WEBVTT 1 00:00:00.800 --> 00:00:05.599 Welcome to the finally on time. I'm still fun podcast. Yay, look 2 00:00:05.599 --> 00:00:08.960 at us, don't yeah, don't get used to it. Who knows when 3 00:00:09.000 --> 00:00:12.880 the next vacation or whatever will happen, So for a while for me, 4 00:00:13.119 --> 00:00:16.879 What about you at the end of this month? Okay, so like the 5 00:00:17.039 --> 00:00:21.320 last week of July, that Monday, we drive back on Monday, we're 6 00:00:21.519 --> 00:00:24.399 just going to Door County, so we'll have to do it on Tuesday. 7 00:00:24.480 --> 00:00:28.199 Okay, Okay, sounds good that another late one in a few weeks. 8 00:00:28.320 --> 00:00:31.079 It'll still happen. At least this is be like a little later, still 9 00:00:31.120 --> 00:00:36.600 on the right day. How is your weekend? It was good, man. 10 00:00:36.799 --> 00:00:43.320 I went into crazy organizational cleaning mode yesterday. Like I got into my 11 00:00:43.399 --> 00:00:47.200 hallway closet. I have so many like random hair products and cleaning products and 12 00:00:47.439 --> 00:00:51.520 towels and all this crap and our bathroom cabinets, and I cleaned all that 13 00:00:51.600 --> 00:00:53.880 and organized all of it. I threw out so much stuff. We have 14 00:00:53.960 --> 00:00:58.280 so much expired medicine, which is concerning time, and we do too. 15 00:00:58.479 --> 00:01:02.000 Yeah, you should look at that because one time in college I was like 16 00:01:02.079 --> 00:01:03.840 on my deathbed and I woke up and I just you know, you had 17 00:01:03.840 --> 00:01:07.079 that cough that you're so tired, you want to sleep, but you have 18 00:01:07.120 --> 00:01:11.519 a cough that's keeping you away. So I went into cough medicine. Literally 19 00:01:11.519 --> 00:01:14.799 sixty seconds later, I was like sitting on the toilet, absolutely dying. 20 00:01:14.879 --> 00:01:17.560 My stomach was in so much pain. And I looked in the cough medicine 21 00:01:17.680 --> 00:01:19.680 was like three years expired. Oh God, so that's your number one thing 22 00:01:19.680 --> 00:01:23.079 you should like ad in your medicine cabinet is like throw it expired cough medicine. 23 00:01:23.120 --> 00:01:27.120 Okay, I did it one other time a few years later, and 24 00:01:27.239 --> 00:01:30.439 it wasn't as bad, but it made me sick again. So anyways, 25 00:01:30.560 --> 00:01:34.519 my weekend was good, but I'm like, I feel like I'm going home 26 00:01:34.560 --> 00:01:40.400 to a new home so much. I cleaned so much, Andrew, I 27 00:01:40.439 --> 00:01:42.640 mean, we had big storms in our neighborhood, did you guys, Senmit 28 00:01:42.719 --> 00:01:46.480 Trista don't know. We did, but not like you guys in our power 29 00:01:46.640 --> 00:01:49.840 was not knocked out. And because like Colt came home and from his trip 30 00:01:49.879 --> 00:01:53.560 and his power is still out. Yeah, he said it's supposed to come 31 00:01:53.560 --> 00:01:56.680 back on maybe tonight. I know his because Colton and I live pretty close 32 00:01:56.719 --> 00:01:59.439 to each other. Luckily, our side, so our power went out for 33 00:01:59.760 --> 00:02:06.000 me maybe fifteen seconds because I was awake when it happened, and then it 34 00:02:06.120 --> 00:02:08.039 was fine, So we were lucky. But I had talked to Tina too, 35 00:02:08.240 --> 00:02:10.719 and like their power is out, and I was like, man, 36 00:02:10.759 --> 00:02:15.800 if I didn't have AC yesterday, I would have been so miserable. Cold 37 00:02:15.840 --> 00:02:19.199 said, it wasn't that bad. His only concern is his animals. Honestly, 38 00:02:19.280 --> 00:02:21.360 he was like worried leaving them today, and he's like, I think 39 00:02:21.360 --> 00:02:23.360 they're gonna be fine, but like he was a little stressed about that. 40 00:02:23.400 --> 00:02:23.840 I was like, oh, I didn't even think about that. Yeah, 41 00:02:23.840 --> 00:02:27.360 it's a good point. Yeah. We had three dogs this weekend, which 42 00:02:27.360 --> 00:02:29.639 we don't normally do, but it was all dogs we've watched before. In 43 00:02:29.680 --> 00:02:32.759 one was kind of a last minute situation, and I went downstairs and I 44 00:02:32.800 --> 00:02:37.759 closed our sunroom door because I don't trust the big tree in our backyard to 45 00:02:37.840 --> 00:02:42.599 not fall. And then also our sunroom isn't as sturdy obviously there's lots of 46 00:02:42.639 --> 00:02:45.080 windows, so I shut that so none of the dogs could go in there. 47 00:02:45.400 --> 00:02:49.039 One of the dogs is absolutely terrified of thunderstorms, and yeah, we 48 00:02:49.120 --> 00:02:51.879 have him sleep upstairs with us. Whenever we watch him. But I literally 49 00:02:51.879 --> 00:02:53.800 couldn't find him. And then I'm like looking in our we have kind of 50 00:02:53.840 --> 00:02:58.319 a walk in closet in our bedroom, and I'm looking in there and I 51 00:02:58.360 --> 00:03:00.639 can't see him, and I finally see a little nose poke out behind Andrew's 52 00:03:00.639 --> 00:03:05.599 clothes. He was so buried deep in He has like some call me and 53 00:03:05.800 --> 00:03:09.240 medicine that the owner gives us some stuff because he's always been terrified. But 54 00:03:09.319 --> 00:03:12.960 I like laid with him for a while, and then I just couldn't sleep 55 00:03:13.000 --> 00:03:15.759 myself. I was like kind of anxious myself. Honestly, I don't know 56 00:03:15.759 --> 00:03:21.360 why, because I had already seen one huge tree fall down in front of 57 00:03:21.400 --> 00:03:23.520 our house, and then a bunch of big branches from Marchori in the backyard 58 00:03:23.520 --> 00:03:27.000 had fallen that. I was just kind of nervous, like is a tree 59 00:03:27.000 --> 00:03:29.360 gonna fall in my house? Yeah, seriously, I was just kind of 60 00:03:29.400 --> 00:03:31.039 nervous. I woke up and saw your damage, and I was like, 61 00:03:31.080 --> 00:03:34.759 oh, what happened last night? I was I didn't hear anything. I 62 00:03:34.759 --> 00:03:37.400 mean, I knew it was storming, obviously, No nothing like that that 63 00:03:37.479 --> 00:03:39.719 I saw near me. At least there were trees down throughout other neighborhoods like 64 00:03:39.759 --> 00:03:42.879 near mind, Like on my way to pull out is there's a tree down 65 00:03:42.960 --> 00:03:45.879 kind of blocking the road, and I'm like, eh, no, I 66 00:03:46.000 --> 00:03:47.599 was out. I had all of alone all weekend. So when I went 67 00:03:47.639 --> 00:03:51.159 to bed at night, I think I slept like a rock for sure. 68 00:03:51.319 --> 00:03:53.199 Yeah, so didn't hear the storms and all of us like that dog she 69 00:03:53.280 --> 00:03:55.919 scared a storm, so you know. Yeah, so I was actually waiting 70 00:03:55.960 --> 00:03:59.840 for her to be, like for me to have to put her in bed 71 00:03:59.840 --> 00:04:01.680 with me or something, but she did not. She slept there too. 72 00:04:01.759 --> 