WEBVTT 1 00:00:34.640 --> 00:00:39.039 And we're live with producer Brian's wild Card after Dark. Thank you? Oh 2 00:00:39.079 --> 00:00:43.200 are we on? Hi? Everybody? Laura can't be here tonight. No, 3 00:00:43.479 --> 00:00:47.880 I can't. I'm here. I'm here, dan it she's she's here. 4 00:00:48.119 --> 00:00:52.000 I'm trying to. Oh, I want I am producer, Brian, 5 00:00:52.240 --> 00:00:55.159 are really here? I help you? Laura? Yes? Please do ready, 6 00:00:55.240 --> 00:00:57.679 hold on, I have ready, just do it like you normally would. 7 00:00:57.719 --> 00:01:00.600 Okay, to give you all such a show that you're not going to 8 00:01:00.679 --> 00:01:03.799 believe it. This is Laura Kane after Dark. Thank you. We've already 9 00:01:03.799 --> 00:01:07.040 moved on past. Yeah, this is Eric Rammer after Dark. So literally 10 00:01:07.159 --> 00:01:11.200 it's a use it or lose it situation. Oh my gosh, it's I 11 00:01:11.239 --> 00:01:18.480 think Eric Rimmer after Dark really falls off the tongue so easily technologies. No, 12 00:01:18.719 --> 00:01:23.000 I know it's true. Look there, Oh look at that Kane. 13 00:01:23.640 --> 00:01:26.920 Okay, Oh my gosh, all it I went to blue to tooth. 14 00:01:26.959 --> 00:01:29.599 I don't want to know. All it took was Brian to touch it. 15 00:01:30.040 --> 00:01:32.359 I've had a tough week. Okay, no, not a good week, 16 00:01:32.400 --> 00:01:34.760 but it's kind of it roughly. Have you are you okay? Yeah, 17 00:01:34.760 --> 00:01:38.920 I'm fine. Okay. Anyway, Hi, welcome to Laura Kane after dark. 18 00:01:38.159 --> 00:01:41.319 You guys, we made it through another week. We did. It's 19 00:01:41.359 --> 00:01:44.159 almost September. Oh my god, I don't want to talk about it. 20 00:01:45.640 --> 00:01:51.719 Actually will be September. So they is September because of this is Thursday? 21 00:01:52.280 --> 00:01:55.120 Are you kidding me? September one? No, it's not. It is 22 00:01:56.040 --> 00:01:57.719 Are you? Are you gonna? Are you? Are you? And producer 23 00:01:57.760 --> 00:02:00.280 Brian gonna miss me for the next two weeks? Wait? Hold on, 24 00:02:00.560 --> 00:02:12.159 wait what you're leaving thirty one tomorrow September? Can we start this whole thing 25 00:02:12.199 --> 00:02:20.479 again? No, wild card, bitch, Come on, we have to 26 00:02:20.520 --> 00:02:27.360 be proper starting. We didn't remember that I was leaving. Okay, we're 27 00:02:27.800 --> 00:02:30.159 no, no, no, don't he's going on vacation. Don't worry. 28 00:02:30.199 --> 00:02:36.159 We're not going on vacation. We're doing We're we're recording. We are. 29 00:02:36.520 --> 00:02:40.159 Yes, I'll tell you the schedule. It's not a surprise Saturday night. 30 00:02:40.199 --> 00:02:44.960 Please be here. No, yeah, I know. To cancel all your 31 00:02:44.960 --> 00:02:47.360 plans this weekend. We have to do a bunch of podcasts. Anyway. 32 00:02:47.360 --> 00:02:52.439 Thank you so much for watching or listening or wherever you grab this podcast. 33 00:02:52.520 --> 00:02:57.680 We sure appreciate it. Very pretty and tangerine. Thank you. You're welcome. 34 00:02:57.759 --> 00:03:00.960 I appreciate it. And how's it here today? Thank you better than 35 00:03:01.000 --> 00:03:07.879 it was on Tuesday? Yes or whatever. Okay, if you haven't subscribed 36 00:03:07.919 --> 00:03:09.680 to our channel yet, have it really great? We would love it. 37 00:03:09.719 --> 00:03:15.120 We would love to go over two thousand subscribers. Click that little subscribe button 38 00:03:15.680 --> 00:03:19.840 and on Instagram you can subscribe and you can four ninety nine a month it 39 00:03:19.919 --> 00:03:23.039 is, and you get special privileges, and we're there's some things we have 40 00:03:23.120 --> 00:03:29.039 cooked up that are coming that are exciting, so you're gonna want to be 41 00:03:29.080 --> 00:03:32.319 a subscriber. It's like, and that's on Instagram, and then of course 42 00:03:32.360 --> 00:03:37.280 just follow us also on Instagram. Okay, follow us, okay before we 43 00:03:37.319 --> 00:03:42.520 get If you don't follow us, Laura, it's kind of like what was 44 00:03:42.560 --> 00:03:46.319 that movie Mommy, dearist, I'm gonna hate you with a wirehanger. Yeah, 45 00:03:46.360 --> 00:03:50.120 no, I'm not a violent person. I don't do that. She 46 00:03:50.199 --> 00:03:53.039 makes me clean her floors with comet and a toothbrush. I felt like doing 47 00:03:53.599 --> 00:04:00.800 podcast like a reality TV. We're behind the scene. Oh my gosh, 48 00:04:00.840 --> 00:04:06.719 everything we do an amazing idea. We all need to shoot our own, 49 00:04:08.319 --> 00:04:14.520 our own what do they call it? Confessions? About about the show. 50 00:04:14.719 --> 00:04:17.360 We could do that. Do you do you watch enough reality TV where you 51 00:04:17.360 --> 00:04:23.560 know that kind of I've seen in the office. Oh, Brian, just 52 00:04:23.600 --> 00:04:27.360 watch one episode of Housewives of Beverly Hills. Yeah, like they do like 53 00:04:27.480 --> 00:04:30.920 little confessionals where they will we all have to look we all have to look 54 00:04:31.040 --> 00:04:35.000 our worst, like we all have to be so made up and in the 55 00:04:35.040 --> 00:04:41.600 most hideous Outfite me either, but I know that's that's the way they usually 56 00:04:41.639 --> 00:04:45.319 know. But what they do is they like they it's like a video of 57 00:04:45.399 --> 00:04:47.800 one of the cast members saying, oh, by the way, this bit 58 00:04:47.920 --> 00:04:50.160 over here, she did this and this and that, and like they did 59 00:04:50.279 --> 00:04:54.600 did tell secrets. It's confessional that could be fun, could be cool. 60 00:04:54.920 --> 00:04:57.480 Maybe not. We should do that for the next event. Actually, oh 61 00:04:57.519 --> 00:05:00.360 that'd be hilarious. We film the events like behind the scenes, and then 62 00:05:01.000 --> 00:05:05.199 we all take turns saying how much of a pain the people were. Oh 63 00:05:05.480 --> 00:05:10.040 my god, I'll be like Laura was a total pain in the asps. 64 00:05:10.120 --> 00:05:14.079 Oh my god, I'm like, the event's going great right now, two 65 00:05:14.079 --> 00:05:19.120 guys, Laura's been a total bitch. Hey, I can get to contact 66 00:05:19.160 --> 00:05:24.279 your mother. You wouldn't know the first thing about. Yes, I did 67 00:05:24.399 --> 00:05:28.720 this. I hope I don't sound perverted. But Brian's mom is hot. 68 00:05:30.680 --> 00:05:33.800 Yeah, my mom does like great, Oh my god, she's amazing looking. 69 00:05:33.879 --> 00:05:39.720 Man, we have a woman coming on. He was gonna she was 70 00:05:39.759 --> 00:05:44.120 on a reality show herself eight years ago, yes, Amy Previson, And 71 00:05:44.120 --> 00:05:46.920 we're gonna call her and she's gonna tell us what it was like and how 72 00:05:46.959 --> 00:05:51.680 she was treated and what the reality show is Young Nanny nine one one. 73 00:05:53.000 --> 00:05:58.879 Do you remember that show where they follow No, I think it's a I 74 00:05:58.879 --> 00:06:02.240 thought that nanny's were like the really old ladies. 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I know if 120 00:09:28.360 --> 00:09:33.720 I apologize my obviously my air conditioners broken and something something needs to be done. 121 00:09:35.159 --> 00:09:37.320 Just making us all a little bit on edge. Fans. You live 122 00:09:37.320 --> 00:09:41.240 in San Diego, you know it. I didn't need a fan, so 123 00:09:41.320 --> 00:09:43.519 I had a ac. You know it's bad when you and I both have 124 00:09:43.639 --> 00:09:48.840 boob sweat. Yes, I know boob sweat, crotch sweat, but sweat, 125 00:09:50.000 --> 00:09:56.039 it's not sweat. Oh my gosh. What was the other one? 126 00:09:56.080 --> 00:10:00.840 Goose and the we talked about this, ta, Well, there's that that's 127 00:10:00.879 --> 00:10:03.600 different. Yeah, that's but I well that well, I don't have one 128 00:10:03.639 --> 00:10:05.799 of those doing. No, you do not have a food pat All right, 129 00:10:05.840 --> 00:10:09.360 whatever, let's stop because now it's time for my host chat. And 130 00:10:09.399 --> 00:10:13.879 this is something that I'm very proud of. I'm very proud of this person, 131 00:10:13.399 --> 00:10:20.759 and she said with all her might, she goes, please tell people 132 00:10:20.840 --> 00:10:22.799 my name, because I am very proud of this. Her name is Madeleine. 