WEBVTT 1 00:00:03.560 --> 00:00:27.719 M m m mm hmmm hm. You were having a baby. Whenever I 2 00:00:27.760 --> 00:00:33.880 find a husband, husband, good answer, good ass finds you? Remember 3 00:00:33.880 --> 00:00:37.679 you ain't looking for him? Correct that neither another day? Who finds you? 4 00:00:38.399 --> 00:00:40.479 Yeah, he hasn't find you, not the other way around. Don't 5 00:00:40.799 --> 00:00:46.159 don't sleep, stay woke, don't sleep sick nigga sleeping. Thank you for 6 00:00:46.280 --> 00:00:49.240 reminding me. But if you, if you don't ever sleep, you can 7 00:00:49.320 --> 00:00:53.159 have heart problems. So so sleep some No, no, don't be sleep, 8 00:00:53.200 --> 00:00:56.359 bro, don't be sleep. As a college student, on average, 9 00:00:56.399 --> 00:01:02.240 I get like three four hours. You didn't sleep some more. Yeah, 10 00:01:03.039 --> 00:01:06.040 this is someone who gets five. Only get five, But I do more 11 00:01:06.040 --> 00:01:08.359 with five than a lot of people do it. Make sure you're drinking enough 12 00:01:08.480 --> 00:01:17.319 water. Yeah, that's the man. I'm a recovering ALKI recover. Yeah, 13 00:01:17.599 --> 00:01:19.959 you sound like a fucking quitter. That's your problem. You want words 14 00:01:21.760 --> 00:01:26.840 words until he out a liquor. That's what alcoholics is always. I don't 15 00:01:26.840 --> 00:01:30.359 listen. Don't listen to people. I got problems more liquid, but solving 16 00:01:30.000 --> 00:01:33.519 It's okay. They're just two black men. That's gonna always be at the 17 00:01:33.560 --> 00:01:37.959 bottom. But I like listening to the power bottom. No, it don't 18 00:01:37.959 --> 00:01:44.159 matter where I am work, doesn't matter what you think. A black man 19 00:01:44.239 --> 00:01:49.000 carey the black man say that's why because we don't care now to do because 20 00:01:49.079 --> 00:01:53.359 y'all are all dumb. This is why we date white men. So y'all 21 00:01:53.400 --> 00:01:59.400 don't y'all ain't get him to no white man. That is the problem. 22 00:01:59.439 --> 00:02:01.159 White man, little get old blad. Y'all got your snow bunnies. We 23 00:02:01.239 --> 00:02:07.319 got our snow tigers, that's all. Kelsey Charvis Kelson said that that that's 24 00:02:07.400 --> 00:02:10.439 that guy's man. I remember, I don't want to say that the white 25 00:02:10.479 --> 00:02:16.840 football dude. I don't see. No, we're just working with you. 26 00:02:17.159 --> 00:02:20.719 Now what I'm saying like, we don't know that's the that's you. You 27 00:02:20.800 --> 00:02:23.000 can't say it. We're gonna keep on going. That's the vibe. All 28 00:02:23.080 --> 00:02:27.000 right. We gotta take this cart out anyway. Got that? Charvis Kelson 29 00:02:27.039 --> 00:02:30.639 left, Yeah, he said back to the snow because, uh, this 30 00:02:30.800 --> 00:02:38.599 tar ain't working so well. Tar is babies at tacking bat black women. 31 00:02:38.759 --> 00:02:43.639 Tar babies. You had to be a tar baby than a damn monkey. 32 00:02:44.240 --> 00:02:46.520 All like that, Blue girl. Wait, hold on the same conversation. 33 00:02:49.120 --> 00:02:52.879 Everything goes a lot of conversations. No, I don't believe that it was 34 00:02:52.919 --> 00:02:55.120 one time. We haven't all that. I used to have this. I 35 00:02:55.240 --> 00:02:58.560 used to have sayings, but I forgot what they were. I'm gonna start 36 00:02:58.599 --> 00:03:00.479 bringing them back. So I thought everybody should have a catch phrase. And 37 00:03:00.520 --> 00:03:04.599 he put on a T shirt. My catch phrase was going to be catchphrase. 38 00:03:04.919 --> 00:03:12.560 Did you see it? Oh, not wear that shirt? I guess 39 00:03:12.800 --> 00:03:20.759 the first review mat T shirt and women with shut up. No, I 40 00:03:20.759 --> 00:03:23.759 don't even want to make it. Then what does black libertarian go to? 41 00:03:23.240 --> 00:03:25.439 I feel like he would have took that. I got a lot for him. 42 00:03:27.639 --> 00:03:30.439 Yeah, that nigga, that nigga saying it that I always remember. 43 00:03:30.800 --> 00:03:32.919 It was this girl. He kind of cheated on him. The nigga was 44 00:03:34.000 --> 00:03:38.840 like, I don't care how long he wasn't even up said. He just 45 00:03:38.919 --> 00:03:44.360 said, hold on. My favorite thing he's ever said. In reference to 46 00:03:44.599 --> 00:03:49.120 a conversation about somebody that you introduced, but they got plans for him, 47 00:03:49.199 --> 00:03:51.759 but they just wanted you to meet him. He said, don't introduce if 48 00:03:51.800 --> 00:03:59.719 I can't seduce beautiful. I respect that I did it better let me fuck 49 00:03:59.759 --> 00:04:08.800 that's cock. See that's better. It's direct. We had about how clitterists 50 00:04:08.919 --> 00:04:12.560 are just inverted penis. Yeah, I remember he dated a girl he told 51 00:04:12.599 --> 00:04:15.719 he said she got a giant clitters. He said it was like a miniature 52 00:04:15.800 --> 00:04:26.680 penis and he could suck with her. He said, you never with her. 53 00:04:26.959 --> 00:04:30.480 That he sucked it for years. I mean years. He literally sang 54 00:04:30.600 --> 00:04:33.800 and I got a video of him singing it. Your glitterist is too big 55 00:04:33.920 --> 00:04:47.439 for me. I think it was big Rouse more Rouse. Yeah. So 56 00:04:47.560 --> 00:04:49.839 when you hear it, it's like a little dick hit you in your little 57 00:04:49.879 --> 00:04:58.360 good He got a little bit. I ain't never met a girl like that. 58 00:04:58.519 --> 00:05:00.839 I was curious that I was going to see it. Yeah, I 59 00:05:00.959 --> 00:05:03.800 just want to see it. So the second articles, while you're second a 60 00:05:03.839 --> 00:05:15.000 little dick man, I don't talk about this. I do want to get 61 00:05:15.079 --> 00:05:17.079 back on the subject. So, black women, why are you all saying 62 00:05:17.079 --> 00:05:19.560 that Travis Kelsey went to Taylor Swift, By the way, as a black 63 00:05:19.600 --> 00:05:25.600 man, Taylor Swift is not tracked it a little bit. I'm not upset 64 00:05:25.600 --> 00:05:29.959 at all as much white men that we divert from the path the better. 65 00:05:30.839 --> 00:05:34.639 Why do you think white men don't marry black women but they fuck them because 66 00:05:34.800 --> 00:05:39.079 everybody think chocolate is exotic. Of course they're going to try it before they 67 00:05:39.160 --> 00:05:42.160 go back to their people. So you want no niggas just to use it. 68 00:05:42.920 --> 00:05:45.959 I don't, but I guess we do. I mean black men do 69 00:05:46.040 --> 00:05:49.759 the same thing. Every black man want the white girl or Asian, but 70 00:05:49.879 --> 00:05:55.240 with black women. Broers want to fuck us. Indians want to fuck us, 71 00:05:55.319 --> 00:05:57.920 Hispanic win the fuck us. Everybody in their mama want to fuck us. 72 00:05:58.160 --> 00:06:02.360 I want to be fair, Like if you anybody on TV, it's 73 00:06:02.439 --> 00:06:06.120 normally somebody is not real. But that's because they're over sexual lives. But 74 00:06:06.160 --> 00:06:12.639 they blame they blame men for that. I mean it is our media. 