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I made a decision face the sunny
sound. I had a vision. What's

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up everybody for crying out? Love? Hey, how you doing? Stuffy?

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How you feeling? I'm sick,
but I'm here because I love.

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I'm a giver and I like to
give other people the flu right when I

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can. Right, I have the
flu. Here's what happened. Happen.

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What happened is I thought I had
allergies. I after we recorded last week,

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I was like him, like him, you know that feeling that's not

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I didn't have a fever. I
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had a couldn't clear my throat enough
and I was like a little bit congested.

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So meanwhile, as as I told
you last week, Xander had upthroat

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right. So then Sadie started not
feeling well. So like now I'm not

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feeling great, and say, but
Sadie got like a fever, And I

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was like, I don't know for
sure if I'm sick, but I feel

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like I am. But Sadie's definitely
sick. She's got a fever. Her

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fever went up to like one hundred
and one. So like, I don't

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know when it was a few days
ago, I was like, well,

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you know, this fucking school is
going to be you know, I think.

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So she didn't go to school on
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I was like, I don't know, this girl's not looking good for Monday

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either. So I decided to go
to urgent care, my favorite urgent care.

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Go to urgent care with Sadie.
I get us both checked out.

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So they did all the tests,
the COVID, influenza, and STREPP.

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They come back and they're like,
well she's got STREPP to Sadie and you've

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got the flu influenza A. And
I was like, well that doesn't even

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make sense. But here's what I'm
thinking how happened. I think that Xander

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had also had the flu, because
remember I told you that it was weird

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that he was coughing so much,
but that they kept saying like, oh,

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no, strep throat is just a
throat infection. So so I think

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he had the flu, but it
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And then I think he gave it
to me. I don't know. I'm

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not a doctor. Even though I
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yes, okay, I'm I am
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didn't. I haven't about it.
I practiced for four years. Listen,

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if I had the degree, i'd
be bragging too. Yeah. So I

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was like, let me see,
let me see those reports, let me

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look over the report. So yeah, so I guess I have the flu,

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but there's nothing to do for it
because I was too far out of

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the window for any Tama flu or
anything. So I asked if I could

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go to work on Monday, and
they're like, yeah, I don't see

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why not. You've already had it
long enough, Like you're kind of out

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of the window. And listen,
like I said, I am a doctor,

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So like, if you also think
you're a doctor, please don't come

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at me on Facebook. You probably
were still contagious. You probably were contagious

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last week. Maybe, But here
we are, Kaylin and I standing while

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I was sick last week. Okay, well, maybe you had the flu

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and gave it to me, and
so I separately have the flu and my

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two kids gave each other strap maybe
because we recorded last week, but I

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wasn't. I wasn't feeling sick at
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the next day I started to get
a sore throat and I started coughing,

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and then you know, I texted
Dylan and Pat like, hey, guys,

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I started testing for COVID and they
have come back negative. And they

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were like, no, no,
no, stay home. I was like,

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okay, uh and then me and
Patch and then I got a really

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bad sore throat on Wednesday and Pat
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I fuck. I bought like a
pack of cough drops essentially, and me

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and him just mowed through the entire
pack on our pond work like throughout the

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day. And I think I eat
way too many of those things. Yeah,

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I just pop one in one after
another. I don't think you're supposed

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to eat them. I was like, oh, what's the big deal?

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I had a sore road a little
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I was sick last week too.
Yeah, you guys probably were had it

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on Monday. This is just like
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duty congestion and cough is just kind
of freaking relentless and then you can't sleep.

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They gave me cough medicine. Oh
it's kind of funny because I said

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She's like, I'm gonna give you
something for the cough, and I said,

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okay, but like not narcotic.
Right now, you would think if

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I said not narcotic that I'm not
drug seeking. I'm like making sure and

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she was like, no, we
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was like that lady, Jesus.
I was like, settled down, yeah,

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not trying to buy getting myself some
narc catics to like sell on the

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black market. I just told I
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would have told you because I don't
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But she was, yeah, I'm
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was like, okay, Jesus.
So I got something called like benzon tote

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to tate. I don't know Benzon
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supposed to help her leave the cough. The reason I tell you that is

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because I've took one before I came
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to be coughing through our whole show
and annoying everybody. And I think it's

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working out. Yeah, you coughed
like once through our Patreon yeah, you've

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been. I didn't even notice when
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go ahead and do it. I'll
just mark it and edit it out later.

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did of Sword and Scale, we

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just never lived down because people were
like, that girl has tuberculosis. Everybody's

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got something to say. Yeah,
and they were like, don't you have

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a mute button? And I was
like, oh my god, I was

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trying dying. I don't think I
was sitting at the seat that had the

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mute button, so I was like
getting down on the ground. I was

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getting all the way away from the
mic and coughing. But it was well,

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that was I don't know if you
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talked about it, but I had
a lung infection right at that time,

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so oh wow. Yeah. So
I don't know if this is having a

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cold or if this is menopause post
menopause, but oh my god, do

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I wake up like so often at
three o'clock in the morning and I'm just

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wide awake, like my eyes pop
open and I'm like hello, like I

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could literally get dressed. What is
that I've been having? It sucks?

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Yes, And I'm like why away, And then I have to do this

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crazy thing where like, and I
know I'm not supposed to look at my

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phone, but like, what are
you supposed to do? Just lay there

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in the dark and go um like
no, So I look at my phone

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and I think like, oh,
I'll just look at Facebook a little bit,

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like put myself to sleep. But
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Facebook or some huff Poe article that
makes me really mad, you know,

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or some crazy people in the comments. So then I find myself I'm kind

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of riled up. And then I'm
like, I'm getting way too riled up

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for three thirty. Yes, I'm
gonna listen to a podcast. And then

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I go to my podcast app and
there's no freaking new podcasts or anything that

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I like. So then I go
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I guess maybe I could listen to
like an old Snapped, but yeah,

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Snapped. Here's the problem with Snapped, And they know this is like

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a side sidebar from being sick.
Here's my issue with Snapped. It's all

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female killers, right, so you
always know who it is at the very

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beginning, because how many freaking women
feature prominently in the story there. If

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it's a regular crime pod, could
be anybody, yeah right, right,

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get that mislead where you're like,
oh, I think this guy's good for

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it, and then you're like wait, and I like this guy for it.

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Then you're like, you know what, I actually think it's the cop.

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And then they're like, no,
it's the brother. It's the brother.

