Welcome to the finally on time. I'm still fun podcast. Yay, look
at us, don't yeah, don't get used to it. Who knows when
the next vacation or whatever will happen, So for a while for me,
What about you at the end of this month? Okay, so like the
last week of July, that Monday, we drive back on Monday, we're
just going to Door County, so we'll have to do it on Tuesday.
Okay, Okay, sounds good that another late one in a few weeks.
It'll still happen. At least this is be like a little later, still
on the right day. How is your weekend? It was good, man.
I went into crazy organizational cleaning mode yesterday. Like I got into my
hallway closet. I have so many like random hair products and cleaning products and
towels and all this crap and our bathroom cabinets, and I cleaned all that
and organized all of it. I threw out so much stuff. We have
so much expired medicine, which is concerning time, and we do too.
Yeah, you should look at that because one time in college I was like
on my deathbed and I woke up and I just you know, you had
that cough that you're so tired, you want to sleep, but you have
a cough that's keeping you away. So I went into cough medicine. Literally
sixty seconds later, I was like sitting on the toilet, absolutely dying.
My stomach was in so much pain. And I looked in the cough medicine
was like three years expired. Oh God, so that's your number one thing
you should like ad in your medicine cabinet is like throw it expired cough medicine.
Okay, I did it one other time a few years later, and
it wasn't as bad, but it made me sick again. So anyways,
my weekend was good, but I'm like, I feel like I'm going home
to a new home so much. I cleaned so much, Andrew, I
mean, we had big storms in our neighborhood, did you guys, Senmit
Trista don't know. We did, but not like you guys in our power
was not knocked out. And because like Colt came home and from his trip
and his power is still out. Yeah, he said it's supposed to come
back on maybe tonight. I know his because Colton and I live pretty close
to each other. Luckily, our side, so our power went out for
me maybe fifteen seconds because I was awake when it happened, and then it
was fine, So we were lucky. But I had talked to Tina too,
and like their power is out, and I was like, man,
if I didn't have AC yesterday, I would have been so miserable. Cold
said, it wasn't that bad. His only concern is his animals. Honestly,
he was like worried leaving them today, and he's like, I think
they're gonna be fine, but like he was a little stressed about that.
I was like, oh, I didn't even think about that. Yeah,
it's a good point. Yeah. We had three dogs this weekend, which
we don't normally do, but it was all dogs we've watched before. In
one was kind of a last minute situation, and I went downstairs and I
closed our sunroom door because I don't trust the big tree in our backyard to
not fall. And then also our sunroom isn't as sturdy obviously there's lots of
windows, so I shut that so none of the dogs could go in there.
One of the dogs is absolutely terrified of thunderstorms, and yeah, we
have him sleep upstairs with us. Whenever we watch him. But I literally
couldn't find him. And then I'm like looking in our we have kind of
a walk in closet in our bedroom, and I'm looking in there and I
can't see him, and I finally see a little nose poke out behind Andrew's
clothes. He was so buried deep in He has like some call me and
medicine that the owner gives us some stuff because he's always been terrified. But
I like laid with him for a while, and then I just couldn't sleep
myself. I was like kind of anxious myself. Honestly, I don't know
why, because I had already seen one huge tree fall down in front of
our house, and then a bunch of big branches from Marchori in the backyard
had fallen that. I was just kind of nervous, like is a tree
gonna fall in my house? Yeah, seriously, I was just kind of
nervous. I woke up and saw your damage, and I was like,
oh, what happened last night? I was I didn't hear anything. I
mean, I knew it was storming, obviously, No nothing like that that
I saw near me. At least there were trees down throughout other neighborhoods like
near mind, Like on my way to pull out is there's a tree down
kind of blocking the road, and I'm like, eh, no, I
was out. I had all of alone all weekend. So when I went
to bed at night, I think I slept like a rock for sure.
Yeah, so didn't hear the storms and all of us like that dog she
scared a storm, so you know. Yeah, so I was actually waiting
for her to be, like for me to have to put her in bed
with me or something, but she did not. She slept there too.
Oh look at that. I wore her out too, So it worked out.
