1 00:00:00,600 --> 00:00:15,759 Made a decision. Face sunny sound, I had a vision. What's up? 2 00:00:15,839 --> 00:00:20,839 Everybody, welcome crying out loud, here we are there, we are 3 00:00:20,879 --> 00:00:25,879 again every Friday. Whoa, whoa, that's Helen Paradise, Hell Paradice. 4 00:00:25,960 --> 00:00:30,399 Let's say all right, let's say hi to our big people and little people. 5 00:00:31,199 --> 00:00:36,479 Uh descriminate, We love as Hello. Ashley, you're so chic. 6 00:00:36,719 --> 00:00:44,719 Sandra you're so green. Get some water, yeah, Jacob, you're so 7 00:00:44,799 --> 00:00:48,880 growley. Rita you have so many um s is in your last name? 8 00:00:49,880 --> 00:00:54,799 Hero, everybody loves you right yeah? And Elizabeth Williamson you got a lot 9 00:00:54,840 --> 00:00:59,159 of l's in your last name and a lot of children. And Athena Ginscherd. 10 00:00:59,679 --> 00:01:02,759 Why is your name like kind of hard for people to pronounce, but 11 00:01:02,880 --> 00:01:06,959 you pronounce it very well? Do it? Polly Butterfield, love all your 12 00:01:06,959 --> 00:01:11,280 pancakes and your syrup. Yep, Sissor Valerie hits out of the park, 13 00:01:11,359 --> 00:01:19,000 Katerina, get that molar check, Gabby and Missy Jesus crazier on fire? 14 00:01:19,239 --> 00:01:27,040 Is Shan speaking of fire? Who? Kelly Brandt? She is your aunt? 15 00:01:27,879 --> 00:01:34,319 Amy? Aaron? Who do this? Alicia Escalante, Leslie Sabka, 16 00:01:34,799 --> 00:01:42,519 Sarah Savan, Sarah Dean, love your sausages, Stephanie Stinkerwrinker, Christa get 17 00:01:42,560 --> 00:01:46,120 the strap, I Jennifer love you guys. We love you guys. Thank 18 00:01:46,120 --> 00:01:53,239 you guys so much. Appreciate the support. I'm so uh so this college 19 00:01:53,280 --> 00:01:57,280 thing, man, yeah, oh man, all the net don't make the 20 00:01:57,319 --> 00:02:01,239 same mistakes. I know. I like I like hearing the stories because I 21 00:02:01,319 --> 00:02:07,080 can follow in your footsteps. Yeah, how's it going. Remember when our 22 00:02:07,159 --> 00:02:13,360 kids were just like sports and you I. You had the twins and they 23 00:02:13,360 --> 00:02:15,479 were older than my twins, even though it was only like by a year 24 00:02:15,479 --> 00:02:17,919 and a half, right, but it felt it made a difference. It 25 00:02:17,960 --> 00:02:22,319 made a big difference. And you were always like, it's gonna be okay. 26 00:02:22,919 --> 00:02:24,560 Well I'm here to tell you the college thing. It's not gonna be 27 00:02:24,560 --> 00:02:32,240 okay, No, bitch, it's not. It's hard here yourself for this 28 00:02:32,639 --> 00:02:38,560 fucking appointment. Um. So it's brutal, I know. Yeah, it's 29 00:02:38,840 --> 00:02:43,280 a little brutal. It's it's more like what I told you, which is 30 00:02:43,319 --> 00:02:50,439 that I didn't properly know that Elbe was going to, you know, come 31 00:02:50,520 --> 00:02:55,439 up against so much rejection and now it's like even the school, okay, 32 00:02:55,479 --> 00:03:00,840 so she is going to go look at you see Santa Cruz. So that's 33 00:03:00,879 --> 00:03:04,240 the that is the UC that she got into. And a lot of people 34 00:03:04,400 --> 00:03:07,520 say, they go, hey, Stephanie, that's not a bad school. 35 00:03:07,680 --> 00:03:10,879 Yeah, I thought that's that was a I think that's it's a decent school. 36 00:03:10,879 --> 00:03:14,599 It's a good school. I know many people who did not get in 37 00:03:14,680 --> 00:03:17,960 or who got waitlisted, and like, but elbe a lot of her friends 38 00:03:19,080 --> 00:03:22,919 got into one of the UC's that she wanted, which is she wanted U 39 00:03:23,000 --> 00:03:27,599 see San Diego. Really her dream school's U see Santa Barbara. So as 40 00:03:27,639 --> 00:03:30,560 I've told you guys, she's waitlisted for Santa Barbara. And that's just kind 41 00:03:30,560 --> 00:03:34,400 of not a thing you can pin your hopes on, you know, if 42 00:03:34,400 --> 00:03:37,680 you get called to the to the big to the show, like you know, 43 00:03:37,960 --> 00:03:42,680 then yes you grab that spot and you know, Sayonara to your deposit, 44 00:03:42,800 --> 00:03:46,240 that we make it Santa Cruz if we do that, right. But 45 00:03:46,319 --> 00:03:52,080 here's the thing, So she went and toward these schools that she really want 46 00:03:52,159 --> 00:03:54,759 that she thought she would get into. So we towards Santa Barbara, you 47 00:03:54,800 --> 00:03:59,280 remember, and we were so into it, like she was like and you 48 00:03:59,280 --> 00:04:02,159 feel like hot because you're like, well, yeah, I'm in the IH 49 00:04:02,280 --> 00:04:05,560 program at my high school, Like I get really good grades, Like, 50 00:04:05,680 --> 00:04:09,960 why would I not get into this school? Right, it's not I'm not 51 00:04:10,080 --> 00:04:14,639 it's not Berkeley, it's not UCLA, You're like in her mind and in 52 00:04:14,680 --> 00:04:16,920 my mind, I was like, this is kind of like a a middling 53 00:04:17,120 --> 00:04:23,000 school, Like it's it's a total And in Elby's defense too, her college 54 00:04:23,040 --> 00:04:26,639 counselor was like, that's a target school for you. So like that's a 55 00:04:26,720 --> 00:04:30,399 liking school for you to get into, given your grades and the rigor and 56 00:04:30,480 --> 00:04:34,040 the millions of fucking AP test AP classes she takes and the good scores she's 57 00:04:34,079 --> 00:04:40,160 gotten under a all that. Right now, is she like a concert cellist? 58 00:04:40,240 --> 00:04:43,199 No? Is she? You know? Has she been doing? Is 59 00:04:43,240 --> 00:04:48,399 she doing pre Olympic gymnastics? Again? No, But we didn't think for 60 00:04:48,480 --> 00:04:54,319 a state school she would need like yeah, she wasn't. In her mind, 61 00:04:54,399 --> 00:04:56,759 she was always like, I don't want to go to Harvard. I 62 00:04:56,800 --> 00:05:00,560 don't want to go to any IVY league. I'm not interested in at a 63 00:05:00,600 --> 00:05:05,560 school that's super competitive. I want to go to like a nice like he 64 00:05:05,759 --> 00:05:10,160 was not prestigious. I want to go to school in southern California. I 65 00:05:10,160 --> 00:05:12,879 want to go to a school that's not too far and it has a nice 66 00:05:12,920 --> 00:05:15,439 balance. It's like a little bit of a party school but also academic like 67 00:05:16,160 --> 00:05:19,879 school. And Santa Barbara really fit the bill when we went to see it, 68 00:05:20,480 --> 00:05:24,720 and there was no reason that she thought she wouldn't get in until it 69 00:05:24,800 --> 00:05:29,759 started getting closer and it became like, wow, a lot. We were 70 00:05:29,800 --> 00:05:32,680 hearing a lot more like this thing is like a lottery, but we were 71 00:05:32,680 --> 00:05:36,319 still kind of in denial. Yeah. So the thing is, when she 72 00:05:36,360 --> 00:05:40,199 applied to Santa Cruz, it was like, yeah, I'll apply to Santa 73 00:05:40,240 --> 00:05:42,480 Cruz. We knew a few people that had gone there and liked it, 74 00:05:42,519 --> 00:05:45,240 but it wasn't She wasn't thinking I'm gonna go there. Right. So, 75 00:05:45,319 --> 00:05:48,759 now that it's become a real thing and it's like her own literal only choice, 76 00:05:49,680 --> 00:05:54,800 we can't send her to Oregon. Even she got into the Honors college 77 00:05:54,839 --> 00:05:59,160 at Oregon. University of Oregon. It's a great school. It's very expensive 78 00:05:59,439 --> 00:06:02,680 to go out of state and they don't offer money they I mean, she 79 00:06:02,800 --> 00:06:06,040 got a scholarship, she did, she got a good scholarship. She got 80 00:06:06,079 --> 00:06:11,800 ten thousand dollars a year. Yeah, but the school's like sixty seven thousand 81 00:06:11,800 --> 00:06:15,519 dollars. So I'm sorry, but like, real talk here for a minute. 