1 00:00:00,640 --> 00:00:15,880 Made a decision A face sunny sue on. I hadasion nice wet Hi. 2 00:00:15,919 --> 00:00:21,199 Everybody, welcome to for crying out loud. I know that you probably don't 3 00:00:21,239 --> 00:00:25,039 recognize this voice. This is weird. I understand. Take a moment. 4 00:00:25,600 --> 00:00:30,359 It's me Stephanie, and I'm here with Kaylin Hi. We were here with 5 00:00:30,480 --> 00:00:36,640 Lynette for five minutes, I mean, not enough time for the show to 6 00:00:36,679 --> 00:00:40,840 actually start. I'm sure she'll listen to this back between bouts of puking. 7 00:00:42,560 --> 00:00:47,399 She just wasn't feeling well. But we have a show to do, you 8 00:00:47,439 --> 00:00:51,159 know, the show must go on. Yeah. Apparently Sonny had a stomach 9 00:00:51,200 --> 00:00:55,159 flu over the weekend and so she came in just looking like she was about 10 00:00:55,159 --> 00:00:58,719 to vomit. I think she was. She looked really ready to vomit when 11 00:00:58,719 --> 00:01:00,399 she walked in and like, oh, let's get through one show. And 12 00:01:00,479 --> 00:01:03,079 she sat down and I think she did one of those all right, why 13 00:01:03,079 --> 00:01:07,159 don't you go Why don't you go home? And Stephanie will take it over. 14 00:01:07,359 --> 00:01:11,879 As I walked through the gate, I saw her kind of like stooped 15 00:01:11,920 --> 00:01:15,480 over. You know when somebody looks like they're they're having a bad phone call. 16 00:01:15,280 --> 00:01:18,959 Like I was like, oh, she she looked like she kind of 17 00:01:19,000 --> 00:01:22,799 like hunched over a little bit, like she was receiving some bad news via 18 00:01:22,879 --> 00:01:26,480 the telephone. Yeah. But as I got closer, I was like, 19 00:01:26,519 --> 00:01:30,640 what what are you doing? She was like, oh, Sonny, Sonny 20 00:01:30,719 --> 00:01:34,840 has the stomach flu or had the stomach flu. And I was like, 21 00:01:34,000 --> 00:01:38,560 uh huh like it in my mind, I'm like, okay, so is 22 00:01:38,599 --> 00:01:44,400 he wanting her to go back home? Because we all love it. Yeah, 23 00:01:44,400 --> 00:01:46,200 when she walked in, oh, Sonny. Second, I went, 24 00:01:46,239 --> 00:01:49,480 oh, so you gotta got to go take care of Sonny. Yeah, 25 00:01:49,519 --> 00:01:53,560 no, No. Then she was like, and I'm starting to not feel 26 00:01:53,599 --> 00:01:57,680 well, and oh boy, yeah, Lynette. Let me say this about 27 00:01:57,719 --> 00:02:04,599 Lynette. Lynette Corolla hard worker. Probably doesn't have to be, but she 28 00:02:04,959 --> 00:02:09,039 is very I mean, you know, I I have to I do other 29 00:02:09,159 --> 00:02:15,719 projects here and there. And I will say that Lynette most consistent shows up 30 00:02:15,759 --> 00:02:19,439 every day every time. Yeah. Uh, maybe not on time, but 31 00:02:19,479 --> 00:02:23,199 like most time time close enough, yeah, but very consistent, Like it's 32 00:02:23,360 --> 00:02:28,719 very unusual. She's She's not a person who is like I don't feel well, 33 00:02:28,800 --> 00:02:30,319 I want to go home. Yeah. And when you're in podcasting, 34 00:02:30,360 --> 00:02:34,080 I'm sure you've run into a lot of those people that are I can't do 35 00:02:34,159 --> 00:02:38,199 it today. I don't know about today. It's like no, it's you 36 00:02:38,199 --> 00:02:42,319 know, people get very Yeah that's the thing about podcasting. They just go 37 00:02:42,439 --> 00:02:44,919 it'll be you know, it's so kind of relaxed and the schedules are so 38 00:02:44,960 --> 00:02:46,879 all over the place anyway that a lot of times people just make excuses for 39 00:02:47,400 --> 00:02:50,840 not wanting to do their episode. Oh we won't do it this weekend. 40 00:02:51,039 --> 00:02:53,919 That's not Lynette. She's always coming in. And yeah, the people that 41 00:02:53,960 --> 00:02:58,560 do make those kinds of excuses, they tend their podcast attends to fall off 42 00:02:58,599 --> 00:03:01,360 after a little while. Yeah, it is a job, you know. 43 00:03:01,599 --> 00:03:06,439 Yeah, although we get paid to just sit around and like chit chat, 44 00:03:06,680 --> 00:03:08,759 which is fun. Well, you actually have a harder job. I get 45 00:03:08,759 --> 00:03:14,919 paid to just you know, share about life. But it is still a 46 00:03:15,039 --> 00:03:20,759 job, and people have expectations of their product coming out on a consistent basis. 47 00:03:21,120 --> 00:03:24,840 There's nothing that annoys me more than if I like a podcast and set 48 00:03:24,919 --> 00:03:30,280 they you know, once every few weeks they do an episode and then more 49 00:03:30,319 --> 00:03:31,840 weeks go back and you're like, well is this still a podcast? Like 50 00:03:31,840 --> 00:03:37,960 what happened? And there's no reason, Like I like my podcast to come 51 00:03:38,000 --> 00:03:44,080 out around the same time every week, so that I have an expectation that 52 00:03:44,120 --> 00:03:46,319 I'm looking forward to it and I want to listen to it. Consistency is 53 00:03:46,400 --> 00:03:52,639 very important in podcasting, and when you're not, the audience will get very 54 00:03:52,840 --> 00:03:55,039 irritated. Rightfully, so like you're you know, you get up, you're 55 00:03:55,080 --> 00:04:00,319 doing whatever you do while you listen to podcasts working out, driving, work, 56 00:04:00,360 --> 00:04:02,280 and then your favorite podcast is not posted when it's normally posts on what 57 00:04:02,319 --> 00:04:08,039 the fuck what's going on here? It's very irritating. I have that sometimes 58 00:04:08,039 --> 00:04:12,840 with this podcast. I listened to Crime Junkie, Court Junkie, not Crime 59 00:04:12,919 --> 00:04:15,759 Junkie Court Junkie. We had her on our show. Jillian is the host 60 00:04:15,759 --> 00:04:18,639 of it. We had her on our show a long time ago, and 61 00:04:18,720 --> 00:04:24,680 she's had a bunch of stuff. She she's very consistent. I really like 62 00:04:24,759 --> 00:04:30,279 the podcast, but she was pregnant and then like stuff was going on, 63 00:04:30,319 --> 00:04:32,480 and then you know whatever, you know, she had a baby or whatever, 64 00:04:32,600 --> 00:04:36,519 no big deal, but some of the episodes weren't really coming out that 65 00:04:36,600 --> 00:04:42,199 often, and then what kind of bugs me it's funny is uh so she 66 00:04:42,360 --> 00:04:47,120 started she has another podcast called, uh It's Not Court Junkie. It's called 67 00:04:47,160 --> 00:04:53,639 Civil and it's about civil cases, which I really like because it's I don't 68 00:04:54,360 --> 00:04:58,959 I don't like love the murder stuff as much anymore. Really, Yeah, 69 00:04:59,000 --> 00:05:02,920 it's just it's gets tiresome. I don't just hearing about people getting murdered. 70 00:05:03,480 --> 00:05:06,680 But I like this psychological aspect of it, you know. I like hearing 71 00:05:06,720 --> 00:05:12,399 about like how they found the person. And I love hearing about the trial, 72 00:05:12,439 --> 00:05:15,199 which is why I like Court Junkie, but that also has a lot 73 00:05:15,240 --> 00:05:20,000 of the murder itself in it. But Civil is like talking about the Bill 74 00:05:20,040 --> 00:05:26,519 Cosby case or talking about like a I don't know, the McDonald's hot Coffee 75 00:05:26,519 --> 00:05:29,720 case, or things that are really interesting to me. But anyway, she 76 00:05:29,920 --> 00:05:33,079 was pushing that podcast really hard on her main podcast, like you gotta listen 77 00:05:33,079 --> 00:05:36,199 to Civil. If you like this podcast, you'll love Civil, and I 78 00:05:36,279 --> 00:05:40,480 was like, yeah, I do. I definitely love Civil. I'm signed 79 00:05:40,519 --> 00:05:44,079 up. I've listened to all the episodes. But then it just stopped posting 80 00:05:44,519 --> 00:05:49,399 May in May. Any explanation December, No, never has there been an 81 00:05:49,399 --> 00:05:54,160 explanation. No social media you follow her on Instagram and stuff, any kind 82 00:05:54,199 --> 00:05:58,399 of like still promoting the show. Oh if you listen to Court Junkie, 83 00:05:58,399 --> 00:06:00,399 there's still a Hey, if