1 00:00:00,600 --> 00:00:09,279 Made a decision. I'll face the sunny seat on my head a vision. 2 00:00:14,679 --> 00:00:21,600 So what's up, everybody? Welcome to It's the show where we talk about 3 00:00:21,760 --> 00:00:31,519 our personal lives. We just dig deep into our everyday, boring lives, 4 00:00:31,519 --> 00:00:35,840 the mundanities of our boring lives, and we and then we make fun of 5 00:00:35,880 --> 00:00:39,079 it for you guys, that's right, And then you guys complain that we 6 00:00:39,119 --> 00:00:43,600 complain too much. Right. Although I did get some good, great feedback 7 00:00:43,799 --> 00:00:48,200 on Sunny's issue on our Facebook page. Okay, I got a lot of 8 00:00:48,280 --> 00:00:56,280 like great tips on pelvic floor talk, uh, physical therapy PT stuff. 9 00:00:56,920 --> 00:01:00,200 So yeah, one of our listeners was like, listen, there's a whole 10 00:01:00,280 --> 00:01:06,439 thing behind this overactive bladder situation going on, and you know, and sometimes 11 00:01:06,480 --> 00:01:11,439 medication doesn't work. And he's been on the medication now about ten days. 12 00:01:11,400 --> 00:01:19,519 Is he noticing a difference a little? He's still having pressure, so hopefully, 13 00:01:19,599 --> 00:01:23,239 I don't know. I'm gonna look up what she's one of our listeners 14 00:01:23,760 --> 00:01:29,680 suggested and talk to him about it. There's nothing worse than when something's going 15 00:01:29,680 --> 00:01:34,200 on with with one of your kids that's making them miserable, right, There's 16 00:01:34,239 --> 00:01:38,000 nothing worse than that, because it takes it's not it's like it's happening to 17 00:01:38,040 --> 00:01:41,799 you. And then he uses the excuse of well, I can't sit at 18 00:01:41,840 --> 00:01:45,760 school. So so he's still not at school. No, he's doing his 19 00:01:45,879 --> 00:01:49,439 online thing, but he says he's going to go back to school tomorrow. 20 00:01:49,760 --> 00:01:53,840 I just wanted one more day, I guess. So we'll see. Oh 21 00:01:53,879 --> 00:01:57,439 and then I'll tell you about the ninety one one call he made. Oh 22 00:01:57,480 --> 00:02:02,319 my gosh, say high first, she really quick Stephanie Stinker Wrinker, Hi 23 00:02:02,400 --> 00:02:08,840 Stinky, Uh, Christa Stroup. You make me wanna stoop, Santa Green, 24 00:02:09,000 --> 00:02:14,680 Jennifer falls, get up, jenn Sarah Stavano, Leslie stop it. 25 00:02:14,919 --> 00:02:17,560 You're like you're starting to sound like cable. Leslie's with the coffees and the 26 00:02:17,639 --> 00:02:23,680 other one went a costing you guys. Settle down. Alicia Esca in the 27 00:02:23,719 --> 00:02:29,199 city of Elmante. Kelly Brandt, She'll take you a planned parenthood. Rebeccor 28 00:02:30,159 --> 00:02:37,080 still cute, still hot, Missy and Gabby still a hot mess. There 29 00:02:37,080 --> 00:02:42,639 they were in local jail. They overnight. I saw flyers. I got 30 00:02:42,680 --> 00:02:46,439 a page on my page or the night from one of them. Katerina, 31 00:02:46,560 --> 00:02:52,199 check that Mohler. Don't don't be like a Natalia's have to whatever. Uh, 32 00:02:52,639 --> 00:02:54,599 Valerie Bubba Fenwick hits it out of the park. Probably. We love 33 00:02:54,639 --> 00:02:59,639 your pancakes, Athena Ginscher, We love your dancing. Elizabeth Williamson. You 34 00:02:59,719 --> 00:03:01,919 got a lot of kids, but you're a great mom. Yeah, she 35 00:03:02,000 --> 00:03:06,639 really is. He is. I know you're an action on Zoom hero all. 36 00:03:06,680 --> 00:03:10,400 You must be a great dad because your kids adore you. Rita rocks 37 00:03:10,400 --> 00:03:15,879 that bassinet. Jacob is very Growley, still still growl such adorable? Is 38 00:03:15,919 --> 00:03:22,960 adorable? And Ashley so chic, Nikki call your girls, Randy Mayames, 39 00:03:23,000 --> 00:03:25,240 you go too many names, Rachel still a newcomer. You got to earn 40 00:03:25,319 --> 00:03:29,280 your way to be an old timer. And Aaron who does who it is? 41 00:03:29,560 --> 00:03:35,800 I don't know you? So Sunny Sunny sometimes could be afraid of his 42 00:03:35,840 --> 00:03:40,439 own shadow. However, so even though he has his license and he can 43 00:03:40,560 --> 00:03:46,120 drive, and he drives himself to work to do his bench Warmer podcast every 44 00:03:46,159 --> 00:03:51,800 week, he still loves his walks and loves to take his walks. In 45 00:03:51,840 --> 00:03:54,800 fact, it helps him with his overactive bladder. If if he's moving keeps 46 00:03:54,879 --> 00:04:00,960 him going right, he's feeling better. So it's football season, he's got 47 00:04:00,000 --> 00:04:04,919 his podcast, You do I get you and Sonny should get together. He 48 00:04:04,960 --> 00:04:10,919 could talk your ear off podcast. Does he want me as a guest? 49 00:04:11,080 --> 00:04:15,360 Oh? Yeah, he would love to have you as a guest. Listen 50 00:04:15,400 --> 00:04:17,920 to do Tuesday show. You know what we're talking about. Right, So 51 00:04:18,279 --> 00:04:24,199 he's, you know, walking at night, okay, still and uh he 52 00:04:24,240 --> 00:04:30,360 goes on these long walks. Anyway, it was Saturday morning. Natalia was 53 00:04:30,560 --> 00:04:38,079 laid up with her wisdom teeth issues, and Sonny was leaving to go get 54 00:04:38,160 --> 00:04:43,519 lunch. So he's walking out the door and then I'm upstairs and I hear 55 00:04:43,639 --> 00:04:47,360 him going like, mom, mom, look, locked the door, locked 56 00:04:47,360 --> 00:04:50,439 the door. And I was like, because there's two doors. There's one 57 00:04:50,879 --> 00:04:55,079 that's he was heading towards, which is the back door. Then there's the 58 00:04:55,120 --> 00:04:58,839 front door, which I'm closer to, and I'm hearing him going lock the 59 00:04:58,839 --> 00:05:00,040 door, locked the door, and he doesn't go out that door. I 60 00:05:00,079 --> 00:05:02,319 know he's going out the back door. So I'm like, what is it? 61 00:05:02,639 --> 00:05:06,800 What's the wrong with this kid? And I go downstairs and he's like, 62 00:05:08,399 --> 00:05:10,759 we're gonna I gotta let's call nine one one, and I go, 63 00:05:10,839 --> 00:05:13,560 what are you talking about? And he goes there's a crazy man. There's 64 00:05:13,600 --> 00:05:16,480 somebody like on our stairs, sitting on our stairs, on our property, 65 00:05:16,600 --> 00:05:21,480 talking loud. And he's like, and I know who it is because I've 66 00:05:21,600 --> 00:05:26,199 encountered this guy so and he's bothered me before it. I'm like, what 67 00:05:26,319 --> 00:05:29,800 the fuck? So he calls nine one one. As he's calling nine one 68 00:05:29,800 --> 00:05:33,480 one, the back door is unlocking and opening and we hear it, and 69 00:05:33,560 --> 00:05:38,079 his Sonny looked like he was gonna freaking die. He was like, oh 70 00:05:38,160 --> 00:05:39,920 my god, he's coming in the house. He's coming in the house. 71 00:05:40,240 --> 00:05:44,680 And I go hello, and it's Griffin, Natalie's boyfriend. Oh. And 72 00:05:44,759 --> 00:05:47,079 I'm like, Sonny, relax and nine one, nine one one, what's 73 00:05:47,079 --> 00:05:51,920 your emergency? And he's like, uh, never mind. Wait. So 74 00:05:53,000 --> 00:05:56,839 there was no crazy guys sitting on there. There's no crazy guy sitting on 75 00:05:56,879 --> 00:06:01,600 the stairs. It was Natalie's boyfriend who's he wasn't expecting, okay, but 76 00:06:01,680 --> 00:06:05,360 he didn't get a look at him. He saw like, I guess his 77 00:06:05,519 --> 00:06:12,240 shorts because he's pretty tall and fits the description of this crazy guy that Sonny's 78 00:06:12,279 --> 00:06:16,120 encountered, and and was like yep, but he wasn't. He was like 79 00:06:16,199 --> 00:06:18,519 saying that he was he was like, were you on the phone and he 80 00:06:18,560 --> 00:06:21,839 was like, well yeah, and he was like, were you talking loud? 81 00:06:23,000 --> 00:06:25,879 And he was like Griffin was like huh no, no, I don't 82 00:06:25,879 --> 00:06:29,199 know. Maybe like sometimes when you're on the phone, you're you're talking loud. 83 00:06:29,240 --> 00:06:31,319 You think you're talking loud, but you don't know you're talking. I 84 00:06:31,360 --> 00:06:34,399 don't know. So Griffin's like, well, huh and I go, Sonny, 85 00:06:34,480 --> 00:06:38,759 take a breath, relax. What the what what's going on? And 86 00:06:38,800 --> 00:06:41,600 he was like, I didn't want to tell you. I told Dad about 87 00:06:41,600 --> 00:06:43,439 it, but I didn't want to tell you because I don't want you to 88 00:06:43,480 --> 00:06:46,959 freak out because you're every time like I'm at the condo, I'm always looking 89 00:06:46,000 --> 00:06:49,120 on my life three sixty and I'm like, why is it nine thirty at 90 00:06:49,199 --> 00:06:53,319 night and you're like three miles from house? What are you doing when you 91 00:06:53,399 --> 00:06:56,959 go home? It's getting late. You shouldn't be out this late. He's 92 00:06:57,000 --> 00:06:59,240 like, I'm fine, you know. So I call him and I talked 93 00:06:59,240 --> 00:07:01,160 to him till he gets home kind of thing. So I'm always worried about 94 00:07:01,240 --> 00:07:08,160 him, Like mostly because there's bears in our there's grizzly bears, coyotes and 95 00:07:08,519 --> 00:07:12,879 our streets are dark and there's no sidewalks. There's not. In fact, 96 00:07:12,959 --> 00:07:15,920 I was on next door app and people were like, why don't we ever 97 00:07:15,000 --> 00:07:18,199 we don't have any what's going on in our neighborhood where we don't have street 98 00:07:18,279 --> 00:07:21,120 lights? We do on the busy streets, but on the side streets it's 99 00:07:21,319 --> 00:07:26,279 pitch black and there's no sidewalks, And they're like, well, it's kind 100 00:07:26,279 --> 00:07:30,759 of the quaint thing of our town because we're up against the foothills and nature. 101 00:07:30,800 --> 00:07:33,160 They don't want the It's kind of the charm of our town. And 102 00:07:33,160 --> 00:07:36,199 I was like, dark, dark, right, So I was reading about 103 00:07:36,240 --> 00:07:41,000 that, so which makes me even more anxious. When Sunny's late at night 104 00:07:41,040 --> 00:07:44,399 walking around, he doesn't have a flashlight. He's got his cell phone that 105 00:07:44,439 --> 00:07:50,120 he uses anyway. So he's telling me he's encountered this guy who's rambling talks 106 00:07:50,160 --> 00:07:55,680 to himself. He thinks that he's like off medication or something. He's not 107 00:07:55,959 --> 00:08:00,920 old, he's a young guy, and he looks put together there, and 108 00:08:01,000 --> 00:08:03,959 he's scruffy, but like you know, just like you know, like an 109 00:08:03,959 --> 00:08:09,759 over like a five o'clock shadow kind of scruff probably in his thirties. He 110 00:08:09,800 --> 00:08:16,879 said, he dressed like like how Griffin would like Natalie's boyfriend would dress like 111 00:08:16,959 --> 00:08:22,279 just nice shorts and a teat whatever. And he's walked around and sunny encount 112 00:08:22,319 --> 00:08:26,560 so he's walked He's seen him at night walking in the streets and he does 113 00:08:26,600 --> 00:08:31,920 this thing where he crouches down, like into a ball on the sidewalk and 114 00:08:31,080 --> 00:08:37,000 rocks back and forth and starts yelling at people and like, so Sunny was 115 00:08:37,080 --> 00:08:41,399 like trying to was going in his direction. It was just two nights earlier. 116 00:08:41,440 --> 00:08:45,000 It was walking towards him. And then the guy started yelling at Sunny 117 00:08:45,080 --> 00:08:48,559 like something about he's gonna take him down under, and Sunny goes, I 118 00:08:48,559 --> 00:08:52,480 don't think he's talking about Australia. I think he's talking about like down under, 119 00:08:52,519 --> 00:08:54,799 like I'm gonna bury something. And he was like trying to and oh 120 00:08:54,919 --> 00:08:58,960 and he didn't have a shirt on this time. So sunny encount So Sonny 121 00:09:00,000 --> 00:09:03,480 he crosses the street, you know, ignores him. And then there was 122 00:09:03,519 --> 00:09:05,960 another guy, a gentleman that was out like a dad, and he was 123 00:09:07,000 --> 00:09:11,279 out on a walk and he said, look, there's a just so you 124 00:09:11,320 --> 00:09:15,279 know, there's a guy could be off his meds. You're gonna he's gonna 125 00:09:15,279 --> 00:09:18,200 be coming your way. Well, this guy starts, the guy off his 126 00:09:18,279 --> 00:09:22,480 meds, start coming towards Sonny and this other guy, and he starts talking 127 00:09:22,480 --> 00:09:24,840 about where's his shirt. He wants a shirt, and the guy goes, 128 00:09:26,399 --> 00:09:28,000 you need a shirt, I'll get you a shirt, and then he goes 129 00:09:28,039 --> 00:09:33,879 inside the house. And now Sonny Sunny alone with the guy and dad I 130 00:09:33,960 --> 00:09:37,240 know, so comes back out with the shirt, kind of gives it to 131 00:09:37,360 --> 00:09:41,360 him, and then he starts following. So, since Sonny's like, okay, 132 00:09:41,399 --> 00:09:45,120 I'm on my way, starts kind of following Sonny but from a distance, 133 00:09:45,159 --> 00:09:48,080 but is following him, and so now Sunny he doesn't want him to 134 00:09:48,120 --> 00:09:50,240 know what street he turns off, so he goes down around blah blah blah. 135 00:09:50,279 --> 00:09:54,360 Anyway, that was like two nights earlier, and now Sonny's in the 136 00:09:54,399 --> 00:09:58,559 middle of the day leaving on a Saturday to go to get lunch and he 137 00:09:58,639 --> 00:10:03,759 sees what he think is the same height built of the homeless guy, and 138 00:10:03,799 --> 00:10:09,240 he's sitting on our stairs talking loudly. Right, so he thinks it's nine 139 00:10:09,360 --> 00:10:11,440 one one and he tells me locked the door, and then he's like, 140 00:10:11,559 --> 00:10:16,600 oh my god, and then he hears the backdoor opening and somebody coming inside. 141 00:10:16,000 --> 00:10:18,879 He's thinking, oh my god, the guy's in the house. So 142 00:10:18,919 --> 00:10:22,039 when he called nine one one, and then it was like, oh, 143 00:10:22,120 --> 00:10:26,919 never mind, did they call back where they like, I know I thought 144 00:10:26,919 --> 00:10:30,320 they would, but no, he said false false alarm. Because I was 145 00:10:30,360 --> 00:10:31,519 like, Sunny, why are you calling on mom? I go, wait, 146 00:10:31,559 --> 00:10:33,639 don't call nine one one. He goes, no, Mom, Mom, 147 00:10:33,679 --> 00:10:37,240 Mom, the guy's coming in the house, like and then you know 148 00:10:37,399 --> 00:10:41,360 at the same time. And then also it takes a while for the back 149 00:10:41,519 --> 00:10:45,039 whoever's coming in the back door has to walk up steps. You don't see 150 00:10:45,039 --> 00:10:48,960 who they are until they come up into our kitchen and it's but I go 151 00:10:50,120 --> 00:10:52,679 hello and it's Griffin and he's like it's me. And I was like, 152 00:10:52,919 --> 00:10:56,240 okay, it's good, like Sunny, relax, like what the what's wrong 153 00:10:56,279 --> 00:11:00,480 with you? And then so he tells me this whole thing, and I'm 154 00:11:00,519 --> 00:11:03,879 like, okay, well, now you're not gonna go late at night walking 155 00:11:03,919 --> 00:11:07,879 around the neighborhood. And so anyway, I've never posted on nextdoor app except 156 00:11:07,919 --> 00:11:13,759 for that one time when somebody like pounded on our right right. So now 157 00:11:13,840 --> 00:11:16,759 I posted on nextdoor app, I love next door, app I I falled 158 00:11:16,759 --> 00:11:22,480 down that rabbit hole all the time, and I yeah, I posted, 159 00:11:22,519 --> 00:11:26,120 like, has anybody encountered this person? And did you get any responses? 160 00:11:26,200 --> 00:11:30,360 I just did it. I think it was just yesterday. One response, 161 00:11:30,399 --> 00:11:33,399 the guy goes, how do you know he's not homeless? Because I said, 162 00:11:33,200 --> 00:11:37,559 my son describes him. I don't. He doesn't think he's homeless. 163 00:11:37,559 --> 00:11:41,240 He just thinks he's somebody that's lives in our neighborhood. But is off as 164 00:11:41,240 --> 00:11:43,440 meds because he does. But it's hard to describe that. He gets into 165 00:11:43,440 --> 00:11:48,399 a ball and walk rocks back and forth, like you know, it does 166 00:11:48,440 --> 00:11:50,679 sound like I'm the crate, Like I'm not crazy, I'm describing crazy. 