WEBVTT 1 00:00:00.760 --> 00:00:05.759 Hello, Welcome to the I'm Still Fun Podcast with Jenny. Okay, so 2 00:00:05.879 --> 00:00:08.439 this is a really popular song right now, and I have it pulled up. 3 00:00:08.439 --> 00:00:12.800 It's the new Sabrina Carpenter song called Espresso, and I'm going to play 4 00:00:12.880 --> 00:00:16.079 a really popular line of it for you, and then I'm going to tell 5 00:00:16.079 --> 00:00:19.839 you something I learned about it that was surprising to me. If you've already 6 00:00:19.839 --> 00:00:28.079 heard this one, sorry, Okay, here we go. I'm working late 7 00:00:29.160 --> 00:00:39.960 because I'm a look so cute. Okay, I'm working late because I'm a 8 00:00:40.000 --> 00:00:44.280 singer. So, Jenny, hold up a microphone to your face, hold 9 00:00:44.320 --> 00:00:48.039 up a microphone, held up. Okay, Okay, I'm working late because 10 00:00:48.079 --> 00:00:52.000 I'm a singer. Oh you look cute. Wrap around my fingers. I 11 00:00:52.000 --> 00:00:59.039 imagine it's like wrapped around Oh okay. I thought it was just a reference 12 00:00:59.079 --> 00:01:03.880 to her being an I think that was the point. And I just saw 13 00:01:03.920 --> 00:01:07.200 someone like post that. I was like, oh cause she Wow, that's 14 00:01:07.280 --> 00:01:10.519 kind of her shtick lately, Like you know, because she does the end 15 00:01:10.519 --> 00:01:15.400 of like show freestyle the end of feather on at shows, and it's always 16 00:01:15.400 --> 00:01:19.959 something like very sexual, which people love. But I was like, oh 17 00:01:19.000 --> 00:01:25.319 my gosh. Then I somehow got down this like deep rabbit hole of like 18 00:01:25.799 --> 00:01:30.879 male celebrities who have kids and just like aren't father. Like they just were 19 00:01:30.879 --> 00:01:34.680 like, yeah, I'm not gonna be a father. I had no idea. 20 00:01:34.840 --> 00:01:38.359 Her boyfriend Barry can Know or whatever his name is, the guy from 21 00:01:38.519 --> 00:01:44.480 Yes Uh I can't Styeah literally was like with a woman has an infant and 22 00:01:44.719 --> 00:01:49.239 just ditched them and is like dating Sabrina Carpenter. And there's like a line 23 00:01:49.239 --> 00:01:52.920 in her song where she's like something about the ex sorry I didn't do it 24 00:01:53.000 --> 00:01:55.840 for you or something sorry she didn't do it for you, And then everyone 25 00:01:55.879 --> 00:01:59.400 like says they cringe at that part of the song because he actively like left 26 00:01:59.439 --> 00:02:00.840 this woman he had a new kid with to be with her. I had 27 00:02:00.840 --> 00:02:04.840 no idea because I didn't know anything about him until like he was in Saltburn. 28 00:02:04.920 --> 00:02:07.639 Basically, I think I knew that he had had a kid and everything, 29 00:02:07.639 --> 00:02:10.560 but I didn't know that that was like the relationship. I mean, 30 00:02:10.560 --> 00:02:15.759 like I didn't know he like left, and I guess we only know what 31 00:02:15.840 --> 00:02:17.599 we see, yeah, but that's I guess the vibe. And I was 32 00:02:17.639 --> 00:02:22.319 like, oh man, I thought they were in a cute relationship, but 33 00:02:22.319 --> 00:02:24.000 now I'm like, oh, maybe I don't think it's as cute. I 34 00:02:24.080 --> 00:02:28.719 don't know. He gives me the ick so badly. There's a little ick. 35 00:02:28.840 --> 00:02:34.319 Yeah, it's it's not because of Saltburn. It's because he doesn't seem 36 00:02:34.400 --> 00:02:38.800 to be very different than his character in Saltburn as he is in real life. 37 00:02:38.280 --> 00:02:42.520 That's the part to it. Yeah, where I'm like, because I've 38 00:02:42.560 --> 00:02:46.319 seen him walk red carpets and he keeps his face on and like a Sabrina 39 00:02:46.319 --> 00:02:50.319 Carpenter is decently young. She's what like twenty five maybe, Yeah, she's 40 00:02:50.360 --> 00:02:53.560 pretty young young and he's in his thirties. Yeah, I know that much, 41 00:02:53.639 --> 00:02:55.400 and so not that that matters. It's not like that big of an 42 00:02:55.400 --> 00:03:01.520 age difference, But I don't know. I feel like he's taking Sabrina Carpenter's 43 00:03:01.560 --> 00:03:05.479 innocence, which maybe that's what she's been wanting to do for a while. 44 00:03:05.520 --> 00:03:07.120 Maybe she has a reason too, because she's dating this guy and it's all 45 00:03:07.159 --> 00:03:09.879 contrived because it's you know, Hollywood, whatever you want to call it, 46 00:03:10.280 --> 00:03:15.960 music industry. But yeah, I'm not I'm not a huge fan of him. 47 00:03:15.400 --> 00:03:19.159 Yeah, I'm not a huge fan. I just I, like I 48 00:03:19.199 --> 00:03:21.759 said, I only know him from Saltburne and now dating her. But I 49 00:03:21.759 --> 00:03:23.479 can see where you're coming from with like, yeah, he probably thinks it's 50 00:03:23.479 --> 00:03:27.599 pretty cool to get to hang out with like Taylor Swift and stuff, which 51 00:03:27.719 --> 00:03:30.599 I guess anyone probably thinks that, but I don't know. I've also been 52 00:03:30.719 --> 00:03:37.520 like listening more and more to the album and liking more songs. The songs 53 00:03:37.520 --> 00:03:40.039 I just don't give a crap about. I just skip, like the ones 54 00:03:40.080 --> 00:03:46.159 with names in them. Yeah, Cassandra peter Amy, the one with like 55 00:03:46.240 --> 00:03:50.159 the three names. I skip like all those every time pretty much. But 56 00:03:50.280 --> 00:03:53.639 like, so high School has become a really I really like it? You 57 00:03:53.719 --> 00:03:58.319 want to, I'm not gonna lie. I tried to listen to it on 58 00:03:58.319 --> 00:04:00.879 the way back to Wisconsin this past weekend, and I just wasn't vibing because 59 00:04:00.919 --> 00:04:04.080 I just wanted to be able to sing along right away at it, and 60 00:04:04.120 --> 00:04:08.719 I had built out an entire playlist of just all her songs she does on 61 00:04:08.759 --> 00:04:11.759 the Eras tour, so I just went to that instead and listen to those, 62 00:04:12.159 --> 00:04:13.840 and I was like, all right, this is the jam. But 63 00:04:13.919 --> 00:04:17.079 yeah, I got to keep like listening and learning more and learning the lyrics 64 00:04:17.120 --> 00:04:20.439 more. Well, they show her updating her tour, it looks like where 65 00:04:20.480 --> 00:04:25.319 she would be adding that to