Hello, Welcome to the I'm Still Fun Podcast with Jenny. Okay, so
this is a really popular song right now, and I have it pulled up.
It's the new Sabrina Carpenter song called Espresso, and I'm going to play
a really popular line of it for you, and then I'm going to tell
you something I learned about it that was surprising to me. If you've already
heard this one, sorry, Okay, here we go. I'm working late
because I'm a look so cute. Okay, I'm working late because I'm a
singer. So, Jenny, hold up a microphone to your face, hold
up a microphone, held up. Okay, Okay, I'm working late because
I'm a singer. Oh you look cute. Wrap around my fingers. I
imagine it's like wrapped around Oh okay. I thought it was just a reference
to her being an I think that was the point. And I just saw
someone like post that. I was like, oh cause she Wow, that's
kind of her shtick lately, Like you know, because she does the end
of like show freestyle the end of feather on at shows, and it's always
something like very sexual, which people love. But I was like, oh
my gosh. Then I somehow got down this like deep rabbit hole of like
male celebrities who have kids and just like aren't father. Like they just were
like, yeah, I'm not gonna be a father. I had no idea.
Her boyfriend Barry can Know or whatever his name is, the guy from
Yes Uh I can't Styeah literally was like with a woman has an infant and
just ditched them and is like dating Sabrina Carpenter. And there's like a line
in her song where she's like something about the ex sorry I didn't do it
for you or something sorry she didn't do it for you, And then everyone
like says they cringe at that part of the song because he actively like left
this woman he had a new kid with to be with her. I had
no idea because I didn't know anything about him until like he was in Saltburn.
Basically, I think I knew that he had had a kid and everything,
but I didn't know that that was like the relationship. I mean,
like I didn't know he like left, and I guess we only know what
we see, yeah, but that's I guess the vibe. And I was
like, oh man, I thought they were in a cute relationship, but
now I'm like, oh, maybe I don't think it's as cute. I
don't know. He gives me the ick so badly. There's a little ick.
Yeah, it's it's not because of Saltburn. It's because he doesn't seem
to be very different than his character in Saltburn as he is in real life.
That's the part to it. Yeah, where I'm like, because I've
seen him walk red carpets and he keeps his face on and like a Sabrina
Carpenter is decently young. She's what like twenty five maybe, Yeah, she's
pretty young young and he's in his thirties. Yeah, I know that much,
and so not that that matters. It's not like that big of an
age difference, But I don't know. I feel like he's taking Sabrina Carpenter's
innocence, which maybe that's what she's been wanting to do for a while.
Maybe she has a reason too, because she's dating this guy and it's all
contrived because it's you know, Hollywood, whatever you want to call it,
music industry. But yeah, I'm not I'm not a huge fan of him.
Yeah, I'm not a huge fan. I just I, like I
said, I only know him from Saltburne and now dating her. But I
can see where you're coming from with like, yeah, he probably thinks it's
pretty cool to get to hang out with like Taylor Swift and stuff, which
I guess anyone probably thinks that, but I don't know. I've also been
like listening more and more to the album and liking more songs. The songs
I just don't give a crap about. I just skip, like the ones
with names in them. Yeah, Cassandra peter Amy, the one with like
the three names. I skip like all those every time pretty much. But
like, so high School has become a really I really like it? You
want to, I'm not gonna lie. I tried to listen to it on
the way back to Wisconsin this past weekend, and I just wasn't vibing because
I just wanted to be able to sing along right away at it, and
I had built out an entire playlist of just all her songs she does on
the Eras tour, so I just went to that instead and listen to those,
and I was like, all right, this is the jam. But
yeah, I got to keep like listening and learning more and learning the lyrics
more. Well, they show her updating her tour, it looks like where
she would be adding that to the set list, And I was like,
is she going to remove a couple of songs here and there, because I
feel like there are some she could definitely remove that like I don't care about
and then or is she just going to add like three songs or two songs
from that? And I think if she added any she would add I do
think she would do Fortnite because it's the single. Yeah, I do think
she would have to do I can do it with a broken heart because it's
just like such a bop and maybe who's afraid of little old me? Because
it's like a good like like it's very much she likes doing like theatrical things
on stage, and I feel like it has that vibe to it. But
I don't know. Do you think that if she does decided to do all
that and then she performs Fortnite, that post Malone would be like a surprise
guest then at like one, at least one of the stops he has to
be I was gonna say, I feel like he would jump on that opportunity
in a heartbeat. He literally popped up with like our radio friend Bobby Bones
at his like charity event the other night, like the guy is down to
help didn't be there, and then he did these his stage coach performance with
all the country artists this weekend. Just see that. Yeah, I was
like, okay, okay, post Malone is America's sweetheart, Like he just
really is. He's just so he can do it all going all country on
everyone absolutely, which I'm like wondering. I'm like, it's so it's such
an interesting time for pop music because it feels like we have such a crossover
with country now that we're playing and so I'm like, is there ever gonna
be like more country artists turning pop like how Taylor Swift did, because I
feel like now people are like going country some wanted to, Like I remember
when Kelsey Vallerine needed her song with the Chainsmokers. At the time, we
were very much told behind the scenes like she had full plans. That was
like her first step into the full transition to become like the next Taylor Swift.
