1 00:00:00,600 --> 00:00:14,759 Made a decision out face sunny, sad on I had a vision. So 2 00:00:15,080 --> 00:00:19,559 wait, looks up everybody. Welcome to for crying out loud on a Monday 3 00:00:19,600 --> 00:00:23,679 morning. Who Stephanie and I just got back from trips. We are such 4 00:00:23,800 --> 00:00:27,839 We're like world travelers. We've got chock full of stories. State travelers. 5 00:00:28,039 --> 00:00:32,479 We're state travelers. Yeah. I went as far as uh three states over. 6 00:00:33,119 --> 00:00:38,159 I went three states, maybe two. I went into Washington. Yeah, 7 00:00:38,280 --> 00:00:41,880 I went to Seattle. I went to Texas. I know, I 8 00:00:41,920 --> 00:00:45,640 can't wait to hear we should say hello to our fa high, our favorite 9 00:00:45,920 --> 00:00:52,399 fabulous Sarah's the fun oh, Leslie? Oh, which one are we talking 10 00:00:52,399 --> 00:00:56,960 about? The coughing lest we start coughing Leslie? And then there's yeah, 11 00:00:57,000 --> 00:01:00,439 traffic and costing people less. Yes, we were just talking. Get into 12 00:01:00,479 --> 00:01:04,400 that. Yeah, we'll get into you, Leslie. Alicia Asclante Kelly Brandt, 13 00:01:04,599 --> 00:01:07,799 she will take you if you're in Texas, she'll take you out. 14 00:01:08,719 --> 00:01:14,680 Yeah, it's right, take on a road trip, e Sean Voshbury. 15 00:01:15,040 --> 00:01:19,519 Wait, Gabby and Missy up to no good as always. Katerina might have 16 00:01:19,560 --> 00:01:23,319 a sore mouth. Yeah soon she doesn't stay on top of that, right, 17 00:01:23,400 --> 00:01:27,359 See I changed it up. Valerie, Bubba Fenwick, Polly, we 18 00:01:27,439 --> 00:01:32,640 love your pancakes. Athena, we love your makeup, and you're dancing all 19 00:01:32,680 --> 00:01:37,319 your moves that red lipstick. Yeah, Elizabeth Williamson, we love all your 20 00:01:37,400 --> 00:01:41,799 Kaylor was wearing her red lipstick at the game over the weekend. Yeah, 21 00:01:41,920 --> 00:01:46,640 Athena's yeah, hero. Everybody loves you, Rita, everybody loves to rock 22 00:01:46,680 --> 00:01:49,799 in your bossnet. Jacob, you're so growley, Ashley, you're so chic. 23 00:01:51,120 --> 00:01:53,519 Nikki call your girls? What are you doing? Brandy may Aimes you 24 00:01:53,640 --> 00:01:57,120 got a lot of names. Rachel, we love you. You're a newcomer, 25 00:01:57,159 --> 00:02:00,280 but you're so cool. Aaron, who it is? Jennifer, get 26 00:02:00,359 --> 00:02:04,200 up, Sandra, it's not easy being green. Chris to get this strap? 27 00:02:04,200 --> 00:02:07,680 And Stephanie's a stinker rinker? Sure is? Kaylen, can you turn 28 00:02:07,760 --> 00:02:12,479 me up a little bit? Sorry? I just went through this, so 29 00:02:12,680 --> 00:02:16,599 that was me. That's Stephanie. That's that's better. There you go. 30 00:02:17,000 --> 00:02:21,800 That's good, thank you? Right, alright, alright, alright, alright, 31 00:02:22,759 --> 00:02:25,960 yeah, what's up with this Taylor Swift and her foot like at the 32 00:02:27,159 --> 00:02:30,280 at the game. Now it's all I hear about, all right, Kaylyn, 33 00:02:30,360 --> 00:02:34,400 go for it. Well, it's really annoying because in fantasy football, 34 00:02:34,479 --> 00:02:37,039 which I do with Sonny, which I was on his podcast last week that 35 00:02:37,120 --> 00:02:42,159 was very fun. I picked Travis Kelsey as like my first guy, my 36 00:02:42,240 --> 00:02:45,240 main guy, so you know he's might was my first pick. And now 37 00:02:45,240 --> 00:02:51,280 he's distracted by Taylor and my team's in last place, and I hate it 38 00:02:51,360 --> 00:02:54,560 and it's annoying. Oh really yeah, Oh I thought. I don't know. 39 00:02:54,639 --> 00:02:59,280 I thought it was bringing a lot of attention to the game, were 40 00:02:59,400 --> 00:03:02,159 making them in. No, it doesn't work like that. Now he's not 41 00:03:02,520 --> 00:03:06,520 performing. Is he like, as he's running up the field, is he 42 00:03:06,639 --> 00:03:15,000 like Taylor over look at me. Taylor has to be like, I see 43 00:03:15,199 --> 00:03:20,400 you keep running, like how moms are with their kids. Kids are like 44 00:03:20,680 --> 00:03:24,400 yeah, waving and they're performing. Now let me now I see you thumbs 45 00:03:24,479 --> 00:03:30,919 up. Taylor has to give him a thumbs up with her high falutin Hollywood 46 00:03:30,960 --> 00:03:36,000 friends next door Ryan old Ryan Reynolds, still a babe, by the way, 47 00:03:36,319 --> 00:03:39,759 still cute, Still cute because I was watching like GMA this morning and 48 00:03:39,800 --> 00:03:44,439 I see, like, h Taylor. They show like her in the sky 49 00:03:44,560 --> 00:03:47,080 box with all her friends and blah blah blah and I'm like, and they 50 00:03:47,080 --> 00:03:52,199 show her jumping up and down and they're like cheering. She's like cheering them 51 00:03:52,240 --> 00:03:55,879 on and uh and she's standing next like she's like what this these like like 52 00:03:55,919 --> 00:04:00,199 a blonde girl next door? And I think to myself, Wow, look 53 00:04:00,240 --> 00:04:01,680 at her and her friends, Like, look, how lucky her who cares 54 00:04:01,680 --> 00:04:04,960 about her? Look how lucky her friends are. Turns out that's not her 55 00:04:04,960 --> 00:04:09,800 friends. Those are celebrities. Oh like Lively, yes to her, Yeah, 56 00:04:09,800 --> 00:04:12,960 it's not her friend from back home in high school. It's not her 57 00:04:13,080 --> 00:04:20,120 Dawn with the brain and Kirstin. Yeah. So but anyway, yeah, 58 00:04:20,120 --> 00:04:25,519 that and her lipstick was out of control. But yeah, So over the 59 00:04:25,560 --> 00:04:30,319 weekend, Sonny was talking to me about them, about how that this the 60 00:04:30,279 --> 00:04:36,759 merchandise has gone up four percent or something. She's been like, she's good 61 00:04:36,759 --> 00:04:41,600 for She's good for business. That chick she is. Yah, God bless 62 00:04:41,600 --> 00:04:46,839 her. So, okay, all right, you go to Texas. I 63 00:04:46,920 --> 00:04:49,160 go to Texas. You have your thing on Thursday, then you the next 64 00:04:49,240 --> 00:04:57,439 day. Yeah. Yeah, so we go to we leave and it's extremely 65 00:04:57,519 --> 00:05:00,720 hot, you know when we get there, which is but so you were 66 00:05:00,800 --> 00:05:04,000 alone though I was alone a lot of the time because no, but I 67 00:05:04,000 --> 00:05:06,600 mean you flew in alone, right, because wasn't she already there? Was 68 00:05:06,639 --> 00:05:11,120 there? She flew in the night before. So then I get there and 69 00:05:11,120 --> 00:05:15,160 and but I meet up with them, and immediately it's like we're going We're 70 00:05:15,199 --> 00:05:20,040 going to some game, some party, whatever, because she's her friend. 71 00:05:20,160 --> 00:05:28,560 Her roommate is in a sorority. She's already joined the sorority, and so 72 00:05:28,680 --> 00:05:34,920 she's so because Natalia's friend, it was a year older than her. Okay, 73 00:05:34,959 --> 00:05:39,759 and she's already at that school. Okay, she was. Okay, 74 00:05:39,839 --> 00:05:44,480 So the mom of the other girl was there, not the girl that's already 75 00:05:44,560 --> 00:05:47,120 there, but another another girl, a third girl, Yeah, a third 76 00:05:47,160 --> 00:05:53,240 girl. And is the mom of that girl a friend of yours? I 77 00:05:53,279 --> 00:05:57,600 mean, so you didn't you weren't. It wasn't going to be like the 78 00:05:57,680 --> 00:06:02,720 mom's doing their all the girls well, because they she's got an older sibling 79 00:06:02,800 --> 00:06:06,600 that's that's uh, not at that school, but another school. So she 80 00:06:06,680 --> 00:06:12,199 brought her there, hung out with us on a Friday night, and then 81 00:06:12,639 --> 00:06:16,680 she left an early Saturday morning and went to the siblings school. Oh purf. 82 00:06:16,759 --> 00:06:21,079 Yeah, so so you know, so Saturday, Yeah, so we 83 00:06:21,120 --> 00:06:25,800 get in. Let me just say something about Texas. First of all, 84 00:06:26,319 --> 00:06:30,560 really nice people. But I went outside, had a little smoke, sit 85 00:06:30,639 --> 00:06:38,079 down on in front of the hotel on like it's not a planter because there's 86 00:06:38,120 --> 00:06:43,759 no there's no plants, there's no sand. It's just a ledge. Okay, 87 00:06:43,959 --> 00:06:46,879 let's just call it a ledge. So I was sitting I'm sitting outside 88 00:06:46,439 --> 00:06:51,000 having a cigarette on the ledge, had my purse down, I was on 89 00:06:51,000 --> 00:06:56,160 the phone, chit chatting whatever. I was there for like half an hour 90 00:06:56,279 --> 00:07:00,160 probably, and then I get up and I stand end up, I pick 91 00:07:00,240 --> 00:07:06,160 up my purse and there's a cock roach like the size of my hand, 92 00:07:06,879 --> 00:07:11,680 like the size of a toddler's hand. It was huge. I took a 93 00:07:11,759 --> 00:07:15,839 video of it with I think wings, but I wasn't sticking around to find 94 00:07:15,839 --> 00:07:20,600 out, but just crawled out from underneath my purse. Oh and now I'm 95 00:07:20,600 --> 00:07:24,040 thinking, are they is it in my hair? Did it lay eggs? 96 00:07:24,040 --> 00:07:27,399 About? What's