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a quicker and check it out. Today we will talk to my comas Michelle
and Cristal Jiménez about the great relationship of sisters they have and how I have
managed to maintain it throughout their lives. Stay with us well gone to the
four- metre club where we talk to you the nice thing, I am
the politically incorrect thing about motherhood. I' m Monica Lesharen, mother of
Villa Gali and Luca b nine, seven and five years, three kids who
have me officiated, but sometimes I want to wave them. But I'
m not gonna wave them, I' m gonna grab them, but I
' m gonna fuck them. I' m kind of going to bur but
you do understand me and on my right we have here at my petits two
thousand for the time. I' ve never understood of bro intelligent woman,
light- guided podcast prepared, computer excel exceeding times here. Mummy Octopus,
it would be better, as I say, better known as impul but to
see it' s Nicole Criste, exactly Hey' s at the BJ there,
at the Electoral Center Boards, in my work, right now I'
m Nicoles and I have to change the chip now I' m Mummy Pulpa.
But Mommy Octopus, how they know me in the nets or Nicole Resick,
how they know me in my house. Javi Millo' s mom,
two really cool guys waiting for you. Like I left seven and five years,
I wanted it very close to birthday, so I get confused and we
get tangled, but yes, it always takes two years. That' s
a plus. It helps me if I' m the first, I'
m the second, and I' m not super happy to be here.
But before we get into it, someone has one they also want this iDen
Trump. I already have one, because you have a lot, without saying
a bit and give the week is accurate, exactly. Last week' s
tantrop was either amber, I' m missing and Nicoles is the constant,
the present. That' s why I laugh the light and you' ve
seen it in those people. We all say it' s my agent'
s light and guidance, but good hours, but who doesn' t.
I have a chantrum. My son was given a birthday the other day and
in the fonditas, fonditas, giant like those and looked like Skinalls air Heads
sweet well or understand how they say or little thing that so there is not
the pump of the candy. No. My lunch came from there and sir
had tied Mr. Beast Sy Game srvig No guilla. You know gamerbes ok
b Youtuber, which is super famous and has a line of chocolates. Wow.
Then my kids went crazy when they saw it, the point is that
inside there was a ball of that one that is quichi, but every time
you gave it it was like that, guerreave. All of a sudden,
all the birthday kids and all the moms look at it like they don'
t. And after gentlemen, I found out that nothing but to take away
a pichu tico and it no longer sounds and it has light there all and
you work in the pichu tico. I' m gonna go up a hack
or a wow. It' s very informative, but that did happen first
the fonditas. Gentlemen, I really will leave you your sweets, obviously,
but let' s manage eh no, and that worker Valentine' s Day,
party of things. What' s his name from the homeland. Yeah,
plus birthdays from an obscene amount of candy. Yes, and it'
s funny that we have Emilio living in the same building, that they'
re not, that they eat it, that yes, he' s always
going to go and that here' s like he has a name for him.
As sweet as there is, as I know what and go to the
guest for a moment limited then exactly and what they say to me we understand
you, we support you and we never judge you, but we do judge
the people who make a lot of sweet. Lon ninety- six. I
mean, I don' t want to feel bad about that mom. No,
no, you know what' s going on, and I don'
t know that. We didn' t talk about it in the birthday episode,
but it' s that sometimes you also buy some fonditas that then have
to fill it up and feel like it came such a big day. But
there I loved that Javi was a birthday, the seventh day of a family
very close to us, that they are very like healthy and like it'
s a lifestyle that I really admire because they carry it to the letter,
to the level that they don' t like the fondito de dulce. On
his birthday and there was even a birthday that we were also told not to
bring gifts, to donate to a cat foundation, to rescue cats, and
that it was the foundation that the child was like he liked and that they
gave away, that is to say that there was in the middle of the
fondito and this time it was that the Zombie versus plants like a Nintendo,
a Nintendo game, and it was a little cla plant, that is to
say it was a little plant idea, it was like a little thing,
like saying a little kid and saying it. I didn' t love it
dedicated and he takes it to Daddy who loves the ark line, so in
the end they don' t love it either Tandy, who is the fondito
as it is. I told my daughter, when she turned five, you
can pick a candy. I put a holster on it, or it was
a little stouch with pencils, lapp forgiveness, with pencils and a few erasers
and he case and I told him and he goes a sweet, one,
a boob, a duris up, a ring pop in every fondita. But
I always think, me five, you have a ring up, it'
s a great or any not a world that they like candy. But it
' s really yes, it' s an excess, it' s an
excess and the amount of birthdays is out of control, out of control and
out of control and I feel like yes, there' s that against.
I understand he likes sweets, but he can' t be sweet for a
month nko can' t eat sweet every day. And that we do it
as a casti mary, that' s like we do it as a custom.
I believe and it doesn' t necessarily have as a function, because
in the end many people do what they do, they keep it or they
condemn it or they reprove it at least the sweet. Sweets are eaten.
I mean, for me the biggest thing is the candy store, like the
playtics who use it a baz and get lost, that is, breaking it
made a whole thing of please, that is, people actually putting it.
Please. That' s playful. I' ve had it bad until I
' ve touched it. You don' t get it broken by a cyclaje.
Oh yeah, that' s not no, you can' t recycle.
It' s a subject. So there are, like you made remains.
Sir I am very happy to remove my commas cs chis. This was
a mop that makes Michelle. I am also a midwife, ok, I
am a Godmother of Cayetano, the son of Cristal, and I am a
Godmother of Godmother of Milo, even if it is an honorary one, because
I have not baptized my children. Well, I' ve tried very hard.
Well, they' re a weasel. Yeah, they' re like
a mother, like no one else and apart from a midwife, we live
in a commune. Evening neighbors we had in community. Mr De were the
envy of the whole pandemic. I mean, if they had noticed, I
had included all of us, too, we were the envy club, but
maybe exactly in the pandemic. I lived it through theater as the root of
the pandemic. I am really happened or they gave themselves the plas why yes.
Yeah, we were exactly neighbors in our married apartment, well, newly
married and pregnant. We were neighbors and we kind of moved in together.
