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Somebody need to hear this today. Please share this episode because people all over
the world need to hear this. When you let your anger win, you
lose. I wanted that to settle in just for a few moments. Let
me say it again. When you let your anger win, you lose.
And sadly, many people are allowing their anger to win. People just didn't
wake up angry. They grew to become angry because of some bad experience or
experiences, trauma or whatever. People grew to become angry. They were not
born angry. They grew to become angry and fed into it, allowed that
anger to grow, made that anger grow because of giving power to their negativity
in their life instead of dealing with whatever it was that caused them the anger.
Instead of dealing with it, healing from it and letting it go,
people carry that anger around and when you let your anger win, you positively,
absolutely, irrefutably lose. So many have lost everything because of their anger.
Many have permitted murder because of their anger. Some of you have led
terrible self sabotaging lives because of anger. You have believed things that were not
true, and because of that, you developed anger inside of you that you
fed because you would not listen to anyone. You believe the negativity in your
head, which led to your anger and your demise. When you allow anger
to win, you lose. Point blank. People are walking around every day
angry, just waiting on someone to do anything. That is a horrible,
horrible, horrible, horrible way to kneel. That is just too much negative
energy people allowed to build up inside of them. You're mad at the world
when the world didn't do it. You're so mad at everyone because of what
happened to you. Well, we didn't do it. I didn't do it,
your neighbor didn't do it. The person down the street didn't do it.
You're just angry at everybody when you're really angry at yourself for allowing yourself
to be the angry person you are. And that may not even make sense
to some people, but when you're so full of you're anger with yourself too.
You don't even love yourself. There's no way you love yourself because if
you did what you wouldn't be so angry. You're aging yourself because all of
the stress and stuff that goes along with being angry all the time. Some
of you have changed your whole life because of anger. No one wants to
be around you. You can't hold on to a relationship, you don't your
children don't want to be around you. Coworkers don't want to be around you
because you're an angry, mean, bitter person. You don't understand when you
let your anger. When you lose, you lose because you go through life
hard. You go through life unnecessarily hard. You self sabotage yourself, but
you can't see it because you've become so comfortable and complacent in your angry place.
You can't see how ugly it is. You can't see what it's doing
to you. You can't see how mean you are. You can't see it
because that's all you've ever been, was an angry person. You have no
idea that you have allowed anger to win. Some of you get so mad,
I mean, you get so mad, and many of you have done
horrible, unthinkable things in your fit of anger and rage. When just like
you did whatever you did, you could have took time to think about how
angry you were and calm down. But some people they just keep going full
throttle ahead and then you find yourself in prison for the rest of your life,
or you're dead because you're so angry. You kill someone, then you
kill yourself. Are you so angry you did something stupid in the midst of
your anger and you end up getting killed. It wasn't that your intention was
to die, but you were so angry, and in the midst of your
anger, you made an error and you end up dying because of your foolishness.
These are the things that's going on. I mean, it's just so
much happening in this world right now. So much it's happening. People are
like, I mean literally they have lost their minds totally. As hard as
it is right now in this world, everything in this country taxes, higher
healthcare, everything off the chain expensive, and then people carrying all of this
baggage inside on top of that, on top of trying to figure out how
they're gonna make it, they carrying all of this excess baggage that they should
have dumped long ago. That's a terrible way to live, and it's stressed
on your heart, and it's bad for your heart and your body and your
mind and your soul. It's not good. Some of you are angry,
and you take it out on your significant others and loved ones. Then when
they come to their senses and don't want to be with you, you're super
angry. It goes to another level. You just total, total, total,
total loss of control. When you allow your anger to win, you
lose. Is it worth it? Is it worth you going to jail for
the rest of your life or for many many years? Is it worth it?
But see, some of you, you don't think about that until you're
facing it because you're so blind. Your anger have you so blind you don't
think about the consequences until you're facing them. That's crazy. You're that angry.