going on? Is there more in my purse? I'm dumping 97 00:07:27,399 --> 00:07:30,879 my purse out on the sideblock like a crazy idiot. I'm like, I'm 98 00:07:30,120 --> 00:07:33,480 I screamed. I was like, and then you know when I don't know 99 00:07:33,519 --> 00:07:38,040 if you ever scream and freak out oh you're by yourself, yes, on 100 00:07:38,120 --> 00:07:40,920 a street. Yeah, and people look at you. And it's in front 101 00:07:40,920 --> 00:07:45,000 of a busy hotel because I'm right next to the valet guys pretty much like 102 00:07:45,319 --> 00:07:48,360 down a couple, you know, feet and cars are coming out and I 103 00:07:48,399 --> 00:07:53,120 look, I'm like, look like a craze maniac. Anyway, so nice 104 00:07:53,160 --> 00:07:56,000 to say. I ad not did not sit down anywhere unless it was a 105 00:07:56,079 --> 00:08:01,680 chair, and even then I was suspect it furred to me. I would 106 00:08:01,680 --> 00:08:07,120 have been constantly like looking down at my feet, crawling over me me too, 107 00:08:07,199 --> 00:08:09,839 and I was like my hair constantly like is it in my hair? 108 00:08:09,079 --> 00:08:13,959 Is it in my purse? Because it literally crawled out and I don't know 109 00:08:13,000 --> 00:08:18,480 where it came from. There was no cracks, no plant like I said, 110 00:08:18,519 --> 00:08:24,040 there was no plants nothing. There was just like event. And now 111 00:08:24,040 --> 00:08:26,279 I'm like, are they in the hotel? Does it have family insight? 112 00:08:26,560 --> 00:08:33,360 Is this the roach motel? Like I was flipping out anyway, But yeah, 113 00:08:33,399 --> 00:08:37,039 it was It was fun. I was. I stayed in like downtown 114 00:08:37,200 --> 00:08:41,120 Fort Worth, I guess, and there was purple banners of TCU everywhere. 115 00:08:41,159 --> 00:08:48,159 They're calling TCAT well now they Italian or friends are calling it uh at Texas 116 00:08:48,200 --> 00:08:52,559 California University because it's like all these like you know, tons of kids, 117 00:08:52,840 --> 00:08:56,960 a lot of kids from our school, a lot of kids from California. 118 00:08:56,080 --> 00:09:05,480 But it was really good learning a learning uh uh experience for Natalia because she 119 00:09:05,720 --> 00:09:09,559 got to like, you know, see what, how what it's like when 120 00:09:09,559 --> 00:09:13,679 you go buy your you know, when you're starting off at a college. 121 00:09:13,720 --> 00:09:16,120 What happens when you get a roommate? How do you meet the roommate, 122 00:09:16,480 --> 00:09:18,639 then you meet the other you know, then you meet the other roommates, 123 00:09:18,720 --> 00:09:22,039 like just like setting up and stuff like that. The mom, the other 124 00:09:22,039 --> 00:09:24,759 mom was super nice. I really like her. Yeah, I was kind 125 00:09:24,759 --> 00:09:28,519 of actually kind of bummed that she was going to be gone the rest of 126 00:09:28,519 --> 00:09:31,639 the trip because I was, you know, I was like, okay, 127 00:09:31,639 --> 00:09:33,759 well what am I going to do with these girls now? Like they don't 128 00:09:33,240 --> 00:09:39,440 responsible for them? No? No, not really, no, not no, 129 00:09:39,600 --> 00:09:41,679 because I was It was just an Italia and her other friend pretty much. 130 00:09:41,679 --> 00:09:46,519 The other girl was there for like a half a day the next when 131 00:09:46,519 --> 00:09:50,600 she went on the tour, then sat sorry, I'm getting my days mixed 132 00:09:50,679 --> 00:09:52,679 up. So then Saturday she left, so it was just an Italian and 133 00:09:54,120 --> 00:09:56,519 her roommate pretty much, and I was like, you guys, you girls 134 00:09:56,519 --> 00:09:58,519 want to go? And it was such a quick trip. It was now 135 00:09:58,519 --> 00:10:01,559 it's Sat to day. So I was like, you girls want to go 136 00:10:01,600 --> 00:10:05,399 out to dinner Saturday night? Like there's you're talking about the girl who goes 137 00:10:05,440 --> 00:10:09,679 to the college. Yes, the girl that's living there. Her and Natalia 138 00:10:09,000 --> 00:10:15,200 are there from Saturday on. Got it? Okay? So I'm like, 139 00:10:15,279 --> 00:10:16,679 do you guys, you girls want to go? You guys want to have 140 00:10:16,720 --> 00:10:22,000 dinner? And they're like, uh, we really were. There's a big 141 00:10:22,039 --> 00:10:28,000 game like football of course is huge, right, there's a big blackout and 142 00:10:28,200 --> 00:10:31,519 mom, it's blackout and I'm like, okay, let's blackout me means you 143 00:10:31,559 --> 00:10:35,679 wear black. I guess. I was like, oh, I brought a 144 00:10:35,679 --> 00:10:39,519 purple shirt like I thought, you know right, like I was gonna wear 145 00:10:39,679 --> 00:10:43,440 you know, the right like color, school colors, school colors. Yeah, 146 00:10:43,600 --> 00:10:48,000 now it's black. It was black. I really was not in the 147 00:10:48,039 --> 00:10:52,080 mood to going, and at first I was gonna go. I was like, 148 00:10:52,120 --> 00:10:54,080 all right, I'll go to the game. How do I get a 149 00:10:54,120 --> 00:10:56,759 ticket? And she's like, I don't know, you just buy one when 150 00:10:56,759 --> 00:11:01,399 you get there, Like that doesn't she's like our go online. What Kaylin 151 00:11:01,480 --> 00:11:03,679 like was that's a big football school, so I would imagine that they sell 152 00:11:03,759 --> 00:11:09,399 out fairly often, and depending on the team that they're playing, I'd be 153 00:11:09,399 --> 00:11:13,240 like, yeah, they're probably going to sell out, right, So but 154 00:11:13,279 --> 00:11:16,679 if your other girl probably knows she's been a student there, she didn't know 155 00:11:16,799 --> 00:11:20,519 anything, Like, but I don't even know how they got it. I 156 00:11:20,559 --> 00:11:22,559 was like, but like, if you're a student, you guys, they 157 00:11:22,559 --> 00:11:28,159 can get in or whatever. They have have a student section whatever. But 158 00:11:28,200 --> 00:11:31,279 like I was like, well, how am I gonna get in? And 159 00:11:31,279 --> 00:11:33,919 I want to ask the other moms. She left anyway, But I didn't 160 00:11:33,960 --> 00:11:37,240 want to look like so I would have been so out of it. I 161 00:11:37,279 --> 00:11:41,039 would have just been like, you guys have the best time. That's where 162 00:11:41,039 --> 00:11:43,559 I was heading. I'll be having dinner at my hotel. I was like, 163 00:11:43,759 --> 00:11:46,960 I am not in the mood to go to a hot ass sweaty with 164 00:11:48,000 --> 00:11:52,279 all these college kids. No, thank you, no. So, but 165 00:11:52,559 --> 00:11:56,919 I had a feeling that they were going to go and get like tired or 166 00:11:58,039 --> 00:12:01,240 like, you know, I don't I had a feeling that these girls are 167 00:12:01,279 --> 00:12:03,559 just they're gonna go, but they're not gonna want to stay for the whole 168 00:12:03,600 --> 00:12:07,360 game. So I said, when you get bored or when you're tired, 169 00:12:07,799 --> 00:12:09,720 why don't you call me? And then if you guys. But then the 170 00:12:09,759 --> 00:12:13,080 game started at seven, so it was like out the window. So I 171 00:12:13,120 --> 00:12:16,399 wasn't going to the game. I was, let's like call me after the 172 00:12:16,440 --> 00:12:22,320 game. So I ended up walking around Saturday late afternoon, just walking around 173 00:12:22,320 --> 00:12:28,240 the town checking it out on my phone. Went and had dinner at at 174 00:12:28,240 --> 00:12:31,960 a stake place because I was I didn't really texted you Saturday night. Yes, 175 00:12:33,559 --> 00:12:35,200 I was in bed. I was in bed by then. Really, 176 00:12:35,360 --> 00:12:39,200 yeah, what time was it? We went to bed early. I'm gonna 177 00:12:39,240 --> 00:12:43,679 I'm gonna look right now. Yeah, I texted you at eight o'clock. 178 00:12:43,360 --> 00:12:48,240 It was ten o'clock our time. Oh true, Yeah, and we had 179 00:12:48,279 --> 00:12:52,039 to get up early for a flight, so I texted you. This is 180 00:12:52,080 --> 00:12:58,879 a quick interjection that at the wedding that I was at, the furred the 181 00:12:58,000 --> 00:13:03,360 dance between the girl who was getting married and her dad, who's John's friend. 