And I hate saying the next Taylor Swift, but like she's like a
good example of actually making that crossover. But I don't know, I mean,
the only what true crossover art. Well, I guess I don't know
the answer. That Darius Rutger is obviously good crossover. He was pop first
with Hoody and the Blowfish. Yeah, I don't think that there have been
many. I thought like maybe Florida Georgia line. They broke up, but
they're super country still and they're just trying to continue on their own. But
I thought maybe there'd be like some chance that they'd go a little bit more
pop because they did like a couple songs with Nelly and yeah all that,
but also so did like timmocraw and he had no interest in going to pop
obviously. I feel like that it's just always there are always these, always
these phases, because there was like the Tim McGraw time, there was the
Tailor time, and then Florida Georgia line. Like you said, there was
even like the Dan and Shay with uh Justin b oh yeah, but which
I only remembered that because they came to town. We were giving away tickets,
and usually if we give way tickets, you want to play a clip
of one of the artists songs, and I'm like, I know other people
know them, but let's play the Justin Bieber one, because that's the one
we actually played on Katie w B. I don't know. I have a
fun fact I learned a few weeks ago and I didn't share it with you.
I may not have actually had hemorrhoids. What do you mean? What
do you know? Hold on, what do you mean? I thought that
you like had surgery and everything done. Yeah. Yeah, so mind blowing
information has come to light and I don't I don't know, we'll see.
But basically I've been seeing like a radiologist about my weird mouth growth mouth growth.
Yes, So two years ago I went in because I had this weird
growth in my mouth, and I went to so many different doctors, ear
nose and throw all these and finally, finally, after going to all these
different places at the U, they sent me to a radiologist and she basically,
I have something. I have a blood vessel mouth formation. Okay is
what it's called, and there's a real name, but that's like the breaking
it down. And she's like, it's very rare to get, like for
adults to have, Like maybe some kids would have it, but it's super
rare in adults. And she's like the only things she can think of that
would have caused this to pop up, and it's all on the right side
of my mouth because I have one of my tongue too. Is an increase
in hormones, which would be my pregnancy. So she's like, if you
could get on birth control after, we'll have to monitor. And I'm like,
I'm not Jake's getting snipped. I'm a one and done, so at
least I don't have to worry about like that weird increase in hormones again.
But I go back in because now it's come back two years later. I
need to get the procedure again. Okay, ye're back. It's like bigger
than ever. So a couple of weeks ago, I went in for an
MRI again because they have to do a full MRI for her to look at
it and see, and I'm like, I think it's bigger and I think
there are more now, like you're absolutely right. And the thing is is
like they go in and they on the outside of my mouth, they inject
little needles throughout and it basically like what happens I guess is it doesn't circulate
blood properly. It's like blood goes in there and stops, and so it's
like almost like a form of clotting and that's why it's large. And she's
like, your symmetry of your face is definitely off because of this, and
I'm like, yeah, I know. I like I know. Other people
claim they can't see it. I see it. It bothers me. And
it also is sensitive. If I do planks, all the blood rushes to
it. It gets larger, all these things like if I bend over time
I shoes, I can feel the blood rushing too. It's so gross.