00:04:04.159 Oh look at that. I wore her out too, So it worked out. 73 00:04:04.360 --> 00:04:09.240 That's good. We did the like firefly viewing thing, and it's interesting 74 00:04:09.280 --> 00:04:14.360 because I got the arbretom. Yeah, and I grew up seeing lightning bugs 75 00:04:14.439 --> 00:04:17.040 yep, so you know obviously the picture that they show for the arboretum, 76 00:04:17.079 --> 00:04:19.399 she was like a bunch of lightning bugs. It looks really cool, and 77 00:04:19.480 --> 00:04:24.920 I didn't know what to expect. I did not realize it's literally just you 78 00:04:25.000 --> 00:04:29.879 see a bunch of lightning bugs fireflies lighting up. And it was cool because 79 00:04:29.920 --> 00:04:31.319 usually the arboretum's closed, so you get to walk through the path and like 80 00:04:31.439 --> 00:04:34.480 they have like tiny little fake little tea light candles, you know, the 81 00:04:34.639 --> 00:04:36.600 light in the path, but other than that, it's dark and you just 82 00:04:36.600 --> 00:04:42.279 see lightning bugs. But I was kind of like I saw this every single 83 00:04:42.399 --> 00:04:46.399 night growing up in Indiana on a farm, so it wasn't like that unique 84 00:04:46.399 --> 00:04:49.600 to me. I had no idea. Like Dylan, my stepson Hannah, 85 00:04:49.639 --> 00:04:54.360 they said they had like never seen fireflies before because they grew up in like 86 00:04:54.959 --> 00:04:58.759 Egan Bloomington in the suburbs where they just wroke, we hadn't seen them. 87 00:04:58.759 --> 00:05:01.079 And I was like, really, it was mind blowing to me that people 88 00:05:01.120 --> 00:05:05.639 haven't regularly seen fireflies or lightning bugs. I wouldn't have thought that either, 89 00:05:05.680 --> 00:05:09.800 because I mean I didn't grow up in the country, but we had firefly 90 00:05:09.920 --> 00:05:13.879 scenari yard all the time growing up, so I definitely yeah around them. 91 00:05:13.959 --> 00:05:15.600 Someone DMed me and they're like, yeah, it's odd you don't see them 92 00:05:15.639 --> 00:05:18.560 around here that often. And I just started thinking about it. I'm like, 93 00:05:19.480 --> 00:05:24.120 you know what, I don't think I can recall seeing them. And 94 00:05:24.160 --> 00:05:27.519 now I live in an area that we have like a couple of acres and 95 00:05:28.079 --> 00:05:30.720 not that I'm out like in the wooded part behind our house, but I 96 00:05:30.759 --> 00:05:32.279 don't feel like I really see them. So I was like, Oh, 97 00:05:32.319 --> 00:05:38.279 that's interesting't I know this weekend? Oh I'm going to go see the new 98 00:05:38.319 --> 00:05:42.759 Twisters movie this week are you? Yeah? That's one thing. I actually 99 00:05:42.800 --> 00:05:46.240 did like the original me too a lot, but I was very scared of 100 00:05:46.240 --> 00:05:48.279 tornadoes growing up, so I wasn't like a huge fan of it, but 101 00:05:48.319 --> 00:05:51.199 I would go see that. I usually that would not be like my style 102 00:05:51.240 --> 00:05:55.800 of movie, but I remember really liking the original, and I like both 103 00:05:55.920 --> 00:05:59.800 people, Glenn Powell and Daisy Edgar Jones and the new one, and I 104 00:05:59.839 --> 00:06:00.639 was like, I'm gonna go see that. So Jake and I are doing 105 00:06:00.639 --> 00:06:04.000 a little like date night on Wednesday to check it out nice. And then 106 00:06:04.199 --> 00:06:08.079 I know, I haven't looked at the weather, but I'm planning on going 107 00:06:08.120 --> 00:06:11.000 to the Minnesota Yacht Club Festival this weekend, which I know you said you 108 00:06:11.040 --> 00:06:16.519 were too, but I was like, I if it rains like it has 109 00:06:16.639 --> 00:06:20.480 every single other day here in Minnesota, that's gonna suck. I think it's 110 00:06:20.519 --> 00:06:26.160 looking good for Friday and then Saturday. There's a small percentage of Saturday the 111 00:06:26.240 --> 00:06:29.199 day I want to prefer. I know when I was talking because you would 112 00:06:29.319 --> 00:06:30.680 message me and you're like, well, what are you going both days? 113 00:06:30.680 --> 00:06:33.480 Are you just going to one? And I of course want to see Acts 114 00:06:33.560 --> 00:06:38.519 on both days, and I really don't want to go to both days. 115 00:06:38.879 --> 00:06:42.120 And Andrew's in the same boat where he's just like really busy at work right 116 00:06:42.120 --> 00:06:45.000 now, so he's like, I don't want to go to both days, 117 00:06:45.079 --> 00:06:48.439 but I feel like I'm going to end up being there, so I don't 118 00:06:48.480 --> 00:06:51.279 know what I'm gonna do yet. I probably will end up being there both 119 00:06:51.360 --> 00:06:55.360 days. If I didn't have a child, I'd probably would definitely do both 120 00:06:55.399 --> 00:06:59.759 days because I really want to see Atlantis. But Jake, I think, 121 00:07:00.079 --> 00:07:01.839 is more about word hot Chili Peppers than I do Atlantis, So he's like 122 00:07:01.839 --> 00:07:03.920 always wanted to see them and I know that, so I was like, 123 00:07:04.040 --> 00:07:08.560 let's just go that night. Also, the Offspring is so fun, so 124 00:07:08.839 --> 00:07:12.839 I'll be into that. I remember when they posted that and the response from 125 00:07:13.040 --> 00:07:15.560 young people were like, oh, so that's like an old person festival, 126 00:07:15.560 --> 00:07:19.360 and I was like, oh my god, Wow, all the comments were 127 00:07:19.480 --> 00:07:23.519 like that, and I was like, oh, sorry, get Hendrick Lamar. 128 00:07:23.959 --> 00:07:28.160 Yeah, apparently we're the old this is an old person festival. People 129 00:07:28.160 --> 00:07:30.199 were like the younger people were not impressed with the lineup. It made me 130 00:07:30.199 --> 00:07:34.199 feel so old. I feel like, I know a lot of people go 131 00:07:34.279 --> 00:07:36.959 into it, but I guess I'm old though you are old, Jenny, 132 00:07:38.040 --> 00:07:43.160 you're over thirty gross you know. So oh wow, Can I tell you 133 00:07:43.240 --> 00:07:47.240 one thing that happened over the weekend that yeah, okay, So not to 134 00:07:47.319 --> 00:07:50.480 make this about sex all the time, because I know we touched on that 135 00:07:50.560 --> 00:07:56.959 quite often recently, but Andrew crawls into bed on Saturday night. He was 136 00:07:56.959 --> 00:08:01.519 downstairs play in video games and he curls in and he was like, oh, 137 00:08:01.600 --> 00:08:05.079 are you ready? And I was like, money, mean ready, 138 00:08:05.360 --> 00:08:09.839 you know, I'm like ready for what? And he goes for TV or 139 00:08:09.240 --> 00:08:13.800 peep and I go, never fucking say that ever again in your entire life. 140 00:08:13.839 --> 00:08:20.639 He doesn't know. No, he does not know the story, nor 141 00:08:20.720 --> 00:08:22.399 unless you listening to this podcast, will you ever know. But I will 142 00:08:22.399 --> 00:08:26.279 tell it now