WEBVTT 1 00:00:00.720 --> 00:00:04.759 Bottled Up Bitches is hosted by a horny married couple. Content may include adult 2 00:00:04.799 --> 00:00:08.960 language and themes. Check the description for more details. Your discretion is advised. 3 00:00:14.119 --> 00:00:18.359 It's season five. Welcome back to Bottled Up Bitches, your favorite sex 4 00:00:18.480 --> 00:00:23.079 podcast hosted by an already married couple, with me Rihanna Campbell and me producer 5 00:00:23.120 --> 00:00:28.399 Man Adam. Sex shouldn't be taboo or embarrassing, so let's talk about it, 6 00:00:28.519 --> 00:00:34.960 say Horny bitches, Hi, Adam, Hi, Bonny. Welcome back 7 00:00:34.960 --> 00:00:40.200 to another episode of Bottled Up Bitches with Me Rihanna and me Adam. Hi. 8 00:00:40.479 --> 00:00:44.119 Hi, what a day? What a week? What a week? 9 00:00:44.159 --> 00:00:47.799 What a life? What a life? So what a man? Man? 10 00:00:49.479 --> 00:00:54.880 You're so good. I enjoy you. Well, we're finally getting some nice 11 00:00:54.880 --> 00:01:00.280 sunny weather. Yeah, it's been kind of overcasty and rain on and off 12 00:01:00.799 --> 00:01:03.560 for a week. It is cold. We're hitting actually cold temperatures today. 13 00:01:03.719 --> 00:01:08.000 Currently it is sixty. Yeah, yesterday was like forty all day. Yeah, 14 00:01:08.000 --> 00:01:11.120 but especially at night too. Yeah, it's getting really nice and chilli. 15 00:01:11.599 --> 00:01:15.000 Yeah, we don't have the AC or the heater on. Do we 16 00:01:15.000 --> 00:01:18.680 turn that off? I did, okay, because it's not doing much. 17 00:01:18.799 --> 00:01:22.599 Yeah, and well I laughed too, because we turned the heater on and 18 00:01:22.640 --> 00:01:25.680 then you immediately went and opened the back door. No, not immediately, 19 00:01:25.760 --> 00:01:30.480 I just opened the back door. Or this morning you did and I closed 20 00:01:30.519 --> 00:01:36.159 it when you went to take a nap. Yeah, well I needed to 21 00:01:36.200 --> 00:01:41.239 take a nap. Yeah. Sure, Well we're out here doing our best. 22 00:01:41.400 --> 00:01:44.840 We've been on a really good stride. We've been seeming to do a 23 00:01:44.840 --> 00:01:49.120 lot of anal things, which is fun. Yeah, the slow crawl of 24 00:01:49.120 --> 00:01:53.879 putting things in my butt. Pinky in the butt? Yeah and the butt. 25 00:01:53.359 --> 00:01:57.000 Yeah, pinky in the butt. Oh see, we go two different 26 00:01:57.040 --> 00:02:00.599 things. Where do you go? I always go with Pink in the brain 27 00:02:00.680 --> 00:02:02.560 theme song. Oh no, I do take it box. It's pinky. 28 00:02:02.719 --> 00:02:09.280 It's Pinky in the but but but but but but but but but whatever. 29 00:02:09.319 --> 00:02:17.639 He makes some crazy Pinky says something crazy. You're crazy. But I thought 30 00:02:17.680 --> 00:02:25.360 it would be nice to take a little sexcapaide break to do some like Q 31 00:02:25.479 --> 00:02:30.039 and A. We have so many new listeners, which is super fun. 32 00:02:30.159 --> 00:02:36.759 I love looking at the episodes that people are listening to. And Esther's episode 33 00:02:36.800 --> 00:02:38.879 is like super high up. That's always been such a like a grabber. 34 00:02:40.319 --> 00:02:44.120 What's the first episode I guess that's that makes sense. So people are sorting 35 00:02:44.120 --> 00:02:47.000 their podcast by like new like first episode. They're like, oh, I 36 00:02:47.000 --> 00:02:50.639 think this is good. Let me start with the first episode, like that's 37 00:02:50.680 --> 00:02:53.360 why, and that's how I can tell like, oh, we've had a 38 00:02:53.400 --> 00:02:58.080 lot of new people because season bad episode and just season two in general is 39 00:02:58.120 --> 00:03:01.719 being frequented a lot recently. So for all the newness and all the new 40 00:03:01.719 --> 00:03:07.199 people out there, high hig in this. Sorry, I have the burpies. 41 00:03:07.840 --> 00:03:09.759 I need to let out, like a really good burb Do you want 42 00:03:09.800 --> 00:03:13.319 some of this? No? I don't want any of that. Okay, 43 00:03:13.919 --> 00:03:16.759 you're sparkling caffeinated watermelon? Yeah, what's wrong with it? I just don't 44 00:03:16.800 --> 00:03:21.960 want any Did you like yours? I did. I had that ginger lime 45 00:03:22.039 --> 00:03:23.400 one and it was really good. Good. Yeah, thanks a GB. 46 00:03:23.599 --> 00:03:29.840 The cucumber mine one was really good too. Yeah. Okay, we gotta 47 00:03:29.879 --> 00:03:31.639 we got to taste tests. We gotta get through them all. I don't 48 00:03:31.639 --> 00:03:35.360 know why they don't do more blueberry ones. I always like blueberry, lemon, 49 00:03:35.560 --> 00:03:38.759 and yeah flavors they had right shot, Joe's had a lot of blueberry, 50 00:03:38.759 --> 00:03:40.879 So well, give them some time. Maybe they're new. I've never 51 00:03:40.919 --> 00:03:46.680 heard of sparkling water with caffeine. Yeah, so maybe it's a newer thing, 52 00:03:46.759 --> 00:03:50.439 so maybe they'll pop some new flavors in. Yeah, well that's part 53 00:03:50.439 --> 00:03:53.879 of it. I wanted to do some getting to know you things, mostly 54 00:03:53.919 --> 00:03:58.639 sex related, some won't be, just for people that are new here, 55 00:03:58.759 --> 00:04:00.280 And there's a lot of things that we're gonna go over that other people that 56 00:04:00.400 --> 00:04:05.120 have been listening may not know the answers to these questions, just so people 57 00:04:05.199 --> 00:04:09.759 are feeling comfortable with us and all that good stuff. If you want to 58 00:04:09.800 --> 00:04:14.400 learn more about Adam and I's relationships specifically, go back to I think it's 59 00:04:14.400 --> 00:04:16.639 season three. We do a Bitchus Love Stories Part one and two. You 60 00:04:16.680 --> 00:04:20.839 can learn about how we met and all those cute kind of relationship things. 61 00:04:21.160 --> 00:04:27.879 But I thought it'd be nice to do a little Q and A with us 62 00:04:27.920 --> 00:04:30.399 as individuals, and some of its sex related, some of it not, 63 00:04:30.560 --> 00:04:33.279 but just for onezies. And a big part of yours is you are a 64 00:04:33.319 --> 00:04:38.759 caffeine whore and Adam has to have like a Coca day to keep the doctor 65 00:04:38.759 --> 00:04:42.519 away. Yeah, I do. I definitely have, Like caffeine is a 66 00:04:42.519 --> 00:04:46.079 big thing, but I've been trying to like not yeah, how's that going. 67 00:04:46.120 --> 00:04:49.240 I have cokes as you go to the gas station once a day and 68 00:04:49.879 --> 00:04:53.519 not only, but I don't always good christ your car to get a coke. 69 00:04:54.600 --> 00:05:00.480 Well that's why I'm excited for these things with caffeine. I tried to 70 00:05:00.600 --> 00:05:02.920 like the meo things they have caffeine versions. It's more of a caffeine thing. 71 00:05:03.040 --> 00:05:05.199 Yeah, as I say caffeine, yeah yeah, it's definitely more of 72 00:05:05.240 --> 00:05:09.800 a caffeine thing. But I'm hoping, like you know, I'm sure it's 73 00:05:09.839 --> 00:05:14.639 not great, but like sparkling water with caffeine is better than all the sugar. 