WEBVTT 1 00:00:00.640 --> 00:00:04.679 Bottled Up Bitches is hosted by a horny married couple. Content may include adult 2 00:00:04.759 --> 00:00:08.919 language and themes. Check the description for more details. Your discretion is advised. 3 00:00:14.119 --> 00:00:18.760 Its season four. Welcome to Bottle Up Bitches, your favorite sex podcast 4 00:00:18.920 --> 00:00:23.679 hosted by a horny married couple with me Rihanna Campbell and me producer Man Adam. 5 00:00:23.879 --> 00:00:28.039 Sex shouldn't be taboo or embarrassing, so let's talk about it. Say 6 00:00:28.519 --> 00:00:35.359 bitches. Top of the morning. To you, Oh fathangara to you. 7 00:00:35.600 --> 00:00:38.640 Oh my gosh, how are you, Adam? I'm good. Welcome back 8 00:00:38.640 --> 00:00:41.960 to another episode of Bottle Up Bitches, your favorite sex podcast with me, 9 00:00:42.679 --> 00:00:47.000 Rihanna Campbell and me producer Man Adam. How's your day going. It's going 10 00:00:47.159 --> 00:00:50.880 good. We have it's going good. Yeah. Nice day at the pools 11 00:00:51.200 --> 00:00:56.960 fool Day. We had a pool day and we also had a m anniversary 12 00:00:57.000 --> 00:01:04.920 extravaganza weekend complete with a drag show, illusion pool, unattended, children by 13 00:01:06.640 --> 00:01:11.319 um edibles, all kinds of all kinds of fun things. We had, 14 00:01:11.359 --> 00:01:14.840 all kinds of fun. It was a good It was a good weekend. 15 00:01:14.920 --> 00:01:19.000 It was our first US weekend. Gosh so long and I can't wait to 16 00:01:19.040 --> 00:01:22.359 tell everyone about it. So that'll be next week. That'll be next week. 17 00:01:22.560 --> 00:01:25.719 That'll be next week. Um, we'll tell you all about our Chiney 18 00:01:25.719 --> 00:01:30.840 Anniggins for our weekend for our anniversary celebration. Um. But we've had this 19 00:01:30.920 --> 00:01:36.200 episode recorded for a little while and we wanted to place it somewhere that made 20 00:01:36.239 --> 00:01:38.959 the most sense, and this week felt right. So I'm super stoked that 21 00:01:40.000 --> 00:01:46.120 we were able to record with the stars of the Flaming Yoni podcasts us Lacious 22 00:01:46.159 --> 00:01:51.319 Scarlet and Anya Um that's her twit twitter handle. Yeah. Um. And 23 00:01:51.480 --> 00:01:53.680 if you haven't listened to that episode, our episode that we recorded with them 24 00:01:53.719 --> 00:01:57.680 came out a few weeks ago, so don't be afraid to go listen to 25 00:01:57.680 --> 00:02:00.799 that. It was a super fun episode with us as guests, So go 26 00:02:00.879 --> 00:02:05.359 to the Flaming Yoni and listen to that. Listen to all other episodes, 27 00:02:05.400 --> 00:02:08.319 but you guys love us, so listen to that one too. So I'm 28 00:02:08.360 --> 00:02:15.680 excited and stoked for you guys to learn about them and the sisterhood that is 29 00:02:15.719 --> 00:02:20.000 the Flaming Yoni And it was a really good time. We did back to 30 00:02:20.039 --> 00:02:23.840 back episodes. We recorded their episode and our episode, so we got lots 31 00:02:23.840 --> 00:02:28.000 of one on one time. It was so good. Anything you want to 32 00:02:28.000 --> 00:02:31.680 add, no, I just know it's a good one. It's a good 33 00:02:31.680 --> 00:02:37.520 one. No, they're super great. Talking to both of them about sexuality 34 00:02:37.680 --> 00:02:42.240 and what was it like creating something So it's not similar to us, but 35 00:02:42.319 --> 00:02:45.439 you know, we also had a little bit of a oh, we're going 36 00:02:45.479 --> 00:02:52.319 to be I don't know, sex influencers or you know, sexperts in our 37 00:02:52.360 --> 00:02:57.120 own little way. So learning what their journey was like was very empowering. 38 00:02:57.159 --> 00:03:00.400 I had a good time chatting with them. They're super special. Amends. 39 00:03:00.919 --> 00:03:05.000 So, without further ado, I hope you enjoy this episode with the stars 40 00:03:05.000 --> 00:03:10.319 of the Flaming Yoni Podcast. Is that the is that flame? I'll be 41 00:03:10.319 --> 00:03:17.080 the Yoni. Oh. I want to say something real quick. Your listeners 42 00:03:17.080 --> 00:03:21.919 are about to hear it. But I recently edited this episode. This episode 43 00:03:21.919 --> 00:03:24.759 starts maybe one of my favorite starts to an episode because I think Rihanna has 44 00:03:24.879 --> 00:03:29.680 one of the funniest things that happens. So enjoy that. Oh my god, 45 00:03:30.319 --> 00:03:42.879 I can't wait to listen. Say Morny, nothing to lose now if 46 00:03:42.879 --> 00:03:51.080 you stand for nothing and then you know what are you gonna do? That's 47 00:03:51.080 --> 00:03:53.599 exactly how it goes Rihanna. That's all I got on a bumper sticker. 48 00:03:55.319 --> 00:04:00.960 If you stand for nothing, good for you, no way, you got 49 00:04:00.039 --> 00:04:04.520 to stand for everything. Well cool beans. Well, I've listened to the 50 00:04:04.560 --> 00:04:09.639 Flaming Yoni, so I'm familiar. But for the people that may have not 51 00:04:09.759 --> 00:04:14.919 listened to it or been on your website or seen you one uh the internets, 52 00:04:14.960 --> 00:04:18.079 I would love from your mouths what exactly is a Flaming Yoni? And 53 00:04:18.439 --> 00:04:24.000 same thing for Slet sisters as well. I just want to dive into all 54 00:04:24.000 --> 00:04:29.680 the things that you guys have created. It's super fun. Yeah, we're 55 00:04:29.680 --> 00:04:32.959 having the time of our lives. We are. How about I'll take TFY 56 00:04:33.040 --> 00:04:35.160 babe, and then I'll pass that sisters over to you. How does that 57 00:04:35.199 --> 00:04:43.000 sound? That sounds beautiful? So TFY The Flaming Yoni is a podcast that 58 00:04:43.160 --> 00:04:47.199 was born out of a million conversations and the relationship that Scarlet and I have 59 00:04:47.279 --> 00:04:51.759 facilitated and grown and cultivated over the last number of years, as we've both 60 00:04:51.759 --> 00:04:59.879 been navigating our sexuality, our sexual expression, our sexual development, explorations, 61 00:05:00.000 --> 00:05:05.399 all of that, and as we are two women, two fems who identify 62 00:05:05.560 --> 00:05:14.040 as feminist and who very much believe that the world has spun far too far 63 00:05:14.199 --> 00:05:19.079 off the axis in more of a capitalist, patriarchal world. We want to 64 00:05:19.120 --> 00:05:24.199 be voices of kind of bringing it back, hopefully at some point to the 65 00:05:24.240 --> 00:05:27.360 center. But what we understand and are all here for is that we know 66 00:05:27.399 --> 00:05:32.040 it needs a swing pretty hard to the other end of just really thinking about 67 00:05:32.079 --> 00:05:35.519 what it means to be a fem, to be empowered as a fem, 68 00:05:35.839 --> 00:05:41.839 to have your voice heard, to have your preferences understood, and all of 69 00:05:41.839 --> 00:05:46.240 that. And so we were really passionate about our relationship with one another, 70 00:05:46.360 --> 00:05:51.959 our relationship with other women, our relationship with them identifying folks, and wanting 71 00:05:53.439 --> 00:05:58.600 everybody to dive into what it is that speaks deeply to them at a deep 72 00:05:58.680 --> 00:06:02.199 level about their sexuality, their sexual expression, whatever that might look like. 73 00:06:02.879 --> 00:06:10.079 