Hello, and welcome to Psychic Teachers. I'm your host Samantha Fay, and
I'm Dare Bowen, and we're so happy to have you with us and I'm
happy to have you back to thank you. It's nice to be here,
Samantha. I missed you last week. Me too. Okay, this week
we're going to talk about ways that you can recognize and remove anything that is
blocking your intuition, because you know, that's a big thing. We have
all different reasons why our intuition and our quest to strengthen our psychic ability might
be blocked, and sometimes it's important just to be aware of that, don't
you think? Oh absolutely? And you know that blocking thing and your intuition
can happen just kind of out of the blue for sometimes for reasons, and
sometimes it feels like for not and boom, it's like wait, wait,
who, I need to regroup. We need a reset button here exactly.
So one of the things we want to just remind you of is that we
are all psychic. Have you ever been driving along a familiar street and suddenly
you had an overwhelming urge to turn onto a different road, and then a
few minutes later you see on the news that traffic is stalled by an accident
just a few blocks further along your original route, and you say to yourself,
I knew I needed to get off that street. Or how often do
you know who is calling when the phone rings. Maybe you show up for
lunch with your friend and you're both wearing the same shirt. If you're a
parent, you certainly have experienced mother's intuition about your children's location or state of
mind. Maybe you have to get something in the mail today, so you
rush off to the post office five minutes before it closes, and as you're
driving, you say out loud, over and over, please let there be
a parking place right in front, please, And while the space is there
waiting for you. Now, A lot of people don't recognize these situations as
intuition, that feeling of being in tune with the world around you. They
chalk situations like these up to chance or coincidence or luck. Some of you
may say, I can be intuitive on rare occasions, but I'm not really
consistently intuitive. Yes you are. If you're listening to this podcast, you
probably already know that. But how can you develop this ability so that it's
stronger and more consistent. Now, before we start with the blocks, we
want to mention something really important. Do you want to talk about what this
is? Because I know this is important to you too, Dev. It
really is important to me, Samath. Actually, I want to do one
thing before I dive into that, because what you're describing, this everyday common
situations in our lives way of working with intuition really gets well. It doesn't
get a bad rap, but it certainly gets downplayed and not given the credits
that it deserves. And I think that that's a really important thing to remember,
is that this, you know, having an awareness of traffic, or
being in tune with something going on with one of your children, or just
the world around you kind of stuff is not really chance or coincidence. It's
really a part of you working subconsciously almost that you're not even aware of that
connects you to that big energy. So I don't want people to say,
oh, that's not important stuff. It is important stuff now. But that's
a really good reminder, Dev, because just think about it. Right now,
your heart is beating and you're not really aware of it. You're not
thinking about it, you're not making your heart beat for you. Your lungs
are breathing in air. All of that is happening for you. I feel
it's the same with intuition. Oh, I think so too. I think
we can certainly train it. It's a muscle. It can be honed,
and we're going to be talking more about that. But it is already there.
Don't discount that. So let's talk about that. So, as you
mentioned before, we start with the building blocks. Really be sure that you
really want to develop these skills, that you're truly willing to open yourself to
that next layer, that next step in developing your intuition, and are you
really willing to do so in a way that works with divine purpose? However
you define divinity. But I think that that's really an important aspect of this
is to ask yourself, why are you doing this. It's not a parlor
game. It's not just for fun, although it is fun, but it's
not just for fun. There's a real serious and a deep commitment involved in
that kind of awareness. My grandma used to say, be careful what you
ask for, you'll get it, and good golly, has she always been
right. So it's important to remember that your prayers are always answered, and
that you're really willing to accept the responsibility of learning and then working with the
skills that you're going to be using. You know, I think a lot
of people hide their psychic gifts out of fear. Fear of rejection from family
and friends, fear of losing your job that's real, of being scorned,
to being laughed at, of being possessed by something evil, or going to
hell. The list is endless of why we're afraid to do this, and
I have been there. I remember many, many, many years ago when
I first was doing readings out at that Halloween Fear with sweet Granny Jeene,
the Palm Reader. We didn't use our real names, and I wore scarves
and tons of makeup because I really knew that even though I may not be
so concerned for people knowing about me, but I knew how my family would
react to that. I can still hear my mother's voice. You don't believe
in them tarot cards, do you? Yes, my mama? So so
you know, and how do you explain that to somebody who ask you a
question over that? Right? So, think about the potential repercussions for yourself
and for other people around you if you choose to really dive deeply into working
with your intuitive abilities. Another thing that I think keeps us out hush after
this one, Samantha, is that we're doubtful. We're afraid and doubtful fear
are different, but doubtful of your ability. Where's this information coming from?