I hate it. So we When I got it done before, there was
like no pain. It was a crazy swollen it was bruised, it will
get hurt, didn't it wasn't on pain medication. So she goes, yeah,
I'm gonna get as many as I can and hopefully, like you won't
have to do this again, but you just never know. She's like,
it's interesting like those specific ones I get won't come back, but new ones
could. And I go, oh, it's just like hemorrhoids, and she
goes, what do you mean And I said, well, I've had these
hemorrhoid issues and that's what they told me, like we can get rid of
these hemorrhoids and those blood vessels will never basically like that won't happen again for
those, but you have other blood vessels in your butt. You could get
new ones from new ones. And then she just stares at me and she
goes, tell me more about your hemorrhoids. So I start telling her my
whole journey of like getting all these hemorrhoids. She's like, is this a
thing in your family? And I said, I mean, I know my
dad's had hemorrhois I don't? Oh my mom? And I go, She's
like, when did your dad start getting them? And I said, I
don't know. I want to ask him. I go, but my dad
sits all the time. He sat on this on huge heavy machinery the majority
of his life. It's not surprising my dad got hemorrhoids, honestly. She's
like yeah. So then she's like, I actually wonder if you've ever had
hemorrhoids or if these are blood vessel malformations throughout your body, and it's they're
different things. So then she wanted to reach out to my doctor who removed
them to see if they saved any tissue to test it and if they don't
or they do, and if they come back. She wants to do a
pelvic MRI to examine to see that I have maybe not been having hemorrhoids,
but these fucking blood vessel moulthformation. It's a like long, weird story,
but I'm like, what's wrong with my body? Why is this happening?
Didn't Okay, not saying anything bad about your doctor, but wouldn't your doctor
be able to tell the difference between a blood vessel something and a hemorrhoid?
I don't think so. I'm guessing they look the same, maybe because it's
like, uh, but he wouldn't know. I don't think that because that
guy, you know, I just go in and I like, remove this,
yeah, and they're like okay. They look up my butt and they're
like, yeah, it needs to be removed. Yeah, let's chop her
off, put a stitch in or not. You know, basically, don't
they like, at least should they ask this question. Don't they like drain
it first? No? Oh, they like chop it? Yeah, big
old ax and just going there. The first it is an act. The
first one was the one that you had to cover an event for me because
I couldn't even sit down. That was the worst one. It was so
large that TMI. When they spread my cheeks, they actively they were like,
oh my god, that is so big, like they were alarmed with
how large it was. Oh my god. And that one had to have
a stitch when it was her move. The next two times, no stitch
was required. But I also like the first time had a woman, and
I feel like she was more sensitive to me because I got a stitch.
Yeah, and she gave me a prescription for two pain pills for like the
next two days. The guy was like, no stitch, just threw some
gaws in between my cheeks and was like tap me on the ass and say
go like no pain killers or anything. I'm like, this is pretty brutal
pain bro. So anyway, so what's the next steps? Is there?
Are you gonna like try to I don't know. The next step is I'm
having the procedure done again in June. But it's funny because you know,
she's a ideologists, She's incredibly busy. So I had a book it way
out in June, and then I look and I have like a I had
some been announced yet I won't give all the details. I guess an event
yeah the very next day, and I'm like I don't know if I should
be planning a big event with a bunch of listeners the very next day of
this procedure when my face is going to be super swollen and bruised. It
didn't hurt last time, but no, but you had the whole weekend last
time, didn't you. Yeah? But I mean even when I woke up
on I was like so surprised it didn't hurt. Oh, but you're so
you're not concerned about like what it'll look like. No, do I remember?
I think you sent us pictures it was for two weeks it was swollen
and bruised, Yeah, because I remember, I don't care about that.