So for us, we talk about the Flaming Yoni being a space where we 74 00:06:10.120 --> 00:06:14.079 want to talk about everything from the sacred to the salacious when it comes to 75 00:06:14.120 --> 00:06:18.720 your own sexual expression and your own kind of development. And we want to 76 00:06:18.759 --> 00:06:24.959 amplify those voices, and we want to bring voice and understanding to the broadest 77 00:06:24.959 --> 00:06:29.439 representation of what that could possibly mean for people. So for us, it's 78 00:06:29.439 --> 00:06:33.319 a space we talk about having the Yoni Verse. We are very much about 79 00:06:33.360 --> 00:06:39.959 pussy empowerment, and we really want to bring as much airtime as we can 80 00:06:40.160 --> 00:06:45.720 to the topics, the issues, the things that Feen's experience as they go 81 00:06:45.759 --> 00:06:50.360 on this journey of understanding themselves from the inside out and particularly as pertains to 82 00:06:50.399 --> 00:06:55.680 their sexual expression. Yeah, it was what's your definition of a fen? 83 00:06:56.120 --> 00:06:58.319 I saw that a lot on your website and like, that's like a big 84 00:06:58.360 --> 00:07:00.759 word that you use, and I was like, I don't what is fem 85 00:07:01.399 --> 00:07:05.480 Yeah. So for us, we aren't gatekeepers. We aren't here to tell 86 00:07:05.560 --> 00:07:10.920 people who they are and who they are not. We want to basically accept 87 00:07:10.959 --> 00:07:14.959 whatever your expression is. So for us, we understand that for some people 88 00:07:15.000 --> 00:07:18.480 that means Yoni bears, that that means only people that have pussies are born 89 00:07:18.519 --> 00:07:23.279 with pussies. Maybe that's what they think of, But for us, we 90 00:07:23.759 --> 00:07:29.720 want to broaden that entirely to people who identify as a fem individual. And 91 00:07:29.759 --> 00:07:32.800 so that could be for non binary folks, it could be for trans women, 92 00:07:32.800 --> 00:07:38.160 it could be for anybody that wants to step into a space where being 93 00:07:38.240 --> 00:07:43.879 fem identified is held and honored and acknowledged. And we think those experiences are 94 00:07:43.879 --> 00:07:46.959 incredibly valid and not just valid, but very valuable for the rest of the 95 00:07:47.000 --> 00:07:51.560 world and the community to be able to understand as well. So I think 96 00:07:51.600 --> 00:07:56.720 for us, fem is basically the broadest definition you can think of. I 97 00:07:56.759 --> 00:08:01.199 think that we understand that there are a lot of people in this world who 98 00:08:01.279 --> 00:08:07.879 don't necessarily identify with the traditional constructive gender or with their sexes, and we 99 00:08:07.920 --> 00:08:11.560 don't want that to be a barrier to entry. But what we do think 100 00:08:11.680 --> 00:08:15.879 is really important in our conversations and I'll let Scarlett get more into this with 101 00:08:15.920 --> 00:08:18.879 slut sisters, but it is really important to us that the container that we 102 00:08:18.959 --> 00:08:24.800 hold, especially for that for slut sisters, really does need to be folks 103 00:08:24.839 --> 00:08:28.519 who identify as them because whatever that means to them, we want to understand 104 00:08:28.519 --> 00:08:33.120 and hold that space. But we aren't looking for just anybody to come in 105 00:08:33.159 --> 00:08:37.159 and be a part of that container if that's not really part of their identity. 106 00:08:37.240 --> 00:08:41.279 So does that answer yeah, So, just so so to clarify, 107 00:08:41.399 --> 00:08:43.759 like with the with the slut and I guess Scarlett, you you're the you're 108 00:08:43.840 --> 00:08:54.080 more of the person with the sisters. You're saying that is both Yeah, 109 00:08:54.120 --> 00:08:58.559 I come on, which one all of us? Um, that's more that 110 00:08:58.679 --> 00:09:03.200 is more gore geared to words, where so Flaming Yonie is a little more 111 00:09:03.320 --> 00:09:13.399 general fam and sled Sisters is more specific yoni holders well not necessarily currently, 112 00:09:13.600 --> 00:09:20.000 Okay, So the flaming just differentiate. The Flaming Yoni is really just the 113 00:09:20.039 --> 00:09:22.399 conversation around all of you know, that's the podcast and that's all of that. 114 00:09:24.039 --> 00:09:30.200 Um, So it's it's our Our intention with the Flaming Yoni is to 115 00:09:30.240 --> 00:09:35.279 bring voice to the fem expression and the fem experience. So that's what I'll 116 00:09:35.279 --> 00:09:37.480 say about that. But then Slut Sisters, babe, think it over, 117 00:09:37.519 --> 00:09:46.360 Scarlet SLT Sisters is our community. It's our intentional community for sexually liberated, 118 00:09:46.480 --> 00:09:52.480 unshamed, and transformed fems women. So fems are welcome in the sisterhood. 119 00:09:52.600 --> 00:09:56.480 And you just heard me rattle off a definition that's really important to us. 120 00:09:56.759 --> 00:10:03.840 What we are seeking with Slut Sisters is a true solidarity among women, among 121 00:10:03.919 --> 00:10:11.879 FOM identified folks who are on a mindful journey of sexual expansion, whatever that 122 00:10:11.919 --> 00:10:18.320 looks like for them. So we completely recognize that this is a completely unique 123 00:10:18.360 --> 00:10:24.000 journey for every single soul and what we've done is we understand that there is 124 00:10:24.559 --> 00:10:33.840 power in a reclamation and so slut the slut in Slut Sisters actually doesn't stand 125 00:10:33.440 --> 00:10:41.480 for the old paradigm understanding of what a slut is. It doesn't actually have 126 00:10:41.639 --> 00:10:46.240 anything to do with like being promiscuous or having a lot of sexual partners or 127 00:10:46.279 --> 00:10:54.960 being I was like, yeah, yes, yes, that's exactly what we 128 00:10:56.080 --> 00:11:00.759 have done is we have taken the power back of this mantle and we have 129 00:11:00.840 --> 00:11:03.960 redefined it and we are now pushing that out into the space, into the 130 00:11:05.000 --> 00:11:09.919 awareness, into the world. And that new acronym is sexually liberated, unshamed, 131 00:11:11.200 --> 00:11:13.759 not unashamed. It's we talked about it. There's a lot of intention 132 00:11:13.840 --> 00:11:18.240 here, and like we have to unshame ourselves, we have to unashame, 133 00:11:18.440 --> 00:11:22.679 and also like really the goal is to be like without the presient presence of 134 00:11:22.759 --> 00:11:26.960 shamed, Like I'm not unashamed. I ain't got no shame, baby, 135 00:11:26.200 --> 00:11:31.360 there's no shame in this game. And then you know, there's transformed that 136 00:11:31.639 --> 00:11:37.840 by going on this journey, we're transformed by our sexuality and we're also transformed 137 00:11:39.399 --> 00:11:46.159 by the powerful encounters that we have with other women. You know, there's 138 00:11:46.399 --> 00:11:50.720 sometimes we have had a guest on our show that's like, sometimes I think 139 00:11:50.759 --> 00:11:54.759 masculine and feminine like aren't even real and they're kind of a construction of society. 