What if I'm wrong? Oh, that's a big one. What if I
misinterpret the symbols? What if I'm not as good as other people? The
answer to all of those questions is yes, there will be times when you
feel like you're getting information that doesn't ring true to you and you wonder where
it comes from. Sometimes you will interpret symbols and sign and information incorrectly.
You're never going to be as good as everybody else. There's always going to
be somebody who does this better or more are differently than the way you do.
And all of that's okay because you're doing you and you're doing the best
you can do within the framework of the commitment you've made to do this work.
And be very careful of somebody who doesn't at some point doubt themselves if
you're working with another intuitive and certainly be very careful of somebody who tells you
they're never wrong. Because I guarantee you Samantha and I certainly have been wrong
and we certainly be again. I told you the testing that have been done
on psychics and mediums show that the best of the best are only right about
seventy to eighty five percent of the time. Wow. Yeah, yeah,
I bet people didn't expect that number to be that low. Yeah. You
know, we all have off days, we all have whatever. There's a
lot of reasons that we're not always right, and there's no need to beat
yourself up without it. Sometimes you just are exactly I think. Another thing
that comes into people's minds with fear and doubt are questions like what if I
see demons or the devil, or I'm scared of ghost or something might take
over my body or my mind. I don't want to give up control,
or hearing voices scares me? Will there be dead people in my room at
night? Others are more frightened about what they might not see or hear.
What if I'm not really psychic? What if it's all in my imagination?
My friends will think I'm crazy. Others won't move forward and working with their
skills because they believe doing so is wrong or sinful. They might say,
it says being psychic is wrong. Right here in the Bible, my priest
would have me excommunicated. Nobody knows the future except God. But believe us
when we tell you that one or the other of us has asked ourselves every
single one of these questions, and more so, afraid to ask all these
questions. Don't be afraid to face these fears and these doubts that might be
blocking your intuition. It's the only way that you can really release them,
and then do some research. Read the stories in the Bible and other Holy
text in which psychic ability actually helped rather than was evil or harmful. I
mean, Moses talked directly to God. Abraham also talked to God and received
precognitive information about his wife giving birth to his son Isaac. Jacob and Tobit
met with angels. Samuel talked to God. Joseph had precognitive dreams. Elijah,
so did David. That's right, Elijah resurrected someone from death, among
other paranormal abilities he exhibited. All religious texts are filled with events that reveal
intuitive, pre cognitive and healing abilities. And yeah, okay, the Bible
does give warnings against dealing with fortune tellers and soothsayers. But the Bible also
tells us to take an eye for an eye. It warns us against eating
pigs, shellfish, wearing torn clothing, and tells us to keep our heads
covered at all times and never to cross linen and wool. We're now supposed
to work on Sunday. We're told to tie to ten percent of our pre
taxed income every week. Leviticus says, if you commit adultery, both you
and your lover must die. And look at the ten commandments. I mean,
come on, people, how many of us follow all of those?
We covet things all the time, that's the whole point of advertising. And
sometimes we use the Lord's name in vain. Thank God I got a good
parking space. So if we can agree that some instructions in the Bible are
things no one can actually follow, then how can we put so much stock
in a few bad comments about quote unquote fortune tellers. Well, you know,
probably not the right person to talk to about some of this stuff.
And I would thank God for a podcast space, by the way, and
I think that that was in any way not okay to do. I would
be very grateful, but The point is that you have to decide how to
use your gifts. You have to decide what is your truth and what is
your belief about about what you've been given. You know, Samantha, when
you were talking a minute or two ago about the notion of being frightened about
all of this stuff like demons and devils and ghosts and hearing voices and stuff.
One of the things that we sometimes forget, and you may have this
in our discussion later, is that you have some say in how you're going
to work with your gifts. Would you agree with that, Samantha, Yes,
yes, you are in charge of your energy exactly today in our modern
world, we have to respect that being psychic comes with baggage. I mean,
it just does. And you need to decide how you want to use
your gifts. Is this something that you're going to hone as a skill because
it will be helpful to you in your everyday life and with your family.
Do you want to go into this professionally? Why are you doing it?
