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Its season four. Welcome to Bottle Up Bitches, your favorite sex podcast
hosted by a horny married couple with me Rihanna Campbell and me producer Man Adam.
Sex shouldn't be taboo or embarrassing, so let's talk about it. Say
bitches. Top of the morning. To you, Oh fathangara to you.
Oh my gosh, how are you, Adam? I'm good. Welcome back
to another episode of Bottle Up Bitches, your favorite sex podcast with me,
Rihanna Campbell and me producer Man Adam. How's your day going. It's going
good. We have it's going good. Yeah. Nice day at the pools
fool Day. We had a pool day and we also had a m anniversary
extravaganza weekend complete with a drag show, illusion pool, unattended, children by
um edibles, all kinds of all kinds of fun things. We had,
all kinds of fun. It was a good It was a good weekend.
It was our first US weekend. Gosh so long and I can't wait to
tell everyone about it. So that'll be next week. That'll be next week.
That'll be next week. Um, we'll tell you all about our Chiney
Anniggins for our weekend for our anniversary celebration. Um. But we've had this
episode recorded for a little while and we wanted to place it somewhere that made
the most sense, and this week felt right. So I'm super stoked that
we were able to record with the stars of the Flaming Yoni podcasts us Lacious
Scarlet and Anya Um that's her twit twitter handle. Yeah. Um. And
if you haven't listened to that episode, our episode that we recorded with them
came out a few weeks ago, so don't be afraid to go listen to
that. It was a super fun episode with us as guests, So go
to the Flaming Yoni and listen to that. Listen to all other episodes,
but you guys love us, so listen to that one too. So I'm
excited and stoked for you guys to learn about them and the sisterhood that is
the Flaming Yoni And it was a really good time. We did back to
back episodes. We recorded their episode and our episode, so we got lots
of one on one time. It was so good. Anything you want to
add, no, I just know it's a good one. It's a good
one. No, they're super great. Talking to both of them about sexuality
and what was it like creating something So it's not similar to us, but
you know, we also had a little bit of a oh, we're going
to be I don't know, sex influencers or you know, sexperts in our
own little way. So learning what their journey was like was very empowering.
I had a good time chatting with them. They're super special. Amends.
So, without further ado, I hope you enjoy this episode with the stars
of the Flaming Yoni Podcast. Is that the is that flame? I'll be
the Yoni. Oh. I want to say something real quick. Your listeners
are about to hear it. But I recently edited this episode. This episode
starts maybe one of my favorite starts to an episode because I think Rihanna has
one of the funniest things that happens. So enjoy that. Oh my god,
I can't wait to listen. Say Morny, nothing to lose now if
you stand for nothing and then you know what are you gonna do? That's
exactly how it goes Rihanna. That's all I got on a bumper sticker.
If you stand for nothing, good for you, no way, you got
to stand for everything. Well cool beans. Well, I've listened to the
Flaming Yoni, so I'm familiar. But for the people that may have not
listened to it or been on your website or seen you one uh the internets,
I would love from your mouths what exactly is a Flaming Yoni? And
same thing for Slet sisters as well. I just want to dive into all
the things that you guys have created. It's super fun. Yeah, we're
having the time of our lives. We are. How about I'll take TFY
babe, and then I'll pass that sisters over to you. How does that
sound? That sounds beautiful? So TFY The Flaming Yoni is a podcast that
was born out of a million conversations and the relationship that Scarlet and I have
facilitated and grown and cultivated over the last number of years, as we've both
been navigating our sexuality, our sexual expression, our sexual development, explorations,
all of that, and as we are two women, two fems who identify
as feminist and who very much believe that the world has spun far too far
off the axis in more of a capitalist, patriarchal world. We want to
be voices of kind of bringing it back, hopefully at some point to the
center. But what we understand and are all here for is that we know
it needs a swing pretty hard to the other end of just really thinking about
what it means to be a fem, to be empowered as a fem,
to have your voice heard, to have your preferences understood, and all of
that. And so we were really passionate about our relationship with one another,
our relationship with other women, our relationship with them identifying folks, and wanting
everybody to dive into what it is that speaks deeply to them at a deep
level about their sexuality, their sexual expression, whatever that might look like.