82 00:06:16,199 --> 00:06:19,920 That's over two hundred thousand dollars that we'd be paying out of pocket for 83 00:06:19,959 --> 00:06:27,519 her education at a school that's not that hard to get into. That should 84 00:06:27,560 --> 00:06:30,639 have been the case, do you know what I'm saying? Like, University 85 00:06:30,639 --> 00:06:32,720 of Oregon has a very high acceptance rate, it's a great school. She 86 00:06:32,800 --> 00:06:38,199 got into the Honors College, which has a lower acceptance rate, and that's 87 00:06:38,199 --> 00:06:42,959 all great, but there's no reason to go out of state and spend all 88 00:06:43,040 --> 00:06:46,199 that money when you could go in state to our state school, which is 89 00:06:46,199 --> 00:06:51,560 Santa Cruz, for a fraction at that cost, it's hard. It's hard 90 00:06:51,600 --> 00:06:56,920 to be Like if it was let's say, a private school that was like 91 00:06:56,959 --> 00:07:00,720 a great school that was had been a dream of hers, then I would 92 00:07:00,759 --> 00:07:03,079 I would say, like, let's let me try to figure it out. 93 00:07:03,439 --> 00:07:09,800 Right, But well, I mean we're we are in an industry. Yeah 94 00:07:10,199 --> 00:07:13,439 that is up and down. We just went out on our own on our 95 00:07:13,480 --> 00:07:16,319 Princess cruise lines. Right, I don't make a ton of money doing this. 96 00:07:16,600 --> 00:07:20,879 Like I also teach classes. We're welcome to join. I still have 97 00:07:20,920 --> 00:07:25,879 some space in our Tuesday class sign up right now. But I'm just saying, 98 00:07:26,079 --> 00:07:28,759 you know, we're hustlers. Yes, we're putting stuff together, We're 99 00:07:28,839 --> 00:07:33,319 trying to build. I don't have like that is a huge expense every month 100 00:07:33,360 --> 00:07:38,680 to pay for a college. That is not like right so in my mind, 101 00:07:38,839 --> 00:07:43,680 and this is like my background. And we just talked to the amazing 102 00:07:43,920 --> 00:07:48,800 Michael Bean's father. We talked a little bit about not everybody is cut out 103 00:07:48,839 --> 00:07:54,399 for college or college bound. I think that elb is college bound, but 104 00:07:54,879 --> 00:08:00,199 I don't know that, like she isn't dying to be a lawyer or to 105 00:08:00,240 --> 00:08:01,519 be a doctor, like a lot of her friends are. Like she has 106 00:08:01,600 --> 00:08:07,560 this friend who's like definitely one hundred percent wants to be a veterinarian. Okay, 107 00:08:07,600 --> 00:08:09,839 well then you need to go right to college and you need to go 108 00:08:09,879 --> 00:08:13,879 to a good college and study animal science and like you. But Elbie doesn't 109 00:08:13,920 --> 00:08:18,319 know what she wants to do necessarily. So my feeling is I don't know 110 00:08:18,360 --> 00:08:20,600 that I need to spend two hundred thousand dollars for her to go figure it 111 00:08:20,639 --> 00:08:26,879 out in Oregon right when she could go to Santa Cruz. They have amazing 112 00:08:26,959 --> 00:08:30,480 research there it's a good school, so I just don't want her to be 113 00:08:30,519 --> 00:08:33,200 a snob about it. So now, but so here's the thing. So 114 00:08:33,240 --> 00:08:37,919 now she's like, I'm open to going to tour it, which we towards 115 00:08:37,000 --> 00:08:41,639 San Diego, we towards Santa Barbara. We never towards Santa Cruz because she's 116 00:08:41,720 --> 00:08:46,039 going there, right. Yeah, So she doesn't know anything really about it 117 00:08:46,080 --> 00:08:48,200 and hasn't seen it or felt the vibe. Now, so we're like, 118 00:08:48,240 --> 00:08:52,120 okay, well shit, we have to make decisions by May first. It's 119 00:08:52,120 --> 00:08:56,200 already April. Today is April ten. Yeah, we're talking about this, 120 00:08:56,480 --> 00:09:00,960 right. So there's a admitted students it's called ben a slug Day, and 121 00:09:01,000 --> 00:09:05,759 it's this Saturday coming up. So she waited too long to sign up for 122 00:09:05,799 --> 00:09:07,519 this thing. She tried to sign up like a week ago. It's all 123 00:09:07,559 --> 00:09:13,080 waitlist. Um, what is it. It's like in a big admitted student's 124 00:09:13,159 --> 00:09:18,720 day where all the people that are very strongly considering going there they come and 125 00:09:18,759 --> 00:09:24,440 they meet teachers and they do activities and they attend a lecture. They you 126 00:09:24,480 --> 00:09:28,960 know, right, Okay, it's but she can't get into it even though 127 00:09:28,000 --> 00:09:31,720 she's an admitted student because there's too many fucking admitted students. So now she's 128 00:09:31,799 --> 00:09:37,879 waitlisted. Okay. So then we were like, okay, well let's so 129 00:09:37,039 --> 00:09:41,679 My idea was like, well fuck it, let's go anyway. Yes, 130 00:09:41,799 --> 00:09:46,440 right, there's gonna be so many people ellen Paradise. Just walk in with 131 00:09:46,519 --> 00:09:48,240 everybody else. I just walk in. My mom will go to the movie 132 00:09:48,279 --> 00:09:52,639 theaters. She never bought a ticket for the theater. She would just walk 133 00:09:52,679 --> 00:09:56,679 in and with everybody else and just sit down. Well here, so here's 134 00:09:56,679 --> 00:09:58,759 the problem. So I was all about that. You know, Alby's kind 135 00:09:58,759 --> 00:10:01,480 of a will followers. So she was like, okay, can we look 136 00:10:01,480 --> 00:10:05,159 into this like a little bit more. So I was like, okay, 137 00:10:05,480 --> 00:10:11,039 I'm gonna do it. So I wrote, I tracked down the information for 138 00:10:11,879 --> 00:10:13,879 and this took a lot of like googling, and I was all over their 139 00:10:13,919 --> 00:10:16,720 website. They don't make it easy. You know, you really need to 140 00:10:16,720 --> 00:10:22,840 college education to navigate this college site. It's like, you know when it 141 00:10:22,879 --> 00:10:26,559 has a menu that's like fifteen deep in your in your topics, it's like 142 00:10:26,759 --> 00:10:30,600 admissions, but then you go to admissions and it's like, well what kind 143 00:10:30,600 --> 00:10:35,039 of admissions do you want? Freshman admission? Yeah, I want freshman Okay, 144 00:10:35,159 --> 00:10:37,799 being on a phone tree to blue Shield, you know, they're like, 145 00:10:37,159 --> 00:10:41,080 okay, well go to this thing. Oh you want to contact us, 146 00:10:41,159 --> 00:10:45,240 Well that's a whole different tree now, but who do you want to 147 00:10:45,279 --> 00:10:52,200 contact a freshman? Okay? Anyway, I finally found the admission counselors for 148 00:10:52,519 --> 00:10:56,320 the in for freshmen that live in Los Angeles. That's how broken down it 149 00:10:56,399 --> 00:11:01,559 is, like they break it down into well, what part of the state 150 00:11:01,600 --> 00:11:05,159 are you from? Okay, so I email these people. I try calling 151 00:11:05,200 --> 00:11:09,559 them. Of course none of them they have phone numbers, but they all 152 00:11:09,600 --> 00:11:13,879 go to voicemail of course. So I then I email, and anyway, 153 00:11:13,919 --> 00:11:16,960 the one woman who did get back to me was like yeah, oh and 154 00:11:18,039 --> 00:11:22,080 I and I emailed at the same exact time. So I had emails coming 155 00:11:22,080 --> 00:11:26,440 in from two different the visit I tried to go, I tried to do 156 00:11:26,480 --> 00:11:28,799 the chat bought thing where you like, and that was a no. Right 157 00:11:28,799 --> 00:11:33,600 now, I hate that. That's so disappointing. Oh hey you want help, 158 00:11:33,679 --> 00:11:35,639 Yeah, this is what I need. Like now they're like, you 159 00:11:35,679 --> 00:11:39,639 don't under short circuit. Yeah yeah, yeah, there's a breakdown in the 160 00:11:39,639 --> 00:11:46,240 communication there. So I end up email. Oh, I end up emailing 161 00:11:46,279 --> 00:11:50,960 like visit at whatever visit campus tours, and I'm like, hey, here's 162 00:11:50,960 --> 00:11:54,240 the thing. My kid is wait listed for this. Can we just come 163 00:11:54,360 --> 00:12:00,679 because you know, we're down to this school basically, and then I get 164 00:12:00,720 --> 00:12:05,919 back this whole thing saying no, we're it's it's like security basically, they're 165 00:12:05,919 --> 00:12:09,399 like, no, you have to be registered because there's going to be a 166 00:12:09,399 --> 00:12:13,840 major parking issue and there's not room on the tour and we don't want overcrowding. 