But I'm also like, maybe I should change my procedure. I might regret
that not giving myself a full weekend to heal. Yeah, I mean,
if it's the very next day, very next day, I know, I
don't know. I mean, I remember, I feel like I remember you
saying it wasn't you didn't feel pain or whatever. You were just kind of
swollen, yeah, and bruised, and that was it. Yeah. I
have the photo of Fallon in my phone is from her coming right out of
that procedure, and she's got like something wrapped around her entire as an eye
attacker on my head, anatag and she just looks like a little bit out
of it, a little high or something. That's her photo on her phone
when I call, and the one I have of Jenny is like the least
attractive, like lighting with her fresh out of the gym eating a banana.
Yeah, baby, I love that, Jenny. What's new with you?
Well? Speaking of just hemorrhoids in that butrotthole region, go on. I
just have to say that when Andrew and I travel anytime now, yeah,
we are so spoiled at home because we have a bidet, and when we
go anywhere else we're like, this is awful. How had we been doing
this for thirty plus years of our life travel? But day like Take's brother
has shut up. I swear my life baby would have a travel badet.
That's why that doesn't surprise me at all. I just didn't even know that
that existed. It's not what you're thinking, Okay, So it's what It's
basically the equivalent of what pregnant women use after they have a baby. So
it looks like a water bottle and has like a little tube that comes up
yeah, and you squeeze the bottle and water comes out, so like when
you have a baby, you use that to like clean yourself, got it?
Yeah? Yeah, And so he probles me with this. Oh my
god, I'm gonna have to look into that. Maybe that'll be Andrew's next
Christmas present or something, because he would we just you know, and also
t m I from both of us. But basically, my mom has a
pretty small house, like you didn't grow up in a big house. And
the bathroom. So there was a poop and bathroom, and there was the
pee and bathroom. Yeah you did. You were only supposed to poop in
a certain toilet because the other one clogged me easily, used too much water,
like all that stuff. And over the years it's gotten better, so
you really can use either one. But we still say this is the poop
and bathroom. It is right off the kitchen. Ah my mom. My
mom does not sit still. The woman is constantly go go go oh,
should I make blueberry muffin? Should I make this? Should I do that?
Blah blah blah, where she's like doing something for work in the kitchen
table or like she's outside running around doing something with flowers, whatever, and
so Andrew had ate this revival spicy Chicken. I saw that in the car.
Yes, I'll ride back. Yeah, revival Thursday night and we were
leaving Friday morning. So he got enough to feed a family of five,
and so he had all these leftover. So he brought it in the car.
Spicy chicken on a car ride, you're just begging for a blowout on
the gas station. So and he ate it when we had about an hour
and like ten minutes left of the ride, and I go, I'm not
stopping again. We just stopped to get gas, like, you better keep
it. So he kept it under control and then we get home. We
immediately left to jet off to my dad's retirement party and just like hang out
there. But then the next morning everything was hitting him and he goes,
I couldn't. He went in the bathroom and he couldn't do it because my
mom was like right there in the kitchen, and I go, just start
watching videos on your phone, Like, who cares, I cover up the
noise somehow. I was like, or use the other bathroom. You can
use it. It's not that big of a deal. Which also that one
still is in the middle of everything, like I said, my mom's got
a small house, right, it's not like secluded enough, like you probably
can still hear some things from it. But yeah, he basically just had
some issues this weekend and then kept complaining about how like we need a bidet
everywhere we go now, And I agree, it's so weird now after having
one in our own house. So I really recommend getting one. And I'm
shadow of Cookie because I know Cookie listens and she is the one who got
me the bidet. Actually, oh nice, and I think it was like
twenty five bucks off Amazon. Yeah, we did a different one than you.
I think we did the tushy one or whatever, and yeah, it
was like twenty five dollars. I mean, you can get the one like
the real ones. These are just like attachment ones and they're great. But
I feel like mine's angled weird. I have to like angle my body for
it to hit the spot right, yeah, and then it gets like the
back of my butt a little bit wet. Yeah. I mean, see,
I have such a big butt that I'm gonna be honest. My butt's
big too, I know. But like, okay, right, we just
have different shapes, but we do yars is bubble I have to like severely
spread my cheeks to be able to like sit on the toilet. That is
not a thing for me. Yeah, that is I have to and so
like I feel like the vedet doesn't always like get up there in the area
it needs to be so like But anyways, all right, enough about but
whole talks. Let me talk. Let me talk about how. I don't
know when I became this person. I think it's because I have learned to
not be a people pleaser as much anymore. But I don't really like to
what's the word, because it's gonna come off really bad. So at my
dad's retirement party, there was like lots of family there and then like a
lot of his friends and stuff, so like, of course I knew everyone.
