1 00:00:00,120 --> 00:00:06,679 When your old career gives you lemons throwing some ice mix in some vodka colored 2 00:00:06,679 --> 00:00:12,679 a podcast from the Mac of All Trade Studio in Fairport and driven by Victor 3 00:00:12,759 --> 00:00:28,480 Chrysler Dots jeep Ram. It's Billified the Bill Moran Podcast. Well, hello 4 00:00:28,640 --> 00:00:32,280 and welcome. Thanks for getting your pot on, Thanks for telling a friend. 5 00:00:32,359 --> 00:00:36,439 That's how we spread the word about the pirate ship. Tonight, We're 6 00:00:36,479 --> 00:00:39,439 honored, Kevin, Yes, yes we are. Stephanie with a lot of 7 00:00:39,439 --> 00:00:43,200 people have asked, where has Stephanie been. Stephanie's been busy? Can you 8 00:00:43,240 --> 00:00:45,520 earn my mic? It seems like, no, you're fine. It took 9 00:00:45,560 --> 00:00:47,960 me a while to work this one through, but I got it done then. 10 00:00:48,119 --> 00:00:52,079 And then I hear Stephanie's moms in town, and so seventy's mom agreed 11 00:00:52,119 --> 00:00:55,560 to come on and went, that's it. So I sat down for a 12 00:00:55,560 --> 00:00:58,840 little bit today and I was thinking about it. I go, Stephanie, 13 00:00:58,880 --> 00:01:02,320 what do I think of with Stephanie? I went funny, I said wild, 14 00:01:02,359 --> 00:01:06,040 But I don't mean that in that way, honest, secure, strong, 15 00:01:06,120 --> 00:01:07,359 independent, smart, fierce, And I go, as a mom, 16 00:01:07,439 --> 00:01:11,000 you got to be pretty proud of her, extremely Yeah, you have to 17 00:01:11,040 --> 00:01:15,799 be because I went, that's somebody who I mean, you got a fiercely 18 00:01:15,959 --> 00:01:23,200 independent, strong woman here, yes, which is yeah. Because I thought 19 00:01:23,200 --> 00:01:25,760 about that, I go, boy, that's something that you always hear. 20 00:01:25,879 --> 00:01:27,120 You know, I have friends, I have no I have three sons, 21 00:01:27,159 --> 00:01:30,480 I have no daughters. I don't know what that what that world is like 22 00:01:30,519 --> 00:01:34,319 at all. And I was significantly older than my sister by five years, 23 00:01:34,400 --> 00:01:37,760 so I you know, there was a not I mean, I'm certainly close 24 00:01:37,799 --> 00:01:40,159 with her, but I don't even a little girl. And then there was 25 00:01:40,200 --> 00:01:44,599 a younger brother after that. So uh. But you will always hear about 26 00:01:44,599 --> 00:01:48,840 trying to raise strong women that would happen. I always that was the one 27 00:01:48,840 --> 00:01:51,159 thing that always stuck out. I'm like, damn, man, that you've 28 00:01:51,159 --> 00:02:04,879 got to be proud of that herself. That you ever compared me to Kevin? 29 00:02:06,719 --> 00:02:08,919 Well, what has impressed you most about your daughter? Oh? And 30 00:02:09,039 --> 00:02:12,840 she puts her mind to something, she's doing it, and she's got it 31 00:02:12,879 --> 00:02:15,719 and no problem. She was, you know, the only woman that I 32 00:02:15,800 --> 00:02:19,360 know that opened the State Farms Insurance when she I'm going to do this, 33 00:02:19,479 --> 00:02:23,879 and I'm a young girl. You open your own office at age twenty three, 34 00:02:23,919 --> 00:02:25,639 I was the youngest state farm agent in the nation. Yes, I 35 00:02:25,639 --> 00:02:30,199 had employees the whole nine. You did, I did. Yeah, I 36 00:02:30,240 --> 00:02:32,759 didn't know that, Yeah I did. Yeah. And so when she says 37 00:02:32,800 --> 00:02:37,479 that to you, we just know we're in trouble. No, but I 38 00:02:37,479 --> 00:02:40,439 mean, it's happening. But at the same time, it's also supportive, 39 00:02:40,560 --> 00:02:45,280 right, because you got to know your kid in a way like you never 40 00:02:45,319 --> 00:02:49,759 want to discourage. I would say, you know, because the one thing 41 00:02:49,840 --> 00:02:53,319 like, I'm watching my kids, right and I have a son who he 42 00:02:53,680 --> 00:02:55,919 went to a private school here, and then when he was going to go 43 00:02:55,960 --> 00:02:59,919 to college, I really thought he'd go to Saint Jose It was another Jesu 44 00:03:00,039 --> 00:03:01,479 at school and I really liked it. I thought it would be a good 45 00:03:01,479 --> 00:03:06,159 fit for him. And then Roberts Wesleyan, which is a very small college 46 00:03:06,199 --> 00:03:08,400 here, was kind of coming after him for a track thing and I'm going, 47 00:03:08,879 --> 00:03:12,520 you were good, but you weren't great. You earned this. You 48 00:03:12,560 --> 00:03:15,719 know. That guy now is a senior and he's probably going to break the 49 00:03:15,759 --> 00:03:20,759 school record in the weight throw, which is a big thing, and he's 50 00:03:21,120 --> 00:03:23,479 jacked. And one of the things I Thanksgiving I want to say to these 51 00:03:23,639 --> 00:03:30,199 all three of my boys is you write your own story, and you wrote 52 00:03:30,240 --> 00:03:32,400 your own story. I didn't think I mean, I didn't think you were 53 00:03:32,400 --> 00:03:36,719 a great athlete or a good enough athlete. And now you're about to break 54 00:03:36,719 --> 00:03:38,960 the school record. Don't ever listen to me, you know what I mean? 55 00:03:39,400 --> 00:03:44,240 And I think like all of us give advice from a standpoint of we 56 00:03:44,280 --> 00:03:46,639 love you, we care about you, we want to see the best for 57 00:03:46,680 --> 00:03:49,240 you, and we don't see this. And that's where I'll stay on this 58 00:03:49,319 --> 00:03:52,280 podcast all the time. If you have an idea to do something, tell 59 00:03:52,360 --> 00:03:55,120 no one, because they're going to give you advice that they think is helping 60 00:03:55,159 --> 00:04:00,159 you, and instead it's probably gonna shit all over your dream, if you 61 00:04:00,199 --> 00:04:01,599 know what I'm saying, right, I mean in a way, but I 62 00:04:01,599 --> 00:04:04,759 always thought, like, like, honestly, I think that that you need 63 00:04:04,800 --> 00:04:09,560 to hear that stuff because uh, sometimes life throws your curves, it does, 64 00:04:09,840 --> 00:04:13,879 right, And I always think too because we Kevin said to me, 65 00:04:14,240 --> 00:04:15,720 Hey, Stephanie and her mom are going to come in, I think we 66 00:04:15,720 --> 00:04:19,160 should play what my mom doesn't know? Oh, and you know what I 67 00:04:19,199 --> 00:04:23,240 said, and she knows everything right, And I went, is that a 68 00:04:23,319 --> 00:04:28,759 different mother daughter relationship than any of your friends? Have. I'm just open. 69 00:04:28,959 --> 00:04:31,240 I know you are everyone in my life. You are I choose to 70 00:04:31,240 --> 00:04:34,160 live, and even my mother. I mean, well there are times where 71 00:04:34,160 --> 00:04:39,399 you go, Stephanie, please, I don't want to hear this. Yes, 72 00:04:39,639 --> 00:04:46,199 yes, a lot of times. There's a lot of things we've never 73 00:04:46,240 --> 00:04:50,160 told her daddy either, Yeah. Yeah, but but yeah, but you 74 00:04:50,279 --> 00:04:56,759 knew you were like the gatekeeper. That's just that's a close relationship that now 75 00:04:57,079 --> 00:05:00,920 you have a younger sister, Yes, and does she the same way as 76 00:05:00,959 --> 00:05:04,639 open you think, not as open open? Yeah, because I was thinking, 77 00:05:04,680 --> 00:05:08,560 like I don't know many people. Look, I know, mother daughter 78 00:05:08,600 --> 00:05:13,600 relationships are are different and sometimes complicated, right for some people, For some 79 00:05:14,759 --> 00:05:17,480 I see it really close. Were lucky. Yeah yeah, but but is 80 00:05:17,519 --> 00:05:21,800 that a lot of you just being so open and she's open to yeah, 81 00:05:23,160 --> 00:05:27,120 bringing stuff up? Were the apple from the tree? Yeah, so we 82 00:05:27,120 --> 00:05:36,319 should play what my dad doesn't know? What's the best advice your mom ever 83 00:05:36,360 --> 00:05:41,519 gave you? Any think of anything that she told you along the way, 84 00:05:41,600 --> 00:05:46,720 or maybe you gave her the self respect with not just sleeping around all that 85 00:05:46,839 --> 00:05:54,480 stemmed from her. Okay, yeah, to be a pig and that was 86 00:05:54,519 --> 00:05:59,000 all from her. Yeah, you've been very open even on the past podcast 87 00:05:59,079 --> 00:06:02,720 about yeah, making sure that you don't well it is, it's self respect. 88 00:06:02,920 --> 00:06:06,879 I can see where I think the problem is when you're young, like, 89 00:06:08,000 --> 00:06:12,360 you know, without sounding gross, sex feels good and so if that's 90 00:06:12,399 --> 00:06:14,959 going to happen, and then it feels like that's what you do when someone 91 00:06:15,120 --> 00:06:17,279 likes you when you're young, and I think that's what I tell you what 92 00:06:17,319 --> 00:06:24,680 she said about my friends who slept around. So I was fourteen, and 93 00:06:24,759 --> 00:06:27,360 stop me. If I already told this story, I don't who cares, 94 00:06:27,800 --> 00:06:30,439 let's share it again. It fourteen, by theos, Honey, you're probably 95 00:06:30,519 --> 00:06:33,800 the age some of your friends might have started doing stuff with guys, you 96 00:06:33,839 --> 00:06:38,639 know, hand jobs, blow jobs, sex whatever. Did she say it? 97 00:06:38,639 --> 00:06:42,079 Wait wait she say it like that, Oh god, the greatest my 98 00:06:42,160 --> 00:06:46,720 parents those words didn't exist. Yeah, but that's smart, smart, And 99 00:06:46,800 --> 00:06:50,240 I come on and she's okay, I guess you don't want to talk about 100 00:06:50,240 --> 00:06:55,879 it. So I know you're listening to me. But I ask your girlfriends 101 00:06:56,000 --> 00:07:00,480 if the guys cared, if if they had an orgasm or did they Yeah, 102 00:07:01,879 --> 00:07:05,399 do they care about them or just themselves? So I was like, 103 00:07:05,399 --> 00:07:08,560 eh, mom, no, no, So I went back and I did 104 00:07:08,639 --> 00:07:12,519 ask all my girlfriends, Hey, when you had gave Scott that blowjob? 105 00:07:12,600 --> 00:07:15,240 Didn't you did he try to make you? Did he care? No, 106 00:07:15,360 --> 00:07:17,480 didn't try. No, didn't care. And I started asking everyone the different 107 00:07:17,480 --> 00:07:21,040 schools because I worked it like a diner and asking everybody. Nobody was coming, 108 00:07:21,199 --> 00:07:25,879 No guys cared. Did your own survey? I did, and the 109 00:07:27,199 --> 00:07:30,600 street the step and I was like, okay. So I came back and 110 00:07:30,600 --> 00:07:32,959 I was like, just so you know, Mom, like you were you 111 00:07:33,000 --> 00:07:36,000 were right. I asked everybody. I did like a sample of like thirty 112 00:07:36,000 --> 00:07:41,240 six and nobody putt together. She says, yeah, and she said, 113 00:07:41,240 --> 00:07:43,920 if a man really loves you and really cares, it's not a pig. 114 00:07:44,000 --> 00:07:46,399 You do it the right way. Ideally, wait till you're married, you 115 00:07:46,439 --> 00:07:48,279 know. She told me to worry about STDs, but she's like, if 116 00:07:48,279 --> 00:07:50,800 you're going to do something, you are the man that cares. If you're 117 00:07:50,839 --> 00:07:55,920 taken care of that way, you know, you just won't be used. 118 00:07:56,439 --> 00:07:59,000 She's like, there's nothing worse, like make sure you're getting something out of 119 00:07:59,079 --> 00:08:03,480 it too, And it just opened up my eyes to the world of men, 120 00:08:03,759 --> 00:08:09,959 especially teenage boys. Sure and no, they are like remember the game 121 00:08:09,000 --> 00:08:15,079 where do you try to take the hand and go hey, because there's it's 122 00:08:15,120 --> 00:08:18,160 in one track mind it is and she's like, are they buying your dinner? 123 00:08:18,199 --> 00:08:20,199 Do they say I love you? Do they cuddle? Do they care? 124 00:08:20,319 --> 00:08:26,519 Do they maybe try to like talk, have conversations? Yeah, without 125 00:08:26,920 --> 00:08:30,040 I don't want to step too far into any one direction. So just understand 126 00:08:30,040 --> 00:08:33,279 that. But you have sons too. I mean I have sons. I 127 00:08:33,360 --> 00:08:37,120 worry in the world we live in today, things going too far. And 128 00:08:37,159 --> 00:08:45,000 then sometimes you know, there isn't as much as ah innocent until proven guilty. 129 00:08:45,039 --> 00:08:48,759 It's guilty until proven innocent in a lot of these situations now, and 130 00:08:48,840 --> 00:08:52,279 so learning that, Hey man, either you know there's a give take here, 131 00:08:52,440 --> 00:08:58,120 or there's also a really really mind your matters and keep your hormones under 132 00:08:58,159 --> 00:09:01,919 control. You got to make care, keep a bridle putting governor on those 133 00:09:01,960 --> 00:09:03,600 hormones. Son. Yeah, but you know what I mean. I mean 134 00:09:03,639 --> 00:09:07,519 that's a tough one. That's a tough herd. Advice is powerful and I 135 00:09:07,519 --> 00:09:09,720 think it can help a lot of young girls. Yeah, I think it 136 00:09:09,759 --> 00:09:13,080 is. You should write up nothing worse than just getting used, Like I 137 00:09:13,120 --> 00:09:16,679 have girlfriends that'll go home with a guy and they get nothing out of it. 138 00:09:16,720 --> 00:09:20,399 Their number went up, they have std scared, who knows what happened? 139 00:09:20,759 --> 00:09:24,720 And like, where's like, even if they did something, why aren't 140 00:09:24,720 --> 00:09:26,200 they enjoying them? Well, here's the other side of that too. It's 141 00:09:26,240 --> 00:09:31,240 like because you're probably talking about well, I'll say that I think that there's 142 00:09:31,279 --> 00:09:35,120 always they enjoy it, but I think they start to feel bad about themselves. 