They found an apartment first and first, but so did my brother. You
guys explaining for people who might not know. Michie Cris has a brother.
We were Emilio, who' s an architect and he' s amazing and
he' s moved the first apartment I saw was mine. Yes, being
ar that and then they got a better chance in the same building, an
apartment on another floor and they told us that she was pregnant with Luca or
Lucas already on the way or already on the way, and it was I
had to play the part plays, I visited you the one that had two
fish, had two floors, but it was good patch read pat Yes,
I remember and good to understand that Monica is married to our cousin brother,
because there are people who also have te that we are families romos, are
prime cedar, Yes, yes, we are, but what do you think
a little bit at least you and even in the impiamos we already started.
I got that moment, let me know I saw the glass table. Or
he does, but it' s jealousy, Mr Like, yes, but
I' m glad he' s got the same style. Look the other
day we were women. The other day they put me on a trip and
they were an event together and put a code on an instagram and that ay
wow the same wallpaper. They get excited clearly that they had the same wallpaper
with flowers, as well as so stuck in today watch a zoom. Please,
what a toasty and the same painting avio and what do I care?
I' m your brother and sister We' ve got a color palette.
Yes, yes, something that seems to be, to everyone who, for
example, so I' ve been following her for a long time. I
even think I say before I meet Monica, wow yeah and they' re
like a very nice relationship, at least through networks or like you equal in
person, oh or world to demystify her, but of a sorority and then
we were saying as you look. We have touched on many issues here of
us always touch on issues that have to see or touch on motherhood in one
way or another, but we really rely on women. I mean, the
idea is also to see those relationships, explore those relationships that we, as
women, live and the impact that that can have on our family, on
our life decisions and so on. You have as a very marked brotherhood.
I am, for example, a sister mother of women. Also good I
arrested you to Ramón Emilio, but also to Dominican to be sister more ok
I did not sanitize that sister of father, curiosity. But between you two
there' s like something that people even happen to Monica and Carla too many
times, like people think you' re twins or twins. Yeah, totally
good. He doesn' t connect a recent anecdote about when I went to
vote. I went to vote on Sunday true and I come with my cards
and I deliver my card and three hours in the booklet looking for me Mommy
is already voting and they don' t find me and finally they find me,
they give me my paper, I vote, I will put my vote
in the urn and when I go to sign here I see that that'
s not me. That' s my shell and I tell a lie that
' s not me. I gave him my card, but of course,
because I' m not a fucking walito, I say and because it'
s not by the looks of it, it' s by the number of
Mr Name and the man forgives me, because I' m a little bit
mean. It' s by the name and you last a long time looking
for my name and my number of cards, like it equals not a little
bit. Well look, miss, the truth is I was looking for a
number. But when I live a person equally to ted I end up there,
I say you know my lord and laughter, that' s my sister
and she' s going to vote then. If you' re not on
the table, you' ll probably get there and your votes will be one,
because you' re going to say no, no, no, we
' re not going to get you out. He' s coming I say
I don' t know what to do in my house. Well the halfway
point, not even in time to apply to Michel, I also say nothing,
like it was damaged a lot of madness. Miss, when I told
you, I write to Cristal I' m not going in, there was
no big line toy I' m already close enough to my table. The
mel is here, the dent is here, the beautiful one and you'
re sorry, yes, yes, take it or you know they put you
to sign and everything to the person and the fotic of the card really nothing
in we can have in other ceudas. I mean, no, I don
' t think so. But I, I kind of don' t know,
was a clsoft face. I said there look number, but the table
came and I and what happened. I didn' t mark the bin market
finger at this door. They are yes, here, I have a lily,
but they all tell them years or a lot of what you look at.
That' s what we' re all told. If we don'
t talk, they' re identical, they' re people, they'
re pres they' re the same people or people they don' t look
like in absolutely anything, but they do stop us talking we don' t
show up, but not why I can' t go anymore, but because
I don' t know how you guys are. Those hours take three years.
You don' t call three years, yeah, but in the face
of three years, yeah, a lot of people think that was older.
I' m counting here just as much as a problem has happened to me.
That' s Carlas or his black hair. You see a poyo because
the factions are more mature their theories today, but no. I' m
three years younger than you know when I started dating. I think in my
group of friends they asked me like that but they really are. So they
sleep together. I think you guys haven' t married yet, not exactly.
We shared with Macking before, i e, the day of my voice
or point of getting to sleep. Little sleep in bed,' cause good
look. I' ll tell you one thing. It' s something,
yes, you have to do it for me. Let' s say that
I have an innate personality in me that is quite maternal. You do,
yeah, that' s my way and I look like I see a picture
of us Chiquita and I was always like, with Cristal, like giving her
ice cream, helping her with the backpack, so it looks like she was
always like that, like she was part of our personality. But we always
shared a room since we were kids, we had two Twing camels against the
wall a very nice room with a bow that Mommy had made and we liked
to sleep in the same bed Wing, in the same one we couldn'
t fit. But it was already big, that is to say we removed
a cushion that was the and roll and don role for me to get in
because we didn' t fit well with the cushion. She why I don
' t know, I don' t have like the memory, but by
the way it was one here, that is, it was a small room,
it wasn' t very far away, it ended up yours, yes,
but when they ended up in your house, when Mommy, when we
left them, that is, when I was the first one to leave,
when I went to study, it was seventeen years old that my sister met
me a year in the apartment we lived in. We also shared Kama King
in that sheath because it was like it was, a graumes room, a
two- bed room for the Roomates and another room for the Michell king bed
and I, after that moment, when my mom moved from that apartment where
they were two, well and then we lived both in clear cities of America,
because or that we are not, I mean, we are very close,
but not sonso I wanted to go to people sometimes like she doesn'
t know that she has her life in her face, her husband and you
share the vogue, not just anyone who has me all. But after that
moment we moved back, so we returned, when we returned to live here
with Mommy, we shared again with Making Day. But I' m going
to explain that to you There' s a reason for that. We said
good for Mommy to stay with this apartment, already Cristal had a boyfriend.
