WEBVTT

1
00:00:00.120 --> 00:00:04.360
You're listening to the downbeat on ninety
seven to one the freak. I would

2
00:00:04.400 --> 00:00:08.839
say the top story today that we
had in town as the four people killed

3
00:00:08.880 --> 00:00:14.039
in a crash off I thirty five. Mike, you saw it, Yeah,

4
00:00:14.000 --> 00:00:15.919
he saw a little bit of it. JJSA a little bit of it.

5
00:00:16.000 --> 00:00:20.000
Driving in today. Four people who
had stolen a car and it was

6
00:00:20.039 --> 00:00:25.480
a police chase started in Irving two
am, give or take. The Irving

7
00:00:25.559 --> 00:00:30.399
police pulled over a car and they
hauled balls, and the chase made it

8
00:00:30.399 --> 00:00:33.600
all the way to thirty five right
of the Continental Exit. I don't know

9
00:00:33.679 --> 00:00:37.520
if they were on one of those
overpasses and fell off of it, because

10
00:00:37.640 --> 00:00:43.359
the car is situated directly underneath two
kind of elevated on ramps. But when

11
00:00:43.359 --> 00:00:45.880
I went by, man that car, like I told you guys, I

12
00:00:45.920 --> 00:00:48.880
saw from the worst side of the
car. Most of the pictures online are

13
00:00:49.799 --> 00:00:52.119
kind of from the better side of
the car. You couldn't even tell it

14
00:00:52.159 --> 00:00:56.799
was a vehicle. I'm pretty certain, without knowing for sure, that that

15
00:00:56.920 --> 00:01:02.039
car went off and overpass because all
of the angles that they're showing. They've

16
00:01:02.079 --> 00:01:06.519
got a drone camera up right now. Paige Ellenberger from Fox four is on

17
00:01:06.560 --> 00:01:11.439
the scene, grinding like the newswoman
she is, and they keep peering the

18
00:01:11.480 --> 00:01:17.719
camera up towards the overpass. Yeah, and I haven't read anything, but

19
00:01:18.120 --> 00:01:21.359
it seems to me that that car
went for a toss because it landed in

20
00:01:21.400 --> 00:01:26.000
a spot that there's no way that
it could have ended up there had it

21
00:01:26.040 --> 00:01:30.079
not dropped from above, right,
and if it didn't, I mean again,

22
00:01:30.120 --> 00:01:32.959
the cars annihilated. Yeah, so
I don't know that. Maybe they

23
00:01:32.959 --> 00:01:36.079
were going a one hundred and try
to take a turn, but I would

24
00:01:36.120 --> 00:01:40.159
guess they came off that thing.
The sheriff who was chasing them, they

25
00:01:40.200 --> 00:01:46.079
think he has a broken arm.
I saw that reported, but because he

26
00:01:46.439 --> 00:01:49.439
the vehicle that he was chasing crashed
into a light pole and then the light

27
00:01:49.480 --> 00:01:53.799
pole fell on the cop car.
Oh really, so his arm. The

28
00:01:53.959 --> 00:01:57.560
deputy injured his arm but expected to
be Okay, I said broken arm,

29
00:01:57.599 --> 00:02:00.519
that's incorrect. He injured his arm, so we don't know if it's broken

30
00:02:00.560 --> 00:02:04.400
or not. Much like Derek Leveley's
nose, which she still don't know.

31
00:02:05.359 --> 00:02:08.680
Jason Kidd said it wasn't. That
was weird. Yeah, but it's also

32
00:02:08.840 --> 00:02:14.759
like I don't know. At nine
the morning after a game. Do you

33
00:02:14.960 --> 00:02:17.120
when you're about to travel, do
you even have even talked to the doctors

34
00:02:17.120 --> 00:02:21.159
about if it's broken or not?
How fast do you know if something's broken

35
00:02:21.199 --> 00:02:23.759
immediately? Well, something as a
nose, I would imagine. I think

36
00:02:23.800 --> 00:02:27.639
a nose would be easy. That
Casey would have been able to put his

37
00:02:27.719 --> 00:02:30.560
hand on his nose and go,
yeah, it's broken. Ry And there

38
00:02:30.599 --> 00:02:31.960
was a giant lump in it.
I mean, it clearly looked broken.

