WEBVTT 1 00:00:14.119 --> 00:00:22.960 Not sorry. What's a positive bitches? How are we doing today? If 2 00:00:23.039 --> 00:00:27.239 you're hearing this episode, you're meant to be here, So keep listening. 3 00:00:27.760 --> 00:00:32.920 On that Bitch's Positive Podcast. Sometimes we will laugh, other times we will 4 00:00:32.960 --> 00:00:39.479 cry, but we will always walk away feeling our most empowered positive bitch self, 5 00:00:39.920 --> 00:00:47.799 that is positive babe in total connection with herself. On this podcast, 6 00:00:47.880 --> 00:00:54.200 we unravel our faulty programming so we can align with our true essence, make 7 00:00:54.280 --> 00:01:00.240 decisions that are in alignment with our higher self rather than our past rusta dusty 8 00:01:00.479 --> 00:01:07.200 self. We send that past self love, but ultimately we embody our highest, 9 00:01:07.760 --> 00:01:12.719 most positive bitch self. On today's podcast, we are talking about jum 10 00:01:12.879 --> 00:01:19.439 roll please da detachment. Yeah, there's a reason I've never fully gone into 11 00:01:19.640 --> 00:01:23.640 detachment. There's a reason that even I'm all about calling your power back, 12 00:01:25.040 --> 00:01:30.599 I'm not raving about the law of detachment. There's a very specific reason for 13 00:01:30.680 --> 00:01:34.640 this. And at this point, I am tired, girl. I am 14 00:01:34.920 --> 00:01:40.840 tired of hearing the little birds chirp, chirp, chirp, chirp on all 15 00:01:40.840 --> 00:01:44.840 of my social media platforms about detachment. You have to detach if you want 16 00:01:44.840 --> 00:01:47.319 them to love to you, you have to detach, a detachment, detachment, 17 00:01:47.319 --> 00:01:51.719 detachment. I'm like, HoldEm hold emoly, we need to calm down, 18 00:01:51.760 --> 00:01:57.280 We need to calm down. It is um interesting out there, But 19 00:01:57.400 --> 00:02:02.519 I have noticed that there is such a parade of misinformation about the law of 20 00:02:02.640 --> 00:02:07.680 detachment. People are taking it and they are running with it. They're doing 21 00:02:07.760 --> 00:02:10.000 splits with it, they're to working on it, and they are making the 22 00:02:10.080 --> 00:02:15.680 law of detachment something it's simply not. And there was this creator who used 23 00:02:15.680 --> 00:02:21.840 my mantra, didn't give me credit, which is fine, but she explained 24 00:02:21.840 --> 00:02:24.560 the law of detachment in a way I just completely disagree with. So did 25 00:02:24.560 --> 00:02:30.960 it grind my gears that she used my beautiful, powerful mantra but in a 26 00:02:31.000 --> 00:02:36.960 way that wasn't intro alignment with what it's meant to be used for. That 27 00:02:37.120 --> 00:02:38.960 is what just gets me going, because I'm like, no, no, 28 00:02:39.159 --> 00:02:43.400 no, no, no, no no no, that is not why we 29 00:02:43.560 --> 00:02:46.800 use this mantra. We use it for a totally different reason. We're going 30 00:02:46.840 --> 00:02:52.520 to get into all of that, but understand that if you're coming to this 31 00:02:52.560 --> 00:02:57.280 podcast right now and you just feel like you are wrapped around someone else's finger, 32 00:02:57.479 --> 00:03:00.159 if you feel like you can't stop thinking about some one. If you 33 00:03:00.240 --> 00:03:05.400 don't understand why you're always getting ghosted, you don't understand why you can't make 34 00:03:05.719 --> 00:03:10.919 either friendships or intimate relationships work. We are going to dive into all of 35 00:03:10.960 --> 00:03:16.719 that today. This is even going to reach into why certain manifestations don't ever 36 00:03:16.840 --> 00:03:22.680 solidify into the three D. We're going to talk about detachment, but in 37 00:03:22.719 --> 00:03:28.159 a way that truly encompasses what the law of detachment was meant to be used 38 00:03:28.199 --> 00:03:32.680 for and how to use it. Not how I guess you could say pop 39 00:03:32.719 --> 00:03:38.479 psychology or pop spirituality is using it because it is girl, it is just 40 00:03:38.639 --> 00:03:44.080 not it. Okay, we are getting all funky dory or honky dory. 41 00:03:44.199 --> 00:03:46.520 Funky dory, honky dory. I don't really know. I kind of like 42 00:03:46.599 --> 00:03:51.319 them both. But we are getting all types of weird with detachment, and 43 00:03:51.360 --> 00:03:57.560 it's making our mental health go down the tubes and it's not helping us do 44 00:03:57.599 --> 00:04:00.199 what we ultimately want to do, which is feel like liberated and also have 45 00:04:00.360 --> 00:04:06.039 loving relationships. Girl. Okay, before we get into that, a couple 46 00:04:06.319 --> 00:04:11.680 of announcements. One, I got a third microphone. Hopefully this one is 47 00:04:11.719 --> 00:04:14.199 better. I think this one will do the trick. I mean you tell 48 00:04:14.240 --> 00:04:18.000 me how does a voice sound. I am happy with this microphone. I 49 00:04:18.079 --> 00:04:21.279 want to give you the clearest best audio possible. So we had to do 50 00:04:21.519 --> 00:04:27.319 a third upgrade here in flow Rida my mic that I always use, which 51 00:04:27.360 --> 00:04:30.480 is it has sparkles on it, so it's obviously like the Faith. It's 52 00:04:30.480 --> 00:04:32.120 in New York. I don't have it with me, but we have a 53 00:04:32.160 --> 00:04:38.920 beautiful, amazing microphone now in Florida and we are ready to go. If 54 00:04:38.920 --> 00:04:44.879 you're not yet following me on Instagram at vibe in with ccv ibi n with 55 00:04:45.120 --> 00:04:48.759 ci CII, and at that Bitch is Positive, be sure to follow me 56 00:04:48.839 --> 00:04:54.160 on both accounts so you can keep up with us positive bitches and get daily 57 00:04:54.279 --> 00:04:59.480 golden nuggets of how you can become your most positive bitch self. If you 58 00:04:59.560 --> 00:05:02.920 are going through a breakup, whether with an intimate partner or a friendship breakup, 59 00:05:02.920 --> 00:05:09.279 because those hurt sometimes even more because you don't think a friendship is going 60 00:05:09.360 --> 00:05:13.759 to break apart. 