That's really a really important designation to make, because in addition to being psychic,
you have to live in the real world. That's one of the reasons
that Samantha and I do what we do. I think is because we wash
dishes and we do the laundry, and Samantha runs zillion areands with children,
and you know, I clean out the refrigerator and take out the trash.
I mean, we do all these things because we're also real people in the
real world. And what's important for you is to come out of a place
of imbalance, of finding that balance in how you live your life every day
and how you live your psychic world life. And if you come out of
the psychic closet to those closest to you, you don't have to wave a
psychic flag around you don't. You don't have to do that. In fact,
I would recommend that you don't do it. Actually, for example,
would you walk up to your minister or rabbi and say, I have to
tell you that I work as a realtor. Please tell me this is okay.
No, you wouldn't do that. You don't need permission to be you
from anybody except yourself and whatever you consider to be your higher power. Remember
the law of attraction. Once you're okay and accepting of who you are,
then you begin to accept and attract into your life. People who will be
accepting of you. Will you will create your community of people, You will
find your family, your community of what you need to be around you.
And I can personally attest to that. When I was going through all these
fears and doubts, I was constantly attracting people who were fearing for my soul
and doubting what I was doing. And once I was like, you know
what, this is who I am, and this is who I came here
to be, all of those naysayers just magically went away. Yeah they did,
didn't they. Yeah, it's an amazing thing. Let's talk about some
more fears that could be blocking your intuition, like the fear of doing it
wrong or setting way too high expectations for yourself in the beginning. But let's
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Okay, let's get back to the show now. Another block that a
lot of us encounter on our journey to strengthening and embracing our intuition is the
fear of doing it wrong. Am I meditating the right way? Am I
receiving information the way the books and teachers say I should? What if I
misinterpret a symbol and pass on the wrong message. Each of us will learn
to use our abilities in our own unique way. Remember that as long as
your intentions are positive and pure. As long as your heart is focused on
being of service and you stay aligned with your ethics and morals, you won't
be doing anything wrong. I think it's really important to always date a caveat
when you're doing readings as well. Like you know, I am just a
random psychic that your friend recommended to you. I'm never one hundred percent right.
Take what resonates with you, leave the rest here. That's what I
used to always say to my clients. I think that's a really good idea.
You know. Yeah, sometimes you're going to get it wrong. And
I have certainly been in situations where somebody has looked at me and said,
you are absolutely wrong, and I have said, I very well may be.
Take this as you will, and if you sometime later want to come
back and tell me whether or not this information worked out to be accurate,
I'd appreciate hearing from you. And sometimes I don't hear from them, And
sometimes I have heard from them and said, oh, well, how about
that. That really did work out that way. Well, I'll be done,
But you never know. Deb Do you remember that woman that came to
one of our reading nights with her arms crossed and the scowl on her face,
and she said, no, we were wrong about every thing. I
do remember that woman. In fact, she's exactly who I'm talking about.
And at the end of the night she apologized, Yeah, she said she
was a skeptic. It had come with her friends to prove that this was
all BS, but me and you and Granny Jean had given her some information
that really resonated en. After thinking about it, she apologized, I do
remember, and I could have been wrong. I mean, I certainly were
in some situations. And I worry more about about than being about wrong,
but about interpreting what I'm getting. I still, all these years later,
Samantha, absolutely love your eminem story. That is still one of my favorites
of your stories, and at some point, if we have time, I
want you to tell it because it's just it's just so wonderful and about learning
to trust the stuff you get. I think that's really just wonderful, and
I think it's important that each of us learned to use and trust our own
abilities in our own unique way. I think that's really important, and sometimes
we have these really high expectations of ourselves. If you have watched television mediums
and get this, who get all this very detailed information with exact names and
dates, And you say, well, that should be me too, Not
necessarily. First of all, what you're watching is the miracle of TV editing.
Second, remember we said this at the beginning. Intuition is a muscle
that must be strengthened through practice, consistent study, and a healthy mind,
body spirit balance that includes meditation, prayer, chakra work, and exercise,
just to name a few. Those are really important pieces of the puzzle.
Intuition doesn't work in a vacuum. It works within the framework and the concept
of who you are spiritually, who you are intellectually, who you are emotionally,
and who you are in terms of taking care of your body. Yeah,
which is why it's so important to also work on maintaining consistent energetic boundaries.
