticking around. Yeah, we have a home, we

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have kids, We're making it work. You didn't do that right, don't

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take that shit out on me exactly. But her mother cannot help her,

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so no, she can't. And
we even see it in the preview when

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Lily's trying to get all the wedding
plan stuff getting going. She's like getting

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a little overwhelmed, and her mom's
like, yeah, see, I told

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you so, it's overwhelming. It's
a lot. It's like, oh,

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fuck off. And I was telling
you, like again, we were watching

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this together. I'm like my mother
in law from my second marriage. She

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was the most wonderful, saintly person. She wasn't saintly, but she was

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just so fantastic. And for example, when I got really sick after I

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had my child, your wife,
I went into a coma. I was

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in the hospital for like on and
off for months. Like she flew up

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to Illinois, to Chicago, she
took care of my daughter. She was

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there for me, but like she
never imposed like her ways on me.

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She never told me how to be
a parent, like when we made major

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decisions that I'm sure she didn't necessarily, Like she never told us that she

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only ever supported us. Yeah,
juxtaposed that with my own mother. May

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she rest in peace, who I
love. But like when I gave birth

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and I got really sick, I
couldn't nurse for obvious reasons, like I'm

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in an actual koma mom, And
she's like, but you can still nurse.

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And I'm in the actual hospital being
narctized NonStop twenty four seven. You

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could still nurse. You could pump
and nurse. I'm like, I literally

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can't do that. And she was
like l leche league on steroids, yeah,

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making me feel so bad because the
milk wasn't coming. I was sick,

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and she was on the phone every
single day guilting me about actually nursing.

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And then my mother in law she's
like, I raised all five of

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my kids on formula. We got
doctors, we got nurses. It's gotta

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be lawyers, like it's going to
be all right. And I'm just like

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thank you, Yeah, And ever
since then, I always told myself that's

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the kind of mom in law I'm
going to be, or the mother i'm

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gonna be. I'm just gonna be
like you guys, go and do your

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own thing, have your kids parent
them the way that you want to,

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even if I don't agree, Like, do whatever the fuck you want.

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I'm just here to support you and
be there for you when you need me

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and spoil the kids. And spoil
the kids. Yeah, and do that.

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But I'm never gonna step on your
toes if you tell me no sugar

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though, Like I'm not gonna sneak
it now you need, you know,

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on your date night. I'm not
gonna give the kids shure. I'm not

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gonna be that kind of grandparent.
Oh yeah, I'm just gonna give them

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sugar. No. But I mean, but if you said something that I

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shouldn't do, like, I'm going
to listen to you. Like that's why

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Lily's mother bothers me so much.
You're just going to estrange yourself from her

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entire family exactly. That's the thing. And it's like I can understand it

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from like the meta perspective. If
I zoom out and I'm like I get

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where you're coming from. Lily's mom. I understand that you're trying to like

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be a parent and just be like, no, please, don't make them

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the same mistakes and like let me
try and rectify it through you, like

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in my own way or whatever.
I understand it. But stop, there's

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like a there's a certain point in
time where like you have to let go

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as a parent, as a grandparent
and just be like, Okay, it

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is what it is. I'm oldest, fuck right, I'm in my sixties.

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Let me just whatever, let me
just be only fifty two. Yo.

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Oh I thought she was under success. She's most but like, for

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example, when you got married,
Okay, yeah, the first time I

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got married, I was eighteen years
old. Yeah I stayed married for eight

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years, which is a long time
actually, but I was very young and

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it was never going to work out. And so when my daughter tells me

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she's gonna marry you, and y'all
are nineteen slash twenty, I'm thinking to

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myself, well, should I tell
them about my own personal experience? Should

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I give my opinion? Absolutely not. I supported you. I became an

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efficient so I could marry you.
And that is like how I feel parents

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should be like if for some reason
something doesn't work out, like, I'm

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going to be there then too.
I'm going to be there for the whole

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fucking thing, supporting you. That's
what parents do. Well, No,

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a lot of parents don't. Well
no, I mean that's what parents should

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do. That is what they should
give. But a lot of parents are

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just like whatever, fuck you,
Like, I told you not to do

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it, right, and which is
why you ended up not telling some of

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your family too, right. I
didn't tell any of my family right because

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you knew they were going to be
like what the fuck? Oh yeah,

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they would have talked me out of
it. I was too stubborn, and

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I'm like, no, I'm gonna
do it anyway, right, FuG off.

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And so then I told everybody via
Facebook after the fact, after the

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fact, like oh yeah, we
got married a couple of months ago,

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and most of them were supportive and
some of them were a little bitter about

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it, but I'm like, you
know, it is what it is.

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It's your life. It's life.
You can do what you want. I

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knew none of them were going to
approve, so I'm like, I'm just

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gonna do it anyway, and look
at you now like eight years later,

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the success story that you are making
it all work and love that for you.