167 00:12:13,919 --> 00:12:18,600 So you're welcome to sign up for a tour on a different day. 168 00:12:18,120 --> 00:12:24,240 But so all of the admitted student tours are happening between like these two dates 169 00:12:24,840 --> 00:12:31,080 ending on the fourteenth. Elbe tried every single tour that was happening on any 170 00:12:31,159 --> 00:12:33,720 day because I was like, well we'll leave tomorrow, like get on a 171 00:12:33,759 --> 00:12:37,360 tour. Every single one of them wait list so we could get into any 172 00:12:37,960 --> 00:12:41,559 So the so the tour that we could get on, so it's not an 173 00:12:41,559 --> 00:12:46,600 invented student's day, it's just like a prospective students. It's like juniors are 174 00:12:46,600 --> 00:12:50,240 gonna be going, you know, is not until I think the one that 175 00:12:50,279 --> 00:12:54,519 we got on is April twenty fourth, So she's gonna have to go to 176 00:12:54,600 --> 00:12:58,759 this tour and then on the twenty eighth, she has a meeting with a 177 00:12:58,840 --> 00:13:03,720 counselor from community college, the local community college. So literally she's going to 178 00:13:03,799 --> 00:13:07,240 have to do both those things and then make a decision. Wow, Like 179 00:13:07,440 --> 00:13:09,559 she's going to have like three days to decide what do you want to do? 180 00:13:11,399 --> 00:13:15,399 I think that she'll I think that she's gonna know immediately, like I 181 00:13:15,720 --> 00:13:18,519 you know, I think once she sees both, but she's not going to 182 00:13:18,600 --> 00:13:22,840 even get a real taste of the school because she's just going to be going, 183 00:13:22,279 --> 00:13:28,200 like with on a small tour. But and she's just going to have 184 00:13:28,240 --> 00:13:31,720 to decide what she wants to do. So, oh my god. She's 185 00:13:31,799 --> 00:13:37,399 kind of a bummer because honestly, I just thought my kid would have more 186 00:13:37,679 --> 00:13:41,840 options. Yeah, she didn't. She applied to She's a hard working kid. 187 00:13:41,919 --> 00:13:46,200 She applied to twelve schools. Yeah, she got rejected from cal Poly 188 00:13:46,279 --> 00:13:52,279 Slow Where. Yep, she got rejected from that school. Had she had 189 00:13:52,279 --> 00:13:56,600 a two percent chance of getting in with the psychology major, but we didn't 190 00:13:56,600 --> 00:14:01,240 know that when she applied. She got rejected from San Diego State. She 191 00:14:01,320 --> 00:14:07,879 got rejected from all the ucs besides Santa Cruz and she's, like I said, 192 00:14:07,879 --> 00:14:11,360 waitlisted for Santa Barbara. But that's like her a soft rejection. Sorry, 193 00:14:11,559 --> 00:14:16,080 I don't know if you've if you've addressed this already, But could she 194 00:14:16,320 --> 00:14:20,399 just like take a gap year off and then reapply to all of them again? 195 00:14:20,480 --> 00:14:24,480 And because she's not going to magically be a candidate for those schools, 196 00:14:24,559 --> 00:14:28,919 because what they're looking for are people who specialize, who do this something that 197 00:14:28,960 --> 00:14:31,799 they're really good at, and they do it for years. Well, what 198 00:14:31,799 --> 00:14:35,320 if she changes her major, so the psychology one that's super impacted. What 199 00:14:35,240 --> 00:14:41,679 what if she picked something else that isn't so impacted, Then wouldn't that help? 200 00:14:41,080 --> 00:14:45,519 I guess she could do that. Yeah, But in the meantime, 201 00:14:45,720 --> 00:14:48,080 if that's going to be the case, in the meantime, there's no point 202 00:14:48,120 --> 00:14:50,960 in actually taking a gap year. She might as well go to community college. 203 00:14:50,960 --> 00:14:54,440 She's already old, so she might as well go to community college and 204 00:14:54,480 --> 00:15:00,279 get some of those um some of those credits, some of the prerequisite out 205 00:15:00,320 --> 00:15:05,799 of the way. But she'd have to figure out what she's going what major 206 00:15:05,840 --> 00:15:07,320 she's going to apply to. So like, let's say she decides, like 207 00:15:07,360 --> 00:15:11,919 I'm going to apply as a instead as a communications major. That's cool, 208 00:15:13,240 --> 00:15:16,080 But then she's just going to have to make sure she takes some classes and 209 00:15:16,159 --> 00:15:20,320 communications so she doesn't have to take some of those basic classes yea to start. 210 00:15:20,639 --> 00:15:22,240 What do you think? What do you what is your gut telling you 211 00:15:22,279 --> 00:15:28,759 that she should? I don't know. I don't know, because, as 212 00:15:28,799 --> 00:15:31,120 we've discussed, I didn't go to college. I don't know. I don't 213 00:15:31,320 --> 00:15:37,200 really understand what she'd be missing out on by not going because I didn't go, 214 00:15:37,799 --> 00:15:39,720 right, Like, do I think, Oh, it could be really 215 00:15:39,759 --> 00:15:46,720 fun and to be in college with other college That's how it sounds to me. 216 00:15:46,799 --> 00:15:48,600 I'm like, I don't know. I don't think she's going to join 217 00:15:48,600 --> 00:15:52,279 a sorority, like it doesn't seem up. I don't know. I don't 218 00:15:52,320 --> 00:15:58,440 one hundred percent know. Right now, it is all about the peer pressure. 219 00:15:58,759 --> 00:16:02,320 Right now, she's in a world where all of her friends have gotten 220 00:16:02,360 --> 00:16:07,799 into and students who are nowhere near the student that she is got into Santa 221 00:16:07,840 --> 00:16:12,639 Barbara because they picked some fucking random major. I feel like the counselor should 222 00:16:12,639 --> 00:16:17,240 have been Yes, they should would have could have. And I have a 223 00:16:17,279 --> 00:16:19,240 friend who's like, I would be so mad, I would be I would 224 00:16:19,240 --> 00:16:23,000 be emailing that counselor. But it's like, what is that, what is 225 00:16:23,000 --> 00:16:27,360 that gonna do? But besides prolonged the negativity, like there's nothing we can't 226 00:16:27,360 --> 00:16:32,240 go back and change that. She already applied. You cannot go and say, 227 00:16:32,360 --> 00:16:34,960 hey man, never mind, I would like to be And also with 228 00:16:34,960 --> 00:16:40,399 Santa Barbara, where she was wait listed as a backup, she had communications 229 00:16:40,679 --> 00:16:44,879 or also they can let you in undeclared, so she could get called off 230 00:16:44,879 --> 00:16:48,279 the wait list and just be told she's undeclared, which would be fine. 231 00:16:48,320 --> 00:16:51,879 It's fine with her, right So it's just annoying. But you know what, 232 00:16:52,240 --> 00:16:56,000 let's talk about on a on a lighter note, attitude. Attitude, 233 00:16:56,240 --> 00:17:03,639 Yes, Attitude. Natalia's love her buttery soft sheets. 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Ye all, it's it's a lot 258 00:18:47,759 --> 00:18:53,200 of it is pure pressure. I just don't know. I think I don't 259 00:18:53,240 --> 00:18:56,279 know because I haven't seen Santa Cruz even well, I mean, you know, 260 00:18:56,400 --> 00:19:00,119 she might go there and she just might get a feel for it and 261 00:19:00,200 --> 00:19:03,319 go, oh my gosh, like this is this is great? You know, 262 00:19:03,559 --> 00:19:06,680 I sure she'll get an idea of what it's like, even though she's 263 00:19:06,720 --> 00:19:08,599 missing out on the other By the way, when do they don't you hate 264 00:19:08,640 --> 00:19:11,720 when you miss out on something? Now you got to be on the wait 265 00:19:11,799 --> 00:19:15,920 list. The story of my fucking life, and now it's come to bite 266 00:19:15,960 --> 00:19:18,720 me in the ass. I'm always that another thing later. Shouldn't of the 267 00:19:19,440 --> 00:19:25,079 the counselors get on that too, or no? What I mean, like, 268 00:19:25,240 --> 00:19:29,400 when it's time to sign up? I don't know. But this is 269 00:19:29,480 --> 00:19:32,759 this is me, This is me and Elbe now, yeah, this is 270 00:19:32,799 --> 00:19:34,559 me, Like, oh, this is going to be paying my electricity bill 271 00:19:34,720 --> 00:19:37,960 now it's been sitting on my desk for it. Oh, I'll pay this 272 00:19:38,000 --> 00:19:41,200 parking ticket, you know, I'll pay it tomorrow. Next thing. You 273 00:19:41,200 --> 00:19:45,240 know, you got a boot on your car exactly. I know that's always 274 00:19:45,279 --> 00:19:49,720 been my way. It's terrible. I know that. I've I've tried to, 275 00:19:49,880 --> 00:19:55,240 like, yeah, get things going a little sooner. I've gotten better. 