75 00:06:13.800 --> 00:06:16.959 It's both and women's fauts. Because how I'm not about to tell you to 76 00:06:17.000 --> 00:06:19.399 put on them short dress and get no ass shots. I ain't never heard 77 00:06:19.399 --> 00:06:21.680 the nigga whle. These young niggas be saying that ship go get some man 78 00:06:21.759 --> 00:06:26.519 shots. How do you expect to be respected? And you bending over in 79 00:06:26.680 --> 00:06:30.480 every picture you post? What you mean, it's up to the man to 80 00:06:30.560 --> 00:06:33.279 be strong enough to look past that. That's sat on the podcasts, like 81 00:06:33.759 --> 00:06:36.600 the nigga said, I don't want my wife to her underwear on Instagram, 82 00:06:36.800 --> 00:06:40.079 Like what kind of ship is that? And I was like damnigga. I 83 00:06:40.160 --> 00:06:44.319 respect that. I do too, because why are you posting something that only 84 00:06:44.360 --> 00:06:48.160 I'm supposed to see? That's because there you don't worry about it. He 85 00:06:48.399 --> 00:06:51.439 is he's from a woman perspective. How much of where do you want to 86 00:06:51.480 --> 00:06:54.839 see you? Because most of these girls, when you see HI naked, 87 00:06:54.879 --> 00:06:58.560 you ain't even it ain't even good anymore, No, it's not. That's 88 00:06:58.639 --> 00:07:03.160 the thing about being models mysterious and whatnoted to be a skill to know what 89 00:07:03.199 --> 00:07:05.439 it looked like up it before you saw it. Now it's just like you 90 00:07:05.519 --> 00:07:11.000 already know Google it like it kind of like that. The only thing you'll 91 00:07:11.040 --> 00:07:14.000 get some weird nipples if they too big or too small, you know, 92 00:07:14.519 --> 00:07:20.040 the areolar Sometimes you get them muddy ones. Muddy areo, yeah, muddy 93 00:07:20.079 --> 00:07:25.319 titty like you know how some girls don't have like a real prominent nipple type 94 00:07:25.439 --> 00:07:27.800 Like I'm not talking about the ones where it's completely flat, but they just 95 00:07:27.839 --> 00:07:30.000 got some nipples. Why met a girl. Hers were like that, but 96 00:07:30.160 --> 00:07:32.920 she also had inverted nipples at the same time, so it was just kind 97 00:07:32.920 --> 00:07:38.360 of like muddy. I don't think about titties, bro, Nigga have inverted 98 00:07:38.399 --> 00:07:46.439 nipples. The third nipples. I had no problem. His nipples looked like 99 00:07:46.560 --> 00:07:55.279 elids. I was intrigued. I did was there some niggas like getting their 100 00:07:55.319 --> 00:07:58.439 nipples? So it wasn't a thing for me. I'm like, get off 101 00:07:58.519 --> 00:08:03.160 me. Yeah, I push ain't pushed on reaction one time. She's just 102 00:08:03.439 --> 00:08:11.079 do this like my b you know, you know, working on my these 103 00:08:11.160 --> 00:08:13.160 titties. Things that ain't my fault, my niggas. Trader went from titty 104 00:08:13.199 --> 00:08:18.040 to her chest. M I appreciate men who take care of their bodies because 105 00:08:18.120 --> 00:08:22.600 a lot do not. Big ain't got to do all that. It's a 106 00:08:22.680 --> 00:08:26.240 lot of that's crazy. So what you're saying, you like five hundred hours 107 00:08:26.279 --> 00:08:31.320 right now, but you got a big da I'll fix for three wordy five 108 00:08:31.399 --> 00:08:37.320 fould. No discrimination against big men or fat men. I'm not fair racist? 109 00:08:37.639 --> 00:08:41.960 Oh very racist? Oh how big are you? How much you want? 110 00:08:41.799 --> 00:08:48.639 I al wait one forty Oh that's a big woman at five for five 111 00:08:48.679 --> 00:08:52.320 hour? Maybe a four eleven and a half four eleven and a half. 112 00:08:52.480 --> 00:08:58.480 That's that's that depend on where its though. Oh no, my sister's pregnant. 113 00:08:58.519 --> 00:09:01.159 She never loved picture her like, so she got here. Oh we'll 114 00:09:01.200 --> 00:09:07.840 belyve I mean it's a short women. Oh no, my sister, don't. 115 00:09:09.480 --> 00:09:11.600 I was afraid of her. I was like, she had a baby. 116 00:09:13.159 --> 00:09:15.639 Did she give back? She had a baby? What you mean? 117 00:09:15.919 --> 00:09:18.600 Uh that? Yeah, a little bit. But if you had seen her 118 00:09:18.679 --> 00:09:20.000 initially that she would have been like, I don't know if you want to 119 00:09:20.039 --> 00:09:24.840 pursue this route. Man, Now all women got here? Yeah, I 120 00:09:24.879 --> 00:09:28.480 don't see some flat ones. He said, Bassay, you hang around a 121 00:09:28.480 --> 00:09:33.000 lot of niggas, don't you. I grew up around a lot of men. 122 00:09:33.879 --> 00:09:39.320 Tall man, short man, big man, small man. Seen is 123 00:09:39.919 --> 00:09:45.840 five to nine, but my dad is six, my little brother is six 124 00:09:46.000 --> 00:09:50.919 three. You just live like a place of giants. And my little sister, 125 00:09:52.399 --> 00:09:56.559 littlest sister is five ten. Yeah, you a midget in your family. 126 00:09:58.519 --> 00:10:01.200 About if you said he was around a baby, My baby sister, 127 00:10:01.279 --> 00:10:09.320 and she's gonna be up there. Yeahs tell where are you moving to it? 128 00:10:09.960 --> 00:10:13.799 To pursue your rap career? To pursue my wrap career is crazy. 129 00:10:13.960 --> 00:10:18.320 This music is not something I'm going to take serious at all. You're good, 130 00:10:18.480 --> 00:10:22.159 good because it'll give you nothing but heartbreaking your hate music for the rest 131 00:10:22.159 --> 00:10:28.360 of your life. Surprisingly tapped in with a lot of people I didn't even 132 00:10:28.440 --> 00:10:33.440 want to be Oh, I know, I know they've tried. I mean, 133 00:10:33.480 --> 00:10:37.480 how much do you get and can you support this podcast? And if 134 00:10:37.559 --> 00:10:41.879 not, I look, come on the podcast or your podcast. I don't 135 00:10:41.919 --> 00:10:45.279 have a podcast. If I did, then a lot of women hate me 136 00:10:45.879 --> 00:10:50.159 every day. Tati the podcast. We're trying to get paid m M. 137 00:10:50.159 --> 00:10:56.279 It wouldn't be called that, it would be called something else. Black women 138 00:10:56.399 --> 00:11:03.720 need to be better. It's pretty mean. So don't take that name. 139 00:11:03.120 --> 00:11:09.799 That fact, I already have a name. If I ever do a podcast, 140 00:11:09.679 --> 00:11:16.519 it's now because shut up, bitch. The shirt is just self advertising 141 00:11:16.559 --> 00:11:22.519 the show. Yeah, we do not let this man do any podcast because 142 00:11:22.559 --> 00:11:26.200 that is oh okay. So that kind of reminds me this week. That's 143 00:11:26.240 --> 00:11:30.200 how this video is kind of going viral. With this one was like what 144 00:11:30.679 --> 00:11:33.879 black men and black women won't argument? And all these black men with this 145 00:11:33.080 --> 00:11:37.320 podcast telling black women this and that and blah blah blah, and like my 146 00:11:37.480 --> 00:11:41.399 argument against her was just like for years, you only have one side of 147 00:11:41.440 --> 00:11:46.720 the discussion. Now women are getting a little upset that these men are out 148 00:11:46.759 --> 00:11:50.200 here saying the other side and they're acting like there're so this this this. 149 00:11:50.399 --> 00:11:54.960 These are men's conversations. These are just their natural thoughts and opinions, and 150 00:11:54.080 --> 00:12:01.080 they hate it, these blads. This is why women went get on my 151 00:12:01.200 --> 00:12:05.919 nerves because they're not considered. All they care about is themselves and they don't 152 