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Well, if there's a woman in
it, you're like, well,

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it's the white already. Now it's
the wife or the best friend, right,

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and there you go. I see
it all the time on Hulu snapped

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by Oxygen. Yeah, but there's
a podcast for it. I didn't know

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that. It's just it's kind of
boring. But it's like it's one of

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those podcasts that I feel like I
should like it, right, but every

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time I get into one of the
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But what I was going to say
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and did it work? They're always
about like somebody's it's always a guy who's

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in the military. It's like a
Navy captain or like enough with the military

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stories, and everyone's from the South, predictable, yeah right, No one

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is from Vannuys, California. I
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bearing a body at Balboa Park,
you know where I could walk by and

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oh my god, that's where they
snapped about. Yes. No, it's

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always like some really small town like
Virginia and like with somebody with a very

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different life than mine, and I'm
like somebody who meal plans. Yeah,

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like right, Yes, it's always
a lady that you don't expect because she

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was like a really good mom and
like, you know, made baked to

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the best baked chicken in town.
Like fuck off it. Did she snap

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because the husband is beating on her
or oh well they always say that,

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Yeah, that's always the premise is
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usually the woman is kind of a
psycho that has another body in the past,

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like some other husband met his demise. So so yeah, that was

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last night. I woke up at
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to sleep until five. I know
I have that too. Last week when

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I came here, I was up
since three thirties. I was up since

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three thirty three forty five in the
morning. I just didn't go back to

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sleep. I laid there for all
up but didn't go back to sleep.

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What is that? How do we
get to sleep? I don't know.

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And then it was fall asleep so
easily me too, but I wake up

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and cannot fall back asleep. Yeah, I mean, especially when I'm at

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my condo and I don't have to
get up for the kids or whatever,

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and then I'm you know, by
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I'm just wide awake and then I
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I then get up like yeah,
yeah, I don't think I'm stressed or

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anything, you know. I mean, I am stressed, but I was

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having this before I felt stressed.
Right, I'll tell you why. I'm

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very stressed right now. But should
we talk about something that's not stressful?

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Organ a fight, something that okay, true story. I've been doing the

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very soothing. I've been doing that one

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too. I like that one.
Kaylen gave it to me. So it's

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so good. It's you can it's
got really soothing ingredients and you can you

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can put it in hot water or
you can put it in milk. It's

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about Kaylin, tell us about the Red

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the Red Juice, that's my jam. It's like a it's like a natural

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energy booster, which I use all
the time when I'm doing my pawn work.

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I'm, you know, just driving
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was I was buying like, I
don't know, four or five energy drinks

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a day. Wow, with all
the sugar or even that no sugar added

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stuff. Wich isn't supposed to be
good for you. But then Organify came

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on and it's so much better.
It's so much healthier. It does give

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me that little boost of energy,
that natural boost of energy that I always

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am usually drinking it around, you
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right in the middle of my workday. So yeah, I love the

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Red Juice. And they have the
kit the Sun to Sunset. Yeah,

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it's all three of them with the
Green juice. Yeah. So do you

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guys want to try it out?
Which has has been on the Green Juice

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a lot? Oh? I bet
yeah, I bet it gets your good

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in the morning sometimes too, just
like Hey, I'm just gonna start my

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off. Yeah. So I teased
you guys with this last time. Yeah,

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Elbi went to see Santaca. You
see Santa Cu. I was thinking

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about that on the way over here. I was hoping that you had an

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update. It was our hail Mary, Hail Mary pass. This poor girl

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has been rejected from every college except
for m University of Oregon, which we

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talked about, and also Sonoma State, which Elbi told me is no different

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from community college, just cost more
because they She was like, mom,

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you'd have to literally be failing every
class not to get into that school.

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And I was like, okay,
bitch, then why did you apply.

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She was like, I don't know. You told me to. You said

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they had some great creative writing program
and I was like, well yeah,

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She's like oh, and okay,
I'm not going there. I was like,

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all right, so many trees.
So here's the thing, and we

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already went over this last week.
The thing is, I don't want to

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send her to University of Oregon.
Just as you know, I was like,

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you have to go to Santa Cruz
and have to go to an open

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mind you'll see, you know,
right, So John, she and John

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drove up because you know, I
don't like being in the car for that

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many hours for one thing, right, for two things. Somebody's got to

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like stay home alone in the house
and watching people my beautiful doggie. So

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yeah, anyway, honest to god, I think I've we've kind of been

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even. John took her to see
Berkeley, and he took her to see,

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oh, some of the local the
Pomona. He took her to see

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Chapman, I believe. And I
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and you see San Diego. And
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seeing you see Santa Barbara, I
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I mean we were walking around like
we were hot shit, Like I

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thought for sure she'd get in.
So it was like, yeah, you

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could go here if you want to, you know, leave it up to

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you. Look around, be discerning, you know, And she left there

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just going, oh my god,
this is the school for me. And

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I was like, well, I
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And then we got this crushing news
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hey, we knew a couple of
people that went there and said it

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was a lovely school. Found nothing
wrong with it. It just wasn't really

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on the radar. Also, you
see Davis, that was another one that

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I was like, that could be
a contender. You know, you'll see

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what you get into. She did
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But anyway, then she gets rejected
to all of them, like flat

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out rejected, except for Santa Barbara, where she's on the wait list.

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So we are praying right now,
fair hands. Okay gets into Santa Barbara

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off of the wait list. Oh
when does she find out? Today is

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May first? So today is the
day that people have to commit to a

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college if they haven't already committed.
Today is the cutoff for most colleges.

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Okay, May first, It's a
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especially and other schools can tell whether
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means, right is that they let
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not everybody is going to commit to
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I think it's almost worse because you're
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of them or a bunch of them. And if you get into UCLA,

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like let's just say, or let's
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or UCLA. So if they get
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turn down the rest of the UCS, probably right. But if they get

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into let's say, UCSB and Davis
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UCLA, then they have a choice
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some spots opening up, especially in
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neck like, right, Even so, I mean, I feel like we

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could hear I don't know, I
mean, only like a quarter, only

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like a quarter of the people on
the wait list get called up to the

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big show. Well when do you
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it could be it could be today, it could be next week,

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it could be I've heard a lot
of different things. It could be August.

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You know, they could bring call
in a bunch of other people that

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are on the wait list that are
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It's not like a lottery. They
go, Okay, we need a

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few more kids for the psychology major. So here are some kids for psychology.