182 00:13:05,279 --> 00:13:11,120 Uh played a Bruce Springsteen song for their father daughter dance called when You 183 00:13:11,159 --> 00:13:13,639 Need Me, And it was a studio outtake from nineteen eighties, some deep 184 00:13:13,720 --> 00:13:18,879 cut did you know the song? I don't wait, what now? I 185 00:13:18,879 --> 00:13:22,519 I can't remember what's the name of the song? Again? When it's called 186 00:13:22,559 --> 00:13:26,519 when you need name? Should I play you a moment of it? I 187 00:13:26,559 --> 00:13:28,639 think I know the song, but I'm not. I'm not trying to see 188 00:13:30,480 --> 00:13:33,120 it's on that It's on that album tracks, which is his Deep cuts. 189 00:13:35,559 --> 00:13:43,679 Oh yeah, I know this. You know the song? Oh what wouldn't 190 00:13:43,679 --> 00:13:48,960 be so pretty? What a nice song to dance too? Yeah? Apparently 191 00:13:50,159 --> 00:13:58,240 apparently the the girl it's a very platonic song until like the last verse, 192 00:13:58,759 --> 00:14:01,000 and then it has like a romantic edge. So she had asked the DJ, 193 00:14:01,639 --> 00:14:05,399 who was the worst wedding dj I think I've ever encountered in my life. 194 00:14:05,519 --> 00:14:09,960 She asked the wedding DJ to cut before the last verse of the song. 195 00:14:09,440 --> 00:14:13,519 Oh, he had one job, which is to keep people on the 196 00:14:13,600 --> 00:14:16,879 dance floor dancing, and to make the and to do the thing that the 197 00:14:16,960 --> 00:14:22,600 bride asked for, and he didn't. So it was getting kind of like 198 00:14:22,720 --> 00:14:26,080 romantic out there. And I made a joke to the one girl there was 199 00:14:28,240 --> 00:14:31,840 John's college friend, and then another college the only other college friend that was 200 00:14:31,879 --> 00:14:37,919 there for the college friend's daughter's wedding and his wife. So I was chatting 201 00:14:37,960 --> 00:14:43,720 with her and I was like, wouldn't it be crazy if, like Chris, 202 00:14:43,759 --> 00:14:46,720 that's the college friend and the girl Emily, what if they just started 203 00:14:46,759 --> 00:14:52,360 making out? Like and then we were laughing so hard as just the idea 204 00:14:52,440 --> 00:14:56,720 that they just start kissing and nobody knows what to do, and then it's 205 00:14:56,759 --> 00:15:00,639 like would we all storm out and would be like that's the sky sting? 206 00:15:01,320 --> 00:15:03,960 And then this the girl Chris who I was talking to, was like, 207 00:15:05,519 --> 00:15:07,279 I know, or would we all be just too invested at this point, 208 00:15:07,360 --> 00:15:11,000 like the way we've already sat through for the vows, Like would we all 209 00:15:11,039 --> 00:15:16,200 just be like, I guess they're just really close, Like we were having 210 00:15:16,240 --> 00:15:18,919 so much fun with this train of thought. I love that. Yeah. 211 00:15:18,919 --> 00:15:22,240 And I was like, and then we'd probably knowing me, I'd be like, 212 00:15:22,320 --> 00:15:26,840 wow, I mean, you guys made out and then they try to 213 00:15:26,879 --> 00:15:30,080 gaslight us. What are you talking about? No, we didn't were talking 214 00:15:30,120 --> 00:15:33,759 about like we were just whispering. She whispered in my ear, and no, 215 00:15:33,960 --> 00:15:37,519 I saw I saw you guys. No we didn't. You're sick. 216 00:15:37,559 --> 00:15:41,440 You're a sick person. That's what you do at weddings, I was trying 217 00:15:41,480 --> 00:15:48,120 to entertain myself. I get it. It was bored. Yeah, yeah, 218 00:15:48,279 --> 00:15:50,600 okay, all right, so you go back to your you go back 219 00:15:50,639 --> 00:15:52,840 to your room. You could talk from the town. So I was, 220 00:15:52,960 --> 00:15:56,879 I went and had dinner. I just like sat somewhere and had dinner by 221 00:15:56,919 --> 00:16:02,360 myself, which is which was interesting in its own. So I'm sitting at 222 00:16:02,519 --> 00:16:07,320 I walk into this restaurant. It's like five o'clock and it's, you know, 223 00:16:07,519 --> 00:16:11,440 starting to get busy, and I don't have a reservation or anything, 224 00:16:11,960 --> 00:16:15,440 and so I was like, I'll just sit at the bar. So I 225 00:16:15,720 --> 00:16:17,639 and I was like, can I eat dinner at the bar? Sure? 226 00:16:18,000 --> 00:16:22,919 So this the bartender, the sean, he was like uh. He's like 227 00:16:22,159 --> 00:16:26,279 He's like, he gives me the menu and I'm looking at it and I'm 228 00:16:26,279 --> 00:16:30,120 thinking, I'm just gonna get like a salad and appetizer and he's like, 229 00:16:30,279 --> 00:16:33,840 girl, he goes, we have lamb chops that are not on the menu. 230 00:16:33,960 --> 00:16:36,440 And I was like, oh, I'm gonna I'm gonna get that because 231 00:16:36,840 --> 00:16:40,399 Wendy makes good lamb chops. And I was so I got that. But 232 00:16:40,440 --> 00:16:42,720 then so I'm sitting there and I'm listening to all these even though I'm listening 233 00:16:42,759 --> 00:16:47,759 to my podcast. I'm listening to all these people come in and they're talking 234 00:16:47,799 --> 00:16:51,480 about is their table ready? And they're being There's a Karen that's like I, 235 00:16:51,879 --> 00:16:53,919 I, you know, she's already ragging on her friend that hasn't shown 236 00:16:55,000 --> 00:16:57,360 up yet. But I told her that we're supposed to be here at five 237 00:16:57,519 --> 00:17:02,639 thirty, but the resuva is really at five, you know, like uh 238 00:17:03,519 --> 00:17:07,079 or the vice versa. She's like so that she's not light you know she's 239 00:17:07,119 --> 00:17:10,759 doing She's telling her she's already ratting her friend. Reverse psychology. Yeah, 240 00:17:11,839 --> 00:17:15,160 yeah, And I wanted to people do that to me too, don't rag 241 00:17:15,240 --> 00:17:19,319 on your friend. And then you know, and then there's the other couple. 242 00:17:19,400 --> 00:17:22,680 So then they leave and go sit their table. Then there's the other 243 00:17:22,680 --> 00:17:26,799 couple that comes up and and they're they're waiting for their table for dinner. 244 00:17:26,279 --> 00:17:30,920 They don't say two words to each other. They're sitting there ten minutes they 245 00:17:32,160 --> 00:17:34,799 I swear to God, not a peep. I didn't even really I didn't 246 00:17:36,160 --> 00:17:38,039 I know they were together, but I was just like I wanted to. 247 00:17:38,240 --> 00:17:42,079 I wanted to like be involved in everybody's conversations, like so what so how 248 00:17:42,200 --> 00:17:47,599 is your day? Like hello, Like they're not speaking to each other, 249 00:17:47,799 --> 00:17:49,559 and I'm thinking to myself, I'm like, all these scenarios. Are they 250 00:17:49,559 --> 00:17:55,000 gotten a huge fight, but they already had reservations, Maybe they're already meeting 251 00:17:55,079 --> 00:18:00,400 friends like blah blah blah whatever. Then and and then I'm saying and then 252 00:18:00,440 --> 00:18:04,319 I'm sitting there and uh, I get my lamb chops and then these three 253 00:18:04,400 --> 00:18:08,039 girls come up. There's only two seats. I'm at the end of the 254 00:18:08,039 --> 00:18:12,119 bar where the bar turns, and then there's two seats there right on the 255 00:18:12,119 --> 00:18:18,200 turn right. So there's three girls and they just PLoP down like like their 256 00:18:18,319 --> 00:18:23,680 purse, like right by my bread, like no no awareness of space, 257 00:18:25,440 --> 00:18:29,359 you know, and so I'm like shoving my Anyway, it was it was 258 00:18:29,519 --> 00:18:33,160 really interesting. So I'm sitting there while Natalian her friend are at the game, 259 00:18:33,839 --> 00:18:37,960 and and then I just go walk around and then I posted a picture 260 00:18:37,960 --> 00:18:41,279 on our Oh that was Friday night. When I first got there, I'm 261 00:18:41,359 --> 00:18:45,599 cowboy. I was like, you know, I walk in. The girl 262 00:18:45,640 --> 00:18:48,079 at the front desk couldn't have been nicer. Blanca. She's like, welcome, 263 00:18:48,240 --> 00:18:52,480 you know, welcome, blah blah blah, And I was starving, 264 00:18:52,000 --> 00:18:56,880 and I go to the to the to the hotel bar. At the hotel 265 00:18:56,960 --> 00:19:00,640 bar just to get like an an appetizer and go to bed and I walk 266 00:19:00,720 --> 00:19:04,000 and there's all these cowboys and I was like, you know, after I 267 00:19:04,039 --> 00:19:07,799 had a drink and my dinner and then I was on my way to go 268 00:19:07,839 --> 00:19:10,920 to bed, I was like, oh, I gotta take a picture for 269 00:19:10,960 --> 00:19:14,440 the frick grying out loud family to see, like I've met a real life 270 00:19:14,440 --> 00:19:19,039 cowboy crazy, like they really like walk around and in Texas, you walk 271 00:19:19,079 --> 00:19:23,480 out, they're walking out onto the street, walking with the beers in their 272 00:19:23,480 --> 00:19:27,119 hand like open. Oh yeah, I didn't know that they take their drinking 273 00:19:27,240 --> 00:19:32,559 real seriously and no shit man. Yeah. 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Wasn't that early. A flight was like ten thirty, 310 00:22:04,680 --> 00:22:07,640 but you know, getting getting to the airport and all that, and of 311 00:22:07,640 --> 00:22:11,680 course in Itali has got to check her. I gotta teach us girl how 312 00:22:11,680 --> 00:22:15,519 to travel. I mean, she's got like big thing of face wash. 313 00:22:15,519 --> 00:22:18,720 Oh no, I know, like, come on, so she has to 314 00:22:18,799 --> 00:22:21,319 check her luggage all the time. I'm like, I gotta, I gotta 315 00:22:21,359 --> 00:22:25,200 get her, like she's gonna be traveling back and forth. She's gonna need 316 00:22:25,200 --> 00:22:30,279 to anyway. So did she like the school. She loved it. She 317 00:22:30,680 --> 00:22:32,599 I mean, you know, I don't want her heart, you know, 318 00:22:32,640 --> 00:22:34,440 I don't want her to get her hopes up. And she knows that, 319 00:22:36,039 --> 00:22:41,039 but she might do the early decision to that to tcuh okay, you know, 320 00:22:41,200 --> 00:22:45,519 she's like she her heart was set on going to Florida to school, 321 00:22:45,640 --> 00:22:51,640 but I don't, you know, And I'm like, Florida, well it's 322 00:22:51,759 --> 00:22:56,319 far second of all. It's like Florida, you know. And uh, 323 00:22:56,400 --> 00:23:00,839 I know, like you know, Antie Wendy's out there and stuff, but 324 00:23:00,960 --> 00:23:03,759 whatever, like she's not there all the time, and Texas is so close. 