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Today I 91 00:07:40.480 --> 00:07:45.839 literally have notes because a girl has points that she needs to make. Okay, 92 00:07:46.600 --> 00:07:51.439 So I see a lot of social media posts about detachment. This is 93 00:07:51.480 --> 00:07:55.839 how you detach. You should be detaching, detached, detached, detach. 94 00:07:56.160 --> 00:07:59.600 And then, of course I saw that video where that creator was using my 95 00:07:59.680 --> 00:08:01.439 mom tub with the law of detachment, and I was like, okay, 96 00:08:01.560 --> 00:08:07.639 wait, we need to dial this back for a second, because the message 97 00:08:07.639 --> 00:08:15.800 of this mantra is getting lost here. Understand me and don't just listen to 98 00:08:15.800 --> 00:08:20.800 me, but fucking hear me when I say this. Being obsessed with detachment 99 00:08:22.439 --> 00:08:30.360 is your anxiety manifesting in just another way you. Being obsessed with detaching from 100 00:08:30.399 --> 00:08:35.039 someone is just another way of saying that they are on your pedestal. Being 101 00:08:35.080 --> 00:08:43.320 obsessed with detachment is still being obsessed with them. Being obsessed with detaching from 102 00:08:43.320 --> 00:08:50.440 someone is still focusing more on them than it is you. How could this 103 00:08:50.480 --> 00:08:54.799 be and why would this be? When you're thinking to yourself, I have 104 00:08:56.000 --> 00:09:01.919 to not answer this text message for three hours to show that I'm detached and 105 00:09:01.000 --> 00:09:05.720 I'm not all obsessed. Why are you acting in the way you're acting. 106 00:09:05.879 --> 00:09:09.840 Is it in accordance with you and how you wish to show up or is 107 00:09:09.879 --> 00:09:13.120 it in accordance with how you think you have to show up for them? 108 00:09:15.320 --> 00:09:22.360 Keyword is for them. When you are thinking being acting in ways that you 109 00:09:22.399 --> 00:09:30.720 are trying to manipulate yourself so someone else likes you, that is not detachment. 110 00:09:30.960 --> 00:09:37.519 That is your anxiety manifesting and still pedestaling them. Being obsessed with how 111 00:09:37.559 --> 00:09:43.360 you're showing up because you want to look a certain way for them is not 112 00:09:43.559 --> 00:09:50.440 detachment. That is energetically chasing them. That is pedestaling them. Anytime you 113 00:09:50.519 --> 00:09:56.200 are thinking, anytime you're acting, anytime you're being in a way that you 114 00:09:56.320 --> 00:10:01.559 think is going to win you points ba solve their own perception. You are 115 00:10:01.639 --> 00:10:07.879 not living in accordance to you. You are not detaching from them. You 116 00:10:07.960 --> 00:10:13.720 are being obsessed with them. If you are constantly thinking, how can I 117 00:10:13.759 --> 00:10:18.159 detach, How can I detach? How can I detach? What are you 118 00:10:18.480 --> 00:10:24.519 doing? Really, all you're doing is still spending your time thinking about how 119 00:10:24.559 --> 00:10:28.120 you should act and be so you can get them, so you can look 120 00:10:28.159 --> 00:10:33.120 a certain way in front of them. You are still acting, being thinking, 121 00:10:33.320 --> 00:10:41.440 existing for them instead of yourself and baby girl, that's not detachment. 122 00:10:41.559 --> 00:10:48.200 That's anxiety. That is not detachment. There's so many videos that are telling 123 00:10:48.200 --> 00:10:50.120 you, oh, do this, do that, do this, do that 124 00:10:50.200 --> 00:10:54.240 for them, for them, for them, that is not detachment. And 125 00:10:54.279 --> 00:10:58.200 the more videos I see about this, the more I'm seeing, oh my 126 00:10:58.360 --> 00:11:03.840 god, this is probably just causing so much havoc on people's mental health, 127 00:11:03.919 --> 00:11:09.000 thinking they have to do all these different things to detach, when really all 128 00:11:09.000 --> 00:11:13.799 you have to do is call your power back. Because when you call your 129 00:11:13.840 --> 00:11:20.399 power back, you're taking back what's yours. You're not trying to manipulate yourself 130 00:11:20.440 --> 00:11:24.919 to be a certain way. You're taking back what has always has always been 131 00:11:26.519 --> 00:11:31.759 yours. It's like if you gave your dog to Brad and then you took 132 00:11:31.799 --> 00:11:35.360 your dog back from Brad, that was always your dog. It was always 133 00:11:35.399 --> 00:11:41.120 yours, and it's meant to be in your hands. If you are obsessed 134 00:11:41.159 --> 00:11:50.360 about detachment, understand that that is giving all of your power away. We're 135 00:11:50.360 --> 00:11:54.159 going to talk about what detachment actually is and how you can shift your energy 136 00:11:54.200 --> 00:12:00.279 in a way that you feel liberated and free and you won't be thrown your 137 00:12:00.360 --> 00:12:05.480 energy out there and you'll actually just be magnetic. When you're so obsessed with 138 00:12:05.159 --> 00:12:11.159 am I detached? Am I coming off as detached? That's not magnetic because 139 00:12:11.159 --> 00:12:16.840 you're focusing on all the external things around you. The true form of magnetic 140 00:12:16.000 --> 00:12:22.159 energy is connected to your divine feminine energy, meaning that you know you have 141 00:12:22.399 --> 00:12:26.440 everything you need already within you. So you're not obsessed about what Brad or 142 00:12:26.480 --> 00:12:31.799 Harry or Henry is doing, because you know you already have everything you need 143 00:12:31.840 --> 00:12:39.559 within you. A magnetic positive bitch is not obsessed about detachment. A magnetic 144 00:12:39.600 --> 00:12:45.200 positive bitch is just focused on what she's doing in her life to become her 145 00:12:45.279 --> 00:12:52.799 best self. A magnetic positive bitch is not worried about how she's being perceived. 