That's good. We did the like firefly viewing thing, and it's interesting
because I got the arbretom. Yeah, and I grew up seeing lightning bugs
yep, so you know obviously the picture that they show for the arboretum,
she was like a bunch of lightning bugs. It looks really cool, and
I didn't know what to expect. I did not realize it's literally just you
see a bunch of lightning bugs fireflies lighting up. And it was cool because
usually the arboretum's closed, so you get to walk through the path and like
they have like tiny little fake little tea light candles, you know, the
light in the path, but other than that, it's dark and you just
see lightning bugs. But I was kind of like I saw this every single
night growing up in Indiana on a farm, so it wasn't like that unique
to me. I had no idea. Like Dylan, my stepson Hannah,
they said they had like never seen fireflies before because they grew up in like
Egan Bloomington in the suburbs where they just wroke, we hadn't seen them.
And I was like, really, it was mind blowing to me that people
haven't regularly seen fireflies or lightning bugs. I wouldn't have thought that either,
because I mean I didn't grow up in the country, but we had firefly
scenari yard all the time growing up, so I definitely yeah around them.
Someone DMed me and they're like, yeah, it's odd you don't see them
around here that often. And I just started thinking about it. I'm like,
you know what, I don't think I can recall seeing them. And
now I live in an area that we have like a couple of acres and
not that I'm out like in the wooded part behind our house, but I
don't feel like I really see them. So I was like, Oh,
that's interesting't I know this weekend? Oh I'm going to go see the new
Twisters movie this week are you? Yeah? That's one thing. I actually
did like the original me too a lot, but I was very scared of
tornadoes growing up, so I wasn't like a huge fan of it, but
I would go see that. I usually that would not be like my style
of movie, but I remember really liking the original, and I like both
people, Glenn Powell and Daisy Edgar Jones and the new one, and I
was like, I'm gonna go see that. So Jake and I are doing
a little like date night on Wednesday to check it out nice. And then
I know, I haven't looked at the weather, but I'm planning on going
to the Minnesota Yacht Club Festival this weekend, which I know you said you
were too, but I was like, I if it rains like it has
every single other day here in Minnesota, that's gonna suck. I think it's
looking good for Friday and then Saturday. There's a small percentage of Saturday the
day I want to prefer. I know when I was talking because you would
message me and you're like, well, what are you going both days?
Are you just going to one? And I of course want to see Acts
on both days, and I really don't want to go to both days.
And Andrew's in the same boat where he's just like really busy at work right
now, so he's like, I don't want to go to both days,
but I feel like I'm going to end up being there, so I don't
know what I'm gonna do yet. I probably will end up being there both
days. If I didn't have a child, I'd probably would definitely do both
days because I really want to see Atlantis. But Jake, I think,
is more about word hot Chili Peppers than I do Atlantis, So he's like
always wanted to see them and I know that, so I was like,
let's just go that night. Also, the Offspring is so fun, so
I'll be into that. I remember when they posted that and the response from
young people were like, oh, so that's like an old person festival,
and I was like, oh my god, Wow, all the comments were
like that, and I was like, oh, sorry, get Hendrick Lamar.
Yeah, apparently we're the old this is an old person festival. People
were like the younger people were not impressed with the lineup. It made me
feel so old. I feel like, I know a lot of people go
into it, but I guess I'm old though you are old, Jenny,
you're over thirty gross you know. So oh wow, Can I tell you
one thing that happened over the weekend that yeah, okay, So not to
make this about sex all the time, because I know we touched on that
quite often recently, but Andrew crawls into bed on Saturday night. He was
downstairs play in video games and he curls in and he was like, oh,
are you ready? And I was like, money, mean ready,
you know, I'm like ready for what? And he goes for TV or
peep and I go, never fucking say that ever again in your entire life.
He doesn't know. No, he does not know the story, nor
unless you listening to this podcast, will you ever know. But I will
tell it now that Geet brought up Oh, I will never forget. It
didn't even happen to me, but basically, somebody I had been like hanging
out with for a little bit. We had been hooking up, and he
would say, do you like that hard peepee? To me, and I
so grossed out by it, and so I don't anytime anytime I don't like
that, I can't. I can't. I just can't get past it.
So I started laughing so hard. But then he's just laughing as he thinks
he's really funny, you know, And I'm like, man, oh,
like I want to tell you, but I don't want to tell you because
I probably wouldn't want to know the story, like ros reversed. I probably
would tell Jake just because he's but I also get it. I would if
I would not want Jake to tell me, you know. So we had
a good laugh. I think I laughed a little bit harder knowing what I
know. Yeah, well, what did you choose? Did you choose the
TV or the PP? Jenny? The TV? We did the we did
the PP earlier. Yeah, no, I went, I went, Okay,
I don't normally do this anymore, but I did put some faked ham
stuff on myself this weekend because I was supposed to have Lake patrol on Saturday.