143 00:09:35,679 --> 00:09:39,360 Yes, of course, and they start to question themselves. And I 144 00:09:39,399 --> 00:09:43,600 think if you're if you're talking about some divorced women, I think a lot 145 00:09:43,679 --> 00:09:46,720 of times when you were married, you made that marriage. That relationship may 146 00:09:46,720 --> 00:09:50,320 not have been good, but you like the you like the idea of having 147 00:09:50,360 --> 00:09:54,879 somebody, so you'll give up a little bit more. And I think to 148 00:09:54,960 --> 00:10:01,039 your point, it almost feels like women have been was they groomed, but 149 00:10:01,320 --> 00:10:05,600 raised raised to feel as though they you know, they'll just put up with 150 00:10:05,720 --> 00:10:09,320 whatever, right because if you're not getting I mean, I never even thought 151 00:10:09,360 --> 00:10:13,480 of what you said as a kid, I never did, never thought of 152 00:10:13,639 --> 00:10:16,600 I used to tell my nephew that also. Yeah, I told him, 153 00:10:16,639 --> 00:10:18,840 I said, you be respectful. Two girls care what you do. But 154 00:10:18,919 --> 00:10:24,480 that's where it begins. Yeah, respect, don't just use people your peat 155 00:10:24,480 --> 00:10:30,039 people fall off. I told them that's basically what I said that. Anyways, 156 00:10:31,039 --> 00:10:35,840 did you did you live in Unike your whole life? Yes? I 157 00:10:35,879 --> 00:10:37,799 did? You did? Ye o? And a ton of Skyler, very 158 00:10:37,840 --> 00:10:41,639 tiny, tiny town. Everybody. I think we're all related, every one 159 00:10:41,720 --> 00:10:48,399 of us, all right, And that's and how many generations do you think 160 00:10:48,399 --> 00:10:54,399 for you were there? I mean your family did they come there from my 161 00:10:54,519 --> 00:10:58,960 grandmother from England? You know, their family all came over and anything. 162 00:10:58,000 --> 00:11:05,559 I actually went to a place and I found out that I had a deed 163 00:11:05,480 --> 00:11:11,480 for Green Bay, Wisconsin. So when they did when the home settling, 164 00:11:11,000 --> 00:11:15,000 you know, you could homestead there and then they would give you the deed 165 00:11:15,039 --> 00:11:18,799 from President Polk. Wow, eighteen thirty five. What a nice piece of 166 00:11:18,840 --> 00:11:24,600 family history. Yeah, because I think somewhere most most of my families is 167 00:11:24,759 --> 00:11:31,399 Ireland. But then my dad's my maternal grandmother on my father's side, a 168 00:11:31,399 --> 00:11:33,799 lot of people came over in the sixteen hundreds. We have Civil War discharge 169 00:11:33,799 --> 00:11:37,519 papers from a relative, and that's kind of cool family history to have, 170 00:11:37,679 --> 00:11:41,720 right to have all that. I just never knew anybody because Utica used to 171 00:11:41,720 --> 00:11:48,440 be the joke. What was the sitcom? Do you remember the sitcom The 172 00:11:48,480 --> 00:11:52,000 Office? No, not the Office. There was another one and I think 173 00:11:52,000 --> 00:11:56,360 it was Jenny McCarthy and another girl. And there were two girls they were 174 00:11:56,480 --> 00:11:58,440 do you remember the one? Yes? They were from Utica, Yes, 175 00:11:58,600 --> 00:12:03,039 yes, Okay. Now I went out to Buffalo once and there's this guy 176 00:12:03,080 --> 00:12:07,480 playing, the older man playing the piano with a greasy wig on, and 177 00:12:07,480 --> 00:12:09,799 he goes, where are you girls from? I said, Utica. Yeah, 178 00:12:09,919 --> 00:12:13,639 that's where the Utica cast gets were made. And he's singing on the 179 00:12:13,639 --> 00:12:20,240 piano. It was mob City, Okay. Everyone came from Sanjo's Appiatos and 180 00:12:20,480 --> 00:12:26,000 that is like, you know, yeah, that's it. Well, when 181 00:12:26,000 --> 00:12:28,519 you drive like, I've never really been into in Utica, but I would 182 00:12:28,600 --> 00:12:33,919 drive by on the Throughway because I grew up down by Poughkeepsie, an immigrant 183 00:12:33,960 --> 00:12:37,919 town a lot. Yeah, but it looks nice. When you look down 184 00:12:37,960 --> 00:12:41,919 into the valley off the two Way, it looks like it's the best Italian 185 00:12:41,919 --> 00:12:48,679 food you ever could get, really, chicken riggies, everything they have Frankfurt 186 00:12:48,720 --> 00:12:52,159 has. That is that the third highest concentration of Italians in a town in 187 00:12:52,200 --> 00:12:56,639 the entire country, and that's what they have is they have restaurants, barber 188 00:12:56,679 --> 00:13:00,840 shops, dry cleaners, construction. It's very club beer. I think was 189 00:13:00,840 --> 00:13:03,159 the first brewery it opened back up after prohibition too, that's correct. It 190 00:13:03,200 --> 00:13:09,000 was beautiful club beer. Yeah yeah, is that still I was wondering if 191 00:13:09,039 --> 00:13:13,399 it was place you can get good food. So is that Matt's FX, 192 00:13:13,519 --> 00:13:16,000 right? They they're the ones who own it, right, Yeah? Is 193 00:13:16,039 --> 00:13:20,440 it just Matt's Yeah? Oh well it's Matt's Brewery, you know. Yeah, 194 00:13:20,679 --> 00:13:24,039 a cloud. You know, it's change the things. Because I remember 195 00:13:24,080 --> 00:13:28,159 having those guys on when I did radio and talking about going down and running 196 00:13:28,159 --> 00:13:31,960 the boiler making. Yeah, yeah, that's that's a cool looking race. 197 00:13:31,240 --> 00:13:35,039 I used to read about it and Runners magazine. I just never went and 198 00:13:35,039 --> 00:13:37,759 did it, but they had bands and stuff. It looked like a party. 199 00:13:37,080 --> 00:13:41,159 It was, yeah, there's not much to do, and then drinking 200 00:13:41,240 --> 00:13:45,919 afterwards. I mean they're just pounding down the hill. So what so you 201 00:13:46,159 --> 00:13:48,720 Okay? So I grew up in a really small I grew up in the 202 00:13:48,360 --> 00:13:52,559 largest school district in New York State per square mile, with the fewest amount 203 00:13:52,600 --> 00:13:56,759 of people. So it was like grade seven through twelve, you had like 204 00:13:56,759 --> 00:13:58,919 seven hundred kids in the building. Yeah, but it was a two hundred 205 00:14:00,919 --> 00:14:03,679 school district square miles school district, right, So in those rural areas, 206 00:14:03,919 --> 00:14:07,240 there was a lot of drinking that went on, and I had a lot 207 00:14:07,240 --> 00:14:09,720 of friends that were killed in car accidents and motorcycle accidents. Long time on 208 00:14:09,759 --> 00:14:13,080 a bus, yeah, at a long time in a bus. Now I'm 209 00:14:13,159 --> 00:14:16,159 about ten years older than you. But did you have by then? There 210 00:14:16,200 --> 00:14:20,200 was a lot of education, right, because I'm fifty two, so they 211 00:14:20,240 --> 00:14:24,080 had drinking age was twenty one when I was there, but when I was 212 00:14:24,120 --> 00:14:28,159 in seventh grade, some of the seniors, I think it was switching right 213 00:14:28,200 --> 00:14:31,919 around that time to twenty one, right, the mad had come out was 214 00:14:31,919 --> 00:14:35,279 really pushing. There was a lot of education. I was bars at sixteen, 215 00:14:35,879 --> 00:14:39,600 you were because the eighteen Yeah eighteen drinks, yeah, and so who 216 00:14:39,639 --> 00:14:41,480 cared? And if you had, if you were a pretty girl, they 217 00:14:41,519 --> 00:14:45,639 wanted you in there because these guys were coming in boobs. Yea, I 218 00:14:45,679 --> 00:14:52,720 know, no problem working. That's funny. But in those small town was 219 00:14:52,720 --> 00:14:56,039 there a lot of like we used to party field. I was a designated 220 00:14:56,080 --> 00:15:00,759 driver. I was always responsible. Really, why is that? Because I 221 00:14:58,840 --> 00:15:03,360 know I always want to make my parents proud. I want to be the 222 00:15:03,360 --> 00:15:05,240 smartest girl, you know. I wanted to be the one that was most 223 00:15:05,240 --> 00:15:09,840 successful. I always was was trying to do the right thing. Yeah, 224 00:15:09,360 --> 00:15:16,240 that's interesting. I would drive for my friends. I think I probably drank 225 00:15:16,279 --> 00:15:20,519 three times in my entire high school. Really, wow, that was it. 226 00:15:20,639 --> 00:15:24,919 Yeah, I partied so much in school. This is a true story 227 00:15:26,600 --> 00:15:31,000 that there was property damage done because a lot of people. We were ninety 228 00:15:31,000 --> 00:15:33,000 miles outside of Manhattan, so you'd have a lot of people by weekend homes 229 00:15:33,039 --> 00:15:37,879 and different things up there. So some some kids knew these people weren't around. 230 00:15:37,960 --> 00:15:41,480 They had a party. I did not go. I couldn't go. 231 00:15:41,879 --> 00:15:45,879 I had to watch my brother and sister. State police came to my house 232 00:15:46,440 --> 00:15:52,519 to question me about who was at the party because they knew that I knew 233 00:15:52,799 --> 00:15:56,320 every party every My father was so upset, but he was also man. 234 00:15:56,399 --> 00:16:00,799 He made the officer address me as William and because the guy goes, hey, 235 00:16:00,799 --> 00:16:02,799 listen, built no big deal, my father goes, you will address 236 00:16:02,840 --> 00:16:06,360 him as well. His name is really yeah, because my father goes, 237 00:16:06,519 --> 00:16:08,000 he said to me, after you your father's not dead, but why are 238 00:16:08,039 --> 00:16:11,519 you the one they're going to talk to. I wasn't at the party, 239 00:16:11,559 --> 00:16:15,919 but I knew everybody. You knew exactly. I knew every party that was 240 00:16:15,960 --> 00:16:19,799 going on, everything all the time. But I was never as responsible as 241 00:16:19,840 --> 00:16:23,279 you. I actually hosted some parties and wanted to drink at him. At 242 00:16:23,320 --> 00:16:26,799 your house, I got in trouble. People were throwing beer bottles and they 243 00:16:26,879 --> 00:16:33,919 chiped my dad's Harley. Oh, she was in Hawaii on a school shrip 244 00:16:33,960 --> 00:16:37,440 and that's the only reason why she's not dead. How did he find out? 245 00:16:37,919 --> 00:16:41,440 Because there was broken beer bottles in the concrete cracks. I cleaned it 246 00:16:41,519 --> 00:16:45,639 really well, but the cracks. My Dad's like, what's the shiny stuff? 247 00:16:45,200 --> 00:16:48,559 It looks like beer bottle, just a couple of shiny things. I 248 00:16:48,639 --> 00:16:52,120 must have messed, and then he lifted up the Harley case was chip. 249 00:16:52,440 --> 00:16:56,919 I was grounded for like a year, about a year, and I didn't 250 00:16:56,960 --> 00:16:59,159 drink at the party. I was trying to be responsible with my friends were 251 00:16:59,200 --> 00:17:03,679 sleeping over. But I wanted to have fun and I wasn't too far from 252 00:17:03,759 --> 00:17:07,400 your prom, so I bought her the dress for the prom and I said, 253 00:17:07,440 --> 00:17:10,759 listen, you can go to the prom. Everything's good. And I 254 00:17:10,799 --> 00:17:14,519 stood outside the door after everybody was going to a party, went time to 255 00:17:14,559 --> 00:17:18,079 come home. Now, I thought there was a worse punishment she could ever 256 00:17:18,160 --> 00:17:22,640 rich. So I got one. I got one almost as good, almost 257 00:17:22,680 --> 00:17:27,440 as good. Took a limo to the prom afterwards. I don't know how 258 00:17:27,480 --> 00:17:33,640 this happened, because this is actually terrible, but my buddy's dad was a 259 00:17:33,680 --> 00:17:37,920 state trooper. He and his mom split, but they split shortly after. 260 00:17:37,920 --> 00:17:45,519 His sister had a big party for her college graduation and two kids were killed 261 00:17:45,440 --> 00:17:49,119 from out of town going on a beer run. And one of my really 262 00:17:49,160 --> 00:17:55,039 good buddies was like, his brother lost scholarship and everything because he had a 263 00:17:55,079 --> 00:17:59,240 rehab for a year and all this stuff. Right, But that kid's mom 264 00:18:00,359 --> 00:18:03,680 she would host the prom after party. Okay, so she was taking everybody's 265 00:18:03,759 --> 00:18:07,920 keys. Now you would think that after having an experience like you had, 266 00:18:07,039 --> 00:18:11,359 you just wouldn't fucking around with that stuff at all. So she has that 267 00:18:11,400 --> 00:18:14,119 party, and I go with the limo, and then I take my date 268 00:18:14,279 --> 00:18:17,480 home and I go home to my house. My father finds out that I 269 00:18:17,519 --> 00:18:22,039 was at that party, and he wrote her a letter, a handwritten letter 270 00:18:22,079 --> 00:18:25,400 that said the next time you're gonna have a party, Basically, I'm paraphrasing 271 00:18:25,440 --> 00:18:26,960 here that you're going to serve minors, do not allow my son to get 272 00:18:26,960 --> 00:18:30,319 in. And that got around school like yeah. And I was a junior 273 00:18:30,599 --> 00:18:37,920 who had the reputation of yeah. But you know, again, all you're 274 00:18:37,920 --> 00:18:41,039 trying to do, like well, my father used to always say to me, 275 00:18:41,039 --> 00:18:41,960 I'm not here to ruin your good time. I'm just trying to keep 276 00:18:42,000 --> 00:18:45,680 you alive, right, I'm trying to keep you alive and that and that's 277 00:18:45,720 --> 00:18:48,079 it. And in these rural towns where there's not a lot to do, 278 00:18:48,200 --> 00:18:52,440 and I mean I go back now, it's like cart paths. Some of 279 00:18:52,440 --> 00:18:55,720 the roads. I don't know about where you guys lived, but it was 280 00:18:55,799 --> 00:18:59,640 cart paths. And I remember there was the Taconic State Parkway that ran through 281 00:18:59,640 --> 00:19:03,319 my neck of the woods. Was really like a two lane road, but 282 00:19:03,359 --> 00:19:07,559 everybody did sixty five. I raced a girl. She got off and got 283 00:19:07,599 --> 00:19:10,759 on the Taconic and I took the back roads. I was in her driveway 284 00:19:10,839 --> 00:19:12,319 leaning against my car by the time she got there. I had to be 285 00:19:12,400 --> 00:19:18,960 doing like eighty down these dark roads where a kid could have popped out on 286 00:19:19,000 --> 00:19:22,720 a bike or anything. I got drunk one time at my senior prom and 287 00:19:22,759 --> 00:19:27,200 didn't want my parents to know. So my buddy's older sister drove me to 288 00:19:27,240 --> 00:19:30,519 the end of my street and I go, let me drive up my street 289 00:19:32,200 --> 00:19:34,759 and so my parents won't know, and I come in. Oh no, 290 00:19:34,920 --> 00:19:37,839 my old man was ready to kill me because there are kids and anything else. 291 00:19:37,880 --> 00:19:41,119 It could have come out on a bike or anything. But I didn't 292 00:19:41,160 --> 00:19:45,400 have that same moral code you have. I mean I was wild. I 293 00:19:45,440 --> 00:19:48,640 was fun, but I tried to have some level of making them proud. 