39
00:02:32.000 --> 00:02:36.560
But and then yeah, is Casey
not even there anymore? I don't think

40
00:02:36.599 --> 00:02:39.159
you, Yeah, that's weird too
if that's not, because that was almost

41
00:02:39.159 --> 00:02:44.319
like underreported because he's yeah, Casey
Smith one of the best, Yeah,

42
00:02:44.840 --> 00:02:49.120
bench doctors. Very interesting. Oh
well, we's go ahead and get to

43
00:02:49.439 --> 00:02:53.599
our special guest today joining us now
on the Freak Hotline, Well, on

44
00:02:53.639 --> 00:02:59.719
the Freak Zoom line. It is
Sarah Abraham and I saw Farah on TMZ

45
00:03:00.000 --> 00:03:00.879
the other night. Now I'm gonna
let her kind of walk you through the

46
00:03:00.960 --> 00:03:05.479
nuts and bolts of this a little
bit. But there's a big proposed social

47
00:03:05.520 --> 00:03:09.599
media ban happening in Florida where if
you're under the age of sixteen years old,

48
00:03:09.680 --> 00:03:14.800
they're trying to get a bill passed
to where you can't use social media

49
00:03:14.840 --> 00:03:17.560
if you're under the age of sixteen, which is kind of crazy. Even

50
00:03:17.599 --> 00:03:22.199
their governor, whether you agree with
him or not, on some topics,

51
00:03:22.400 --> 00:03:24.479
Ron De Santas even said this might
be going a little too far. But

52
00:03:24.520 --> 00:03:29.080
this bill has gotten through one portion, it's heading to the next step,

53
00:03:29.080 --> 00:03:30.879
and they're trying to get this passed
through. And I feel like I saw

54
00:03:30.960 --> 00:03:34.240
a pharaoh on TMZ the other day
and felt like she was a little bit

55
00:03:34.240 --> 00:03:38.479
against this. Good morning, Sarah, thanks for joining the show today.

56
00:03:38.520 --> 00:03:42.280
Good morning, thanks for having me. I love that I get to talk

57
00:03:42.319 --> 00:03:46.479
and discuss with fellow parents, and
we're non parents, so I think it's

58
00:03:46.479 --> 00:03:50.319
good to have a discussion about this
if it's a faccine our youth and our

59
00:03:50.400 --> 00:03:53.479
children and next generations, for sure. Yeah, it's for full disclosure.

60
00:03:54.000 --> 00:03:59.599
I'm Kevin and then Mike here.
We don't have kids, but Danny does.

61
00:03:59.599 --> 00:04:02.479
But Danny doesn't have a teenage kid, so we're we're kind of out

62
00:04:02.520 --> 00:04:05.560
of the loop on that when it
comes to having teenagers. Listen to this

63
00:04:05.599 --> 00:04:10.240
fair Danny has tell her the ages
of your two kids. I have a

64
00:04:10.360 --> 00:04:15.960
thirty thirty one year old and one
that turns three in March. Oh my

65
00:04:15.000 --> 00:04:18.480
gosh, I love that. I
feel like that could be me. Uh

66
00:04:18.839 --> 00:04:24.879
what next? Yeah, Like I
feel like my daughter could be thirty and

67
00:04:24.920 --> 00:04:29.120
I'll end up having davies. Well, you had a child pretty young,

68
00:04:29.279 --> 00:04:33.560
right, well documented, you know
if people follow your story your trajectory sixteen

69
00:04:33.639 --> 00:04:38.600
yeah, fifteen, yeah, six, and IM pregnant and Sophia is turning

70
00:04:38.759 --> 00:04:44.000
fifteen this month. So yeah,
I don't know when I'll start over again.

71
00:04:44.319 --> 00:04:48.360
But yes, so you are.
You're thirty two, thirty one,

72
00:04:48.439 --> 00:04:53.079
thirty two. You should never ask
a woman their age, they say,

73
00:04:53.360 --> 00:04:57.399
but I just did it. That's
really fine. But you have Wikipedia too,

74
00:04:57.439 --> 00:05:00.560
is I actually look it up?
So thirty two just bit older than

75
00:05:00.600 --> 00:05:04.680
your oldest Danni Qui same age.
Okay, so on this this deal that

76
00:05:04.720 --> 00:05:08.920
I saw him because I saw on
TMZ and it was like, that's interesting.

77
00:05:08.959 --> 00:05:11.560
We don't have a bill like that
happening here. But I know it's

78
00:05:11.600 --> 00:05:15.199
like a big topic right now in
the world going on with like social media.

79
00:05:15.240 --> 00:05:17.800
So you have a fifteen year old
daughter? You said yes, And

80
00:05:17.959 --> 00:05:23.360
I think I just also think back
to when I was a teenager. I

81
00:05:23.399 --> 00:05:29.040
was definitely on the Internet myself before
sixteen, and I was writing blogs and

82
00:05:29.079 --> 00:05:33.040
having fun and just that's what we
did. Like that was part of community

83
00:05:33.160 --> 00:05:36.879
outside of school, and I went
to a public school. I think for

84
00:05:38.000 --> 00:05:44.879
my daughter, who is homeschooled,
I think taking away some of the online

85
00:05:45.000 --> 00:05:49.040
groups or online things that they have
for homeschoolers, I think would be really

86
00:05:49.079 --> 00:05:56.240
bad for like socialization. But I
also feel she is a celebrity child.