If you can't establish strong boundaries with yourself or others and your energy,
you run the risk of being pulled in too many directions or being open,
too open to all the information coming at you. When you don't have strong
emotional boundaries, you can unknowingly blend your energy with others and pick up psychic
static or messages that aren't meant for you At all. Something I always tell
my students is that whoever you are in your normal day to day life is
who you're going to be as an intuitive. So if you're walking around saying
yes to everything that friends and neighbors are asking of you, and because you
have no boundaries and no sense of where you begin or end, you're going
to be kind of chaotic as an intuitive until you learn to set those boundaries.
So just remember it is a balance, and you've got to maintain a
healthy body, a healthy mind, and a healthy spirit. And that includes
all the things that have just mentioned, prayer, chakra work, and meditation,
but it also includes really setting strong boundaries too. Absolutely, it's really
important to do that and to say you know no, I mean there have
been times, I know for both of us, when friends that we love
have called us in the middle of the night and said, will you do
blah blah blah se if you can forget some information from me, and we've
had to say or I can't say Samantha has, but I bet she has.
I know what I have said is not before coffee, and I say
it kindly and I explained that you know, I just can't walk out work
out if I'm dead, sleep and go sit in the recliner and say,
oh, here's some information for you. I just can't do that, or
just plain no. I mean I've said no to friends because I don't I
don't want to tune into their private stuff, right, you know, I
have to Here's what I've said. I've said, go see Samantha. Yeah,
yeah, have a list of referrals ready, that's right, right,
That's why balance is always key. You can have energetic boundaries that are too
strong and cause you to put up walls and barriers between you and the world
of spirit. So that's you know, it's a tricky thing opening up our
intuition because if you have fluid energy that's just no boundaries and it's running everywhere
and you're picking up everything, that's no good. But if you're one of
those kind of standoffish people and you've got really thick walls put up, well
then nothing's going to come through. So it's got to be back to that
idea of balance. You need to remain protected but also open. And the
other side of the scales is that you can want to do this work so
much that you tip the scales and you create a block too much. Now.
The more we I sperately want something to happen, sometimes the more we
push it away. You can't chase a butterfly and expect to catch it.
You know that you have to be still and calm and let the butterfly come
and land on you. That's how intuition works, and that's where trust comes
in, because trust is essential as you develop your intuition. You have to
trust your team of helpers, which include your guides, angels, and loved
ones who have gone before you. But you also have to trust yourself.
If you're comparing yourself to others, you're blocking intuition. If you're afraid of
getting something wrong, you're putting up another block. If you don't trust your
own ability to protect your energy while also opening to higher sources of positive guidance,
you're blocking your intuition. What's going to help a lot is discovering where
your talents are strongest. Clairvoyance clarcentience or clare audience clare cognizance, and start
there. Learn how to strengthen and use this ability and make it work for
you. If you're a clairvoyant, create a dictionary of symbols that mean something,
to you. Tell your guides to show you a white rose for an
anniversary, a cake for a birthday coming up, or a bird as a
hello from a loved one. If you're a Claire Audien, tell your guides
to use music to talk to you. If you're a Claicentian, work untrusting
your instincts. Always follow your gut instinct. It will never lead you astray.
Once you're comfortable with your natural talent, then you can move on to
another Claire and work on strengthening that ability. Learn the chakra that's associated with
each and we'll talk more about that in a minute. Opening the third eye
strengthens clairvoyance. Working on the throat chakra strengthens clare audience. Strengthening the solar
plexus helps clai sentience. Remember that also that we are all connected with Takasi.
You've heard me say it a zillion times, and you can lean into
this connection not only to enhance your intuition, but also to help you overcome
doubt and fears. We're all familiar with the butterfly effect of how our actions
affect countless people in infinity and sometimes in unknowable ways. Carl Young said that
he could you can prove connection between all of us through his teachings on the
collective unconscious. This is a sea of information, ideas, and inspirations that
we can tap into when we're aware of our connection to each other and to
all that is. Alexander Graham Bell beat Elisha Gray to the Patent office for
the invention of the telephone by a few days. Several people sued JK.
Rowling for creating Harry Potter for they believed they had had the same idea at
the same time. Maybe they had. We're all connected by universal collective unconscious.
For example, every single religion shares a creation story and a flood story.
Is it coincidence? Of course not. We are all connected. And
you can tap into that connection that Carl Young's talking about by being aware of
similarities among yourself and other people and other cultures and other beliefs and so forth.