the set list, And I was like, 66 00:04:25.959 --> 00:04:28.439 is she going to remove a couple of songs here and there, because I 67 00:04:28.480 --> 00:04:30.639 feel like there are some she could definitely remove that like I don't care about 68 00:04:31.720 --> 00:04:35.959 and then or is she just going to add like three songs or two songs 69 00:04:36.000 --> 00:04:41.600 from that? And I think if she added any she would add I do 70 00:04:41.639 --> 00:04:45.000 think she would do Fortnite because it's the single. Yeah, I do think 71 00:04:45.040 --> 00:04:46.439 she would have to do I can do it with a broken heart because it's 72 00:04:46.480 --> 00:04:50.480 just like such a bop and maybe who's afraid of little old me? Because 73 00:04:50.480 --> 00:04:56.000 it's like a good like like it's very much she likes doing like theatrical things 74 00:04:56.040 --> 00:04:58.120 on stage, and I feel like it has that vibe to it. But 75 00:04:58.120 --> 00:05:00.759 I don't know. Do you think that if she does decided to do all 76 00:05:00.800 --> 00:05:02.839 that and then she performs Fortnite, that post Malone would be like a surprise 77 00:05:02.920 --> 00:05:05.480 guest then at like one, at least one of the stops he has to 78 00:05:05.480 --> 00:05:10.160 be I was gonna say, I feel like he would jump on that opportunity 79 00:05:10.279 --> 00:05:14.759 in a heartbeat. He literally popped up with like our radio friend Bobby Bones 80 00:05:14.759 --> 00:05:17.560 at his like charity event the other night, like the guy is down to 81 00:05:17.680 --> 00:05:21.720 help didn't be there, and then he did these his stage coach performance with 82 00:05:21.759 --> 00:05:25.519 all the country artists this weekend. Just see that. Yeah, I was 83 00:05:25.560 --> 00:05:29.199 like, okay, okay, post Malone is America's sweetheart, Like he just 84 00:05:29.240 --> 00:05:31.040 really is. He's just so he can do it all going all country on 85 00:05:31.160 --> 00:05:34.600 everyone absolutely, which I'm like wondering. I'm like, it's so it's such 86 00:05:34.639 --> 00:05:39.639 an interesting time for pop music because it feels like we have such a crossover 87 00:05:39.680 --> 00:05:43.399 with country now that we're playing and so I'm like, is there ever gonna 88 00:05:43.399 --> 00:05:46.600 be like more country artists turning pop like how Taylor Swift did, because I 89 00:05:46.600 --> 00:05:51.000 feel like now people are like going country some wanted to, Like I remember 90 00:05:51.240 --> 00:05:58.360 when Kelsey Vallerine needed her song with the Chainsmokers. At the time, we 91 00:05:58.360 --> 00:06:02.000 were very much told behind the scenes like she had full plans. That was 92 00:06:02.000 --> 00:06:06.000 like her first step into the full transition to become like the next Taylor Swift. 93 00:06:06.000 --> 00:06:09.800 And I hate saying the next Taylor Swift, but like she's like a 94 00:06:09.839 --> 00:06:15.959 good example of actually making that crossover. But I don't know, I mean, 95 00:06:15.959 --> 00:06:18.920 the only what true crossover art. Well, I guess I don't know 96 00:06:18.959 --> 00:06:23.199 the answer. That Darius Rutger is obviously good crossover. He was pop first 97 00:06:23.199 --> 00:06:27.079 with Hoody and the Blowfish. Yeah, I don't think that there have been 98 00:06:27.120 --> 00:06:30.319 many. I thought like maybe Florida Georgia line. They broke up, but 99 00:06:30.399 --> 00:06:33.839 they're super country still and they're just trying to continue on their own. But 100 00:06:33.879 --> 00:06:36.639 I thought maybe there'd be like some chance that they'd go a little bit more 101 00:06:36.639 --> 00:06:41.959 pop because they did like a couple songs with Nelly and yeah all that, 102 00:06:42.040 --> 00:06:46.439 but also so did like timmocraw and he had no interest in going to pop 103 00:06:46.519 --> 00:06:49.279 obviously. I feel like that it's just always there are always these, always 104 00:06:49.319 --> 00:06:54.040 these phases, because there was like the Tim McGraw time, there was the 105 00:06:54.120 --> 00:06:57.600 Tailor time, and then Florida Georgia line. Like you said, there was 106 00:06:57.639 --> 00:07:01.360 even like the Dan and Shay with uh Justin b oh yeah, but which 107 00:07:01.439 --> 00:07:04.120 I only remembered that because they came to town. We were giving away tickets, 108 00:07:04.120 --> 00:07:06.040 and usually if we give way tickets, you want to play a clip 109 00:07:06.040 --> 00:07:10.000 of one of the artists songs, and I'm like, I know other people 110 00:07:10.040 --> 00:07:14.199 know them, but let's play the Justin Bieber one, because that's the one 111 00:07:14.240 --> 00:07:18.240 we actually played on Katie w B. I don't know. I have a 112 00:07:18.279 --> 00:07:21.120 fun fact I learned a few weeks ago and I didn't share it with you. 113 00:07:21.319 --> 00:07:28.040 I may not have actually had hemorrhoids. What do you mean? What 114 00:07:28.120 --> 00:07:30.720 do you know? Hold on, what do you mean? I thought that 115 00:07:30.800 --> 00:07:35.319 you like had surgery and everything done. Yeah. Yeah, so mind blowing 116 00:07:36.079 --> 00:07:41.079 information has come to light and I don't I don't know, we'll see. 117 00:07:41.480 --> 00:07:47.240 But basically I've been seeing like a radiologist about my weird mouth growth mouth growth. 118 00:07:47.319 --> 00:07:54.360 Yes, So two years ago I went in because I had this weird 119 00:07:54.399 --> 00:07:58.639 growth in my mouth, and I went to so many different doctors, ear 120 00:07:58.680 --> 00:08:01.480 nose and throw all these and finally, finally, after going to all these 121 00:08:01.480 --> 00:08:07.920 different places at the U, they sent me to a radiologist and she basically, 122 00:08:07.000 --> 00:08:11.680 I have something. I have a blood vessel mouth formation. Okay is 123 00:08:11.680 --> 00:08:15.120 what it's called, and there's a real name, but that's like the breaking 124 00:08:15.160 --> 00:08:18.199 it down. And she's like, it's very rare to get, like for 125 00:08:18.279 --> 00:08:20.839 adults to have, Like maybe some kids would have it, but it's super 126 00:08:20.920 --> 00:08:24.920 rare in adults. And she's like the only things she can think of that 127 00:08:24.959 --> 00:08:26.879 would have caused this to pop up, and it's all on the right side 128 00:08:26.879 --> 00:08:31.319 of my mouth because I have one of my tongue too. Is an increase 129 00:08:31.360 --> 00:08:33.080 in hormones, which would be my pregnancy. So she's like, if you 130 00:08:33.120 --> 00:08:35.720 could get on birth control after, we'll have to monitor. And I'm like, 131 00:08:35.759 --> 00:08:39.320 I'm not Jake's getting snipped. I'm a one and done, so at 132 00:08:39.399 --> 00:08:41.159 least I don't have to worry about like that weird increase in hormones again. 