87
00:05:56.439 --> 00:06:00.120
I think a lot of kids are
using the Internet for income or branding or

88
00:06:00.160 --> 00:06:04.680
doing something of the sort themselves.
From living in Los Angeles for a bit,

89
00:06:04.759 --> 00:06:09.680
we saw that everywhere, and I
think if it came out of Florida

90
00:06:09.800 --> 00:06:14.480
and it turned into like a national
thing, I think that would really impact

91
00:06:14.959 --> 00:06:19.160
children in general. And also like
understanding online safety and how to turn people

92
00:06:19.160 --> 00:06:24.759
in. I did bring up you
know, predators or like criminal activity,

93
00:06:24.959 --> 00:06:29.079
you know, fraud scams, those
things get reported so it can help other

94
00:06:29.160 --> 00:06:31.759
people. And I just want to
want to be you know, doing even

95
00:06:31.839 --> 00:06:38.680
my post to chatbots or criminals,
to be honest, Like who else would

96
00:06:38.680 --> 00:06:42.439
I have to talk to you on
the internet sometimes? And I think I

97
00:06:42.680 --> 00:06:46.120
like doing things with my daughter,
whether it's our YouTube channels and whatnot.

98
00:06:46.160 --> 00:06:49.360
Too, like showing our trips and
stuff. So I think that would just

99
00:06:49.439 --> 00:06:55.720
kind of infringe upon like even me
being a good parent. You know,

100
00:06:56.240 --> 00:07:00.560
there's the drinking age, and in
most states is twenty one, but not

101
00:07:00.759 --> 00:07:04.800
everybody is over twenty one that drinks. There are going to be endo rounds

102
00:07:05.079 --> 00:07:09.279
for kids to be able to use
the internet, to be able to use

103
00:07:09.319 --> 00:07:15.160
social media if they're under sixteen.
Regardless of whether this passes, it kind

104
00:07:15.160 --> 00:07:17.920
of seems like, why would they
spend so much effort, so much time

105
00:07:18.240 --> 00:07:24.279
and investing in its legislation if the
reality of the situation is the kids are

106
00:07:24.279 --> 00:07:28.120
going to get online anyway, right? Yeah, I agree. I think

107
00:07:28.160 --> 00:07:32.879
we saw that with TikTok. Sophia
when she was thirteen, got a TikTok

108
00:07:32.920 --> 00:07:38.480
because all of her friends had tiktoks. But TikTok actually ended up banning my

109
00:07:38.600 --> 00:07:43.680
daughter at thirteen, making an example
of her, and it was it felt

110
00:07:43.839 --> 00:07:50.160
very unfair because all the other kids
were having underage kid account on TikTok and

111
00:07:50.199 --> 00:07:55.199
that was majority of the accounts on
TikTok at the time when we're at thirteen

112
00:07:55.279 --> 00:07:59.439
years of age, so I didn't
see that hold up. It was very

113
00:07:59.519 --> 00:08:01.600
unfair to the kids. So I
don't Yeah, I agree, I don't

114
00:08:01.639 --> 00:08:05.480
know why we're wasting our time with
this. So yeah, did they make

115
00:08:05.480 --> 00:08:11.720
an example out of her because of
your fame? Yes? So I literally

116
00:08:11.839 --> 00:08:16.839
had to change her account to Farah
and Sophia for many years just so that

117
00:08:16.920 --> 00:08:22.079
she could still get on the internet
on TikTok. Yet her other friends who

118
00:08:22.079 --> 00:08:26.839
were not famous could stream all day
long not have any issues at all.

119
00:08:26.920 --> 00:08:30.560
It was a pretty sad experience,
and I think about that heavily when I

120
00:08:30.600 --> 00:08:33.720
hear something like this, this is
Farah Abraham joining us. See, I

121
00:08:35.080 --> 00:08:39.919
kind of agree, But there are
statistics on you know, teenage suicides going

122
00:08:41.240 --> 00:08:43.600
straight up sort of in the same
arc that social media came into our live.

