WEBVTT 1 00:00:00.160 --> 00:00:06.480 The opinions expressed by Chayo Busquets are supported by his extensive experience as a family 2 00:00:06.879 --> 00:00:12.480 therapist and in the previous analysis of the cases presented here welcome. This is 3 00:00:12.599 --> 00:00:19.399 Chayo with you. As a jewel we start very good evening to everyone as 4 00:00:19.440 --> 00:00:23.440 I am Chayo Busetch. This is Chayo with you And well, we' 5 00:00:23.519 --> 00:00:29.640 re ready to have our second special program that, as you know and as 6 00:00:29.679 --> 00:00:35.159 I have commented to you, we' re going to have it starting yesterday 7 00:00:35.320 --> 00:00:41.560 and ending next Tuesday, with special guest programs that are going to be addressing 8 00:00:42.359 --> 00:00:46.960 the issue of violence, specifically women, for International Women' s Day, 9 00:00:47.079 --> 00:00:53.079 which is next Friday. And, well, today I have as a guest 10 00:00:53.119 --> 00:00:55.840 a consent of you, someone who all the time writes to me and tells 11 00:00:55.880 --> 00:00:58.759 me when you' re going to invite Dr Calixto back. Well, today 12 00:00:58.840 --> 00:01:04.359 is the time to invite Dr Calixto and he' s going to be our 13 00:01:04.480 --> 00:01:08.040 only guest man in this series of special programs. And that has been earned 14 00:01:08.120 --> 00:01:14.480 by the great knowledge that you have of everything that involves the functioning of the 15 00:01:14.480 --> 00:01:21.519 brain. So today we' re going to talk to him about how violence 16 00:01:21.840 --> 00:01:26.200 impacts the brain. Of course, this does not involve all men and women, 17 00:01:26.560 --> 00:01:34.920 but especially what happens when a person goes around as familiarizing himself with violence. 18 00:01:38.000 --> 00:01:42.560 The brain has an explanation of why that happens to the degree that even 19 00:01:42.560 --> 00:01:46.640 women many times say that I deserve it, is that I caused it to 20 00:01:46.719 --> 00:01:51.959 happen to see if there is an answer in the brain of this Logecalixto, 21 00:01:53.040 --> 00:01:59.920 our dear Eduardo, I am realizing today that it is called Jaime Eduardo Calixto 22 00:02:00.239 --> 00:02:06.599 González, where Jaime came from. It' s the first time I' 23 00:02:06.640 --> 00:02:07.639 ve seen it, but that' s how you appear on your UNAM page. 24 00:02:08.039 --> 00:02:12.879 That' s very good afternoon, yes, very correct and you decided 25 00:02:12.919 --> 00:02:15.919 to be told Jaime, I' m going Eduardo, or at your house 26 00:02:15.919 --> 00:02:17.520 I would say no. In the house was Jaime and from high school I 27 00:02:17.639 --> 00:02:23.960 was not Eduardo. And it was a wonderful change, because Eduardo I am 28 00:02:23.960 --> 00:02:29.479 already more recent look. This is always the case with people with two names 29 00:02:29.520 --> 00:02:32.199 who in one place tell them one and the other. Well, he' 30 00:02:32.199 --> 00:02:38.400 s a medical science researcher, head of department and medical area and Ramón de 31 00:02:38.439 --> 00:02:42.560 la Fuente National Institute of Psychiatry. Degree in Medicine from the Faculty of Medicine 32 00:02:42.639 --> 00:02:46.719 of UNAM, PhD in Basic Biomedical Research from the Institute of Cellular Physiology of 33 00:02:46.919 --> 00:02:51.960 UNAM. And I' m going to ask you to forgive me if I 34 00:02:52.000 --> 00:02:54.360 don' t read everything else, because we wouldn' t end up and 35 00:02:54.360 --> 00:02:59.199 take the whole program. Welcome, very good afternoon. It' s a 36 00:02:59.199 --> 00:03:02.199 real privilege. Thank you very much, so, as you heard, you 37 00:03:02.280 --> 00:03:07.080 are our only man in this special week and that represents a great commitment and 38 00:03:07.080 --> 00:03:08.680 an honor. Thank you. I really appreciate it. Well, then, 39 00:03:09.919 --> 00:03:15.919 let' s start at the beginning. The brain is impacted by violence beyond 40 00:03:15.960 --> 00:03:22.759 the blows that can go on our heads in the workings. What about violence 41 00:03:22.800 --> 00:03:29.520 between men and women. We are in a vulnerable structure, with a condition 42 00:03:29.560 --> 00:03:32.319 in which the vast majority of us do not realize. But there is a 43 00:03:32.479 --> 00:03:37.560 critical age for this. It' s seven, between the ages of seven 44 00:03:37.599 --> 00:03:40.159 and fourteen. Or that the experience of life when we are in a violent 45 00:03:40.240 --> 00:03:46.840 environment reverberates when we are adults as long as violence and levels of violence occur 46 00:03:46.960 --> 00:03:50.879 between the seven fourteen years before, not because the brain changes certain brain structures 47 00:03:50.879 --> 00:03:57.240 and then it is no longer so much because some neural groups have matured and 48 00:03:57.719 --> 00:04:02.439 no longer stay in that sequence that friends of Joya. I have to say 49 00:04:02.520 --> 00:04:06.919 openly that the great majority of us, when they blow us up, when 50 00:04:06.919 --> 00:04:13.560 they break us up, when they tell us a rudeness, when they tell 51 00:04:14.199 --> 00:04:19.199 us they don' t love us when they ignore us bony, when we 52 00:04:19.199 --> 00:04:24.759 say it' s not invisible, when they don' t talk to me, 53 00:04:24.959 --> 00:04:30.839 when they apply the law of ice to me between the ages of seven 54 00:04:30.920 --> 00:04:32.000 fourteen, when they rape me or when they ask me to leave my house 55 00:04:32.000 --> 00:04:33.839 because they don' t want me to bother adults. And in that context, 56 00:04:34.639 --> 00:04:41.680 this series of violences are practically changing the neural organization. That' s 57 00:04:41.720 --> 00:04:44.920 why it' s very important. This age is a critical stage. There 58 00:04:44.959 --> 00:04:50.639 is a study that lasted almost eleven years to get published and when it is 59 00:04:50.639 --> 00:04:55.040 published, it gave us a light e It is published in one of the 60 00:04:55.160 --> 00:05:00.319 highest impact journals frontense in Neurosens in August of the two thousand eighteen. It 61 00:05:00.439 --> 00:05:05.600 clearly acts like the brain that analyzes information, disarticulates, disconnects, the one 62 00:05:05.639 --> 00:05:11.800 that generates emotions, changes them, the one that interprets emotion does not respond 63 00:05:11.839 --> 00:05:15.639 to the one that generates the projection of emotions that does not mature. It 64 00:05:15.680 --> 00:05:19.600 means the brain those structures where I pay attention to someone. When someone is 65 00:05:19.600 --> 00:05:24.800 looking at me and tells me that if or when someone makes me a face 66 00:05:24.680 --> 00:05:29.240 of disapproval in less than two seconds, I detect that emotion to the performer 67 00:05:29.319 --> 00:05:30.920 or it' s called a symphony twist, this destructive cognitive process. As 68 00:05:30.959 --> 00:05:36.040 I pay attention to hippocampus the area with which I am excited amida, the 69 00:05:36.199 --> 00:05:40.399 brain to. These areas I' m saying are connected between the seven fourteen 70 00:05:40.959 --> 00:05:44.199 years and what you said at first is if they throw food at me and 71 00:05:44.240 --> 00:05:47.519 tell me to eat it off the floor, because here you' re going 72 00:05:47.519 --> 00:05:51.639 to finish what there is, but it' s on the floor that part 73 00:05:51.720 --> 00:05:56.600 of you have to eat it. You don' t understand that humiliation, 74 00:05:57.240 --> 00:06:00.959 that process that is done here. What I' m telling you is that 75 00:06:00.959 --> 00:06:06.079 structuring, it makes the brain change its connectivity. Those kiss- your- 76 00:06:06.240 --> 00:06:12.160 uncle stories. But I just don' t want to, he' s 77 00:06:12.279 --> 00:06:13.839 your uncle and I' m not going to negotiate Give him a kiss. 78 00:06:14.519 --> 00:06:18.040 Then we wonder why we are more prone to depression, aggression or even because 79 00:06:18.279 --> 00:06:24.560 the victim becomes a victim. And here' s the point, the levels 80 00:06:24.639 --> 00:06:28.079 of violence we' re growing with. If the father arrives and throws everything 81 00:06:28.199 --> 00:06:31.439 or if he screams like that, the way to communicate is through blows and 82 00:06:31.439 --> 00:06:33.639 we are between seven or eight, a ship and ten, eleven, twelve, 83 00:06:33.759 --> 00:06:39.399 thirteen, fourteen years, this period of primary and secondary then teach us 84 00:06:39.439 --> 00:06:42.360 to realize that it is the way then, how the brain must be passed, 85 00:06:42.959 --> 00:06:48.839 to be of attention, to justify and judge seven fourteen years crouching to 86 00:06:48.839 --> 00:06:55.160 the hippocampus, prefrontal cortex, Insula, the part where we process the pain, 87 00:06:55.319 --> 00:06:58.360 in the brain. It' s called Insula, which is in the 88 00:06:58.360 --> 00:07:00.360 highest religion of our brain. Here, our crown, one right to one 89 00:07:00.399 --> 00:07:03.800 left. It' s the place where we process the pain. If I 90 00:07:03.839 --> 00:07:06.839 hit my knee, it hurts, if I pinch, it hurts. If 91 00:07:06.879 --> 00:07:11.680 you give me a kiss, it activates very interesting, because it is not 92 00:07:11.680 --> 00:07:14.959 only physical pain, but also moral pain. When someone tells me already, 93 00:07:15.000 --> 00:07:16.639 I don' t love you and here I have to say it. Welcome 94 00:07:16.680 --> 00:07:19.360 to the world, everyone where we are, in an environment where we want 95 00:07:19.399 --> 00:07:27.120 the love requited that activation of the Insula. WOW. What consequences it ends 96 00:07:27.160 --> 00:07:31.800 up having on a person to have experienced this. Pégate chayo that I tell 97 00:07:31.879 --> 00:07:38.360 you and dear friends of jewel that this affects since a person does not enjoy 98 00:07:38.439 --> 00:07:41.680 his successes, that he has so many things to do that they tell him. 99 00:07:41.759 --> 00:07:44.959 Listen how well you' re doing, because worse, don' t 100 00:07:45.000 --> 00:07:50.240 hear, but hear what great way to run this process, how amazing is 101 00:07:50.279 --> 00:07:55.319 it going? Anyone would have done it. They' re the people I 102 00:07:55.319 --> 00:07:59.959 don' t recognize. Yeah, well, this one' s gonna go 103 00:07:59.959 --> 00:08:03.399 on. It says well, I don' t know maybe, I do, 104 00:08:03.560 --> 00:08:05.199 I don' t, but hey. But it' s magnificent. 105 00:08:05.399 --> 00:08:11.959 They are people they feel until they feel sorry for others to give them recognition. 106 00:08:11.920 --> 00:08:16.519 And this is because the part that interprets emotions at the turn of the 107 00:08:16.600 --> 00:08:26.800 symbol changes its connectivity and is called desensitizing ok consequences. So they can happen 108 00:08:26.800 --> 00:08:30.959 to us ten wonderful things in the day and we have a bad time and 109 00:08:31.000 --> 00:08:33.720 we start with the bad one. Welcome to the world where our brain isn 110 00:08:33.720 --> 00:08:37.679 ' t perfect to say, but you have more elements to enjoy it. 111 00:08:37.759 --> 00:08:41.440 I say when you have a problem. The number of neurons our brains have 112 00:08:41.480 --> 00:08:45.080 is eighty- six billion. He has eighty- six billion reasons to be 113 00:08:45.159 --> 00:08:48.879 happy and different from the problem. Be bigger than the problem. The consequences 114 00:08:48.919 --> 00:08:54.080 are that we do not realize in our alternatives, in our exits, we 115 00:08:54.080 --> 00:08:58.080 do not realize the magnitude of our psychological greatness that we can take. At 116 00:08:58.120 --> 00:09:01.279 that point is the consequences of a violent father, of a violent mother, 117 00:09:01.679 --> 00:09:05.080 of a violent environment. It' s feeling bad and saying no. I 118 00:09:07.080 --> 00:09:09.000 can' t, no, I' m not gonna make it. That 119 00:09:09.039 --> 00:09:13.519 is one, the other is a disarticulation, a disconnection, a lack of 120 00:09:13.559 --> 00:09:16.559 maturity of our perfrontal cortex, in the prefrontal cortex, which is the haughty 121 00:09:16.679 --> 00:09:22.840 part of our little eyes. There is our real logical thought, our cognition, 122 00:09:22.519 --> 00:09:26.679 our limit, but there are also our faults and our shames. When 123 00:09:26.720 --> 00:09:30.960 I want to get out and I want to stop by, I don' 124 00:09:30.960 --> 00:09:31.200 t wait for you where you' re going. Eduardo' s on high, 