294 00:19:48,799 --> 00:19:53,240 Well wild in terms of would you just have a big personality, Yeah, 295 00:19:53,279 --> 00:19:56,640 i'd I'd be the sober one that people would think I was drinking. I 296 00:19:56,799 --> 00:20:00,640 wasn't. And the girls that had the three beers were sitting the like stiff, 297 00:20:00,200 --> 00:20:06,599 you know. Fun. Yeah, that's interesting. Now what I don't 298 00:20:06,599 --> 00:20:08,839 want to keep calling you Stephanie's mom, Sue, Sue. I'm sorry, 299 00:20:08,839 --> 00:20:14,400 so thank you, Sue. What what do you Your job is what you 300 00:20:14,400 --> 00:20:18,319 said it was, sugar, I'm making. I am a hairdresser and I 301 00:20:18,400 --> 00:20:22,839 had a customer come in once and say I need a Brazilian and I'm like, 302 00:20:22,920 --> 00:20:26,359 I don't know how to do a Brazilian, but I'll go to school 303 00:20:26,400 --> 00:20:32,920 I went and pound sugaring. Sugaring so sugar hair removal wax. They call 304 00:20:32,960 --> 00:20:37,279 it sugar wax. Okay, but I would never call it that because I've 305 00:20:37,279 --> 00:20:40,000 been doing it for twenty eight years. All Right, well, sugar wax. 306 00:20:40,039 --> 00:20:44,200 We'll take a moment and we'll find out about sugaring and the confessions that 307 00:20:44,279 --> 00:20:52,039 she gets in that room. 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H one classics because ulator idiot. Thanks 344 00:23:30,480 --> 00:23:33,880 Kevin can get better. You know, my husband's going to give me a 345 00:23:33,920 --> 00:23:40,359 little sugar shack to drive around sugar people so once so you could come to 346 00:23:40,400 --> 00:23:45,400 them a sugar shalls like parks from place and say sue sugar shack like a 347 00:23:45,480 --> 00:23:49,240 pop up sugar shack. You're like a waxing tinkerbell. So have you ever 348 00:23:49,319 --> 00:23:53,599 gotten? So you do? You've been a hairdresser your entire life? Well, 349 00:23:55,000 --> 00:24:00,119 thirty five thirty five years five to thirty six thirty I mean six t 350 00:24:00,480 --> 00:24:04,359 five? How old a bike? Forty? So what did you do prior 351 00:24:04,759 --> 00:24:08,039 five? Okay? And what did you do five to sixty five? I've 352 00:24:08,039 --> 00:24:12,440 been working, yeah, as a hairdresser. And then prior to that what 353 00:24:12,799 --> 00:24:17,799 sugar wrist? Sugar? Oh you kidding me? What my work before I 354 00:24:17,880 --> 00:24:19,599 was to stay at home mom? Okay, yeah, yeah, that's a 355 00:24:19,680 --> 00:24:23,079 lot. Yeah. How many? How many siblings do you have? It's 356 00:24:23,119 --> 00:24:27,640 a younger sister. Okay, yeah, that's still same street was overwhelming? 357 00:24:27,880 --> 00:24:33,720 Yeah to go out? Yes, Well that's the thing is you need you 358 00:24:33,799 --> 00:24:37,279 need, you need a dope conversation and stuff. Yes, And how many 359 00:24:37,319 --> 00:24:41,720 years have you been married? Then? I have been with my husband since 360 00:24:41,759 --> 00:24:48,680 fourteen years old and we've been wow, forty seven years? Has he Utica 361 00:24:48,799 --> 00:24:52,200 native as well? Down the road? Yeah? Down brother's best friend. 362 00:24:52,319 --> 00:24:56,440 Your brother's best friend. You're still in love and they flirt? Were You're 363 00:24:56,440 --> 00:24:57,720 the first one I got out of the big and out of the small town 364 00:24:57,759 --> 00:25:02,079 in the big city. Yeah, for you never came back and your sister 365 00:25:02,160 --> 00:25:04,759 still lives there. But it's kind of nice though, you know. That's 366 00:25:04,759 --> 00:25:10,160 one of the things. Like my siblings are all spread all over. Actually, 367 00:25:10,160 --> 00:25:11,839 my sister just moved and she lives in d C. But she had 368 00:25:11,880 --> 00:25:15,920 been in Denver. My brother was in Florida. Now he's in Maine, 369 00:25:15,400 --> 00:25:18,000 and then my mom's and running back. My dad's in Jersey. So everybody's 370 00:25:18,079 --> 00:25:22,359 kind of out, but everybody will be together for Thanksgiving. But there's something 371 00:25:22,359 --> 00:25:25,319 about even for you, it's not that far. It's like a two hours 372 00:25:25,880 --> 00:25:27,480 two hours, and I see my whole family, my aunt and uncles, 373 00:25:27,519 --> 00:25:32,799 everything. There's something nice about that. Scholarships for any school she wanted to 374 00:25:32,839 --> 00:25:36,720 go to, so she chose ri Tea. So I'm thinking two hours on 375 00:25:36,759 --> 00:25:40,400 the three way that's good. Yeah, that is because they had Almayer right 376 00:25:40,559 --> 00:25:44,240 or one down there. I was thinking of which would be the best commute, 377 00:25:44,200 --> 00:25:45,839 and I'm like, I kind of like a through way drive work at 378 00:25:45,839 --> 00:25:48,839 the back, you know, versus the back country road. So where were 379 00:25:48,880 --> 00:25:51,960 you where else did you go? Where were you looking at? I think 380 00:25:52,000 --> 00:25:57,119 Siena in Bortland. Yeah, yeah, yeah, then yeah, she's very 381 00:25:57,119 --> 00:26:03,079 smart. Yeah two hours ri I t was probably I would out your best 382 00:26:03,400 --> 00:26:11,000 took up space. She took up space. Yes, So I want to 383 00:26:11,000 --> 00:26:15,559 know about like, how how do you go from so someone says to you 384 00:26:15,640 --> 00:26:19,880 once I wanted Brazilian and then you decided here's an opportunity. I'll learn how 385 00:26:19,880 --> 00:26:22,759 to do this, especially in a small town. No one else did it. 386 00:26:22,799 --> 00:26:25,960 So she's like, I'm on it. Yeah, but I mean, 387 00:26:26,319 --> 00:26:30,039 how do you convince people that the well once word that's a word of mouth 388 00:26:30,039 --> 00:26:33,680 thing, right, yeah, because yeah, and that's even some people going, 389 00:26:33,720 --> 00:26:36,960 hey, man, wait, did I discover a new thing. I'm 390 00:26:36,960 --> 00:26:40,160 going to tell you something. I had people I live in Skyler or you 391 00:26:40,279 --> 00:26:42,720 to cow which is almost central New York State, all the way down to 392 00:26:42,799 --> 00:26:47,599 Oneonta, all the way up to Fort Drum. I mean, is therefore 393 00:26:47,680 --> 00:26:52,480 they drove oh yeah, Watertown, Syracuse in Albany, and I had two 394 00:26:52,559 --> 00:26:57,119 or three people come in from Long Island just for you, because because Long 395 00:26:57,160 --> 00:27:02,799 Island they had to have people that were except for use to do men. 396 00:27:03,759 --> 00:27:08,240 Oh a lot of my men clients came from all over Okay, I have 397 00:27:08,279 --> 00:27:14,079 a theory that a lot of times pubic hair style is dictated by porn, 398 00:27:15,440 --> 00:27:18,680 but I don't know. That was just a theory I always had because you 399 00:27:18,720 --> 00:27:23,400 would start to see no pubic hair on women in porn, and then it 400 00:27:23,519 --> 00:27:27,200 sort of became a mainstream. Well yeah, because you got the seventies porn. 401 00:27:27,559 --> 00:27:30,359 Yeah, the full bush. Right, when someone comes in like that, 402 00:27:30,440 --> 00:27:37,920 I asked him if they had sex lately? Do you still see some 403 00:27:37,960 --> 00:27:41,119 people like that? Yes, yes, yeah, young I think that's what 404 00:27:41,200 --> 00:27:48,880 broke my eyes. Churches by the strip with those people. But are they 405 00:27:48,960 --> 00:27:52,359 young people? No? I have older people. No, No, I 406 00:27:52,400 --> 00:27:56,599 meant with the big with the big bush, with the big uh. Oh 407 00:27:56,200 --> 00:27:59,920 you girl, that's what I mean a young girl. Yeah, that's surprise. 408 00:28:00,559 --> 00:28:02,759 Yeah, and that was the end of that. I'm a shame I 409 00:28:02,839 --> 00:28:04,599 knew. Now. Is it coming back though? That there's a little bit 410 00:28:04,640 --> 00:28:07,839 down there and that's what I'm say there is. Yeah, that's a nice 411 00:28:07,119 --> 00:28:11,599 year. I haven't seen what about men? So when did you? When 412 00:28:11,599 --> 00:28:17,559 did what year? Is? My curiosity? Was the first man that came 413 00:28:17,599 --> 00:28:19,839 to you? Oh, twenty eight years ago? Twenty eight years ago? 414 00:28:21,359 --> 00:28:25,720 Okay, so we're going back into like the ninety five. Yeah, and 415 00:28:25,759 --> 00:28:30,160 now because now look we we have a whole grooming product for down there, 416 00:28:30,240 --> 00:28:33,559 right, so that's the whole you know, manscaping has become a thing. 417 00:28:34,279 --> 00:28:37,440 I do feel that doesn't hurt at all, though, no it doesn't. 418 00:28:37,599 --> 00:28:41,839 Know. The waxing sad for my male customers because there's no one in this 419 00:28:42,039 --> 00:28:45,279 area that I've taught will touch a you know, do a guy. They 420 00:28:45,319 --> 00:28:51,559 won't know because I mean, you do ball the whole package. It's just 421 00:28:51,599 --> 00:28:55,880 awkward because because of that the guy or plus I'm old, you know, 422 00:28:55,960 --> 00:29:00,440 I'm sixty five, they're what thirty three or something like that, and you've 423 00:29:00,440 --> 00:29:03,960 got to hired on who cares. I don't really care. First swipe is 424 00:29:03,000 --> 00:29:11,480 gone. I got at it and not let it go. Mine just disappeared, 425 00:29:11,559 --> 00:29:18,039 I trust. Wow. So her business took off, yeah, oh 426 00:29:18,160 --> 00:29:22,039 yeah, word of mouth, and then she became like a confessional, you 427 00:29:22,079 --> 00:29:26,119 know, talk to people about their problems and how to help their marriage. 428 00:29:26,279 --> 00:29:27,559 And well that's what I was going to say. I think a lot of 429 00:29:27,599 --> 00:29:33,799 times hairdressers you almost I would almost say like you could go to school and 430 00:29:33,839 --> 00:29:37,640 get a therapy degree and open a hair salon and you may do even more 431 00:29:38,400 --> 00:29:44,319 better for your community than anything, because so many people just there's something about 432 00:29:44,319 --> 00:29:48,400 that you just I'm sure there are clients you've had for over twenty years the 433 00:29:48,440 --> 00:29:52,240 same Yeah, and you get to know them intimately in a way, right 434 00:29:52,359 --> 00:29:57,400 sure, and they tell you things in weddings. Yeah, and you probably 435 00:29:57,480 --> 00:30:02,480 never met the kid, right right, That's what I'm saying, Like you 436 00:30:02,599 --> 00:30:07,279 become like a member of their family. So what about what what are you 437 00:30:07,359 --> 00:30:11,359 talking about? Where she helped marriages and things? Well, because you know, 438 00:30:11,400 --> 00:30:15,680 they'll talk to me while my husband don't do this, or my haven't 439 00:30:15,759 --> 00:30:18,440 my wife in a year and I had one guy say, you know, 440 00:30:18,880 --> 00:30:21,559 I haven't had suck And I go, well, what are you doing about 441 00:30:21,559 --> 00:30:23,440 it? Are you calling her up in the middle of the day and saying, 442 00:30:23,440 --> 00:30:26,559 hey, I've been thinking about you or are you going home? Going 443 00:30:26,000 --> 00:30:32,240 fuck? I mean, there's a big difference in how you approach your wife. 444 00:30:33,039 --> 00:30:34,839 You know, when I was married, we kind of fell apart a 445 00:30:34,839 --> 00:30:37,920 little bit. What happened. She got kids, she's got kids, and 446 00:30:37,960 --> 00:30:41,160 he's doing this and I'm doing that, and like, oh, we need 447 00:30:41,160 --> 00:30:47,079 some alone time. I've always said that to my kids. You need to 448 00:30:47,160 --> 00:30:49,599 have a date at least once a month without any kids. You bring your 449 00:30:49,640 --> 00:30:53,720 kids to me, And that's what I did because it's important. What about 450 00:30:55,480 --> 00:30:59,559 Yeah, so in your own marriage, there was you who did that because 451 00:30:59,599 --> 00:31:03,200 most guys sort of want to take the lead in terms of that stuff from 452 00:31:03,240 --> 00:31:07,960 women. And I would think, you know, being in a little older, 453 00:31:07,079 --> 00:31:11,039 small town, he isn't gonna talk about feelings whole lot unless you will 454 00:31:11,200 --> 00:31:15,519 make it okay. Unless you make it okay, you understand what I'm saying, 455 00:31:15,519 --> 00:31:19,920 Like your husband may now have a very very wonderful relationship conversation that any 456 00:31:19,960 --> 00:31:22,839 guy, I know, it's got to be prodded or or they got to 457 00:31:22,880 --> 00:31:26,640 feel very safe. I'm just going to tell you one thing I said to 458 00:31:26,680 --> 00:31:32,279 my husband, Yeah, stop treating me like your fuck hole. Yeah yeah, 459 00:31:32,400 --> 00:31:37,119 yeah, And he just went, what Yeah, that's just gross. 460 00:31:37,200 --> 00:31:41,400 I go exactly right, and it changed. Yeah. Well, there's something 461 00:31:41,480 --> 00:31:45,720 I'm sure he is. I mean, I'm sure you know he's going to 462 00:31:45,759 --> 00:31:51,359 be told a couple of times, you know, But I think there's something 463 00:31:51,400 --> 00:31:53,400 about like, as you know, as an older guy myself, now you 464 00:31:53,559 --> 00:32:00,319 learn the importance of things like romance or not even roman it's not even the 465 00:32:00,359 --> 00:32:06,640 right word. But but I don't know. There's something about getting up and 466 00:32:06,680 --> 00:32:09,200 getting a bottle of water in the middle of night if you hear somebody coughing. 