00:12:05.960 --> 00:12:09.200 look at the long picture of daytime touch television programming women. For years, 153 00:12:11.080 --> 00:12:13.840 black women, we used to watch Oprah and think they were cool with white 154 00:12:13.879 --> 00:12:18.039 women and that's why they vote Democrat. Y, you ain't supposed to vote 155 00:12:18.080 --> 00:12:24.559 at all. Stay your ass home. Oh you can't talk as somebody for 156 00:12:24.759 --> 00:12:28.080 years and they stay silent, and then when they finally open them mouth to 157 00:12:28.080 --> 00:12:33.120 speak, you get upset. You almost ain't like a good woman, but 158 00:12:33.240 --> 00:12:35.360 you might be talking that kid, bro, you got you always gotta be 159 00:12:35.440 --> 00:12:39.000 watched out for. I would definitely say keep your eye on anybody who's like 160 00:12:39.080 --> 00:12:46.320 that because it's always something deeper. Y'all see the iceberg. Now home, 161 00:12:46.440 --> 00:12:50.440 You can't be giving me advice. I have a look. I've had a 162 00:12:50.519 --> 00:12:54.960 long term relationship. I had nine months, so believe me, I know 163 00:12:54.840 --> 00:13:01.919 that was an advice long o yea, I got in sures relationships six months, 164 00:13:03.000 --> 00:13:05.840 two weeks. That's a long gras relationship. With two weeks. Two 165 00:13:05.840 --> 00:13:09.000 weeks, hey, to be fair, if it was two weeks, there 166 00:13:09.039 --> 00:13:13.120 was some crazy shit. Now it's like all right, peace on and off 167 00:13:13.159 --> 00:13:16.480 for six years. For me, that was the craziest thing I've ever experienced 168 00:13:16.519 --> 00:13:18.480 in my life. How old are you under twenty five or over twenty five? 169 00:13:20.039 --> 00:13:24.039 Under twenty five? Between twenty and twenty five? Yes, we don't 170 00:13:24.080 --> 00:13:28.279 got sist your relationship, young lady. I know you do. What'll we 171 00:13:28.399 --> 00:13:35.240 done? No? I don't either, That's what did though? Did I 172 00:13:35.279 --> 00:13:37.600 really comment or did you think I comment? Oh? Here we go with 173 00:13:37.720 --> 00:13:43.639 the we mention it two times, there we go? What does it really 174 00:13:43.759 --> 00:13:46.440 matter? If I would have mentioned the third time, I would agree. 175 00:13:46.720 --> 00:13:50.200 But that don't mean that. It mean that when it meant that, Well, 176 00:13:50.240 --> 00:13:54.919 I left that conversation and came on Friday. I just want to put 177 00:13:56.360 --> 00:13:58.960 twenty something, twenty eight, twenty one. Are you a twenty one? 178 00:14:00.159 --> 00:14:05.360 Save it's twenty one with no kids, twenty two, twenty two with no 179 00:14:05.519 --> 00:14:09.159 kids. Now it's time for some nigga to ruin your life. Nigga's out 180 00:14:09.200 --> 00:14:13.519 there and the trade shoot the club up like it's the end of the day. 181 00:14:15.240 --> 00:14:18.320 They could try what I just recovered from being niggas. Ain't gonna last 182 00:14:22.600 --> 00:14:26.320 her twelve and give her a baby her last year of college, okay, 183 00:14:26.080 --> 00:14:28.879 or talk to her last year. I was just trying to ruin your life, 184 00:14:31.039 --> 00:14:33.519 but not really actively seeking the room my life. You definitely gonna stay 185 00:14:33.559 --> 00:14:39.320 at the bottom. Back there we go, black man at the bottom, 186 00:14:39.720 --> 00:14:46.480 and we're gonna bring you down or with us, h at the bottom. 187 00:14:46.960 --> 00:14:50.360 All my niggas done at the bottom. Go find my girl tet and ruin 188 00:14:50.440 --> 00:14:54.200 her life. And when when it's ruining, I'm gonna be right there and 189 00:14:54.279 --> 00:14:58.000 be like, oh you to find a man in college. I'm glad I 190 00:14:58.240 --> 00:15:03.360 know you in a slaveh days. Yep, that's me. You're probably wondering 191 00:15:03.440 --> 00:15:09.639 how I ended up in this situation. Would be I would all be changed 192 00:15:09.679 --> 00:15:13.240 together, nigga. That would kill both of y'all. No, nigga, 193 00:15:13.279 --> 00:15:20.240 I would be that's she would be. She would be outside and I would 194 00:15:20.240 --> 00:15:22.919 be out. I would be inside, said the ship. I think she 195 00:15:24.080 --> 00:15:28.320 darkskin right, brown, you're brown fiel right, I'm not. Yeah. 196 00:15:28.360 --> 00:15:31.720 You they'd be raping you too, looking at them here, they be raping 197 00:15:31.759 --> 00:15:33.679 the hell out of you. I wouldn't protect you, though, I'm sorry, 198 00:15:33.799 --> 00:15:46.679 but what what you feeling? Libertarian? They will you know exactly why, 199 00:15:46.919 --> 00:15:54.440 trying to make sure the Master would be raping you? Oh be raping. 200 00:15:54.840 --> 00:16:00.399 I'm letting it happen. Also, you would die. Brittany would Britney 201 00:16:00.440 --> 00:16:04.919 Rnner? She ain't exist back then. She she wouldn't have should be inside, 202 00:16:07.960 --> 00:16:08.799 I'd be. I mean, I don't think the song would I be. 203 00:16:10.000 --> 00:16:11.720 I'll be an inside kid, because you know what are you talking about? 204 00:16:11.759 --> 00:16:15.080 Bro? He was male. That's a misconception. It was. They 205 00:16:15.279 --> 00:16:21.120 rarely let any males be inside the house on a poach. It's a poach, 206 00:16:21.240 --> 00:16:26.279 nigga, bro, not inside pacha. After we start on a porch, 207 00:16:26.039 --> 00:16:29.879 did you sit there? If anybody passed by in the car, you 208 00:16:30.000 --> 00:16:33.519 make sure that ship is actually supposed to be there. There's no cars back 209 00:16:33.559 --> 00:16:38.799 then. I'm sorry what we did. Should a right horse coming to pass 210 00:16:38.840 --> 00:16:44.519 the house? Yeah? Yeah yeah. If it's things ain't changed. It's 211 00:16:44.519 --> 00:16:45.720 a joke. You don't take it out anyway. That was the best drugs 212 00:16:45.799 --> 00:16:49.519 in the Master rape barn. To be fair, he might have raped one 213 00:16:49.559 --> 00:16:55.200 of us too, because we again again I'm not keeping any of this man. 214 00:16:55.240 --> 00:16:59.480 I would have to kill so many people. I died your profile. 215 00:17:00.120 --> 00:17:07.400 She is definitely getting took by massive. I'm biting that you read. He's 216 00:17:07.400 --> 00:17:08.960 gonna be like, I want that and I need. I'm biting that dick 217 00:17:10.079 --> 00:17:14.839 all the way off. It's gonna be his guilty pleasure. He gonna be 218 00:17:14.920 --> 00:17:17.839 his dick. Gone, I'm biting dick. We don't never send me to 219 00:17:17.960 --> 00:17:22.000 jail. I got you, hold you down. You already gay because you 220 00:17:22.000 --> 00:17:25.799 already agreed to it. So you gotta buy it off. You gotta buite 221 00:17:25.799 --> 00:17:30.480 it though. I'll be like that niggai in your mouth. Oh what, 222 00:17:30.960 --> 00:17:36.559 that's how you started from it all? I don't know how what? What 223 00:17:36.680 --> 00:17:42.960 do you know that? I don't know way more than me? Uh that 224 00:17:44.160 --> 00:17:47.240 subject. I feel like you can get some bits and pieces out of there. 225 00:17:47.240 --> 00:17:49.960 You can you come back giving get fifteen percent of the lasts from your 226 00:17:51.240 --> 00:17:59.519 yes, be killing me? I speak mostly well yeah to you. You 227 00:17:59.559 --> 00:18:00.799 know. Let me close the door so I can be black for a second. 