you like this, go check out civil It's 84 00:06:00,399 --> 00:06:05,720 like we have and we're waiting for an episode. If you go on Reddit, 85 00:06:06,160 --> 00:06:10,319 you'll see sometimes they'll be like what happened to Sylvil? Like why are 86 00:06:10,319 --> 00:06:13,759 we still being told to go follow it? When because, by the way, 87 00:06:13,759 --> 00:06:17,839 they were only like eight episodes. It's not like it's like there were 88 00:06:17,920 --> 00:06:21,079 it's not like it went on for you know, fifty episodes and there's a 89 00:06:21,079 --> 00:06:25,040 whole back catalog and that's you know, go listen to the No, it 90 00:06:25,120 --> 00:06:29,720 was like eight episodes and then then nothing, no explanation, nope. Huh 91 00:06:29,920 --> 00:06:32,680 yeah, well that's that's very frustrating, very fast. Yeah. Yeah. 92 00:06:32,720 --> 00:06:38,240 By the way, uh, here's some people that probably do get excited to 93 00:06:38,279 --> 00:06:41,240 hear a new episode of our show every week, and that's our people that 94 00:06:41,759 --> 00:06:46,800 pay twenty five dollars on Patreon like share Bear, Hi, Share Bear and 95 00:06:46,879 --> 00:06:51,240 Amy She's a Hunt but we love her? And Katie E. E. 96 00:06:51,480 --> 00:06:56,959 Murphy and not Anna Ferris and Aaron who dies? And Nikki Call Your Girls 97 00:06:57,439 --> 00:07:02,079 and Leslie still costing people this time outside of May Company, which doesn't even 98 00:07:02,079 --> 00:07:06,160 exist anymore. So that's what's weird, Leslie find a department store that's still 99 00:07:06,199 --> 00:07:09,600 open. Had to google what that was the first time you said it, 100 00:07:10,480 --> 00:07:13,959 even know what that is. It's very old school. And Jacob is so 101 00:07:14,040 --> 00:07:17,319 growley, and Rita Rocks Elizabeth Williamson's kids in her basinette even though it's kind 102 00:07:17,319 --> 00:07:21,040 of crowded in there. Athena Ginard, we love you, Polly, we 103 00:07:21,079 --> 00:07:25,240 love your pancakes. Valerie, Bubba Fenwick, Katerine to check your moler, 104 00:07:25,600 --> 00:07:29,720 Gabby and Missy up to no good as always, e Shan Vashpey, He's 105 00:07:29,759 --> 00:07:33,079 hot, Rebecca a little Bita's so cute and just moved to Hawaii. And 106 00:07:33,199 --> 00:07:38,839 Kelly Brandt is not your aunt, Alicia Escavante, Leslie's stop coughing, Sarah 107 00:07:38,839 --> 00:07:44,279 Stefano, she's our Paisano, Aaron Dirty Sanchez, Jennifer get up, Sandra, 108 00:07:44,319 --> 00:07:46,120 it's not easy being green. Christa, you make us want a droop. 109 00:07:46,439 --> 00:07:50,759 And Stephanie Stinker Rinker. And also I want to say thank you so 110 00:07:51,040 --> 00:07:59,680 much to everybody who kicked in some cash so that I could make we could 111 00:07:59,720 --> 00:08:05,279 all make, but I was the face of it. Anna, who is 112 00:08:05,279 --> 00:08:11,000 the mom of Lyle, Lyle crocodile. And let's just call Lyle's younger sister, 113 00:08:11,160 --> 00:08:16,120 let's call her Lola. Lyle and Lola. Yeah, she's a seventh 114 00:08:16,160 --> 00:08:20,000 grader and oh my god, they're just the best kids. And I was 115 00:08:20,079 --> 00:08:24,800 able to give Anna over two thousand dollars. Wow, yeah, that's great. 116 00:08:26,160 --> 00:08:31,840 And she told me that she'd recently lost her ATM card so and she 117 00:08:33,039 --> 00:08:35,440 was waiting for the replacement to come in the mail. And she went two 118 00:08:35,480 --> 00:08:39,279 weeks without being able to go to the grocery store, she told me, 119 00:08:39,320 --> 00:08:46,200 which is like so sad. This is really this money couldn't have gone to 120 00:08:46,399 --> 00:08:50,720 a more I think just deserving person works her butt off, is always working, 121 00:08:52,200 --> 00:08:54,679 but you know, makes minimum wage. Yeah, it really sucks. 122 00:08:54,960 --> 00:09:01,679 But she was so grateful and she was like she doesn't understand what I do 123 00:09:01,240 --> 00:09:05,759 or who people are, but she understands that there's a community of people who 124 00:09:07,080 --> 00:09:11,120 know her story and care about her. And she was like tearing up and 125 00:09:11,200 --> 00:09:13,559 just saying, please tell them I'm so grateful. And I was like, 126 00:09:13,639 --> 00:09:18,000 I will. That's great, that's wonderful. It makes me so happy that 127 00:09:18,440 --> 00:09:24,720 so Lyle is still Xander's BFF. And I think I told you this on 128 00:09:24,759 --> 00:09:31,240 a previous show. But we brought Lyle over to Xander's school because he plays 129 00:09:31,279 --> 00:09:35,559 guitar and he's really good, and the kid has just been through so much. 130 00:09:35,919 --> 00:09:41,399 But like he's a very serious kid. Although Xander says that he's funny 131 00:09:41,600 --> 00:09:48,279 and fun yeah, but he has a he's very serious and focused and he's 132 00:09:48,320 --> 00:09:52,799 a really good guitar player. And he was at the big local public school 133 00:09:54,080 --> 00:09:58,240 where they had a and one of the things he why reasons he wanted to 134 00:09:58,279 --> 00:10:01,960 go to that school was because they had a guitar class. But he went 135 00:10:03,000 --> 00:10:05,720 to that guitar class and he told us that it was very boring and it 136 00:10:05,840 --> 00:10:13,240 was just very rote and learning sheet music and scales and you know, and 137 00:10:13,320 --> 00:10:16,000 his technical stuff, technical stuff, and it was just like and then he's 138 00:10:16,000 --> 00:10:20,799 hearing Xander talk about being in a band, and like our music teacher for 139 00:10:20,879 --> 00:10:24,480 the music program, which I'll talk more about in a few minutes, but 140 00:10:26,519 --> 00:10:31,200 is just a really cool young guy who's like an amazing guitar player, and 141 00:10:31,320 --> 00:10:37,799 he's just full of energy and life and creativity and he's always trying to come 142 00:10:37,879 --> 00:10:41,639 up with new ways to teach the kids music. And but he has separated 143 00:10:41,679 --> 00:10:46,240 them all he has two full classes of kids that make up this program and 144 00:10:46,279 --> 00:10:50,320 he's separated them all into bands. So Sadie's in a band, Xander's in 145 00:10:50,360 --> 00:10:56,159 a band, and anyway, this kid was just hearing Xander talk about how 146 00:10:56,159 --> 00:11:03,159 fun this was and doing these performances and anyway, so Anna brought Lilee Crocodile 147 00:11:03,600 --> 00:11:09,799 over to our school. It was a last minute decision. She had to 148 00:11:09,799 --> 00:11:13,679 go get all his paperwork and he missed the first day of school. But 149 00:11:13,799 --> 00:11:18,240 now he's there and he's so happy and he's you know, and Xander's so 150 00:11:18,279 --> 00:11:22,360 happy to have him. And it was really sweet because he's in the meat. 151 00:11:22,519 --> 00:11:26,039 We got him into music lab. Yeah, and so he was he's 152 00:11:26,080 --> 00:11:28,240 in a band. So Xander's in a band, Sadie's in a band, 153 00:11:28,279 --> 00:11:31,200 and Lilee Crocodile is in a band. So we had our big show on 154 00:11:31,279 --> 00:11:37,559 Saturday and it was just so fun. And for Anna, that's where I 155 00:11:37,600 --> 00:11:41,639 gave her the money to watch her Like she gets to watch her son doing 156 00:11:41,720 --> 00:11:46,600 something he loves and he kicks ass. He's like a really good guitar player. 