467 00:32:09,319 --> 00:32:14,200 It's just these little little things really do mean a lot. That a 468 00:32:14,240 --> 00:32:16,319 lot of times you're just like shit, shut up, you know. And 469 00:32:16,359 --> 00:32:22,119 that's and then that's where it begins to start to dissolve, right, that 470 00:32:22,119 --> 00:32:24,839 that stuff goes away. So when people would say things to you, then 471 00:32:25,799 --> 00:32:29,519 I off Mike, and I hope you don't mind if I bring this up. 472 00:32:29,519 --> 00:32:31,160 And if it is, you tell me no, go. But the 473 00:32:31,279 --> 00:32:36,000 sex toy thing, yeah, so what happened is you know it would then 474 00:32:36,119 --> 00:32:37,839 she talked to women. You know, when's the last time you had sex? 475 00:32:37,880 --> 00:32:40,960 And why are you dressing like that? You're so frumpy? Like want 476 00:32:42,000 --> 00:32:45,319 to eat healthy, try to exercise, maybe wear some linger. Have you 477 00:32:45,359 --> 00:32:46,720 ever give them a dance? What about buying a sex toy? What about 478 00:32:46,759 --> 00:32:50,119 redoing your hair? Come on, let's try something new. Get in my 479 00:32:50,160 --> 00:32:53,599 back room a book, when Cuba care? Do you have a seventies bush? 480 00:32:53,680 --> 00:32:57,279 Let's whax you up? Get you so, but you start to feel 481 00:32:57,319 --> 00:33:00,000 better about your women, right, anybody right? Start to feel better about 482 00:33:00,000 --> 00:33:04,680 yourself when you went. She started coaching them then like they'd be like, 483 00:33:04,680 --> 00:33:07,119 well, I don't want to go anywhere to buy a sex toy. So 484 00:33:07,160 --> 00:33:10,160 she was like, got the idea, I'll start selling them given the advice, 485 00:33:10,279 --> 00:33:13,839 And next thing you know, she had a side business with the sex 486 00:33:13,880 --> 00:33:15,960 toys, with the advice, and then she's saving marriages. And then you 487 00:33:16,000 --> 00:33:24,759 know instead of going instead of sex toys that a man can't produce what a 488 00:33:24,799 --> 00:33:30,319 little bunny can do. Right, It's that constant, constant thing. So 489 00:33:30,440 --> 00:33:36,880 if you're addicted to a little bunny, then you won't like it. Then 490 00:33:36,960 --> 00:33:39,359 you'll always have to have that little bunny with you. And I tell them 491 00:33:39,440 --> 00:33:44,680 try not to always use it, always use it. Yeah, but sometimes 492 00:33:44,480 --> 00:33:47,160 it can be an enhancer, especially if you haven't had it any year. 493 00:33:47,359 --> 00:33:51,640 It's a nice way to introduce, you know, some fun. Right. 494 00:33:51,799 --> 00:33:52,880 She makes a good point. You don't want to get addicted to it because 495 00:33:52,880 --> 00:33:58,119 it'll desensitize you. You. I'm sure you should have written a book or 496 00:33:58,880 --> 00:34:05,799 done some seriously because like you you could have been a TV talk show Central 497 00:34:05,839 --> 00:34:08,039 New York. You think they had, you could have done what Wayne and 498 00:34:08,079 --> 00:34:10,159 Garth did, but really helped people, you know what I mean, the 499 00:34:10,199 --> 00:34:15,840 cable access. I'm sure they had a guy who had MS and he was 500 00:34:15,960 --> 00:34:21,440 in the war and it was Agent Orange. Okay, So he came to 501 00:34:21,480 --> 00:34:25,199 me and he says, I can't my marriage is falling apart because I can't 502 00:34:25,199 --> 00:34:30,920 do anything. And I go, here you go, Merry Christmas. The 503 00:34:30,079 --> 00:34:34,800 two of them came back in. His wife and him came back in to 504 00:34:34,880 --> 00:34:38,039 hug me. The two of them, thank you for giving me our life 505 00:34:38,079 --> 00:34:44,000 back. All right, So how does this guy feel comfortable enough? Again, 506 00:34:44,039 --> 00:34:47,480 we're talking about guys. You do see what I'm saying. It's got 507 00:34:47,480 --> 00:34:52,039 to be you made people to feel comfortable. But how did you know to 508 00:34:52,280 --> 00:34:53,480 come to you? Because it was word was out that you were selling the 509 00:34:53,519 --> 00:34:58,000 sex toys in the shop. Yes, everybody, you know. I sometimes 510 00:34:58,000 --> 00:35:00,480 I had him out there until the kids came in. Then I had to 511 00:35:00,480 --> 00:35:07,679 put him in my sugar room and yeah, sugar so and this, yeah, 512 00:35:07,719 --> 00:35:10,000 because there's another way. So you were almost like a sex therapist then 513 00:35:10,039 --> 00:35:15,159 as well. Right, Oh, earlier I told you about my elderly gentleman 514 00:35:15,199 --> 00:35:19,159 who is seventy nine years old, but I've known him for five years. 515 00:35:19,159 --> 00:35:22,440 So let's give him to seventy five. Okay, okay, And he came 516 00:35:22,519 --> 00:35:28,239 in and he's a swinger and his wife had colon cancer and she has that 517 00:35:28,480 --> 00:35:32,679 poop bag. Yeah, the colossary bag. Round said please go, just 518 00:35:32,719 --> 00:35:37,920 don't embarrass me and I will always love you, but please don't embarrass me. 519 00:35:37,960 --> 00:35:40,679 So he went to a swinger bar and he goes, could you sugar 520 00:35:40,760 --> 00:35:45,800 me? I go, why you got all the way time out? So 521 00:35:45,360 --> 00:35:50,119 hang on, I got to figure this out. So he wasn't a swinger 522 00:35:50,440 --> 00:35:53,320 until his wife got ill. Yes, and then his wife said, I 523 00:35:53,360 --> 00:35:58,000 can't have sex anymore? Why I don't want to? And then this is 524 00:35:58,039 --> 00:36:00,440 bad and I'm embarrassed. And I'm sure the cossmy bag. I remember my 525 00:36:00,440 --> 00:36:05,079 grandfather had one. It can be yea, yeah, it's not exactly sexy. 526 00:36:05,239 --> 00:36:07,000 No it's not. It could be a bit of a turn off. 527 00:36:07,039 --> 00:36:09,880 I'm sure, but uh. And so she says, go and do that. 528 00:36:09,920 --> 00:36:13,480 And he comes to you and says, I need you to clean me 529 00:36:13,599 --> 00:36:16,400 up. Yeah, because I cut his hair, okay, and he knew 530 00:36:16,400 --> 00:36:20,239 that. I go. They call it the torture room. Yeah, so 531 00:36:20,320 --> 00:36:22,760 I got a little sign on my room torture room. Is he the oldest 532 00:36:22,760 --> 00:36:27,920 guy you've ever done, the heldless person you've ever done? Yeah, and 533 00:36:27,960 --> 00:36:32,440 so you got them all cleaned up. And then she has also told him, 534 00:36:32,599 --> 00:36:35,960 I said, you know, I don't know how many women you're with, 535 00:36:36,679 --> 00:36:39,159 but you know you got to watch it. Pepe, Let's cover it 536 00:36:39,280 --> 00:36:43,239 up, you know, just because you're not going to get anyone pregnant, 537 00:36:43,719 --> 00:36:45,400 you can get that he could Robert de Niro just dead. What do you 538 00:36:45,440 --> 00:36:51,840 mean, don't be a fool raptor time you're giving bad advice. Wow, 539 00:36:52,000 --> 00:36:53,559 I actually told him to cover it up. Yes, she did. She 540 00:36:53,599 --> 00:36:58,360 gave him good advice. So there's a swinger bar in you to go? 541 00:36:58,440 --> 00:37:00,199 Or was he going out of Syracuse? Oh? Yeah, No, I 542 00:37:00,239 --> 00:37:05,119 do believe that there's a lot. There was a whole. When I was 543 00:37:05,119 --> 00:37:08,599 in radio, they used to have a swingers magazine that went around and couples 544 00:37:08,639 --> 00:37:14,159 would advertise in this magazine. There was a magazine and we used to get 545 00:37:14,159 --> 00:37:16,719 it at the radio station, and you would see some people and there was 546 00:37:16,760 --> 00:37:22,480 a lot of three one five area code for Syracuse, Syracuse not there was 547 00:37:22,519 --> 00:37:28,079 a lot of that are crazy too? WHOA. When I worked in a 548 00:37:28,159 --> 00:37:31,039 hotel, I was the beverage and food manager. So I had to pull 549 00:37:31,119 --> 00:37:35,480 my young bartender out of there because there was just some crazy shit going on. 550 00:37:35,960 --> 00:37:38,199 I'm like, I don't want to be here, but I don't want 551 00:37:38,239 --> 00:37:43,360 to loss it either, so I had to go in and just sheer shit 552 00:37:43,440 --> 00:37:46,000 that was going on. When I was doing Mornings. After we said left 553 00:37:46,000 --> 00:37:50,239 CMF and I was doing Mornings with Tommy, we had a guy whould call 554 00:37:50,320 --> 00:37:52,960 up. He was Scott the Swinger. He would talk all about the swinger 555 00:37:52,039 --> 00:37:57,400 lifestyle. So they were having a meeting in the back room of tailors. 556 00:37:57,400 --> 00:38:01,920 Remember Taylor's was a bar, was there? Okay? It was usually I 557 00:38:02,000 --> 00:38:07,280 want to say older clientele only because it was probably people. I mean there 558 00:38:07,320 --> 00:38:10,039 was There was probably a guy in his seventies dancing on the dance floor that 559 00:38:10,199 --> 00:38:14,639 night. So we go in there and I felt like I was watching people 560 00:38:14,679 --> 00:38:16,559 at a zoo, you know what I mean? Well, no, because 561 00:38:16,599 --> 00:38:21,119 they were all swingers. So she went there to observe this. I felt 562 00:38:21,159 --> 00:38:22,800 a little bad. There was something about it that just didn't feel right to 563 00:38:22,840 --> 00:38:28,599 me. But something happened that I'll never forget this. All of a sudden, 564 00:38:28,920 --> 00:38:32,039 the guy who would call the radio show's wife just blows up on a 565 00:38:32,079 --> 00:38:37,639 guy, like starts just screaming and like yelling at him and all this stuff. 566 00:38:37,639 --> 00:38:39,639 And he's a big dude, and she's getting in his face. And 567 00:38:40,119 --> 00:38:45,639 the guy that we're with, guys, he's shaking his head. What happened? 568 00:38:45,920 --> 00:38:51,760 Apparently they had swung with this couple, and then she she would call 569 00:38:51,760 --> 00:38:53,719 her husband and say, hey, do you mind if I meet so and 570 00:38:53,760 --> 00:38:59,119 so, you know, for a little fling on the side happens, and 571 00:38:59,199 --> 00:39:04,639 she and and he she would always tell her husband. He told her that 572 00:39:04,880 --> 00:39:08,199 he was telling his wife and he wasn't, and she blew up when that 573 00:39:08,280 --> 00:39:10,880 happened. I mean, it was like it was. It was very dramatic. 574 00:39:10,920 --> 00:39:15,880 It was very very housewivesh kind of drama. But I watched it unfold, 575 00:39:15,920 --> 00:39:16,719 and I did. I felt like I was at a petting zoo, 576 00:39:16,760 --> 00:39:20,960 like a human petting zoo to watch these people. It felt embarrassing. But 577 00:39:21,119 --> 00:39:24,000 swingers with every different kind of fetish you could want. There's leather, there's 578 00:39:24,360 --> 00:39:29,079 whatever you want. It's like a room of just everything. Yeah. The 579 00:39:29,119 --> 00:39:31,519 smell in the hallway wild, you know what I mean, It's just like, 580 00:39:32,199 --> 00:39:36,880 yeah, it's it's gotta be you got a human gate. Yes, 581 00:39:37,039 --> 00:39:43,760 exactly what you're remembering my motel life. We owned a motel for thirty years. 582 00:39:43,840 --> 00:39:46,119 Wait you did, my in laws did? Yees it was the hotel 583 00:39:46,159 --> 00:39:53,719 motel. I used to make up rooms. Wow, yeah, because but 584 00:39:53,800 --> 00:39:57,679 you gotta do. You gotta do. Those small towns. They were always 585 00:39:57,760 --> 00:40:04,880 looking. They're like everybody always owned business in my well, multiple multiple streams. 586 00:40:05,280 --> 00:40:08,960 But yeah, not hourly rental rates. Oh yeah, three hours. 587 00:40:09,159 --> 00:40:15,639 It started out when they lie ten dollars, ten dollars for three hours. 588 00:40:15,719 --> 00:40:21,079 Got out of there, it was twenty five dollars for three hours. Room. 589 00:40:21,199 --> 00:40:23,599 I would knock on that door too, yeah yeah, oh yeah, 590 00:40:23,719 --> 00:40:28,840 get them out. Yeah, turned this room over. But then you I 591 00:40:28,840 --> 00:40:34,719 mean you had to wear rubber gloves. Yeah yeah. Wow. You had 592 00:40:34,760 --> 00:40:37,000 one lady. I would nickname a lot of people. Okay, like one 593 00:40:37,079 --> 00:40:42,599 lady was We called her hair lady. She would go in she had this 594 00:40:42,760 --> 00:40:45,000 huge head of hair, probably all dressed up in fake looking but like I 595 00:40:45,079 --> 00:40:52,679 mean, yeah, they were pigs. They ate like food all over the 596 00:40:52,679 --> 00:40:58,079 place, like they had an orgy of food. Yeah. Was she a 597 00:40:58,119 --> 00:41:00,960 hooker? I don't know. Yeah, he was a big lady. But 598 00:41:00,400 --> 00:41:04,400 called her hair lady. Then I had a guy who was I called him 599 00:41:04,440 --> 00:41:07,920 Potman, and unfortunately he ended up killing his wife and he never came in 600 00:41:08,000 --> 00:41:17,599 again. So it goes my potman. Was he the suppliers? We gotta 601 00:41:17,639 --> 00:41:23,079 tell the story about you thought the killer that came to Slide for the haircut. 602 00:41:23,199 --> 00:41:28,360 Oh Jesus, this is crazy. So that's not nice. So it's 603 00:41:28,519 --> 00:41:31,159 terrible. It is terrible. We did have a lady get killed at the 604 00:41:31,239 --> 00:41:36,400 Davis Motel. Good thing, she's nice to people. I don't know. 605 00:41:36,880 --> 00:41:39,639 Yeah, so the killer comes in and you cut his hair and he's got 606 00:41:39,760 --> 00:41:43,480 he didn't have a shirt. He didn't have a shirt. So she's like, 607 00:41:43,559 --> 00:41:45,920 honey, let me give you a shirt. This is right after he 608 00:41:46,000 --> 00:41:49,320 killed his wife. No, no, no, this is before. This 609 00:41:49,400 --> 00:41:53,039 is right before he does because he's like in town, do it. So 610 00:41:53,239 --> 00:41:57,480 my mom cuts his hair, gives him a shirt. The shirt she gives 611 00:41:57,559 --> 00:42:00,760 him is rich and I his wedding shirt because we had him a annical bowl 612 00:42:00,039 --> 00:42:04,840 and it said like you've been booked from Richard Stephanie's wedding and that's all she 613 00:42:04,880 --> 00:42:07,480 had at the back of her car. And then it's in his mugshot. 614 00:42:07,679 --> 00:42:15,079 Sorry, yeah, it was she gives the guy what. I think we 615 00:42:15,079 --> 00:42:17,199 were divorced at the time. That's probably why she's like, who gives a 616 00:42:17,199 --> 00:42:22,239 ship? Yeah? And then was it the next day or that same day, 617 00:42:22,400 --> 00:42:24,079 the next day, the next thing? So she was kind to this 618 00:42:24,199 --> 00:42:29,559 hurting person that you could have gotten murdered. It's so sad. And then 619 00:42:29,920 --> 00:42:35,039 half mile down the road he kills someone that owns the she said, the 620 00:42:35,079 --> 00:42:38,159 tavern, so sad. Yeah, we have a barrow skylar tavern. Yeah, 621 00:42:38,360 --> 00:42:44,400 talk about you never know when someone's on the verge of explosion. It's 622 00:42:44,440 --> 00:42:46,639 just an oddity for someone to walk in with no shirt on. Yes, 623 00:42:47,159 --> 00:42:50,559 because it was kind of cold. You could have been looking for a fight, 624 00:42:50,679 --> 00:42:53,760 you never know, looking for an argument. Yeah, he said he 625 00:42:53,840 --> 00:42:57,400 jumped out of the window of one of the motel rooms and we had to 626 00:42:57,480 --> 00:43:00,400 happen before, so I believed him. Yeah, did you offer to waxes 627 00:43:00,480 --> 00:43:05,079 shoulders or anything. Do you do a lot of men's backs and stuff? 