228 00:18:02.319 --> 00:18:06.319 I could be all right. You can hear the Africans saying, go 229 00:18:06.319 --> 00:18:15.079 ahead and put it on for yous and you you now as pizza. She 230 00:18:17.119 --> 00:18:21.279 need to calm down, okay, calm down, all right, like that 231 00:18:21.400 --> 00:18:26.200 song by Rima Calm Down One Family. Oh you're Jamaican? Are you African? 232 00:18:26.279 --> 00:18:30.359 I don't know where you are? I am both? No her me, 233 00:18:30.480 --> 00:18:44.920 no one, She's both. Okay, Tatiana being spicy. Have a 234 00:18:45.000 --> 00:18:52.759 negro pepper that's like a black pepper. Yeah, you thought you had black 235 00:18:52.799 --> 00:19:03.279 pepper? Do I have black? I got as a reserve. Black song, 236 00:19:03.359 --> 00:19:06.960 white pepper, black song, white pepper. Who knows? That's gonna 237 00:19:06.960 --> 00:19:11.839 be the name of my podcast? Okay, you you heard you heard it 238 00:19:11.920 --> 00:19:15.640 here today. First folks, you're doing our black podcast network. We'll put 239 00:19:15.640 --> 00:19:22.559 you on correct the first guest. Yeah, And because he's so controversial, 240 00:19:22.759 --> 00:19:26.559 just get him to say anything, and it's gonna go. You're gonna go 241 00:19:26.680 --> 00:19:29.759 back and forth Cynthia g and Kevin Sammons. No, you're not gonna go 242 00:19:29.839 --> 00:19:34.759 back and forth because Captain, we agree too much. I haven't correct. 243 00:19:36.839 --> 00:19:38.400 I can pretend to be on the other side. Just see to you ahead 244 00:19:38.480 --> 00:19:45.319 or something. I remember. I think I think I'm trying to talk to 245 00:19:45.400 --> 00:19:56.240 I don't know how far you got im. Miss He almost died here single. 246 00:19:56.000 --> 00:20:03.680 No, let me stop himself still you can you can you correct? 247 00:20:03.880 --> 00:20:07.880 He wants you now whatever happens after that, remember that every Black Man podcast, 248 00:20:07.920 --> 00:20:11.039 we are not liable for things not working up you and onstate. You 249 00:20:11.119 --> 00:20:18.519 still got to show up to the podcast after after I'm not gonna be upset 250 00:20:18.599 --> 00:20:22.920 or type of way. I just hoping he he'll be okay. Yeah, 251 00:20:22.960 --> 00:20:25.759 he ain't got no feelings. He's so sweet. I feel like he'll treat 252 00:20:25.799 --> 00:20:30.839 me right anyhow. Yeah, he looked he'll be the best. I mean, 253 00:20:30.920 --> 00:20:33.920 I don't know why you laugh for your boy, but you know what, 254 00:20:36.400 --> 00:20:37.519 look at them. I want my nigga to tell me about it. 255 00:20:38.119 --> 00:20:41.279 I mean, nigga, this is the weirdest little interaction you've had in a 256 00:20:41.359 --> 00:20:45.759 while. But let's go back to the original schedule program. What's the worst 257 00:20:45.839 --> 00:20:51.960 time you ever fumbled a bag or opportunity? Man? She wanted to pay 258 00:20:52.000 --> 00:20:59.680 for all our record label ship, but because he did not, what the 259 00:20:59.759 --> 00:21:03.759 fuck the old lady? He said, just fuck the old lady. And 260 00:21:03.160 --> 00:21:07.519 he asked me, and I told that niggas follow his heart. I should 261 00:21:07.559 --> 00:21:10.960 have been like, niggas fuck this old bitch, pretend like you like her 262 00:21:11.319 --> 00:21:15.000 until we get on and then we will leave this bitch. But I wasn't. 263 00:21:15.440 --> 00:21:18.960 Yeah, that's what you better do exactly he was supposed to do. 264 00:21:19.319 --> 00:21:22.519 This old bitch. Fuck up, this old bitch, put your whole dick 265 00:21:22.599 --> 00:21:26.519 ind and make a fall in love with you. Correct, that's look him 266 00:21:26.519 --> 00:21:30.359 in the eyes. Nobody would care because you can cheat on her anyway. 267 00:21:30.599 --> 00:21:36.200 She got low stuff esteem. She's happy, great, she was just happy 268 00:21:36.240 --> 00:21:41.799 that she just happened to half somebody. Man, what happened? Oh? 269 00:21:41.920 --> 00:21:47.799 Nothing, nothing much. No, he just said something. He said, 270 00:21:47.880 --> 00:21:51.400 he said, you can do whatever you want. No, the prompt question, 271 00:21:51.839 --> 00:21:55.799 what's the worst time that you ever fumbled the bag or mess up an 272 00:21:55.799 --> 00:22:00.920 opportunity? Come back to me. I got to think about it. Yeah, 273 00:22:00.119 --> 00:22:03.920 think about that one and you get back to us. I'm thinking too, 274 00:22:06.000 --> 00:22:08.920 man, I got a couple of them. I keep going. I 275 00:22:10.000 --> 00:22:12.200 mean, I know you need to read. But the problem here is yours 276 00:22:12.240 --> 00:22:18.279 are You're terrible. That's the problem with yours. See would it count if 277 00:22:18.440 --> 00:22:26.359 the opportunity is still on the table? Version just because there are kids here 278 00:22:26.440 --> 00:22:30.200 now, But basically it would be the time that I phone in the bag 279 00:22:30.279 --> 00:22:40.200 with those two Australian girls and I'll let you. Yeah, you could have 280 00:22:40.279 --> 00:22:45.359 been mister international, you could have been worldwide. I could have been missed 281 00:22:45.359 --> 00:22:48.680 the worldwide. But it didn't go like that, unfortunately, and maybe that's 282 00:22:48.720 --> 00:22:52.160 for the better. Otherwise I'd be in a Scannonavian house right now, which 283 00:22:52.200 --> 00:22:56.279 would have been different. Man, she would have went my way. I 284 00:22:56.279 --> 00:23:00.000 would be in Singapore right now. You know. You know Lou did not 285 00:23:00.160 --> 00:23:07.599 like it like that. You don't go to He'll grow to like me a 286 00:23:07.839 --> 00:23:14.559 little, a little predatorial. That was a lot of predatorial. I feel 287 00:23:14.559 --> 00:23:18.440 like women have better opportunities to bag than the man. Yeah, opportunities come 288 00:23:18.480 --> 00:23:22.200 to them. Women don't typically go out for the man. The man needs 289 00:23:22.279 --> 00:23:26.720 to be a decent suitor or at least trigger any thing he's one. No, 290 00:23:26.920 --> 00:23:33.559 this is I had the opportunity to go with this artist who I met 291 00:23:33.640 --> 00:23:38.200 in Cleveland. Yes, that's that's how you almost came up missing. That's 292 00:23:38.680 --> 00:23:44.000 refer to that's how we started the episode with people going missing in Ohio. 293 00:23:44.160 --> 00:23:45.559 Now you're like, I had the opportunity to go, like, no, 294 00:23:48.440 --> 00:23:53.279 somebody that I know personally. Yeah, But the fact that a thousand kids 295 00:23:53.359 --> 00:23:57.279 in Ohio have gone missing and no one saying anything, it's way too close 296 00:23:57.279 --> 00:24:02.079 to supplied of penny Wise. You your friend got on he got on somehow 297 00:24:02.359 --> 00:24:08.920 he needed sacrifice at some point. Thank you. I would sacrificing too in 298 00:24:08.960 --> 00:24:14.720 your position, friends, just to be famous. That the who do I 299 00:24:14.759 --> 00:24:21.079 gotta sacrifice? I know some people who deserve it. I don't know they 300 00:24:21.160 --> 00:24:26.039 deserve it. I mean that's that went from being messed up to being like 301 00:24:26.400 --> 00:24:30.720 overtly messed up. So I can't. Could you name it? Hold on? 302 00:24:30.799 --> 00:24:34.559 Wait, so Seawan the Shredder, could you name a sential situation with 303 00:24:34.720 --> 00:24:41.599 you fumbled the bag? I thought it home. Yeah, I mean you 304 00:24:41.640 --> 00:24:47.599 call me either one. It's fine, but all right, so yeah, 305 00:24:47.599 --> 00:24:51.680 it's cool. What what what was the question again? Name of situation in 306 00:24:51.759 --> 00:24:56.640 your life where you fumbled the bag? The name of situation in my life 307 00:24:56.680 --> 00:25:00.599 that I fumbled the bag? Because it could have been like a girl who 308 00:25:00.920 --> 00:25:04.839 who's bad? Or something? Could have been some opportunity could have been with 309 00:25:04.960 --> 00:25:08.759 a man if he just was so good they got that record deal. Never 310 00:25:08.880 --> 00:25:18.759 that, let's see let's see here fumbled the back. Oh well, I'll 311 00:25:18.799 --> 00:25:22.960 tell you, no, no, I'll tell you uh yeah, one situation 312 00:25:22.240 --> 00:25:32.359 was One situation was when I got introduced to Netflix, like right before uh 313 00:25:33.279 --> 00:25:40.000 you know what not wasn't Netflix or was it Netflix or was it uh uh 314 00:25:41.920 --> 00:25:44.359 no, no, no, it was Netflix. No. Yeah. I 315 00:25:44.400 --> 00:25:48.880 got introduced to Netflix probably like in early two thousands, early two thousands, 316 00:25:48.960 --> 00:25:55.319 and had an opportunity to like, you know, kind of like get down 317 00:25:55.319 --> 00:25:59.160 with the business because you know, they was doing like an MLM situation and 318 00:25:59.599 --> 00:26:02.480 and then was offering the stock options all that stuff to try to get it, 319 00:26:02.559 --> 00:26:04.279 get it up and run in. This is around the time when there 320 00:26:04.400 --> 00:26:07.880 was mailing movies home. You know what I'm saying, You keep it as 321 00:26:07.880 --> 00:26:11.640 long as one thing you could send it back. And I didn't do it. 322 00:26:15.119 --> 00:26:17.640 Yeah, yeah, I feel bad for you, man, I feel 323 00:26:17.720 --> 00:26:19.599 real bad. Like you had the opportunity to come up on the stock opportunity 324 00:26:19.640 --> 00:26:22.559 for lifetime. It's like those people who said Google is going to fail, 325 00:26:22.640 --> 00:26:26.160 and everyone who invested in Google at the beginning is a multi millionaire and they're 326 00:26:26.200 --> 00:26:33.319 something talent, right, I think that about it. Yeah, that was 327 00:26:33.400 --> 00:26:38.119 one time. I still kicked myself to this day for that. But you 328 00:26:38.200 --> 00:26:41.640 know, at the same time, you know, I was like like nineteen 329 00:26:41.759 --> 00:26:44.880 or twenty when I got introduced to this stuff, you know what I mean? 330 00:26:45.200 --> 00:26:48.279 I mean yeah, because I mean it was a It was a very 331 00:26:48.400 --> 00:26:52.839 different kind of time, Like nobody imagined that Netflix was going to be successful 332 00:26:52.319 --> 00:26:56.480 because the model was too weird and the company was so close to going out 333 00:26:56.519 --> 00:27:00.759 of money, like on three or four different occasions. So, you know, 334 00:27:02.039 --> 00:27:07.720 saved like TV shows like The Office. The Office did well in streaming, 335 00:27:07.839 --> 00:27:10.880 it didn't do well like on actual TVs, like the third season. 336 00:27:10.960 --> 00:27:15.440 I think, what's the other show? People like Community? It's a lot 337 00:27:15.440 --> 00:27:18.319 of NBC shows. By the way, who's that show with the Cops? 338 00:27:19.400 --> 00:27:22.400 Uh? Bad Boys? No, no, no, no no, the 339 00:27:22.480 --> 00:27:30.759 Woman the White Cops. Uh Matt Locke, No no no, the newer 340 00:27:30.799 --> 00:27:37.319 one with the guy from SNL Breaking Bad Jack Ryan, No, no, 341 00:27:37.400 --> 00:27:41.400 no, the guy from SNL. It was the comedy it started Terry Coon's 342 00:27:42.480 --> 00:27:47.640 I know what you're talking about, Breaking Blue, Blue Blue, Breaking, 343 00:27:48.119 --> 00:27:56.519 Breaking Blue and that Blue both drumas I stream nine one one nine, Yeah, 344 00:27:56.559 --> 00:28:00.920 Brooklyn something like that. Yeah, something like that. Yeah, that 345 00:28:00.039 --> 00:28:04.200 one, that one, that one. The show was saved by Netflix because 346 00:28:04.720 --> 00:28:08.039 once Netflix got it, people got revitalized. The same thing happened with that 347 00:28:08.119 --> 00:28:11.519 other show, the one about the Devil. That one also got saved by 348 00:28:11.519 --> 00:28:18.359 it, which was kind of crazy. Yeah, the other name Lucifer because 349 00:28:18.400 --> 00:28:22.079 it was Lucifer. I'm like watching that. I mean, very true, 350 00:28:22.160 --> 00:28:23.839 but it was saying that I watched it. I was just like, Okay, 351 00:28:23.960 --> 00:28:27.519 this show was good. The first couple of season was good. It 352 00:28:27.640 --> 00:28:33.160 was just repetitive. No more because it's like Bertie Angel. They followed this 353 00:28:33.279 --> 00:28:38.039 whole there's a crime there that the crime happens, and they search it for 354 00:28:38.119 --> 00:28:41.880 a couple of whatever, and then they find a person and destroy the person 355 00:28:41.920 --> 00:28:49.160 and then everything goes back to ye. Once Rory got involved, I hated 356 00:28:49.200 --> 00:28:52.160 it. I couldn't keep up with it. I couldn't keep keeping up with 357 00:28:52.240 --> 00:28:56.640 it. Like I'm happy and Lucifer got together. Yeah, but after that 358 00:28:56.319 --> 00:29:00.440 it just wasn't worth it. I'm mad Dan died. That didn't need to 359 00:29:00.519 --> 00:29:07.160 happen. But they deserve your voice. This nigga took her husband. Never 360 00:29:07.279 --> 00:29:11.079 took your husband, That's right. It was a white woman though, So 361 00:29:11.839 --> 00:29:17.200 yeah, I don't know what they expected the men. The deal made me 362 00:29:17.319 --> 00:29:25.359 so happy. He's my favorite TV character right now. Also from one of 363 00:29:25.440 --> 00:29:33.000 them story betrayal. Yeah, I mean betrayal is a hard place. Oh 364 00:29:33.119 --> 00:29:37.960 god, he was a black man. What about the good place do you 365 00:29:37.000 --> 00:29:41.599 think the Good Place benefited from streamline and watch that show. My friend of 366 00:29:41.640 --> 00:29:45.200 mine made me watch the first couple of episodes, and much like all white 367 00:29:45.240 --> 00:29:53.319 people like all white women friends, doctor view, No, it's all forever 368 00:29:53.480 --> 00:29:59.599 the other doctor. Yeah, crazy, yeah, grades and that. I 369 00:29:59.599 --> 00:30:00.960 always to say, Greg, I always want to turn the Greg. Now, 370 00:30:02.000 --> 00:30:04.279 it's about Green, it's about the girl. But no, Gray's Anatomy. 