123
00:08:43.679 --> 00:08:48.279
Self esteem is a really concerning issue, and I always think of this

124
00:08:48.399 --> 00:08:50.080
like, if you're a kid at
school, right, you're concerned about your

125
00:08:50.120 --> 00:08:56.519
popularity with social media, you actually
have this like number that determines how popular

126
00:08:56.639 --> 00:09:00.240
you are. And I just feel
like that's such a pressure pack thing that

127
00:09:00.279 --> 00:09:01.639
we, maybe as adults who didn't
grow up with this as part of our

128
00:09:01.679 --> 00:09:07.480
everyday life, can't even really quantify
how significant this is to young people.

129
00:09:07.600 --> 00:09:11.519
Now, I don't think I'm really
arguing that it should be stopped. But

130
00:09:11.559 --> 00:09:15.919
do you think there's any middle ground? Is there any regulation by parents that

131
00:09:15.960 --> 00:09:20.039
should have a hand in the exposure
that their kids have to social media that

132
00:09:20.480 --> 00:09:26.639
frankly might just make them sad more
often than it should. So I've watched

133
00:09:26.679 --> 00:09:31.200
many documentaries on the usage of cell
phones with teenagers, the impact. I

134
00:09:31.240 --> 00:09:37.480
also have done a lot of psychological
work myself on shame spirals, self esteem.

135
00:09:37.519 --> 00:09:41.879
I went to a trauma center just
because of like bullying and a lot

136
00:09:41.879 --> 00:09:45.600
of things that I have to deal
with it on the internet consistently. I

137
00:09:45.679 --> 00:09:50.840
have to say what changed me was
having a better inner toolkit with myself,

138
00:09:50.960 --> 00:09:56.039
a better inner dialogue, journaling daily, but working on my self esteem in

139
00:09:56.080 --> 00:10:01.000
those shame spirals so you have more
resilience, I think is a tool that

140
00:10:01.080 --> 00:10:03.519
you must have. And I went
on to teach my daughter this so that

141
00:10:03.559 --> 00:10:09.000
she could be more successful with using
online and safety and also her mental health.

142
00:10:09.480 --> 00:10:13.279
So I think not only should I
just say, oh, let's take

143
00:10:13.320 --> 00:10:18.159
away the Internet, but I should
say what can I do to phrase the

144
00:10:18.240 --> 00:10:22.399
grit the resilience in myself, my
mental health and my well being. So

145
00:10:22.559 --> 00:10:26.200
I can be prepared for this,
and I think a lot of teenagers definitely

146
00:10:26.279 --> 00:10:28.720
lack that, and that is sad, and that's what I've seen. I

147
00:10:28.759 --> 00:10:35.600
do feel like we are in a
very unique time in culture where the kids,

148
00:10:35.120 --> 00:10:39.840
a large portion of the kids that
are growing up in no other world

149
00:10:39.960 --> 00:10:43.159
other than an internet world, in
a social media world, A lot of

150
00:10:43.200 --> 00:10:50.360
them probably have parents that didn't so
there is a chasm between the two.

151
00:10:50.480 --> 00:10:54.600
The parents didn't grow up equip to
understand this stuff. And the fact that

152
00:10:54.679 --> 00:11:01.240
technology is exponentially the growth of technology, technology is infinancial, are exponentially growing

153
00:11:01.399 --> 00:11:05.720
more than our emotional maturity. Is
that it's going to take the generation of

154
00:11:05.759 --> 00:11:09.559
the kids that are on social media
now for them to have kids for there

155
00:11:09.600 --> 00:11:13.240
to be a true connection and true
understanding. Just seems like there's a disconnect

156
00:11:13.320 --> 00:11:18.360
right now. Yeah, yeah,
I would agree. I mean, I

157
00:11:18.399 --> 00:11:22.159
think what you just said is like
me, my generation, we are using

158
00:11:22.159 --> 00:11:26.679
the internet. I have to take
care of my mental health, you know,

159
00:11:26.759 --> 00:11:30.440
go to trauma centers or whatever to
make sure that that's in check,

160
00:11:30.519 --> 00:11:33.320
so my resiliency is up. Otherwise
I would just delete all of my accounts

161
00:11:33.720 --> 00:11:37.759
and go into a hole, because
I couldn't be able to tolerate it,

162
00:11:39.080 --> 00:11:43.120
or you know, there's sadder things
in that. So I think those gaps

163
00:11:43.440 --> 00:11:46.159
need to be filled. And I
think that's what I'm putting myself out there

164
00:11:46.200 --> 00:11:52.159
and doing not only for myself but
my child. My parents definitely would just

165
00:11:52.200 --> 00:11:54.519
get off the internet. So maybe
there is that age gap, but mental

166
00:11:54.519 --> 00:12:01.080
health online social media, mental health
support needs to be number one. How's

