WEBVTT 1 00:00:00.920 --> 00:00:05.480 Welcome to the I'm Still Fun podcast. I'm Fallin, I am Jenny, 2 00:00:05.799 --> 00:00:10.800 and we always do every day or every Monday. So for last week when 3 00:00:10.800 --> 00:00:14.839 it's a holiday, we come in and we chat for thirty minutes, catch 4 00:00:14.919 --> 00:00:17.239 up on our lives, yes, and then we're like, oh, should 5 00:00:17.239 --> 00:00:20.039 we start recording. We did see each other quite a bit in the last 6 00:00:20.039 --> 00:00:23.000 week, also on top of just doing the podcast, but there's most weeks 7 00:00:23.039 --> 00:00:26.039 we don't really see each other outside of doing the podcast together. No, 8 00:00:26.480 --> 00:00:29.559 and I really liked, like, had a lot of fun with the things 9 00:00:29.600 --> 00:00:33.320 we did. So Thursday we went over when I got off work, I 10 00:00:33.359 --> 00:00:37.119 met you at Mall of America at Lululemon store. There they have a lot 11 00:00:37.159 --> 00:00:43.320 of classes, like workout classes and stuff. And I typically probably wouldn't go 12 00:00:43.439 --> 00:00:47.280 maybe to the Mall of America on like a week night for a workout thing, 13 00:00:47.320 --> 00:00:50.600 but this one like intrigued me. It was like a meditation soundbath kind 14 00:00:50.600 --> 00:00:51.920 of thing, and I was like, oh, that could be nice. 15 00:00:52.479 --> 00:00:55.799 And then after I realized it was a girl's only event. Because Jenny called 16 00:00:55.840 --> 00:00:58.119 me out on the podcast last week, I did ask Jenny because I had 17 00:00:58.159 --> 00:00:59.920 asked Harry, and then I was like, oh, it is just girl. 18 00:01:00.119 --> 00:01:03.719 Sorry, And so Jenny was kind enough to come. And that was 19 00:01:03.799 --> 00:01:07.159 your first experience with a sound bath, right, it was the first one. 20 00:01:07.200 --> 00:01:10.519 Yes, how did you feel about it? It was? It was 21 00:01:10.599 --> 00:01:12.680 good. I will say though, because you and I have had this discussion 22 00:01:12.719 --> 00:01:17.519 before, my ears are so sensitive that there were moments where it got too 23 00:01:17.599 --> 00:01:21.879 loud and it was hurting my ears and not giving me the comfort that sounds 24 00:01:21.920 --> 00:01:25.959 like that would normally give. Yeah, so I liked it. I just 25 00:01:26.120 --> 00:01:30.959 was like a little surprised at how loud it was. So I thought it 26 00:01:30.000 --> 00:01:34.799 was supposed to be like something super relaxing. But my friend Raven, who 27 00:01:34.879 --> 00:01:38.000 is into all of it, and I say, wou woo, not in 28 00:01:38.000 --> 00:01:40.319 a mean way if you're into it, but like the wou woo kind of 29 00:01:40.359 --> 00:01:45.000 stuff like that. She was like, it's not supposed to be relaxing. 30 00:01:45.159 --> 00:01:48.079 It's supposed to be something else. And I was like, oh, I 31 00:01:48.079 --> 00:01:49.920 didn't know that. I thought was like one of those things were supposed to 32 00:01:49.959 --> 00:01:53.519 like drift you off to sleep. She's like no, and she explained it, 33 00:01:53.560 --> 00:01:56.439 and I was like, oh, because that was my second time, 34 00:01:57.159 --> 00:02:00.480 and this time was much better for me. So the first time I did 35 00:02:00.519 --> 00:02:05.519 one, it was the full hour was a sound bath, and it was 36 00:02:05.519 --> 00:02:08.000 in assault Cave and it was in this place where like it blows out salts, 37 00:02:08.000 --> 00:02:14.919 so it'd be like blowing out freaking salt and I like that. And 38 00:02:15.199 --> 00:02:17.719 I was laying there because you were laying with like a little blanket on this 39 00:02:17.759 --> 00:02:23.680 place I went to and I the tones were killing me, and I went 40 00:02:23.719 --> 00:02:27.479 into a a headache. Big mistake, because I don't get a ton of 41 00:02:27.479 --> 00:02:30.319 headaches. Yeah, But everyone was like asleep, and like two people next 42 00:02:30.360 --> 00:02:32.560 to me were snoring. Harry was one of them. And I was like, 43 00:02:34.039 --> 00:02:37.680 why are you mf so relaxing? I can fall asleep anywhere. And 44 00:02:37.719 --> 00:02:40.120 it was I was sitting there doing the thing like how much longer, how 45 00:02:40.199 --> 00:02:45.000 much longer? How much longer time? Yes? And I was like getting 46 00:02:45.000 --> 00:02:46.479 And then at the end, you know, like how did you like it? 47 00:02:46.520 --> 00:02:47.599 I'm like, oh, it was so good. And I was like 48 00:02:47.680 --> 00:02:53.120 cuving out of here. So this one was only like a like maybe fifteen 49 00:02:53.159 --> 00:02:55.680 minutes of it was the sound bath, because she did like a guided meditation, 50 00:02:57.479 --> 00:03:00.879 a little stretchy sound bath, and then I was like, have a 51 00:03:00.919 --> 00:03:05.000 snack and a drink and then come back in and they talked about like kind 52 00:03:05.000 --> 00:03:08.520 of nutrition nutrition stuff. There was one point where so we had these pillows 53 00:03:08.520 --> 00:03:12.759 and we were supposed to us use home like under the arch of our back 54 00:03:12.800 --> 00:03:16.240 and all this stuff. I had mine completely mispositioned. And she comes up 55 00:03:16.240 --> 00:03:21.240 to me and she heard. She's like, is that comfortable? And absolutely 56 00:03:21.240 --> 00:03:23.479 not? I like getting an AD work out in right now. She goes, 57 00:03:23.520 --> 00:03:25.039 oh, no, we're not doing that today, and she like moved 58 00:03:25.039 --> 00:03:28.280 it down. But I like I remember, like out of the corner of 59 00:03:28.319 --> 00:03:30.599 my eyes seeing found them like so easily with her legs up in the air, 60 00:03:30.639 --> 00:03:34.360 and I felt like I was doing the hardest adwork out of my life. 61 00:03:34.400 --> 00:03:36.439 And I was like, oh, is she so steady right now? 62 00:03:36.439 --> 00:03:39.520 I was like, yeah, founce core must be fucking so tight from plates 63 00:03:39.560 --> 00:03:42.919 and stuff. But yeah. Then she was like, yeah, no, 64 00:03:43.039 --> 00:03:44.759 you need to move that way down, and I was like, oh, 65 00:03:44.800 --> 00:03:46.680 this is much better. Yeah. But I think it's good to know, 66 00:03:47.000 --> 00:03:51.759 like cause you get curious about things like sound baths hearing about them. So 67 00:03:51.840 --> 00:03:54.560 I would say, just don't go into it with a headache and just know 68 00:03:54.639 --> 00:03:58.360 that it can't the tones can be a little well, it's like a it's 69 00:03:58.400 --> 00:04:02.080 such a vibration sound. So yeah, I just think that if you have 70 00:04:02.159 --> 00:04:06.560 sensitive ears at all, yeah, like it might not be the most joyful. 