276 00:19:55,599 --> 00:19:57,920 But there are certain things that you just you don't, yeah, go 277 00:19:59,119 --> 00:20:00,680 out of the weight, are gonna I'm gonna be Wait, you don't think 278 00:20:00,720 --> 00:20:03,559 that, You just mean, like, well, she's an admitted student, 279 00:20:03,759 --> 00:20:07,079 right, she should be able to get in. Yeah. Yeah, of 280 00:20:07,079 --> 00:20:08,359 course, of course she could go to Banana Slug Day. Why, right, 281 00:20:10,200 --> 00:20:12,720 I know, like, what the fuck it's ridiculous. Santa Cruz. 282 00:20:12,839 --> 00:20:18,079 Yeah, the Banana fudge Day. Fuck you and your nice weather. I 283 00:20:18,119 --> 00:20:21,480 went and saw Santa Cruise. You see sand Cruise when I want a college 284 00:20:21,519 --> 00:20:25,880 trip about? Yeah? Yeah, and uh I thought it was I thought 285 00:20:25,920 --> 00:20:29,319 it was lovely. It was. It was really nice, very um you 286 00:20:29,359 --> 00:20:33,519 know Nietscheri, it's always not She's she's more of the indoor type. Yeah, 287 00:20:33,519 --> 00:20:36,960 you know, yeah, she doesn't care. She's like she wants a 288 00:20:37,000 --> 00:20:41,279 target on her campus. Yes, that was her biggest impression. Impression, 289 00:20:41,480 --> 00:20:47,640 right, a freaking huge target here dedicated to the college. Yeah. Well, 290 00:20:47,680 --> 00:20:49,160 I liked it, but but yeah, maybe that maybe she won't. 291 00:20:49,759 --> 00:20:55,079 You're like an outdoorsy like your surfer. Yeah, yeah, I like that. 292 00:20:55,200 --> 00:20:57,200 I like to be in the fee the forest. It kind of feels 293 00:20:57,200 --> 00:21:00,440 like you're in the middle of the forest. What are your when you're walking 294 00:21:00,440 --> 00:21:04,160 around? I don't like trees. I don't want to hear birds chirping, 295 00:21:06,000 --> 00:21:07,680 like I want to be in a city. That's what she wants. Yeah, 296 00:21:07,680 --> 00:21:11,960 where is it? Is it like secluded or is it in there or 297 00:21:11,039 --> 00:21:15,119 is there like a town. It's kind of like you're by the beach. 298 00:21:15,279 --> 00:21:18,000 Yeah, no, it's not by the beach. That's not by the beach. 299 00:21:18,039 --> 00:21:22,119 I don't think so. Santa Cruz is a coastal city though, college 300 00:21:22,160 --> 00:21:25,200 I mean itself is I don't know. I don't know. You know, 301 00:21:25,240 --> 00:21:27,240 I tried to block out that entire trip that I took. I just tried 302 00:21:27,279 --> 00:21:34,759 to erase he went and there was no one from your school, right, 303 00:21:36,200 --> 00:21:38,440 Well, there was two trips. There was a West Coast and the East 304 00:21:38,440 --> 00:21:42,319 coast, and everybody went on the East coast, right, So then we 305 00:21:42,319 --> 00:21:45,559 were like, okay, well let's do the West coast one. And I 306 00:21:45,599 --> 00:21:48,839 was the only person from my school and everyone else had people from their school, 307 00:21:49,000 --> 00:21:52,680 so they were all hanging out with all their friends that they knew at 308 00:21:52,680 --> 00:21:56,960 their school. And I was just like it was like seven days, right, 309 00:21:57,160 --> 00:22:00,039 it was like it was more a big I don't think it was seven, 310 00:22:00,039 --> 00:22:03,640 but I think it was like three or four days. Like it was. 311 00:22:03,720 --> 00:22:06,519 It was a trip and you had to fly there, right, No, 312 00:22:06,559 --> 00:22:08,000 oh, no, you were here. Took a bus down south to 313 00:22:08,039 --> 00:22:14,559 San Diego and then all the way up north to like San Francisco and then 314 00:22:14,359 --> 00:22:18,799 down So which schools did you see? Um, like all the ucs, 315 00:22:18,319 --> 00:22:22,759 all of them, well a lot of them. Santa Barbara, San Diego, 316 00:22:22,680 --> 00:22:29,519 Santa Cruz. I think we stopped at Berkeley. Um we saw one 317 00:22:29,559 --> 00:22:36,759 in San Francisco. Um. Yeah, So Elbe went to Berkeley, she 318 00:22:36,839 --> 00:22:40,680 toured Berkeley, she toward Santa Barbara, she toured uh, San Diego. 319 00:22:41,480 --> 00:22:45,200 Not when did she get in None of the school She's like Santa Cruz, 320 00:22:45,319 --> 00:22:51,000 bfdan CUI did not visit. And Oregon we never got around too, because 321 00:22:51,000 --> 00:22:53,599 she was like, I'm not gonna really end up going to Oregon. Yeah, 322 00:22:53,640 --> 00:22:59,319 but now I think she's I mean, honestly, I'm like, I 323 00:22:59,319 --> 00:23:02,359 mean, I wish we could send her to Oregon because quite a few of 324 00:23:02,359 --> 00:23:04,359 her friends are going to go there. It's a beautiful school, did she 325 00:23:04,400 --> 00:23:10,160 get Ayre? It's well, yeah, but you have to pay loans back. 326 00:23:10,680 --> 00:23:12,519 And not only that, but she we would have to take out loans 327 00:23:14,359 --> 00:23:17,960 for two hundred thousand dollars because the kids aren't allowed to take out loans. 328 00:23:18,000 --> 00:23:22,720 Did you know that they can only take out like I feel like it's like 329 00:23:22,759 --> 00:23:26,640 seventy five hundred a year. Oh yeah, I think I yeah, yeah, 330 00:23:26,680 --> 00:23:30,119 that's not we have to pay for it. Although I don't understand these 331 00:23:30,119 --> 00:23:33,559 people that come out like well, also, I don't want LB coming out 332 00:23:33,559 --> 00:23:37,359 of college owing two hundred thousand dollars in student loans, Like that's insane. 333 00:23:37,359 --> 00:23:41,480 I don't even want her owing twenty thousand dollars. That's like, I mean, 334 00:23:41,519 --> 00:23:44,559 I've heard horror stories from people that like have that hanging over there. 335 00:23:44,920 --> 00:23:48,920 A lot of my current friends are still paying off student loans right now. 336 00:23:48,400 --> 00:23:52,359 That's a real thing, it is. Yeah, And also for what if 337 00:23:52,400 --> 00:23:55,519 she don't know what you're gonna do, Like, you don't know that you're 338 00:23:55,519 --> 00:23:59,079 going to come out of college already making big bucks as what a social worker, 339 00:23:59,119 --> 00:24:02,759 a psychologist. That's what she does, right, who spend the rest 340 00:24:02,799 --> 00:24:07,160 of her life trying to pay that off? Yeah, I don't think my 341 00:24:07,279 --> 00:24:11,119 sense is like I wish. I almost wish she was a little bit more 342 00:24:11,200 --> 00:24:15,839 like me in the way of just like a little more more hustler mentality, 343 00:24:15,880 --> 00:24:18,039 a little bit more like, Oh, I want to try this. I'm 344 00:24:18,119 --> 00:24:19,559 just gonna go try it. Right. But do you know how many times 345 00:24:19,599 --> 00:24:22,839 I was like, oh, but you should start a podcast with your friend. 346 00:24:22,960 --> 00:24:26,519 I know, what would we talk about. I'm like, I don't 347 00:24:26,519 --> 00:24:32,119 know. Being a teenager, she's like mom, can't know, and she 348 00:24:32,200 --> 00:24:34,720 doesn't have like a topic that you know. She's not like sunny, like 349 00:24:34,759 --> 00:24:40,200 into sports, and I don't know if she you know, Yeah, it's 350 00:24:40,200 --> 00:24:42,160 not like she writes. I mean she used to when she was younger. 351 00:24:42,200 --> 00:24:45,519 She was she loved to write, and she I think I used to tell 352 00:24:45,519 --> 00:24:48,680 you guys, she would she was like writing a novel and it was really 353 00:24:48,720 --> 00:24:53,160 good. But like somewhere along the line and I swear to God, like 354 00:24:53,279 --> 00:24:57,640 bringing back like the discussion with your dad, Kaylin. It's like people. 355 00:25:00,680 --> 00:25:06,000 The education system, in some ways I think robs the kids of a lot 356 00:25:06,039 --> 00:25:07,839 of that creativity. It's like we're teaching them these things, and yeah, 357 00:25:07,839 --> 00:25:11,680 I guess we're teaching them how to learn, but like in teaching kids, 358 00:25:11,720 --> 00:25:15,599 my kids are learning, um, you know, real specific ways of how 359 00:25:15,599 --> 00:25:18,920 to write an essay. And you know, by the way, I never 360 00:25:19,000 --> 00:25:23,960 really learned to write an essay, and yet all my sixth book, like 361 00:25:25,319 --> 00:25:27,960 I figured it out, you know what I mean. Like, but that's 362 00:25:29,000 --> 00:25:32,920 because I was allowed to be creative and because Zach I got a job working 363 00:25:32,960 --> 00:25:34,880 in television and you enjoyed it. I loved it, and I got to 364 00:25:34,920 --> 00:25:40,200 write comedy right from the gate. I now have to learn how to write. 365 00:25:40,240 --> 00:25:45,079 Like here, we're this really boring type of writing first right right? 366 00:25:45,119 --> 00:25:48,799 No, I know, looks like what Michael was being was telling us. 367 00:25:48,839 --> 00:25:52,079 It's like, you know, you find what it is if you and if 368 00:25:52,119 --> 00:25:57,160 you're enjoying it. You know that's sometimes maybe you waste too much time at 369 00:25:57,200 --> 00:26:00,400 college and maybe there's something else I don't know, you know, I mean, 370 00:26:00,440 --> 00:26:04,359 I know that Elbie's favorite class right now and always has been is the 371 00:26:04,359 --> 00:26:07,640 creative writing, which she did all last year and she's doing all this year, 372 00:26:07,920 --> 00:26:11,519 and that is more I think her speed. It's like writing prompts, 373 00:26:11,880 --> 00:26:15,680 and she's always gotten the most excited about that. But I don't think she 374 00:26:15,839 --> 00:26:18,880 thinks of even though I'm a writer, I don't think she thinks of writing 375 00:26:18,880 --> 00:26:23,039 as like a career she could go into. I think because school kind of 376 00:26:23,160 --> 00:26:27,039 sucked that out of her so much. If they make everything so boring, 377 00:26:27,359 --> 00:26:30,279 right, I feel bad for like, well, you're honor and Sadie in 378 00:26:30,319 --> 00:26:33,720 the same way. Yeah, but you're a writer. I mean, maybe 379 00:26:33,759 --> 00:26:37,119 you can encourage her and to Yeah. And I did horrible in school. 