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My boy Carson gets home. He's
a home right now. I follow him

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on an app and he is at
his house in Hollywood right now. He

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arrived home and we get to see
him later today. It's Friday. We're

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going to the iHeart Festival. He's
going to join us in Las Vegas.

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And he's been gone for five weeks
in Asia, which was a little scary,

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but he is. I haven't seen
him, I don't think since mid

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July when you came to the You, Jenny, how often did you see

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your parents? Only at the holidays, and usually not Easter. I think

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I went home for Easter my freshman
year, but that was it. So

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usually just Thanksgiving in Christmas I was
home for. My mom tried to come

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visit once a year though, because
it's only a four and a half hour

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drive for them to come visit.
So my mom usually visited once a year

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and my dad came once or twice
throughout my college career. Okay, we

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Carson moved to la almost exactly a
year ago. We drove out there together

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and it was like a road trip, kind of a bonding experience kind of

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a thing, and we really thought, you know, we found we found

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an apartment right behind the Chinese Theater
on Hollywood Boulevard, which turned out to

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be a really nice area to live, and we really thought that we'd be

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out there like every couple of months
to see him, and we'd stay at

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a hotel on Hollywood Boulevard, and
we never we never did. He came

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home often enough, we never really
felt the need to go to see him.

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When I moved to Las Vegas,
I was twenty one years old,

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moved nine hundred miles away from Colorado
Springs to Las Vegas, and my mom

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and I were really close, and
she came to see me probably a month

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or two after I moved there,
and then probably another couple of months later.

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She came to see me three or
four times, and because she missed

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her little boy. Oh I was
I was such a mom's boy. But

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he's Did you see the picture on
Instagram I did of him with love and

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the breast of the crew. I
zoomed in because I I'm happy you said

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like where he was, because I
was like a zooman And then I realized

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you put it in the caption or
something. But that was so cool,

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because I mean the crowd was still
behind them at that point was like it

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was Lao's idea during the middle of
the show. I don't know what the

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context. I know the context,
but what he said was something like,

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Hey, let's get the whole crew
out here. I want to thank my

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wonderful crew. So everybody from the
laser guy to the merch girl, to

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the lighting girl, to the sound
girl, to Carson to the manager,

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everybody came out on stage. Lao
is in the middle, and then there's

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the manager of the whole tour,
older guy glasses. Then there's Carson.

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Yeah, and I'm like, that
is just so cool. Yeah, but

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it's cold, and Carson is wearing
all black because that is just funny,

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because that's what he does. When
you're at a show, you're you've got

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the guy or the girl that wears
all black that comes out and hands the

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drummer like a bottle of water or
puts the guitar on the guitar stand or

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whatever. So I got to log
into a different email account here, So

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if you'll bear with me for one
second, anything you want to bring up

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Jenny in the meantime, what tell
me about this bright bright fu ship.

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But it looks like a I don't
know a ball gown? Is it the

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dress I'm wearing? Yeah? This
bright, bright fu ship ball gown you're

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wearing. So I went into my
closset this morning and I was like,

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it is still summer, because summer
just does not want to fucking go away,

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and I'm over it, honestly,
like I want false sweater weather.

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And so I'm like, well,
I better make use of any of the

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dresses I can still wear because of
the temperature being still pretty toasty. So

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I just pulled this one out.
It's a little fancier than I would normally

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wear for the morning show, but
I just thought, why not, I'm

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not going to wear this again until
next summer. So I decided to wear

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a fancy dress today. I know
you're used to seeing me in sweat pants,

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but I didn't. No, I
mean, you know, we the

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funny thing about radio is we can
dress anyway we want to, but we

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always try to like look a little
bit nice, because you know, I've

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known radio people. There used to
be a girl that worked here. She

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was an intern, and she was
probably twenty two something like that, and

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she came in one time wearing like
it was almost like a robe, like

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terry cloth, robe, yeah,
and I remember thinking, probably not the

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way you want to present yourself at
work. But we try to like dress

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nice in case the Livia people or
the white Bear Mitsubishi people come in,

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so we don't look like we just
got done, you know, cleaning the

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garage or something. All right,
here we go. This is for context.

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It is from a woman, if
that gives you any context, but

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she says, don't stay a name
please. First off, love you all.

