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Hey, Hey, I'm bae.
Was something for you to think about.

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Somebody need to hear this today.
Please share this episode because people all over

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the world need to hear this.
When you let your anger win, you

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lose. I wanted that to settle
in just for a few moments. Let

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me say it again. When you
let your anger win, you lose.

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And sadly, many people are allowing
their anger to win. People just didn't

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wake up angry. They grew to
become angry because of some bad experience or

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experiences, trauma or whatever. People
grew to become angry. They were not

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born angry. They grew to become
angry and fed into it, allowed that

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anger to grow, made that anger
grow because of giving power to their negativity

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in their life instead of dealing with
whatever it was that caused them the anger.

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Instead of dealing with it, healing
from it and letting it go,

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people carry that anger around and when
you let your anger win, you positively,

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absolutely, irrefutably lose. So many
have lost everything because of their anger.

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Many have permitted murder because of their
anger. Some of you have led

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terrible self sabotaging lives because of anger. You have believed things that were not

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true, and because of that,
you developed anger inside of you that you

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fed because you would not listen to
anyone. You believe the negativity in your

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head, which led to your anger
and your demise. When you allow anger

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to win, you lose. Point
blank. People are walking around every day

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angry, just waiting on someone to
do anything. That is a horrible,

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horrible, horrible, horrible way to
kneel. That is just too much negative

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energy people allowed to build up inside
of them. You're mad at the world

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when the world didn't do it.
You're so mad at everyone because of what

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happened to you. Well, we
didn't do it. I didn't do it,

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your neighbor didn't do it. The
person down the street didn't do it.

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You're just angry at everybody when you're
really angry at yourself for allowing yourself

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to be the angry person you are. And that may not even make sense

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to some people, but when you're
so full of you're anger with yourself too.

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You don't even love yourself. There's
no way you love yourself because if

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you did what you wouldn't be so
angry. You're aging yourself because all of

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the stress and stuff that goes along
with being angry all the time. Some

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of you have changed your whole life
because of anger. No one wants to

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be around you. You can't hold
on to a relationship, you don't your

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children don't want to be around you. Coworkers don't want to be around you

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because you're an angry, mean,
bitter person. You don't understand when you

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let your anger. When you lose, you lose because you go through life

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hard. You go through life unnecessarily
hard. You self sabotage yourself, but

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you can't see it because you've become
so comfortable and complacent in your angry place.

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You can't see how ugly it is. You can't see what it's doing

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to you. You can't see how
mean you are. You can't see it

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because that's all you've ever been,
was an angry person. You have no

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idea that you have allowed anger to
win. Some of you get so mad,

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I mean, you get so mad, and many of you have done

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horrible, unthinkable things in your fit
of anger and rage. When just like

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you did whatever you did, you
could have took time to think about how

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angry you were and calm down.
But some people they just keep going full

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throttle ahead and then you find yourself
in prison for the rest of your life,

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or you're dead because you're so angry. You kill someone, then you

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kill yourself. Are you so angry
you did something stupid in the midst of

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your anger and you end up getting
killed. It wasn't that your intention was

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to die, but you were so
angry, and in the midst of your

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anger, you made an error and
you end up dying because of your foolishness.

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These are the things that's going on. I mean, it's just so

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much happening in this world right now. So much it's happening. People are

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like, I mean literally they have
lost their minds totally. As hard as

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it is right now in this world, everything in this country taxes, higher

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healthcare, everything off the chain expensive, and then people carrying all of this

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baggage inside on top of that,
on top of trying to figure out how

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they're gonna make it, they carrying
all of this excess baggage that they should

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have dumped long ago. That's a
terrible way to live, and it's stressed

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on your heart, and it's bad
for your heart and your body and your

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mind and your soul. It's not
good. Some of you are angry,

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and you take it out on your
significant others and loved ones. Then when

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they come to their senses and don't
want to be with you, you're super

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angry. It goes to another level. You just total, total, total,

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total loss of control. When you
allow your anger to win, you

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lose. Is it worth it?
Is it worth you going to jail for

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the rest of your life or for
many many years? Is it worth it?

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But see, some of you,
you don't think about that until you're

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facing it because you're so blind.
Your anger have you so blind you don't

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think about the consequences until you're facing
them. That's crazy. You're that angry.