133 00:08:41.639 --> 00:08:46.039 But I go back in because now it's come back two years later. I 134 00:08:46.080 --> 00:08:50.559 need to get the procedure again. Okay, ye're back. It's like bigger 135 00:08:50.559 --> 00:08:52.759 than ever. So a couple of weeks ago, I went in for an 136 00:08:52.840 --> 00:08:56.840 MRI again because they have to do a full MRI for her to look at 137 00:08:56.840 --> 00:08:58.960 it and see, and I'm like, I think it's bigger and I think 138 00:08:58.000 --> 00:09:01.720 there are more now, like you're absolutely right. And the thing is is 139 00:09:01.759 --> 00:09:05.080 like they go in and they on the outside of my mouth, they inject 140 00:09:05.200 --> 00:09:11.639 little needles throughout and it basically like what happens I guess is it doesn't circulate 141 00:09:11.679 --> 00:09:15.240 blood properly. It's like blood goes in there and stops, and so it's 142 00:09:15.240 --> 00:09:16.720 like almost like a form of clotting and that's why it's large. And she's 143 00:09:16.759 --> 00:09:20.480 like, your symmetry of your face is definitely off because of this, and 144 00:09:20.519 --> 00:09:22.480 I'm like, yeah, I know. I like I know. Other people 145 00:09:22.519 --> 00:09:26.039 claim they can't see it. I see it. It bothers me. And 146 00:09:26.080 --> 00:09:28.159 it also is sensitive. If I do planks, all the blood rushes to 147 00:09:28.240 --> 00:09:31.799 it. It gets larger, all these things like if I bend over time 148 00:09:31.840 --> 00:09:35.080 I shoes, I can feel the blood rushing too. It's so gross. 149 00:09:35.120 --> 00:09:39.399 I hate it. So we When I got it done before, there was 150 00:09:39.440 --> 00:09:41.840 like no pain. It was a crazy swollen it was bruised, it will 151 00:09:41.919 --> 00:09:48.000 get hurt, didn't it wasn't on pain medication. So she goes, yeah, 152 00:09:48.200 --> 00:09:50.639 I'm gonna get as many as I can and hopefully, like you won't 153 00:09:50.639 --> 00:09:52.399 have to do this again, but you just never know. She's like, 154 00:09:52.639 --> 00:09:58.159 it's interesting like those specific ones I get won't come back, but new ones 155 00:09:58.240 --> 00:10:01.600 could. And I go, oh, it's just like hemorrhoids, and she 156 00:10:01.679 --> 00:10:05.559 goes, what do you mean And I said, well, I've had these 157 00:10:05.600 --> 00:10:09.120 hemorrhoid issues and that's what they told me, like we can get rid of 158 00:10:09.159 --> 00:10:13.759 these hemorrhoids and those blood vessels will never basically like that won't happen again for 159 00:10:13.799 --> 00:10:18.080 those, but you have other blood vessels in your butt. You could get 160 00:10:18.080 --> 00:10:20.679 new ones from new ones. And then she just stares at me and she 161 00:10:20.759 --> 00:10:26.159 goes, tell me more about your hemorrhoids. So I start telling her my 162 00:10:26.200 --> 00:10:28.000 whole journey of like getting all these hemorrhoids. She's like, is this a 163 00:10:28.039 --> 00:10:31.799 thing in your family? And I said, I mean, I know my 164 00:10:31.879 --> 00:10:33.879 dad's had hemorrhois I don't? Oh my mom? And I go, She's 165 00:10:33.879 --> 00:10:35.960 like, when did your dad start getting them? And I said, I 166 00:10:35.960 --> 00:10:39.159 don't know. I want to ask him. I go, but my dad 167 00:10:39.279 --> 00:10:43.600 sits all the time. He sat on this on huge heavy machinery the majority 168 00:10:43.600 --> 00:10:46.240 of his life. It's not surprising my dad got hemorrhoids, honestly. She's 169 00:10:46.279 --> 00:10:52.360 like yeah. So then she's like, I actually wonder if you've ever had 170 00:10:52.399 --> 00:10:56.879 hemorrhoids or if these are blood vessel malformations throughout your body, and it's they're 171 00:10:56.919 --> 00:11:03.200 different things. So then she wanted to reach out to my doctor who removed 172 00:11:03.240 --> 00:11:07.519 them to see if they saved any tissue to test it and if they don't 173 00:11:07.720 --> 00:11:09.840 or they do, and if they come back. She wants to do a 174 00:11:09.879 --> 00:11:16.320 pelvic MRI to examine to see that I have maybe not been having hemorrhoids, 175 00:11:16.600 --> 00:11:22.519 but these fucking blood vessel moulthformation. It's a like long, weird story, 176 00:11:22.559 --> 00:11:26.240 but I'm like, what's wrong with my body? Why is this happening? 177 00:11:26.440 --> 00:11:28.759 Didn't Okay, not saying anything bad about your doctor, but wouldn't your doctor 178 00:11:28.759 --> 00:11:33.039 be able to tell the difference between a blood vessel something and a hemorrhoid? 179 00:11:33.159 --> 00:11:35.200 I don't think so. I'm guessing they look the same, maybe because it's 180 00:11:35.240 --> 00:11:41.279 like, uh, but he wouldn't know. I don't think that because that 181 00:11:41.320 --> 00:11:43.320 guy, you know, I just go in and I like, remove this, 182 00:11:43.960 --> 00:11:46.879 yeah, and they're like okay. They look up my butt and they're 183 00:11:46.879 --> 00:11:48.200 like, yeah, it needs to be removed. Yeah, let's chop her 184 00:11:48.200 --> 00:11:52.679 off, put a stitch in or not. You know, basically, don't 185 00:11:52.679 --> 00:11:56.360 they like, at least should they ask this question. Don't they like drain 186 00:11:56.440 --> 00:12:00.200 it first? No? Oh, they like chop it? Yeah, big 187 00:12:00.200 --> 00:12:03.399 old ax and just going there. The first it is an act. The 188 00:12:03.480 --> 00:12:05.440 first one was the one that you had to cover an event for me because 189 00:12:05.440 --> 00:12:09.600 I couldn't even sit down. That was the worst one. It was so 190 00:12:09.879 --> 00:12:13.759 large that TMI. When they spread my cheeks, they actively they were like, 191 00:12:13.200 --> 00:12:18.399 oh my god, that is so big, like they were alarmed with 192 00:12:18.480 --> 00:12:20.320 how large it was. Oh my god. And that one had to have 193 00:12:20.360 --> 00:12:24.639 a stitch when it was her move. The next two times, no stitch 194 00:12:24.720 --> 00:12:26.440 was required. But I also like the first time had a woman, and 195 00:12:26.480 --> 00:12:31.360 I feel like she was more sensitive to me because I got a stitch. 