167 00:11:50,679 --> 00:11:54,159 You're like. Then he gets on the kind of on his stomach on the 168 00:11:54,159 --> 00:11:58,559 ground and he does like the inchworm and it's but it's not like a really 169 00:11:58,919 --> 00:12:03,159 roback way, like it's not like there's no music playing right right right, 170 00:12:03,480 --> 00:12:07,039 And I sound like I'm the crazies right right, So I don't know. 171 00:12:07,120 --> 00:12:13,159 We'll see I'll check back and see if anybody responded. But but now I'm 172 00:12:13,159 --> 00:12:16,679 like, do you have to walk late at night on the dark streets of 173 00:12:16,679 --> 00:12:22,200 our city. Can you just like get home before dark at least? So 174 00:12:24,360 --> 00:12:26,720 I don't know, but we'll see. They get like older and older though, 175 00:12:26,840 --> 00:12:31,159 and it's so hard to like, I have to constantly check myself because 176 00:12:31,320 --> 00:12:35,320 LB, I don't know if you guys know this, but she's staying home. 177 00:12:35,919 --> 00:12:41,120 Is here. I'm just kidding obviously, I've talked about it ad nauseum, 178 00:12:41,120 --> 00:12:45,919 but it's hard to because she's not away at college. It's hard to 179 00:12:46,960 --> 00:12:50,519 not go like, oh, what time are you getting home? Like I 180 00:12:50,639 --> 00:12:52,679 know, I'll get her schedule kind of at the beginning of the week. 181 00:12:54,159 --> 00:12:56,759 But I told her one of the reasons that we got her a car, 182 00:12:56,960 --> 00:13:01,960 well a was because we were trying to divide two cars among three people. 183 00:13:03,399 --> 00:13:05,399 And that was and she uses it the most because she's always out and about, 184 00:13:07,679 --> 00:13:09,840 But was because I felt so bad that she didn't get to go away 185 00:13:09,840 --> 00:13:15,240 to college and every one of her friends was getting to get this growing up 186 00:13:15,360 --> 00:13:18,559 experience and getting out on their own and like, and I felt so bad 187 00:13:18,600 --> 00:13:22,039 that, like, oh, she's stuck at home. So I was like, 188 00:13:22,080 --> 00:13:24,679 listen, you're gonna be independent city. Don't worry about us, like 189 00:13:24,720 --> 00:13:28,919 we're not here, Like you don't live at home? What like, parents 190 00:13:28,039 --> 00:13:31,799 know, you know, you got your wing of the house, you know, 191 00:13:31,159 --> 00:13:35,240 but I can't help. But still parents like I can't. It's on 192 00:13:35,399 --> 00:13:37,879 a bagel I do. I'm like, have you eaten? Are you? 193 00:13:37,879 --> 00:13:41,360 You know? And then John will be like what is I'll be eating with 194 00:13:41,440 --> 00:13:43,919 us, and I'm like, I don't know, Like I don't. I 195 00:13:43,919 --> 00:13:48,600 don't feel like we should be like hey are you are you I of course 196 00:13:48,639 --> 00:13:50,440 I hear the voice of people going, well, she still lives under your 197 00:13:50,519 --> 00:13:54,519 roof. I know, I get it. I get it. But it's 198 00:13:54,600 --> 00:13:58,360 not that it's not that I'm afraid to ask her. She's a very polite 199 00:13:58,480 --> 00:14:01,440 girl. She's not going to be like fuck off, I'm on my own. 200 00:14:01,960 --> 00:14:07,279 But I'm just saying I try not to hover and be like, oh, 201 00:14:07,320 --> 00:14:09,320 what are you? What are you doing tonight? You know, because 202 00:14:09,759 --> 00:14:13,720 I want her to be able to go to a shift at work and then 203 00:14:13,000 --> 00:14:16,879 go out to dinner with her friends. I don't want her to have to 204 00:14:16,919 --> 00:14:18,840 be like, oh, let me explain to my parents what I'm doing. 205 00:14:20,519 --> 00:14:24,399 But at the same time, like if we're if I'm making dinner, like 206 00:14:24,720 --> 00:14:28,960 hey, are you are you going to be But she's really good about She'll 207 00:14:28,080 --> 00:14:31,399 say, yeah, I'm getting off work at such and such a time and 208 00:14:31,440 --> 00:14:33,240 I'll be home, But I kind of don't want her to have to do 209 00:14:33,320 --> 00:14:39,080 that. Plus the fact that her moods have been up and down, but 210 00:14:39,320 --> 00:14:45,279 lately we're on a sort of a good run where she's been feeling good and 211 00:14:45,279 --> 00:14:50,519 she's really filling her She's working a lot of extra work shifts to keep herself 212 00:14:50,600 --> 00:14:54,639 busy, and she feels very much like work family, Like she's got some 213 00:14:54,759 --> 00:15:00,399 really good friends at work. It makes her really happy. She's learning more 214 00:15:00,000 --> 00:15:03,639 are things at work, Like she's doing something that's called a tech shift where 215 00:15:03,679 --> 00:15:09,639 she learns some of the she unscrews some of like the vests, and she's 216 00:15:09,080 --> 00:15:13,480 she's learning how to do more things and she's very curious about it, which 217 00:15:13,519 --> 00:15:16,840 I think is great. So she's like this week, she worked like thirty 218 00:15:16,879 --> 00:15:20,639 five hours. She was at work like every single day, and then she'll 219 00:15:20,759 --> 00:15:24,200 she'd go out with people from work, and then she's got her school twice 220 00:15:24,240 --> 00:15:26,840 a week. So like, I don't wanna, yes, but I do. 221 00:15:28,039 --> 00:15:31,200 Still, I'm bringing it around to the point that I still find myself 222 00:15:31,279 --> 00:15:35,039 checking life three sixty and being like, oh, what's she doing. Oh, 223 00:15:35,159 --> 00:15:37,720 she's still at work. Oh she's driving home right now? Oh, 224 00:15:37,799 --> 00:15:43,080 John Elpi's like driving home from work. I think she's coming home. Like 225 00:15:43,200 --> 00:15:46,600 I'm still like, I'm still hovering. I just don't tell her I'm hovering 226 00:15:46,759 --> 00:15:50,600 right right. Well, and for me, it's a lot like when I'm 227 00:15:50,600 --> 00:15:52,159 not there, I want to know where they are and what they're doing. 228 00:15:52,240 --> 00:15:56,720 And now, like Sunny's a new driver, so if he's driving, like 229 00:15:56,759 --> 00:16:00,639 the other day he was coming home and then he totally doesn't come home. 230 00:16:00,720 --> 00:16:04,000 He goes around, he's going and going towards the Pasadena Rose Bowl. He's 231 00:16:04,080 --> 00:16:07,519 driving, and I'm like, wait, I call him, I go, 232 00:16:07,639 --> 00:16:08,960 what are you doing? It's like, I'm just out for a drive. 233 00:16:10,039 --> 00:16:11,440 And I was like, all right, it's getting late. We just come 234 00:16:11,440 --> 00:16:15,159 home so I can relax, right, you know, even though he's in 235 00:16:15,240 --> 00:16:18,080 you know, he's a good driver, but still like I want to know 236 00:16:18,159 --> 00:16:22,919 what's what? Where are you going? What's going on? When I think 237 00:16:22,960 --> 00:16:27,519 about being a kid. Should we take a break first? Yeah, then 238 00:16:27,600 --> 00:16:30,919 remind remind me about being a kid. I've got I've got a scenario in 239 00:16:30,960 --> 00:16:36,320 my head to talk about. But first let's talk about something that relaxes us. 240 00:16:36,639 --> 00:16:38,440 Yes, you know what you could do. Yeah, when you're waiting 241 00:16:38,440 --> 00:16:44,120 for Sunday to come home, take a microdose microdose some THHC, yes, 242 00:16:44,399 --> 00:16:48,200 and relax, take a chill pill. I've been taking these and I really 243 00:16:48,320 --> 00:16:52,399 I've told you I've noticed a difference in my anxiety. I take it at 244 00:16:52,399 --> 00:16:57,639 an evening and it's like a relief, like like I can breathe, Like 245 00:16:57,679 --> 00:17:02,840 there's just I don't feel high or anything. I feel relaxed, and I 246 00:17:02,879 --> 00:17:07,599 feel like stress has been lifted. 