There's just certain family members I don't like to engage in conversations with because
they're just like really Debbie downers. They're not entertaining, like just they're not
super fun to talk to you. Yeah, and I normally would at least
be like, how is how have you been? How whatever? I literally
didn't even talk to one couple there because I didn't want to. Yeah,
and that is not who I used to be. I would at least like
say hi, how you been, and the bullshit like how's the weather?
You know, they kind of yeah shit. And on Friday night, I
just didn't have it in me. I just I mean, we I did
the morning show, we drove right away and immediately had a jet to this
retirement party. And I feel like a jerk because my older sister Rachel is
just the social butterflies. She plans everything, she talks to everyone, and
then I come in and I always feel like I can tell when people think
that, like I'm like the big city girl or something, and I come
in and then I act like that, and I'm like, well, am
I being a bitch now? But at the same time, they don't come
up to me and say anything to me. But I've just always been the
person who does go out of the way to say hi to everyone. I
think that's on them as much as it is on you. And I also
think as you get older, it's not that you're like, I'm not going
to be a people pleaser anymore. It's that you choose how you allocate your
energy. And there are we all know this. There there are givers and
takers of energy, and there are the people that have a constant dark cloud
over them, they absorb everyone else's problem. So even if like they have
nothing going on in their life, feel like, hey, how's it going.
Well, things aren't great because this happened to my neighbor and it's been
affecting me, and you're like, what, how's that affecting you? But
also some people are just like that and you have to like choose if you
like give them that energy or not, and they will take take take,
So it's like, yeah, I don't think you're it's not your people.
Please you still are people pleaser to a degree, like as far as like
you'll still like make small talk with people and et cetera, et cetera.
But yeah, they could come up to you and talk to the big city
girl, you know. I just I don't know. I felt bad like
leaving that party because it was just like the one couple that I didn't talk
to, and I was like I could have at least, like I gave
them cake. When I hand it out cake to everyone, See that's nice.
And that was about it, you know, like, yeah, I
he here's some cake. That was the extent of it. But it was
fun because Andrew and I ended up staying later and hanging out with my dad
and his friends. Everyone else had left already, my sister had left and
stuff, and it was just like funny listening to them all interact, because
you know, you don't always see your parents in like these normal social situations.
Yeah, and my one friend, my dad's one friend, Roy is
so fucking funny and like they were just reminiscing on stories. And they all
grew up together. They all worked at this one restaurant and met each other
when they were like sixteen seventeen eighteen and have known each other ever since.
And so I like, I feel bad because I feel like there was a
point where Andrew and I could have left, and I just ended up staying
because I wanted to like be there and spend some time. And I know
that had the roles been reversed and I was the plus one to Andrew at
his parents' retirement, I would have been like, why are we still here?
But Andrew's just like a trooper. And to be fair, the NFL
Draft was also on in the background, so he was able to watch that
pretty much the whole time. Yep. But yeah, it was a fun
weekend back home. For us. We had my niece's birthday party two and
I already talked about this on the show. But my niece, her like
best friend, is just such a brat And like I didn't say this fully
to the extent that I wish I could have on the show because I think
more peaceful people listen to the show and I don't need this to get back,
but I mean she just she opens Mattie's presence literally like did it this
year? Did it last year? And like it's so frustrating because I know
that there's always kind of like your alpha kid in a group of PA but
like, I just don't, like, this is a weird sister not care.
I don't My sister literally doesn't. She's like best friends with her mom,
the little girl's mom and stuff, and so it's like I think that
they're just like, yeah, whatever, their kids, they're doing whatever.
