1 00:00:00,160 --> 00:00:04,839 Why Why am I waking up at three every morning and I am having a 2 00:00:04,879 --> 00:00:08,919 panic attack? Why am I sweating my ass off like a woman from the 3 00:00:08,960 --> 00:00:13,480 old country? Why why is this happening? It just comes out of nowhere, 4 00:00:13,759 --> 00:00:16,519 and you're never prepared for it. You don't know why, or there's 5 00:00:16,519 --> 00:00:18,920 no rhyme or reason, and then you want to get mad at him for 6 00:00:19,039 --> 00:00:22,879 not feeling the same things that you're feeling. I just feel I feel ultra 7 00:00:23,000 --> 00:00:32,320 ragie. Welcome to another Deep Day's edition of the Chicks on the Right podcast. 8 00:00:32,560 --> 00:00:38,640 Today, we're going to talk about the change, the change of life, 9 00:00:39,240 --> 00:00:45,640 the circle. You know, your old when you do a podcast about 10 00:00:45,799 --> 00:00:51,479 menopause, right. I don't think enough people do that though, because and 11 00:00:51,840 --> 00:00:55,119 people would like to tell you, oh, you know, fifties new forty 12 00:00:55,280 --> 00:00:58,920 and forties new thirty and sixties new fifty, and they sail that. And 13 00:00:59,039 --> 00:01:00,920 you know, I mean, I think that you and I, for the 14 00:01:00,920 --> 00:01:04,560 most part, we feel pretty young, right. It's our bodies that go 15 00:01:06,079 --> 00:01:11,840 uh nah no mmmmmm, because you know, like trying to do all the 16 00:01:11,840 --> 00:01:14,719 things, like I always say to you, I have to go take my 17 00:01:14,760 --> 00:01:18,319 old lady weightlifting class, you know, to make sure that my bones are 18 00:01:18,319 --> 00:01:23,480 strong and all that kind of stuff because of the osteopenia and the osteoporosis and 19 00:01:23,480 --> 00:01:26,280 all this stuff. But I mean, like when I'm in there and I 20 00:01:26,319 --> 00:01:29,239 see like the young girls and stuff trying to do what I'm doing, Like 21 00:01:29,359 --> 00:01:32,680 they're all cute. They kind of walk in at their Lululemon stuff and they 22 00:01:32,680 --> 00:01:37,319 got the perky asses and everything, and they're all looking adorable. It's like 23 00:01:37,439 --> 00:01:42,040 I feel like that, Like I like, on the inside, I feel 24 00:01:42,239 --> 00:01:45,760 like the twenty and thirty year old. I feel like that. But then 25 00:01:45,799 --> 00:01:51,079 I look in the mirror and I'm like, oh, not that many, 26 00:01:51,760 --> 00:01:53,560 you know what I mean, because you and then like you listen to a 27 00:01:53,560 --> 00:01:57,480 lot of the music that they listen to, and you watch a lot of 28 00:01:57,480 --> 00:02:00,400 the things that they watch, and you feel like you're kind of up to 29 00:02:00,480 --> 00:02:04,840 date on the things that they do. And I have kids who are thirty 30 00:02:04,879 --> 00:02:09,879 three and twenty nine and thirteen, you know, so I'm hip, right, 31 00:02:10,000 --> 00:02:14,599 I I kind of feel like I'm still Isn't that Is that a word? 32 00:02:14,639 --> 00:02:16,039 Still? And that's the word I mean. I feel like I'm still 33 00:02:16,080 --> 00:02:19,960 up. But then you you know, you reach the age where you're at 34 00:02:20,000 --> 00:02:23,520 the menopause stage and you're like, wow, it's it's life, man. 35 00:02:23,599 --> 00:02:28,960 Life. Just it slows you down a little bit. It makes you all 36 00:02:28,960 --> 00:02:34,639 the things that go along with menopause, all the life changes and the responsibility 37 00:02:34,759 --> 00:02:39,439 changes and just everything that goes with it. But menopause is something that nobody 38 00:02:39,479 --> 00:02:44,360 prepares you for. Listen. 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You're never actually prepared for it until you're 75 00:04:53,600 --> 00:04:57,720 in it and you're living it, and you're like, why why am I 76 00:04:57,759 --> 00:05:00,759 waking up at three every morning and and I am having a panic attack? 77 00:05:00,839 --> 00:05:05,040 Why am I sweating my ass off like a woman from the old country? 78 00:05:05,079 --> 00:05:10,639 Why why is this happening? Like, they can't they just can't prepare you 79 00:05:10,720 --> 00:05:14,360 until you're and you you can read all you want about I mean, everybody 80 00:05:14,399 --> 00:05:16,199 knows. Oh, okay, well, when you hit menopause, you have 81 00:05:16,240 --> 00:05:19,399 hot flashes and you have night sweats, and like, you hear those things 82 00:05:19,399 --> 00:05:23,360 and you read those things and you think that you know what that means. 83 00:05:23,920 --> 00:05:27,040 But then when they feels like, and then when it actually happens, it's 84 00:05:27,079 --> 00:05:30,879 like a whole other thing because for me, it's not even hot flashes, 85 00:05:30,000 --> 00:05:34,920 it's that my body seems unable to remember how to regulate temperature at all ever, 86 00:05:35,319 --> 00:05:40,199 Right, So, yes, I will all of a sudden turn absolutely 87 00:05:40,240 --> 00:05:45,240 purple. It's happened during our show countless times where I will. I'll see 88 00:05:45,279 --> 00:05:47,199 myself on camera and I'll be like, why am I purple? And I'm 89 00:05:47,439 --> 00:05:50,839 absolutely sweating in the back of my neck is totally soaked, and you just 90 00:05:50,959 --> 00:05:55,480 keep it, keep stabbing. Do you get stabbing? I mean, I 91 00:05:55,519 --> 00:05:58,920 don't know if it. Like my body like feels like a thousand when I'm 92 00:05:59,120 --> 00:06:03,079 sweating, feels like a thousand needles are also stabbing me. So my hot 93 00:06:03,120 --> 00:06:08,319 flashes are also stabby, which is a nice added benefit. It's lovely. 