71 00:04:06.560 --> 00:04:10.879 But apparently to Raven, it's not supposed to like put you to sleep, 72 00:04:10.919 --> 00:04:13.840 and so it supposed to be the other thing she did, like the 73 00:04:13.840 --> 00:04:15.759 little rain sticks or whatever she's doing. If that stuff was nice, I 74 00:04:15.839 --> 00:04:18.000 like, I like that. And I opened my eyes during that part because 75 00:04:18.000 --> 00:04:20.519 I had to see what she was doing, because like, because it would 76 00:04:20.600 --> 00:04:24.399 start on like the left side of my head, and I like and all 77 00:04:24.399 --> 00:04:25.879 of a sudden, it was like in front of me, and then it 78 00:04:25.920 --> 00:04:28.199 was the side and I was like, I got to open and see what's 79 00:04:28.199 --> 00:04:30.639 going on. I couldn't because I was like, I'm going to open my 80 00:04:30.680 --> 00:04:32.000 eyes and she's going to be in front of my mat We're gonna lock eyes, 81 00:04:32.040 --> 00:04:34.639 and I'm going to freak out. So I did not open my eyes 82 00:04:34.720 --> 00:04:41.519 the whole time. And then Saturday we met and played pickleball. We did, 83 00:04:41.639 --> 00:04:45.199 and you and both Jenny and I had only done like one pickleball sash. 84 00:04:45.279 --> 00:04:47.040 Ever, mine was an intro and it wasn't a real game. It 85 00:04:47.079 --> 00:04:49.519 was kind of like learning the rules and you did a real game, but 86 00:04:49.560 --> 00:04:54.800 it was like your first time learning the rules with friends. Yeah, so 87 00:04:54.879 --> 00:04:57.120 this was like, I think, really the first time you and I had 88 00:04:57.680 --> 00:05:00.759 legit played. Yes, it was, and it it was so much fun, 89 00:05:00.839 --> 00:05:02.360 except for I was just like profusely sweating. And I feel like, 90 00:05:02.399 --> 00:05:05.360 you guys because we were the two of us and then our old co worker 91 00:05:05.480 --> 00:05:09.800 Adie and then Ted food works on our promotions to government, and I felt 92 00:05:09.800 --> 00:05:12.560 like you guys were like not sweating at all, to the point where I 93 00:05:12.560 --> 00:05:15.920 got out my sweat towel and was wiping sweat off myself and I was like, 94 00:05:15.959 --> 00:05:17.959 why are you guys not sweating more? I was definitely sweating, but 95 00:05:17.959 --> 00:05:23.160 I feel like I definitely started sweating more. Once I left. I was 96 00:05:23.160 --> 00:05:28.079 wearing like the kind of bright blue pants that show sweat so easily, and 97 00:05:28.120 --> 00:05:30.959 I was I went straight from pickleball to the zoo and I was like, 98 00:05:30.000 --> 00:05:33.399 I cannot wear these because I don't want people to see like my ass sweat. 99 00:05:33.519 --> 00:05:36.759 So then I was like took off my undies and pants in the zoo 100 00:05:36.800 --> 00:05:40.399 parking lot and then I was like, I'm gonna get arrested. Someone's gonna 101 00:05:40.399 --> 00:05:44.000 walk up and be like, what this woman's naked in her car this zoo 102 00:05:44.000 --> 00:05:46.560 and I was getting all panicked and I was quickly putting on my underwear over 103 00:05:46.600 --> 00:05:48.040 my sweaty body as quick as I could. And I was like, this 104 00:05:48.079 --> 00:05:51.600 is so bizarre. But I really liked pickleball. I would totally do it 105 00:05:51.639 --> 00:05:57.759 again. Yeah, I'm not surprised that you were like, naturally pretty good, 106 00:05:57.800 --> 00:06:01.079 because you're just like a kind of athletic person. Yeah, but I 107 00:06:01.120 --> 00:06:04.279 thought we both did pretty good. I feel like I think we did pretty 108 00:06:04.279 --> 00:06:08.399 good for the fact that it was like our first yeah fish game for Suke. 109 00:06:09.079 --> 00:06:11.519 I don't know the other two we were playing with, they play all 110 00:06:11.560 --> 00:06:14.839 the time. Yeah, So I think Ted was probably a little annoyed being 111 00:06:14.879 --> 00:06:18.560 my partner because you guys ended up coming back and willing again. No thanks 112 00:06:18.560 --> 00:06:21.759 to me necessarily. But I also, like I told Jake, he was 113 00:06:21.800 --> 00:06:24.759 like, I want to come, and I was like, no, it's 114 00:06:24.800 --> 00:06:27.240 like you're going to be so naturally just good at it and it's going to 115 00:06:27.279 --> 00:06:29.000 piss me off so much. He's like, Okay, it can be your 116 00:06:29.000 --> 00:06:31.720 thing. I was like, no, that's ridiculous that you would way together 117 00:06:32.240 --> 00:06:36.160 like you me and Jake Andrew. Yeah, I was trying to think of 118 00:06:36.199 --> 00:06:43.279 who your boyfriend her boyfriend for a second, but then also like Ted and 119 00:06:43.319 --> 00:06:46.120 Audie are super fun to play with you, but I'm very into it. 120 00:06:46.199 --> 00:06:48.839 I'm trying to find I'm in one of those like workout ruts where like I 121 00:06:49.000 --> 00:06:51.639 fucking can't bring myself to go to the gym half of the time. OK. 122 00:06:53.079 --> 00:06:56.199 Yeah, So I was so happy to get out and like do that 123 00:06:56.279 --> 00:06:59.040 instead of feeling like I needed to get up and go to the gym Saturday 124 00:06:59.040 --> 00:07:02.160 morning before I felt like my day could get started, and I burned hella 125 00:07:02.240 --> 00:07:05.839 calories yeah around and I told the Andrew that we need to start living like 126 00:07:05.879 --> 00:07:10.439 we live in the city, like New York or something, because I made 127 00:07:10.519 --> 00:07:14.120 us also a bike to the LCD Brewing block party that day, and I 128 00:07:14.160 --> 00:07:15.839 was like, see how nice that was, Like why do we don't need 129 00:07:16.000 --> 00:07:20.199 cars for so many things, especially with Minnesota and how it's such shitty weather. 130 00:07:20.240 --> 00:07:23.879 I was like, we need a bike two more things, and so 131 00:07:24.079 --> 00:07:26.839 that was super fun. And then I felt so good at the end of 132 00:07:26.879 --> 00:07:30.439 the day and burned like twice as much calories practically throughout the entire day that 133 00:07:30.600 --> 00:07:33.360 I normally do. And I did things I enjoyed, you know, and 134 00:07:33.480 --> 00:07:36.000 so I was happy. Yeah, I was happy to get out and do 135 00:07:36.040 --> 00:07:40.879 activities that were fun versus like going to the gym and being like, oh 136 00:07:41.079 --> 00:07:46.240 another two. I had canceled pilateus because I was going to do pickleball with 137 00:07:46.279 --> 00:07:47.319 you guys, and I was going to have time to do both and go 138 00:07:47.360 --> 00:07:50.480 to the zoo. And then I was like, then they were almost going 139 00:07:50.519 --> 00:07:55.160 to cancel because it rained. And then I was bummed because I already canceled 140 00:07:55.399 --> 00:07:58.160 pilates. I can't get in now, and I wasn't going to come. 141 00:07:58.199 --> 00:07:59.759 I was like, you know what, f at, I'm going to go, 142 00:08:00.240 --> 00:08:03.360 and I'm so happy I did, so I would definitely do that again. 143 00:08:05.360 --> 00:08:09.839 I also had a finger in my ass this week and I thought that, 144 00:08:11.360 --> 00:08:13.639 yeah, your husband, that's what Colt was like, Wow, Jake's 145 00:08:13.680 --> 00:08:16.079 busy. I'm like, no, it's a woman. Yeah. Our name 146 00:08:16.160 --> 00:08:20.439 was uh was this summer or autumn? Did you even get her name? 147 00:08:20.800 --> 00:08:24.279 Well? I did at first, yeah, cal in a rectal clinic. 