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If those kids don't commit or don't
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another spot. So it could really
roll into like even oget. I mean,

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it could be last minute. So
here's the thing. So she goes

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to see Santa Cruz and I,
you know, I hear from John when

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they're at the hotel. They seem
to be having a lovely time. She's

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a little tired, she fell asleep
early. They get up, they go

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to the tour. I'm not hearing
anything from Elbie. John starts sending me

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pictures of trees. Why, okay, just trees up there a lot of

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trees, A lot of fucking trees. Too many motherfucking trees on this motherfucking

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campus the problem. And I told
you. Elbi was like, I hate

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trees, and all I've heard is
that there's trees. But then I think

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I told you last week that she
has a friend who was like, I

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went to see Santa Cruise and it's
like not that bad. Like the trees,

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right, It's not all trees well
it is all trees. Alby's never

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gonna She's never gonna be one of
those like climbing up into the tree and

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hugging the tree and not letting.
Don't want anybody to cut that. She's

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like, where's the fucking pacsun?
Yeah, where's that target? So you

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see San Diego have freaking target.
I remember I told you that. Yeah.

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Most of these schools have a student
union, which is like where there

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have like a quit not a quiz
nose, but like a subway and like

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a Panda Express, and they have
these These are big colleges, big state

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schools, right universities with um.
A lot of times they don't have enough

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like um, I don't know if
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So they allow a fast food franchises
to sell food and it's great. You

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got like a Tcby yogurt and like
the kids all hang out there and there's

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like a theater where visiting, like
you know, musicians play at your school.

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Yeah this is not like that.
Okay, So no, so she's

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so she's not sending me anything,
and John is sending me trees. Now,

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John was had way more skin in
the game, like because you know,

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as I've said many times, like
I don't know, like if she

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wants to go to community college,
it's fine. John's been way more of

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the like, no, she needs
to go to a four year school.

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She's worked really hard, like that's
what people do. With John, I

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think, Yeah, Well, unfortunately
Alby is that kid that s she is,

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and she told me I want to
go away to school. I want

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to go away to college. So
she was pretty much hoping that she would

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like Santa Cruz. So I'm getting
picture after picture. Also, I'm not

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trying to be rude, but like
I could see the other people, some

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random pictures of people like on the
tour, and they weren't her people,

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do you know what I mean?
Like, yeah, there were a lot

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of very like alternative people, maybe
a lot of people very much maybe into

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dungeons and dragons like not that.
Yeah, but and not that there's anything

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wrong with it. Alby's got some
interesting like nerdy pursuits too. But as

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I've said, she's a real basic
bitch, like she's just there was no

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one like like her. There was
no one that John even said later he

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goes a lot of cool kids,
a lot of like alternative kids, but

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nobody I could really see, like
Elbi bonding with Now, that doesn't mean

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yeah, if she chose the school, she wouldn't meet some freaking kids before

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she would. Yeah, but John's
just like, it wasn't making a good

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showing. It wasn't showing out well
for Elbie. You know, she wasn't

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seeing herself there. So John sending
me picture after picture and I'm like,

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oh God, how's Elbie doing?
And He's like, she's sad, like

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she's not liking After the tour,
Elbie starts texting me. She's like,

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mom, I really really tried to
like it. I really did. I

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went in with an open mind.
I cannot see myself here. She goes,

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there's nothing to do socially. She
showed me a picture of apparently their

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tour guide was like, yeah,
most of the socializing happens from our amphitheater.

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And she showed me a picture of
the amphitheater. I swear to god,

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it was like her camp. It
was like you could maybe fit a

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hundred kids there. I'm like,
there's eighteen thousand kids at this campus.

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That's where they hang out. She's
like yeah, and apparently they don't really

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hang out in the town because the
transportation stops at eleven thirty, so unless

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you want to uber God Like,
yeah, she goes, Mom, it's

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just it's just not for me.
I just can't I can't see myself here.

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And I was like, well,
okay, then you got to go

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to community college because we're out of
options. So we have a meeting.

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This is what I'm dealing with.
I'm shock. There's a program that you

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can go to community college for only
one year and you can get guaranteed if

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you have to do these certain requirements
and get a certain GPA, which she

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could totally do, and she could
go to community college for get all her

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credits out of the way in one
year and transfer, but you have to

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be a super go getter. And
she would have to take like four classes

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over the summer, four college classes. And I told her that and she

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was like, oh, hell no, I like she's so burnt out from

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school. Yeah that She's like,
no, I'll kill myself, Like I'm

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not like I'm finally going to be
done with school, like I want a

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summer off. And I'm like,
okay, but then you're gonna you're committing

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yourself to two years at community college. So we're meeting with a counselor tomorrow

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and I'm going to have her lay
it all out for Elby. I'm going

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to be on the zoom, it's
over, zoom. Is it the same

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counselor you had before for her?
Or Oh no, no, no.

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This is like a counselor at the
local community college who can speak to this

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program that they have and like exactly
how hardcore it would be. She can

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listen to what classes Elbe's already taken
and help her figure out like what she

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needs, if this is the right
approach for her, or if she should

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just relax the first year and just
get some fun credits out of the way

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and take different classes, or if
she should hammer down for her major and

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try to get it out of the
way in one year and then apply November.

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She would literally be applying this November. Wow. Wow. Listen.

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Elby is a go getter, I
think, and she when she puts her

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mind to it, and I think
that you know, she knows what she

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wants. And I think talking to
the counselor's going to be a big help

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for you. Yeah, it'll clear
it up. I think it will make

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some things clear yeah, it just
sucks as a parent. I feel,

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yeah, a lot of things.
I don't you think I feel I got

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these two. I mean, Elby
is a is a you know what do

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you call it? Studio? Yes, very stupidemic. Yes, she's an

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academic studying Italia. So listen.
Now you can have a more realistic kind

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of view over this, and you
can go, hey, here's some schools

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where you can get in and get
some money and then have a program that

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you're interested in. And like,
I don't know, they have to have

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you said, you said in Itali
is like doing well. Now it depends

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like he is doing really well.
Okay, she's her grades are up.

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As long as she's above a three
point zero average, she can apply to

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UC's. But you can look at
I mean, listen, like I said,

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I went, I got into U
Mass and I had a two point

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three GPA. Yeah, it can
be done. It's just that we were

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not We didn't. We weren't realistic
with all beings. I just thought she

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was, Hey, she gets great
grade, she's taken ten aps. Yeah,

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she's this kind of kick ass student. She's she's a go getter,

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Like, why wouldn't she get right? Well, I would be the same

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way and were awakening. If I
were you, I would have felt the

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same way. But maybe because she
limited it to a certain part, you

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know, to California and you know. Yeah, but we just thought,

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like, why wouldn't she get into
one of Like I think she could have

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been happy at UCSD, UCSB,
David, Like I think any one of

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those letter in I think that would
have definitely been a contender. Right,

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but listen, at least here's the
bright side. UCSB is where she really

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wants to go. At least she's
on the waiting list for that one.