94 00:06:08,480 --> 00:06:12,360 It's great, like a little like tiny stabby, like little tiny people are 95 00:06:12,360 --> 00:06:15,600 stabbing me all over as I'm sweating my ass off. It's like and it's 96 00:06:15,720 --> 00:06:19,079 and it's constant. It just doesn't I've had, like I've been going through 97 00:06:19,160 --> 00:06:24,480 menopause since that was what forty eight years old I started. I mean, 98 00:06:24,480 --> 00:06:28,279 I feel like that's kind of early forty eight and then I'm gonna be fifty 99 00:06:28,319 --> 00:06:30,759 two this month and it's just and I had a doctor tell me once, 100 00:06:30,839 --> 00:06:34,480 oh, it's you know some women, it can last year, ten years, 101 00:06:35,160 --> 00:06:38,600 you could be going. And I just wanted to punch her in the 102 00:06:38,680 --> 00:06:42,000 face when she told me that, because it's like, oh, it's no, 103 00:06:42,079 --> 00:06:44,040 yeah, it's just what we go through. It's just like that. 104 00:06:44,879 --> 00:06:48,399 I don't so I'm gonna sweat like this. I'm gonna have stabby sweat for 105 00:06:48,680 --> 00:06:53,560 ten years. Most the craziest part because we've got this love seat that we 106 00:06:53,680 --> 00:06:56,240 have in our family room, and when my husband and I sit together, 107 00:06:57,279 --> 00:07:00,240 there have been times where I'm not even touching him right, I'm just next 108 00:07:00,360 --> 00:07:04,959 to him, and he will feel a hot flash come on, he will 109 00:07:05,000 --> 00:07:11,199 feel it. I'm next to him, just radiating heat heat, and he'll 110 00:07:11,199 --> 00:07:13,839 look over and he'll be like, she's I mean, you're beat it, 111 00:07:14,000 --> 00:07:15,399 you know, like you're they're sweat, and I'm like, I know, 112 00:07:15,560 --> 00:07:18,839 man, it just comes out of nowhere and you're never prepared for it. 113 00:07:18,879 --> 00:07:21,759 You don't know why or there's no rhyme or reason, and then you want 114 00:07:21,759 --> 00:07:25,759 to get mad at him for not feeling the same things that you're feeling. 115 00:07:26,040 --> 00:07:30,920 I just feel I feel old for rage. And then he's like, oh 116 00:07:30,959 --> 00:07:32,519 my god, it's so cold in here. It's cold in the house. 117 00:07:32,600 --> 00:07:36,160 And I'm like, I'm gonna kill you with my bare hands, and get 118 00:07:36,199 --> 00:07:39,879 like, right now, I'm going to kill you because it's not cold, 119 00:07:39,879 --> 00:07:43,600 and it's not cold in here at all. Grab a sweatshirt, Nancy, 120 00:07:44,759 --> 00:07:46,480 it's not cold. I mean, this is where you start having the temperature 121 00:07:46,519 --> 00:07:50,199 wars in your house with your husband. They're cold, and you're like, 122 00:07:50,319 --> 00:07:56,000 are you serious? How can you feel cold in here? Oh my god? 123 00:07:56,199 --> 00:07:59,319 This is it's this is the thing, the battle between the sexes once 124 00:07:59,360 --> 00:08:01,519 menopause, but this is the thing. And then you start and then you 125 00:08:01,519 --> 00:08:05,800 know, you start recognizing that your life at that point is it's very different 126 00:08:05,800 --> 00:08:09,879 than it was like in your twenties and your thirties and even your forties, 127 00:08:09,920 --> 00:08:13,040 because you have taken on your it's a different role you know, to do, 128 00:08:13,160 --> 00:08:16,360 because you're still a lot of us are still working, and then we 129 00:08:16,439 --> 00:08:22,279 have like for you, your child is getting ready to go to college one 130 00:08:22,319 --> 00:08:26,720 more year or before us, and I just cannot even do right like that 131 00:08:26,879 --> 00:08:31,800 alone is so traumatizing. Because we went through that with our older kids. 132 00:08:31,800 --> 00:08:35,279 They already did that, so they're off on their own. I'm getting ready 133 00:08:35,320 --> 00:08:39,279 to have a grandkid, my first grandkid, which is crazy. I can't 134 00:08:39,279 --> 00:08:43,440 even And then I still have a thirteen year old, so I have all 135 00:08:43,440 --> 00:08:46,120 these different roles, right, It's like you still have the kid. That's 136 00:08:46,120 --> 00:08:48,480 like in middle school. We still have the young kid. We still have 137 00:08:48,519 --> 00:08:52,039 we have older kids, we have grandkids. And then I've got you know, 138 00:08:52,200 --> 00:08:54,639 like I we're gonna talk about this, I'm sure later, but I 139 00:08:54,759 --> 00:08:58,799 you know, you have family members who may pass away. I have a 140 00:08:58,799 --> 00:09:03,639 father that just passed away. You know, you have parents who we have 141 00:09:03,759 --> 00:09:09,279 other set another set of parents who are are needing assisted living. You get 142 00:09:09,320 --> 00:09:13,600 to that point we start feeling like your parents are for lack of a better 143 00:09:13,639 --> 00:09:16,320 phrase, it's not that it's not that they're your children, it's just that 144 00:09:16,360 --> 00:09:20,120 you feel like you need to take care of them where they