So for us, we talk about the Flaming Yoni being a space where we
want to talk about everything from the sacred to the salacious when it comes to
your own sexual expression and your own kind of development. And we want to
amplify those voices, and we want to bring voice and understanding to the broadest
representation of what that could possibly mean for people. So for us, it's
a space we talk about having the Yoni Verse. We are very much about
pussy empowerment, and we really want to bring as much airtime as we can
to the topics, the issues, the things that Feen's experience as they go
on this journey of understanding themselves from the inside out and particularly as pertains to
their sexual expression. Yeah, it was what's your definition of a fen?
I saw that a lot on your website and like, that's like a big
word that you use, and I was like, I don't what is fem
Yeah. So for us, we aren't gatekeepers. We aren't here to tell
people who they are and who they are not. We want to basically accept
whatever your expression is. So for us, we understand that for some people
that means Yoni bears, that that means only people that have pussies are born
with pussies. Maybe that's what they think of, But for us, we
want to broaden that entirely to people who identify as a fem individual. And
so that could be for non binary folks, it could be for trans women,
it could be for anybody that wants to step into a space where being
fem identified is held and honored and acknowledged. And we think those experiences are
incredibly valid and not just valid, but very valuable for the rest of the
world and the community to be able to understand as well. So I think
for us, fem is basically the broadest definition you can think of. I
think that we understand that there are a lot of people in this world who
don't necessarily identify with the traditional constructive gender or with their sexes, and we
don't want that to be a barrier to entry. But what we do think
is really important in our conversations and I'll let Scarlett get more into this with
slut sisters, but it is really important to us that the container that we
hold, especially for that for slut sisters, really does need to be folks
who identify as them because whatever that means to them, we want to understand
and hold that space. But we aren't looking for just anybody to come in
and be a part of that container if that's not really part of their identity.
So does that answer yeah, So, just so so to clarify,
like with the with the slut and I guess Scarlett, you you're the you're
more of the person with the sisters. You're saying that is both Yeah,
I come on, which one all of us? Um, that's more that
is more gore geared to words, where so Flaming Yonie is a little more
general fam and sled Sisters is more specific yoni holders well not necessarily currently,
Okay, So the flaming just differentiate. The Flaming Yoni is really just the
conversation around all of you know, that's the podcast and that's all of that.
Um, So it's it's our Our intention with the Flaming Yoni is to
bring voice to the fem expression and the fem experience. So that's what I'll
say about that. But then Slut Sisters, babe, think it over,
Scarlet SLT Sisters is our community. It's our intentional community for sexually liberated,
unshamed, and transformed fems women. So fems are welcome in the sisterhood.
And you just heard me rattle off a definition that's really important to us.
What we are seeking with Slut Sisters is a true solidarity among women, among
FOM identified folks who are on a mindful journey of sexual expansion, whatever that
looks like for them. So we completely recognize that this is a completely unique
journey for every single soul and what we've done is we understand that there is
power in a reclamation and so slut the slut in Slut Sisters actually doesn't stand
for the old paradigm understanding of what a slut is. It doesn't actually have
anything to do with like being promiscuous or having a lot of sexual partners or
being I was like, yeah, yes, yes, that's exactly what we
have done is we have taken the power back of this mantle and we have
redefined it and we are now pushing that out into the space, into the
awareness, into the world. And that new acronym is sexually liberated, unshamed,
not unashamed. It's we talked about it. There's a lot of intention
here, and like we have to unshame ourselves, we have to unashame,
and also like really the goal is to be like without the presient presence of
shamed, Like I'm not unashamed. I ain't got no shame, baby,
there's no shame in this game. And then you know, there's transformed that
by going on this journey, we're transformed by our sexuality and we're also transformed
by the powerful encounters that we have with other women. You know, there's
sometimes we have had a guest on our show that's like, sometimes I think
masculine and feminine like aren't even real and they're kind of a construction of society.