I also kind of eventually go to put up a room with a smaller doca
or full tomama that will then look like a guest bethrum of Mommy. We
' re going to buy Gamaking because clearly there was that we' re used
to it as marriage boards, for example, Michelle gets up in the morning
and puts BBC and drives me crazy. We could no longer arrive, no,
no, no, but I say at that time they were not things
that I know what happened to the marriage that did not happen to us,
or, for example, leave the bathroom door open or like in what was
already drying the hair it bad so that the news did not perish and I
did not see clear now so much this after seeing it, that is,
all the time, I was left to have shared together as those problems arose.
It doesn' t have or is that there was a long time,
that we lived apart, separated, but how was that I separated it,
that is, how did you do the fault that was made and felt super
bad because you provided it in Europe. Horrible. At least I was very
bad. I was a horrible man and I was so happy to leave.
I left two weeks for my graduation, but I never imagined I' d
leave my house not so much as where I was. Michelle was at my
house. Then I felt like if she watered my eyes for the moment,
it was very difficult to go to me at seventeen years old where I was
Micheltaba to my house and Michel was not. So I had to kind of
don' t know there were so many things and she had to tell him.
I would go talking to her on my way here forty- two minutes
that what I know Sometimes the silence, Sometimes then I felt like I lacked
much what happened when she arrived, because my mom started complaining because I got
to her, because I called less to my house, because my house had
come to me you understand and I told my hermadre. She was like that
sister and my mom, which I later left her. I got rid of
it, because she, she' s a mom and she' s a
mother of peace and sea that was also my daughter. But if I do
ot therapy and I do my psychology to understand that my sowing was already leading
to having the real daughter, I am already a real daughter. Of course
it' s normal. You know, yeah, yeah, but I know
what I' m saying to you brother was just like me, I mean,
we shared all of us, we didn' t walk, we sent
ourselves to the top that we shared for FedEx. Yeah, yeah, but
my dad' s getting ready to send it to me with carla. It
happens to me that we' re separated and when we' re together,
I kind of disarm, like we' re crying or we' re shout
thor sy Brin, but I don' t know if anything happens to you
older sisters, too. Looks like it' s a pressure to be the
big sister. It' s a bit. I say one takes the role
that comes. I don' t know psychology. That' ll give you
an explanation. Yeah, I' m a frustrated psychologist, but yes,
you assume. Naturally, when you' re the oldest your good little brother,
you take care of him. It' s kind of like what comes
in the paternalized son. Yeah, yeah, totally ternized. I don'
t know, my mom. That' s the fourth one, so I
don' t know. It also has something to do with the personality of
self- science. Yeah, like your ferro form. Yes, definitely,
between Cristal and me, something is given that the truth is that it doesn
' t necessarily happen to all the brothers and doesn' t mean anything happens.
Cristal and I are sisters and best friends, which is something we'
re going to say. Yeah, I mean, we share. God also
gave us the opportunity to go live outside with very little time, different to
the same place. So those experiences that you live that form you as much
as when you leave your house and you start to live like yourself and take
care of yourself, and all those experiences we live together. We did everything
I lasted eight years outside my house and Cristal Duro ten, that is,
those very formative years. We lived it out together. That group of friendships
one creates when one is far from home, that one year stands at ten,
that is, that the days multiply by the intensity with which one lives,
we live it together. Then it happened to us that when we returned
we married a year of differences. But before that too. I did as
you did without earlier and mommies, a lot a little in between. I
was like the mascot of her friends, but then I had everything, I
was with the friends, not like I was, like I was there and
your whores. You think that has a lot to do with parenting or just
your personality. And I think that with a clining of both things, my
mom really did something because although between Cristal and me, we are like our
own or core, Emilio bouquets, our brother, we are very close,
that is, we are the three, like we understand, and we see
each other and embrace a unit, yes, and we go, that is.
I see there are brothers like they don' t hug, they don
' t say they love each other. Also that you a child of therapy,
yes, totally you kids this morning or not I told her well,
we already all. Thank you for the react, but I don' t
know if it has to do so well and I was listening to the episode
of you also in Carla' s podcast very cool exact with her mom,
that she also talked a lot about how the process of total divorce was handled.
But also this, those processes may kind of bring rake party together,
and that is, it' s like a two- age party. And
in your case, that adversity may also be. You, as brothers,
had to face it together and have united it more fully. And there is
one thing that is also important to know, because many people think ok that
person looks very close. They really are in real life, too, that
is, in real life. I say yes, because nowadays it doesn'
t tell them real life, life that isn' t about networks, that
we' re very close, but incredibly we' re super different, that
is, really in the house we were always super different. We had different
tastes, that is, we might like the same thing. But like if
we go to a store, we can choose different things, in a way
of being, in a way of how different we were going to touch it.
And I had a schedule that looked like an encyclopedia in letter called delta.
I dropped my ID card, but I think it' s one thing,
and all of a sudden, Michelle knew whose homework she was putting in
a post and she was putting it in her pocket and I was like you
were like a postti but he was doing it anyway and I was the same.
So it was just different styles. Merclara was different, so it was
never like taking us the same way, because everyone had their style and still
everyone has it in their house in the way one thinks about. Sometimes,
even if you influence yourself. Obviously, it seems to me that if we
have the same, but we have the same way, we are not the
same person as the same thinking about the same values. That' s parenting,
that' s for sure. That' s why I would tell my
coma, because when I found her, I' m that, that cousin
who cared for cousins, it was me that there aren' t people who
all did have a saying like that to me, I was more terrified of
you, but I never ate anyone. I said no, I don'
t change just like that, but well Sting I said Monica I mean I
love her because one a little, one definitely gravitates towards people who have a
similar upbringing. Of course or you understand that you say good. If that
person is naked on the street and he' s doing it, he'
s going against it just like I am. But that' s nothing.
And of course, of course, of course, it' s not something.