And when you have a broader perspective of that notion of connectedness among us
all your ability to be open and intuitive, I think, becomes strengthened and
grows. So you can tap into that connection in a lot of pretty common
sense kind of ways. For example, keep a journal. You've heard us
talk about this a zillion times. Keep a validation journal. I can't talk
about how important it is to have that available to you. If you don't
do it on a piece of paper, at least do it on that thing
on your phone. Take notes of how often you think about somebody and then
lo and behold you bump into them later that week. If you'd like to
hear from someone, put out the thought that they will call you, and
they will because we're all connected. It's almost like we have this invisible universal
telephone system going on through our psyche, and I truly believe it works.
The more you acknowledge and trust this connection, the more easily you'll be able
to tap into your own intuition. Yeah, and another way to overcome this
doubt is through cooperation. Stubborn people who are always right will never make very
good intuitives. They might get hunches now and then, but nothing consistent or
reliable. Intuitives have to learn how to bend, to go with the flow,
and cooperate with all types of personalities. Here and on the other side,
cooperation also means being open to connecting with your loved ones, guides,
and angels and realizing that you know it takes two to make a thing go
right. Your team of guides and angels are waiting to work with you.
All they need is your cooperation and willingness to learn a few different techniques.
You have to learn to read your vibration, and they have to learn to
lower theirs. This takes practice, meditation, and prayer, but it's worth
it, because when you begin to see the connection between all of us through
the eyes of a compassionate, cooperative soul, a whole new, wonderful world
opens up to you. One of the ways to do that, a great
way to strengthen your intuition is to get outside in nature and allow yourself to
sit in silence, just be When you can tune in with the world around
you through silence, you start to see the connection between and among all of
us people, animals, insects, trees, rocks, the winds, the
sun, the moon. I don't know whether I mentioned this on the show
of This Spring or not, Samantha, but I had a great encounter with
an eagle, a bald eagle, on the beach down at the strand in
front of the ocean, And that would not have happened had it not been
out there. I mean, it was an amazing morning. It was just
fascinating. So go out and pay attention because nature will give you so much
support and so many signs if you're out there in it, and then find
time to play, be creative, write poetry, do pottery, knit,
crochet. It doesn't matter what you do. What's important is that you engage
in a creative process, and in doing so, you remind yourself that we
are co creators with the universe being creative. What's us in a meditative state
when we're more receptance to guidance or messages or scigns. I know people who
knit or crochet and never look at what they're doing. Their mind is somewhere
else. In that kind of meditative state, do a lot of checking out
what feels right to you, baking, woodworking, even doodling. I have
this wonderful gal that I do some work with who does these what she calls
doodles, and what are in fact just these are brilliant mandalis and she calls
it doodles, and it's not it's way more than doing. But anyway,
doing this kind of creative work is an active searching for finding meaning and joy
in your life. Wayne Dyer said that when we're working from a place of
inspiration, we are literally in spirit. I love that I do too,
because you know, when we're being creative, we lose all sense of time
because we're connecting with the universal source of all that is. We're connecting back
to ourselves and remembering why we are here. Our creative pursuits can also inspire
and uplift others, which in turn we'll pass on the beautiful message of taking
time to connect within. Now, before we close out the show, we
want to talk about one of the best ways to strengthen your psychic ability,
which is through your chakras. But let's take a last final break and we'll
be right back. I want to let everyone know that on Wednesday, June
fifth, I'm going to be teaching my Manifesting webinar from seven to eight thirty
pm Eastern. It's top Live over Zoom. But if you can't be there,
it's fine because it will be recorded and emailed into your inbox the next
day. You also get an MP three instant downloadable meditation which is designed to
help train your subconscious to manifest for you and along with you. And you
also get my sixty page ebook on how to manifest with lots of techniques that
I've honed over the years of doing this, so I hope you'll join me.
You can find out about that by going to Samantha Fay dot com and
clicking the upcoming events tab Welcome back. Let's talk about how you can access
your chakras to help awaken and strengthen your psychic ability. The word chakra comes
from a Sanskrit word that means wheel or circle. Chakras are energy centers in
our body that look like spinning wheels. When our chakras are properly balanced,
we feel healthy and happy. There're seven spinning wheels in the colors of the
rainbow, starting at your spine and moving along your back to the top of
your head. Our chakras are like bodyguards. They allow certain energy in and
keep negative energy out. If we allow holes in our aura from things like
lack of sleep, too much anger, excessive drinking, or other excessive behaviors,
then we disempower these bodyguards. But if we have a strong aura,
our chakras can help keep us healthy, happy, and tuned into our intuition.
