WEBVTT 1 00:00:07.200 --> 00:00:10.679 What's up, beautiful people? Is your baby mama favorite baby Mama Stormy pe 2 00:00:11.039 --> 00:00:16.719 And this is another episode of Chocolate Chip and Zip the modern day female perspective. 3 00:00:16.879 --> 00:00:21.280 Dram Son back at it again. All right, y'all, I want 4 00:00:21.320 --> 00:00:26.719 you to know that me and uh Shad are really struggling through this episode because 5 00:00:28.640 --> 00:00:36.240 we made the mistake of cooking dinner before we started today. Fail fail fail 6 00:00:36.439 --> 00:00:40.240 fail. Not the dinner, the choice to eat before we did this. 7 00:00:40.759 --> 00:00:44.759 Oh yeah, because I feel like we could have cooked and not Thank you 8 00:00:44.799 --> 00:00:49.920 shot say it again for the people, say it again, thank you very 9 00:00:49.960 --> 00:00:52.799 much. Yeah. So, now we all got the items and we like 10 00:00:52.799 --> 00:00:56.520 trying to fight through it. But you know, the seven did take a 11 00:00:56.560 --> 00:01:00.119 nap. He definitely did like snoring it all. But you know, my 12 00:01:00.119 --> 00:01:02.200 mommy and raised on bitch, so be out here. We're doing it right. 13 00:01:02.759 --> 00:01:06.239 So y'all, before we get started, listen, y'all. Remember it 14 00:01:06.280 --> 00:01:11.840 last week I was telling y'all about snatch waists Willie. Y'all. Remember that 15 00:01:12.400 --> 00:01:18.040 the guy who was snatching his waists in the photos in all his photos on 16 00:01:18.120 --> 00:01:23.760 Instagram. Y'all? Remember that? So I forgot to mention to y'all another 17 00:01:23.959 --> 00:01:29.200 part of the story, right, So mind you, me and old boy 18 00:01:29.359 --> 00:01:34.200 only like conversated via text and like one or two face times for like three 19 00:01:34.280 --> 00:01:38.879 days, no, like an actual three fucking days, right, So same 20 00:01:38.879 --> 00:01:42.680 timeline as apply. But I forgot to tell y'all that on day two, 21 00:01:42.680 --> 00:01:47.920 I'm stressed the fuck out because my hot water isn't working. And I'm like, 22 00:01:48.040 --> 00:01:51.359 damn, I know I paid the bill, right, So my hot 23 00:01:51.359 --> 00:01:56.159 water isn't working, and I'm really in a fucking tizzy because like the month 24 00:01:56.239 --> 00:02:00.359 before, I had to pay to get something fixed on my like heater, 25 00:02:00.719 --> 00:02:02.719 like for my pilot, like my gas pilot. So I'm like, fuck, 26 00:02:02.760 --> 00:02:06.319 like, I'm just growing so much money into this house, like I 27 00:02:06.319 --> 00:02:08.680 don't want to spend nothing else, right, So I'm stepping blah blah blah 28 00:02:08.680 --> 00:02:14.319 blah blah, and he calls me midsnap, right, So I'm like, 29 00:02:14.360 --> 00:02:15.919 hey, you know, I'm just going through it right now. I'm trying 30 00:02:15.919 --> 00:02:17.759 to figure something out. And for the record, this wasn't one of those 31 00:02:19.319 --> 00:02:21.560 I just don't know how to pay to get that because you know how, 32 00:02:21.599 --> 00:02:23.639 bitch just be doing something. I was right, like, you asked him 33 00:02:23.639 --> 00:02:27.960 how they're doing and they give this whole rigamarole just so they can ask you 34 00:02:28.039 --> 00:02:30.360 for some money. This wasn't that. This wasn't that at all. Okay, 35 00:02:30.840 --> 00:02:35.280 So he's like, damn, so what you wanna do. I'm like, 36 00:02:35.319 --> 00:02:36.960 oh, well, you know, I'm not really worried about it. 37 00:02:36.960 --> 00:02:39.159 You know, my baby dad won't come over and look at it. He 38 00:02:39.240 --> 00:02:46.680 says, oh, so like he be in your house. I said, 39 00:02:46.039 --> 00:02:50.479 well, yeah, we we have a really good relationship. He said, 40 00:02:50.520 --> 00:02:53.159 oh wait, wait, so he like gonna come in your house and look 41 00:02:53.159 --> 00:02:58.280 at the water heater later. I'm like yeah. He said, oh, 42 00:02:59.080 --> 00:03:01.360 well, that's a little weird. I said, no, it's actually quite 43 00:03:01.400 --> 00:03:07.280 healthy. But I'm aware that the narrative of two people co parenting without any 44 00:03:07.360 --> 00:03:10.719 drama is very rare, So I understand why you may not be securing it. 45 00:03:12.039 --> 00:03:14.240 But I want you to know that me and my child's father have great 46 00:03:14.240 --> 00:03:17.800 relationship. And when I do have someone who I'm taking seriously or who I'm 47 00:03:17.879 --> 00:03:22.680 dating or in a relationship with, he does step back. But he is 48 00:03:22.719 --> 00:03:25.439 aware of the fact that when he's not in the home, there's no present 49 00:03:25.560 --> 00:03:29.360 like male figure. So if it's something that needs to be done in the 50 00:03:29.360 --> 00:03:31.199 house, he does it and then when I'm in a relationship, he expects 51 00:03:31.240 --> 00:03:36.080 that nigga to do it. You know what I mean? Huh, exactly 52 00:03:36.199 --> 00:03:38.800 right. So he says, oh, no, no, I'm just saying, 53 00:03:38.840 --> 00:03:43.560 like I just think it's a little weird. I said, So you 54 00:03:43.599 --> 00:03:47.199 want my son not to have hot water because you think it's weird? You 55 00:03:47.879 --> 00:03:53.479 what he says, as if you snatching your waist in your photo wasn't pussy 56 00:03:53.639 --> 00:04:02.560 enough. Just right here, he said, ruh, as if you snatching 57 00:04:02.599 --> 00:04:08.039 your waist with photoshop and these pictures ain't pussy enough. This ship you're saying 58 00:04:08.039 --> 00:04:12.159 to me right here, we would never go anything. We would never go 59 00:04:12.240 --> 00:04:19.279 any like it. It's I feel like it's always different levels of insecurity, 60 00:04:19.879 --> 00:04:23.959 but this one right here takes the cake. Like and my whole thing is 61 00:04:24.040 --> 00:04:27.680 I wasn't lying like when I am in a relationship my baby dad, do 62 00:04:27.759 --> 00:04:30.680 not be running up in my house and ship like that because he knows it's 63 00:04:30.680 --> 00:04:32.480 a negatiy to do all those things. You know what I'm saying. But 64 00:04:32.519 --> 00:04:36.120 it's like if it's not, yeah, he gonna step up and make sure 65 00:04:36.120 --> 00:04:39.279 his son cool. Like, what are you talking about right now? You 66 00:04:39.279 --> 00:04:43.480 you don't even sound intelligent, and then like, I'm not even in one 67 00:04:43.480 --> 00:04:46.879 of those situations where like you and your child's father is cool, but you 68 00:04:46.920 --> 00:04:51.360 know, the vibes are off, like my child's father and like my last 69 00:04:51.360 --> 00:04:55.399 boyfriend's was like playing the game with my son in the living room, like 70 00:04:55.480 --> 00:04:59.360 it's it's no beef, Like it's not awkward at all. He just knows 71 00:04:59.360 --> 00:05:01.040 if it's nobody, he gonna step up and be there for his fucking son. 72 00:05:01.079 --> 00:05:03.439 Well he's always there for a son. But y'all know what I mean, 73 00:05:03.519 --> 00:05:08.279 right, y'all get what I'm saying. So it's like, long story 74 00:05:08.319 --> 00:05:12.839 short, you bitch forgot to tell everybody use a bitch. And only because 75 00:05:14.360 --> 00:05:19.160 I don't even think that he in the moment realized you're really trying to say, 76 00:05:19.199 --> 00:05:24.439 you want my son to go without hot water to make you feel comfortable. 77 00:05:24.480 --> 00:05:28.279 Like that's crazy to me, that's out landish, that's wild. And 78 00:05:28.319 --> 00:05:30.600 here here's the kicker. Not once then my man said, oh, I'll 79 00:05:30.639 --> 00:05:35.199 send somebody over there. Oh I'll come get it done. I'll send somebody 80 00:05:35.240 --> 00:05:39.920 to get it done. You just want us to fucking be without so that 81 00:05:39.959 --> 00:05:44.800 you can feel comfortable, That's what I'm saying, that's what I'm saying. 82 00:05:45.639 --> 00:05:47.800 I've had enough. I've had enough, and I had enough. And yeah, 83 00:05:47.839 --> 00:05:51.720 so I say I was about to I was about to go in to 84 00:05:51.800 --> 00:05:54.279 Tangent, I was about to go in my old place, and I was 85 00:05:54.279 --> 00:05:57.600 about saying, fuck these this. But I'm not gonna say that. Maybe 86 00:05:57.600 --> 00:06:02.279 fuck that, nigga. No, I'm not gonna say that either. No, 87 00:06:02.360 --> 00:06:04.079 I just forgot to tell you that part of the story, and it 88 00:06:04.199 --> 00:06:08.720 really threw me for a loop through me for a loop. Outfit says, 89 00:06:08.759 --> 00:06:14.439 so snatchways, Samuel out here failing. Snatchways, Samuel been out here failing. 90 00:06:14.519 --> 00:06:15.759 He did not make it past day three, and y'all knew that from 91 00:06:15.839 --> 00:06:18.399 last week. I just forgot to tell you the kicker or what took him 92 00:06:18.399 --> 00:06:20.800 over the top and why he ain't making it like that right there? To 93 00:06:20.839 --> 00:06:25.240 me was enough enough enough enough? And I don't know, like y'all chime 94 00:06:25.279 --> 00:06:28.240 in on the line and let me know if I'm I'm tripping around being appropriate 95 00:06:28.319 --> 00:06:31.879 like it's Sean, Do you think it's wrong for me to fucking I mean, 96 00:06:32.519 --> 00:06:36.600 no, I understand what you're saying. It makes sense. I don't 97 00:06:36.639 --> 00:06:41.959 understand why he's uncomfortable and on top of that, like you said, are 98 00:06:42.000 --> 00:06:45.079 you going to fix it or send somebody to fix it? That's it, 99 00:06:46.240 --> 00:06:49.319 I guess, criticize a situation without offering a solution and the position that you're 100 00:06:49.319 --> 00:06:54.800 in my grid exactly like and it's not even like you know, my baby 101 00:06:54.879 --> 00:06:57.959 dad is like an accountant or some shit like my baby dad flip houses. 102 00:06:58.040 --> 00:07:00.399 So if it's something wrong with the water heater, he going know, like 103 00:07:00.480 --> 00:07:03.279 you know what I mean, some ex baby said, that's weep energy, 104 00:07:03.360 --> 00:07:09.920 no bullshit, dwem is crazy if you want to like if you have fast 105 00:07:09.959 --> 00:07:13.720 experiences and things are understood, but like understand that he's coming here and taking 106 00:07:13.720 --> 00:07:16.399 care of business like she said, hot water is not working. Yes, 107 00:07:17.439 --> 00:07:26.600 yes. Aaron Nash seven three said the shape shifter, Yo, y'all really 108 00:07:26.639 --> 00:07:30.920 be getting on my fucking nerves. Yo, y'all are hilarious, hilarious, 109 00:07:33.439 --> 00:07:36.600 We're going five to five, said hey, yo, I'm still laughing at 110 00:07:36.600 --> 00:07:41.759 the shape shifter. Clever Corey said, no, you ain't tripping. He's 111 00:07:41.839 --> 00:07:46.319 just insecure bench. She said, was waitt snatching is outlandish? Yes he 112 00:07:46.399 --> 00:07:47.720 was, and he wasn't even doing it. Well you could see the fucking 113 00:07:47.720 --> 00:07:51.319 gym equipment in the background bending so he wasn't even snatching his waist. Well 114 00:07:53.319 --> 00:07:57.639 cruising Exo says fatman were and tripped like that. We confident, we don't 115 00:07:57.639 --> 00:08:03.279 need muscles. How do we hear? Uh fit see legend? Eighty nine 116 00:08:03.319 --> 00:08:07.600 says that Nigga was a red flag. We're good. Five five says Spaghetti. 