133 00:10:24.279 --> 00:10:26.320 She reached out to me. She was one day sober, and she 134 00:10:26.440 --> 00:10:31.279 was terrified, and she didn't know what the heck to do. She just 135 00:10:31.360 --> 00:10:37.919 knew she was in trouble, and she was. She is the same age 136 00:10:37.000 --> 00:10:41.879 that I was when I finally got help. So immediately took to her. 137 00:10:43.039 --> 00:10:46.600 She was We checked in with each other every day. She deemed me. 138 00:10:46.879 --> 00:10:50.480 She'd send me pictures every day this is how I feel on day five, 139 00:10:50.519 --> 00:10:54.480 and every day she would look like a little brighter, a little her face 140 00:10:54.480 --> 00:10:56.919 would be more clear, her hair would be more shiny. I mean, 141 00:10:58.000 --> 00:11:07.000 it was incredible. So on Sunday, I presented Madeleine with a thirty day 142 00:11:07.000 --> 00:11:11.679 token, one that I got my first thirty day token. I found it 143 00:11:11.440 --> 00:11:16.240 in my bunches of tokens that I have, I found my first thirty day 144 00:11:16.320 --> 00:11:20.399 and that's the most important one. That was I couldn't believe. I couldn't 145 00:11:20.440 --> 00:11:26.080 believe that I had made it thirty days without drinking. It was I felt 146 00:11:26.600 --> 00:11:31.240 in my life. It was the biggest accomplishment I'd ever made, and so 147 00:11:31.399 --> 00:11:33.879 I wanted her to feel as proud and she did, and she was just 148 00:11:33.919 --> 00:11:39.000 like lit from within. She is just doing great. And so I gave 149 00:11:39.000 --> 00:11:43.480 her that token, and I gave her a crystal, and I gave her 150 00:11:43.559 --> 00:11:46.840 something else and we just we had lunch after and it was just really great. 151 00:11:46.879 --> 00:11:50.399 And I just want you to know that it works, this the program. 152 00:11:50.440 --> 00:11:54.799 Whatever. You just reach out. If you think you have a problem, 153 00:11:54.799 --> 00:11:58.960 reach out, because there is help, there is a way out, 154 00:11:58.440 --> 00:12:03.080 and she is living proof. And I'm very proud of her. Madeline. 155 00:12:03.120 --> 00:12:07.440 Congratulations, that's amazing. Anyway, you'll have many more birthdays to come. 156 00:12:07.440 --> 00:12:09.679 Oh for sure. I have many many more tokens to give you. I'm 157 00:12:09.720 --> 00:12:13.240 just gonna keep getting them and giving them to you, passing them down. 158 00:12:13.799 --> 00:12:18.799 So what's up? Do you have a host chat? What's up? Have 159 00:12:18.360 --> 00:12:22.039 do any of you? Know? Well, you guys might did you ever 160 00:12:22.080 --> 00:12:26.279 watch Oranges the New Black? Oranges in New Black? Yes, i'd watched 161 00:12:26.279 --> 00:12:28.039 that. Yes, okay it was on Netflix. It was, Yes, 162 00:12:28.399 --> 00:12:33.279 it is still on Netflix. No it's it's I mean, I'm still it's 163 00:12:33.279 --> 00:12:35.960 probably I know, but still up there. Yes, Yes, it was 164 00:12:35.000 --> 00:12:39.679 a good show. Yes, so one of the main actresses on there. 165 00:12:39.720 --> 00:12:43.200 She's been in like American Horror Story. She was on Oranges the New Black 166 00:12:43.240 --> 00:12:46.440 for most of the seasons. Her name's Tarin Manning. I know that actress. 167 00:12:46.559 --> 00:12:52.679 Yes, have you seen the TikTok post. I think it's been pulled 168 00:12:52.759 --> 00:13:01.919 down now about it is the most bizarre thing did her. It's her and 169 00:13:01.200 --> 00:13:07.639 I don't know if she's high or if she's drunk or what the deal is, 170 00:13:07.240 --> 00:13:15.080 but she's talking about it's so bizarre. So she was having an affair 171 00:13:15.159 --> 00:13:22.679 with a married man and this is something that she admitted on on TikTok okay. 172 00:13:24.159 --> 00:13:31.919 And she her claim to this whole thing was he liked to have his 173 00:13:33.840 --> 00:13:41.720 buttled, okay, and she was going to buy him a boat until she 174 00:13:41.919 --> 00:13:46.559 was served by the wife with a restraining order. What a mess it is. 175 00:13:48.480 --> 00:13:52.200 The if you guys can still find why would she post that kind of 176 00:13:52.360 --> 00:13:58.039 I don't know, but it is the weird and she's attractive in the video 177 00:13:58.159 --> 00:14:00.960 you can't even tell it's her. She's got like an eight mile two. 178 00:14:01.519 --> 00:14:05.159 No, No, she wasn't able, she was a friend. She was 179 00:14:07.000 --> 00:14:11.840 Britney Murphy. Yes, I was thinking Britney Murphy. Yeah, well she 180 00:14:11.039 --> 00:14:15.840 looks like she's about eighty years old. Oh no, I don't know what's 181 00:14:15.879 --> 00:14:18.879 going on. But she has a face. It looks like she was made 182 00:14:18.879 --> 00:14:24.000 for meth. That's unfortunate, it is. But yeah, she's very thin. 183 00:14:24.279 --> 00:14:26.960 But I don't know if something is going on. I don't know if 184 00:14:26.000 --> 00:14:28.639 she's struggling with something, which if she is, I hope she gets help. 185 00:14:30.200 --> 00:14:33.000 But it it is pulled down. Yeah, I got pulled down. 186 00:14:33.279 --> 00:14:37.720 I don't know if they're still I'm sure you can google it and find it. 187 00:14:37.720 --> 00:14:39.480 It is the weirdest. I think. The worst thing you can find 188 00:14:39.519 --> 00:14:43.840 on TikTok, like do they have is there? Can you have nudity on 189 00:14:43.879 --> 00:14:46.759 TikTok? I'm not even sure. Can you say like the F word on 190 00:14:46.799 --> 00:14:50.240 TikTok? Yeah yeah you can. Yeah, you just can't do nudity, 191 00:14:50.360 --> 00:14:54.320 but you can. Then there's a there's a yeah, there's a there's a 192 00:14:54.320 --> 00:14:58.039 weird thing with TikTok where there was a guy on there that was saying that 193 00:15:00.679 --> 00:15:07.320 he you have to email them and send them proof that you've been talked about 194 00:15:07.399 --> 00:15:13.159 on large media formats to be verified. You know how you can be verified? 195 00:15:13.200 --> 00:15:18.440 On Instagram. Yes, and he's been covered on everything from Rolling Stone 196 00:15:18.480 --> 00:15:24.799 to the New New York Times to newsweek Time magazine. This guy that has 197 00:15:24.840 --> 00:15:31.039 a TikTok, and his TikTok is pretty interesting because he will call like if 198 00:15:31.080 --> 00:15:37.919 somebody, if a video goes viral of somebody being attacked by somebody or whatever, 199 00:15:37.360 --> 00:15:43.799 he will and his group will figure out who it is and call him 200 00:15:43.799 --> 00:15:48.000 out on it, like they've had people. They're like investigators. It's like 201 00:15:48.039 --> 00:15:50.039 a team of investigators. And they said, Nope, sorry, we're not 202 00:15:50.080 --> 00:15:56.200 gonna verify you because you have none of these media platforms that you say you've 203 00:15:56.240 --> 00:16:00.799 been interviewed by or anything anybody's ever heard of. And he's excuse me, 204 00:16:00.559 --> 00:16:06.200 Oh no, rolling Stone, newsweek Time, he's been on Entertainment Tonight or 205 00:16:06.360 --> 00:16:11.960 all this stuff. I mean it's crazy, but but yeah, this was 206 00:16:11.039 --> 00:16:15.159 on TikTok. And I just have to talk really quickly about Britney Spears. 