74 00:05:14.839 --> 00:05:16.120 Yeah yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah yeah yeah. And 75 00:05:16.160 --> 00:05:19.360 I think like these have really helped. I feel like I don't because usually 76 00:05:19.399 --> 00:05:27.079 it's gotten to the point now where like like I went to the store today 77 00:05:27.240 --> 00:05:30.199 just because I like I needed to get out. I do a lot of 78 00:05:30.240 --> 00:05:34.439 my like best thinking, you will, truly, yeah, I do a 79 00:05:34.439 --> 00:05:40.600 lot of my thinking and like organizing my thoughts best in the best in the 80 00:05:40.600 --> 00:05:44.360 car, and so I just like went out, but I was like, 81 00:05:44.399 --> 00:05:46.959 I don't A coke didn't sound good. I was like, I got these 82 00:05:46.000 --> 00:05:50.560 like little sparkling water things flavors, a moon pie. We got high yet 83 00:05:50.680 --> 00:05:56.680 last night. Yeah, and I had a moon pie and like thirty minutes 84 00:05:56.759 --> 00:05:58.959 later I was like, my god, I want another. It was so 85 00:05:59.040 --> 00:06:01.000 good and pie too. But I like the chocolate one. They don't. 86 00:06:01.040 --> 00:06:03.199 Yeah, and I don't ever see the chocolate one. Yeah, you just 87 00:06:03.240 --> 00:06:06.040 get the nasty banana, which is the ones I like. Yeah, I'm 88 00:06:06.040 --> 00:06:10.199 not a chocolate guy. You're not. You're not a chocolate guy. You're 89 00:06:10.199 --> 00:06:14.439 a vanilla guy. But yes, I'm a caffeine one. Yes, No, 90 00:06:14.519 --> 00:06:17.199 you're a big caffeine caffeine individual. I thought your watch was telling you 91 00:06:17.240 --> 00:06:21.639 to calm down. No, it was my mom my dad exclusive to the 92 00:06:21.639 --> 00:06:26.959 pod. Dad now has an appointment to get the MRI on Friday. Okay, 93 00:06:27.040 --> 00:06:30.680 let's give no context and just worry people. He's all right, it's 94 00:06:30.720 --> 00:06:32.240 just it's just an exploratory thing. Yeah, he just you know, he 95 00:06:32.240 --> 00:06:38.120 may or may not have cracked your ribs exploring. Just see whatever Marias do. 96 00:06:38.360 --> 00:06:45.519 Yeah, your little your little caffeine fiend. I am. I love 97 00:06:45.560 --> 00:06:50.000 that about you? Yeah what am? I Let's talk about me? Okay, 98 00:06:50.120 --> 00:06:57.040 okay, like in like, caffeine to me is blank to you? 99 00:06:57.279 --> 00:07:00.759 Yeah, I would say, I mean, I would this is obvious. 100 00:07:00.800 --> 00:07:03.319 But it's chips. Yeah, yeah, you're a big chip lover. I 101 00:07:03.319 --> 00:07:05.959 love chips. You do love chips. Yeah, that's why I got a 102 00:07:06.000 --> 00:07:11.439 gut. And you specifically, you don't have a gut. And you specifically 103 00:07:12.360 --> 00:07:17.360 like hot you are Yeah, you're you're a Latina through and through. Yeah. 104 00:07:17.439 --> 00:07:20.439 I like hot cheetahs. You like cheetos, you like hot Finians, 105 00:07:20.720 --> 00:07:26.079 hot puffs, hot puffs with your cheetos. Yeah, it's all They're all 106 00:07:26.160 --> 00:07:30.720 Chester cheetah. Oh okay, river lick yourself later. Yeah, no, 107 00:07:30.839 --> 00:07:33.360 I do, I really do. And then they just came back out with 108 00:07:33.959 --> 00:07:39.439 the asteroids, but they were banded them as like hot shots. They think 109 00:07:39.439 --> 00:07:44.160 they say astoids on the package, No call flavor shots, okay, which 110 00:07:44.199 --> 00:07:46.839 is wild. Yeah. I don't know why they're not calling them asteroids anymore. 111 00:07:46.839 --> 00:07:49.439 But back in my day, I used to have washed down my asteroids 112 00:07:49.480 --> 00:07:54.040 or a sprite remix if you know, oil Boy. It was so good. 113 00:07:54.040 --> 00:07:58.600 I mixed missed the sprite remix fuels good. Correct me if I'm wrong. 114 00:07:58.839 --> 00:08:03.759 But asteroids are they're essentially just cheese, like flaming hot cheese. Bus 115 00:08:03.040 --> 00:08:07.040 Yeah, they're little balls, yeah, little balls afar Yeah, but yeah, 116 00:08:07.040 --> 00:08:09.959 that's definitely my vice. I've been pretty good about I mean, the 117 00:08:11.040 --> 00:08:13.319 last week or so, I think I've had more chips than usual just because 118 00:08:13.519 --> 00:08:18.399 of stress, but I've been pretty weaned off of it, Like I don't 119 00:08:18.680 --> 00:08:22.040 eat them every day, yes, because that's not going to be great for 120 00:08:22.079 --> 00:08:26.600 me. And you're good about moderating. Last night we went crazy crazy and 121 00:08:26.639 --> 00:08:31.800 we're paying for that this yeah, today, today, yeah, yeah and 122 00:08:31.959 --> 00:08:35.919 last night for me. Oh sure, But yeah, you've been good about 123 00:08:35.960 --> 00:08:39.720 moderating, like you don't. You're good about not like eating through the whole 124 00:08:39.759 --> 00:08:43.279 bag in one sitting. Yeah, as much anymore. Well, I get 125 00:08:43.320 --> 00:08:46.360 small bags now, that's true. I can't get like, but even then 126 00:08:46.399 --> 00:08:48.679 I don't you don't necessarily eat the whole bag in one sitting every time? 127 00:08:48.840 --> 00:08:52.080 Sure, No, Yeah, I've been pretty good about it. I'm trying 128 00:08:52.120 --> 00:08:54.919 to not, you know, kill myself. Yeah. So yeah, I'm 129 00:08:54.919 --> 00:09:01.279 a caffeine whore and you're a chip slut. A I love that for us. 130 00:09:01.320 --> 00:09:07.799 Yeah. Can I ask a question? Okay, because you've talked about 131 00:09:07.799 --> 00:09:11.000 it very briefly, but you've never not that there's a ton of detail that 132 00:09:11.039 --> 00:09:13.279 you remember. But I think if you really wanted to. You would like 133 00:09:13.360 --> 00:09:18.919 sit and think about it, and not everybody knows your how you lost your 134 00:09:18.960 --> 00:09:22.600 virginity. Yeah, I want you to go more into that because for the 135 00:09:22.600 --> 00:09:24.960 people that listen, they know that I'm a second woman you've been with. 136 00:09:26.200 --> 00:09:30.639 You've only had one other experience, and it was a pretty like fast experience. 137 00:09:30.679 --> 00:09:37.279 You weren't like dating that person or anything like that. So your mom 138 00:09:37.360 --> 00:09:41.799 is wild. She's just taking churance, taking us. So break it down 139 00:09:41.840 --> 00:09:46.039 as much as you can. Uh, how old you were, Tell tell 140 00:09:46.120 --> 00:09:50.559 everybody listening more about how you lost your virginity. Yeah. I would have 141 00:09:50.600 --> 00:09:56.320 been either nineteen or twenty. Trying to remember it was in It was like 142 00:09:56.360 --> 00:10:00.320 at the end of me living in College Station and being at community college there. 