628 00:43:05,360 --> 00:43:08,679 Yeah, I would assume that that's that's probably more popular. Butts too, 629 00:43:09,719 --> 00:43:16,880 you want to do your I have a very furry, very furry now what 630 00:43:17,039 --> 00:43:24,679 she's done, but it would is gross and it would be very no you 631 00:43:24,760 --> 00:43:29,840 don't know, but you get so you get in all that stuff. Do 632 00:43:29,920 --> 00:43:35,480 you have had to see some of the grossest pieces of human different vagina styles. 633 00:43:35,880 --> 00:43:37,920 I had no clue. What are you talking about? Tell them about 634 00:43:37,920 --> 00:43:40,239 the vagina styles? Come on, guys, you don't know? Ye, 635 00:43:40,440 --> 00:43:44,880 you know there's any yes? Yes, yeah, yeah, yeah, nervous 636 00:43:44,960 --> 00:43:46,119 no no, no, no no. I do have women that ask me, 637 00:43:47,000 --> 00:43:52,960 am I normal? Am I normal? I don't know? You know 638 00:43:52,039 --> 00:43:54,760 you've got any? You got an outing? What does that mean? You 639 00:43:54,840 --> 00:43:58,840 know? They don't even know the difference. I didn't know that was the 640 00:43:58,840 --> 00:44:01,320 thing. Yeah, yeah, I mean, well, I don't know how 641 00:44:01,360 --> 00:44:06,440 women are in locker rooms like guys were. Just you know, you got 642 00:44:06,440 --> 00:44:08,159 to really be looking to see an innery anywhere out. Yes, you do, 643 00:44:08,440 --> 00:44:12,840 right, and a lot of times you're not staring. But und well, 644 00:44:12,880 --> 00:44:17,559 the girls locker room in high school had individual stalls persons and we had 645 00:44:17,599 --> 00:44:21,400 just one big room with shower heads. We would pee on each other. 646 00:44:21,639 --> 00:44:23,719 We didn't. It was awful, but no one. But so you were 647 00:44:23,840 --> 00:44:30,400 very used to seeing everybody and it didn't I think back at a certain age, 648 00:44:30,440 --> 00:44:31,639 I don't know, it wasn't when I was in school but I heard 649 00:44:31,679 --> 00:44:36,920 about swim class was naked in public schools? Really? Yeah, not what 650 00:44:37,480 --> 00:44:42,480 people swimming swimming naked? The boys, the boys sixty boys separated from the 651 00:44:42,519 --> 00:44:45,679 girls always were naked. Yeah, but boys, I don't think they had 652 00:44:45,719 --> 00:44:49,559 them. They weren't. They weren't co ed. No, they didn't have 653 00:44:49,760 --> 00:44:52,599 co ed. But it would be like gym class naked. So I did 654 00:44:52,760 --> 00:45:00,960 everybody swim naked at the Yeah? Yeah, they or you were conceived? 655 00:45:00,199 --> 00:45:06,599 I think it's say. I think I was labored a weekend You know that 656 00:45:06,719 --> 00:45:13,400 for all right? I asked, But I asked, who asks? Why 657 00:45:15,239 --> 00:45:16,719 did you make me on purpose? Do I have? And she yes, 658 00:45:16,840 --> 00:45:20,280 honey, you were labored a weekend party? All right, Well, there 659 00:45:21,159 --> 00:45:23,159 have a child. My father had a heart attack, so we had nothing 660 00:45:23,199 --> 00:45:25,800 to do but sit home and wait for phone calls because we didn't have cell 661 00:45:25,840 --> 00:45:30,559 phones. Right, so they decided, let's make a baby life too short? 662 00:45:30,639 --> 00:45:34,159 And I was made. Yeah, and now did he survive the heart 663 00:45:34,159 --> 00:45:37,000 attack? Yes, so he got to meet you and all that's wonderful, 664 00:45:37,239 --> 00:45:40,480 right, that's great, that's uh. I just never would have asked. 665 00:45:43,519 --> 00:45:45,239 I always figure that out the people. You just figure out the math. 666 00:45:45,800 --> 00:45:49,760 Ye, my father always goes, yeah, you were the honeymoon. It 667 00:45:49,840 --> 00:45:52,960 was right after that. Well, it was like my birthday, September thirtieth, 668 00:45:53,079 --> 00:45:59,440 so what was I new year? See, yeah, yeah, that's 669 00:45:59,519 --> 00:46:02,679 right because my brother was early September, so yeah, and I think he 670 00:46:02,800 --> 00:46:07,639 was about two weeks Yeah, yeah you can, but I'm thinking he was 671 00:46:07,679 --> 00:46:12,119 more like Christmas than maybe a little before. Yeah. My parents were teachers, 672 00:46:12,159 --> 00:46:14,840 so they would I didn't know, Yeah, so they would get snow 673 00:46:14,920 --> 00:46:16,480 days. It was back then when you had to listen to the radio to 674 00:46:16,559 --> 00:46:20,599 find out right, and so my father would say to me once in a 675 00:46:20,639 --> 00:46:22,320 while, we would go try to run into the room. Hey, worse, 676 00:46:22,480 --> 00:46:25,599 our school is closed because they worked in different districts, and the door 677 00:46:25,639 --> 00:46:29,159 would be locked. My years later, I remember my father going, what 678 00:46:29,199 --> 00:46:35,159 do you think we were doing in there when the door was we know, 679 00:46:35,400 --> 00:46:37,599 we know you guys are got school. No, it would be early in 680 00:46:37,639 --> 00:46:40,559 the morning, so everybody's still be in bed, but we would go running 681 00:46:40,599 --> 00:46:43,960 in to go, yeah we got over school. We heard it on the 682 00:46:44,079 --> 00:46:46,079 radio. But the door would be like you'd be like running full speed and 683 00:46:46,239 --> 00:46:50,719 like hit the door trying to open the knob. And then he said to 684 00:46:50,760 --> 00:46:52,880 me, like, what do you think we were doing in there? And 685 00:46:52,000 --> 00:46:57,440 I just never thought of snow days again, never, never, ever, 686 00:46:57,679 --> 00:47:01,519 ever ever again. So waxing, I'm still stuck in this seventy eight year 687 00:47:01,559 --> 00:47:05,480 old guy going to a swingers bar. That's pretty brave him and he said, 688 00:47:05,519 --> 00:47:07,679 the girls like it, but nothing on it. Yeah, so he 689 00:47:07,840 --> 00:47:12,599 told me that, So now he's a client on repeat. He's on repeat. 690 00:47:13,079 --> 00:47:15,400 How often do you have to go if you're getting waxed? I usually 691 00:47:15,480 --> 00:47:20,440 do everyone about four weeks. Some people are six weeks after a while of 692 00:47:20,559 --> 00:47:22,679 doing them for twenty eight years, they hardly have any hair. So I'm 693 00:47:22,760 --> 00:47:27,199 just in there kind of Yeah, it just made skin. So what do 694 00:47:27,320 --> 00:47:30,840 you think of because I know that laser became a thing. Yes, yeah, 695 00:47:30,199 --> 00:47:34,639 but I did send a girl that drove an hour and a half up 696 00:47:34,679 --> 00:47:37,920 to see me. Yeah, and I wasn't getting any further with her, 697 00:47:38,440 --> 00:47:42,719 so I said, why don't you try lasering? So she's down in Oneonta. 698 00:47:42,840 --> 00:47:45,559 So she's getting lasering, and believe it or not, her hair is 699 00:47:45,599 --> 00:47:47,960 still not staying away. Really yeah, So I said, I feel bad. 700 00:47:49,039 --> 00:47:52,760 You're driving three hours round trip for fifteen minutes. Yeah, you know, 701 00:47:52,880 --> 00:47:58,000 it's a tough ass right there. Yeah, I didn't kill you. 702 00:47:58,000 --> 00:48:01,960 You know, Irish people have thicker cuticles in their hair. You pull that 703 00:48:02,119 --> 00:48:07,360 hair out and they're bleeding. Oh Irish. I don't want to I can't 704 00:48:07,400 --> 00:48:13,960 do it. She did on my legs. Yeah, I couldn't handle it. 705 00:48:14,360 --> 00:48:16,519 One day Mother's Day, she didn't wish wish me a happy Mother's Day, 706 00:48:17,639 --> 00:48:22,880 and Stephanie, I needed to get this legs. I was screaming the 707 00:48:22,960 --> 00:48:25,039 other girls and slun said, Sue, you can't be sugar when your daughter 708 00:48:25,079 --> 00:48:31,440 in this line. You're scaring the clients. I'll just shame every don't wish 709 00:48:31,559 --> 00:48:36,679 me a happy Mother's Day. Well that is pretty tough. That's a bad 710 00:48:36,760 --> 00:48:38,000 one. Stuff. I need to do that to your mom. You know. 711 00:48:38,159 --> 00:48:44,320 I forgot during COVID. I was watching my granddaughter and my grandson and 712 00:48:44,480 --> 00:48:46,360 I said, here, Kayley, I want to try this on your legs. 713 00:48:46,920 --> 00:48:52,320 She was so hairy. Their first rip was just it was horrible. 714 00:48:52,480 --> 00:48:57,320 She screamed, Sue, I'm never going to talk to you again. How 715 00:48:57,880 --> 00:49:02,719 ol d she was COVID? Maybe she's ten years old, all right, 716 00:49:02,800 --> 00:49:07,119 little Harry, Yeah, yeah, but she doesn't feel the pain on her 717 00:49:07,159 --> 00:49:10,159 body. She can wax her armpits or everything, not even flinching, So 718 00:49:10,320 --> 00:49:15,320 she forgets. You do your own doesn't even flinch, and other people like 719 00:49:15,960 --> 00:49:21,000 so she forgets that it's painful for people. Your harry, let me clean 720 00:49:21,039 --> 00:49:22,599 it up. I was doing some TV stuff for a while. I did 721 00:49:22,800 --> 00:49:28,159 my eyebrows and that was. That was about all I can handle. I 722 00:49:28,280 --> 00:49:30,760 tear up even from no, I tear up. I think I even had 723 00:49:30,800 --> 00:49:34,800 a sneezing fit because you connect feel. I don't like that. That's so 724 00:49:35,159 --> 00:49:37,079 all that. What's the name of this lot? The cutting Edge? The 725 00:49:37,199 --> 00:49:43,920 Cutting Edge? Do you remember the Hockey but it's closing. No, she's 726 00:49:44,039 --> 00:49:47,480 retiring. The Hockey movie was filmed in Utica, The Cutting Edge. Oh 727 00:49:47,719 --> 00:49:53,239 yeah, they had everybody when I was so nineteen seventy six is when the 728 00:49:53,320 --> 00:49:58,679 movie was produced. Because a couple of us graduated and sat in the Oh 729 00:49:58,800 --> 00:50:00,800 how cool. Yeah, we're filming it, and so you opened the cutting 730 00:50:00,880 --> 00:50:06,159 So you own the cutting Edge, yes, and so what you're not going 731 00:50:06,239 --> 00:50:10,000 to sell? My daughter sold our business. And the guys kicking me out 732 00:50:12,559 --> 00:50:15,760 because they're living and they're going to live in Texas. They are going to 733 00:50:15,800 --> 00:50:20,119 be snowbirds. Are going to split your time. But now she's thinking of 734 00:50:20,199 --> 00:50:25,519 flying back and forth, maybe every five weeks to do her sugaring the beach. 735 00:50:25,800 --> 00:50:30,280 Yeah you could. Yeah. Where in Texas are you going? Padre 736 00:50:30,440 --> 00:50:35,400 Island. Yeah, that's North padre So. Corpus Christie, Yeah, Corpus 737 00:50:35,440 --> 00:50:37,920 Christy. I hear is really really beautiful. I've never been, but I 738 00:50:37,360 --> 00:50:44,960 remember friends well, Padre Island, I remember from MTV spring Break. Yeah, 739 00:50:45,000 --> 00:50:46,840 they opened there. That's the only way I knew. Free place. 740 00:50:49,599 --> 00:50:52,719 That's what you want, all right, we'll take a moment when we come 741 00:50:52,800 --> 00:50:55,360 back. I got to tell you about Kevin and I went to an event 742 00:50:55,480 --> 00:51:01,480 last night and I thought, I it went horribly. I'll play some of 743 00:51:01,519 --> 00:51:06,079 the audio. 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And so I said, yeah, all right, no problem. 794 00:54:55,440 --> 00:54:59,079 And then I didn't really respond back to him, and I'm waiting, and 795 00:54:59,159 --> 00:55:01,440 as it gets closer, so I end up talking to him on the phone 796 00:55:01,440 --> 00:55:06,239 and he's like, listen, we're not politically correct. Feel free to say 797 00:55:06,280 --> 00:55:10,119 anything. These guys are great, They're gonna blah blah blah. And uh 798 00:55:10,480 --> 00:55:17,000 so I took that to heart. I took that to heart. I shouldn't 799 00:55:17,000 --> 00:55:21,039 have. And it was kind of one of these things where I was trying 800 00:55:21,079 --> 00:55:23,280 to get there early enough that I could sort of read the room and see 801 00:55:23,320 --> 00:55:30,000 how people were. Kevin was right on time. I was a little earlier 802 00:55:30,079 --> 00:55:32,440 than I had intended. And I'm I'm I'm talking to some of the people 803 00:55:32,559 --> 00:55:36,519 and you know, some people were asking me about my days in radio and 804 00:55:36,639 --> 00:55:40,599 this and that and the podcast and so great mullets too. Everything's going on 805 00:55:40,840 --> 00:55:45,239 and it seems to be going fine. And most of the people were had 806 00:55:45,280 --> 00:55:49,920 a personality and we're ballbusters a little bit, you know, but again I'm 807 00:55:50,000 --> 00:55:52,800 not. I'm I'm sort of an outsider. And my thing would be, 808 00:55:52,280 --> 00:55:55,480 you know, if you were going to do anything, my advice would be, 809 00:55:57,559 --> 00:56:00,400 be a little more self deprecating in your humor, right, things that 810 00:56:00,440 --> 00:56:04,159 would be kind of playing on how weak you are and how great they are 811 00:56:05,000 --> 00:56:08,400 kind of thing, which even that sounds a little too over the top, 812 00:56:08,440 --> 00:56:12,679 But what I'm saying is these are all first responders. A lot of these 813 00:56:12,719 --> 00:56:16,320 guys spencer Port is volunteer, but a lot of the volunteer guys are firemen 814 00:56:16,360 --> 00:56:20,840 in the city, fire in the Greek or in Greece, which is the 815 00:56:20,920 --> 00:56:24,719 largest suburb outside of I think Long Island is Greece, New York. And 816 00:56:24,880 --> 00:56:29,320 so there's a lot that they deal with on a daily basis. And to 817 00:56:29,639 --> 00:56:32,360 try to highlight that, and I didn't exactly do that, they told me 818 00:56:32,400 --> 00:56:36,679 there was one guy named Gomer, and Gomer was a great sport. Gomer 819 00:56:36,800 --> 00:56:39,000 was cool. I think this is a little audio. Today is Veterans Day. 820 00:56:39,280 --> 00:56:43,960 Okay, here, gentlemen, if you mind, if you are a 821 00:56:44,079 --> 00:56:47,239 veteran, would you mind standing men and women, men and women who have 822 00:56:47,400 --> 00:56:52,079 served over the year. Ye all right, So now we're off to a 823 00:56:52,119 --> 00:56:54,079 good start. Things are going great. That got them on my side. 824 00:56:54,119 --> 00:56:59,039 They very good, very good, very good. And then I think I 825 00:56:59,159 --> 00:57:02,920 even take us in the next up, just a moment of silence before we 826 00:57:04,119 --> 00:57:07,159 have They asked me for a moment his Hilence before dinner, but they didn't 827 00:57:07,159 --> 00:57:13,119 turn the music off. So Tom Petty singing free, you're not free falling 828 00:57:13,559 --> 00:57:19,519 right there, I said, Tom Petty telling us for free. Okay, 829 00:57:19,639 --> 00:57:25,039 so far, so good, everything's going well at that's okay, Am the 830 00:57:25,079 --> 00:57:30,400 American. I should have just stuck to lawn and his whiskey, but I 831 00:57:30,440 --> 00:57:37,519 didn't. The head of the American legion. Okay, now I paused that 832 00:57:37,639 --> 00:57:43,559 there. I think Gomer is an older guy, and he had waxed the 833 00:57:43,639 --> 00:57:46,800 tips of his mustache so they were up and curls rolly fingers. Who used 834 00:57:46,840 --> 00:57:50,840 to be a picture in the Major League Baseball did the same thing. And 835 00:57:51,000 --> 00:57:52,960 I had said to Gomer, and he said, I've been wanting to meet 836 00:57:53,000 --> 00:57:57,679 you for a while. And he and I talked and I said something to 837 00:57:57,800 --> 00:58:01,039 him, boy, I bet you had a lot of ladies ride that mustache. 