Yeah, there' s something you guys do that I love that I
identified a lot because I do it with Karla, which is that glass out
sources brino with you, oh my God what li. Of course, then
you identify if it' s the serious people expo or for me the definition
don' t p i mean more connect ay and it happens to me when
it' s like traveling with the semi as it' s me traveled without
knowing, that is, if it takes money, it takes away where we
' re going to take and I' m going to tell you it hasn
' t been nice to be me from wors Sources, because, for example,
when I go with my husband, I' m the one that it
' s the Outforce and I' m the one that bothers you and I
' m like that Ok explains you what out or brame out Tersypn. It
' s like if I go with Michell, I mean, we know where
we' re going, you did the previous investigation. If you know you
' re being thrown at, you did investigate whether this temple is where I
have to see it, what I have to do with it. The maze
means that I invest you. All this you' re gonna see me,
I mean, I' m gonna understand. Then we' re going to
go eat in a place that already you did the job, i e,
I' m going with you You' re walking soul hour sma marine,
I' m not going to spend my neuron on me See if I want
to because I don' t, that' s right, it' s
really weird that I outers my Rhine with food issues, you have to eat.
I need Miss Control my menu people and that I' m scratching because
with everyone like that I do. But if you took me to an Asian
site IHF t outter sys I wouldn' t know where to start. But
I do it on trips, I do it at airports. It fascinates me
there I do it super calmly. Oh better and it' s very yes.
I mean, I love that. Another thing you can clarify is that
maybe it' s one of the questions you' re asking too. Yeah,
we fight sometimes, of course, yes, no and not much,
but yes, but we fight and we fight and I love you hard,
but yes, we fight, we marry, tell me, we have to
fight then because there' s something else. You' re also low,
you work, you' re going to be sisters, best friend and you
work together and you' re partners. Oh, God, that sounds a
lot, but a lot of good. But imagine because lie is like I
tell you, you fight with your mom, right, right, right,
right, right, then and you really don' t fight a mommy.
And, well, okay, fight, your fight, but there' s
another one that I don' t fight with anyone fights, but then you
have to stay with s Ok movie watch. By the way, they sent
you the location, the podcast, and then follow life, because what you
' re going to do is get yourself hooked up. Sure, but that
' s something you' re not saying as something very natural, very falling
out of the kill, very, but that' s not something that people
see in such an intuitive way. You know, I mean, and I
think that' s very linked to how you guys have a relationship, maybe
how you encouraged it as kids. Yeah,' cause you really say that.
But there are people who break relationships, there are people who set drastic
limits because it doesn' t do you well whatever it is and it'
s interesting to see, that is, why you can have this kind of
relationship, that is, where that so strong brotherhood comes from and that trust
looks at. I' m going to tell you negotiable between us there'
s a relationship, I mean, it' s not mindless. We are
extremely close. Sometimes we last four days we don' t see each other,
but either on a trip, he already has his family, his political
family, and two weeks and they didn' t talk to us and on
weekends and there' s no accountability, right, like you did and you
did. And there is no scheme at all, there are no limits.
I don' t have to see her. They don' t have to
see me or there' s no obligation, there' s a natural desire.
But she has her life. I have mine, I have my husband,
she has hers, right, that' s clear. But I always
dreamt about cuon it' s like tears fron the scale that married the blonde
and the black hair Hong really wow O was super easy like having one husband,
right. No. No, no, no, no, no.
You couldn' t and I can' t share you imagine, they don
' t like you and nothing. She couldn' t go. But if
I mean, it' s not a good one, I mean the psychologist
in me is not a codependency, because it' s not that I have
to be without her. And if I' m not with her or her
without me, I don' t know how to go somewhere, I don
' t know intercurrent, I mean you' re going to see me alone
and I' m fine, or it doesn' t exactly happen. I
think there' s relationships, you know, I' m sick of you.
This you understand where. You don' t put the limit on me,
you don' t leave me or me between us are no limits.
As Monica said right, we' re therapy kids. What I mean by
that, my mom, three years old, took me to where a psychologist
for the first time then and I was the first, because I was the
oldest, but we were all, you' re not the living example of
why my kids are therapy kids and we' re like we have another toolbox.
Ah there' s a show I kind of ah but I' ve
got a hard one to find on any pretext. That obviously helped us without
having to look. I' m putting the limit of it but it'
s set intrinsically, without perhaps needing to talk about it. It doesn'
t exist between us. A glass got married before me. There' s
a lot of people at the time telling me like you' re also and
I' m super happy extremely candles, but we don' t envy.
And I wonder why I obviously have the challenge of raising two girls, beautiful
girls. One laughs at me, because everyone thinks blondes look just like me
and that' s not the case. The big girl discovered me, she
told me one day there was a picture of me, little girl, and
Mom said to me, you paint yourself, but I do interpret myself.
She says life is real. I have hair like her, which is brown,
Brown. Of course and obviously, the challenge is I say wow,
how I recreate that healthy relationship of friendship, of companionship and of no comparison
for no compa Yes, yes, it is very important that makes funny jokes.
I was. I still have something else. I' m the mother.
I danced with my dad She danced in public and wanted to do a
show, I mean, but there was never like a competition between us,
although we live in a country in one In humanity in general she likes to
put people in competition, initially in women. There' s the prettiest,
it' s fulana, and the other one, the prettiest, it'
s the prettiest thing you' re the diligent mind is unnecessary really, but
people seem to not know how to make sashimi and like that their opinion in
their mind. Sir no one asked you but yes I mean, we are,
we are, yes or no. We want no one. No one
in the world knows you more than a brother brother, because I read something
that I sent to a group that we have the three brothers, that is,
the three brothers of mother and father. I have to say because we
have an older sister. What of the ziblings that the person in your life,
in the course of your life, who is with you the longest,
is a hero, because he is from the day you are born, that
you are a child, to probably the rest of your life, unless something
happens. It' s true, tragic. But a recognized dad already has,
like an adult, it' s another relationship. Your husband knows you
already being great and passes that path with you, so I really must say
that my brothers are really a huge part of my heart to me and I
try to tell my daughters how important my brothers and brothers and my family are,
that is, we have the happiness and that we live all and this
in the same building and that was orchestrated by my brother, He was who
sought it. And I mean, we have a desire to share and be
together and sometimes I see other brothers that we don' t really know about
each other' s lives. It doesn' t mean that we speak mustology.