125 00:09:33.159 --> 00:09:37.759 but no cars pass. Eduardo, you' re a behaving person, 126 00:09:37.240 --> 00:09:41.639 well- preserved socially. The prefrontal cortex. As we were beaten, we 127 00:09:41.639 --> 00:09:46.000 were limited, we were offended by that perfrontal cortex, men and women are 128 00:09:46.039 --> 00:09:50.240 not connected, and here, if I say it openly, the woman matures 129 00:09:50.240 --> 00:09:54.799 this cortex. There are stages between the twenty- one, twenty- two 130 00:09:54.879 --> 00:09:58.320 years, okay, the average man arrives at this event at twenty- five 131 00:09:58.320 --> 00:10:00.960 twenty- six. The factor of testosterone is very strong against this connection, 132 00:10:01.080 --> 00:10:07.720 as it is men. We last longer, behaving immaturely and eventually we grow 133 00:10:07.759 --> 00:10:11.159 up to those who are doing well, to whom we are approaching, at 134 00:10:11.159 --> 00:10:13.639 thirty, thirty thirty- two, And you say good this man who passed. 135 00:10:13.600 --> 00:10:18.480 But if back there' s an event of a violent dad, of 136 00:10:18.600 --> 00:10:22.320 a violent mother, of a group of violent adults, this crust doesn' 137 00:10:22.320 --> 00:10:28.159 t connect. So the victim, the violent becomes now that the aggressor is 138 00:10:28.200 --> 00:10:33.080 the rapist who says ah now goes mine and then you realize, as we 139 00:10:33.159 --> 00:10:39.960 sometimes deceive our children, as we were deceived, the prefrontal cortex. Not 140 00:10:41.200 --> 00:10:45.559 the level of violence and among violent ones are not seen in such a way 141 00:10:45.559 --> 00:10:48.440 that then the level of violence is increasing. No more violent. He was 142 00:10:48.519 --> 00:10:52.360 not violent yesterday, today he was violent and began to do so and learn 143 00:10:52.440 --> 00:10:56.559 it from the age of seven fourteen. Wouse. That process is very important 144 00:10:56.679 --> 00:11:03.679 the one you are saying, because this leads me to assume as a hypothesis 145 00:11:05.440 --> 00:11:07.200 the ninety- nine point, nine percent of women who tolerate violence and stay 146 00:11:07.279 --> 00:11:13.759 in violence and so on. It' s because they bring a learning story 147 00:11:13.759 --> 00:11:16.000 that, well, there goes the thing. When I documented this data, 148 00:11:16.080 --> 00:11:20.799 eighty- seven percent of the world' s population has an adult problem that 149 00:11:20.840 --> 00:11:26.799 started in childhood and that is hard to integrate. And that' s why 150 00:11:26.879 --> 00:11:30.200 he says clearly, because I deserve it, it' s that if he 151 00:11:30.919 --> 00:11:33.159 loves me, he' s doing it for my sake and for family day. 152 00:11:33.600 --> 00:11:35.639 I' m talking about the common denominator. I don' t want 153 00:11:35.679 --> 00:11:39.240 to get to determinism consciousness. They do exist, yes, but I have 154 00:11:39.639 --> 00:11:45.080 to say that if we attach the little release of oxytocin that we bring because 155 00:11:45.080 --> 00:11:48.360 they didn' t hug us, they didn' t want us, they 156 00:11:48.360 --> 00:11:48.679 didn' t tell us how important we are. If we don' t 157 00:11:48.679 --> 00:11:54.480 grow up with it, the level of releasing that hormone that makes us feel 158 00:11:54.559 --> 00:11:58.240 like a stick is so low that it' s when it says no, 159 00:11:58.480 --> 00:12:05.120 because it' s that and this is very interesting even a rude abuse can 160 00:12:05.120 --> 00:12:05.200 generate attachment to a person and we' re talking about disorder. And that 161 00:12:05.240 --> 00:12:11.519 ' s why we often say. Hey, he beats you, he hurts 162 00:12:11.639 --> 00:12:13.759 you violently, he assaults you, he cheats you, what are you doing 163 00:12:13.759 --> 00:12:18.879 ball. Even the same woman sometimes leaves her house for that reason and reconciles 164 00:12:18.919 --> 00:12:24.360 five. It comes exactly and comes with a level of guilt where everyone applauded 165 00:12:24.399 --> 00:12:26.919 him. He said, but why did you come back? The slow question 166 00:12:28.720 --> 00:12:35.159 is that my life does not turn, but that there is my dear Edward, 167 00:12:35.559 --> 00:12:39.480 have all the affection and respect that you know that I have for you 168 00:12:41.080 --> 00:12:46.360 hear what happens to this process, because when I hear you make these descriptions 169 00:12:46.360 --> 00:12:50.879 that you have done, yes, because then it would seem that people are 170 00:12:50.879 --> 00:12:52.960 already condemned to the brain, learn nothing anymore. After fourteen years and we 171 00:12:54.039 --> 00:12:58.360 live in violent environments, there is no way to change that. We have. 172 00:12:58.279 --> 00:13:03.000 We have waiting to see we write. We are a wonderful species, 173 00:13:03.200 --> 00:13:07.240 the human where we are the only species that we know we are going to 174 00:13:07.320 --> 00:13:15.559 die without any other species. It has this biological gift and that this is 175 00:13:15.559 --> 00:13:18.480 the sustenance of many of the relationships we carry and, at the same time, 176 00:13:18.600 --> 00:13:24.080 of the appreciation of people. We are a species that, if we 177 00:13:24.120 --> 00:13:28.519 were not hugged as adult children, we hardly expressed it. It takes a 178 00:13:28.639 --> 00:13:31.399 lot of work for those who didn' t hug us, to give us 179 00:13:31.399 --> 00:13:35.360 a hug. It feels kind of uncomfortable, but interesting. In an article 180 00:13:35.399 --> 00:13:41.399 published during the pandemic in two thousand twenty- two indicated that the gene of 181 00:13:41.480 --> 00:13:45.399 this hormone that makes us have attachments, which is the same relationship with labor, 182 00:13:45.639 --> 00:13:48.200 with breastfeeding, with kissing, with hugging, with telling the truth, 183 00:13:48.399 --> 00:13:50.919 with feeling part of a person, of the life of someone, of my 184 00:13:52.000 --> 00:13:58.279 friends, of my family, of my company, be oxytocin. When someone 185 00:13:58.279 --> 00:14:01.600 takes me, when it' s worth hugging me, when someone talks nice 186 00:14:01.799 --> 00:14:07.399 to me, when they' re kind, when we' re kind, 187 00:14:07.679 --> 00:14:09.480 when we say, let' s say the same, but we' re 188 00:14:09.480 --> 00:14:11.919 kind. The prosedia how we sing how good they are here, how good 189 00:14:11.960 --> 00:14:18.480 are they here? Sure, that oxytocin release part. And when we talk 190 00:14:18.519 --> 00:14:22.200 to ourselves or talk to a person in a kind way, it' s 191 00:14:22.240 --> 00:14:26.399 an oxytocinated genus, this gene that releases, this wonderful hormone that makes us 192 00:14:26.440 --> 00:14:31.440 change behavior is inducible. Maybe, the first time he gave me a hug, 193 00:14:31.720 --> 00:14:35.480 I feel uncomfortable, but eventually, as they start hugging me, I 194 00:14:35.000 --> 00:14:39.639 start to give someone a satisfaction, I tell someone very well, that' 195 00:14:39.679 --> 00:14:43.240 s how it' s done. That gene is beginning to express itself more. 196 00:14:43.080 --> 00:14:48.320 Therapy already works then the fact that they give me an explanation and tell 197 00:14:48.320 --> 00:14:54.639 me yes. Unfortunately, my mother didn' t love me and had a 198 00:14:54.720 --> 00:14:58.240 horrible level of violence with me that she told me why she didn' t 199 00:14:58.320 --> 00:15:03.639 take the abortion when I made a mistake, when she hit me in such 200 00:15:03.759 --> 00:15:09.120 an impressive way, when my dad took me out almost naked in the house, 201 00:15:09.279 --> 00:15:13.519 when they went to school and saw me with a black eye and that 202 00:15:13.600 --> 00:15:16.519 he passed the child, fell and turned and I didn' t like to 203 00:15:16.679 --> 00:15:20.440 shut up and the teacher understood it. When in school teachers are aggressors, 204 00:15:20.679 --> 00:15:24.519 when there is bullying in school, when brothers are the first to take care 205 00:15:24.600 --> 00:15:30.200 of me and have so much violence, or the author, because this story 206 00:15:30.279 --> 00:15:33.840 is terrible, that these links are very common and clear that we sometimes build 207 00:15:33.919 --> 00:15:37.639 that we do not realize because we think it was love of adults. It 208 00:15:37.720 --> 00:15:41.919 influences how I bond with food, like my bond with the couple, with 209 00:15:41.000 --> 00:15:46.759 my children. Now all this, because our body has memory, our psychologital 210 00:15:46.840 --> 00:15:50.759 memory. The message is we can do something like that. Therapy works and 211 00:15:52.200 --> 00:15:54.960 it' s not about going out and looking for culprits, but just give 212 00:15:54.879 --> 00:15:58.080 me an explanation and tell me if that happened. And now that I do, 213 00:15:58.679 --> 00:16:02.000 we' re going to change in the definition. The experience is re 214 00:16:02.480 --> 00:16:06.600 - accommodated, if possible, with psychological work. And here I say it 215 00:16:06.600 --> 00:16:08.519 openly, because many would say no, no, not to see the doctor 216 00:16:08.519 --> 00:16:11.480 excuse me. I' m not going to believe that, because psychology doesn 217 00:16:11.600 --> 00:16:18.440 ' t let me tell you a fundamental aspect, because this is contundity and 218 00:16:18.480 --> 00:16:19.320 it' s science when we see it. I can measure the brain. 219 00:16:21.080 --> 00:16:25.200 I can take a picture of the inactive brain and I can see the change 220 00:16:25.279 --> 00:16:27.799 in the time that therapy can have on this brain. Regardless of whether he 221 00:16:27.799 --> 00:16:30.559 had violence, aggression, he didn' t have a tumor, why, 222 00:16:32.360 --> 00:16:36.679 because therapeutic work makes them grow. Bless you with this really is wonderful neural 223 00:16:36.720 --> 00:16:41.039 networks of the prefrontal cortex, which the intelligent part is where we are defining 224 00:16:41.039 --> 00:16:47.840 and changing to the migda. The brain neurons grow in the neural networks towards 225 00:16:47.919 --> 00:16:52.799 the neurons in an area of the migla called interspersed masses. The friend. 226 00:16:52.879 --> 00:16:57.639 The brain is a region that this do we have two left right which is 227 00:16:57.759 --> 00:17:02.879 the one that generates emotions and grows as if they were branches of trees, 228 00:17:03.039 --> 00:17:07.599 get into the migdala and we start to change the modulation of how I tone 229 00:17:08.559 --> 00:17:11.599 an emotion Sometimes it' s ay again not. If I do you, 230 00:17:11.680 --> 00:17:15.759 I do a therapeutic job. I hope deep. I mean, I would 231 00:17:17.240 --> 00:17:22.160 have gone out screaming before and I have to calm down to the extent that 232 00:17:22.279 --> 00:17:27.039 today, if we know that life in the brain can get information from the 233 00:17:27.039 --> 00:17:30.200 prefrontal and change, we' re a species that we can change. Therapy 234 00:17:30.279 --> 00:17:34.880 changes us. The professional effect of carrying it properly helps us a great deal. 235 00:17:36.400 --> 00:17:40.400 Magnetic resonance imaging has made us do the measurement of this study and today 236 00:17:40.720 --> 00:17:45.960 we have transcranial magnetic stimulation that through electromagnetic fields we can also help you to 237 00:17:47.000 --> 00:17:52.200 therapy all these processes that before, ten years ago we do not have to 238 00:17:52.279 --> 00:17:56.680 change it as we integrate our intestine with our current. When they turn around 239 00:17:56.759 --> 00:18:00.079 right now, I think a lot of them came back to him or the 240 00:18:00.079 --> 00:18:03.799 intestine. Yes, the intestine, because the microbiota, the parts that are 241 00:18:03.839 --> 00:18:07.440 in this destiny that have a relationship with the vagus nerve, inform our brain 242 00:18:07.519 --> 00:18:15.480 how much neurote emitter I lack and in an incredible way the intestine produces to 243 00:18:15.480 --> 00:18:22.599 me not made for the brain to do blacks. Three kisses. We' 244 00:18:22.640 --> 00:18:25.160 re back here in Chayo with you and well, they don' t know 245 00:18:25.160 --> 00:18:29.400 how. I' d love for you to hear the conversations we have out 246 00:18:29.519 --> 00:18:37.519 of the air, because this man is full of knowledge everywhere and I want 247 00:18:37.720 --> 00:18:40.160 to ask you Eduan what' s going on. You already told me something 248 00:18:40.200 --> 00:18:45.519 I was very pleased with. If we have hope, we are conscious and 249 00:18:45.599 --> 00:18:48.880 can as a species, make changes. Therapy helps in the end, but 250 00:18:49.000 --> 00:18:56.359 what happens in a brain when a woman begins to perceive that such violence must 251 00:18:56.480 --> 00:19:03.119 no longer tolerate it, she does not leave the house. Yeah, but 252 00:19:03.240 --> 00:19:11.319 then he reconciles, yeah and he comes back and he' s got a 253 00:19:11.319 --> 00:19:14.359 lot of voices around him telling him but how, but why, but why 254 00:19:14.359 --> 00:19:15.559 don' t you let him. But look at you violent, it hits 255 00:19:15.640 --> 00:19:18.839 you, but look at your kids. But, but, but, but, 256 00:19:18.960 --> 00:19:22.200 but, if the voices are so loud, yes, why is that 257 00:19:22.279 --> 00:19:29.599 experience so strong? Because in general, people who managed to get out of 258 00:19:29.640 --> 00:19:34.759 a violent relationship did so after many attempts with relapses not on the road until 259 00:19:34.799 --> 00:19:41.680 they succeed and others have tried, tried and failed. What' s going 260 00:19:41.680 --> 00:19:45.000 on here? There are three factors that I can tell you right now. 261 00:19:45.079 --> 00:19:49.319 You see one, the decrease of the prefrontal cortex, the previous violence that 262 00:19:49.359 --> 00:19:52.920 we premiered as adults with. Yes, because I had already been raped, 263 00:19:53.200 --> 00:19:57.559 I had already been beaten. And the decrease in the structure that connects the 264 00:19:57.680 --> 00:20:02.839 two cerebral hemispheres is called a callous body the smaller the popocallous body, that 265 00:20:03.000 --> 00:20:04.880 is, the less the two hemispheres, the left and right, speak, 266 00:20:06.039 --> 00:20:12.519 makes the prefrontal cortex immature for longer. There is a relationship proportional to greater 267 00:20:12.519 --> 00:20:18.720 violence, less maturity and then we see no chayo limits we do not realize 268 00:20:18.720 --> 00:20:22.279 the error. And even if we know that maybe we could have done it 269 00:20:22.279 --> 00:20:26.079 differently. We remake it one, the maturity of the perfontal. We' 270 00:20:26.079 --> 00:20:30.960 re late. Then to be late to a place because it accommodates me like 271 00:20:30.000 --> 00:20:34.119 this and I will not do what would have commonly touched me if biologically I 272 00:20:34.519 --> 00:20:38.240 had the maturity and I would have said no enough. Second point, Stockholm 273 00:20:38.279 --> 00:20:45.359 syndrome. There are people who with so little oxytocin are able to generate attachment. 274 00:20:45.960 --> 00:20:52.599 I have to tell you that when we were so mistreated and someone smiles 275 00:20:52.640 --> 00:20:53.559 at us, it' s the love of our life. When someone tells 276 00:20:53.559 --> 00:20:59.160 us I love you we don' t question anymore and we don' t 277 00:20:59.160 --> 00:21:03.319 build other things. It' s so strong the release of oxytocin that we 278 00:21:03.519 --> 00:21:07.640 can accept any endless things and then we turn around and tell it you realize 279 00:21:07.640 --> 00:21:11.440 how it mistreats you, how it speaks to you yes, but it' 280 00:21:11.440 --> 00:21:12.400 s mine. I' d rather have this than not have it. It 281 00:21:12.440 --> 00:21:17.599 ' s very strong what I' m saying and again without determinisms and I 282 00:21:17.640 --> 00:21:18.720 don' t want to ignore because I' m a woman. I' 283 00:21:18.759 --> 00:21:22.960 m not talking from a perspective. Please excuse me if I' ve come 284 00:21:22.039 --> 00:21:26.519 to offend at a point where science has to go in and tell you realize 285 00:21:26.599 --> 00:21:30.359 it' s not, or it' s elevated subsitocin because you didn' 286 00:21:30.440 --> 00:21:33.200 t know how to release it in time. And the third point is very 287 00:21:33.240 --> 00:21:37.519 strong. It' s called julet rose syndrome. When you tell someone that 288 00:21:37.559 --> 00:21:42.920 something doesn' t suit them, they release more dopamine and become entrenched and 289 00:21:44.759 --> 00:21:47.240 obsessed that it' s not there. And I just don' t want 290 00:21:47.279 --> 00:21:48.319 to see you with him. And it' s gone that I don' 291 00:21:48.359 --> 00:21:49.799 t love you, since you come to the house and you didn' t 292 00:21:49.799 --> 00:21:52.359 bring it. But they left and they had the baby and then they come 293 00:21:52.440 --> 00:21:56.319 back and then he tells him, but I don' t want him to 294 00:21:56.319 --> 00:21:57.279 take the baby out and we stay with the son. And four months later, 295 00:21:57.319 --> 00:22:00.640 I already have the whole family living and then where I' m wrong 296 00:22:00.680 --> 00:22:06.079 and then we realize that sometimes the orders we told him to do I told 297 00:22:06.119 --> 00:22:07.920 you not to be with him and you were. I told you not to 298 00:22:07.920 --> 00:22:11.960 get pregnant and you got pregnant that they weren' t here and they' 299 00:22:11.960 --> 00:22:15.839 re all together. Wait for me I have given you all the instructions, 300 00:22:15.000 --> 00:22:19.559 almost that you have made me counterpart and then you tell him because you made 301 00:22:19.599 --> 00:22:23.240 me rom syndrome of the mejoleta the more social opposition you put me increase, 302 00:22:23.720 --> 00:22:27.279 more dopamine and my obsession. This is a bad psychological teraplactic process that needs 303 00:22:27.319 --> 00:22:32.039 to be known, claimed and seen. Please, we' re obsessed. 304 00:22:32.599 --> 00:22:37.319 Please see things in their magnitude. We all fall in love, make the 305 00:22:37.400 --> 00:22:38.880 worst mistakes in our lives because of the high level of dopamine. Please pass 306 00:22:38.880 --> 00:22:44.160 it on, but four years later, we' re talking about you having 307 00:22:44.200 --> 00:22:48.160 to make a very good decision. It stays there or we put it aside, 308 00:22:48.599 --> 00:22:52.480 but they also take the union. So the point is, as I 309 00:22:52.519 --> 00:22:56.000 was treated in children, how much oxytocin released and also who tells me that 310 00:22:56.160 --> 00:23:02.720 obsession. I tell you and it can tell us good cheyo seven people the 311 00:23:02.720 --> 00:23:07.839 same message, with different, all messages, all in different times, and 312 00:23:07.920 --> 00:23:11.440 they are practically entrenching us because they release us so much dopamine that they obsess 313 00:23:11.440 --> 00:23:15.720 us. So much to say, because I can do it and what do 314 00:23:15.799 --> 00:23:18.359 you think I' m going to prove you the one who was wrong. 