325 00:23:04,240 --> 00:23:07,279 It was really like two and a half hour flight on the way out, 326 00:23:07,599 --> 00:23:11,119 three hour flight back. It was oh god, and the flight on 327 00:23:11,160 --> 00:23:15,839 the way back. Yes, The bottom line was she loved it. She 328 00:23:15,960 --> 00:23:18,000 really, she really likes it. And the fact that she's got a lot 329 00:23:18,039 --> 00:23:25,240 of friends, family like other like older siblings of kids that she knows they're 330 00:23:25,279 --> 00:23:29,759 there. So she really loved it. Yeah, I hope. I mean, 331 00:23:29,839 --> 00:23:33,480 well, we'll see what happens. We're gonna go. I'm taking Sonny 332 00:23:33,519 --> 00:23:38,079 to Colorado later this month. Okay, So now I gotta take Sonny out 333 00:23:41,079 --> 00:23:47,200 and to take him to Boulder. Yeah, and I think Colorado University as 334 00:23:47,240 --> 00:23:52,599 well. With he's got so he's got his friend who's going with his dad. 335 00:23:52,160 --> 00:23:56,279 So I'm gonna be like hanging out with a dad. So I'm I'd 336 00:23:56,319 --> 00:24:00,640 like to take Natalia with me so that I have her, you know, 337 00:24:00,720 --> 00:24:03,920 but like as a you know, traveling partner. But we'll see. So 338 00:24:04,039 --> 00:24:12,400 yeah, coming back from we were in the very last seat, I know, 339 00:24:12,559 --> 00:24:17,160 the very last, the second to last row on the airplane. Natalia 340 00:24:17,279 --> 00:24:22,960 was smashed in next to the window. And she's very claustrophobic. Like Sonny 341 00:24:22,039 --> 00:24:26,039 is the easiest guy to travel with. Easy is everything to be with Natalia, 342 00:24:26,119 --> 00:24:30,440 No, not so much. And if she's uncomfortable, she's gonna let 343 00:24:30,519 --> 00:24:33,960 me know, not anybody else but me, and everything's my problem. And 344 00:24:34,039 --> 00:24:40,400 her phone somehow malfunction was malfunctioning, and now we got to get it fixed, 345 00:24:40,880 --> 00:24:45,599 and now that's my problem. But like the only time her phone would 346 00:24:45,640 --> 00:24:48,519 work over the weekend is if it was fully charged, and even then it 347 00:24:48,519 --> 00:24:53,039 would shut off all of a sudden, then come back on and then and 348 00:24:53,039 --> 00:24:56,920 then it's probably full and then have like a forty percent charge. I don't 349 00:24:56,920 --> 00:25:00,279 know what the hell is going on with it, but it's fucked up. 350 00:25:00,559 --> 00:25:03,880 And that's not the time for her phone to malfunction while we're traveling, yeah, 351 00:25:03,960 --> 00:25:07,039 exactly. Then she's texting me from the game from her friend's phone. 352 00:25:07,119 --> 00:25:10,880 This is my friend's phone. Oh my god. Well I have anxiety just 353 00:25:10,920 --> 00:25:12,640 hearing about that. Yeah, because now I don't know where she is. 354 00:25:14,160 --> 00:25:17,160 At first it said that her phone shut off and she was at the dorm, 355 00:25:17,200 --> 00:25:18,599 but I know she's not there. She's at the game, like it 356 00:25:18,680 --> 00:25:22,200 was just okay, So anyway, so we're at the airport. She can't 357 00:25:22,200 --> 00:25:26,559 wait to get on the plane, settle in so that she can, right, 358 00:25:26,640 --> 00:25:30,240 So we get we're the last to get on. We're a group A 359 00:25:30,519 --> 00:25:34,880 eight. Okay, I don't even know they went up that high. Yeah, 360 00:25:34,920 --> 00:25:38,440 eight. We were a group F. So that's like six group, 361 00:25:38,559 --> 00:25:44,279 the sixth group, sixth group yeah, you were Southwest Alaska, Alaska. 362 00:25:44,480 --> 00:25:48,640 Yeah, we were American. So we get on and like on the flight 363 00:25:48,720 --> 00:25:52,720 out, I had a very nice, relaxing flight that was half full. 364 00:25:52,960 --> 00:25:56,640 Did you fly out of Burbank Burbank, Yes, we flew out of Burbank 365 00:25:56,680 --> 00:25:59,880 as well. Were you at Burbank yesterday? Yeah, but we we flew 366 00:26:00,119 --> 00:26:03,480 back in late at night, not late at night, but yeah we are 367 00:26:03,480 --> 00:26:07,559 are yeah, like eight o'clock at night our yeah, okay, yeah, 368 00:26:07,599 --> 00:26:12,400 so we we got in like at noon yesterday. But so we're on the 369 00:26:12,680 --> 00:26:18,079 okay, so we're in the last row. We sit down and it's a 370 00:26:18,559 --> 00:26:22,160 packed flight, packed, and she's at the window. I'm in the middle. 371 00:26:22,240 --> 00:26:26,160 Of course, there's a guy watching Breaking bad next to me, nice 372 00:26:26,279 --> 00:26:30,759 enough guy, quiet, and she's like. The first thing she does, 373 00:26:32,000 --> 00:26:36,119 pulls the thing the charger out to plug it in. It's not working. 374 00:26:36,920 --> 00:26:40,920 The outlet's not working. Okay, so that's on the seat outlet. Then 375 00:26:40,960 --> 00:26:44,480 there's another outlet at the bottom where you can put with the prongs you plug 376 00:26:44,480 --> 00:26:48,440 it in. Doesn't work, And I'm looking around at the other aisles. 377 00:26:48,480 --> 00:26:53,559 Everybody's outlets are lit blue except for our row. Our three are dead as 378 00:26:53,599 --> 00:26:59,200 a doornail. Oh no, and no phone on the flight on a three 379 00:26:59,319 --> 00:27:03,519 hour flight with a kid, like a teenager. And also I was like, 380 00:27:03,599 --> 00:27:04,880 you have your earbuds right, so you can because I was like, 381 00:27:04,920 --> 00:27:07,759 the bitch better might be trying to take my earbuds. She's like, and 382 00:27:07,799 --> 00:27:11,640 I go out, your earbuds charge. That's one of the reasons why I 383 00:27:11,720 --> 00:27:17,079 didn't answer you because the night before she left out, she thought she left 384 00:27:17,079 --> 00:27:19,160 her charger, but she had it. But she's using my charger to plug 385 00:27:19,160 --> 00:27:23,839 her phone all night. So I had my phone on off pretty much for 386 00:27:23,880 --> 00:27:26,799 a lot, you know, most of the night, so she was charging. 387 00:27:26,799 --> 00:27:29,920 So I saw your thing like in the middle of the night in the 388 00:27:30,000 --> 00:27:36,359 dark. So anyway, so she plugs it in. It's not working and 389 00:27:36,559 --> 00:27:40,200 there's everything's dead, and she's like, come on. And then we're on 390 00:27:40,279 --> 00:27:45,720 the runway and we're sitting there for like almost an hour before we take off 391 00:27:45,200 --> 00:27:48,079 because we're in line. We're in line, right, And then the worst 392 00:27:48,119 --> 00:27:52,920 thing is the pilot doesn't really say anything either. He doesn't give an update, 393 00:27:52,000 --> 00:27:56,200 you know. I I like, the pilotic is an update, you 394 00:27:56,240 --> 00:27:59,559 know, We're just sitting there and he's like I'm like just And finally the 395 00:27:59,640 --> 00:28:02,680 steward this was like, you know, now where we're in line, you 396 00:28:02,720 --> 00:28:06,880 know, I can't see anything because Natalia closes the shade because the sun is 397 00:28:06,960 --> 00:28:11,559 beaming on her. She's a very she runs hot, so in the hotel 398 00:28:11,880 --> 00:28:15,680 she has to put the air on blast and I'm freezing and she's like, 399 00:28:15,720 --> 00:28:18,119 I love I love the cold. I love She's like her dad, I 400 00:28:18,160 --> 00:28:19,759 love sleeping in the cold. I love the cold. So now we're on 401 00:28:19,759 --> 00:28:26,440 the airplane. The air she's constantly like fussing with the air vents above us. 402 00:28:26,640 --> 00:28:30,400 She's opening, she called she's open, and she's push but but like 403 00:28:30,599 --> 00:28:32,640 you know, and I'm like, Natalia, and you can do that all 404 00:28:32,720 --> 00:28:36,119 day long. It's not gonna get any colder. And on top of it, 405 00:28:36,200 --> 00:28:40,880 she's wearing sweatpants and a and a hoodie and a tank top of course, 406 00:28:40,960 --> 00:28:42,680 so she's like, course yeah, And she's like aren't you hot? 407 00:28:42,759 --> 00:28:47,680 And I was like no, And she's like she's like, why aren't we 408 00:28:47,720 --> 00:28:49,440 taking off? What's going on? What am I gonna do this whole I'm 409 00:28:49,440 --> 00:28:52,720 I'm thinking too, what are we gonna do on this whole trip? With 410 00:28:52,799 --> 00:28:56,559 no freaking phone? Nothing to look at but the back of a seat. 411 00:28:56,839 --> 00:29:03,319 Well, could she use her air bud air pods to and watch something on 412 00:29:03,359 --> 00:29:08,759 your phone with you? I no, I mean she could have, but 413 00:29:08,799 --> 00:29:15,000 we my earbuds were barely working. I had them charged, but one earbud 414 00:29:15,000 --> 00:29:18,680 goes out all the time. I don't know what's with earbuds. Everybody seems 415 00:29:18,680 --> 00:29:22,759 to have this problem. I