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So who knows, Yeah, who
knows. You don't know, Let's manifest

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that shit, you know, yes, let's manifest's put it out there to

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the universe. Yes, if everyone
who listens to our podcast would like,

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you know, do a girl with
solid and like put some thoughts out there,

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like it kind of works, I'll
tell you. I had to take

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Natalia to her try to get her
past her permit for her driver's license twice.

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On her third time, I was
like, oh my god. I

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sent a text to everybody I know, like when can you pray for Natalia?

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Like everybody fingers crossed. She came
out past like yay, yes,

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I was like, oh my god, it worked. When was that.

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She's had a permit a while,
right, yeah? Yeah? Does she

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have an appointment for her since yet
she's got the driving I get it,

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she's getting the driver instructor going oh, okay, you got to do that

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first. She'll be ready for her
license in October. Oh sweet, yeah,

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great, Oh my god. I
think that's a very similar schedule to

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Elby. I think she oh no, she took her driving test on August

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thirty first. Is there an August
thirty first? I think there is?

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Yeah, yeah, thirty days half
September, April, June, and November

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all the rest of thirty one.
Yep, yeah, February which has twenty

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eight right, yeah, August thirty
first, there is. Yeah. Well,

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I'm praying for her. I hope
that she gets what she wants.

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I think that's a good plan for
sure, to talk to such an emotional

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roller coaster now, because I think
Elbi's cried more in the last like a

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couple months than she has like the
whole time life owner, whole time I've

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at her. I know, it's
just so heartbreaking, so disappointing, devastating,

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like you just feel like, what's
wrong with me? And you know,

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just to not really have a choice
that she's happy with. Yeah.

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But at the same time, like
I said last week, I'm not paying

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fifty over Like, I'm not paying
fifty three thousand dollars a year for her

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to go to a school that she
hadn't even been considering for no right,

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real reason, right, especially if
she could do community college for one year

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and go to US, the school
that is like she loves. Yeah,

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Yeah, I think that's a good
plan. Yeah, Yeah, and I

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think she'll do it. You know
who we haven't said hi to? Oh

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my god, forgot about Well,
we didn't forget about you, guys,

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We just didn't. We love you
guys. Yeah, Like Jennifer falls well

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her, I'm a little lukewarm on
her own. There's the Fano and Leslie

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girl. Yeah, I feel you. Alicia Escalante front the city of El

407
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Mate Aaron, who this amy such
a country Kelly, she's my aunt.

408
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Rebecca usual que so hot, Missy
Gabby, I don't even mention them,

409
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Katerina, check that moller, motherfucker. Valerie, she hits it way out

410
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of the park. Polly, We
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411
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We love your dancing. Elizabeth,
got a lot of kids. Hero,

412
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everybody loves him. Rita, she
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413
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so growley, but we love you. Stop getting fevers, Jacob, stop

414
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it, Ashley, she Chica is
fuck Ulysses. Happy birthday, Yeah,

415
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happy birthday away? Who else?
Stephanie, she's a stinkering and Christa Christa

416
00:28:55,279 --> 00:28:59,000
get this stroop. I feel like
it's a Ulysses birthday every other week,

417
00:28:59,079 --> 00:29:04,240
doesn't it seem I know why?
Halloween is his wife Wendy's birthday. Okay,

418
00:29:04,240 --> 00:29:07,960
it does seem like there's always I
feel like it's Ulyssi's birthday all that

419
00:29:08,079 --> 00:29:11,279
I go on Facebook, it's a
happy birthday. Wasn't it just his birthday

420
00:29:11,359 --> 00:29:15,279
six months ago? Do you think
he's one of those people that like goes

421
00:29:15,359 --> 00:29:19,640
in and adjusts his profile to change
us to get some attention. Yeah,

422
00:29:21,039 --> 00:29:27,799
U listen, Ulysses are onto you. Your birthday used to be in October,

423
00:29:30,000 --> 00:29:33,039
and then it was in November.
Yeah, and it was in December.

424
00:29:33,440 --> 00:29:37,000
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You guys were talking about something,
oh, Kalin, Yeah, you were

473
00:33:22,480 --> 00:33:25,839
talking about a documentary you saw that
sounded fascinating documentary. So I watched the

474
00:33:25,920 --> 00:33:30,599
document and I don't even I'm not
really a big documentary person, but I

475
00:33:30,680 --> 00:33:36,440
am an alien person. I love
anything that has to do with the UFOs

476
00:33:36,519 --> 00:33:39,000
or aliens or anything like that.
So I watched. I actually rented,

477
00:33:39,079 --> 00:33:44,559
I actually paid for because it wasn't
dreaming. This documentary called Moment of Contact.

478
00:33:45,759 --> 00:33:47,119
Okay, Now when you say you
rented it, you don't mean like

479
00:33:47,240 --> 00:33:51,480
at a store. No, you
got it off of like got it off

480
00:33:51,680 --> 00:33:54,440
like theoft the Microsoft. Okay,
yeah, but yeah, yeah, you

481
00:33:54,440 --> 00:33:58,839
have the rent option and the buy
options. I just rented it. So

482
00:33:59,200 --> 00:34:05,480
the story goes that Moment of Contact. So the story goes apparently were not

483
00:34:05,559 --> 00:34:15,039
Apparently in nineteen ninety six, in
the town of Virginia, Brazil, a

484
00:34:15,320 --> 00:34:22,599
alien spaceship crashed, like actually crashed, and two of the aliens on board

485
00:34:22,960 --> 00:34:30,719
like had to leave and left the
spaceship and they one of them was captured

486
00:34:30,760 --> 00:34:35,599
by like the fire department in like
some bushes or something. What did it

487
00:34:35,639 --> 00:34:37,800
look like? Did they have pictures? Yeah, well they had Okay,

488
00:34:37,880 --> 00:34:43,000
So the other one that was captured
was was found in this area in the

489
00:34:43,039 --> 00:34:45,480
town. It's like, you know, there's tons of houses, but in

490
00:34:45,519 --> 00:34:49,599
between there was just kind of this
plot of grass and apparently there's these three

491
00:34:49,719 --> 00:34:52,599
young girls there I don't know,
maybe like twelve at the time, and

492
00:34:52,599 --> 00:34:55,239
they're just walking and this is in
broad daylight. This is that like three

493
00:34:55,239 --> 00:35:00,079
PM or something of that. These
three girls are walking through this just plot,

494
00:35:00,159 --> 00:35:04,360
like going home from school or something, and they looked to their left

495
00:35:04,440 --> 00:35:08,320
and there's like an alien crouched down. But how do they know it's an

496
00:35:08,360 --> 00:35:13,039
alien? What does it look like? So there's like an artist rendition of

497
00:35:13,039 --> 00:35:15,920
it, right, and it has
these giant red eyes, like they said,

498
00:35:15,960 --> 00:35:22,079
three times the size of like human
eyes. It's very thin. It

499
00:35:22,159 --> 00:35:30,119
has like greasy skin, greasy sticky
skin, which I'll talk about how they

500
00:35:30,159 --> 00:35:32,639
know that later. So they see
this thing and like they run home,

501
00:35:32,679 --> 00:35:37,239
they tell their mom, the mom
brings them back. The mom sees like

502
00:35:37,280 --> 00:35:42,800
a footprint, but it's obviously it's
only got like three fingers. So this

503
00:35:42,920 --> 00:35:46,039
alien that's in this plot of land
I guess is scared by them too,

504
00:35:46,280 --> 00:35:50,519
ends up kind of running away.
It runs in front of a police car.