that Geet brought up Oh, I will never forget. It 143 00:08:26.319 --> 00:08:30.480 didn't even happen to me, but basically, somebody I had been like hanging 144 00:08:30.519 --> 00:08:33.039 out with for a little bit. We had been hooking up, and he 145 00:08:33.159 --> 00:08:39.440 would say, do you like that hard peepee? To me, and I 146 00:08:39.600 --> 00:08:45.200 so grossed out by it, and so I don't anytime anytime I don't like 147 00:08:45.320 --> 00:08:48.919 that, I can't. I can't. I just can't get past it. 148 00:08:48.240 --> 00:08:52.639 So I started laughing so hard. But then he's just laughing as he thinks 149 00:08:52.639 --> 00:08:54.799 he's really funny, you know, And I'm like, man, oh, 150 00:08:54.960 --> 00:08:56.840 like I want to tell you, but I don't want to tell you because 151 00:08:56.879 --> 00:09:01.440 I probably wouldn't want to know the story, like ros reversed. I probably 152 00:09:01.480 --> 00:09:05.320 would tell Jake just because he's but I also get it. I would if 153 00:09:05.399 --> 00:09:09.679 I would not want Jake to tell me, you know. So we had 154 00:09:09.720 --> 00:09:11.120 a good laugh. I think I laughed a little bit harder knowing what I 155 00:09:11.159 --> 00:09:13.879 know. Yeah, well, what did you choose? Did you choose the 156 00:09:13.879 --> 00:09:16.799 TV or the PP? Jenny? The TV? We did the we did 157 00:09:16.799 --> 00:09:22.320 the PP earlier. Yeah, no, I went, I went, Okay, 158 00:09:22.399 --> 00:09:24.519 I don't normally do this anymore, but I did put some faked ham 159 00:09:24.639 --> 00:09:28.360 stuff on myself this weekend because I was supposed to have Lake patrol on Saturday. 160 00:09:28.399 --> 00:09:33.039 I am so pasty. And there was a boat of fifty gay dudes 161 00:09:33.039 --> 00:09:35.279 that were going to be out there, and they were out there last year 162 00:09:35.320 --> 00:09:37.240 when I was on the boat with them, and they're all tanned and fitting 163 00:09:37.279 --> 00:09:39.320 in their little speedos. I was like, if I get on this boat 164 00:09:39.360 --> 00:09:43.440 with them again, I cannot look like the pasty little white girl. Yeah, 165 00:09:43.440 --> 00:09:46.200 so I put on some tanning stuff. I put on this like hot 166 00:09:46.240 --> 00:09:50.480 pink bikini, and then no one to show it off to. The gaye 167 00:09:50.519 --> 00:09:54.200 didn't get to see it. So I got home and I was like, 168 00:09:54.240 --> 00:09:58.039 well, nobody else saw this, so I'm gonna walk into the living room 169 00:09:58.080 --> 00:10:00.679 and show him my bikini. Yeah, like you know, yeah, And 170 00:10:00.720 --> 00:10:03.159 so things escalated from there. Wow, we had already done that earlier in 171 00:10:03.159 --> 00:10:05.279 the day. You were set. Yeah, I was like, let's watch 172 00:10:05.320 --> 00:10:09.080 the TV. That's a risky move to get that tanner on. Wherever you 173 00:10:09.080 --> 00:10:13.919 guys were banging to off, it was already I'd put it on like Friday, 174 00:10:15.039 --> 00:10:16.799 you do look tanner. Yeah, it's only yeah, I mean it'll 175 00:10:16.840 --> 00:10:20.440 be almost tanner one more day and then it'll be gone. Not that your 176 00:10:20.440 --> 00:10:22.559 face doesn't, but there's a light beaming directly on your face, so I 177 00:10:22.559 --> 00:10:26.320 can't tell. Well, I use so many face products for my skincare routine 178 00:10:26.320 --> 00:10:30.480 that I think that like, basically after one day of putting some stuff on, 179 00:10:30.639 --> 00:10:33.120 it just wipes it off. That's what I was like. So every 180 00:10:33.159 --> 00:10:37.559 day at Din't today I have makeup or mover wipes in my car because now 181 00:10:37.559 --> 00:10:39.440 I actually put on makeup every morning. I'm like, I'm not gonna leave 182 00:10:39.440 --> 00:10:43.120 that on all day. So every day I leave the Jason Show last week 183 00:10:43.159 --> 00:10:46.720 and continue on and I just wipe my face as I'm driving to get like 184 00:10:46.919 --> 00:10:50.600 at least the majority of it off. And I use like little face tanning 185 00:10:50.679 --> 00:10:56.039 drops frequently, and I'm like, is this just wiping it off every single 186 00:10:56.120 --> 00:10:58.720 day when I do this, I don't know, but I'm like, great, 187 00:10:58.799 --> 00:11:01.639 that's probably what's happening. It feels like it is because there's usually some 188 00:11:01.720 --> 00:11:07.840 form of like alcohol, weird substance chemical in it that guarante off away isn't 189 00:11:07.840 --> 00:11:11.679 good for her natural skin anyways, but yeah, it does the job. 190 00:11:11.960 --> 00:11:13.639 So by the way, I saw this thing and I want to try it 191 00:11:13.720 --> 00:11:18.600 there. Do you know who Abby Young is? She's a local influencer, 192 00:11:18.600 --> 00:11:20.960 but she's very very pop hair. Hair stuff is her main thing. Okay, 193 00:11:22.360 --> 00:11:26.399 so I hadn't heard of her. But Charlie is a guy who owned 194 00:11:26.440 --> 00:11:28.200 He was a co owner of House Salon, he sold his part, moved 195 00:11:28.200 --> 00:11:33.960 to Hawaii. Just love You're saulty about that because he used to cut your 196 00:11:33.960 --> 00:11:35.559 hair cut my hair. But loved him in general. But he still comes 197 00:11:35.600 --> 00:11:39.600 back occasionally. But I don't see him anymore because it's too rarely. But 198 00:11:39.720 --> 00:11:43.279 he said he cut her hair, and he's like, you follow her. 199 00:11:43.320 --> 00:11:45.159 She's a really big hair influencer, and I was like, no, but 200 00:11:45.200 --> 00:11:48.519 I looked her up. She has beautiful, long blonde hair blah blah blah. 201 00:11:48.559 --> 00:11:54.000 She posts great reviews of stuff like I love her reviews because she doesn't 202 00:11:54.000 --> 00:11:58.279 give like she is honest and she doesn't just promote expensive stuff. She did 203 00:11:58.320 --> 00:12:01.480 one not that long ago that I got really into. It was like trying 204 00:12:01.559 --> 00:12:03.879 all mascaras, which, by the way, she said that she and she 205 00:12:03.960 --> 00:12:07.840 showed the difference. She uses the blink technique for every stroke she puts on 206 00:12:07.879 --> 00:12:11.840 her eyes. She blinks and it made her lashes look bigger on the one 207 00:12:11.879 --> 00:12:15.480 side than the other. I haven't tried it, but she said people went 208 00:12:15.559 --> 00:12:18.039 after her about how stupid she looked doing it. She's like, I don't 209 00:12:18.039 --> 00:12:20.960 care because the results are better. But she was showing all the different mascara 210 00:12:20.960 --> 00:12:24.159 types in which one actually is best, and her reviews are very detailed and 211 00:12:24.200 --> 00:12:28.519 good. But she just posted, there's like this trend where I can't remember 212 00:12:30.120 --> 00:12:33.600 what kind it is, but it's like this scalp cleaning treatment, and she 213 00:12:33.639 --> 