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Second date up day, gonna help
out. Michael, c K and Carmen

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being ninety five talked to us.
Michael, Yeah, so I've been seen

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the kolk Catherine, and we've been
dating for about it. We've probably gone

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out seven or eight times, okay, and yeah, things have been going

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great. We have great chemistry and
she's lasting it on my jokes, I

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mean I thought things are perfect.
Anyway, we went out a couple of

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nights ago and they seem like again
and went really well. I was a

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gentleman. I have no idea what
happened. But yeah, now she's just

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disappeared, okay in two days.
I have thee would happened. So you've

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been out several times, but they're
normally when we do a second date up

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day, you go on the first
date and then you get ghosted on.

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But you went on like seven or
eight dates, and then now you're ghosted

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on. Yeah exactly. It's so
weird. I mean you had thought at

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this point, you know, we
were comfortable enough in our relationship. I

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have no idea would happened, right, No, I mean, especially since

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you've been on several days, like
everything seems to be going good. Now,

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did you do anything different on this
last date, say something different.

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Nope, nothing, nothing different,
that's right. So weird, and you

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guys have been having a good time
and the vibe has been really cool,

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get really great. That's why I
keep going over to my mind. I'm

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like, I don't know what finding
me, so so I figure, you

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know, bring you guys in.
She considered out for me to. Sorry,

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I need some help. Okay,
No, we could definitely help out.

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Michael, that's not a problem.
I mean it seems like you guys

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definitely have been vibing. I mean
you've already been on seven or eight dates

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with her, so I'm wondering,
like, what the hell happened recently that

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made her go Nope, not the
guy not calling, not even texting you

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back, Yeah exactly, not even
worth attacks saying I don't want to see

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you anymore. Just posted me.
All right, So here's we're gonna do.

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We're gonna get Catherine on the phone. We're gonna see if we can

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make a guess in this case,
another date and just get to the bottom

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of this and figure out what happened. Yeah exactly. It's crazy. What's

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Catherine gonna say? You're gonna find
out next k and Carmen be ninety five.

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We're in the middle of a second
date update, so we already spoke

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to Michael. Now we gotta Catherine
on the phone. We're inside a second

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date update. CK and Carmen being
eighty five. Gotta figure out why Katherine

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ghost to my man? Katherine?
Hey, is this uh Katherine? Hello?

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Yeah, Hey, Katherine, how
you doing a Ck and Carmen from

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being eighty five? Good morning?
Hi. Hi. So we're calling because

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we do this thing called a second
date update. And before we go any

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further, I have to ask you
permission to continue this phone call. Are

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you good with that? Use your
voice and all that stuff. Okay,

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okay, Well the reason we're calling, I'm not gonna make you guess.

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You've recently been dating Michael and having
a good time. Everything seems to be

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going well, and then out of
nowhere, you just stopped communicating with Michael

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period A. Yeah, so how
disgusted I am with him? Wait a

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minute, but from my understanding,
y'all went on like seven or eight dates

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like it wasn't like one date,
and then everything with sour like y'all I've

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been laughing, flirting and the chemistry
was good. Well, it was fine

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until what he did on the last
date. I'm no guy has ever embarrassed

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me like that. Damn Well what
happened? So when we got to the

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date, there were no open parking
spots and except for the handicap section right

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by the restaurant. So Michael saw
this opening and he not only parked there,

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but then he asked me to limp
into the restaurant. And no,

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no, yes, no, Hold
on a second Okay. I don't know

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if you've heard the second date up
date before, but Michael is on the

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phone, right Michael, Catherine.
I know that you guys haven't talked,

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and I can see why you mad
at him. But Michael, what's the

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big deal? Bro? Come on
now, y'all going on a date,

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trying to have a good Um,
he's a day and then you're like handicap

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parking you want her to limp into
the restaurant? Who wasn't a big deal.

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Honestly, there was no spots and
like we got a really great spot.

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I mean it was right in front
of the place. It was perfect.

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Oh my goodness, little bit like
it was like, you know,

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thirty feet she said a whimple,
Catherine. It was a big deal.

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It is so disrespectful to people who
actually have a disability. It is embarrassing

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to me. It's like, who
does that? What a man does that?

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Date? Like? It's disgusting.
I have disgusted. I don't blame

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you. I mean, come on
now, I mean, part walk you're

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okay with it. You don't have
to take the handicap spot and then pretend

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to have a disability. I thought
she supposed to be on my side while

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well, because I mean that's you
took the handicap parking and then you asked

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her to limp into the restaurant.
Put it this way. I want a

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second date to happen more than anybody. But damn, that's crazy you.