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When you got 280 00:19:37,279 --> 00:19:40,440 your license, you didn't have to like not drive with other people in the 281 00:19:40,480 --> 00:19:45,200 car for a year like they do now in California at least. So I 282 00:19:45,359 --> 00:19:52,240 just remember, there's so many times where I wish I could have called a 283 00:19:52,359 --> 00:19:55,720 parent or called somebody to come get me, or been like stuck somewhere, 284 00:19:56,240 --> 00:20:00,720 or you just get a ride with some rando right somewhere, like forget even 285 00:20:00,839 --> 00:20:04,920 driving. I remember I remember like leaving the house walking like five miles with 286 00:20:04,960 --> 00:20:11,000 my friend to this like pizza place that was far away, like a five 287 00:20:11,119 --> 00:20:12,839 mile walk. I remember. We thought that would be like a great idea. 288 00:20:12,880 --> 00:20:15,319 We didn't have anything to do, and then we got kind of stranded 289 00:20:15,319 --> 00:20:18,920 out there because then it started getting late and the place closed that it's dark, 290 00:20:19,359 --> 00:20:22,880 nobody knew where we were, nobody could track us. We couldn't even 291 00:20:22,920 --> 00:20:26,599 call to say, like, hey, we're stuck out at this pizza place. 292 00:20:26,200 --> 00:20:30,839 I believe that we found like we hitchhiked our way home, like we 293 00:20:30,960 --> 00:20:36,160 found some guys to give us a ride. I can't tell you how many 294 00:20:36,160 --> 00:20:40,319 times. Well I'm not going to say that I could have been like murdered, 295 00:20:40,759 --> 00:20:45,319 which I probably could have, but where I just could have gotten into 296 00:20:45,359 --> 00:20:48,839 like a lot of trouble. Same with me, and now I feel like 297 00:20:48,880 --> 00:20:53,000 I know too much about where my kids are. So I found Glenn and 298 00:20:53,079 --> 00:20:59,039 Mike. They were my lifelong friends because we were Pam and I were at 299 00:20:59,039 --> 00:21:03,359 a bus stop and go see the Karate Kid from Encino all the way to 300 00:21:03,480 --> 00:21:07,799 like I don't know, then turn Sherman Oaks movie theater. We were going 301 00:21:07,839 --> 00:21:12,000 to take the artillery. Yes, the Rapid Transit District bus. We're at 302 00:21:12,039 --> 00:21:15,119 the bus stop and then Glenn and Mike drove by and was like Hong Kong 303 00:21:15,319 --> 00:21:18,640 and they were like high school kids and you guys need a ride, and 304 00:21:18,680 --> 00:21:22,519 that was that. That's how we met. But yeah, we could have 305 00:21:22,519 --> 00:21:26,480 gotten in the car with god knows who. We were just feral kids. 306 00:21:26,519 --> 00:21:30,960 And then I would take the RTT from Encino to West Hills, which is 307 00:21:32,279 --> 00:21:34,839 a good thirty minute drive right at ten o'clock at night while I was in 308 00:21:34,920 --> 00:21:40,359 high school. Yeah, yeah, it's so funny because I'm on this there's 309 00:21:40,400 --> 00:21:44,200 this like Facebook group. Of course, all roads lead back to some crazy 310 00:21:44,240 --> 00:21:47,799 Facebook group with me. There's a Facebook group but I'm not even gonna say 311 00:21:47,799 --> 00:21:51,440 the name of it because it's just like ridiculous. It's not paying for college 312 00:21:51,480 --> 00:21:56,519 one on one. It's like a local Facebook group with like parents in LA 313 00:21:56,720 --> 00:22:00,559 and they're so crazy. They're so crazy. But like one woman was asking 314 00:22:00,599 --> 00:22:04,119 about letting her kid, her like fourteen year old, take the bus in 315 00:22:04,160 --> 00:22:08,720 Santa Monica, which is pretty safe and it's a pretty clean bus service there, 316 00:22:10,000 --> 00:22:15,440 and all these parents people were like, oh, absolutely not. Never. 317 00:22:15,519 --> 00:22:18,559 It's disgusting. They're going to get like killed taking the bus. And 318 00:22:18,599 --> 00:22:22,319 I was like, Jesus, things have changed. I let my kids take 319 00:22:22,359 --> 00:22:26,160 a bus, like if it was in the middle of the day. Yeah, 320 00:22:26,359 --> 00:22:27,759 like sure, like at night? Am I going to let them take 321 00:22:27,759 --> 00:22:32,599 a bus at midnight? No, that's stupid, like luber But like what 322 00:22:32,799 --> 00:22:37,440 like during the day at Santa Monica bus Like people like a lot of parents 323 00:22:37,440 --> 00:22:41,319 have gotten We've gotten very like kids have gotten pretty spoiled. Yeah, oh 324 00:22:41,400 --> 00:22:45,400 yeah, oh yeah, but myself included. I told Xander the other day. 325 00:22:45,480 --> 00:22:53,880 Okay, so Xander last night was meeting some friends at the Glendale at 326 00:22:53,920 --> 00:22:57,559 the Galleria. Yeah, okay, they he and a little group they were, 327 00:22:57,599 --> 00:23:00,359 like five of them were meeting at the gal area to go have sushi. 328 00:23:02,279 --> 00:23:06,200 This is how spoiled kids are these days. I want imagine like when 329 00:23:06,319 --> 00:23:11,640 I was fifteen meeting my friends first sushi? Oh that was what money. 330 00:23:11,799 --> 00:23:15,079 First of all, there wasn't sushi. Now there wasn't sushi for one thing, 331 00:23:15,240 --> 00:23:17,839 right, Like I guess that would entail going fishy, going on a 332 00:23:17,880 --> 00:23:21,359 fishing trip eating fish raw. So no, no, but no, I 333 00:23:21,440 --> 00:23:25,079 know, like are you kidding? We ate at McDonald's, Like that's where 334 00:23:25,079 --> 00:23:26,839 you went out to like, oh, let's go to McDonald's and just order 335 00:23:26,880 --> 00:23:30,519 hash browns because that's all we can afford. Right, do you remember like 336 00:23:30,559 --> 00:23:33,200 just ordering hash browns, Yeah, and being so excited that it was still 337 00:23:33,240 --> 00:23:37,119 the time that they're making the hashbrowns, like, oh it's still morning. 338 00:23:37,599 --> 00:23:41,480 Like we would skip school, go to McDonald's and just be able to affords 339 00:23:41,839 --> 00:23:44,759 like yeah a dollar yeah yeah, yeah yeah, and then play the McDonald's 340 00:23:44,799 --> 00:23:48,559 monopoly game so that you could hopefully win a free order of fries or a 341 00:23:48,640 --> 00:23:51,839 free drink. Right. We used to go. There was McDonald's across street 342 00:23:51,839 --> 00:23:55,599 from our high school. We used to go too. We would sneak Amala, 343 00:23:55,759 --> 00:23:59,440 my friend, her and I. Her mother was a complete I know 344 00:23:59,519 --> 00:24:03,640 the McDonald high school. I forgot that's my neighborhood, it is, right, 345 00:24:03,799 --> 00:24:07,440 and so we eat next to birming anyway, So we would go to 346 00:24:07,440 --> 00:24:12,599 that McDonald's and her and I would split. We would have to like bring 347 00:24:12,759 --> 00:24:18,880 change from home. Oh yeah, the McRib is back, So we would 348 00:24:18,920 --> 00:24:22,079 split a McRib, not even each get one. We only had enough for 349 00:24:22,200 --> 00:24:26,160 one McRib And then we would hide from all of our friends because our friends 350 00:24:26,279 --> 00:24:30,480 be like, let me have a bite. You know those moochers. Let 351 00:24:30,519 --> 00:24:32,680 me have a bite. Let me have a bite. A fuck that ship 352 00:24:32,799 --> 00:24:36,319 you know comes Sanine wants a bite, It's gonna eat the whole thing to 353 00:24:36,440 --> 00:24:40,759 her. And I would like hide behind like the panball courts at school and 354 00:24:40,920 --> 00:24:45,200 eat our half one half of each of a McRib sandwich. Yeah, yeah, 355 00:24:45,519 --> 00:24:56,400 kill like Natalia's going to like sugarfish for I know, I know my 356 00:24:56,519 --> 00:25:00,720 life was nothing like that. My first job everybody knows was that burger king. 357 00:25:02,039 --> 00:25:04,880 You think I took my first paycheck and like went to lunch but no, 358 00:25:06,039 --> 00:25:08,880 But that's how lb Elbi will work like she's making minimum wage at her 359 00:25:10,000 --> 00:25:12,480 job, except for the times that she does like a party and makes good 360 00:25:12,480 --> 00:25:15,720 money, but like and then she and her friends will go out for dinner 361 00:25:15,799 --> 00:25:21,000 to like Korean barbecue and spend like I'm sure she spends like forty bucks on 362 00:25:21,160 --> 00:25:23,480 her meal, right, which, like, okay, good for you. 363 00:25:23,480 --> 00:25:26,039 You can do what you want. It's your money. But I'm just saying, 364 00:25:26,079 --> 00:25:29,880 like, oh my god, I never had that growing up. Never. 