196 00:12:31.559 --> 00:12:33.759 Yeah, and she gave me a prescription for two pain pills for like the 197 00:12:33.759 --> 00:12:39.279 next two days. The guy was like, no stitch, just threw some 198 00:12:39.320 --> 00:12:41.039 gaws in between my cheeks and was like tap me on the ass and say 199 00:12:41.120 --> 00:12:45.960 go like no pain killers or anything. I'm like, this is pretty brutal 200 00:12:46.000 --> 00:12:50.120 pain bro. So anyway, so what's the next steps? Is there? 201 00:12:50.159 --> 00:12:54.360 Are you gonna like try to I don't know. The next step is I'm 202 00:12:54.720 --> 00:12:58.480 having the procedure done again in June. But it's funny because you know, 203 00:12:58.559 --> 00:13:01.799 she's a ideologists, She's incredibly busy. So I had a book it way 204 00:13:01.799 --> 00:13:05.360 out in June, and then I look and I have like a I had 205 00:13:05.360 --> 00:13:09.399 some been announced yet I won't give all the details. I guess an event 206 00:13:09.720 --> 00:13:13.879 yeah the very next day, and I'm like I don't know if I should 207 00:13:13.919 --> 00:13:18.600 be planning a big event with a bunch of listeners the very next day of 208 00:13:18.679 --> 00:13:20.919 this procedure when my face is going to be super swollen and bruised. It 209 00:13:20.960 --> 00:13:24.720 didn't hurt last time, but no, but you had the whole weekend last 210 00:13:24.759 --> 00:13:26.399 time, didn't you. Yeah? But I mean even when I woke up 211 00:13:26.399 --> 00:13:30.559 on I was like so surprised it didn't hurt. Oh, but you're so 212 00:13:30.600 --> 00:13:33.559 you're not concerned about like what it'll look like. No, do I remember? 213 00:13:33.720 --> 00:13:35.600 I think you sent us pictures it was for two weeks it was swollen 214 00:13:35.639 --> 00:13:39.440 and bruised, Yeah, because I remember, I don't care about that. 215 00:13:39.519 --> 00:13:43.399 But I'm also like, maybe I should change my procedure. I might regret 216 00:13:43.480 --> 00:13:48.000 that not giving myself a full weekend to heal. Yeah, I mean, 217 00:13:48.039 --> 00:13:50.240 if it's the very next day, very next day, I know, I 218 00:13:50.279 --> 00:13:52.519 don't know. I mean, I remember, I feel like I remember you 219 00:13:52.559 --> 00:13:56.559 saying it wasn't you didn't feel pain or whatever. You were just kind of 220 00:13:56.600 --> 00:13:58.200 swollen, yeah, and bruised, and that was it. Yeah. I 221 00:13:58.519 --> 00:14:03.200 have the photo of Fallon in my phone is from her coming right out of 222 00:14:03.200 --> 00:14:05.320 that procedure, and she's got like something wrapped around her entire as an eye 223 00:14:05.360 --> 00:14:09.679 attacker on my head, anatag and she just looks like a little bit out 224 00:14:09.720 --> 00:14:11.320 of it, a little high or something. That's her photo on her phone 225 00:14:11.320 --> 00:14:15.600 when I call, and the one I have of Jenny is like the least 226 00:14:15.600 --> 00:14:18.399 attractive, like lighting with her fresh out of the gym eating a banana. 227 00:14:18.559 --> 00:14:24.120 Yeah, baby, I love that, Jenny. What's new with you? 228 00:14:24.279 --> 00:14:28.960 Well? Speaking of just hemorrhoids in that butrotthole region, go on. I 229 00:14:30.039 --> 00:14:33.360 just have to say that when Andrew and I travel anytime now, yeah, 230 00:14:33.519 --> 00:14:37.039 we are so spoiled at home because we have a bidet, and when we 231 00:14:37.120 --> 00:14:41.200 go anywhere else we're like, this is awful. How had we been doing 232 00:14:41.240 --> 00:14:45.519 this for thirty plus years of our life travel? But day like Take's brother 233 00:14:45.559 --> 00:14:50.000 has shut up. I swear my life baby would have a travel badet. 234 00:14:50.120 --> 00:14:52.000 That's why that doesn't surprise me at all. I just didn't even know that 235 00:14:52.000 --> 00:14:56.600 that existed. It's not what you're thinking, Okay, So it's what It's 236 00:14:56.600 --> 00:15:01.080 basically the equivalent of what pregnant women use after they have a baby. So 237 00:15:01.159 --> 00:15:05.159 it looks like a water bottle and has like a little tube that comes up 238 00:15:05.360 --> 00:15:07.320 yeah, and you squeeze the bottle and water comes out, so like when 239 00:15:07.360 --> 00:15:11.960 you have a baby, you use that to like clean yourself, got it? 240 00:15:11.039 --> 00:15:16.639 Yeah? Yeah, And so he probles me with this. Oh my 241 00:15:16.720 --> 00:15:18.279 god, I'm gonna have to look into that. Maybe that'll be Andrew's next 242 00:15:18.559 --> 00:15:22.799 Christmas present or something, because he would we just you know, and also 243 00:15:24.440 --> 00:15:26.960 t m I from both of us. But basically, my mom has a 244 00:15:26.960 --> 00:15:30.679 pretty small house, like you didn't grow up in a big house. And 245 00:15:31.000 --> 00:15:33.000 the bathroom. So there was a poop and bathroom, and there was the 246 00:15:33.000 --> 00:15:35.600 pee and bathroom. Yeah you did. You were only supposed to poop in 247 00:15:35.600 --> 00:15:39.159 a certain toilet because the other one clogged me easily, used too much water, 248 00:15:39.320 --> 00:15:43.799 like all that stuff. And over the years it's gotten better, so 249 00:15:43.840 --> 00:15:46.399 you really can use either one. But we still say this is the poop 250 00:15:46.440 --> 00:15:52.480 and bathroom. It is right off the kitchen. Ah my mom. My 251 00:15:52.519 --> 00:15:56.639 mom does not sit still. The woman is constantly go go go oh, 252 00:15:56.679 --> 00:15:58.679 should I make blueberry muffin? Should I make this? Should I do that? 253 00:15:58.720 --> 00:16:00.399 Blah blah blah, where she's like doing something for work in the kitchen 254 00:16:00.399 --> 00:16:04.360 table or like she's outside running around doing something with flowers, whatever, and 255 00:16:04.679 --> 00:16:11.320 so Andrew had ate this revival spicy Chicken. I saw that in the car. 256 00:16:11.600 --> 00:16:15.399 Yes, I'll ride back. Yeah, revival Thursday night and we were 257 