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C K and Carmen. It's being
ninety five friends knows home for hip hop

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and hits. You know, when
somebody ghost on you, we do our

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job to figure out why they ghost
dated and hopefully make a second date happen.

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Being ninety five. What's up?
Hey? How are you guys doing

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all right? So second date up
date? You kind of want to hang

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out with Chris? What's going on? Yeah? So exactly, I kind

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of want to hang out Chris and
he's not getting back to me and I'm

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just hella confused. So so tell
us a little bit about Chris, what's

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going on and why you're a little
bit confused. Sure. So it's super

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random, but we actually met at
a speed dating pussion. Oh wow,

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I've just been trying a bunch of
different things and was like why not and

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was super surprised when it actually worked. Okay, it's really chill and cool,

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and we decided going up like an
official first date. I do want

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to say though, that, like
I've been single for a bit now,

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everything I broke up with my ex
and this like stretch of being single has

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been driving me crazy. Chris seems
really cool and I don't know, I

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just I also want to say,
we were like two seconds away from having

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sex at one point, and he
didn't have a condom. So wait,

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wait, wait, wait, you
guys had a good first date, obviously

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so good that you guys ended up
going back to your place or his place

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and then you know you was about
ready to get it in. Yeah.

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Sorry, that just sound like an
escalator quickly. It was a long date,

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yes, yes, but so that's
the only thing is like, it

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was obviously good enough, right,
But that's the one thing that I keep

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getting caught up on. It is
like maybe because we weren't able to have

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sex, but that's not cool.
So I don't know. Okay, I

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see what you're saying, Like if
that was the end all, be all.

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I mean, it's kind of like
it takes two to tango. You

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didn't have a condom, he didn't
have a condom. He shouldn't be so

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upset with that. I wouldn't,
hope not. I mean, you're both

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doing the right things first time,
y'all hooking up. You guys are having

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a great first date. You want
to make sure that it's protected all that

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good stuff exactly exactly, And so
the fact that I mean, I think

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at the end of the date,
it was like, well, we definitely

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want to get together again so that
we can finish where we started, and

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I just haven't heard anything. Okay, Okay, Well here's what we're gonna

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do. We're gonna get Chris on
the phone. We're gonna see if we

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can make a second date of reality
and see what happened and why he just

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kind of abruptly cut you off,
because I mean it seemed like everything was

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going extremely well and then out of
nowhere, Chris just disappeared on you exactly.

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Yeah, so what is Chris gonna
say? You're gonna find out next.

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Here we are inside a second date
update, CK and Carmen. It's

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Being ninety five, So we were
able to track down Chris. Second date

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Update CK and Carmen be ninety five, got to figure out why he ghosted.

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I mean, things went so well
they almost got it in on the

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first date, just saying I believe
he's on the phone. Hey, what's

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up, Chris? How you doing? It's c K and Carmen from Being

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ninety five. Good morning, what's
up guys? How you doing? What's

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up? Man? All right,
So we're calling because we do this thing

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called a second date, updating.
Before we go any further, I have

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to have your permission to continue this
conversation on the radio. Are you good

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with that? Yes? Good?
You mind? Permission? I love it

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all right? So, Chris,
you recently went on a date with someone,

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had a good time, you know, so good of a time you

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guys almost you know, did a
little something something, but didn't have a

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condom. Do you have any idea
of who I might be calling about.

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Yeah, you're probably calling about Carmela, aren't you. Yes, yes,

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yes. So with that being said, I'm curious to know what you thought

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of Carmela and how that first date
went from your perspective. Yeah, this

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check has rect boyfriend's name on her
like when you say on her like,

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I mean, she's got a tattoo
of her ex boyfriend's name on her body.

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And so when you saw that,
that was kind of like the ant

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can't do this, can't do this? Yeah, yeah, pretty much right

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away. I you know, I'm
in of excuse. I was like,

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oh, I don't have a condom, but yeah, when I saw that

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right away, that was a big
turn off, and I'm like, I'm

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out of here. She needs to
be with whoever's name is written on her.