365 00:25:30,119 --> 00:25:32,960 I was poor, poor, poor, And even when I was living 366 00:25:33,000 --> 00:25:37,559 on my own, when I was moved to LA and was working two jobs 367 00:25:37,359 --> 00:25:41,480 oh my god, go out for dinner. Are you on crack? Like? 368 00:25:41,559 --> 00:25:45,200 No. We would walk to the store and get bologney. This was 369 00:25:45,240 --> 00:25:51,119 our This was our meals. We would get top ramen, blogey peanut, 370 00:25:51,119 --> 00:25:53,000 a jar peanut butter, and a loaf of bread and then that had to 371 00:25:53,079 --> 00:25:57,440 last us like a week. For me, it was tuna and relish and 372 00:25:57,599 --> 00:26:02,400 tortillas because we would make Suzanne and I lived together and we would make rap 373 00:26:03,079 --> 00:26:07,559 tuna rap with a tortilla and pickles. Yes, that was our That was 374 00:26:07,559 --> 00:26:12,799 our dinner. Or or a bowl of soup, progressive soup or cereal. 375 00:26:14,000 --> 00:26:17,440 That was it. Saying I was working my you know, at a preschool, 376 00:26:18,119 --> 00:26:21,799 well that's saying we had actual jobs. Yeah. I was working at 377 00:26:21,839 --> 00:26:26,839 a movie theater and doing whatever supplies. And then I was tempering no every 378 00:26:26,880 --> 00:26:30,160 time I went to dinners. If somebody took me out on a day money 379 00:26:30,319 --> 00:26:33,920 exactly. And I oftentimes did say yes to dates with guys I didn't like 380 00:26:33,000 --> 00:26:34,680 because I was like, oh my god, they're going to take me to 381 00:26:34,680 --> 00:26:38,640 a real, actual restaurant, right. Oh yeah, these kids, my 382 00:26:38,799 --> 00:26:42,880 kids are living the life. So Xander goes out, goes and meets his 383 00:26:42,960 --> 00:26:47,559 friends well, and I have to drive him there. Of course, I 384 00:26:47,720 --> 00:26:51,799 drive him to the Glendale Galleria. I did. I had to walk him 385 00:26:51,839 --> 00:26:55,519 in. Normally Xander's pretty self sufficient, but it was kind of funny because 386 00:26:56,079 --> 00:26:59,640 he's not used to that mall. That's not a mall that's cursed for our 387 00:26:59,640 --> 00:27:03,880 house that's close closer to you. Yeah, so it's not in the Americana. 388 00:27:03,960 --> 00:27:06,799 It's not the outdoor part it's but it's the indoor part of them all, 389 00:27:07,200 --> 00:27:10,359 which we're not neither of us know all that. Well, so he's 390 00:27:10,400 --> 00:27:15,000 going to this revolving you know, the revolving sushi place. Okay, so 391 00:27:15,039 --> 00:27:19,000 he's going there, So I walk him in there. The other kids, 392 00:27:19,039 --> 00:27:22,680 these are some of his friends, are like homeschooled kids, and they are 393 00:27:22,759 --> 00:27:26,599 a little more independent, like they kind of do stuff on their own. 394 00:27:27,279 --> 00:27:32,720 They're all like around sixteen, so some of them have their license. So 395 00:27:32,759 --> 00:27:36,839 there's this one kid who's the first one there the mom. It's just so 396 00:27:36,880 --> 00:27:40,039 funny the varying degrees some of the kids show up on their own. This 397 00:27:40,160 --> 00:27:45,000 one kid shows up with a mom who's super overprotective. Well who else is 398 00:27:45,000 --> 00:27:48,720 here? Yeah, So I told Zander they were going to go to this 399 00:27:48,799 --> 00:27:53,720 restaurant and then they were going to somebody was going to drive them to a 400 00:27:53,839 --> 00:28:00,400 roller skating rink call like Moonlight k in Glendale. Yeah know it. Well, 401 00:28:00,839 --> 00:28:03,920 okay, So I'm like, I don't know if this place is sketchy. 402 00:28:04,000 --> 00:28:07,559 I don't know what's happenings in a sketchy neighborhood. That's what I thought. 403 00:28:07,960 --> 00:28:11,400 But so I said to Xander, He's like, I don't know how 404 00:28:11,400 --> 00:28:15,359 we're getting there, but I think our friend's mom is going to take us. 405 00:28:15,359 --> 00:28:17,279 So I was like, so, your friend's mom is going to drop 406 00:28:17,319 --> 00:28:19,359 you guys off at dinner and then wait three hours to drive you to the 407 00:28:19,400 --> 00:28:22,240 next place. And he's like, I don't know. I think she asked 408 00:28:22,279 --> 00:28:29,400 she was going to go shopping anyway or something. So I basically said, 409 00:28:29,440 --> 00:28:32,920 why don't you download Uber? You should have Uber on your phone anyway. 410 00:28:33,039 --> 00:28:34,880 I was like, it's just there's a group of you. If it's like 411 00:28:36,160 --> 00:28:41,640 four of you ubering somewhere, that's perfectly safe. And I remember lb ubered 412 00:28:41,640 --> 00:28:44,480 with her friends at that age, yeah, like right before she got our 413 00:28:44,519 --> 00:28:49,480 license. People do. And he was so kind of like, what like 414 00:28:49,720 --> 00:28:53,440 to have that Uber? No? But he no, But he was actually 415 00:28:53,480 --> 00:28:56,759 like a little scared, and I was like, oh my god, this 416 00:28:56,839 --> 00:29:00,359 is just not like we would have figured out a way we would go to 417 00:29:00,400 --> 00:29:06,960 the sketchiest places. I was just remembering times where somebody before I had my 418 00:29:07,039 --> 00:29:11,839 license, where some like older guy uh huh is like drunk and driving me 419 00:29:11,079 --> 00:29:15,440 us around in the van. Oh yeah. And it was like Pam had 420 00:29:15,480 --> 00:29:18,039 that neighbor. He was a guy that lived in the house down the street 421 00:29:18,720 --> 00:29:22,240 and he had a couple of roommates, and she would be like, we're 422 00:29:22,279 --> 00:29:25,920 going to Brad's, Like, let's go to the first time May ever smoked 423 00:29:25,920 --> 00:29:29,079 pot was at his house, and she will go over there and smoke pot. 424 00:29:29,200 --> 00:29:33,599 What Brad Brad. Now I'm looking back, he's like in his thirties 425 00:29:33,839 --> 00:29:38,160 and he's doing like shit construction and he's living in a three bedroom like rental 426 00:29:38,279 --> 00:29:44,559 place down the street from where Pam grew up. And Pam is in sixth 427 00:29:44,559 --> 00:29:47,119 grade, seventh grade, eighth grade, all the way all the way from 428 00:29:47,119 --> 00:29:51,680 sixth grade hanging into high school, hanging out with Brad. And I was 429 00:29:51,720 --> 00:29:53,680 like, does your mom know about Yeah, my mom knows Brad. She's 430 00:29:53,680 --> 00:29:56,640 fine with Brad. She's a single mom. She's never home, right, 431 00:29:56,720 --> 00:30:00,000 she could give a shit what Pam's doing and what her kid friends are doing. 432 00:30:00,160 --> 00:30:03,680 Right, we could have been raped by Brad's roommates, who were a 433 00:30:03,799 --> 00:30:08,240 revolving door of drifters just coming and going, like, Oh, who's this 434 00:30:08,279 --> 00:30:12,319 guy Kevin? I haven't seen him before. He's in like as like drunk 435 00:30:12,400 --> 00:30:18,240 all the time. Brad's given us beer, Brad's getting a stone. We're 436 00:30:18,319 --> 00:30:22,359 high school girls hanging out with a bunch of dudes. I'll never forget it, 437 00:30:22,440 --> 00:30:25,759 like up just up the street, just hanging out with him and like 438 00:30:25,799 --> 00:30:29,720 we go, Brad, We'll I don't know, give you five bucks to 439 00:30:29,799 --> 00:30:32,640 drive it, like once in a while he'll drive us and drop us off. 440 00:30:32,839 --> 00:30:36,519 He never did any funny business with us, but God knows, like 441 00:30:36,839 --> 00:30:40,400 all the people he lived with, who like, we're just teenage girls hanging 442 00:30:40,400 --> 00:30:42,599 out with a bunch of dudes in their thirties. Yeah, and we're in 443 00:30:42,839 --> 00:30:48,680 like junior high in high school. The fuck Pam's mom. Oh yeah, 444 00:30:48,759 --> 00:30:53,160 at fifteen, when I was living in Spokane, Washington, my best friend 445 00:30:53,240 --> 00:30:57,680 lived across the street, single mom, alcoholic. You know, God knows 446 00:30:57,720 --> 00:31:00,559 where you know, I don't know. She was hardly ever home. We 447 00:31:00,680 --> 00:31:04,920 basically lived at her house. Come home after school, we'd go to her 448 00:31:04,920 --> 00:31:08,440 house. We'd listen to music, we'd play our mom's records, and we'd 449 00:31:08,440 --> 00:31:12,400 make pudding and like toast. I remember that, you know. And then 450 00:31:12,480 --> 00:31:18,079 we would just like go have adventures. We would just leave, like go 451 00:31:18,279 --> 00:31:21,680 walk out to the corner, wait for some like guys to come by and 452 00:31:21,680 --> 00:31:25,640 get us go to I mean, I'm just remembering like all the parties we 453 00:31:25,680 --> 00:31:30,000 went to. I was fourteen and fifteen when I was like drinking every weekend. 