838 00:58:01,320 --> 00:58:05,400 Privately, privately, I said that to him, privately, good looking 839 00:58:05,440 --> 00:58:09,480 older guy, and and he goes, not in a long time. Well, 840 00:58:09,880 --> 00:58:14,119 I took that to this side. The west side was stuck in the 841 00:58:14,199 --> 00:58:19,000 eighties. Then a mcgomer I went that mustacher from nineteen twenty. They all 842 00:58:19,119 --> 00:58:21,679 laughed at that. All right, they're liking it. Okay, now here 843 00:58:21,719 --> 00:58:23,000 we go, I said the over, I want to sniff your mustache. 844 00:58:23,039 --> 00:58:24,960 He goes, there's not a lady that wrote it. In a while, 845 00:58:25,519 --> 00:58:32,639 I want to sniff your moth. We're still going. We're still going. 846 00:58:34,039 --> 00:58:36,360 All right, right there, we were going good. That was sure, 847 00:58:36,360 --> 00:58:44,920 we should just cut down side time. But I didn't late that. Okay, 848 00:58:45,320 --> 00:58:49,920 I told a joke that I should not have told. Uh I had. 849 00:58:51,679 --> 00:58:54,159 I warned anybody, if you have to ask parission to tell a joke, 850 00:58:54,800 --> 00:59:00,159 don't do the joke. Just don't remember where we are, what the 851 00:59:00,280 --> 00:59:02,159 year is, and all that stuff. It was on the line, I 852 00:59:02,199 --> 00:59:06,280 will admit, but I like walking the line in life, and I like 853 00:59:06,360 --> 00:59:08,559 having a little bit of fun. This is the you'll hear the tail end 854 00:59:08,760 --> 00:59:12,800 of the joke. It will not repeat the joke because I just figured after 855 00:59:12,880 --> 00:59:21,960 last night's response, I probably shouldn't. But you'll hear this. I apologize. 856 00:59:22,519 --> 00:59:30,960 I'm sorry, Oh God, a lot, it's not okay, all 857 00:59:31,039 --> 00:59:35,440 right, okay, Well, I mean I've done this a long time. 858 00:59:35,559 --> 00:59:37,760 I mean, here's the thing. I have no real nerve endings. But 859 00:59:37,960 --> 00:59:40,400 what I will tell you is that as I've gotten older, my whole thing 860 00:59:40,440 --> 00:59:44,960 in life has been to bust balls. But I don't like to hurt people. 861 00:59:45,480 --> 00:59:51,199 I don't, I really don't. I'm okay with the uzz but if 862 00:59:51,280 --> 00:59:54,400 I really, you know, if somebody was deeply offended by that, well 863 00:59:54,400 --> 00:59:57,599 I don't want to be that guy. That's not who I am as a 864 00:59:57,679 --> 01:00:00,239 person, and I don't want you to leave with that impression. But I 865 01:00:00,360 --> 01:00:07,400 went further, so I said, I thought somebody said priest, and they 866 01:00:07,639 --> 01:00:10,760 said no, Greece. And then this is where it got. Wait, 867 01:00:10,880 --> 01:00:14,960 is there some people who's in charge with the Greece fire department. He used 868 01:00:14,960 --> 01:00:19,119 to be in charge with the Greece fire department. Right here, this is 869 01:00:19,199 --> 01:00:27,480 Meriron's buddy, wasn't now merrit Ron was the police chief in Greece. Here's 870 01:00:27,639 --> 01:00:32,079 what I would I would say to these guys today, Uh, thank you, 871 01:00:32,199 --> 01:00:36,599 and I'm sorry, and I'm sorry that I brought somebody up who really 872 01:00:36,760 --> 01:00:39,519 brought disgrace on what you did. Right. You sort of became the laughing 873 01:00:39,599 --> 01:00:44,639 stock, and all these guys, the fire chief and everybody else, they 874 01:00:44,719 --> 01:00:46,840 put their ass in the line. My grandfather was a New York City fireman. 875 01:00:47,280 --> 01:00:51,559 I know he's living in the Bronx and he was a fireman out of 876 01:00:51,760 --> 01:00:55,239 a station down there. These guys are the ones who are the first accidents 877 01:00:55,280 --> 01:01:00,760 and do all this and really are solid citizens. One bad apple seems to 878 01:01:00,800 --> 01:01:05,840 spoil the bunch when you look at our first responders or anybody in authority, 879 01:01:05,880 --> 01:01:07,519 right, I mean we all of a sudden lump everybody in well, that 880 01:01:07,599 --> 01:01:12,679 whole apartment's bad. There was one or two or three people that that really 881 01:01:12,760 --> 01:01:16,039 brought shame on it. I thought it was sort of funny. They clearly 882 01:01:16,199 --> 01:01:21,400 did not, and I just wanted to I'm gonna play a little bit more 883 01:01:21,440 --> 01:01:31,559 and then I'll tell you what happened that, what happened there. Now, 884 01:01:31,639 --> 01:01:45,440 I'm like uncomfortable, I'm tired. Like so, one guy, the chief 885 01:01:45,519 --> 01:01:51,159 is sitting at one round table and his buddies at the other. And when 886 01:01:51,199 --> 01:01:53,800 I went to sit down, the guy who was playing music, uh from 887 01:01:53,840 --> 01:01:57,440 the drinking class Heroes was there and he was sitting at our table and he 888 01:01:57,480 --> 01:02:00,119 said yeah. One guy turned around and said are you ready to go? 889 01:02:00,199 --> 01:02:04,840 And when I went back to the tape, was exactly what I remembered. 890 01:02:05,239 --> 01:02:07,559 He meant ready to go, like they would get up and beat me up. 891 01:02:07,480 --> 01:02:10,239 That's what he meant. This guy thought he meant like they were ready 892 01:02:10,280 --> 01:02:12,960 to go, like they were going to leave the dinner. No, they 893 01:02:12,960 --> 01:02:15,559 weren't going to leave the dinner. These guys were I think ready to literally 894 01:02:15,719 --> 01:02:17,920 kick money. Yeah, I think they would have wanted to punch me. 895 01:02:19,039 --> 01:02:22,639 I really do. And I was not ever my intention at all, And 896 01:02:22,719 --> 01:02:31,239 that's why so I tried to apologize. So this lady has a look on 897 01:02:31,320 --> 01:02:34,760 her face as I walked by, But I can't keep my mouth. I 898 01:02:34,800 --> 01:02:37,559 don't know what to do now in this moment, like I should have gone 899 01:02:37,559 --> 01:02:40,599 to some I tried to do a stock joke. My whole timing was off 900 01:02:40,679 --> 01:02:45,559 and everything. You know. I had a joke about a vineyard where everybody 901 01:02:45,679 --> 01:02:49,599 starts to go to a wine tasting and they all use those words they've never 902 01:02:49,719 --> 01:02:52,920 used before. They all start trying to sound smart, like is this olky? 903 01:02:52,280 --> 01:02:54,719 That's olki, And they're walking around and then they start telling me the 904 01:02:54,800 --> 01:02:58,360 things you taste in it? Right? And that person tells you, do 905 01:02:58,400 --> 01:03:01,719 you taste lemon gras? Ask you got it? He taste lemon grass, 906 01:03:01,800 --> 01:03:06,639 there's a little lemongrass, do you taste? And the Asian pear taste the 907 01:03:06,719 --> 01:03:10,559 Asian pair, and I always remember being there, going your palette so good. 908 01:03:10,920 --> 01:03:14,519 Not only can you tell me the fruit, but the continent it's from. 909 01:03:14,920 --> 01:03:15,840 It was a funny. It's kind of a funny joke. And then 910 01:03:15,880 --> 01:03:20,440 I say, I I toured the vineyard. I I have not seen an 911 01:03:20,480 --> 01:03:23,880 Asian or a pair on the entire vineyard. I think, okay, but 912 01:03:24,079 --> 01:03:28,400 what it's just fine. I couldn't even get through that because my head was 913 01:03:28,480 --> 01:03:30,880 kind of like, I'm going these guys are gonna jump me, like I 914 01:03:30,159 --> 01:03:37,199 really just that one name I was. But even there, all I was 915 01:03:37,239 --> 01:03:40,119 gonna do is this woo all right? Time to go, you know? 916 01:03:40,280 --> 01:03:46,880 And then with two of them, who knows? All right, I apologize 917 01:03:47,119 --> 01:03:52,719 now that this is the second time I've apologized. I didn't need to make 918 01:03:52,719 --> 01:03:58,679 anybody uncomfortable. Okay, now I made people uncomfortable. Oh yeah, so 919 01:03:58,760 --> 01:04:00,960 I go back to the guy with the mustache. I didn't need to do 920 01:04:01,079 --> 01:04:09,880 that. Okay. This is how many times have I said this, lady, 921 01:04:10,119 --> 01:04:17,559 you need to tourne it down town, it down honey for a second 922 01:04:18,800 --> 01:04:25,119 dom the Walmart versus see. I wanted to do that. I wanted Gomer 923 01:04:25,199 --> 01:04:28,199 to say, what you know, beef, it's what's for dinner, like 924 01:04:28,320 --> 01:04:30,119 all this ship. But I couldn't do anything. I was like God, 925 01:04:30,239 --> 01:04:33,360 I like, they all hear me dinner, your appetizers are going to come 926 01:04:33,360 --> 01:04:36,400 out, and that's it, your dinner and your advertisers are coming out. 927 01:04:36,519 --> 01:04:41,519 Thanks a lot of folks couldn't. I think my favorite part of the entire 928 01:04:41,639 --> 01:04:45,840 time was during dinner. Yeah, when you pop the microphone back out again. 929 01:04:45,599 --> 01:04:48,679 I just want to apologize again. Let's give it up for the girls 930 01:04:48,719 --> 01:04:53,280 Spencer Port soccer team. Yeah, they go in the state tomorrow. Let's 931 01:04:53,320 --> 01:04:59,679 get around with plots for that. Fifty fifty tickets are still all amen. 932 01:05:00,199 --> 01:05:02,800 But I didn't go running out of there. I mean, look, I 933 01:05:02,920 --> 01:05:06,679 figured I made the uh I you know, I stuck my foot in my 934 01:05:06,719 --> 01:05:10,679 mouth. What am I gonna do? Right? I like how your own 935 01:05:10,840 --> 01:05:16,000 it? Well I have. I'm a big believer in life no matter what 936 01:05:16,239 --> 01:05:19,159 happens. Because I could sit here and go, well, the guy didn't. 937 01:05:19,360 --> 01:05:25,039 The guy told me that joke was okay. I if you gotta ask, 938 01:05:25,719 --> 01:05:29,000 you know, the joke's not okay. And nothing that happens to you 939 01:05:29,280 --> 01:05:32,480 is anybody else's fault. But your own no matter what it is, even 940 01:05:32,519 --> 01:05:35,519 if it's ship that you just don't know. It came out It came out 941 01:05:35,559 --> 01:05:38,760 of the No, it didn't come out of the blue. It came out 942 01:05:38,800 --> 01:05:42,000 of the oblivion. You were oblivious to shit going on. You're not tuned 943 01:05:42,039 --> 01:05:45,440 in somewhere to some stuff. I really, I sincerely believe that. And 944 01:05:45,719 --> 01:05:49,840 don't you believe everybody is so sensitive? Well see, I mean everybody. 945 01:05:49,960 --> 01:05:54,480 You can't say that the comedians cannot be comedians. Arry was like, oh 946 01:05:54,880 --> 01:05:58,840 offended everything right, it's crazy. But I think that I could have brought 947 01:05:58,880 --> 01:06:00,920 them back had I gone over to the guys who were there was like two 948 01:06:01,000 --> 01:06:04,079 tables of and then some of these gentlemen were older, and I probably had 949 01:06:04,159 --> 01:06:10,239 seen war like real war, you know, not that Afghanistan or anything wasn't 950 01:06:10,280 --> 01:06:13,199 but it wasn't war like Vietnam. That was no no, no, no, 951 01:06:13,280 --> 01:06:17,880 no, no, no, no. What I'm saying. But what 952 01:06:18,000 --> 01:06:21,119 I was going to say about what I was gonna say to these guys was 953 01:06:23,159 --> 01:06:26,039 you guys have seen some of the worst of humanity. You know, you 954 01:06:26,199 --> 01:06:31,039 served in war time. Uh, what's harder? War or marriage? And 955 01:06:31,159 --> 01:06:33,599 I think they would have I think that wouldn't laughed. It would have gotten 956 01:06:33,639 --> 01:06:36,559 to laugh. I'm sure because you're talking older people. It's simple, quick 957 01:06:36,679 --> 01:06:40,719 joke, just on the fly. That's what I needed to do. But 958 01:06:40,960 --> 01:06:44,039 once I asked it and I was doing that, it was going well. 959 01:06:44,280 --> 01:06:46,639 Even with the grown joke, I could have brought them back. Then I 960 01:06:46,719 --> 01:06:54,320 asked about one specific human being that I didn't realize and even if my asshole 961 01:06:54,360 --> 01:06:57,599 puckered when he said it, but if I if I hadn't, if I 962 01:06:57,679 --> 01:07:03,280 had stopped, there was bullfucker. But if I had stopped to think about 963 01:07:03,280 --> 01:07:06,559 it, I would have gone, Yeah, that guy brought disgrace to everybody 964 01:07:06,639 --> 01:07:11,760 in the uniform in that town who really really busted their ass to make things 965 01:07:11,880 --> 01:07:15,400 right. And I always found the humor in that story. I'm going, 966 01:07:15,480 --> 01:07:19,039 this is the most bizarre story of the time that it was happening with all 967 01:07:19,119 --> 01:07:25,079 of these different but it was three individuals. But we but that feels like 968 01:07:25,519 --> 01:07:30,280 we've painted an entire department with the well no, and I shouldn't I but 969 01:07:30,400 --> 01:07:33,920 I didn't realize that, and it was gosh, it had to be fifteen 970 01:07:34,000 --> 01:07:38,679 years ago at least, at least I think at least three chiefs. Yeah, 971 01:07:38,840 --> 01:07:41,519 I mean, well, I tell you this, it was Todd Baxter, 972 01:07:41,599 --> 01:07:46,199 who's now the sheriff of our county, who went and actually restored respect 973 01:07:46,320 --> 01:07:49,920 if that if there's if that's the right word, to that department. He 974 01:07:50,079 --> 01:07:54,599 really did a nice job. But it was honestly, they had great people 975 01:07:54,760 --> 01:07:58,559 in there. I just didn't realize. And man, I thought stefinitely, 976 01:07:58,559 --> 01:08:00,679 I thought this guy was gonna get up and just start swinging a big, 977 01:08:00,760 --> 01:08:04,440 old wiry guy, you know, an older gentleman who keeps the flat top. 978 01:08:04,639 --> 01:08:08,360 You know, fuck with those guys. You know what I'm saying. 