You should always be thinking about your behavior, how you're thinking, how
you're feeling. You should always be mindful of those things, because that's the
driving force in all of us. Our mindset is what make all of us
tick. How we think is why we do what we do. It's why
we allow what we allowed, It's why we accept what we accept. How
we think. I don't care how you think and pretend. Who you really
are is coming out one way or another, one way or another. And
right now these days in time, it's not good. It's not People are
angry, just angry, angry, angry, angry. They go to food
places and act a fool straight up over food. That's the trigger, the
food, but it's something else that's causing the anger. Long before they got
to that restaurant. There was something already inside of them, long before they
went to that establishment, but the food, that moment was the trigger to
bring it out. People go to church and fight in the church. I
mean everywhere. Nowhere is off limits. Nowhere is exempt anymore. Everywhere.
People go and show out, do crazy things, do the unthinkable, lash
out, and it's always appeared to be that moment that they flipped out,
But no, that moment was the left have strouths. They were already on
that path. They've been on that path for years, some forever, because
they never chose to get off of that path onto a better path, and
they self sabotaged their lives for as long as they've been on this earth and
been an adult self sabotage. They have inhibited their own growth because of their
anger and their unwillingness to become better. Some of you get into relationships with
these angry individuals, and what's crazy is you see you see the tendency,
but you go right on into that relationship until you're now the target. You're
the butt of it. Now you're willing to open your eyes and see this
guy is angry or this woman is an angry person, once they're abusing you,
when you should have never got into that relationship. You should have walked
away. People put themselves in terrible situations, dangerous situations, toxic, unhealthy
because of who you are and what you need to deal with inside of you.
That's why people put themselves in those situations with those angry people. Some
of you feel you love someone so much that you want to fix, save
and change, and when you can't, you can't even fix yourself, obviously,
because you wouldn't be in the relationship with that person if you had a
better mindset, if you were in a better place yourself mentally. Angry people
are not good people to be around, especially when they're in their fit of
rage, because they are liable to do anything, anything, anything, and
many of them have done anything. When you allow your anger to win,
you positively lose. No one shouldn't ever willfully hold on to anger. That
should not be something people have become comfortable with. It should not, but
unfortunately many have. Many You're stressed out, your heart is bad, all
kind of things because you have allowed anger to win in your life. No
peace, There is no peace. There is no way you will ever have
peace when you're an angry person. You have to choose change. You have
to choose change for yourself, never for someone else, for yourself. That's
the only way it's going to last when you choose it for yourself. I
don't care what you went through. You deserve peace in your life. I
don't care who did it. You deserve peace in your life. What good
is it for you? What benefit is it for you to hold on to
what you've endured in the past to affect your life right now? What benefit
is that to you? How do that help you? How do give it
in to anger help you? Yeah? It doesn't, it doesn't. I've
seen people they are just so mean, mean means. I've seen couples that
they are horrible to one another, horrible, they speak terrible to one another.
I'm like, oh my god, terrible. Just angry people put themselves
through so much turmoil that's self inflicted. You think you're doing something because well,
I feel like this, I feel like I have a legitimate reason to
feel like this because of what I went through, what was done to me.
No, you don't. That's self sabotage because you're not going through it
right at that moment, going through it in anymore. But you are doing
yourself even worse than what's done to you because as an adult, you carry
all of that and you project all of that. So you're hurting yourself now
because you refuse to let go of what you went through that you're no longer
going through. You still hold on to that negativity. You're not experiencing it,
but you're holding on to it mentally, and it's affecting you just as
much today as it being way back then. When you allow anger to win,
you lose. Some of you claim to love the Lord, nor you
don't. You don't even love yourself. You can't love anybody the right way
when you don't love yourself. I'll say it again, When you allow anger
to win, you lose. That's all I'm saying. I'm leaving it right
there. I pray in the name of Jesus that people choose change. I
don't care what you went through, who did it, how long you endured
it, You can still let it go because what you're dealing with is mental
now, and the more power you give to it, the more negative feelings
you develop, the more negative thoughts you have, and it keeps you in
that same exact place that you've always been mentally. And I pray that people
learn and love themselves and they allow themselves to heal so they can let go.
Oh all of that in the name of Jesus her hearts and minds.
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