117 00:08:07.639 --> 00:08:09.399 Hos is crazy. Oh yeah, the name of Alive today is Spaghetti. 118 00:08:09.399 --> 00:08:13.480 Who is y'all key to the city says he didn't understand the relationship. 119 00:08:13.519 --> 00:08:18.240 It's normal to feel weird without you thinking he don't want your son to have 120 00:08:18.319 --> 00:08:22.959 hot water. It's only been three days. Neodamind seven one seven said, 121 00:08:22.959 --> 00:08:28.920 I just got here and we're still talking about waste turner. Will y'all Sam 122 00:08:28.959 --> 00:08:33.159 the Don says we acting like BM and BD don't be fucking they do, 123 00:08:33.799 --> 00:08:37.120 but I don't so like. But that's why I said to him, like, 124 00:08:37.360 --> 00:08:39.639 I understand that the dynamic that me and my child's father had is very 125 00:08:39.759 --> 00:08:45.080 rare, so I'm not surprised that it makes you feel uncomfortable. But I 126 00:08:45.159 --> 00:08:48.240 reassured him that's not what it is, and I gave him space to fix 127 00:08:48.279 --> 00:08:52.320 it or get it fixed and he didn't, so my chip business and let 128 00:08:52.360 --> 00:08:56.519 me enjoy my high shower the fuck right bench. She said, what is 129 00:08:56.519 --> 00:08:58.879 a man doing? Waist snatching? You missed it last week? Bro, 130 00:09:00.360 --> 00:09:03.720 you missed it last week? Wherego five to five says The waist wasn't snatched, 131 00:09:03.759 --> 00:09:07.679 it was attached. All right, y'all out, I'm done with y'all. 132 00:09:07.720 --> 00:09:09.960 I'm done with y'all. Uh, mister Gray says, cut him off 133 00:09:11.000 --> 00:09:13.080 and live it up twenty twenty four. Oh baby, yeah, I cut 134 00:09:13.120 --> 00:09:16.159 him off last week. He got he was out of here after fucking three 135 00:09:16.240 --> 00:09:20.600 days. That was a don that was adut. So with that being said, 136 00:09:20.799 --> 00:09:24.080 I know this kind of goes against what I just said, but you 137 00:09:24.120 --> 00:09:28.519 know my problem is, and let me know if y'all feel the same way, 138 00:09:30.919 --> 00:09:35.960 excuse me. I feel like every time I go on our gores Internet, 139 00:09:35.320 --> 00:09:43.240 there is some video, some clip, some post about some man bashing 140 00:09:43.320 --> 00:09:48.440 women or some woman bashing men. And I'm tired of that, Like y'all 141 00:09:48.440 --> 00:09:54.440 not tired of that, Like I am exhausted. It is mentally draining and 142 00:09:54.480 --> 00:09:58.480 the only thing that's worse than seeing these clips of men and women in this 143 00:09:58.600 --> 00:10:03.639 stupid ass battle the sex. It's the niggas in the comments, like it's 144 00:10:03.720 --> 00:10:09.600 it's the unhealed folk, it's the unintelligent folk. It's the niggas who can't 145 00:10:09.639 --> 00:10:13.120 spell, like they be the loudest and they be burning me the fuck out. 146 00:10:13.279 --> 00:10:16.000 Or the people who always got to point out what the opposite sex is 147 00:10:16.000 --> 00:10:20.279 doing. And if you have a praise like oh this man did something for 148 00:10:20.320 --> 00:10:22.039 his wife, well I wish my baby that would step up, and men 149 00:10:22.080 --> 00:10:28.840 ain't shit, yes, yes, or it's just people who consistently point out 150 00:10:28.879 --> 00:10:33.279 the negative and everything. It's like I can't say, like, you know, 151 00:10:33.840 --> 00:10:37.639 oh, well I like my man to open my doors. It's like, 152 00:10:39.080 --> 00:10:41.480 oh, so what you're saying men who don't open the doors ain't shit. 153 00:10:41.600 --> 00:10:43.600 It's like, no, that's not what I'm I'm just saying what I 154 00:10:43.799 --> 00:10:46.960 like. You know what I mean, Like every time I go on the 155 00:10:46.000 --> 00:10:50.799 internet is some negative shit and I just want to do what I can to 156 00:10:50.879 --> 00:10:56.879 provide the fields. So this episode, y'all, we are going to provide 157 00:10:56.200 --> 00:11:01.279 the feels, all the fields. It's like, I don't want y'all to 158 00:11:01.279 --> 00:11:03.440 have to open up your phone or listen to another podcast and it's like, 159 00:11:03.679 --> 00:11:07.919 ugh, I want to know what women bring them to the table. I'm 160 00:11:07.919 --> 00:11:11.320 sick of that. I'm sick of it. I'm sick of it. I 161 00:11:11.320 --> 00:11:13.039 don't want to hear a man can't take me out on a date unless he's 162 00:11:13.039 --> 00:11:16.120 spinning the bag. I'm sick of that. I'm sick of that, especially 163 00:11:16.120 --> 00:11:18.759 when y'all don't even be spinning a bad y'allselves. I'm sick of that. 164 00:11:20.399 --> 00:11:24.519 I'm fucking sick of it, right, I'm sick of Get your passport, 165 00:11:24.600 --> 00:11:28.399 bro. All the girls in here, they all three O fours, Get 166 00:11:28.440 --> 00:11:30.919 your passport, bro? And what the fuck is this three or old four? 167 00:11:30.960 --> 00:11:31.879 Shit? Am I having an Auntie moment? Because I don't know what 168 00:11:31.919 --> 00:11:35.320 that is? But I assume as holes because all they do is talk about 169 00:11:35.320 --> 00:11:37.799 holes when they say three or four? Are they prostitutes? Is that like 170 00:11:37.840 --> 00:11:41.960 a DOA? Is a what's a homicide? One? A? Seven? 171 00:11:41.279 --> 00:11:46.360 Is that like a prostitution charge? Is that what that is? I don't 172 00:11:46.360 --> 00:11:50.320 know. I digress, but I'm sick of hearing as a man, you 173 00:11:50.360 --> 00:11:52.120 should shut the fuck up. That's what you should do, because I'm sick 174 00:11:52.159 --> 00:11:56.120 of it. I'm sick of hearing. If a man don't make six figures, 175 00:11:56.320 --> 00:12:01.600 he can't take me out on a date. Sis, please please, 176 00:12:03.039 --> 00:12:07.559 I'm sick of hearing getting your assay it is gay. Come on, I'm 177 00:12:07.600 --> 00:12:11.639 sick of it, y'all. I'm sick of it. I'm sick of hearing 178 00:12:11.679 --> 00:12:15.960 the same thing every week, just out of different mouths. Y'all not sick 179 00:12:15.960 --> 00:12:18.639 of this shit, be cause I am. So. What we're gonna do 180 00:12:18.759 --> 00:12:22.840 this week is we're gonna provide the feels. Let's get back to love. 181 00:12:22.480 --> 00:12:26.559 Let's have an episode that reminds us of us of nineties R and B. 182 00:12:26.039 --> 00:12:31.480 Let's have an episode that reminds us of the music videos where the niggas is 183 00:12:31.480 --> 00:12:33.440 staring out the car window while it's rain and singing their heart out. Okay, 184 00:12:35.200 --> 00:12:39.240 let's have an episode where niggas is standing in the desert singing to whoever. 185 00:12:39.519 --> 00:12:45.080 Okay, I want to have an episode that's centered around those feel good 186 00:12:45.159 --> 00:12:52.440 moments like Summarine, Summarine, Summarine. So yeah, that's what we're gonna 187 00:12:52.480 --> 00:12:58.320 do today. We're gonna provide a vibe. Yeah, right, Like, 188 00:12:58.320 --> 00:13:03.600 as soon as you hear that, doo do do do do Hello, don't 189 00:13:03.639 --> 00:13:07.440 do it, don't do it? Just fucking turn my mic down. I'm 190 00:13:07.440 --> 00:13:11.480 sorry, I that was loud. Yeah. So, yeah, that's gonna 191 00:13:11.480 --> 00:13:16.840 do today. So long story short, today, I want to provide a 192 00:13:16.879 --> 00:13:20.559 vibe. I want to want you want to feel the feels, and hopefully 193 00:13:20.639 --> 00:13:24.960 if you've ever had this feeling, or if you haven't, this will open 194 00:13:24.960 --> 00:13:30.320 your eyes to how amazing it is. And yeah, you could just be 195 00:13:30.399 --> 00:13:35.799 me talking shit and yeah will see. So first, when we're talking about 196 00:13:35.799 --> 00:13:39.320 feeling the feels, I want to start from the beginning where it all starts, 197 00:13:39.639 --> 00:13:43.960 right, And I think we all can agree that one of the best 198 00:13:45.000 --> 00:13:50.120 parts of the relationship the dating stage, the talking phase. It's the beginning. 199 00:13:50.879 --> 00:13:56.919 It's the beginning. The beginning of the dating phase is so lit. 200 00:13:56.720 --> 00:14:01.840 It ain't nothing but butterflies and lies. I love it here. I love 201 00:14:01.879 --> 00:14:05.559 it here. I love I love the emotions and the ancients, the anxiousness 202 00:14:05.559 --> 00:14:09.759 that come with it. Right, Like, I like when you're like low 203 00:14:09.840 --> 00:14:13.360 key waiting for that person to text you back, right so now, like 204 00:14:13.440 --> 00:14:16.519 every alert you get on your phone, you think it's them, like that 205 00:14:16.519 --> 00:14:20.360 that's short five minute window you're waiting for them to text you back because you 206 00:14:20.440 --> 00:14:22.000 O D and you're like obsessing about it and you're like, damn, that's 207 00:14:22.080 --> 00:14:26.000 him and you get the alert on you Apple Watch, but it's just Serri 208 00:14:26.120 --> 00:14:37.879 telling you to stand up. Yeah you do that, Oh exactly. You'll 209 00:14:37.919 --> 00:14:41.240 be so pressed for this person to text you back as soon as you feel 210 00:14:41.279 --> 00:14:48.039 left boo boo on your rest. Yeah, I'm not gonna lie now. 211 00:14:48.080 --> 00:14:54.600 I feel like I'll be feeling it and I'm like, it's not like we 212 00:14:54.960 --> 00:15:01.399 are. We have PTSD, Like seriously, seriously like that feeling at the 213 00:15:01.399 --> 00:15:05.399 beginning, like were You're just excited to hear from that person. It's crazy 214 00:15:05.399 --> 00:15:09.919 like whenever that tax for that call do come through. Oh baby, it's 215 00:15:11.000 --> 00:15:15.039 up, Baby, it's up. It's up. You walking around smiling and 216 00:15:15.120 --> 00:15:18.879 shit looking on stupid. I love it for us, I love it. 217 00:15:20.679 --> 00:15:24.159 I love it. Hold on, let me go to the live by seventeen 218 00:15:24.240 --> 00:15:26.919 said, when you used to argue about who's going to hang up the phone 219 00:15:26.960 --> 00:15:33.279 first? Woo, not even that when you arguing because he's trying to tell 220 00:15:33.320 --> 00:15:37.000 you you sleep, but you not sleep. You was just resting your eyes 221 00:15:37.080 --> 00:15:39.120 for a minute, and he like, since I heard you snoring, I 222 00:15:39.200 --> 00:15:43.399 wasn't snoring. I'm congested because it's wintertime. I got a cold, but 223 00:15:43.559 --> 00:15:48.000 like yo, I was knocked the fuck out real front. But like all 224 00:15:48.039 --> 00:15:50.679 that stuff, all that stuff. Your favorite holiday, say, is falling 225 00:15:50.679 --> 00:15:56.039 asleep on the phone like a teenager. Yes, yes, yes hearing that. 226 00:15:56.240 --> 00:16:00.360 Seven three said, Oh, your nose is open, open, yo 227 00:16:00.840 --> 00:16:04.360 open. Clever Corey said, you hang up first, No, you hang 228 00:16:04.440 --> 00:16:07.919 up first. Okay, I'm about to hang OUTA be doing walking around the 229 00:16:07.960 --> 00:16:12.840 house randomly. Oh my god, feet up, my god. Like, 230 00:16:12.879 --> 00:16:18.639 bro, you really be walking around the house doing the most random ship to 231 00:16:18.679 --> 00:16:22.480 where you don't even realize. You sitting inside the dryer. Why are you 232 00:16:22.519 --> 00:16:26.919 sitting in the dryer? What's happening? You don't even realize You're sitting on 233 00:16:26.919 --> 00:16:29.480 top of the stoves kicking your feet. Why are you on the stove? 