Doesn' t mean we' ve been hanging out all week. None
of that is true. We lived seven years apart, each and every one
we didn' t call and it was as if we well critted together the
moment before, I mean, yeah, therapy, probably knowing, valuing,
knowing, understanding something that I think gives you the time about what you asked
about how you can fight and suddenly good already and that I think gives you
maturity. I mean, today you have an argument with your sister or your
mom, okay you had her what you' re going to do to Chatching
Witt, that is, you' re going to be left with the frustration
of what caused you. The argument, that is, life follows how much
you' re going to dedicate to you. You wear out for yourself to
know, because even if you have it not for something. Imagine you don
' t want them to do you again. The human being is learning little
by little it may be that he does it to you again, even though
you told him when you like the teraa and what you are going to do,
you are going to dedicate yourself, to wear out, you are going
to hurt your day. I mean, too, if you' ve doubled
up and you' ve got the Stone, then you' ve got your
hook up. Imagine I had a kick- off argument in the dumb car
bringing that energy here that I' m going to win with that. Then
maybe in time. I think that' s what you learn to put on
a balance sheet and say that' s already happened to discuss clearly what else
I' m going to do. Pass the repr page and also, as
it is no longer known, you understand where the conflict comes from. Yeah,
and already go with the minutes what happens on the clock, then you
' re going to leave that and you see it that way. You also
never know how long she or her brother or sister and her tragic family and
anyone else will stay there. So, as you say to hold on to
certain things, it can be harmful already by perhaps going on to this new
stage of motherhood, how that brotherhood interacts after motherhood, and I want you
to talk to me a little bit first, Oko Cristal, You were a
mother, first true, then how this process of your matter was experienced and
we had first with this day alone. Yes, and with this aunt so
close to you how you felt, honestly, because I know sometimes there are
things that we romanticize. But honestly, a relationship as close as yours and
seeing happiness in your sister, but also seeing how your role can change in
your life. Of course it is. That was a pron Yes, for
example, I spoke first because I had Sol. When we had Sol,
we had it because we didn' t have a close cousin at the time
who at the moment had babies, that is, it was like a litter
and I started, that is, my sister- in- law. They
had no children. We found the first one. My sister Dominique, she
has four children, but they' re already older. So Sol was the
first and Michelle, in fact, made him Sol my first baby, that
is, because when Sun arrived we are all as if it were a school
learning from woe such a thing or what we are doing and Michelle, that
is, everything that happened with Sun in her first year of life, right,
because sun and peace take away a sun and a year and a month.
She saw him alone. It felt like along with my husband, obviously,
but we were kind of learning together, so it was a really,
really process, like I say, wow, Dad God rewarded us that we
really could share. I mean, obviously we grew up as a sister.
Then, over the years, you change so much that you do things as
much as you do for the first time you see the world all together,
then you come back and that time to live at home, I come back
to the parents, I don' t know what together. Then we got
married. We fell in love with each other at the time, but we
fell in love knowing that he was the man of another life who here was
that we were going to make another future together and then we got very close,
a pregnancy or raising, that is motherhood, that that unites you in
such a crude way, as it is real. And it was a blessing.
Then like that. I think it was evolving that sun was born a
year and peace was born a month. Then we shared all that. In
fact, we never decided to be able to become Godmother, because we were
more than one you will be no more gemician when you were born. I
' m saying, but I know I didn' t know an aunt you
a godmother as a child I tell you from there I your children tell me
more than that and mine tell you more. You have to use that title
for all the people you want them to come to you in your children'
s lives. But with that title I need, a title because I don
' t want it. Those girls are mine, then more than aunt.
And that wasn' t like entrenching, because whoever lives with you is living
a transformation of yours, that is, as said homodo mom in whom I
recommend them. Whoever hasn' t seen him takes advantage of himself. Motherhood
is something that comes through you. Sounds like a handshake thing and you are.
No, motherhood passes through you then motherhood crossed us together. So also
now I' m not going to say on the other side, but there
' s that ice cream that we haven' t talked about yet. You
see in the morning I already philosophy, she tells me she didn' t
sleep. She happens to uh, it happens to the other thing and sometimes
she tells me today. He told me, for example, that he had
a difficult night of the four hour I sat and sad hug. She already
knows something happens that we don' t have to say. It happened to
you with carla, that is, the twins take it, or Amilo takes
it four months in the middle, yes, and she was, that is,
the first night when she got it to me. It wasn' t
Nasin who slept with me, that is, Carlos. I slept in my
bed with Milo in the middle, which is strong. I loved my sister,
she said to me it was like Chico has to look like you'
re mom otto and that' s very nice. I happen to be one
of the best too. I remember having my sister who had to go from
outside the country. It was the first months of my second son, because
the first I was magic taa. The first one I lived alone outside the
country. But with the second, I was like with my triu and my
husband. He went inside to work, because the work in gray tip And
and this first week of Milo Natalia, sleeping in my bed, moved to
my bed, literally my bed quin. And that' s beautiful now when,
for example, this relationship as close as your partners took it and adapted
it from the moment of courtship, because obviously, now they' re like
a big family true live close and that. But how was that dynamic And
maybe that dynamic you said that you gave the approval of the cousin of nasi
how they also gave you those zeal I ate with his brother, a while
before I arrived yes, Cristal met Mariano and what I came to see outside
and then I said good Venezuelan man, high green eye, I could and
they could and so they the boyfriend of Cristal. Then people didn' t
understand, because because he was a foreigner, he knew almost no one here.
So I sort of adopted it, although Cristal wasn' t there,
he was with me and the group and so the flan that he saw and
you didn' t not her, there wasn' t even her in New
and they knew each other in a summer. Oh wow, there was a
relationship and they lasted four years of more not, but it was from outside,
not a year and peak in that year really Mariano became my friend,
that is I told Cristal to cross so you know that already theory you called
him for such a thing and because I had to give him a complaint from
her. It was a complaint of mine, because I have obvious the people
who know me the most. Well, my mom and I called them,
and I called them and I called about why you' re erma. So
Cristal, he' s my friend, I ask myself I can call my
friend and I, well, Mariano also comes from a scheme where he has
two younger sisters. He understands the guy in the psychology of the woman for
my husband, who is one of three men all the dynamics of speech and
family. And it was kind of like wow colliding are who like letting you
all paint the color. I' m gonna put that on you too.