don't know if it's because of the iOS update 416 00:29:22,880 --> 00:29:27,759 or something, but my earbuds kept anyways, So I was like, Okay, 417 00:29:27,880 --> 00:29:30,440 I didn't know. I thought I knew it was a packed flight, 418 00:29:30,480 --> 00:29:33,279 but there's gotta be other seats and I want her. I want her out 419 00:29:33,279 --> 00:29:37,279 of this seat, like she's driving me nuts. So after we get up 420 00:29:37,319 --> 00:29:41,880 in the air, Oh, and the people behind us is a mom had 421 00:29:41,519 --> 00:29:45,319 with like two toddlers and the seat next to her and they're just like kicking 422 00:29:45,359 --> 00:29:49,079 Italia's seat kicking, which in Italia that part didn't bother her, but for 423 00:29:49,200 --> 00:29:55,240 me I was I was like, I'm having heart palpitations because she's so like, 424 00:29:55,920 --> 00:29:57,720 it's hot, Why are we taking up? What am I doing my 425 00:29:57,759 --> 00:30:00,680 phone? I'm thinking, Oh I wanted to do was watch Love Is Blind 426 00:30:00,720 --> 00:30:06,480 on this fucking flight. So yeah, I'm like three episodes, boom, 427 00:30:06,480 --> 00:30:08,880 we'll be home, like it's all I wanted to do. And she's like, 428 00:30:08,960 --> 00:30:12,200 got nothing, there's no, there's no what happened? Did she ever 429 00:30:12,359 --> 00:30:15,680 get? So I get up. So we get up in the air and 430 00:30:15,720 --> 00:30:18,039 I say like, can we get a seat? Is there a seat available 431 00:30:18,160 --> 00:30:23,880 for her? There's one empty seat and it's row twenty three, and so 432 00:30:25,000 --> 00:30:27,720 she goes to look at it and she comes right back. And later on 433 00:30:27,759 --> 00:30:32,720 when I saw it, it was like two huge guys, one's on the 434 00:30:32,559 --> 00:30:34,799 on each end. She would be in the middle of two. So she's 435 00:30:34,839 --> 00:30:37,480 like no. Then we get back. She gets back to the seat. 436 00:30:37,559 --> 00:30:41,519 The mom behind us, being a mom, thank God, comes to the 437 00:30:41,519 --> 00:30:45,720 rescue and she was like, you can use you can just give me your 438 00:30:45,119 --> 00:30:48,559 charger and just I'll plug it into the back of my seat. Oh done, 439 00:30:48,920 --> 00:30:52,400 Like thank you, thank you, Oh my God, like I can 440 00:30:52,440 --> 00:30:56,319 breathe. Yes, thanks to moms, thanks us, moms, our problem 441 00:30:56,400 --> 00:31:00,000 solvers. Right, So yeah, because I was like, what do we 442 00:31:00,000 --> 00:31:03,759 get? So she plugged in her phone, thank god. And then and 443 00:31:03,759 --> 00:31:10,160 then as soon as we take off, it's freezing on the flying So yeah, 444 00:31:10,200 --> 00:31:14,440 but all in all, It was a great trip and I'm I'm looking 445 00:31:14,480 --> 00:31:18,079 forward to going with Sonny. That's all I have to say. That's fun. 446 00:31:18,240 --> 00:31:22,960 I am like an anxious traveler. Yeah, but it was kind of 447 00:31:22,039 --> 00:31:30,119 nice because I was with John and we left on Friday morning, so it's 448 00:31:30,160 --> 00:31:33,240 just you and John. Yeah, who was with the kids? Just them? 449 00:31:33,519 --> 00:31:37,720 So Elby called off of work for Saturday, so she was home all 450 00:31:37,920 --> 00:31:42,400 So here's what happened. What happened. We drove the kids to school on 451 00:31:42,480 --> 00:31:48,680 Friday, got people, walked, got our stuff, LB drove us to 452 00:31:48,720 --> 00:31:55,279 the airport Burbank. Then we left. Then Elbi was Lby picked up the 453 00:31:55,359 --> 00:31:59,640 kids from school, brought him home and then she went to work until ten 454 00:31:59,720 --> 00:32:05,200 third and they like door dashed themselves dinner. And Xander's been so good. 455 00:32:06,039 --> 00:32:10,400 He's he is so responsible. He was like the mom the family. He 456 00:32:10,559 --> 00:32:15,240 stepped up. He walked. He did like almost all the dog walks, 457 00:32:15,799 --> 00:32:20,400 so he walked people at night, and then the whole next day Elbie was 458 00:32:20,440 --> 00:32:23,640 home with them. They didn't really do that much, but they you know 459 00:32:23,759 --> 00:32:31,039 whatever, they ate food and and then Sunday Xander walked people in the morning 460 00:32:31,200 --> 00:32:36,039 and then Elbie had a double shift at work, so she basically left them 461 00:32:36,039 --> 00:32:38,920 home all day and neither of them could find anybody to like come over and 462 00:32:38,960 --> 00:32:43,400 hang out with them. Sadie was trying so hard to like find a friend 463 00:32:43,400 --> 00:32:49,319 to come over. Apparently nobody was willing or could or available to socialize with 464 00:32:49,400 --> 00:32:52,119 them, so they were just home the whole weekend. But they're pretty good 465 00:32:52,200 --> 00:32:58,599 kids, get this. Xander cleaned the house. Wow, he walked the 466 00:32:58,640 --> 00:33:01,079 dog, he fed the dog, and he cleaned the house. He cleaned 467 00:33:01,119 --> 00:33:05,519 the kitchen floor, he cleaned the kitchen, he cleaned the living room. 468 00:33:05,519 --> 00:33:07,759 We came home to like a clean house. Oh my god. We were 469 00:33:07,759 --> 00:33:10,319 making so many jokes with them about like, oh, did you guys have 470 00:33:10,359 --> 00:33:15,000 a party. But here's the funny thing about Elbie is that like John and 471 00:33:15,000 --> 00:33:20,559 I were laughing on the way out because we were such worse kids than like 472 00:33:20,680 --> 00:33:23,920 our kids, which is just it's just weird how that happened, because I 473 00:33:23,960 --> 00:33:28,519 didn't give a fuck, Like my parents left me alone for the weekend and 474 00:33:28,559 --> 00:33:31,759 I immediately tried to get into my house. I told my parents, said, 475 00:33:31,799 --> 00:33:36,359 you have to find somewhere to listen. We're both wrong in this scenario. 476 00:33:37,960 --> 00:33:39,640 My parents wouldn't leave me in the house because they didn't trust me, 477 00:33:39,839 --> 00:33:43,960 and I guess with good reason, because I had I had told friends, 478 00:33:44,079 --> 00:33:45,559 like, hey, my parents are going to be out of town. But 479 00:33:45,599 --> 00:33:49,599 they had told me, you have to find somewhere to stay. But I 480 00:33:49,640 --> 00:33:54,240 was like, they have no business farming me out to some unsuspecting you know, 481 00:33:54,400 --> 00:33:58,599 friend's mom's house for the weekend. Like you can't do that. So 482 00:33:58,640 --> 00:34:01,079 in my mind, I'm like, okay, sure, cool. And then 483 00:34:01,079 --> 00:34:05,759 I was like, and then I'll just go in my house and sleep in 484 00:34:05,799 --> 00:34:08,239 my bed, like over the weekend. I'm not going to do anything really 485 00:34:08,280 --> 00:34:10,719 wrong, except the only thing I was going to do is just have like 486 00:34:10,760 --> 00:34:15,960 a couple of friends come over with alcohol. You know, That's all that 487 00:34:16,119 --> 00:34:19,880 was the plan. I know, I've told you this story before. So 488 00:34:20,000 --> 00:34:22,679 I show up with my friends and they had locked they locked the door, 489 00:34:22,679 --> 00:34:27,440 they double locked the door. So it's a key I don't have. They've 490 00:34:27,440 --> 00:34:30,079 locked the back door. I can't I can't get in the house. So 491 00:34:30,679 --> 00:34:36,320 but now it's me, Plus I've got some friends and nowhere to stay, 492 00:34:36,760 --> 00:34:40,360 by the way, so I decided that I'm going to climb in a bathroom 493 00:34:40,400 --> 00:34:45,639 window. This was before people didn't have alarms. We live in a palace. 494 00:34:45,760 --> 00:34:49,480 Yeah, yeah, there's no ring. Yeah, so you know, 495 00:34:49,639 --> 00:34:54,159 all's good. I have to climb up though, to the second story to 496 00:34:54,159 --> 00:34:59,559 get into the bathroom window because the that's the only one that I knew was 497 00:34:59,639 --> 00:35:04,840 unlocked. I get up there, get the window open. One of my 498 00:35:04,920 --> 00:35:10,079 freaking nay nay nosy neighbors comes around. Oh, I get in the house. 499 00:35:12,119 --> 00:35:15,079 I opened the front door. Let my friends in neighbor comes over to 500 00:35:15,119 --> 00:35:22,199 the house. Stephanie, you're not supposed to be here, and I was 501 00:35:22,239 --> 00:35:24,920 like, what what are you talking about? This is my house here, 502 00:35:25,159 --> 00:35:29,000 I live here. And they're like, yeah, well your parents gave us 503 00:35:29,119 --> 00:35:34,320 explicit instructions to make sure that you're not here, which again we're both wrong. 504 00:35:34,960 --> 00:35:37,039 Hey, they did say you're not allowed in the house and be because 505 00:35:37,039 --> 00:35:40,760 they didn't trust me, and b I wasn't that trustworthy. So I was 506 00:35:40,840 --> 00:35:44,920 in the house. So then I have to leave. I don't even remember. 