234 00:16:29.519 --> 00:16:33.320 Bro? We make food here. Get your ass cheek soft? So what's 235 00:16:33.320 --> 00:16:37.679 happening? What's happening? You sitting in the tub kicking your feet upside down? 236 00:16:37.879 --> 00:16:40.960 Bro? You like that? Girl? Don't you you like that? 237 00:16:41.039 --> 00:16:42.679 Boy? Don't you you've been Wait a minute, you let me see you 238 00:16:42.720 --> 00:16:45.879 having a good time. You deserve that, You deserve that feeling. I 239 00:16:45.960 --> 00:16:49.639 want you to have this appropriate amount of thirst. Yeah, it's like it's 240 00:16:49.679 --> 00:16:53.399 like the only time it's appropriate goal. It's certain occasions. But yeah, 241 00:16:53.480 --> 00:16:57.639 not only is it the appropriate amount of thirst, it's getting the thirst from 242 00:16:57.679 --> 00:17:07.440 the person. You are thirsty four unquenchable thirst. Listen, listen. Ashton 243 00:17:07.559 --> 00:17:12.079 said that'd be some good sleep. Dark Man seventeen said walking and holding hands. 244 00:17:12.599 --> 00:17:18.640 Bruh, Walking and holding hands is top tier because guess what, bitch, 245 00:17:18.680 --> 00:17:22.279 I'm a skip. I'm a skip. You don't have to skip but 246 00:17:22.440 --> 00:17:26.759 me. I'm going to skip. I'm going to swing my arms. You 247 00:17:26.759 --> 00:17:30.480 can swing or not swing, and I'm going to skip and move my head 248 00:17:30.559 --> 00:17:34.440 from side to side because baby, I'm happy. I'm happy. I've been 249 00:17:34.480 --> 00:17:37.880 waiting for you, You've been waiting for me. We're having a good time. 250 00:17:37.960 --> 00:17:42.640 Let's be happy together. Let's skip, my nigga. Yeah uh oh 251 00:17:42.960 --> 00:17:47.079 serious, I am says who got you over there smiling like that? That 252 00:17:47.119 --> 00:17:52.039 beat the one that beat the one? Because you don't even realize how deep 253 00:17:52.079 --> 00:17:56.000 you win it until somebody around you catch you and like, yo, who 254 00:17:56.000 --> 00:18:00.480 got you smiling at your phone like that? Mind your fucking business. Stop, 255 00:18:03.880 --> 00:18:08.920 I'm talking to my grandma. Now I'm not talking to my grandma. 256 00:18:10.960 --> 00:18:15.400 Seriously, seriously, that that's like a vibe. It is a whole vibe. 257 00:18:15.480 --> 00:18:18.519 And oh, I thought you were saying something. You's just coughing. 258 00:18:18.680 --> 00:18:22.680 Uh tay prince, oh says man, no cap this girl got me bad. 259 00:18:22.720 --> 00:18:26.480 I don't even funk with texting and being on FaceTime, but she all 260 00:18:26.559 --> 00:18:29.680 the way through my call logue and be with me every day. Yeah, 261 00:18:34.480 --> 00:18:38.720 okay, yeah you know that? Okay, yes, Like he or she 262 00:18:38.839 --> 00:18:41.839 called you without even sitting in the without even sending a text like yoh are 263 00:18:41.880 --> 00:18:47.160 you free? They just call you. They just call you. They locked 264 00:18:47.200 --> 00:18:52.039 in like that where they just call you. And the best way intrusive, 265 00:18:52.079 --> 00:18:56.759 in the best way at that your favorite holiday, says blasting nineties R and 266 00:18:56.799 --> 00:19:00.599 B in the wheels, singing your heart out? What going nowhere? Don't 267 00:19:00.640 --> 00:19:03.319 let me have a song that makes me think of you. Don't let me 268 00:19:03.359 --> 00:19:06.759 have a song that make me think of yo. Baby. I'm down bed, 269 00:19:07.279 --> 00:19:17.640 I'm down bed. Listen, listen, bruh, bruh. Dion Smith 270 00:19:17.680 --> 00:19:21.079 said, got a nigga watching rom Coms on the Red with fuzzy socks. 271 00:19:21.480 --> 00:19:30.079 This is the energy I'm talking about. Yeah, and you know my problems, 272 00:19:30.519 --> 00:19:33.079 fellas. I don't like when y'all do this because it really gets me. 273 00:19:33.160 --> 00:19:37.839 It really gets on my nerves. It really gets me tight. Whenever 274 00:19:37.880 --> 00:19:40.400 we be like whenever women be like, oh, you want to watch your 275 00:19:40.480 --> 00:19:42.920 show, Ben, you want to watch your show with me? I don't 276 00:19:42.920 --> 00:19:47.319 want to watch this. Now, all of a sudden, we two seasons 277 00:19:47.359 --> 00:19:49.480 in and you trying to figure out why old girl got sent home on RuPaul's 278 00:19:49.519 --> 00:19:52.079 Drag Race when the other one should have went home because she did a better 279 00:19:52.119 --> 00:19:56.400 lipsick off of curiosity, Why you're watching the bullshit? Because here's the thing, 280 00:19:56.440 --> 00:19:59.960 it's never bullshit? Are you watching this? And then you're like, 281 00:20:00.240 --> 00:20:03.440 oh, okay, ruppose drag Race is a seven time Any nominated show. 282 00:20:03.599 --> 00:20:07.720 Okay, it's a quality show. And I know, fellas, I know, 283 00:20:07.799 --> 00:20:10.480 I know, I know, I know y'all don't want to watch it. 284 00:20:10.960 --> 00:20:14.119 But when you sit down on this couch and we're sipping our wine, 285 00:20:14.200 --> 00:20:17.599 eating our snacks, and you're just watching this dumb little show with me, 286 00:20:18.160 --> 00:20:21.559 I promise you eventually you will be locked in. That doesn't sound fun. 287 00:20:22.000 --> 00:20:25.359 It doesn't until you're in it. Until you're in it. A whole bunch 288 00:20:25.400 --> 00:20:30.000 of grown men who dressed like women. And that's why. Now here's my 289 00:20:30.039 --> 00:20:33.880 whole thing. Keep that same energy when first take come on, because not 290 00:20:33.920 --> 00:20:42.680 every woman wants to watch it. Hello, I'm not going to say he 291 00:20:42.880 --> 00:20:51.079 just said, oh oh that was a spaghetti Okay, okay, okay, 292 00:20:51.440 --> 00:20:56.279 but yeah, man, it's just I feel like that's a part of that 293 00:20:56.440 --> 00:21:00.000 beginning gelling stage. But no, I won't even say that about Sevie ssh. 294 00:21:00.519 --> 00:21:03.759 I think men periods just think they know good shows and they don't be 295 00:21:03.839 --> 00:21:07.279 liking good shoes. B Y seventeen said, we waiting for the wine to 296 00:21:07.359 --> 00:21:11.599 kick in, So that's when y'all start liking it. When the wine kicks 297 00:21:11.599 --> 00:21:15.519 in, come on, come on, like somebody's husband makes sense, You're 298 00:21:15.519 --> 00:21:18.759 like, okay, I like that, Nigga. Deanhan Smith c Z says 299 00:21:19.240 --> 00:21:22.920 got me sitting like, no watch our wrong got with Kayla when he knows 300 00:21:22.960 --> 00:21:27.839 Sean been hooking up with her already. Y'all be more invested than we do. 301 00:21:29.920 --> 00:21:33.559 Dre b says, she I got my little one thing Places Sports back 302 00:21:33.640 --> 00:21:37.119 right now exactly. Y'all be talking all that about how y'all don't want to 303 00:21:37.119 --> 00:21:41.720 watch Root for All drag Race, but y'all expect me to memorize your parlay 304 00:21:41.759 --> 00:21:49.640 on Fandel hello, no push back, no pushback, no pushback. Come 305 00:21:49.680 --> 00:21:56.720 on, he says, watching love is blind as the ship. I'm hollering, 306 00:21:56.799 --> 00:22:00.640 hey, mister Chack good evening. B go Lie says, hey, 307 00:22:00.680 --> 00:22:03.799 if I watch shows with Shorty, she gotta watch them football games with me. 308 00:22:03.440 --> 00:22:08.839 Okay, okay, okay, okay, I guess, I guess, 309 00:22:11.000 --> 00:22:15.480 But Feller, sh'all gotta be patient because sometimes when you be yelling and screaming 310 00:22:15.480 --> 00:22:19.039 about your football games, women don't be knowing when to yell and scream, 311 00:22:19.160 --> 00:22:23.000 so she'd be waiting for you to yell and scream. Yeah, yeah, 312 00:22:23.160 --> 00:22:26.160 do y'all like when she like fake screams, because what if she fake screams 313 00:22:26.160 --> 00:22:30.279 after the other team, like one making a bomb ass defensive play. Just 314 00:22:32.759 --> 00:22:37.119 be there, just just show up, just show up. I can'stency. 315 00:22:37.400 --> 00:22:41.759 Scott Scott l Rock seven eight says, now we can watch Raisin Kanan. 316 00:22:41.839 --> 00:22:47.680 I'm hollering, b watch seventeen says she really don't. Yeah, man, 317 00:22:47.720 --> 00:22:49.759 So I like that feeling. I like that feeling for us, and I'm 318 00:22:49.759 --> 00:22:55.839 happy that we all can acknowledge that you know, the fields are real. 319 00:22:56.279 --> 00:22:59.599 The fields are real, for sure. So speaking of feeling the fields, 320 00:23:00.880 --> 00:23:03.920 I think there are certain things that go unnoticed, there are certain things that 321 00:23:04.039 --> 00:23:10.200 really matter, especially to us women, right, So, I don't think 322 00:23:10.559 --> 00:23:15.880 men understand the power that certain gestures have, like if you hit up a 323 00:23:15.880 --> 00:23:19.480 girl or if you send her something you saw on Instagram, like, yobay, 324 00:23:19.519 --> 00:23:23.200 this restaurant look fire. You want to go here on Friday? That 325 00:23:23.240 --> 00:23:27.079 woman panties are now moist? Okay, that you thought about me, Oh 326 00:23:27.160 --> 00:23:32.839 my god, you thought about me, like you saw this and you was 327 00:23:32.880 --> 00:23:36.079 like, you know who I think would enjoy this, My babe, Stik 328 00:23:36.119 --> 00:23:38.119 will love this shit, and then you leave me up and I'm a stinking 329 00:23:38.279 --> 00:23:42.599 oh my god, Like y'all, I don't think y'all understand the power that 330 00:23:42.880 --> 00:23:48.880 just a small gesture like that has. Like damn, babe, it was 331 00:23:48.920 --> 00:23:52.359 just out here kicking your feet, tweiling your ball here thinking about me. 332 00:23:52.480 --> 00:24:00.519 Huh yes, no, no, no, I thought you was thinking about 333 00:24:00.559 --> 00:24:03.240 me, But you wasn't thinking about me like that. Okay, cool, 334 00:24:03.240 --> 00:24:06.480 cool, cool, cool cool, because like you know, it's fine, 335 00:24:06.920 --> 00:24:14.319 like I feel like whatever, yeah, your boss, But no, like 336 00:24:14.720 --> 00:24:21.119 that that really does something to us because it you know one thing about most 337 00:24:21.200 --> 00:24:26.200 women, or you know a lot of people we love reassurance. So if 338 00:24:26.240 --> 00:24:29.920 I already feel a certain way about you, you doing something small like that 339 00:24:30.039 --> 00:24:33.759 in it and I recognized that the first person you thought of was me. 340 00:24:33.680 --> 00:24:40.640 What that makes me feel really good? And I like that, Like it's 341 00:24:40.680 --> 00:24:45.400 one thing to have these feelings for someone, but for them to be reciprocated 342 00:24:45.400 --> 00:24:51.279 and even the smallest manners, it's amazing to me