167
00:12:01.120 --> 00:12:03.399
it different for her your daughter?
I suppose, I mean you, you

168
00:12:03.480 --> 00:12:07.399
have a unique past and you've done
you have some things on the internet that

169
00:12:07.559 --> 00:12:11.799
most parents don't. I'll put it
like that. So how does that play

170
00:12:11.879 --> 00:12:16.200
with your daughter? And how does
the I suppose conversations happen with your daughter

171
00:12:16.200 --> 00:12:20.600
when you're like, look, yeah, mommy's famous, but mommy also did

172
00:12:20.639 --> 00:12:24.799
some pretty wild stuff, some pretty
unique stuff. How do you have that

173
00:12:24.919 --> 00:12:30.200
chat? And I assume you've had
it. Yes, So I always take

174
00:12:30.279 --> 00:12:35.360
the opportunity to talk about what's on
the internet, our self worth, our

175
00:12:35.480 --> 00:12:41.799
behavior. Again, mental health is
number one. I have talked to Sophia

176
00:12:41.840 --> 00:12:46.759
about everything. Saffia is also famous. Sofia and I became famous together,

177
00:12:46.960 --> 00:12:50.320
like I was like we were born. She has born on MTV and we

178
00:12:50.360 --> 00:12:56.799
became famous together, so I took
this journey seriously and letting her know about

179
00:12:56.799 --> 00:13:01.919
the differences. And I think I
think a lot of children just do not

180
00:13:01.279 --> 00:13:05.279
get to have the talk. And
as I've seen as being the aunt that

181
00:13:05.399 --> 00:13:09.759
I am, I'm an aunt to
so many in my family, and when

182
00:13:09.759 --> 00:13:13.360
I talk about self worth and not
sending pictures out to boys, we had

183
00:13:13.360 --> 00:13:16.679
like an issue in the family where
people were sending pictures out and they thought

184
00:13:16.720 --> 00:13:22.200
I was best to talk about that
because I do believe in like DMCA takedowns

185
00:13:22.240 --> 00:13:26.759
online, protecting your copyrights, your
intellectual property online, your pictures, your

186
00:13:26.840 --> 00:13:31.519
videos, and learning how to do
that. And that's why I have branded

187
00:13:31.559 --> 00:13:37.240
myself and I make lots of income
from the internet. But I do think

188
00:13:37.279 --> 00:13:41.399
a lot of the kids are not
getting those talks, and it's affecting their

189
00:13:41.399 --> 00:13:46.200
relationships, their birds and bees conversations, and I think they need to be

190
00:13:46.240 --> 00:13:52.600
included, maybe younger, so that
there's no discrepancy in our behaviors and how

191
00:13:52.600 --> 00:13:56.960
that translates to online. If that
answers that no, no, that was

192
00:13:58.039 --> 00:14:00.639
going to answer in a good question
too, I think this is fair.

193
00:14:00.720 --> 00:14:03.440
Abraham joining us in ninety seven,
one of the freak fair for just one

194
00:14:03.480 --> 00:14:05.000
second. I talked to the guys
for a second. This is a quick

195
00:14:05.039 --> 00:14:09.919
sidebar. Yes, did you guys
get the birds and the bees talk?

196
00:14:09.960 --> 00:14:15.200
Because I did not. But I
had older you know, just older cousins

197
00:14:15.240 --> 00:14:18.559
and people around. He's kind of
I felt like I knew a lot in

198
00:14:18.720 --> 00:14:22.559
second third grade. You know,
I didn't know as much as I thought

199
00:14:22.600 --> 00:14:26.080
I did. But also, the
internet back then was way different than the

200
00:14:26.120 --> 00:14:30.639
Internet was, you know when I
was in third grade in nineteen ninety eight

201
00:14:30.720 --> 00:14:33.600
or ninety nine, you know,
way different than when kids. I mean,

202
00:14:33.639 --> 00:14:35.879
because a lot is out there on
the Internet. Now, did you

203
00:14:35.879 --> 00:14:43.279
guys illustrated book handed to me and
illustrated book? Yeah? I had illustrated

204
00:14:43.279 --> 00:14:46.240
book handed to me, and I
had images. And then if I didn't

205
00:14:46.279 --> 00:14:52.639
follow up questions, which I did, my dad tried to have the talk

206
00:14:52.679 --> 00:14:54.799
with me, but he gave me
a lot of what I learned later to

207
00:14:54.840 --> 00:15:00.759
be wrong information. Huh. Yeah, And I didn't figure that out until

208
00:15:00.759 --> 00:15:01.799
I was like thirty. It's like, honey, you're doing it wrong.