140 00:11:54.799 --> 00:11:58.159 And sometimes I think they're deep spiritual truths, right, And it's like 141 00:11:58.200 --> 00:12:01.519 I go back and forth between this. But for us, yeah, I 142 00:12:01.600 --> 00:12:05.679 know I do too, And for us, we have kind of settled on 143 00:12:05.840 --> 00:12:11.840 that there is something really powerful about the feminine energy, and when feminine energy 144 00:12:13.039 --> 00:12:18.960 is brought together, there's so much capacity for healing, for growth, for 145 00:12:18.519 --> 00:12:24.200 you know, just cheerleading and just like supporting and encouraging one another. And 146 00:12:24.279 --> 00:12:28.600 that is the space that sisters is. It's just this intentional community of women, 147 00:12:28.679 --> 00:12:35.600 and so often we do seek out folks that are on the same journey 148 00:12:35.639 --> 00:12:37.279 as us, and a lot of times it's like, well, I want 149 00:12:37.279 --> 00:12:41.919 to find a woman whose sexual expression looks like mine and she'll be able to 150 00:12:41.960 --> 00:12:46.559 support me. Maybe I'm into kink, maybe I'm into a particular fetish, 151 00:12:46.679 --> 00:12:50.519 or maybe I've discovered I'm into power exchange, or you know, I'm dominant, 152 00:12:50.720 --> 00:12:56.000 I'm submissive, I'm all of these different identities and kind of things that 153 00:12:56.080 --> 00:13:00.360 resonate. And what we want is we want them all at the table, 154 00:13:00.799 --> 00:13:09.279 like we want every woman who has stepped into whatever her expression is. Like, 155 00:13:09.360 --> 00:13:13.039 if you are sexually liberated, unshamed, and transformed by your sexuality, 156 00:13:13.080 --> 00:13:16.279 no matter what that looks like, we want you at this table. Because 157 00:13:16.320 --> 00:13:20.600 what we believe is our diversity makes us more well rounded, makes us stronger 158 00:13:20.720 --> 00:13:26.519 as a sisterhood. And we also believe that like living under patriarchal systems of 159 00:13:26.559 --> 00:13:31.399 power, we have wounded each other as women, and that when we come 160 00:13:31.440 --> 00:13:37.039 together not only in vulnerability just as people, but in vulnerability in our sexuality, 161 00:13:37.519 --> 00:13:43.879 we can actually heal that, Like we can push that healing out into 162 00:13:43.919 --> 00:13:46.600 this world and see what happens. So it's so many things. You know, 163 00:13:46.679 --> 00:13:50.279 it's me calling onion being like fun two guys last night. It was 164 00:13:50.320 --> 00:13:54.799 great her holding space for that. And sometimes it's one of our sisters reaching 165 00:13:54.799 --> 00:14:00.440 out saying I'm having this real crisis and no one is going to be able 166 00:14:00.440 --> 00:14:05.000 to really understand in my life except for you. And so it's this container 167 00:14:05.039 --> 00:14:09.519 that can hold all of those things and even more than we can even imagine. 168 00:14:09.559 --> 00:14:13.440 So, sisters is our community. It's a closed community. We're very 169 00:14:15.360 --> 00:14:18.720 mindful kind of like what Annie was saying, we do want it to be 170 00:14:18.799 --> 00:14:22.720 inclusive, but we know that the world isn't safe for sexually empowered woman. 171 00:14:22.440 --> 00:14:26.639 You know, we know that there are a lot of obstacles, and so 172 00:14:26.679 --> 00:14:30.360 what we want to do is make sure safeties are number one priority, that 173 00:14:30.440 --> 00:14:35.080 this is a safe container. So we actually interview every single sister who intends 174 00:14:35.120 --> 00:14:39.840 to join us, and we'll continue to do that. So you know, 175 00:14:39.919 --> 00:14:45.600 there's an interview process and an application process, and we're actually really excited because 176 00:14:45.799 --> 00:14:52.399 just today we've launched a free tier for the Sisterhood. So literally any of 177 00:14:52.399 --> 00:14:58.720 your listeners, anybody can join the Sisterhood and just immediately start this process for 178 00:14:58.759 --> 00:15:03.279 themselves. So that on your website that started today. Yeah, I say, 179 00:15:03.440 --> 00:15:07.120 I was looking at your website and I was doing my research and I 180 00:15:07.159 --> 00:15:09.240 was like, oh, there's there's something paid, there's something free, and 181 00:15:09.240 --> 00:15:15.240 I saw I was like a discord access. Yeah, that's so funny. 182 00:15:15.240 --> 00:15:18.360 That started today. How interesting? Well I have we're happy to celebrate with 183 00:15:18.440 --> 00:15:20.879 you. Well, it's just like so excited to be here to share not 184 00:15:22.039 --> 00:15:24.320 of this and I have a few things off of what you said. First 185 00:15:24.360 --> 00:15:28.320 of all, I want to go and first of all amazing having a place 186 00:15:28.360 --> 00:15:33.440 for people, especially people of Like you said, just diversity of expression is 187 00:15:33.440 --> 00:15:39.159 so important because you don't know what you don't know and something that could make 188 00:15:39.240 --> 00:15:45.000 you feel off or different or bad or weird and not being able to place 189 00:15:45.159 --> 00:15:48.919 that and then going into a place where someone else's like, oh yeah, 190 00:15:48.919 --> 00:15:50.399 and they own it. They might be in a different part of that journey, 191 00:15:50.440 --> 00:15:54.159 but they're owning that thing that you're going through and being like, oh, 192 00:15:54.200 --> 00:15:58.399 so I'm not alone in that, And there's a way to express that 193 00:15:58.480 --> 00:16:03.279 in a pose of way. I'm not weird or off for different for the 194 00:16:03.320 --> 00:16:07.440 wrong reason, in a negative way, for expressing myself this way or feeling 195 00:16:07.440 --> 00:16:11.759 this way, what have you. So that's super important and I love that. 196 00:16:12.639 --> 00:16:17.840 I really related to the to the mask the balance of masculine and feminine 197 00:16:17.879 --> 00:16:22.399 because like me specifically, and you might have seen this a time or two, 198 00:16:22.440 --> 00:16:26.519 like on whether it's me on Twitter or Instagram, I expressing myself sometimes 199 00:16:26.519 --> 00:16:34.440 in a masculine way gives me so much more power, And I really relate 200 00:16:34.480 --> 00:16:38.960 to that. And I always thought it was a little unattractive, Like it 201 00:16:40.000 --> 00:16:44.159 wasn't until I was with Adam that I was like Okay, so you what 202 00:16:44.279 --> 00:16:48.279 I find sexy about myself is what you also find sexy. Like I feel 203 00:16:48.320 --> 00:16:53.559 sexist and like an oversized T shirt, Like I like, I love me 204 00:16:53.639 --> 00:16:57.759 some lingery like we can all. I love it, but also like if 205 00:16:57.799 --> 00:17:03.000 I like that's my type of glam, like I love me an oversized T 206 00:17:03.159 --> 00:17:07.720 shirt, I like my hair up. I like a disheveled glam like that 207 00:17:07.880 --> 00:17:11.799 is kind of and that gives me a masculine energy. And I just feel 208 00:17:11.839 --> 00:17:18.000 like I can just fucking ruin someone's life and that gives me and that makes 209 00:17:18.039 --> 00:17:22.680 me so happy, like no being, like I have enough love for myself 210 00:17:22.759 --> 00:17:25.839 right now that if you tried me hard enough, I will wreck your life, 211 00:17:25.880 --> 00:17:27.920 and that gives me power. I love that feeling. It's not what 212 00:17:29.079 --> 00:17:32.000 you have it, but you don't do anything naughty with it, Like that's 213 00:17:32.079 --> 00:17:34.319 that's what I love. Yeah, I was gonna ask you. I've y'all 214 00:17:34.359 --> 00:17:44.960 ever read the book King Warrior, Magician Lover, but we love this stuff. 