315 00:23:18.480 --> 00:23:22.000 This is because one of the terrible biases we have in life is that we 316 00:23:22.119 --> 00:23:26.599 always think we are right and if we don' t, we get angry 317 00:23:26.680 --> 00:23:32.240 or sad. The message is you want to be right or happy, and 318 00:23:32.799 --> 00:23:34.880 I would ask you to make the decision. But please don' t get 319 00:23:34.880 --> 00:23:47.799 obsessed. I want to ask you Eduardo now over the head of the violent 320 00:23:47.799 --> 00:23:52.400 OK. Yes, and remember that I' m talking like that in male, 321 00:23:52.559 --> 00:23:55.880 because we' re depending on Women' s Day, not because I 322 00:23:55.960 --> 00:24:00.480 think there are no violent women, but today we' re specifically dealing with 323 00:24:00.559 --> 00:24:07.400 everything that has to do with March 8. This violent man. I' 324 00:24:07.480 --> 00:24:11.240 m very attracted to the attention I see it, because I see it in 325 00:24:11.240 --> 00:24:12.680 my patients, I hear it, I read it in the emails that come 326 00:24:12.680 --> 00:24:22.519 to me. This violent man dissemulated very well that he was violent and in 327 00:24:22.640 --> 00:24:30.160 that process seduced, even in ways as if he were an expert in dealing 328 00:24:30.240 --> 00:24:36.519 with women. It is that we want to like how to get there and 329 00:24:36.559 --> 00:24:41.039 since we are involved in the relationship, then the brazen violence begins, because 330 00:24:41.160 --> 00:24:47.559 I already learned yesterday with a forensic psychologist who came who told us that we 331 00:24:47.559 --> 00:24:52.279 did not see the subtle violence, that had disguised love as jealousy like him 332 00:24:52.319 --> 00:24:56.240 send me the photo where you are, avoid what time you are going to 333 00:24:56.319 --> 00:25:00.039 come, because I am worried about your safety, not that it is this 334 00:25:00.119 --> 00:25:07.000 whole part, but somehow there is one or it was a dissimule and then 335 00:25:07.079 --> 00:25:10.559 it turns out that the violence begins and the escalation of violence begins and we 336 00:25:10.640 --> 00:25:12.240 get to the most dramatic things of life. The question is yes, if 337 00:25:12.400 --> 00:25:18.680 it is determined by the learning it had and then now it becomes violent because 338 00:25:18.799 --> 00:25:25.880 it received violence, but it can do this maneuver. Then he is aware 339 00:25:25.920 --> 00:25:30.480 of the violence and is concealing it and was able to control it, even 340 00:25:30.559 --> 00:25:33.599 if he had the impulse until he already has the person trapped. What happens 341 00:25:33.640 --> 00:25:37.400 then how you explain that. Seventy- four percent of the population of the 342 00:25:37.440 --> 00:25:42.240 violent men you just described, they work on the magnitude that they do know 343 00:25:42.319 --> 00:25:48.279 themselves violent, they recognize their rancidness, that the point is that I already 344 00:25:48.319 --> 00:25:49.200 know what they' re going to tell me right now. So, there 345 00:25:49.240 --> 00:25:52.480 ' s 20 percent out there, 25 percent of those who don' t 346 00:25:52.480 --> 00:25:57.319 and fall into the okay disorder. The point is that the violent is desensitizing, 347 00:25:57.440 --> 00:26:00.039 he' s attenuating, he' s romanticizing his violence. I' 348 00:26:00.079 --> 00:26:03.480 m doing it for everyone' s sake. Look, my dad was more 349 00:26:03.519 --> 00:26:06.799 violent than me. No. No, no, no, no, no, 350 00:26:07.119 --> 00:26:10.839 you get me wrong, because the situation, the problem is that the 351 00:26:10.920 --> 00:26:17.079 testosterone level and I' m going to be very very careful social networks are 352 00:26:17.160 --> 00:26:19.319 wonderful and at the same time give us the counterweight. But, please, 353 00:26:21.000 --> 00:26:26.519 my answer is in the margin of the biological, because many times they tell 354 00:26:26.519 --> 00:26:30.200 me doctor you are justifying them. It' s already happened to me and 355 00:26:30.240 --> 00:26:33.799 I have to be very careful with what I' m going to say that 356 00:26:33.799 --> 00:26:38.240 the level of testor is one of the males that makes fewer neurons connect on 357 00:26:38.240 --> 00:26:41.480 average than a woman. We both have the same number of neurons. The 358 00:26:41.599 --> 00:26:45.559 average males have them less connected. Testosterone, the hormone that makes us men, 359 00:26:45.680 --> 00:26:51.400 have the muscles, the voice, the sequence of violence. Also that 360 00:26:51.480 --> 00:26:57.200 we have this makes us disconnect neurons, one two, the migda, the 361 00:26:57.279 --> 00:27:02.839 brain, the echo neuroanatom site where the aggression is. Violence is as much 362 00:27:02.920 --> 00:27:07.039 as seventy- five percent greater in males, okay, yes, besides that 363 00:27:07.039 --> 00:27:11.279 we attach learning. I' m in a violent environment. I have a 364 00:27:11.319 --> 00:27:15.720 community where it is right, that man speaks as an express and besides, 365 00:27:17.400 --> 00:27:22.880 and this situation then causes the biological, the psychological and the social to conjure 366 00:27:22.920 --> 00:27:26.359 up. I have to be very cladusa in that context, because then the 367 00:27:26.359 --> 00:27:30.279 greatest of men if I know if they feel violent, but they justify it. 368 00:27:30.839 --> 00:27:36.240 And here the point is that from this of this seventy- four percent, 369 00:27:36.559 --> 00:27:41.400 which so goes practically forty percent stripe into the in the disorder, already 370 00:27:41.400 --> 00:27:45.799 of the personality, at the point where we see individuals bordering on structured psychopathy, 371 00:27:48.160 --> 00:27:56.359 have plans, generate this activities and make things happen without even they are 372 00:27:57.200 --> 00:28:03.119 present, the level of violence is scaled up and sometimes clearly seduced and projected. 