143 00:10:01.759 --> 00:10:03.120 I don't remember if I moved to Houston when I was nineteen or when 144 00:10:03.159 --> 00:10:11.159 I was twenty. Well, I mean think about it. You graduated eighteen, 145 00:10:11.360 --> 00:10:15.320 No, okay, yeah, so it would have been Yeah, I 146 00:10:15.320 --> 00:10:20.240 probably would have been twenty. Okay, I probably was twenty and yeah, 147 00:10:20.279 --> 00:10:22.679 and it was just like a it was a girl in my class, my 148 00:10:22.679 --> 00:10:26.240 photography. I had a photography class in College Station. Yeah, okay, 149 00:10:26.519 --> 00:10:33.159 yeah, because I come on, Blynn well, so I pretty quickly learned 150 00:10:33.240 --> 00:10:37.440 that college, more traditional college was not going to be for me. Like 151 00:10:37.480 --> 00:10:39.759 I went there to transfer to A and M. I was going to be 152 00:10:39.799 --> 00:10:43.679 a psychology major, which is so funny because all you do is make fun 153 00:10:43.720 --> 00:10:48.720 of psychology majors. Yeah, because they're the worst. I feel like psychology 154 00:10:48.759 --> 00:10:52.120 majors are the new communication majors. It really is. Everyone's like, I 155 00:10:52.159 --> 00:10:54.919 don't know what I want to do with my life, so I'm going to 156 00:10:54.919 --> 00:10:58.200 be a psychology major, which is kind of my my reason. Well, 157 00:10:58.279 --> 00:11:05.080 I wanted to be like a clinical psychologist more of like like I wanted to 158 00:11:05.159 --> 00:11:09.799 like study and research more like actually not, I don't want to say actually 159 00:11:09.879 --> 00:11:11.679 to diminish it. I didn't want to be a therapist. I wanted to 160 00:11:11.720 --> 00:11:16.440 like study like anti social personality disorders like schizophrenia and stuff like that. I 161 00:11:16.480 --> 00:11:18.200 love this. I don't think you've ever expressed this to I've ever gone into 162 00:11:18.279 --> 00:11:22.399 like big detail with it. But it makes sense because you are a very 163 00:11:22.399 --> 00:11:26.799 you pick apart the why, the why and the reason people are the way 164 00:11:26.840 --> 00:11:31.480 they are. And you also have a really big obsession with serial killers, 165 00:11:31.559 --> 00:11:35.559 not true crime, but like the serial killers themselves yeah, Like I'm very 166 00:11:35.559 --> 00:11:39.960 fascinated and I always have it. And not to sound like a hipster, 167 00:11:39.080 --> 00:11:45.840 but like I kind of had that like interest before. I feel like the 168 00:11:45.879 --> 00:11:50.480 true crime trait craze like went big. I've always been very fascinated on like 169 00:11:50.559 --> 00:11:56.080 what makes like why are these people the way they are? So, you 170 00:11:56.080 --> 00:12:00.360 know, when film school didn't work out, that was my plan. But 171 00:12:00.399 --> 00:12:05.360 then yeah, I went to Blynn Community College to try to get into A 172 00:12:05.480 --> 00:12:09.480 and M and didn't. Very quickly was like, oh I don't like college, 173 00:12:09.639 --> 00:12:15.080 so you didn't even apply to I never did. And so at college, 174 00:12:15.159 --> 00:12:18.000 at at Blynn is when I started like I would start taking a little 175 00:12:18.000 --> 00:12:22.759 more artsy classes, and then that's what eventually led me to going to an 176 00:12:22.840 --> 00:12:26.360 art school. Hence, while I was in a photography class, I was 177 00:12:26.399 --> 00:12:35.960 just trying to take like classes that interested me more than like yeah, so 178 00:12:35.039 --> 00:12:39.600 yeah I was there. It was just a girl in the class. Do 179 00:12:39.679 --> 00:12:43.399 you remember her name? I do not. I think a lot of it 180 00:12:43.480 --> 00:12:46.440 was. I think a lot of it. It was a very kind of 181 00:12:46.519 --> 00:12:52.600 discipline. It was I have a lot of mixed feelings with it, a 182 00:12:52.639 --> 00:12:58.960 little bit to Noneles, so maybe not specifically for you just something in general 183 00:13:00.159 --> 00:13:03.320 meaningful, like yeah, like how to fling with maybe went on a date 184 00:13:03.360 --> 00:13:07.960 or two with my girlfriend? Like as exciting as it is to lose your 185 00:13:07.039 --> 00:13:11.000 virginity, is it? Yeah, it's really overhyped, feel it. I 186 00:13:11.039 --> 00:13:16.879 agree with you. I think I was wanting I was I wanted a relationship 187 00:13:16.879 --> 00:13:22.000 more than I wanted to have sex, and I think that's maybe part of 188 00:13:22.200 --> 00:13:24.960 you know, it was kind of like a quick thing. It was like 189 00:13:24.039 --> 00:13:28.399 a project. She stayed in the dorms. I was not living in the 190 00:13:28.440 --> 00:13:31.279 dorms. Lynn had dorms, which is crazy for a community to college to 191 00:13:31.279 --> 00:13:33.360 have dorms. It's so weird to me. But she was staying in the 192 00:13:33.360 --> 00:13:39.519 dorms and we, you know, we kind of talked. I've always been 193 00:13:39.600 --> 00:13:46.320 like, I've always been good with women in the sense of like I'm very 194 00:13:46.360 --> 00:13:50.759 friendly, Like I feel like women see me as not a threat, if 195 00:13:50.799 --> 00:13:52.840 that makes sense. You're very yes, but you're a very good listener, 196 00:13:52.960 --> 00:13:56.919 a very good listening. So what do you do? Okay, cool your 197 00:13:56.960 --> 00:14:00.320 heart, Like, Yeah, I've always gotten along very well with women. 198 00:14:00.600 --> 00:14:05.440 Yeah, you're very comfortable in your femininity. There's not a toxic masculine bone 199 00:14:05.480 --> 00:14:11.679 in your body, you value value women, and we can tell. So 200 00:14:11.720 --> 00:14:15.279 it was like someone that I kind of had this like very friendly relationship, 201 00:14:15.279 --> 00:14:22.799 like we communicated. It was like fine, yeah, okay, I got 202 00:14:22.840 --> 00:14:24.919 distracted. Sorry. So it was kind of like, okay, so it 203 00:14:24.960 --> 00:14:28.039 was a girl in your photography class. Do you remember did y'all go out 204 00:14:28.080 --> 00:14:31.039 and eat and then go home and bang? Did she come over? What? 205 00:14:31.720 --> 00:14:33.840 You know? What was that day? Like? Yeah, it was 206 00:14:33.919 --> 00:14:39.720 kind of like a we're going kind of like work on a project together. 207 00:14:39.960 --> 00:14:43.120 Like we were gonna do pictures. You know, a lot of it was 208 00:14:43.159 --> 00:14:46.600 like go out and take a picture of whatever. Yeah, you know, 209 00:14:46.679 --> 00:14:50.200 go out get pictures. It's photography class. You're going out and get pictures. 210 00:14:50.480 --> 00:14:56.399 So we were gonna like take pictures together. And and I think we 211 00:14:56.440 --> 00:15:00.399 just took him around. We just took them around campus and then and just 212 00:15:00.440 --> 00:15:03.720 like went back up to her dorm. This is her dorm. Yes, 213 00:15:03.799 --> 00:15:07.679 okay, I was not living in dorms and I was living like in college 214 00:15:07.720 --> 00:15:13.600 station proper. Yeah, technically in a different city. Yeah. So yeah, 215 00:15:13.639 --> 00:15:20.039 we just went to her room and what time of day this would have 216 00:15:20.039 --> 00:15:24.240 been probably did you lose your virginity in an afternoon. No, it was 217 00:15:24.279 --> 00:15:30.799 like it was like dark. It was dark, and yeah, we just 218 00:15:30.879 --> 00:15:41.039 like kissed a little bit. It was very like surgical or it was not 219 00:15:41.120 --> 00:15:43.440 that may not be the right word, but almost like a fission of like 220 00:15:43.799 --> 00:15:48.360 just kind of there wasn't a lot of foreplay. There wasn't a lot of 221 00:15:48.799 --> 00:15:52.600 It was just kind of just explore the woman. Do you think do you 222 00:15:52.679 --> 00:15:58.200 remember when I would have Madine knowing you she invited you back to her? 223 00:15:58.600 --> 00:16:03.639 Yes? Do you think you remember at that point if you're like, oh, 224 00:16:03.679 --> 00:16:08.919 we're going to do things like did you go into it blindly? A 225 00:16:08.919 --> 00:16:14.919 little bit of both flirting beforehand that you remember like when it was definitely like 226 00:16:15.120 --> 00:16:19.399 did I look at her butt? Yeah? Yeah, I would be constantly 227 00:16:19.440 --> 00:16:22.679 looking at her butt and her boobs and all of the butts and boobs. 