But really, as I say, as with space and boundaries, no one
is so into the house of nasi not nor I live and that is,
there is no one. My daughters are currently at home in this way,
but those other two children are something else. Being a child is something else.
But as adults, really, even though we live together, everyone has
their space, because sometimes people say ay Dios, tiemp but I couldn'
t because you imagine it, that everybody knows where, you know, you
go and tell me like you have to set limits. Monica and they,
gentlemen, we are big people who know or quality and the way we can
live together, because everyone without declaring, without saying, that is to say,
we have to be a list that I know they couldn' t because
I mean, I know and you say, you don' t understand here
because no one dares clearly. You don' t understand. Much respect for
each other in a healthy way that clear are more than aunts, so their
children are more than cousins. Yeah, they then call me Mommy is that
he' s Cayetano, he' s my cousin brother. She puts a
lot of emphasis on the brother not and, for example, for me consol
that really, although they are more than cousins, does not have a sister,
but has a brother, He has cayetano that, thanks to a super
united, everyone has his room and they choose a week sleep in the dell
another week in hers. They' re very close, things I love.
But I know, as a woman that that sister isn' t the same
as your cousin, the closest then sometimes it gives me work to explain to
me because I tell her. For example, she tells me what' s
happening and I say, well, my love happened to her grandfather, to
her paternal grandfather and she tells me but today' s family, I say
I, I know, she' s with her family, but I'
m her family, I mean her as in, so they don' t
understand. Sometimes, or for example, Michelle' s daughters tell my grandparents,
that' s Mariano' s parents. Abby had to good, Mariano
them because they' re good day, how they say yes no, and
they' re from those grandparents who come, they all come, I mean,
like I' m very then clear I know that eventually they' ll
understand that even though she doesn' t have a sister, they' ll
be like her sisters. Of course and I think it was also what I
put in the other day and if they have a chance, when this podcast
is over, look for the post because I started to think about it.
I was uploading a picture of my mom with my aunt I was hugging her
on a Sunday that she was leaving and they made a farewell lunch and I
started to reflect like why, because many times the question they don' t
ask me, Michel, how he gives himself together, how they are united.
And I think my mom never asked us to be like this. My
mom was like that with her sisters, they got in the same way,
they traveled the pictures together there so we, from Chiquita. It seemed as
if we had a cast moon without glicing net we went all the same to
us, I say and you match it to me oh good and good people
say that you fire everything saying, but the world is that we saw it
and then what happens. If I believe that today there is a lot of
inconsistency between people who ask children or something and they are not, then,
for example, I do not ask the sun to be a sister of peace.
She' s seeing what happens to me. I' m calling my
sister. Second, I made you Michelle such a thing and I can scream
out how I can share a happiness, as sometimes I see something I love
says I to open it call you boss. It can be anything and they
see it and maybe copy it and if they copy it, well if they
don' t copy it, they' ll still see that it was a
nice relationship of a lot of union with its limits. Healthy that I think
we have to have a list by dek sample ex. I think that'
s what we recently imitated. This is the only thing, it' s
the only thing that works exactly, the only thing, because you can talk.
Talk, talk, but it' s something else. It hurts you
completely. You know which child is cayetano in an oma, in casemonic and
local and methic. There' s the little cousin in Lucas Cayetano' s
Milonga. Yesterday I was humbled and caya are talking in the cayetano cart.
Say yes, because Amoni is my mom' s cousin. So I know
and I gave it to myself that not your mom is cousin and my dad
and then I turned it over and said that, but, Mom, why
do you take with them? What dad with her? What dad' s
with her? Yeah, Dad' s super rhyme and she' s because
we' re clear, because that' s how we' re the girls,
that' s all, like, for that to understand yes, like
all the families live in the modification aha ah no, all the cousins are
like that, same with Santi Jorge. Santi Jorge and my children are literally
brothers, i e, they have grown up together, all together for them,
kind of weird, yeah, when you tell him, then there'
s another cousin thing of affection that like another river they don' t live
in a thing of how many brothers my son has, and then I didn
' t put Merie pink this morning so that you see way for school r
explaining to him what there is that Teona Sim has two more brothers who are
my cousins, because we crossed to face the twenty- seven and they know
that our grandparents, Mamimeiri and Papi Milo lived there. So and that'
s where you were swinging, Mom, yeah, and with whom, and
me, well, with my cousins and which one' s cousin. Then
when I was born you don' t feel two brothers and I said Pio
you remember Pio hear that territory there. Not that, uh, I'
m sorry, Mr Yesterday, it was me with faith that made the gallows
genealogical tree, I saw four faces there. I said well, not Morich,
I said Mottern Family. I see goall of a similar exact scheme hands
amos we manes. That' s a good one. The truth is that
I always think that where there is communication, there is no problem and where
it is, where it is present and communication, that is to say I
speak in my parents. If you are very good at communicating between truth it
is an excess. We sometimes kind of like people who stayed trying to shut
down. Yeah, but that I' m great at communicating, not that
I mean. But I mean, we talk about a lot, but like,
deep things, we talk about a deep thing, but it' s
like communicating things from day to day. Like, we literally planned a birthday
for Mommy and Carla thought I called Mommy. And I thought Carla had called
when we got to the restaurant in us, all my grandmother and everything was
all the and I Mommy that hasn' t arrived and Carla what she told
you And I, like she told me that she told you, well,
I shouldn' t tell you Componic communication should be a ten in college.
I' m not the river anymore I' d like that stuff. I
' d like to take that stuff. I also love it already there is
a fish you see people write me ay Monica' s terapo and then I
can not communicate and they yes yes, ay God very she has of marta.