00:16:15.440 --> 00:16:19.279 leaving Friday morning. So he got enough to feed a family of five, 258 00:16:19.720 --> 00:16:22.200 and so he had all these leftover. So he brought it in the car. 259 00:16:22.320 --> 00:16:26.600 Spicy chicken on a car ride, you're just begging for a blowout on 260 00:16:26.639 --> 00:16:30.000 the gas station. So and he ate it when we had about an hour 261 00:16:30.080 --> 00:16:32.480 and like ten minutes left of the ride, and I go, I'm not 262 00:16:32.559 --> 00:16:34.639 stopping again. We just stopped to get gas, like, you better keep 263 00:16:34.679 --> 00:16:37.240 it. So he kept it under control and then we get home. We 264 00:16:37.240 --> 00:16:41.000 immediately left to jet off to my dad's retirement party and just like hang out 265 00:16:41.039 --> 00:16:45.039 there. But then the next morning everything was hitting him and he goes, 266 00:16:45.240 --> 00:16:48.240 I couldn't. He went in the bathroom and he couldn't do it because my 267 00:16:48.279 --> 00:16:49.080 mom was like right there in the kitchen, and I go, just start 268 00:16:49.080 --> 00:16:52.639 watching videos on your phone, Like, who cares, I cover up the 269 00:16:52.679 --> 00:16:55.559 noise somehow. I was like, or use the other bathroom. You can 270 00:16:55.720 --> 00:16:57.320 use it. It's not that big of a deal. Which also that one 271 00:16:57.440 --> 00:17:00.519 still is in the middle of everything, like I said, my mom's got 272 00:17:00.559 --> 00:17:03.919 a small house, right, it's not like secluded enough, like you probably 273 00:17:03.960 --> 00:17:08.000 can still hear some things from it. But yeah, he basically just had 274 00:17:08.039 --> 00:17:12.359 some issues this weekend and then kept complaining about how like we need a bidet 275 00:17:12.440 --> 00:17:17.279 everywhere we go now, And I agree, it's so weird now after having 276 00:17:17.319 --> 00:17:19.119 one in our own house. So I really recommend getting one. And I'm 277 00:17:19.319 --> 00:17:22.799 shadow of Cookie because I know Cookie listens and she is the one who got 278 00:17:22.799 --> 00:17:26.000 me the bidet. Actually, oh nice, and I think it was like 279 00:17:26.160 --> 00:17:30.519 twenty five bucks off Amazon. Yeah, we did a different one than you. 280 00:17:30.559 --> 00:17:33.720 I think we did the tushy one or whatever, and yeah, it 281 00:17:33.759 --> 00:17:36.680 was like twenty five dollars. I mean, you can get the one like 282 00:17:36.720 --> 00:17:40.440 the real ones. These are just like attachment ones and they're great. But 283 00:17:40.640 --> 00:17:42.839 I feel like mine's angled weird. I have to like angle my body for 284 00:17:42.880 --> 00:17:45.559 it to hit the spot right, yeah, and then it gets like the 285 00:17:45.599 --> 00:17:49.720 back of my butt a little bit wet. Yeah. I mean, see, 286 00:17:49.759 --> 00:17:52.839 I have such a big butt that I'm gonna be honest. My butt's 287 00:17:52.880 --> 00:17:56.279 big too, I know. But like, okay, right, we just 288 00:17:56.279 --> 00:18:00.279 have different shapes, but we do yars is bubble I have to like severely 289 00:18:00.319 --> 00:18:03.279 spread my cheeks to be able to like sit on the toilet. That is 290 00:18:03.359 --> 00:18:07.359 not a thing for me. Yeah, that is I have to and so 291 00:18:07.519 --> 00:18:10.279 like I feel like the vedet doesn't always like get up there in the area 292 00:18:10.319 --> 00:18:14.319 it needs to be so like But anyways, all right, enough about but 293 00:18:14.440 --> 00:18:18.799 whole talks. Let me talk. Let me talk about how. I don't 294 00:18:18.839 --> 00:18:22.279 know when I became this person. I think it's because I have learned to 295 00:18:22.319 --> 00:18:27.720 not be a people pleaser as much anymore. But I don't really like to 296 00:18:30.839 --> 00:18:33.960 what's the word, because it's gonna come off really bad. So at my 297 00:18:33.039 --> 00:18:37.079 dad's retirement party, there was like lots of family there and then like a 298 00:18:37.119 --> 00:18:41.079 lot of his friends and stuff, so like, of course I knew everyone. 299 00:18:41.480 --> 00:18:45.880 There's just certain family members I don't like to engage in conversations with because 300 00:18:45.240 --> 00:18:51.200 they're just like really Debbie downers. They're not entertaining, like just they're not 301 00:18:51.279 --> 00:18:53.920 super fun to talk to you. Yeah, and I normally would at least 302 00:18:53.960 --> 00:18:56.680 be like, how is how have you been? How whatever? I literally 303 00:18:56.720 --> 00:19:00.119 didn't even talk to one couple there because I didn't want to. Yeah, 304 00:19:00.160 --> 00:19:03.480 and that is not who I used to be. I would at least like 305 00:19:03.599 --> 00:19:07.200 say hi, how you been, and the bullshit like how's the weather? 306 00:19:07.279 --> 00:19:11.799 You know, they kind of yeah shit. And on Friday night, I 307 00:19:11.880 --> 00:19:14.440 just didn't have it in me. I just I mean, we I did 308 00:19:14.440 --> 00:19:17.480 the morning show, we drove right away and immediately had a jet to this 309 00:19:17.640 --> 00:19:22.759 retirement party. And I feel like a jerk because my older sister Rachel is 310 00:19:22.240 --> 00:19:26.039 just the social butterflies. She plans everything, she talks to everyone, and 311 00:19:26.079 --> 00:19:30.279 then I come in and I always feel like I can tell when people think 312 00:19:30.279 --> 00:19:33.920 that, like I'm like the big city girl or something, and I come 313 00:19:33.920 --> 00:19:37.559 in and then I act like that, and I'm like, well, am 314 00:19:37.559 --> 00:19:41.799 I being a bitch now? But at the same time, they don't come 315 00:19:41.960 --> 00:19:45.559 up to me and say anything to me. But I've just always been the 316 00:19:45.559 --> 00:19:48.839 person who does go out of the way to say hi to everyone. I 317 00:19:48.880 --> 00:19:51.119 think that's on them as much as it is on you. And I also 318 00:19:51.160 --> 00:19:53.359 think as you get older, it's not that you're like, I'm not going 319 00:19:53.440 --> 00:19:56.839 to be a people pleaser anymore. It's that you choose how you allocate your 320 00:19:56.960 --> 00:20:02.640 energy. And there are we all know this. There there are givers and 321 00:20:02.680 --> 00:20:07.000 takers of energy, and there are the people that have a constant dark cloud 322 00:20:07.079 --> 00:20:11.960 over them, they absorb everyone else's problem. So even if like they have 323 00:20:11.000 --> 00:20:14.119 nothing going on in their life, feel like, hey, how's it going. 