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Okay, but you understand that people
do have x's, and people you

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know, may have done some crazy
things with that X and including getting a

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tattoo of the name on them at
some point. Is that really a deal

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breaker? I mean, maybe like
get like a tattoo removal. I don't

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know. Yeah, I know,
but it's it's always gonna be there.

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It's it's like she's the kind of
person who's gonna tattoo someone's name on it,

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who it might not work out with. It just was a big turn

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off. It's just a it's just
a note. Well, here's the thing.

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We have Carmela on the phone right
now. I'm not sure if you

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know how the second date update works, but Carmela's on the phone, and

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I mean I gotta let Carmela.
I mean, you heard him. Carmela.

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First of all, I don't understand
if you had an issue, you

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could have said something right then and
there, like why are you now just

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saying like that's the deal breaker?
And you literally lied to my faith,

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like tell me you have an issue. Well, I mean I was just

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I was just being polite. You
know, I don't really know how to

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how to deal with it, Like, I mean, am I wrong?

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Am I wrong? Is this?
Is this a you know? Is that

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just it's just a word now on
your body? Is here? Is this?

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Here's a guy you still like,
you still like or still have feelings

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for. Yes, I was in
a ten year relationship with that dude,

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okay, and so that was a
big part of my life. And we

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do still talk some time to time, but I'm not interested in being with

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him. And you know what,
like I said, when you're in a

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relationship, things happen. Sometimes you
do things when you're young that you regret

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when you're older, and I'm sure
that this is probably one of those things.

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And I know I kind of mentioned
this earlier. You never know,

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she could be in the process of
getting that tattoo removed, because, like

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I said, when you're young,
sometimes you do silly things, especially when

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you're in love. Yeah, but
wait, didn't you just say that she's

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still talking of a guy I mean
her civil Yeah, I mean this this

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person was a big part of my
life. Ten years is a long time.

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It'd be one thing if there was
some dude I gated for a couple

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of dates, you know, Yeah, I mean you see what I'm saying.

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It's it's enough for me. Well, it's enough for me too,

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because you're honestly rude. I mean, this is kind of an interesting one.

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You know, maybe if you were
like, nah, we have no

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communication anymore, we don't talk.
I get to see how Chris may say,

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you know what. She's in the
process of getting the tattoo removed.

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She doesn't talk to the guy.
Everything's all good. I'm down to see

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where this may go. But I
mean, I know that you said that

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it was ten years and he's still
kind of a part of your life.

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Do you see him always being a
part of your life? Is that something

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that you're probably never gonna get rid
of and you always, at the very

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least remain friends. I mean,
I can't predict the future. I don't

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know, and I'm not gonna get
a tattoo rooo. It's in a sensitive

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area, and so I'm just not
going to go through with the removal.

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That's stupid. Well where is this
tattoo? It's right next to her.

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For real, you're gonna say that
on the radio. What the hell if

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you gonna say that, I'm rude. I'm gonna tell Pete, tell the

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listeners, what's what? Well,
that wasn't information for you to reveal.

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It's my body. If I wanted
to say that, I could have.

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I mean, yeah, she's right, I mean, but we kind of

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know where the tattoo is now.
And yes, that's kind of a sensitive

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area, in a very personal area
in the sense that I mean maybe as

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a guy, if you're like I'm
about to you know, possibly, you

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know, make love to this person, that's probably not the last thing you

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want to see before you get into
it. Maybe that sounds like insecurity to

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me. If you're cold, secure
in yourself and you can't deal with that

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then right, Or you can also
look at it like, well, his

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loss my game. Yeah, I
guess I need to find good, but

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I don't want to be reminded of
it every time. It's like, you're

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going to keep a picture of nothing
issue. This all sounds like you is

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you issue. So I'm going to
find someone who's secure and doesn't lie to

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me. Not good I understand.
I can see quickly that this is not

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going to go in the direction of
a possible second date. So I mean,

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I appreciate you coming on and being
honest, Carmela. I'm sorry that

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we couldn't make a second date happen
to day and hopefully you got the answers

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that you need and you feel like, man, it's time to move on

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and find someone other than Chris.
Yeah, this is a blessing, so

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thank you. So there you go
this morning. Second date updates. CK

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