454 00:31:30,559 --> 00:31:33,799 I didn't we didn't drive there. I recently had to ask her because 455 00:31:33,799 --> 00:31:37,000 I was writing stories about it for my book, and I was like, 456 00:31:37,000 --> 00:31:40,119 how did we get places? And she goes, guys just gave us rides 457 00:31:40,359 --> 00:31:45,359 places, or we would walk. So we would walk to like some park 458 00:31:45,960 --> 00:31:49,599 party or go to a keg party. At fourteen, That's what I was 459 00:31:49,640 --> 00:31:53,440 doing. Yeah, me too, and then just like wandering home, letting 460 00:31:53,480 --> 00:31:57,799 guys just drive us home men and like yeah. And then in Springfield, 461 00:31:57,839 --> 00:32:01,759 mass It was like crazy because we would go to bars. I was sixteen. 462 00:32:02,319 --> 00:32:06,000 We would go to bars and pick up guys that would like then go 463 00:32:06,119 --> 00:32:10,680 right around with them. I just remember have like a visceral memory of a 464 00:32:10,799 --> 00:32:16,519 guy who was drunk, who driven us to some spot and like was trying 465 00:32:16,559 --> 00:32:21,240 to like get me to like touch his penis, you know. And I 466 00:32:21,279 --> 00:32:24,720 was a little pretty prude at sixteen, like, well, I wasn't expecting 467 00:32:24,720 --> 00:32:27,880 this to happen, and he's like, well, I don't know what you 468 00:32:27,920 --> 00:32:30,839 were expecting. Like we've been I was making out with the guy, of 469 00:32:30,880 --> 00:32:35,039 course. Then we're at some park, my friends off with the other guy. 470 00:32:35,440 --> 00:32:37,960 I'm with this guy. He's like trying to put my hand down his 471 00:32:37,000 --> 00:32:40,039 pants and I was like, oh, no, like you know, and 472 00:32:40,079 --> 00:32:44,680 then he stranded us there. Oh of course he did. You're lucky. 473 00:32:44,720 --> 00:32:47,880 That's all he did. Left us there, and then some other guy we 474 00:32:47,920 --> 00:32:53,000 had to like find some guy to drive us home, and we were drunk, 475 00:32:53,240 --> 00:32:59,400 right, and I end up rolling in at like one in the morning, 476 00:32:59,559 --> 00:33:02,000 and I don't know where where were my parents. Nobody was put it 477 00:33:02,039 --> 00:33:07,039 this way, No one ain't nobody like three sixteen me, no exactly even 478 00:33:07,079 --> 00:33:10,240 if it had existed, right, I don't think my parents, Well, 479 00:33:10,359 --> 00:33:14,319 my dad was the only one that was strict, and he tried to keep 480 00:33:14,319 --> 00:33:17,799 me on a street on a tightly when I was younger, when my friend 481 00:33:17,839 --> 00:33:22,079 Wendy lived up the street and her single mom was never around and they had 482 00:33:22,119 --> 00:33:24,759 a Doberman, and my dad's like, no, you're not allowed over there. 483 00:33:24,799 --> 00:33:28,160 So he tried that for a long time. But then once I got 484 00:33:28,160 --> 00:33:31,519 into junior high and I started going to this high school in Van Eyes, 485 00:33:32,240 --> 00:33:36,319 I wasn't coming. Nobody was picking me up. I wasn't getting on the 486 00:33:36,359 --> 00:33:38,599 bus to come home after school. I was just going to my friend Pam's 487 00:33:38,599 --> 00:33:42,920 house who lived right by the school, and then hanging out with her. 488 00:33:42,960 --> 00:33:45,400 And her mom was never around, so my parents my dad was working my 489 00:33:45,440 --> 00:33:47,920 mom's nuts, so nobody. I would just be like, yeah, I'm 490 00:33:47,920 --> 00:33:51,319 at Pam's. I'm gonna spend the night. I would just spend the night 491 00:33:51,319 --> 00:33:53,960 throughout the whole week and just go to school from her house, you know. 492 00:33:54,279 --> 00:33:58,559 Wow. Yeah, I would just hang out, or I would take 493 00:33:58,559 --> 00:34:01,200 the RTD all the way home from Van Eyes to Woodland Hills, which is 494 00:34:01,279 --> 00:34:05,839 right at thirty minute drive. Once in a while my dad would pick me 495 00:34:05,920 --> 00:34:08,079 up on the way home from work, but not and then my mom showed 496 00:34:08,119 --> 00:34:13,360 up once when like all of our black friends were over in a dude and 497 00:34:13,400 --> 00:34:15,679 a towel. We were like playing I told this story and it answers the 498 00:34:15,719 --> 00:34:17,960 door and she's like, oh, let me talk at the lannette. Where's 499 00:34:17,960 --> 00:34:22,679 the lynette? And to pull me out by my hair? Get in the 500 00:34:22,800 --> 00:34:27,039 car. What are you hanging out the these boys in a towel? Get 501 00:34:27,079 --> 00:34:30,480 in the car like wow, yep, I don't have a ride. So 502 00:34:30,920 --> 00:34:36,000 and then here's Xander, scandalized by can you walk me? Yeah? Like 503 00:34:36,159 --> 00:34:42,480 and then he so they go to Midnight skating, the midnight skate place, 504 00:34:42,639 --> 00:34:45,360 and they got there at eight, so he says there's no skating whatever, 505 00:34:45,400 --> 00:34:50,920 They're closed at five. But then they reopen at eight and it's a Sunday 506 00:34:51,000 --> 00:34:53,000 night. So I'm like, this doesn't this is a little weird. So 507 00:34:53,000 --> 00:34:57,800 they're open like maybe eight to eleven or something. And then I'm not hearing 508 00:34:57,880 --> 00:35:00,519 from him. I'm like, John, have you heard from Xander? Like 509 00:35:00,559 --> 00:35:01,679 what time are we picking him up? And he's like, oh, he 510 00:35:01,719 --> 00:35:06,199 said like between ten fifteen and ten thirty. And I'm like, okay, 511 00:35:06,400 --> 00:35:08,440 this place is in a sketchy neighborhood. This does not seem great. I 512 00:35:08,519 --> 00:35:12,360 was like, so you need to get there at before ten fifteen, like 513 00:35:12,400 --> 00:35:15,039 we need to be waiting in the parking lot. I don't want his friends 514 00:35:15,400 --> 00:35:19,280 hit. The one with the overprotective mom is going to have picked up at 515 00:35:19,320 --> 00:35:22,800 like ninety five I go, and then the other ones, like I think 516 00:35:22,800 --> 00:35:24,360 have their own car. I don't want to people. I don't I do 517 00:35:24,440 --> 00:35:30,559 not want to find out that Xander was like standing outside of midnight moonlight bowling 518 00:35:30,719 --> 00:35:36,559 right, moonlight skating, like oh hey right, yeah, no, no, 519 00:35:36,559 --> 00:35:38,239 no, no, no, like getting picked up by some randall. 