146 00:12:52.200 --> 00:12:58.320 She's focused on how she can feel good. Now, if you're struggling 147 00:12:58.720 --> 00:13:05.159 with this concept, instead of doing all these different things to be perceived detached, 148 00:13:05.399 --> 00:13:11.919 instead, just call your power back. That's about you. For you. 149 00:13:13.559 --> 00:13:16.320 When you call your power back the first time, maybe you intended to 150 00:13:16.360 --> 00:13:20.279 get a text from them, and that's what brought you to this sort of 151 00:13:20.320 --> 00:13:24.840 content. But the more you call your power back, an amazing, beautiful 152 00:13:24.879 --> 00:13:30.000 transformation happens. The more you call your power back, the more you realize 153 00:13:30.000 --> 00:13:33.480 how good it feels to have your power back in your own sacred chakra. 154 00:13:33.879 --> 00:13:37.279 The more you call your power back, the less you care about getting the 155 00:13:37.279 --> 00:13:41.840 text, and the more you just feel liberated. I might reel you in 156 00:13:41.919 --> 00:13:43.440 by saying, if you want to get a text, use this mantra, 157 00:13:43.799 --> 00:13:50.559 But what actually happens with using that mantra over time is you become your most 158 00:13:50.600 --> 00:13:56.080 magnetic self because you started off thinking, well, how can I get their 159 00:13:56.120 --> 00:14:01.399 attention? And what you ended up getting is your fuck power back, is 160 00:14:01.440 --> 00:14:09.080 your focus back, is your energy back. I really recommend focusing on calling 161 00:14:09.080 --> 00:14:13.840 your power back rather than trying to do a bunch of different things to be 162 00:14:13.000 --> 00:14:18.759 quote unquote detached, because in doing those actions, your thought process is I 163 00:14:18.919 --> 00:14:22.120 have to do this in order to get their attention. But when you call 164 00:14:22.200 --> 00:14:26.879 your power back a side dish, Yeah, maybe you get a rinky dinky 165 00:14:26.919 --> 00:14:30.360 text from them, but the main course is that you feel liberated, You 166 00:14:30.399 --> 00:14:33.000 feel your best self, and you have your fucking power back, which is 167 00:14:33.200 --> 00:14:37.279 yours, and you should have it back in your body. You can download 168 00:14:37.279 --> 00:14:41.720 the Calling your Power Back workbook, which the link will be in the show 169 00:14:41.759 --> 00:14:46.279 notes. But just to give you the simple mantra, it is I lovingly 170 00:14:46.440 --> 00:14:52.799 and peacefully call all of my power back to me now and envision your white 171 00:14:52.840 --> 00:14:58.879 light power leaving their body and going back into your sacred chakra, which is 172 00:14:58.039 --> 00:15:03.559 an energy vortex right below your belly button and it's orange. And imagine that 173 00:15:03.639 --> 00:15:07.279 your white light energy is going all the way down to your sacral chakra and 174 00:15:07.399 --> 00:15:15.960 expanding this energy vortex to let in more love and more happiness. Let's get 175 00:15:16.000 --> 00:15:22.720 into what the law of detachment actually is, because what I'm hearing on social 176 00:15:22.759 --> 00:15:28.240 media is not what I remember learning, and that is because it's just a 177 00:15:28.279 --> 00:15:33.440 false narrative. The law of detachment states that in order to manifest our desires, 178 00:15:33.759 --> 00:15:39.679 we must release attachment to the outcome itself, as well as the path 179 00:15:39.759 --> 00:15:46.000 we might take to get there. The law of detachment focuses on patience and 180 00:15:46.200 --> 00:15:52.480 presence and effort without being attached to what the next step or final outcome may 181 00:15:52.519 --> 00:15:58.840 be. In other words, the law of detachment. Now these are CC's 182 00:15:58.879 --> 00:16:04.919 words. The law of attachment is focusing on feeling good now, because in 183 00:16:06.039 --> 00:16:11.639 focusing on feeling good now, you will manifest more feeling good emotional outcomes later. 184 00:16:12.399 --> 00:16:19.080 Feeling good now attracts more emotional outcomes that will feel good to you later. 185 00:16:21.320 --> 00:16:26.000 It's easy to get all consumed in a romance or a relationship, but 186 00:16:26.039 --> 00:16:30.440 the law of detachment would encourage us to just take things one step at a 187 00:16:30.480 --> 00:16:37.120 time. In other words, baby motherfucking steps to getting to where you want 188 00:16:37.159 --> 00:16:42.320 to go. A lot of us get so consumed and I want this career, 189 00:16:42.480 --> 00:16:45.879 I want to be in this city, I want to have this relationship. 190 00:16:47.200 --> 00:16:52.240 The law of detachment, what it's there for is to remind you to 191 00:16:52.279 --> 00:16:56.320 focus on being in the present moment, because if you're always focused on your 192 00:16:56.399 --> 00:17:00.960 future, you're never going to be able to live in your present. And 193 00:17:02.000 --> 00:17:06.920 if you're always focused on what you lack, you're only going to attract more 194 00:17:07.440 --> 00:17:14.000 lack. The law of detachment is not put in place so women can manipulate 195 00:17:14.079 --> 00:17:18.119 themselves to be whoever they think they have to be in order to get men. 196 00:17:18.519 --> 00:17:22.519 The law of detachment is not put in place so that we can think 197 00:17:22.559 --> 00:17:27.519 about how we have to show up instead of just showing up as our authentic 198 00:17:27.640 --> 00:17:34.000 self. The law of detachment was not created so we could pedestal other people 199 00:17:34.200 --> 00:17:38.519 and change ourselves so they'll like us. That is not why the law of 200 00:17:38.519 --> 00:17:45.039 detachment was created. The law of detachment was created to remind you to stay 201 00:17:45.119 --> 00:17:49.319 focused on where you are now, because your power is in the present moment 202 00:17:49.599 --> 00:17:56.359 and your point of attraction is your energy. As we're speaking right this second, 203 00:17:56.160 --> 00:18:03.279 The law of detachment is to remind you to refine your energy right now 204 00:18:03.759 --> 00:18:07.279 instead of focus on what you don't have or what you wish to have in 205 00:18:07.319 --> 00:18:11.400 