148 00:08:24.639 --> 00:08:28.519 But this I don't remember them checking my inwards before. And this is the 149 00:08:28.600 --> 00:08:31.960 weirdness part. She like, first of all, bought in an audience. 150 00:08:33.000 --> 00:08:35.240 She's like i gotta go grab an assistant. Two people came in. I'm 151 00:08:35.240 --> 00:08:37.440 like, don't feel like this is a three person job. Yeah, they 152 00:08:37.480 --> 00:08:39.840 usually have to ask for permission for well, I take care if someone came 153 00:08:39.879 --> 00:08:41.600 in, but then it was like two people. I'm like, what did 154 00:08:41.639 --> 00:08:45.720 she think she wouldn't be able to lift the cheek with just one person to 155 00:08:45.720 --> 00:08:48.840 get in there? No, but then she you know, I this is 156 00:08:48.879 --> 00:08:52.519 what I talked to Jake about because that's a no go hole for me. 157 00:08:54.720 --> 00:08:58.840 And I'm like, it's I know, it's a different setting. I'm not 158 00:08:58.000 --> 00:09:03.879 turned on, but I'm also like, it felt like so much pressure when 159 00:09:03.960 --> 00:09:07.519 just one finger goes in. I was like, I don't I just I 160 00:09:07.519 --> 00:09:11.600 don't know. I was very stressed out about it. And then she made 161 00:09:11.720 --> 00:09:16.200 me do a clench yep, like grip my finger okay, and then like 162 00:09:16.360 --> 00:09:18.360 push, like you're trying to go to the bathroom, and I'm like, 163 00:09:18.720 --> 00:09:24.919 lady, you are playing with fire. You have gotta be careful asking me 164 00:09:24.960 --> 00:09:28.240 to do these things. Everything's feeling like good that morning, like you weren't 165 00:09:28.279 --> 00:09:31.399 like gassy or yeah, I was fine, okay, because I mean I've 166 00:09:31.399 --> 00:09:37.399 gone into laser hair removal appointments super gassy and so scary, like yeah, 167 00:09:37.519 --> 00:09:41.919 on my well, you clench a lot in those because you're like kind of 168 00:09:41.919 --> 00:09:45.840 like bracing. And yeah, the pain, I a would say laser hair 169 00:09:45.879 --> 00:09:48.679 moval. We've talked about before. It's not like it's long term pain, 170 00:09:48.720 --> 00:09:52.320 but like the little zap doesn't feel good. Yeah, it's not fun at 171 00:09:52.320 --> 00:09:54.159 all. Yeah, but the Yeah, but I'm fine. She says, 172 00:09:54.240 --> 00:09:56.240 this one should go away on its own. So I'm happy I don't have 173 00:09:56.240 --> 00:10:00.360 to ever removed good because I know I think it was last week you're tell 174 00:10:00.519 --> 00:10:01.639 about how you were like, oh, if I have to get it removed, 175 00:10:01.720 --> 00:10:05.440 then it might affect this wedding nave coming up and your band the trip 176 00:10:05.519 --> 00:10:07.480 and stuff. The other thing I've been like overly looking at and I think 177 00:10:07.480 --> 00:10:11.240 I mention this maybe, But our trip is next week in Banff and there's 178 00:10:11.279 --> 00:10:16.840 still like ice and snow. So I've been going and I think you know 179 00:10:16.919 --> 00:10:20.679 this, but I didn't learn this until like last year before our trip to 180 00:10:20.720 --> 00:10:24.679 Switzerland. I was, uh, you type in the city in the search 181 00:10:24.720 --> 00:10:28.480 bar on Instagram, okay, and you can look at people's stories that are 182 00:10:28.519 --> 00:10:31.960 there. Oh okay. I don't think I've ever done that? Oh on 183 00:10:33.000 --> 00:10:35.480 Instagram? On Instagram, Yeah, actually I think I have done that. 184 00:10:35.679 --> 00:10:39.159 Sure if you don't know that hack, I love that because obviously I'm like, 185 00:10:39.200 --> 00:10:41.120 I don't know what Switzerland. I want to make like, is it 186 00:10:41.200 --> 00:10:43.519 nice weather right now? What's going on? You can look at the forecast, 187 00:10:43.559 --> 00:10:48.320 but seeing someone else's stories is so helpful, and especially like when you're 188 00:10:48.360 --> 00:10:52.960 going visiting a place you've never been. I just like loved it so much, 189 00:10:54.200 --> 00:10:56.919 and so I was like, I'm gonna look at the lakes, like 190 00:10:56.960 --> 00:11:00.000 the Moraine Lake and Lake Louise because those are the most popular ones, just 191 00:11:00.039 --> 00:11:05.639 to see if they're thought. And it's looks like Louise is completely Morain looks 192 00:11:05.679 --> 00:11:07.519 guys a little bit of ice still. But I was like that made me 193 00:11:07.559 --> 00:11:11.120 feel so much better because we're going at the beginning of the season, even 194 00:11:11.120 --> 00:11:13.399 though it's June, and I was like very stressed out about it, but 195 00:11:13.600 --> 00:11:18.480 I like, it's going to be fine in every person today. I started 196 00:11:18.480 --> 00:11:20.600 looking at the hike we're doing, the Little Beehive, and all the people 197 00:11:20.639 --> 00:11:24.759 are just in like long sleeve like light shirts and leggings, so they're not 198 00:11:24.840 --> 00:11:28.960 like in Parkas and you know, craziness. So I was like, Okay, 199 00:11:28.240 --> 00:11:33.039 all that just makes me feel so much better about what to pack and 200 00:11:33.399 --> 00:11:35.639 everything. So I would suggest that you just literally type into the search bar 201 00:11:35.679 --> 00:11:39.279 and it'll pull up a map and it'll have like a little color, you 202 00:11:39.320 --> 00:11:41.799 know, pink ring around as you know that there are fresh stories and you 203 00:11:41.799 --> 00:11:45.799 click on those, and it's like all kinds of people whoever have tagged the 204 00:11:45.840 --> 00:11:48.360 location basically got it. Okay. I was going to say, also, 205 00:11:48.600 --> 00:11:52.960 just if you're looking at like trail stuff, obviously, on all trails, 206 00:11:52.000 --> 00:11:54.519 like the first photo you look at is going to be like the most beautiful 207 00:11:54.519 --> 00:11:58.279 photo of the trail that they have, like the stock image of that trail 208 00:11:58.360 --> 00:12:01.559 or whatever. But then like as you start clicking through, it'll be like 209 00:12:01.600 --> 00:12:03.399 a recent day, so you can see the conditions of the trail, Okay, 210 00:12:03.480 --> 00:12:07.720 because yeah, I've had to do that for hikes before, trying to 211 00:12:07.759 --> 00:12:11.039 understand if there's like snow on the trail or whatever it might be. So 212 00:12:11.120 --> 00:12:13.399 that's like another way for trail stuff to see. I did look up today 213 00:12:13.720 --> 00:12:18.519 all trails for that hike specifically, and it's because it said there was and 214 00:12:18.559 --> 00:12:20.919 it said there is like a little bit of snow still on the trail, 215 00:12:20.919 --> 00:12:24.360 but it's not like closed oring thing, so I was like, okay, 216 00:12:24.639 --> 00:12:28.080 So I was happy about that. So you won't have to be in parkas 217 00:12:28.120 --> 00:12:31.600 and you won't have to be dealing with a sore but on this trail hopefully 218 00:12:31.600 --> 00:12:35.000 not. And