507 00:35:45,119 --> 00:35:50,000 Oh I think that was. That was the weekend where I went to 508 00:35:51,079 --> 00:35:53,679 DC. I went. I ran away from home. Basically I was like 509 00:35:53,719 --> 00:35:57,800 fuck them. I was really upset. Yeah, and then I went to 510 00:35:57,840 --> 00:36:00,599 go visit my friend. I called my friend Cathy, and she was like, 511 00:36:01,079 --> 00:36:05,079 come to DC, and I was like, okay, and I'm gonna 512 00:36:05,079 --> 00:36:08,000 go to DC and I'm never coming home. Fuck my parents, they're horrible 513 00:36:08,039 --> 00:36:15,360 people. So I fly nosy Nancy neighbor, I take a train to DC 514 00:36:15,679 --> 00:36:19,639 and then I told you this, And then I got a job, Like 515 00:36:19,719 --> 00:36:22,400 I literally got a waitressing job because I was like, I had spent all 516 00:36:22,440 --> 00:36:25,559 my money on the train to go there, so now I'm like, well, 517 00:36:25,719 --> 00:36:30,079 I'm not money to get home. Man, got myself a job. 518 00:36:30,119 --> 00:36:31,760 I was like sixteen, Yeah, but you have to be twenty one to 519 00:36:31,800 --> 00:36:37,480 work at this place because and they served alcohol. But to start training, 520 00:36:37,639 --> 00:36:39,519 they didn't ask for I D or anything. They're just like, okay, 521 00:36:39,559 --> 00:36:45,519 you know, so I shadow for the first couple of days. The day 522 00:36:45,559 --> 00:36:50,800 that I'm supposed to work my first real shift, I work my shift. 523 00:36:50,880 --> 00:36:55,119 I make a little money enough to like get my train ticket home. But 524 00:36:55,320 --> 00:36:58,079 at the end of my shift, they're like, okay, now we have 525 00:36:58,119 --> 00:37:00,960 to officially do your paperwork, so you have to show ID showing that you're 526 00:37:00,039 --> 00:37:06,119 twenty one. And I was like, oh yeah about that. I lost 527 00:37:06,119 --> 00:37:09,599 my driver's license and they're like mmmm, And I was like, but I 528 00:37:09,639 --> 00:37:13,360 am. I assure you that I'm twenty one, and they're like, no, 529 00:37:13,440 --> 00:37:16,239 but we have we have to do official paperwork. So in order to 530 00:37:16,239 --> 00:37:20,440 put you on the payroll so you can get paid, right, we have 531 00:37:20,480 --> 00:37:22,119 to have your idea. And I was like I didn't think about that. 532 00:37:22,639 --> 00:37:27,000 Yeah, so I was like, okay, never mind. So I and 533 00:37:27,079 --> 00:37:29,920 at that point I was like, what am I going to do live here 534 00:37:30,000 --> 00:37:34,599 with no money? And also I think I told you this. My friend 535 00:37:34,679 --> 00:37:37,039 Kathy was one of these things where she was two years older than me, 536 00:37:37,079 --> 00:37:42,159 I believe, or maybe a year older than me, but also one of 537 00:37:42,199 --> 00:37:46,079 these super smart kids who had graduated early. So I was probably a junior 538 00:37:46,119 --> 00:37:50,239 in high school at this time. Yeah, yeah, I was, and 539 00:37:50,360 --> 00:37:52,760 she was like first year. She was going to like George Washington, I 540 00:37:52,760 --> 00:37:55,800 don't know, some good school at Georgetown, some good school out there, 541 00:37:57,360 --> 00:38:05,320 and had overnight become very ry, like want to be sophisticated. Like suddenly 542 00:38:05,400 --> 00:38:09,480 she had all these friends that were like black turtlenecks and they drank. Somebody 543 00:38:09,480 --> 00:38:13,920 had an espresso machine back in the day, and I was like, who 544 00:38:13,960 --> 00:38:15,559 are you? Who are you people? Like, I didn't give a fun 545 00:38:15,639 --> 00:38:19,400 I was just like I want to get drunk, right, I want to 546 00:38:19,440 --> 00:38:22,920 listen to music, like they were like, let's listen to classical music. 547 00:38:22,960 --> 00:38:27,679 I was like these people, and she was insufferable in my mind. In 548 00:38:27,719 --> 00:38:30,639 my mind, I was like, oh my god, these posers that are 549 00:38:30,679 --> 00:38:35,960 like getting together to discuss authors, who are you? Beat Nicks? Did 550 00:38:35,960 --> 00:38:38,719 I ever tell you the story about I had gone to visit this same girl, 551 00:38:38,920 --> 00:38:44,440 Kathy in New York. She was so I had this friend who was 552 00:38:45,079 --> 00:38:49,519 very rich, and we used to I know, I've told this story that 553 00:38:49,519 --> 00:38:52,960 we used to go play Donkey Kong for like, we would skip school, 554 00:38:52,079 --> 00:38:55,719 go to lunch at this country club and charge it to her dad's charge card. 555 00:38:55,840 --> 00:38:59,960 It was the best times. And we thought we were We would order 556 00:39:00,159 --> 00:39:04,480 like three tabs, you know, diet diet, sat us in a row. 557 00:39:04,599 --> 00:39:07,320 But like we thought we were just like so extravagant. But I went 558 00:39:07,360 --> 00:39:12,039 to go visit her in New York one time and she we go to go 559 00:39:12,119 --> 00:39:17,559 out, and she's wearing this hat with like a giant feather, like a 560 00:39:17,719 --> 00:39:22,119 really long feather. Now you gotta understand I'm younger than she is, and 561 00:39:22,199 --> 00:39:27,800 just I'm a teenager. And it was very cringey. Was this when like 562 00:39:28,000 --> 00:39:31,000 roach clips were in, like those feathery No, this was like when you 563 00:39:31,039 --> 00:39:34,880 put in your hair. No, this was like she thought she was going 564 00:39:34,920 --> 00:39:38,440 to like the Kentucky Derby. It was eight ats like that to begin with, 565 00:39:38,679 --> 00:39:44,320 so embarrassing and also just in my mind, it was like a big 566 00:39:44,480 --> 00:39:50,320 neon sign the attracting attention to both of us, very unwanted attention. So 567 00:39:50,400 --> 00:39:52,440 I was like, oh my god, my skin was I was like what 568 00:39:53,119 --> 00:39:55,760 I tried to say, like you really want to wear that hat, Like 569 00:39:55,800 --> 00:39:59,960 that's a really long feather, you know, And she's like, I love 570 00:40:00,159 --> 00:40:02,159 this hat. I mean it was a really long feather like it was, 571 00:40:02,679 --> 00:40:06,360 you know, people were having to like duck and you know, bob and 572 00:40:06,480 --> 00:40:08,719 weave to get you know, hitting people in the eye. Were on an 573 00:40:08,719 --> 00:40:13,960 elevator, and it's like just us, nobody that that many people could fit 574 00:40:14,000 --> 00:40:16,119 because of this fucking feather hat. At least that's in my mind. That's 575 00:40:16,119 --> 00:40:21,280 how I remember it. And I remember thinking like, yeah, our friendship 576 00:40:21,360 --> 00:40:27,000 is sort of winding down right then, but then I have nowhere to go 577 00:40:27,199 --> 00:40:30,840 that weekend. This was past the New York thing, so I'm already like 578 00:40:30,920 --> 00:40:35,280 wary of her, and now she's like with the espresso and the you know, 579 00:40:36,280 --> 00:40:38,159 turtlenecks, and I'm like, oh god, I've got to get out 580 00:40:38,159 --> 00:40:42,960 of here. Even my home life is better than this. So I took 581 00:40:43,000 --> 00:40:46,199 my money and I bought and I think, I know I've told you this 582 00:40:46,239 --> 00:40:50,280 story before, and I'm gonna stop saying that. But I get back and 583 00:40:50,360 --> 00:40:52,800 my mom had been back from out of town, had not noticed that. 584 00:40:52,840 --> 00:40:58,519 I was gone, Wow, that's a story. I wrote that story that 585 00:40:58,920 --> 00:41:00,360 dulous. I mean, I changed a lot of the details, but I 586 00:41:00,400 --> 00:41:05,119 wrote that story in one of my books because it was so weird to just 587 00:41:05,199 --> 00:41:08,039 come home and have them be like I think my mom was disappointed. I 588 00:41:08,039 --> 00:41:13,159 think my mom wished that I had horrible left home for good. That's terrible. 589 00:41:13,400 --> 00:41:15,920 So there was no like, oh you didn't have anywhere to go, 590 00:41:16,159 --> 00:41:19,440 you poor thing. No, she was just like, oh, it's you. 591 00:41:20,599 --> 00:41:23,960 That's awful. Let's take a quick break. Yeah, okay, we're 592 00:41:24,000 --> 00:41:31,360 back. But I was gonna say so the weekend, my weekend, it 593 00:41:31,440 --> 00:41:36,559 was really nice, except, and I know you're gonna know what I'm talking 594 00:41:36,599 --> 00:41:43,039 about, all the small talk because I'm at a wedding. The only people 595 00:41:43,079 --> 00:41:46,880 I know. So I know it's John's one of his best friends from college, 596 00:41:47,760 --> 00:41:52,360 and then one other best friend from college. But I've never lived in 597 00:41:52,400 --> 00:41:54,239 the same town with these guys, so I don't I don't know them that 598 00:41:54,320 --> 00:41:58,480 well. Still small talk, you know, when you're together, so you 599 00:41:58,480 --> 00:42:00,079 don't really know it and do you know, And a lot of a lot 600 00:42:00,119 --> 00:42:04,559 of people are just no, no people, nobody, nobody. I don't 601 00:42:04,639 --> 00:42:07,519 know. The girl who's getting married, I don't know her, never met 602 00:42:07,559 --> 00:42:12,239 her fiance. Don't really care to be honest, Like, I mean, 603 00:42:12,400 --> 00:42:15,960 she seems super sweet, but like I'm friends with the parents, so it's 604 00:42:16,000 --> 00:42:19,960 like we're there to support and you know, we sent a nice gift and 605 00:42:20,000 --> 00:42:22,559 all that, and you know, but I'm kind of there for the fun 606 