the future. The law of detachment is to tell you, if you want 206 00:18:11.440 --> 00:18:15.599 to feel good later, start doing things that make you feel good now. 207 00:18:15.279 --> 00:18:21.359 If you want to manifest a loving relationship, focus on how you can tap 208 00:18:21.400 --> 00:18:23.839 into love right now. Can you love your pet? Can you give yourself 209 00:18:25.160 --> 00:18:27.559 self love? Can you love a parent, a sibling, a friend, 210 00:18:27.640 --> 00:18:33.079 a co worker. How can you tap into love right now? Because that 211 00:18:33.200 --> 00:18:38.400 is what is going to manifest more love later. The law of detachment is 212 00:18:38.400 --> 00:18:42.839 there to remind us that we have to embody our divine, feminine energy and 213 00:18:42.920 --> 00:18:47.920 remember that we are co creators, not the creator. There are going to 214 00:18:47.960 --> 00:18:52.799 be certain steps that we didn't foresee, certain circumstances that we didn't foresee as 215 00:18:52.799 --> 00:18:56.599 our human self, even though our higher self knew it was going to happen, 216 00:18:56.039 --> 00:19:00.240 and we have to move through those with grace, knowing that there are 217 00:19:00.319 --> 00:19:03.920 going to be high vibe seasons and there's going to be low vibe seasons. 218 00:19:04.240 --> 00:19:07.720 And when there's high vibe seasons, let's enjoy that ship. And when there's 219 00:19:07.799 --> 00:19:15.079 low vibe seasons, let's remember that ship will pass. That's what the law 220 00:19:15.160 --> 00:19:19.480 of detachment is about it's to help us ease up on control. But it 221 00:19:19.640 --> 00:19:27.119 is not there to be a way for us to say that we have to 222 00:19:27.160 --> 00:19:33.200 show up in all these different ways in order to be loved. To me, 223 00:19:33.319 --> 00:19:37.839 that is just the manifestation of society's anxiety about relationships. Moral of the 224 00:19:37.920 --> 00:19:44.359 motherfucking story is if you are manipulating how you act, how you think, 225 00:19:44.400 --> 00:19:48.720 how you show up in any way because you think that is what the person 226 00:19:48.799 --> 00:19:55.119 you're trying to get will like, you're not being detached. You are energetically 227 00:19:55.200 --> 00:19:59.079 chasing. If a video online tells you you have to wait three hours and 228 00:19:59.160 --> 00:20:03.680 that means you're detail hatched, that is not detachment. That is you waiting 229 00:20:03.720 --> 00:20:07.759 three hours because you're trying to show up in a way that you think that 230 00:20:07.799 --> 00:20:11.359 other person will like. That is still pedestaling them. If you are acting, 231 00:20:11.400 --> 00:20:15.000 thinking, being existing in any way that is not authentic to you, 232 00:20:15.720 --> 00:20:19.039 but you're doing it because you think it's detached and will get them, that 233 00:20:19.279 --> 00:20:25.400 is not detachment. That is living in accordance to someone else's energy frequency, 234 00:20:25.720 --> 00:20:32.400 and that is pedestaling them. Here's the thing. We are really only as 235 00:20:32.519 --> 00:20:37.640 good as our worst habits when it comes to energetically chasing. Your bad habits 236 00:20:37.680 --> 00:20:42.599 are what ultimately is going to hold you back, because you can really only 237 00:20:42.720 --> 00:20:48.839 go as far as your bad habits will allow you to go. You can 238 00:20:48.920 --> 00:20:52.759 have good habits, you can have good intentions, but if you have bad 239 00:20:52.839 --> 00:20:57.279 habits, that is what's ultimately going to stop you when it comes to pedestaling 240 00:20:57.319 --> 00:21:06.039 other people and energetic chasing. Let's think about Joe from the Netflix series called 241 00:21:06.279 --> 00:21:11.680 You. I am watching the current season. No spoilers here, but let's 242 00:21:11.759 --> 00:21:18.079 just understand what Joe is doing wrong when it comes to love and ultimately detachment 243 00:21:18.160 --> 00:21:23.559 and energetically chasing. If you don't know the show You, Joe is basically 244 00:21:23.599 --> 00:21:29.720 this hopeless romantic who also thinks he's somehow a victim. But lo and behold, 245 00:21:29.720 --> 00:21:33.559 he kills people all the fucking time. So Joe, he has the 246 00:21:33.599 --> 00:21:37.640 best of intentions. He's always saying, I'm this good guy. I want 247 00:21:37.640 --> 00:21:41.039 to be this good guy. All I want is love, but then he 248 00:21:41.119 --> 00:21:48.039 keeps fucking killing people. Joe is only as good as his murderous self. 249 00:21:48.480 --> 00:21:52.960 Joe is only as good as his worst habits, which is fucking killing people. 250 00:21:53.400 --> 00:21:57.599 I have to say this current season really not my favor, but I'm 251 00:21:57.640 --> 00:22:03.319 still watching it so we'll see how everything unfolds. Joe is only as good 252 00:22:04.200 --> 00:22:08.519 as his worst habits. He has these intentions. He throws himself a fucking 253 00:22:08.559 --> 00:22:14.480 pity's party every episode almost. I'm like, does anyone feel bad for this 254 00:22:14.559 --> 00:22:17.720 character? How do you feel bad for this character? I'm like you, 255 00:22:18.359 --> 00:22:21.039 yeah, you need help. I don't really feel bad for you because you 256 00:22:21.160 --> 00:22:26.039 keep killing people, so it's kind of hard to feel bad for you anyway. 257 00:22:26.319 --> 00:22:29.039 And people always like him too. All these girls love you, you 258 00:22:29.119 --> 00:22:32.880 keep killing them, and somehow this is a SOB story. I don't get 259 00:22:32.920 --> 00:22:37.039 it. Lo and behold, let's focus on what's going on here. So 260 00:22:37.119 --> 00:22:41.200 he's only as good as his bad habits, so aren't weight So we could 261 00:22:41.240 --> 00:22:45.559 have the intention of I really am ready for love, I'm ready for a 262 00:22:45.640 --> 00:22:49.440 relationship. But if our bad habit is being obsessed about how we are being 263 00:22:49.480 --> 00:22:55.559 perceived, that is what is going to triumph over that intention. If our 264 00:22:55.680 --> 00:23:02.079 bad habits are consistently thinking about how we have to act in order to get 265 00:23:02.200 --> 00:23:07.000 them. If our bad habits are all consumed about showing up differently, being 266 00:23:07.119 --> 00:23:11.200 different, thinking different, speaking difference, so they like us, that is 267 00:23:11.319 --> 00:23:17.160 ultimately what is going to manifest in our life because your intention maybe you thought 268 00:23:17.160 --> 00:23:21.440 about that once or twice. But your bad habit key word is fucking habit. 