Hey, hey, hey, hey, I'm back with something for you to
think about. We have fallen so far down the rabbit hole of a people.
I moon so far down the rabbit hole. We have gotten so far
away from Jesus Christ. And the world is full of mean, evil people
who are full of darkness. It's so much going on in the world today.
It's a shame. It's a shame of shame, of shame, of
shame. Nowadays you have people saying, what is it to be female?
What is it to be male? What is it to be heterosexual? Are
you kidding me? Now? The talk is being monogamous doesn't work. Monogamy
don't work because people still cheat. That is Oh my goodness, Oh my
goodness, Jesus, we need you to just come on, crack the sky.
We need to just come on and do what you gotta do, because
it's We're done. We are so done as a race of people. I'm
here. It is everything everything then gone, everything bad, accepted, everything
wrong accepted. I mean, people have literally lost their minds. Any person
who thinks monogamy doesn't work because people still cheating? Something wrong with you?
You? You so immature, you you can't even think straight you have no
clue what you're talking about. None. Cheating has nothing to do with monogamy.
A person call be monogamous. They can have plethora of husbands or wives.
It don't matter. What's inn a person is what's causes them to cheat,
not the type of relationship they're in. People because of who they are,
because of mindsets and hearts. People want it their way. That is
the bottom line. People want it their way, whatever their mindset is,
that's what they're gonna go along with. If you don't believe monogamy works,
because people are still cheating, that's the mindset that you have. Monogamy is
the intent that Jesus and God meant for us. Now you don't have a
choice to do whatever you want. Monogamy definitely does work. And again let
me reiterate the fact that it has nothing, absolutely nothing to do with the
type of relationship you're in. A cheater gonna cheat. It has nothing to
do with the relationship. It has nothing to do with the individual in the
relationship, meaning the significant other that's being cheated on. They may have issues,
they even may bring drama to the relationship, but the real problem is
the cheater. What's in him or hurt. That is what makes monogamous relationships
not worth. It's not because it's monogamous. It's ridiculous. People cheat.
It does not matter if they have the most gorgeous I mean, breathtaking gorgeous
man or woman. It don't matter. It's not how gorgeous a person is.
It's not in what they have, their titles, their positions. It's
not in the fact that it's a monogamous relationship. It's about who people are
in general, who you are as a person. It is why people cheat.
I mean some of the things that people believe. Oh my goodness,
oh oh, oh oh. If you can see my face, oh my
goodness, the things people believe. But people believe like that because they don't
know any better. If they knew better, they would not say the things
that they say. If they knew better, they wouldn't even dream of bringing
such ignorance, ignorant statements out of their mouths Now, let's be real about
it. Some people know better, A lot of people know better. Most
people know better, but they're gonna do what they want to do because of
what's inside of them, who they really are. They're gonna do what they
want to do. They're gonna go along with whatever they want to go along
with because of who they really are. You will never ever ever agree with
something that's not accurate or something that's wrong. Period. If you don't believe
in it or you don't agree with it, you're not going to go along
with that. You're not going to adopt that belief. It's only people who
don't know better, or who know better, but they still want to do
what they want to do because they're blind to their feelings, that wants and
their desires, their self gratification, their flesh. So of course you want
to go with whatever you are trying to obtain, whatever yourself gratification is,
that's what you're gonna go with. That's why people cheat. You see people
whom you're like, wow, he had a beautiful wife or shared a gorgeous
husband. That don't make them a good person. That don't make them the
right person to be with because they're gorgeous or they're beautiful. That do not
make an individual the right person to be with. When you mature and you
develop that good way of thinking, that positive mindset, you're gonna understand looks,
titles, positions, possessions, none, of that makes an individual the
right person to do what none of it, never have, never will.
That's why the most beautiful people are still cheating on him because it has nothing
to do with any of that. It has everything to do with who the
cheater is, what's inside of him or her. And until people change,
guess what, they remain the same. They continue to cheat. They continue
to do what they always have done. Cheat because they are seeking some type
of self gratification. They're trying to feel some type of void. Most people
are living their lives trying to feel some type of void. That's why people
get in bad relationships, trying to feel voids. They go back to bad
relationships no one In the back of their mind they are wondering, should I
do this? I probably shouldn't do it, but they'll still go and do
it because they're following their hearts, even though it has done nothing but led
them into bad relationships. That's because of who they are. What's really inside
of a person, It's always gonna lead you into bad situations, bad people,
allowing and accepting anything, opening yourself up to unnecessary stressing, drama,
and chaos. What's really inside of you, that is what's going to lead
you in the way that you're going to go. You can faith in portinuity
at all you want, but what's really inside of you. Oh yeah,
it's gonna come out. Monogamy is alive. And well, many people are
individuals who believe in monogamy. I mean, if we can't believe in monogamy,
I mean, come on, there's no hope anyways for many because when
you don't know what the definition of a woman is, man, woman,
come on down the rap the rabbit hole. I mean, so far gone
until it is ridiculous. And I am so sick of people saying, oh,
the lefts in the rights. You all are so fooled. You get
your research, learn about politics and in Congress and all of that stuff.