215 00:17:44.960 --> 00:17:48.960 You would. It's somewhere on our bookshelf, but it's about it's specifically 216 00:17:49.200 --> 00:17:53.079 and I'll bring it back to more the film, but it's specifically about the 217 00:17:53.119 --> 00:18:00.440 different types of masculine energy archetypes correct, yes, um. And so this 218 00:18:00.480 --> 00:18:07.640 idea that masculine and feminine is not it has almost nothing to do with the 219 00:18:07.680 --> 00:18:11.160 gender, right, Like, yeah, I just want to I think I 220 00:18:11.200 --> 00:18:14.440 was going to ask kind of like your thoughts on that that, Like, 221 00:18:15.400 --> 00:18:18.640 it doesn't it doesn't really like talking about femine stuff. It's it doesn't matter, 222 00:18:18.759 --> 00:18:22.160 like we all have. I kind of see it almost as like a 223 00:18:22.400 --> 00:18:26.039 cup that has two different liquids in it, and the cup is full no 224 00:18:26.079 --> 00:18:30.480 matter what. It's just like you have more of liquid a and more of 225 00:18:30.559 --> 00:18:34.079 liquiuld be. Yeah, yeah, yeah, I love that so much. 226 00:18:34.119 --> 00:18:37.640 I wish I had the book in here that I'm taking with me on vacation 227 00:18:37.720 --> 00:18:40.960 tomorrow, because it's about the inner marriage of the masculine and the feminine, 228 00:18:41.279 --> 00:18:45.920 and that we all have both within us, and that we all have the 229 00:18:45.960 --> 00:18:49.920 ability to access it and harness it for good or evil, right, and 230 00:18:51.000 --> 00:18:53.279 so we can do what we want with those energies. But the masculine, 231 00:18:53.359 --> 00:18:57.200 there's nothing wrong with the masculine and there's nothing wrong with the feminine. They 232 00:18:57.319 --> 00:19:03.599 both are incredibly divine energies when utilized an access in ways that are meant to 233 00:19:03.839 --> 00:19:07.519 uplift and to empower and all of that stuff, and we need both of 234 00:19:07.519 --> 00:19:12.200 those desperately in the world and we all have them within us. So understanding 235 00:19:12.240 --> 00:19:17.799 what your own inner archetypes are of both your feminine and masculine are super amazing 236 00:19:17.799 --> 00:19:22.480 and powerful because when you can embody each one of those in whatever situation you 237 00:19:22.559 --> 00:19:26.599 need it, you're fucking unstoppable. I mean, that's what I love about 238 00:19:26.640 --> 00:19:30.200 that. And when I think about like that inner marriage, I think about 239 00:19:30.240 --> 00:19:33.640 I actually have a tattoo on my arm. I don't know how much all 240 00:19:33.680 --> 00:19:37.599 we can see it, but like right here, there's a yin yang and 241 00:19:37.680 --> 00:19:41.000 it stands for like sacred union, and for me, that means sacred union 242 00:19:41.039 --> 00:19:45.920 within myself and then within any partnership that I decide to be a part of. 243 00:19:45.480 --> 00:19:51.240 But it is about both of those pieces coming together and infusing and really 244 00:19:51.319 --> 00:19:56.400 understanding what my balance is and how when I'm craving more support, more grounding, 245 00:19:56.559 --> 00:20:00.160 more safety in my life, I can provide that to myself in what 246 00:20:00.240 --> 00:20:04.880 ways are aligned for me. And that's my masculine sitting there and holding me 247 00:20:04.920 --> 00:20:08.039 and doing that for me. And then when I need something that's a little 248 00:20:08.039 --> 00:20:11.720 bit more nurturing, a little bit more forgiving, a little more understanding, 249 00:20:11.759 --> 00:20:15.720 a little more a motive. I can get into that too. And there's 250 00:20:15.839 --> 00:20:19.079 myriad other ways of expressing both masculine and feminine, but I love that, 251 00:20:19.200 --> 00:20:22.880 and we all have both, and we all need both. It's very important. 252 00:20:22.960 --> 00:20:27.039 It's needing both specifically, I think, is that's how we learn, 253 00:20:27.519 --> 00:20:33.720 like you mentioned, to be unshamed, unshamed, this is it okaya, 254 00:20:33.799 --> 00:20:38.640 having forgiveness for yourself or having holding space for yourself, Like that's going to 255 00:20:38.720 --> 00:20:42.960 stem much more from that feminine energy. And I think that's why so many 256 00:20:44.240 --> 00:20:48.599 males also struggle with things like that, like they're not willing to look inside 257 00:20:48.599 --> 00:20:53.640 themselves or be forgiving with themselves or be nurturing, because there's just this constructs 258 00:20:53.680 --> 00:20:57.200 as if I'm like this, then I'm soft and therefore I'm feminine or in 259 00:20:57.279 --> 00:21:04.759 this or in that. It's very the balance is super needed. It is 260 00:21:04.759 --> 00:21:08.599 super needed. And we often talk about on our show how, yes, 261 00:21:08.920 --> 00:21:12.519 the patriarchy in and of itself is not a bad thing. It's how it 262 00:21:12.559 --> 00:21:15.480 has been utilized. It's how it's been kind of brought forth in this world 263 00:21:17.079 --> 00:21:22.119 and the way that we have expressed patriarchy in our world has been so harmful 264 00:21:22.240 --> 00:21:26.440 to both men and women, right, So it's it's also just terribly damning 265 00:21:26.000 --> 00:21:29.480 for men who want to be able to get in touch with that part of 266 00:21:29.519 --> 00:21:33.839 themselves that is more forgiving and soft and gentle and able to just kind of 267 00:21:33.839 --> 00:21:38.160 coax themselves through situations because they just have to be so strong and so, 268 00:21:38.799 --> 00:21:42.319 you know, just rigid and all of that. And so yeah, I 269 00:21:41.880 --> 00:21:47.319 think I think that. Yeah, I just wanted to say that because I 270 00:21:47.319 --> 00:21:51.880 think when we talk about sometimes our preference for working with women and fems in 271 00:21:51.920 --> 00:21:57.440 our containers, we're not saying anything negative whatsoever about masculine energy and about even 272 00:21:57.599 --> 00:22:02.319 patriarchy in general. It's just how it's been used and how it's been webinar 273 00:22:02.519 --> 00:22:06.799 is um and that's that's the part that we really feel like the pendulum needs 274 00:22:06.839 --> 00:22:10.079 to start to swing, and it is I think doing so, and for 275 00:22:10.200 --> 00:22:11.880 the balance as well. And I know that Scarlett, Scarlett, you're a 276 00:22:11.920 --> 00:22:18.400 Libra too, right, I sure, am girl. It's called she did 277 00:22:18.400 --> 00:22:22.359 her research. Are you a September or an October Libra? Because they're built 278 00:22:22.400 --> 00:22:26.400 very I am in October? Okay, Yeah, Yeah, my mom is 279 00:22:26.400 --> 00:22:30.640 a September. I'm a third gen Libra. Oh and my mom is a 280 00:22:30.720 --> 00:22:33.759 September Libra and we build different. So yeah, I'm an October Libra, 281 00:22:34.400 --> 00:22:37.839 very different. So because I just I just think about that balance a lot. 282 00:22:48.599 --> 00:22:51.440 Hey, beautiful bitches, have you heard of our patreon yet? This 283 00:22:51.519 --> 00:22:53.759 is a really great exclusive place where you can get two bone us sods a 284 00:22:53.839 --> 00:22:57.880 month, monthly live streams, a private discord to chat with us, and 285 00:22:57.920 --> 00:23:02.359 all kinds of bone and extras. You don't want to miss it, so 286 00:23:02.440 --> 00:23:04.359 head over to Patreon, or you can click the link in a description. 