always took care 145 00:09:20,159 --> 00:09:24,720 of you. So you're put in that position where they're you're caretaking you know 146 00:09:24,759 --> 00:09:28,960 you or not even care to. You may not be hands on caretaking, 147 00:09:28,000 --> 00:09:31,799 but you feel like you have to step in and tell them things that they 148 00:09:31,879 --> 00:09:35,120 always puld you, and you you have to be the adult the room when 149 00:09:35,120 --> 00:09:39,039 it comes to is it time to take the keys away? Is it time 150 00:09:39,080 --> 00:09:43,120 to say you're you can't live in this house anymore? You know that stuff 151 00:09:43,159 --> 00:09:46,879 is right, It is so hard. I don't think people talk about that 152 00:09:46,919 --> 00:09:50,399 stuff enough. You know, it's so hard to do that because it's they 153 00:09:50,399 --> 00:09:54,919 were the ones who always gave you advice, and now you're having to give 154 00:09:54,960 --> 00:10:00,440 them advice and they're resistant, while you're right, while you're getting the stabby 155 00:10:00,480 --> 00:10:05,480 story. It all culminates at one horrible, just unfortunate time of life. 156 00:10:05,720 --> 00:10:09,279 It's just unfathomable. You know, You're just like, what is good? 157 00:10:09,320 --> 00:10:15,879 And so yeah, it's just this. It is a really strange, strange 158 00:10:15,919 --> 00:10:18,159 time, you know, like you I know, and right now, like 159 00:10:18,240 --> 00:10:24,879 just even the sending kids to college thing, it's so traumatizing. I can't 160 00:10:24,879 --> 00:10:28,440 even wrap my brain around sending our youngest because then that's it, you know, 161 00:10:28,559 --> 00:10:31,080 at least I still have that too. I'm like, okay, we've 162 00:10:31,120 --> 00:10:35,240 got one left in the house, and I know, like next year I'm 163 00:10:35,240 --> 00:10:37,840 gonna have to there's gonna be a period of time where you're going to be 164 00:10:37,919 --> 00:10:41,720 in the fetal position, rocking back and forth, you know, because he's 165 00:10:41,720 --> 00:10:43,720 going to be going off to college, and that's it, Like you're done, 166 00:10:45,279 --> 00:10:46,360 Like you're done, and then you're gonna have to then you're gonna be 167 00:10:46,360 --> 00:10:50,919 like, okay, and then my role is going to be, you know, 168 00:10:50,039 --> 00:10:54,840 as a mom of a kid that's gone, and then it's gonna then 169 00:10:54,879 --> 00:10:56,600 my role is gonna be empty nester. I don't know how to do that. 170 00:10:58,960 --> 00:11:03,320 I don't know how to right because it's been twenty years of not doing 171 00:11:03,360 --> 00:11:07,480 that. It's been twenty years of mama and and so that's it's just hard. 172 00:11:07,519 --> 00:11:13,960 Like this is a really weird time of life that I think that a 173 00:11:13,000 --> 00:11:16,120 lot of us just don't talk enough about, especially our generation, because we're 174 00:11:16,120 --> 00:11:20,039 such a tough generation that we're just like, oh, it's just like part 175 00:11:20,039 --> 00:11:22,720 of life. Just write a past All this is to write a passage, 176 00:11:22,759 --> 00:11:24,919 just to write a passage, Just to write a passage. And then you 177 00:11:24,960 --> 00:11:28,159 just sort of like stuck it up. 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If I do 211 00:13:39,759 --> 00:13:46,240 a plank and I look back at my body, what's going on? Why? 212 00:13:46,240 --> 00:13:50,679 Why is everything? What things are where they're not supposed to be. 213 00:13:50,879 --> 00:13:54,240 Why that's your that's your biggest mistake. You're not supposed to look back, 214 00:13:54,600 --> 00:14:01,120 like my knees, why are my knees? Say yeah, and I'm like 215 00:14:01,279 --> 00:14:05,519 they're thinking, like the skin on my knees hangs down, everything hangs You 216 00:14:05,559 --> 00:14:09,000 don't want to do that. Why would you ever do that? You don't 217 00:14:09,000 --> 00:14:13,240 because you prepared me for this. It's gravity, man, It's this is 218 00:14:13,240 --> 00:14:16,679 the thing. Gravity like around age forty five, No matter how much you 219 00:14:16,720 --> 00:14:20,519 work out or how well you eat, like every Gravity's like, oh hey 220 00:14:20,120 --> 00:14:24,200 hello, hi, Hi, I'm gravity. Hello, Hi, Hi, 221 00:14:24,840 --> 00:14:28,480 I'm the problem. It's me. Gravity is like this awful, terrible bit 222 00:14:28,759 --> 00:14:33,519 from high school. It just shows up and she's like, Hi, hi, 223 00:14:33,639 --> 00:14:37,159 I'm here to haunt you. It's terrible. Yeah, it's terrible. 