But it drives me. I would never let all of do that. I'd
be like, Olive, no, sit over here and watch right. And
so, and I've always thought that this little girl's mom, she's very sweet,
she's a nice person, but it drove me insane that she does not
say anything to her daughter to be like hey, no, no, and
like every once in a while she would kind of say something, but she
didn't take action after it and stop. Yeah. So that's where I was
like, no, like, we're watching her open presence and she's not even
opening them herself or even knows who got her what. Yeah, and they're
all open and it's getting handed to her. And then then the girl's opening
the next present. Oh yeah, that was really annoying. And I talked
about it on the show and my mom was listening, and so she was
like, oh my god, that drives me insane too, And I was
like, man, we need to stand up then next time, because it
just I don't know. I just feel like at someone's birthday, the one
thing that they get is to open their presence and be so excited and they
look forward to it so much. Like Olive honestly likes opening presence almost as
much as the presence. I think. So that makes me sad. And
always say, your niece is so sweet. So I could see her just
being like passive and letting it happen and just being sweet about it. She
was. And then my younger sister got her this kind of like nail polished
manicure set something. Well, there was my niece and my nephew were there
for the kids, and they didn't have a big kid friendly party. They
just had one other friend there who all so has a little girl that's my
nephew's age. So the four of them all hang out and stuff, and
so they all ran upstairs whatever, and then I hear one of them tattling
on olm and whatever. Well, the little Braddy girl went and opened all
the nail polish stuff, Like there was like glitter and like stuff you could
put on to like design the nails. She combined all of the stuff together
and opened everything. And Maddie was like pissed at that point and like told
on her and I'm good, yeah, because that was your present and your
friend just like ruined it for you. Yeah. So yeah, it was
there was parts of me that wanted to be like, discipline your child,
But I'm never gonna do that person. I would never. I am not
a parent. You just do what Jake and I do and we leave and
we judge everyone else. Well, yeah that's what I do. Yeah,
and then we and then I'll be like you know what, I think I
share this for it Jake's more judgmental than I am, which I think is
surprising to people. I because I'm like, I feel like I would come
across as more because is just like a more balanced human than me. But
I don't know if it's because he's just so into Olive that he just thinks
she's so great. But he like, he just will be like because we
fought. We know, like all the kids and all the parents. So
a lot of the parents, you know, most parents just post the good
moments, which that's what I do. I'm not going to show a video
or anything of all of melting down. But I think that sometimes if you
don't share other things, other parents can start kind of feeling bad about themselves.
So when Jake sees the kids that seemingly are perfect out in the real
world doing just asshole stuff, He's like, oh, I knew that kid
wasn't ask and he loved it. And but like, for instance, Olive
and Cold's daughter Remy are like they are obsessed with each other. And Cold
has like he has two daughters. He has Remy, who is all of
exact age, and she is the maddie. She is sweet, innocent,
and then they have their two year old teddy and she is so cute and
so adorable and she is their like problem child. Now that's them saying it,
not me, Like we weren't Skyzone. She's the one that, like,
all the kids are building a tower and she goes and kicks it down.
It's like something in or she can't not. I'm like, I have
those intrusive thoughts too as a kid. So here's your future. But like
so, but Olive and Remy have swimming together and they always give you a
review at the end of what they can work on, and this week they
both needed to work on their listening ears. And I can see all of
through the glass window. She loves to get the laugh so I could see
her doing her fucking stand up routine, and I'm like, she's not paying
attention. She just wants Remy to laugh. I actually blame Oli not Remy,
because she's like a little bit quieter than all of So I'm like,
yeah, there's always like but the point is, like I share that on
the like my thing like that all of got told she needs to be using
her listening ears because it's like I show her being cute and she will turn
on me. Okay, she will turn and that is the reality of children.