I did see people are posting bears left and right, so 219 00:12:35.039 --> 00:12:37.639 I got to get my bear spray when I get there. Really okay, 220 00:12:37.720 --> 00:12:41.399 I mean, yeah, it's a very popular bear area. I think you 221 00:12:41.440 --> 00:12:45.679 probably needed for that. Luckily, all the ones people have been showing very 222 00:12:45.720 --> 00:12:48.240 close to them have been like black bears. But it's a very big grizzly 223 00:12:48.759 --> 00:12:52.480 location as well. I've said my dream is to spot they have an albino 224 00:12:52.600 --> 00:12:56.759 grizzly there. Oh it's all white, Yeah that is. You know, 225 00:12:56.840 --> 00:13:00.840 it's funny because sorry, this is a little off about at the same time 226 00:13:00.840 --> 00:13:05.080 it's not. There are like at least one or two albino squirrels in Saint 227 00:13:05.120 --> 00:13:07.679 Louis Park and at once in Colt's yard. Yes, because I've seen it 228 00:13:07.960 --> 00:13:13.519 over by Colt's house when I like a couple of blocks over probably but near 229 00:13:13.639 --> 00:13:16.159 the vicinity that he was like, because I don't lived too far away from 230 00:13:16.159 --> 00:13:18.679 cold. But then I just saw it the other day too, and I 231 00:13:18.720 --> 00:13:20.840 saw Colt's wife posting about it recently, and I was like, man, 232 00:13:20.960 --> 00:13:28.000 I like didn't realize this is like our local albino squirrel. I think it's 233 00:13:28.240 --> 00:13:30.759 almost like he's like a little city treasury. Like you just like pray, 234 00:13:30.840 --> 00:13:33.600 like it'd be the most sad day ever if you saw him like on the 235 00:13:33.679 --> 00:13:37.200 road, hid or something. Yeah, it be brutal. Do you guys 236 00:13:37.240 --> 00:13:39.000 just planned a trip as well? Last minute? Right? We did. 237 00:13:39.799 --> 00:13:46.720 So we're going out to Leavenworth, Washington, and so it's like two hours 238 00:13:46.720 --> 00:13:50.759 ish east of Seattle. Okay. We mostly planned it to do a specific 239 00:13:50.840 --> 00:13:56.039 hike, and now we're crazy and we are going from doing like a difficult 240 00:13:56.279 --> 00:14:01.679 like nine mile hike to a very difficult called twenty mile hike. I think 241 00:14:01.919 --> 00:14:05.440 because what does all Trails estimate the time is on that one? Like fourteen 242 00:14:05.480 --> 00:14:11.799 hours? Oh my god? Oh? And also all Trails says it's only 243 00:14:11.879 --> 00:14:16.399 nineteen miles, but everyone else that has commented has said anywhere from like twenty 244 00:14:16.440 --> 00:14:20.639 one to twenty three. So we'll see. But here is why I'm saying 245 00:14:20.639 --> 00:14:22.840 that we're probably going to do it, because we might still just do their 246 00:14:22.879 --> 00:14:26.519 original idea. It just depends on how we're feeling. But one of my 247 00:14:26.720 --> 00:14:31.000 very good high school friends lives out in Seattle with her husband, and he 248 00:14:31.080 --> 00:14:33.799 actually just did that hike last year. And you have the option to be 249 00:14:33.840 --> 00:14:37.000 able to hide or to be able to camp, but you have to have 250 00:14:37.039 --> 00:14:39.879 a permit, and that lottery has closed a long time ago, so that's 251 00:14:39.919 --> 00:14:43.960 not an option for us. And so he did it where he camped one 252 00:14:43.039 --> 00:14:46.039 night, and he said that he wished he would have just done the whole 253 00:14:46.080 --> 00:14:50.360 trail straight through and just done it in one day versus like the camping portion 254 00:14:50.480 --> 00:14:54.960 of it. So and I will say that I've hiked with them before and 255 00:14:54.080 --> 00:14:58.799 I am almost in better shape I think than they are, and they hike 256 00:15:00.120 --> 00:15:03.559 lot in Washington. So to hear him say that makes me feel like it's 257 00:15:03.840 --> 00:15:07.679 like we can handle it, is basically what I'm saying. But also Andrew 258 00:15:07.679 --> 00:15:11.799 and I just are I don't know, we just we love challenges. Yeah, 259 00:15:11.840 --> 00:15:15.600 and so I think like we're like, we should do it because it 260 00:15:15.639 --> 00:15:16.600 feels like it'll be worth it. But it's going to be one of the 261 00:15:16.639 --> 00:15:20.080 things where we also it's not a loop hike, so you have to drop 262 00:15:20.080 --> 00:15:22.559 a car off at one spot and then a car at another. So they're 263 00:15:22.559 --> 00:15:24.919 going to do it with us, our friend Okay, so they're going to 264 00:15:24.960 --> 00:15:28.240 come out and stay with us like a night or two, probably two nights 265 00:15:28.240 --> 00:15:31.039 honestly, because we're probably going to be up at like four am getting to 266 00:15:31.080 --> 00:15:33.919 the trailhead and then not getting home till god knows. When I'm shooting for 267 00:15:35.240 --> 00:15:41.440 the elevation, I think that elevation starts at like thirty five hundred and gets 268 00:15:41.480 --> 00:15:46.879 to a little under eight thousand. But that's twenty two hundred of that gain 269 00:15:46.960 --> 00:15:50.519 And this is why it's so hard, is over three fourths of a mile. 270 00:15:50.919 --> 00:15:54.200 So somebody is up by that shit, like why will the Age'll be 271 00:15:54.200 --> 00:15:58.519 like how is it? Like in the like you'll see like half mile hikes 272 00:15:58.519 --> 00:16:00.120 that take forever and they say they're super hard, and you're like why, 273 00:16:00.399 --> 00:16:03.679 oh, because it's literally straight up okay, Yeah, so we just did 274 00:16:03.759 --> 00:16:07.440 so when we went up to the North Show or Shore, for instance, 275 00:16:07.759 --> 00:16:11.039 we did a hike that was over a mile of elevation of seven hundred feet. 276 00:16:11.159 --> 00:16:15.320 Yeah, so this is twenty two hundred feet over three fourths of a 277 00:16:15.360 --> 00:16:19.440 mile up scrambles and rocks and boulders and stuff, And I've seen the pictures. 278 00:16:19.480 --> 00:16:22.879 I can see why it's so difficult. One person specifically said it took 279 00:16:22.919 --> 00:16:26.840 them two hours just to get through that. It's called Asgard's Pass or something 280 00:16:26.879 --> 00:16:30.360 like that. So that's the part that's super hard. So I thought maybe 281 00:16:30.360 --> 00:16:33.440 we would be able to go up and do that part because it's right after 282 00:16:33.480 --> 00:16:37.200 you finish the first trail hu and then just kind of see the area it's 283 00:16:37.200 --> 00:16:41.919 called the Enchantments or whatever, and then go back down and so that we 284 00:16:41.960 --> 00:16:45.240 don't do nineteen miles, it would be closer to like twelve or thirteen. 