224 00:14:37,279 --> 00:14:39,399 It's awful. You don't want I don't know why you do that. I 225 00:14:39,399 --> 00:14:41,000 don't do that. I just I just didn't know when I'm if I'm doing 226 00:14:41,000 --> 00:14:45,039 it. I don't. Didn't do that. Don't ever look again, mock 227 00:14:45,120 --> 00:14:48,519 you can't do that, don't. I mean, at least when you're working 228 00:14:48,519 --> 00:14:50,360 out like that, you should be rewarded, right, Like you should be 229 00:14:50,399 --> 00:14:54,279 rewarded with like your body should be saying to you you're doing awesome, and 230 00:14:54,320 --> 00:15:00,159 instead you look down and it's like, well, it's like looking at a 231 00:15:00,159 --> 00:15:03,799 mirror on the floor. Yeah, like if you look down or looking looking 232 00:15:03,039 --> 00:15:05,919 at your mirror, like on your cell phone when you pick up your cell 233 00:15:05,919 --> 00:15:09,200 phone and you like, look at look at the you look at the camera, 234 00:15:09,320 --> 00:15:13,080 the reverse camera and your stuff, and you're like, oh, what 235 00:15:13,120 --> 00:15:18,200 was I thinking? I didn't know I had four kinds that I realize that 236 00:15:18,200 --> 00:15:20,759 that was the case. You don't want to do that, you never want 237 00:15:20,799 --> 00:15:22,720 to do that. Well, And I saw a TikTok earlier of a woman 238 00:15:22,919 --> 00:15:26,840 who also listed some symptoms that I have. Not I don't have all of 239 00:15:26,879 --> 00:15:30,120 her symptoms. She lists a couple that I was like, Oh my god, 240 00:15:30,120 --> 00:15:31,919 that do I have that to look forward to? Also like is this 241 00:15:33,000 --> 00:15:35,799 something that's coming? I don't know. I know menopause hits women differently, 242 00:15:37,399 --> 00:15:39,600 you know, it's individuals, very individual experience. There are some commonalities. 243 00:15:39,840 --> 00:15:43,639 But she was listing some things that I was like, wait a minute, 244 00:15:43,000 --> 00:15:48,720 itchy ears, burning knees, what is going on? Let's play that because 245 00:15:48,720 --> 00:15:50,480 I'm sure that there's going to be other people in the audience that will relate. 246 00:15:52,320 --> 00:16:00,799 Oh hey, so menopause is menopause is a good times weird itchy ears 247 00:16:00,879 --> 00:16:11,320 and my knees burn, just personal summers all day long, talk about nighttime. 248 00:16:11,960 --> 00:16:17,039 And there's no deodorant works, not one. You name it, I've 249 00:16:17,080 --> 00:16:25,600 tried it. I just always smell like onions, migraines and panic attacks. 250 00:16:25,799 --> 00:16:33,360 Anyone viewer. This muscle in the back of my head, it's just it's 251 00:16:33,399 --> 00:16:37,759 always tight. It won't it won't let go. Somebody told me to do 252 00:16:37,879 --> 00:16:45,919 the botox back here, listen, if I were to be able to afford 253 00:16:45,919 --> 00:16:52,000 the botox, don't you don't you think I should focus? Maybe I should 254 00:16:52,039 --> 00:16:55,960 focus here. Just always look unpleasant. I am unpleasant. I don't even 255 00:16:55,960 --> 00:16:57,799 like myself right now. I'm just annoyed at all the things. I'm annoyed 256 00:16:57,840 --> 00:17:04,160 by myself. Anyways, man, plus have some grace, Have some graces. 257 00:17:04,440 --> 00:17:08,960 The itchy ears are a real things that I actually have had that, 258 00:17:10,039 --> 00:17:11,519 and I mean I don't have it like constantly, but I do have that 259 00:17:11,599 --> 00:17:15,519 just for no reason whatsoever. And then I've read about it. I've read 260 00:17:15,559 --> 00:17:18,319 that like the lots and lots of women have the itchy ears. So that's 261 00:17:18,359 --> 00:17:22,519 like inside or like you're outside, Yeah, inside just itchy ears, just 262 00:17:22,680 --> 00:17:26,200 itchy, constant itchy ears. So that's the thing, the itchy ears. 263 00:17:26,720 --> 00:17:30,880 And then obviously migraines. I mean, of course, like women get migraines 264 00:17:30,880 --> 00:17:33,759 and headaches and stuff like that. And just general irritability. Yeah, I 265 00:17:33,880 --> 00:17:38,000 seen, But we're in our fifties at this point. We have a lot 266 00:17:38,039 --> 00:17:44,799 to be pissed off about. We're just irritated, generally irritated, and I 267 00:17:44,799 --> 00:17:48,200 imagine that's probably gonna like get it's gonna increase just you know, as the 268 00:17:48,279 --> 00:17:51,359 years progress. We're just because I think we're at that age where we're just 269 00:17:51,400 --> 00:17:56,640 like I don't I have no more f's left, no filter, no filter, 270 00:17:56,039 --> 00:17:59,680 you know, we just don't care. And so yeah, I can 271 00:17:59,680 --> 00:18:03,640 see where we would just not care and just be pissed off all the time 272 00:18:03,680 --> 00:18:06,599 and just general And then like you were talking about your husband being able to 273 00:18:06,640 --> 00:18:11,759 feel the heat, and I was talking about my general irritability towards my husband 274 00:18:11,880 --> 00:18:15,079 for being cold when I'm on fire. I'm literally on fire next to him. 275 00:18:15,160 --> 00:18:18,559 Yeah, so there's that too, when you just feel feel irritable that 276 00:18:18,599 --> 00:18:22,359 everybody around you can't feel what you're feeling because you do have a personal summer. 