He called the other day and told me to do music, Friends,
not then the worst thing is that we were born to ourselves, that is,
in life you really find as your not how you were born. I
' ll take one. I' m very good. They' re amazing,
they' re so cool free that nothing. I' m the same
and many imm munchar sense I really am maybe the only house that I sometimes
came in like despair that is, and touch the door vala sang thank you,
but my God Monica you are, I think you are very difficult and
sometimes if I see you that I kind of say the thing that you want
to say, me say it myself out there would also have told him who
does what. That' s how it' s ready. Oh, yes,
or it wouldn' t have happened. Obviously, of course it could
happen to me, but usually I would be like you see, it doesn
' t happen to you, no, you can' t and I can
' t na and they tell me. Well, nothing, because I'
m not going to sea next time I say, but the heavens, I
mean, you post it I' ll post it later I can refuel it
then you say who. As I think, we' re different. She
' s me, she never got to that level of Monica, but I
' m a route between us. Ah as you know crystals a lot,
just as she has that personality that super cha. Cris comes out more like
I ask you every day, but I try to watch the day such a
thing. For example, your Crystal size is doing it and it' s
fine. I' m on schedule. C Michelle, it' s been
me getting scheduled. I put it on the agenda for both of us,
but she takes it to the agenda as pretty. Hey, hey, hey,
hey, hey, hey. I don' t know things and can
open my calendar to me or colors a lightning will not say they' re
not going to mean. What' s more, it' s over there
Chamber, it' s more than I' ve ever met anyone like that,
wow, but no more. Or he swallows you I look at what
' s going on. I' m going to go to my mom,
I' m going to something here, no, but you' re also
like that, ay güey, someone who understands how good it feels to feel
validated. I do not write down, nothing or I what happens in your
mind the cement, ma' am or you have to how many projects I
in how many meetings. Not even yes, you remember, look, you
remember playing always sounds very happy because that' s moving, it works like
a muscle. Mine' s gonna be dead I hear what' s going
on. Michel I, who for no, no, no, no,
that I ordain myself, that is, to flow this year. I read
one thing. I said okay, this year I' m going to flow,
but tell me how to where to walk flui to yoganize me and I
eat flip I can organize look. I' m I' ve known on
a trip. I see it in the group that we are in common.
Such a day, such a thing I, but what she does, because
she is invited to everything that is and alo re Minders and I say to
her, Michelle, but, for example, she played the flue of the
four. I what and I, but look at it on your calendar and
she' s going to oh, my God, my Christito, that'
s why she' s already, yeah, yeah, she' s asking,
I' m obo, I' m reading, Monica, but we
better not talk about you, honestly, because then it' s going to
be. Yeah, me for a week, I call him mon for a
whole week. No, I need an assistant t book and you know what
happened to everyone. Haador of my collapse Look, collapse, mylar collapsed Mariano
to tell me no more pay, collapsed everyone because no one knew when anything
was going to happen. And I said you don' t know that I
' m seconded for seven days before I generated an anxiety that I said you
know no, no, that people already yes, I' m going down
or ten three cybels. It' s said sneve ss to be told I
tell that and I try to already like that change of plan the thing.
But I feel more calm knowing how my week is going than I said that
ay ya más, hoga, no, no, but I am also more.
But because I see you I feel so identified with you and we say
I had a relax m he all my me, I have a group,
I have in Barnace a teacher and already and I am going to get out
of that, I mean, no, I am salu get out my yes
exactly you were as Barna weatles call it for that total time. But in
me I' m doing it with my husband and yes he' s there,
they' re the big one with us in the future. But we,
in all the groups, are he me and a friend of us who,
like our Torckwill and in all the groups, are together. Of course
and I make you the calendar of everything that, for example, if you
have to read two cases this week, such a day, such a day,
alert, there is case the day I go with remindres every morning and
that if we have to be such work, such a day to iron the
work, such a day a zoom for ideas until the day, for that
day the conclusion, because it is delivered tomorrow and there is always someone has
to see, someone like that in the Group. Yes, if you,
because we' ve made her a lot of mónica than she, that you
have to be or that but at the same time within her scheme, I
always say or be mónica. It' s an inspiration to us. I
must know that right now that I' m moniquiro, i e other moniquizar
me two this way of thinking has three well- educated children who go to
school every day in the afternoon also that their activities go to their birthday with
gifts. They' re always well- dressed, that' s clear in
their system. I' ve got a shot. Tomorrows, I am many
things, or all the project that already has, if it pro meo fusco,
it happens to me that I care and then the Whatsapp has already become
like something that I can no longer handle. That' s how you already
cry pro and others are messages and it scares me. Morica, leave me
alone publicly for the world. Whatsapp also gave himself something manageable again, because
I' m going to tell you, for example, it makes me anxious
to see what message I have unresponsive. But at the same time, gentlemen,
we cannot spend the whole day. I answered myself or said there are
things that are by mail. And besides, there' s an understanding that
if you sent me the whatsapp, I have to answer you at that moment.
And that' s not true. And the more there will be,
the more you don' t get. So now we have to explain.
If I' m left with it, you read it You didn' t
answer me. It' s just that I don' t know what when
I lome the memo, when I read it has presence, I do or
middle of a place. You' re driving, you have a po or
you deserve that because, as the way it is, I prefer to be
called, that is, called because I don' t. There didn'
t come a time that you eat w like to call me so me soles
is the same thing is calling full lin m There is a system, for
example, if you are interested that I have with whatsapp so that I don
' t pass the topic of what you left me without what the system is.
Not I feed, as Mommy said that day, I answer what it
is. If you wrote me for the podcast where they' re going,
I' ll answer you, because you' re waiting for me what I
feel I can, which can wait. I give it to ond raid,
though I read it and read it so that I stay in andread for myself
to know that I did not answer you. Ok at the end of the
day, Filtra there' s an app that I mean, I think I
' m hungry or you see the ones that you really needed to answer today
and you know what happened to me with the obvious n love that isn'
t so overwhelming, that is, when you don' t have them so
overwhelmed, you realize that everything was a tome. Yeah, this was one
of you Now I' m going and there' s everything I got for
you. I said five hundred messages, right, but not cool, but
he' s already got a problem. But aunt' s end, your
g is bad. But also have a lot of group. No, no,
no, no, no, not only are they not yes pro lo
histriate, well, yes, no, because that' s how wow doesn
' t give you cloudy car. No, no, no, no,
there' s so much going on. I thought I' d change my
number, but I don' t want to change my number. All that
on raid she' s in shock. Those are all londread, it'
s awful, really, and lawyers. Then there we can talk about this
later. I, that' s why I have my manager, that Evelyn
the Master and I literally have Evelyn upstairs, that is, and I'
m upstairs. I have to see who I have going to Evelyn' s
to my family, to both schools. Accounting. Now one question. I
' ve always been very curious, and it' s all for practical purposes.