They're not all going to be perfect. But it's weird because you gotta
like with the present thing. You gotta like real men. Yeah, it
was. It just left such a bad taste in my mouth. But I
already like dealt with it last year, and I was like, whatever,
if my sister's not upset about it, then I don't need to be upset
about it. But I still I think last year. I remember pulling my
present out because it was a bigger party last year, and like handing it
to her and like sitting by her and being like, all right, here's
for me, yea, make sure she opened it. Yeah, anything else,
jinny, No, that's about it. Just you know, I hadn't
seen the famine forever, so it was nice to be back home for a
bit. I was going to ask you when you used to go back to
Indiana when your mom lived there, where did you guys stay? Did you
stay at your mom's house? No, when my sister lived there, I
always stayed with my sister. Yeah, that's what I was blanking on.
I was like, I feel like she stayed with family, But I couldn't
remember you saying that you'd stay at your mom's or wherever. There was like
a time where I was mad at my sister and I stayed with my mom,
but it was kind of short, and then my sister moved to Florida.
So then when I would go home now or now when I go home,
I stay with my friend Kimberly. But my other friends are always like,
uh, you don't ever come see our houses. You know, you
could come stay with us too, and I'm like, I could, and
I just feel comfortable at Kim's now. Yeah, but I feel bad because
I haven't gone to see all my other friend's houses. I just go to
Kim's and kind of stay there and have them come over to her house to
hang out with me. Yeah. I think you find your comfort because we've
always stayed at my mom's house when we've gone back. But it's kind of
like my little sister lives there right now, and so we sleep in my
mom's bed and the bed. She claims she got a new mattress, and
I believe her, but it's just a queen It's a queen size bed and
it caves in in the middle, so it must be the frame or something.
Yeah, And I had told her like before Christmas, and Andrew and
I were thinking about getting an airbnb and she got upset about that and we're
like, okay, whatever, we'll stay there. She's like I got a
new mattress, like whatever, but now it's still like really uncomfortable. We
fall into each other almost, and so then I brought it up again.
I was like, I don't know, like this is just like frustrating coming
home and being like so tired. But at the same time, I love
waking up and just like hanging in my mom's living room and chilling and stuff.
So it's like I don't want to go stay in some cold and be
your hotel room. I like to be around my family when I'm home.
But I also just get frustrated with the sleep situation because the bed that I
used to sleep and that my sister uses now is very comfy, and we
don't have that anymore. No. I get that, like that's you hit
a certain age where you're like, I gotta have a comfortable bed, But
yeah, I would like want to be with the family too, Like I've
talked about, like when I was pregnant, when to visit my sister.
I'm like I can't sleep in your guy's bedroom bed anymore, Like I'm miserable,
care I'm too pregnant, Like I was so uncomfortable, and she was
like, I was literally googling hotels in the middle of the night. I
was so exhausted and pain and in like the middle And then I heard her
husband got up and went and slept in the guest bedroom because they were like,
you're not going to a hotel and let us sleep in their bed.
But I was like, I felt guilty, but I was also like I
have to sleep, Like this is miserable. Yeah, I mean, especially
when you're pregnant. Yeah, that's like, for sure a reason that sleep
somewhere else. Our guest bedroom bed sucks. We even bought like a new
mattress and topper, and I'll go, lay, I'm like, oh,
I feels so bad for my guests, But I'm like, I'm also not
investing a super a big amount of money in a bed for people, So
yeah, ours is pretty decent, and I'll sleep in it every once in
a while if I'm like having a really rough night of sleep. Or also,
Andrew every once in a while gets like a really kicking leg situation and
he's moving a lot, and I just don't sleep through anything. So sometimes
I'll get up and go downstairs and sleep in the guest bedroom and it's all
right. It just doesn't feel like homey to me in there, so that's
why I don't like sleeping in it. Like the bed itself isn't bad,
I just don't feel like comforted. Yeah, do you want me to come
over on those nights, Jinny and I'll text you. You'll be zonked out
because I'll see it the next one. I'm pretty sure you probably still go
to bed earlier than me, even though you don't do mornings. I do,
guaranteeing I do, absolutely. It's embarrassing. And I also wake up
later, so there's no excuse. Like today, I woke up at like
seven, you know, like an I'm sleeping, so I'm making up for
a lost time, even though I got plenty of sleep really winded mornings too.
I'm just it was harder to get up that early. But anyway,
well, thanks for listening. Yeah, thank you. Have a great week.