277 00:18:22,400 --> 00:18:26,000 It's like, why do I feel summer and everybody's in winter. It's 278 00:18:26,039 --> 00:18:27,400 just not fair. Everybody needs to feel what I'm feeling. This is not 279 00:18:27,480 --> 00:18:30,880 okay. Well, it's funny because she said the thing about the muscle in 280 00:18:30,920 --> 00:18:34,440 the back of her head not letting go. I have this thing. It's 281 00:18:34,519 --> 00:18:38,839 every single night when I'm like getting into bed and if I'm reading or if 282 00:18:38,880 --> 00:18:42,799 I'm looking at my phone, and then I like, if I'm looking down 283 00:18:42,920 --> 00:18:48,000 and then I look back up, there's like this crunchy feeling in the back 284 00:18:48,160 --> 00:18:52,519 of my scalp, like like right underneath. I've never had it until probably 285 00:18:52,559 --> 00:18:56,359 the last I don't know, six to nine months. There's just like this 286 00:18:56,480 --> 00:19:00,759 sort of crunchy sound that I can hear deep in my own head and like 287 00:19:00,960 --> 00:19:03,960 it's it's from the back of my scalp. I don't know what it is. 288 00:19:04,000 --> 00:19:07,720 It's so weird. At least you have hair because people lose it, 289 00:19:07,720 --> 00:19:11,440 because I mean that was another thing is hair loss. Hair loss was a 290 00:19:11,440 --> 00:19:15,160 big thang with with menopause all of that. So menopause is crazy. I 291 00:19:15,200 --> 00:19:18,000 just don't think enough people talk about it. And then some of them will 292 00:19:18,119 --> 00:19:22,839 choose to do all that hrch stuff. There's that, and I to each 293 00:19:22,920 --> 00:19:26,559 their own. I think it's great when some because when some of them love 294 00:19:26,559 --> 00:19:29,559 it. I tried it and hated it. I was on it for I 295 00:19:29,599 --> 00:19:33,519 think three years total, and then of course had my mini stroke and then 296 00:19:33,559 --> 00:19:34,799 the doctors were like, you gotta get off of that. You got to 297 00:19:34,799 --> 00:19:38,079 get off potential clotting, and so I did and that's when it, like 298 00:19:38,119 --> 00:19:44,119 I got hurled into menopause. And so I'm just waiting for it to be 299 00:19:44,240 --> 00:19:48,519 over, just like that'll be ten years. That'll be ten years. According 300 00:19:48,519 --> 00:19:51,960 to that one doctor, at least seven to ten years. So good luck 301 00:19:52,000 --> 00:19:55,400 with that. Yeah, But this is the thing you just it's it's like 302 00:19:55,480 --> 00:19:57,119 just to write a passage I guess that we all have to go through. 303 00:19:57,480 --> 00:20:02,720 And this is the kind of stuff that I would imagine that the Leah, 304 00:20:03,400 --> 00:20:07,720 the Leah Thomases and people of the world will not have to deal with exactly 305 00:20:07,039 --> 00:20:11,720 like all of the transgender women that say, you know, we're we're real 306 00:20:11,839 --> 00:20:17,440 women. They don't have to go through all of these rights of passage that 307 00:20:17,480 --> 00:20:22,319 we go through. Yeah, it's a seven womanly experience. And yeah, 308 00:20:22,319 --> 00:20:27,359 it's you can't this is not something you can No, you can't fake this. 309 00:20:27,400 --> 00:20:32,480 It's something that you go through and you've earned. Right. It's like 310 00:20:32,799 --> 00:20:34,559 it is a rite of passage. It's like a badge of honor. And 311 00:20:34,799 --> 00:20:37,359 you know, we may will complain about stuff that we have to go through, 312 00:20:37,400 --> 00:20:41,000 but it's something that we share as a collect as women, as a 313 00:20:41,000 --> 00:20:45,640 collective, and we kind of understand each other, like we get it's like 314 00:20:45,640 --> 00:20:49,559 our little club and we get it. We understand it because we go through 315 00:20:49,599 --> 00:20:53,640 it together. Yeah. One one, I guess that's not advice. It's 316 00:20:53,640 --> 00:20:57,680 not like I'm the expert on menopause by any stretch. But I will say 317 00:20:57,799 --> 00:21:02,519 that one of the things, one of the calling signs calling cards for menopause, 318 00:21:02,559 --> 00:21:03,680 in addition to the hot flashes and that sort of thing, is the 319 00:21:03,680 --> 00:21:11,039 irritability and the high emotion. And so I know because there's you know, 320 00:21:11,079 --> 00:21:14,400 I've told you this many times that there's times where I feel like it's been 321 00:21:14,440 --> 00:21:17,720 too long since I've had a good cry, and I'll feel do like, 322 00:21:17,759 --> 00:21:19,440 I'll feel like a whole bunch of stuff building and building a building. I 323 00:21:19,480 --> 00:21:25,200 need to let it out. And then I have this issue and I and 324 00:21:25,200 --> 00:21:29,319 I'm trying to give myself grace, and so I'm advising everyone else out there 325 00:21:29,319 --> 00:21:33,640 who might be experiencing this to also give themselves grace. And that is it's 326 00:21:33,759 --> 00:21:37,359 very easy to be like, well, I'm emotional because of menopause, and 327 00:21:37,359 --> 00:21:44,480 then to dismiss your actual feelings as not being legitimate because they're driven by hormones. 328 00:21:44,920 --> 00:21:47,799 And so it's very easy to do that, and it's very easy for 329 00:21:47,960 --> 00:21:49,480 people in your family to do that. Oh well, you know, my 330 00:21:49,559 --> 00:21:53,200 husband might like see me breaking down and be like, well, she's hormonal, 331 00:21:53,240 --> 00:21:59,880 she's menopausal. But he's also been really good about saying that's not that's 332 00:22:00,039 --> 00:22:03,839 not to dismiss what you're feeling. It's to just recognize that this is part 333 00:22:03,880 --> 00:22:07,640 of the whole experience, right, It's part of the process. You go 334 00:22:07,720 --> 00:22:12,200 through it, and it does affect your mood, your emotions, the way 335 00:22:12,200 --> 00:22:17,839 that you respond to certain, you know, tough situations. It all plays 336 00:22:17,839 --> 00:22:21,599 a role, but it doesn't discount how you might be feeling. It doesn't. 337 00:22:22,039 --> 00:22:23,559 It doesn't mean that you're just like, well, it's menopause, so 338 00:22:23,599 --> 00:22:26,720 therefore I need to buck it up. No, it's it's valid. It's 339 00:22:26,799 --> 00:22:33,480 legit, Absolutely, it's valid. Yeah. One of the things that I 340 00:22:33,519 --> 00:22:36,759 eat a lot of now, just in menopause, I crave a lot of 341 00:22:36,880 --> 00:22:38,680 is me. I don't know why, but I did that a lot too 342 00:22:38,720 --> 00:22:41,799 when I was pregnant, so I don't know. There may be a relation 343 00:22:41,880 --> 00:22:47,400 there, but I just crave a lot of ballets. I really love steak. 