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In an extremely stark view on end
of life autonomy, actor Kevin James argues

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that only God should determine one of
the person's life ends. Criticize some by

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his anti choice stance, James's position
challenges evolving norms in the society that increasingly

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values individual decision making and end of
life matters. The complexities of life support,

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the concept of quality of life,
and compassionate choices all seem absent to

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James. However, in a world
where divine intervention remains unseen, the practicality

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of james reactionary position seems outdated and
dangerous. The stories from lifeenews dot Com

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by Terry Schivo Life and Hope Network
on January twenty fifth, twenty twenty four.

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Oh, I, you know,
I really thought that the whole Terry

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Schibo story had been buried a long
long ago, and I thought it was

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really, really weird that we would
have, like a celebrity today kind of

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commenting on a story that was resolved
literally twenty years ago. It's just really

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weird. I'm not sure that anybody
even remembers what the Terry Schivo case was

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about. So I had a little
quick rundown over here I was going to

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do for everybody. Terry Schivro had
a heart attack at the age of twenty

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six. She was clinically dead for
actually quite a while, and as a

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result, she lost oxygen to the
brain, resulting in massive damage and she

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went into a permanent vegetative state for
the next two years. Doctors did everything

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they could for her, but they
diagnosed that she would never ever come back

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out of the state that she was
in. So after two years of literally

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doing everything in this guy that her
husband, her husband did everything he could

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for her, and he made the
decision to pull her feeding to since it

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was up to him he was the
next of kin. Her parents took him

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to court, got to stay,
and then a long legal battle ensued.

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Eventually the husband won. He pulled
the feeding tube. But then wait,

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Governor Jeb Bush steps in and he
puts a stay on it, and he

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saves her. And then when he
loses in court, his brother, the

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President, George W stepped in and
put a state to it. In the

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end, this whole three during circus
went through fourteen appeals, numerous legal motions,

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petitions, hearings in the Florida courts, five suits in federal district courts,

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extensive political intervention at the levels of
Florida state legislator through the governor,

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US Congress, President George Bush,
and four denials from the Supreme Court of

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the United States. That's how important
or crazily crazily important this case was.

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Back in its day. The GOP
took it up as a big cause.

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They even had a political scandal over
it from a memo that one of theirs,

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I don't remember if it was a
representative or a senator, one of

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his memos was made public saying that
they needed to milk this incident as much

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much as they could to get votes
for their side by championing her cause.

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In the end, the husband did
win. They pulled their feeding tube.

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She did pass away. They did
an autopsy and she only had like half

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of her brain left. The rest
of it had been replaced by fluid,

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and she never was going to come
out of it. And if you read

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this article, it makes it sound
like she actually had a chance of being

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a normal person again, and that
just it just wasn't going to happen,

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unfortunately, and Harry, what was
really sad about her case is the way

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that like the goop milk did to
get votes, and I feel like a

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lot of people took advantage of her, took advantage of her death. It

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was really really sad. So Phoebe
do you want to add to non life

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kind of ran down the story.
What do you think I mean? I

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was quite young at the time this. I was eleven years old in this

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painte and I remember it was on
British news as it's kind of like an

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only in America story. I remember
the ITV news correspondent Robert Moore going,

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only in America, would you see
on like a Saturday night, Sunday morning

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legislation pointing at one person, one
person, literally one person, they can't

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damilication. The Congress was in recess
and it was called back. It was

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like an augan. It was like
the middle of August or something. I

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don't remember exactly when it was,
but I always remember the line Robert morseid

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and today the President of America did
one thing that no other president has ever

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done, signed a bill specifically for
one person only in America. Would this

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kind of thing he forer when religious
conservatism meets medical ethics. I don't understand

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why this case ended up doing what
it did because it's a clear violation of

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the separation of powers doctrine because it's
the judiciary being overruled by the legislature then

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being overruled by the executive, which
is the separation of powers is you to

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begin with. But then I don't
actually understand why they were getting involved in

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the first place. I just don't
understand it. This, this, this

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whole story was full of things where
I just I don't understand this part of

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it. And then I read this
article about somebody I've never heard of speaking

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on a podcast and an organization I've
never heard of about a case I've forgotten

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about. So why is this even
news? Why is some celebrity quote unquote

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talking about a case that's been ancient
history for a long time. I don't

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get it. But the article itself
is gratuitous, The article itself is misleading,

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and the article itself diminishes the legitimate
argument that if you take out God,

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what do you have here at the
end of the day. The argument

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if you strip away God is does
another person have a right to ask another

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person kill me? Well, I
guess I'll start off by addressing Kevin James.

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I mean, the celebrity I love
the people use their platform to help

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other people in need. Like that, let's full stop right there. I

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love seeing that. It's refreshing and
there. Now that I've said something positive,

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let's get to the bullshit. So
before I get more into what Kevin

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was saying, let's talk about Bobby
Schindler, the guy who was pretty much

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organizing all this stuff. He's pretty
much the actual subject of the article.

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So when Bobby's statement, he says, it's refreshing to hear someone in Hollywood

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speak on behalf of our medically defenseless. So far we are in agreeance.