324 00:20:14.359 --> 00:20:17.519 Well, things aren't great because this happened to my neighbor and it's been 325 00:20:17.559 --> 00:20:19.119 affecting me, and you're like, what, how's that affecting you? But 326 00:20:19.240 --> 00:20:25.480 also some people are just like that and you have to like choose if you 327 00:20:25.519 --> 00:20:27.839 like give them that energy or not, and they will take take take, 328 00:20:27.960 --> 00:20:30.559 So it's like, yeah, I don't think you're it's not your people. 329 00:20:30.559 --> 00:20:33.759 Please you still are people pleaser to a degree, like as far as like 330 00:20:34.240 --> 00:20:38.880 you'll still like make small talk with people and et cetera, et cetera. 331 00:20:38.880 --> 00:20:41.480 But yeah, they could come up to you and talk to the big city 332 00:20:41.519 --> 00:20:45.200 girl, you know. I just I don't know. I felt bad like 333 00:20:45.319 --> 00:20:48.240 leaving that party because it was just like the one couple that I didn't talk 334 00:20:48.279 --> 00:20:49.880 to, and I was like I could have at least, like I gave 335 00:20:49.880 --> 00:20:52.559 them cake. When I hand it out cake to everyone, See that's nice. 336 00:20:52.640 --> 00:20:56.599 And that was about it, you know, like, yeah, I 337 00:20:56.839 --> 00:20:59.759 he here's some cake. That was the extent of it. But it was 338 00:20:59.799 --> 00:21:03.880 fun because Andrew and I ended up staying later and hanging out with my dad 339 00:21:03.920 --> 00:21:06.640 and his friends. Everyone else had left already, my sister had left and 340 00:21:06.680 --> 00:21:10.599 stuff, and it was just like funny listening to them all interact, because 341 00:21:11.079 --> 00:21:15.119 you know, you don't always see your parents in like these normal social situations. 342 00:21:15.200 --> 00:21:18.839 Yeah, and my one friend, my dad's one friend, Roy is 343 00:21:18.920 --> 00:21:22.920 so fucking funny and like they were just reminiscing on stories. And they all 344 00:21:22.960 --> 00:21:25.480 grew up together. They all worked at this one restaurant and met each other 345 00:21:25.519 --> 00:21:27.799 when they were like sixteen seventeen eighteen and have known each other ever since. 346 00:21:29.480 --> 00:21:33.440 And so I like, I feel bad because I feel like there was a 347 00:21:33.440 --> 00:21:36.079 point where Andrew and I could have left, and I just ended up staying 348 00:21:36.079 --> 00:21:38.799 because I wanted to like be there and spend some time. And I know 349 00:21:38.920 --> 00:21:44.160 that had the roles been reversed and I was the plus one to Andrew at 350 00:21:44.160 --> 00:21:47.440 his parents' retirement, I would have been like, why are we still here? 351 00:21:48.440 --> 00:21:51.279 But Andrew's just like a trooper. And to be fair, the NFL 352 00:21:51.359 --> 00:21:52.799 Draft was also on in the background, so he was able to watch that 353 00:21:52.799 --> 00:21:56.000 pretty much the whole time. Yep. But yeah, it was a fun 354 00:21:56.000 --> 00:22:00.160 weekend back home. For us. We had my niece's birthday party two and 355 00:22:00.160 --> 00:22:03.400 I already talked about this on the show. But my niece, her like 356 00:22:03.480 --> 00:22:08.279 best friend, is just such a brat And like I didn't say this fully 357 00:22:08.359 --> 00:22:11.960 to the extent that I wish I could have on the show because I think 358 00:22:11.000 --> 00:22:14.759 more peaceful people listen to the show and I don't need this to get back, 359 00:22:15.359 --> 00:22:18.920 but I mean she just she opens Mattie's presence literally like did it this 360 00:22:19.000 --> 00:22:23.240 year? Did it last year? And like it's so frustrating because I know 361 00:22:23.319 --> 00:22:26.920 that there's always kind of like your alpha kid in a group of PA but 362 00:22:27.279 --> 00:22:30.279 like, I just don't, like, this is a weird sister not care. 363 00:22:30.960 --> 00:22:34.240 I don't My sister literally doesn't. She's like best friends with her mom, 364 00:22:34.400 --> 00:22:37.200 the little girl's mom and stuff, and so it's like I think that 365 00:22:37.240 --> 00:22:40.519 they're just like, yeah, whatever, their kids, they're doing whatever. 366 00:22:40.920 --> 00:22:42.480 But it drives me. I would never let all of do that. I'd 367 00:22:42.480 --> 00:22:45.319 be like, Olive, no, sit over here and watch right. And 368 00:22:45.440 --> 00:22:48.440 so, and I've always thought that this little girl's mom, she's very sweet, 369 00:22:48.480 --> 00:22:52.200 she's a nice person, but it drove me insane that she does not 370 00:22:52.240 --> 00:22:55.880 say anything to her daughter to be like hey, no, no, and 371 00:22:55.920 --> 00:22:57.680 like every once in a while she would kind of say something, but she 372 00:22:57.759 --> 00:23:00.799 didn't take action after it and stop. Yeah. So that's where I was 373 00:23:00.880 --> 00:23:04.640 like, no, like, we're watching her open presence and she's not even 374 00:23:04.839 --> 00:23:08.400 opening them herself or even knows who got her what. Yeah, and they're 375 00:23:08.440 --> 00:23:11.519 all open and it's getting handed to her. And then then the girl's opening 376 00:23:11.559 --> 00:23:17.279 the next present. Oh yeah, that was really annoying. And I talked 377 00:23:17.279 --> 00:23:18.839 about it on the show and my mom was listening, and so she was 378 00:23:18.880 --> 00:23:22.279 like, oh my god, that drives me insane too, And I was 379 00:23:22.319 --> 00:23:25.440 like, man, we need to stand up then next time, because it 380 00:23:25.599 --> 00:23:29.480 just I don't know. I just feel like at someone's birthday, the one 381 00:23:29.519 --> 00:23:33.319 thing that they get is to open their presence and be so excited and they 382 00:23:33.359 --> 00:23:37.359 look forward to it so much. Like Olive honestly likes opening presence almost as 383 00:23:37.440 --> 00:23:41.240 much as the presence. I think. So that makes me sad. And 384 00:23:41.519 --> 00:23:42.720 always say, your niece is so sweet. So I could see her just 385 00:23:42.720 --> 00:23:47.079 being like passive and letting