I am so pasty. And there was a boat of fifty gay dudes
that were going to be out there, and they were out there last year
when I was on the boat with them, and they're all tanned and fitting
in their little speedos. I was like, if I get on this boat
with them again, I cannot look like the pasty little white girl. Yeah,
so I put on some tanning stuff. I put on this like hot
pink bikini, and then no one to show it off to. The gaye
didn't get to see it. So I got home and I was like,
well, nobody else saw this, so I'm gonna walk into the living room
and show him my bikini. Yeah, like you know, yeah, And
so things escalated from there. Wow, we had already done that earlier in
the day. You were set. Yeah, I was like, let's watch
the TV. That's a risky move to get that tanner on. Wherever you
guys were banging to off, it was already I'd put it on like Friday,
you do look tanner. Yeah, it's only yeah, I mean it'll
be almost tanner one more day and then it'll be gone. Not that your
face doesn't, but there's a light beaming directly on your face, so I
can't tell. Well, I use so many face products for my skincare routine
that I think that like, basically after one day of putting some stuff on,
it just wipes it off. That's what I was like. So every
day at Din't today I have makeup or mover wipes in my car because now
I actually put on makeup every morning. I'm like, I'm not gonna leave
that on all day. So every day I leave the Jason Show last week
and continue on and I just wipe my face as I'm driving to get like
at least the majority of it off. And I use like little face tanning
drops frequently, and I'm like, is this just wiping it off every single
day when I do this, I don't know, but I'm like, great,
that's probably what's happening. It feels like it is because there's usually some
form of like alcohol, weird substance chemical in it that guarante off away isn't
good for her natural skin anyways, but yeah, it does the job.
So by the way, I saw this thing and I want to try it
there. Do you know who Abby Young is? She's a local influencer,
but she's very very pop hair. Hair stuff is her main thing. Okay,
so I hadn't heard of her. But Charlie is a guy who owned
He was a co owner of House Salon, he sold his part, moved
to Hawaii. Just love You're saulty about that because he used to cut your
hair cut my hair. But loved him in general. But he still comes
back occasionally. But I don't see him anymore because it's too rarely. But
he said he cut her hair, and he's like, you follow her.
She's a really big hair influencer, and I was like, no, but
I looked her up. She has beautiful, long blonde hair blah blah blah.
She posts great reviews of stuff like I love her reviews because she doesn't
give like she is honest and she doesn't just promote expensive stuff. She did
one not that long ago that I got really into. It was like trying
all mascaras, which, by the way, she said that she and she
showed the difference. She uses the blink technique for every stroke she puts on
her eyes. She blinks and it made her lashes look bigger on the one
side than the other. I haven't tried it, but she said people went
after her about how stupid she looked doing it. She's like, I don't
care because the results are better. But she was showing all the different mascara
types in which one actually is best, and her reviews are very detailed and
good. But she just posted, there's like this trend where I can't remember
what kind it is, but it's like this scalp cleaning treatment, and she
went she could not find a place in Minnesota that offered this, and she
finally found one and she went, it's like a ninety minute thing where they
do all these different like it's almost like a facial and your head and you're
getting all these treatments on your hair and then like red light therapy and they
show you, like on the machine before how dirty or hair follicles looking after,
But just the treatment in general looked because I love facials. They're so
relaxing and cause you get like the neck and shoulder massage too. But I'm
like, damn, ninety minutes and you're getting your hair messed with two,
which I love. I'm like, I'll will get into that. I don't
know if you've heard of that. If you heard of that kind of like
scalp cleaning facial treatment thing, it's very poppy. It's I don't want to
get it wrong. It is definitely an Asian salon. She went to that
specialized in it, Okay, but I don't know the exact culture, so
I don't want to misspeak and sound completely ignorant. Basically, I haven't heard
of it, but it sounds extremely delightful. Yeah, and I would definitely
try it, and I have. She said it was really hard to get
into the only reason she does she got lucky on like a cancelation thing.
But I believe, but it could be wrong. It was in Burns Bill
or something, so not a comal location for me, But I mean I
would. If you follow her on Instagram you can probably figure out yep,
yeah, Abby Young. Yeah, but I think it has a unique spelling.
