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we unbecome who we are not so
we can fully step into exactly who

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we came here to be. Today, we're talking about the invisible string theory.

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This is a theory that I've seen
all over TikTok. It has now

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entered my reality and I we also
have some personal stories that I'm going to

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share with you. This theory can
bring us peace, it can bring us

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comfort, and it can remind our
mind, our ego that wants to control

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everything that actually we don't have to. This theory will help you rest into

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your divine, feminine energy. It
will help you attract rather than chase,

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and if you do deal with anxiety, it will quell those thoughts and those

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feelings. Before we get into it, a couple of announcements If you're not

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your worth, your value, and
so much more. But without further ado,

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let's get into today's episode. My
reason for talking about The invisible string

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theory is because I had an experience
that I cannot chalk up to anything but

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divine intervention. I frequently do a
trail near my house, and oftentimes when

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I'm on this trail, I get
visions and spiritual downloads and energetic insights that

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I don't normally get when I'm using
my mind, when I'm in my masculine

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energy. When we do everyday tasks
such as taking a walk, or washing

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the dishes or doing laundry, it
puts us into this sort of energy where

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our subconscious mind becomes wide open and
we're able to receive messages. We are

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not able to be receptive too when
we're using our frontal lobe. So while

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I was on this long walk,
this trail, if you would, I

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started to get this vision of Jesus
threading my neck with a red thread,

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almost like sewing it together. And
I thought to myself, well, that's

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really weird, but okay, yeah, Jesus give me I succee ears to

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hear keep it going. And while
I was doing this trail, which was

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about an hour, I just kept
seeing this vision over and over and over

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again, and the thread was expanding
and Eventually, my guides and my angels

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were also helping thread these different parts
of me, quelling wounds that maybe I

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had from my past. And I
just so vividly saw this red thread being

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sewn into my being. And before
I get off this trail, I'm at

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the end of it, I'm about
to get to the parking lot. There's

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a red thread on this trail.
I've never seen any thread on this trail.

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But the fact that for an hour
I've been having this vision and now

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there's a red thread on the floor. I will insert the picture on YouTube.

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Something was just divine about it.
It's like an angel took my head

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and said, look down, and
I took a picture of the thread.

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I took the thread home, and
it's now on my altar. With this

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being said, I started to question, well, what is this red thread

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all about? And I started to
do some research. What is the invisible

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string theory. The invisible string theory
is that there are these unseen threads that

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connect us to the people were meant
to experience, the places, were meant

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to experience, our divine destinations,
opportunities, everything in this life that we're

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meant to come into contact with the
invisible string theory says that we are divinely

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connected to it by this unseen thread, and it will be pulled towards us

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at the right time. The right
person or thing will come into your life

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when you need it the most,
when it's needing to teach you a lesson,

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when you need support. It won't
come in any sooner, and it

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won't come in any later. It
will come in at the exact right time.

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And a lot of people who experience
this invisible string theory, or believe

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that they do, they have noticed
that they actually have crossed paths with this

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person a bunch of times in their
past, and it's almost as if this

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place, this opportunity, this person
is essentially hidden in plain sight, and

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you will go by this person a
billion times. But if it's not the

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right time, the universe, God, your angels won't connect you until you're

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meant to meet now. There's a
very similar concept to the invisible string theory

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that comes from ancient Chinese philosophy,
and it's called the red string of fate.

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The red string of fate, according
to ancient philosophy ancient Chinese philosophy,

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is the belief that there's this invisible, not just string, but red thread

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that connects those who are destined to
meet, regardless of time, place,

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are circumstance. It's pretty much the
same thing. They're just adding in the

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color of red. Now, this
thread might stretch, tangle, it might

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completely go in all these different designs, but it will never break, symbolizing

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the unbreakable connections between people. This
idea reflects a broader understanding of the interconnectedness

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and destiny in Chinese culture, suggesting
that certain relationships are preordained and very significant.

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There is this whole entire story that
there was this lunar matchmaker god in

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ancient Chinese philosophy, and this lunar
matchmaking god would tie a red thread.

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It changes depending on the culture,
but would either tie a red thread around

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their ankles or one of their fingers
at birth, and it signified that even

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if these people went to different schools
or they moved to different cities or towns

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or states or countries, this red
thread would stretch and stretch and stretch,

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and at the right time it would
bring them back together because at birth,

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this, according to this myth,
this god tied a red string around their

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ankle or their fingers so it's really
interesting to think about the invisible string theory

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or the red thread of fate,
which is essentially the same thing, and

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it brings in the question, well, do we have free will? Then?