344 00:22:47,960 --> 00:22:49,880 I like the bacon rat ballets from Omaha Steaks, and I like the 345 00:22:49,880 --> 00:22:52,839 pork chops too. I also love their pork and I eat those a lot 346 00:22:52,880 --> 00:22:56,119 for lunch. I'll put those in my air fryer, and I love them 347 00:22:56,160 --> 00:22:59,160 so much. And the only way that I can do this is with Omaha 348 00:22:59,200 --> 00:23:03,200 Steaks because they have the best meat ever and they have like their anniversary package. 349 00:23:03,319 --> 00:23:07,160 Yeah, you can get like a sampling of everything that they make. 350 00:23:07,240 --> 00:23:10,200 I mean, it's awesome. They have like four butcher cut ballets, and 351 00:23:10,279 --> 00:23:12,440 they have the chicken breasts and the bacon rep porch. Oh my god, 352 00:23:12,480 --> 00:23:15,400 the pork tubs are so amazing, and then the jumbo Francs, which my 353 00:23:15,480 --> 00:23:18,279 daughter loves, she loves us. And then plus you get like eight free 354 00:23:18,400 --> 00:23:25,359 Omaha Steak burgers and then more like I think eight more jumbo francs just they 355 00:23:25,400 --> 00:23:29,119 just throw those right. It's just because it's their anniversary. Amazing, right, 356 00:23:29,279 --> 00:23:32,200 all because of their anniversary, which is pretty amazing. So good you 357 00:23:32,240 --> 00:23:34,200 guys. It's just the best time. Yeah, that's the anniversary package, 358 00:23:34,200 --> 00:23:38,079 which is awesome, but it's actually they're offering fifty percent off site wide right 359 00:23:38,119 --> 00:23:42,000 now for their anniversary. So even if that's not your perfect package, if 360 00:23:42,000 --> 00:23:47,480 there's something else you want and there's so much to choose from at Omaha Steaks 361 00:23:47,519 --> 00:23:51,200 dot com, just put the word chicks in the search bar field and you'll 362 00:23:51,200 --> 00:23:56,119 be taken to the best discounts the site has to offer at Omaha Steaks dot 363 00:23:56,160 --> 00:24:00,799 Com. Again, put code chicks in the search field at Omaha steak dot 364 00:24:00,799 --> 00:24:06,279 Com. Another and another thing I noticed too is this maybe you know kind 365 00:24:06,279 --> 00:24:08,559 of converts make go against what you just said, but I do think, 366 00:24:08,640 --> 00:24:11,480 like I have a we have an older daughter who is pregnant right now, 367 00:24:12,119 --> 00:24:15,759 and some of the things that I go through and menopause are very similar to 368 00:24:15,799 --> 00:24:21,519 what she goes through and pregnancy. It's interest It's interesting how the female just 369 00:24:21,640 --> 00:24:25,319 how word similar that way. Like it's just like she'll call me and she'll 370 00:24:25,400 --> 00:24:27,119 be like, oh my gosh, you know, I'm I'm irritable, or 371 00:24:27,200 --> 00:24:32,480 I'm you know, I'm having a hot flash, or I'm just a lot 372 00:24:32,519 --> 00:24:36,200 of the similar just all the similar things I feel, you know. I 373 00:24:36,200 --> 00:24:40,160 obviously I felt bloated because she gained a bunch of weight and obviously in pregnancy, 374 00:24:40,240 --> 00:24:42,599 or just just the way or I'm going to kill my husband right now, 375 00:24:44,079 --> 00:24:47,640 you know, or just just similar things that she goes through. And 376 00:24:47,680 --> 00:24:52,759 I remember those days of being pregnant with my daughter and how I felt, 377 00:24:52,079 --> 00:24:56,160 or is this or she'll just call me and ask me, is this normal? 378 00:24:56,759 --> 00:25:00,319 Is it normal for me to feel this way? Is it norm for 379 00:25:00,359 --> 00:25:02,720 me to have the symptom? Is this? Nor? Should I call the 380 00:25:02,759 --> 00:25:06,759 doctor? Is this normal? And I sometimes feel that way during menopause? 381 00:25:06,799 --> 00:25:10,880 Is this normal to feel this as a woman? And I'll find myself googling 382 00:25:10,920 --> 00:25:15,200 stuff is this normal and menopause? Or or do I or do I have 383 00:25:15,319 --> 00:25:18,599 cancer? You know, because I have this weird symptom. You know, 384 00:25:18,640 --> 00:25:21,559 women do that all the time. We're constantly like because a lot of the 385 00:25:21,559 --> 00:25:25,680 stuff is just our bodies are just so weird sometimes when it comes to these 386 00:25:25,720 --> 00:25:29,480 sort of these different rights of passages. So I you know, it's it's 387 00:25:29,519 --> 00:25:36,640 interesting how they mimic one another sometimes, like pregnancy and menopause are kind of 388 00:25:36,640 --> 00:25:41,720 similar, and how young and old will talk to one another. And I'm 389 00:25:41,720 --> 00:25:45,200 like, it's so weird because she's pregnant and I'm going through menopause, and 390 00:25:45,400 --> 00:25:48,279 how similar they