157 00:11:46,639 --> 00:11:50,279 He had his solos in his songs and he just see his face, 158 00:11:52,120 --> 00:11:56,720 he just looks so focused and serious, but like a rocker he's doing a 159 00:11:56,720 --> 00:11:58,639 little bit of and not on purpose, but he was doing a little blue 160 00:11:58,639 --> 00:12:03,919 steal like he had a little of that like rocker face, like loose deal, 161 00:12:03,399 --> 00:12:07,799 you know, like like conduct lips a little bit, but not on 162 00:12:07,840 --> 00:12:11,120 purpose. But it just looks so freaking cool. Yeah, yeah, it's 163 00:12:11,240 --> 00:12:15,159 very nice. Why don't they all just form a band together. I mean, 164 00:12:15,200 --> 00:12:18,279 they might need to find a drummer, but then yeah, they should 165 00:12:18,320 --> 00:12:20,399 all just do a band together. I know, you know there are some 166 00:12:20,440 --> 00:12:28,679 of these kids at this school, well Xander sings and Sadie sings. I 167 00:12:28,679 --> 00:12:33,960 don't think Lilly Crocodile sings, but yeah, I mean, or they could 168 00:12:35,000 --> 00:12:37,840 just form a band with some other kids at school. This is a very 169 00:12:37,879 --> 00:12:41,759 talented group of kids. It's it really feels like a performing arts school, 170 00:12:41,279 --> 00:12:46,480 like some kind of New York art school. It's very cool. John and 171 00:12:46,559 --> 00:12:52,080 I were watching the show and we were like, this is very reminiscent of 172 00:12:52,120 --> 00:12:54,799 like old watching episodes of Fame. But you probably never watched that show. 173 00:12:54,840 --> 00:12:58,759 I did not watch that way before your time. That was like high school 174 00:12:58,919 --> 00:13:05,480 for me. Loved that show Fame and Live. It was about a new 175 00:13:05,519 --> 00:13:09,799 York's New York Performing Arts School. Yeah, no, I've never no anyway, 176 00:13:13,039 --> 00:13:16,399 So we should do we should should break for a quick ad. 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I didn't nominate myself. 229 00:17:22,279 --> 00:17:26,839 Let's just say I was. I was asked to be the liaison between 230 00:17:26,839 --> 00:17:33,799 the parents and the music program. Saturday was the big show. So today 231 00:17:33,880 --> 00:17:38,440 is Monday. So this just happened, and I'm still tired, and I 232 00:17:38,519 --> 00:17:42,480 have like a crank in my neck from just like the stress of it all. 233 00:17:44,759 --> 00:17:48,319 But it was the big show. All three of the kids were performing 234 00:17:48,680 --> 00:17:52,880 in separate bands. He separated everybody in bands, like I said, in 235 00:17:52,960 --> 00:17:59,759 each band got to do like a fifteen to twenty minute set and how many 236 00:17:59,799 --> 00:18:03,240 bands were there? There were eight bands. Yeah, you also have to 237 00:18:03,279 --> 00:18:06,480 consider the fact that, you know, it gets started like a little bit 238 00:18:06,559 --> 00:18:14,680 late, and that's set up time in between bands and in each set. 239 00:18:14,799 --> 00:18:19,319 So there was a set of like four bands plus just some free free songs, 240 00:18:19,359 --> 00:18:26,759 like some extra extra songs. Now every extra song requires getting the band 241 00:18:26,799 --> 00:18:30,839 members together, setting up new set of instruments to do one song. Right. 242 00:18:32,079 --> 00:18:36,359 Yeah, the show was over four and a half hours long, Like 243 00:18:36,480 --> 00:18:41,480 it was crawling up on five hours long, painful. It was insanity. 244 00:18:41,880 --> 00:18:47,400 It was insanity. No, nobody want to spend five hours watching their kids 245 00:18:47,440 --> 00:18:52,599 do anything, you know, And for a lot of these parents, they 246 00:18:52,599 --> 00:18:56,079 have one kid that they're there to see their kid, and like that's twenty 247 00:18:56,119 --> 00:19:00,839 minutes out of like an almost five hour show. Yeah, what time was 248 00:19:00,880 --> 00:19:04,000 this at? It started at three o'clock in the afternoon. You're burning your 249 00:19:04,079 --> 00:19:10,680 entire Saturday, yes, yeah, and Saturday night yes yeah, yes, 250 00:19:10,920 --> 00:19:15,359 and Saturday night. Also, because I was helping with it, I had 251 00:19:15,359 --> 00:19:19,039 to be there. I was there at one thirty plus doing stuff for days 252 00:19:19,079 --> 00:19:23,319 beforehand, So I was there from one thirty until I don't know late, 253 00:19:23,400 --> 00:19:26,440 because then I had to clean up afterwards, you know, did you have 254 00:19:26,519 --> 00:19:30,839 other parents helping you too, or are you the last kind of tune into 255 00:19:30,839 --> 00:19:37,119 Patreon kind of kind of yeah. I mean, look, people were there 256 00:19:37,200 --> 00:19:40,039 and they were happy to be there and they were happy to support the school. 257 00:19:40,519 --> 00:19:45,799 But it's too long to have a show, and you know you can 258 00:19:45,880 --> 00:19:48,119 get you you get your like energy yet because you're looking. I don't know 259 00:19:48,160 --> 00:19:51,960 if you do this when the kids are doing something, but like I'm looking 260 00:19:51,960 --> 00:19:53,599 at the program like a hundred times, Like I just keep looking at the 261 00:19:53,640 --> 00:19:59,240 program like is this coming? Because they list the band and their set list 262 00:19:59,559 --> 00:20:03,680 right each band is playing like five songs some of these bands. Yeah, 263 00:20:03,720 --> 00:20:07,279 So like you're looking and you're like, okay, so this band that I'm 264 00:20:08,119 --> 00:20:11,200 no offense but not enjoying very much, you know, some kind of heavy 265 00:20:11,200 --> 00:20:17,039 metal band. Plus you're watching some of the songs were like thrash metal. 266 00:20:17,319 --> 00:20:21,680 And I'm watching, like you know, Joey's like seventy five year old grandma 267 00:20:21,799 --> 00:20:23,880 who came to watch the show, and I'm like, how are these people 268 00:20:23,920 --> 00:20:29,640 holding up if I'm feeling like my ears are getting assaulted right now? You 269 00:20:29,640 --> 00:20:32,160 know, cause some of the bands, You're like, oh, okay, 270 00:20:32,359 --> 00:20:34,519 I like this this oh, this band's playing some soul music. But then 271 00:20:34,559 --> 00:20:37,880 it's like, you know, you're it's not like a concert I would have 272 00:20:37,880 --> 00:20:42,079 gone to that. Yeah, yeah, it's not bands I would have like 273 00:20:42,119 --> 00:20:45,880 paid money to see. But you know, when my kids were up, 274 00:20:47,039 --> 00:20:49,640 it was like fun. But in between that, you're like, Okay, 275 00:20:49,640 --> 00:20:53,440 how many more songs till my till Xander's up. You know, you're like 276 00:20:53,480 --> 00:20:56,759 counting them out in your head, like the one song come yah yeah. 277 00:20:56,759 --> 00:21:00,279 And then I'm like, okay, here's the band because there was like two 278 00:21:00,279 --> 00:21:03,480 bands before Xander, And I'm like, okay, now they're on the third 279 00:21:03,640 --> 00:21:06,599 song of that, so can I go out? Can I go out of 280 00:21:06,640 --> 00:21:11,640 the room? But then nothing's happening outside of the room either because it's people. 281 00:21:11,720 --> 00:21:15,960 It's not a thing. It's not like you're at like a farmer's market 282 00:21:15,000 --> 00:21:18,480 where there's in this place there's bands playing, but you could go walk over 283 00:21:18,480 --> 00:21:22,400 here and get a boba, you know now, but at least there's no 284 00:21:22,480 --> 00:21:26,480 thrash metal playing in your ears if you were to just step outside, That's 285 00:21:26,480 --> 00:21:29,839 what I had to do. I had to do that because I'm getting older 286 00:21:29,920 --> 00:21:34,680 and I don't enjoy thrash metal, and these kids were really into it. 287 00:21:34,720 --> 00:21:38,079 They you know, I felt bad like leaving, but you know, there 288 00:21:38,079 --> 00:21:41,920 are plenty of people. But what I felt bad for was the last band. 289 00:21:42,839 --> 00:21:47,960 Nobody except for the parents of the people in the last band, want 290 00:21:47,960 --> 00:21:52,680 to stay that long. So you got kids that stay and a few parents. 291 00:21:52,079 --> 00:21:56,119 But people are like, wrap it up. Would it have killed them 292 00:21:56,160 --> 00:22:00,440 to just break it off into two separate days, like two different events. 