it happen and just being sweet about it. She 386 00:23:47.240 --> 00:23:51.039 was. And then my younger sister got her this kind of like nail polished 387 00:23:51.039 --> 00:23:55.519 manicure set something. Well, there was my niece and my nephew were there 388 00:23:55.559 --> 00:23:57.240 for the kids, and they didn't have a big kid friendly party. They 389 00:23:57.279 --> 00:24:00.680 just had one other friend there who all so has a little girl that's my 390 00:24:00.759 --> 00:24:03.480 nephew's age. So the four of them all hang out and stuff, and 391 00:24:03.519 --> 00:24:07.680 so they all ran upstairs whatever, and then I hear one of them tattling 392 00:24:07.759 --> 00:24:11.240 on olm and whatever. Well, the little Braddy girl went and opened all 393 00:24:11.279 --> 00:24:15.720 the nail polish stuff, Like there was like glitter and like stuff you could 394 00:24:15.720 --> 00:24:18.599 put on to like design the nails. She combined all of the stuff together 395 00:24:18.920 --> 00:24:22.920 and opened everything. And Maddie was like pissed at that point and like told 396 00:24:23.000 --> 00:24:26.279 on her and I'm good, yeah, because that was your present and your 397 00:24:26.319 --> 00:24:30.160 friend just like ruined it for you. Yeah. So yeah, it was 398 00:24:30.279 --> 00:24:34.519 there was parts of me that wanted to be like, discipline your child, 399 00:24:34.640 --> 00:24:38.400 But I'm never gonna do that person. I would never. I am not 400 00:24:38.480 --> 00:24:41.440 a parent. You just do what Jake and I do and we leave and 401 00:24:41.480 --> 00:24:47.039 we judge everyone else. Well, yeah that's what I do. Yeah, 402 00:24:47.079 --> 00:24:49.359 and then we and then I'll be like you know what, I think I 403 00:24:49.480 --> 00:24:52.039 share this for it Jake's more judgmental than I am, which I think is 404 00:24:52.079 --> 00:24:56.880 surprising to people. I because I'm like, I feel like I would come 405 00:24:56.920 --> 00:25:02.880 across as more because is just like a more balanced human than me. But 406 00:25:03.799 --> 00:25:07.599 I don't know if it's because he's just so into Olive that he just thinks 407 00:25:07.640 --> 00:25:14.960 she's so great. But he like, he just will be like because we 408 00:25:15.119 --> 00:25:18.440 fought. We know, like all the kids and all the parents. So 409 00:25:18.559 --> 00:25:22.400 a lot of the parents, you know, most parents just post the good 410 00:25:22.440 --> 00:25:26.720 moments, which that's what I do. I'm not going to show a video 411 00:25:26.799 --> 00:25:30.480 or anything of all of melting down. But I think that sometimes if you 412 00:25:30.519 --> 00:25:34.480 don't share other things, other parents can start kind of feeling bad about themselves. 413 00:25:34.799 --> 00:25:38.440 So when Jake sees the kids that seemingly are perfect out in the real 414 00:25:38.480 --> 00:25:42.240 world doing just asshole stuff, He's like, oh, I knew that kid 415 00:25:42.319 --> 00:25:48.599 wasn't ask and he loved it. And but like, for instance, Olive 416 00:25:48.920 --> 00:25:55.000 and Cold's daughter Remy are like they are obsessed with each other. And Cold 417 00:25:55.079 --> 00:25:57.839 has like he has two daughters. He has Remy, who is all of 418 00:25:59.039 --> 00:26:02.960 exact age, and she is the maddie. She is sweet, innocent, 419 00:26:03.240 --> 00:26:06.559 and then they have their two year old teddy and she is so cute and 420 00:26:06.759 --> 00:26:11.720 so adorable and she is their like problem child. Now that's them saying it, 421 00:26:11.799 --> 00:26:15.680 not me, Like we weren't Skyzone. She's the one that, like, 422 00:26:15.759 --> 00:26:18.440 all the kids are building a tower and she goes and kicks it down. 423 00:26:18.880 --> 00:26:21.160 It's like something in or she can't not. I'm like, I have 424 00:26:21.240 --> 00:26:25.960 those intrusive thoughts too as a kid. So here's your future. But like 425 00:26:26.279 --> 00:26:29.960 so, but Olive and Remy have swimming together and they always give you a 426 00:26:30.000 --> 00:26:33.440 review at the end of what they can work on, and this week they 427 00:26:33.480 --> 00:26:37.039 both needed to work on their listening ears. And I can see all of 428 00:26:37.160 --> 00:26:40.680 through the glass window. She loves to get the laugh so I could see 429 00:26:40.680 --> 00:26:42.480 her doing her fucking stand up routine, and I'm like, she's not paying 430 00:26:42.480 --> 00:26:45.880 attention. She just wants Remy to laugh. I actually blame Oli not Remy, 431 00:26:45.880 --> 00:26:48.880 because she's like a little bit quieter than all of So I'm like, 432 00:26:49.559 --> 00:26:53.240 yeah, there's always like but the point is, like I share that on 433 00:26:53.279 --> 00:26:56.799 the like my thing like that all of got told she needs to be using 434 00:26:56.839 --> 00:27:00.039 her listening ears because it's like I show her being cute and she will turn 435 00:27:00.079 --> 00:27:04.240 on me. Okay, she will turn and that is the reality of children. 436 00:27:04.279 --> 00:27:08.960 They're not all going to be perfect. But it's weird because you gotta 437 00:27:10.039 --> 00:27:15.920 like with the present thing. You gotta like real men. Yeah, it 438 00:27:15.000 --> 00:27:18.799 was. It just left such a bad taste in my mouth. But I 439 00:27:18.400 --> 00:27:22.359 already like dealt with it last year, and I was like, whatever, 440 00:27:22.440 --> 00:27:25.559 if my sister's not upset about it, then I don't need to be upset 441 00:27:25.599 --> 00:27:30.680 about it. But I still I think last year. I remember pulling my 442 00:27:30.720 --> 00:27:33.119 present out because it was a bigger party last year, and like handing it 443 00:27:33.119 --> 00:27:36.960 to her and like sitting by her and being like, all right, here's 444 00:27:37.000 --> 00:27:41.759 for me, yea, make sure she opened it. Yeah, anything else, 445 00:27:41.839 --> 00:27:45.039 jinny, No, that's about it. Just you know, I hadn't 446 00:27:45.079 --> 00:27:47.839 seen the famine forever, so it was nice to be back home for a 447 00:27:47.839 --> 00:27:49.799 bit. I was going to ask you when you used to go back to 448 00:27:51.039 --> 00:27:53.200 Indiana when your mom lived there, where did you guys stay? Did you 449 00:27:53.240 --> 00:27:57.279 stay at your mom's house? No, when my sister lived there, I 450 00:27:57.319 --> 00:28:00.000 always stayed with my sister. Yeah, that's what I was blanking on. 451 00:28:00.079 --> 00:28:03.240 I was like, I feel like she stayed with family, But I couldn't 452 00:28:03.279 --> 00:28:06.559 remember you saying that you'd stay at your mom's or wherever. There was like 453 00:28:06.599 --> 00:28:08.440 a time where I was mad at my sister and I stayed with my mom, 454 00:28:08.680 --> 00:28:14.079 but it was kind of short, and then my sister moved to Florida. 