207 00:16:15.240 --> 00:16:18.440 So, oh, Brittany, did you hear what happened today? No, 208 00:16:18.799 --> 00:16:30.519 Madonna's manager of forty thirty years. Yea GUYO Seri has stepped into manage her. 209 00:16:30.679 --> 00:16:33.840 Oh is that good? That's good. That's a good thing. That's 210 00:16:33.840 --> 00:16:37.519 a great thing, right, yes, because she who is she? Who 211 00:16:37.639 --> 00:16:41.080 is watching doesn't help her well, doesn't help her case if she clearly needs 212 00:16:41.120 --> 00:16:45.320 management. Oh yeah, but no, I mean at least he's competent. 213 00:16:45.519 --> 00:16:49.759 He's done a very good job managing Madonna's career and stuff. I think he's 214 00:16:49.799 --> 00:16:56.799 a very capable guy. I think he seems to have a lot of integrity. 215 00:16:56.519 --> 00:17:02.679 Yeah, and I mean these videos of her lately are so hard to 216 00:17:02.720 --> 00:17:07.000 watch since this whole divorce things were coming in. I mean it's just like 217 00:17:07.039 --> 00:17:11.960 a bunch of guys at her house and she's I don't know, it's well, 218 00:17:11.000 --> 00:17:14.880 hopefully this will help her. Yeah, we all admit that she may 219 00:17:14.960 --> 00:17:18.440 not. Maybe there was a reason she was under conservatorship in the first place. 220 00:17:18.559 --> 00:17:25.319 I think that that is not a question. I mean that is it's 221 00:17:25.319 --> 00:17:27.480 obvious there's something. Well, it's just the whole thing was Everyone's like this 222 00:17:27.599 --> 00:17:30.640 so unfair, She's being trapped. I'm like, well, and then the 223 00:17:30.680 --> 00:17:33.880 second she gets off, she like, within what it's been less than you. 224 00:17:33.160 --> 00:17:36.680 You got to give her a break, like even if she did need 225 00:17:36.720 --> 00:17:38.119 it, and then she's off of it, like she doesn't know how to 226 00:17:38.160 --> 00:17:42.920 handle life. She's been famous for so so long, for such much of 227 00:17:42.960 --> 00:17:47.880 her life. She has no support system, no family. I agree with 228 00:17:47.920 --> 00:17:52.319 you, I think that she she was, she never went to She's just 229 00:17:52.400 --> 00:17:56.240 lost. I don't think she ever. I feel so sorry for she's an 230 00:17:56.240 --> 00:17:57.680 adult. Well no, but she I don't think she ever. I don't 231 00:17:57.720 --> 00:18:00.359 even think she went to high school. I know, I don't. I 232 00:18:00.400 --> 00:18:03.640 think she was. I don't doubt she hasn't had a different life. But 233 00:18:03.960 --> 00:18:07.960 I don't know if that is a reason as to all for like that doesn't 234 00:18:07.960 --> 00:18:12.039 explain the rest of everything else, Like she still is a I I think 235 00:18:12.079 --> 00:18:17.319 that she's probably one of those people that's been so traumatized, you know, 236 00:18:17.359 --> 00:18:22.119 when they you know, they say that some people have been so traumatized at 237 00:18:22.160 --> 00:18:26.839 a certain age that they never get out of that all that age. That 238 00:18:26.880 --> 00:18:29.960 makes sense. I just think I'm not saying she should go back on their 239 00:18:29.960 --> 00:18:32.680 conservatorship or anything. I just think we all need to recognize that she does 240 00:18:32.720 --> 00:18:36.640 have some mental issues that is recognized. She needs she needs the help accordingly, 241 00:18:36.759 --> 00:18:41.720 for sure, and I really hope that someone steps in and just loves 242 00:18:41.799 --> 00:18:47.240 her, yeah, for who she is, not what she has. Because 243 00:18:47.279 --> 00:18:51.319 I think that that's it's so dangerous. Sam was that guy? Yeah, 244 00:18:51.400 --> 00:18:53.920 but it sounds like, well, it seemed if what he says is true, 245 00:18:55.160 --> 00:18:57.839 then she's the one that drove him away, right, But I bet 246 00:18:57.960 --> 00:19:04.839 I bet it. It cannot be easy to live with someone that has that 247 00:19:06.160 --> 00:19:11.559 level of fame, and it's probably in such a fame bubble that they they're 248 00:19:11.559 --> 00:19:15.599 not rational. I just don't think that she's probably rational. I don't. 249 00:19:15.680 --> 00:19:18.079 I don't think she's that famous anymore. I don't think she has that level. 250 00:19:18.240 --> 00:19:25.119 I'll I guarantee if she got it together, oh yeah, and when 251 00:19:25.319 --> 00:19:34.559 on tour, it would be Taylor Swift huge, She's one o thousand it 252 00:19:34.640 --> 00:19:40.559 together. She would sell out six nights at Sofi Stadium for sure, because 253 00:19:40.680 --> 00:19:45.440 number one, number one, everybody would go because they want to cheer her 254 00:19:45.440 --> 00:19:48.079 on, to cheer her on, And then there would also be the people 255 00:19:48.119 --> 00:19:49.680 that would go that would just want to see if it was going to be 256 00:19:49.720 --> 00:19:52.359 a spectacle or not. You know what I mean. Yeah, I mean 257 00:19:52.480 --> 00:19:59.279 unfortunately you do, but you do. Everybody roots for the underdog, yeah, 258 00:19:59.279 --> 00:20:02.559 and you know I mean yes, But the problem is that that under 259 00:20:02.640 --> 00:20:04.720 that story was what happened with her, and that undergode Dog got pushed into 260 00:20:04.720 --> 00:20:07.759 a situation that she clearly was not ready to handle, which was you know, 261 00:20:08.480 --> 00:20:14.000 unlimited supervision or unsupervised you know, like she cleaning some help. So 262 00:20:14.240 --> 00:20:18.480 the whole free Brittany movement I think was I don't want to say it was, 263 00:20:18.559 --> 00:20:22.240 it was, it was meant it came from a good place. Yeah. 264 00:20:22.279 --> 00:20:23.880 I just think you have to remember is that you know, it is 265 00:20:23.920 --> 00:20:27.160 hard to advocate for something and pretend like you have all the information when you 266 00:20:27.160 --> 00:20:33.240 don't. Right well, and I do think that everybody that was I don't 267 00:20:33.279 --> 00:20:38.599 know, if you saw Brittany Versus Spears on Netflix that documentary idea was insane 268 00:20:38.799 --> 00:20:44.920 and if all that is true, then I don't I don't question for a 269 00:20:45.000 --> 00:20:49.000 second that she was a little anyway crazy trial. So we've got any coming 270 00:20:49.000 --> 00:20:52.799 on. Yes, Well, first let's talk about Jay. Oh yes, 271 00:20:52.599 --> 00:20:57.400 I think so when you Okay, he's a money manager, he's a Certified 272 00:20:57.440 --> 00:21:03.279 Financial planner, and he's a Certified Divorce Financial Analyst that is a CDFA. 273 00:21:03.440 --> 00:21:07.519 You know, Oh yes, I do know that. I know then I 274 00:21:07.599 --> 00:21:11.519 know the letters very well now and uh, he's an all around great guy. 275 00:21:11.640 --> 00:21:15.119 Now you went and you had a meeting with him because Eric did it 276 00:21:15.359 --> 00:21:18.640 right and he saved his money and now he has some money to manage. 277 00:21:18.680 --> 00:21:23.480 So when you went there, did you guys discuss like like, hey, 278 00:21:23.599 --> 00:21:26.839 you could put it here, or you could put it there, or why 279 00:21:26.839 --> 00:21:29.759 don't you do this then? Or like is it just like what's the first 280 00:21:29.759 --> 00:21:33.319 meeting like? So it was very good and we really got to know each 281 00:21:33.319 --> 00:21:38.960 other and each other's story and which made me very comfortable. I like that. 282 00:21:40.200 --> 00:21:45.960 I do too. And then he requested to see my documents, which 283 00:21:47.000 --> 00:21:49.799 I had to get and I actually just got them and he just texted me 284 00:21:49.839 --> 00:21:52.440 to day to follow up. So okay, we'll be coming. Okay, 285 00:21:52.519 --> 00:21:56.240 good boy, you gotta get those documents in. I did get those. 