C K and Carmen. It's being ninety five friends knows home for hip hop
and hits. You know, when somebody ghost on you, we do our
job to figure out why they ghost dated and hopefully make a second date happen.
Being ninety five. What's up? Hey? How are you guys doing
all right? So second date up date? You kind of want to hang
out with Chris? What's going on? Yeah? So exactly, I kind
of want to hang out Chris and he's not getting back to me and I'm
just hella confused. So so tell us a little bit about Chris, what's
going on and why you're a little bit confused. Sure. So it's super
random, but we actually met at a speed dating pussion. Oh wow,
I've just been trying a bunch of different things and was like why not and
was super surprised when it actually worked. Okay, it's really chill and cool,
and we decided going up like an official first date. I do want
to say though, that, like I've been single for a bit now,
everything I broke up with my ex and this like stretch of being single has
been driving me crazy. Chris seems really cool and I don't know, I
just I also want to say, we were like two seconds away from having
sex at one point, and he didn't have a condom. So wait,
wait, wait, wait, you guys had a good first date, obviously
so good that you guys ended up going back to your place or his place
and then you know you was about ready to get it in. Yeah.
Sorry, that just sound like an escalator quickly. It was a long date,
yes, yes, but so that's the only thing is like, it
was obviously good enough, right, But that's the one thing that I keep
getting caught up on. It is like maybe because we weren't able to have
sex, but that's not cool. So I don't know. Okay, I
see what you're saying, Like if that was the end all, be all.
I mean, it's kind of like it takes two to tango. You
didn't have a condom, he didn't have a condom. He shouldn't be so
upset with that. I wouldn't, hope not. I mean, you're both
doing the right things first time, y'all hooking up. You guys are having
a great first date. You want to make sure that it's protected all that
good stuff exactly exactly, And so the fact that I mean, I think
at the end of the date, it was like, well, we definitely
want to get together again so that we can finish where we started, and
I just haven't heard anything. Okay, Okay, Well here's what we're gonna
do. We're gonna get Chris on the phone. We're gonna see if we
can make a second date of reality and see what happened and why he just
kind of abruptly cut you off, because I mean it seemed like everything was
going extremely well and then out of nowhere, Chris just disappeared on you exactly.
Yeah, so what is Chris gonna say? You're gonna find out next.
Here we are inside a second date update, CK and Carmen. It's
Being ninety five, So we were able to track down Chris. Second date
Update CK and Carmen be ninety five, got to figure out why he ghosted.
I mean, things went so well they almost got it in on the
first date, just saying I believe he's on the phone. Hey, what's
up, Chris? How you doing? It's c K and Carmen from Being
ninety five. Good morning, what's up guys? How you doing? What's
up? Man? All right, So we're calling because we do this thing
called a second date, updating. Before we go any further, I have
to have your permission to continue this conversation on the radio. Are you good
with that? Yes? Good? You mind? Permission? I love it
all right? So, Chris, you recently went on a date with someone,
had a good time, you know, so good of a time you
guys almost you know, did a little something something, but didn't have a
condom. Do you have any idea of who I might be calling about.
Yeah, you're probably calling about Carmela, aren't you. Yes, yes,
yes. So with that being said, I'm curious to know what you thought
of Carmela and how that first date went from your perspective. Yeah, this
check has rect boyfriend's name on her like when you say on her like,
I mean, she's got a tattoo of her ex boyfriend's name on her body.
And so when you saw that, that was kind of like the ant
can't do this, can't do this? Yeah, yeah, pretty much right
away. I you know, I'm in of excuse. I was like,
oh, I don't have a condom, but yeah, when I saw that
right away, that was a big turn off, and I'm like, I'm
out of here. She needs to be with whoever's name is written on her.
Okay, but you understand that people do have x's, and people you
know, may have done some crazy things with that X and including getting a
tattoo of the name on them at some point. Is that really a deal
breaker? I mean, maybe like get like a tattoo removal. I don't
know. Yeah, I know, but it's it's always gonna be there.
It's it's like she's the kind of person who's gonna tattoo someone's name on it,
who it might not work out with. It just was a big turn
off. It's just a it's just a note. Well, here's the thing.
We have Carmela on the phone right now. I'm not sure if you
know how the second date update works, but Carmela's on the phone, and
I mean I gotta let Carmela. I mean, you heard him. Carmela.
First of all, I don't understand if you had an issue, you
could have said something right then and there, like why are you now just
saying like that's the deal breaker? And you literally lied to my faith,
like tell me you have an issue. Well, I mean I was just
I was just being polite. You know, I don't really know how to
how to deal with it, Like, I mean, am I wrong?
Am I wrong? Is this? Is this a you know? Is that
just it's just a word now on your body? Is here? Is this?
Here's a guy you still like, you still like or still have feelings
for. Yes, I was in a ten year relationship with that dude,
okay, and so that was a big part of my life. And we
do still talk some time to time, but I'm not interested in being with
him. And you know what, like I said, when you're in a
relationship, things happen. Sometimes you do things when you're young that you regret
when you're older, and I'm sure that this is probably one of those things.
And I know I kind of mentioned this earlier. You never know,
she could be in the process of getting that tattoo removed, because, like
I said, when you're young, sometimes you do silly things, especially when
you're in love. Yeah, but wait, didn't you just say that she's
still talking of a guy I mean her civil Yeah, I mean this this
person was a big part of my life. Ten years is a long time.
It'd be one thing if there was some dude I gated for a couple
of dates, you know, Yeah, I mean you see what I'm saying.
It's it's enough for me. Well, it's enough for me too,
because you're honestly rude. I mean, this is kind of an interesting one.
You know, maybe if you were like, nah, we have no
communication anymore, we don't talk. I get to see how Chris may say,
you know what. She's in the process of getting the tattoo removed.
She doesn't talk to the guy. Everything's all good. I'm down to see
where this may go. But I mean, I know that you said that
it was ten years and he's still kind of a part of your life.
Do you see him always being a part of your life? Is that something
that you're probably never gonna get rid of and you always, at the very
least remain friends. I mean, I can't predict the future. I don't
know, and I'm not gonna get a tattoo rooo. It's in a sensitive
area, and so I'm just not going to go through with the removal.
That's stupid. Well where is this tattoo? It's right next to her.
For real, you're gonna say that on the radio. What the hell if
you gonna say that, I'm rude. I'm gonna tell Pete, tell the
listeners, what's what? Well, that wasn't information for you to reveal.
It's my body. If I wanted to say that, I could have.
I mean, yeah, she's right, I mean, but we kind of
know where the tattoo is now. And yes, that's kind of a sensitive
area, in a very personal area in the sense that I mean maybe as
a guy, if you're like I'm about to you know, possibly, you
know, make love to this person, that's probably not the last thing you
want to see before you get into it. Maybe that sounds like insecurity to
me. If you're cold, secure in yourself and you can't deal with that
then right, Or you can also look at it like, well, his
loss my game. Yeah, I guess I need to find good, but
I don't want to be reminded of it every time. It's like, you're
going to keep a picture of nothing issue. This all sounds like you is
you issue. So I'm going to find someone who's secure and doesn't lie to
me. Not good I understand. I can see quickly that this is not
going to go in the direction of a possible second date. So I mean,
I appreciate you coming on and being honest, Carmela. I'm sorry that
we couldn't make a second date happen to day and hopefully you got the answers
that you need and you feel like, man, it's time to move on
and find someone other than Chris. Yeah, this is a blessing, so
thank you. So there you go this morning. Second date updates. CK
and Carmen is being any five Fresnel's Home for hip hop and its