Learn about it because you are so they're boosing, You're so brainwashing, You're
so fooled into taking sides when they're on the same side. It is crazy.
It is crazy. The millions of people that you hear bickering and fighting
amongst each other, the dooms, the reps, the lives, the rights
got you all all discombobulated fighting amongst each other when they're on the same side.
You need to learn for yourself you need to do your research. They
are all on the same side, but because of your mindset, it makes
people believe things that's not true. Just like individuals who are saying the things
they're saying about monogamy. If it's not what you want, hey do you
do? You do what makes you happy, But I guarantee you I will
give you a five thousand dollars check. Write it out to you any person,
because I know I'm not wrong with what I'm about to say. It
does not matter. But for people who think monogamy don't work because people are
still cheating, let me tell you you will never, ever, ever,
ever, did I say, ever make an unhappy person happy monogamous You can
be in that type of relationship or you can be in a polygamy. It
don't matter. People who have multiple spouses they have issues too. They have
issues too. People were in gay relationships, they have issues too. People
weren't having sexual relationships, they have issues too. It don't matter. What
it boils down is to what is in the hearts and minds of individuals.
That's why we see what we see in today's societies all around the world,
all around the world, no particular country, all around the world. We're
seeing killing, stealing, lying, deceit, child abuse, spousal abuse,
girlfriend boyfriend abuse, all types of murders. We're seeing everything all around the
world. Countries may handle it differently than here, but we're seeing things all
around the world. It's happening everywhere. It's because of the hearts and minds
of people. That's why so much tragedy is going on. That's why people
endure so much trauma. Because of the hearts and minds of people. What's
in people is coming out. You have all these parents, these people all
I want children, I want children, I want children, or go blah
blah blah, only to have them and then kill them, only to have
them and then abuse them. It's because of what's in them. They haven't
help from their own internal issues that cause them trauma. The issues then cause
them trauma. The trauma caused them issues, but they're holding on to all
of that negativity. This is what happened with cheaters. A cheater do not
love his or herself. How do you think they're gonna love you? Some
of you? You need to grow up. You think, oh, you
know he's a cheater, or you know she's a cheater. But you think,
oh, I love it out of them. I'll do this and I'll
do that. I love him so hard, I'll take care of them,
I'll support them, I'll do this and i'll do that that they'll change for
me. They didn't change for her because she didn't know how to love them
the way I do. They didn't change for him. He didn't know how
to love her like I did. Foolish all foolish one, Oh, foolish
one. And you will find out how long you are because it has nothing
to do with you. It's all about that individual who's cheating. So monogamy
definitely does work for adults who are mature. You gotta be mature. You
have to be mature. You have to be an individual. Two individuals,
one who is mature and on that next level with someone who's not gonna work.
You have to do two mature individuals who have dealt with their own inner
issues, who have worked through those things. They have dealt with those things
so they can deal from them and they're moving forward with positive minds, loving
self and all of those is a good things. Those are too is gonna
take. Those are the two is gonna take because when you are in that
mindset and you're in a relationship, it does not matter what a person does.
You will be adult enough, mature enough to say, hey, I'm
involved. I have a girlfriend, I have a boyfriend, I have a
significant other, I have a husband, I have a wife. You're gonna
be mature enough to do that. You're going to There is no ends or
buts about it. You're gonna be mature enough to do that because you know
what you have is not worth risking. And you also know anyone who stepped
to you and you tell them you're in a relationship and they still try,
you know they're not worthy of anything. Anyways. I don't care if somebody
come on to you. Mature men and women who love who they are with,
they're gonna do the right thing now. Granted, I just gotta keep
it real. I have to keep it real all the way. Granted,
Jesus, I hate to say it, but I have to say it.