And sometimes I think they're deep spiritual truths, right, And it's like
I go back and forth between this. But for us, yeah, I
know I do too, And for us, we have kind of settled on
that there is something really powerful about the feminine energy, and when feminine energy
is brought together, there's so much capacity for healing, for growth, for
you know, just cheerleading and just like supporting and encouraging one another. And
that is the space that sisters is. It's just this intentional community of women,
and so often we do seek out folks that are on the same journey
as us, and a lot of times it's like, well, I want
to find a woman whose sexual expression looks like mine and she'll be able to
support me. Maybe I'm into kink, maybe I'm into a particular fetish,
or maybe I've discovered I'm into power exchange, or you know, I'm dominant,
I'm submissive, I'm all of these different identities and kind of things that
resonate. And what we want is we want them all at the table,
like we want every woman who has stepped into whatever her expression is. Like,
if you are sexually liberated, unshamed, and transformed by your sexuality,
no matter what that looks like, we want you at this table. Because
what we believe is our diversity makes us more well rounded, makes us stronger
as a sisterhood. And we also believe that like living under patriarchal systems of
power, we have wounded each other as women, and that when we come
together not only in vulnerability just as people, but in vulnerability in our sexuality,
we can actually heal that, Like we can push that healing out into
this world and see what happens. So it's so many things. You know,
it's me calling onion being like fun two guys last night. It was
great her holding space for that. And sometimes it's one of our sisters reaching
out saying I'm having this real crisis and no one is going to be able
to really understand in my life except for you. And so it's this container
that can hold all of those things and even more than we can even imagine.
So, sisters is our community. It's a closed community. We're very
mindful kind of like what Annie was saying, we do want it to be
inclusive, but we know that the world isn't safe for sexually empowered woman.
You know, we know that there are a lot of obstacles, and so
what we want to do is make sure safeties are number one priority, that
this is a safe container. So we actually interview every single sister who intends
to join us, and we'll continue to do that. So you know,
there's an interview process and an application process, and we're actually really excited because
just today we've launched a free tier for the Sisterhood. So literally any of
your listeners, anybody can join the Sisterhood and just immediately start this process for
themselves. So that on your website that started today. Yeah, I say,
I was looking at your website and I was doing my research and I
was like, oh, there's there's something paid, there's something free, and
I saw I was like a discord access. Yeah, that's so funny.
That started today. How interesting? Well I have we're happy to celebrate with
you. Well, it's just like so excited to be here to share not
of this and I have a few things off of what you said. First
of all, I want to go and first of all amazing having a place
for people, especially people of Like you said, just diversity of expression is
so important because you don't know what you don't know and something that could make
you feel off or different or bad or weird and not being able to place
that and then going into a place where someone else's like, oh yeah,
and they own it. They might be in a different part of that journey,
but they're owning that thing that you're going through and being like, oh,
so I'm not alone in that, And there's a way to express that
in a pose of way. I'm not weird or off for different for the
wrong reason, in a negative way, for expressing myself this way or feeling
this way, what have you. So that's super important and I love that.
I really related to the to the mask the balance of masculine and feminine
because like me specifically, and you might have seen this a time or two,
like on whether it's me on Twitter or Instagram, I expressing myself sometimes
in a masculine way gives me so much more power, And I really relate
to that. And I always thought it was a little unattractive, Like it
wasn't until I was with Adam that I was like Okay, so you what
I find sexy about myself is what you also find sexy. Like I feel
sexist and like an oversized T shirt, Like I like, I love me
some lingery like we can all. I love it, but also like if
I like that's my type of glam, like I love me an oversized T
shirt, I like my hair up. I like a disheveled glam like that
is kind of and that gives me a masculine energy. And I just feel
like I can just fucking ruin someone's life and that gives me and that makes
me so happy, like no being, like I have enough love for myself
right now that if you tried me hard enough, I will wreck your life,
and that gives me power. I love that feeling. It's not what
you have it, but you don't do anything naughty with it, Like that's
that's what I love. Yeah, I was gonna ask you. I've y'all
ever read the book King Warrior, Magician Lover, but we love this stuff.