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It doesn't sound what you're on right
side. I mean it was it was

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those spots. Okay, we're just
doing our best. We're just turning up

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some dinner. Now you're sorry.
She's mad at me. Now you're mad.

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I'm not mad at you. I
just think it's insane. But I

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do want to know this. Did
she walk in with a limp? I

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mean when he asked me, I
was so shocked. I kind of went

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along with it no myself. Wait, so you actually limped in? Yeah,

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I can't. It was it wasn't
that crazy to me. This doesn't

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even sound real. But I mean, Catherine, I know you're disgusted with

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yourself, and I know that this
is something you've never done before. Now,

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Michael, you're just you're wrong for
even suggesting it and even parking in

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the handicapped spot on the fact that
you kind of went along with it and

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limped him, and then you know
that you guys already flirt a little bit,

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laugh a little bit. You got
a great chemistry. You've been on

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seven or eight dates. Can you
just chalk this up to something stupid and

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say, look, I'm discussing it
myself. I'm discussing that you even suggested

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this. But I still like you. I actually like you so much.

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I went along with it at first. No, because I wasn't because I

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liked him. It was because I
felt pressured. Oh and he parks in

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the spot and then just tells me
to limp and I felt so pressured and

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so uncomfortable. I mean, I
did it, but I didn't agree with

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it, and I wouldn't have done
it had I really had a chance to

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think about it. So no,
I did that because I felt pressured,

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and no, I didn't want to
go out with him. Michael. I

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mean, I'm not the one that
she did, you know what I mean.

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So I don't know why I'm the
bad guy. I don't want to

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told me to do it. I
went to do the restaurant you did,

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But I'm the bad guy. Oh
yeah, Man. First of all,

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this is a crazy second date update. Second of all, I kind of

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understand where she's coming from. I
mean, it's kind of an embarrassing situation

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to be put in. I mean
I'm laughing just because you actually did it.

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Like I'm like, first thing is, i'd be like, hey,

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don't park there. No, no, no, we can go to the

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back and we could walk. We'll
do it, but we're not parking here

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and I'm not limping in. But
you actually limped in, so and that's

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why I kind of laughed. But
from the sounds of it, it doesn't

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seem like she wants to see you
again, Michael, and that's why she

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cut you all so abruptly. Yeah, I mean, I get it,

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you're upset about it, and we
don't have to do that again. It's

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that's a big issue. No,
but you didn't. It is a big

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issue, and no, we're not
going to do it again. And the

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fact is is that you went like, you didn't ask me, Hey,

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I'm should I park in this spot? Would you pretend to live? You

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didn't. You parked in the spot
and then put me in this situation,

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and then like as you're getting out, you're like, hey, you need

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to limp. And I was so
embarrassed that we were in the spot in

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the first place that I did it
and I played along. But it wasn't

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really a choice. It just doesn't
seem like it's gonna happen. Michael.

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I'm sorry, man, you've been
ripping me the entire time. Hey,

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I gave a scenario in which it
kind of made sense, but it doesn't

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make sense. I mean, everyone
that's listening right now is like, you

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wrong for this, Michael. You
just read me out to be the background

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the entire time. Michael, I
was on your side, man, I

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really was. You parked in the
handicapped spot, you had a poor girl

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limping into the restaurant. Bro I
tried trusted you. I called you to

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help me, and he's just been
ripping me the entire time, making me

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look like some terrible person, Catherine. Was it my fault? Catherine?

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How is he not soft aware enough
to understand that you're reacting reasonably to something

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insane that he did? Like,
you have to take ownership of this time

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that he conveniently left out of our
initial conversation. When I said, hey,

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man, was there anything that you
may have done or was there something

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that might have happened that was different
than any other date that y'all went on,

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He's like, oh no, everything
was all good. I don't know

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why you listen to a restaurant pretend
you were headicap. Man. Look,

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we're not gonna have another date with
y'all. She's not going on another date

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with you. Michael, You're wrong
for this, That's all I'm saying.

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Catherine, thank you so much for
taking your time this morning. I appreciate

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you. Sorry, Michael, ain't
gonna work out, bro, Yeah,

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I don't think it out. Sorry, but okay, second day an update.

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There you go. Ck and Carmen
be ninety five