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How does this work with our divine
plan? I think that we have

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specific destiny points in our life that
we are meant to hit. However,

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how you get there, I think
is all up to your decisions. It's

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kind of like if you're at school, you can take five different paths to

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get home, and it's up to
you which path you want to take,

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but ultimately you're still going to get
home. So I think that it's our

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decision how we get to where we're
meant to be. But I do think

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there's this element of fate of we're
meant to be experiencing certain people, we're

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meant to experience certain places, We're
meant to experience certain opportunities. But how

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we get there, I really do
think is up to us. We can

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take path A, path B,
path C, but maybe there is this

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red thread that is pulling us towards
it regardless of the path that we take.

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And the only reason I have any
belief in this is because of the

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vision that I experienced was so vivid
and felt so real that I really resonate

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with this red thread of fate.
And I was talking to my shaman and

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we're talking exactly about this, and
she was saying, it's so amazing because

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this red string of fate, no
matter how far you go away from what's

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meant for you, it will come
back around. Because the thread can can

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stretch, and it can bend,
and it can twist and a entangle,

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but it will never break. And
I think this can give us some ease

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in our body that if someone did
leave your life and you desperately want them

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to come back, first of all, refocus on you take the twenty one

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day Breakup Globe challenge. Link will
be in the bio. But if they're

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really meant to be in your life, they will come back around. They

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will come back around by way of
this invisible string theory. The really interesting

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thing as I was researching this theory
is that a lot of the people who

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said that they experienced this theory,
they said that they have passed one another

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in their lives so many times it
just never worked out before, and then

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for whatever reason, the timing was
right and so they connected. They went

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to the same school. They were
born in the same hospital, but then

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they went their separate ways and ended
up coming back together. Literally. This

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weekend, I went to my cousin's
wedding and their story of how they met.

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They were saying it at the wedding. It is the invisible string theory.

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I'm going to give them pseudonyms for
what their names are, but let's

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just say Gabby and Ron got married
this weekend. Ron is my cousin.

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In high school, Ron was invited
to prom by this girl, Jane,

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let's call her so my cousin.
Ron goes to Jane's prom, which is

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at a different school, And while
he's at Jane's prom, he meets one

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of Jane's best friends, Gabby.
So Ron is having fun kind of with

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Jane, kind of dating, nothing
too serious, and they're at prom.

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He's meeting her friends, he meets
Gabby, everyone was hanging out. All

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went well. They graduated from high
school. They go off to college and

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one day Ron was walking around in
the library. He was becoming a lawyer

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and now is a lawyer. And
Ron runs into Jane's friend Gabby, and

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Gabby stops him in the library and
goes Ron do you remember me? You

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came to my school's problem with Jane. Jane is one of my very very

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good friends. And Ron was like, oh my god, yeah, I

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remember you. I remember you at
that prom. I remember that experience.

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And then they just started talking.
Fast forward, they start dating, they

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fall in love, and now they're
getting married. And at their wedding,

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Jane was one of the bride'smaids for
Gabby and Ron. This is how the

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invisible string theory works. You will
cross paths. Gabby and Ron cross paths

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when her friend Jane brought Ron to
their prom, and it wasn't the right

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time, and for whatever reason,
they weren't meant to connect in that moment,

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but they happened to be in one
another's lives. Fast forward, years

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and years and years later, Gaby
and Ron see one another at the library.

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They start talking, they hit it
off, and now they are married.

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I think sometimes we're praying to God, God, I'm waiting on you,

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where is my person? When is
it going to happen? And I

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think sometimes God just wants to say, actually, don't wait on me,

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because I'm waiting on you. If
your person isn't in your life right now,

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most likely it's not because you're waiting
on God. It's because God's waiting

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on you. You need to plug
into you. You might have to work

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on your vibration. You might have
to meet other people. You might have

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to learn certain lessons before you're able
to come into the right vibration to align

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with your person. You might have
to work on your vibration, learn certain

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lessons, release karma, really detox
older lower vibrational emotions. And your person,

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by the way, might have to
too. Gaby and Ron, if

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they got together in high school,
maybe they would have been too immature,

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not in the right vibration, not
right for one another at the time,

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and it would have caused them to
break up and they wouldn't have been able

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to be together forever. Get married, make those vows. We have to

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remember that even with the invisible strength
theory, the red threat of fate,

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divine timing plays a part. There's
a season for everything. You might need

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to work on you right now,
and if you're not in a relationship,

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well then yes, you need to
be working on you, and maybe your

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person has to be working on themselves, so pray for them, but more

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importantly focused on you and what you
need to do in your life, because,

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according to this theory, at the
right time, in the right moment,

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when your vibration is a good match
for that other person, you will

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come together. A similar story to
my cousin Ron is my parents. My

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parents went to the same high school. While they were actually in high school,

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they never spoke, They never purposely
hung out with one another. One

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night, my mom's friend, her
best friend, was begging her to go

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go out, and my mom said
she didn't want to. She already put

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vitamin E on her face. She
was in one of those moods to just

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stay in. But her friend was
like, please, please, please come

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out. And then my dad's friend
was also begging him to go out.