You would. It's somewhere on our bookshelf, but it's about it's specifically
and I'll bring it back to more the film, but it's specifically about the
different types of masculine energy archetypes correct, yes, um. And so this
idea that masculine and feminine is not it has almost nothing to do with the
gender, right, Like, yeah, I just want to I think I
was going to ask kind of like your thoughts on that that, Like,
it doesn't it doesn't really like talking about femine stuff. It's it doesn't matter,
like we all have. I kind of see it almost as like a
cup that has two different liquids in it, and the cup is full no
matter what. It's just like you have more of liquid a and more of
liquiuld be. Yeah, yeah, yeah, I love that so much.
I wish I had the book in here that I'm taking with me on vacation
tomorrow, because it's about the inner marriage of the masculine and the feminine,
and that we all have both within us, and that we all have the
ability to access it and harness it for good or evil, right, and
so we can do what we want with those energies. But the masculine,
there's nothing wrong with the masculine and there's nothing wrong with the feminine. They
both are incredibly divine energies when utilized an access in ways that are meant to
uplift and to empower and all of that stuff, and we need both of
those desperately in the world and we all have them within us. So understanding
what your own inner archetypes are of both your feminine and masculine are super amazing
and powerful because when you can embody each one of those in whatever situation you
need it, you're fucking unstoppable. I mean, that's what I love about
that. And when I think about like that inner marriage, I think about
I actually have a tattoo on my arm. I don't know how much all
we can see it, but like right here, there's a yin yang and
it stands for like sacred union, and for me, that means sacred union
within myself and then within any partnership that I decide to be a part of.
But it is about both of those pieces coming together and infusing and really
understanding what my balance is and how when I'm craving more support, more grounding,
more safety in my life, I can provide that to myself in what
ways are aligned for me. And that's my masculine sitting there and holding me
and doing that for me. And then when I need something that's a little
bit more nurturing, a little bit more forgiving, a little more understanding,
a little more a motive. I can get into that too. And there's
myriad other ways of expressing both masculine and feminine, but I love that,
and we all have both, and we all need both. It's very important.
It's needing both specifically, I think, is that's how we learn,
like you mentioned, to be unshamed, unshamed, this is it okaya,
having forgiveness for yourself or having holding space for yourself, Like that's going to
stem much more from that feminine energy. And I think that's why so many
males also struggle with things like that, like they're not willing to look inside
themselves or be forgiving with themselves or be nurturing, because there's just this constructs
as if I'm like this, then I'm soft and therefore I'm feminine or in
this or in that. It's very the balance is super needed. It is
super needed. And we often talk about on our show how, yes,
the patriarchy in and of itself is not a bad thing. It's how it
has been utilized. It's how it's been kind of brought forth in this world
and the way that we have expressed patriarchy in our world has been so harmful
to both men and women, right, So it's it's also just terribly damning
for men who want to be able to get in touch with that part of
themselves that is more forgiving and soft and gentle and able to just kind of
coax themselves through situations because they just have to be so strong and so,
you know, just rigid and all of that. And so yeah, I
think I think that. Yeah, I just wanted to say that because I
think when we talk about sometimes our preference for working with women and fems in
our containers, we're not saying anything negative whatsoever about masculine energy and about even
patriarchy in general. It's just how it's been used and how it's been webinar
is um and that's that's the part that we really feel like the pendulum needs
to start to swing, and it is I think doing so, and for
the balance as well. And I know that Scarlett, Scarlett, you're a
Libra too, right, I sure, am girl. It's called she did
her research. Are you a September or an October Libra? Because they're built
very I am in October? Okay, Yeah, Yeah, my mom is
a September. I'm a third gen Libra. Oh and my mom is a
September Libra and we build different. So yeah, I'm an October Libra,
very different. So because I just I just think about that balance a lot.