00:12:37.320 went she could not find a place in Minnesota that offered this, and she 214 00:12:37.519 --> 00:12:43.000 finally found one and she went, it's like a ninety minute thing where they 215 00:12:43.039 --> 00:12:46.039 do all these different like it's almost like a facial and your head and you're 216 00:12:46.080 --> 00:12:50.720 getting all these treatments on your hair and then like red light therapy and they 217 00:12:50.759 --> 00:12:54.799 show you, like on the machine before how dirty or hair follicles looking after, 218 00:12:56.320 --> 00:13:00.399 But just the treatment in general looked because I love facials. They're so 219 00:13:00.600 --> 00:13:05.120 relaxing and cause you get like the neck and shoulder massage too. But I'm 220 00:13:05.120 --> 00:13:07.519 like, damn, ninety minutes and you're getting your hair messed with two, 221 00:13:07.600 --> 00:13:11.240 which I love. I'm like, I'll will get into that. I don't 222 00:13:11.240 --> 00:13:13.240 know if you've heard of that. If you heard of that kind of like 223 00:13:13.919 --> 00:13:16.840 scalp cleaning facial treatment thing, it's very poppy. It's I don't want to 224 00:13:16.840 --> 00:13:22.879 get it wrong. It is definitely an Asian salon. She went to that 225 00:13:22.000 --> 00:13:26.799 specialized in it, Okay, but I don't know the exact culture, so 226 00:13:26.840 --> 00:13:31.360 I don't want to misspeak and sound completely ignorant. Basically, I haven't heard 227 00:13:31.360 --> 00:13:33.679 of it, but it sounds extremely delightful. Yeah, and I would definitely 228 00:13:33.879 --> 00:13:35.799 try it, and I have. She said it was really hard to get 229 00:13:35.840 --> 00:13:39.320 into the only reason she does she got lucky on like a cancelation thing. 230 00:13:39.759 --> 00:13:43.360 But I believe, but it could be wrong. It was in Burns Bill 231 00:13:43.440 --> 00:13:46.080 or something, so not a comal location for me, But I mean I 232 00:13:46.120 --> 00:13:48.879 would. If you follow her on Instagram you can probably figure out yep, 233 00:13:48.200 --> 00:13:52.440 yeah, Abby Young. Yeah, but I think it has a unique spelling. 234 00:13:52.039 --> 00:13:56.000 I'm sure if you type an Abby Young hair you find her on TikTok 235 00:13:56.159 --> 00:13:58.399 or on Instagram. But anyway, I thought that was like a cool little 236 00:13:58.399 --> 00:14:01.519 thing. Thing. I love that. Yeah. Can I show you one 237 00:14:01.519 --> 00:14:07.519 thing that I did find while I was organizing my house? Yes, okay, 238 00:14:07.639 --> 00:14:13.200 these are books that I have had randomly in some bin somewhere. She 239 00:14:13.240 --> 00:14:18.879 has two books that are smaller than the Bible. Yep. Little one reads 240 00:14:18.200 --> 00:14:24.080 how to give a mind Blowing bj and the next one reads sex Physicians over 241 00:14:24.159 --> 00:14:28.320 one hundred truly explosive tips. So let's play a game. Give me a 242 00:14:28.440 --> 00:14:35.519 number between one and one hundred sixty nine. Dah, well, no, 243 00:14:35.559 --> 00:14:37.720 don't do sixty nine, because that's probably gonna be that actually sixty nine. 244 00:14:37.919 --> 00:14:41.200 Yeah, okay. Forty two. Okay, I'm going to just read you 245 00:14:41.240 --> 00:14:43.399 one. I thought we'd play a fun little game because I'm going to donate 246 00:14:43.480 --> 00:14:48.480 these stupid wow lucky recipients. All right, forty two philm this feels like 247 00:14:48.480 --> 00:14:50.840 this would I'm going to show you the picture after I read it. Okay. 248 00:14:50.840 --> 00:14:52.879 I feel like this might suit you. I feel like a child where 249 00:14:52.879 --> 00:14:56.039 I get to see the picture after you read the page. Okay. So 250 00:14:56.120 --> 00:15:00.080 it says this is the Sex Positions book. Sit on your partner's lap with 251 00:15:00.159 --> 00:15:03.559 him inside you and distract each other. Lean out of the window and look 252 00:15:03.559 --> 00:15:07.120 at the garden. Watch TV. Why talk about your day. The longer 253 00:15:07.159 --> 00:15:09.159 you can manage to write it out, the better the end results. So 254 00:15:09.320 --> 00:15:15.919 literally, they're both in the picture doing their own thing. Penetration is happening, 255 00:15:16.080 --> 00:15:18.240 okay, sort of. So when you describe it, at first, 256 00:15:18.279 --> 00:15:20.919 I thought they both were leaning out. No, she is leaning to the 257 00:15:22.039 --> 00:15:26.360 right watering a flower. He's looking to the left reading his book. So 258 00:15:26.399 --> 00:15:31.240 there's no she's straddled over him and apparently, but I just think, wow, 259 00:15:31.240 --> 00:15:35.320 it's so funny. These were books that my best friend gave me in 260 00:15:35.360 --> 00:15:37.639 college. I really forgot about them, and I was like, Okay, 261 00:15:37.679 --> 00:15:41.799 well, I'm gonna be honest. These most likely were probably written not in 262 00:15:41.879 --> 00:15:48.039 like the not for the female. I say, probably especially well, I'm 263 00:15:48.159 --> 00:15:50.720 just a mind blowing blowjobs. One blowjob on them. Just take a number 264 00:15:50.840 --> 00:15:54.519 five five. Okay, we gotta go back to the beginning. I feel 265 00:15:54.519 --> 00:15:58.000 like, now that I have more storage in my house than my last one, 266 00:15:58.000 --> 00:16:00.919 I'm just collecting more and more shits. I'm so jealous that you're getting 267 00:16:00.000 --> 00:16:03.440 rid of staff. I too, I'm getting rid of so much. Okay, 268 00:16:03.519 --> 00:16:07.799 so these are tips, and it says cover your teeth with your lips. 269 00:16:07.399 --> 00:16:12.440 The odd nip here and there is fine, but he doesn't want you 270 00:16:12.519 --> 00:16:17.399 to treat his delicate tool like an ear of corn. Along the same lines. 271 00:16:17.519 --> 00:16:21.200 Don't play rough unless he asks for it. Yanking back the foreskin, 272 00:16:21.519 --> 00:16:25.000 sucking too hard, pumping up and down like you're trying to draw water from 273 00:16:25.039 --> 00:16:27.879 a dry well, and snagging any part of it on jewelry are all no 274 00:16:27.879 --> 00:16:33.000 nos. So yeah, this feels like he's yeah, written for someone who 275 00:16:33.039 --> 00:16:36.840 has no idea how to give a blowjob, the abycs of blowing it, 276 00:16:36.919 --> 00:16:41.240 I guess. Anyways, look for this in your local goodwill wow things. 277 00:16:41.360 --> 00:16:44.799 That is a gift right there. If this was a live podcast, we 278 00:16:44.840 --> 00:16:47.759 could do a giveaway right now, that'd be very beautiful. I thought about 279 00:16:47.759 --> 00:16:49.519 it. I was like, God, should I like give these away whatever? 