286 00:21:56.960 --> 00:22:02.519 Hey. Uh. He is the best money manager I think in San Diego 287 00:22:02.599 --> 00:22:04.720 and beyond. He's been doing it for over thirty six years. He knows 288 00:22:04.720 --> 00:22:11.519 his stuff. His number is eight five eight five five two six nine six 289 00:22:11.640 --> 00:22:15.240 zero and he would be more than happy to answer you if you were to 290 00:22:15.319 --> 00:22:19.319 email. Oh my gosh, Yes, it's jayw at Capitol Growththinc dot com. 291 00:22:19.359 --> 00:22:22.039 He's a fast emailer too. He'll he'll get back to the right away 292 00:22:22.119 --> 00:22:26.559 and he's got a great website. It's www dot Capitol Growthinc dot com. 293 00:22:26.960 --> 00:22:30.680 J Wertzler for being a sponsor on Large after Dark. All right, so 294 00:22:30.680 --> 00:22:36.079 now we're gonna call my friend Amy Cubison. Oh my god, excited so 295 00:22:36.359 --> 00:22:41.200 quick? Don't we have one more? Oh? Oh? How could I 296 00:22:41.200 --> 00:22:45.119 forget? I made a lot of Yes. In fact, I just made 297 00:22:45.160 --> 00:22:48.440 an appointment and she's like, what do you for at Lay Cosmetic Surgery Center 298 00:22:48.440 --> 00:22:51.400 in metz Va? And I said, Hey, She goes, what would 299 00:22:51.400 --> 00:22:55.039 you like? And I go, I definitely want botox, but I want 300 00:22:55.079 --> 00:22:56.839 Amy. 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Okay, now 315 00:24:04.200 --> 00:24:10.519 it's time to call Amy Cubson, who was on a reality show, and 316 00:24:10.559 --> 00:24:12.720 she's gonna tell us what it was like being on a reality show since Bethany 317 00:24:12.799 --> 00:24:18.480 has come out with Raquel saying it's hell right, uh huh. Here she 318 00:24:18.640 --> 00:24:21.880 is, let's phone her right now. She says she's getting tired, so 319 00:24:21.920 --> 00:24:25.799 hopefully she's still a week. I know you went along. It should be 320 00:24:37.279 --> 00:24:41.200 Hi, Laura, Hi, Amy, Hi Amy, Welcome to Laura Kane 321 00:24:41.200 --> 00:24:48.039 after Dark. I'm like early bird, but I'll give you what I happened. 322 00:24:48.160 --> 00:24:49.119 Okay, give us what you have. Thanks, thank you, so 323 00:24:49.200 --> 00:24:52.440 much for going on. I know, it's all you really are an early 324 00:24:52.559 --> 00:24:56.480 bird. It's only it's just about eight thirty. You're you know, what 325 00:24:56.559 --> 00:24:59.319 time do you get up in the morning? And then I go nake me 326 00:24:59.440 --> 00:25:02.519 early. Say okay, okay, all right, well we'll make this quick. 327 00:25:02.559 --> 00:25:06.200 But we wanted to know since Bethany has come out and Raquel and they've 328 00:25:06.200 --> 00:25:10.599 said all these horrible things about reality TV, you yourself were on a reality 329 00:25:10.640 --> 00:25:14.279 show. Tell us about it. Yes, I was on a reality show. 330 00:25:14.839 --> 00:25:18.960 Actually when it just started. I'm trying to think. It was like 331 00:25:18.119 --> 00:25:25.200 seventeen years ago, and my friend were husband worked at Fox, and I 332 00:25:25.279 --> 00:25:29.880 was really stressed out because I had three kids two years apart, and they 333 00:25:29.920 --> 00:25:33.960 all stopped in my bed and I was exhausted and Neil didn't help my my 334 00:25:33.039 --> 00:25:40.519 husband X as them now. And so they arranged for an interview, and 335 00:25:40.640 --> 00:25:45.200 so did. We did a couple of interviews and and then they like, 336 00:25:45.279 --> 00:25:48.920 oh we like youth. They came down to the house and they did a 337 00:25:48.000 --> 00:25:51.599 video and everything, and like I didn't really think they said, there are 338 00:25:51.599 --> 00:25:53.480 a bunch of families doing it, so I didn't really think they'd pick up. 339 00:25:55.200 --> 00:26:00.799 But I honestly legitimately wanted help. Like I was exhausted. Neil had 340 00:26:00.839 --> 00:26:03.319 the pigeons. He didn't help me, and then the kids. We're all 341 00:26:03.359 --> 00:26:10.079 in my bed and I was exhausted. So I ah couldn't stop tairning at 342 00:26:10.079 --> 00:26:15.799 the time. Anyway, so we got they we got the ship the show, 343 00:26:15.279 --> 00:26:18.799 but Neil didn't want to deal. But then they give us fifty thousand 344 00:26:18.799 --> 00:26:25.039 dollars or so oh she was like he was like, okay. So anyway, 345 00:26:25.400 --> 00:26:29.799 what happened was is like so they came in and it was like for 346 00:26:29.880 --> 00:26:33.680 one episode, it was like a month long production. Oh God, probly 347 00:26:33.799 --> 00:26:40.440 hated us because it was all this like movie stuff on the street and anyway, 348 00:26:40.559 --> 00:26:45.599 So so when they first started talking to us, they give us personality 349 00:26:45.640 --> 00:26:52.400 tests, and I was like, they gave you what personality like m MPIs 350 00:26:52.480 --> 00:26:56.680 in different like personality tests like and I didn't I didn't really understand what I 351 00:26:56.799 --> 00:27:03.119 so I just did it, okay, and then and then anyway, so 352 00:27:03.200 --> 00:27:07.000 if they came in and I was allowed to see my friends, my family, 353 00:27:07.240 --> 00:27:11.759 like it was like three weeks, I wasn't not to give the gym. 354 00:27:11.920 --> 00:27:15.519 I wasn't not to leave, Okay, So like if one day, 355 00:27:15.599 --> 00:27:18.079 you know, I think seen go to school. So one day, like 356 00:27:18.839 --> 00:27:22.039 I had to pretend to JOm like gives the school and I went to Starbucks 357 00:27:22.480 --> 00:27:26.200 and they're like, like, you need to get home now. Okay, 358 00:27:26.279 --> 00:27:29.960 So number that was number one, and then at first I was like, 359 00:27:29.960 --> 00:27:33.160 oh my gosh, like I don't I don't, I don't think I'll cry. 360 00:27:33.359 --> 00:27:37.200 I really really need you guys and the help. So anyway, so 361 00:27:37.240 --> 00:27:47.400 what happened was in retrospect, what happened was they were manipulating the times, 362 00:27:47.400 --> 00:27:49.640 like they made me look like an idiot, and Neil had the pigeons, 363 00:27:51.119 --> 00:27:53.200 and they decided to pick on me because I'm more of a character, you 364 00:27:53.240 --> 00:27:57.720 know. So they would not let us sleep and then they'd wake me up 365 00:27:57.759 --> 00:28:02.480 in the middle of the dight. And then they would have like they paid 366 00:28:02.599 --> 00:28:06.039 Jack William to hit Jack and to act up. So they were paying I 367 00:28:06.039 --> 00:28:10.079 didn't even know this till later. They're paying my kids? Are they there? 368 00:28:10.079 --> 00:28:15.079 Were they there? Yeah? Pretty much they were camping out and like 369 00:28:15.079 --> 00:28:18.680 they'd let us sleep, but they would wake me up at the crack of 370 00:28:18.759 --> 00:28:22.240 dawn and they would wait it. I'm telling you, like it was like 371 00:28:22.799 --> 00:28:26.640 I was exhausted, and I was like I couldn't see any family or workout. 372 00:28:26.680 --> 00:28:30.640 I mean for me, that was like crazy. And then so then 373 00:28:30.799 --> 00:28:37.039 what happened was is they switched from you know, helping me to all of 374 00:28:37.039 --> 00:28:42.599 a sudden picking on me. And because I have ADHD and I have some 375 00:28:42.759 --> 00:28:48.960 abandonment stuff, because they started like you know, you know, like saying, 376 00:28:48.079 --> 00:28:51.960 you're not following the schedule. And I was close friends with a nanny, 377 00:28:52.079 --> 00:28:55.160 nanny Stella. I still talked her, you're not following the schedule, 378 00:28:55.160 --> 00:28:57.200 and they started screaming at me. And the more they screamed at me, 379 00:28:57.279 --> 00:29:02.240 the more anxious I thought. And then I would make mistakes. But they 380 00:29:02.319 --> 00:29:06.519 also would manipulate, you know, like they would say I was sleeping at 381 00:29:06.519 --> 00:29:10.319 this time, We're doing this this time, and it wasn't true anyway. 