285 00:16:45.519 --> 00:16:48.519 Yeah, but my friend said that once you get passed up to the top, 286 00:16:48.919 --> 00:16:52.559 it's easier to just do the rest of the trail because it's all downhill 287 00:16:52.600 --> 00:16:56.960 from there. To go back down that path is really sketchy because it's loose 288 00:16:56.080 --> 00:17:00.879 rocks like all the stuff. That kinds people don't like to go back down, 289 00:17:00.879 --> 00:17:03.160 And it would probably take just as long to go back down that way 290 00:17:03.200 --> 00:17:08.200 and have the shorter distance versus just doing the extra mileage going like to the 291 00:17:08.240 --> 00:17:11.960 through hikes. So anyways, we're probably going to do it regardless We're for 292 00:17:12.000 --> 00:17:15.920 sure going to do one of the hikes that like takes you to that vicinity 293 00:17:15.960 --> 00:17:18.599 that I've wanted to do for a very long time, and I'm just excited. 294 00:17:18.759 --> 00:17:22.400 Andrew was like, well, it's going to be busy because it's over 295 00:17:22.519 --> 00:17:25.640 like Fourth of July time and whatever, and that area is a very touristy 296 00:17:25.680 --> 00:17:29.160 town. And I was like, but Babe, anywhere we would go over 297 00:17:29.160 --> 00:17:32.480 this time would be busy, and if I stay here, I'm not going 298 00:17:32.519 --> 00:17:34.559 to do anything fun because we're off on Thursday for the fourth of July, 299 00:17:34.680 --> 00:17:38.559 but then have to work on fifth the Friday. That's so that's a whole 300 00:17:38.559 --> 00:17:41.799 different complaint I have with our company. I'm like, just give us the 301 00:17:41.839 --> 00:17:45.359 fifth off, you jack holes, because they're going to give like the regular 302 00:17:45.400 --> 00:17:48.000 employees a half day. You know, they will an early release, which 303 00:17:48.039 --> 00:17:51.839 doesn't affect anyone on air. It's like, yep, just give everyone the 304 00:17:51.920 --> 00:17:53.440 day off, come on, right. So I was like, I'm either 305 00:17:53.519 --> 00:17:56.640 going to stay here and have a random Thursday off where like sure, maybe 306 00:17:56.680 --> 00:18:00.880 I'll go see some firework somewhere and then go to work the next day, 307 00:18:00.960 --> 00:18:03.200 or I can go somewhere and deal with like a little bit heavier of crowds. 308 00:18:03.240 --> 00:18:07.079 That's kind of touristy. So yeah, I'm excited because we have been 309 00:18:07.079 --> 00:18:10.839 talking about some trips and it just hasn't been working out for us for a 310 00:18:10.839 --> 00:18:14.680 little while, so we haven't had anything on the books. And I we've 311 00:18:14.720 --> 00:18:17.559 already gone on or I've been on two trips this year already, so I 312 00:18:17.599 --> 00:18:19.640 know it's not like I needed a trip. Yeah. I also like to 313 00:18:19.680 --> 00:18:23.640 capitalize when we do have like a day off, like your other trip. 314 00:18:23.720 --> 00:18:27.799 I know, the bachelorette party, Andrew and I did veil and okay, 315 00:18:27.880 --> 00:18:30.519 yeah, I was gonna say, well the bachelorette it's not like a trip 316 00:18:30.559 --> 00:18:33.960 you choose. It's always different when it's someone else's trip. Yeah, so 317 00:18:34.480 --> 00:18:38.440 I'm super looking forward to it. And Andrew has never been to Seattle, 318 00:18:40.000 --> 00:18:44.160 he doesn't think, so I'm probably gonna spend like the first day and my 319 00:18:44.279 --> 00:18:45.599 friends live in West Seattle, so we're gonna stay with them for a night 320 00:18:45.640 --> 00:18:49.519 and stuff, so that'll be fine. I'm excited. That'll be Yeah. 321 00:18:49.640 --> 00:18:56.279 I like Seattle more than Portland as far as city goes. And then obviously 322 00:18:56.359 --> 00:19:00.119 we did Olympic so that we went outside of Seattle. But like Jake and 323 00:19:00.119 --> 00:19:03.880 I did our engagement photos like on the coast in Portland, so that was 324 00:19:03.039 --> 00:19:07.440 very pretty. Yeah, that area is so beautiful. Like I I would 325 00:19:07.440 --> 00:19:11.160 go back to Oregon and do all that again. But I feel like I 326 00:19:11.200 --> 00:19:17.160 told fail on this over the weekend that I'm trying to find things that I'm 327 00:19:17.160 --> 00:19:21.039 really looking forward to that are exciting for me right now. And yeah, 328 00:19:21.079 --> 00:19:23.400 a trip is kind of an extreme version of it. But right now I'm 329 00:19:23.440 --> 00:19:26.680 kind of in this lull of like I'm not drinking anymore, and that's what 330 00:19:26.799 --> 00:19:30.720 a lot of my life revolved around. So like I still go to things 331 00:19:30.759 --> 00:19:33.640 like this block party that we went to this weekend, but it's just it's 332 00:19:33.680 --> 00:19:37.160 not quite as fun as it used to be as someone who's just like completely 333 00:19:37.200 --> 00:19:40.759 sober. So I'm kind of in this in between of trying to find my 334 00:19:40.880 --> 00:19:44.559 fun again. Yeah, and I kind of you know, Andrew didn't drink 335 00:19:44.599 --> 00:19:47.440 for like seven years of his life, so he's been there before, where 336 00:19:47.519 --> 00:19:51.440 like, you know, he didn't always love being around drinking constantly, and 337 00:19:51.519 --> 00:19:55.599 he didn't he really just like stayed home a lot during that time. So 338 00:19:55.680 --> 00:19:57.920 I'm just trying to find things that I'm super looking forward to and I'm just 339 00:19:59.440 --> 00:20:02.559 ever since and I started dating, I'm so much more into like the outdoor 340 00:20:02.640 --> 00:20:06.400 stuff, hiking and me too now since you startedting Andrew, but since I 341 00:20:06.400 --> 00:20:08.880 got with Jake. When you go with Andrew, it really changed my life 342 00:20:10.000 --> 00:20:12.640 specifically as well. Yeah, but speaking of that block party we were at 343 00:20:12.640 --> 00:20:15.799 this weekend, so one of Andrew's friends came and met up with us, 344 00:20:17.240 --> 00:20:19.920 and I want to know if you noticed this about him. He had a 345 00:20:19.960 --> 00:20:23.920 booger. Okay, but Jake, but Jake brought it up, but I 346 00:20:25.440 --> 00:20:26.759 only saw it very briefly. But when we left, Jake goes, do 347 00:20:26.759 --> 00:20:30.519 you see booger in that guy's nose? And I was like, I go, 348 00:20:30.640 --> 00:20:33.319 I think I did, but I wasn't ever directly facing him. But 349 00:20:33.480 --> 00:20:38.359 yes, clearly Jake did. Okay, so I did too, and I 350 00:20:38.359 --> 00:20:41.759 feel bad. I okay. So I was like sitting there, I'm like, 351 00:20:41.920 --> 00:20:45.680 I can't say it because I don't know him super well. And I 352 00:20:45.720 --> 00:20:48.640 was like, I can't say anything to him, and it would have been 353 00:20:48.680 --> 00:20:51.000 in front of a bunch of people whatever, So I didn't say anything. 354 00:20:51.079 --> 00:20:55.279 I just like kept making eye contact with it though, And I'm sitting there 355 00:20:55.279 --> 00:20:57.200 and I'm like, why has Andrew not said anything? And I still haven't 356 00:20:57.240 --> 00:21:00.480 ants asked him this yet. I should have by now, but I think 357 00:21:00.559 --> 00:21:03.759 Andrew couldn't see it because he's taller. Maybe, so I was like, 358 00:21:04.200 --> 00:21:08.839 Andrew's pretty good at me, like, hey mane yeah whatever, and so 359 00:21:08.920 --> 00:21:11.240 I was like, God, is it my duty to do it because I 360 00:21:11.279 --> 00:21:15.599 feel like he can't see it because Andrew's taller and nobody else knew him there. 