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And then he says, especially in
this pro death culture, let me stop

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you right there, Bob? Can
I call you Bob? These people are

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so they are so freaking unbearable.
Why insert that into this conversation? Like,

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can we have a single discussion about
anything without somebody calling attention to their

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made up culture that they're crusading against. Cancel culture, woke culture, death

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culture, which I've never heard of
before I read this article. Just why

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aren't you death positive? Aren't you? You know? I am culture movement

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that I'm thinking of inside? Isn't
that what we do here? All four

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of us? Culture? So Bobby
continues, it is encouraging that in this

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canceled culture buzzword, a well respected
celebrity with an enormous fan base dares to

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speak the truth and that it should
only be our divine creator who decides when

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a person's life ends. So for
anybody that couldn't tell, Phoebeu hinted at

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this. The news site is called
Life News. It's a right leaning conservative

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outlet, rated by media bias,
fact checked as a questionable source. Shock.

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I'm not surprised that there's no pushback
for any of these statements made in

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the article, but that's why we're
here. I, for one, don't

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want God or God's involved in my
medical care. God doesn't decide when I

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die, because the figment of my
doctor's imagination shouldn't play a role in how

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I'm treated. And I strongly encourage
people to talk to your family. Let

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it be known how you wish for
your body, your remains, what remains

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of you when you're partially here.
Let them know how you wish to be

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treated in the case of an emergency. And if I'm being kept alive for

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like like a while, medical professionals
don't see me coming back and I'm a

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strain on my loved ones. Let
me go, don't get it twisted.

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If I'm not a burden, give
me a fight chance. Well, please

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don't leave any of it to the
sky wizard, because I mean, even

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as far as their beliefs go,
he put me in the hospital to begin

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with. So I'll say good on
Paul Blart for using this platform to fight

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for people in need, but both
his motivation and his execution can use a

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lot of work. And for deal
what you got. I have no doubt

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that Kevin James is sincere when he's
taking this position now, so unfortunate.

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Sincerity doesn't get you very far in
the real world when it comes down to

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sincerity meeting reality. The truth is
he's a good Catholic, and the Catholic's

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position on suicide in general is quite
specific, and one reason is the elephant

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in the room that nobody wants to
talk about. They follow Jesus, and

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Jesus died by suicide by com I
mean, really, when it gets down

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to it, he made that choice. He made the decision to do that.

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So when you're supporting a messiah who
made a choice, and we look

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back and there are people in history
who have chosen to die for whatever reasons

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they believe to martyr themselves. Suicide
was really not that big of a deal

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in a lot of their minds until
about the third or fourth century. Now,

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having said that, I have a
very strong position, and I agree

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with something Blatant said, and that
is I want a society that protects those

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that can't protect themselves and the people
are sick and in harm. I believe

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that we need to do things as
a society for their betterment, universal health

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care anyone. Oh wait, I
doubt that's not what they're talking about.

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But we're not talking about the terry. Shibo is a perfect example of someone

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who was being watched after by her
husband. There is a line of choices

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of who gets to control if there's
no you know, there's no living will

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there now? I spent close to
two years planning to die, and it's

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a very serious thing for the family
and for the For someone to think that

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they can take away because he's looking
at this is that it's God's right where

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you know, he has every right. Mister James, you have every right

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in the world to have your family
bring you to the bitter end. If

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that's what you want, but don't
take away my right and the rights of

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other people to make a different decision
than you. This goes back once again

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to a religious view being not enough
that I can or can't do something,

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but that you can't either. And
that is where Kevin James needs to wake

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up and realize that maybe he's better
off in sitcoms and you know, Comedy

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Hour and uh, maybe a podcast, not making life and death decisions for

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other people who've thought about and made
those decisions their own. To me,

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this is just in somebody else trying
to get some publicity, making some popularity

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by dragging something up, because you
know, they're they're they're losing on the

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pro life end and I think they're
just trying to shift things a little bit

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to death with dignity at this point. Kelly, Yeah. And I think

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they're using James here. As you
know, he's a good Christian, he's

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a celebrity, so what he has
to say about right to life has got

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to be good, right, And
it's like me saying, you know,

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Daniel Rancliffe, he's an atheist man. He was great as a boy wizard,

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so he should know everything about right
to life, and that that's just

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a ridiculous idea, you know,
especially on that tray. Will you get

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back on that, especially when you're
talking about a case that's it's like literally

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twenty years old, you know.
And I think it goes to show that

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it's even mentioned in this story about
having a living will and making sure that

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you have one, Phoebe, you
would probably be in a unique position of

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all of us to talk about something
like that. And what do you think

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about where's the panel think about the
importance of having a legal living will?