I'm sure if you type an Abby Young hair you find her on TikTok
or on Instagram. But anyway, I thought that was like a cool little
thing. Thing. I love that. Yeah. Can I show you one
thing that I did find while I was organizing my house? Yes, okay,
these are books that I have had randomly in some bin somewhere. She
has two books that are smaller than the Bible. Yep. Little one reads
how to give a mind Blowing bj and the next one reads sex Physicians over
one hundred truly explosive tips. So let's play a game. Give me a
number between one and one hundred sixty nine. Dah, well, no,
don't do sixty nine, because that's probably gonna be that actually sixty nine.
Yeah, okay. Forty two. Okay, I'm going to just read you
one. I thought we'd play a fun little game because I'm going to donate
these stupid wow lucky recipients. All right, forty two philm this feels like
this would I'm going to show you the picture after I read it. Okay.
I feel like this might suit you. I feel like a child where
I get to see the picture after you read the page. Okay. So
it says this is the Sex Positions book. Sit on your partner's lap with
him inside you and distract each other. Lean out of the window and look
at the garden. Watch TV. Why talk about your day. The longer
you can manage to write it out, the better the end results. So
literally, they're both in the picture doing their own thing. Penetration is happening,
okay, sort of. So when you describe it, at first,
I thought they both were leaning out. No, she is leaning to the
right watering a flower. He's looking to the left reading his book. So
there's no she's straddled over him and apparently, but I just think, wow,
it's so funny. These were books that my best friend gave me in
college. I really forgot about them, and I was like, Okay,
well, I'm gonna be honest. These most likely were probably written not in
like the not for the female. I say, probably especially well, I'm
just a mind blowing blowjobs. One blowjob on them. Just take a number
five five. Okay, we gotta go back to the beginning. I feel
like, now that I have more storage in my house than my last one,
I'm just collecting more and more shits. I'm so jealous that you're getting
rid of staff. I too, I'm getting rid of so much. Okay,
so these are tips, and it says cover your teeth with your lips.
The odd nip here and there is fine, but he doesn't want you
to treat his delicate tool like an ear of corn. Along the same lines.
Don't play rough unless he asks for it. Yanking back the foreskin,
sucking too hard, pumping up and down like you're trying to draw water from
a dry well, and snagging any part of it on jewelry are all no
nos. So yeah, this feels like he's yeah, written for someone who
has no idea how to give a blowjob, the abycs of blowing it,
I guess. Anyways, look for this in your local goodwill wow things.
That is a gift right there. If this was a live podcast, we
could do a giveaway right now, that'd be very beautiful. I thought about
it. I was like, God, should I like give these away whatever?
But they're probably going to go into a donation. Then that will sit
in my donation area for three to five months. Listen. I had my
shoes and clothes sitting in the laundry in like the mudroom laundery room for probably
three months. And finally I was like, I think there's one of those
boxes, like the big bins you can drop clothes in right by all of
swim. So on Sunday threw in my car. There was donated them.
So I did do a little cleansing myself. I guess finally it didn't feel
good, glorious. It's so nice. I need to do more because I
can fit into a lot of my clothes I had been saving again. Yeah,
and now I have too many clothes again, so I need to get
rid of stuff. But I've been so good with my clothes lately. I
did buy some from my recent trip, but I only wore like two things,
and I did go and return everything else. I didn't just like keep
it to T I was like, return that shit. I do want to
read an email because I know we're going to get into some ask me questions.
Yep, but this came from Rochelle says high phaluon Jenny, you are
my favorite podcast to listen to every week. I was so happy when you
started this up after POUM moved to afternoons. I'm excited to watch Fallon on
The Jason Show. I used to watch regularly with when my kids were babies,
but had to give but on most TV as they got older. Even
the checking the local weather, we'll cut to a news story about a dead
body found in a trash can in Minneapolis. Now that they're both heading off
to school in the fall, I can watch Fallon on the Jason Show.
Thank you, And then it says I'm listening to your podcast about your hikes
And have you guys ever checked out the Minnesota DNR Hiking and Passport Clubs?
I heard about them on Facebook. Minnesota women who hike group. I got
mine in the mail, and I'm excited to have a push out the door.
My family didn't do camping or hiking growing up, so I've never been
to Itasca or the Boundary water. So this gives me some structure to exploring
Minnesota nature. You should check it out. And then she sent the link.
But I have heard of it before. It's kind of a stamp you
can get or something. But maybe you can correct me if I'm wrong.