They are few in number. They are few in number, just like truths
says true. Christians few in number, Oh my goodness, few in number.
There are millions who say they are Christians, but they are few in
number. There are many, many, many who say that they are monogamous.
They believe in monogamy, but they're talking out the side of their next
talking out the side of their next. Liars, manipulators, deceivers, and
those are the ones who will cheat. So it has nothing to do with
the type of relationship you're in. Hello, nothing. It has nothing to
do really with the person knew with. And like I said, yes,
some people bring drummer into the relationships because of their own issues. Some people
are straight up mess. But even with that mess, a cheater is gonna
cheat because he or she wants to. When you hear people say, oh,
you ran him or her into the arms of someone that's known you,
didn't, they ran on their own. They did it because they wanted to.
People are blamed their home wreckords, their home records. They broke up
relationship. No, the cheater did. The cheater is the home wreckord.
And I've talked about this a little in my other episodes. A person kid't
take anyone from you. That other person go of their own free will.
So people need to get it right. Get it right. If you don't
know what you're talking about, keep quiet. That's the best thing to do
because when you open your mouth and you don't know what you're talking about.
It really tells about who you are as a person. You can go back
through every last episode I've ever done. I never talk anything. I don't
know anything about it. It makes no sense to do that to me.
I'm not trying to take my way through anything. Who has time for that?
I don't. I'd say what I say because God give me this,
and then I've experienced it through so many people. That's why I say I
am an expert in this. I've seen so much, so much, and
let me tell you, it's so similar. It's so similar, but people
just it's so easy to figure out. But so many people, millions of
people are so caught up in self. Me me, me, me me,
I want, I want, I desire, I feel. So many
people that they can't see the truth. They simply cannot see the truth because
it's all about self. So they're blind. That's why people are in bad
and unhealthy relationships because they were blind because they made everything about self. I
love him even though he's beating me upside the head. He's a good man.
I love him. Get out of here. Iyadiculous. I love him.
He don't even have two pennies to rub together, can't help you with
anything. All he does is take, take, take from you and any
children you may have. But you love him. What do you love about
him? That's what you need to figure out. Get you a tablet and
write down all the good features of why you love him. But you gotta
make sure. You have to make sure those things that you write that you
see pass your feelings and your emotions, because if a person can help you,
if you're in a relationship with a person who's just bringing you down,
what do you need that person for? So many many, many, many
things contribute to a terrible relationship, many things, but those things come from
individuals and what's inside of him. That's why people bring drama into their relationships.
That's why people create all these musters in their relationships. That's why people
fall for the oaky though. They're easy, bambooser and brainwashed and first and
influenced and persuade it in all those things to do, foolishness to go along
with dumb stuff, and it's gonna always be that way until people choose change
for self. So if you want of those people who don't believe that monogamy
works, hey, believe what you choose, believe what you choose. If
you're an individual don't know what a woman is or don't know what a man
is, I feel sorry for you. I do, and you really need
to get some some biology lessons for sure. Research some sciences get your biology
lessons and research. Some sciences. Read your Bible. Oh, it tells
you exactly what it is. There's no mistake about it. But because so
many people try to put their spin on things and make it the way they
want to make it, now everybody as if they are confused. There's no
confusion about it. There is no confusion about it, none at all.
You know, people can believe whatever they want to believe, but it's not
convoluted at all. It's not people try to make it that way, but
it's boom boom, bam bam, right there in your face, straight up,
telling you exactly what's up. People just go along with anything nowadays,
but again that's because of what's inside a boom. It really is. You're
not going to be a person who's easily persuaded. It you go along with
anything, you believe anything, you are not going to be that person.
If you are a strong person who stands on your own, who loved yourself,
who have dealt with your unresolved issues, and you know who you are.
You're not going to be that person. But there are millions of people
who are not. Millions of people who are struggling every day, but guess
what, they continue to stay in the struggle because they're so comfortable and familiar
with that. And those are the people who believe these Shenanigan's monogamy doesn't work.
Get out of here, but you believe whatever you want. I'm tired
of talking about it. I'm leaving it right there. I hope you got
something out of it. If you have anything to say, reach out to
me. You're welcome to do so. Go to my podcast page and to
tell you how to reach me. Hey, we can have a discussion about
it any time. Okay, thank you for listening. Much love to you
and you and you. If no one has told you they love you today,
I'm telling you I love you with a sincere heart. I don't know
you, but I love you, and I wish you nothing but the best.
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