361 00:21:15.759 --> 00:21:18.039 Yeah, like having these conversations, but oh man, is it just 362 00:21:18.160 --> 00:21:22.319 like it sticks out like a sore thumb when someone has a dot and like 363 00:21:22.359 --> 00:21:26.319 a group setting and you're all chit chatting, and every time you make eye 364 00:21:26.319 --> 00:21:29.160 contact with that person. I don't know. I should have just said something. 365 00:21:29.240 --> 00:21:30.839 I'm like, yo, wipe your nose, yeah, clean up. 366 00:21:30.880 --> 00:21:33.400 But yeah, I don't, like I said, I briefly saw it, 367 00:21:33.400 --> 00:21:37.000 but it was so quick that it didn't if I would have been in a 368 00:21:37.039 --> 00:21:41.119 conversation. Apparently was very noticeable because you and Jake both very much noticed it 369 00:21:41.599 --> 00:21:44.039 that I would have. Yeah, I probably would have been all I could 370 00:21:44.079 --> 00:21:47.920 look at. Yeah, man, we did get one email that I'm going 371 00:21:48.000 --> 00:21:51.000 to read real quick, and this is going to have a little bit of 372 00:21:51.039 --> 00:21:53.039 spoilers about the last season of Survivor in it, So I just want to 373 00:21:53.039 --> 00:21:56.079 give a heads up to anyone who might be Survivor fans and for some reason 374 00:21:56.160 --> 00:22:00.279 hasn't seen the last season finale of who won. But it comes from Emma, 375 00:22:00.319 --> 00:22:03.839 who I've met a handful of times. Emma's the best, says. 376 00:22:03.960 --> 00:22:07.119 I just finished season forty six a Survivor this weekend, and I was curious 377 00:22:07.160 --> 00:22:11.599 what your thoughts were of the winner. Do you think they deserved it over 378 00:22:11.640 --> 00:22:15.000 the runner up based on gameplay? And she's not using names right now because 379 00:22:15.000 --> 00:22:17.359 she wasn't sure if I'd seen it, but yes I have. She's like, 380 00:22:17.359 --> 00:22:19.759 but I just love recapping in here and everyone's thoughts, So I will 381 00:22:19.759 --> 00:22:22.440 sum it up really quick because I'm sure a lot of people don't watch Survivor. 382 00:22:22.839 --> 00:22:26.480 I was really excited with who won. Her name is Kenzie, and 383 00:22:26.519 --> 00:22:30.799 I thought that she played really well. She used her social game really well, 384 00:22:30.880 --> 00:22:36.039 and she was just a good hearted human who deserved it in my opinion. 385 00:22:36.599 --> 00:22:38.720 But the other guy who was runner up, Charlie, was also really 386 00:22:40.039 --> 00:22:44.160 played a really good game, also a really good human. I just connected 387 00:22:44.200 --> 00:22:47.559 more with Kenzie. I think Okay, I just I don't know, and 388 00:22:47.599 --> 00:22:52.880 so I feel like either of them were deserving of the money to it because 389 00:22:52.920 --> 00:22:55.240 they want a million dollars. If you don't know this, it's like all 390 00:22:55.319 --> 00:22:57.680 the only reality shows that has so much money associated with it s though, 391 00:22:57.720 --> 00:23:02.319 but the winner gets a million dollars, and so I was very happy about 392 00:23:02.319 --> 00:23:07.599 it. But Tina kind of thought differently because a lot of people picked Kenzie 393 00:23:07.640 --> 00:23:11.000 because she won this last Fire challenge and they call it like a resume, 394 00:23:11.200 --> 00:23:14.599 like what did you build up your resume throughout the season and stuff, And 395 00:23:14.640 --> 00:23:18.400 then a lot of times people kind of give like their not sob stories, 396 00:23:18.400 --> 00:23:22.640 but their stories at the end, and if you don't have like a dramatic 397 00:23:22.720 --> 00:23:25.599 story to give, sometimes you're not going to win. Like this kid, 398 00:23:25.720 --> 00:23:27.920 Charlie, he played a really good game, was a good person throughout it, 399 00:23:29.000 --> 00:23:30.960 and made great alliances, but he didn't really have any kind of a 400 00:23:32.000 --> 00:23:36.960 SOB story, whereas Kenzie did, Like I think she left home when she 401 00:23:37.039 --> 00:23:38.319 was sixteen. I don't think she had a great home life, and she 402 00:23:38.640 --> 00:23:44.519 became hair stylist on her own and she basically like has her own salon now 403 00:23:44.599 --> 00:23:48.240 but makes like no money herself. It's like everyone else around her makes money 404 00:23:48.240 --> 00:23:51.240 and she makes like no money and stuff. And so she was just straight 405 00:23:51.319 --> 00:23:53.359 up like, I'm going to use this money for myself because my entire life 406 00:23:53.359 --> 00:23:56.279 I've taken care of other people like and so she was honest about that, 407 00:23:56.599 --> 00:24:00.440 whereas Charlie was a good person and was like I want to do this and 408 00:24:00.480 --> 00:24:03.319 I want to put this towards research about that and cheerity this and that. 409 00:24:03.440 --> 00:24:07.039 Yeah, it's like he was going to be a good person and do something 410 00:24:07.079 --> 00:24:07.839 good with it, but he didn't have the sob story to go with it. 411 00:24:07.880 --> 00:24:11.680 SOO gotcha. Anyways, that's a little sum real quick of that, 412 00:24:11.880 --> 00:24:15.400 Emma, And then she continues to say, I hope you both are enjoying 413 00:24:15.400 --> 00:24:18.480 your summer so far, and I love you both so much, and I 414 00:24:18.519 --> 00:24:22.079 wish that the podcast was an hour loge, So thank you, Emma. 415 00:24:22.839 --> 00:24:26.720 Emma. Probably, I mean sometimes we talk a little bit, we talk 416 00:24:26.759 --> 00:24:30.039 a little longer than yeah, we get I think the max we get just 417 00:24:30.119 --> 00:24:33.720 forty ish minutes. Sometimes. Yeah, I have to peace so bad. 418 00:24:33.079 --> 00:24:37.839 I've been drinking so much, you know, water to keep myself hydrated. 419 00:24:37.039 --> 00:24:41.039 Yeah, and she recommended Meta musle, so do you want the gross combo. 420 00:24:41.079 --> 00:24:45.720 I've been doing two scoops of meta musle with a packet of that element 421 00:24:45.839 --> 00:24:49.039 t to like extra hydrate myself, and I shake it up and drink it 422 00:24:49.079 --> 00:24:53.519 in a bottle and it tastes like I'm just drinking ass basically, But I 423 00:24:53.759 --> 00:24:56.759 want to get it all in at once. You know you do it every 424 00:24:56.839 --> 00:25:00.880 day. I have been since since to put some cramed down what she'll call 425 00:25:00.920 --> 00:25:08.880 it? Should I call it the before before BF BBF before butt finger? 