371 00:30:04.440 --> 00:30:08.920 It did really well both before and after syndication. I think that's exactly 372 00:30:10.960 --> 00:30:14.400 now. The end of the season. I think seventeen or eighteen. Damn, 373 00:30:15.200 --> 00:30:18.480 man, they get edgirl work. Well. No, I remember after 374 00:30:18.480 --> 00:30:22.079 a while it's started get it started becoming less about her and more about everybody 375 00:30:22.119 --> 00:30:27.119 else. That show is still wait, Gray's Anatomies is still on it it's 376 00:30:27.279 --> 00:30:30.839 still old. I had to look that up because I don't remember being that 377 00:30:30.920 --> 00:30:38.559 show is still old. Oh yeah, you're right. There is season in 378 00:30:38.680 --> 00:30:45.440 March. You mean the twenty first season in March. It'll be twenty No, 379 00:30:45.599 --> 00:30:47.759 No, are you right it'll be the twenty first Yeah, you're right, 380 00:30:47.839 --> 00:30:49.680 Yeah, it'll be the twenty first season. The season it just had 381 00:30:49.839 --> 00:30:56.440 just ended. That's crazy. That still can't be good. I know somebody 382 00:30:56.519 --> 00:30:59.359 talked about it last night. I've always thought about the only doctor show I 383 00:30:59.519 --> 00:31:03.119 ever kind to watch with this show called Nurse Jackie. And I kind of 384 00:31:03.359 --> 00:31:07.400 know you're right, red right read because it would have been the twenty first 385 00:31:07.440 --> 00:31:10.960 season, but remember the writers strike, so it got pushed through September, 386 00:31:11.000 --> 00:31:14.039 so it got pushed the next year. Name the soap proper. Y'all all 387 00:31:14.119 --> 00:31:26.240 watch Days of Our Lives. Wat these are the Days of our Lives called 388 00:31:26.799 --> 00:31:30.519 Revenge the Last of a Couple, And there was a lot of these old 389 00:31:30.599 --> 00:31:33.000 true wrench people in the Change of Revenge. But that show was awesome, 390 00:31:33.680 --> 00:31:37.359 and I realized how women like it took me that long. I had to 391 00:31:37.359 --> 00:31:41.519 be in my late twenties when I realized women who don't like each other but 392 00:31:41.640 --> 00:31:45.039 they're classy. They still go around each other and they talk ship but it's 393 00:31:45.119 --> 00:31:51.440 all very slick like, you know, but men ain't gonna do that ship 394 00:31:51.680 --> 00:31:56.559 bum in the face. I ain't slick talking. You just agreed, that's 395 00:31:56.599 --> 00:32:00.039 a different You just react. No, what I'm saying is you're not going 396 00:32:00.119 --> 00:32:04.079 to be around people you don't like to that they would do it because they 397 00:32:04.119 --> 00:32:07.680 get a little kick out of it, you know. Being a little slick. 398 00:32:07.000 --> 00:32:14.440 Just being a little slick is very narcissistic. I mean, it's narcissism 399 00:32:14.519 --> 00:32:17.119 because that implies that they really think that they're better than these people. It's 400 00:32:17.200 --> 00:32:21.839 just they get an enjoyment out of hanging out with people that they don't like 401 00:32:21.960 --> 00:32:25.079 and then talking about them later behind their back. It's just kind of a 402 00:32:25.200 --> 00:32:29.440 culture thing for them. Yeah, yeah, exactly, it's a culture thing. 403 00:32:29.519 --> 00:32:31.720 It's a weird culture kind of like how you know somebody in the South 404 00:32:31.799 --> 00:32:37.599 tells you bless your heart? It really means a profanity. You know, 405 00:32:37.680 --> 00:32:42.440 I never knew that. That's crazy. What type of shudder? What part 406 00:32:42.440 --> 00:32:52.599 of the chances you pray? Thank you, thank you, appreciate y'all edit 407 00:32:52.960 --> 00:32:59.160 your podcast. But it's okay, you're fucking out first and foremost read. 408 00:32:59.200 --> 00:33:04.920 I don't recall ask for your opinion. So racist in here right now? 409 00:33:09.039 --> 00:33:14.559 Oh yeah, bro, go ahead throw out one more because God missed it 410 00:33:14.640 --> 00:33:15.839 good. So okay, No, Well, I mean, if you want, 411 00:33:15.920 --> 00:33:17.640 I can go with I can go with one of the ones that I've 412 00:33:17.640 --> 00:33:20.920 been saving. But I don't know if you really wanted me to hit you 413 00:33:21.440 --> 00:33:23.519 hit the topics like that, the really good one you want to really really 414 00:33:23.599 --> 00:33:28.200 messed up. One gone, so we gotta we can throw it one more, 415 00:33:28.400 --> 00:33:30.119 just throw it one more. Oh yeah, she did say she's gonna 416 00:33:30.160 --> 00:33:36.079 drop, so I appreciate her for staying as long as she did. Hey, 417 00:33:36.240 --> 00:33:43.200 she need to go to church. Somebody need Jesus. Look, I 418 00:33:43.240 --> 00:33:46.480 couldn't make it this one. This one's pretty Uh yeah, me too. 419 00:33:49.000 --> 00:33:59.640 Yeah, she was very hippy. I don't care. I don't even't care. 420 00:34:00.240 --> 00:34:04.359 I think our faith, No, what's going on. I did not 421 00:34:04.440 --> 00:34:07.759 see our face. If you click on her profile and go down to the 422 00:34:07.799 --> 00:34:12.880 Spotify thing, it was our faith. Thank you so glad to do that. 423 00:34:13.559 --> 00:34:15.920 Thank you, appreciate you. All right, Sorry, let me get 424 00:34:16.000 --> 00:34:20.079 back to this man. It's gonna be real fun editing tonight. All right. 425 00:34:20.159 --> 00:34:22.639 Context. I'm an only child and so is my mom. I've been 426 00:34:22.679 --> 00:34:25.599 with my partner for nine years. We both have good jobs, steady income, 427 00:34:25.719 --> 00:34:30.079 earning throughout the same. We aren't married, but an engagement ring was 428 00:34:30.119 --> 00:34:32.440 purchased, and I anticipate that there'll be a proposal in the near future. 429 00:34:32.719 --> 00:34:37.079 Talking for the point of the girl, we don't live together, but currently 430 00:34:37.119 --> 00:34:40.440 he's paying about a seventy five This is in America for a small basement apartment 431 00:34:40.519 --> 00:34:44.480 in one city and I live at home with my mom in another city. 432 00:34:45.199 --> 00:34:49.559 Then circumstance, my grandmother passed away in twenty nineteen. My grandfather passed away 433 00:34:49.599 --> 00:34:52.920 in twenty twenty one. When they passed, my mom inherited their home. 434 00:34:52.280 --> 00:34:55.840 There's no mortgage on the home and it remains in my mother's name. She 435 00:34:55.960 --> 00:35:00.280 offered to let me and my partner use it for our first home. Given 436 00:35:00.320 --> 00:35:02.159 the nature of housing marketing our area, I eagerly accept. The house is 437 00:35:02.199 --> 00:35:05.719 attached, has a big front yard, and it is located in the safe 438 00:35:05.800 --> 00:35:09.559 established neighborhood where houses normally go between eight hundred thousand and one million dollars more. 439 00:35:10.079 --> 00:35:13.960 Despite it being an obvious upgrade. With the situation, my partner is 440 00:35:14.039 --> 00:35:19.679 much more aid, trepidatious, stressed, and vernacular because of the term set 441 00:35:19.719 --> 00:35:22.119 forth for a mom based on consulting with the lawyer. Essentially, one, 442 00:35:22.800 --> 00:35:28.400 she wants her daughter to pay for all upgrades, with no financial assistant assistant 443 00:35:28.440 --> 00:35:32.199 from her partner. Two, if we decide to move and buy another house, 444 00:35:34.000 --> 00:35:37.119 I would receive an amount of the money I paid to upgrade the house, 445 00:35:37.480 --> 00:35:42.440 plus a profit margin from the proceeds of the sale. Three, Well, 446 00:35:42.519 --> 00:35:45.119 my partner moves in, he plays a nominal rent like six hundred dollars, 447 00:35:46.480 --> 00:35:52.800 and number four basically that we have a landlord tenant relationship, not a 448 00:35:52.960 --> 00:35:58.440 family living in a family property relationship. She insists that she wants to give 449 00:35:58.519 --> 00:36:01.360 us a break and that it's a great deal. He doesn't want my partner 450 00:36:01.440 --> 00:36:06.119 to pay more than he's currently paying. Now. Now, my partner views 451 00:36:06.199 --> 00:36:09.039 this as being bad because he has to pay rent, and he thinks it's 452 00:36:09.079 --> 00:36:15.000 a strange, slash, poorly worded contract at best, and at worst, 453 00:36:15.119 --> 00:36:19.119 it's extremely unfair. He raises. The following points is why he uses a 454 00:36:19.239 --> 00:36:22.960 problematic One. We are being cheated as a couple when he's asked to pay 455 00:36:22.039 --> 00:36:27.800 rent and I am not. Two. If this is a landlord tenant agreement 456 00:36:27.840 --> 00:36:30.719 with him paying rent, he believes he should not be paying anything towards property 457 00:36:30.760 --> 00:36:34.960 taxes and homeownersures because those expenses are incurred by the homeowner, not the tenant. 