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Where'll they go on a second date? Well, we'll must be the last

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time they ever talked. Kiss in
the morning. Second date update, I'm

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kiss New Britain. I love going
to New Britain. New Britain, guys,

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Second date update, are you ready
to make a love match? Let's

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do it? All right, let's
talk to Larry. Larry's on the line.

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Good morning, Larry. Well,
thank you for having me so obviously,

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you know, second date update means
you went on a first date and

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it was great, but you're getting
ghosted, and we love to get answers,

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So tell us before we find out
why you're getting ghosted, tell us

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all about this great first date.
All right. So I I you know,

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I went on a date with a
woman I met through one of these

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apps, through Tinder, yeah,
the one, and we went out.

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We went to a winery, really
good chemistry, was having a great time,

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geese, just lovely, very funny, and you know, I wanted

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to see her again. So I
just started reaching out after a couple of

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days after the date, and I
didn't get a response. Reached out again,

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and now it looks like I'm getting
ghosted and I don't know why.

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I mean, we had a good
time, and I'd like to see her

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again. So all right, So
Larry, I guess did Walmart always starts

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off with you? Did you drink
too much at all at the winery?

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A good, good question. No, I you know I was aware of

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that. I think I probably had, you know, one one white and

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then one red, and then there
were a couple of other little tasting things.

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You know, it was a winery. But you know, no,

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I don't think we went too far. And then a lot of times like

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Savannah and I did you pull her
chair out? Like were you gentlemanly?

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Sory? Yes, you know,
if I mean thing, I think I

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went maybe beyond. I mean I
remember that one of the tables we said

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that had like a stool, and
I pulled a stool out, which is

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a chair of that bag. But
I made a little joke out of it.

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Okay, all right, so Larry, this is what we're gonna do.

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Then it sounded like a great date. I'm gonna put you on hold.

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We're gonna call up Kate. Okay, okay, hold on. Sounds

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like a nice guy. And the
name Larry. I feel like it's like

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everybody's buddy. Larry's a good guy. Hey, if you talked to Larry's

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too nice, that's the deal.
Yes, she's looking for a bad boy.

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Hi is Kate there? Hi?
This is Kate. Hey, Kate,

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it's Courtney, Kate, It's Savannah
Chet. We're calling from Kiss ninety

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five to seven. You're on the
radio, Kate. Oh, hi,

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Hey, I suppose I should let
you know. I should let you know

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why you're on the radio. Yeah, okay, you're on second date update.

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Hopefully you've heard of it. Somebody
goes on a first date, they

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get ghosted, they call us and
we get answers, and you're on second

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date update. Kate. Oh great, okay, all right, well then

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let's talk about your date. I
will just be honest with you. Larry

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called us. Larry said, you
guys met on Tinder. You went to

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a was it a winery? Did
wine tasting? He said, you were

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amazing. It was an amazing date. But he's totally getting ghosted. Like,

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yeah, it makes sense that he
feels that way, but I don't

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really want to talk to him.
Ooh oh okay, well what do you

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do? Well? Okay, so
we went on Tinder, like you guys

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said, yep, and like I
was excited. Yeah, from his profile

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and he said he was like thirty. I was like, okay, that's

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dating like a little bit out of
my age range. I'm twenty five.

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Okay. But he gets there and
he's like a lot, like he looks

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older, Like he has gray hair, he has like some wines in his

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face that I'm like, this is
an older person, and like, you

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know, it was the date was
fine. He was kind of laying it

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on sick. He was you know, flirting, kind of heavy, and

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it got a little, uh got
a little much sometimes, but like,

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okay, you know, more than
anything, I was just like, why

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won't you tell me? Like why
why don't you tell me how old you

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are? Like I feel like I
don't know you. This is all right,

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So kates what I signed up for. Oh he looked a lot different

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than his profile, because some guys
have gray hair at thirty. Yeah not

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really? Well no, no,
no really, So you're you're convinced he

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was older or you know he was
older than thirty. Well, so like

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I know he's older than thirty because
like after the date, I told my

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friend, I told my roommate and
she was like, okay, let's go

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find him. So we looked online
and we found like his LinkedIn, like

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his old profiles, and he turned
out to be fifty one. Whoa,

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whoa, Hello, So you said
fifty one, not sixty one, fifty

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one fifty one Larry. Larry's on
the line. I should have let you

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know that, Kate Larry. Uh, yeah, are you here alright?

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I am still here? Yes,
Okay, So look this, I'm divorced

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recently, and this whole dating true
apps thing is, you know, is

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different from me. It's not something
I'm used to. So, you know,

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Tinder bumble whatever they are. And
so you know, a friend of

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mine helped me set this up,
and you know, I provided some some

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photos. I never said that he
should say, I'm you know, a

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different age. You know, I
didn't even really review the profile after it

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got set up. So I mean, I you know, it wasn't ever

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my intentional like lie or deceive anybody
about how old I am. But yeah,

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I'm divorced recently. I'm just getting
back out there. And you know,

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a friend of mine tried to market
market me as best he could,

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you know, through the apps.
I mean like I'm like, I'm sorry,

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you're recently divorced, but like,
I also asked you on the date

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a few times, and I think
your reluctance to tell me like really threw

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me off. Like that did not
feel like you were like proud or felt

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comfortable with me, even you know, I think you know, even though

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there's a difference in age, I
mean, there was definitely some chemistry there

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and I'd still really like to see
Kate again. I think you know,

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we had a good time. There's
no doubt about that. Conversation was really

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easy, and you know, I
think that's something we could work past,

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Kate. Do you want to work
Listen, this is what we do,

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Kate, if you want to,
I think Larry's actually asking you out again.

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You can work past the age difference. If this is something you want

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to do, Kate, we'll pick
up the tab and we'll send you out

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on a second date. What do
you think? I mean, Like,

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I know him a great time,
but like I just don't see it happening.

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I am kind of creeped up by
you and the whole thing. I

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don't want to I don't want to
go down it right again, a free

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date. It doesn't sound like there's
anything to lose. Oh my god,

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Larry do you need a knife?
You're really putting that butter on the toast.

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Real thick there, homeboy. You
know what, Larry, I can't

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let you go through this. Savannah's
calling you a home boy, the other

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girls laughing at you. You have
no idea what tinderest. I'm going to

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put you on hold because you're right
in my demof just joking. Na,

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I've just lightened the mood a little. I just don't think it's a match

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for the two of you. I'm
good. That's it, and we're not

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going to go any further with that. And you just have to get back

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out there. Larry. Maybe adjust
tell your friend to adjust your profile a

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little bit, make it, you
know, adjust the age so it doesn't

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happen again. Okay, thank you
guys,