505
00:35:51,119 --> 00:35:54,599
One of the police officers gets out
and grabs this thing and puts it

506
00:35:54,639 --> 00:35:58,280
in the trunk of the car and
they drive it to the hospital. Be

507
00:35:59,320 --> 00:36:01,480
Yes, maybe, like what if
it can like vaporize mirrors? I know,

508
00:36:01,719 --> 00:36:06,360
Well here's the thing. That's how
they I said that sticky and greasy

509
00:36:06,440 --> 00:36:10,360
skin because this guy had this like
greasy sticky, which is you're not supposed

510
00:36:10,360 --> 00:36:14,239
to be both greasy and sticky.
I don't know how that works. But

511
00:36:14,360 --> 00:36:15,840
anyway, this guy that picked it
up with its bare hands and took it

512
00:36:15,840 --> 00:36:22,400
in the hospital, then in the
coming days developed a horrible infection, a

513
00:36:22,400 --> 00:36:28,199
horrible infection that could not be treated, and he died no way, And

514
00:36:28,360 --> 00:36:34,599
the guy's sister is in the movie
like telling the story. The other officer

515
00:36:34,719 --> 00:36:37,119
that was in the car, they
tried to go talk to him, and

516
00:36:37,199 --> 00:36:40,760
he's like a recluse who threatens to
shoot them and kill them if they pursue

517
00:36:40,800 --> 00:36:45,360
anything. But this whole incident,
Okay, So then there's these aliens at

518
00:36:45,400 --> 00:36:51,320
the hospital they take they make a
doctor like X ray it through a bag

519
00:36:51,400 --> 00:36:54,639
or whatever. Nobody sees any of
the records from the X ray. Eventually

520
00:36:54,679 --> 00:37:00,119
the US government comes in, takes
everything, leaves and that's it. But

521
00:37:00,239 --> 00:37:04,159
did they take the alien? Yeah, they take the alien, the two

522
00:37:04,199 --> 00:37:07,840
aliens, I guess. And they
were alive at the time when they took

523
00:37:07,880 --> 00:37:12,519
them. I don't know. I
think so they were. I mean they

524
00:37:12,679 --> 00:37:16,639
I don't know. But my god. So this entire town, this of

525
00:37:17,039 --> 00:37:21,119
Argenia, I don't know how many
people. It's it's a big place.

526
00:37:21,199 --> 00:37:23,480
It's like, what did they say
in the documentary, It's like the seventh

527
00:37:23,760 --> 00:37:30,599
best place to like work in Brazil, Like, yeah, to have So

528
00:37:30,960 --> 00:37:37,119
this whole town is very aware of
these aliens. There's like statues of aliens

529
00:37:37,159 --> 00:37:40,320
around. Um. The guy just
like making the documentary just held up a

530
00:37:40,320 --> 00:37:44,639
sign on the freeway that was like, I'm investigating the alien crash. If

531
00:37:44,679 --> 00:37:47,119
you know anything, tell me,
And so everybody comes up to them and

532
00:37:47,159 --> 00:37:51,960
tells them their story. Because it's
only from nineteen ninety six, that's insane.

533
00:37:52,440 --> 00:37:54,760
So all the people that experienced it
are in the documentary. There's like

534
00:37:54,800 --> 00:37:59,320
the x ray technician that did the
X ray. He gives like an interview

535
00:37:59,320 --> 00:38:01,880
with his face. Is it believable
though? The fuck yeah it is.

536
00:38:02,039 --> 00:38:06,760
I mean it's like, why didn't
that story ever get out? Well,

537
00:38:06,800 --> 00:38:09,400
I mean you can google it like
it was. There was major news coverage

538
00:38:09,400 --> 00:38:12,719
about it. They showed the little
girls like when they were twelve, just

539
00:38:12,760 --> 00:38:16,519
being interviewed by you know news,
you know, reporters constantly. So it's

540
00:38:16,559 --> 00:38:21,320
just like, how come I'd never
Well, there's document there's a documentary.

541
00:38:21,360 --> 00:38:27,400
Bob Blazar is this guy that's like
this. He studies aliens UFOs, the

542
00:38:27,559 --> 00:38:34,480
government. He does this whole like
alien area sixty four fifty one sixty four

543
00:38:34,519 --> 00:38:37,920
for everyone whatever, right down the
street from each other. And it's no,

544
00:38:38,119 --> 00:38:42,800
it's really. I watched it with
my nephews in Chicago. They're very

545
00:38:42,880 --> 00:38:45,639
much into it, Nicholas, that's
all like he talks about that shit.

546
00:38:45,159 --> 00:38:49,880
Ah and you know, got a
little stoned and watched it with them.

547
00:38:50,280 --> 00:38:53,880
That's the best. But no,
but if you watch documentaries there there's like

548
00:38:54,880 --> 00:39:01,760
there's like proof, you know,
there's some documentations of this stuff. It's

549
00:39:01,880 --> 00:39:07,480
just like if this didn't happen,
and it was just this giant conspiracy that

550
00:39:07,559 --> 00:39:13,760
this entire town in Brazil was in
on but gained nothing from right, And

551
00:39:14,039 --> 00:39:16,400
you know, there's like the military
came in and had to quarantine off a

552
00:39:16,400 --> 00:39:20,760
part of the city for a while, and they would be like the most

553
00:39:20,760 --> 00:39:29,440
elaborate hoax that gain nobody anything ever, And it's hard to believe that like

554
00:39:29,480 --> 00:39:32,400
this didn't happen when you see all
the people in this town talking about it

555
00:39:32,400 --> 00:39:37,440
and all the different experiences, and
so many of them have you know,

556
00:39:37,519 --> 00:39:39,719
they don't know each other, but
they all are kind of saying the same

557
00:39:39,760 --> 00:39:45,639
thing. Like the smell that the
alien game off was just this like horrible

558
00:39:45,960 --> 00:39:50,639
ammonia sulfur smell that would like stick
in your nose for days. Like the

559
00:39:50,679 --> 00:39:52,280
whole hospital where they took it to, they had to shut that whole wing

560
00:39:52,320 --> 00:39:55,360
down for a while. The girls
that walk through the thing, they said

561
00:39:55,400 --> 00:40:02,000
that they smelled this smell. There's
multiple people that describe the aircraft exactly the

562
00:40:02,000 --> 00:40:06,440
same, different people. There's no
pictures, no pictures of the aircraft.