373 00:28:10.799 --> 00:28:15.039 And finally, in the face of this whole situation, this can go 374 00:28:15.119 --> 00:28:19.039 to a situation where they perceive and feel well at the level of violence they 375 00:28:19.039 --> 00:28:26.200 generate. It generates oxytocin, becoming violent and doctamine and endorphin. It is 376 00:28:26.240 --> 00:28:33.680 such a pleasurable feeling that then they seek to repeat the process and then turn 377 00:28:33.680 --> 00:28:38.039 the children, the family, including the community, where they say. Well, 378 00:28:38.200 --> 00:28:42.839 I' d rather be afraid of you waiting for me is and you 379 00:28:42.880 --> 00:28:45.720 ' re already in an extreme situation and you' re afraid of your family. 380 00:28:45.759 --> 00:28:52.079 These situations a whole neuro connection with a neurochemic process that is no longer 381 00:28:52.440 --> 00:28:57.799 an event about which we can say is something simpler. The seven- four 382 00:28:57.920 --> 00:29:00.039 - year- old thing didn' t happen. It passes only from your 383 00:29:00.839 --> 00:29:07.039 learning and I repeat these of these events. The article published by Ccasiarse on 384 00:29:07.079 --> 00:29:11.119 the 2, 000th front in Eurosan clearly indicates that the great majority of males 385 00:29:11.160 --> 00:29:15.880 go on these climbs and says I am less violent than a year ago. 386 00:29:15.599 --> 00:29:19.000 Don' t wait for me what you' re comparing to is last year 387 00:29:19.079 --> 00:29:22.359 ' s, even no. This is an escalation that, of course, 388 00:29:22.640 --> 00:29:29.799 they do not see it increase and their level of awareness is so strong that 389 00:29:29.839 --> 00:29:33.039 in the face of this situation they are manifesting more and more detonating with smaller 390 00:29:33.039 --> 00:29:37.160 detonants than you just said. Indeed, through this relationship, they build a 391 00:29:37.279 --> 00:29:42.759 bond of affection and coexistence with their family that if something does not exist, 392 00:29:42.880 --> 00:29:45.359 it is not right. And then in the family he says he has. 393 00:29:45.799 --> 00:29:49.279 Kely didn' t say no, no, he didn' t scream ky 394 00:29:49.720 --> 00:29:52.680 didn' t say anything, because he probably had a gallbladder pain, a 395 00:29:52.680 --> 00:29:55.839 pain in his foot, because he didn' t behave like he was doing 396 00:29:55.839 --> 00:30:00.400 anymore. Unfortunately, this level of violence is becoming more frequent and in these 397 00:30:00.440 --> 00:30:03.880 communities, where it seemed to be a pattern of lime that, where the 398 00:30:03.920 --> 00:30:07.319 violent grandfather, the violent father, the uncles, the nephews, the violent 399 00:30:07.400 --> 00:30:14.839 grandchildren see it. It' s modes of learning, but it' s 400 00:30:15.720 --> 00:30:21.880 also biological, right now, because it' s hard process and we' 401 00:30:21.880 --> 00:30:26.759 re going to come back after the music and I' d like to talk 402 00:30:26.839 --> 00:30:30.039 a little bit, because we' re practically running out of the program of 403 00:30:30.039 --> 00:30:34.279 how we do. Then we can, as a family, sister and daughter 404 00:30:34.759 --> 00:30:44.680 mom, help that woman who has given us signs that she wants to get 405 00:30:44.680 --> 00:30:48.599 out, but she reconciles. But he couldn' t. Let' s 406 00:30:48.839 --> 00:30:49.920 see how it is,' cause we already said no. No, if 407 00:30:51.039 --> 00:30:55.119 we keep forbidding and saying and so on, the person is generated by this 408 00:30:55.160 --> 00:31:00.119 that you told us how so. We help when someone is close to us 409 00:31:00.200 --> 00:31:07.519 living in violence and what would be the way. I' m going to 410 00:31:07.519 --> 00:31:12.240 list four things. The first one, being nice. Talking to us greatly 411 00:31:12.279 --> 00:31:18.119 increases neural activity. Nothing increases neural activity more than the human voice. And 412 00:31:18.200 --> 00:31:22.000 I' m talking in a mass media and I' m very happy to 413 00:31:22.079 --> 00:31:23.960 say it in jewel ninety- three points. Thank you. The human voice 414 00:31:25.160 --> 00:31:30.480 is one, it has a neurophysiological magic to connect the fact of knowing to 415 00:31:30.640 --> 00:31:37.759 use it with a phrasing with a contundity, but, being kind, they 416 00:31:37.039 --> 00:31:41.400 help a lot or accompaniment through the process of the voice. Second, you 417 00:31:41.480 --> 00:31:45.160 know that we make two thousand one hundred and sixty decisions a day and that 418 00:31:45.200 --> 00:31:48.359 you stay thinking doctor how you do for that gives you money with that to 419 00:31:48.359 --> 00:31:52.559 go tell how many decisions. I do, but there are decisions to decisions. 420 00:31:52.079 --> 00:31:55.160 I' m asking you, please. First point, between 9: 421 00:31:55.400 --> 00:31:59.559 00 a m and 1 p m is the time when we' re going 422 00:31:59.559 --> 00:32:01.400 to pay more attention. The most important thing is to get him on that 423 00:32:01.400 --> 00:32:06.119 schedule. Don' t make decisions after that schedule, because you' re 424 00:32:06.160 --> 00:32:08.759 already tired, you' re tired the moment you go to site eight of 425 00:32:08.799 --> 00:32:12.319 the night and say it' s when he arrives and we' re going 426 00:32:12.359 --> 00:32:15.000 to talk about it is the worst moments. You never argue in the car, 427 00:32:15.160 --> 00:32:17.480 you never argue over the phone. Don' t do it. It 428 00:32:17.559 --> 00:32:22.119 ' s one of the unfortunate things we do and say, because get in 429 00:32:22.119 --> 00:32:22.920 the car and right now we fix it. It' s not going to 430 00:32:22.920 --> 00:32:28.319 be the worst, because the fact that the brain is arguing at a four 431 00:32:28.599 --> 00:32:30.519 - by- four event and where neither one of them is giving attention, 432 00:32:30.759 --> 00:32:34.759 because then certain things happen and there less and it' s driving. It 433 00:32:34.799 --> 00:32:37.599 ' s the worst situation. I ask you, please, do not interpret 434 