You have your own built in lie detector. It sits right in your
gut, where your third chakra is, and this chakra is called the solar
plexus. It's just a few inches above your navel. When people cross their
arms in front of their chest, they are subconsciously covering this chakra and thereby
protecting themselves. Its color is yellow, and this chakra deals with issues of
personal power, courage, and confidence. Any fear of authority or low self
esteem, or fears of being alone are stored here. People who tend to
put on weight in this area of their body often do so to feel protected
and safe in these areas. The solar plexus chakra is where our clarcentiin ability
resides. When people say things like I just have a feeling about it,
or my cut says something isn't right, or I sense that something is off
about this situation, that's their clarcentin ability working through the solar plexus. Everyone
has this ability, but like any muscle, you can make it stronger by
listening to your gut and following your instincts. Trust your first impressions about people,
follow your innercompass when you're lost. If you're getting a good feeling about
a job or a bad feeling about a situation trust it. The more you
do so, the stronger this clear ability will become. Physically, Hula hooping
and dancing are great for this chakra, as are walking and running. You
can chant the Mantra ram, which helps balance. You can diffuse cinnamon or
peppermint oil, which is also very helpful, and some great crystals for strengthening
the solar plexus are citrine, sunstone, yellow calci, yellowchalceudony, and tiger's
eye. Do you want to talk about the heart chakra? I will.
This is the bridge chakra and one of the most important chakras for awakening your
intuitive ability. It sits in the middle of your chest and its color is
green well if sometimes we think of it as pink as well. This is
the chakra that deals with love and all our relationships, not just romantic ones.
Any issues that we have with family members, co workers, bosses,
friends, neighbors, and our romantic partners gets stored here. This important chakra,
as I said, is called the bridge chakra because it connects the physical
chakras, the three lower chakras, the root, the sacral, and the
solar plexus chakras, with the spiritual chakras above it the throat, the eye
and the crown. If this chakra is blocked, nothing is going through.
Anger, jealousy, resentment, and lack of self love are the biggest blocks
to this chakra allowing it to work for you. So work on loving yourself
and forgiving others. While you affirm that quote, try this particular quote.
All my relationships are healthy, loving and happy. Chanting the mantra yam helps
to awaken and clear this chakra. Diffusing rose hip oil helps to heal it
physically if you walk or swim. Those are great exercises for the art chakra
and recommend it. Crystals are green avangerine, malachite, emerald rose quartz,
and watermelonthermaline. Those are the primary ones we recommend. The gift of Claire
audience, the ability to hear supernaturally, is centered in the throat chakra.
You might be Clare audio if you've ever heard your name called when you're in
home, when you're home alone, or if songs randomly pop in your head.
Oh boy, does that happen. People who are musically gifted often have
strong clear audience abilities, or people who just love old rock and roll.
I'm not musically gifted. The third chakra. Broat chakra sits at the base
of the neck and its color is sky blue. This is the center of
communication and it reflects one's ability to speak the truth. Attributes covered here include
writing, public speaking, acting, singing, and teaching. You can tell
if this chakra is overactive if you find yourself talking too much, speaking loudly,
lying, or imposing your views on others. When this boat chakra is
conversely underactive, you might experience a fear of speaking your mind. Physically,
you might get a lot of sore throats and colds. So to heal and
balance the throat chakra, try singing, humming, whistling, use the affirmation
I always speak my truth. Chanting the mantram during meditation is a great way
to strengthen your clear audience ability. Try diffusing eucalyptus oil to help clear this
chakra, and some recommend that crystals are my favorite. Go to blue les,
agate, lu Topez, blue Chaw, Satity are some of the favorite
ones. The ability to see psychically is called clairvoyance and resides in the third
eye chakra, which sits in the center of your forehead. Its color is
indigo, and this center governs our ability to trust our intuition and to seek
answers within esp Clairvoyance and psychic ability are governed here. Clairvoyants often get messages
in their dreams and should keep a dream journal. This center also covers our
need to let go of control issue. People who experience frequent headaches or migraines
need to ask themselves where in my life am I holding on to control.
When this center is overactive, you might find yourself believing in everything, feeling
ungrounded and out of touch with the real world. But when it's under active,
you might feel too skeptical, closed off, and blocked. To balance
and heal the chakra, meditate and read books on spirituality, Affirm daily I
trust myself and follow my inner guidance. Or you could simply say it is
safe for me to see physically connecting with nature. It's great for this chakra.