280 00:16:49.639 --> 00:16:52.279 But they're probably going to go into a donation. Then that will sit 281 00:16:52.320 --> 00:16:57.440 in my donation area for three to five months. Listen. I had my 282 00:16:57.600 --> 00:17:02.799 shoes and clothes sitting in the laundry in like the mudroom laundery room for probably 283 00:17:02.799 --> 00:17:04.519 three months. And finally I was like, I think there's one of those 284 00:17:04.559 --> 00:17:07.799 boxes, like the big bins you can drop clothes in right by all of 285 00:17:08.079 --> 00:17:12.400 swim. So on Sunday threw in my car. There was donated them. 286 00:17:12.839 --> 00:17:18.119 So I did do a little cleansing myself. I guess finally it didn't feel 287 00:17:18.119 --> 00:17:21.240 good, glorious. It's so nice. I need to do more because I 288 00:17:21.599 --> 00:17:23.720 can fit into a lot of my clothes I had been saving again. Yeah, 289 00:17:23.759 --> 00:17:26.640 and now I have too many clothes again, so I need to get 290 00:17:26.680 --> 00:17:30.839 rid of stuff. But I've been so good with my clothes lately. I 291 00:17:30.839 --> 00:17:34.079 did buy some from my recent trip, but I only wore like two things, 292 00:17:34.119 --> 00:17:37.559 and I did go and return everything else. I didn't just like keep 293 00:17:37.559 --> 00:17:40.839 it to T I was like, return that shit. I do want to 294 00:17:40.880 --> 00:17:44.200 read an email because I know we're going to get into some ask me questions. 295 00:17:44.240 --> 00:17:48.079 Yep, but this came from Rochelle says high phaluon Jenny, you are 296 00:17:48.119 --> 00:17:51.480 my favorite podcast to listen to every week. I was so happy when you 297 00:17:51.519 --> 00:17:55.160 started this up after POUM moved to afternoons. I'm excited to watch Fallon on 298 00:17:55.200 --> 00:17:59.319 The Jason Show. I used to watch regularly with when my kids were babies, 299 00:17:59.359 --> 00:18:02.720 but had to give but on most TV as they got older. Even 300 00:18:02.759 --> 00:18:04.839 the checking the local weather, we'll cut to a news story about a dead 301 00:18:04.839 --> 00:18:08.359 body found in a trash can in Minneapolis. Now that they're both heading off 302 00:18:08.359 --> 00:18:11.000 to school in the fall, I can watch Fallon on the Jason Show. 303 00:18:11.039 --> 00:18:15.799 Thank you, And then it says I'm listening to your podcast about your hikes 304 00:18:15.880 --> 00:18:18.920 And have you guys ever checked out the Minnesota DNR Hiking and Passport Clubs? 305 00:18:18.920 --> 00:18:22.680 I heard about them on Facebook. Minnesota women who hike group. I got 306 00:18:22.680 --> 00:18:25.839 mine in the mail, and I'm excited to have a push out the door. 307 00:18:26.119 --> 00:18:29.519 My family didn't do camping or hiking growing up, so I've never been 308 00:18:29.559 --> 00:18:33.119 to Itasca or the Boundary water. So this gives me some structure to exploring 309 00:18:33.200 --> 00:18:36.640 Minnesota nature. You should check it out. And then she sent the link. 310 00:18:36.720 --> 00:18:40.480 But I have heard of it before. It's kind of a stamp you 311 00:18:40.519 --> 00:18:44.200 can get or something. But maybe you can correct me if I'm wrong. 312 00:18:44.200 --> 00:18:47.319 But it's like a book. It's kind of like a National Parks book or 313 00:18:47.359 --> 00:18:51.200 like something like that. But it's okay. It's only like fifteen bucks too. 314 00:18:51.240 --> 00:18:55.559 It's pretty true. I'm in the women who Hike Like Minnesota facebook group. 315 00:18:55.920 --> 00:18:57.440 I don't see a lot of stuff on it because I don't. I 316 00:18:57.599 --> 00:19:00.880 don't think I look actively too often. Sometimes when I'm like, oh, 317 00:19:00.880 --> 00:19:03.480 I want to do something, I'll go look. And I thought about doing 318 00:19:03.480 --> 00:19:07.319 one of their group hikes before, just hasn't worked out with my schedule because 319 00:19:07.359 --> 00:19:08.480 I was like, oh, that's something I would do with like maybe Jenny 320 00:19:08.559 --> 00:19:12.720 or something. But that sounds really cool, and yeah, same with you 321 00:19:12.839 --> 00:19:18.160 did not grow up hiking at all or even really doing even though we grew 322 00:19:18.200 --> 00:19:21.079 up on a farm the only outdoor stuff. That's not true. I mean 323 00:19:21.079 --> 00:19:25.279 I played outside all the time, but like we didn't. I just think 324 00:19:25.319 --> 00:19:30.680 that it's a different lifestyle you're outside, But I don't know, we weren't 325 00:19:30.720 --> 00:19:33.799 like hiking or anything. Yeah, I don't think that hiking is probably a 326 00:19:34.319 --> 00:19:37.880 prominent thing in the area of Indiana I grew up anyway, So I mean 327 00:19:38.160 --> 00:19:41.400 you grew up there. I grew up in Wisconsin. There's not hiking in 328 00:19:41.519 --> 00:19:48.000 terms of like big intense hike opportunities with like some easy hikes involved in there 329 00:19:48.000 --> 00:19:51.319 too, Like we don't have mountains where we could still go do an easy 330 00:19:51.400 --> 00:19:55.119 hike at it and have the mountain view. We Yeah, I didn't grow 331 00:19:55.160 --> 00:19:57.880 up hiking either. We went to these places that we probably would say we 332 00:19:57.880 --> 00:20:02.599 went hiking at, but it was basically just a walk around like cool nature 333 00:20:02.640 --> 00:20:07.599 areas. Yeah, I will say too. Just going back to the Jason 334 00:20:07.640 --> 00:20:10.759 Show really quick, it's been like an official full week and it's been really 335 00:20:11.920 --> 00:20:17.279 really nice. Everyone's been so supportive and kind And I was waiting until the 336 00:20:17.319 --> 00:20:22.160 Star Tribute article came out to actually talk about that experience. Honestly, I 337 00:20:22.160 --> 00:20:26.440 wanted to see the final like print of it and see how she put everything 338 00:20:26.440 --> 00:20:33.200 together. And the journalist who did it, Rachel, it was so nice. 339 00:20:33.480 --> 00:20:37.119 She did such a nice job. She is a fantastic writer. I 340 00:20:37.119 --> 00:20:41.720 mean, there were like so many things she put together in comparisons that had 341 00:20:41.759 --> 00:20:48.440 nothing to do with my interviews that were really flattering and kind and I'll do 342 00:20:48.519 --> 00:20:52.880 a little behind the scenes. I wasn't even going to do that interview. 