382 00:29:10.599 --> 00:29:17.680 So what happened finally was the nanny came in and she's told me, I'm 383 00:29:17.720 --> 00:29:22.359 done with you on a fucking quit. You're you're useless. Okay, So 384 00:29:22.440 --> 00:29:26.359 she says that she says't camera, and I lost it. I hadn't. 385 00:29:26.640 --> 00:29:30.960 I dropped now, I'm telling you. It was like the worst feeling in 386 00:29:32.000 --> 00:29:33.880 the world I felt. So I'm like, oh, She's like, I've 387 00:29:33.920 --> 00:29:38.200 never had a problem with anybody. You don't listen, you don't care, 388 00:29:38.519 --> 00:29:42.200 Like it was like stuff in my childhood, like you know, my ADHD 389 00:29:42.400 --> 00:29:48.079 stuff. And she literally I started hyper sobbing and hyper ventyling. Okay, 390 00:29:48.680 --> 00:29:53.559 sobbing and hyperventyling, and then Neil kicked the camera people out because they're trying 391 00:29:53.559 --> 00:29:56.799 to film me. He was like, get out, get out, you 392 00:29:56.799 --> 00:30:00.720 know, and I literally I called my friend, one of my friends, 393 00:30:02.119 --> 00:30:06.960 and I was it was like it triggered me, Oh my god. Do 394 00:30:07.039 --> 00:30:11.759 you think this is still like this is what happens on like all reality TV? 395 00:30:11.920 --> 00:30:15.200 Is this? Is this what happened on vander Pump. Is this why? 396 00:30:15.160 --> 00:30:18.480 Yeah? You know some people are made out you look like villains. 397 00:30:18.119 --> 00:30:23.599 Yes, I'm gonna mean it's always they always have a you know, motive, 398 00:30:23.680 --> 00:30:26.720 and I'll tell you some stuff I know from other shows. So anyway, 399 00:30:26.759 --> 00:30:30.319 so when she did that, I literally had a nervous rightdown. I 400 00:30:30.400 --> 00:30:34.480 was like freaking out. And then the next day the producer came in she 401 00:30:34.519 --> 00:30:38.920 goes, I'm sorry, you're sad, but it's all gonna be good today. 402 00:30:40.079 --> 00:30:41.839 And I'm like, what do you mean She's like, it's all gonna 403 00:30:41.839 --> 00:30:45.599 be happy today. So Nanny Stella came in. She was, I'm so 404 00:30:45.640 --> 00:30:48.400 sorry they did that. They made me sit that to you. She said, 405 00:30:48.680 --> 00:30:52.160 they made me sit at to you and she said, I'm so so 406 00:30:52.200 --> 00:30:56.319 sorry, and I was, I mean literally, I mean I felt like 407 00:30:56.920 --> 00:31:00.359 it was awful because I was, you know, younger, and I had 408 00:31:00.400 --> 00:31:03.960 abandoned stuff and I was a sensitive soul. So anyway, so and all 409 00:31:03.960 --> 00:31:07.680 of sudd they're like, Okay, it's all happy, and like film this 410 00:31:07.920 --> 00:31:12.160 happy and it was so weird. And then after a psychologist came in and 411 00:31:12.359 --> 00:31:15.720 give us tests again, and I go, why are you getting us these 412 00:31:15.799 --> 00:31:19.039 chests? He goes, we want to make sure you make interesting TV. 413 00:31:19.200 --> 00:31:23.480 But you're not going to have a mental breakdown, as we said, so 414 00:31:23.599 --> 00:31:27.200 they give you you know yeah. So I was like, oh my god. 415 00:31:27.319 --> 00:31:33.319 So I felt like used and abused. So so after that I was 416 00:31:33.640 --> 00:31:38.359 really feeling weird. And so I started talking to other families from Fox. 417 00:31:38.720 --> 00:31:41.720 You know that we're on Nanny nine O one. We started all talking and 418 00:31:41.720 --> 00:31:48.319 they were all talking about how they manipulate and change and surprise you and hurt 419 00:31:48.359 --> 00:31:51.480 you and have your kids. They pay their kids to your kids to these 420 00:31:51.480 --> 00:31:55.079 bad things, and we were all like comforting. And also I got a 421 00:31:55.200 --> 00:31:59.759 cease and assist letter from Fox that was not allowed to talk to the news 422 00:32:00.079 --> 00:32:04.519 media anybody, and I wasn't allowed to talk to any family that had gone 423 00:32:04.559 --> 00:32:10.319 through this. Oh my god, okay, wow so this wow. No. 424 00:32:10.599 --> 00:32:15.000 In my head, I was like I felt like raped. I mean, 425 00:32:15.200 --> 00:32:17.200 I don't, it doesn't sounds like it's such a strong word. So 426 00:32:17.279 --> 00:32:22.200 it was like and I felt like like I wanted to go to somebody and 427 00:32:22.240 --> 00:32:24.119 be like, this is so unfair, but it's like I felt like I 428 00:32:24.119 --> 00:32:28.640 couldn't do that because and then they put us from the Nanny Man on one 429 00:32:28.680 --> 00:32:32.319 book. It was all over the place and they played our episodes thousands and 430 00:32:32.359 --> 00:32:37.119 thousands of times over different countries and people, you know, might in laws 431 00:32:37.160 --> 00:32:42.359 from England and be like seeing it. So they got a lot of did 432 00:32:42.440 --> 00:32:45.880 you get paid for the times it played? Or only that one who loves 433 00:32:45.880 --> 00:32:50.200 some only the one thing, not the book, not the residuals, not 434 00:32:50.319 --> 00:32:53.279 anything. Are you surprised that this hasn't happened, that this like lawsuit that 435 00:32:53.319 --> 00:33:00.279 Bethany has launched didn't happen sooner? Wait, one hundred percent because I'm I 436 00:33:00.319 --> 00:33:04.480 kept saying, yeah, do you feel I mean, I know this was 437 00:33:05.119 --> 00:33:09.240 you said about fourteen years ago. I'm sure it's gotten probably even worse now 438 00:33:09.319 --> 00:33:17.839 with just this huge surge of spinoff shows and everything else, But do you 439 00:33:19.000 --> 00:33:22.559 find that was it? And not to be too personal, but was it 440 00:33:22.680 --> 00:33:30.720 embarrassing for you? Because it sounds like they really kind of manipulated things to 441 00:33:30.880 --> 00:33:36.599 make certain scenarios look bad, like your kids were unruly and fighting all the 442 00:33:36.640 --> 00:33:39.359 time and stuff like that. Was that something that you felt like, Great, 443 00:33:39.400 --> 00:33:45.680 now I'm going to have to explain this to people and justify Yeah. 444 00:33:45.720 --> 00:33:50.640 I mean people who knew me thought it was funny because they the little quirky, 445 00:33:50.759 --> 00:33:52.400 but they like, for example, one morning, I'm going to make 446 00:33:52.440 --> 00:33:57.440 pancakes my kids, and they pretended it was so much later than it was, 447 00:33:57.519 --> 00:34:00.559 like they've changed six sons and stuff. But oh my god, I 448 00:34:00.640 --> 00:34:05.839 had I had like different thoughts. I had so many people write mean things 449 00:34:05.839 --> 00:34:08.599 to me. He didn't know me, You're dumb, You're terrible. More 450 00:34:08.639 --> 00:34:13.639 I still got it sometimes and I'm like, it's so many years ago, 451 00:34:14.000 --> 00:34:15.639 and I go, it was reality TV. And then I had people who 452 00:34:15.800 --> 00:34:20.599 have felt compassion for me because I was being picked on. And then I 453 00:34:20.639 --> 00:34:22.199 had you know, people who knew me thought it was funny. You thought 454 00:34:22.239 --> 00:34:25.719 it was just like they know, I'm a little quirky. But honestly, 455 00:34:25.960 --> 00:34:30.239 it took me a while to recover from that. And I remember thinking like, 456 00:34:30.719 --> 00:34:35.320 this is gonna come out, This is gonna come out soon because