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Dave, you're my cool uncle who
is close enough in age that I

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can still appreciate your advice. Jenny, you're my silly younger cousin who I

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want to hang out with. And
Drake, you are a dang ray of

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sunshine and your positivity laughter are infectious. I listen every day next day on

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podcasts, so I couldn't text live. When you all talked about cameras,

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this started there was a national news
story about a hidden camera on an airplane,

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and then we talked about have you
ever found a hidden camera? Do

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you look for hidden cameras in hotel
rooms? Jenny and I do not,

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but Drake does, which I thought
was kind of odd, and so it

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was just kind of an interesting thing
that I had a personal experience with somebody

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who stayed at my house in Colorado, and there is a security camera on

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the wall, and they really thought
that I was spying on them with a

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security camera, even though it had
an index card taped up over the lens

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that I didn't even know how to
access it anymore. But that ruined our

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friendship because we really she really thought
that I might be spying on her,

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and I was pissed because she accused
me of that happening. So we haven't

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spoken since. Don't use my name, but probably wouldn't care if you did.

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About five years ago, it was
brought to my attention that my boyfriend

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at the time in the late nineties. Okay, so it was brought to

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her attention five years ago that in
the late nineties. But my current husband's

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family had video cameras placed in the
vents of their home. This happened in

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the late nineties early two thousands.
The most disturbing thing was one of the

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cameras was in my boyfriend friend's bedroom. It was not my husband, his

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brother was into surveillance and his dad
was as straight up creep. Yes,

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of course we did things in there, but they also have a pool,

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and his room is where myself and
later our children and many other visitors would

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change to use the pool. So
whatever perverted person put them in there is

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beyond disgusting because they knew the people
were they were recording. Wow, my

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husband and I are okay, didn't
ruin our marriage, but this is severely

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traumatize many of us. I and
my children have disowned that side of the

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family. So your discussion about cameras
on Thursday really upset me. I feel

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you handled it pretty well, and
I thank Drake for the tips. His

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tips were, what do you remember
well, the double sided mirrors that what

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they're called. You put your finger
up against it. You can see if

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it's whatever they're called, and if
there's a reflection. That means that if

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you touch your fingertip to the mirror
and your fingertip touches the fingertip, that's

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bad. But if there's a little
gap the thickness of the glass, because

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the glass is like maybe an eighth
of an inch or a quarter of an

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inch thick, then it's okay.
So if your fingertips touch, that's a

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bad sign. I don't know why, but that's what Drake says. Yeah,

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and then I don't know. It
says to look for invents and stuff

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like that when you go to hotel
rooms, or that's what he does.

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But that's all we kind of talked
about in terms of hidden cameras in hotels.

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Right, Yeah, it doesn't occur
to me. The fact that family

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did this made it far more gross
than a hotel no shit. Yeah,

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however, it is now hard for
us stay anywhere because we weren't even safe

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with family. I get that places
have cameras in certain places, front doors,

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I do. I have a ring
according to this person, businesses streets,

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but I believe people need to disclose
if personal homes have them inside.

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Sorry, so long made me have
to respond. I was going to email

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long ago to have it as a
group therapy, but all you've already cut

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those ties. Thanks if you read
this far, Dave, if you made

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it, don't use my name,
don't won't your name. But for context,

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I thought it was important to mention
that it was a woman, because

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I think definitely most people that are
going to plant a hidden camera are straight

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males looking for naked women. That's
what I'm going to guess. To me,

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there's nothing less of a turn on
than watching somebody who doesn't want me

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to watch them, you know what
I mean. But there are people who

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do that obviously, So thanks for
that the comments on that one. Next

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one, listen to the Morning Show
yesterday. You're talking about weirdo neighbors.

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One thing I had to chime in
on leaving front lights off at night not

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creepy. It's good for the birds. Really, Fall migration is at a

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peak for birds right now flying through
Minnesota. Lights can confuse them during migration,

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so keeping lights to a minimum at
night can help immensely. If you

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could share this on the morning show
or on the podcast, the birds would

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appreciate it, and you put a
little smiley face on there, your local

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you know what hears me being a
sexist assuming that it's a man because it's

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a park ranger. No, that
is Jessica, your local park ranger.

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There is still a little bit of
sexist that lives inside my heart because I

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usually try to, like, you
know, give everybody the benefit of the

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doubt, like, oh, it's
a pilot, Well, it could be

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easily be a woman. It is
a cop, or it is a you

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know, parole off. It could
easily be a woman. But here I

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am slipping back into nineteen ninety four
Dave, and assuming that a park ranger

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is a guy, it is not
ps. We recently moved and have wonderful

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neighbors, and our previous neighbors were
a huge trees, and we moved when

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we did think constant trash in the
yard and shared driveway. We'd smoke,

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smell, dogs never stop barking,
and the cherry on top. They never

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cleaned up the dog poop on their
yard. The smell is exactly what you

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think it would be. Yuck.
I that's so bad because it's not just

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one little problem you live next door
to just trash, and that sucks.