because it's like I can 343 00:24:51.359 --> 00:24:52.799 have a whole folder full of shit that I want to do with you, 344 00:24:53.440 --> 00:24:57.599 but it's like sometimes you be hesitanting like am I doing too much? Am 345 00:24:57.640 --> 00:25:00.279 I throwing too much at him? Too quick? But it's like just something 346 00:25:00.319 --> 00:25:04.359 small like that, like boom bay, Look they got that rome and we 347 00:25:04.359 --> 00:25:08.039 was talking about yo, you want to go here on Friday? I do 348 00:25:08.519 --> 00:25:15.880 I like girls like curse or like don't be so like girly? What like 349 00:25:17.000 --> 00:25:26.000 damn nigga? Like okay proper, Okay, Yeah, I don't know. 350 00:25:26.880 --> 00:25:33.519 A mob nine to two says planning means leading the charge facts one thousand percent, 351 00:25:33.960 --> 00:25:37.039 Like yes, that is a good fucking way to put it, Like 352 00:25:37.119 --> 00:25:41.039 planning means leading the charge, Like it's a great way to show that like 353 00:25:41.680 --> 00:25:45.240 that leadership, we'll all be talking about and make you know all the other 354 00:25:45.279 --> 00:25:51.680 things that come with it so much easier. A one custom says true. 355 00:25:51.839 --> 00:25:55.279 That outfit says, you know, wait, pause for a minute, happy 356 00:25:55.319 --> 00:25:59.680 belated for your university chocolate ship and said thank you I forgot to mention it. 357 00:26:00.160 --> 00:26:00.799 I did. I mean she did last week. I didn't post nothing 358 00:26:00.799 --> 00:26:04.039 about it, but you know whatever, Yeah, I fucked up, big. 359 00:26:04.200 --> 00:26:07.960 I was drunk all weekend and y'all, Big Drew says, especially when 360 00:26:08.000 --> 00:26:14.519 you plan a whole itinerary. Absolutely Niggrodama seven one seven sayss swirling your ball. 361 00:26:14.559 --> 00:26:17.640 Here's crazy, yo. Let me tell y'all. Okay, I just 362 00:26:17.640 --> 00:26:19.319 want to stick a pin in this conversation and we're gonna circle back to it 363 00:26:19.359 --> 00:26:23.960 because speaking of this weekend, I said I was drunk all weekend. Shout 364 00:26:25.000 --> 00:26:27.079 out to the pink posse me and my girlfriends when we be making it out 365 00:26:27.079 --> 00:26:30.599 the group chat or whatever. So like, periodically will plan trips. It's 366 00:26:30.599 --> 00:26:34.319 like seven eight of us. Periodically we'll plan trips and we'll go have these 367 00:26:34.400 --> 00:26:40.279 nice events, you know, and it's a really really really very well structured 368 00:26:40.319 --> 00:26:41.599 time and we all have a good fuck that. Let me tell you all 369 00:26:41.599 --> 00:26:45.640 about this what happened to me. Okay, so we're now down to like 370 00:26:45.160 --> 00:26:48.240 two of us. Up. I'm in the bathroom and my one girlfriend knocks 371 00:26:48.240 --> 00:26:49.960 on the door. I should have asked her if I could tell the story, 372 00:26:49.960 --> 00:26:52.559 but I'm not gonna say your name, so I don't think she might. 373 00:26:52.920 --> 00:26:55.680 So she knocks on the door. I'm like, you're but she don't 374 00:26:55.680 --> 00:27:00.240 say nothing. So I come out the bathroom and she just threw up all 375 00:27:00.279 --> 00:27:03.519 on the kitchen floor. And by this time, y'all, we are drunk, 376 00:27:03.559 --> 00:27:07.640 trunk, right, So I'm like, damn, don't worry about it, 377 00:27:07.680 --> 00:27:11.079 friend, I got you right. So you know how you like jump 378 00:27:11.359 --> 00:27:17.839 skip over something, right, So I'm trying to jump skip over the vomit. 379 00:27:18.559 --> 00:27:21.680 Next thing I know, my feet flying the air like fucking home alone, 380 00:27:21.759 --> 00:27:30.279 and I fall flat on my back in the vomit, y'all because I 381 00:27:30.319 --> 00:27:37.559 had to tell this story. I fell flat on my back in the vomit, 382 00:27:37.799 --> 00:27:41.680 y'all. So I'm cracking the fuck up because y'all know my life is 383 00:27:41.680 --> 00:27:45.640 a joke, right. So my girlfriend is like, no, please get 384 00:27:45.640 --> 00:27:49.839 it. Oh my god, no, because she's drunk, right, So 385 00:27:49.960 --> 00:27:53.599 she's like, no, get up, please, please get up right. 386 00:27:53.920 --> 00:27:56.839 I'm still laughing. My other girlfriend comes downstairs and she's like, what the 387 00:27:56.880 --> 00:28:00.400 fuck is going on? Right? So I'm like, yo, she threw 388 00:28:00.480 --> 00:28:04.039 up, and she's like, get up right. So I get up out 389 00:28:04.079 --> 00:28:10.240 the vomit and so I take like a swifter like sheet and I try to 390 00:28:10.319 --> 00:28:18.480 scoop the vomit with my bare hands as oh, my girlfriends just my other 391 00:28:18.480 --> 00:28:22.599 girlfriend's just standing there looking like, y'all, bitch is really drunk, right, 392 00:28:23.400 --> 00:28:27.799 So she goes upstairs. I hear another one of the girls say what's 393 00:28:27.839 --> 00:28:32.079 going on down there? Right? And I don't hear the first girl, 394 00:28:32.200 --> 00:28:37.240 and then all of a sudden I hear and she's busting out laughing right. 395 00:28:37.640 --> 00:28:41.720 I'm like I can hear, y'all. She just laughs louder. So then 396 00:28:41.400 --> 00:28:45.359 the next day comes, I got in the shower to that night like and 397 00:28:45.359 --> 00:28:49.160 the part I just got out the shower and I had to go get back 398 00:28:49.160 --> 00:28:55.599 in the shower. I don't even think my cuci was dry all the way 399 00:28:55.920 --> 00:29:00.519 exactly exactly. So I get back in the shower, I go to sleep. 400 00:29:00.920 --> 00:29:06.640 So it was just a bad Joe like. We also did the ceiling 401 00:29:06.720 --> 00:29:11.200 challenge and it was just I put this. No, I'm tall right, 402 00:29:11.559 --> 00:29:14.920 thank you, thank you, thank you. I put the phone on the 403 00:29:14.960 --> 00:29:19.480 ceiling and we should have honestly stopped drinking there because it was five minutes of 404 00:29:19.599 --> 00:29:23.039 just the ceiling, because I never turned the camera around, so it just 405 00:29:23.160 --> 00:29:30.200 was in case you were wondering how drunk we were, right, yeah, 406 00:29:30.240 --> 00:29:32.920 it was that. We did like another little short John, but it wasn't 407 00:29:32.920 --> 00:29:34.279 as good as the first one. But it's okay, it's okay, it's 408 00:29:34.279 --> 00:29:37.319 okay, long story share. I love my friends and I had so much 409 00:29:37.319 --> 00:29:41.480 fun this weekend and that's that and yep, all right, let's go back 410 00:29:41.519 --> 00:29:48.000 to the relationship stuff. Okay. Clever Gry says, what a time to 411 00:29:48.079 --> 00:29:52.279 be alive. Dre b says, post it. You want to see the 412 00:29:52.680 --> 00:29:56.119 ceiling because it was no challenge. I didn't turn the camera around. It 413 00:29:56.200 --> 00:30:03.599 just was the ceiling. Ashton said, nah, what'scared with you? Then 414 00:30:03.680 --> 00:30:11.599 you said this is beyond me? Says, at least it was worth it. 415 00:30:11.440 --> 00:30:15.880 What's the problem? House? Was we gonna get it up? Exactly? 416 00:30:17.240 --> 00:30:25.440 All right? What shut up? Okay, So let's go back to 417 00:30:26.160 --> 00:30:29.400 what we were talking about, right, So your long story short. We 418 00:30:29.480 --> 00:30:34.079 do like when y'all take the initiative and plan things like you know what we 419 00:30:34.240 --> 00:30:38.079 like when y'all take the initiative and not only send us things, but plan 420 00:30:38.200 --> 00:30:41.920 things and get it done and make sure we get there and have a good 421 00:30:41.960 --> 00:30:45.279 time, Like I like that. Give us the feels, babe. Yeah. 422 00:30:45.720 --> 00:30:55.319 Yeah, So I just want to follow up with we were talking about 423 00:30:55.359 --> 00:30:59.839 every time you come on the internet, it's always some bullshit like what once 424 00:31:00.039 --> 00:31:03.480 sex does what the other sex doesn't do? And I feel like the narrative 425 00:31:03.799 --> 00:31:08.119 is that, you know, women deserve to get X, Y and Z, 426 00:31:08.799 --> 00:31:14.839 but I don't really hear many conversations pertaining to what the good men deserve. 427 00:31:15.279 --> 00:31:18.119 And when I say the good men, I mean the men who are 428 00:31:18.200 --> 00:31:21.839 showing up and showing out, like men who don't have you looking stupid in 429 00:31:21.880 --> 00:31:26.480 the group chat, Men who don't have you questioning your space, your time, 430 00:31:26.559 --> 00:31:29.799 your energy and if it's going to the right place, Men who don't 431 00:31:29.839 --> 00:31:32.519 have you second guess, and if this is something that y'all need to really 432 00:31:32.559 --> 00:31:37.079 be doing right now, right, So I wanted to know what's a nice 433 00:31:37.160 --> 00:31:41.680 gesture that you can do for these said men, right, what's a nice 434 00:31:41.720 --> 00:31:45.640 gesture that you can do for a man who's showing up, showing out and 435 00:31:45.640 --> 00:31:49.160 making you feel special, Like I don't hear that. Do you don't hear 436 00:31:49.200 --> 00:31:52.079 people on the internet talking about that, because I damn sure don't. Maybe 437 00:31:52.079 --> 00:31:59.640 it's just me, like Sean, do you be hearing that? Exactly exactly 438 00:31:59.799 --> 00:32:04.720 right? So of course, you know, I go on out Gore's Internet 439 00:32:05.000 --> 00:32:07.720 and I asked, what's a kind gesture that you can do for a man 440 00:32:07.759 --> 00:32:12.720 who's showing up and showing up? Once again, we're not talking about were 441 00:32:12.799 --> 00:32:17.000 not talking about inconsistent Isaiah, stupid ass, Showan, fuck boy Freddie, 442 00:32:17.319 --> 00:32:22.279 none of them? Right, Yeah, And you know what I feel like 443 00:32:22.960 --> 00:32:24.400 when we talk about men's names. I feel like Ray, Ray and POOKI 444 00:32:24.519 --> 00:32:28.359 is all I hear. But there are other men out there. It's not 445 00:32:28.480 --> 00:32:32.279 just ain't shit Ray Ray and Pooky. Okay, there's also inconsistent Isaiah, 446 00:32:32.759 --> 00:32:37.640 stupid ass, Sean and fuck boy Freddie. All Right, we're gonna get 447 00:32:37.680 --> 00:32:40.599 We're gonna put these out there because they deserve all right, if your name 448 00:32:40.640 --> 00:32:45.319 is Isaiah, Sean or Freddy, I apologize, but these niggas deserve right. 