563
00:40:06,760 --> 00:40:09,480
There's no pictures of the aircraft.
That would have been the first thing I've

564
00:40:09,519 --> 00:40:14,679
done. So go get the polaroid
camera, right, Why is nobody taking

565
00:40:14,679 --> 00:40:17,360
their picture? Okay, So apparently
the crash so that it's like this.

566
00:40:17,559 --> 00:40:21,039
It kind of looks like a school
bus, like a round school bus,

567
00:40:21,119 --> 00:40:22,840
and it's kind of just floating in
the sky or whatever, and then it

568
00:40:22,880 --> 00:40:28,639
crashes. There's one guy nearby.
He runs over to the thing, and

569
00:40:28,760 --> 00:40:31,079
within a few minutes the military is
already there and they tell him to get

570
00:40:31,280 --> 00:40:36,119
beat it, get lost. Wow. So I mean, I don't he

571
00:40:36,119 --> 00:40:37,400
didn't have like a polaroid camera on
him, I get, you know what

572
00:40:37,440 --> 00:40:40,320
I mean? Do we think the
government is hiding all this? Like?

573
00:40:40,360 --> 00:40:45,119
Why why would the government? If
you watch these day, yeah, why

574
00:40:45,159 --> 00:40:47,599
would they? What is in it
for them to be like we won't show

575
00:40:47,599 --> 00:40:52,360
you this air Where are they hiding
this aircraft? Well? I don't.

576
00:40:52,440 --> 00:40:55,679
I think the aircraft is in pieces
or was. But I don't think the

577
00:40:55,719 --> 00:40:58,639
government's just going to come out and
be like, oh, yeah, this

578
00:40:58,760 --> 00:41:00,159
story's real. Aliens are real.
I mean, that would be like the

579
00:41:00,199 --> 00:41:05,920
biggest news story that ever hit the
entire world. I know, but what

580
00:41:06,079 --> 00:41:09,039
I don't understand. What's in it
for the government to be like people can't

581
00:41:09,079 --> 00:41:15,679
know that? Well, it would
drive I think the entire world would flip

582
00:41:15,760 --> 00:41:19,360
upside down if we learned that they
were actual aliens, Like and watching us

583
00:41:19,440 --> 00:41:23,320
in the documentary. I watched that
they were talking, the military was talking.

584
00:41:23,360 --> 00:41:28,599
I think it was like one of
the air Force bases in Florida that

585
00:41:28,960 --> 00:41:31,559
Nixon came. They talked about how
he came in the middle of the night,

586
00:41:31,800 --> 00:41:37,039
he only had one he had like
one driver with him, no bodyguards,

587
00:41:37,079 --> 00:41:40,000
no, no secret service. Came
on to the property. They took

588
00:41:40,079 --> 00:41:45,639
him into an area where there was
you know, it was it was you

589
00:41:45,719 --> 00:41:51,639
know, you have to have special
clearance to get in. And they show

590
00:41:51,800 --> 00:41:54,760
like, you know, the different
containers and stuff where they keep these things,

591
00:41:54,800 --> 00:41:59,760
and I don't know. And then
recently they in all over the news

592
00:41:59,880 --> 00:42:05,800
or recently they show those you know, aircrafts that looked that you are identifiable.

593
00:42:05,840 --> 00:42:08,800
I mean, the government released all
or not all, but a lot

594
00:42:08,840 --> 00:42:13,280
of like the UFO, you know, what they've been collecting over the years,

595
00:42:13,280 --> 00:42:15,559
and they came back with a lot
of like oh, this explains this,

596
00:42:15,599 --> 00:42:17,159
and this explains that, but there's
still a ton of them where they

597
00:42:17,199 --> 00:42:21,519
just go, yeah, we can't
explain this aerial phenomena, howe how this

598
00:42:21,639 --> 00:42:28,400
moves and operates. Have you seen
that video of the our military got that

599
00:42:28,559 --> 00:42:31,360
they show the the aircraft moving in
a weird direction, kind of hovering,

600
00:42:31,360 --> 00:42:35,679
and then it takes off, it
disappears. Well, it's like the pilots

601
00:42:35,719 --> 00:42:37,920
or like F sixteen fighter pilot or
something. I mean, it's it's not

602
00:42:38,000 --> 00:42:43,760
like a nobody taking it's like the
most advanced level of military. Maybe it's

603
00:42:43,760 --> 00:42:47,639
a helicopter pilot and they're watching this
thing on their radar and they're like baffled

604
00:42:47,639 --> 00:42:50,719
by it, and they're going like, how is it moving like that?

605
00:42:50,760 --> 00:42:53,039
What is that thing that's that shouldn't
be doing it like that? And it's

606
00:42:53,280 --> 00:42:57,280
yeah, that's probably the most well
known, Like, yeah, that just

607
00:42:57,360 --> 00:43:00,599
came out and they tried to hide
it. Yeah, it's yard new career

608
00:43:01,400 --> 00:43:07,119
studying unidentified flying objects alien culture.
Yeah, why don't you do that,

609
00:43:07,199 --> 00:43:10,639
Kaylin? I think there's a lot
these days. Yeah, I should do

610
00:43:10,679 --> 00:43:15,639
a whole this this week in alien
segment on the show where I go research

611
00:43:15,679 --> 00:43:17,280
what's happening. But I did just
want to share this one thing. This

612
00:43:17,360 --> 00:43:21,519
was a headline. This is a
headline a week ago. Right, it's

613
00:43:21,559 --> 00:43:27,320
from the Space Force chief of the
US who says that the US is facing

614
00:43:27,360 --> 00:43:34,880
a new era of threats beyond Earth. Interesting. Whoa, yeah, what

615
00:43:34,920 --> 00:43:38,480
does that mean you're not talking about
like an asteroid, right right? Yeah?