426 00:25:10.240 --> 00:25:15.039 Oh? I don't think you can do after finger af boyfriend, You're right, 427 00:25:15.039 --> 00:25:22.039 anyone's gonna think butt finger would BF after anal probe? AAP? I 428 00:25:22.119 --> 00:25:27.400 like that better. Okay, so there is b AP BAP okay before anal 429 00:25:27.440 --> 00:25:33.759 probe? After after anal probe? Okay, you bap an app? How 430 00:25:33.799 --> 00:25:37.400 long have you been taking your little cocktail of meta musile or whatever you said? 431 00:25:37.759 --> 00:25:41.000 When did I go into the well last Thursday Friday? Is when I 432 00:25:41.000 --> 00:25:45.640 bought the metamucile. And then my sister in law got me panicked, and 433 00:25:45.680 --> 00:25:48.400 she was like, well, doesn't it make you gassy? Because it makes 434 00:25:48.440 --> 00:25:51.000 me really gassy. I'm like, well, I haven't noticed, but now 435 00:25:51.039 --> 00:25:52.599 I thought, I'm gonna get in my head and feel like super gassy from 436 00:25:52.599 --> 00:25:56.200 it. If you don't feel it, you're fine. I'm sure. I 437 00:25:56.200 --> 00:26:00.039 don't know. Now I feel gassy. I think I'm getting bloated. I 438 00:26:00.039 --> 00:26:03.119 think I gotta stop taking a tuty out right now now, I wut and 439 00:26:03.200 --> 00:26:06.079 do that to you. I wouldn't do it to you. I know we 440 00:26:06.119 --> 00:26:10.400 do. We are decently respectful unless Fallon comes into a PROD studio I've been 441 00:26:10.400 --> 00:26:12.119 working in for like twenty minutes and suddenly, like out of nowhere, decide 442 00:26:12.119 --> 00:26:15.359 to pick no better than that, and I knock on the glass. I 443 00:26:15.359 --> 00:26:18.440 don't I don't have a hazmat suit to enter and talk to you anymore. 444 00:26:18.359 --> 00:26:22.319 What are you doing this weekend? What am I doing a lot? Honestly? 445 00:26:22.440 --> 00:26:25.960 Oh yeah, you told me. You said you like double booked yourself 446 00:26:26.000 --> 00:26:29.400 constantly double book I just booked myself for way too many things. At this 447 00:26:29.440 --> 00:26:32.400 point in my life. I stick to one to two for sure plans over 448 00:26:32.440 --> 00:26:34.640 the weekend and then TBD on everything else. I have like four for sure 449 00:26:34.680 --> 00:26:38.400 plans this weekend. I'm most excited though, because I'm going to go to 450 00:26:38.519 --> 00:26:45.119 Noahcan on Friday night and yeah, I love him, and I've been begging 451 00:26:45.240 --> 00:26:48.599 for tickets, because, to be fair, I did go in to try 452 00:26:48.599 --> 00:26:51.480 to buy tickets when they went on saying, okay, I wasn't just going 453 00:26:51.559 --> 00:26:53.200 to assume I could get take tickets through the radio station. And honestly, 454 00:26:53.240 --> 00:26:56.880 I don't even think I have good tickets the ones I'm getting, But I 455 00:26:56.920 --> 00:27:00.759 went in to buy them when the presale started or on sale whatever it was. 456 00:27:02.160 --> 00:27:04.799 But I got in after the queue whatever. So then I was paying 457 00:27:04.839 --> 00:27:08.599 the same amount of money for like expensive tickets, but being like twenty rows 458 00:27:08.599 --> 00:27:11.599 back from the same amount other people paid, and I got frustrated and I 459 00:27:11.640 --> 00:27:15.000 was like, that's stupid. I don't want to be this far back and 460 00:27:15.000 --> 00:27:18.000 pay the same amount that the people paid in the first row. Yeah, 461 00:27:18.079 --> 00:27:21.839 so I didn't get them. And also they went on sale like a year 462 00:27:21.839 --> 00:27:25.480 ago, and I just like I can't commit. Yeah, Like I know 463 00:27:25.559 --> 00:27:27.960 people committed to Taylor Swift like so far out. I feel like I'm not 464 00:27:29.039 --> 00:27:32.079 quite at that level of love for Noah. Con I might be. I'm 465 00:27:32.079 --> 00:27:33.400 not sure. It wasn't a year for Taylor. It was like six months 466 00:27:33.400 --> 00:27:37.839 out at least two. So I just didn't want to commit to like spending 467 00:27:37.880 --> 00:27:41.279 a ton of money and whatever and so, and then the concert sold out 468 00:27:41.519 --> 00:27:45.359 and so I just begged, yeah, tickets to that. So I'm excited 469 00:27:45.359 --> 00:27:48.839 about that. And then just some other random plans with friends throughout the weekend 470 00:27:48.920 --> 00:27:52.759 who I haven't seen in a while. But yeah, what about you, 471 00:27:52.839 --> 00:27:55.759 Oh you have the wedding, the wedding Jake's brother's wedding this weekend, and 472 00:27:55.799 --> 00:28:00.519 you're not in it, right, No, but all of Dylan and Jakar. 473 00:28:00.799 --> 00:28:03.119 Yeah, so it's gonna be. And I'm all of his transport system, 474 00:28:03.200 --> 00:28:06.400 you know, to get her to all of her duties as Flower, 475 00:28:06.799 --> 00:28:11.200 her assistant. I will be her assistant. So yeah, so I think 476 00:28:11.279 --> 00:28:14.920 that. I mean it's gonna be from Thursday when we host everyone at our 477 00:28:14.920 --> 00:28:18.240 house. Friday rehearsals, inner stuff Saturday all day and then all of has 478 00:28:18.279 --> 00:28:22.160 her dance recital Sunday. It's crazy, and she has her graduation Wednesday, 479 00:28:22.240 --> 00:28:25.519 so I have I took off of work because I don't want to miss it, 480 00:28:25.519 --> 00:28:26.720 even though it's like you know, a little kid daycare one and I 481 00:28:26.720 --> 00:28:30.559 don't care. I want to be there for Yeah. Some people think those 482 00:28:30.599 --> 00:28:33.119 things are so stupid, and I get it because we didn't have that when 483 00:28:33.119 --> 00:28:36.880 we were a little but I don't I'm miss like I like these little moments, 484 00:28:36.880 --> 00:28:38.480 like you can tell they just like feel so proud, like she's been 485 00:28:38.519 --> 00:28:44.920 working on a song for months, and like even like at swimming lessons, 486 00:28:44.960 --> 00:28:48.000 when she like goes under the water, she'll like immediately come up and look 487 00:28:48.039 --> 00:28:51.319 at us, and she's just waiting for us to be like good job, 488 00:28:51.519 --> 00:28:53.880 Like she's already thriving on the fucking praise, let me tell you. So, 489 00:28:55.240 --> 00:28:59.319 I'm like she feels good about those things, so like I builds I 490 00:28:59.319 --> 00:29:03.680 don't know, builds her confidence or something. So okay, her dance recitals, 491 00:29:03.960 --> 00:29:07.519 do they actually like what kind of dance does she do? Ballet? 492 00:29:07.720 --> 00:29:11.880 She does tap in ballet, but her performance will be tap. So is 493 00:29:11.920 --> 00:29:15.839 it a lot of actual like dancing or is it them like kind of singing 494 00:29:15.839 --> 00:29:18.279 along to the song. And I have a reason I'm asking this. I 495 00:29:18.319 --> 00:29:23.200 know why you're asking, but I know it's not that she might sing along 496 00:29:23.240 --> 00:29:26.359 to it, but it's it's a full dance because routine, like it's a 497 00:29:26.440 --> 00:29:30.960 choreographed yeah right, And I always forget I think Olive's older than my niece 498 00:29:32.039 --> 00:29:33.720 or she younger. She's bourn and a half. Oh no, then she's 499 00:29:33.839 --> 00:29:37.400 younger, because I think my niece just turned five. Okay, so she 500 00:29:37.480 --> 00:29:41.640 is younger. But my sister had her recital last night for my niece. 