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You should always be thinking about your
behavior, how you're thinking, how

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you're feeling. You should always be
mindful of those things, because that's the

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driving force in all of us.
Our mindset is what make all of us

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tick. How we think is why
we do what we do. It's why

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we allow what we allowed, It's
why we accept what we accept. How

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we think. I don't care how
you think and pretend. Who you really

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are is coming out one way or
another, one way or another. And

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right now these days in time,
it's not good. It's not People are

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angry, just angry, angry,
angry, angry. They go to food

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places and act a fool straight up
over food. That's the trigger, the

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food, but it's something else that's
causing the anger. Long before they got

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to that restaurant. There was something
already inside of them, long before they

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went to that establishment, but the
food, that moment was the trigger to

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bring it out. People go to
church and fight in the church. I

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mean everywhere. Nowhere is off limits. Nowhere is exempt anymore. Everywhere.

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People go and show out, do
crazy things, do the unthinkable, lash

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out, and it's always appeared to
be that moment that they flipped out,

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But no, that moment was the
left have strouths. They were already on

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that path. They've been on that
path for years, some forever, because

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they never chose to get off of
that path onto a better path, and

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they self sabotaged their lives for as
long as they've been on this earth and

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been an adult self sabotage. They
have inhibited their own growth because of their

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anger and their unwillingness to become better. Some of you get into relationships with

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these angry individuals, and what's crazy
is you see you see the tendency,

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but you go right on into that
relationship until you're now the target. You're

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the butt of it. Now you're
willing to open your eyes and see this

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guy is angry or this woman is
an angry person, once they're abusing you,

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when you should have never got into
that relationship. You should have walked

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away. People put themselves in terrible
situations, dangerous situations, toxic, unhealthy

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because of who you are and what
you need to deal with inside of you.

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That's why people put themselves in those
situations with those angry people. Some

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of you feel you love someone so
much that you want to fix, save

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and change, and when you can't, you can't even fix yourself, obviously,

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because you wouldn't be in the relationship
with that person if you had a

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better mindset, if you were in
a better place yourself mentally. Angry people

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are not good people to be around, especially when they're in their fit of

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rage, because they are liable to
do anything, anything, anything, and

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many of them have done anything.
When you allow your anger to win,

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you positively lose. No one shouldn't
ever willfully hold on to anger. That

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should not be something people have become
comfortable with. It should not, but

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unfortunately many have. Many You're stressed
out, your heart is bad, all

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kind of things because you have allowed
anger to win in your life. No

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peace, There is no peace.
There is no way you will ever have

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peace when you're an angry person.
You have to choose change. You have

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to choose change for yourself, never
for someone else, for yourself. That's

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the only way it's going to last
when you choose it for yourself. I

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don't care what you went through.
You deserve peace in your life. I

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don't care who did it. You
deserve peace in your life. What good

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is it for you? What benefit
is it for you to hold on to

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what you've endured in the past to
affect your life right now? What benefit

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is that to you? How do
that help you? How do give it

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in to anger help you? Yeah? It doesn't, it doesn't. I've

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seen people they are just so mean, mean means. I've seen couples that

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they are horrible to one another,
horrible, they speak terrible to one another.

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I'm like, oh my god,
terrible. Just angry people put themselves

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through so much turmoil that's self inflicted. You think you're doing something because well,

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I feel like this, I feel
like I have a legitimate reason to

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feel like this because of what I
went through, what was done to me.

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No, you don't. That's self
sabotage because you're not going through it

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right at that moment, going through
it in anymore. But you are doing

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yourself even worse than what's done to
you because as an adult, you carry

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all of that and you project all
of that. So you're hurting yourself now

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because you refuse to let go of
what you went through that you're no longer

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going through. You still hold on
to that negativity. You're not experiencing it,

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but you're holding on to it mentally, and it's affecting you just as

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much today as it being way back
then. When you allow anger to win,

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you lose. Some of you claim
to love the Lord, nor you

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don't. You don't even love yourself. You can't love anybody the right way

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when you don't love yourself. I'll
say it again, When you allow anger

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to win, you lose. That's
all I'm saying. I'm leaving it right

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there. I pray in the name
of Jesus that people choose change. I

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don't care what you went through,
who did it, how long you endured

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it, You can still let it
go because what you're dealing with is mental

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now, and the more power you
give to it, the more negative feelings

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you develop, the more negative thoughts
you have, and it keeps you in

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that same exact place that you've always
been mentally. And I pray that people

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learn and love themselves and they allow
themselves to heal so they can let go.

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Oh all of that in the name
of Jesus her hearts and minds.

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Thank you for listening. Please share
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I hope and God knows, I
pray you do it. Thank God, it