But it's like a book. It's kind of like a National Parks book or
like something like that. But it's okay. It's only like fifteen bucks too.
It's pretty true. I'm in the women who Hike Like Minnesota facebook group.
I don't see a lot of stuff on it because I don't. I
don't think I look actively too often. Sometimes when I'm like, oh,
I want to do something, I'll go look. And I thought about doing
one of their group hikes before, just hasn't worked out with my schedule because
I was like, oh, that's something I would do with like maybe Jenny
or something. But that sounds really cool, and yeah, same with you
did not grow up hiking at all or even really doing even though we grew
up on a farm the only outdoor stuff. That's not true. I mean
I played outside all the time, but like we didn't. I just think
that it's a different lifestyle you're outside, But I don't know, we weren't
like hiking or anything. Yeah, I don't think that hiking is probably a
prominent thing in the area of Indiana I grew up anyway, So I mean
you grew up there. I grew up in Wisconsin. There's not hiking in
terms of like big intense hike opportunities with like some easy hikes involved in there
too, Like we don't have mountains where we could still go do an easy
hike at it and have the mountain view. We Yeah, I didn't grow
up hiking either. We went to these places that we probably would say we
went hiking at, but it was basically just a walk around like cool nature
areas. Yeah, I will say too. Just going back to the Jason
Show really quick, it's been like an official full week and it's been really
really nice. Everyone's been so supportive and kind And I was waiting until the
Star Tribute article came out to actually talk about that experience. Honestly, I
wanted to see the final like print of it and see how she put everything
together. And the journalist who did it, Rachel, it was so nice.
She did such a nice job. She is a fantastic writer. I
mean, there were like so many things she put together in comparisons that had
nothing to do with my interviews that were really flattering and kind and I'll do
a little behind the scenes. I wasn't even going to do that interview.
I had told Jenny. I wasn't going to do it. I told my
therapist before we you know, graduated, and I wasn't going to do it.
And the reason being is because I have had a history of agreeing to
do interviews with people and they like will ask me questions about my ex and
some people only want to ask me questions even when I specifically will be like,
hey, out of respect for this person, I don't want to talk
about it. And so when I started talking to Rachel and I said,
hey, I've been burned, So if you want to ask me anything about
that, I'm not going to talk about it. It's a respect thing,
and more so than respect also it will not more so, I guess,
but like we both have moved on, We both have families. I feel
like it's like so unfair, and it also makes it look like I can't
let it go and move on, like I'm bringing it up and I'm like,
I don't want to talk about this anymore, and it's like Jake doesn't
care. But also, why are we spending more time talking about that that
Like I am married to a different person with children, blah blah blah.
You can go on and on. So I understand the fascination and I understand
people having questions, but I just think some people can be really disrespectful and
I have felt that way in the past, and it just sucks because it's
like so I was like with her, like, if you're going to talk
about that or ask me about it, I know, I can't tell you
how to write your article. It's your article, and I don't you don't
get to even see the final article. You just don't because that's like journalistic,
integregate or whatever whatever word I'm looking for, and so you don't get
to But she was like, no, I totally get what you're saying.
I respect it, and it does it. I don't know. I just
I just wanted to say thank you to her. I think for actually respecting
me and realizing that maybe there are other things to me than a relationship that
I was in many, many, many years ago. Right, I mean
you and Jacob been together for what we've been, Yeah, we've been I
think I think I should know it's going to be like we've been married over
six years at this point, like coming up, and it's just wild.
It's like, in almost any normal situation, why would anyone be bringing up
someone's ex period. And I understand like what you said, like there's like
a weird fast fascination because whatever, But it's just so disrespectful to you and
your partner as well as the other person involved. So I don't understand why
it has to have been a topic in other interviews. It makes no sense
to me, and it like irks me. And when you got the article
and you saw it for the first time, you sent me the link and
I was literally in the middle of Target, like walking around in the cart
with my phone like trying to read it, knocking into people, and I
was like, Okay, this is like a good article. Yeah, I'm
very happy. Well, the first when I sent you, I think why
I might even called to you. I like was crying I lost a lot
of sleep over it. I was texting my ex apologizing first, I don't
even know what this is going to say. I was completely bamboozled. I
was like caught off. It was a bad situation for me, and so
I was like, I think I'll just never do an interview ever again.