287 00:23:04.759 --> 00:23:10.839 You can even head to our website at www dot cricket bunnymedia dot com and 288 00:23:10.920 --> 00:23:14.440 click the bottled up Bitch's icon. Join our Patreon, join the fun, 289 00:23:14.640 --> 00:23:27.640 and enjoy all the exclusive benefits to become a very important bitch. You mentioned 290 00:23:27.640 --> 00:23:33.200 earlier about with the SLIC sister's community. There's the there's an interview, and 291 00:23:33.200 --> 00:23:37.480 there's a little bit of an application process. What would you say to the 292 00:23:37.519 --> 00:23:42.279 people that find that intimidating? Because I know that if I was super nervous 293 00:23:42.319 --> 00:23:47.160 to enter any type of sisterhood or interest a space where I need to be 294 00:23:47.240 --> 00:23:51.720 vulnerable and talk about things that I'm uncomfortable with or that I'm self discovering and 295 00:23:51.759 --> 00:23:55.880 seeing that there's an application process, I could find that very intimidating, a 296 00:23:55.880 --> 00:23:57.599 little nerve wrecking, and that might, you know, I might shy away 297 00:23:57.640 --> 00:24:04.599 from that. In addition to that, I'm curious like going into depth of 298 00:24:04.680 --> 00:24:11.240 like why the why why you guys feel the interview and now that is necessary. 299 00:24:11.319 --> 00:24:14.119 I think they said that earlier that it's about safety. It is about 300 00:24:14.119 --> 00:24:18.039 safety, I understand, just to get a little more clarification so people truly 301 00:24:18.119 --> 00:24:23.920 understand, like why why why am I going through this interview process? Oh 302 00:24:25.000 --> 00:24:29.079 my gosh, Absolutely happy to speak to that, uh Rihanna, that was 303 00:24:29.119 --> 00:24:33.680 like such a great question, and I'm so grateful that you asked, because 304 00:24:33.319 --> 00:24:40.720 I know that there are a lot of barriers when we think about the notion 305 00:24:40.759 --> 00:24:45.880 of doing something like this, the notion of like connecting in with with two 306 00:24:47.000 --> 00:24:51.680 women I don't know, let alone you know, some myriad number beyond that, 307 00:24:52.200 --> 00:24:56.720 to talk about things that are extremely personal and vulnerable for me, um 308 00:24:56.759 --> 00:25:00.480 and to even start that process may feel like a huge sleep. And what 309 00:25:00.519 --> 00:25:03.119 I would say to that is a few things. The first thing I would 310 00:25:03.119 --> 00:25:08.480 say is that Slut Sisters is one hundred percent a peer group. So I'm 311 00:25:08.480 --> 00:25:15.000 a slut, Anya is a slut like you are talking to women who have 312 00:25:15.160 --> 00:25:21.880 shared life experience, and we are simply here to offer you that support. 313 00:25:21.920 --> 00:25:26.200 And so I know about the courage that it may take within you to summon 314 00:25:26.279 --> 00:25:30.440 that courage to say, you know what, I think this is something that 315 00:25:30.519 --> 00:25:34.200 I can benefit from, and I think this is a sisterhood that like others 316 00:25:34.240 --> 00:25:38.640 may benefit from me from my journey. Like that for me was the first 317 00:25:38.680 --> 00:25:44.880 thing when I started sharing about my sexual experiences. It was like, I'm 318 00:25:44.960 --> 00:25:49.039 going through this really expansive life journey and I just can't believe it's meant not 319 00:25:49.079 --> 00:25:55.240 to be shared. Like I can't believe I've had all of these experiences just 320 00:25:55.319 --> 00:25:59.640 to let them live in my own little world. There must be others on 321 00:25:59.640 --> 00:26:03.640 this path. And so if either of those sparks are within you, what 322 00:26:03.720 --> 00:26:07.880 I will say is that we have built this community with so much intention, 323 00:26:07.480 --> 00:26:12.839 yes for safety, but also to provide a space where there is a solidarity 324 00:26:12.920 --> 00:26:18.400 and like you know, we You're not going to be kink shamed, You're 325 00:26:18.440 --> 00:26:22.880 not going to be judged. There is no presence of any of that. 326 00:26:23.319 --> 00:26:27.559 And I know for a lot of women, like the thought of that space 327 00:26:27.599 --> 00:26:34.680 even existing is like what like there are so few spaces where a woman can 328 00:26:34.759 --> 00:26:41.559 actually truly show up in this uh, in their full embodiment of their sexuality. 329 00:26:41.640 --> 00:26:45.799 And so that is what I would say is that I know it takes 330 00:26:45.799 --> 00:26:48.720 a lot of courage, but what have you got to lose, you know, 331 00:26:48.799 --> 00:26:53.000 you've got everything to gain. And yeah, it's and I know that 332 00:26:53.000 --> 00:26:57.799 that takes some trust, right and so like we realize from the moment a 333 00:26:57.880 --> 00:27:02.599 sister reaches out to us us, like you're placing a lot of trust in 334 00:27:02.720 --> 00:27:06.880 us that we are going to be that place for you. And what Anya 335 00:27:06.920 --> 00:27:10.599 and I wake up thinking about every day is how we can just increase that 336 00:27:10.680 --> 00:27:14.240 and just make it an even safer space. Which is why you know, 337 00:27:14.799 --> 00:27:18.880 our interview is something that we do just because like we want to deeply know 338 00:27:18.000 --> 00:27:22.480 our sisters, you know, like we want to know we we do respect 339 00:27:22.559 --> 00:27:27.000 anonymity, and we allow people in the Sanctum to be as discrete and anonymous 340 00:27:27.039 --> 00:27:30.359 as possible. So when they come into our spaces, you know, our 341 00:27:30.480 --> 00:27:34.519 virtual gatherings, our sanctum, you know, you can use an assumed name. 342 00:27:34.680 --> 00:27:40.799 You don't have to share pictures like there's no requirement like that. It's 343 00:27:41.000 --> 00:27:44.960 the interview just really exists so that we can get to know you better as 344 00:27:45.000 --> 00:27:48.519 the founders of this and also think about, you know, what offerings we 345 00:27:48.599 --> 00:27:51.920 can create for you, what supports we can give you all of that. 346 00:27:52.160 --> 00:27:53.480 I see Anya lighting up, so I'm a pass it over to her. 347 00:27:55.720 --> 00:27:59.000 No, you hit it, you hit it because it is there's another layer 348 00:27:59.039 --> 00:28:03.079 to it as well. When you bring people into a discord server. A 349 00:28:03.079 --> 00:28:04.599 lot of these women have never heard of discord. They don't even know what 350 00:28:04.640 --> 00:28:07.880 it is, and so it's about also teaching them, Hey, this is 351 00:28:07.920 --> 00:28:11.680 what it is. We'll walk you through it. Here are some rooms you 352 00:28:11.759 --> 00:28:15.319 might be interested in based on what you filled out in your form, but 353 00:28:15.359 --> 00:28:18.559 we also want to know how to serve them because we also are going to 354 00:28:18.599 --> 00:28:22.799 be providing monthly gatherings that will be more like ticketed events for people who are 355 