293 00:22:00,519 --> 00:22:03,920 Try and break up the classes and then one Saturday and the next Saturday or 294 00:22:03,960 --> 00:22:07,759 Saturday and the Sunday. I feel like they should have done that. Yeah, 295 00:22:07,920 --> 00:22:12,920 Or my note would have been have all the bands do three songs like 296 00:22:14,000 --> 00:22:18,960 that's plenty sure, because a lot of these kids also were like guesting in 297 00:22:18,039 --> 00:22:22,039 another band, so you know what I mean. It's like you got to 298 00:22:22,039 --> 00:22:26,839 see plenty of each kid. Yeah, yeah, yeah, that's a lot. 299 00:22:26,000 --> 00:22:32,160 It was so much. But you haven't really hit the time of your 300 00:22:32,240 --> 00:22:36,359 life where your kids are going to be full on constantly doing things that you 301 00:22:36,359 --> 00:22:40,200 have to watch because you've just had a taste of it with soccer. Yeah. 302 00:22:40,240 --> 00:22:42,799 I got a taste of it with with soccer when soccer was going and 303 00:22:44,079 --> 00:22:48,839 dance was going. Yeah, I got a little taste of it, and 304 00:22:48,880 --> 00:22:56,119 then it's this week is their Christmas show, their Christmas concert that they all 305 00:22:56,160 --> 00:22:59,960 the kids go to the chapel and all the parents go there and we want 306 00:23:00,119 --> 00:23:03,039 Last year it was fun and I think it only lasted about like a half 307 00:23:03,119 --> 00:23:06,759 hour forty five minutes. They sing two songs and then they're out. And 308 00:23:06,880 --> 00:23:10,359 so that's this Thursday, they're doing that again. Oh that's so cute. 309 00:23:10,400 --> 00:23:14,960 Though. Yeah, it's really cute when they're little, it's it's very cute. 310 00:23:15,039 --> 00:23:18,640 Yeah. But yeah, Island Blake have been very shy lately. Really 311 00:23:18,799 --> 00:23:23,480 yeah. I I a few weeks ago I talked about their their little prayer 312 00:23:23,519 --> 00:23:26,480 thing that they do at dinner time. That's just this cute little thing that 313 00:23:26,519 --> 00:23:30,039 they do every day. And then we tried to refuse to do it Thanksgiving, 314 00:23:30,440 --> 00:23:34,279 would not do it, and for I think it like scarred Blake because 315 00:23:34,319 --> 00:23:37,359 now, for some reason, every time she does it just with us at 316 00:23:37,359 --> 00:23:38,839 the dinner table, she like whispers it really quietly, and I go, 317 00:23:38,880 --> 00:23:42,799 why are you whispering? And she goes out because I want to so ih, 318 00:23:42,799 --> 00:23:48,079 my god. But yeah, and just in general too, I was 319 00:23:48,119 --> 00:23:52,000 at a costco the other day I had to get a new car battery. 320 00:23:52,480 --> 00:23:53,599 I was told by the trip lake I go to Costco. They got the 321 00:23:53,599 --> 00:23:59,240 best battery. So I went to Costco and I brought Blake with me, 322 00:24:00,000 --> 00:24:03,759 and we're waiting in the car battery place in their little automotive section, and 323 00:24:03,039 --> 00:24:07,160 this very nice old guy like you know, they like to talk, Oh 324 00:24:07,200 --> 00:24:10,440 hey, how are you doing, little one, and Blake will just straight 325 00:24:10,519 --> 00:24:14,119 hide behind me. She won't look, she won't do anything. If any 326 00:24:14,240 --> 00:24:15,759 like strangers talk to them when I'm there, or even if they're trying to 327 00:24:15,759 --> 00:24:21,200 be nice, she won't say a word. She'll just hide. So and 328 00:24:21,240 --> 00:24:26,440 this is a new thing. Yeah, yeah, I mean yeah, they 329 00:24:26,880 --> 00:24:30,400 weren't you know, comfortable with strangers talking to them obviously in the past. 330 00:24:30,400 --> 00:24:32,359 But they would, you know, stand there and I'd say, oh, 331 00:24:32,480 --> 00:24:34,359 say hi or thank you, and they'd say, oh, thank you in 332 00:24:34,359 --> 00:24:37,640 they're a little shyway. But now Blake will just straight hide and we'll try 333 00:24:37,680 --> 00:24:42,839 and act like it's not even happening. Interesting And so I don't know, 334 00:24:42,960 --> 00:24:48,160 We're going to see when the concert comes up on Thursday, but uh, 335 00:24:48,519 --> 00:24:52,319 yeah, I don't I wonder if she's going to be out there and energetic 336 00:24:52,359 --> 00:24:55,599 or if she's going to be all shy again like she has been lately. 337 00:24:56,039 --> 00:25:00,400 I remember when Elbie was really little. I think I was talking about this 338 00:25:00,480 --> 00:25:06,000 on the last show, but she was like that for had a big face 339 00:25:06,119 --> 00:25:08,880 like that, the anxious and didn't really want to talk to people. And 340 00:25:08,920 --> 00:25:14,799 her first little dance recital I think she was four. I was very where 341 00:25:14,960 --> 00:25:18,079 I was like, this is never gonna got well, like, she's not 342 00:25:18,160 --> 00:25:21,880 gonna I think she'll refuse to come out and go out on stage. Nope, 343 00:25:21,880 --> 00:25:23,799 she was totally fine, probably the only one out there that even like 344 00:25:23,839 --> 00:25:27,119 knew the like she was fine. She just once she's locked in. She 345 00:25:27,200 --> 00:25:30,279 just went out there did her thing. And I was like, what, 346 00:25:33,319 --> 00:25:36,599 who is that child? So they can surprise you? Yeah, and with 347 00:25:36,839 --> 00:25:40,359 all the other kids there, I'm sure that's going to be very comforting as 348 00:25:40,400 --> 00:25:44,000 opposed to you know, like the Thanksgiving where everyone is just staring at them. 349 00:25:44,480 --> 00:25:48,640 Yeah, be a little intimidating. How is Aila in her last year 350 00:25:48,680 --> 00:25:52,519 of preschool? Yeah? Oh so next year kinder? Yeah, I think 351 00:25:52,559 --> 00:25:56,240 it's kinder. Is a pre k I think it's kinder. And the way 352 00:25:56,319 --> 00:26:00,200 that you know Blake is well, when is she five June, end of 353 00:26:00,279 --> 00:26:04,720 June. Okay, so no, she'll be in kindergarten, in kindergarten, 354 00:26:06,480 --> 00:26:11,839 but it'll be but Blake because she was born in August, she can you 355 00:26:11,839 --> 00:26:12,880 know, move over to pre k, Like, if we find a school 356 00:26:12,920 --> 00:26:17,119 for Isla, she could just skip into pre k and go to Iola. 357 00:26:18,119 --> 00:26:22,400 Yeah, so that'll hopefully be helpful. And yeah, we should probably start 358 00:26:22,400 --> 00:26:27,079 looking looking at schools. Yeah, I mean, you don't have just like 359 00:26:27,279 --> 00:26:34,000 your local neighborhood school. We do. But you know, Amy's a teacher 360 00:26:34,039 --> 00:26:38,160 and she's been hearing not so great things about the local schools. So she's 361 00:26:38,160 --> 00:26:45,359 been asking one of the parents at the soccer games her kids were going to 362 00:26:45,559 --> 00:26:49,319 some like Catholic school, And me and Amy are like, again, you 363 00:26:49,319 --> 00:26:52,359 know, we don't care. We'll put them in a religious neither of us 364 00:26:52,400 --> 00:26:56,559 are religious, but you know, if the school's good, and I think 365 00:26:56,559 --> 00:27:00,400 it's about the same price as we're paying now for you know where they're going, 366 00:27:02,160 --> 00:27:03,359 yeah, we'll send them there. So we've been thinking about just sending 367 00:27:03,400 --> 00:27:07,599 them to like a Catholic school and this one that this girl recommended, seeing 368 00:27:07,640 --> 00:27:11,880 what that's like, yeah, I mean, definitely goes see it and oh 369 00:27:11,960 --> 00:27:17,680 yeah, because some of them are more religious than others. Yeah. I 370 00:27:17,720 --> 00:27:21,920 mean again, we don't care about their religion. But I wouldn't want it 371 00:27:22,000 --> 00:27:23,279 to be too heavy, you know, as long as it's you know, 372 00:27:23,759 --> 00:27:26,480 every now and then whatever. You know, it's kind of cute whenever we 373 00:27:26,559 --> 00:27:30,480 pass, you know, the Christmas decorations and island, like, oh look 374 00:27:30,519 --> 00:27:36,200 it's baby Jesus. Yeah, I know, so Julie case we were you 375 00:27:36,200 --> 00:27:37,920 know, Julie and I were friends when the kids were really really young, 376 00:27:40,039 --> 00:27:44,759 LB and Bella before they were even two, and we went through the whole 377 00:27:44,839 --> 00:27:48,000 like where are we going to send them to? You know, elementary school, 378 00:27:48,119 --> 00:27:53,400 kindergarten, elementary school? And we went to this one