209
00:15:01.919 --> 00:15:05.120
Oh well that's my dad said,
Oh oh really, oh it goes there.

210
00:15:05.320 --> 00:15:11.039
Yeah. Real talk I had was
like my dad explaining to me what

211
00:15:11.120 --> 00:15:13.399
nine to eleven meant, like what
was going on? Like that was the

212
00:15:13.440 --> 00:15:16.720
talk? It was like a sex
talk. So did you have that fair

213
00:15:16.840 --> 00:15:22.240
or what was that like? So
growing up for myself, you know,

214
00:15:22.320 --> 00:15:28.159
sexual education, birds and beans,
talks of things. My parents actually chose

215
00:15:28.279 --> 00:15:31.759
to have me out of those.
I vividly remember that to take me out.

216
00:15:33.360 --> 00:15:37.759
I remember in fifth and sixth grade, I was not allowed to be

217
00:15:37.840 --> 00:15:43.080
in the sex said course that they
wanted, and I think any other sex

218
00:15:43.120 --> 00:15:46.080
said course that we got, even
when I was at my private school and

219
00:15:46.120 --> 00:15:52.240
we were teenagers. It was said
in a way of like this could harm

220
00:15:52.320 --> 00:15:56.440
you or kill you. It wasn'tsane
in a way of like relationship safety,

221
00:15:58.559 --> 00:16:04.399
your mental health towards sexual behavior.
And I think those two components are always

222
00:16:04.440 --> 00:16:10.799
missing in our sex said. I
would agree that I even think kindergarteners need

223
00:16:10.879 --> 00:16:14.639
to start having sex. Said.
I was appalled as a parent to have

224
00:16:14.840 --> 00:16:18.639
my child come home or even when
I was at school and I had kindergarteners

225
00:16:18.679 --> 00:16:22.440
talking about sexual things, or my
daughter is saying that someone's bringing up my

226
00:16:22.559 --> 00:16:26.519
sex life to her. So I
have been dealing with that since she's been

227
00:16:26.759 --> 00:16:30.720
in kindergarten and just kind of being
appalled with how other parents would deal with

228
00:16:30.759 --> 00:16:36.960
that. I think the school just
basically says stop talking about those things,

229
00:16:37.559 --> 00:16:41.000
and I think we're not. I
think a lot of people are just scared

230
00:16:41.519 --> 00:16:48.840
to include youth in sexual education,
mental health behavior around sexuality, and I

231
00:16:48.879 --> 00:16:52.200
think that's why we get a lot
of kids, teens who are confused.

232
00:16:52.240 --> 00:16:56.759
They have to do trial and error. I do think the Internet is kind

233
00:16:56.759 --> 00:17:00.120
of powerful in a way of Wow, if I don't know something, if

234
00:17:00.120 --> 00:17:03.319
I don't know about medications, if
I don't know about what doctor, or

235
00:17:03.720 --> 00:17:07.960
like, find a real professional to
get some real answers here rather than being

236
00:17:08.000 --> 00:17:12.559
in the midst of my parents' talks, my sister or my brother weird friends,

237
00:17:14.079 --> 00:17:17.519
Like, there needs to be something
credible in place, maybe a LAH

238
00:17:17.960 --> 00:17:22.480
for you know, our youth to
have credible education. And I think that's

239
00:17:22.519 --> 00:17:26.880
also eighty eight compliance around sexual education. I think it's needed. Do you

240
00:17:26.920 --> 00:17:33.279
feel like the people that are outspoken
advocates for you know, not teaching this

241
00:17:33.319 --> 00:17:37.279
stuff about you know, banning social
media for kids, maybe, uh,

242
00:17:37.359 --> 00:17:41.480
the people that are pulling their kids
out of out of the sex aid classes,

243
00:17:41.480 --> 00:17:45.039
like much like your parents did the
ones that are so outspoken against the

244
00:17:45.079 --> 00:17:48.720
things that you were kind of fighting
against. There's a huge element of hypocrisy

245
00:17:48.759 --> 00:17:52.799
in that that if you actually pulled
back the curtain on these people's lives and

246
00:17:52.839 --> 00:17:56.839
looked at your at their browser histories, your eyes would pop out of your

247
00:17:56.839 --> 00:18:02.680
head. Yeah, that's no surprise
to me. And I also think when

248
00:18:02.720 --> 00:18:06.359
I was a teen parent and I
was blamed for you know, like my

249
00:18:06.400 --> 00:18:11.240
birth control not working. You know, how is a young teenager supposed to

250
00:18:11.319 --> 00:18:17.240
pick up the pieces and educate themselves
when they're taken out of classes. They

251
00:18:17.240 --> 00:18:22.200
weren't taught habitually year after year.
They weren't like there's just a whole component

252
00:18:22.640 --> 00:18:27.000
that's a fail systemically, I would
say, in our governments, our society.