380 00:26:37,240 --> 00:26:41,640 I did horrible in high school. I was remembering. I know we've talked 381 00:26:41,640 --> 00:26:48,319 about this. I took all general ed classes. I remember that. My 382 00:26:48,400 --> 00:26:51,160 mom at one point was like, well, like, I think you should 383 00:26:51,160 --> 00:26:53,400 be taking like at least honors English because you always do well in English. 384 00:26:53,519 --> 00:27:00,200 That was like my subject in junior high, not middle school. Called it 385 00:27:00,279 --> 00:27:04,039 junior high and junior high I was. I had come from la where I 386 00:27:04,079 --> 00:27:11,720 went to a very airy, fairy um elementary school. Yeah right, very 387 00:27:11,759 --> 00:27:15,240 much like your high school. Very progressive. We call our teachers by their 388 00:27:15,240 --> 00:27:18,400 first names. We did learn, of course, math and history and social 389 00:27:18,400 --> 00:27:22,799 studies and all that stuff, but it was um. It was just a 390 00:27:22,839 --> 00:27:27,240 different way of learning, and I learned a lot. So when I went 391 00:27:27,279 --> 00:27:32,039 to junior high in Spokane, Washington, I was way ahead of all these 392 00:27:32,240 --> 00:27:36,039 things, right, So I think I told you they did like a spelling 393 00:27:36,079 --> 00:27:38,480 bee, and I was like, how are these people are able to sell 394 00:27:38,559 --> 00:27:44,480 these really easy words? So I was killing it in the spelling b I 395 00:27:44,519 --> 00:27:48,039 won like the whole school spelling bee, and then kids hated me for that. 396 00:27:48,079 --> 00:27:51,440 They thought I was like a show off. I was like, well, 397 00:27:51,559 --> 00:27:53,519 I didn't even think I was showing off, Like these words are easy, 398 00:27:53,920 --> 00:28:00,279 right, So so I slid through junior high eight days, but I 399 00:28:00,440 --> 00:28:04,359 never studied. I didn't do homework. I was like, it was too 400 00:28:04,400 --> 00:28:08,680 smart for these people. Then I hit high school and I was like or 401 00:28:11,559 --> 00:28:15,519 because all of a sudden, it was like the math got a lot harder 402 00:28:15,559 --> 00:28:18,200 and you had to pay attention in class and you couldn't just be like, 403 00:28:18,200 --> 00:28:21,480 oh, I'm too smart for all you motherfucker's right, and it was like 404 00:28:21,519 --> 00:28:25,039 you had to do homework, which I was very offended by the idea of 405 00:28:25,119 --> 00:28:29,240 I hated homework doing homework, so I just kind of didn't blew it off. 406 00:28:29,480 --> 00:28:32,000 And then as soon as things got too hard for me, and I 407 00:28:32,039 --> 00:28:34,519 didn't understand what was going on. Like in math, I was just like, 408 00:28:36,000 --> 00:28:37,359 well, I don't understand it, and I don't like this feeling that 409 00:28:37,400 --> 00:28:41,920 I don't understand, and nobody and you know, home life was not good, 410 00:28:41,200 --> 00:28:45,519 right, nobody was getting me a tutor. Same with me, I 411 00:28:45,599 --> 00:28:48,079 did the same thing. Nobody cared whether I was doing well. They just 412 00:28:48,119 --> 00:28:52,359 wanted me to do better and thought that I was just lazy and fucking off. 413 00:28:53,119 --> 00:28:56,839 But the truth was I got panicked. I thought I was dumb and 414 00:28:56,960 --> 00:29:02,960 was like did not understand math and didn't understand a lot of stuff and maybe 415 00:29:03,039 --> 00:29:06,200 had a bit of add you know. Yeah, it was like had trouble 416 00:29:06,200 --> 00:29:08,839 focusing and paying attention, and if the class was boring, I was like 417 00:29:10,240 --> 00:29:14,599 checked out. I'm checked out. And I see that with my own kids, 418 00:29:14,759 --> 00:29:17,559 and I take a much different approach with them, you know. But 419 00:29:17,720 --> 00:29:19,119 for me, I was just kind of like, well, okay, then 420 00:29:19,200 --> 00:29:23,240 fuck it, I'm not doing it right. So I would literally sit there 421 00:29:23,519 --> 00:29:26,519 and get a test in math which I would not have studied for it, 422 00:29:26,559 --> 00:29:30,759 and I couldn't remember the formulas. Remember the story I told you where I 423 00:29:30,759 --> 00:29:33,000 wrote the formula in my hand and caught cheating. Yeah, but if I 424 00:29:33,000 --> 00:29:37,000 couldn't do that, then I would just be like, well, I don't 425 00:29:37,079 --> 00:29:41,559 get it. So I had this sort of like fake chip on my shoulder 426 00:29:41,640 --> 00:29:44,079 like well, fuck you, I don't care, right, And that was 427 00:29:44,119 --> 00:29:47,119 my attitude, and I would not care and I would not fill out a 428 00:29:47,119 --> 00:29:51,160 single answer, and then my teacher hated me and would just be like really 429 00:29:51,559 --> 00:29:55,279 okay and write a big zero on my test and show it to the class. 430 00:29:55,359 --> 00:29:59,480 And I just got a really, really worsi worse attitude. And then 431 00:29:59,480 --> 00:30:03,359 the only classes that I passed or did did fine in were ones it came 432 00:30:03,680 --> 00:30:07,599 that were interesting. Teenager in the law, I think I told you I 433 00:30:07,680 --> 00:30:11,200 took that class. I took a psychology class, killed it got a because 434 00:30:11,200 --> 00:30:15,599 I love I thought. But every other class I really struggled. And then 435 00:30:15,720 --> 00:30:21,200 math I just had fail. Yeah, And so I ended up only graduating 436 00:30:21,279 --> 00:30:26,920 high school because I took a remedial math and like, the thing is I 437 00:30:26,960 --> 00:30:30,240 just didn't learn to Oh. So what I was going to say is I 438 00:30:30,279 --> 00:30:34,640 was like, honors classes, are you high? Like? And my parents 439 00:30:34,640 --> 00:30:38,039 were high a lot, but I was, So I took one honors class. 440 00:30:38,039 --> 00:30:42,400 I took honors English and it was so boring, like we had to 441 00:30:42,440 --> 00:30:47,359 read out of like literature. Like I remember reading, okay, this story 442 00:30:47,359 --> 00:30:52,640 by um Hemingway, yeah, the Old Man in the Sea or whatever. 443 00:30:52,759 --> 00:30:56,440 Yeah, those there would be like excerpts or pieces, and I remember just 444 00:30:56,519 --> 00:31:00,160 going, oh my god, I'm dying of boredom, Like, do you 445 00:31:00,160 --> 00:31:03,240 have anything written in like this century right for me? And I just I 446 00:31:03,359 --> 00:31:07,880 ended up dropping out, dropping back down. I was like, I can't, 447 00:31:07,039 --> 00:31:11,119 I can't. I was getting a C in Honors English, so I 448 00:31:11,160 --> 00:31:14,160 just I was like, remember when English was easier for me? Right? 449 00:31:14,319 --> 00:31:18,200 So I just went to regular English? Yeah, Like I was yea, 450 00:31:18,559 --> 00:31:23,480 yeah, that big of a no getter, right, And yet I'm a 451 00:31:23,559 --> 00:31:29,960 writer, right because I read and because I liked it enough to overcome, 452 00:31:30,720 --> 00:31:37,240 and because I didn't go to college and get more drowning for I didn't think 453 00:31:37,279 --> 00:31:40,440 that. Back to what Michael was saying, yeah, yeah that it could 454 00:31:40,440 --> 00:31:42,799 skiff you if you're It depends on the person. It depends on their what 455 00:31:44,000 --> 00:31:48,880 creativity, you know, what they want to do. I feel like I'm 456 00:31:48,880 --> 00:31:57,880 worried that Elb like worked so hard at studying and you know, being academic 457 00:31:57,960 --> 00:32:01,720 and getting her reward and getting good grades and then to find out that that 458 00:32:01,759 --> 00:32:06,039 didn't really pay off for her, and that maybe she could have just been 459 00:32:06,079 --> 00:32:09,680 like more following her dreams and enjoying writing and doing things on the side besides 460 00:32:09,920 --> 00:32:15,160 drowning and homework every day. I wonder if she's just feeling like, well, 461 00:32:15,200 --> 00:32:16,359 I don't know. Now I don't even get to go to a college 462 00:32:16,359 --> 00:32:20,160 I really wanted to go to, Like, so what is the point of 463 00:32:20,279 --> 00:32:23,200 going? And like, I don't know. I mean, you gotta take 464 00:32:23,200 --> 00:32:28,119 her and see how she likes it, go test it out. That's what 465 00:32:28,119 --> 00:32:30,279 we're gonna do. When you go. 