are, And how doesn't it feel like how pregnant forty five 391 00:25:48,319 --> 00:25:52,759 seconds ago, forty five seconds ago? I mean, it really does. 392 00:25:52,960 --> 00:25:56,480 And I and and I tell her that, and I'm like, it's just 393 00:25:56,559 --> 00:26:00,000 so and I try to tell her, as weird as it is and as 394 00:26:00,200 --> 00:26:03,200 uncomfortable as you can be, just do the best you can to enjoy it, 395 00:26:03,359 --> 00:26:07,759 you know, because it's what a cool time that was, and so, 396 00:26:07,359 --> 00:26:11,160 you know, And at the same time, I'm as much as there 397 00:26:11,160 --> 00:26:14,559 are days where I'm like, menopause sucks, you know, in many ways, 398 00:26:14,680 --> 00:26:18,119 I'm trying so hard to you know, at least this time, at 399 00:26:18,160 --> 00:26:23,559 least I don't have my period exactly. That's exactly that, you know what 400 00:26:23,599 --> 00:26:29,160 I mean, it could be it could be so much worse, you know 401 00:26:29,200 --> 00:26:32,240 what I mean. There's at least I don't have to plan vacations around that 402 00:26:32,480 --> 00:26:36,640 and like in events, and so I mean there's there's that, so I 403 00:26:36,720 --> 00:26:38,000 have to do that, and so there there are days where I'm like and 404 00:26:38,079 --> 00:26:41,680 I'm so much and it's such a better place in my life now than I 405 00:26:41,759 --> 00:26:45,359 was, you know, thirty years ago, and you know, even ten 406 00:26:45,440 --> 00:26:49,000 years ago. So I kind of like this part of my life. I 407 00:26:49,079 --> 00:26:53,400 like the stage, even though they're weird things. And I mean, my 408 00:26:53,519 --> 00:26:56,599 breath, I'm not I don't think my body or my breath smells like onions. 409 00:26:56,720 --> 00:27:00,039 But you know, even though I have weird simp and stuff like that, 410 00:27:00,119 --> 00:27:04,160 I just I actually do like being in my fifties. I think fifties 411 00:27:04,200 --> 00:27:07,079 are kind of great. It's not bad. I mean, it's definitely. 412 00:27:07,240 --> 00:27:12,160 I mean it's like you can kind of see what the rest of your life 413 00:27:12,359 --> 00:27:15,759 should be like is gonna Yeah, And that's neat. Yeah, I mean 414 00:27:15,759 --> 00:27:18,400 that's kind of a neat thing to be able to plan how you're going to 415 00:27:18,519 --> 00:27:22,240 relax later, you know what I mean. Yeah, Yeah, it's like 416 00:27:22,480 --> 00:27:26,599 you exactly, like there is a little bit of a blueprint there, whereas 417 00:27:26,640 --> 00:27:30,279 before you it was just like I have no idea how things are going to 418 00:27:30,359 --> 00:27:32,920 turn out. But now, yeah, you're right, there is a little 419 00:27:32,920 --> 00:27:37,079 bit more of a of a blueprint that's kind of neat, and your family 420 00:27:37,240 --> 00:27:40,839 is a little bit more settled, and things are, you know, crazy 421 00:27:40,880 --> 00:27:42,319 on a day to day basis, because like you know, we said before, 422 00:27:42,440 --> 00:27:45,079 you're taking care of you know, a lot of people in a lot 423 00:27:45,079 --> 00:27:49,119 of different phases of their life, and you're you've taken on so many different 424 00:27:49,240 --> 00:27:53,880 roles and you have so many different responsibilities at this age. But man, 425 00:27:53,960 --> 00:27:57,599 we're way more equipped than we were twenty years ago, right, Yeah, 426 00:27:59,440 --> 00:28:02,680 So I guess, you know, God only gives you what you can handle 427 00:28:02,799 --> 00:28:07,319 this, So we're at that's what that's what we're told and so and I 428 00:28:07,359 --> 00:28:11,000 guess there are a lot of other women that are going through the same thing 429 00:28:11,079 --> 00:28:14,839 that we're going through, and you know, it's like we're not alone. 430 00:28:15,000 --> 00:28:18,920 So we were strong enough to handle And I think that's why we wanted to 431 00:28:18,920 --> 00:28:22,599 talk about this today because I'm sure a lot of our audience is around our 432 00:28:22,640 --> 00:28:26,079 age and so I'm sure that. Well, I hope that people listen to 433 00:28:26,079 --> 00:28:30,359 this and feel like, Okay, well it happens to everybody, right, 434 00:28:30,400 --> 00:28:33,440 and we're all in this together. Yeah we are. Yeah, we are. 435 00:28:33,480 --> 00:28:37,119 And it's like there is I think there is a light at the end 436 00:28:37,160 --> 00:28:38,839 of that tunnel. There's a lot of people that are, you know, 437 00:28:40,079 --> 00:28:42,119 probably going through it, or maybe they are at the end of that tunnel 438 00:28:42,160 --> 00:28:45,599 and they've been through it. Some of the people that listen to us, 439 00:28:45,640 --> 00:28:48,039 and I would love to hear what they have to say, but hopefully they'll 440 00:28:48,039 --> 00:28:51,440 comment, Yeah, I would love that. We would love to see some 441 00:28:51,480 --> 00:28:56,319 comments on the Apple podcasting platform. I actually have some comments to read from 442 00:28:56,319 --> 00:28:59,799 the last month and a half or so. Some of them there are people 443 00:28:59,799 --> 00:29:03,319 that definitely don't like us at all, and then there are some that do. 444 00:29:03,480 --> 00:29:07,440 Okay, So it's always I would love to hear this fantasy So Ellie 445 00:29:07,480 --> 00:29:12,799 with a whole bunch