520 00:35:38,280 --> 00:35:42,239 I was like, we need to be there early, so we did he 521 00:35:42,320 --> 00:35:45,239 and he got picked up, but then I was like tracking, I make 522 00:35:45,320 --> 00:35:50,519 sure that John got there on time. This is my anxiety. And do 523 00:35:50,519 --> 00:35:53,159 you think it's because I just have anxiety or do you think it has to 524 00:35:53,199 --> 00:35:59,280 do with like how we were raised and thinking about all the ways that I 525 00:35:59,480 --> 00:36:05,559 escaped bad things happening, Like I think it's a mixture of both. Sure, 526 00:36:06,079 --> 00:36:09,599 Like I watched these mysteries like oh, you know, Shannon was in 527 00:36:09,639 --> 00:36:14,079 her twenties and she was going to college, but then she would go to 528 00:36:14,119 --> 00:36:16,119 bars and blah blah blah like in the eighties, and now she just went 529 00:36:16,199 --> 00:36:20,239 missing. I'm thinking that could have been me. Oh yeah, that could 530 00:36:20,280 --> 00:36:24,199 have been Pam, Like she was just doing what I was doing. She's 531 00:36:24,199 --> 00:36:29,360 the unlucky one I had somehow got lucky. God, thank God. Right, 532 00:36:29,599 --> 00:36:31,480 you never know, I mean. And also not to mention all the 533 00:36:31,559 --> 00:36:36,800 drunk driving we did with Glenn and Mike, like nobody we never got an 534 00:36:36,880 --> 00:36:40,079 accident, Like it was insane. Yeah, and now kids are like, 535 00:36:40,400 --> 00:36:44,239 oh, you know, nobody drives drunk, thank God, Like it's a 536 00:36:44,280 --> 00:36:46,559 whole thing, like, oh, they're so careful. Yeah. I just 537 00:36:46,599 --> 00:36:52,039 did not give a fuck, right, We just I thought I was really 538 00:36:52,039 --> 00:36:53,039 one of those people that was like, oh, I drive better when I've 539 00:36:53,039 --> 00:36:59,480 had a relaxed Well, let's take let's take a quick break and talk about 540 00:36:59,519 --> 00:37:04,519 Little our show. This show is sponsored by Little Spoon. Let's talk about 541 00:37:04,559 --> 00:37:10,800 it. They sent us a bunch of biteables and lunchers and snacks and smoothies, 542 00:37:12,320 --> 00:37:15,079 and I gave them to Olga. She gave them to her little best 543 00:37:15,119 --> 00:37:20,239 friend who's got toddlers, all different ages of kids. They she made it 544 00:37:20,280 --> 00:37:22,840 a point to call me and say they loved it. 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But then 563 00:38:50,119 --> 00:38:53,239 the other night, since I'm in charge of like this breakfast, I have 564 00:38:53,360 --> 00:39:00,280 to go and speak to everybody to let them know that there's opportunities for the 565 00:39:00,079 --> 00:39:07,679 sign up, encouraging parents to sign up. The thing is that this is 566 00:39:07,719 --> 00:39:14,559 just it's not my personality, but yet somehow, like you know, I'm 567 00:39:14,599 --> 00:39:17,000 not a go getter. I promise I'm not. But then it's like you 568 00:39:17,039 --> 00:39:20,920 sort of like say yes to stuff and then you get your then you're kind 569 00:39:20,960 --> 00:39:23,840 of locked in, right, and then I am I am interested, like 570 00:39:23,880 --> 00:39:29,840 I do want to help, but then you realize that so many people don't 571 00:39:29,840 --> 00:39:32,440 help, right, But then you feel like, oh, well now I 572 00:39:32,239 --> 00:39:36,519 well I don't want to just leave it up to these two ladies right to 573 00:39:36,599 --> 00:39:42,360 do everything. Yeah, and also you know there's something to it because it's 574 00:39:42,440 --> 00:39:46,320 you know, the kids are getting older and pretty soon you're not going to 575 00:39:46,400 --> 00:39:50,159 have any schools to have to volunteer for. I know, I'm trying to 576 00:39:50,199 --> 00:39:52,000 remember that. I'm kind of savor that. Yeah, just keep that in 577 00:39:52,039 --> 00:39:55,679 mind. I really am. I know we've talked about this even just a 578 00:39:55,679 --> 00:40:00,480 couple of episodes ago, but I used to just feel that thing of like 579 00:40:00,519 --> 00:40:04,039 when people were like, don't miss it, you're missing it. They grow 580 00:40:04,079 --> 00:40:06,280 up so fast, I'd be like, shut up, they can't grow up 581 00:40:06,280 --> 00:40:09,280 fast enough for me right now. But I really am at that age where 582 00:40:09,280 --> 00:40:15,400 I'm like, I really am going to try to enjoy every minute that my 583 00:40:15,480 --> 00:40:19,599 kids are still home. And if I know you are right there, like 584 00:40:19,639 --> 00:40:22,440 this is it, Like this is when they're home. This is when like 585 00:40:22,519 --> 00:40:28,440 Sadie and Xanders still want to spend time with me, elbe very sporadically right, 586 00:40:28,800 --> 00:40:32,079 But when she does, I snatch that time up. I'm like, 587 00:40:32,159 --> 00:40:36,119 oh, you want to go get some Like she'll come home from lunch for 588 00:40:36,280 --> 00:40:40,239 lunch, She'll come home from school and she'll be hungry, and I'm always 589 00:40:40,280 --> 00:40:44,760 like, you want to go to lunch because she usually does because she's hungry, 590 00:40:44,880 --> 00:40:46,280 right, I wants her mom to buy her a meal, So like 591 00:40:46,360 --> 00:40:49,639 that's where that's how I get her. Yeah, I'm like, oh, 592 00:40:49,719 --> 00:40:52,360 and then she I will go to CPK or we'll go to like you know, 593 00:40:52,519 --> 00:40:55,840 one time, first day of school, I took her to sushi because 594 00:40:55,840 --> 00:40:59,559 I was like, because that's when she's going to download her day to me 595 00:40:59,599 --> 00:41:04,440 and give me exactly and I eat it up now I know, I rell 596 00:41:04,519 --> 00:41:07,400 it every minute. I'm like, oh my god, I'm hanging out with 597 00:41:07,400 --> 00:41:09,559 my daughter. She still wants to hang with me. Yes, And then 598 00:41:09,679 --> 00:41:13,880 because then she's gone, Like once we get home, she's like, okay, 599 00:41:14,039 --> 00:41:15,639 she's off in the room. Then she's with friends, and then she 600 00:41:15,679 --> 00:41:21,280 doesn't. She will come in sit on my bed in my room and like 601 00:41:21,400 --> 00:41:23,840 download a little bit of her day to me. But then it's like she's 602 00:41:23,960 --> 00:41:28,920 then she's like, all right, she's calves here. Yeah. Then she's 603 00:41:28,920 --> 00:41:34,039 out out. But Sadie and Xander, and then Xander is like if I 604 00:41:34,079 --> 00:41:36,679 can catch him and go like, hey, you want to watch a movie, 605 00:41:37,159 --> 00:41:39,280 you know, he'll be like all right, yeah, sure. We 606 00:41:39,400 --> 00:41:46,679 started watching this show that was about twenty somethings. Uh. It was so 607 00:41:46,719 --> 00:41:50,400 stupid and I can't remember what it's called. It was on Netflix. It's 608 00:41:50,440 --> 00:41:54,239 like about these twenty somethings and they take them. They're they're like spoiled kids. 609 00:41:54,559 --> 00:41:59,119 Oh is it reality? Reality? They make them live out and they 610 00:41:59,159 --> 00:42:02,000 go out to like the wilderness and it's like two military guys. They're like, 611 00:42:02,079 --> 00:42:06,599 we're gonna Oh god, it's so bad. It's so stupid. But 612 00:42:06,760 --> 00:42:09,679 Xander was like, should we should we watch this? And we're both kind 613 00:42:09,679 --> 00:42:14,880 of laughing at it. It's just very over the top and very fake and 614 00:42:15,199 --> 00:42:21,119 all they're all trying to get Like you could tell every contestant they're pretending that 615 00:42:21,239 --> 00:42:23,719 they didn't know what they were signing up for, that their parents signed them 616 00:42:23,800 --> 00:42:28,079 up for something, and like they'll be like, oh, there's gonna be 617 00:42:28,119 --> 00:42:30,440 like so cooked. They're like, oh, there's gonna be a luxury house. 618 00:42:30,599 --> 00:42:35,440 There's gonna be a really cool house with like a pool. Wait a 619 00:42:35,599 --> 00:42:38,880 minute, where are we? This is crazy. And then they do this 620 00:42:38,920 --> 00:42:43,960 thing where they pretend to blow up their luggage. You're go into your luggage 621 00:42:43,960 --> 00:42:46,440 and take like just two essentials or whatever, and then they blow up their 622 00:42:46,519 --> 00:42:52,320 luggage and Xanders like that would never happen. They sue them, so Xander's 623 00:42:52,400 --> 00:42:54,880 like, that's just empty luggage. So anyway, but I'm like, Okay, 624 00:42:54,920 --> 00:43:00,400 well we could watch something else, and he's like, nah's gonna go 625 00:43:00,400 --> 00:43:05,599 in my go in my room and play guitar right him, I had my 626 00:43:05,639 --> 00:43:09,559 opportunity for them with Italia. I'm like, okay, let's watch something. 