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Oh yeah, that's gonna be fun of Love is Blind, 484 00:33:54,720 --> 00:34:00,359 Love is Mine. We're gonna it's live. And I think me if 485 00:34:00,400 --> 00:34:01,839 I'm wrong, And I was saying this to my friend Jody, the one 486 00:34:01,839 --> 00:34:06,319 that set up set this all up. I think that this is the second 487 00:34:06,640 --> 00:34:10,559 Netflix live event. The first one was Chris Rock That's what I was thinking. 488 00:34:10,719 --> 00:34:15,440 Netflix doesn't do live events. I know, And I gotta tell you. 489 00:34:15,800 --> 00:34:20,639 I'm a tiny bit bummed about it because I was kind of hoping that 490 00:34:20,800 --> 00:34:23,119 they would be taping it where they would kind of go long and we'd hear, 491 00:34:23,199 --> 00:34:25,719 like, you know, they do it taping like a like what you 492 00:34:25,800 --> 00:34:30,840 hear the Real Housewives taping are like where it goes like three hours and you 493 00:34:30,920 --> 00:34:34,920 just hear all the tea and then they only then they have to go edit 494 00:34:34,960 --> 00:34:36,880 it. But we're like, oh, we don't. You don't have to 495 00:34:37,000 --> 00:34:38,840 edit for us, right because we saw it all live. Yeah, and 496 00:34:38,840 --> 00:34:43,480 then we have tea to spill. That's right. No, No, but 497 00:34:43,519 --> 00:34:46,519 we but we're gonna record, aren't we recording a show with Dylan and Patrick 498 00:34:47,000 --> 00:34:52,480 um for Bad TV? After but where we can't air it until whatever, 499 00:34:52,599 --> 00:35:00,079 until we can. Now the last episodes are gonna drop on Friday. We 500 00:35:00,159 --> 00:35:01,440 got to make sure. We got to make sure we're up to date. 501 00:35:01,519 --> 00:35:06,480 It's just one. There's just one more, right, No there, I 502 00:35:06,519 --> 00:35:08,719 thought I was looking at him yesterday. Well, they haven't had any They've 503 00:35:08,719 --> 00:35:15,280 only started one wedding, so they only did the one wedding with Micah and 504 00:35:15,360 --> 00:35:22,760 Pop. No, with Chelsea and Kwame and Chelsea. That's what I do. 505 00:35:22,480 --> 00:35:25,400 And then we don't know what Kwame's gonna say, but we haven't done 506 00:35:25,400 --> 00:35:29,360 any of the other weddings yet. Right, well, how long did the 507 00:35:29,360 --> 00:35:32,079 weddings normally take. I don't know. I've never seen the show before before 508 00:35:32,079 --> 00:35:36,079 getting into it this season, which, well, they take a little while. 509 00:35:36,199 --> 00:35:38,199 The show's only one hour. There's gonna there's gonna be at least two 510 00:35:38,199 --> 00:35:43,079 episodes left. I'm pretty sure. Yeah, yeah, yeah, definitely not. 511 00:35:43,159 --> 00:35:47,880 Do you think Kwa's gonna say? I think well, I was going 512 00:35:47,960 --> 00:35:52,440 back and forth. So you've been watching it? Huh, Yeah, you 513 00:35:52,440 --> 00:35:57,400 guys got me on the show, which I again, I'm watching a lot 514 00:35:57,400 --> 00:36:00,119 more reality TV these days. But they would never never was I ever like, 515 00:36:00,159 --> 00:36:02,719 oh, I want to check out that Love is Blind show. After 516 00:36:02,800 --> 00:36:07,199 hearing you and Dylan and Patrick just talking about I was like, Okay, 517 00:36:07,199 --> 00:36:12,559 I'm gonna check it out. And I got through the first three episodes in 518 00:36:12,599 --> 00:36:15,039 the pod It's like, okay, there's something there. But I was kind 519 00:36:15,039 --> 00:36:16,880 of just on my phone for a lot of it. It wasn't until afterwards, 520 00:36:17,000 --> 00:36:20,880 yes said I was like, oh, this show is great. And 521 00:36:20,960 --> 00:36:25,360 they start like, right life that other people that they were flirting with, 522 00:36:25,960 --> 00:36:29,519 and they start throwing them in at parties, like here, you were flirting 523 00:36:29,559 --> 00:36:32,559 with this person, why don't you go join this hang out? Yeah? 524 00:36:32,559 --> 00:36:36,679 Oh this show is yeah really good. Yeah, because I could see that 525 00:36:36,760 --> 00:36:38,320 for a few episodes. Yeah, the pot see there, you like, 526 00:36:38,360 --> 00:36:43,039 Wendy's not into it, Jody's not. And I think it's because I think 527 00:36:43,079 --> 00:36:46,039 the pod thing turns people off. It's it's the Amy didn't like the pods 528 00:36:46,079 --> 00:36:50,280 either. Yeah. I think it's kind of like laborious. You know, 529 00:36:50,320 --> 00:36:52,800 it's like all right, this guy's it's like this girl. All right, 530 00:36:52,840 --> 00:36:55,360 just meet everybody already and get going. Well. See, the show is 531 00:36:55,440 --> 00:37:00,000 so similar to Married at First Sight it is, which is a great show. 532 00:37:00,239 --> 00:37:04,760 The problem with Love at First Sight is that each episode is two hours, 533 00:37:05,000 --> 00:37:07,960 so there's so much filler. The thing that Love is Blind does well 534 00:37:07,159 --> 00:37:10,320 is they just eliminate all that filler and they just like get to the point, 535 00:37:10,440 --> 00:37:14,679 which is, here's these two people that are thrown together. Right, 536 00:37:14,760 --> 00:37:17,280 But it's the same, it's the same idea, except that the different only 537 00:37:17,320 --> 00:37:22,639 differences that they meet and they're picking their mate, right, whereas Love Married 538 00:37:22,639 --> 00:37:25,440 at First Sight is arranged marriage, So this is you've kind of picked the 539 00:37:25,480 --> 00:37:30,039 person, but you can't see them, which changes everything. It's true. 540 00:37:30,360 --> 00:37:34,559 But yeah, when they you know, when Kwame and Mica started flirting in 541 00:37:34,599 --> 00:37:36,840 the in Mexico, I was like, oh, okay, yeah, okay, 542 00:37:36,880 --> 00:37:38,400 this show is good. I'm watching it. I'm hooked. Yeah, 543 00:37:38,400 --> 00:37:43,719 I'm on it now yea. So yeah, so what do you think is 544 00:37:43,719 --> 00:37:46,599 going to say? So what do they do with the weddings? Is it 545 00:37:46,679 --> 00:37:50,719 like, oh, they either show up to the wedding and getting married or 546 00:37:50,760 --> 00:37:53,159 they say like I'm backing out. Is that how it works? Oh? 547 00:37:53,199 --> 00:37:59,599 So they all show up, okay, except for uh, well, what's 548 00:37:59,639 --> 00:38:05,320 their it's uh Jacquelina. Yes, Jacquelina is not showing up for the wedding. 549 00:38:05,599 --> 00:38:07,760 She didn't show up driving. Yeah, but the rest of them they 550 00:38:07,800 --> 00:38:12,639 show up and then they ask I don't know how they determine who they ask, 551 00:38:12,800 --> 00:38:15,880 but then they say they do the vows and they have to stand there 552 00:38:15,920 --> 00:38:19,440 and then the one person says it's so do you so and so take and 553 00:38:19,480 --> 00:38:22,760 then they either say I do or they say I don't. Right, Oh, 554 00:38:22,760 --> 00:38:25,480 and they'll just leave them. Oh, then that person who got the 555 00:38:25,519 --> 00:38:30,599 person who the person who says I don't, the other person who just got 556 00:38:30,719 --> 00:38:36,199 dumped? Who just got don't It usually runs off like into yeah, they 557 00:38:36,199 --> 00:38:39,480 do their their vows and then but I think I think Quami's gonna say no 558 00:38:39,559 --> 00:38:45,599 because because it's if you look at the history, I feel like the first 559 00:38:45,840 --> 00:38:51,840 couple that goes up that they show break up. Oh really think from in 560 00:38:51,880 --> 00:38:55,960 the past, I'm pretty sure it's usually they don't work out, then they 561 00:38:57,000 --> 00:39:02,320 have the couple that's gonna work out next, and then yeah, Tiffany, 562 00:39:04,079 --> 00:39:07,239 they'll be second. Yeah, that's my prediction. They're gonna yeah, but 563 00:39:07,280 --> 00:39:10,159 they're gonna work out, they'll be second. But what do you think is 564 00:39:10,519 --> 00:39:15,000 was the um? Do you think it was just kind of a red herring 565 00:39:15,239 --> 00:39:17,960 when they had when Tiffany was like just wearing her clothes and and Brett's going, 566 00:39:19,320 --> 00:39:22,519 this is not how it's supposed to be in the coming attractions, freaking 567 00:39:22,559 --> 00:39:25,679 out going, this is not how things were supposed to go. And Tiffany's 568 00:39:25,719 --> 00:39:30,719 crying like on their wedding day, like wearing wearing a pair of ripped jeans. 