979 01:08:08,679 --> 01:08:13,199 You know what it's like. You just don't you ever feel like this back 980 01:08:13,719 --> 01:08:17,119 my career, my business? Ever, No, I don't because I think 981 01:08:17,199 --> 01:08:23,960 that I don't think anybody ever really thinks that much about us. I don't 982 01:08:23,960 --> 01:08:27,439 think other people really think that much, that deeply into things, you know 983 01:08:27,439 --> 01:08:30,960 what I mean. First of all, I'm not on terrestrial radio anymore. 984 01:08:30,359 --> 01:08:33,199 You got to do a little more work to find the podcast. I hope 985 01:08:33,239 --> 01:08:36,239 you do. I hope your friends do. I would love for more people 986 01:08:36,279 --> 01:08:40,720 to hear it. But I know I know the the barriers to what I'm 987 01:08:40,760 --> 01:08:44,960 doing these days, and I think most of those people probably aren't any you 988 01:08:45,039 --> 01:08:48,159 know, they're not gonna boycott my podcast because I did something. I don't 989 01:08:48,159 --> 01:08:51,720 even think they were that offended. I think that it was just in that 990 01:08:51,880 --> 01:08:57,920 moment one guy was and that just that everybody else is like, he's really 991 01:08:58,000 --> 01:09:00,680 pissted, and so they weren't, you know what I mean because even afterwards 992 01:09:00,760 --> 01:09:03,439 I sat at the bar for a while because I wouldn't say ninety percent of 993 01:09:03,479 --> 01:09:09,560 the room was fantastically entertained by you. Yeah, it was five or six 994 01:09:09,640 --> 01:09:14,079 people. Wife number three is one of them that was like, not guy, 995 01:09:14,199 --> 01:09:18,640 he was a wife number three numbers Well, I'm not saying that that 996 01:09:18,720 --> 01:09:23,159 did not come out of my mind. I don't need these people coming to 997 01:09:24,439 --> 01:09:27,600 but they were all they were all fine. They were all fine in the 998 01:09:27,760 --> 01:09:30,359 end. But that's what you do if you you you know, I figured 999 01:09:30,439 --> 01:09:33,399 this way most people. Now, I'm not a comedian. I love doing 1000 01:09:33,439 --> 01:09:35,560 it, but I'm not a comedian by you know, the standards. But 1001 01:09:35,600 --> 01:09:40,800 I always think to your point, too, most people become a comedian to 1002 01:09:40,880 --> 01:09:45,520 say whatever they want. And I think the comedians today, some of them 1003 01:09:45,880 --> 01:09:47,760 I would even put in the you know, I would classify them as almost 1004 01:09:47,760 --> 01:09:51,680 philosophers, modern day philosophers. I think that a lot of what Chappelle says 1005 01:09:51,840 --> 01:09:58,520 is real commentary on society that's very intelligently done. Yeah, really really well 1006 01:09:58,560 --> 01:10:02,119 done. I think Bill Bird great commentary on society, and it's it's well 1007 01:10:02,319 --> 01:10:05,880 thought out. 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No, I didn't care for him. Oh yeah, no. 1103 01:17:24,199 --> 01:17:26,880 But Danny and Kevin and others are all going, yeah, man, 1104 01:17:26,960 --> 01:17:30,479 great guy, really cool. And I was like, that's good. That's 1105 01:17:30,560 --> 01:17:34,720 better off not going to that party. From when I heard. From what 1106 01:17:34,920 --> 01:17:39,319 I heard, I think my favorite part of her party was me checking Id's 1107 01:17:39,359 --> 01:17:45,319 at uh oh, he went down. He went down to Yeah. Did 1108 01:17:45,359 --> 01:17:48,680 you know he stepped in and started asking people for I was by his son. 1109 01:17:50,159 --> 01:17:55,119 I was trying to covers. He's ten dollars police ID. I'm like, 1110 01:17:55,239 --> 01:18:01,279 he that's pretty funny. How much one zero dollars? But then he's 1111 01:18:01,279 --> 01:18:04,319 like, you're cube, you can get in for free. Did you say 1112 01:18:04,399 --> 01:18:09,640 that until they went around to the side and then they got stopped again for 1113 01:18:10,039 --> 01:18:12,840 the cover. No, they were doing covers out front. They were checking 1114 01:18:12,880 --> 01:18:15,560 it these and covers. There was no cover. They were just checking it, 1115 01:18:15,960 --> 01:18:21,840 like you said, Oh that is the bouncer called me on it. 1116 01:18:21,960 --> 01:18:25,920 He's like, I have had to have fun. Oh my god. I 1117 01:18:26,079 --> 01:18:30,479 used to film my middle son and I would pop out of everywhere and scare 1118 01:18:30,560 --> 01:18:32,640 him and he would yeah. And I think if I tried to go back 1119 01:18:32,680 --> 01:18:34,800 and find some of the stuff on YouTube and I couldn't find it, but 1120 01:18:35,119 --> 01:18:38,279 I used to scare the ship out of him and he would get so many 1121 01:18:38,800 --> 01:18:42,920 Come on, cut it out, it's ridiculous. Well, this couple at 1122 01:18:43,000 --> 01:18:45,640 Halloween decided that they were going to do a prank on the kids. New 1123 01:18:45,720 --> 01:18:49,960 Tonight twelve News has the nine to one one call from a Halloween clown prank 1124 01:18:50,039 --> 01:18:54,800 in West Bend. The police say, went too far, too far. 1125 01:18:55,199 --> 01:18:58,560 There's a clown inside, like an asshole clunt inside the house right now? 1126 01:18:58,960 --> 01:19:03,079 Do you know who it is? No? Is there anybody else inside with 1127 01:19:03,239 --> 01:19:10,479 him? My friend's here, Okay, did you get here? Okay? 1128 01:19:10,960 --> 01:19:15,039 Imagine being this little kid thinking that your friend's parents are inside, Yeah, 1129 01:19:15,600 --> 01:19:19,319 inside with a clown. So the clown comes in, they don't know. 1130 01:19:19,720 --> 01:19:24,000 It's not like the dad because dad's there. It's not the mom because mom's 1131 01:19:24,039 --> 01:19:27,640 there. As well. And this is some kid who's at this party calling 1132 01:19:27,720 --> 01:19:30,840 nine one one freaking out. You can hear the like they have to be 1133 01:19:30,960 --> 01:19:39,640 about eleven. My friend's hearing. Okay, did get here please? Police 1134 01:19:39,640 --> 01:19:43,199 say they responded to a frantic nine to one one call Saturday night on Decker 1135 01:19:43,319 --> 01:19:46,720 Drive as a home invasion in progress. Okay. A homeowner had a family 1136 01:19:46,800 --> 01:19:50,600 member enter the home dressed as a clown to scare a group of teenagers. 1137 01:19:50,880 --> 01:19:55,479 Okay, sounds kind of funny, right, I mean, can you see 1138 01:19:55,520 --> 01:20:00,520 it? Come on? Fortunately, something we would my neighbor and my neighbor 1139 01:20:00,520 --> 01:20:06,720 and I did that. Going is a psycho one of those knives that goes 1140 01:20:06,800 --> 01:20:10,920 back into the handle. There was a house we went to this year that 1141 01:20:11,039 --> 01:20:15,760 they had somebody sitting outside like still. Like my neighbor and I both knew 1142 01:20:15,000 --> 01:20:18,359 the guy was gonna jomp, so we we just sent the kids. Yeah, 1143 01:20:18,600 --> 01:20:20,560 just just go, guys, it's it's cool. Just go. And 1144 01:20:21,039 --> 01:20:24,640 I scared that a living ship out of it was hilarious. Yeah, it 1145 01:20:24,720 --> 01:20:27,640 is kind of funny with kids. It is as long as the one as 1146 01:20:27,640 --> 01:20:30,560 long as they don't hurt themselves running away. That's when you feel bad. 1147 01:20:30,800 --> 01:20:32,800 Listen, there's a twist and ankle or it's just some kind of emergency room 1148 01:20:32,880 --> 01:20:35,399 bill. Now you got to deal with that. And then the one kid 1149 01:20:35,439 --> 01:20:40,079 that wouldn't go up after everything was done, like did you want to bag 1150 01:20:40,119 --> 01:20:44,239 of candy? You feel bad that we made you? Gets scared. At 1151 01:20:44,279 --> 01:20:48,920 one point, the parent gets on the phone. We're okay, we're just 1152 01:20:48,920 --> 01:20:56,039 playing a joe. Sorry they called you. My daughter had a friend on 1153 01:20:56,119 --> 01:21:00,399 the phone. I'm sorry. Daughter. The forty year old home for dis 1154 01:21:00,479 --> 01:21:04,319 orderly conduct, and police say the department recognizes this was intended to be a 1155 01:21:04,359 --> 01:21:10,000 Halloween prank, but the investigating officer believed it was carried too far. When 1156 01:21:10,079 --> 01:21:13,760 my parent involved, it didn't put an end to the joke before once. 1157 01:21:14,520 --> 01:21:18,279 Yeah, that's what they say. Stupid it is, but you learn your 1158 01:21:18,359 --> 01:21:23,800 lesson. You're not doing that shit again. I know it time well. 1159 01:21:23,960 --> 01:21:26,359 But the thing is, but on the other side of it, it's like 1160 01:21:26,399 --> 01:21:29,479 a waste of their resources. Right, they send somebody out because they think 1161 01:21:29,520 --> 01:21:31,960 something's going on. Years ago, nobody could call'd be on a house to 1162 01:21:32,199 --> 01:21:35,560 make a phone call. Every's got a phone. Everybody does like this, 1163 01:21:35,800 --> 01:21:39,079 Yes, and that's the bad thing too, because I always go, you 1164 01:21:39,119 --> 01:21:41,960 know, what everybody has really in their pocket is a TV station. Yes, 1165 01:21:42,199 --> 01:21:44,880 you do anything, and you don't even know how how much you're on 1166 01:21:45,000 --> 01:21:47,640 camera these days, right, the ring doorbell? Is that what this is 1167 01:21:47,720 --> 01:21:50,600 from. I'm sorry, I didn't even think of that as we're talking. 1168 01:21:50,680 --> 01:21:54,279 It just popped into my head. There's a ring doorbell. But you're on 1169 01:21:54,399 --> 01:21:59,319 camera so often, Like I think there's some guy who just recently is accused 1170 01:21:59,359 --> 01:22:03,119 of killing his wife and they think they found surveillance video of him getting rid 1171 01:22:03,159 --> 01:22:08,640 of the body. Yeah, but it's like some you know, some back 1172 01:22:09,239 --> 01:22:13,560 in some backwoods, right, the guys off some beaten path and there happened 1173 01:22:13,560 --> 01:22:15,920 to be maybe a trail cam or yeah. Yeah, I mean you just 1174 01:22:16,079 --> 01:22:20,119 never know. Going back to the beginning of the show, didn't the podcast 1175 01:22:20,199 --> 01:22:26,079 in general that Idaho Killer wasn't that wasn't that all that discovered on video? 1176 01:22:26,119 --> 01:22:30,680 And it was a ring camera from other people? Yeah, other people's houses. 1177 01:22:30,199 --> 01:22:33,279 And now they're saying that they it's going to be really hard to convict 1178 01:22:33,359 --> 01:22:36,680 him even with the DNA. Really. Yeah, there was some headline. 1179 01:22:36,680 --> 01:22:41,720 I didn't read the article, but really, yeah, that's a disturbing, 1180 01:22:42,439 --> 01:22:46,439 right, But yes. The point is that nowadays and and sometimes you can 1181 01:22:46,520 --> 01:22:53,359 get goaded. Like if I were a kid in modern world, you don't 1182 01:22:53,359 --> 01:22:56,239 think i'd try to get a substitute teacher to lose it on me or lose 1183 01:22:56,279 --> 01:22:59,119 it on somebody, and then we could film it and then laugh or asks 1184 01:22:59,159 --> 01:23:00,279 off, put it on snap. Chad would be the greatest thing in the 1185 01:23:00,359 --> 01:23:04,439 world, exploding, you know what I mean, he could do all this 1186 01:23:04,520 --> 01:23:08,760 stuff, right. But but at the same time, then at the same 1187 01:23:08,800 --> 01:23:11,760 time, we got Clyde Savannah on the other side of the spectrum where they're 1188 01:23:11,760 --> 01:23:14,880 taping stuff. Yeah, yeah, well did you hear about that? So 1189 01:23:15,000 --> 01:23:18,319 in Clyde Savannah, Uh, there's been a horrible case where a couple of 1190 01:23:18,399 --> 01:23:23,199 seniors on the football team. The team had gone eight and o and they 1191 01:23:23,239 --> 01:23:28,720 were playing for their league championship. They held down a freshman on the varsity 1192 01:23:28,840 --> 01:23:33,840 team and sodomized them with like a broomstick while other kids filmed it. And 1193 01:23:34,079 --> 01:23:41,560 one one kid showed it to his grandfather, and the grandfather called police and 1194 01:23:41,600 --> 01:23:45,159 they've done a whole investigation and I think it is disgusting and I think, 1195 01:23:45,800 --> 01:23:49,520 uh, you know, it's been It was a lot of I'm sure attention 1196 01:23:49,640 --> 01:23:55,520 against small town, right, so everybody knows everybody, and uh, yeah 1197 01:23:55,600 --> 01:23:59,199 it's pretty bad. Yeah, pretty bad. But Stephanie, what happened on 1198 01:23:59,319 --> 01:24:02,000 your So? I did see in your what was it your story? It 1199 01:24:02,119 --> 01:24:05,359 was no candy. I went to a bunch of stores and they were all 1200 01:24:05,399 --> 01:24:09,279 out of Halloween candy and I had a lot of showings with work, so 1201 01:24:09,399 --> 01:24:12,279 I was barely gonna make it home on time for this to start. So 1202 01:24:12,399 --> 01:24:15,479 I did a bunch all sold out. I couldn't freaking believe it. So 1203 01:24:15,960 --> 01:24:19,079 I went to the dollar store and got a bunch of hand sanitizer tupacs. 1204 01:24:19,119 --> 01:24:23,680 I figured it kind of goes with eating candy and cold and flu season. 