00:28:22.799 --> 00:28:25.640 in the free membership. They might want to pay ten bucks and come to 356 00:28:25.680 --> 00:28:29.079 this thing or a symposium that we're doing some weekend, which we can get 357 00:28:29.119 --> 00:28:32.119 into, but you know, we want to know what they need to hear 358 00:28:32.200 --> 00:28:34.519 and what they really are hungry for because if we don't know that, we 359 00:28:34.559 --> 00:28:38.240 don't really know how to serve them. So we're not interested in having sisters 360 00:28:38.279 --> 00:28:41.119 come in that don't know who we are and that we don't know who they 361 00:28:41.160 --> 00:28:45.119 are. We aren't looking for this to just be a membership where everybody just 362 00:28:45.240 --> 00:28:48.599 comes in and kind of runs them up. We want this to be something 363 00:28:48.680 --> 00:28:52.440 that is truly about deep connection and serve us to one another. And it 364 00:28:52.440 --> 00:28:57.000 starts so I guess so you're looking as far as the acceptance goes. You're 365 00:28:57.000 --> 00:29:03.039 looking for people who are going to take this seriously, and that's kind of 366 00:29:03.039 --> 00:29:06.559 part of the interview to try to tell if they're going to or not. 367 00:29:07.880 --> 00:29:11.200 I'm so glad you brought that up. The interview is never to kick somebody 368 00:29:11.240 --> 00:29:15.799 out. Everybody is presumed to be accepted the moment they hit submit on their 369 00:29:15.839 --> 00:29:19.880 application. The interview is to confirm that they're a fem because I'm just going 370 00:29:19.920 --> 00:29:22.519 to be really honest. If I'm going to state this explicitly, there's a 371 00:29:22.559 --> 00:29:26.880 lot of people who try to have access to us who are pretending to be 372 00:29:26.960 --> 00:29:30.839 femist and they are not. So we're just gonna be really honest. About 373 00:29:30.839 --> 00:29:33.799 that, because we just need to know, you know, if you are 374 00:29:33.880 --> 00:29:37.599 from fem presenting in any way or just FEM identified. But let's talk about 375 00:29:37.599 --> 00:29:41.799 that. So that for us is the safety piece, just making sure that 376 00:29:41.839 --> 00:29:45.599 the container has integrity and is safe and is truly who they say they are. 377 00:29:45.200 --> 00:29:49.200 There is literally nobody who's going to not be admitted into the Sisterhood if 378 00:29:49.200 --> 00:29:56.920 they're fem identifying unless they express perhaps a kink or a fetish or a deep 379 00:29:56.960 --> 00:30:00.599 sexual desire that doesn't involve consent. And if that is the case, and 380 00:30:00.599 --> 00:30:03.559 then we would not be able to allow them in based on our own integrity 381 00:30:03.640 --> 00:30:07.599 and what we're looking for within this space, because consent is one hundred percent 382 00:30:07.680 --> 00:30:11.079 necessary for anything going on in the Sisterhood. Sure that makes sense. Sure, 383 00:30:11.400 --> 00:30:19.039 Yeah, I'm glad we clarified that. I was other than like safety 384 00:30:19.119 --> 00:30:22.400 breach or something. I think the idea of like, that's exactly right. 385 00:30:22.440 --> 00:30:26.759 It's safety and concent is safety. So really it's one hundred percent about safety. 386 00:30:27.119 --> 00:30:32.240 That's literally the only thing that's the only thing that we're trying to safeguard 387 00:30:32.319 --> 00:30:37.599 is everybody's safety. What was the thinking process to you know, I think 388 00:30:37.640 --> 00:30:41.440 a lot of like these kind of communities have a very um and this may 389 00:30:41.519 --> 00:30:45.920 actually I don't know, have almost a very reactive kind of idea of safety. 390 00:30:45.960 --> 00:30:48.559 What was the thinking process to say, hey, we want to keep 391 00:30:48.599 --> 00:30:55.920 these safe, so we're going to implement this this rigor before they are actually 392 00:30:55.960 --> 00:31:07.599 able to come in our experience another escorts But yeah you're sure, Yeah, 393 00:31:07.640 --> 00:31:14.799 you don't get the d MS ideas, Yeah, it's very much so that. 394 00:31:15.039 --> 00:31:21.160 Um, you know, Anya and I met in an online sexuality community. 395 00:31:21.559 --> 00:31:25.000 Um, that is one hundred percent that the nexus and the origin of 396 00:31:25.039 --> 00:31:29.960 our connection. And so with that being the case, and with us having 397 00:31:30.000 --> 00:31:34.960 the meaningful and deep relationship and rapport that we have now, um, we've 398 00:31:36.039 --> 00:31:41.400 learned a lot along the way and we continue to learn. And slut Sisters 399 00:31:41.480 --> 00:31:48.000 for us was born out of you know, attending you know, events and 400 00:31:48.039 --> 00:31:55.839 being in spaces where what we experienced was like the women really having the backs 401 00:31:55.880 --> 00:32:00.680 of the women like one hundred and fifty percent like I've got you. And 402 00:32:00.680 --> 00:32:07.079 that was really for us, like this is it like the event and the 403 00:32:07.160 --> 00:32:10.240 sex party and the whatever it is we're doing the meet and greet, Like 404 00:32:10.640 --> 00:32:14.480 that's great, but for the two of us, like honing in on that, 405 00:32:14.559 --> 00:32:16.920 like this piece is crucial, All of this is really built upon. 406 00:32:17.039 --> 00:32:22.839 That made us realize, Okay, we want to bring this forth and we 407 00:32:22.920 --> 00:32:25.519 have to put this just like you said, Adam, like how frequently like 408 00:32:25.839 --> 00:32:30.640 it is reactionary. Our goal was to like this is baked in one hundred 409 00:32:30.680 --> 00:32:36.720 percent. We're not going to anticipate every challenge and we're not going to anticipate 410 00:32:36.839 --> 00:32:42.119 everything, but we have done our due diligence to ensure that safety is our 411 00:32:42.279 --> 00:32:46.240 number one priority in this community. I'm glad Anya just put it out there 412 00:32:46.319 --> 00:32:52.240 because it's true there, it's necessary. There are folks that you know, 413 00:32:52.640 --> 00:32:55.599 being that slut is in the name of our business, and slut is we 414 00:32:55.640 --> 00:33:00.440 are all about slut positivity that does draw you know, all sorts of eyes 415 00:33:00.440 --> 00:33:05.440 and attention, and we're trying to shift that paradigm. And the only way 416 00:33:05.480 --> 00:33:08.119 we can do it is if we're operating from a safe space. So I 417 00:33:08.160 --> 00:33:14.519 get it, I know you do. I know. Yeah, it's hard 418 00:33:14.519 --> 00:33:16.319 out here when you have when you're trying to be sex positive and everyone just 419 00:33:16.359 --> 00:33:20.000 thinks, like so I could just be as inappropriate with you as I want 420 00:33:20.039 --> 00:33:22.279 to, and I'm like, no, especially since I'm on a show with 421 00:33:22.319 --> 00:33:25.400 my husband, so the amount of like ridiculous things that are sent to me 422 00:33:25.440 --> 00:33:28.319 and I'm like, well, if you listen to the show, you know 423 00:33:28.319 --> 00:33:35.240 that I'm super involved. Yeah, I'm not here for your dick crazy married 424 00:33:35.440 --> 00:33:38.119 like we made it. We made a whole business that of being married. 