569 00:39:31,039 --> 00:39:35,800 Oh, I didn't see that wearing ripped jeans. She's just wearing like 570 00:39:35,880 --> 00:39:38,800 street clothes in like the hotel room. I think I don't think it has 571 00:39:38,800 --> 00:39:44,239 to do with those two. It seems to me like something locate, something 572 00:39:44,280 --> 00:39:45,880 probably went wrong. I don't know. I don't think it has to do 573 00:39:45,960 --> 00:39:51,199 with them breaking up. I have this not supposed to happen, meaning maybe 574 00:39:51,400 --> 00:39:55,079 family members. I don't know. Oh, and did show up something something 575 00:39:55,719 --> 00:40:00,480 Okay, not not their relationship. But they're trying to tea He doesn't make 576 00:40:00,519 --> 00:40:02,760 us think that, right, I got you love well. I feel like 577 00:40:04,760 --> 00:40:09,800 going off of last season with Raven and Ska, where it really seemed like 578 00:40:09,880 --> 00:40:15,559 he was gonna say yes, I feel like that it's a similar vibe with 579 00:40:15,199 --> 00:40:22,440 h Quame because he's acting like he's into it, but I think he doesn't 580 00:40:22,440 --> 00:40:27,639 seem super into it. Well yeah, but I think he's playing. I 581 00:40:27,679 --> 00:40:30,840 think he's trying. He knows he's on camera, and I think that he 582 00:40:30,039 --> 00:40:34,440 feels like and I think he does care about her, I really do. 583 00:40:34,800 --> 00:40:37,159 But I don't think he's scared. I think get scared. I think I 584 00:40:37,199 --> 00:40:40,760 think he got scared of a commitment. And I hate to say it, 585 00:40:40,760 --> 00:40:45,159 but I think she came on a little too strong for him. She's constantly 586 00:40:45,199 --> 00:40:46,840 like, I love you, I love you, I love you, I 587 00:40:46,880 --> 00:40:49,840 love you. You know I'm here from you know. I'm here from you 588 00:40:49,880 --> 00:40:52,079 know. I'm here from you you know. It's like, you know, 589 00:40:52,239 --> 00:40:55,039 I think, and I think that's but that one scene where she kept feeding 590 00:40:55,119 --> 00:41:00,599 him strawberry, he was like, God good, I don't want anymore. 591 00:41:00,679 --> 00:41:04,800 That's what I'm But I think that he does. I think he does care 592 00:41:04,840 --> 00:41:08,559 for her. He might say because this happens where they don't get married but 593 00:41:08,599 --> 00:41:14,679 then they end up dating, they might end updating. I think he's either 594 00:41:14,760 --> 00:41:17,400 going to say no or he's gonna say yes, and it's not going to 595 00:41:17,440 --> 00:41:22,480 work out because he's gonna say yes because his sister's there, but he has 596 00:41:22,519 --> 00:41:25,280 some excites to say no. He might his sister was she was great, 597 00:41:25,559 --> 00:41:30,360 wasn't she what was her name? Barbara? I think so, yeah, 598 00:41:30,360 --> 00:41:32,559 Oh she's the best. Was great. But the only reason I think he 599 00:41:32,639 --> 00:41:37,519 might say yes is because she was just going like, I will kill you 600 00:41:37,639 --> 00:41:40,039 if you don't say. I feel like it might be a misdirect that he's 601 00:41:40,119 --> 00:41:45,199 acting a little overwhelmed by it. I feel like he's throwing out all of 602 00:41:45,199 --> 00:41:47,760 these like I don't know, I'm compromising too much, right, And I 603 00:41:47,800 --> 00:41:52,159 think he might surprise us all and be like, no, I'm really yes, 604 00:41:52,280 --> 00:41:55,800 I'm into it. I love you. I'm willing to compromise. That's 605 00:41:55,800 --> 00:41:59,880 what I'm thinking. It might be a misdirect. But but then again, 606 00:42:00,119 --> 00:42:02,880 I don't know, because SK, I thought was totally into it, and 607 00:42:02,920 --> 00:42:07,039 then he was like no because I don't want to do. The thing that 608 00:42:07,079 --> 00:42:10,800 I was thinking with the Eska thing was like sk was like no because my 609 00:42:10,880 --> 00:42:15,639 family can't be here, and like I need more time. So I was 610 00:42:15,679 --> 00:42:19,079 thinking maybe Quame was going to be like, it's not the right time right 611 00:42:19,320 --> 00:42:22,199 because my mom's not here and I really want her approval and all those like 612 00:42:22,360 --> 00:42:25,719 that's why I think maybe he might want to date. I don't know. 613 00:42:25,960 --> 00:42:30,400 I don't know. Ka frecking cheated on her at the end, oh I 614 00:42:30,480 --> 00:42:35,159 know, and they got back together. They started dating, and then that 615 00:42:35,280 --> 00:42:38,280 was a heartbreaking ending. Yeah last year season, Yeah, but it was 616 00:42:38,320 --> 00:42:43,199 such a meaningless sorry, my phone's buzzing. It was such a meaningless um 617 00:42:44,239 --> 00:42:50,000 finale for Love is Blind last season because so much stuff happened afterwards, But 618 00:42:50,079 --> 00:42:52,159 it was like, why are remember it was the more should happened after the 619 00:42:52,159 --> 00:42:55,400 altar or whatever they kept showing. They showed all of this, these scenes 620 00:42:55,440 --> 00:42:59,159 of sk and Raven, and it was like, guys, we already know 621 00:42:59,199 --> 00:43:02,679 they're not together anymore, that he cheated again. Yeah, yeah, but 622 00:43:02,800 --> 00:43:07,440 what do you think is going to happen with Paul and Micah. That's a 623 00:43:07,480 --> 00:43:14,960 wild card. They don't seem super connected to me. No, I don't 624 00:43:14,960 --> 00:43:17,159 think she likes him. No, But then why is she being like, 625 00:43:17,320 --> 00:43:21,639 oh my god, I love you, I love you camera when you're away 626 00:43:21,679 --> 00:43:24,159 from me. I was there? Why on the camera? I think for 627 00:43:24,280 --> 00:43:29,280 the camera. I think she's a fake bitch. I don't like her. 628 00:43:29,320 --> 00:43:34,840 Her friends gotta go. Oh god, good lord God. If I was 629 00:43:34,880 --> 00:43:38,639 her, I would be like, uh, the dress, trying the dress, 630 00:43:38,719 --> 00:43:44,000 trying onto the dresses is canceled this Saturday, it's next Saturday. I 631 00:43:44,000 --> 00:43:46,440 would throw her off because I would not want her on camera anymore. I 632 00:43:46,599 --> 00:43:52,960 just don't like this. For you so dumb, It's so dumb. But 633 00:43:52,480 --> 00:43:57,119 no, I don't. I don't think. I think that he seems to 634 00:43:57,119 --> 00:44:00,639 me genuinely likes her. And I think he feels that she's not gonna I 635 00:44:00,719 --> 00:44:04,599 think he feels that she's not into it. And I hope he's smart enough, 636 00:44:05,760 --> 00:44:09,000 right, And I hope he's smart enough to see that he doesn't like 637 00:44:09,159 --> 00:44:14,760 I mean, he's the scientist, yeah, but he's not really into like 638 00:44:14,800 --> 00:44:17,639 the smart women. Now go for any smarty pants. No, and he 639 00:44:17,679 --> 00:44:22,800 should have gone for what's her name Bliss? Bliss. Paul should have gone 640 00:44:22,840 --> 00:44:30,360 for Bliss, Oh my god, saw. Yeah. If you remember when 641 00:44:30,360 --> 00:44:36,039 they're in the pods, Kwamie is also wanting Mica, and he comes back 642 00:44:36,079 --> 00:44:38,239 and starts talking about her, and he like, Paul's like, oh, 643 00:44:38,079 --> 00:44:40,719 I gotta go now, I gotta do right now. So he like rushes 644 00:44:40,760 --> 00:44:44,280 into it. And then it's like, Okay, you rushed into it, 645 00:44:44,320 --> 00:44:47,480 and now I don't think you too, are right right now? Okay? 646 00:44:47,480 --> 00:44:52,199 And then who else? Bliss? His dad? Oh blisten Zach. Are 647 00:44:52,239 --> 00:44:54,280 they gonna say They're gonna say yeah? I think I think they're gonna say 648 00:44:54,360 --> 00:44:59,800 yes. Zach is so intent by the way. I mean, I like 649 00:45:00,039 --> 00:45:01,920 him because he's a nerdy type guy. I like him too. I feel 650 00:45:01,920 --> 00:45:07,119 like he's our type. Totally. Yeah, I would pick him. We 651 00:45:07,159 --> 00:45:09,280 would have both gone for him. I would have been super excited if that's 652 00:45:09,280 --> 00:45:13,400 who. If that who was who I picked in the pod too, I 653 00:45:13,400 --> 00:45:15,440 would have been like, hey, yeah, I didn't understand why all the 654 00:45:15,480 --> 00:45:22,119 chicks hated him when he went to Mexico. Yeah, like jack Jackie, 655 00:45:22,199 --> 00:45:23,559 she was like, I don't like his ass. I don't want to be 656 00:45:23,679 --> 00:45:28,800 next to him. I don't he's weird, like oh Jackie. Yeah, 657 00:45:28,840 --> 00:45:31,280 and she's screwed up by the way. Marshall was too sweet for her. 658 00:45:31,679 --> 00:45:37,480 Oh that broke my heart. Marshall, if that broke my het tried very 659 00:45:37,599 --> 00:45:42,159 hard for her. Oh yeah, and she just is broken And I'm sorry. 