269 00:23:21.799 --> 00:23:25.799 Your habit is what you're dipping your toe into every single day. Your 270 00:23:25.839 --> 00:23:32.640 habit is what you're consistently embodying on a daily basis. If your habit is 271 00:23:32.720 --> 00:23:37.079 watching a million of these detachment videos, sis, get the fuck outside, 272 00:23:37.200 --> 00:23:40.960 get off of TikTok okay. You need to breathe some fresh air in, 273 00:23:41.599 --> 00:23:45.920 dip into a pool, go for a walk read a book, listen to 274 00:23:45.960 --> 00:23:52.400 a ted talk. You need to unplug from this whole detachment narrative. This 275 00:23:52.519 --> 00:23:55.680 detachment narrative, I think, is spending a lot of us out of control. 276 00:23:55.920 --> 00:24:00.279 We're so obsessed with detachment that we forget to even just focus on ourselves. 277 00:24:00.720 --> 00:24:06.200 If we're obsessed about detachment, that is the same thing as saying we 278 00:24:06.240 --> 00:24:11.440 are obsessing over who we're dating. We're only going to get as far as 279 00:24:11.519 --> 00:24:15.319 our worst habit. That is our worst habit when it comes to love. 280 00:24:15.920 --> 00:24:22.400 Why because it makes us repellent. How can we start to step away from 281 00:24:22.400 --> 00:24:26.319 this bad habit? I really think it comes down to the story you're telling 282 00:24:26.359 --> 00:24:32.240 yourself because in you Joe is every single fucking episode. I can't listen to 283 00:24:32.319 --> 00:24:38.119 him telling this pity party story about he is this little teeny wheeny victim and 284 00:24:38.240 --> 00:24:41.599 he wants to get away from it. All. Okay, bitch, then 285 00:24:41.640 --> 00:24:44.559 stop killing people. You should have stopped killing people a long time ago. 286 00:24:45.039 --> 00:24:49.839 This is your fault. Get yourself help. Hello. Obviously, in the 287 00:24:49.880 --> 00:24:53.400 real world some people don't know how to get themselves help. But this is 288 00:24:53.440 --> 00:24:57.200 a scripted show, so I'm allowed to go off when I need to go 289 00:24:57.240 --> 00:25:03.440 off. Anyway, Joe keeps telling himself a story that's placing himself in a 290 00:25:03.599 --> 00:25:08.599 victim mode. Self pity is a really long road, and guess what, 291 00:25:08.720 --> 00:25:12.680 there's a dead fucking end at the end of it. There's nowhere to go. 292 00:25:12.759 --> 00:25:17.160 When self pity is invited to the party, there's nowhere to go. 293 00:25:17.240 --> 00:25:21.200 He's always like, why does everyone do this and that and blah blah blah, 294 00:25:21.240 --> 00:25:22.319 And I just want to find love. Oh no, am I falling 295 00:25:22.359 --> 00:25:25.680 in love again? Oh no, I have to kill someone. Blah blah 296 00:25:25.759 --> 00:25:32.039 blah blah blah. Joe is always telling himself a sob story. If this 297 00:25:32.640 --> 00:25:38.039 type of pity parties happening in your internal world every day. We need to 298 00:25:38.279 --> 00:25:44.279 pause the music. What story are you telling yourself when it comes to love, 299 00:25:44.640 --> 00:25:48.480 Because if you're telling yourself everyone always leaves you or ghosts you, or 300 00:25:48.519 --> 00:25:52.240 abandons you, or you're not good enough or you're not pretty enough, You're 301 00:25:52.279 --> 00:25:56.839 going to become very obsessed with detachment. Because if you think everything's wrong with 302 00:25:56.880 --> 00:26:00.160 you, you're going to put all of your eggs in the detachment buck it. 303 00:26:00.599 --> 00:26:03.799 And then what happens is you become obsessed with detachment because you think it's 304 00:26:03.839 --> 00:26:08.279 your key to the kingdom, when really detachment is just another way of being 305 00:26:08.279 --> 00:26:12.839 obsessed with that other person. When we're listening to the type of narrative that 306 00:26:14.000 --> 00:26:19.759 detachment is related to online, because remember, the real meat of detachment is 307 00:26:21.079 --> 00:26:23.440 focus on the present moment. Feel good now, and you'll get more good 308 00:26:23.519 --> 00:26:30.440 later. That's what detachment really is. Let God step in and unfold your 309 00:26:30.480 --> 00:26:33.960 mystery for you. That's detachment. It is not manipulate yourself so other people 310 00:26:34.039 --> 00:26:37.279 like you, I don't know what the fuck that is. That is just 311 00:26:37.759 --> 00:26:44.799 question marks. There's a big difference between taking off your masculine shield. There's 312 00:26:44.799 --> 00:26:48.440 a big difference between releasing codependency and anxious attachment and calling your power back, 313 00:26:48.839 --> 00:26:56.200 versus manipulating yourself so someone likes you, unbecoming who you are, not so 314 00:26:56.240 --> 00:27:00.400 you can fully embody who you are. Nothing wrong with that, But trying 315 00:27:00.440 --> 00:27:07.039 to manipulate yourself and becoming obsessed with detachments. What's the point of that? 316 00:27:07.599 --> 00:27:11.119 It takes you away from being who you actually are, which then makes it 317 00:27:11.200 --> 00:27:17.079 harder to find the people who are in vibrational alignment with you. I want 318 00:27:17.119 --> 00:27:21.240 you to take out a pen and a piece of paper, and I want 319 00:27:21.279 --> 00:27:26.759 you to start to rationalize your story. If you're telling yourself everyone always leaves, 320 00:27:26.759 --> 00:27:29.640 you, write down a list of people who have stayed in your life, 321 00:27:29.680 --> 