Practice present moment awareness, try chanting the mantra Ohm. Diffuse lavender oil
to help awaken and strengthen clairvoyance, and some great crystals are sodalite, labradorite,
azraite, and lapis lazuli. And I just want to say, with
clairvoyance, this is one of my strongest abilities and It's not like I walk
up around seeing dead people and ghosts all the time. Hardly. Ever,
what happens to me is I will see images, photographs, people, or
memories in my mind's eye. And so it's important to learn to recognize how
this will come through for you these different abilities. It's very subtle. Intuition
is very very subtle. But the more you work in tandem with all of
these players and all of these chakras, you'll start to recognize the subtlety of
what is being communicated to you and through you. Do you want me to
tell my eminem story? I do, please. So this woman had come
to see me and it was her husband who was coming through. And once
again, if you're ever doing a reading, especially a mediumship reading, and
the person the stronger the reading is directly related to the strength of love,
and this couple had so much love between them. Anyway, he kept showing
me a bowl of eminems, and I was like, oh, I don't
know what to do with that. And I've been really trying to train myself
to just give what I get rather than interpret it. So I said to
her, He's showing me a bowl of eminems, and I have no idea
what that means. And she got very, very emotional, and she said,
I've been struggling with my weight my whole life, and I was constantly
going on and off diets, and one time I was, you know,
having a really difficult time with this diet, and he put a bowl of
Eminems by her bedside and said, this is the only diet pill you need.
And it was just such a lovely memory and such a beautiful sign.
And so now when I see Eminem's, it's a sign of love. It's
not a sign of like, ooh, you're eating too much sugar. But
I wouldn't have known that if I hadn't just you know, passed on what
I was seeing. And that's the important thing really that I wanted to ask
you to tell that story for is because learning to trust yourself, learning to
trust what may seem to be really odd signs it's okay to ask. I
think that one of the things that happens to folks is they're learning this process
of using their intuitive abilities. Is that need to be right, You need
to say, oh, I know it, I got all of this.
No you don't, we don't, none of us do. And so it's
really okay to say, help me understand, here's what I'm seeing here.
Does this mean anything to you? And if the quarance says, oh,
yeah, my husband used to put a ball of M and m's in front
of me or whatever it may have been, then you know that you can
ask that question and you've got validation. And if they say no, say
okay, I'm sorry, I'm not interpreting this symbol correctly. We'll come back
to and you move on. And that's what is so important here, Samantha,
is that you trusted what you were getting, even though you didn't know
what in the dikets you were getting. Yeah, And you know, in
traditional spiritualist teachings, especially in England, they would they teach the opposite.
They say you should never ask a question that you should do and that that
like messed with my with me for so long, and finally I was like,
you know what, I'm just going to be honest and tell people like,
I'm not seeing your husband. He's not sitting down in my mind's eye
having a fluid conversation. He's giving me symbols that I then have to interpret
and if I can't interpret them, I'm just going to give what I get,
and that's when my readings became much more meaningful and emotional and stronger.
And I absolutely agree with you. The one time I had a reading in
England from a member of the Spiritualist Church, we were told that you know
shed we were given those rules. And when she got to me, she
the phrase is will you take a message from? And she described my mom?
And I said, and that was all I was allowed to say to
her was yes, she delivered a message from my mother. And then she
said, you read the cards. So she asked me a question and I
said yes, and she said, I'm being told that you should be standing
up here next to me. I should move over, and you should be
here talking. And I shook my head no because of going no. And
she wasn't meaning that literally that I should get up from the chair come up
there with her, but she just meant that I could be doing that same
kind of thing. And so she did ask some questions, and even though
I've been told that that was not what she was supposed to do, she
did. Well, there you go. Also, if anyone heard like bells
or tinkling just before it was my dog Lily. She was sitting on my
lap. It's not heavenly music, or she just decided to shake her little
collar and jump off my lap. Well, there you go, there you
go, you know, Okay. So the crown chakra is the last one
we want to talk about. It sits half in and half out of the
top of your head. Its color is purple, and it deals with our
connection to the divine. If someone feels angry about a religion or experiences,
and an inability to trust faith, their crown chakra might have some issues.
When we experience an inability to believe in anything, a fear of opening up
to the mystery of the unknown, or a distrust of others who do believe,
this center can get closed down. To balance this chakra, affirm I
trust in the universe. In order to awaken our natural intuitive abilities, we
must have a strong foundation of faith and a comfortable connection with our higher power.