And so I'm bad around. I feel bad for her because I mean I
would didn't even respond for like a week, and then I'd say like maybe,
and then I'd be like, I don't think so. And so she
was very thoughtful and thorough. And it's not that it needed to be something
that painted me as a perfect person. I just didn't want that little speck
of my life to be a focus on the article because in the past it's
been like, oh, let's focus on how you have your own show,
and so few women do pivot. Let's only talk about your ex, so
right, and that takes away I just feel like it takes so much away
from who you are as a person, because I mean, I know you.
I've known you for a long time, like what ten plus years now,
almost, Yeah, Like I met you when I in college, and
so it's like I have seen you like transform, but I don't like look
at you know, and think like I need to know this information that happened
eight years ago to make a like to gain an idea of who you are,
Like I would want to focus on what you've done and where you're at
and your at this point in life now, you know. Yeah, I
don't know. I just feel like, yeah, when people make when they
say that they won't do something and then they go against what they said that
they won't do, it's a very unfair situation. But the article is really
nice, and yeah, go read it if you haven't ye listening and go
read those bars articles in the Star Trip. What's it title? Is there
a way you can just like Google? I think it's like tribune, Yeah,
my name, and then I well there, I think it's like vulgar
and vulnerable vulnerable yea. And but a lot of people, by the way,
were thought that the word vulgar was rude. But I mean I think
I used that actually too hard to describe myself, so I didn't take that
as a rude. A lot we're like, you're not vulgar, You're real,
And I was like, ah, I mean I think I said I'm
vulge because I am a vulgar lady at times? I know they probably don't.
They don't get to see the faulon we get to see off air.
That's true, Like you can get only to a certain amount on air.
Trust me, if you saw a fallon anor you'd be like, yeah,
that bitch is vulgar. Okay, here are some more of the ask us
anything questions? Did we I want to make sure I don't do all the
exact same ones we did. Product you always have in your purse? Do
we do that one we did? How? Nope? Oh wait, have
you play the audio of the girl who sent us? Yeah? Okay,
so a woman, Rebecca. She said, not a question, but I
always sing the podcast title to your show to I'm just Kin from the Barbie
movie. And so she actually sang a voice memo and I was like,
oh my god, Rebecca, that's so amazing. I'm going to play that
on the podcast. So Rebecca did not give me permission to play this,
but since she sent it, I think we're fine. So here is her
version that we should just start using as our actual show intro. Still fun
and Jenny's drinking days are done? What will it take to see plans?
More than a mom who just turned for and she actually can sing well,
so very bless. Yeah that was awesome. Okay, so let me jump
back in. God, I should just edit this out because someone said,
did you know that in last Night he isn't talking about kissing her lips on
her face? Okay? I saw like either a meme or a TikTok or
something about it, and I didn't do any further details on it, so
I either kept I moved along. Is that the Morgan Wallan song we're talking
about? Okay? I don't know. I can't think of what the lyrics
sound like now last not Talk, I don't know. Okay. Oh,
here's a good question. How do you know if someone wants to be your
friend or just wants to be seen with you? Dealing with this now?
So I think she means because like we work in radio, and like we
like, do people actually want to be friends with you and I? Or
do they want to be friends with Jenny from katiewb Fallon from KATIEWB. I
think for me, it's usually if someone is I'm trying to think of an
example. There's one person in particular that I could tell you probably wouldn't like
me as much if it wasn't for me being a part of KATIEWB. And
the reason I know that is because conversations often revolve around work, and when
I've talked about different career paths or negative things that I've dealt with that work,
they have always turned it around to be like, no, that's a
good job and stuff like that, and I'm like, you're not looking out
for me as a person, then you're looking out for me as Jenny KTWB.
So I kind of could see through that person pretty quickly. But I've
been pretty lucky to not really meet too many people who I mean, they
might care that I work here, but it's not the reason they want to
be friends with me. Yeah, I mean, I definitely think it's interesting
because I don't think that someone I'm trying to think about how to word this,
because I would never want anyone's feelings to be hurt. I think that
well, I think, you know, if someone like listens to your show,
you usually can gather pick up on that pretty quickly. And that doesn't
mean still that they just want to be friends with you because of that,
But I think if they bring up things pretty frequently about the show that would
be like a dead giveaway because like, I don't really want to overly talk
about my show outside of it, or like a bit we did or like
War the Roses, for instance, I don't really want to talk about that
necessarily. That doesn't mean if someone was like, oh, that thing you
did the other day was really funny, that would be awesome. I've definitely
had the thing, you know, where people pretty quickly are like asking about
tickets to things. That's a dead giveaway that they just aren't kind of using
you. But I when I had all of I had people reaching out pretty
frequently wanting to set up like play dates with me, and that felt like
a couple of things because this is where I don't want to be insulting to
anyone, because I don't think anyone was like trying to use me. I
think that they were like, I don't have other mom friends. I see
this person who just had a kid, let's set a time to hang out.