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I've never lived next door to trash. I do have a house in Colorado

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that the house you know we have. The house has been on her family

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since I was born. I think
we moved into that house when I was

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two months old, and the house
at the end of our road, so

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about a quarter mile away. He
is a junkyard. It is a junk

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pile. The guy is a hoarder. He's really nice. I called the

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county on him because he had just
everything, just anything you can hoard.

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Think about like what an old stack
of tires. Yep, he hoards it

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like appliances. He have random stuff
like that, Like I haven't seen appliances.

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He's got several boats in the backyard, several trailers. He used to

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have a semi trailer in the backyard, just a semi trailer parked in the

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backyard, and that's illegal, so
I called the county and he built it

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into his bar. So now the
semi trailer is part of his barn and

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it actually looks okay. But he
has a giant holloway dumpster. He must

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have found a big stack of abandoned
like landscaping boulders, because now there's a

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big fucking stack of abandoned landscaping boulders
in his yard, five gallon buckets,

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giant blue barrels. Does he think
he's going to make money off of the

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stuff someday? It's so weird to
me to see people like collect all this

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garbage that literally sounds like garbage to
me, it is, It's what most

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of us would be like, Man, I don't want to keep this around,

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but I think he's your classic hoarder. And he looks at something like

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a plastic five gallon bucket and says
there's going to be a use for this.

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I can't throw this away, or
you're gonna throw away like you know,

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like two hundred landscaping boulders. Don't
throw those away or don't give the

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I'll buy him from you for fifty
bucks. So his whole yard is full

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of everything from abandoned tires, barrels, buckets, cars, just shit everywhere.

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But he's really nice that you know, what are you gonna do?

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He's really nice. I think that
they did ever know a hoarder, because

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right now a friend of mine,
her mother is eighty four. Mom lives

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somewhere else and they are trying to
clean out mom stuff. Mom doesn't want

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to give away her stuff. Mom
is like, no, I don't want

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to give that away. I don't
want to give that away. And it's

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like, Mom, you're eighty four, you're moving to New York. You're

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moving to a small apartment. You're
moving to a twelve hundred square foot apartment

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in New York. You don't have
room for all this shit, But people

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get so attached to it. Do
you get attached to things? No?

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I get rid of shit if I'm
not using it in my daily life.

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I don't want it, so I
just hold a bunch of stuff on facemarketplace

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because we went through our basement storage
room. But my dad is kind of

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borderline hoarder. I wouldn't call him
a hoarder, but he's almost there because

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he has so much random shit in
his basement, his entire basement. It's

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not finished and he lives in a
small duplex, so it's not super huge,

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but it's big enough for him to
have way too much Christmas decorations,

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like way too much. He has
like another version of a pantry down there,

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and then he hoards food, so
he gets deals on food, so

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you go there. He's got fifty
boxes of Kraft mac and cheese, twenty

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different packs of Gatorades, like all
of this stuff. And it used to

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be delightful when I came home for
college because I would steal that. Yeah,

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but now I don't really eat the
crap food that he buys anymore,

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so like it just sits down there
and gets old. And every time I

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come home he offers me to go
shopping basically and his extra pantry in the

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basement, and I'm like, I'm
good, and that ship will expire.

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It's like my sisters and I would
go in there and then it'd be expired

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for a couple of years. No, you, it's so funny. I

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didn't thought about this in a while. But my father in law, Susan's

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dad had a pantry that was it
was. It was big. It was

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like it was a laundry room with
a giant row of shelves along one wall.

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And he was one guy who ate
very little, and he had everything

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crackers and peanut butter and just stacks
of putting cups and just all kind of

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cereal and juice and pop and all
that. It's like, why do you

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have so much? And I think
he enjoyed the couponing or whatever. But

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we would look at like the peanut
butter and it was expired like four years

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ago. We'd take the cap off
and there'd be like oil floating on top,

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and he would get pissed if we
said, Dad, you gotta throw

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this away. God damn it,
you're not throwing that away. That's still

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good. I'll fuck that expiration,
dade, I don't care. And so

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we would have to sneak it to
throw it away, and he never noticed

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that we threw it away, but
it was just one of his things that

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he that he'd liked to do.
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