425 00:33:38.160 --> 00:33:45.200 I don't want your dick pics or if you do, actually like let me 426 00:33:45.240 --> 00:33:50.119 out first, right, like it's it's it's not about just like sliding in 427 00:33:50.200 --> 00:33:53.119 with that you know, amazing amazingness that you think you have. Let's talk. 428 00:33:53.319 --> 00:33:57.720 Let's talk a little bit about some of these concepts in the Windy's parking 429 00:33:57.759 --> 00:33:59.880 lot, Like I don't need this right now. I'm just trying to get 430 00:34:00.079 --> 00:34:05.279 spicing. I'm outlier to try and get my my frosty. I don't need 431 00:34:05.279 --> 00:34:07.639 this right now. But Charlie, you made it. I wanted to go 432 00:34:07.639 --> 00:34:13.119 into how you guys met because I find you guys both so balancing and when 433 00:34:13.159 --> 00:34:15.239 when you go on the website and you read your bios about each other, 434 00:34:15.800 --> 00:34:21.119 I find that there is there is a common thread, but you guys seem 435 00:34:21.159 --> 00:34:23.800 to be very different individuals. So I wanted to learn a little bit about 436 00:34:24.159 --> 00:34:30.480 so you mentioned that y'all met online or in a online yes, um, 437 00:34:30.559 --> 00:34:31.800 yeah, I want to know, like what that bond was? Where was 438 00:34:31.920 --> 00:34:36.079 what was that like light bulb moment of like okay, so this is great, 439 00:34:36.280 --> 00:34:40.760 like this is this is friendship. It was really like this. I 440 00:34:40.840 --> 00:34:45.039 know, like this sounds like hella cliche romantic comedy, but like it was 441 00:34:45.079 --> 00:34:49.920 from the moment I saw her. Like it was from the moment I like 442 00:34:50.159 --> 00:34:53.880 our eyes met virtually on a computer screen such as this, I was just 443 00:34:54.000 --> 00:35:00.360 like captivated. We were in a happy hour for uh Anya and I met 444 00:35:00.440 --> 00:35:05.719 in a non monogamous a certain kind of community that's built around a certain style 445 00:35:05.760 --> 00:35:08.320 of non monogamy known as cuckolding. Have you ever heard of that? Yes, 446 00:35:08.599 --> 00:35:13.320 curious you have? Okay, I figured as much. You hung around 447 00:35:13.320 --> 00:35:22.360 our twitters. Oh cool, okay, okay, so y'all your listeners are 448 00:35:22.360 --> 00:35:27.559 well versed, as are you. So we we met in that community and 449 00:35:27.920 --> 00:35:32.559 we um were going on like we were both early for this video chat and 450 00:35:32.639 --> 00:35:36.719 I just it was like she just appeared and it was like, oh, 451 00:35:36.760 --> 00:35:40.440 there you are, Like it's you. That's how it felt like we're gonna 452 00:35:40.480 --> 00:35:45.239 do these amazing things together. And just we developed a friendship immediately, and 453 00:35:45.280 --> 00:35:52.320 it was this capacity of like is it safe to be vulnerable with her? 454 00:35:52.400 --> 00:35:54.800 And like every time I was vulnerable with her, she like met me with 455 00:35:55.639 --> 00:36:01.519 matched vulnerability and also the intention and care that made me feel so safe. 456 00:36:02.199 --> 00:36:07.440 And I felt like I could be more vulnerable with her, and I think 457 00:36:07.440 --> 00:36:10.639 she felt she could be more vulnerable with me. And that has just created 458 00:36:10.679 --> 00:36:17.280 the foundation of our relationship and of our you know, partnership together and that 459 00:36:17.320 --> 00:36:22.800 has never halted. That whole process goes on to this day. And like 460 00:36:23.280 --> 00:36:28.599 it did feel like I have a sister. I have a biological sister, 461 00:36:28.679 --> 00:36:31.719 and so I know what sisterhood feels like, what it feels like to have 462 00:36:32.480 --> 00:36:37.679 a sister who's like got you, Like we are family, like you know, 463 00:36:37.880 --> 00:36:42.079 we we are going to have each other forever. And that's really what 464 00:36:42.159 --> 00:36:45.519 it has felt like with with Anya this whole time. And that's really the 465 00:36:45.559 --> 00:36:50.960 whole like nexus of sisters is that we have a bond that's a lot deeper 466 00:36:51.000 --> 00:36:54.840 than like a friendship, you know. Um not to like discount friendships. 467 00:36:54.920 --> 00:37:00.000 I love friendships. I have many friendships, but like it felt like there 468 00:37:00.079 --> 00:37:04.360 was more substance to it. Yeah, yeah, yeah, it is. 469 00:37:04.519 --> 00:37:08.480 It's truly special. Have you guys met in real life? Okay? Oh 470 00:37:08.559 --> 00:37:15.440 yeah, I love that intonation, babe. Oh yeah. We've shared a 471 00:37:15.480 --> 00:37:17.880 lot of time and space together. I think. I mean, like she 472 00:37:17.960 --> 00:37:22.079 said, when you first meet somebody who can kind of meet you there. 473 00:37:22.159 --> 00:37:24.960 And I don't have a sister in real life. I've always wanted. I 474 00:37:24.960 --> 00:37:28.239 mean, I have some sister in laws and I love them, They're amazing, 475 00:37:28.280 --> 00:37:32.280 but I have not had a sister that's biological to me. And to 476 00:37:32.440 --> 00:37:37.880 meet that in a soul sister is just such a delicious feeling. And I've 477 00:37:37.880 --> 00:37:40.679 had a couple of experiences with that before, and when I think about my 478 00:37:40.719 --> 00:37:45.159 soul family, you know, Scarlet's definitely a part of that for me. 479 00:37:45.280 --> 00:37:49.840 So yeah, it was definitely love at first sight, for sure. And 480 00:37:49.880 --> 00:37:53.480 I feel like it was pretty quick after that that we started talking about, 481 00:37:53.519 --> 00:37:57.760 like we're going to have to get together. And it might have been a 482 00:37:57.760 --> 00:38:00.880 little while after that. It might have even been a year before we actually 483 00:38:00.880 --> 00:38:12.119 met in person. I can't quite remember. We met in like mid twenty 484 00:38:12.159 --> 00:38:19.079 twenty Bay twenty. Yeah. Yeah, it was definitely during COVID. It 485 00:38:19.119 --> 00:38:22.039 was during the lockdown, because that's how these happy hours kind of kicked off 486 00:38:22.119 --> 00:38:24.559 during the lockdown because people were lonely and they were looking for ways of connecting. 487 00:38:25.280 --> 00:38:29.920 So yeah, I think just echoing everything that she said, and I 488 00:38:30.400 --> 00:38:34.960 yeah, we are very different to your point, Ranna, Like we have 489 00:38:35.119 --> 00:38:38.159 really really different style. I mean, initially when we first met, we 490 00:38:38.280 --> 00:38:43.679 probably were mirroring each other a little bit more than we do now, while 491 00:38:43.719 --> 00:38:46.920 a lot more than we do now probably, but we but we've found a 492 00:38:46.960 --> 00:38:52.000 way to kind of understand that. That's even something that helps us even more 493 00:38:52.159 --> 00:38:58.400 be able to reach more people and understand more what the fem experiences around sexuality. 