458 00:36:35.360 --> 00:36:37.599 Three, He questions the amount of money that he would actually be saving 459 00:36:37.679 --> 00:36:42.000 by paying rent when he has to also pay for her utilities. Some of 460 00:36:42.079 --> 00:36:44.840 his money is going to property tax. He's maintenance and all the other expenses 461 00:36:44.880 --> 00:36:47.039 that come with home ownership. And four, he does not like the fact 462 00:36:47.079 --> 00:36:51.480 that he has that we have to spend money or sorry, that she hasn't 463 00:36:51.480 --> 00:36:54.320 spend money or renovations, and that the profit margin that my mom promised me 464 00:36:54.400 --> 00:36:58.719 has not been defined. So the question is what kind of hel are you 465 00:36:58.800 --> 00:37:02.159 talking about? Eight hundred thousand dollars house, one hundred thousand dollars house into 466 00:37:02.199 --> 00:37:10.239 two thousands, a hundred thousand dollar hours hundred thousand, hundred thousand dollars house 467 00:37:10.760 --> 00:37:14.599 now, but it's in a really nice neighborhood. We're gonna pass on that 468 00:37:14.679 --> 00:37:21.480 one, Okay? Is that it for you? Read? Because I'm gonna 469 00:37:21.480 --> 00:37:24.679 I'll tell you all the real answer once y'all, once y'all done, Because 470 00:37:24.840 --> 00:37:28.320 you're gonna go back and forth with sound tracks and all this kind of stuff 471 00:37:28.320 --> 00:37:30.159 with your mom. It's just get too mazy. Either give it to me 472 00:37:30.320 --> 00:37:36.920 or get the fuck out, thank you. That's that's the real thing. 473 00:37:37.880 --> 00:37:42.559 Either let us rit here because you don't do it, or don't. But 474 00:37:42.719 --> 00:37:45.719 really, what this is it's a sneaky attempt by her mother to break the 475 00:37:45.800 --> 00:37:50.280 two of them up. Oh thanks, that's true because like she will have 476 00:37:50.360 --> 00:37:53.760 a house went free. Well, it's not just that, it's that your 477 00:37:53.840 --> 00:37:59.239 mom needs to be paying all of the bills associated with the upkeep of the 478 00:37:59.320 --> 00:38:05.039 house. That is what happens to land the fact that she wants to let 479 00:38:05.119 --> 00:38:12.119 her daughter pay money into the houses upgrades. No man is going to be 480 00:38:12.199 --> 00:38:14.719 okay with that. Now, maybe a boy would be okay with that, 481 00:38:15.000 --> 00:38:16.960 but no man is going to let you waste money on somebody else's property. 482 00:38:17.199 --> 00:38:21.239 It's not in your name. Why are you paying anything for upgrades? If 483 00:38:21.280 --> 00:38:23.000 it needs to be brought up to code in any area, that's something for 484 00:38:23.079 --> 00:38:27.400 your mother to do because this is her property. And her saying that, 485 00:38:27.519 --> 00:38:30.280 oh, you know, if we decide to sell it later after you guys 486 00:38:30.400 --> 00:38:34.679 move out, I'll give you a portion of the proceeds says what, there's 487 00:38:34.719 --> 00:38:37.559 no contract that says that you have to do it, and we know exactly 488 00:38:37.599 --> 00:38:39.920 how messy things get, like this is an obviously exept for her mother to 489 00:38:40.079 --> 00:38:43.599 create something that's going to be a wedge between the two of them. And 490 00:38:43.679 --> 00:38:45.440 I mean, frankly, I think he should just divorce, or not divorce, 491 00:38:45.480 --> 00:38:49.920 he should just break up with her, because if she doesn't see what 492 00:38:50.039 --> 00:38:53.079 her mom is doing after nine years of them being together. She is not 493 00:38:53.239 --> 00:38:55.840 trying to like, it's okay, you can say that. You know your 494 00:38:55.880 --> 00:39:06.360 mom doesn't like you, Bro, I'm not there years. Maybe she's just 495 00:39:06.440 --> 00:39:12.920 trying to push him to marry her. Even if she was trying to put 496 00:39:13.000 --> 00:39:16.840 him to marry her, the easiest way to do that would be to not 497 00:39:17.039 --> 00:39:21.960 extend him that offer and just put your daughter in the house. Ah, 498 00:39:22.039 --> 00:39:28.360 how does that help? People tend to go further apart when their apartment we'll 499 00:39:28.400 --> 00:39:32.280 live together anyway, right? Correct? Correct, they're not living together now, 500 00:39:32.840 --> 00:39:37.239 So I mean how much of the impact would have had it? Like 501 00:39:37.320 --> 00:39:43.880 that's that's saying that an opportunity was presented, But otherwise state the course it's 502 00:39:43.920 --> 00:39:46.760 been working so far. He got nine years with that ship. But she 503 00:39:46.800 --> 00:39:52.000 should be recently into her patience about that. Who knows? Yeah, hell 504 00:39:52.079 --> 00:39:54.599 yeah, she should be to get made. I d had to be man 505 00:39:54.639 --> 00:39:59.119 for nine years. They give you hints you don't even remember when t is 506 00:39:59.159 --> 00:40:01.920 over. Wow, you sound like you're talking from a place that somebody who's 507 00:40:01.920 --> 00:40:05.840 been there in that road before. Yeah, I drive a bitch long for 508 00:40:05.960 --> 00:40:07.719 like ten years, Bro, I was narrative I should have called it, 509 00:40:08.079 --> 00:40:10.639 but she's the one. In the beginning, I was like, you want 510 00:40:10.679 --> 00:40:14.320 to get married, and it's just like I don't want you married because I 511 00:40:14.400 --> 00:40:15.639 got you pregnant. I'm just like, this, is there any other reason? 512 00:40:16.960 --> 00:40:21.239 I mean, that's not that's one of the better reasons to get married. 513 00:40:21.239 --> 00:40:22.840 Everybody like that's a terrible reason. Like, no, that's a good 514 00:40:22.880 --> 00:40:29.760 reason to get married. If you got someone in pregnant and you're a single 515 00:40:29.800 --> 00:40:34.519 and sing y'all been precking around for the standard period of time, like what 516 00:40:34.719 --> 00:40:39.960 is what is going on there? It came for a negative. It doesn't 517 00:40:40.000 --> 00:40:43.320 matter at all. That's one of those things where it's like, that's a 518 00:40:43.360 --> 00:40:47.079 weird reason to get married. This nigga loves you. He let it in 519 00:40:47.199 --> 00:40:52.880 you. I hope that nigga loves you. I mean, that's the kids. 520 00:40:52.320 --> 00:40:54.519 There's no kids, and I mean, I don't know you can really 521 00:40:55.760 --> 00:41:00.960 made that argument. These people don't have kids. So that's the strange part 522 00:41:00.119 --> 00:41:02.840 you going nine years. I don't know. Maybe they were career focused. 