343 00:20:53.160 --> 00:20:56.880 I had told Jenny. I wasn't going to do it. I told my 344 00:20:56.960 --> 00:21:00.599 therapist before we you know, graduated, and I wasn't going to do it. 345 00:21:00.039 --> 00:21:06.759 And the reason being is because I have had a history of agreeing to 346 00:21:06.839 --> 00:21:15.839 do interviews with people and they like will ask me questions about my ex and 347 00:21:15.240 --> 00:21:21.000 some people only want to ask me questions even when I specifically will be like, 348 00:21:21.039 --> 00:21:23.640 hey, out of respect for this person, I don't want to talk 349 00:21:23.680 --> 00:21:29.920 about it. And so when I started talking to Rachel and I said, 350 00:21:29.960 --> 00:21:32.799 hey, I've been burned, So if you want to ask me anything about 351 00:21:32.839 --> 00:21:34.680 that, I'm not going to talk about it. It's a respect thing, 352 00:21:36.079 --> 00:21:40.160 and more so than respect also it will not more so, I guess, 353 00:21:40.319 --> 00:21:42.160 but like we both have moved on, We both have families. I feel 354 00:21:42.160 --> 00:21:45.880 like it's like so unfair, and it also makes it look like I can't 355 00:21:45.960 --> 00:21:49.839 let it go and move on, like I'm bringing it up and I'm like, 356 00:21:51.440 --> 00:21:53.680 I don't want to talk about this anymore, and it's like Jake doesn't 357 00:21:53.680 --> 00:21:57.039 care. But also, why are we spending more time talking about that that 358 00:21:57.200 --> 00:22:00.680 Like I am married to a different person with children, blah blah blah. 359 00:22:00.720 --> 00:22:06.079 You can go on and on. So I understand the fascination and I understand 360 00:22:06.119 --> 00:22:11.920 people having questions, but I just think some people can be really disrespectful and 361 00:22:11.039 --> 00:22:15.240 I have felt that way in the past, and it just sucks because it's 362 00:22:15.240 --> 00:22:18.720 like so I was like with her, like, if you're going to talk 363 00:22:18.759 --> 00:22:22.880 about that or ask me about it, I know, I can't tell you 364 00:22:22.920 --> 00:22:26.200 how to write your article. It's your article, and I don't you don't 365 00:22:26.240 --> 00:22:30.920 get to even see the final article. You just don't because that's like journalistic, 366 00:22:30.960 --> 00:22:36.720 integregate or whatever whatever word I'm looking for, and so you don't get 367 00:22:36.720 --> 00:22:40.640 to But she was like, no, I totally get what you're saying. 368 00:22:40.720 --> 00:22:42.799 I respect it, and it does it. I don't know. I just 369 00:22:44.200 --> 00:22:48.400 I just wanted to say thank you to her. I think for actually respecting 370 00:22:48.480 --> 00:22:55.039 me and realizing that maybe there are other things to me than a relationship that 371 00:22:55.119 --> 00:22:57.200 I was in many, many, many years ago. Right, I mean 372 00:22:57.240 --> 00:23:02.160 you and Jacob been together for what we've been, Yeah, we've been I 373 00:23:02.200 --> 00:23:04.680 think I think I should know it's going to be like we've been married over 374 00:23:04.759 --> 00:23:08.519 six years at this point, like coming up, and it's just wild. 375 00:23:08.599 --> 00:23:12.960 It's like, in almost any normal situation, why would anyone be bringing up 376 00:23:12.960 --> 00:23:18.680 someone's ex period. And I understand like what you said, like there's like 377 00:23:18.720 --> 00:23:25.680 a weird fast fascination because whatever, But it's just so disrespectful to you and 378 00:23:25.720 --> 00:23:30.200 your partner as well as the other person involved. So I don't understand why 379 00:23:30.200 --> 00:23:33.440 it has to have been a topic in other interviews. It makes no sense 380 00:23:33.480 --> 00:23:37.160 to me, and it like irks me. And when you got the article 381 00:23:37.200 --> 00:23:40.720 and you saw it for the first time, you sent me the link and 382 00:23:40.920 --> 00:23:42.680 I was literally in the middle of Target, like walking around in the cart 383 00:23:42.839 --> 00:23:47.480 with my phone like trying to read it, knocking into people, and I 384 00:23:47.519 --> 00:23:48.480 was like, Okay, this is like a good article. Yeah, I'm 385 00:23:48.559 --> 00:23:52.440 very happy. Well, the first when I sent you, I think why 386 00:23:52.440 --> 00:23:56.079 I might even called to you. I like was crying I lost a lot 387 00:23:56.079 --> 00:24:00.200 of sleep over it. I was texting my ex apologizing first, I don't 388 00:24:00.200 --> 00:24:06.480 even know what this is going to say. I was completely bamboozled. I 389 00:24:06.599 --> 00:24:10.680 was like caught off. It was a bad situation for me, and so 390 00:24:11.160 --> 00:24:14.960 I was like, I think I'll just never do an interview ever again. 391 00:24:15.279 --> 00:24:17.799 And so I'm bad around. I feel bad for her because I mean I 392 00:24:18.079 --> 00:24:22.119 would didn't even respond for like a week, and then I'd say like maybe, 393 00:24:22.160 --> 00:24:23.839 and then I'd be like, I don't think so. And so she 394 00:24:25.039 --> 00:24:29.519 was very thoughtful and thorough. And it's not that it needed to be something 395 00:24:29.519 --> 00:24:34.039 that painted me as a perfect person. I just didn't want that little speck 396 00:24:34.079 --> 00:24:38.839 of my life to be a focus on the article because in the past it's 397 00:24:38.839 --> 00:24:41.319 been like, oh, let's focus on how you have your own show, 398 00:24:41.400 --> 00:24:45.599 and so few women do pivot. Let's only talk about your ex, so 399 00:24:45.960 --> 00:24:51.119 right, and that takes away I just feel like it takes so much away 400 00:24:51.160 --> 00:24:53.920 from who you are as a person, because I mean, I know you. 401 00:24:55.200 --> 00:24:57.799 I've known you for a long time, like what ten plus years now, 402 00:24:57.799 --> 00:25:00.119 almost, Yeah, Like I met you when I in college, and 403 00:25:00.200 --> 00:25:04.680 so it's like I have seen you like transform, but I don't like look 404 00:25:04.680 --> 00:25:07.920 at you know, and think like I need to know this information that happened 405 00:25:07.960 --> 00:25:11.559 eight years ago to make a like to gain an idea of who you are, 406 00:25:11.640 --> 00:25:15.720 Like I would want to focus on what you've done and where you're at 407 00:25:15.720 --> 00:25:18.720 and your at this point in life now, you know. Yeah, I 408 00:25:18.720 --> 00:25:22.119 don't know. I just feel like, yeah, when people make when they 409 00:25:22.160 --> 00:25:26.039 say that they won't do something and then they go against what they said that 410 00:25:26.119 --> 00:25:27.839 they won't do, it's a very unfair situation. But the article is really 411 00:25:27.880 --> 00:25:30.839 nice, and yeah, go read it if you haven't ye listening and go 412 00:25:30.880 --> 00:25:33.960 read those bars articles in the Star Trip. What's it title? Is there 413 00:25:34.000 --> 00:25:37.440 a way you can just like Google? I think it's like tribune, Yeah, 414 00:25:37.480 --> 00:25:41.839 my name, and then I well there, I think it's like vulgar 415 00:25:41.079 --> 00:25:47.279 and vulnerable vulnerable yea. And but a lot of people, by the way, 416 00:25:47.319 --> 00:25:49.839 were thought that the word vulgar was rude. But I mean I think 417 00:25:49.880 --> 00:25:53.720 I used that actually too hard to describe myself, so I didn't take that 418 00:25:53.960 --> 00:25:56.759 as a rude. A lot we're like, you're not vulgar, You're real, 419 00:25:56.799 --> 00:25:59.680 And I was like, ah, I mean I think I said I'm 420 00:25:59.720 --> 00:26:03.319 vulge because I am a vulgar lady at times? I know they probably