627 00:43:09,639 --> 00:43:15,559 So then we start, like we started watching she never saw the the Netflix 628 00:43:15,599 --> 00:43:22,119 show on the True Story Anna Oh Anna and a delv Yeah, and I'm 629 00:43:22,119 --> 00:43:24,000 like, you're gonna love it. You're gonna love it. So we start 630 00:43:24,079 --> 00:43:29,519 watching that, and you know, and a lot of it is not Anna 631 00:43:29,599 --> 00:43:34,599 doesn't really show up right away, so it's more based on the reporter and 632 00:43:34,679 --> 00:43:37,480 she's pregnant and it's her like life too, so Natalia is like, well, 633 00:43:37,480 --> 00:43:40,320 where's the girl? Like I liked it when they showed her, and 634 00:43:40,360 --> 00:43:45,280 then she's gone, and then she was like and then she she was like, 635 00:43:45,280 --> 00:43:46,760 wait, hold on, pose it and pose it and she's on her 636 00:43:46,760 --> 00:43:50,079 phone. She's like, I'm just gonna go in my room. And I 637 00:43:50,159 --> 00:43:53,719 was like, oh yeah, remember when I had that with I'll Be with 638 00:43:53,719 --> 00:43:58,599 the Bling Ring. I got her interested in the Bling Ring and because somehow 639 00:43:58,599 --> 00:44:00,280 we were talking about it, and then John's like, you know, there's 640 00:44:00,320 --> 00:44:04,159 like a show about that, and then i'll Be was like, oh there 641 00:44:04,360 --> 00:44:07,480 was, and then you're like you take that little moment of interest. Yeah, 642 00:44:07,559 --> 00:44:09,599 let's watch it right now, free, right now. And then she 643 00:44:09,719 --> 00:44:13,519 ended up finishing it like in her own room, right, same see, 644 00:44:13,679 --> 00:44:17,159 I know, and like Sonny, I, you know, every I was 645 00:44:17,199 --> 00:44:22,159 looking forward every Wednesday I would go get him, drive him to the studio, 646 00:44:22,559 --> 00:44:24,559 wait for him he'd be done with this podcast, then drive him home 647 00:44:24,880 --> 00:44:30,320 and then we would have that whole time of driving there, driving back every 648 00:44:30,360 --> 00:44:32,800 week and he would and it was always on a Wednesday, after I was 649 00:44:34,480 --> 00:44:36,639 alone at the condos. So I was like, oh, I haven't seen 650 00:44:36,719 --> 00:44:38,159 him in a few days, so he can, you know, tell me 651 00:44:38,239 --> 00:44:43,320 what's going on. And now I don't have that anymore because he's driving himself 652 00:44:43,320 --> 00:44:46,360 to work. Yeah, I hate it. Things definitely changed when Elby got 653 00:44:46,360 --> 00:44:52,760 her license. It it really did change. They get very independent and because 654 00:44:52,760 --> 00:44:54,679 you look forward tod them. You know, Natali is always like you want 655 00:44:54,679 --> 00:45:00,440 to go with me to the workout, and I'm like, I'll go drop 656 00:45:00,480 --> 00:45:02,440 you off and then I'll come back and get you when your class is over, 657 00:45:02,559 --> 00:45:05,639 right once in, you know, I'll take the class with her. 658 00:45:05,679 --> 00:45:08,280 But if I'm feeling like but she's just always like wanting to work out a 659 00:45:08,280 --> 00:45:13,760 little too much for me. But but yeah, I mean it's like those 660 00:45:14,159 --> 00:45:16,719 so now like she's got all this downtime with their wisdom teeth. Well, 661 00:45:16,760 --> 00:45:20,719 I'm enjoying it. Like she made a bed in the living room, so 662 00:45:21,119 --> 00:45:23,760 she's just there and then like I'll sit next to her for a little bit 663 00:45:23,800 --> 00:45:28,199 and then she's like Griffin's coming over. I'm like, okay, I'll get 664 00:45:28,280 --> 00:45:32,119 up, you know. But I do have to say, since Elby doesn't 665 00:45:32,159 --> 00:45:37,320 have a boyfriend anymore, I definitely see her more. I Mean there were 666 00:45:37,360 --> 00:45:39,599 times where she was gone for like forty eight hours, yeah, you know, 667 00:45:39,639 --> 00:45:43,840 and I was just like, uh, she's like she moved out. 668 00:45:44,199 --> 00:45:47,719 Yeah, and now she's at least she's home every single night, you know. 669 00:45:49,360 --> 00:45:52,000 And that gives me some like kind of a secure feeling because a lot 670 00:45:52,039 --> 00:45:57,800 of her friends are I mean, it's interesting when like she used to sleep 671 00:45:57,800 --> 00:46:02,679 at friend's houses a lot, like her my friend Cecily, her friend Ava, 672 00:46:05,119 --> 00:46:07,920 like was the kid who had the kids sleep at our house all the 673 00:46:07,960 --> 00:46:12,119 time. We're the house where like Sadie and Xander's her friends come over a 674 00:46:12,119 --> 00:46:15,239 lot, and we used to be that kind of a hub. But her 675 00:46:15,239 --> 00:46:17,400 friend Ava was the one that, like when they went out somewhere, they 676 00:46:17,480 --> 00:46:22,400 all crashed at Ava's house. She was an only child, and parents are 677 00:46:22,519 --> 00:46:27,480 cool and friends of mine, so they'd all like they had places for them 678 00:46:27,519 --> 00:46:30,519 to like crash on the couch and whatever. So but that was kind of 679 00:46:30,559 --> 00:46:35,800 earlier high school, I would say, up to like maybe even halfway. 680 00:46:36,239 --> 00:46:38,440 I would say, that kind of stopped when she got a job, right, 681 00:46:38,599 --> 00:46:43,519 they didn't hang out as much in that group, so then she would 682 00:46:43,559 --> 00:46:45,559 be at home. But then once she had a serious boyfriend, and then 683 00:46:45,639 --> 00:46:52,079 she'd sometimes be at his house. And so now it's been a long time 684 00:46:52,119 --> 00:46:57,760 since she was like every night at home. There's something like nice about that 685 00:46:57,760 --> 00:47:00,880 that my friends are all like missing their kids at college, and I'm like, 686 00:47:00,920 --> 00:47:02,280 whoop, I don't know. I don't know what that's like. That's 687 00:47:02,400 --> 00:47:07,440 nice home. Yeah, and I get to take well, old is gonna 688 00:47:07,480 --> 00:47:12,480 be gone. She's gonna be her daughter's you know, getting induced as speak. 689 00:47:12,639 --> 00:47:16,079 Oh now like right now, oh Friday. Yeah, so she's uh, 690 00:47:16,119 --> 00:47:19,920 I think the baby I'll be here by the time this airs for sure. 691 00:47:20,519 --> 00:47:23,679 Wow. Okay, So she's gonna be gone, and so I'll be 692 00:47:23,840 --> 00:47:28,519 hopefully over at you know, with Natalia Moore and driving her to you know, 693 00:47:29,000 --> 00:47:31,440 to work and back and all that stuff. And then she gets her 694 00:47:31,440 --> 00:47:37,719 license in October. Yeah, she's taking her classes very soon. Yeah yeah, 695 00:47:37,880 --> 00:47:44,960 so all right, Yeah, should we do some shit shouts? Yeah, 696 00:47:45,000 --> 00:47:49,519 shout some people out. We got The Family Skeptical. It's a podcast 697 00:47:49,599 --> 00:47:54,079 about raising your kids without religion. You know, if you're any stripe of 698 00:47:54,119 --> 00:47:59,960 nonbeliever, you're welcome listening to their podcast. You know, find your people, 699 00:48:00,400 --> 00:48:02,760 find other people that are not raising their kids in a religious home and 700 00:48:02,880 --> 00:48:08,039 feel normal about it. So The Family Skeptical. Also, Kelly has Willman 701 00:48:08,159 --> 00:48:15,199 Frieda saw a post on Facebook from some podcast listeners that went there and asked 702 00:48:15,239 --> 00:48:19,199 for their free mimosa. Nice. I love that they were at Wilman Frieda 703 00:48:19,280 --> 00:48:22,320 this week. Love to hear that. Love that place. They have the 704 00:48:22,360 --> 00:48:25,679 best food. I'm my mouth is watering thinking about that salmon right now. 705 00:48:25,719 --> 00:48:29,440 I need to we need to go back there and have analie do. That 706 00:48:29,440 --> 00:48:34,360 would be fun. Yeah all right. So and then also as always every 707 00:48:34,360 --> 00:48:37,760 week, Adam Lerner, he's a car broker. Give him a call or 708 00:48:37,800 --> 00:48:42,800 a text at three one zero nine nine eight seven zero four eight and just 709 00:48:42,880 --> 00:48:45,159 ask him a question. If you have if your lease is time to return 710 00:48:45,199 --> 00:48:47,480 your lease? And you're like, I need to get a better deal. 711 00:48:49,239 --> 00:48:54,199 Ask does all the research for you and can figure out what cars right now 712 00:48:54,239 --> 00:48:58,920 are offering the best deals on leases, or help you track down a used 713 00:48:58,960 --> 00:49:01,119 car, whatever you need. It's great. Yeah, good service. All 714 00:49:01,199 --> 00:49:06,960 right, Okay, thanks everybody, Yeah, thank you. You're apparent. 715 00:49:07,039 --> 00:49:13,480 Now, don't open up, letting go.