523 00:41:04.800 --> 00:41:07.239 She didn't want him to pay more rent than he was paying. Now he's 524 00:41:07.280 --> 00:41:09.559 paying six hundred dollars in rent. Yeah, that's what I'm saying. Right 525 00:41:09.559 --> 00:41:15.000 about the number, I guess he ends up paying around twelve. Yeah, 526 00:41:17.039 --> 00:41:22.599 that still might be low ball and all that ship she was talking about the 527 00:41:22.079 --> 00:41:28.000 whole the whole fact that it's the fact that she's not saying that her mom 528 00:41:28.119 --> 00:41:30.320 is getting her to basically do things that are tenant, to do things that 529 00:41:30.360 --> 00:41:35.039 are playing the owner things as opposed to tenant things is the main part, 530 00:41:37.519 --> 00:41:40.800 in the most PC way possible. But you got your dumb chick. I 531 00:41:40.920 --> 00:41:45.199 mean, I think she feels like the house is gonna be hers eventually anyway. 532 00:41:45.280 --> 00:41:47.800 So yeah, but that's not that's not but that's not how That's not 533 00:41:47.880 --> 00:41:52.079 how things go. Because if the house is in my name, there's nothing 534 00:41:52.119 --> 00:41:54.239 that compels me to sell you the house. I can will it to my 535 00:41:54.360 --> 00:42:00.480 dog. Like that's the thing about life is you don't just get exactly. 536 00:42:00.719 --> 00:42:04.239 Man, dog is out. I don't even him. I ain't seen him. 537 00:42:04.280 --> 00:42:09.840 The camera's hearing like that, though, you're terrible. Your dog is 538 00:42:09.920 --> 00:42:15.199 out, your dog is out, You go see him. He's saying he's 539 00:42:15.239 --> 00:42:17.599 seen him. But you know, they got niggas in jail right now. 540 00:42:17.719 --> 00:42:22.480 I'm not seeing them when they get out and you remember that nigga don't treads 541 00:42:22.400 --> 00:42:30.079 down tread. He was a brown skinned nigga with a with a this an 542 00:42:30.159 --> 00:42:32.519 arm conversation. I'm not arm sad. No, he went that he went 543 00:42:32.559 --> 00:42:37.280 to the school with us. He was cool. But that nigga in jail. 544 00:42:37.440 --> 00:42:39.239 And when that nigga get out, I don't want to see him because 545 00:42:39.239 --> 00:42:46.199 he did some crazy ship crazy uh. He jumped on top of a register 546 00:42:46.280 --> 00:42:55.800 and shot somebody standing rock and then they went in there, jumped on the 547 00:42:55.880 --> 00:42:59.719 thing, and he jumped on the race, turning the rambow and they rocked 548 00:42:59.719 --> 00:43:01.480 the place and got out. He killed the dude for no reason, they 549 00:43:01.559 --> 00:43:06.519 say, and then his girlfriend. He ain't never get caught, by the 550 00:43:06.519 --> 00:43:09.800 way. It was that pine shop on Finola, And so how do he 551 00:43:09.920 --> 00:43:13.800 murder someone? And yet he's still gonna get out. Sometimes that's gonna be 552 00:43:13.840 --> 00:43:16.199 in the near future. We got life. That was twenty five years ago, 553 00:43:16.280 --> 00:43:20.519 bro, Yeah, but they still sometimes can hold you, especially in 554 00:43:20.559 --> 00:43:24.159 Georgia. Jordan don't care about yeah, living in there ten years, you 555 00:43:24.280 --> 00:43:31.639 probably got got a hoping he got I'm hoping he got life, and then 556 00:43:31.679 --> 00:43:37.000 got another fifteen to thirty years in there for doing something life is twenty five 557 00:43:37.079 --> 00:43:44.119 years, twenty five two life. Once you reached it, it was just 558 00:43:44.280 --> 00:43:50.280 meta yeah about okay, it did it about twenty years and he had to 559 00:43:50.320 --> 00:43:52.159 get out at that time. He did. Man, he needs to stay. 560 00:43:52.760 --> 00:43:58.880 We did it, brod change man. Bro, that'd be a changed 561 00:43:58.920 --> 00:44:00.519 man. He could have come back to Jesus. But I don't want to 562 00:44:00.519 --> 00:44:02.679 see him on the streets. I hear you, Bro, But we gotta 563 00:44:02.840 --> 00:44:07.840 we can't keep that mentality, like how long? Man? All right? 564 00:44:07.880 --> 00:44:10.199 How about this read? You take him into your house when he gets out. 565 00:44:12.599 --> 00:44:17.679 I told you ain't gonna see it get out a terrible person. But 566 00:44:17.719 --> 00:44:21.719 that's exactly what I'm saying. Let him say, let him say, Man, 567 00:44:22.360 --> 00:44:25.480 I mean, just let him stay. He needs to stay. He 568 00:44:25.880 --> 00:44:37.400 belongs in the streets. He belonged to the order corrections, whatever corrections you 569 00:44:37.519 --> 00:44:42.559 are, except of the state. At that point, maybe you could like 570 00:44:42.639 --> 00:44:45.920 standing in, give him like the teaching my Facebook work, and give him 571 00:44:45.920 --> 00:44:51.960 little conjugal You just come girl, Georgia. You have to be there's only 572 00:44:52.280 --> 00:45:00.280 there's only four Nigga Georgia. One of he been out. He gonna be 573 00:45:00.280 --> 00:45:02.719 inspected. But he did, Bro, he needs to stay in there. 574 00:45:04.519 --> 00:45:07.119 They need to hollow him out, throw away the key. I mean, 575 00:45:07.119 --> 00:45:13.800 I'm worth people, I'm all the way forward. We do something like that. 576 00:45:14.159 --> 00:45:15.400 If he hadn't murdered anybody, I'd be okay with it. But since 577 00:45:15.400 --> 00:45:19.000 he murdered somebody and for no reason, he was staying in the prison for 578 00:45:19.039 --> 00:45:21.239 the rest of his life. He was in his twenty Bro, your brain 579 00:45:21.320 --> 00:45:24.639 gonna work the man. I don't care. He still gotta help. I 580 00:45:24.760 --> 00:45:30.920 may not be my dog. Thank you for joining episode of Everyday black Man. 581 00:45:30.239 --> 00:45:36.719 So my niggas locked up. Rocket said fuck you for killing Yeah, 582 00:45:36.840 --> 00:45:37.880 and I'm like, here, bro, I keep my glocks on it, 583 00:45:37.920 --> 00:45:42.960 don't even play. Depends on what they did. So even care somebody about 584 00:45:43.000 --> 00:45:46.199 the second year life? Yeah, man, Stooter, are you sure about 585 00:45:46.239 --> 00:45:51.400 that? Yeah? I don't trust the point the fact that I don't trust 586 00:45:51.400 --> 00:45:52.559 the clinical drugs, the system. Bro, that's what it is. Bro. 587 00:45:53.079 --> 00:45:58.039 You don't if you wouldn't somebody and then the police killed somebody that get 588 00:45:58.119 --> 00:46:00.639 murdered. Bro. Yah know, but we know for certain this man killed 589 00:46:00.679 --> 00:46:06.480 that guy almost gold blood, That's what I'm saying. Like the fact years 590 00:46:06.519 --> 00:46:12.159 had a pretty clear picture that definitely I ain't a defender. I just don't 591 00:46:12.199 --> 00:46:15.880 think the matic, just sim is not there in those temple. I really 592 00:46:15.960 --> 00:46:19.920 don't think people like that for the rep of their life. But true for 593 00:46:20.079 --> 00:46:22.599 the matter, you ain't got any performing to get out. We're not sweet, 594 00:46:22.719 --> 00:46:27.440 we don't have a rehabilitation program. So he need to say thanks and 595 00:46:27.559 --> 00:47:00.880 leaving the ling. We appreciate y'all. Thanks out, m P.