00:32:37.680 --> 00:32:40.960 a message. When you read it turn and I tell you look until you 435 00:32:42.079 --> 00:32:45.279 are mocking nothing else says that you didn' t come, for you see 436 00:32:45.319 --> 00:32:49.319 until this one doesn' t wait for me there says that there is not 437 00:32:49.319 --> 00:32:50.759 a person who doesn' t enter in this dynamic. It is essential that 438 00:32:50.799 --> 00:32:53.119 you understand the schedule at what times you are going to do it. Thirdly, 439 00:32:53.480 --> 00:32:58.400 I ask all people to stress, to anger, to cry and to 440 00:32:58.400 --> 00:33:05.640 information. Vali of emotion. I don' t like to see you cry, 441 00:33:06.200 --> 00:33:08.480 but I accept your cry and, besides, I understand that you' 442 00:33:09.119 --> 00:33:15.119 re crying for something that I told you is different from not crying, don 443 00:33:15.200 --> 00:33:17.000 ' t get angry not at that moment you say don' t wait for 444 00:33:17.000 --> 00:33:19.039 me, so I don' t care what I' m saying. So 445 00:33:19.079 --> 00:33:22.279 no no no, you don' t detect that you' re not putting 446 00:33:22.319 --> 00:33:29.359 it like that the moment we do, this is if we really want to 447 00:33:29.400 --> 00:33:32.400 change your information valid at that point is to recognize that the brain wants to 448 00:33:32.400 --> 00:33:35.720 be right. Please give yourself the opportunity and I ask you something at this 449 00:33:35.799 --> 00:33:39.720 essential point. I, when I speak from the point of view in neurophysiological, 450 00:33:39.920 --> 00:33:44.400 tell you to remove from the equation, as well as in a mathematical 451 00:33:45.400 --> 00:33:50.799 equation that removes x squared and the result is another. In the equation of 452 00:33:50.839 --> 00:33:52.559 that point is to remove the migda from the brain and the result is to 453 00:33:52.599 --> 00:33:54.880 be another. And I know what you' re going to tell me right 454 00:33:55.079 --> 00:34:01.880 now and how the hell little my brain is to Dr Calixto the point analyze 455 00:34:01.880 --> 00:34:05.680 his breathing. When you are aware of your breathing, you decrease the activity 456 00:34:05.720 --> 00:34:10.599 of the tonsil the brain immediately remove it. Second point, if you tell 457 00:34:10.639 --> 00:34:15.639 the assailant you' re right. It' s like strategy. The aggressor 458 00:34:15.760 --> 00:34:21.880 no longer disputes whether he continues to assault, has poor mental health. Okay, 459 00:34:22.119 --> 00:34:25.360 if a person keeps assaulting someone who' s crying and doesn' t 460 00:34:25.400 --> 00:34:30.119 detect tears who' s crying and there' s bad mental health. If 461 00:34:30.199 --> 00:34:34.880 we' re going to make a decision, please, it' s not 462 00:34:34.880 --> 00:34:36.400 like we' re going. You' re right. You' re right. 463 00:34:36.480 --> 00:34:37.519 The second floor guy' s right. He hit someone else. No. 464 00:34:37.400 --> 00:34:38.679 No. No. No. No. No, I' m just 465 00:34:38.679 --> 00:34:42.800 saying strategy. You' re right. Oh, you' re mocking me, 466 00:34:42.800 --> 00:34:43.840 don' t you. I' m saying you' re right. 467 00:34:43.840 --> 00:34:46.400 Look for everything you' ve been telling me. Indeed, at that moment 468 00:34:46.519 --> 00:34:50.440 I remove the friend, the brain from the discussion and he will realize that 469 00:34:50.480 --> 00:34:54.400 something wonderful appears. And the third point made I say that many times they 470 00:34:54.519 --> 00:34:59.960 say ay this for that really neurophysiologists. I have to tell you openly that 471 00:35:00.119 --> 00:35:04.280 if you look in the mirror, argue or cry, it changes and modifies 472 00:35:04.280 --> 00:35:07.880 the way it gets excited. We don' t like to see the face 473 00:35:08.079 --> 00:35:15.559 equation when we' re crying arguing. The brain automatically doesn' t accept 474 00:35:15.599 --> 00:35:20.719 our angry face, our own. I ask you please, Doctor, I 475 00:35:20.760 --> 00:35:25.119 don' t have a mirror, because buy it is carrying it a place 476 00:35:25.159 --> 00:35:28.719 near and before this point it is already said, but don' t ask 477 00:35:28.719 --> 00:35:31.760 you that, Eduardo. I want you to be more deep in things and 478 00:35:31.880 --> 00:35:37.320 I' ll tell you the most important person in this world is You. 479 00:35:37.079 --> 00:35:43.119 And if something doesn' t work, say it and you have every ability 480 00:35:43.159 --> 00:35:45.480 to say, I disagree, because it' s You who should love each 481 00:35:45.480 --> 00:35:50.360 other the most. Who' s listening to me. Oh, I always 482 00:35:50.480 --> 00:35:52.639 get this feeling that I want more. I want more, I want more. 483 00:35:52.679 --> 00:35:59.159 When I talk to you about how they look for you in ecalisto magazine, 484 00:35:59.679 --> 00:36:02.559 on Facebook, in former eucalyptus. There I am and on Instagram with 485 00:36:02.639 --> 00:36:07.320 Dr Eduardo Klixto perfect. Follow them I' ll put them on anyway on 486 00:36:07.360 --> 00:36:14.119 social media so they have it. And we' ve already planned a new 487 00:36:14.159 --> 00:36:17.079 visit with a very interesting subject. That' s right, keep' em 488 00:36:17.079 --> 00:36:22.360 up. Eduardo, as always, my absolute thanks. It' s a 489 00:36:22.440 --> 00:36:24.039 hono to me, my admiration, my love, I respect myself, I 490 00:36:24.039 --> 00:36:25.440 respect my baby chayo. Thank you very much, thank you very much. 491 00:36:25.519 --> 00:36:30.920 Today, thank you very much. And I remind you that tomorrow we have 492 00:36:30.039 --> 00:36:37.199 three different generations of women talking about how they lived and have experienced this perception, 493 00:36:37.239 --> 00:36:44.480 about gender- based violence and on Friday remember. We' re going 494 00:36:44.519 --> 00:36:47.840 to have the author, one of the authors of the book. They are 495 00:36:49.159 --> 00:36:53.079 not everyday micromachisms and with that we will close this week and we will still 496 00:36:53.079 --> 00:36:57.199 have Monday and Tuesday two other programs that they will like very much. I 497 00:36:57.239 --> 00:37:05.320 ' m Chayo Busquets. This was chayo with you s n Stons Audio Center