Whatever that means for you, is through the crown chakra that all intuitive
information enters into our energy. If this chakra is closed or diminished in any
way, we won't be able to align with our divine communication. You can
chant the mantra home to activate the crown chakra. You can also diffuse frankincense
oil, and some great crystals are sugarlate, amethyst, and lipidolite. Now,
while crystal's bantra, sounds and sense all help to open, clear,
and balance the chakras and in turn strengthen your intuition, the best thing you
can do is focus on loving yourself, loving your higher power, and extending
this love to those around you, because as you begin to see the connection
that exists between and among all of us, your chakras will trigger your natural
psychic abilities. The more you trust and affirm your intuition, the harder it
will work for you. And that's really I think the main message we're trying
to say is to trust yourself, love yourself, accept yourself where you are
on the spiritual path, do the work. But overall it's important to really
just embrace yourself as you are and accept that you are intuitive. And if
you feel called to do this, there's a reason. One more thing kind
of I think's really important this be kind and gentle and patient. You know,
we live in such an instant society. It's terrifying to me how instant
the society is. You know, if I have to wait on Facebook to
load for less than ten more than ten seconds, it drives me notes it's
terrible, that's crazy. So be patient with yourself, be kind to yourself,
take your time. This is a learning process that never ends, and
the journey is a lot of fun. Sometimes it's frustrating and a lot of
other things. But it's a process and it never ends. And so the
day is not just going to wake up and you're going to say, oh,
I've been a professional psychic now for five minutes and it's time to go
to work. Don't do that. Give yourself time to really work and learn
and study, read other psychics and read their work, other intuitive folks,
and really think of this as a lifelong process, and that's when it really
becomes an integral part of who you are. I think, what was your
biggest block when you were learning that need to be right? Yeah, that's
a big one. It is. It was huge because you know, I
had the pressure of Granny Jean, who of course was like never wrong,
and so I had that and I knew that people dependent on me. And
I've said this, told this story on the show before, but it's best
repeating. When I saw the first psychic I ever saw in the early eighties.
One of the sentences that she said to me, and she's dead now,
but one of the sentences that Marian said to me is be careful with
your words. People will believe you. And I still hear that sentence in
my head, in her voice, because that is such a gigantic responsibility and
she's absolutely right. She is absolutely right, and that can be overwhelming.
It was, and that's why I think it's important to have that caveat that
you say to people before you do read them, you know, let them
know that you're never one hundred percent right, and they can take what they
want and they can and they can leave the rest, absolutely absolutely, And
it's important to have community. I think Samantha and I now have been working
together for how many years, and thank goodness we have each other and our
friend Dale and Joel. We have a community and a network of friends that
we can rely on when we're stopped or feeling blocked or whatever, where we
can talk it through. And I think that's really important for us as well.
Yeah, I do too. I think my first big block was religion.
I really struggled with that, as you know, for years I do,
and once I healed that a new block appeared, Hello ring my doorbell,
and that new block was what people would think. I don't know why
I didn't. I wasn't super concerned with that in the beginning. I think
I was just so excited and how how amazing it was that this was all
awakening and opening for me that I didn't stop long enough to think about that.
But then I did. This is where I think trust comes into play,
because once I just kind of surrendered all of those fears and blocks to
my higher power, people started coming into my life, and situations occurred and
events transpired where I was made to see and realize that the good that we
do with this work, when we do it from a place of service,
far outweighs the opinions of anyone else. True. That is so absolutely true,
And that's a part of that responsibility. Be careful with your words and
to know why you're doing this work. What is the gift that the client
needs that is coming through you, not from you, through you. That's
right. We're just the messengers, nothing else right, right, that's right.
This isn't about you, this isn't about me. It's about the end
and us being the messager to deliver the message. Oh, I hope folks
have enjoyed this. This has been you know, psychic one oh one in
an hour, feel we own I know, well, it's nice to go
back to the basics sometimes with that, absolutely it is. So Yes,
we hope you found this very very helpful and given you something to chew on
as you continue to develop your intuition. And I want to make it clear,
I think w you alluded to this just a minute ago, but we're
never not learning, right, We're always going to continue to learn and grow
and evolve in many, many different ways, but especially with our intuition.
And yeah, new blocks and new fears might crop up, and the key
is just being aware of them, recognizing them so that you can heal them
and release them. So I really hope, and I know Devdas too,
that this has given you something to think about. Have a great wonderful week
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