00:27:33.000 including yourself, including your angels, including God. If you think that 322 00:27:33.079 --> 00:27:37.319 everyone always ghosts, you write down people who you maybe ghost it or you 323 00:27:37.400 --> 00:27:41.920 left. If you think that no one has ever loved you, write down 324 00:27:41.960 --> 00:27:45.160 people who are like, actually, I think they were really into me. 325 00:27:45.519 --> 00:27:48.480 If you think no one's ever into you, write down the people who are 326 00:27:48.559 --> 00:27:52.799 into you, but maybe you weren't into them. We have a really funny 327 00:27:52.880 --> 00:27:57.319 way of molding a story over time to feed certain narratives, and we need 328 00:27:57.400 --> 00:28:03.119 to destroy the stories that are no longer serving us, and frankly don't make 329 00:28:03.160 --> 00:28:06.960 any fucking sense. They're not rational and they're not true. If you're going 330 00:28:07.000 --> 00:28:08.880 to lie to yourself, you might as well lie to yourself in a way 331 00:28:08.920 --> 00:28:12.799 that empowers you. Why lie to yourself in a way that disempowers you? 332 00:28:14.359 --> 00:28:18.079 But what we're doing here really is going closer to the truth, the truth 333 00:28:18.200 --> 00:28:23.400 of Wait. Actually, Harry, Bob and Frank all really liked me. 334 00:28:23.519 --> 00:28:27.440 I just wasn't into them. I have, however, been hyper focused on 335 00:28:29.240 --> 00:28:32.640 Patrick because I did like him, but he didn't like me back, and 336 00:28:32.720 --> 00:28:37.440 that really has clouded the story I've been telling myself right down, a fuller 337 00:28:37.519 --> 00:28:41.880 picture of your truth, rather than being hyper focused on a part of your 338 00:28:41.920 --> 00:28:49.880 story that isn't even serving you. We need to feed the right frequency instead 339 00:28:49.920 --> 00:28:53.480 of being obsessed with detachment. We're going to call our power back. We're 340 00:28:53.519 --> 00:29:00.000 also going to remember the power that we innately have. We can influence someone 341 00:29:00.160 --> 00:29:03.599 just by staring at their hair. Have you ever stared at someone's hair or 342 00:29:03.880 --> 00:29:06.079 there was something on their nose or their lip, and then they're like, 343 00:29:06.160 --> 00:29:08.039 is there something on my nose? Something in my hair? If you stare 344 00:29:08.039 --> 00:29:11.640 at someone's hair long enough, Eventually that other person will start touching their hair, 345 00:29:12.039 --> 00:29:15.599 or they'll ask you, is there something wrong with my hair? Is 346 00:29:15.599 --> 00:29:19.400 there something on my hair? We influence people just by looking at a specific 347 00:29:19.480 --> 00:29:26.960 part of their body. Have we forgotten that? Have we forgotten how much 348 00:29:26.039 --> 00:29:30.920 power we truly hold when it comes to relationships and dating and just being a 349 00:29:32.000 --> 00:29:37.160 fucking human being. You're forgetting your power, and that's why we're having this 350 00:29:37.279 --> 00:29:45.160 talk. When do most people change when they're inspired? When do most people 351 00:29:47.839 --> 00:29:52.880 or get repelled when we're trying to force them to like us? I'm gonna 352 00:29:52.880 --> 00:29:56.759 say that again because I really need you again not to just listen up, 353 00:29:56.799 --> 00:30:03.160 but to hear the words I'm saying. When are people most likely to change, 354 00:30:03.240 --> 00:30:07.599 It's when they're inspired inspired to change. When are people most likely to 355 00:30:07.640 --> 00:30:15.759 be repelled when we're trying to force them to become closer to us. Instead 356 00:30:15.759 --> 00:30:22.400 of trying to manipulate yourself or the situation or them and being obsessed about detachment, 357 00:30:22.799 --> 00:30:26.640 you don't have to do any of that. Instead, inspire people to 358 00:30:26.799 --> 00:30:30.680 be with you by being happy in your own life. When someone sees someone 359 00:30:30.720 --> 00:30:36.359 who's happy and having fun, people are naturally attracted to that person. They 360 00:30:36.400 --> 00:30:38.440 want happiness, they want a piece of that fun cake. They want to 361 00:30:38.559 --> 00:30:44.119 enjoy that person's presence too. Everyone just wants to be loved, and we 362 00:30:44.160 --> 00:30:48.240 want to have fun, and we want to feel good. If you're embodying 363 00:30:48.440 --> 00:30:52.000 love and good feeling, people are naturally going to be inspired to want to 364 00:30:52.000 --> 00:30:57.359 come closer to you. It's when we're trying to force other people or ourselves 365 00:30:57.480 --> 00:31:03.920 that we get into our bad habits again. We get into energetically chasing. 366 00:31:04.519 --> 00:31:08.640 When we're trying to save every single video about detachment, doing this, doing 367 00:31:08.640 --> 00:31:11.119 that, doing this, doing that. Oh my god, we are trying 368 00:31:11.119 --> 00:31:18.559 to force a round peg in a square hole, and we're wasting our own 369 00:31:18.599 --> 00:31:23.359 time because ultimately, force does not get someone to like you. Inspiration does. 370 00:31:25.400 --> 00:31:30.480 Being embodying, existing in a high frequency. That is what attracts people 371 00:31:30.519 --> 00:31:36.559 towards you. Not obsessing about how you can detach from them and manipulate yourself, 372 00:31:37.000 --> 00:31:41.319 because that's force. We want to focus on feeling good now. My 373 00:31:41.559 --> 00:31:45.720 number one tip for feeling good now, bitch, do some charity work. 374 00:31:47.279 --> 00:31:49.519 You want to feel better about your life, Go feed someone who's starving, 375 00:31:49.880 --> 00:31:53.160 Go help someone who's on the streets. You're going to start to put your 376 00:31:53.200 --> 00:31:57.519 life into perspective, and it's gonna be really hard to have a pity party 377 00:31:57.720 --> 00:32:02.279 when you see someone who's literally dying. Try it, then see how you 378 00:32:02.319 --> 00:32:07.960 feel about yourself. That will be fun. Do some charity work that's going 379 00:32:08.000 --> 00:32:10.920 to help you focus on you, on your own life. Maybe it will 380 00:32:10.960 --> 00:32:15.960 even spark a passion. You know what, I really enjoyed helping this person. 