616
00:43:38,960 --> 00:43:42,360
Yeah. I talked to my nephew
about it. He goes on and

617
00:43:42,440 --> 00:43:45,880
on and I he's just like a
wealth of information. I mean because he

618
00:43:46,159 --> 00:43:51,079
researches it and it's fascinating to him. Yeah, this is something we should

619
00:43:51,119 --> 00:43:54,320
put Sonny onto. Yeah, I
don't know unless it doesn't if it has

620
00:43:54,320 --> 00:44:00,440
a basketball and then maybe Sonny's really
into sports right now? Is yeah?

621
00:44:00,519 --> 00:44:04,400
All right? Because aren't you going
to the Lakers. Lakers and Warriors are

622
00:44:04,480 --> 00:44:07,760
playing. Yeah, the Lakers and
Warriors game this Saturday. Yeah. I

623
00:44:08,039 --> 00:44:13,639
take Sonny to do his podcast on
Wednesday's bench Warmers on iTunes and he does

624
00:44:13,639 --> 00:44:16,280
his podcast and all the way home
is all he talks about is the sports

625
00:44:16,320 --> 00:44:22,039
and boxing event that's coming up.
Yeah, that's a I had a bad

626
00:44:22,119 --> 00:44:25,639
dream about Sunny last night. What
it was horrible. I couldn't go back

627
00:44:25,679 --> 00:44:30,440
to sleep because they went to Stagecoach
over the weekend. Oh my god,

628
00:44:30,760 --> 00:44:36,760
buried the league. Yeah yeah,
they opened, Um happen what happened?

629
00:44:37,199 --> 00:44:39,639
Um? They went, Well,
I didn't go. They went with their

630
00:44:39,719 --> 00:44:45,480
dad and they had a great time
and then they came back. But I

631
00:44:45,519 --> 00:44:50,639
was talking to Sonny when he got
back, and then I went to bed,

632
00:44:51,079 --> 00:44:54,239
and then I had a dream that
Sonny came to my It seemed so

633
00:44:54,320 --> 00:44:58,400
real, like he came to my
condo because I was at the condo.

634
00:44:58,519 --> 00:45:02,639
And then he gotten an uber to
go back home. And then I was

635
00:45:02,679 --> 00:45:07,719
trying to track him on my you
know, you can track the uber on

636
00:45:07,760 --> 00:45:10,559
the left, but my phone kept
going dark. I'm trying to track him,

637
00:45:10,599 --> 00:45:15,480
trying to track him, and then
I called I called the driver.

638
00:45:15,840 --> 00:45:19,199
I was able to call the driver, and the driver goes, I'm I'm

639
00:45:19,239 --> 00:45:22,599
taking him somewhere you don't need him, and that was any hung up on

640
00:45:22,679 --> 00:45:25,440
me, and I was like what
And I couldn't track him, and he

641
00:45:25,519 --> 00:45:30,320
was gone, and I was about
to call like HP sheriffs, you know,

642
00:45:30,360 --> 00:45:31,960
I was like, oh my god, what am I gonna do?

643
00:45:32,000 --> 00:45:36,079
What am I racking? My phone
kept going dark. I was like,

644
00:45:36,159 --> 00:45:38,119
well, my phone's not working.
How am I gonna can't even call the

645
00:45:38,159 --> 00:45:44,599
police because and then I woke up. Oh my god, Yeah, that's

646
00:45:44,639 --> 00:45:46,880
the worst. Yeah. Did you
have that thing when you woke up where

647
00:45:46,920 --> 00:45:51,320
you like, okay, okay,
it was just or did you have the

648
00:45:52,039 --> 00:45:55,119
wait? Was I dreaming, do
I know where? It was? Very

649
00:45:55,159 --> 00:45:59,639
I was very disoriented. But then
I was like, oh my god,

650
00:45:59,639 --> 00:46:01,760
think I was just a dream.
I don't have to call it HB now,

651
00:46:01,880 --> 00:46:06,039
Like like what do you do if
all of a sudden that happens,

652
00:46:06,079 --> 00:46:07,280
Like, I don't know, And
I don't hate that feeling though, when

653
00:46:07,280 --> 00:46:10,119
you feel like you need proof,
Yeah, when you're like, well I'm

654
00:46:10,159 --> 00:46:16,400
not right where Sunny is, Like
then you have to go to find my

655
00:46:16,400 --> 00:46:21,159
phone or whatever to yeah life through
sixty yes, and they go, okay,

656
00:46:21,440 --> 00:46:23,760
I know where he is. Yeah. It is really nice waking up

657
00:46:23,800 --> 00:46:27,159
after a bad dream going okay,
it was all just a dream. But

658
00:46:28,079 --> 00:46:31,840
how fucking frustrating it is that things
never work properly in your dreams and you're

659
00:46:32,000 --> 00:46:35,480
like your phone keeps dying, Like
that happens to me all the time.

660
00:46:35,559 --> 00:46:37,800
Yeah, Like I'm dreaming that I'm
trying to like post a podcast, and

661
00:46:37,880 --> 00:46:42,519
like I can't get my computer to
work properly, and you just like spend

662
00:46:42,639 --> 00:46:45,320
so long trying to do this thing
and you can never do it. I

663
00:46:45,360 --> 00:46:47,239
wake up frustrated, yes, like
oh it's a dream, but god damn

664
00:46:47,239 --> 00:46:52,159
it, I know I know the
thing never works yeah. Yeah, yeah,

665
00:46:52,239 --> 00:46:54,280
my legs don't work. Sometimes in
my dream I can't walk. Oh

666
00:46:54,360 --> 00:47:00,119
that's a frequent one of mine.
Can't move, can't move. Yeah.

667
00:47:00,199 --> 00:47:04,639
Yeah, the kids went and uh, Natalia shared Life three sixty with me

668
00:47:04,679 --> 00:47:07,559
because I can see them on my
Find my Friends all the time, you

669
00:47:07,599 --> 00:47:10,960
know, find my people on your
iPhone. But then she shared Life three

670
00:47:12,079 --> 00:47:15,239
sixty. I don't know why,
but I was like, okay, good

671
00:47:15,800 --> 00:47:19,199
and so I could see them like, you know, and I don't.

672
00:47:19,280 --> 00:47:22,880
I haven't talked to them. They
just got back like I really, I'm

673
00:47:22,920 --> 00:47:24,920
I'm gonna talk to them tonight.
So I haven't really heard too much how

674
00:47:24,960 --> 00:47:28,880
it was, but apparently they had
They want to go to college there.

675
00:47:29,119 --> 00:47:32,639
Yeah, in a great time.
I totally see myself in college here.

676
00:47:34,079 --> 00:47:37,880
You're like, umm, it's kind
of a festival. It's note Yeah,

677
00:47:37,880 --> 00:47:43,920
that's where Natalia wants to go Indio, California. But they had fun.