00:42:22,639 --> 00:42:28,920 like weekend away, right of course. So we get in on Friday in 607 00:42:28,960 --> 00:42:34,320 like the late afternoon. Now we have to drive from Seattle Airport to Bellingham, 608 00:42:34,400 --> 00:42:37,599 Washington, which was two and a half hours wow, because it's rush 609 00:42:37,599 --> 00:42:42,480 hour traffic. It's like a Friday afternoon, and you know, I'm like 610 00:42:42,519 --> 00:42:46,360 a nervous passenger in a car, so like I'm hitting the emergency break, 611 00:42:46,599 --> 00:42:52,639 you know, yeah, the imaginary break on the passenger side, and I'm 612 00:42:52,679 --> 00:42:55,920 there's a lot of like, John, could you slow down, like just 613 00:42:57,000 --> 00:43:00,599 a little bit, Like I'm not trying to make you nervous any That's the 614 00:43:00,719 --> 00:43:02,639 one place in life that you and I would just kill each other. I 615 00:43:02,679 --> 00:43:07,880 know, I know, I'm just like I was, but a blind I'm 616 00:43:07,920 --> 00:43:09,440 trying. At one point, I'm just looking down at my phone and playing 617 00:43:09,440 --> 00:43:13,760 threes and like letting him do his thing. It wasn't I'm making myself sound 618 00:43:13,840 --> 00:43:16,039 worse than I was. I was, I was okay, I just but 619 00:43:16,119 --> 00:43:21,239 it was like after a day of traveling and now we're on unfamiliar road and 620 00:43:21,280 --> 00:43:23,320 it's super packed and we neither of us know where we are. We're just 621 00:43:23,320 --> 00:43:30,039 trying to follow navigation but a New York. Is it getting dark or at 622 00:43:30,079 --> 00:43:31,119 least it was daylight? No? Yeah, I was, I think it 623 00:43:31,159 --> 00:43:36,320 was still light out. Yeah. Anyway, we get to the inn. 624 00:43:36,360 --> 00:43:42,000 We're staying at an inn, uh huh. But John didn't think okay, 625 00:43:42,039 --> 00:43:45,599 So I'm like, I'm all about the chargers and the squares, right, 626 00:43:45,719 --> 00:43:49,880 and John is like, we're not gonna need squares because like it's a hotel, 627 00:43:49,960 --> 00:43:52,719 like they're gonna have they You don't need that. And I was like, 628 00:43:52,039 --> 00:43:54,880 okay, well I'm gonna bring one. I'm gonna bring mine, like 629 00:43:55,039 --> 00:43:58,519 you know, there's no reason not. It's not like it needs its own 630 00:43:58,519 --> 00:44:00,840 suitcase. It's changing. I'm like, just bring one just in case. 631 00:44:00,880 --> 00:44:02,920 He's like no, no, no, no, we're not going to need 632 00:44:02,960 --> 00:44:06,760 that. Well, we get there and it's like an kind of an old 633 00:44:06,840 --> 00:44:10,039 fashioned it's an inn. It's not a hotel. It's not a motel. 634 00:44:10,079 --> 00:44:15,800 It's an inn. It's very quaint. There's no squares, there's no places 635 00:44:15,800 --> 00:44:19,519 to plug your phone in. And of course John's phone dies easily. What's 636 00:44:19,519 --> 00:44:22,960 a square you know, the like hold that you've got one right next to 637 00:44:22,960 --> 00:44:28,239 you, kaylin Oh the cubes? Yeah, a cube that it's got like 638 00:44:29,280 --> 00:44:31,079 yeah, that plug it into an outlet, and that's got a USB. 639 00:44:31,199 --> 00:44:34,599 I mean I had a feeling it was a battery of some sort, but 640 00:44:34,639 --> 00:44:37,639 I didn't. Okay, yeah, so you need that unless there's an Unless 641 00:44:37,639 --> 00:44:44,280 there's a straight up USB. That's sometimes hotels have them. You need your 642 00:44:44,280 --> 00:44:45,519 own. You need to be able to plug it into an outlet, plug 643 00:44:45,519 --> 00:44:49,159 your phone in. Yeah. Well John didn't bring one, so it's just 644 00:44:49,199 --> 00:44:55,679 me. So oh so overnight, so it would became like a charging thing. 645 00:44:55,960 --> 00:44:59,599 Yeah, became a whole thing of like, who's going to use the 646 00:44:59,679 --> 00:45:02,400 charge when we're back in the room to charge our phones up. But anyway, 647 00:45:02,480 --> 00:45:07,480 I'm telling you, you gotta get that portable battery constant. But that's 648 00:45:07,480 --> 00:45:12,159 because my phone is really old and it'll die in no time. Yeah, 649 00:45:12,159 --> 00:45:14,800 it pretty much never leaves my side. Now I'm gonna give it. I'm 650 00:45:14,800 --> 00:45:20,920 gonna get one for her. Just order online. Yes, yeah, worth 651 00:45:20,960 --> 00:45:25,559 everybody. But the so Friday night we go to the there's like a gathering 652 00:45:25,679 --> 00:45:30,000 for the it's not a rehearsal dinner, but it's like for out of town 653 00:45:30,079 --> 00:45:32,960 guests. They're doing like a little thing at this little like place. Now, 654 00:45:35,320 --> 00:45:38,920 I am an extrovert. I am I will talk. I can talk 655 00:45:38,960 --> 00:45:44,880 to anybody. Obviously, I'm built for podcasting. I can. I have 656 00:45:45,079 --> 00:45:49,559 and it's not hard for me. But you reach a point where you're like, 657 00:45:50,079 --> 00:45:53,280 I don't know anything, I don't care about them or their lives. 658 00:45:53,320 --> 00:45:57,920 I'm never going to see them again because it's not like we had that much 659 00:45:57,960 --> 00:46:00,920 time to talk to Like John's friend from college, it's his daughter's getting he's 660 00:46:01,039 --> 00:46:05,559 entertaining like, of course he's stopping by. He's so happy we're there. 661 00:46:05,599 --> 00:46:10,039 He's he's like the nicest guy. And his wife, the MoMA, is 662 00:46:10,760 --> 00:46:15,199 so nice, she's fun, she's cool. But we can't monopolize their time. 663 00:46:15,360 --> 00:46:17,840 We can't be like, hey, we're we don't know anyone else that 664 00:46:17,960 --> 00:46:21,840 you guys, don't you hate that? Like you want to hit your wagon 665 00:46:21,920 --> 00:46:24,119 to somebody, but they're busy or they're the one. Like when I went 666 00:46:24,159 --> 00:46:28,119 to Suzanne's sister's wedding, all I wanted to do is talk to Suzanne, 667 00:46:28,440 --> 00:46:32,400 but she's busy, right yeah, right yeah. Also, it's a weird 668 00:46:32,519 --> 00:46:38,719 thing when you're like in a place like Bellingham, Washington and John's friend, 669 00:46:40,079 --> 00:46:44,719 bless his heart, he is really the nicest guy, but he's and he's 670 00:46:44,760 --> 00:46:47,440 so sweet that he's like bragging on me to other people. But he's like, 671 00:46:47,480 --> 00:46:51,239 oh yeah, Stephanie. She's like a big Hollywood writer. And it's 672 00:46:51,280 --> 00:46:54,480 like I didn't like write Star Wars, like what like you know what I 673 00:46:54,519 --> 00:46:58,639 mean? Yeah, a big Hollywood writer. No, I've written on some 674 00:46:58,639 --> 00:47:01,360 shitty game shows and like I'm not going to be like, well not really, 675 00:47:01,400 --> 00:47:06,239 but I do have a book coming out and I'm like, how do 676 00:47:06,280 --> 00:47:07,760 you really respond to that? Because then you know, you got people and 677 00:47:07,760 --> 00:47:12,639 they're like, oh really, and I want to go No, not really, 678 00:47:12,920 --> 00:47:15,440 not really at all, Like I worked on whose line is it anyway 679 00:47:15,559 --> 00:47:20,360 in the nineties? Ever heard of that? Like there's no you know what 680 00:47:20,440 --> 00:47:23,119 I mean, so that it creates this weird like and I know he's just 681 00:47:23,199 --> 00:47:29,280 like proud of me because you know, but it's like yeah, they're like 682 00:47:29,440 --> 00:47:32,719 okay, so and I'm like, what about you? What do you do? 683 00:47:32,760 --> 00:47:36,280 You know what I mean? And I would be like you and I 684 00:47:36,280 --> 00:47:38,960 would be great married together too, Like we would be good, a good 685 00:47:39,000 --> 00:47:44,679 team because I don't want to talk to anybody, like shove you out there 686 00:47:44,719 --> 00:47:50,559 to go go talk, go socialize. But I was like asking these people 687 00:47:50,599 --> 00:47:53,119 all these questions. But in my mind, I'm like, I'm never going 688 00:47:53,159 --> 00:47:57,320 to see them again. Even when we go to the wedding tomorrow. I'm 689 00:47:57,360 --> 00:48:00,159 sure we're not going to be We're not seated at a table with them. 690 00:48:00,199 --> 00:48:01,880 Who cares. I'm never seeing them again. But I have to be like, 691 00:48:02,599 --> 00:48:07,280 what really you did? Used to do? What for alypic? That's 692 00:48:07,599 --> 00:48:13,159 that's a like I'm I'm I hate the small talk I hate. I'm like 693 00:48:13,239 --> 00:48:15,639 you, Lynette, I am very much an introvert, and I won't even 694 00:48:15,679 --> 00:48:19,480 talk to like really people that I'm supposed to. There's this big, like 695 00:48:19,559 --> 00:48:22,440 kind of running joke in my family now that I don't know any of the 696 00:48:22,519 --> 00:48:25,880 parents at my daughter school, I don't talk to any of them. It's 697 00:48:25,880 --> 00:48:30,360 always like, oh, did you do you know this person's dad or mom? 698 00:48:30,360 --> 00:48:31,719 I gonna, now, well, didn't you see him when you were 699 00:48:31,760 --> 00:48:34,159 at the thing? I was like, well, he was there. I 700 00:48:34,199 --> 00:48:37,480 didn't say anything to him. Well, that's how John is because John's an 701 00:48:37,480 --> 00:48:39,800 introvert too with social anxiety. So I'm the same way. I'm like, 702 00:48:39,880 --> 00:48:44,760 did you talk to so and so's mom because she's the room mom or whatever? 