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earlier about with the SLIC sister's community. There's the there's an interview, and
there's a little bit of an application process. What would you say to the
people that find that intimidating? Because I know that if I was super nervous
to enter any type of sisterhood or interest a space where I need to be
vulnerable and talk about things that I'm uncomfortable with or that I'm self discovering and
seeing that there's an application process, I could find that very intimidating, a
little nerve wrecking, and that might, you know, I might shy away
from that. In addition to that, I'm curious like going into depth of
like why the why why you guys feel the interview and now that is necessary.
I think they said that earlier that it's about safety. It is about
safety, I understand, just to get a little more clarification so people truly
understand, like why why why am I going through this interview process? Oh
my gosh, Absolutely happy to speak to that, uh Rihanna, that was
like such a great question, and I'm so grateful that you asked, because
I know that there are a lot of barriers when we think about the notion
of doing something like this, the notion of like connecting in with with two
women I don't know, let alone you know, some myriad number beyond that,
to talk about things that are extremely personal and vulnerable for me, um
and to even start that process may feel like a huge sleep. And what
I would say to that is a few things. The first thing I would
say is that Slut Sisters is one hundred percent a peer group. So I'm
a slut, Anya is a slut like you are talking to women who have
shared life experience, and we are simply here to offer you that support.
And so I know about the courage that it may take within you to summon
that courage to say, you know what, I think this is something that
I can benefit from, and I think this is a sisterhood that like others
may benefit from me from my journey. Like that for me was the first
thing when I started sharing about my sexual experiences. It was like, I'm
going through this really expansive life journey and I just can't believe it's meant not
to be shared. Like I can't believe I've had all of these experiences just
to let them live in my own little world. There must be others on
this path. And so if either of those sparks are within you, what
I will say is that we have built this community with so much intention,
yes for safety, but also to provide a space where there is a solidarity
and like you know, we You're not going to be kink shamed, You're
not going to be judged. There is no presence of any of that.
And I know for a lot of women, like the thought of that space
even existing is like what like there are so few spaces where a woman can
actually truly show up in this uh, in their full embodiment of their sexuality.
And so that is what I would say is that I know it takes
a lot of courage, but what have you got to lose, you know,
you've got everything to gain. And yeah, it's and I know that
that takes some trust, right and so like we realize from the moment a
sister reaches out to us us, like you're placing a lot of trust in
us that we are going to be that place for you. And what Anya
and I wake up thinking about every day is how we can just increase that
and just make it an even safer space. Which is why you know,
our interview is something that we do just because like we want to deeply know
our sisters, you know, like we want to know we we do respect
anonymity, and we allow people in the Sanctum to be as discrete and anonymous
as possible. So when they come into our spaces, you know, our
virtual gatherings, our sanctum, you know, you can use an assumed name.
You don't have to share pictures like there's no requirement like that. It's
the interview just really exists so that we can get to know you better as
the founders of this and also think about, you know, what offerings we
can create for you, what supports we can give you all of that.
I see Anya lighting up, so I'm a pass it over to her.