381 00:32:15.599 --> 00:32:20.200 I want to get involved here. How can you focus on feeling good 382 00:32:20.240 --> 00:32:24.200 now? How can you focus on you charity work? Instead of thinking how 383 00:32:24.200 --> 00:32:28.839 can I detach? I want you to start thinking how can I enjoy myself 384 00:32:28.880 --> 00:32:32.240 today? What can I do that's going to elevate me today? What can 385 00:32:32.279 --> 00:32:37.240 I do that's going to spark happiness, joy and fulfillment in my life? 386 00:32:37.599 --> 00:32:40.519 Maybe it's reading about ets. I don't know your life, girl, Maybe 387 00:32:40.519 --> 00:32:45.519 it's cooking a new recipe. Maybe it's starting a YouTube or a TikTok or 388 00:32:45.559 --> 00:32:50.319 an Instagram. What can you do to spark joy in your life? Because 389 00:32:50.319 --> 00:32:54.440 when you focus on you feeling good, your whole reality will shift with you. 390 00:32:54.960 --> 00:33:00.200 So calling your power back, rationalizing your story, doing charity work, 391 00:33:00.319 --> 00:33:06.240 asking yourself instead of how can I detach? Ask how can I enjoy myself 392 00:33:06.279 --> 00:33:09.720 today? Move your body. If you want to focus on yourself, start 393 00:33:09.720 --> 00:33:15.240 a fitness journey. Maybe it's pilates or yoga, or maybe it's just going 394 00:33:15.279 --> 00:33:20.240 outside and being on planet Earth and walking around and doing a nature work, 395 00:33:20.880 --> 00:33:27.279 work a walk. Maybe it's learning something new, a TED talk, signing 396 00:33:27.319 --> 00:33:31.359 up for a new class. Focus on feeding the frequency you wish to see 397 00:33:31.480 --> 00:33:35.759 in the world, because what you feed, you will get more of. 398 00:33:36.119 --> 00:33:39.119 If you feed the story that you are unlovable, you will keep seeing that 399 00:33:39.160 --> 00:33:44.440 in your reality. But if you feed the story that you're working on yourself, 400 00:33:44.440 --> 00:33:46.119 that you're becoming your best self, that you feel good every day, 401 00:33:46.440 --> 00:33:52.319 that's what you're going to see, experience, and feel in your reality. 402 00:33:53.079 --> 00:33:58.839 You have to find the happiness in the now because remember what I said, 403 00:33:59.240 --> 00:34:04.640 When you find happiness in the now, you manifest more happiness in the later. 404 00:34:05.640 --> 00:34:09.000 That's what this all is about. You don't have to worry about detachment 405 00:34:09.039 --> 00:34:15.800 and external circumstance when you're embodying your divine feminine and you're working on feeling good 406 00:34:15.840 --> 00:34:19.880 now. You're working on honoring your phases and your body and your emotions. 407 00:34:20.360 --> 00:34:23.679 You won't have to worry about detaching when you're out there living your best life. 408 00:34:23.920 --> 00:34:27.719 That's why so many people say, oh, I just found love when 409 00:34:27.760 --> 00:34:31.960 I was least expecting it. Why because instead of being obsessed about detachment, 410 00:34:32.280 --> 00:34:37.679 they were focused on feeling good. And what was in the frequency of feeling 411 00:34:37.679 --> 00:34:42.880 good for them but a good feeling relationship, And so it manifested. That 412 00:34:43.119 --> 00:34:49.360 is how this works. We have more faith in negative outcomes we don't want 413 00:34:49.400 --> 00:34:54.760 to see than we have faith in positive experiences that we want to feel. 414 00:34:55.440 --> 00:35:01.199 We have more faith that we are unlovable, unworthy, and undeserving than we 415 00:35:01.280 --> 00:35:06.440 have faith and we are lovable and we will have the relationship that we so 416 00:35:06.639 --> 00:35:10.119 desire. We have more faith in what we don't want than we have faith 417 00:35:10.159 --> 00:35:14.400 in what we do want. We have more faith that we are alone in 418 00:35:14.400 --> 00:35:19.239 this world than we have faith that there are loving angelic spirit guides all around 419 00:35:19.320 --> 00:35:22.360 us, helping us, guiding us, loving us. I recently listened, 420 00:35:22.519 --> 00:35:29.800 actually binged a podcast called Bledsoe Said So, and the main host, Ryan 421 00:35:29.840 --> 00:35:37.320 Bledsoe, his father had had a really deep, ever transforming experience with this 422 00:35:37.519 --> 00:35:44.480 angelic divine being and on this podcast they talk about ets, angelic beings, 423 00:35:44.559 --> 00:35:52.400 really anything multidimensional manifesting all of these different topics that us positive bitches absolutely love. 424 00:35:52.280 --> 00:35:57.679 And as I was going through these episodes, there was one episode where 425 00:35:57.800 --> 00:36:04.800 they actually reread the trans script of Ryan's dad's hypnotherapy session in which he did 426 00:36:04.800 --> 00:36:09.079 a regression to recall a mystical experience. He couldn't remember all of the pieces 427 00:36:09.159 --> 00:36:15.079 too, And in this episode, when they were reading the transcript, what 428 00:36:15.119 --> 00:36:22.199 the dad said in this hypnotherapy session was so transforming from me. It really 429 00:36:22.400 --> 00:36:28.000 validated what I already knew. But it feels so good to be validated when 430 00:36:28.039 --> 00:36:32.280 talking about these multidimensional beings that we don't have full faith or even there because 431 00:36:32.320 --> 00:36:37.599 we can't see, touch, tastes, feel them. And what the dad 432 00:36:37.719 --> 00:36:45.360 said in this transcript was that this loving being was always going to be there 433 00:36:45.400 --> 00:36:50.800 for him, that this loving, divine, divine, feminine being was going 434 00:36:50.880 --> 00:36:54.320 to protect him and his family. This divine being told him, Look, 435 00:36:54.400 --> 00:36:59.039 there's going to be times that are more difficult. There's going to be times 