228 00:16:25.480 --> 00:16:27.519 Yeah. I don't know. I think there was like the excitement of like 229 00:16:27.559 --> 00:16:36.159 could something happen? But I definitely, like I think I wanted more of 230 00:16:36.200 --> 00:16:41.200 a relationship than than definitely she did. It was definitely kind of a hit 231 00:16:41.279 --> 00:16:45.679 it and quit it situation, but not really what I was hoping for. 232 00:16:45.799 --> 00:16:49.679 Okay, did you have a condom? Yeah? Why did you have a 233 00:16:49.679 --> 00:16:56.000 condent she had a condom? Correct? Apologies, apologies, Yes there was 234 00:16:56.039 --> 00:17:00.240 a condom involved. I did not bring it. Okay, yeah, okay. 235 00:17:00.559 --> 00:17:03.600 What color hair did she have? She was blond. Oh, she 236 00:17:03.720 --> 00:17:08.880 was blond and white, which is uh, you know, interesting, Yeah, 237 00:17:10.039 --> 00:17:12.599 because that's not my type at all. Do you think you have any 238 00:17:15.480 --> 00:17:18.559 recollection of how long this lasted? Oh? Not very long? Okay? 239 00:17:18.680 --> 00:17:22.960 Maybe why? Like, not much happened afterwards? Did you pursue her after 240 00:17:23.960 --> 00:17:29.720 I we would like to talk. Ghost you Happy Halloween boo. It was 241 00:17:29.839 --> 00:17:33.799 kind of a little ghosting. I'm sure she was just like this kid sucks 242 00:17:33.799 --> 00:17:36.799 at sex. Yeah, like we still kind of had like we would talk, 243 00:17:36.839 --> 00:17:40.680 but kind of like I don't want to say it was like it didn't 244 00:17:40.720 --> 00:17:44.519 happen, but it kind of and and for all I know, if I 245 00:17:44.559 --> 00:17:47.079 had pushed more, maybe something, But I definitely I think I felt more 246 00:17:47.119 --> 00:17:52.319 awkward about talking about it and trying to yell didn't have sex and you were 247 00:17:52.400 --> 00:17:53.839 like, Okay, I think we should date now. Yeah I didn't. 248 00:17:53.880 --> 00:17:56.920 I think I just didn't know how to handle the situation very well because y'all 249 00:17:56.920 --> 00:18:00.000 would have continued class together, yes, but not very long. This was 250 00:18:00.079 --> 00:18:06.680 there the end of the semester. Yeah, okay, so yeah, I 251 00:18:06.720 --> 00:18:10.640 don't know. I have very like, very mixed feelings about it. I 252 00:18:10.680 --> 00:18:15.039 think it's a weird thing because that was primarily with you. That was there 253 00:18:15.079 --> 00:18:18.599 was that was like my relationship with women. This was like one out of 254 00:18:18.720 --> 00:18:23.599 four of having this almost very similar relationship with women. Just this is the 255 00:18:23.599 --> 00:18:26.839 only one that I actually had sex. Like there's before you, there was 256 00:18:26.880 --> 00:18:33.000 four women that I was very friendly with and like hung out with and really 257 00:18:33.119 --> 00:18:37.200 like had crushes on and like wanted to date and like it just never happened. 258 00:18:37.200 --> 00:18:40.839 And I definitely I hate the term, but I was definitely like friend 259 00:18:40.920 --> 00:18:44.440 zoned by this. I think it's such a weird INSELLI term. But for 260 00:18:44.559 --> 00:18:49.200 lack of a better and not to like diminish them at any point necessarily, 261 00:18:49.400 --> 00:18:53.119 I diminished two of them. I would say two of them. Okay, 262 00:18:53.440 --> 00:18:56.160 specifically, there's one I don't think you even know about. I only know 263 00:18:56.200 --> 00:19:03.119 about one. The other ones. There's one after her. There's one after 264 00:19:03.200 --> 00:19:10.559 her, like my senior year, I think senior maybe sophomore in college. 265 00:19:10.799 --> 00:19:12.680 No, no, no, no. In high school, she went to 266 00:19:12.759 --> 00:19:18.680 the same she went to the same like technical school. That I went to 267 00:19:19.920 --> 00:19:23.279 for our listeners my junior and senior year, Like I would spend a half 268 00:19:23.359 --> 00:19:29.240 day at my regular high school and then go to like a technical school for 269 00:19:29.279 --> 00:19:32.000 the rest of the day. Yeah, And so I met her there. 270 00:19:32.039 --> 00:19:37.359 She was in the same class as me, in the same department. Also, 271 00:19:37.319 --> 00:19:41.839 shorter stature, darker complexion, burnette hair. I have a type. 272 00:19:42.279 --> 00:19:48.839 Her name was Brandy An. I was she trash? No, she was 273 00:19:48.880 --> 00:19:53.000 actually she was actually very very sweet. She was very nice. I hold 274 00:19:53.039 --> 00:19:57.000 nothing against her. She didn't like she didn't lead you on the way she 275 00:19:57.039 --> 00:20:00.359 did not lead me on, for sure. She didn't say we're going to 276 00:20:00.359 --> 00:20:03.839 prom together and then say no, we're not. What are you talking about 277 00:20:03.319 --> 00:20:08.400 gas like me? Yeah? No, she she never liked a matching suit 278 00:20:08.440 --> 00:20:11.759 with that bitch. Yeah. And she didn't like drag me around like, 279 00:20:11.839 --> 00:20:15.799 she didn't have me do things for her like it was a little more innocent 280 00:20:15.839 --> 00:20:18.240 than that. Yeah, you just liked her. I just liked her. 281 00:20:18.799 --> 00:20:21.519 And then the one in college. You know about the one in college you 282 00:20:21.559 --> 00:20:26.640 met her when we were at the drag club. No, you don't remember 283 00:20:26.680 --> 00:20:32.400 blue she had blue hair, are you talking about? Yeah? Okay, 284 00:20:32.519 --> 00:20:37.960 yes, I remember dumb ass. Yeah she, well she was. She 285 00:20:37.000 --> 00:20:41.279 went in to Buckle a few times. Yes, did she? Yeah, 286 00:20:41.400 --> 00:20:42.359 I don't remember that. Did she work? You might have worked at the 287 00:20:42.359 --> 00:20:45.279 mall or something like, she'd come in a few times. I was like, 288 00:20:45.319 --> 00:20:48.599 who's that. I don't remember. Yeah, okay, yeah, no, 289 00:20:48.640 --> 00:20:52.119 I'd seen her a few times at that point. We were just like 290 00:20:52.519 --> 00:20:55.599 coworkers at that point when I met her. She was in the culinary school 291 00:20:55.640 --> 00:20:56.839 and she was a terrible cook. You said, I met her at the 292 00:20:56.880 --> 00:21:00.920 drag show, the first one we went over to, saying, maybe I 293 00:21:00.920 --> 00:21:03.039 don't you remember if it was the I don't remember, but I know we 294 00:21:03.160 --> 00:21:10.119 ran into her. Oh, just like completely coincidence. She was the most 295 00:21:10.200 --> 00:21:12.000 alternative girl you could ever imagine. This bitch looked like she was from the 296 00:21:12.000 --> 00:21:17.240 craft. She was a bit much yeah adult, Adam is like, cool, 297 00:21:17.960 --> 00:21:19.960 Yeah, she just she was just very altsy. There's nothing against that. 298 00:21:21.039 --> 00:21:25.440 But I was I was like, oh, Adam likes girls that are 299 00:21:25.480 --> 00:21:30.279 probably like into vampire anime. Cool, you know what there is. I 300 00:21:30.319 --> 00:21:33.839 think there was a time in my life where I almost wanted to be into 301 00:21:33.880 --> 00:21:37.759 that. Okay, just because of like rejecting what you grew up with a 302 00:21:37.799 --> 00:21:40.799 little bit, and also yeah, yeah, probably then, and also like, 303 00:21:41.599 --> 00:21:45.480 you know, the communities I am in tend to have a lot of 304 00:21:45.519 --> 00:21:47.720 that, so like, yeah, I think there was a part of where 305 00:21:47.720 --> 00:21:48.680 I'm like, well, no, these are the kind of people I