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Yes you do. Yeah, it
can happen. Just because it didn't

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work for you doesn't mean it can't
work for somebody else, which is what

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Lily is trying to tell her mother, but her mother doesn't want to hear

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it. Her mother is still on
her bullshit about divorce being super expensive,

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Like I can't believe that the biofather
toothless, toothless and homeless, the toothless,

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not homeless, ned is sitting that's
from Beverly Hills, but he's sitting

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there with the guy who wants to
marry the wife, and they're all talking

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about it as if it's so normal, as if it's so expensive to divorce,

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Like what does meth dad have?
No exactly what kind of property is

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he going to have to split?
That's what I'm saying, sixty year old

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fifty two year old mom. Seriously, I'm like, it'd be one thing

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if like you guys were both really
rich and it'd be super expensive to like

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go through all of your stuff or
whatever and get a lawyer and all that.

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But no, he's literally an alcoholic
and a drug and literally put it

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all up his nose, and he
has the audacity at the Christmas dinner table

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to say it's cheaper to keeper I
know, Like you're not keeping anybody.

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This other cool guy who raised your
children is the one who's taking care of

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everything. I don't understand. I
could never be me. I hope she's

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getting ripped his shreds online and everybody's
like, it's literally so cheap to get

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divorced. My parents were broke as
shit and got divorced on their own and

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it was fine, and it was
not amicable at all, like they were

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fighting and they were going through custody
battles and all this bullshit, but they

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still got divorce even though we were
broke as hell. Yeah, So like,

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I don't know, it's an excuse
and I don't understand it, don't

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I don't know why. And it's
like a weird curse that you keep putting

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on your child, like trying to
frighten her about the institution of marriage and

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that this shit never works. It's
like, well, you're starting to predispose

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her to have a terrible marriage,
Like why are you doing this from your

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own traumatic space, Like just get
divorced and then if you don't want to

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get married again because you don't want
to deal with the legality, that's fine.

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Like, I don't know where they're
living. It's common law exists for

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them, and it exists in Texas, so it's like it does it can't

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happen. But I don't know.
They're just a weird fucking family. Everybody's

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weird on this whole show. It's
super weird. And the parents are so

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infuriating, yeah, because they act
like they're so smart and so mature,

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and they're all pieces of shit.
They all suck. And then we have

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the preview for the rest of the
season and Lily is like overwhelmed with all

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the wedding stuff, obviously because it's
a three month wedding and you want to

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plan a twenty thousand dollars wedding and
that, I mean, what is Lauren's

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doing for work? Actually, though, like I mean, god bless it.

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He's working really hard, but he's
a young man. I'm sure he's

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not pulling down six figures. Maybe
he is, but I'm just like,

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it's gonna take a lot for this
young man to raise that kind of money

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since you're not working. Lily that's
why he's stressed out of the house.

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That is, because you're in the
house exactly. And then we have Graham

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who's also stressed, and he's fighting
with Kaylee. I don't know if he

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stayed the night at her house or
what, but he's like, I'm distressed,

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and he starts crying every time I
come over here. It's so stressful,

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and like life is stressful. You
have a child that's coming, Graham,

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this is gonna be the rest of
your life unless you bounce, which,

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let's face it, he's totally going
about going to and I hope Kaylee

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will fight to get child support at
least. Yeah, I mean he's working,

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he's only fifteen or sixteen year old. It's not like she's gonna get

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a ton of child support. But
put that shit on the books, yep.

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Set a precedent, and then if
he doesn't pay, you can come

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back in four arrears when he's twenty
four years old. Honey, you can

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get all that money. Then exactly, all these kids need to be putting

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these young men on child support,
they really you stick it in, You're

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gonna have to pay, yes,
ma'am. And then we also have Emily

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crying because she's still pregnant and Nate's
just sitting there, silent, not doing

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anything. But she's also being dramatic. Well, and you can tell because

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he's being quiet and he's so closed
down that this is the kind of shit

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she does all the time. And
he's over it. Yep. He's hit

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his limit with Emily and her crying
and her bullshit. Yep. And we

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also saw a clip on TLC's Instagram
page she apparently moves out of Tarreen's house

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and back in with her father because
it was too terrible. Yeah, and

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I get he called it. Taran
and her were coming to conflict, right,

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They were having problems, and Nate's
pretty sad about it because he's like,

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these are the two most important people
in my life and they can't get

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along. And I'm like, again, you shouldn't have put your peepee in

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her. But he's a child.
The parents need to show up and provide

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some sexual education. It's all just
a shit show, which is why we

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watch it. That's why we love
this is why we watch it. It's

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pretty crazy. It is all these
people are nuts and they are, well,

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we got some babies coming. I
know Anaya's about to give birth to

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anayas I know, and we'll see
how that goes. God stink ass grandmother

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is gonna piss me off. I'm
sorry, Auntie because she doesn't want to

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be called grandmother. She's too young
for that. Yeah, okay, lady,

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whatever. Well, do we have
anything else that we need to say

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to these beautiful raccoons before we get
to hail out of here? Beatrice?

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