don't. 421 00:26:03.720 --> 00:26:04.799 They don't get to see the faulon we get to see off air. 422 00:26:04.880 --> 00:26:07.960 That's true, Like you can get only to a certain amount on air. 423 00:26:08.279 --> 00:26:11.640 Trust me, if you saw a fallon anor you'd be like, yeah, 424 00:26:11.680 --> 00:26:17.559 that bitch is vulgar. Okay, here are some more of the ask us 425 00:26:17.640 --> 00:26:23.839 anything questions? Did we I want to make sure I don't do all the 426 00:26:23.920 --> 00:26:26.799 exact same ones we did. Product you always have in your purse? Do 427 00:26:26.880 --> 00:26:32.359 we do that one we did? How? Nope? Oh wait, have 428 00:26:32.400 --> 00:26:34.400 you play the audio of the girl who sent us? Yeah? Okay, 429 00:26:34.599 --> 00:26:38.400 so a woman, Rebecca. She said, not a question, but I 430 00:26:38.440 --> 00:26:45.759 always sing the podcast title to your show to I'm just Kin from the Barbie 431 00:26:45.759 --> 00:26:48.200 movie. And so she actually sang a voice memo and I was like, 432 00:26:48.240 --> 00:26:51.680 oh my god, Rebecca, that's so amazing. I'm going to play that 433 00:26:51.720 --> 00:26:53.759 on the podcast. So Rebecca did not give me permission to play this, 434 00:26:53.839 --> 00:26:57.160 but since she sent it, I think we're fine. So here is her 435 00:26:57.920 --> 00:27:03.720 version that we should just start using as our actual show intro. Still fun 436 00:27:04.119 --> 00:27:11.519 and Jenny's drinking days are done? What will it take to see plans? 437 00:27:11.680 --> 00:27:17.559 More than a mom who just turned for and she actually can sing well, 438 00:27:17.680 --> 00:27:23.039 so very bless. Yeah that was awesome. Okay, so let me jump 439 00:27:23.079 --> 00:27:29.920 back in. God, I should just edit this out because someone said, 440 00:27:29.920 --> 00:27:36.680 did you know that in last Night he isn't talking about kissing her lips on 441 00:27:36.799 --> 00:27:41.160 her face? Okay? I saw like either a meme or a TikTok or 442 00:27:41.160 --> 00:27:45.920 something about it, and I didn't do any further details on it, so 443 00:27:47.240 --> 00:27:51.079 I either kept I moved along. Is that the Morgan Wallan song we're talking 444 00:27:51.079 --> 00:27:53.880 about? Okay? I don't know. I can't think of what the lyrics 445 00:27:53.880 --> 00:28:06.079 sound like now last not Talk, I don't know. Okay. Oh, 446 00:28:06.079 --> 00:28:08.839 here's a good question. How do you know if someone wants to be your 447 00:28:08.960 --> 00:28:14.480 friend or just wants to be seen with you? Dealing with this now? 448 00:28:15.559 --> 00:28:18.559 So I think she means because like we work in radio, and like we 449 00:28:19.039 --> 00:28:22.680 like, do people actually want to be friends with you and I? Or 450 00:28:22.720 --> 00:28:29.440 do they want to be friends with Jenny from katiewb Fallon from KATIEWB. I 451 00:28:29.480 --> 00:28:36.359 think for me, it's usually if someone is I'm trying to think of an 452 00:28:36.359 --> 00:28:41.000 example. There's one person in particular that I could tell you probably wouldn't like 453 00:28:41.039 --> 00:28:44.640 me as much if it wasn't for me being a part of KATIEWB. And 454 00:28:44.839 --> 00:28:49.519 the reason I know that is because conversations often revolve around work, and when 455 00:28:49.559 --> 00:28:55.279 I've talked about different career paths or negative things that I've dealt with that work, 456 00:28:55.680 --> 00:29:00.319 they have always turned it around to be like, no, that's a 457 00:29:00.359 --> 00:29:03.839 good job and stuff like that, and I'm like, you're not looking out 458 00:29:03.839 --> 00:29:07.240 for me as a person, then you're looking out for me as Jenny KTWB. 459 00:29:07.839 --> 00:29:11.720 So I kind of could see through that person pretty quickly. But I've 460 00:29:11.759 --> 00:29:15.960 been pretty lucky to not really meet too many people who I mean, they 461 00:29:17.039 --> 00:29:19.960 might care that I work here, but it's not the reason they want to 462 00:29:19.960 --> 00:29:25.200 be friends with me. Yeah, I mean, I definitely think it's interesting 463 00:29:25.200 --> 00:29:29.839 because I don't think that someone I'm trying to think about how to word this, 464 00:29:29.920 --> 00:29:32.720 because I would never want anyone's feelings to be hurt. I think that 465 00:29:33.880 --> 00:29:37.319 well, I think, you know, if someone like listens to your show, 466 00:29:37.519 --> 00:29:41.480 you usually can gather pick up on that pretty quickly. And that doesn't 467 00:29:41.519 --> 00:29:45.640 mean still that they just want to be friends with you because of that, 468 00:29:45.119 --> 00:29:51.039 But I think if they bring up things pretty frequently about the show that would 469 00:29:51.079 --> 00:29:53.519 be like a dead giveaway because like, I don't really want to overly talk 470 00:29:53.559 --> 00:29:56.400 about my show outside of it, or like a bit we did or like 471 00:29:56.480 --> 00:30:00.559 War the Roses, for instance, I don't really want to talk about that 472 00:30:00.640 --> 00:30:03.599 necessarily. That doesn't mean if someone was like, oh, that thing you 473 00:30:03.640 --> 00:30:07.640 did the other day was really funny, that would be awesome. I've definitely 474 00:30:07.680 --> 00:30:11.279 had the thing, you know, where people pretty quickly are like asking about 475 00:30:11.319 --> 00:30:14.319 tickets to things. That's a dead giveaway that they just aren't kind of using 476 00:30:14.359 --> 00:30:18.400 you. But I when I had all of I had people reaching out pretty 477 00:30:18.400 --> 00:30:22.319 frequently wanting to set up like play dates with me, and that felt like 478 00:30:22.720 --> 00:30:26.240 a couple of things because this is where I don't want to be insulting to 479 00:30:26.279 --> 00:30:29.119 anyone, because I don't think anyone was like trying to use me. I 480 00:30:29.119 --> 00:30:30.640 think that they were like, I don't have other mom friends. I see 481 00:30:30.640 --> 00:30:34.759 this person who just had a kid, let's set a time to hang out. 482 00:30:36.160 --> 00:30:38.799 But for me, I'm like, I don't know you. And so 483 00:30:40.000 --> 00:30:45.319 for me, that did feel like I felt guilty being like I don't want 484 00:30:45.359 --> 00:30:48.279 to set up a play date with my kid and you, because it felt 485 00:30:48.319 --> 00:30:52.559 weird. I don't and I don't think that they were weird people. I 486 00:30:52.599 --> 00:30:55.759 think that they were just it was just someone who, like I said, 487 00:30:55.759 --> 00:31:00.720 they like when you're a mom, it can be very and iating feeling, 488 00:31:00.839 --> 00:31:03.359 like especially if your other friends haven't had kids yet, so I can see 489 00:31:03.359 --> 00:31:07.400 where like maybe you're reaching out like, hey, you're the one person I 490 00:31:07.839 --> 00:31:12.599 quote unquote