should 306 00:21:48.720 --> 00:21:53.799 be dating. Yeah, I think there was a part of my life where 307 00:21:53.920 --> 00:22:00.319 I felt like I needed to date someone who was into very much to the 308 00:22:00.319 --> 00:22:03.400 same things as I am. Yeah, where I was like, I need 309 00:22:03.400 --> 00:22:06.039 a girl who's like really into video games. I need a girl who likes 310 00:22:06.599 --> 00:22:11.759 going to local gaming stores, who likes comic books. And eventually I was 311 00:22:11.759 --> 00:22:12.880 like, nah, this is and then I met you and I was like, 312 00:22:12.920 --> 00:22:15.559 no, she's perfect. I don't need her to be like into the 313 00:22:15.559 --> 00:22:19.119 same hobbies I have. You know what's funny is that every once in a 314 00:22:19.160 --> 00:22:22.559 while, I'll think about that. I kind of I don't necessarily get down 315 00:22:22.599 --> 00:22:26.559 on myself, but I'm like, I wonder if Adam wishes he had somebody 316 00:22:26.559 --> 00:22:32.720 that did a lot of the same hobbies as him. But I think you, 317 00:22:33.039 --> 00:22:34.559 but I don't want to say secretly, I think you enjoyed the glamor 318 00:22:34.680 --> 00:22:37.799 that comes with me. I think I'm I think so, I think I'm 319 00:22:37.799 --> 00:22:41.039 more a little more glamorous than no offense, Like I let women be womening. 320 00:22:41.039 --> 00:22:45.039 I love women, Like, I'm not putting women down, but historically 321 00:22:45.279 --> 00:22:52.880 a lot of the girls that are into video games and comic books are like 322 00:22:52.079 --> 00:22:56.920 liten. They have a tendency to be like a little more tomboy, sure, 323 00:22:56.119 --> 00:22:59.400 and things like that. There's a lot of them that are I'm not 324 00:22:59.400 --> 00:23:04.759 trying to catch grays everybody, but there's like a stereotype behind that. Yeah, 325 00:23:06.680 --> 00:23:10.720 or they're like I always call it vampire glamorous. They're super like alt 326 00:23:10.799 --> 00:23:14.279 and yeah, and that's and I'm and nothing against that. That's just not 327 00:23:14.480 --> 00:23:18.519 my type. Yeah, I want to say I'm actually very normal in regards 328 00:23:18.559 --> 00:23:22.240 to the type of woman I am. Like, I don't know, I 329 00:23:22.240 --> 00:23:25.880 don't think I'm I think I'm special, but I don't think like I'm cool 330 00:23:25.920 --> 00:23:29.359 special like that, Like, Yeah, I mean I think you're and I 331 00:23:29.359 --> 00:23:32.279 do think you have like I think we could have. What I'm trying to 332 00:23:32.279 --> 00:23:34.240 say is I think we could have grown up in the same town. Sure, 333 00:23:34.960 --> 00:23:41.559 for sure. I think there's a really funny, like outstanding qualities about 334 00:23:41.599 --> 00:23:45.319 myself. But I I think I'm pretty average. Well, and I think 335 00:23:45.359 --> 00:23:47.880 you do have. I think you have a little bit. I think you're 336 00:23:47.920 --> 00:23:51.519 a little bit of a middle ground for that, like both ways, because 337 00:23:51.559 --> 00:23:53.359 I think you know, there are things I get talked about, like you 338 00:23:53.559 --> 00:23:59.319 knowing Monty Python before, like like I didn't introduce the Holy Girl to you, 339 00:23:59.359 --> 00:24:02.119 no, Like that is a fun thing. Yeah, I like old 340 00:24:02.240 --> 00:24:04.559 movies and you're not. Yeah, You're like, yeah, we have a 341 00:24:04.599 --> 00:24:08.640 similar type of humor. We do. We We're very similar in a lot 342 00:24:08.680 --> 00:24:11.640 of ways. We just have different hobbies. I think we're very similar in 343 00:24:11.680 --> 00:24:17.680 like yeah, in a parallel yeah, m hm. In regards to mainstream 344 00:24:17.759 --> 00:24:22.240 things or different type of things or niche things, we both have a lot 345 00:24:22.240 --> 00:24:25.160 of them. They're just not usually the same. Yeah. And I don't 346 00:24:25.160 --> 00:24:30.880 necessarily feel like I needs out no, no, because I think there's also 347 00:24:30.920 --> 00:24:33.880 a level of like you know, I'm bad about it, but we talked 348 00:24:33.880 --> 00:24:40.559 about this is something to work on. Like going to lgs's and like local 349 00:24:40.559 --> 00:24:45.359 gaming story sorry, and like going and playing like playing my table Latter SATs 350 00:24:45.640 --> 00:24:49.519 Ladder Gay sets, going and playing like my tabletop games with people. I 351 00:24:49.519 --> 00:24:52.079 think, like when I get to the point where I'm actually going out there 352 00:24:52.119 --> 00:24:56.039 and doing that it would be like in not a mean way, but like 353 00:24:56.079 --> 00:24:57.920 it was. You know, it's like this is my thing, Like I 354 00:24:57.960 --> 00:25:02.559 can step away, I can do my own thing, and like I think 355 00:25:02.599 --> 00:25:06.599 it works out. Not to interrupt you and my boy time quote unquote, 356 00:25:07.960 --> 00:25:11.640 I think, but because that you're an only child, you have very only 357 00:25:11.759 --> 00:25:15.319 child tendencies, and I think you would be suffocated by a woman that had 358 00:25:15.319 --> 00:25:18.759 the same hobbies. I do agree with that. It's like, oh my 359 00:25:18.799 --> 00:25:19.880 god, this new gangko. Do you want to play with me? Or 360 00:25:21.559 --> 00:25:22.400 like, oh you're going to play that, I want to play too, 361 00:25:22.640 --> 00:25:26.160 or I'll play next to you. Are individual so logan, you know what 362 00:25:26.160 --> 00:25:30.920 I mean. Like I think I think you like having your own thing yea, 363 00:25:32.000 --> 00:25:33.920 and processing your own thing because it doesn't stop you from talking to me 364 00:25:33.960 --> 00:25:36.960 about it. You tell me what you want to tell me. Yeah, 365 00:25:37.039 --> 00:25:40.200 you tell me all the hot gossip. Yeah. And it comes to the 366 00:25:40.200 --> 00:25:45.839 studios breaking laws and the beef between gaming studios. What did Sony do? 367 00:25:45.960 --> 00:25:48.759 Now, Like it doesn't stop you still talk to me about it. Yeah, 368 00:25:48.880 --> 00:25:52.160 you're so good to listen to it. I do. I will say 369 00:25:52.160 --> 00:25:55.759 this, this is like a somewhat of a fantasy. This is going long 370 00:25:55.839 --> 00:25:57.440 huh. I think this is going to be an episode where I interview you 371 00:25:57.480 --> 00:26:03.279 and how about next episode you Okay, okay, I do. I'll wrap 372 00:26:03.359 --> 00:26:04.720 it up here, but I do. I do have this fantasy because I 373 00:26:04.759 --> 00:26:08.039 do think it would be fun and I think you would enjoy it of finding 374 00:26:08.119 --> 00:26:11.359 like the right D and D group and having like all the preamble, because 375 00:26:11.359 --> 00:26:15.160 I know you watched me and my friends do character creating where I would just 376 00:26:15.200 --> 00:26:18.160 like, here's your character, and I think you would actually have fun, 377 00:26:19.240 --> 00:26:22.559 I think, and you like the role playing. I think you would have 378 00:26:22.599 --> 00:26:26.160 like a fun characterization. I do think you enjoy it, especially if there 379 00:26:26.160 --> 00:26:29.960 were some drinks. Oh yeah, no, yeah, I don't have any. 380 00:26:30.079 --> 00:26:34.119 I don't think you do a single thing that would bore me, sure, 381 00:26:34.839 --> 00:26:41.119 or that wouldn't interest me. Yeah, I would like it a lot. 382 00:26:41.160 --> 00:26:48.359 But yeah, there's like a novice friendly group of other people that are 383 00:26:48.559 --> 00:26:51.720 not wouldn't be the only person not really that that would be new to it. 384 00:26:52.160 --> 00:26:53.480 Well, I think i'd like a spouse's name. There's gotta be some 385 00:26:53.519 --> 00:26:57.400 type of spouse. Well, introducing your spouse to D and D group. 