I also manage as an Instagram account, you have a single account there
to ask how you say who you mean not so try me alone or who
you don' t exactly about or not. There' s a system also
going up there with a tutorial that was there and you' re twenty.
I said, gentlemen, to appear a blueber and in the national I mean,
and then people say what entony I my shelbérate you. Then sometimes I
give time. I' d say ah well, finish yours and chicken to
range, of course, but see when it comes to why we even realize
the same scam, because we weren' t talking then already people too,
like they know. I think it' s a little bit like the Then,
like if ts Box Thebas is sometimes YouTube a fart serfin and suddenly,
Michelle starts a well in a desertery and then another being fi mine with the
kids and loaned you as theo didn' t walk the lot of making terria
to you, that is to say exactly what happens to you. There are
occasions where I tell you, for example, imagine if it was the graduation
of Sun and your world oh such a thing, something of Sun. She
wants me to read what she wrote to me about Sun, so she tells
me Cris I' ll tell you again. The messages that I' m
getting ready for are lonely, or so it depends on whatever it is.
If something generic. I' ll get it myself and I' ll get
it. I don' t want to be like this. Yeah, sure,
I don' t know what and I bought the crystal cards, Mailla
' s little cards. Everything matters to me. The crazy thing is that,
for example, I send Michelle away mostly, because Michelle, for example,
loves to be curious about Instagram. So, for example, she puts
someone that I usually see like that suddenly a conversion like my octopus and it
says that look give me your whatsapp and I stay because if this and at
the point Michelle tells me and that' s what you have apology or,
for example, you see her write you and it' s called today and
what you' re like. I' ve got a shoe, which is
like I know more or less that there are conversations like he' s already
on something. But Jach, for example, we don' t have one
and I say and they don' t have two, because I also want
things like that, for example, to the conversation or lin of the roll.
The poor one is the one that carries the most confusion in that install
She already what makes her everything you put her, something separates it and then
she starts sending whatsappa from who wrote why it is not understood already. And
there are people like Monica, obviously if she doesn' t know a little
more, not the one she doesn' t know. Yeah, I know
exactly who owns you, because you must be very difficult for people who carry
like but, for example, for you. In real life, we'
re quite the type. It' s not your boma clear like you see
me like that, you' re going to see me in a photo that
I' m going to roast later. It' s like that, well,
yeah, it' s Byugue. So when you don' t know
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a lot moy and as you know, I' m a hundred percent,
that is, everything to ta has that which someone wrote so much of the
hor at heart. Yeah, like you the thing that you do, you
do the po or she san jose hearts, but they' re different,
different, they' re different where everything I do is different. Yeah,
yeah, yeah. No. I tell myself once also the comments when Cristal
put it started. It makes me clear because since you automatically understand that it
' s coma that' s complicating them. I also say important note that
Cristal is a bit. He has a super jealous personality, but not out
of insecurity, so they won' t say yes, no, because I
' ve always been like you' re giving me crimes, but you'
re like everyone' s healthy crime. Holy not with a lot of people.
No. It' s not with Michelle, ah, no, no,
no, I know, but only comic he ie Brita, ok or
Michell. Not with my husband Norman, yeah, with some people. She
made it up with, well, oh, yeah, I' ll take
it from you, hard teacher. Hey to invented you because I have to
say because you already think friend you know it' s an invention. The
thing is, I didn' t think there was any evidence that this group
was called the Three M M' s, because suddenly they' re flying
and suddenly I said they didn' t know that all their party I don
' t know how to tell me a theme. They knew about the thing,
that the clock and I, like I never really know that I'
m a little bit, but you know exactly I live in another yes that
as you live tuality my personality. I don' t even know how I
survive, because I also on rigo. I' ve got two or so
with another day, I don' t mean, I' ve got a
calendar, but the duality that I' m going through another stratosphere, that
is, I hear that knowing, but as a political thing, it was
a hint that hears like no. I didn' t know that I was
an obvious cut- off myself, but you know that there' s like
a blessing on things, but I saw like three shingles and I sometimes even
tell me something, even at school, sometimes they would tell me like something
that' s a hint and I wouldn' t even know it, because
it' s just that I was never gonna get there. I understood what
it sounded like. For me it is very happy ta, but you live
very lost. So I' ll split sometimes I think it' s that
things are being talked about a group that I don' t know, because
a movie is that I watch the pecula what I prove that I read about
what I' m here for or when, and I' m once and
for all being researched to have good nothing. There' s no one to
do, but they don' t put it in gearen or Banish, in
some wab. We have to make a vital emi in Va. You can
speak in Va is not that it cannot be a group of non- existent.
That' s where bru never wears a dress. Nobody dares anyone.
We just have to make an episode of The Quest Yes, no, because
I wanted to talk about the first Picasso now. Oh, but no or.
But, Mr We O, it may be ok we count is either
gram because we are already what no longer the first nibble there, but it
is not my nica. It' s a lot of people who hear I
can' t. We can' t tell my God I' m asking
the rappers and that' s going to become vital. Yeah, no,
I can' t turn my life into a clip. We' re not
making a clip. Not how to do it. As there are yellow hungers,
so they tell him not to look what they do as outside the goa
no longer I can imagine the comments, because that is also another one.
A lot of people also use a comment just to say the more thing.
You can' t do something nice. Don' t write it. They
think the car piano and not their muscle. In that yes as I think
I don' t like it is told written on day we will do the
club of four of my intimacy and I will make the tale of the first
picao ok, but we arrive with the doubt. I' m gonna hook
up the loaards who know it. Then look we can record a little bit
for the pagel done, I can record it. Girls, thank you for
being here. I love them, the rats, I love an invitation.
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