253
00:18:27.680 --> 00:18:32.480
And then parents blame their kids,
and I have to say that that's

254
00:18:32.759 --> 00:18:37.400
really backwards. And I think how
that could change is just like a simple

255
00:18:37.480 --> 00:18:42.519
act of making it mandatory for all
these mental health things around, you know,

256
00:18:42.640 --> 00:18:48.519
sexuality, birds and bees, knowing
your doctors. I think that's all

257
00:18:48.599 --> 00:18:52.440
just really good to have. So
if they're being told something and influenced by

258
00:18:52.920 --> 00:18:56.160
stories or peer pressured, they can
say no, that's not for me.

259
00:18:56.359 --> 00:19:00.359
Because I have the right tools,
I have the right education, and maybe

260
00:19:00.400 --> 00:19:03.759
we you know, maybe you want
to have seen me do some things.

261
00:19:04.559 --> 00:19:07.759
But I didn't know mental health back
then, and today I do. And

262
00:19:07.799 --> 00:19:12.359
so that's why I really love sharing
everything and not being scared to share it

263
00:19:12.400 --> 00:19:17.119
to my teenager or my child over
the years. I love that this is

264
00:19:17.119 --> 00:19:19.440
Fairah Abraham on ninety seven one the
freak, Now you did did you grow

265
00:19:19.519 --> 00:19:23.279
up and go to school in Nebraska? That's I'm just going off Wikipedia here,

266
00:19:23.440 --> 00:19:27.920
like or did you had you so? Shout out to Thomas Jefferson High

267
00:19:27.960 --> 00:19:33.279
School. I was there in Iowa, Yes, and I love growing up

268
00:19:33.279 --> 00:19:37.799
there. I miss Iowa. It's
amazing. Okay, so Middle America.

269
00:19:37.839 --> 00:19:42.160
I can see their take on sex
and how early you should know about sex

270
00:19:42.240 --> 00:19:45.960
is probably a little different. I
mean, I know when small town that

271
00:19:45.039 --> 00:19:49.359
I'm from, it would not be
something you would ever talk about with your

272
00:19:49.440 --> 00:19:52.759
parents or anything like that. But
that's I'll talk with you about it.

273
00:19:53.039 --> 00:19:56.720
Yeah, Danny, I mean Danny
and I are from small town and Mikey

274
00:19:56.759 --> 00:20:00.240
went to Sarasota. Guy a big
city guy, you know, speaking big

275
00:20:00.279 --> 00:20:03.359
cities. You ever spend time in
Dallas? Any wild times in Texas.

276
00:20:04.559 --> 00:20:08.880
Yeah, of course I love Austin, Texas and based there. Now I

277
00:20:08.880 --> 00:20:14.119
have dated someone in Dallas. I
love to go to Dallas, Houston.

278
00:20:14.319 --> 00:20:17.640
I like all of Texas actually,
so yeah, I read on your U

279
00:20:18.119 --> 00:20:21.279
on TMZ it said you're I don't
know if it's current, but your boyfriend

280
00:20:21.279 --> 00:20:26.400
you met on your only Fans.
Yeah, I certainly did. I think

281
00:20:26.440 --> 00:20:32.480
anyone can meet anyone any place with
their you know, dating principles in place.

282
00:20:32.559 --> 00:20:34.519
So that's what I employ with anyone
who I date. Well, how

283
00:20:34.519 --> 00:20:38.279
did anywhere? How did you get
him the green light? Did he make

284
00:20:38.319 --> 00:20:44.599
the coin sound effect go off a
lot or how did that work? Well?

285
00:20:44.799 --> 00:20:48.240
Definitely on only Fans, it's about
tipping in money, So there was

286
00:20:48.279 --> 00:20:53.160
that component for sure to get my
attention because it's pretty busy with millions of

287
00:20:53.200 --> 00:20:59.039
people on there. But I also
did a dating program called The Guardian of

288
00:20:59.079 --> 00:21:04.200
Your Soul and with coaches and a
lot of psychological work, and so I

289
00:21:04.359 --> 00:21:10.880
kind of have dating principles and things
I abide by, and if someone is

290
00:21:10.960 --> 00:21:15.960
in alignment with what I do,
my future and my relationships with I definitely

291
00:21:15.000 --> 00:21:18.640
would take a date and you know, date them. So yeah, he's

292
00:21:18.640 --> 00:21:22.920
a good person. Are you still
very active on OnlyFans? I know you're,