678
00:47:44,440 --> 00:47:46,480
Yeah, they had a great time. Yeah. Yeah, who were some

679
00:47:46,519 --> 00:47:50,800
of the bands? Are they all
country bands? They're country bands. Sonny's

680
00:47:50,840 --> 00:47:52,199
not going to do it. It's
a whole country thing, right, there's

681
00:47:52,239 --> 00:47:57,440
nothing but country. It's teams right
right, right. But Natalia likes so

682
00:47:57,719 --> 00:48:00,199
I don't know the name of the
country guy, but he was on EM

683
00:48:00,360 --> 00:48:05,239
last week and Natalia went. Adam
was able to take Natalia to meet the

684
00:48:05,280 --> 00:48:09,800
guy and he was headlining at stagecoach
oh m. So I don't know if

685
00:48:09,840 --> 00:48:14,119
she got backstage to see it.
I don't know if Adam got them in,

686
00:48:14,199 --> 00:48:17,079
and who knows. It's so frustrating
when the kids are this age.

687
00:48:19,000 --> 00:48:22,079
When your kids were young, okay, it was like a double edged sword.

688
00:48:22,400 --> 00:48:25,360
When the kids are young, you
know every aspect of their life backwards

689
00:48:25,400 --> 00:48:30,599
and forwards. There's no secrets,
right, they're keeping secrets. That's troubling,

690
00:48:30,079 --> 00:48:34,360
you know. Five, So you
get this real sweet spot between like

691
00:48:35,039 --> 00:48:40,360
five, six, seven, eight, nine, ten mm ten. They

692
00:48:40,400 --> 00:48:44,519
start becoming a lot more of their
own person where they have some thoughts and

693
00:48:44,599 --> 00:48:47,039
ideas that differ from yours. Which
then that's frustrating because you're like, m

694
00:48:47,599 --> 00:48:52,119
right, I'm gonna need you to
defer to me most shit for a while,

695
00:48:52,280 --> 00:48:54,480
you know. But then they start
having their own thoughts and like,

696
00:48:54,719 --> 00:48:59,760
I think they're grown right, right, And then you start not always a

697
00:49:00,280 --> 00:49:02,039
percent knowing what they're doing, because
like you can track them, but let's

698
00:49:02,039 --> 00:49:07,119
say they're out hanging out with their
friends at eleven twelve. I was doing

699
00:49:07,119 --> 00:49:09,599
some shady shit already at that age. Yeah, playing a little like sexual

700
00:49:09,639 --> 00:49:14,679
games with like kids in the neighborhood, right, yeah, who's with me?

701
00:49:15,039 --> 00:49:20,159
I'm like, you go, looking
at feeling a penis. I was

702
00:49:20,199 --> 00:49:22,000
like, this thing's kind of rough, touching it with a leaf. Like

703
00:49:22,079 --> 00:49:27,480
there were things going on that I
was not sharing with my parents right right

704
00:49:27,719 --> 00:49:31,000
at all? Yeah, you know, playing doctor. I mean, I

705
00:49:31,000 --> 00:49:34,719
don't know how old I was,
but like I have vivid me, I

706
00:49:34,760 --> 00:49:39,920
was probably kind of old, right
twenty nine. I had a next door

707
00:49:39,960 --> 00:49:44,960
neighbor who was a boy, and
he was like my best friend. But

708
00:49:45,000 --> 00:49:49,199
then we as we grew up,
we started like, like you know,

709
00:49:49,320 --> 00:49:54,519
playing around playing doctor. Hey,
I kind of remember that my parents hated

710
00:49:54,599 --> 00:49:58,880
his parents for some reason. Now, my dad liked them, my mom

711
00:49:59,039 --> 00:50:02,639
didn't like them because I grew palm
trees and their palm trees like drop leaves

712
00:50:02,639 --> 00:50:08,519
all over. Right. They your
mom really wouldn't have liked him if she

713
00:50:08,599 --> 00:50:14,000
knew what you guys were up to, right right, But um, yeah,

714
00:50:14,039 --> 00:50:19,800
but it wasn't like honestly, it
wasn't any kind of It's different obviously

715
00:50:20,000 --> 00:50:24,360
we're not talking about like any kind
of molestation. We're talking about like kids

716
00:50:24,480 --> 00:50:29,000
going like, oh, let me
see your penis, you know, let

717
00:50:29,000 --> 00:50:35,559
me rub it right, let me
pull my rub it against me. I

718
00:50:35,559 --> 00:50:38,280
mean, I'm telling you that's what
we were doing. I am sorry,

719
00:50:38,320 --> 00:50:43,320
but that is what I was doing
in like some girl who lived across the

720
00:50:43,320 --> 00:50:46,920
street from these garage. Yes,
like we would play these games where there

721
00:50:47,000 --> 00:50:51,480
was like a mattress there for some
unknown reason. Yeah. Yeah, I

722
00:50:51,519 --> 00:50:54,639
had a girl across the street too
that we would go and play with Christina

723
00:50:54,800 --> 00:50:59,599
I'll never forget. Yeah, we
were like, you know, experimenting.

724
00:50:59,679 --> 00:51:01,239
Yeah, and a lot of times
it was like minute you get in there,

725
00:51:01,280 --> 00:51:06,039
it's like pants off right right,
Like that's what we were there for.

726
00:51:06,159 --> 00:51:08,079
It wasn't. I mean, kids
are dirty, they have a little

727
00:51:08,119 --> 00:51:13,719
dirty mind. Yes, yes,
I watched. I've been watching a lot

728
00:51:13,760 --> 00:51:16,360
of I wanted to talk more about
it on Friday. Okay, Well I'll

729
00:51:16,400 --> 00:51:22,239
tell you on Friday about a documentary
I watched about porn and kids. Oh

730
00:51:22,360 --> 00:51:27,320
yeah, So I'm kind of glad
that porn wasn't around when I was a

731
00:51:27,400 --> 00:51:30,039
kid, because I would have been
all over that and it would have probably

732
00:51:30,079 --> 00:51:32,360
ruined me. I would not have
understood, like, at least as you

733
00:51:32,400 --> 00:51:36,840
and I have talked about many times. We could just read the porn and

734
00:51:36,880 --> 00:51:39,519
then we used our imaginations, right, you know everybody likes kids to read.

735
00:51:39,719 --> 00:51:45,239
Yeah. Yeah, we'll talk more
about it on Friday. All right,

736
00:51:45,519 --> 00:51:50,400
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748
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759
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773
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All right, that's our show.
Thank you so much, Kayla,

774
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Thank you everybody. You're a parrot
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