No, you hit it, you hit it because it is there's another layer
to it as well. When you bring people into a discord server. A
lot of these women have never heard of discord. They don't even know what
it is, and so it's about also teaching them, Hey, this is
what it is. We'll walk you through it. Here are some rooms you
might be interested in based on what you filled out in your form, but
we also want to know how to serve them because we also are going to
be providing monthly gatherings that will be more like ticketed events for people who are
in the free membership. They might want to pay ten bucks and come to
this thing or a symposium that we're doing some weekend, which we can get
into, but you know, we want to know what they need to hear
and what they really are hungry for because if we don't know that, we
don't really know how to serve them. So we're not interested in having sisters
come in that don't know who we are and that we don't know who they
are. We aren't looking for this to just be a membership where everybody just
comes in and kind of runs them up. We want this to be something
that is truly about deep connection and serve us to one another. And it
starts so I guess so you're looking as far as the acceptance goes. You're
looking for people who are going to take this seriously, and that's kind of
part of the interview to try to tell if they're going to or not.
I'm so glad you brought that up. The interview is never to kick somebody
out. Everybody is presumed to be accepted the moment they hit submit on their
application. The interview is to confirm that they're a fem because I'm just going
to be really honest. If I'm going to state this explicitly, there's a
lot of people who try to have access to us who are pretending to be
femist and they are not. So we're just gonna be really honest. About
that, because we just need to know, you know, if you are
from fem presenting in any way or just FEM identified. But let's talk about
that. So that for us is the safety piece, just making sure that
the container has integrity and is safe and is truly who they say they are.
There is literally nobody who's going to not be admitted into the Sisterhood if
they're fem identifying unless they express perhaps a kink or a fetish or a deep
sexual desire that doesn't involve consent. And if that is the case, and
then we would not be able to allow them in based on our own integrity
and what we're looking for within this space, because consent is one hundred percent
necessary for anything going on in the Sisterhood. Sure that makes sense. Sure,
Yeah, I'm glad we clarified that. I was other than like safety
breach or something. I think the idea of like, that's exactly right.
It's safety and concent is safety. So really it's one hundred percent about safety.
That's literally the only thing that's the only thing that we're trying to safeguard
is everybody's safety. What was the thinking process to you know, I think
a lot of like these kind of communities have a very um and this may
actually I don't know, have almost a very reactive kind of idea of safety.
What was the thinking process to say, hey, we want to keep
these safe, so we're going to implement this this rigor before they are actually
able to come in our experience another escorts But yeah you're sure, Yeah,
you don't get the d MS ideas, Yeah, it's very much so that.
Um, you know, Anya and I met in an online sexuality community.
Um, that is one hundred percent that the nexus and the origin of
our connection. And so with that being the case, and with us having
the meaningful and deep relationship and rapport that we have now, um, we've
learned a lot along the way and we continue to learn. And slut Sisters
for us was born out of you know, attending you know, events and
being in spaces where what we experienced was like the women really having the backs
of the women like one hundred and fifty percent like I've got you. And
that was really for us, like this is it like the event and the
sex party and the whatever it is we're doing the meet and greet, Like
that's great, but for the two of us, like honing in on that,
like this piece is crucial, All of this is really built upon.
That made us realize, Okay, we want to bring this forth and we
have to put this just like you said, Adam, like how frequently like
it is reactionary. Our goal was to like this is baked in one hundred
percent. We're not going to anticipate every challenge and we're not going to anticipate
everything, but we have done our due diligence to ensure that safety is our
number one priority in this community. I'm glad Anya just put it out there
because it's true there, it's necessary. There are folks that you know,
being that slut is in the name of our business, and slut is we
are all about slut positivity that does draw you know, all sorts of eyes
and attention, and we're trying to shift that paradigm. And the only way
we can do it is if we're operating from a safe space. So I
get it, I know you do. I know. Yeah, it's hard
out here when you have when you're trying to be sex positive and everyone just
thinks, like so I could just be as inappropriate with you as I want
to, and I'm like, no, especially since I'm on a show with
my husband, so the amount of like ridiculous things that are sent to me
and I'm like, well, if you listen to the show, you know
that I'm super involved. Yeah, I'm not here for your dick crazy married
like we made it. We made a whole business that of being married.