703 00:48:44,760 --> 00:48:47,239 And He's like who? And I'm like, okay, you gotta look 704 00:48:47,280 --> 00:48:52,519 for Jason's mom, Like I'm out. Yeah. Even with the all the 705 00:48:52,559 --> 00:48:57,280 soccer parents now they're you know, I'm taking Eyelet to soccer practice on tuesdays, 706 00:48:57,280 --> 00:49:00,559 like, oh did you see this person's No, I mean I saw 707 00:49:00,559 --> 00:49:02,800 them, but it's not like I said anything, right, I'm not gonna 708 00:49:02,840 --> 00:49:07,880 do that, But those people I'm invested in because I'm like, this is 709 00:49:07,920 --> 00:49:12,599 the start of a beautiful, like lifelong friendship probably yeah, yeah, until 710 00:49:12,639 --> 00:49:14,480 I find out I don't like them, but you know what I mean, 711 00:49:14,639 --> 00:49:19,440 Like at the beginning, all that's what happened with with That's how we ended 712 00:49:19,519 --> 00:49:23,440 up in Lochagnyata. Basically, it's because I hitched my wagon to Sonny's little 713 00:49:23,480 --> 00:49:29,599 best friend in kindergartens. Brother. Yeah. She was on top of everything. 714 00:49:29,719 --> 00:49:32,280 She knew when the meetings where she knew what kind of paint he needed 715 00:49:32,280 --> 00:49:37,480 to bring to school on Thursday and what outfitties of what spirit where week was? 716 00:49:37,559 --> 00:49:40,599 What right you know? And and here we are and then she told 717 00:49:40,639 --> 00:49:45,920 me where to live and we moved like she they moved to lock and we 718 00:49:45,039 --> 00:49:50,119 and we moved to like yeah, yeah, so my my Laura, my 719 00:49:50,119 --> 00:49:52,320 friend Laura, the one I met a freaking mommy and me was the same 720 00:49:52,400 --> 00:49:58,320 for me, she's there's there's elbody would never have gone to camp every summer. 721 00:49:58,400 --> 00:50:01,000 I wouldn't have known about any of that without her being like, Okay, 722 00:50:01,039 --> 00:50:05,039 so this is what we're doing this summer. We're signing the kids up 723 00:50:05,039 --> 00:50:07,920 for camp and then I'll be missed one year. But then because she was 724 00:50:08,159 --> 00:50:12,239 too nervous to do it. But then the next year was already having FOMO 725 00:50:12,320 --> 00:50:14,119 and like, yeah, I'll do it. I'm like, what do I 726 00:50:14,159 --> 00:50:17,360 do right, saying with basketball, sunny, playing basketball, every all of 727 00:50:17,360 --> 00:50:22,800 it. Yeah, yeah, I learned everything from other moms. I've never 728 00:50:23,400 --> 00:50:27,519 even and I am, like I said, I can be a go getter. 729 00:50:27,599 --> 00:50:30,280 I know people I'm more of a no getter. I can be, 730 00:50:30,880 --> 00:50:35,960 but I guess I just choose not to be because I'm like someone else will 731 00:50:36,000 --> 00:50:37,760 know. Somebody else has done the research on this. Yeah, the house 732 00:50:37,840 --> 00:50:44,679 has done their home inventing the wheel right right, Yeah, somebody's somebody's signed 733 00:50:44,679 --> 00:50:50,920 their kids up for basketball right before. Let me just ask them, Hey, 734 00:50:50,960 --> 00:50:52,519 who's signing their kids up for basketball? Yeah? Why do I got 735 00:50:52,519 --> 00:50:55,679 to get on Google and search where to sign up for basketball? Then you're 736 00:50:55,679 --> 00:51:00,960 gonna make the wrong choice anyway. You're gonna go pick the wrong Yes, 737 00:51:00,440 --> 00:51:05,360 yes, which happened to me. Which happened too. Yes, I picked 738 00:51:05,400 --> 00:51:08,000 one in like Studio City by accident, and everybody was like, why are 739 00:51:08,119 --> 00:51:10,480 you doing the one that's like two blocks from your house. I'm like, 740 00:51:10,719 --> 00:51:14,920 I don't know. Nobody told me. Yes, you know what happened with 741 00:51:14,920 --> 00:51:21,840 me? Girl, Scouts because Sonny's friend is Sonny's mother's friend's mother is for 742 00:51:21,880 --> 00:51:25,360 the boy stuff. I didn't find a girl mom, and I screwed myself 743 00:51:25,400 --> 00:51:30,679 because I signed Italia up with like Brownies in the wrong neighborhood, like you 744 00:51:30,719 --> 00:51:32,920 know, with girl Scouts in the wrong neighborhood, right, And and then 745 00:51:34,280 --> 00:51:36,280 that was that. And then she was like, why why am I? 746 00:51:36,360 --> 00:51:38,920 All my friends are at the other girl Scout meeting and I'm here with an 747 00:51:38,960 --> 00:51:44,760 out of town meeting and my friends, the one that the ones that tell 748 00:51:44,800 --> 00:51:47,320 me everything to do, my jews, all three of them troop leaders. 749 00:51:49,440 --> 00:51:52,119 God, bless you guys, Thank you, thank you for stepping up. 750 00:51:52,159 --> 00:51:54,480 Thank you for being the type of people that want to be troop leaders. 751 00:51:54,519 --> 00:51:59,559 I would rather slit my wrists right than be a troop leader, right. 752 00:51:59,639 --> 00:52:04,599 Who was that level of interest in what girl Scouts are doing? Also, 753 00:52:04,719 --> 00:52:07,239 once you're a troop leader, you can't quit, which thank god I wasn't, 754 00:52:07,320 --> 00:52:10,360 because Elbi was like, I'm out, like after one season of it. 755 00:52:10,519 --> 00:52:15,679 She wanted to get to the part where we sell cookies. I believe 756 00:52:15,760 --> 00:52:17,039 she did it for one year and then she was like, yeah, I'm 757 00:52:17,039 --> 00:52:21,519 done, saying with Nataliyat. She wanted to get out there and sell, 758 00:52:21,599 --> 00:52:23,639 sell, sell, and then she did and she was like no, no, 759 00:52:23,639 --> 00:52:27,960 no, I'm done. Yeah, and I remember, like, yes, 760 00:52:28,119 --> 00:52:30,880 I remember when she quit because I was like, really you want to 761 00:52:30,960 --> 00:52:34,519 quit, because honestly, it was one of the easiest activities we'd ever done. 762 00:52:34,599 --> 00:52:37,199 It was only met every other week, and for me, it was 763 00:52:37,239 --> 00:52:43,039 just drop her off. And because all my Jewish mom friends all their kids 764 00:52:43,079 --> 00:52:45,719 went, they all went to different schools. We got in with the little 765 00:52:45,719 --> 00:52:50,960 our little charter school early on and stuck with it. Well, these other 766 00:52:51,000 --> 00:52:52,960 moms were at different schools, so this was really one of the only times 767 00:52:52,960 --> 00:52:55,719 that Elbie saw her friends. So I was very surprised when she was like, 768 00:52:55,800 --> 00:52:58,639 yeah, I don't want to go anymore. And I was like, 769 00:52:58,719 --> 00:53:02,320 well why not. She's like, well, she Her only thing that she 770 00:53:02,440 --> 00:53:07,400 liked about it was the snack was that they have strawberries and like snacks. 771 00:53:07,119 --> 00:53:09,480 But other than that, she was like, well, it's just really boring. 772 00:53:10,199 --> 00:53:13,519 Just do like boring activities. And I was like, well, I 773 00:53:13,599 --> 00:53:15,840 can't argue with that. Yeah, I'll get you some strawberries and snacks at 774 00:53:15,880 --> 00:53:22,760 home exactly. Yeah, all right, this was I went, let's finish 775 00:53:22,800 --> 00:53:24,159 you. I want to hear the rest of about your trip on Friday. 776 00:53:24,320 --> 00:53:28,119 Yeah, on Friday, I will tell you the rest about my trip and 777 00:53:28,239 --> 00:53:34,599 we'll hear more from you. I think for Patreon this week we're going to 778 00:53:34,719 --> 00:53:38,960 talk about Dak Shepherd. I think I have some things to say about about 779 00:53:38,960 --> 00:53:45,320 a controversy starring Dak Shepherd. Okay, but before we go, Adam Lerner 780 00:53:46,159 --> 00:53:51,559 three one zero nine nine eight seven zero four eighties a car broker. You 781 00:53:51,599 --> 00:53:53,800 can go to Adam's Got a Car dot com. He can get you a 782 00:53:53,840 --> 00:53:58,239 car. He's a car broker. If you don't know what that is. 783 00:53:58,760 --> 00:54:00,719 He can find you the best deal on a car, no cost to you. 784 00:54:00,960 --> 00:54:06,000 He can also sell your car for more money than you're probably going to 785 00:54:06,039 --> 00:54:08,519 get in less hassle. You don't have to do that car Vana like. 786 00:54:08,599 --> 00:54:13,159 He will find a dealership that will buy your car, and he can help 787 00:54:13,199 --> 00:54:15,440 you get a least whatever you need. Adam's Got a Car okay. Also 788 00:54:17,079 --> 00:54:21,920 Mayor and from Sugar Skull. 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They only put out an episode every three weeks, 798 00:54:59,639 --> 00:55:02,559 so not gonna like clog up your feed m M, you know, yeah, 799 00:55:02,679 --> 00:55:07,559 check it out all right, Well, thanks everybody, We love you 800 00:55:07,559 --> 00:55:10,159 guys, thanks everybody for the support. Yeah, thanks Klein, thank you. 801 00:55:10,400 --> 00:55:17,639 You're a parrot. Now, don't iff at us. It's good letting go.