449 00:32:45.960 --> 00:32:53.559 So I got a lot of a lot of answers and I wanted to 450 00:32:53.559 --> 00:32:59.000 share someone with you. Some of them were a little outlandish, but you 451 00:32:59.000 --> 00:33:02.480 know, believable, but hey, you know what to each your own. 452 00:33:02.599 --> 00:33:07.880 But another reason I really wanted to ask this question because not only is it 453 00:33:07.920 --> 00:33:10.559 not prevalent on social media, there are honestly a lot of women who don't 454 00:33:10.559 --> 00:33:14.799 know what to do for their men. And if you don't believe me, 455 00:33:15.160 --> 00:33:19.319 ask any father on Christmas or Father's Day, because they always get socks, 456 00:33:19.759 --> 00:33:23.160 a coffee, mug, a tie exactly. So it's like, what other 457 00:33:23.240 --> 00:33:27.079 things can we do for these men? And I'm not just talking about on 458 00:33:27.160 --> 00:33:31.119 holidays, I mean just period. Right, So I want to reach you 459 00:33:31.119 --> 00:33:35.319 guys. Some of my favorites, some of my favorite responses. It's gonna 460 00:33:35.319 --> 00:33:37.799 be a good time. It's gonna be a reason I wanted to reach you 461 00:33:37.799 --> 00:33:42.519 guys, some of my favorite responses. So the first one, buy me 462 00:33:42.599 --> 00:33:46.359 a vinyl record of someone we may have talked about. Men are very simple 463 00:33:46.400 --> 00:33:50.599 creatures, right, And of all the things that I got on this list, 464 00:33:51.119 --> 00:33:53.039 not once did I hear somebody say, oh, you gotta buy me 465 00:33:53.839 --> 00:33:58.359 a burken Not once. Well that's just for ladies, So I don't I 466 00:33:58.359 --> 00:34:00.759 don't think that's a good equivalent. Yeah, it's not. It's not a 467 00:34:00.799 --> 00:34:04.279 good equivalent. Not once did I hear somebody say you gotta buy me something 468 00:34:04.319 --> 00:34:08.039 equivalent of X amount of dollars. Like they weren't asking for high priced items, 469 00:34:08.400 --> 00:34:14.440 they just were absent for simple shit. Right, buy me in vital 470 00:34:14.480 --> 00:34:19.960 if someone may have talked about think about that, listen to what the fuck 471 00:34:20.000 --> 00:34:24.440 I say, and buy something that we talked about. Buy one of the 472 00:34:24.480 --> 00:34:29.400 things that I fucking said. So simple, so fucking simple. Right, 473 00:34:30.079 --> 00:34:34.559 next one played the game with him instead of looking at him like he ain't 474 00:34:34.599 --> 00:34:37.800 shit. All right, now, I'm gonna give a little bit of pushback 475 00:34:37.840 --> 00:34:42.559 on this. Okay, she only looks at you like you ain't shit if 476 00:34:42.599 --> 00:34:45.239 you spend more time on the game than you do looking for a job. 477 00:34:45.360 --> 00:34:47.800 If you already have a job, she usually has mine. And I'm not 478 00:34:47.800 --> 00:34:52.239 trying to take the moment away from y'all have y'all moment. I'm just saying, 479 00:34:52.639 --> 00:34:53.960 if she's looking at you like you ain't shit, it's probably something else 480 00:34:53.960 --> 00:34:58.519 behind that. But that's another conversation we're gonna unpack later. Okay, But 481 00:34:58.880 --> 00:35:04.119 yeah, ladies said something you would do, would you you know, play 482 00:35:04.159 --> 00:35:07.119 the game with your man. Do y'all have a problem playing the game with 483 00:35:07.199 --> 00:35:10.360 your man? Because maybe I don't because I'm pushing all the buttons. Okay, 484 00:35:10.639 --> 00:35:15.480 you ain't fucking with me. Okay, I don't mind playing the game. 485 00:35:15.639 --> 00:35:19.440 I mean, you got me fucked up, and I'm gonna be smart 486 00:35:19.480 --> 00:35:21.480 and try to kick you in your shit or something while were playing. I'm 487 00:35:21.519 --> 00:35:24.559 fighting dirty? What's up? What's up? I had a girl play a 488 00:35:24.599 --> 00:35:28.039 game. It was pretty. It was a nice little boding experience. I 489 00:35:28.119 --> 00:35:30.280 like, what did y'all play? Uh? It was something like two player 490 00:35:30.320 --> 00:35:32.559 games. Well, she said she wanted to play a game, so I 491 00:35:32.679 --> 00:35:38.400 just went to picked somebody knew you could beat her in It's actually cooperaty so 492 00:35:38.440 --> 00:35:40.960 we had to work together. Oh that was like a puzzle game to look 493 00:35:40.960 --> 00:35:51.320 at you and we did good nerds all right. Ashton says, that's crazy. 494 00:35:51.960 --> 00:35:58.320 Outfite says well on Okaos United by seventeen says she don't have to a 495 00:35:58.440 --> 00:36:02.639 mob. Nine to two says smash Mario Kart. It's game over words of 496 00:36:02.719 --> 00:36:08.639 friends. It's crazy. So the next one, and I feel like this 497 00:36:08.679 --> 00:36:14.559 is one that goes overlooked a lot overlooks so much like this is this should 498 00:36:14.679 --> 00:36:16.320 honestly be your number one go to if you're trying to do a nice gesture 499 00:36:16.360 --> 00:36:21.719 for your man. It's pay for a haircut, and if your man is 500 00:36:21.760 --> 00:36:24.920 bald, pay for him to get one of them like immersive experiences where they 501 00:36:25.000 --> 00:36:29.159 like put the hot towel on the space and give him a facial and all 502 00:36:29.199 --> 00:36:31.119 that other stuff. It's really simple, it's really easy, and to take 503 00:36:31.199 --> 00:36:35.239 zero effort. Just send them the money, says if your man gives haircut, 504 00:36:35.280 --> 00:36:37.199 send them like sixty dollars. I don't know how much that facial shit 505 00:36:37.280 --> 00:36:42.480 go, but go up from there. Okay, let's just see that the 506 00:36:42.559 --> 00:36:47.800 next one. And this is where the answer started getting good because I'm not 507 00:36:47.840 --> 00:36:53.639 gonna lie, ladies. Not a lot of you answered this question because I 508 00:36:53.719 --> 00:37:00.800 said, what's a nice gesture that you've done for your man? Or what's 509 00:37:00.800 --> 00:37:02.679 the nice shusure a woman can do for you? Right, I didn't get 510 00:37:02.679 --> 00:37:07.000 a lot of answers from women. I didn't, but the answers I did 511 00:37:07.039 --> 00:37:14.679 get very heartfelt, very sweet. I loved it. Right. So this 512 00:37:14.719 --> 00:37:19.079 one, this, this one really touched me in a special place. This 513 00:37:19.119 --> 00:37:23.800 woman says, I've gifted massages, pedicures and shut the fuck up for three 514 00:37:23.840 --> 00:37:31.119 days A queen, a queen. So look this queen, Okay, do 515 00:37:31.159 --> 00:37:37.079 you know the strength that it takes to shut the fuck up for three days 516 00:37:37.920 --> 00:37:44.840 while he's getting a massage, a pedicure, all that business and minding his 517 00:37:45.119 --> 00:37:51.079 business. I'm not gonna I think sis he's like a noble peace prize. 518 00:37:51.159 --> 00:37:58.280 Whatever they gave Mother Teresa, this she gives us. Call them action. 519 00:37:58.480 --> 00:38:02.960 Jackson three two five says, now that's what's up. Uh, implicit bias, 520 00:38:04.039 --> 00:38:08.079 gave some handclaps. Smiffers says they don't care to learn about their man 521 00:38:09.840 --> 00:38:12.840 Ooh, I'm sorry. I'll press around, but my bad, my bad, 522 00:38:12.920 --> 00:38:15.199 my bad, don't come here. Ashton said, where those ladies at? 523 00:38:17.159 --> 00:38:22.360 Big Drew says, I hope he married her me too. Ashton says, 524 00:38:22.400 --> 00:38:27.519 shut the fuck up for three days is love out? Fiz Kid says, 525 00:38:27.599 --> 00:38:30.679 can we put that woman as the bachelorette and we can beat Negro? 526 00:38:30.800 --> 00:38:37.320 Dama says she's setting the bar high and I respect it. Yo. Uh, 527 00:38:37.760 --> 00:38:43.519 I think that that was definitely a good It's really I'm not gonna lie, 528 00:38:43.519 --> 00:38:45.800 it's really just a shutting the fuck up for three days. That's really 529 00:38:45.280 --> 00:38:51.519 touched my soul, in my heart, in my heart. So the next 530 00:38:51.519 --> 00:38:55.719 one this is where I say, learning, man, it's really easy. 531 00:38:55.760 --> 00:39:00.599 Men are simple creatures. Just find out things that he likes. Does it 532 00:39:00.639 --> 00:39:04.239 for him. The next one says, my man is simple. I bought 533 00:39:04.320 --> 00:39:07.639 him fudge that he thought was too expensive, and he was happy as fucked. 534 00:39:07.639 --> 00:39:14.239 I forgot what what you mean? Just in a random conversation. He 535 00:39:14.280 --> 00:39:16.199 said, Hey, this is something that I really enjoy, but right now 536 00:39:16.239 --> 00:39:20.920 I don't think it will be financially responsible for me to greet it. And 537 00:39:20.960 --> 00:39:24.280 you took it upon yourself to go out your way and make it happen. 538 00:39:28.360 --> 00:39:31.320 Do you know how many teeth that man was showing when she gave him that 539 00:39:31.519 --> 00:39:37.480 fudge? Do you know? My man was chest sire cat ear to ear? 540 00:39:37.079 --> 00:39:43.199 Do you know? Do you know I know for a fact my man 541 00:39:43.239 --> 00:39:45.119 went to the group chat right after that. Yo, bro, I think 542 00:39:45.159 --> 00:39:51.480 she might be the one. Yo, Bro, I got one. I 543 00:39:51.480 --> 00:39:53.800 got one, Bro, I got one. And all she had to do 544 00:39:53.880 --> 00:40:00.400 was literally listen, listen like a man probably been complaining about something. Literally, 545 00:40:00.840 --> 00:40:04.320 your man do construction. He's been telling you about how his boots and 546 00:40:04.480 --> 00:40:07.679 ship. How you're wearing the motherfuckers down, Cisco. Get him a pair 547 00:40:07.719 --> 00:40:10.639 of Red Wings. Don't get them, Tames. Don't get them Tames, 548 00:40:12.159 --> 00:40:16.400 your man do construction. Go to the Red Wings store and get him a 549 00:40:16.400 --> 00:40:21.599 fucking gift card. Give it to him. Let him get whatever you want. 550 00:40:22.320 --> 00:40:28.519 Timberlands is like the difference is top two. Yes, Timberlance, I 551 00:40:28.559 --> 00:40:34.559 mean I mean if you we like you know, like now why he say 552 00:40:34.639 --> 00:40:39.119 for me? Seriously, seriously, all you have to do is listen to 553 00:40:39.320 --> 00:40:43.159 your man. He's going to tell you what he wants. He's going to 554 00:40:43.239 --> 00:40:46.440 tell you how he can you can make his day better or simple things for 555 00:40:46.559 --> 00:40:52.039 him. Because especially if y'all locked in, men talk a lot. If 556 00:40:52.039 --> 00:40:54.800 you're really locked in with your man, you low key becomes his best friend 557 00:40:55.039 --> 00:40:58.760 or one of them. Now, am I saying he going to call you 558 00:40:59.039 --> 00:41:00.679 at fucking nine ac have to shoot dice with his home boys. No, 559 00:41:01.360 --> 00:41:06.239 but I'm saying that you do gain a certain intimacy that a lot of the 560 00:41:06.320 --> 00:41:07.880 regular person would and have to ask. You would definitely be the first person 561 00:41:09.000 --> 00:41:14.360 before he'll think about with his boys. Mm hmmmm hmm. You just might 562 00:41:14.440 --> 00:41:17.440 not be available anything possible says I work in tims and I don't have a 563 00:41:17.480 --> 00:41:24.079 problem. Number one fall apart. What do you do? I got number 564 00:41:24.079 --> 00:41:28.639 two? What kind of times do you wear? That's also another thing, 565 00:41:28.920 --> 00:41:31.679 but I'm just gonna say. Aaron Nash seventy three said red wings is the 566 00:41:31.719 --> 00:41:38.599 equivalent of red bottoms. Come on now see see t rock Fit says do 567 00:41:38.760 --> 00:41:45.079 be like she white fyed lowiin niggerdim in seven one seven says I wear red 568 00:41:45.119 --> 00:41:50.000 wings and I'm a mechanic boom, so listen mechanics too, Get your man 569 00:41:50.039 --> 00:41:52.920 some red wings. Our fit says, for real, I'm in construction them 570 