all 457 00:34:35.360 --> 00:34:37.960 the stuff the other families did. And then I just got lost in life 458 00:34:37.960 --> 00:34:43.280 and everything. And but I did know somebody who worked on their prentice and 459 00:34:43.320 --> 00:34:46.679 he said the beds, they made the beds like three feet long, so 460 00:34:46.800 --> 00:34:50.239 they don't sleep well, you know what I mean. They wouldn't make you 461 00:34:50.320 --> 00:34:54.039 tired, so you're vulnerable and you're angry and God. And then and then 462 00:34:54.320 --> 00:35:00.559 I heard tons of things you know from the you know, alcohol for me, 463 00:35:00.639 --> 00:35:04.239 like there was no alcohol, but like for like a lot of the 464 00:35:04.280 --> 00:35:08.000 shows, they make you drink. That's all they do, is yeah, 465 00:35:08.039 --> 00:35:13.320 exactly. And then also a friend of mine was on the bachelorette or a 466 00:35:13.400 --> 00:35:17.239 bachelor, I can't remember what it was. That they actually told her that 467 00:35:17.280 --> 00:35:22.960 she was going to be chosen and she wasn't. But they did that because 468 00:35:22.960 --> 00:35:25.679 they want to make you build up and then be so sad and disciplined or 469 00:35:25.800 --> 00:35:31.360 oh that's total manipulation. Yeah, it's awful. It's awful, and it's 470 00:35:31.400 --> 00:35:37.239 like and I hope it comes from an end because it's so sad they make, 471 00:35:37.400 --> 00:35:39.320 you know, they I don't know, it's it's it's actually like it's 472 00:35:39.360 --> 00:35:44.119 just sad. So you know, it's like it's like like all those shows 473 00:35:44.159 --> 00:35:47.000 the Housewives, it's like me things and they showed the other person and it's 474 00:35:47.039 --> 00:35:52.840 like it's like and nobody's caring about just being a good mom a person in 475 00:35:52.960 --> 00:35:57.000 your private life and living a good life. It's the money. Is it 476 00:35:57.079 --> 00:36:00.639 worth that money? No? No, it doesn't see no one. I 477 00:36:00.840 --> 00:36:05.519 was offered to do and Fox don't let me, but they offered me a 478 00:36:05.519 --> 00:36:07.039 bunch of shows. They wouldn't let me, but I'm I said, I'm 479 00:36:07.039 --> 00:36:13.920 too fragile for this ship. People were so mean and the comments like this 480 00:36:14.000 --> 00:36:16.760 woman's an idiot, like and I couldn't even read them because it was so 481 00:36:16.800 --> 00:36:22.119 hardful. People can be so so mean behind a computer. Yea, and 482 00:36:22.199 --> 00:36:24.639 especially if you're being manipulated to look a certain way, that's so wrong. 483 00:36:24.880 --> 00:36:29.280 So do you think reality TV is going to completely change now because of this, 484 00:36:30.119 --> 00:36:31.599 I hope. So, I mean, do you think there's a there's 485 00:36:31.599 --> 00:36:37.559 a market for reality TV if it's not manipulated? No, I mean I 486 00:36:37.840 --> 00:36:40.880 don't. I don't know, Like I mean, it's so hard to say 487 00:36:40.960 --> 00:36:46.159 because I mean, as life unfold and things happen, like there's you know, 488 00:36:46.519 --> 00:36:51.480 hopefully some interesting things, but they're they're they have short time, not 489 00:36:51.760 --> 00:36:57.320 time, they have to make it really exciting and and so no, I 490 00:36:57.360 --> 00:37:00.639 think it's it's all a bunch of funniness. They like it because it's easy 491 00:37:00.719 --> 00:37:04.599 money, they don't have to pay peoples, but it's not an expensive and 492 00:37:04.679 --> 00:37:07.800 doing a show and high ratings, but it's sort of I feel like it's 493 00:37:07.880 --> 00:37:14.000 part of the downfall of our like, you know, the quality of life 494 00:37:14.039 --> 00:37:16.480 here, I honestly do that's a good you know. Any I heard that 495 00:37:16.599 --> 00:37:22.920 on on vander Pump Rules. I just heard this the other day, is 496 00:37:22.000 --> 00:37:28.320 that they were going to end it on this last season the ratings were so 497 00:37:28.440 --> 00:37:32.360 low and then all of a sudden scand of all happened and it was the 498 00:37:32.440 --> 00:37:39.840 highest rated reality TV show in history. And now they're being renewed for another 499 00:37:39.920 --> 00:37:45.000 season. And a part of you that thinks that that could be all made 500 00:37:45.079 --> 00:37:49.000 up the whole affair. I don't think. I've been following, you know, 501 00:37:49.039 --> 00:37:52.199 Austown General and I've been follow Oh yeah, she's the one that sent 502 00:37:52.280 --> 00:37:58.760 us the picture from the concert, right yeah, and that I know, 503 00:38:00.199 --> 00:38:04.559 I doesn't know. I don't. I don't think that was because I think 504 00:38:04.599 --> 00:38:08.800 they really liked each other and they're hiding it. But unfortunately it came out. 505 00:38:08.880 --> 00:38:14.119 Because I've been following that forever. I didn't went up to sir and 506 00:38:14.320 --> 00:38:17.760 like, but I think that that was not to be that, but now 507 00:38:17.840 --> 00:38:22.679 it came out, so people were benefiting from it, and it, honestly, 508 00:38:22.719 --> 00:38:27.119 it breaks my heart. I feel sorry they were such bullies or a 509 00:38:27.280 --> 00:38:31.840 coel and like, you can't imagine the emails and comments she gets, well, 510 00:38:31.840 --> 00:38:37.159 you know, and this is what I always find interesting. And I'm 511 00:38:37.199 --> 00:38:40.599 not, you know, justifying what she did. I think they were both 512 00:38:40.719 --> 00:38:45.800 equally responsible. But he seems to have comed out well, and he seems 513 00:38:45.840 --> 00:38:50.679 to come out of it sort of unscathed, where she's kind of taken the 514 00:38:50.719 --> 00:38:55.440 brunt of everything and it takes two to tango and well, well, you 515 00:38:55.480 --> 00:39:01.519 know, he he got some you know, some people gave him some verbal 516 00:39:01.559 --> 00:39:06.559 abuse. Nothing. It was nothing compared to the abuse. The show was 517 00:39:06.599 --> 00:39:12.000 packed right his show. It was like sold out right right everywhere. No 518 00:39:12.440 --> 00:39:16.480 she when they when I watched the because I hate bullying and I hate meanness 519 00:39:16.599 --> 00:39:25.239 and disrespect. When I watched the reunion and they were like even Arianna she 520 00:39:25.320 --> 00:39:29.559 was, they weren't. I'm like, what, this woman is here to 521 00:39:29.639 --> 00:39:32.280 explad what happened, but nobody let her talk and they were like they were 522 00:39:32.320 --> 00:39:37.800 like like mean, They're like, you're fucking scum back, You're dead, 523 00:39:37.920 --> 00:39:39.800 You're the devil. You should suck at you. I mean, I was 524 00:39:39.840 --> 00:39:43.679 like, I was so upset watching that, Like I was like, this 525 00:39:43.760 --> 00:39:46.079 is and I'm like, and they're letting this happen, you know what I 526 00:39:46.119 --> 00:39:51.000 mean, Like it's bullying, you know, like every one of them has 527 00:39:51.119 --> 00:39:53.639 cheated and done stuff. So it made me sick. I hate that. 528 00:39:53.840 --> 00:39:58.840 Well, maybe this is a good thing, this whole Bravo sold Beth anything 529 00:39:59.000 --> 00:40:00.719 and leading the charge, and you know what, I know, you have 530 00:40:00.760 --> 00:40:04.480 to go to sleep, Amy, And we really really appreciate you being on 531 00:40:04.519 --> 00:40:07.400 the podcast and sharing your story. And I hope you're okay now it sounds 532 00:40:07.400 --> 00:40:12.280 like you are. You're good yeah, it took me a long time to 533 00:40:12.360 --> 00:40:15.960 recover. Well, but I was on Anyway, you know, I did 534 00:40:15.960 --> 00:40:21.159 the other things, but this the social catfish thing, but that was totally 535 00:40:21.320 --> 00:40:24.400 legitim that they didn't take anything. But did you see those No, I 536 00:40:24.480 --> 00:40:31.079 didn't, I was catfish. Were you on Way? Yeah, the MTV 537 00:40:31.159 --> 00:40:36.719 show. I don't know if it was sounds social catfish. Oh, I 538 00:40:36.719 --> 00:40:39.719 don't know about that one. Oh so you were on another another reality show. 539 00:40:40.280 --> 00:40:45.400 I know, I know, but this was different. That's another podcast 540 00:40:45.440 --> 00:40:49.519 because it's really funny the whole story, but not funny to be any what's 541 00:40:49.519 --> 00:40:52.079 funny at the end. You would you be on again to tell that story? 