school that we 379 00:27:53,480 --> 00:27:57,079 both really liked, but it was a private school. And I was like, 380 00:27:57,200 --> 00:28:00,440 okay, if I pay for this, then I got two more coming 381 00:28:00,519 --> 00:28:03,880 up behind. I can't like pay for one and then go, well you 382 00:28:03,920 --> 00:28:07,240 two or shit out of the Look, you guys can go to the local 383 00:28:07,319 --> 00:28:11,400 school. Not good enough for my LB, but you guys will be fine. 384 00:28:11,480 --> 00:28:17,000 But Julie went. We all ended up sort of scattering my little mom 385 00:28:17,039 --> 00:28:21,119 group and I we were all like it was like every man for himself because 386 00:28:21,519 --> 00:28:23,200 some schools were hard to get into. We were on like waiting lists for 387 00:28:23,319 --> 00:28:30,640 schools. So I got my kids into the what is Valley Charter, which 388 00:28:30,759 --> 00:28:34,240 was like the independent charter school that then I went on to have a love 389 00:28:34,240 --> 00:28:38,599 hate relationship with that. Our audience would be like, go put them in 390 00:28:38,640 --> 00:28:42,079 the regular the public school, and I was like, no, I'm not 391 00:28:42,160 --> 00:28:48,119 going to anyway. But Julie sent her kids to this private school that was 392 00:28:48,160 --> 00:28:53,160 like a Christian school that has a really good reputation, and they lasted like 393 00:28:53,240 --> 00:28:57,960 a few weeks until her daughter started coming home going, mom, what's hell 394 00:28:59,079 --> 00:29:06,079 Fire? There was a kindergarten she was learning about going to Hell, and 395 00:29:06,160 --> 00:29:11,400 Julie was like, oh hell no, puled her out and moved her to 396 00:29:11,799 --> 00:29:15,480 the first school that we'd all gone to see that we liked that private school. 397 00:29:15,920 --> 00:29:18,400 Yeah, that's that would probably be my out as well if they came 398 00:29:18,400 --> 00:29:25,119 home talking about Hell. It was funny because Julie's funny because she so she 399 00:29:25,200 --> 00:29:29,279 had liked this other school that she ended up at, but she got talked 400 00:29:29,319 --> 00:29:32,799 into it by her friend who was like, oh no, I've heard such 401 00:29:32,839 --> 00:29:34,720 great things about the school. And they were all going to those two were 402 00:29:34,720 --> 00:29:40,359 going to put their kids in together. So she bails and doesn't have the 403 00:29:40,400 --> 00:29:44,119 heart to like even tell the friend. She's just like, doesn't say anything. 404 00:29:44,200 --> 00:29:48,000 And then the friend was like mad for like a long time, but 405 00:29:48,119 --> 00:29:52,200 she was like whatever. And then at the school that she was at that 406 00:29:52,279 --> 00:29:56,680 where she now teaches, this elementary school, her kids are out of there, 407 00:29:57,000 --> 00:30:03,400 and ironically her kids go to a private Catholic school. Oh yeah, 408 00:30:03,839 --> 00:30:08,279 yeah, which is I don't think very religious. But anyway, so there's 409 00:30:08,279 --> 00:30:11,519 good and bad. Yeah, this school wasn't a Catholic school. It was 410 00:30:11,559 --> 00:30:17,079 a Christian like elementary school. Yeah, so yeah, you know what, 411 00:30:17,160 --> 00:30:22,160 I'm so dumb and just don't pay attention to any religion. I just go, 412 00:30:22,200 --> 00:30:23,759 oh, Christian, Catholic, what's the difference, They're like the same 413 00:30:23,799 --> 00:30:29,519 thing, right, I don't even like the Christian or Catholic. I got 414 00:30:29,519 --> 00:30:32,119 they like pretty much the same thing. I don't even know, I think. 415 00:30:32,279 --> 00:30:36,079 I mean, wow, I'm going to sound really dumb. Well, 416 00:30:36,119 --> 00:30:41,079 there's Catholicism, which is not It isn't Catholicism a form of Christianity though, 417 00:30:41,519 --> 00:30:48,000 You're you're asking me. I went to school with mostly Jewish kids, so 418 00:30:48,200 --> 00:30:52,599 I know, Judy ism more than anything else. Ye went to a lot 419 00:30:52,640 --> 00:30:56,839 of barmbomb metzas in middle school and that was uh, yeah, that was 420 00:30:56,880 --> 00:31:00,680 tough to say. It was like every single week end was you know, 421 00:31:00,799 --> 00:31:07,079 as like a thirteen year old. Every single Saturday another bar bought mitzvah and 422 00:31:07,119 --> 00:31:08,960 the parties were fun. But yeah, I kind of felt like you were 423 00:31:08,960 --> 00:31:15,000 sitting at that that show for five hours every Saturday. I just sit there 424 00:31:15,039 --> 00:31:18,720 watching the same thing with all my energy in my add is driving me crazy. 425 00:31:18,400 --> 00:31:22,599 Well, you remember I told you even my nephew's bar mitzvah went on 426 00:31:22,640 --> 00:31:25,839 for way too long, and I was just like, dude, you guys 427 00:31:25,839 --> 00:31:30,000 are not that Jewish. Stop already, Like it was a conservative. So 428 00:31:30,079 --> 00:31:37,279 there's Conservative, which is not Orthodox. It's like one step down from Orthodox, 429 00:31:37,319 --> 00:31:41,119 and then there's Reformed, which is like the looser, hippier form of 430 00:31:41,200 --> 00:31:45,640 Judaism, a little more kumbaya, a little less rules. So but my 431 00:31:47,200 --> 00:31:52,200 sister in law goes to a conservative temple for whatever reason. But yeah, 432 00:31:52,200 --> 00:31:56,160 that's the thing. It's like, you're culturally Jewish, but like, is 433 00:31:56,160 --> 00:32:01,079 there any reason why this service needs to be three hours? Yeah, there 434 00:32:01,079 --> 00:32:07,880 really isn't any reason for it. And they're mostly friends with people who are 435 00:32:07,920 --> 00:32:13,039 not like super juice. So you look around and we're all just like checking 436 00:32:13,039 --> 00:32:15,160 our watt like pulling our phones out furtively and like, oh my god, 437 00:32:15,160 --> 00:32:22,200 how long has this been going on? I wish and and circling back checking 438 00:32:22,200 --> 00:32:29,319 the program like a hundred times. Like with Jewish stuff too. Some of 439 00:32:29,359 --> 00:32:34,480 these prayers like they go on really long. Like you'll look at it and 440 00:32:34,519 --> 00:32:37,319 it'll have one line of the prayer, but then that will go on for 441 00:32:37,400 --> 00:32:42,319 fifteen minutes because it's repeating, right, It's like a thing, and then 442 00:32:42,359 --> 00:32:45,400 it repeats. So just when you think, oh, this should be wrapping 443 00:32:45,480 --> 00:32:47,319 up, like we've said all this, and it's like no, it's starting 444 00:32:47,359 --> 00:32:52,160 over, and then that one prayer thing will go on for ten fifteen minutes 445 00:32:52,160 --> 00:32:55,359 and you're like, I thought we were going to be moving on to the 446 00:32:55,359 --> 00:32:59,880 next part of the program by now, and you're like praying for an interner. 447 00:33:00,440 --> 00:33:02,240 I just want to get up and like go have a cup of coffee 448 00:33:02,359 --> 00:33:07,039 or like go to the bathroom. Yeah, it's maddening tough, you know 449 00:33:07,039 --> 00:33:12,880 what. 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But again that's 496 00:36:22,039 --> 00:36:28,159 microdose dot com and use the code fcol for thirty percent off your first order 497 00:36:28,320 --> 00:36:34,440 and free shipping. Nice. So yeah, so the show was really good 498 00:36:35,920 --> 00:36:42,199 and it was it was just like, all in all, a fun thing. 499 00:36:42,480 --> 00:36:45,360 I do love and look forward to seeing my kids, you know, 500 00:36:45,480 --> 00:36:51,239 perform. Sure it's so different now because I used to just love the basketball 501 00:36:51,280 --> 00:36:58,119 and watching my kids play basketball and just watching like how hard they worked. 