00:41:52.960 --> 00:41:57.840 red wings would get her a ring baby and last name that means she fai 571 00:41:58.000 --> 00:42:04.199 a fucking tention? Ah uh hemmy's himy thing possible says I work in a 572 00:42:04.199 --> 00:42:08.559 shipyard in San Diego. All right, send me send me your shoe size. 573 00:42:08.559 --> 00:42:12.880 I'm gonna send you some red wings. Now, don't if you don't 574 00:42:12.920 --> 00:42:15.199 fucking follow up on it, that's on you. But send me your shoe 575 00:42:15.199 --> 00:42:19.280 size. I'm gonna send you some red wings, and we gonna you wanna 576 00:42:19.480 --> 00:42:22.159 come back and let us know how you feel about it and which one is 577 00:42:22.159 --> 00:42:28.599 better? How about that shine. You don't mean no red wings, thank 578 00:42:28.639 --> 00:42:36.599 you. This is a stupid house. Oh my god, New York Diamond 579 00:42:36.639 --> 00:42:42.840 seven one seven says Size twelve. Oh wait not for me? All right, 580 00:42:42.920 --> 00:42:45.000 y'all listen, long story short. I feel like there are plenty of 581 00:42:45.000 --> 00:42:50.400 ways to be attentive, especially when it comes to men, because regardless of 582 00:42:50.400 --> 00:42:53.880 what the Internet says, men deserve to be happy too, and sometimes that 583 00:42:53.920 --> 00:43:00.280 message gets lost with all of the nonsense that goes on. So if you 584 00:43:00.280 --> 00:43:04.039 do need some more tips or you're looking for something to do for somebody special, 585 00:43:05.440 --> 00:43:07.599 men are very simple questures. Just be attentive. They're gonna tell you 586 00:43:07.639 --> 00:43:10.800 what they want, and just keep an open mind. Nine times out of 587 00:43:10.840 --> 00:43:14.360 ten, like a lot of the question a lot of the answers are just 588 00:43:14.400 --> 00:43:19.800 like a massage. Some head. Be quiet, like they wasn't even asking 589 00:43:19.880 --> 00:43:25.280 for material things. So like, just pay attention, be attentive. You 590 00:43:25.320 --> 00:43:29.360 can treat your man too, and it's not even gonna cost you. If 591 00:43:29.360 --> 00:43:30.800 that man treating you right, he deserves it. That's it, and that's 592 00:43:30.840 --> 00:43:39.280 all. Extreme x inc says I've been trying to DM Stormy. You lying 593 00:43:40.559 --> 00:43:45.960 The boy go says very simple creatures be why I said, and we simple 594 00:43:45.760 --> 00:43:50.440 The boy go says, what's good? T rock Fit says, my smile 595 00:43:50.519 --> 00:43:53.880 be on point with some red wings exactly exactly. So yeah, that's it, 596 00:43:54.840 --> 00:43:58.119 all right, guys. So now it's time for an edible portion of 597 00:43:58.119 --> 00:44:01.480 the show. So the edible portion is when we read questions, comments, 598 00:44:01.519 --> 00:44:05.800 stories that you guys send, and all the day we record. I usually 599 00:44:05.840 --> 00:44:07.400 put a prompt up, but if what you have to say is too long 600 00:44:07.440 --> 00:44:13.559 to fit in the prompt, you can always email me at inquiries at stormypea 601 00:44:13.760 --> 00:44:16.199 dot com, or you can shoot me a DM. All right, So 602 00:44:16.239 --> 00:44:23.760 the first question, would you date a mortician? I want you to ask 603 00:44:23.760 --> 00:44:28.559 yourselves there, just like I'm being in so I want you to ask yourselves 604 00:44:28.559 --> 00:44:34.920 there. Would you date a mortician? And Will and Will, y'all, 605 00:44:34.920 --> 00:44:38.360 I'm weird right. Let me tell you. I am so obsessed with true 606 00:44:38.440 --> 00:44:45.199 crime and like morbid things like he would be pissed at me because like every 607 00:44:45.239 --> 00:44:46.679 time he would come home from work, I'd be like, what happened at 608 00:44:46.679 --> 00:44:52.880 work today? What happened? What happened? Who was it? Damn what 609 00:44:52.920 --> 00:44:54.880 it looked like? Don't tell me no names. You gotta keep things private. 610 00:44:54.920 --> 00:44:59.400 I understand, but and then what happened? It was a baby Oh 611 00:45:00.079 --> 00:45:06.239 god, lupus cancel an eighteen wheeler, Like I need to know it all 612 00:45:06.320 --> 00:45:15.480 right, broh exactly like Yo, that thanks smell like like bro like and 613 00:45:15.760 --> 00:45:19.760 it probably eventually would piss him off, but it's like I would have to 614 00:45:19.760 --> 00:45:22.239 have the conversation with him before we started talking, like, Babe, if 615 00:45:22.239 --> 00:45:24.760 I ever become too much, tell me, because I know at some point 616 00:45:24.760 --> 00:45:28.559 he's like, dam bro, I will only work at work. And it's 617 00:45:28.599 --> 00:45:30.480 like, but I want to know it too, babe, Like if I 618 00:45:30.559 --> 00:45:34.360 was dating a moretation like it definitely will be given. That's what that posted 619 00:45:34.480 --> 00:45:36.760 was, like, I want to be in his ball so I can hang 620 00:45:36.800 --> 00:45:40.159 with him all day I do. I want to be there with him doing 621 00:45:40.159 --> 00:45:49.000 stuff like, ugh, you're not so cool? So cool? So the 622 00:45:49.079 --> 00:45:54.480 life says uh b why seventeen said especially if she has looks to kill y'all 623 00:45:54.519 --> 00:45:59.360 got to my nurse Clever Corey says, hell yeah, morticians would come home 624 00:45:59.400 --> 00:46:05.079 with some cool stories. Outfit says, we get better than do you do? 625 00:46:05.239 --> 00:46:12.599 Boy can't play, So all the questions that be coming in as edibles 626 00:46:13.119 --> 00:46:15.559 be just that. So yes, we did that a little better than that. 627 00:46:15.639 --> 00:46:22.000 This week, Big Drew says two hells and two nos, you win. 628 00:46:22.159 --> 00:46:25.920 Data Mortician Big Drew Latina sweet Peace said, I am too, but 629 00:46:27.000 --> 00:46:30.800 I don't know if I could date someone like that. I don't know. 630 00:46:31.599 --> 00:46:38.639 Yes, Oh your Latin, I'm not Latin? What Latina story? Oh 631 00:46:38.719 --> 00:46:43.960 my god? Aaron nad Sheming three says, No, people talk about their 632 00:46:44.039 --> 00:46:49.360 work. No, I'm good. Outfit says, doing circles around his nipples, 633 00:46:49.400 --> 00:46:52.400 asking did they run over him twice? Or did he fall off a 634 00:46:52.440 --> 00:47:00.039 cliff bag? Somebody get Outfits out of here. I King Chell says. 635 00:47:00.079 --> 00:47:02.880 Stormy would ask what a dead person farts? My life? Y'all? I 636 00:47:02.920 --> 00:47:06.760 heard when you when you when you pass you do fart that see, that 637 00:47:06.800 --> 00:47:08.039 will be a question. I would ask him, like, Yo, what 638 00:47:08.159 --> 00:47:13.239 happened? I heard you like past excrement? You see you see what I 639 00:47:13.239 --> 00:47:16.960 did there? You see you see? Okay? No, I heard you 640 00:47:16.960 --> 00:47:24.880 shit on yourself like seriously? Yeah? Uh Clever Corey says, the Halloween 641 00:47:25.400 --> 00:47:30.280 couple costumes will be lit. You absolutely right, yo. I would want 642 00:47:30.360 --> 00:47:34.639 him to do Okay, now, before this, this is a little bit 643 00:47:34.679 --> 00:47:37.719 of a tangent. I did have like certain costumes that I do want to 644 00:47:37.719 --> 00:47:40.440 do once I get a man right. One of them is, I saw 645 00:47:40.639 --> 00:47:45.920 the guy has a shirt that says Peter Peter. Well, the girl has 646 00:47:45.960 --> 00:47:49.960 a shirt that says Peter Peter and the guy's shirt says pumpkin Eater. I 647 00:47:50.039 --> 00:47:53.199 like that. I also like I saw Dwight and Angela from the Office. 648 00:47:53.480 --> 00:47:55.920 I like that, but I feel like it might not resonate because I'm black, 649 00:47:57.519 --> 00:48:00.400 but you know, hopefully it will, right. I also wanted to 650 00:48:00.440 --> 00:48:07.639 be Jake from State Farm and Flow from Progressive. Isn't that cute? Wouldn't 651 00:48:07.679 --> 00:48:12.280 that be cute? I had so many fucking bomb ass ideas and if if 652 00:48:12.280 --> 00:48:15.519 he was a Mortician, we would have to be like Adams family. We 653 00:48:15.559 --> 00:48:22.760 would have to be the Adams family. What I was about to say, 654 00:48:22.760 --> 00:48:27.000 Pugsly, what the fuck a is it? Puggly? Well, No, 655 00:48:27.119 --> 00:48:31.800 I want to be Mortician and Gomez. I don't want to be the kids. 656 00:48:31.840 --> 00:48:39.719 I want to be the adults. Jack's Anthony says j X Anthony says 657 00:48:39.760 --> 00:48:45.119 Green and Pink Ranger for sure, for sure, for sure, you know 658 00:48:45.159 --> 00:48:47.400 that's probably gonna be one of the first things we do, is the fucking 659 00:48:47.440 --> 00:48:52.719 Power Rangers Outfie says, these Christmas couple of sweater parties, This Christmas couple 660 00:48:52.760 --> 00:48:58.000 sweater photos on I g would have been wild, absolutely because you know what, 661 00:48:58.199 --> 00:49:00.480 I want to get one of those sweaters that has like the boobs cut 662 00:49:00.480 --> 00:49:06.360 out and you just put like pasties over it. But I want him to 663 00:49:06.360 --> 00:49:14.159 wear it right like we both wear it like. No, I'll figure it 664 00:49:14.159 --> 00:49:15.920 out. Just I have to workshop that one. But give me a second, 665 00:49:16.159 --> 00:49:21.199 Give me a second. J Tiggs said. DJ Tig says me, 666 00:49:21.719 --> 00:49:24.840 what do you do for a living? Her? I see dead people say 667 00:49:25.320 --> 00:49:32.199 that's a good joke. That's a good joke. Star Max's Quest says, 668 00:49:32.320 --> 00:49:37.239 I just want to be like John Snow and you being Denarius. That's a 669 00:49:37.280 --> 00:49:40.639 good one. I like that. Pretty boy Day says sex with a mortician 670 00:49:40.760 --> 00:49:45.800 just sounds a little boring. No, it doesn't. Not for me. 671 00:49:46.400 --> 00:49:49.760 It's weird. I'm like, yeah, baby, pull out that from mel 672 00:49:49.840 --> 00:50:00.239 to Hide. Yeah, now that's too much. Damn. Okay, I 673 00:50:00.280 --> 00:50:02.760 thought I thought we were doing something together, but I guess not. Sorry, 674 00:50:04.559 --> 00:50:07.719 sorry, but my bag. All right. Let me just good to 675 00:50:07.760 --> 00:50:17.280 that, all right? So yeah, only one Sen says, I'll em 676 00:50:17.360 --> 00:50:22.320 bomb your body. I like that. Let's keep it going, keep it 677 00:50:22.400 --> 00:50:25.440 going. Outfit says he gonna wear your wig with that cutout sweater, which 678 00:50:25.440 --> 00:50:29.760 puts it over the top. I'm just saying we can make it a thing 679 00:50:30.199 --> 00:50:32.760 clever. Corey says, Llo, well, you got any empty caskets in 680 00:50:32.800 --> 00:50:37.039 the bed? Yeah? Like what Halloween? We gotta make a thriller video. 681 00:50:37.239 --> 00:50:40.400 I gotta fucking love and stay out that bitch and ship like the Undertaker. 