386 00:26:57.519 --> 00:27:02.720 I'll say this, there's definitely two types. And I don't think you would 387 00:27:02.720 --> 00:27:04.920 necessarily need to be like have other novice people there. I think the big 388 00:27:04.920 --> 00:27:07.920 thing is like how I like to play, and like the groups I would 389 00:27:07.960 --> 00:27:12.720 look for is a very casual we're here to have fun. Like yeah, 390 00:27:14.000 --> 00:27:17.279 like I remember my like like in college station, I was part of a 391 00:27:17.319 --> 00:27:21.319 group where it was like I remember there was a point where we found like 392 00:27:21.359 --> 00:27:23.920 there was a there's some kind of puzzle we had to solve and there's a 393 00:27:23.920 --> 00:27:27.079 hole in the wall, and someone was like should I just stick my dick 394 00:27:27.119 --> 00:27:30.839 into it? And we were like all drinking and like let's do it, 395 00:27:30.920 --> 00:27:33.440 like that kind of stuff where it's not like serious, we're just doing it 396 00:27:33.440 --> 00:27:55.880 to have a good time. Yeah. Well, to go back to go 397 00:27:55.960 --> 00:28:00.680 back to your Virginia story, we don't know her name. She's blonde though 398 00:28:00.960 --> 00:28:07.880 she's a white and nothing came of that, nothing was pursued, so moving 399 00:28:07.920 --> 00:28:12.720 along just in general, you might as well just go there. So at 400 00:28:12.759 --> 00:28:17.279 that point, you wouldn't have had sex a second time for over a year 401 00:28:17.359 --> 00:28:19.640 after that, not until you exactly, Yeah, it'd be over a year. 402 00:28:21.359 --> 00:28:25.480 Do you remember within that over a year time of being like Okay, 403 00:28:25.480 --> 00:28:27.599 I had sex, Like I would like to have more sex, like let 404 00:28:27.640 --> 00:28:32.000 me go out to the bars like did has There was there a year and 405 00:28:32.039 --> 00:28:37.079 some change where you kind of pursued more sexual encounters because now you're a man. 406 00:28:37.160 --> 00:28:40.839 You're a mighty strong man. You live on your own, you have 407 00:28:40.880 --> 00:28:44.759 a car, you're working, you know, you're adult. Do you remember, 408 00:28:45.200 --> 00:28:48.640 didn't you? Well? I know that we know the funny you've told 409 00:28:48.759 --> 00:28:52.240 before about like you've gone on a on an app for a fun as a 410 00:28:52.319 --> 00:29:00.759 joke. But like any serious person that was before that, Yeah, no, 411 00:29:02.119 --> 00:29:04.920 yes, and no, I guess I definitely like still my main focus 412 00:29:06.000 --> 00:29:08.839 was I wanted to be on a relationship. Yeah, there would definitely be 413 00:29:10.000 --> 00:29:15.319 times where and I feel like you're still like that. You know that? 414 00:29:15.799 --> 00:29:19.240 Yeah, I even to this day, Like I don't I think you love 415 00:29:19.319 --> 00:29:22.279 meaning you are a physical person, you enjoy having sex with me, and 416 00:29:22.279 --> 00:29:27.599 you get horny. But I don't think I think you. I can honestly 417 00:29:27.640 --> 00:29:32.440 say, like you just value having me as your friend and as your spouse, 418 00:29:33.079 --> 00:29:37.319 sure, like more than like a sexual partner. Yeah, I mean 419 00:29:37.799 --> 00:29:41.640 I've never been sex has never been like my main drive, ye for these 420 00:29:41.720 --> 00:29:48.920 kind of things. I've always been more interested in having a relationship than having 421 00:29:49.000 --> 00:29:56.799 sex, and so I don't think there was. Yeah, I went on 422 00:29:57.119 --> 00:30:03.799 I went on one date with someone before you was it your Disney princess? 423 00:30:03.160 --> 00:30:07.640 No, No, we never actually went on a date. I pretty quickly 424 00:30:07.759 --> 00:30:10.160 was like, I'm not No, I can't do this. No. I 425 00:30:10.160 --> 00:30:12.799 went on a date with someone that went to the Art Institute and uh, 426 00:30:12.960 --> 00:30:18.279 is it Courtney? No? She was a oh I don't remember her name. 427 00:30:19.480 --> 00:30:23.640 She was one. She was in the fashion department, the fashion department. 428 00:30:23.839 --> 00:30:26.720 We had a couple of classes. She looked really cute, and one 429 00:30:26.799 --> 00:30:30.240 day I had the what she was She was Russian? Wow, Like she 430 00:30:30.240 --> 00:30:33.160 had like an accent and everything, like, whoa do you find that attractive? 431 00:30:34.039 --> 00:30:37.880 The accent? Yeah? Yeah, okay she Uh she was taller. 432 00:30:40.200 --> 00:30:44.440 She was actually pretty tall for for for a woman. She was probably like 433 00:30:44.519 --> 00:30:48.480 five nine okay, somewhere around there. Yeah, not just three five four? 434 00:30:48.640 --> 00:30:52.400 Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. Curly hair, like dirty blonde curly hair. 435 00:30:53.400 --> 00:30:57.240 Uh. We went on one date. Where'd you go? We went? 436 00:30:57.519 --> 00:31:02.839 We went to the city Center. Love, so you just take all 437 00:31:02.839 --> 00:31:07.599 the women because he took me to City Center too, bitch. Maybe at 438 00:31:07.599 --> 00:31:11.079 the yard House, the racist yard House. Yeah, this was I think 439 00:31:11.119 --> 00:31:18.440 before it was racist. Yeah, yeah, and there was just like there's 440 00:31:18.519 --> 00:31:22.240 no nothing there, nothing there just to date, Yeah, I think I 441 00:31:22.359 --> 00:31:26.680 was just very awkward and also she didn't give me a whole lot. Turns 442 00:31:26.720 --> 00:31:30.759 out she was a pretty bland person. I remember. I remember specifically she 443 00:31:30.960 --> 00:31:36.880 telling me that her favorite type of music was like it was like lounge like 444 00:31:37.440 --> 00:31:41.880 house music, like elevator music, And I was kind of like, well, 445 00:31:41.920 --> 00:31:47.559 what do I do with that? Do you do you think there's an 446 00:31:47.559 --> 00:31:49.160 elevator not to get We'll go right back on topic. Do you think there's 447 00:31:49.160 --> 00:31:55.319 an elevator music Spotify playlist? I'm sure there is, like like like an 448 00:31:55.359 --> 00:31:59.880 official Elevator music, not like, oh somebody made it, yes, either, 449 00:32:00.200 --> 00:32:04.319 and it's made for me elevator music. Yeah, there's people that make 450 00:32:04.400 --> 00:32:07.000 their own. Yeah, So like I would expect anybody to just make something 451 00:32:07.039 --> 00:32:13.480 called elevator music. But the fact that there's one made for me, what 452 00:32:13.640 --> 00:32:15.440 is that? What is elevator music made for me? That's not elevator None 453 00:32:15.480 --> 00:32:21.000 of these are elevators. There's a few. It looks like it's a lot 454 00:32:21.000 --> 00:32:23.400 of covers. Yeah. I listened to a lot of covers though, No, 455 00:32:23.440 --> 00:32:25.759 because I listened to LAV eight. I don't know how to say it, 456 00:32:25.880 --> 00:32:29.759 but that's just it's all covers and like, this is what I listened 457 00:32:29.759 --> 00:32:37.400 to when I'm working. This is creepy. No it's not. This is 458 00:32:37.400 --> 00:32:40.480 just the intro. Like this is straight up like, well it sounds like 459 00:32:40.480 --> 00:32:45.079 a vinyl record in the beginning, but yeah, this is like a story 460 00:32:45.160 --> 00:32:49.640 intro. Now it's getting not as creepy. Sure, and maybe that's what 461 00:32:49.680 --> 00:32:52.440 she meant. That's what I listened to when I'm working. Sure, I 462 00:32:52.559 --> 00:32:55.799 love that for me, but that's not your favorite type of music. No, 463 00:32:55.880 --> 00:33:00.839 that's just what makes me focus. Yeah, yeah, And I think 464 00:33:00.880 --> 00:33:04.079 I tried to, like she ended up being like, I'm done here. 465 00:33:04.240 --> 00:33:07.279 Like we texted a little bit afterwards, she ended up calling it off. 466 00:33:08.799 --> 00:33:14.519 In calling it off, like being like, yeah, I'm not interested in 467 00:33:14.559 --> 00:33:16.359 retrospect. I think I was trying to. I think there just wasn't anything 468 00:33:16.400 --> 00:33:20.519 there, and I think I was more like trying to make something and nothing. 