But for me, I'm like, I don't know you. And so
for me, that did feel like I felt guilty being like I don't want
to set up a play date with my kid and you, because it felt
weird. I don't and I don't think that they were weird people. I
think that they were just it was just someone who, like I said,
they like when you're a mom, it can be very and iating feeling,
like especially if your other friends haven't had kids yet, so I can see
where like maybe you're reaching out like, hey, you're the one person I
quote unquote kind of know would you want to get together sometime? And I
always felt just awkward being like, how do you say no to that?
It felt like a weird thing to say no to, like, no,
I don't want to hang out with you and your kid. I don't know,
So that one, that one always felt that one isn't like being used
though. It just felt like a strange thing kind of And I don't know
how to explain it because I understood the one side of it, and the
other side of me was like, no, I'm not going to do that,
right, But yeah, I feel like the same as you. I
don't feel like most people. Early on, I had a girl who would
always invite me to stuff and then immediately tag take a picture and tag stuff,
and that always felt a little bit like I was being used. Yeah,
So yeah, I've never I've been lucky enough to say that nobody really
ever. I'm using you cause you're Jenny from katiew but I have no If
you quit tomorrow, I would never talk to you again. Jenny, whatever,
have you ever been up? Have you ever upset a friend or family
member by sharing something on the radio? Yeah? Oh yeah, I caused
big issues. Let's see, what's something you've done recently that you were scared
to do? Gosh, do you have an answer? I'm not thinking of
anything at the top. Well, my biggest thing would be just changing my
life's career. But I mean I was, and I was wasn't scared to
take on the Jason Show. Was worried if it would be too much for
me. So far, it's fine. I guess mine to get super real
is My scariest thing was getting on anxiety medication. That was like super scary
for me. So that's definitely it. But I'm very happy I did yeah,
because it helped me out. That's awesome. How are your mom and
dad doing? I miss hearing updates on them on the Morning show. That's
very kind of you. My mom is good. She just have like a
really serious surgery on her. It was like to clear out some I think
like artery cloggage, but she's it's like you wouldn't even know, like they
do such a good job. He bare leaving to the cut even though it's
like down her entire throat. She's recovering very well. My dad, I
think, just continuously has health issues and I don't really know. I need
to call him. I play the game off. He'll call me. I
wait way too long to return his call. So I am due for a
call with him. But he's hitting that older age where it seems pretty consistent
when I talk to him something, there's an ailment there. And so yeah,
I think I told my sister this other day when I thought about the
fact that my mom is like, I think she's turning sixty eighth this year.
That is not real to me. My mom is like in my mind
forever between forty and fifty years old. Yeah, seventy seems so old to
me. It's weird. So when I'm like, why can't she like move
around or do this, I'm like, good god, she's almost seventy years
old. I did it just she did You have a permanent age in your
mind for your mom? Yeah, I mean I would say probably closer to
like fifty, but I would say in the last handful of years, I've
started to just like see age, yeah, take place in her face and
stuff. And it's just it's really weird to see that because when you're younger,
you don't really see the aging in your parents' faces, but as you
get older, you're kind of starting to see that, and it's like,
that's the weird thing that I'm like struggling with where I like see my parents
and I'm like, oh my gosh, like I can really see them getting
old, like right physically. Yeah, it's bizarre. Let's see, how
can someone ask a question without someone thinking they're passive aggressive? I think I
would need more information on that one. Yeah, okay, so I apologize
for not really knowing how to answer that one. Are there topics that you
both agree are off limits? Not asking specifics just if there are? Oh
yeah, for sure. That was the same with every show, like any
any radio show, any like podcast that people know your points of like points
of pain. I guess we could call it. We won't bring that up.
So yeah, I mean we might seem like open books, but there's
like parts of our lives that will never be shared, right, Like Fallen
and I probably know pretty much all of those things about each other, but
there's yeah, there's just there's a level of respect and there's a level of
understanding and obviously a level of trust because Fallan knows things about my life that
a lot of people don't know, right and vice versa. Yeah, so
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