682 00:50:40.840 --> 00:50:45.559 Yo, oh my god, I have to. Yes, it's just 683 00:50:45.559 --> 00:50:52.000 fucking do this ship with my eyes rolled back. Yes, yes, yes, 684 00:50:52.079 --> 00:50:55.719 yes. If you're Danny ain't mortician, what else are you supposed to 685 00:50:55.800 --> 00:51:00.599 do? If not? Pretend you're the Undertaker exactly and let me know. 686 00:51:00.519 --> 00:51:07.440 Let me know, bruh, If I am dating a mortician, it's going 687 00:51:07.559 --> 00:51:12.039 down because I'm doing my best Undertaker IMPRESSIONA shit, Yes I am, Yes, 688 00:51:12.079 --> 00:51:20.159 I am. Yes. Cory says the options are endless, I think 689 00:51:20.280 --> 00:51:22.440 not. The reason why this should be so funny to me is I'll be 690 00:51:22.480 --> 00:51:28.679 reading y'all comments in my own little voices, your chats topped here. If 691 00:51:28.719 --> 00:51:35.320 I had enough money, I bruh, like, seriously, seriously, I 692 00:51:35.360 --> 00:51:37.679 would all right, y'a let's go to the next question. So it says, 693 00:51:39.519 --> 00:51:43.280 Oh, this one is a deep one, y'all. This is a 694 00:51:43.360 --> 00:51:47.920 hard pivot. Okay, this one's serious. Everybody gets serious. Okay. 695 00:51:50.000 --> 00:51:53.639 Mm hmm. How do I tell my husband I want to be with women 696 00:51:53.760 --> 00:51:59.119 and I'm no longer attracted to men? Damn? That ship hit hard the 697 00:51:59.159 --> 00:52:06.440 second time too. Let me ask it again again. How do I tell 698 00:52:06.519 --> 00:52:10.079 my husband I want to be with women and I'm no longer attracted to men? 699 00:52:12.920 --> 00:52:16.360 Mm? You, well, since if you want, you can give 700 00:52:16.400 --> 00:52:19.800 me like your screen name, and I can just make the clip and you 701 00:52:19.880 --> 00:52:28.400 can just send it to him, right, I mean, like, this 702 00:52:28.480 --> 00:52:30.199 is a safe space. I do that for you. Sins like, let 703 00:52:30.280 --> 00:52:32.480 me know, right, But that's not what you want to do, right. 704 00:52:35.880 --> 00:52:40.000 The Live says serious I Am says, wait does that mean me the 705 00:52:40.119 --> 00:52:45.760 husband? B Y seventeen says she not attracted to him anymore either. Clever 706 00:52:45.840 --> 00:52:52.199 Corey says, damn, I feel the husband probably already know. JX Anthony 707 00:52:52.280 --> 00:52:55.320 says, have him sign them papers. Marlow b X says, you just 708 00:52:55.400 --> 00:52:59.920 tell him. Pretty Boy's Day says, don't tell him. He killing every 709 00:53:00.000 --> 00:53:07.760 Alphas says, Nigga tell them what the fuck sees though exorsus says the husband 710 00:53:07.880 --> 00:53:14.760 is dead before it's out of our mouth, let me scroll up. Uh 711 00:53:15.519 --> 00:53:19.599 NIGRODMA seven and seven says you let him join or at least watch. DJ 712 00:53:19.800 --> 00:53:27.840 Tigg says husband. Clever Corry says we ain't good good, but we still 713 00:53:27.960 --> 00:53:31.039 good. Dark Man seventeen says she from the streets and I rebuked that comment 714 00:53:31.159 --> 00:53:37.519 one percent. Okay, So here's the thing. People grow and people change. 715 00:53:38.159 --> 00:53:42.480 So I wish we had a chance to have more conversation and I can 716 00:53:42.639 --> 00:53:46.519 ask a question or two because when you say you're no longer attracted to men, 717 00:53:46.639 --> 00:53:52.239 are you no longer attracted to him? And when you say you're attracted 718 00:53:52.280 --> 00:53:57.679 to women, does this come from y'all having joint experiences together and you've realized 719 00:53:57.679 --> 00:54:00.639 that you enjoy your time with a woman more than your husband. Like, 720 00:54:00.760 --> 00:54:05.079 it's a lot of things to unpack here. Were you bisexual before y'all got 721 00:54:05.119 --> 00:54:07.199 together, or during the course of your marriage that you realize that you're no 722 00:54:07.280 --> 00:54:14.400 longer attracted to men? Either way, I feel like if you love him 723 00:54:15.280 --> 00:54:19.440 and he loves you, even though conversations are hard, they still should be 724 00:54:19.519 --> 00:54:23.400 had. He's old at least that much respect, right, and my thing 725 00:54:23.519 --> 00:54:27.639 is gonna be easy. No, it's going to be an uncomfortable conversation. 726 00:54:28.159 --> 00:54:32.880 But tell him and I can't say are you willing to work through it? 727 00:54:34.360 --> 00:54:37.800 Because you didn't say you were attracted to both. You just say you're no 728 00:54:37.920 --> 00:54:42.559 longer attracted to men. So HM, As a man, how would y'all 729 00:54:42.639 --> 00:54:45.960 take that? Like if your wife came to you and said, Yo, 730 00:54:45.639 --> 00:54:49.440 I love you and I will love you for the rest of my days, 731 00:54:50.000 --> 00:54:52.960 but I'm no longer attracted to men. I want to be with a woman. 732 00:54:53.719 --> 00:54:57.639 It's hard because men be in their here talking about you know you do 733 00:54:57.760 --> 00:55:01.599 windy because it's a woman. You know she can cheat with me with a 734 00:55:01.639 --> 00:55:08.800 girl. Don't count them, Yes see, it definitely counts. But y'all 735 00:55:08.880 --> 00:55:12.880 be the man wants talking about she can be with a girl. Don't kill 736 00:55:12.960 --> 00:55:15.880 it's not cheating, Yes, it is. So like she saying she don't 737 00:55:15.880 --> 00:55:17.480 want to be with she she wants to be with this woman. Now what 738 00:55:17.840 --> 00:55:21.719 how would you take that? How would you take it if your wife came 739 00:55:21.760 --> 00:55:23.119 to you and said, I'm no longer attracted to men. I want to 740 00:55:23.159 --> 00:55:28.800 be with a woman. M And don't be that cliche guy that says, 741 00:55:29.079 --> 00:55:34.760 can you shut up? Shut up? How did you come to this conclusion? 742 00:55:35.119 --> 00:55:38.599 Yeah? I agree, come from I would be confused? Right for 743 00:55:38.800 --> 00:55:44.679 me, I would be very inquisitive on when did these feelings develop? When 744 00:55:44.719 --> 00:55:47.599 did you notice these feelings developing? And you know, when did you know 745 00:55:47.719 --> 00:55:52.639 for certain? And you know, how do you plan on moving forward? 746 00:55:52.039 --> 00:55:55.840 Because it's like, are you saying you want an open relationship or you want 747 00:55:55.880 --> 00:56:00.599 to date and you know, entertain women, or do you want a divorce? 748 00:56:00.039 --> 00:56:04.280 Because that's not what the question said. So yeah, I don't know 749 00:56:04.559 --> 00:56:08.280 what was your do? What was your marlow b X says if she bisexual, 750 00:56:08.280 --> 00:56:12.920 will leave her alone? Too many different spirits in her soul. Serious, 751 00:56:13.000 --> 00:56:15.679 I am says now like pride to side. If I love her, 752 00:56:15.760 --> 00:56:23.199 I'm hurt. Islam Wood eighteen Globe trotter says, onto the next one about 753 00:56:23.239 --> 00:56:29.440 your wife? About your wife, like if that was your girlfriend or somebody 754 00:56:29.480 --> 00:56:31.920 you dating, maybe, but you can't onto the next one about your wife, 755 00:56:32.039 --> 00:56:36.320 bro Like y'arell supposed to be locked in for real, And the message 756 00:56:36.320 --> 00:56:37.800 didn't say she wanted a divorce, She just wont to know how she gets 757 00:56:38.159 --> 00:56:43.119 had this conversation with her husband, DJ Tigg says, what's crazy? Is 758 00:56:43.199 --> 00:56:45.239 she going to get with a chick that dresses like a dude though you don't 759 00:56:45.280 --> 00:56:51.000 know that maybe she likes fims. Look at y'all assuming assuman, Okay, 760 00:56:52.920 --> 00:56:54.440 what will be the relationship? But she's not attracted to them? I don't 761 00:56:54.480 --> 00:56:58.920 I don't understand, like what the relationship, Like, what will be that 762 00:56:59.039 --> 00:57:02.480 part? What you mean just get a she would get her her what from 763 00:57:02.559 --> 00:57:06.320 the girl and then get what from him. I don't know. That's why 764 00:57:06.320 --> 00:57:08.440 I said I wish we could have had more conversation because it's like, are 765 00:57:08.519 --> 00:57:15.360 you no longer physically or sexually attracted to men? Or did you maybe have 766 00:57:15.519 --> 00:57:17.920 on a revelation and realize this whole time you've never been sexually attracted to men? 767 00:57:19.280 --> 00:57:22.639 And I also want to point out that all the feelings that she's having 768 00:57:22.800 --> 00:57:27.719 is one thousand percent valid, and like I'm just wondering, like where does 769 00:57:27.760 --> 00:57:30.320 that leave y'all If you're not looking for divorce, what is she supposed to 770 00:57:30.360 --> 00:57:31.519 do? Well, we don't know if she's looking for a divorce. She 771 00:57:31.639 --> 00:57:36.000 said she's not looking for then what then? If it is okay, that 772 00:57:36.239 --> 00:57:40.079 makes sense if you're not looking for a divorce, niggerdamind seven one seven said, 773 00:57:40.519 --> 00:57:46.559 couldn't I measure my girl coming home with a boozy feed? That's not 774 00:57:46.679 --> 00:57:53.960 what she said either. I much rather crack shut up. I King Shell 775 00:57:54.079 --> 00:57:58.360 says, what if the role roles were re worsed. That's a good point. 776 00:57:58.960 --> 00:58:01.679 What if the roles were first? Ladies, what she doing if your 777 00:58:01.719 --> 00:58:05.239 husband come home and say, hey, I'm no longer attracted to women. 778 00:58:05.320 --> 00:58:08.840 I'm attracted to men. But it's hard because I feel like there's a different 779 00:58:08.880 --> 00:58:12.480 stigma attached to that. So I actually take that back. I take that 780 00:58:12.599 --> 00:58:15.719 back. We already know what happens if the roles were reversed. Oh so 781 00:58:15.920 --> 00:58:30.920 you do depending j X Anthony says, if the role was reversed, every 782 00:58:30.960 --> 00:58:37.519 woman is leaving Marlow. B X says if he doesn't divorce her, she's 783 00:58:37.559 --> 00:58:45.679 going to destroy him. Yeah, I don't know. I don't know. 784 00:58:45.639 --> 00:58:50.400 I don't have a clear answer without asking more questions. So I'm gonna harash 785 00:58:50.400 --> 00:58:53.760 you on the DMS and see what happens. So yeah, Next it says, 786 00:58:54.760 --> 00:59:00.440 how do I show love and affection more to shorty? Y'all be so 787 00:59:00.639 --> 00:59:04.639 genuine and I love it because y'all just really be trying to get your shit 788 00:59:04.679 --> 00:59:08.639 out there. Like, let me know, how do I show love and 789 00:59:08.679 --> 00:59:15.000 affection more to my shorty? When you say love and affection? Right, 790 00:59:15.159 --> 00:59:17.920 it depends on what she's telling you. So is she saying things like you 791 00:59:19.000 --> 00:59:22.599 know, you don't never come up and kiss me, or you don't never 792 00:59:22.800 --> 00:59:28.119 grab me from behind, or you don't never you know, pay attention to 793 00:59:28.239 --> 00:59:32.039 me, or you're not affectionate? Like what exactly is she saying? Because 794 00:59:32.960 --> 00:59:38.280 if it's really just intimacy, I'm gonna tell you one thing. Don't nothing 795 00:59:38.599 --> 00:59:45.400 test your gangster like intimacy. Okay, I don't care how hard you think 796 00:59:45.480 --> 00:59:49.480 you are. Right, if you're laying in the bed with someone and they 797 00:59:49.559 --> 00:59:52.960 come up behind you and put their arm around you and scoot you back, 798 00:59:53.800 --> 01:00:01.400 moisture, moist, moist moist, right, So it's like, come on 799 01:00:01.599 --> 01:00:06.880 now, come on now, because what's better than meat on back, heat 800 01:00:06.960 --> 01:00:13.519 on, crack, nothing, nothing, nothing, nothing. So it's like, 801 01:00:13.599 --> 01:00:22.119 eh, I don't know. I know she's saying you're not showing love 802 01:00:22.159 --> 01:00:28.079 and being more affectionate. I think there's always grand gestures and they're small gestures. 