1205 01:24:23,760 --> 01:24:26,720 I think, what else am I going to do? So I left a 1206 01:24:26,760 --> 01:24:30,119 little no and my roos? Were you not home? I was home? 1207 01:24:30,920 --> 01:24:34,800 What happened is my ring camera is broken. I need to fix it. 1208 01:24:34,960 --> 01:24:39,800 It'll do like images and showless, but I can live watch it, but 1209 01:24:40,000 --> 01:24:43,479 like won't record videos live anymore. It's just just like person shows up. 1210 01:24:44,039 --> 01:24:47,920 So I'm watching these little kids and I'm in tears. I'm just crying, 1211 01:24:48,079 --> 01:24:51,159 and I'm like, I gotta find a way. So you know how you 1212 01:24:51,239 --> 01:24:55,880 can screen record on your phone, so I win it. No, actually 1213 01:24:55,960 --> 01:25:00,680 I don't. Oh I can show you that screen cry, but like in 1214 01:25:00,760 --> 01:25:02,600 the past, I couldn't pulled up. So I was doing this research while 1215 01:25:02,600 --> 01:25:06,760 I'm laughing at these kids. What they're saying, you can screen re cord, 1216 01:25:06,800 --> 01:25:09,600 and I got that on my ring. So what did you do? 1217 01:25:09,720 --> 01:25:12,359 You put a bowl out, like a help yourself type and I said, 1218 01:25:12,399 --> 01:25:15,199 I'm sorry. I went to three stores were all out of candy. Here's 1219 01:25:15,199 --> 01:25:24,760 some hand sanitizer if you'd like. I had some Taco Bell packets right attached, 1220 01:25:24,840 --> 01:25:32,239 right, Yeah, you're in take it. I am, I am 1221 01:25:36,640 --> 01:25:44,479 kid sounds like he's five. I'm not taking a hand sanitizer. I gotta 1222 01:25:44,520 --> 01:25:46,520 fast forward to this little I used to hate when I got pennies when I 1223 01:25:46,640 --> 01:25:56,520 was a kid. You get a little back for pennies. They're mad around. 1224 01:25:58,119 --> 01:26:06,760 One little kid tries to read it, Okay, hi from when show 1225 01:26:09,439 --> 01:26:17,800 now Halloween exact? Oh, so I can't be reading like, oh that's 1226 01:26:17,880 --> 01:26:24,600 cutey. That was really cute. The funniest one was that I was trying 1227 01:26:24,600 --> 01:26:27,359 to figure out how to record this. These two princesses, they were probably 1228 01:26:27,399 --> 01:26:35,199 seven years old. Like, I can't believe this, just like this one 1229 01:26:35,319 --> 01:26:42,319 kid was mean. They walk ups. You can talk through the ring camp, 1230 01:26:42,960 --> 01:26:50,079 I can't. Who will come? Just just stores? Fuck you? 1231 01:26:53,920 --> 01:27:03,800 The camera on top is that his mother and a background thank you. Now 1232 01:27:03,840 --> 01:27:13,840 he sees the camera, thank you, thank you, thank you, he 1233 01:27:13,920 --> 01:27:18,319 said, thank you. It's my locker. Anyway, I was freaking. 1234 01:27:18,399 --> 01:27:23,319 There's funny ones. But yeah, I was in tears and I didn't want 1235 01:27:23,319 --> 01:27:27,119 to forget out because I was just laughing. And I don't you could watch 1236 01:27:27,159 --> 01:27:29,159 it for a now, well, I wouldn't want to open up the door 1237 01:27:29,720 --> 01:27:32,560 without candy. Yeah, I don't blame it. And Halloween was always a 1238 01:27:32,560 --> 01:27:34,920 great time to look in at your neighbor's house and see what they had if 1239 01:27:34,960 --> 01:27:36,920 you never, like if you didn't know him, well, like the people 1240 01:27:36,960 --> 01:27:43,319 down the street that you weren't, Like, Hey, everybody with screen doors, 1241 01:27:43,359 --> 01:27:45,880 so they would take the bottom screen out so they di wouldn't even open 1242 01:27:45,960 --> 01:27:48,840 that door. They would just hand out the candy through the bottom screen. 1243 01:27:49,680 --> 01:27:55,560 In Utica, yeah, little houses. Yeah, I used to love taking 1244 01:27:55,960 --> 01:27:59,439 the boys around, like from house to house and getting got it. I 1245 01:27:59,560 --> 01:28:02,159 talked to I Top Brady this year. The art of going about seven thirty 1246 01:28:02,279 --> 01:28:05,520 quarter to eight, Yeah, and getting the bull dumps. Yes, yes, 1247 01:28:06,000 --> 01:28:10,680 I have video somewhere of my youngest kid getting the bull dump. They're 1248 01:28:10,760 --> 01:28:13,680 like take two and then he goes to camera. Oh he's the greatest guys 1249 01:28:13,760 --> 01:28:16,159 over having a great time. He's like seven, Yeah, yeah, I 1250 01:28:16,159 --> 01:28:18,760 had it. I'm like, he didn't do that. Yeah, Like he 1251 01:28:18,880 --> 01:28:23,680 and I went because you know, the older boys there were about eight to 1252 01:28:23,800 --> 01:28:26,680 ten years older than him, so they would go off on their own. 1253 01:28:26,840 --> 01:28:29,199 So I would take him around. He was like six or seven, and 1254 01:28:29,319 --> 01:28:31,319 we even hit a house that was there was no sidewalk on the side, 1255 01:28:31,319 --> 01:28:35,119 and the guy goes, I have nothing. He goes, hang on a 1256 01:28:35,159 --> 01:28:39,920 second. He came back and he gave him five bucks. You didn't do 1257 01:28:40,000 --> 01:28:42,560 anything. He's like, no, no, no, I'm good. But 1258 01:28:42,880 --> 01:28:45,600 it was like just off. You know, it was a neighborhood, but 1259 01:28:45,680 --> 01:28:48,600 it was just a house that kind of sat on this one side of the 1260 01:28:48,640 --> 01:28:50,960 street. They didn't have a sidewalk or anything. No one went there. 1261 01:28:51,920 --> 01:28:55,760 So James is like, I want to hit every house we can, and 1262 01:28:55,840 --> 01:28:58,720 I go, all right, we're in, buddy, let's go. Dad's 1263 01:28:58,720 --> 01:29:03,279 got his guinness for good. Go that that was good. The kids tried 1264 01:29:03,279 --> 01:29:05,680 to get in the wagon this year that we were pulling around and they're like, 1265 01:29:05,720 --> 01:29:09,560 no, no, that's for the coolers. Oh yeah, get out 1266 01:29:09,840 --> 01:29:12,880 walk. Yeah, that was the thing, like in the neighborhood. And 1267 01:29:12,920 --> 01:29:16,079 I would assume you'dica had walking neighborhoods, and all mine was so Roman you 1268 01:29:16,159 --> 01:29:21,920 were like spread way out. I go in, You're go into little trailer 1269 01:29:23,000 --> 01:29:29,479 parks. Yeah yeah, Tucker Mouth, Yeah I was. I was just 1270 01:29:29,600 --> 01:29:33,079 gonna say, did you go home and check for needles and stuff your mother 1271 01:29:33,239 --> 01:29:36,079 did? I would think like if there was gonna come from anywhere, and 1272 01:29:36,199 --> 01:29:40,039 this is very very judgmental, it could come from any home at all. 1273 01:29:40,399 --> 01:29:44,720 But I did hear somebody found something in an apple, like a pin or 1274 01:29:44,760 --> 01:29:48,279 something this year. Yeah? Oh really Yeah Yeah. When I was a 1275 01:29:48,359 --> 01:29:51,199 kid too, Yeah, there would be somebody. You'd hear the stories of 1276 01:29:51,279 --> 01:29:56,960 a razor blade, get a pin or a razor blade in there without being 1277 01:29:57,039 --> 01:30:01,600 seen. Just who's the one person's going to give you drugs on Halloween? 1278 01:30:02,560 --> 01:30:09,159 I've never met that personally. Yeah, extra, come on, what's up? 1279 01:30:10,319 --> 01:30:13,880 We see you know a small town like where I grew up, It 1280 01:30:14,000 --> 01:30:15,880 was near kind of near the Woodstock area, so you had a lot of 1281 01:30:15,920 --> 01:30:20,279 people that were just hanging around right after Woodstock. They just stayed, you 1282 01:30:20,319 --> 01:30:24,680 know, they did. It was but I remember going to graduation parties and 1283 01:30:24,760 --> 01:30:30,560 people were smoking joints with like people's moms getting it. They would grow it. 1284 01:30:30,960 --> 01:30:33,920 My parents weren't very cool like that, but they but yeah they would. 1285 01:30:34,640 --> 01:30:38,279 Yeah, it was. It was different. Did they people grow in 1286 01:30:38,439 --> 01:30:43,039 Utica? Yeah, yeah, definitely. Yeah, but because it was very 1287 01:30:43,119 --> 01:30:45,319 good customers, they grow well. I got to like in fourth grade. 1288 01:30:45,359 --> 01:30:48,960 When I was in fourth grade, the drug counselor came in and he burned 1289 01:30:49,079 --> 01:30:53,359 marijuana and goes, if you ever smell this, kids, you come and 1290 01:30:53,399 --> 01:30:58,199 find an adult, and no, it doesn't smell like that now, And 1291 01:30:58,239 --> 01:31:00,800 I would tell people I now. I had a teacher who told me when 1292 01:31:00,800 --> 01:31:03,199 we were in high school. He said, do not smoke a joint. 1293 01:31:03,600 --> 01:31:06,920 He said, it's so hot it could melt the soldering on a roach clip. 1294 01:31:06,960 --> 01:31:10,720 If you're going to smoke, smoke it through a water bod so it's 1295 01:31:10,800 --> 01:31:14,039 not that heat getting into your lungs because it's not just the smoke, but 1296 01:31:14,119 --> 01:31:18,920 the heat will damage your r he said. So he goes and even better 1297 01:31:19,039 --> 01:31:23,159 yet eat it. So we would eat like there were people who made cookies 1298 01:31:23,239 --> 01:31:26,000 with it when I was a kid, and brownies everybody knew. And now 1299 01:31:26,119 --> 01:31:29,439 the gummies. I'm a big fan. I'm a fan of the gummies. 1300 01:31:29,479 --> 01:31:35,239 I'm drug Yeah see and that's one oxy. When did you When did you 1301 01:31:35,319 --> 01:31:39,960 have the surgery? I had it Monday, Monday? Yeah, damn, 1302 01:31:40,039 --> 01:31:43,840 that's quick. So I never had anything. I mean, it's just now 1303 01:31:43,920 --> 01:31:48,000 and it hurts a little bit, but and it's all gummies all night long. 1304 01:31:48,239 --> 01:31:54,000 Really, what do you mind me asking what milligram? I can't even 1305 01:31:54,079 --> 01:31:59,880 answer that. I cut the little wormies up like little baby pieces. Yeah, 1306 01:32:00,079 --> 01:32:03,279 yeah, because I don't like to be stupid. I no, I 1307 01:32:03,439 --> 01:32:06,199 must be like a lightweight because I've seen people do a bunch of stuff, 1308 01:32:06,199 --> 01:32:11,640 but I always found tens kind of it's too much. Five two and a 1309 01:32:11,680 --> 01:32:15,840 half. That's a nice, steady little thing for me. But my brother 1310 01:32:15,000 --> 01:32:18,399 took my mom to a party and they kept going, come on, do 1311 01:32:18,560 --> 01:32:21,479 it, and all of a sudden she just reached it and popped one in 1312 01:32:21,520 --> 01:32:26,560 her mouth, and I think it was without I think it was a ten. 1313 01:32:26,640 --> 01:32:29,159 I think it was just a ten. And then my brother calls me 1314 01:32:29,159 --> 01:32:32,800 and goes, you got to see this. She's laughing, talking and laughing 1315 01:32:33,439 --> 01:32:36,760 and so and then my dad goes, you know, I think I want 1316 01:32:36,800 --> 01:32:42,560 to try one of those gummy bears, right, And they were like, 1317 01:32:42,720 --> 01:32:45,520 you know my parents. His big story was it would always brag to me 1318 01:32:45,560 --> 01:32:49,520 as a kid. Yeah, when Woodstock was happening, I was wearing a 1319 01:32:49,600 --> 01:32:54,479 three piece suit on the way to a wedding. We were going the opposite 1320 01:32:54,520 --> 01:32:58,119 direction on the throughway of everybody goes, I wasn't doing any of that stuff. 1321 01:32:58,399 --> 01:33:00,920 Well, now it's like everybody, but what we're seeing like we really 1322 01:33:01,079 --> 01:33:08,079 kind of criminalize something that maybe had benefits. I mean, no, she 1323 01:33:08,159 --> 01:33:11,079 can't even tell my dad that's what she's doing. Oh really well, I 1324 01:33:11,159 --> 01:33:15,720 mean just think about your your own but with this, yeah, and the 1325 01:33:15,840 --> 01:33:18,720 medical benefits to that. As you're saying, you're not putting opioids in your 1326 01:33:18,760 --> 01:33:23,880 body, that's a great. That's the biggest problem we have in this country 1327 01:33:24,000 --> 01:33:28,079 right now is people who are getting hooked to that and then finding heroin and 1328 01:33:28,199 --> 01:33:31,079 then what it's cut with now that is killing every you know, fentanyl that's 1329 01:33:31,159 --> 01:33:34,199 killing people. Yeah, it is crazy. Now I hear that they're even 1330 01:33:34,239 --> 01:33:39,199 putting fenyl in, so you have to be careful. Yeah, when I 1331 01:33:39,319 --> 01:33:44,600 was a kiddy, yeah, I remember there were kids who had LSD laced, 1332 01:33:44,840 --> 01:33:47,279 you know, on weed. And then yeah, my parents are such 1333 01:33:47,319 --> 01:33:51,560 freaky. Timothy Leary lived not far from where I grew up. Now, 1334 01:33:51,720 --> 01:33:56,439 he had had a mansion and he was at one of the I think he 1335 01:33:56,560 --> 01:33:59,520 was doing some kind of psychological study at one of the universities in the area. 1336 01:34:00,199 --> 01:34:02,520 And he had long left. Yeah, I think he had already gone 1337 01:34:02,560 --> 01:34:05,479 and run for I think he tried to run for governor of California and then 1338 01:34:05,520 --> 01:34:09,880 wound up in jail. And uh. I used to have to ride a 1339 01:34:09,960 --> 01:34:12,600 bike. I had a construction job at fifteen. I used to just go 1340 01:34:12,680 --> 01:34:15,399 around and clean up the construction site. And you know, I had They 1341 01:34:15,439 --> 01:34:19,359 had me sweeping off roofs before they played the tar paper down, so I'd 1342 01:34:19,399 --> 01:34:23,560 be up there. Ocean would kill these guys, but I would have to 1343 01:34:23,640 --> 01:34:27,039 ride my bike past the old Timothy Leary mansion. My mother, do not 1344 01:34:27,159 --> 01:34:30,439 get too close to that. She was worried. Yeah, like they were 1345 01:34:30,479 --> 01:34:35,239 gonna come out. The boogeyman wants some acid. It's like, come on 1346 01:34:35,920 --> 01:34:39,680 now, She's like, what what were you thinking? I don't know. 1347 01:34:39,880 --> 01:34:43,560 I would listen to everybody else, Like, well, stop stop listening to 1348 01:34:43,600 --> 01:34:45,199 everybody else, Sue, It's been a pleasure. I hope you have a 1349 01:34:45,279 --> 01:34:48,840 speedy recovery with that. Yeah, it was fun. It was fun, 1350 01:34:48,880 --> 01:34:54,000 and you were great. Great stories. I learned about sugaring. I heard 1351 01:34:54,000 --> 01:34:57,960 about stay away from Stephanie's house at Halloween. You're just gonna get a hand 1352 01:34:58,039 --> 01:35:04,359 sanitizer. See that's old school. The kids don't have the balls they used 1353 01:35:04,359 --> 01:35:10,079 to do. Because I was thinking that my buddies. Yes, and I 1354 01:35:10,199 --> 01:35:14,359 think when I was a kid, that hand sanitizer would have gone through a 1355 01:35:14,399 --> 01:35:16,439 window. Oh yeah, yeah, somebody would have fired it back at like 1356 01:35:16,560 --> 01:35:21,680 ninety miles an hour. So right, and you lucked out. It's a 1357 01:35:21,760 --> 01:35:28,680 better society today. It's a better society for Sue, for Stephanie, for 1358 01:35:28,840 --> 01:35:32,880 Kevin. I'm Bill Moran will see you tomorrow, Oh tomorrow doing it live 1359 01:35:32,960 --> 01:35:39,359 from the Bill's Mafia House for the Monday night game in Buffalo pre game, 1360 01:35:39,520 --> 01:35:43,399 so we won't have the exact results, but you'll hear all the ship that's 1361 01:35:43,439 --> 01:35:44,439 coming down to Buffalo