of numbers after her name. One star said, yikes, 446 00:29:14,480 --> 00:29:18,279 actually shocked at how bad this show was. I listened to a lot 447 00:29:18,359 --> 00:29:23,079 of bad podcasts just for fun that gives you an idea what Ellie is like 448 00:29:23,200 --> 00:29:29,839 as a human, but this one was other level beyond just being confident and 449 00:29:29,960 --> 00:29:36,480 wrong at the same time. It was just a full on bore. Okay, 450 00:29:36,519 --> 00:29:37,759 well, I'm glad that she took the time to listen to something so 451 00:29:37,799 --> 00:29:41,200 bored. I mean, that's what she does for fun, she said, 452 00:29:41,440 --> 00:29:47,880 I know. Can you imagine what she does not for fun? Let's see 453 00:29:48,079 --> 00:29:56,799 from j J seriously irritated one star ignorance fueling the fire. Please stop spreading 454 00:29:56,039 --> 00:30:03,880 hate and ignorant. Okay. Another one with the name Biden is winning said 455 00:30:03,279 --> 00:30:07,839 the real right is garbage. These two women do nothing but put other people 456 00:30:07,920 --> 00:30:15,279 down and talk complete trash. It's absolutely horrible. Get this crap off the 457 00:30:15,359 --> 00:30:22,799 air, censor sensor that's right, and then we have a good one. 458 00:30:22,880 --> 00:30:29,799 There's Missawa Chick. Five stars, longtime thankful fan. As a fellow former 459 00:30:29,880 --> 00:30:33,440 Indie resident, I have loved you two for years. I look forward to 460 00:30:33,480 --> 00:30:37,400 your thoughtful take on current events every day. Your ability to find a humor 461 00:30:37,440 --> 00:30:41,519 in all the nonsense always leaves me with a sense of optimism. Today I 462 00:30:41,640 --> 00:30:45,759 heard you on my other favorite podcast with Megan Kelly. You were fantastic. 463 00:30:47,039 --> 00:30:49,559 I love that. It's very sweet. Very Oh. Here's another bad one. 464 00:30:51,799 --> 00:30:57,400 This is yeah. This is from Willi's our one star. No thanks. 465 00:30:57,400 --> 00:31:03,079 This podcast is what happens two people ignore the world around them and think 466 00:31:03,119 --> 00:31:07,000 because something has never happened to me, it does not happen to anyone anywhere. 467 00:31:07,400 --> 00:31:11,640 So no thanks. I don't know what that was referring to, but 468 00:31:11,880 --> 00:31:18,079 that's what they said. Some really good ones today. We Joe five Stars 469 00:31:18,160 --> 00:31:21,880 love your pod. Why in the world are our country's top secrets kept in 470 00:31:22,000 --> 00:31:26,799 broken down cardboard boxes? I'm sure referring to Joe Biden. Yeah, that's 471 00:31:26,839 --> 00:31:32,480 a really great question. There's like a billion classified documents. Fy, why 472 00:31:32,519 --> 00:31:37,279 is everything so damn classified? That's a great point. Why Texan for Truth 473 00:31:37,640 --> 00:31:41,119 five Stars love the show with the Fellas. He's referring to our appearance with 474 00:31:41,160 --> 00:31:45,079 the Ruthless. I hope you have more shows with them. We do too. 475 00:31:45,160 --> 00:31:48,799 That's always so much fun. Yeah. Yeah, and then I don't 476 00:31:48,839 --> 00:31:52,920 remember what show it was where we were talking about the fact that people have 477 00:31:53,039 --> 00:31:56,880 very different outlooks on how far they're willing to drive before they fill up their 478 00:31:56,880 --> 00:32:00,799 gas tanks and whether husbands fill up their wives tanks. Remember that conversation, 479 00:32:01,000 --> 00:32:04,359 Yes, yes, yeah, I think that was on our regular show. 480 00:32:04,400 --> 00:32:07,839 I think so too. Yeah, and so a TJ. SAJ five stars 481 00:32:07,880 --> 00:32:12,680 said on gas two things. I do not allow my wife's car to get 482 00:32:12,680 --> 00:32:15,720 below a half a tank. God bless him, God bless him. Right 483 00:32:15,960 --> 00:32:19,839 says I go get gas for her, usually once a week, and I 484 00:32:20,000 --> 00:32:24,039 check at least twice a week. What a good dude, What a sweet 485 00:32:24,079 --> 00:32:28,480 guy. They say, that's the key to a good marriage, is what 486 00:32:28,480 --> 00:32:30,839 we were saying. This is what somebody wrote that somewhere, and I was 487 00:32:30,880 --> 00:32:34,079 like, huh, is that the key to a good marriage. I mean, 488 00:32:34,400 --> 00:32:38,240 it definitely doesn't hurt. Yeah, your mileage may vary. Pun intended, 489 00:32:39,279 --> 00:32:44,480 so great reviews. Hopefully people will contribute more to the iTunes Apple podcast 490 00:32:44,480 --> 00:32:47,559 platform in terms of reviews and comments, and especially in relation to what we 491 00:32:47,720 --> 00:32:54,200 discussed today about mentas. Would love to hear hear from all the menopausal mamas 492 00:32:54,200 --> 00:32:58,680 out there, or the men that are also impact or the men are uh 493 00:32:58,759 --> 00:33:02,200 huh yeah, because men and they're cold. Man, they're cold, they're 494 00:33:02,240 --> 00:33:05,759 cold, and they're hot and they're you know, just let us know how 495 00:33:05,799 --> 00:33:09,079 you feel where you're at temperature wise with your hot wives. And when I 496 00:33:09,119 --> 00:33:14,640 say hot, I'm talking hot, you know, like not like I'm talking 497 00:33:14,759 --> 00:33:17,319 just hot, That's what I'm talking about, you guys. Until next week's couple