502 00:36:58,159 --> 00:37:01,599 I mean, Sadie took her basset foketball like real, seriously, they all 503 00:37:01,679 --> 00:37:06,320 my kids did. And I don't know, I really really loved the basketball, 504 00:37:06,320 --> 00:37:10,119 and I was really sad when they quit, Like there's something really fun 505 00:37:10,119 --> 00:37:15,039 about just seeing your kids like score a goal or you know, make a 506 00:37:15,079 --> 00:37:19,719 shoot a basket or I mean, I still think it was one of the 507 00:37:19,880 --> 00:37:23,320 high points of my life when Albie scored her first like three point basket because 508 00:37:23,320 --> 00:37:28,039 she was always so little, yeah, so just and she worked so hard. 509 00:37:28,440 --> 00:37:32,159 But she was never amazing at basketball. She just was you know what 510 00:37:32,199 --> 00:37:36,760 I mean, she just wasn't she was. She was a hard, hard, 511 00:37:36,840 --> 00:37:40,599 hard worker. And but just so when those moments when you're like, 512 00:37:42,599 --> 00:37:45,440 oh my god, she scored three points and I'm freaking out and screaming, 513 00:37:45,519 --> 00:37:49,960 and you know I would, it's like a little high you get. I 514 00:37:49,960 --> 00:37:53,360 don't know if I ever talked about the end of Isla's soccer season, No, 515 00:37:53,639 --> 00:38:00,400 the thing so she started out real strong, like doing some and you 516 00:38:00,440 --> 00:38:04,440 know, she loved practice. Practice was a lot of fun. And during 517 00:38:04,440 --> 00:38:07,159 the games, I think the first game she scored one goal and that was 518 00:38:07,239 --> 00:38:10,280 awesome. Second game she scored two goals. Third games she scored like three 519 00:38:10,360 --> 00:38:13,400 goals. Like she was kicking ass. Yeah, I know, it was 520 00:38:13,440 --> 00:38:17,239 a lot of fun. And then I don't know what happened, but something 521 00:38:17,400 --> 00:38:22,719 kind of came over her where I think she realized, like, oh, 522 00:38:22,760 --> 00:38:29,199 I don't need to like really like get the ball and kick the ball and 523 00:38:29,559 --> 00:38:31,480 try and score it in the goal. I can just kind of follow the 524 00:38:31,519 --> 00:38:36,239 group of kids running around as long as I run with them, and it 525 00:38:36,239 --> 00:38:40,039 seems like I'm doing something. So she kind of stopped trying, but she 526 00:38:40,119 --> 00:38:44,159 continued to just run around because she was like, Okay, this will work. 527 00:38:44,760 --> 00:38:50,760 And so then I was constantly getting more and more frustrated. And on 528 00:38:50,840 --> 00:38:53,760 top of that, her entire team. There was one other girl who was 529 00:38:54,199 --> 00:38:57,800 very good and very into it, and she would play like with Aila, 530 00:38:58,639 --> 00:39:01,440 and all the other girls like just did not want to be there. They 531 00:39:01,440 --> 00:39:06,400 were, you know, just holding hands and skipping around on the defense, 532 00:39:07,400 --> 00:39:09,559 you know, sitting down, running over to their parents. And as the 533 00:39:09,599 --> 00:39:14,880 season progressed, I felt myself getting more and more frustrated, and I'd go 534 00:39:14,920 --> 00:39:19,199 to these games, like trying to get her motivated. Oh, you gotta 535 00:39:19,239 --> 00:39:21,880 get the ball, and then I'd have to like I'd get heated. I'd 536 00:39:21,880 --> 00:39:25,119 have to remind myself, like they're four year olds, don't get frustrated. 537 00:39:25,199 --> 00:39:30,039 You need to calm down. I couldn't help it. I'd get there and 538 00:39:30,079 --> 00:39:31,480 she come up, get the ball. You have to get the ball, 539 00:39:31,519 --> 00:39:34,440 don't just run around. Get the ball. She goes okay, okay, 540 00:39:34,440 --> 00:39:37,159 and then she would just run around somewhere, and I was like, I 541 00:39:37,159 --> 00:39:38,760 can't even go to these games because I just get frustrated on the way home 542 00:39:38,760 --> 00:39:42,679 and I have to like calm myself down or remind myself that their fort they 543 00:39:42,679 --> 00:39:46,079 don't even keep score. Yeah, I know. That's the painful thing when 544 00:39:46,079 --> 00:39:49,639 they're that young. They don't keep scoring, and you're like, well, 545 00:39:49,639 --> 00:39:52,719 how am I gonna do? We got to account for these people, like 546 00:39:52,760 --> 00:39:57,400 we got to figure out who's the weak link, and towards the end, 547 00:39:57,400 --> 00:40:00,360 they're like some cuts. I'm kind of glad they didn't keep scoring because I's 548 00:40:00,400 --> 00:40:04,639 team was just getting killed every single week. If they had kept scored, 549 00:40:04,880 --> 00:40:07,880 been like thirty to one, yeah, forty to one. The other teams 550 00:40:07,920 --> 00:40:09,880 would just score goal after goal after goal, and I and they were all 551 00:40:09,960 --> 00:40:15,719 the same age. Yeah, that's so funny. Were the other parents What 552 00:40:15,760 --> 00:40:22,559 were the other parents doing? They were cheering, They were cheering and relaxing 553 00:40:22,639 --> 00:40:27,559 and there was they seemed into it. I guess the other team's parents were 554 00:40:27,559 --> 00:40:30,800 always more into it than our team. Of course. Uh even like I 555 00:40:30,840 --> 00:40:34,960 saw one team, like the dad had them all set up and he was 556 00:40:35,000 --> 00:40:37,880 teaching them like proper like formations and soccer rules, and I was like, 557 00:40:38,039 --> 00:40:43,000 is that what our teams should be doing? Are we supposed to be doing 558 00:40:43,000 --> 00:40:45,800 that? Because we don't look like that at all, And yeah, he 559 00:40:45,840 --> 00:40:47,880 had them disciplined and yeah, needless to say, they kicked our ass. 560 00:40:47,920 --> 00:40:52,320 But I was like, I think, I think that's how it's supposed to 561 00:40:52,400 --> 00:40:54,199 look with our team. You know, two of the girls are just running 562 00:40:54,199 --> 00:40:58,960 over to another field while it's all happening. I have been so. I 563 00:40:59,039 --> 00:41:04,079 live right by Bulbo Park and h I'm sure you've been there. They have 564 00:41:04,119 --> 00:41:08,719 the battle tennis courts there, Yes, they do, so, I'm always 565 00:41:08,760 --> 00:41:14,199 in the morning there are there are like well on the weekends there are these 566 00:41:14,280 --> 00:41:19,599 coaches out with these little kids, doing little soccer clinics with the little little 567 00:41:19,599 --> 00:41:22,519 ones, and it is always very jarring to see some of the coaches are 568 00:41:22,559 --> 00:41:28,760 like, mean, you know, it's like watching little Russian kids with their 569 00:41:28,960 --> 00:41:32,039 Russian coach, you know, berating them at like four or five years old, 570 00:41:32,159 --> 00:41:37,199 like you know, straight legs, point your toes. Well, I 571 00:41:37,239 --> 00:41:39,119 mean, these coaches kind of yell at these kids, and I always think 572 00:41:39,199 --> 00:41:43,559 like, well, I don't is that like is that what you're supposed to 573 00:41:43,639 --> 00:41:46,760 do? Are they supposed to be getting? I mean, I don't want 574 00:41:46,800 --> 00:41:51,679 to say like abusive. I'm not like calling like CPS or anything, but 575 00:41:51,679 --> 00:41:54,119 but like you know, like kind of harsh. But then I'm like, 576 00:41:54,159 --> 00:41:57,760 well, maybe these kids are going to be good soccer players. Yeah, 577 00:41:59,039 --> 00:42:01,679 I don't know. Go in there kind of made me want to play soccer. 