I don't want your dick pics or if you do, actually like let me
out first, right, like it's it's it's not about just like sliding in
with that you know, amazing amazingness that you think you have. Let's talk.
Let's talk a little bit about some of these concepts in the Windy's parking
lot, Like I don't need this right now. I'm just trying to get
spicing. I'm outlier to try and get my my frosty. I don't need
this right now. But Charlie, you made it. I wanted to go
into how you guys met because I find you guys both so balancing and when
when you go on the website and you read your bios about each other,
I find that there is there is a common thread, but you guys seem
to be very different individuals. So I wanted to learn a little bit about
so you mentioned that y'all met online or in a online yes, um,
yeah, I want to know, like what that bond was? Where was
what was that like light bulb moment of like okay, so this is great,
like this is this is friendship. It was really like this. I
know, like this sounds like hella cliche romantic comedy, but like it was
from the moment I saw her. Like it was from the moment I like
our eyes met virtually on a computer screen such as this, I was just
like captivated. We were in a happy hour for uh Anya and I met
in a non monogamous a certain kind of community that's built around a certain style
of non monogamy known as cuckolding. Have you ever heard of that? Yes,
curious you have? Okay, I figured as much. You hung around
our twitters. Oh cool, okay, okay, so y'all your listeners are
well versed, as are you. So we we met in that community and
we um were going on like we were both early for this video chat and
I just it was like she just appeared and it was like, oh,
there you are, Like it's you. That's how it felt like we're gonna
do these amazing things together. And just we developed a friendship immediately, and
it was this capacity of like is it safe to be vulnerable with her?
And like every time I was vulnerable with her, she like met me with
matched vulnerability and also the intention and care that made me feel so safe.
And I felt like I could be more vulnerable with her, and I think
she felt she could be more vulnerable with me. And that has just created
the foundation of our relationship and of our you know, partnership together and that
has never halted. That whole process goes on to this day. And like
it did feel like I have a sister. I have a biological sister,
and so I know what sisterhood feels like, what it feels like to have
a sister who's like got you, Like we are family, like you know,
we we are going to have each other forever. And that's really what
it has felt like with with Anya this whole time. And that's really the
whole like nexus of sisters is that we have a bond that's a lot deeper
than like a friendship, you know. Um not to like discount friendships.
I love friendships. I have many friendships, but like it felt like there
was more substance to it. Yeah, yeah, yeah, it is.
It's truly special. Have you guys met in real life? Okay? Oh
yeah, I love that intonation, babe. Oh yeah. We've shared a
lot of time and space together. I think. I mean, like she
said, when you first meet somebody who can kind of meet you there.
And I don't have a sister in real life. I've always wanted. I
mean, I have some sister in laws and I love them, They're amazing,
but I have not had a sister that's biological to me. And to
meet that in a soul sister is just such a delicious feeling. And I've
had a couple of experiences with that before, and when I think about my
soul family, you know, Scarlet's definitely a part of that for me.
So yeah, it was definitely love at first sight, for sure. And
I feel like it was pretty quick after that that we started talking about,
like we're going to have to get together. And it might have been a
little while after that. It might have even been a year before we actually
met in person. I can't quite remember. We met in like mid twenty
twenty Bay twenty. Yeah. Yeah, it was definitely during COVID. It
was during the lockdown, because that's how these happy hours kind of kicked off
during the lockdown because people were lonely and they were looking for ways of connecting.
So yeah, I think just echoing everything that she said, and I
yeah, we are very different to your point, Ranna, Like we have
really really different style. I mean, initially when we first met, we
probably were mirroring each other a little bit more than we do now, while
a lot more than we do now probably, but we but we've found a
way to kind of understand that. That's even something that helps us even more
be able to reach more people and understand more what the fem experiences around sexuality.
So yeah, quite different, but also just like have that thread in
common that just really kind of bonds us at the deepest level of the So
that's that yin and yang you were talking about. That's the balance and that's
what's always great in any friendship or relationship or connection is we can have conversations
in different views and be different people, but still have a common thread and
be understanding and empathetic to one another. Absolutely. Yeah. Yeah, Well,
is there anything else that you wanted to add before before we wrap up?