501 00:29:41.680 --> 00:29:45.960 I saw her post photos yea, and she was like they were all just 502 00:29:45.960 --> 00:29:48.599 like singing the songs most of the time and barely dancing. And I was 503 00:29:48.640 --> 00:29:52.519 like, I don't remember ever singing when I was in now ever, and 504 00:29:52.559 --> 00:29:56.519 they were singing a lot, and then they'd kind of do like something that 505 00:29:56.720 --> 00:29:59.799 was like lyrically made sense in the song, like no, we clap our 506 00:29:59.799 --> 00:30:03.079 hand, and they would like say something like that in the song. Okay, 507 00:30:03.200 --> 00:30:06.200 okay, that was like way too like, yeah, I know you're 508 00:30:06.240 --> 00:30:10.000 oldish, it's more mature than that. But I was kind of surprised to 509 00:30:10.039 --> 00:30:12.480 see that. I was expecting a little more dance in choreography. Yeah, 510 00:30:12.519 --> 00:30:17.799 hers is very much like you know, like shuffle shuffle circle with your partner, 511 00:30:18.119 --> 00:30:21.039 arms, hands, kick, stomp, all this stuff like because it's 512 00:30:21.119 --> 00:30:26.200 tap, so it's very and hers is to mister golden Son, so it'll 513 00:30:26.400 --> 00:30:30.200 be it's going to be short. Okay, she'll probably doci do the wrong 514 00:30:30.240 --> 00:30:33.200 way. She does every time. She just was to face the opposite way. 515 00:30:33.240 --> 00:30:37.720 He's your partner and she always just like goes the same direction as their 516 00:30:37.720 --> 00:30:41.160 partner every single time in practice. Okay, whatever makes those of the best 517 00:30:41.160 --> 00:30:42.839 it is. It's cute. I don't want perfection, we want all this 518 00:30:42.920 --> 00:30:48.160 disaster. Yeah, okay, question for you if you so you're Jake's brother 519 00:30:48.240 --> 00:30:52.000 is getting married, Well, obviously you already have a niece. Well well 520 00:30:52.039 --> 00:30:55.960 let's let's go this way. Okay, Jake's brother's getting married, and what 521 00:30:56.079 --> 00:30:59.400 if they have a child and in a couple of years they're like, hey, 522 00:31:00.039 --> 00:31:03.400 Ellen and Jake, do you guys want to come to little Lucy's dance 523 00:31:03.440 --> 00:31:07.880 recital on Saturday? It's gonna be a couple hours. Do you guys want 524 00:31:07.880 --> 00:31:11.200 to come and watch her? Would you want to go? Would I want 525 00:31:11.240 --> 00:31:15.960 to go? No? Would you go? Uh? Probably not? Because 526 00:31:17.000 --> 00:31:19.640 they don't come to any of olives Okay, So, and that's not to 527 00:31:19.680 --> 00:31:22.720 be mean. They have plans and like I don't expect them to come. 528 00:31:22.880 --> 00:31:26.519 Yeah, they come to some stuff of Olive, So I would go to 529 00:31:26.640 --> 00:31:32.039 the important things. Hannah comes to like everything Jake's sister. So I don't 530 00:31:32.039 --> 00:31:33.680 know, I guess I would play it by ear if we had nothing else 531 00:31:33.720 --> 00:31:37.720 going on, sure, probably go. Actually Jake would most likely go. 532 00:31:37.839 --> 00:31:41.640 He's a very supportive person, So I don't know. It depends. Okay, 533 00:31:41.839 --> 00:31:45.119 why Jenny try to make yourself feel better a little bit. Well, 534 00:31:45.160 --> 00:31:48.920 you're a bit far away though, it's not about that. It's about not 535 00:31:49.039 --> 00:31:56.240 going to Andrew's nieces dance right hand. Also, I don't know. I 536 00:31:56.240 --> 00:31:59.799 guess I don't know how close you are. I mean he used to babysitters. 537 00:32:00.359 --> 00:32:04.160 We are close, but that's one of the last things I want to 538 00:32:04.200 --> 00:32:07.400 do. I love when they're that little, you usually don't have to stay 539 00:32:07.440 --> 00:32:10.079 for the whole thing. You could like go in watch them and you can 540 00:32:10.279 --> 00:32:14.359 leave, right. It's like I think, once they get old, well 541 00:32:14.720 --> 00:32:17.440 it doesn't. They don't encourage you to but like leave. But when they're 542 00:32:17.440 --> 00:32:21.240 that young, they are like they get that you're gonna leave, right. 543 00:32:21.519 --> 00:32:22.920 And they also one thing they do when they're that little too, because there's 544 00:32:22.920 --> 00:32:27.319 so many classes, they split them up over the full weekend at different times, 545 00:32:27.359 --> 00:32:30.079 so you're not there for like forty classes luckily, and I don't know 546 00:32:30.119 --> 00:32:35.559 how long it is, but I do have other plans I don't think you're 547 00:32:35.559 --> 00:32:37.039 a bad person for that. I don't think they're gonna like remember that, 548 00:32:37.599 --> 00:32:39.960 but they might. I don't know them well enough. Some people are a 549 00:32:39.960 --> 00:32:44.440 lot more salty about that stuff. And I get that. I just like, 550 00:32:45.279 --> 00:32:47.920 I don't know. I have a very different relationship with like family than 551 00:32:47.960 --> 00:32:51.920 I think Andrew does with his family. Like I have a very good relationship 552 00:32:51.920 --> 00:32:54.839 with my family, but I don't do I mean, it's difficult since I 553 00:32:54.880 --> 00:32:59.119 live so bad, but I don't do a lot with them. And whereas 554 00:32:59.160 --> 00:33:00.200 Andrew's like, you know, he talks to his mom on the phone a 555 00:33:00.200 --> 00:33:04.839 lot. He'll swing by their house randomly throughout the week and like say hi 556 00:33:04.920 --> 00:33:08.079 and stuff like that. And so sometimes I get concerned that they like think 557 00:33:08.240 --> 00:33:15.119 I'm not as good of a person because I'm not as family oriented as he 558 00:33:15.240 --> 00:33:19.079 is and their family is and so and but it's really like that's just who 559 00:33:19.400 --> 00:33:22.440 we are and how our family is, Like it's just a little different, 560 00:33:22.480 --> 00:33:27.000 Like we're close, but we're close to this extent. I doubt they about 561 00:33:27.000 --> 00:33:30.279 you, they love you. I doubt they think that, you know. 562 00:33:30.519 --> 00:33:32.240 I just I get concerned. I get in my head, of course, 563 00:33:32.599 --> 00:33:36.920 but I had to say stuff. Yeah, I've learned. I've had to 564 00:33:36.960 --> 00:33:39.640 start speaking up for myself a lot more boundaries very important. Yeah, with 565 00:33:39.680 --> 00:33:44.160 your own family, with other people's families, and some people are like that. 566 00:33:44.200 --> 00:33:46.079 Some people could just spend all the time in the world with their family, 567 00:33:46.839 --> 00:33:51.720 and like, I'm the kind of person that needs breaks. So Thames 568 00:33:51.920 --> 00:33:54.680 is yeah, all right, well that's it. Jenny is a bad aunt 569 00:33:54.920 --> 00:34:00.559 to be yep, and I'm still aunty Jenny to her. Okay, she 570 00:34:00.599 --> 00:34:02.359 calls me Jenny. All right, Well, have a great weekend. Thank 571 00:34:02.400 --> 00:34:05.759 you for listening. If you ever want to email us, it's Fallin at 572 00:34:05.839 --> 00:34:07.800 KDIWB dot com or Jenny at katiewb dot com.