578 00:42:02,360 --> 00:42:05,880 I you know, I watch a couple of sports. I watch football, 579 00:42:05,920 --> 00:42:07,920 I watch basketball when I can't, I do not watch soccer. I 580 00:42:07,920 --> 00:42:10,400 mean, I think it's just the most boring and I'm so boring. And 581 00:42:10,440 --> 00:42:14,079 I'm half English too, Like every time I go over to England, all 582 00:42:14,079 --> 00:42:15,960 my family they all love soccer. It's all soccer soccer all the time over 583 00:42:16,000 --> 00:42:19,800 there, I like, I can't. Every year or every four years, 584 00:42:19,800 --> 00:42:22,280 when the World Cup comes around, I go, I should watch the World 585 00:42:22,320 --> 00:42:23,679 Cup. I should get into it. So this past when that happened, 586 00:42:23,679 --> 00:42:28,000 I go, I'm gonna watch a World Cup game. I'm gonna get into 587 00:42:28,000 --> 00:42:30,880 soccer. I watch it, no bullshit, ninety five minutes goes by, 588 00:42:30,960 --> 00:42:35,880 not a goal is scored, and I go, fuck this. I I 589 00:42:35,880 --> 00:42:38,559 am not doing it, but watching is love play. Go you know what, 590 00:42:38,639 --> 00:42:42,679 it seems like it would be kind of fun to play against four year 591 00:42:42,679 --> 00:42:47,800 old Against four year olds, You're like, I would do so well. 592 00:42:47,960 --> 00:42:51,159 I'm like, you know what, I kind of want to find some like 593 00:42:51,559 --> 00:42:52,840 pick up soccer game and go play. But I don't know how you do 594 00:42:52,880 --> 00:42:54,960 that after twenty years of no I used to play all the time when I 595 00:42:54,960 --> 00:42:58,920 was younger, but after twenty years of not playing, I just go to 596 00:42:58,960 --> 00:43:05,920 the like, you know what Julie's husband plays. I feel like grown grown 597 00:43:06,000 --> 00:43:07,440 ups. Yeah I could, Like, I'll check it out for you. 598 00:43:07,559 --> 00:43:10,559 Yeah, okay, I'll find out. Yeah, they're really into soccer. 599 00:43:10,679 --> 00:43:13,880 Yeah, I think it'd be fun to play, not fun to watch, 600 00:43:14,280 --> 00:43:15,960 but yeah. After that, I was I've been thinking, yeah, I 601 00:43:15,960 --> 00:43:19,679 could get into that. I used to have a thing. Well, so, 602 00:43:19,760 --> 00:43:22,960 when I was really young, I was a gymnast. But I and 603 00:43:23,039 --> 00:43:25,880 John always makes fun of me because I'm always like I was on the pre 604 00:43:25,960 --> 00:43:30,960 pre Olympic team, which was technically true, but I was not good at 605 00:43:30,000 --> 00:43:34,559 all, right, But but I could like barely do a backhandspring. But 606 00:43:35,000 --> 00:43:37,480 I was really into it. I really really liked it, And I've just 607 00:43:37,639 --> 00:43:40,559 carried that in my mind. I was much better at it than I know 608 00:43:40,840 --> 00:43:45,880 that I know realistically I was, uh, but and I only did it 609 00:43:45,920 --> 00:43:50,639 for I think like fourth, fifth and sixth grade. But I trained a 610 00:43:50,639 --> 00:43:53,440 lot, and I was at a real it was called La School of Gymnastics, 611 00:43:53,519 --> 00:43:58,119 and there was an Olympic coach. They did train kids for the Olympics 612 00:43:58,159 --> 00:44:04,000 there, but I was nowhere, like right anyway, I always thought like 613 00:44:04,079 --> 00:44:06,880 when I got much older, I was always like I would love to do 614 00:44:07,079 --> 00:44:09,880 like I get still to gymnastics, like oh my god, And I'm always 615 00:44:09,920 --> 00:44:14,639 like, I want to do like go to an adult gymnastics place. Ye. 616 00:44:15,039 --> 00:44:20,880 So I my best friend at the time in sixth grade did gymnastics in 617 00:44:20,920 --> 00:44:24,039 college and now she's a diver. So she's my exact age, in her 618 00:44:24,079 --> 00:44:31,440 fifties, still really good at anyway. So she posted this thing on Facebook 619 00:44:31,480 --> 00:44:35,639 a while ago, and she was like, Hey, you know, I'm 620 00:44:35,639 --> 00:44:38,639 doing this adult gymnastics thing and it's like reminding me of like how much I 621 00:44:38,679 --> 00:44:42,519 loved it, And of course my first thought was like, oh my god, 622 00:44:42,559 --> 00:44:45,920 I want in on that, you know. And then and then I 623 00:44:45,000 --> 00:44:49,199 went over to she had some videos of what they were doing, and I'm 624 00:44:49,199 --> 00:44:55,000 like, when she says adult gymnastics, she means like ex like professional gymnasts, 625 00:44:55,360 --> 00:45:00,159 and also like people in their twenties. That's what they mean by adults, 626 00:45:00,159 --> 00:45:02,840 Like they don't mean me. And I was watching these people, I'm 627 00:45:02,880 --> 00:45:06,519 like, oh god, I can't even do a backbend. I can't even 628 00:45:06,599 --> 00:45:09,679 do Like the other day, I just decided to try if you lay on 629 00:45:09,719 --> 00:45:15,599 the floor and put your hands like behind your head and try to archer back 630 00:45:15,719 --> 00:45:17,239 up. Couldn't even do that. I was like, so, I think 631 00:45:17,239 --> 00:45:22,119 that would be a shit show if I tried to go join an adult gymnastics 632 00:45:22,119 --> 00:45:25,199 class, and I so I messaged my friend and I was like, by 633 00:45:25,199 --> 00:45:28,960 the way, I thought about it for a few minutes, and I realized 634 00:45:29,039 --> 00:45:31,639 I can't even do like a bridge and uh and she was like, yeah, 635 00:45:31,760 --> 00:45:36,480 it's it's a little intense, yeah, even for adults. Yeah, 636 00:45:36,519 --> 00:45:37,559 well, you know, I watched guys playing soccer in the park. I 637 00:45:37,599 --> 00:45:39,480 go, I could do that. I could kick the ball around. Let 638 00:45:39,480 --> 00:45:42,920 should be fine. And then when I actually do go to try it, 639 00:45:42,920 --> 00:45:45,719 I'm probably it's probably not going to work out that way. But uh yeah, 640 00:45:45,840 --> 00:45:49,840 now I finally got back into working out, so now I actually feel 641 00:45:49,880 --> 00:45:52,119 like a little athletic, like I could do something else. Yeah, so 642 00:45:52,800 --> 00:45:55,960 yeah, that's kind of my next goal. I know, I'm soccer game 643 00:45:55,960 --> 00:46:00,159 at the park. Yeah, I'm sure that's the thing. I'm sure you 644 00:46:00,159 --> 00:46:05,559 could find some guys to just like play some soccer. I'm trying to think 645 00:46:05,599 --> 00:46:07,800 where you would like, where you would look, because you wouldn't look. 646 00:46:07,920 --> 00:46:13,159 We live. We live like right on a park, like a big park, 647 00:46:13,280 --> 00:46:15,679 and even at the park, they have like full size nets there, 648 00:46:15,679 --> 00:46:20,320 so I see people playing every weekend. I just don't know how it's like 649 00:46:20,480 --> 00:46:22,159 organized, how you get in there, right, it'd be awkward if you 650 00:46:22,239 --> 00:46:30,480 like walk up if it's like a team and like no, dude, you're 651 00:46:30,519 --> 00:46:32,599 like, oh, this doesn't work like that. Okay, next next, 652 00:46:32,880 --> 00:46:36,679 like, I'll just be here if you guys need a guy, and they're 653 00:46:36,719 --> 00:46:43,079 like, no, me, don't, sub you start yelling for yourself. 654 00:46:43,679 --> 00:46:46,559 Amy comes down, She's like, sub put my put my boyfriend in me. 655 00:46:47,960 --> 00:46:53,079 I'm ready. Yeah, I I if I was playing, if I 656 00:46:53,159 --> 00:46:59,119 was on like Isla's team. It reminds me of like when I would do 657 00:46:59,199 --> 00:47:02,159 temp work and just try to look busy, like I'm not actually doing anything, 658 00:47:02,199 --> 00:47:06,119 but I'm like running back and forth to the copier, and I'm sure 659 00:47:06,119 --> 00:47:08,599 it was really frustrating to people because they're like, she's not doing any actual 660 00:47:08,639 --> 00:47:14,239 work. Oh, Mike, I'm here, guys, make my hourly, 661 00:47:14,400 --> 00:47:17,599 looking busy. I'm holding the file. Yeah, pretty important stuff I'm doing 662 00:47:17,639 --> 00:47:22,159 over here, just literally like looking like I'm in a hurry at all times. 663 00:47:22,159 --> 00:47:23,719 So when anybody's like, hey, can you get the phone, can't 664 00:47:23,719 --> 00:47:27,800 do it, can't get the phone. I got a thing I'm doing. 665 00:47:28,000 --> 00:47:32,480 Yeah, that's the ala that's just running around looking like you're doing something exactly. 