469 00:33:20.680 --> 00:33:22.319 Yeah yeah, when you're like I got one on the hook, I 470 00:33:22.319 --> 00:33:25.519 gotta make this one work. Yeah, Okay, So yeah, I mean 471 00:33:25.519 --> 00:33:31.880 that went on. That was one date and then how how far apart was 472 00:33:32.000 --> 00:33:37.519 that date from meeting me. You met me in February of twenty fifteen, 473 00:33:37.240 --> 00:33:43.839 at the very end of February. Oh, that's a good question. A 474 00:33:43.880 --> 00:33:46.160 few months that would have been. I think in the that would have been 475 00:33:46.200 --> 00:33:51.599 before I probably didn't know you at that point. No, you didn't know 476 00:33:51.640 --> 00:33:53.599 me. That's what I'm saying, Like, what is the time difference? 477 00:33:54.359 --> 00:34:00.480 Oh, I don't know. Okay, A while, I didn't know. 478 00:34:00.480 --> 00:34:01.480 If you remember the time of year you went on a date with her, 479 00:34:02.720 --> 00:34:07.559 I feel like it was in the it was maybe in November. I feel 480 00:34:07.559 --> 00:34:09.519 like Thanksgiving, Like I think, like I think for your birthday. I 481 00:34:09.559 --> 00:34:14.840 think you threw up on yourself twenty first birthday. Yeah, I think, 482 00:34:15.760 --> 00:34:17.599 I think if I feel I have this idea in my head that I got 483 00:34:17.639 --> 00:34:22.199 the text of her being like, we're good. Here was like my parents 484 00:34:22.239 --> 00:34:25.920 were down for Thanksgiving or something. Nice. My parents were down for something. 485 00:34:25.920 --> 00:34:30.760 They're always down, They're always down to clown Yeah. So yeah, 486 00:34:30.760 --> 00:34:37.280 I would have been around then, Okay, nice. Yeah, and it 487 00:34:37.280 --> 00:34:39.400 didn't seem like you had very hurt feelings about it. No, he was 488 00:34:39.440 --> 00:34:43.199 okay, that makes sense. Yeah, I was like okay, okay, 489 00:34:45.440 --> 00:34:52.440 yeah, So what did you have any nerves about you and I being something 490 00:34:52.480 --> 00:34:54.320 similar. Did you ever get nervous that I was going to friend zone you? 491 00:34:54.400 --> 00:34:59.039 Yeah, because I did at one point, because you did. Yeah, 492 00:34:59.360 --> 00:35:02.639 but I got friend zoned you after like very much telling like very much 493 00:35:02.679 --> 00:35:06.760 of us having a lot of chemistry. I think I didn't friend zone you 494 00:35:06.800 --> 00:35:07.840 because I was like, I don't like you. I friend zoned you with 495 00:35:07.960 --> 00:35:12.760 like a sad face. Yeah, I think ours was very different. I 496 00:35:12.800 --> 00:35:15.760 definitely had those nerves, but I think ours was very different to a in 497 00:35:16.280 --> 00:35:24.119 that I don't think I feel like early on it was very clear to a 498 00:35:24.119 --> 00:35:29.079 certain extent, like a connection more than just friends being built, And I 499 00:35:29.119 --> 00:35:31.280 think there was. It was I think had any I had no intention of 500 00:35:31.320 --> 00:35:35.119 being your friend. Yeah. I think it was a little more out in 501 00:35:35.159 --> 00:35:38.880 the open. Yeah, and very like honest, which I think also helped 502 00:35:38.920 --> 00:35:43.039 it. Like whenever there was that moment of like, hey, I'm getting 503 00:35:43.039 --> 00:35:47.079 back together with my ex boyfriend where it was like disappointing, hurt, but 504 00:35:47.159 --> 00:35:52.559 a little bit easier to swallow. Yeah, Yeah, I wasn't just leading 505 00:35:52.599 --> 00:35:55.760 you on. Yeah, there was. It was a very like not reciprocating 506 00:35:55.800 --> 00:36:00.559 feelings for you. Yeah, it felt double sided. Yeah, as opposed 507 00:36:00.559 --> 00:36:05.480 to where all these other ones felt very one sided. And yeah, yeah, 508 00:36:05.960 --> 00:36:07.039 yeah, we were pretty honest about it. I pretty much I had, 509 00:36:07.199 --> 00:36:10.920 but I had to harass you for your phone number, did you. 510 00:36:12.039 --> 00:36:15.119 Yeah, well you quit, You quit without telling me you were. I 511 00:36:15.159 --> 00:36:19.880 got fired. Same. It was mutual. It was mutual. It was 512 00:36:19.880 --> 00:36:22.360 a mutual separation. But yeah, you were. I had to find out 513 00:36:22.360 --> 00:36:27.480 from like somebody else, you were just gonna leave me in the dust. 514 00:36:27.679 --> 00:36:31.960 I came back the next day. Uh huh, I think you're rewriting history 515 00:36:32.079 --> 00:36:36.679 now. I came back the next day because to to talk to you about 516 00:36:36.679 --> 00:36:43.559 it, did you. Yeah? Yeah. And then that's when you like 517 00:36:43.639 --> 00:36:47.199 invited me over and we had I went and tried to get us alcohol. 518 00:36:49.519 --> 00:36:52.639 What a what a? What a terrible idea. That was why it just 519 00:36:52.760 --> 00:36:55.679 wasn't great, because that was a different one. I'm thinking of the one 520 00:36:55.719 --> 00:36:58.719 you tried to give me alcohol. That was like our first same hanging out, 521 00:36:58.719 --> 00:37:00.800 and the second time we hung out you did get alcohol and it made 522 00:37:00.800 --> 00:37:02.400 me spick. Yes, this was the first time when I first went to 523 00:37:02.480 --> 00:37:05.760 your apartment. Yeah, I don't even know. I know, we just 524 00:37:05.800 --> 00:37:07.199 watched a movie. We didn't really do anything. We watch a movie, 525 00:37:07.199 --> 00:37:09.760 you fell asleep, you let yourself out, and I let myself out. 526 00:37:12.079 --> 00:37:17.159 Yeah, so that sounds pretty spot on for our relationship. Yeah, I 527 00:37:17.159 --> 00:37:21.159 want to know what happened how we got on a second date. I don't 528 00:37:21.159 --> 00:37:22.280 know how that wouldn't aboord you. You're like I went to her house, 529 00:37:22.360 --> 00:37:24.599 I went to her apartment and she did and we sat on her floor. 530 00:37:27.400 --> 00:37:30.320 Did she fell asleep? I think I was just so excited someone was giving 531 00:37:30.320 --> 00:37:32.679 me attention, and you were cool, Like we had known each other for 532 00:37:32.719 --> 00:37:37.000 a while at that point, just working together. We enjoyed working together. 