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And maybe Phoebe, you can illuminate
us a little bit more around that depends

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what you mean by living will,
and there's no such legal term as living

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will. It's called an advanced directive, right, right, right, You're

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absolutely right. It's my bad.
So an advanced directive is what you set

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out that will happen to you in
certain cases of either catastrophic injury, terminal

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illness, or other similar incurable conditions
that occur to you. This can be

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that you want treatment to continue forever
until you die, or it can be

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no treatment full stop, or it
can be a halfway house. You can

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in these advanced directives say I agree
in advance to take part in experimental medical

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experimentation. If there is a possibility
of the improvement of my life. You

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can also say that I refuse all
medical treatments that are experimental. So it

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depends upon what you want. Everybody, in my opinion, should be quote

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death positive, not as in your
pro death. But you should not be

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a death Do not be afraid to
talk to your loved ones about death to

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one of two things that are certain
in this world, the other one being

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taxes. Can't remember who I'm misquoting
there, But there are three things in

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my opinion, that you should have. You should have a will, should

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have an advanced directive, and you
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they are stored, whether that be
with your attorney, that be in the

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family safe, whether that be under
your pillow. Make sure your loved ones

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know where it is, make sure
you know where it is, and make

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sure you update it on a regular
basis. You want to be an organ

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donor and your family don't know about
it, and your organs go to put

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they can be useless. Me personally, my spinal column and my brain.

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I have set up to have that
donated. My wife she knows about that,

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and I do even though I'm not
that old. Do have an advanced

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directive in case I have a car
crash or a crash my motorcycle. My

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wife said, you're mad having a
motorcycle. I said, yeah, but

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I live once. But I don't
want to live that life in a position

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where I'm unable to function in a
way that is of any useful benefit to

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myself. That's just me, But
me personally, I can't stomach this is

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just me personally asking someone else to
kill me. I can't personally do that.

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If you can, that's up to
you. But I could never put

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a doctor in a position to say, please euthanize me. I could never

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do that. But that's just me. Other people are happy, and medical

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professionals are happy to take on that
position. But me, personally, my

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own own internal compasses, I cannot
ask anyone else to kill me. I

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can refuse treatment, yes, and
I can die, but I can't have

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someone else take my life. I
can't put someone in that position. It's

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not a religious thing. It's I
could not ask anybody else please kill me.

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That's just my position. That'd be
hard for me too, blaytant.

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I just want to help you out
with your quote earlier. I don't know

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who originally said it. I know
it's a Marvin Gay song where he says

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there's three things that are for sure, and Texas death and trouble, those

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days are going to come. I'll
let take credit for it. He deserves

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it. So, speaking about advanced
directives, I was actually a medical assistant

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working in the er a few years
ago. We had an elderly patient who

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was he was crashing and as he
was going, I was called up to

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apply CPR. We had our team
in there, We're doing all this stuff,

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and as I'm pushing, someone comes
in and says, hey, have

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you got read his advanced directive?
His daughter, who cares for him,

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only living family he has, has
already stated that we're not supposed to be

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sustaining when he goes. He goes. So imagine me pushing on this man's

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chest and just looking him in his
eyes and realizing that, okay, I

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have to stop. I can't do
anything here. That was his right,

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that was the right of his family. It wasn't my right to say,

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oh no, I'm saving him.
I'm already here, I'm doing this.

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I'm I can't let this man go. I'm looking at him right, and

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I can't let him go. This
is my this is my responsibility. No,

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in that field, in other people's
lives, they have the right to

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make that choice. And he had
made that choice. So I had to

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take my hands off and step back
and watches this man took his less breath.

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That still sticks with me to this
day. So I cannot imagine what

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it would feel like to be that
family member hearing that. The executive branch,

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the legislative branch, Congress, all
these people are coming in to say,

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oh no, he's gonna live.
That would be insane. So like

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at that level, that's crazy.
If I can take my hands off this

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man and watch what is Congress doing
from a from a billion miles away?

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What are they doing? What the
president doing? What they do and you're

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campaigning on it, that's I'm just
gonna say, that's disgusting, and I'm

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going to pass it off to him
for do quick word. Yeah, they're

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they're they're politicizing this. And then
once again that's what we're hearing. And

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you know, you mentioned Kelly that
the husband finally won and they were able

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to And the truth is is,
I don't think he won either. I

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mean, he prevailed and what he
thought was right, and everyone lost.

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And unfortunately, even now, you
know, a decade later, we're still

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seeing this family willfully, unfortunately be
used as a as a pawn. And

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that's the most unfortunate thing is that
we still haven't been able to let it

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go. And one last thing,
I know we're running short here, but

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Phoebe, I'm with you. When
it's time for me to make that decision,

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it's time for me to do it, not have someone else to do

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it. But I also understand that
I'm glad that's available for those of us

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who aren't willing or aren't able to
make that decision. That's once again not

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my choice or not Kevin James's choice
to make. My opinion, any person

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who is a legal majority should sit
down. Even if you're like eighteen and

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you never think it's going to happen
to you, you should sit down and

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you should go hang on it.
What if I am hit by a bus?

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You never want to think about it, but do you really want to

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be spending fifty sixty years in a
coma. There was a gentleman in the

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UK who set a record. He
had a motorbike accident at the age of

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twenty two. He died, never
regaining consciousness. At the age of ninety

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seven, spent fifty five years in
a coma. It condemned come to any

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of us. There's a lot of
things to think about, and a lot

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of people have a lot of different
opinions, and we want to hear some

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of yours, So put him in
them as below,