436 00:36:59.039 --> 00:37:02.039 where you're fearful and you're not sure how to get out of your situation, 437 00:37:02.400 --> 00:37:07.519 but I will always be there, loving you, guiding you protecting you. 438 00:37:07.199 --> 00:37:15.079 The thing is this experience Ryan's dad has had is not just an experience that 439 00:37:15.280 --> 00:37:20.519 Ryan's dad has had. Many people have had this experience. And the amazing, 440 00:37:20.639 --> 00:37:24.280 beautiful, wonderful thing is this being. These beings who are high in 441 00:37:24.400 --> 00:37:28.960 vibration, who are loving and guiding us, are not just there for Ryan's 442 00:37:29.039 --> 00:37:31.360 dad, They are here for all of us. We all have a spiritual 443 00:37:31.400 --> 00:37:36.760 team of spirit guides, angels, whatever you want to call it, high 444 00:37:36.840 --> 00:37:39.719 vibrational entities that are protecting us, loving us, guiding us, and helping 445 00:37:39.920 --> 00:37:46.360 us through. Something really interesting that Ryan said that his dad actually told him 446 00:37:46.480 --> 00:37:53.199 was that when he would see these supernatural beings, it's almost like they had 447 00:37:53.199 --> 00:37:59.679 this cloak on or this mask on, and when they would take off their 448 00:38:00.000 --> 00:38:07.239 currants, they were just pure light. In every single religion and culture, 449 00:38:07.320 --> 00:38:13.159 as Ryan was saying, there are references to these high vibrational angelic beings. 450 00:38:14.079 --> 00:38:17.760 Why would they be so referenced throughout history, throughout religion, throughout culture, 451 00:38:19.199 --> 00:38:23.239 and then in human experiences that you and me have heard about. If they 452 00:38:23.440 --> 00:38:30.639 aren't true, real and here, you don't have to believe me, You 453 00:38:30.639 --> 00:38:36.719 don't have to believe Ryan's dad go experiment for yourself. You will feel them, 454 00:38:37.320 --> 00:38:42.519 you can hear them, you will experience them. If you so want 455 00:38:42.559 --> 00:38:45.599 to, you can easily say, spirit, guides of highest truth, love 456 00:38:45.599 --> 00:38:51.960 and compassion, connect with me. Now, pose a question. Tell them 457 00:38:52.000 --> 00:38:57.519 your difficulties. If you feel so unlovable and so undeserving, tell these loving 458 00:38:57.599 --> 00:39:01.639 beings that ask them. Film me up with love so I know my own 459 00:39:01.679 --> 00:39:10.559 truth. Take control over your own connection with these higher vibrational beings. You 460 00:39:10.639 --> 00:39:14.760 have free will. You want to feel their love, you want to connect 461 00:39:14.800 --> 00:39:16.840 with them. You want to know if they're real. Okay, Okay, 462 00:39:16.840 --> 00:39:23.360 go out there, connect with them. They are awaiting your arrival. This 463 00:39:23.519 --> 00:39:29.400 podcast, Bledsoe said, so is so validating if you have any anxieties or 464 00:39:29.480 --> 00:39:34.920 fears, or maybe you're just not sure about all of these multidimensional beings. 465 00:39:35.000 --> 00:39:39.119 Listen to Bledsoe said, so, listen to the episode they literally have called 466 00:39:39.159 --> 00:39:45.320 Angels, where they talk about how angels are repeatedly, repeatedly referenced throughout all 467 00:39:45.440 --> 00:39:51.360 of the ages. If you're anything like me, and you've had these mystical 468 00:39:51.400 --> 00:39:57.440 experiences yourself since you were little, it's really nice to hear someone else also 469 00:39:57.519 --> 00:40:01.719 talk about their mystical experiences. My mom has seen things, my grandma has 470 00:40:01.719 --> 00:40:06.719 seen things. You guys know this. Slept in my parents' bed till I 471 00:40:06.719 --> 00:40:09.519 was in like fifth grade because I was so afraid of seeing different beings. 472 00:40:09.880 --> 00:40:15.639 I have my brother on the podcast because he saw multidimensional being. If you 473 00:40:15.760 --> 00:40:21.000 are either doubting that these beings exist, or you're like me and you've had 474 00:40:21.039 --> 00:40:24.760 these experiences yourself and in your family, listen to someone else who has gone 475 00:40:24.760 --> 00:40:29.679 through the same things. Either way, I promise you bled so said so 476 00:40:29.920 --> 00:40:34.519 will make you feel so much less alone. Knowing that there's other people having 477 00:40:34.559 --> 00:40:38.800 these experiences and also understanding that these experiences are real and you can have them 478 00:40:38.840 --> 00:40:46.559 too. The Keys to the Kingdom is not obsessing about detachment. It is 479 00:40:47.559 --> 00:40:53.280 internal focus, putting on those horse blinders and building creating, aligning with a 480 00:40:53.320 --> 00:40:58.519 life that feels good to you now. I love you so much. I 481 00:40:58.559 --> 00:41:01.960 hope this podcast episode has helped you again. All the links that you need 482 00:41:01.960 --> 00:41:06.800 are in the show notes, whether it's for the workbook or reaching out to 483 00:41:06.840 --> 00:41:09.920 me on Instagram. If you enjoyed this, please leave a positive review on 484 00:41:09.960 --> 00:41:15.280 Apple Podcasts and Spotify. It means the world to me. It really helps 485 00:41:15.280 --> 00:41:17.719 this podcast more than you know. And if not for me, do it 486 00:41:17.840 --> 00:41:22.079 for you, because girl, that's good karma. If you have found this 487 00:41:22.159 --> 00:41:25.440 episode was helpful to you in any way, share it with a friend. 488 00:41:25.840 --> 00:41:30.199 Maybe they're also struggling, and the most courageous thing we can do is help 489 00:41:30.199 --> 00:41:35.599 a friend need. I'm sending you all the love in the world, all 490 00:41:35.800 --> 00:41:38.639 of your power. I pray that you call it back and you feel it 491 00:41:38.639 --> 00:41:43.280 and you embody it. We are so blessed as positive bitches, and I 492 00:41:43.320 --> 00:42:13.599 will see you in the next one. I don't docause you can't SPA can't 493 00:42:13.719 --> 00:42:15.480 ask me. I can't ask me.