666 00:47:32,519 --> 00:47:37,559 She would run around and then inevitably the ball would just fall to her 667 00:47:37,559 --> 00:47:40,199 feet and then she just stand there and like look at it, and I'm 668 00:47:40,199 --> 00:47:44,639 screaming cat. She just look at it and just wait for someone else to 669 00:47:44,639 --> 00:47:47,480 come by and get it. At least she didn't feel like embarrassed by that. 670 00:47:47,760 --> 00:47:53,519 Because also when I was young and we would play anytime there were any 671 00:47:53,559 --> 00:47:59,400 sports like softball. I was not athletic. I know, I just finished 672 00:47:59,400 --> 00:48:00,960 saying, I did you ynastics, But as I also said, I wasn't 673 00:48:00,960 --> 00:48:06,800 good at it. But team sports made me so anxious. I was one 674 00:48:06,880 --> 00:48:10,880 hundred percent the last person picked for any teams. Nobody, nobody, and 675 00:48:10,920 --> 00:48:14,400 I mean nobody wanted me on their team. I mean it was it was 676 00:48:14,440 --> 00:48:17,960 sad. But if I was when you know, you have to go on 677 00:48:19,000 --> 00:48:22,400 somebody's team, and they'd all be annoyed, like, ah, Stephanie's on 678 00:48:22,400 --> 00:48:25,360 our team. And if we played softball, they would stick me deep in 679 00:48:25,480 --> 00:48:30,119 right field, you know, thankfully, because I was like, my worst 680 00:48:30,280 --> 00:48:32,880 nightmare was a ball coming to me and I wouldn't know what to do with 681 00:48:32,920 --> 00:48:38,719 it. And every once in a while I have a painful memory of a 682 00:48:38,760 --> 00:48:44,199 ball coming to me and then you see all the faces just looking like, 683 00:48:44,760 --> 00:48:47,719 oh fuck this, you know, and rightfully so, because the you know, 684 00:48:47,920 --> 00:48:52,239 if the ball would I mean I would kind of put my mit up, 685 00:48:52,559 --> 00:48:55,039 but I'm never going to catch a ball, and I never did. 686 00:48:55,400 --> 00:48:59,679 There's no there's no redemption story in this. It was all just like, 687 00:49:00,199 --> 00:49:02,719 oh God, why is the ball coming to me? And then I would 688 00:49:02,719 --> 00:49:07,679 just watch it fall put my mit up and I would inevitably miss it, 689 00:49:07,760 --> 00:49:12,840 and everybody would go, ah, that's where they stuck me. When I 690 00:49:12,880 --> 00:49:16,039 played baseball, and I hated baseball. It was the worst because I always 691 00:49:16,119 --> 00:49:19,519 I never wanted to get hit with the ball. I was always at bat 692 00:49:19,519 --> 00:49:21,719 and I was always scared of getting hit with the ball. So they just 693 00:49:21,719 --> 00:49:23,480 stuck me in left field and I would just stand there and you know, 694 00:49:23,519 --> 00:49:27,280 like crush fi, Oh yeah, what do I mean left field? Whatever? 695 00:49:27,320 --> 00:49:30,960 Would the ball doesn't come? I think I was at well, I'm 696 00:49:30,000 --> 00:49:32,920 left handed, so they might have put me over there because whatever. They 697 00:49:32,920 --> 00:49:37,159 put me over there, and I was always yeah, So at bat, 698 00:49:37,199 --> 00:49:39,280 I would always be afraid of the ball and so I'd hate that and then 699 00:49:39,519 --> 00:49:42,480 when I was out in the field, I would just stand there out in 700 00:49:42,559 --> 00:49:45,280 left field and not do anything. There was one time a ball was hit 701 00:49:45,320 --> 00:49:52,519 to me and I made this great play like a running diving catch role and 702 00:49:52,599 --> 00:49:54,840 I looked and I catch it my mitt and I roll on the ground and 703 00:49:54,880 --> 00:49:58,960 I look up and you just see the ball kind of fall out of my 704 00:49:59,079 --> 00:50:05,480 mit and uh. And then they still called it like a catch. Oh. 705 00:50:05,719 --> 00:50:08,199 But then all the kids were like mad at me because that wasn't a 706 00:50:08,239 --> 00:50:10,639 catch. You dropped it, but they still called it. So there it 707 00:50:10,719 --> 00:50:14,239 was like a cheat or something. And it was the one great play I 708 00:50:14,280 --> 00:50:17,760 made in baseball, and I fucked it up. Oh my god. Whenever 709 00:50:17,800 --> 00:50:22,559 I watch football, I get so tense for like the players, because I 710 00:50:22,559 --> 00:50:24,880 always think, especially like the kicker, you know, when they are gonna 711 00:50:24,880 --> 00:50:28,800 have to kick a field goal. Yeah, And I'm always like, what 712 00:50:28,920 --> 00:50:32,400 an awful feeling that must be. I've asked John about it. I'm like, 713 00:50:32,559 --> 00:50:37,239 you know, do they just feel just like crushing pressure of like having 714 00:50:37,320 --> 00:50:40,719 to kick the ball and not only is there, are they going to let 715 00:50:40,760 --> 00:50:45,519 down their team? Especially when it's like if they make it, they'll win 716 00:50:45,559 --> 00:50:47,119 the game, and if they miss it, you know, like an important 717 00:50:47,199 --> 00:50:52,320 kick, Like how does anybody would stand? How does anybody function under that 718 00:50:52,440 --> 00:50:55,920 much pressure? They get in these like rhythms too, where you know, 719 00:50:57,320 --> 00:50:59,920 they kick a bad field goal and then they go on a run of just 720 00:51:00,199 --> 00:51:02,199 missing every single field goal after that, and that's when I was like, 721 00:51:02,239 --> 00:51:06,119 oh god, it'd be so terrible to just be in that mindset of just 722 00:51:06,119 --> 00:51:10,280 missing every single field goal. You're kicking well. And now I'm gonna totally 723 00:51:10,920 --> 00:51:17,239 butcher this these facts. But watching UCLA play football, and they had a 724 00:51:17,320 --> 00:51:22,960 quarterback that was playing and then they replaced him because he was throwing too many 725 00:51:22,000 --> 00:51:27,199 interceptions and he was a sought after right freshman that they had brought in. 726 00:51:27,320 --> 00:51:30,239 He was going to be like they're they're winning quarterback. And then they pull 727 00:51:30,360 --> 00:51:37,559 him out right away after making after throwing interceptions, which just feels like, 728 00:51:37,760 --> 00:51:40,079 oh, like, you come in, there's all this expectation for you, 729 00:51:40,119 --> 00:51:45,000 then you throw some interceptions and then you think maybe you try to convince yourself 730 00:51:45,039 --> 00:51:45,960 like it's okay, They're gonna give me a chance, like you know, 731 00:51:46,000 --> 00:51:51,599 I'm young, and then like now they replace them with another guy who who 732 00:51:51,639 --> 00:51:54,199 they play for quite a few games. Then that guy is like fuck this 733 00:51:54,480 --> 00:52:00,920 and he goes and puts himself in the transfer portal yeap, which John says 734 00:52:00,000 --> 00:52:04,039 is like a crazy thing now that they're all just going in the transfer portal, 735 00:52:05,199 --> 00:52:07,239 y'all want to go to schools to make more money. Yeah, well, 736 00:52:07,280 --> 00:52:10,119 and they just want like playing time. Like I even just saw stat 737 00:52:10,199 --> 00:52:15,719 yesterday that like five of the last Heisman Trophy winning quarterbacks were all transfers. 738 00:52:15,239 --> 00:52:17,639 So you know, if you're a quarterback and you're not getting played, yeah, 739 00:52:17,639 --> 00:52:21,719 it's a transfer, I guess. Yeah. I don't follow college football 740 00:52:21,800 --> 00:52:23,800 that, Yeah, I mean I don't really. I mean I you know, 741 00:52:23,880 --> 00:52:27,960 I get my little like I'm really into it and then I forget about 742 00:52:27,960 --> 00:52:31,440 it for two weeks. Yeah. Anyway, all right, well this was 743 00:52:31,519 --> 00:52:37,679 like super fun, even though we missed urlan Net. But before we go, 744 00:52:37,039 --> 00:52:40,599 uh, let's remind everybody about the Family Skeptical, which I think is 745 00:52:40,639 --> 00:52:45,599 apropos to some topics on our show today raising kids without religion. You know, 746 00:52:45,920 --> 00:52:50,159 so if you if you're a non believer like us, you are people, 747 00:52:50,320 --> 00:52:52,760 and you're there people, and they drop an episode ones every three weeks, 748 00:52:53,079 --> 00:52:59,000 so it won't really cut into your fcol time. And they're anonymous, 749 00:52:59,199 --> 00:53:02,239 So just go check out Family Skeptical. Also go to will Mean Freda. 750 00:53:02,800 --> 00:53:07,800 They're in Palm Desert and Palm Springs. They have amazing food. They have 751 00:53:07,840 --> 00:53:12,400 a holiday menu check out the holiday menu. Maybe order in like some food 752 00:53:12,760 --> 00:53:19,280 through Christmas Meal. 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