293
00:21:22.000 --> 00:21:26.079
Uh, your Twitter thing has a
lot of links to it. I

294
00:21:26.160 --> 00:21:30.440
just we not obviously no numbers,
but I think it's fascinating, like the

295
00:21:30.519 --> 00:21:34.440
kind of unlimited income that you can
make at five bucks ahead or eight bucks

296
00:21:34.480 --> 00:21:37.599
ahead or whatever it is. Is
that is that something that's turned into like

297
00:21:37.680 --> 00:21:41.279
kind of a financial windfall that you
know you wouldn't even thought of however many

298
00:21:41.359 --> 00:21:47.640
years ago. Yeah, I really
enjoy it. I keep it healthy for

299
00:21:47.759 --> 00:21:51.960
myself. Again, that's like per
the person and how you conduct yourself,

300
00:21:52.079 --> 00:21:56.400
but I keep that healthy and happy. I think I would actually be sad

301
00:21:56.920 --> 00:22:02.119
if I ever closed my only Fans
because I just sort of like a Farah's

302
00:22:02.359 --> 00:22:06.680
like group on Instagram and I just
kind of showed some of us like the

303
00:22:06.880 --> 00:22:11.680
feedback I get on there and it
makes you laugh. It makes me happy,

304
00:22:11.279 --> 00:22:15.680
and so I think if it's still
joyful and positive, then I'm going

305
00:22:15.720 --> 00:22:21.680
to keep doing that and aside from
making money and income and inviding by laws

306
00:22:21.680 --> 00:22:26.039
and policies, which I love and
it keeps me happy. So yeah,

307
00:22:26.079 --> 00:22:30.160
I don't really look at OnlyFans as
a negative. I like that they abide

308
00:22:30.200 --> 00:22:33.279
by laws. That's really important.
I gotta be quick here because we're almost

309
00:22:33.319 --> 00:22:36.200
out of time, and I want
to tell you I did not see this

310
00:22:36.279 --> 00:22:38.319
episode, but there's he's been the
news around here this week because he's starting

311
00:22:38.319 --> 00:22:44.240
a TV network in Fort Worth.
Is doctor Phil of Looney Tune. I

312
00:22:44.319 --> 00:22:48.160
did not see the episode you were
on years ago. I just but yeah,

313
00:22:48.720 --> 00:22:53.920
is he a kook? Yeah?
I'm done with persuading audiences to dislike

314
00:22:55.000 --> 00:22:57.599
youth and dislike young women. So
I will not be watching Doctor Phil.

315
00:22:57.759 --> 00:23:02.480
That's note for me, all right. Yeah, suck it, doctor Phil.

316
00:23:02.640 --> 00:23:06.599
Yeah, uh uh, Pharah,
thank you for the time. We

317
00:23:06.640 --> 00:23:08.440
really appreciate it. Do you want
to plug your accounts or anything like that

318
00:23:10.240 --> 00:23:12.240
or anything? Where can they find
you? No? Just I wish you

319
00:23:12.359 --> 00:23:15.799
never want a happy Valentine's Day.
Thanks so much for having me. I

320
00:23:15.880 --> 00:23:18.200
appreciate you all. Thank you,
thank you, fair appreciate it. I

321
00:23:18.240 --> 00:23:22.079
have a great day. She goes, stay in powered, young queen.

322
00:23:25.079 --> 00:23:29.799
All right, all right, A
lot of feedback on the text. Yeah,

323
00:23:30.000 --> 00:23:34.000
tex Mex going wild? What a
bess? I mean, dude,

324
00:23:34.000 --> 00:23:38.000
that's quite a life. Someone text
me hey today they said she was on

325
00:23:38.200 --> 00:23:42.599
the teen Mom show like they were
like or sixteen break She was like kind

326
00:23:42.599 --> 00:23:48.799
of one of like she really had
it together compared to and she got obviously

327
00:23:48.880 --> 00:23:56.119
big time famous after that with the
you know the movie that was made but

328
00:23:56.519 --> 00:24:02.039
Backdoor teen Mom starring James Dean.
He's in trouble too and he's always in

329
00:24:02.400 --> 00:24:06.759
the allegations on him were pretty bad. Yeah, he's great, he plays

330
00:24:06.839 --> 00:24:11.079
rough. Yeah man goin all right, Well there was that went a week

331
00:24:11.200 --> 00:24:15.319
man that just happened. Coming up
next, do we guess? Will you

332
00:24:15.359 --> 00:24:22.039
give some purses? Why is this? And your talkbacks from the red microphone

333
00:24:22.039 --> 00:24:25.680
button on the iHeartRadio appened much more. Next to ninety seven won the Free