542 00:40:52.599 --> 00:40:55.760 Absolutely? Oh awesome, Well, thank you, Amy. We really 543 00:40:55.760 --> 00:41:01.119 appreciate go night night, night, night, night, night night. Thank 544 00:41:01.159 --> 00:41:05.599 you. Got My kids are teenagers now, but I still say that. 545 00:41:05.880 --> 00:41:08.119 Oh I know me too, me too. I say every night to Laura, 546 00:41:08.239 --> 00:41:14.159 night night, night night. Oh God, talk to you later, 547 00:41:14.639 --> 00:41:20.679 Okay, thank you so much. Wow. Wow, dude, that's some 548 00:41:20.920 --> 00:41:24.480 that was mine. Changing the clocks. That's not surprising. Oh wow, 549 00:41:24.599 --> 00:41:28.960 some of that is, I mean, some of that is. If that's 550 00:41:29.159 --> 00:41:32.760 anybody ever woke me up at the crack of dawn, making her look bad 551 00:41:32.760 --> 00:41:37.280 for making pancakes like laid it in the morning when it four kids, when 552 00:41:37.280 --> 00:41:40.039 it was probably a totally normal time anyway, remember though, because the hard 553 00:41:40.079 --> 00:41:44.199 part is they had fifty thousand dollars riding on that too, because if they 554 00:41:44.320 --> 00:41:45.880 just walked out, they weren't gonna get their money. Yeah, so that's 555 00:41:45.880 --> 00:41:50.800 hard. I know. Well, we'll see what happens this lawsuit. Don't 556 00:41:50.800 --> 00:41:52.360 even ever think that you can wake me up at the crack Okay, yeah, 557 00:41:52.400 --> 00:41:55.440 I think we could do a reality show and just be ourselves and it'd 558 00:41:55.480 --> 00:41:59.880 be interesting. It would be like we lived together something. Oh my god, 559 00:42:00.119 --> 00:42:05.719 that would be all. Brian would be in hell, Oh god, 560 00:42:05.840 --> 00:42:08.679 that would be He would think that he was Evan's room. I'm good. 561 00:42:09.719 --> 00:42:14.800 Oh my god, Brian, come so much closer to things. Can you 562 00:42:14.840 --> 00:42:22.440 imagine Laura and I all in the upstairs together in this heat with my oh 563 00:42:22.519 --> 00:42:24.679 my god, hysterical like a week? I have a queen bed, wouldn't 564 00:42:25.000 --> 00:42:30.199 oh I would you do it for one night? No? No, not 565 00:42:30.320 --> 00:42:34.679 for free, at least sleeping in the same bed with both of you one 566 00:42:34.800 --> 00:42:39.519 night in a queen bed. Yes, no way. Two hundred and fifty 567 00:42:39.559 --> 00:42:45.599 dollars two no, no, what five hundred? I have to work work, 568 00:42:45.760 --> 00:42:49.480 I have to work now. Okay, so you're tired one day at 569 00:42:49.519 --> 00:42:52.800 work. I work from home. We're gonna work. You're gonna work over 570 00:42:52.840 --> 00:42:58.920 that that desk right there. Oh wow, Brian. Five hundred No one 571 00:42:59.519 --> 00:43:04.599 for one night. Yeah, I'm going home in the morning though. Oh 572 00:43:04.719 --> 00:43:07.079 that I only said night. So it's a thousand dollars. That's how much 573 00:43:07.079 --> 00:43:12.119 it would cost for you guys to sleep with me. Yeah, okay, 574 00:43:12.119 --> 00:43:15.719 Brian, now's your little segment. Now's your turn. Brian's wild Card, 575 00:43:15.840 --> 00:43:21.079 A new little segment we're trying out on the podcast. Get your music on. 576 00:43:22.000 --> 00:43:24.480 It's not good for music. I don't like the crickets. Come on, 577 00:43:24.519 --> 00:43:29.280 it's gonna be what's up? Brian's producer, Brian's wild Card, Thank 578 00:43:29.320 --> 00:43:31.800 you. I'm today. I have some questions for you guys to figure out 579 00:43:31.840 --> 00:43:37.320 you're actually best friends or not? Oh oh oh oh Okay, I'm gonna 580 00:43:37.360 --> 00:43:39.639 ask you a question and you're gonna tell me what you think the other person 581 00:43:39.800 --> 00:43:43.679 would answer. Okay, basically the newly Way game. All right, I 582 00:43:43.719 --> 00:43:45.480 love it. Okay. Number one, what's the weirdest thing you've done in 583 00:43:45.519 --> 00:43:51.000 public? Oh, I know, I know, Okay, Laura, what 584 00:43:51.119 --> 00:43:54.719 is Eric gonna say? He's gonna say when he took off his clothes at 585 00:43:54.360 --> 00:44:00.199 Cafe Sevilla and ran down downtown naked and lined up a pole or something. 586 00:44:00.239 --> 00:44:04.159 It was it was naked. He was the only time he drank, one 587 00:44:04.159 --> 00:44:07.280 of the only times he drank himself, and it was accidental drinking because he 588 00:44:07.360 --> 00:44:10.880 drank of Sangrea. Didn't think that. Well, I wasn't drinking this. 589 00:44:10.960 --> 00:44:14.360 I was eating the fats, right, he eat the fruit, So there's 590 00:44:14.400 --> 00:44:16.960 that is a right. That was yes, okay. And what would Laura 591 00:44:17.039 --> 00:44:23.880 say when you had to wear the bikini on Midway and rosecrans No, I 592 00:44:24.039 --> 00:44:29.599 was, Oh my god, that was the worst. Did wear a bikini 593 00:44:29.880 --> 00:44:34.880 and shine men's shoes? Yeah? That's that was many, many, many 594 00:44:35.840 --> 00:44:38.119 Yes. I had lost a bet. Oh, okay, that's fair though, 595 00:44:38.199 --> 00:44:42.559 and it was I didn't want to be in a bikini. And well, 596 00:44:42.599 --> 00:44:45.599 then why did you make the bet? I don't know, because I 597 00:44:45.599 --> 00:44:47.800 didn't think I was gonna lose. I felt bad at first, but I 598 00:44:47.800 --> 00:44:53.360 don't feel bad think's gonna lose. That was so long ago, okay. 599 00:44:53.599 --> 00:44:59.480 Question two what's the most embarrassing thing you've done? And oh, well that 600 00:44:59.519 --> 00:45:04.679 doesn't never mind, what's the most bizarre text you've ever received from each other? 601 00:45:05.000 --> 00:45:09.639 Oh? From that I've given her and that she's given me. Yeah, 602 00:45:09.679 --> 00:45:12.920 well, what do you think? What do you think is the weirdest 603 00:45:12.920 --> 00:45:15.800 text he sent you? You know, what do you think he's gonna say? 604 00:45:15.880 --> 00:45:20.119 Is the weirdest text you sent him? Oh? God, first, 605 00:45:20.159 --> 00:45:25.960 I don't how much time do we have? Now we are teetering very close 606 00:45:27.360 --> 00:45:31.239 on a text that I am expecting to get. Oh no, no, 607 00:45:31.639 --> 00:45:37.000 a picture? You know what you I have a feeling it's coming, and 608 00:45:37.039 --> 00:45:40.239 I don't want it. I'm not. I don't think you'll know. But 609 00:45:40.400 --> 00:45:44.599 I'm you're getting closer sending me a picture of his Pooh. No, he 610 00:45:44.639 --> 00:45:47.280 hasn't done that yet. It will never happen. Don't do it. It 611 00:45:47.320 --> 00:45:52.000 will never happen. To it, No way, I will not do that. 612 00:45:52.320 --> 00:45:54.079 But he sent me pictures he has sent from my wild card. Next 613 00:45:54.119 --> 00:45:59.480 week, I'll send you guys pictures of But he has sent me pictures of 614 00:45:59.519 --> 00:46:02.320 other people poop. Well, no, it was a TikTok video. I 615 00:46:02.360 --> 00:46:07.039 know. Well I don't. And he sends me, we'll throw up videos. 