803 01:00:28.199 --> 01:00:31.480 Right, you can do small things like if she takes lunch to work, 804 01:00:31.760 --> 01:00:35.000 slipping note at her in the lunchbox, just telling her how much you 805 01:00:35.079 --> 01:00:36.960 love her, you appreciate her, you think the world of hers. She 806 01:00:37.039 --> 01:00:38.239 is the most beautiful woman in the world. You can't wait to see her 807 01:00:38.239 --> 01:00:43.119 when she get off, when she opens her lunchbox or whatever her target bag, 808 01:00:43.199 --> 01:00:46.320 she knows stuff that he leftovers in. First of all, our girl's 809 01:00:46.360 --> 01:00:52.000 gonna be smiling. Hi, oh my god. Oh. And then she 810 01:00:52.079 --> 01:00:54.480 wont to immediately text or call you. I can't wait to see when I 811 01:00:55.400 --> 01:00:59.960 I can't wait. I can't wait. Right, You want to buy her 812 01:01:00.079 --> 01:01:04.880 or something she's in the makeup, get her apho or alter gift card. 813 01:01:05.159 --> 01:01:08.880 Okay, if she's into music, take you to a concert that she likes. 814 01:01:09.199 --> 01:01:13.920 Nice seats, no nosebleeds, Like just listen to her. And you 815 01:01:14.000 --> 01:01:15.400 know what, it's the concept of the same when we talking about the men 816 01:01:15.480 --> 01:01:20.440 earlier, like just listen to your girl. Like, for example, so 817 01:01:20.639 --> 01:01:23.400 one of my favorite Christmas movies is elf right, So you know it's Christmas 818 01:01:23.440 --> 01:01:27.079 time, so I'm all in about Christmas? Right. So, uh, 819 01:01:27.239 --> 01:01:30.199 this guy that I'm been talking to, he brought me a buddy the elf 820 01:01:30.280 --> 01:01:32.440 doll. But it's like a drawstring, Jawn. So when you pull it, 821 01:01:32.519 --> 01:01:37.199 it's like Woody where it says like lines from the movie and it's like 822 01:01:37.480 --> 01:01:40.119 I love you, I love you, I love you, and it's like, 823 01:01:40.239 --> 01:01:43.960 oh man, this is all my favorite lines. So yeah, I 824 01:01:44.079 --> 01:01:46.159 thought that was really cute. So it's like, yeah, do stuff like 825 01:01:46.280 --> 01:01:52.199 that, stuff that she's been talking about, you know. Outfit says, 826 01:01:52.519 --> 01:01:57.559 let's not wait what I'm not reading that. I'm not reading that because you 827 01:01:57.639 --> 01:02:00.360 fucking draw it. I hate you so much. I King Shell says, 828 01:02:00.880 --> 01:02:05.719 here's a tip for men, listen to her. Seriously, here's a tip 829 01:02:05.800 --> 01:02:07.800 for men. Listen to her. That's it, That's all you really have 830 01:02:07.920 --> 01:02:15.519 to do. Clever Corey says, solid advice. Negro domin seven one seven 831 01:02:15.599 --> 01:02:20.440 says, basically, you show love and affection by just listening. And when 832 01:02:20.480 --> 01:02:23.119 we say just listening, like listen to her in all aspects. Will she 833 01:02:23.239 --> 01:02:27.440 come home talking about that bitch at her job who got her fucked up? 834 01:02:27.760 --> 01:02:30.719 Listen, just listen and let her vent, okay, because she'd been thinking 835 01:02:30.719 --> 01:02:34.159 about this all day if she wanted to get it out, but she can't 836 01:02:34.159 --> 01:02:36.320 tell nobody of her job because they will go back and tell the lady or 837 01:02:36.360 --> 01:02:38.639 tell the manager. So let her just sit and get it out. Sit 838 01:02:38.719 --> 01:02:45.599 and get it out, Sit and get it out. Marlowe b X says, 839 01:02:45.639 --> 01:02:47.760 you can have sex without intimacy if you know you know. This is 840 01:02:47.920 --> 01:02:51.599 very true, absolutely true. And I hope that's not what she's saying, 841 01:02:51.599 --> 01:02:52.760 because, oh my god, now I just realize that. And she's saying 842 01:02:52.880 --> 01:03:00.559 she's not getting affection and love from you all intimate? Are you period? 843 01:03:00.639 --> 01:03:05.719 I don't know, but I got I digress. That's it. So let's 844 01:03:05.760 --> 01:03:10.280 just recap for today. First, I may expect it for spaghetti before we 845 01:03:10.360 --> 01:03:14.320 started. Shut up, I made spaghetti before we started. As soon as 846 01:03:14.320 --> 01:03:20.239 we end this, I'm going to get another place of spaghetti. Am I 847 01:03:20.280 --> 01:03:32.760 supposed to be announcing the show? Oh? Ship als it? Oh wait, 848 01:03:37.400 --> 01:03:40.840 okay, so let's start over. I should have this at the beginning 849 01:03:40.840 --> 01:03:46.639 of the show. But Philly, I'm coming back to you February seventeenth at 850 01:03:46.679 --> 01:03:51.199 World Cafe Live. Me and a lot of my friends are coming to miss 851 01:03:51.239 --> 01:03:52.960 ship up. I was trying not to curse, but I can't say mess 852 01:03:53.079 --> 01:03:55.800 it up. So let's start over. Me and a couple of my friends 853 01:03:55.840 --> 01:04:00.199 are coming to tear it down. All right. I should have practiced this 854 01:04:00.280 --> 01:04:04.159 before. Let's try again. Me and a few of my friends I come 855 01:04:04.199 --> 01:04:08.199 into tear it down, and it's going to be a vibe, all right. 856 01:04:08.440 --> 01:04:10.559 You look up for something to do for violence. IM saying, all 857 01:04:10.679 --> 01:04:13.639 right, you still ain't found a bay. I'll be your bay. Come 858 01:04:13.679 --> 01:04:15.800 on to come see me. I know it's afterwards, but you know what 859 01:04:15.880 --> 01:04:17.840 that means. All the candy and the flowers and stuff is gonna be on 860 01:04:18.000 --> 01:04:20.880 cell boo, don't even trip. I got you, all right. Get 861 01:04:20.920 --> 01:04:25.360 your friends, get your man, get your girl, get your aunties, 862 01:04:25.519 --> 01:04:28.559 get your cousins. Come on and check me and my friends out. Okay, 863 01:04:28.760 --> 01:04:31.239 February seventeenth at World Cafe Live. Click the tickets in my bio and 864 01:04:32.280 --> 01:04:36.159 click the link in my bio. Click the link of my bio and get 865 01:04:36.199 --> 01:04:40.159 your tickets now. And yeah, this is how I fumble through the drop. 866 01:04:40.320 --> 01:04:44.159 But when I edited it is gonna look good. I can't wait to 867 01:04:44.199 --> 01:04:47.920 see you guys. And yeah, let's start from the top about recapping what's 868 01:04:47.920 --> 01:04:51.360 going on in the city. Oh. Also, within the next few weeks, 869 01:04:51.360 --> 01:04:55.679 we're gonna be announcing two more cities too, So I can't wait to 870 01:04:55.679 --> 01:04:59.719 see you guys. It's gonna be a vibe. But back to this episode, 871 01:05:00.679 --> 01:05:03.880 long story short way, Sterrin and William had a problem with my child's 872 01:05:03.880 --> 01:05:08.440 father fixing my water heater, and it's just another reason why he didn't last 873 01:05:08.480 --> 01:05:15.639 past day three. I hope this episode really got you in your fields and 874 01:05:15.920 --> 01:05:20.039 spread some positivity and remind you of how good being in love feels. And 875 01:05:20.639 --> 01:05:24.760 a lot of that negativity on the Internet doesn't really get to you. Yo. 876 01:05:24.880 --> 01:05:30.679 My man consciously he posted something he said, the Internet isn't draining the 877 01:05:30.880 --> 01:05:34.000 dumb people in the comments are. And I believe that because a lot of 878 01:05:34.079 --> 01:05:38.000 time, if it's if it's content that I don't really agree with and I 879 01:05:38.079 --> 01:05:40.880 don't want to read it, just swipe, skip, ignore, right. 880 01:05:41.639 --> 01:05:47.519 But if it's like you make the mistake of going into the actual comments, 881 01:05:48.079 --> 01:05:53.440 that's when you go down a loophole because it's like bro ew, you think 882 01:05:53.480 --> 01:05:56.519 that's real, that's how you really feel. And the worst part is when 883 01:05:56.559 --> 01:06:00.280 you see somebody you know just spewing ignorance like ill you think like that, 884 01:06:01.320 --> 01:06:04.559 we grew up together, how do you think like that? It's gross? 885 01:06:05.199 --> 01:06:11.800 So yeah, hopefully this episode gave you a little bit of hope and a 886 01:06:11.840 --> 01:06:15.800 little bit of joy and it permeates through the waves and through the atmosphere because 887 01:06:15.800 --> 01:06:18.000 I want to say more shit like this on my timeline. I want more 888 01:06:18.119 --> 01:06:21.920 love And I don't know, maybe my algorithm is just fucked up and ain't 889 01:06:21.960 --> 01:06:25.440 no love on my shit and my tripping. If so, let me know, 890 01:06:25.760 --> 01:06:29.760 d and me and let me know. If you're looking for some nice 891 01:06:29.800 --> 01:06:33.400 things to do for your man, give him a massage, give him some 892 01:06:33.519 --> 01:06:38.719 head, cook him some food, Listen to him and get something that pertains 893 01:06:38.760 --> 01:06:41.800 to something he's been talking about or you know he likes, you know he 894 01:06:41.920 --> 01:06:45.599 likes a specific football team. Get him a hat, get hi a scarf, 895 01:06:45.039 --> 01:06:47.480 get him a throw for his couch, like you know, it's just 896 01:06:47.519 --> 01:06:50.360 some shit for his man cave, whatever the case may be. Some good 897 01:06:50.440 --> 01:06:57.800 whiskey, you know what I mean? Like anything? Yeah, Women like 898 01:06:57.840 --> 01:07:01.679 when guys make plans and and show initiative, follow through with the plans. 899 01:07:01.920 --> 01:07:05.000 You know, see something they like, send you with and let you know 900 01:07:05.039 --> 01:07:11.480 what time to be dressed like that shit, What I date a mortician is 901 01:07:11.519 --> 01:07:16.039 the elephant heavy. Okay, Yes and yes, all right. Next, 902 01:07:18.599 --> 01:07:25.880 I'm going to follow up next week with this woman about her and her husband 903 01:07:26.039 --> 01:07:28.360 and where she's at with it, because I feel like we have our own 904 01:07:28.400 --> 01:07:31.679 assumptions, but we really need more of the conversation. And don't forget. 905 01:07:32.239 --> 01:07:36.239 Show coming up February seventeenth at World Cafe Live, and within the next two 906 01:07:36.239 --> 01:07:42.599 weeks we're gona announce two more cities and the tickets are live right now. 907 01:07:42.679 --> 01:07:44.840 You can get your tickets right now. Click the link of my bio and 908 01:07:44.880 --> 01:07:47.360 get it done, or go to world Cafe Live dot com and get your 909 01:07:47.400 --> 01:07:50.480 tickets there. I love you, guys, and if you don't remember anything 910 01:07:50.599 --> 01:07:55.679 else, please remember I love you. I love you, I love you. 911 01:07:56.480 --> 01:08:00.440 I love you, guys. I see next week. Peace yet, 912 01:08:00.719 --> 01:08:01.440 be happy.