Um? No, I don't think so. Um yeah, Oh cute
having a good old time. Yeah, I kind of just got lost in
listening to I'm just having a good time listening. It's a good, really
good like audiobook boys. Y'll do, yeah, y'all do, y'all very
soothing voices. Well, we'd be happy to just kind of give your listeners
like a little tease into kind of some of the things that Slut Sisters is
going to be doing, because, as you all mentioned, today is the
day that we launched our free tiers. So if you are looking for sisterhood,
if you would like to join us in our private discord group, if
you would like to join us in our monthly what we call our slet sister
sesshes. They're like little Zoom virtual happy hours. Join that free tier,
submit your application, have a little chat chat with us. We would love
that, and then you're in and we have some really fun events coming up.
We've decided that we're going to be offering monthly events. One of them
is called slut Bag Roulette, and that's coming up in late May, and
we have a team of hot wife content creators who are going to join us
for that very fun and salacious conversation. And then you're looking at her.
Ah, yeah, hot wife. As mentioned Janie and I kind of have
so many sisters and friends who are in the hot wife community, which is
women who are married who have the full support of their husbands in like a
journey of sexual expansion and you know, having different partners, and many of
them are swingers and their husbands, you know, also have other partners.
But they are also in the content world, which is really about producing like
we all know only fans and it's like huge and so not only are these
ladies incredible hot wives, but they're also putting videos out to share and like
I personally think it's a great thing for like real women, moms, professionals,
like women who are putting themselves out there and showing like how truly beautiful
this dynamic can be. So they that's the hot wife content creators. We
will be welcoming into our first slap bag roulette's how fine. Yeah, And
the concept of slaptbag Roulette is that, like every time we do a slaptbag
Roulette, it's going to be a different topic, it's going to be different
stuff, but it's always going to be fun. It's going to be selacious,
it's going to be a good time, so it's going to be very
lighthearted. We then will follow that up in June with an event called State
of the Slut Union, and we will be picking a topic we want to
go a little bit more deep into. It could be a bit like a
live podcast, but we will be bringing a guest on and we'll dive in
deep to some issue or concern or something relevant to fem empowerment. And then
every quarter we're going to be having what we're calling our slept Posiums. And
our first one is in July, and Scarlett had been in a conversation with
a friend, a slut sister, where this person was really saying, I
really want to learn to like dig into my dirty talk. I want to
learn to vocalize myself a little bit more. So we're going to be having
a slept posium for a couple of days in a lie where likely Scarlett's going
to be doing She's the much better dirty talker than I am. I'm a
dirty talking talk I forgot to mention. Yeah, I don't know why you're
like, we just heading a Scarlett. I'm a Libra and I'm a dirty
talker like the talk. Yeah, Yeah, she's she's a good slot like
that. So yeah, those are the types of events we're going to be
having on a monthly basis in Slet Sisters, and we are just and they
are not going to be limited to fems. It's going to be very wide
open, although the dirty talk, the fem vocalization will likely be more of
fem centric because we just want to create again that safe container where people can
feel really safe because we're going to do some practice and some exercises and so
we just have to make sure that people are feeling really safe in that.
So that's what we're really excited about with Sleet Sisters and what we're bringing forth
in terms of our offerings there. And just wanted to let your listeners say,
to catch me in there. You're catch these hands all up in there.
I'm so excited. And all of this is going to be linked in
the bye in our description of the episode, so you'll be able to find
the Flaming Yoni Podcast in their website and all those in their socials so you
can find them on all the things and keep up with all their events and
all the newness. So yeah, thank you so much, fine, thank
you for having us. It's so great. Absolutely until next bed waiting a
long time. Yeah, I'm so stuff. Well, until next time,
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