616 00:46:07.079 --> 00:46:13.559 He'll say weird text as far as like words, No, I said, 617 00:46:13.599 --> 00:46:15.360 he's the worst texture in the whole wide world. He doesn't write all. 618 00:46:15.360 --> 00:46:20.039 He'll say, I pour my heart out and he'll go, okay, 619 00:46:20.320 --> 00:46:23.039 I sweating on. It's the worst. So I don't know what you'd say. 620 00:46:23.079 --> 00:46:28.320 I don't even do I send you any Maybe even the Keanu stuff is 621 00:46:28.440 --> 00:46:31.440 a little weird, because now I still am a little weird one. No, 622 00:46:31.599 --> 00:46:39.239 the weirdest one she ever sent me was she had me on voice text 623 00:46:39.960 --> 00:46:45.400 and she was talking to Elvis and she was like, oh, you naughty 624 00:46:45.440 --> 00:46:50.000 little boy, you dirty little birdie. Oh you will need a spanking. 625 00:46:50.039 --> 00:46:53.960 But and I was like, what the oh remember, yes, I accidentally 626 00:46:54.280 --> 00:46:59.639 Yeah, all right, that's my god, that's so funny. That's so 627 00:46:59.679 --> 00:47:02.639 funny. Let's move us on. Okay, Laura, what is the cringest 628 00:47:02.679 --> 00:47:08.519 thing Eric has ever put on social media? Oh? Oh god, Well, 629 00:47:09.079 --> 00:47:17.039 the fact that he prefers Facebook cringes me on a little bit. He's 630 00:47:17.280 --> 00:47:23.119 you know what, everybody has their social media that they prefer, and that's 631 00:47:23.119 --> 00:47:28.800 okay, but the fact that you he just loves Facebook so much is a 632 00:47:28.840 --> 00:47:31.119 little cringey. To me just in general, it is a mark Suckerberg cock 633 00:47:31.199 --> 00:47:37.280 sucker. Anyway, Well you know why because I Instagram is hard, not 634 00:47:37.360 --> 00:47:43.920 hard, you just scroll scroll, it's easier, easier. But anyway, 635 00:47:43.960 --> 00:47:47.639 anyways, Okay, I don't know what. I don't know. What's the 636 00:47:47.679 --> 00:47:52.280 cringest thing. Top contender was last week when you put your lippering on. 637 00:47:52.760 --> 00:47:55.760 Oh that was good. Yeah, I got a lot of heat for that. 638 00:47:55.840 --> 00:47:59.159 I think everything you put on social media is a little bit cringey. 639 00:47:59.280 --> 00:48:02.800 Me. Oh, I'm like, don't be negative, be positive? Like 640 00:48:04.000 --> 00:48:07.960 what that's not like? That is not a champion. I want an example 641 00:48:08.199 --> 00:48:12.239 of my little videos I make on my kids and stuff, just everything. 642 00:48:13.639 --> 00:48:16.320 You know what what? Oh, no, it's going down, Brian. 643 00:48:16.639 --> 00:48:22.320 I'm gonna make I'm gonna make a reel about producer Bryan and I'm gonna I'm 644 00:48:22.320 --> 00:48:25.320 gonna get cringing, prove me wrong. No, just to get you. 645 00:48:25.320 --> 00:48:30.480 You're saying that you are older and it's fine. Well I'm sorry. What 646 00:48:30.480 --> 00:48:32.800 what do you What does a twenty three year old post on I don't post 647 00:48:32.840 --> 00:48:37.840 anything, so he doesn't. Well, last time I post was last allween? 648 00:48:38.840 --> 00:48:43.320 Do you post on any kind of social media? Do you check social 649 00:48:43.320 --> 00:48:45.519 media. Yeah, I know something that we've I can't even say it on 650 00:48:45.519 --> 00:48:49.960 the air, but I know something that we both posted and now it's so 651 00:48:50.000 --> 00:48:58.239 cringe e oh yeah, okay, last one. What about the cringing photo 652 00:48:58.280 --> 00:49:01.639 we sent? Oh Brian of us kissing? That was yeah, okay, 653 00:49:01.760 --> 00:49:06.480 last one, Laura, what does Eric? What do you think Eric does 654 00:49:06.639 --> 00:49:09.079 when he's alone? Oh? For sure, this is what he does. 655 00:49:09.480 --> 00:49:14.320 He will eat his snacks. He loves popcorn. He'll make a like a 656 00:49:14.320 --> 00:49:16.400 batch of popcorn. But he won't he won't sit on his brand new, 657 00:49:16.559 --> 00:49:22.440 glorious Jerome's couch. He will sit on the floor, watch his TV shows, 658 00:49:22.599 --> 00:49:25.320 fall asleep with half popcorn Colonel in his mouth, and wake up at 659 00:49:25.320 --> 00:49:30.079 three o'clock in the morning. That's what he's usually doing. You are pretty 660 00:49:30.119 --> 00:49:35.360 damnage in his workout clothes. He'll be in his workout clothes, right because 661 00:49:35.400 --> 00:49:37.719 you won't will have come from working out. He won't sit on the couch. 662 00:49:37.719 --> 00:49:39.599 He'll sit on the floor and then he'll fall asleep on the floor and 663 00:49:39.599 --> 00:49:42.800 then I'll wake up at three in the morning. What I would do sometimes 664 00:49:42.840 --> 00:49:45.760 I'll just go right back to sleep. Is I have a really really thick. 665 00:49:45.840 --> 00:49:47.320 But oh, this is terrible. I can't even believe I'm going to 666 00:49:47.400 --> 00:49:50.880 tell you the story. Let me think if I should. Okay, do 667 00:49:51.199 --> 00:49:53.880 tell it. So. I have a really thick throw that I keep by 668 00:49:53.880 --> 00:50:00.559 my couch. And the other night I came back from the gym, I 669 00:50:00.599 --> 00:50:07.800 was stretching. I was watching something on Netflix sometime, you know, document 670 00:50:07.519 --> 00:50:15.599 documentary. I fell asleep. I woke up, and I was so tired. 671 00:50:15.639 --> 00:50:17.719 I didn't want to mess up my bed, so I just threw the 672 00:50:17.840 --> 00:50:22.800 throw on the couch and laid on that and woke up in the morning. 673 00:50:23.199 --> 00:50:27.360 Okay, I told you. I did brush my teeth though. Okay, 674 00:50:29.599 --> 00:50:34.840 Oh this is so easy. Oh my gosh. She parks herself on the 675 00:50:34.920 --> 00:50:38.760 chase part of her couch. She eats, and she watches ninety Day Fiance 676 00:50:39.679 --> 00:50:45.280 and all the different channels and doesn't move. I moved to get up and 677 00:50:45.559 --> 00:50:50.679 get yes, yes, but uh but when I'm alone and I have downtime, 678 00:50:50.920 --> 00:50:53.679 Oh yeah, I'm watching ninety Day any spinoff of ninety Day, ninety 679 00:50:53.760 --> 00:51:00.360 Day Diaries, ninety Day Single Life. Oh yes, I love the UK 680 00:51:00.480 --> 00:51:02.920 Britain, the UK ninety Day Uh huh, I knew it okay, okay, 681 00:51:04.000 --> 00:51:06.119 all right, well that's it. Thank you for all right, join 682 00:51:06.159 --> 00:51:08.320 to see how much we love each other. Producer Brian's wild Card. We'll 683 00:51:08.320 --> 00:51:14.800 be back next week where I shock the I shock our panel with something shocking 684 00:51:15.599 --> 00:51:20.960 up with we hate? Are we the panel? We wait and we hate 685 00:51:20.960 --> 00:51:24.800 it? Is there another week? I mean we hate some okay? Well, 686 00:51:24.840 --> 00:51:30.880 oh boy, obducative vomit and a spider h no, no that's oh 687 00:51:30.920 --> 00:51:34.519 I'm not going to be here. Oh shit, yes I am. Anyway, 688 00:51:34.639 --> 00:51:36.880 well, well how do that off the year? Anyways, we'll figure 689 00:51:36.880 --> 00:51:38.960 it out. Okay, thank you, Brian, okay, all right, 690 00:51:39.719 --> 00:51:45.440 Thank you Amy for being on. Thank you Amy, Congratulations Malan, and 691 00:51:45.840 --> 00:51:49.119 thank you for Capital Growth, Inc. And thank you Ja Wurtzler and La 692 00:51:49.159 --> 00:51:54.400 Joya Cosmetic, and thank you Ellen and Schedaddle. And thank you to Megan 693 00:51:54.480 --> 00:52:00.480 Route for being our sponsors. We really appreciate it. And to Keano come 694 00:52:00.480 --> 00:52:02.360 on in. We're waiting for you. We are waiting for you. You 695 00:52:04.639 --> 00:52:08.880 love your podcast. Put a bowl on it, dude, put a bowl 696 00:52:08.880 --> 00:52:14.880 on it, a big bow. Love your podcast. Love you, my 697 00:52:14.960 --> 00:52:17.159 sweet babies. Bye, No, we can melt