kind of know would you want to get together sometime? And I 491 00:31:12.599 --> 00:31:15.680 always felt just awkward being like, how do you say no to that? 492 00:31:17.240 --> 00:31:18.960 It felt like a weird thing to say no to, like, no, 493 00:31:19.039 --> 00:31:22.200 I don't want to hang out with you and your kid. I don't know, 494 00:31:22.240 --> 00:31:25.880 So that one, that one always felt that one isn't like being used 495 00:31:25.920 --> 00:31:27.839 though. It just felt like a strange thing kind of And I don't know 496 00:31:27.880 --> 00:31:30.680 how to explain it because I understood the one side of it, and the 497 00:31:30.680 --> 00:31:33.680 other side of me was like, no, I'm not going to do that, 498 00:31:33.960 --> 00:31:36.319 right, But yeah, I feel like the same as you. I 499 00:31:36.319 --> 00:31:40.000 don't feel like most people. Early on, I had a girl who would 500 00:31:40.000 --> 00:31:44.359 always invite me to stuff and then immediately tag take a picture and tag stuff, 501 00:31:44.400 --> 00:31:47.839 and that always felt a little bit like I was being used. Yeah, 502 00:31:48.400 --> 00:31:52.480 So yeah, I've never I've been lucky enough to say that nobody really 503 00:31:52.480 --> 00:31:55.440 ever. I'm using you cause you're Jenny from katiew but I have no If 504 00:31:55.440 --> 00:31:57.359 you quit tomorrow, I would never talk to you again. Jenny, whatever, 505 00:31:59.119 --> 00:32:00.799 have you ever been up? Have you ever upset a friend or family 506 00:32:00.839 --> 00:32:06.000 member by sharing something on the radio? Yeah? Oh yeah, I caused 507 00:32:06.039 --> 00:32:12.799 big issues. Let's see, what's something you've done recently that you were scared 508 00:32:12.839 --> 00:32:19.039 to do? Gosh, do you have an answer? I'm not thinking of 509 00:32:19.079 --> 00:32:22.759 anything at the top. Well, my biggest thing would be just changing my 510 00:32:22.160 --> 00:32:28.359 life's career. But I mean I was, and I was wasn't scared to 511 00:32:28.359 --> 00:32:30.960 take on the Jason Show. Was worried if it would be too much for 512 00:32:30.000 --> 00:32:37.160 me. So far, it's fine. I guess mine to get super real 513 00:32:37.319 --> 00:32:42.240 is My scariest thing was getting on anxiety medication. That was like super scary 514 00:32:42.279 --> 00:32:45.640 for me. So that's definitely it. But I'm very happy I did yeah, 515 00:32:45.640 --> 00:32:50.960 because it helped me out. That's awesome. How are your mom and 516 00:32:51.000 --> 00:32:54.079 dad doing? I miss hearing updates on them on the Morning show. That's 517 00:32:54.160 --> 00:32:58.279 very kind of you. My mom is good. She just have like a 518 00:32:58.319 --> 00:33:01.839 really serious surgery on her. It was like to clear out some I think 519 00:33:01.880 --> 00:33:06.519 like artery cloggage, but she's it's like you wouldn't even know, like they 520 00:33:06.519 --> 00:33:07.599 do such a good job. He bare leaving to the cut even though it's 521 00:33:07.599 --> 00:33:13.119 like down her entire throat. She's recovering very well. My dad, I 522 00:33:13.119 --> 00:33:15.680 think, just continuously has health issues and I don't really know. I need 523 00:33:15.720 --> 00:33:19.599 to call him. I play the game off. He'll call me. I 524 00:33:19.640 --> 00:33:22.640 wait way too long to return his call. So I am due for a 525 00:33:22.640 --> 00:33:27.720 call with him. But he's hitting that older age where it seems pretty consistent 526 00:33:27.720 --> 00:33:30.640 when I talk to him something, there's an ailment there. And so yeah, 527 00:33:30.680 --> 00:33:35.079 I think I told my sister this other day when I thought about the 528 00:33:35.119 --> 00:33:37.839 fact that my mom is like, I think she's turning sixty eighth this year. 529 00:33:38.400 --> 00:33:43.480 That is not real to me. My mom is like in my mind 530 00:33:43.640 --> 00:33:51.240 forever between forty and fifty years old. Yeah, seventy seems so old to 531 00:33:51.279 --> 00:33:54.759 me. It's weird. So when I'm like, why can't she like move 532 00:33:54.799 --> 00:33:58.279 around or do this, I'm like, good god, she's almost seventy years 533 00:33:58.319 --> 00:34:01.000 old. I did it just she did You have a permanent age in your 534 00:34:01.000 --> 00:34:07.319 mind for your mom? Yeah, I mean I would say probably closer to 535 00:34:07.400 --> 00:34:09.840 like fifty, but I would say in the last handful of years, I've 536 00:34:09.880 --> 00:34:15.599 started to just like see age, yeah, take place in her face and 537 00:34:15.639 --> 00:34:21.679 stuff. And it's just it's really weird to see that because when you're younger, 538 00:34:22.320 --> 00:34:25.320 you don't really see the aging in your parents' faces, but as you 539 00:34:25.360 --> 00:34:28.880 get older, you're kind of starting to see that, and it's like, 540 00:34:29.880 --> 00:34:32.880 that's the weird thing that I'm like struggling with where I like see my parents 541 00:34:32.920 --> 00:34:36.880 and I'm like, oh my gosh, like I can really see them getting 542 00:34:36.880 --> 00:34:45.239 old, like right physically. Yeah, it's bizarre. Let's see, how 543 00:34:45.280 --> 00:34:52.840 can someone ask a question without someone thinking they're passive aggressive? I think I 544 00:34:52.840 --> 00:34:57.719 would need more information on that one. Yeah, okay, so I apologize 545 00:34:57.719 --> 00:35:00.239 for not really knowing how to answer that one. Are there topics that you 546 00:35:00.280 --> 00:35:02.840 both agree are off limits? Not asking specifics just if there are? Oh 547 00:35:02.960 --> 00:35:07.000 yeah, for sure. That was the same with every show, like any 548 00:35:07.159 --> 00:35:15.880 any radio show, any like podcast that people know your points of like points 549 00:35:15.880 --> 00:35:17.159 of pain. I guess we could call it. We won't bring that up. 550 00:35:17.719 --> 00:35:22.320 So yeah, I mean we might seem like open books, but there's 551 00:35:22.480 --> 00:35:25.880 like parts of our lives that will never be shared, right, Like Fallen 552 00:35:25.920 --> 00:35:30.800 and I probably know pretty much all of those things about each other, but 553 00:35:31.280 --> 00:35:36.079 there's yeah, there's just there's a level of respect and there's a level of 554 00:35:36.159 --> 00:35:40.599 understanding and obviously a level of trust because Fallan knows things about my life that 555 00:35:40.639 --> 00:35:45.599 a lot of people don't know, right and vice versa. Yeah, so 556 00:35:45.639 --> 00:35:49.199 I think those are all of our questions. So thank you so much for 557 00:35:49.280 --> 00:35:52.639 submitting those and or at least all we have time for right now. But 558 00:35:52.480 --> 00:35:58.800 we appreciate you listening and have an amazing week. I hope someone tells you 559 00:35:58.840 --> 00:36:02.239 how hot you're looking, because you are looking. Why. Thank you.