494 00:38:59.079 --> 00:39:02.719 So yeah, quite different, but also just like have that thread in 495 00:39:02.760 --> 00:39:06.719 common that just really kind of bonds us at the deepest level of the So 496 00:39:06.920 --> 00:39:09.559 that's that yin and yang you were talking about. That's the balance and that's 497 00:39:09.599 --> 00:39:16.599 what's always great in any friendship or relationship or connection is we can have conversations 498 00:39:16.599 --> 00:39:21.239 in different views and be different people, but still have a common thread and 499 00:39:21.239 --> 00:39:28.519 be understanding and empathetic to one another. Absolutely. Yeah. Yeah, Well, 500 00:39:28.599 --> 00:39:37.599 is there anything else that you wanted to add before before we wrap up? 501 00:39:37.239 --> 00:39:43.360 Um? No, I don't think so. Um yeah, Oh cute 502 00:39:44.000 --> 00:39:46.280 having a good old time. Yeah, I kind of just got lost in 503 00:39:46.440 --> 00:39:51.079 listening to I'm just having a good time listening. It's a good, really 504 00:39:51.079 --> 00:39:53.480 good like audiobook boys. Y'll do, yeah, y'all do, y'all very 505 00:39:53.480 --> 00:39:59.800 soothing voices. Well, we'd be happy to just kind of give your listeners 506 00:39:59.800 --> 00:40:01.880 like a little tease into kind of some of the things that Slut Sisters is 507 00:40:01.880 --> 00:40:07.960 going to be doing, because, as you all mentioned, today is the 508 00:40:08.039 --> 00:40:12.360 day that we launched our free tiers. So if you are looking for sisterhood, 509 00:40:12.760 --> 00:40:15.119 if you would like to join us in our private discord group, if 510 00:40:15.119 --> 00:40:20.440 you would like to join us in our monthly what we call our slet sister 511 00:40:20.559 --> 00:40:25.000 sesshes. They're like little Zoom virtual happy hours. Join that free tier, 512 00:40:25.280 --> 00:40:29.599 submit your application, have a little chat chat with us. We would love 513 00:40:29.599 --> 00:40:35.880 that, and then you're in and we have some really fun events coming up. 514 00:40:35.960 --> 00:40:39.000 We've decided that we're going to be offering monthly events. One of them 515 00:40:39.119 --> 00:40:43.960 is called slut Bag Roulette, and that's coming up in late May, and 516 00:40:44.039 --> 00:40:47.559 we have a team of hot wife content creators who are going to join us 517 00:40:47.639 --> 00:40:52.679 for that very fun and salacious conversation. And then you're looking at her. 518 00:40:54.440 --> 00:41:04.320 Ah, yeah, hot wife. As mentioned Janie and I kind of have 519 00:41:04.519 --> 00:41:10.199 so many sisters and friends who are in the hot wife community, which is 520 00:41:10.559 --> 00:41:15.559 women who are married who have the full support of their husbands in like a 521 00:41:15.639 --> 00:41:20.760 journey of sexual expansion and you know, having different partners, and many of 522 00:41:20.800 --> 00:41:23.960 them are swingers and their husbands, you know, also have other partners. 523 00:41:24.000 --> 00:41:30.920 But they are also in the content world, which is really about producing like 524 00:41:31.360 --> 00:41:37.119 we all know only fans and it's like huge and so not only are these 525 00:41:37.199 --> 00:41:40.639 ladies incredible hot wives, but they're also putting videos out to share and like 526 00:41:40.719 --> 00:41:46.079 I personally think it's a great thing for like real women, moms, professionals, 527 00:41:46.199 --> 00:41:51.920 like women who are putting themselves out there and showing like how truly beautiful 528 00:41:51.960 --> 00:41:55.159 this dynamic can be. So they that's the hot wife content creators. We 529 00:41:55.199 --> 00:42:00.880 will be welcoming into our first slap bag roulette's how fine. Yeah, And 530 00:42:00.840 --> 00:42:04.920 the concept of slaptbag Roulette is that, like every time we do a slaptbag 531 00:42:05.000 --> 00:42:07.440 Roulette, it's going to be a different topic, it's going to be different 532 00:42:07.480 --> 00:42:08.960 stuff, but it's always going to be fun. It's going to be selacious, 533 00:42:09.000 --> 00:42:12.239 it's going to be a good time, so it's going to be very 534 00:42:12.320 --> 00:42:16.000 lighthearted. We then will follow that up in June with an event called State 535 00:42:16.039 --> 00:42:20.320 of the Slut Union, and we will be picking a topic we want to 536 00:42:20.360 --> 00:42:22.199 go a little bit more deep into. It could be a bit like a 537 00:42:22.280 --> 00:42:25.639 live podcast, but we will be bringing a guest on and we'll dive in 538 00:42:25.920 --> 00:42:34.119 deep to some issue or concern or something relevant to fem empowerment. And then 539 00:42:34.199 --> 00:42:37.559 every quarter we're going to be having what we're calling our slept Posiums. And 540 00:42:37.679 --> 00:42:43.960 our first one is in July, and Scarlett had been in a conversation with 541 00:42:44.360 --> 00:42:47.719 a friend, a slut sister, where this person was really saying, I 542 00:42:49.360 --> 00:42:52.199 really want to learn to like dig into my dirty talk. I want to 543 00:42:52.280 --> 00:42:57.320 learn to vocalize myself a little bit more. So we're going to be having 544 00:42:57.519 --> 00:43:02.239 a slept posium for a couple of days in a lie where likely Scarlett's going 545 00:43:02.239 --> 00:43:06.719 to be doing She's the much better dirty talker than I am. I'm a 546 00:43:06.800 --> 00:43:14.960 dirty talking talk I forgot to mention. Yeah, I don't know why you're 547 00:43:15.000 --> 00:43:16.599 like, we just heading a Scarlett. I'm a Libra and I'm a dirty 548 00:43:16.599 --> 00:43:22.320 talker like the talk. Yeah, Yeah, she's she's a good slot like 549 00:43:22.360 --> 00:43:25.239 that. So yeah, those are the types of events we're going to be 550 00:43:25.239 --> 00:43:30.239 having on a monthly basis in Slet Sisters, and we are just and they 551 00:43:30.280 --> 00:43:34.440 are not going to be limited to fems. It's going to be very wide 552 00:43:34.480 --> 00:43:39.079 open, although the dirty talk, the fem vocalization will likely be more of 553 00:43:39.519 --> 00:43:44.280 fem centric because we just want to create again that safe container where people can 554 00:43:44.360 --> 00:43:47.360 feel really safe because we're going to do some practice and some exercises and so 555 00:43:47.400 --> 00:43:51.480 we just have to make sure that people are feeling really safe in that. 556 00:43:51.639 --> 00:43:55.440 So that's what we're really excited about with Sleet Sisters and what we're bringing forth 557 00:43:55.559 --> 00:43:59.760 in terms of our offerings there. And just wanted to let your listeners say, 558 00:44:00.239 --> 00:44:02.920 to catch me in there. You're catch these hands all up in there. 559 00:44:04.559 --> 00:44:06.960 I'm so excited. And all of this is going to be linked in 560 00:44:07.039 --> 00:44:09.039 the bye in our description of the episode, so you'll be able to find 561 00:44:09.079 --> 00:44:14.519 the Flaming Yoni Podcast in their website and all those in their socials so you 562 00:44:14.519 --> 00:44:16.280 can find them on all the things and keep up with all their events and 563 00:44:16.320 --> 00:44:24.840 all the newness. So yeah, thank you so much, fine, thank 564 00:44:24.840 --> 00:44:30.360 you for having us. It's so great. Absolutely until next bed waiting a 565 00:44:30.400 --> 00:44:32.599 long time. Yeah, I'm so stuff. Well, until next time, 566 00:44:32.639 --> 00:44:37.599 everyone, stay horny. If you enjoy today's episode of Balled Up Bitches, 567 00:44:37.719 --> 00:44:42.559 be sure to rate and subscribe wherever you listen to your podcast. To join 568 00:44:42.599 --> 00:44:45.199 in on more of our conversations and fun. 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