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He also didn't want to go out, and eventually they did end up meeting.

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My point is, though, do
you know how many times they probably

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crossed one another in the hallway.
Do you know how many times they were

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probably at the same party and didn't
even realize it. Do you know how

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many times they were probably in the
parking lot at the same time on the

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same day, but their backs were
towards one another. Do you know how

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many sporting events they were probably at
for their high school at the same time.

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How many school dances, how many
concerts, how many local events they

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were both at, but none of
those moments were right for them to meet

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until they finally did meet. We
need to remember divine timing. We don't

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have to control every thing. If
you were trying to force someone to like

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you, you're trying to manipulate yourself
so that you can make ends meet.

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You don't need to be doing all
of that, And actually, if you

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are, you're most likely delaying the
right person at the right time because you're

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so focused on the wrong person at
the wrong time. I find that a

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lot of the time people will focus
on romantic connections when it comes to the

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invisible string theory, but this has
to do with all connections everything in everyone.

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Even in my high school experience,
I wasn't really close with this girl,

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but I was acquaintances with her,
and it wasn't until we got to

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college that we got extremely close and
now she's one of my favorite people.

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For whatever reason, we weren't in
vibrational alignment really in high school, and

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it wasn't until after high school that
we both watered ourselves as individuals that we

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ended up rising to the same level
and reconnecting and becoming so close. It

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reminds me of that quote. When
the student is ready, the teacher will

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appear. So really, this is
about whoever or whatever is meant to be

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in your life will find you at
the right time. Your main focus should

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be taking care of you, your
mind, body, and soul, so

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that these things can find you.
Because if you're manipulating yourself, all that

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is for you can't find you.
If you're trying to shut down parts of

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yourself, all that's meant for you
won't be able to find you. If

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you're trying to dim your lights,
those things that are meant for you will

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have a harder time finding you.
Your job is to water yourself so you

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can grow so high, be the
highest tree in the forest, so everything

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that is meant for you can find
you easily. We don't want to delay

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our own process because we're trying to
fit in with the wrong people when the

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right ones are out searching for us. I'm going to say it again,

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whoever or whatever is meant to be
in your life will find you. That

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teacher, that mentor that relationship,
that friend will find you in the right

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place at the right time. I
encourage you instead of looking looking out there,

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to really focus on watering yourself,
on watering yourself in your current season.

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This doesn't mean that we don't have
any control. Reminder, your husband

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will recognize you, your soulmate,
friends will recognize you, your mentor will

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recognize you. The energy vampires of
this world will also recognize you. You

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still have to use discernment because you
do have control over your own damn life.

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You have so much power over your
life. We are not powerless and

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we're not in complete control. We
are in the now. We have a

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lot of control, but we don't
hold all of the control. You're not

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in this human experience alone. You
have power, but it's like you're in

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business with God. So there are
certain things that you need to focus on,

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like watering yourself, knowing what it
is you want, clarifying your thoughts,

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your vision, your heart's desires,
waking up every day and deciding on

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the attitude you wish to broadcast into
the universe. Over what you eat,

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what you wear, what you give
your attention to. You have so much

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power. You are in co creation
with God. Your responsibility is the what

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and leave it up to God for
the how. So it's not that we're

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in complete control, and it's not
that we're powerless. We are in the

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mid tole We are in partnership with
this god source energy. So you're not

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alone and you're not powerless. I
think it's important to reflect on the experiences

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that are being presented to you because
when you're out and about, and let's

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just say you're dating, because I
know a lot of us are, and

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there's someone that's being presented to you
that is triggering your nervous system. Before

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you tell yourself, ugh, I
messed up my vibration and I attracted someone

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of a lower vibration, reflect on
the experience. Wait a second, I'm

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not falling for this being chemistry like
I used to. I'm recognizing that this

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is just triggering my nervous system.
I'm recognizing I'm having awareness of my older

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faulty programming. I'm recognizing I'm having
awareness that I don't want to just have

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a chemical cocktail in my head.
I want a cosmic connection. I don't

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believe we're being tested, but I
think we're being trained. And in order

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to be trained well, you have
to repeatedly go up against resistance to build