660 00:45:42,239 --> 00:45:45,960 I'm gonna this is gonna be unpopular opinion here. But when he was 661 00:45:45,039 --> 00:45:50,119 like, you're basically called her a project, and I know she got so 662 00:45:50,199 --> 00:45:52,719 mad about that. People were all like in an uproar about it. But 663 00:45:52,880 --> 00:45:57,840 I kind of understood what he meant. I feel like she's she made herself 664 00:45:57,880 --> 00:46:00,679 seem that way, right. She said over and over how damage she is 665 00:46:00,719 --> 00:46:05,000 and she doesn't know, and like she's got all these family problems. And 666 00:46:05,360 --> 00:46:09,559 I think what he was saying is you're a work in progress. I understand. 667 00:46:10,159 --> 00:46:14,000 I didn't expect you to be perfect when I met you, Like I'm 668 00:46:14,079 --> 00:46:16,559 here, I want to be the guy that's stable for you. It helps 669 00:46:16,559 --> 00:46:20,880 you heal, right, Now, do I think that's a great thing. 670 00:46:21,000 --> 00:46:22,719 No, I don't. I don't think you go with somebody because you're like, 671 00:46:22,760 --> 00:46:27,519 hopefully you'll eventually be better. But I don't think he meant it like 672 00:46:28,159 --> 00:46:30,760 you're kind of stupid, so I'm gonna be with you. Well, hopefully 673 00:46:30,760 --> 00:46:32,800 i'll send you to college and you know, now get an education. He 674 00:46:32,800 --> 00:46:37,480 didn't mean it like that. He meant you're fucked up. He want I 675 00:46:37,519 --> 00:46:42,079 think you're a good person. I want to be anyway, and I think 676 00:46:42,159 --> 00:46:45,480 you know you're working on yourself. But she's not working on herself now. 677 00:46:45,519 --> 00:46:49,079 She's not give a full give a fuck, especially if she likes that jackass 678 00:46:49,119 --> 00:46:52,440 with the weird ear yeah whatever, his name was haliflower e califlower ear. 679 00:46:52,599 --> 00:46:59,760 Yeah. Um, but yeah, I think Bliss and Zach. Okay, 680 00:46:59,800 --> 00:47:04,519 but here here goes. Here goes one more unpopular opinion. I didn't think 681 00:47:04,599 --> 00:47:07,880 Josh was that bad. And here's why. Do you remember when they're in 682 00:47:07,920 --> 00:47:12,559 the pods and uh, obviously you remember this the show from four years ago? 683 00:47:12,599 --> 00:47:16,000 Do you remember this episode? So when Marshall finds out, when she's 684 00:47:16,039 --> 00:47:20,519 like, well, there's this other guy who's really like telling me that he's 685 00:47:20,679 --> 00:47:23,920 that the thought of you proposing to me makes him sick and whatever. She's 686 00:47:23,960 --> 00:47:28,719 playing the two guys against each other, and then Marshall gets all riled up. 687 00:47:28,920 --> 00:47:31,320 He's like, ah, that's disgusting. I'm gonna go talk to him. 688 00:47:31,360 --> 00:47:34,679 And like Marshall's all like, I'm gonna go fight this guy. He's 689 00:47:34,679 --> 00:47:37,960 acting like it, right, And then he's over in the like the kitchen 690 00:47:37,000 --> 00:47:40,800 area like where the cupcakes were made, right, And then m Josh is 691 00:47:40,840 --> 00:47:45,079 just over like by a table, kind of just chilling, right, and 692 00:47:45,119 --> 00:47:47,880 then Marshall's like giving him really dirty looks like and then he's like, hey, 693 00:47:49,719 --> 00:47:53,639 so uh you like my girl? Right? Like now remember this. 694 00:47:53,880 --> 00:47:58,519 So here's the thing. They're all on the same show, right, they 695 00:47:58,559 --> 00:48:01,400 all have equal access to these to each other. They're all still having dates 696 00:48:01,440 --> 00:48:05,559 in the pods. So I don't know what made Marshall think that, like 697 00:48:06,079 --> 00:48:08,920 Jackie belongs to him and like another guy can't like her. Right, So 698 00:48:09,000 --> 00:48:15,800 Marshall's coming in real hot right, his being esteemed right, So so Josh 699 00:48:15,840 --> 00:48:20,280 I thought Marshall's like confrontational with him, and he's like he's all mad and 700 00:48:20,280 --> 00:48:23,480 he goes, oh you know, and he goes and Josh is so calm 701 00:48:23,480 --> 00:48:25,920 about it. He goes, I mean yeah, like, yeah, I 702 00:48:25,960 --> 00:48:29,639 like her. I mean we've had some dates and yeah, I caught feelings. 703 00:48:30,400 --> 00:48:35,239 And Marshall's like, whoa yeah blah blah blah. He's like kind of 704 00:48:35,239 --> 00:48:37,840 trying to start something with him, and Josh just like, okay, I 705 00:48:37,880 --> 00:48:43,039 mean, Marshall, he doesn't take the bait, and Marshall's mad, and 706 00:48:43,079 --> 00:48:45,920 then he goes, whoa, you know one of us is you know you 707 00:48:45,960 --> 00:48:50,199 could really get your feelings hurt or something, and Josh goes, okay, 708 00:48:50,239 --> 00:48:52,320 yeah, right, what happened? Right? And then when Marshall goes and 709 00:48:52,360 --> 00:48:55,800 proposes to her and she says yes, Josh doesn't do anything. He doesn't 710 00:48:55,800 --> 00:48:59,960 go like what the fuck right? Right, Like he just like okay, 711 00:49:00,000 --> 00:49:02,280 he's bummed, right, And then he tries to talk to her later, 712 00:49:02,840 --> 00:49:08,239 but like and maybe that's not cool, but like the producers obviously sent him 713 00:49:08,280 --> 00:49:12,199 in there. At that party, when Josh comes in and he's like tries 714 00:49:12,239 --> 00:49:15,320 to talk to My point is at no point did Josh act like, yeah, 715 00:49:15,440 --> 00:49:20,519 tried to fight him or like yell or have any kind of confrontation. 716 00:49:20,880 --> 00:49:22,519 So I kind of be cool with him at that party, which was just 717 00:49:22,559 --> 00:49:25,280 I don't know if he was drunk, but it was a very weird interaction 718 00:49:25,480 --> 00:49:28,840 when he walks up to Marshall, He's like, hey, hey, we're 719 00:49:28,840 --> 00:49:30,159 cool. Right, We're cool, and like he's kind of like, you 720 00:49:30,199 --> 00:49:32,800 know, giving him a high five. Right. That was very weird. 721 00:49:34,840 --> 00:49:37,000 But maybe he was just drunk. I'm not saying he's great either, but 722 00:49:37,159 --> 00:49:40,079 everybody who's like, oh my god, he's the worst. He's a toxic 723 00:49:40,159 --> 00:49:44,679 male and age. I wasn't getting that really either. Yeah. I just 724 00:49:44,719 --> 00:49:49,480 thought he was drunk that time he showed up at the at the bar when 725 00:49:49,480 --> 00:49:52,280 she was in a bad mood. Yeah, she came late. When is 726 00:49:52,280 --> 00:49:53,760 she not in a bad mood? Yeah, that's true. She's always passing. 727 00:49:55,239 --> 00:50:00,119 Um, I got friends waiting for me at my condo by the way. 728 00:50:00,119 --> 00:50:05,000 All right, yeah listen, but before we leave, let's just say 729 00:50:05,079 --> 00:50:09,440 him to our our Nikki Collier's husband, Joseph Callier. He's a private practice 730 00:50:09,519 --> 00:50:15,039 Chapter seven bankruptcy attorney in the La County and surrounding counties. He does he 731 00:50:15,119 --> 00:50:19,480 does a sliding fee scale. So you want to file bankruptcy, why not 732 00:50:19,800 --> 00:50:22,639 use the husband of a big time listener of our show? Why not? 733 00:50:22,800 --> 00:50:28,559 Use Joseph and you can find him at Joseph Collier Law dot com. Okay, 734 00:50:28,679 --> 00:50:30,119 or email him directly. Tell me you heard about him through our show 735 00:50:30,400 --> 00:50:36,039 and you're broke. Okay. And last, but not least, go check 736 00:50:36,079 --> 00:50:40,159 out the charity that Lynnette and I are going to, probably Lynette's. I 737 00:50:40,199 --> 00:50:46,920 am for sure going to a fundraiser event for Laura Numeroff wrote, if you 738 00:50:46,960 --> 00:50:51,800 give him mouse a cookie, she's building libraries, helping build libraries. She's 739 00:50:51,840 --> 00:50:57,599 working with this foundation and just look up join our Village dot org and see 740 00:50:57,599 --> 00:51:00,800 what they do. It's really cool. All right, thank you everybody. 741 00:51:00,800 --> 00:51:07,599 Thanks Kaylin your parent. Now, don't off it up, lettin' go