533 00:37:37.039 --> 00:37:42.199 We always had fun. Yeah, yeah, I'll never forget us, Like, 534 00:37:42.400 --> 00:37:46.320 I think those kind of the a short fuse of what would become the 535 00:37:46.360 --> 00:37:52.960 big fuse of our relationship was that you. It was you, myself and 536 00:37:52.000 --> 00:37:54.840 a girl we worked with that was very rude and that you like rode up 537 00:37:54.880 --> 00:37:59.960 and all kinds of shit that used to be a manager. N We had 538 00:38:00.159 --> 00:38:02.599 like call to be like she's not leaving. Yeah, we'll call her Ashland 539 00:38:07.519 --> 00:38:09.480 just for just for the podcast. We'll call her ass what a specific name 540 00:38:09.519 --> 00:38:16.760 to just come up with. I'll never forget we all it was her us 541 00:38:16.840 --> 00:38:20.119 three there was us three. I don't know, there could have been more 542 00:38:20.119 --> 00:38:23.840 people, but specifically us three were in the morning shift, and we like 543 00:38:23.920 --> 00:38:28.679 opened the registers and all that stuff. We decided let's go really fast to 544 00:38:28.719 --> 00:38:30.719 the food court to the McDonald's and get breakfast. And you and I just 545 00:38:30.719 --> 00:38:35.880 went by ourselves together and we got our little sandwiches and we walked up to 546 00:38:35.960 --> 00:38:40.639 the door to the gate like at ten oh two, and quote unquote Ashland 547 00:38:42.159 --> 00:38:45.800 was like opening the gates and like putting the shoes at like opening the store 548 00:38:45.880 --> 00:38:50.159 and was like pissed off at us because why weren't you here at ten am, 549 00:38:51.000 --> 00:38:54.519 like being all intense with us, and she like got onto us about 550 00:38:54.519 --> 00:38:57.880 that. She was like, if you're here, if you're a managin and 551 00:38:57.880 --> 00:38:59.679 you're opening the store, you have to be here in the store. Like 552 00:38:59.679 --> 00:39:02.000 she started disciplining us, and you and I softly were like bark bark, 553 00:39:02.039 --> 00:39:06.840 bark bark bark. Okay, good mane now we'll like we were like argued 554 00:39:06.880 --> 00:39:14.039 with her, and we like we ganged up on her very we very softly 555 00:39:14.119 --> 00:39:15.440 were like why won't you back the fun? Yeah, why don't you back 556 00:39:15.480 --> 00:39:17.960 the fuck up? Like shut the fuck up, Like we were like, 557 00:39:19.119 --> 00:39:22.119 get out of here, like making her feel like an idiot when she clearly 558 00:39:22.239 --> 00:39:24.760 was like she was also very rude. She was already rude to us at 559 00:39:24.800 --> 00:39:29.800 that point, but like she didn't like me because I took her job she 560 00:39:29.039 --> 00:39:30.760 had, Yeah, she had an ego, probably didn't take her job. 561 00:39:30.840 --> 00:39:35.280 She got demoted, and then they hired me, and she always let me 562 00:39:35.320 --> 00:39:37.800 know like we got this job because of me, like this was my role. 563 00:39:37.840 --> 00:39:42.480 And I was like, uh, okay, but from what's to come 564 00:39:42.559 --> 00:39:45.800 of us being in a relationship together and if anybody approaches us wrong, we're 565 00:39:45.840 --> 00:39:51.519 both just like tone and that moment, we had each other's backs from a 566 00:39:51.599 --> 00:39:57.920 very early, very early on for sure. Yeah. Well, and then 567 00:39:58.000 --> 00:40:02.960 and then I came along, Ye okay, well how are you do you? 568 00:40:04.039 --> 00:40:07.119 I think I've asked you this before, and I clearly think I know 569 00:40:07.199 --> 00:40:09.360 the answer. But you don't feel like you've ever missed out on anything by 570 00:40:10.920 --> 00:40:16.880 not getting in more relationships before me, or you're like, well no, 571 00:40:19.239 --> 00:40:25.559 no, sexually not and then relationship wise, I don't think I necessarily miss 572 00:40:25.639 --> 00:40:30.920 out on anything. I think, if anything, I wish I had more 573 00:40:30.639 --> 00:40:38.960 serious relationships for this reason, so that I had a little more practice and 574 00:40:39.119 --> 00:40:45.159 understanding of what that intel before you. Yeah, do you think it overwhelmed 575 00:40:45.159 --> 00:40:46.719 you? I don't think you overwhelmed me. I just don't think. I 576 00:40:46.760 --> 00:40:51.239 think I think we could have had some like bumps in the road avoided, 577 00:40:51.639 --> 00:40:57.440 had I understood what it's like to be in a relationship with someone like what 578 00:40:57.159 --> 00:40:59.840 what do you can you use? I don't know if I have any specifics. 579 00:41:00.480 --> 00:41:02.360 I don't think they're sharing a life with someone like, I don't know. 580 00:41:02.760 --> 00:41:06.079 I think I just have that thought that maybe if I had a little 581 00:41:06.079 --> 00:41:09.239 more practice. That's fair. I think we all think in anything we want 582 00:41:09.280 --> 00:41:13.559 to do well or do and be happy, we wish we had more practice. 583 00:41:13.599 --> 00:41:15.480 But I just want you to know I don't feel like anything was ever 584 00:41:15.559 --> 00:41:21.039 missed or I'd never felt like I'm in a novice relationship or Adam's novice at 585 00:41:21.159 --> 00:41:24.639 being in a relationship or being sexual like, I've never felt like you've had 586 00:41:24.679 --> 00:41:32.400 any downside equivalent to the lack of experience. Yeah, yeah, well I 587 00:41:32.400 --> 00:41:36.559 appreciate it, yep. Yeah, but that's the only thing. I don't 588 00:41:36.559 --> 00:41:40.800 think. I don't feel like I missed down on anything. Yeah, Okay, 589 00:41:43.039 --> 00:41:45.760 I'd just like to ask and like I'm you know, even with that 590 00:41:45.760 --> 00:41:52.920 whole relationship with thing, like I event I got my goal really like I 591 00:41:52.960 --> 00:41:57.119 got. I don't know however weird this may sound or I don't know. 592 00:41:57.159 --> 00:41:59.679 I guess I'm a romantic at heart, like all these women that I had 593 00:41:59.679 --> 00:42:00.960 crushed is on. It was like, no, I want to be with 594 00:42:01.039 --> 00:42:06.639 you theoretically like you are, like I would want to be with these women 595 00:42:06.719 --> 00:42:09.599 for like you know, I wasn't looking to be like I want to date 596 00:42:09.639 --> 00:42:12.519 you for a few months. It was like, no, I want a 597 00:42:12.519 --> 00:42:17.320 serious relationship and hopefully it lasts till the end. So no, I don't 598 00:42:17.320 --> 00:42:21.920 feel like I got. I got what I wanted. I want you get 599 00:42:21.920 --> 00:42:25.239 a point. I get a point. Was there anything you want to add 600 00:42:25.280 --> 00:42:30.639 before we wrap up? No? No, So yeah, I guess, 601 00:42:30.719 --> 00:42:34.800 I guess change of plans. Next week we'll be doing will be doing? 602 00:42:34.840 --> 00:42:42.960 You doing me? Oh my plans are or maybe we'll break it up. 603 00:42:43.280 --> 00:42:45.960 Yeah, we'll see. But there will be a there will be a Rihanna 604 00:42:46.039 --> 00:42:50.719 getting to know I'm gonna get interviewed. I never get interviewed. Yeah, 605 00:42:51.559 --> 00:42:58.440 there will be a getting to know Rihanna coming up, getting to know you 606 00:43:00.400 --> 00:43:01.639 he's really I don't know what song that is, but that was really out 607 00:43:01.639 --> 00:43:06.360 of tune for what it was what speaking of. And I'm fine with this 608 00:43:06.440 --> 00:43:10.679 being on here because if you don't know, we have we have a new 609 00:43:10.920 --> 00:43:13.599 we have it. Well, we don't have a new anything. We have 610 00:43:13.639 --> 00:43:15.519 a patreoon. 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