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muscle. When something is presented.
Even if you don't like what is being

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presented, you can learn from it. And the more you're presented with contrast,

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the more you can clarify what it
is you want. If you go

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on a date with someone and you
don't like them, okay, clarify to

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the universe what it is you do
want. And every time you have contrast,

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you're further clarifying and getting closer and
closer and closer to that which you

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wish to receive. What is being
presented to you and what is it teaching

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you, That's what we need to
recognize. So we're using discernment with what

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is being presented to us. We're
not just accepting it because oh there's an

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visible string that's bringing this person to
me. No, you have to use

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discernment because not everything or everyone is
meant to be your husband. It's also

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interesting though, that let's say your
discernment isn't ticking correctly and you do close

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the door on an opportunity that maybe
is meant for you or a person who

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is really good for you. If
you reject a high path or a high

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vibrational person and they have this so
and so thread attached to you they are

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meant to be in your life.
I do believe they will present themselves again.

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And the way I think about this
is like a navigation system. If

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you take a wrong turn to the
left, your navigation system will immediately reroute

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you to get back on course so
that you can get to where you're going.

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Abraham Hicks states that the universe is
completely neutral, but I disagree.

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I believe that this electromagnetic field is
always inviting us to get back on track,

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is always extending an energetic invitation for
us to go to a higher path,

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is always extending an arm out reaching
out for us to get us to

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where it is we truly need to
go and where we want to go.

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If you reject someone or something that
is meant to be in your life,

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it will come back around. It
will come back around. Why because this

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thread, remember what it does.
It can completely stretch, it can tangle,

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it can twist, it can go
in any shape or form, but

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it will not break. So you
don't have to worry about leaving something even

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if you truly love it, because
it will come back around if it's for

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you. Even in my last relationship, there was good, but ultimately it

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wasn't a vibrational fit for this time
being, and I have to trust that,

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well, if this person is meant
to be with me, they'll come

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back around, and if they're not, a better vibrational fit will come in.

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I want to share some moments that
I found online that people have shared

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about the invisible string theory, because
maybe you've had this in your own life

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and you didn't recognize it. Also, it can help build belief and ease

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anxiety if you do have any about
your current circumstances. So the first story

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is about this girl and she was
really young and her mom told her get

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in front of this random, quote
unquote random cop car. I want to

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take a picture of you in front
of it. So this mom takes a

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picture of her little daughter and it's
in front of cop car two o nine.

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That's what was on the license plate. This girl ends up growing up,

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she ends up dating this man,
she ends up marrying this man,

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and this man ends up becoming a
cop and what numbers his car but two

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nine, And she has the picture
of her being a toddler in front of

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this two o nine cop car,
and then her current husband in front of

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his two oh nine. Story two
earlier this year, I decided to get

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a tattoo of a forester in memory
of my grandma Jean and her beloved Subie.

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I randomly found an artist I liked
through Instagram and I shot him an

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email. He replied saying he was
stoked to do this tattoo because he himself

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owns a two thousand and three green
Saber Forester, just like the one my

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grandma had. When I pulled up
to the shop on the day of my

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appointment, his car was parked out
in front, and I noticed something.

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The bumper stickers my grandma had put
on her car twenty years prior were on

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his car. Yes, yes,
he somehow came to own the exact car

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I had reached out to him to
tattoo on me. So this girl reaches

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out to this guy on Instagram,
Hey, can you give me this tattoo

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of my grandma's car? And he
somehow owned the grandma's car. This is

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how all of these things are cosmically
connected. There is so much that we're

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worrying about, when really we don't
have to worry about anything. We can

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just surrender to the divine plan up
play and everything will be delivered. To

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us. This next story, I
think is my favorite. In ninety six,

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my family moved to a new town
and I started my first year at

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a new high school. To make
friends, I joined a peer group and

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we would twice a week go to
a church for a friendship building. I

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never really clicked with anyone, and
instead would spend my time out in the

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church cemetery wandering around. I was
always drawn to a particular grave by the

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pond of a fairly young man who
passed a few years prior. I would

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sit and chat with the grave.
But then my family moved away the next

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year, I would still drive up
occasionally to visit this grave. I kept

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my love of cemeteries as I grew
up, and I even became a funeral

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director. In twenty eighteen, I
started dating a man who also loved cemeteries.

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One of our first dates, we
went to the cemeteries of our ancestors.

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When we arrived at the cemetery of
his dad an hour away, I

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said, Hey, I know this
cemetery. I used to come here as

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a child. I would go over
to this exact stone, which happened to

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be his dad's grave. Is that
not beautiful? Connected? Divine? Come

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on now, now again, this
doesn't just have to be about people.