455 00:28:14.279 --> 00:28:18.640 So then when I would go home now or now when I go home, 456 00:28:18.680 --> 00:28:21.599 I stay with my friend Kimberly. But my other friends are always like, 457 00:28:22.000 --> 00:28:23.799 uh, you don't ever come see our houses. You know, you 458 00:28:23.799 --> 00:28:26.119 could come stay with us too, and I'm like, I could, and 459 00:28:26.119 --> 00:28:30.839 I just feel comfortable at Kim's now. Yeah, but I feel bad because 460 00:28:30.839 --> 00:28:33.680 I haven't gone to see all my other friend's houses. I just go to 461 00:28:33.759 --> 00:28:36.440 Kim's and kind of stay there and have them come over to her house to 462 00:28:36.480 --> 00:28:38.720 hang out with me. Yeah. I think you find your comfort because we've 463 00:28:38.720 --> 00:28:42.160 always stayed at my mom's house when we've gone back. But it's kind of 464 00:28:42.200 --> 00:28:45.559 like my little sister lives there right now, and so we sleep in my 465 00:28:45.599 --> 00:28:49.359 mom's bed and the bed. She claims she got a new mattress, and 466 00:28:49.400 --> 00:28:53.720 I believe her, but it's just a queen It's a queen size bed and 467 00:28:53.759 --> 00:28:56.720 it caves in in the middle, so it must be the frame or something. 468 00:28:56.799 --> 00:29:00.279 Yeah, And I had told her like before Christmas, and Andrew and 469 00:29:00.279 --> 00:29:04.799 I were thinking about getting an airbnb and she got upset about that and we're 470 00:29:04.839 --> 00:29:07.039 like, okay, whatever, we'll stay there. She's like I got a 471 00:29:07.079 --> 00:29:11.400 new mattress, like whatever, but now it's still like really uncomfortable. We 472 00:29:11.599 --> 00:29:15.759 fall into each other almost, and so then I brought it up again. 473 00:29:15.799 --> 00:29:18.480 I was like, I don't know, like this is just like frustrating coming 474 00:29:18.519 --> 00:29:23.039 home and being like so tired. But at the same time, I love 475 00:29:23.079 --> 00:29:27.119 waking up and just like hanging in my mom's living room and chilling and stuff. 476 00:29:27.160 --> 00:29:32.000 So it's like I don't want to go stay in some cold and be 477 00:29:32.039 --> 00:29:36.000 your hotel room. I like to be around my family when I'm home. 478 00:29:36.559 --> 00:29:41.640 But I also just get frustrated with the sleep situation because the bed that I 479 00:29:41.720 --> 00:29:45.480 used to sleep and that my sister uses now is very comfy, and we 480 00:29:45.519 --> 00:29:48.680 don't have that anymore. No. I get that, like that's you hit 481 00:29:48.680 --> 00:29:52.680 a certain age where you're like, I gotta have a comfortable bed, But 482 00:29:52.759 --> 00:29:53.960 yeah, I would like want to be with the family too, Like I've 483 00:29:55.000 --> 00:29:56.680 talked about, like when I was pregnant, when to visit my sister. 484 00:29:56.720 --> 00:30:00.559 I'm like I can't sleep in your guy's bedroom bed anymore, Like I'm miserable, 485 00:30:00.599 --> 00:30:03.480 care I'm too pregnant, Like I was so uncomfortable, and she was 486 00:30:03.519 --> 00:30:06.559 like, I was literally googling hotels in the middle of the night. I 487 00:30:06.640 --> 00:30:10.519 was so exhausted and pain and in like the middle And then I heard her 488 00:30:10.599 --> 00:30:12.559 husband got up and went and slept in the guest bedroom because they were like, 489 00:30:12.559 --> 00:30:15.000 you're not going to a hotel and let us sleep in their bed. 490 00:30:15.119 --> 00:30:18.480 But I was like, I felt guilty, but I was also like I 491 00:30:18.519 --> 00:30:21.799 have to sleep, Like this is miserable. Yeah, I mean, especially 492 00:30:21.839 --> 00:30:25.200 when you're pregnant. Yeah, that's like, for sure a reason that sleep 493 00:30:25.200 --> 00:30:26.799 somewhere else. Our guest bedroom bed sucks. We even bought like a new 494 00:30:26.839 --> 00:30:29.680 mattress and topper, and I'll go, lay, I'm like, oh, 495 00:30:29.680 --> 00:30:32.319 I feels so bad for my guests, But I'm like, I'm also not 496 00:30:32.400 --> 00:30:34.960 investing a super a big amount of money in a bed for people, So 497 00:30:36.440 --> 00:30:38.279 yeah, ours is pretty decent, and I'll sleep in it every once in 498 00:30:38.319 --> 00:30:42.119 a while if I'm like having a really rough night of sleep. Or also, 499 00:30:42.200 --> 00:30:45.640 Andrew every once in a while gets like a really kicking leg situation and 500 00:30:45.680 --> 00:30:49.079 he's moving a lot, and I just don't sleep through anything. So sometimes 501 00:30:49.119 --> 00:30:52.400 I'll get up and go downstairs and sleep in the guest bedroom and it's all 502 00:30:52.480 --> 00:30:56.400 right. It just doesn't feel like homey to me in there, so that's 503 00:30:56.400 --> 00:30:59.960 why I don't like sleeping in it. Like the bed itself isn't bad, 504 00:31:00.039 --> 00:31:03.880 I just don't feel like comforted. Yeah, do you want me to come 505 00:31:03.880 --> 00:31:07.640 over on those nights, Jinny and I'll text you. You'll be zonked out 506 00:31:07.720 --> 00:31:08.960 because I'll see it the next one. I'm pretty sure you probably still go 507 00:31:10.000 --> 00:31:11.440 to bed earlier than me, even though you don't do mornings. I do, 508 00:31:12.039 --> 00:31:18.079 guaranteeing I do, absolutely. It's embarrassing. And I also wake up 509 00:31:18.200 --> 00:31:21.640 later, so there's no excuse. Like today, I woke up at like 510 00:31:22.000 --> 00:31:26.240 seven, you know, like an I'm sleeping, so I'm making up for 511 00:31:26.240 --> 00:31:30.880 a lost time, even though I got plenty of sleep really winded mornings too. 512 00:31:30.960 --> 00:31:33.880 I'm just it was harder to get up that early. But anyway, 513 00:31:33.319 --> 00:31:37.599 well, thanks for listening. Yeah, thank you. Have a great week.