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It can even be about items.
There was this guy named Yarn, and

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he had a picture of him and
his brother. It was so cute,

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these two little babies and they're both
in these jean jackets and these little beanies.

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In this jacket, the mom wrote
Yarren's name in it, because you

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know, when you have little kids, you oftentimes write their names on the

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tags of their clothing just in case
it gets lost at school or at camp.

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So his mom wrote Yarren in the
little denim jacket. This little denim

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jacket eventually was given away. They
donated it when they lived in Tennessee.

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Years and years and years later,
Yarn is a grown adult. He gets

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married, he has a kid of
his own. He lives in Alaska.

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His wife happens to be thrifting baby
clothes and she picks up this cute little

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denim jacket and she looks at the
tag and inside it's very faded, but

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it says Yarren. So she freaks
out and she shows him and then they

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realize, oh my god, this
was my denim jacket as a kid.

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And they even found the picture where
he was wearing the denim jacket with his

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brother, and this was not related
to them finding this denim jacket in the

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thrift store. But Yarn's mom happens
to unknowingly knit the same type of hat

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she knitted for Yarn as a child. So essentially Yarns son is wearing the

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exact outfit that Yarn war in that
photo because the mother knitted him a hat

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just like Yarn had, and now
the baby is wearing Yarns exact jacket.

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What can we take away from the
invisible string theory or the red thread of

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fate? What I believe we can
take away is peace. We can know

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that there is this red thread that's
pulling us towards our destiny, pulling us

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towards the right people at the right
time, in the right place, pulling

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us towards the things that we're meant
to experience. We don't have to worry

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because there's a divine plan at play
unfolding for us. And even if it's

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not on our radar, it's on
our higher cells radar, it's on God's

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radars, it's on the electromagnetic field
we reside in. It's on that radar.

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We don't have to control other people. We don't have to force situations,

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and we don't have to manipulate ourselves. In fact, when something is

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truly meant for us, it's not
going to feel well that it's an uphill

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battle the whole entire time. There
will always be moments of contrast. But

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if you feel like every day you
are going into battle, going into fight,

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that's a sign you have to surrender
because maybe this place, this person,

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a circumstance is not meant for you, and you're just depleting yourself for

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no good reason. Whatever is meant
to come in your life, it will

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find you. You don't have to
worry about anything outside of you. You

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just have to refocus on you.
I think it's also important to remember that

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the person you want, even if
you're ready, relationships are tricky because they

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also have to be ready. They
have to be in the right vibration.

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You actually don't want to align with
your person sooner than you're supposed to,

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because then they can mess it up
or you can mess it up. And

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what if it's such a deep wound
that you can never get over it,

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and then you miss out on the
long term because you wanted to get together

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too soon. It's not suppose to
be in uphill battle the whole entire time,

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and when it is, I do
think that is a sign that we

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need to surrender, and we need
to reflect, we need to refocus,

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and we need to redefine what it
is we do want your blessings. They

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know where you live. They will
be delivered the right people for you,

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the right circumstances, the right places. It will somehow come into your life.

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It will call you, it will
want to be near you. It

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will keep coming back until you feel
ready to receive it. Your job is

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to focus on watering you. I
really love the affirmation I'm always at the

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right place at the right time.
I recently went on a pilgrimage and there

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was this one part that I was
like, ugh, I don't really want

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to do this, But then I
remembered the red string, my red thread

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experience. I'm being pulled to the
right places at the right time for whatever

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reason I'm meant to be here.
Maybe I'm having a yourtual upgrade, an

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energetic upgrade, a physical upgrade.
I don't always have to know how the

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universe is working in my favor.
To remember and have faith that it is.

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I don't always have to understand and
create meaning about every single experience to

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know that it is working for me. I'm always at the right place at

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the right time. And when I
reminded myself of that mantra, I just

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felt at ease again. I felt
good in my own skin again. I

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felt like I could relax again.
And now I've been wearing red strings on

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me because that experience that I had
on the trail was so profound to my

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internal world that it just will never
leave me. And I hope that this

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podcast leaves you with some peace that
you are listening to the right podcast at

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the right time, in the right
place, and you're connected to the right

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people, and if they're not the
right people, they will be cosmically canceled

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from your reality and you don't have
to worry about it. I love you

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so much. If you have suggestquestions
for next week's podcast, you can DM

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me on Instagram at vibe at CC. If you enjoyed this episode, please

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leave a positive review on Apple Podcasts
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grow. And if not for me, do it for you, because good

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karma and I will see you in
the next one. Slogy cancer I got

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