All right, time for second Date Update on Kiss ninety five seven. It's
Courtney Walmer, Jeff and Savannah. I think we're headed to South Windsor to
talk with Carla. She went on a first date and now she's getting ghosted.
Gotta get the answers. Good morning, Carla, Good morning, Hey,
welcome to second Date Update. I cannot wait to hear about this great
first date you went on. Yeah, it was, honestly, it was
like so amazing. It was one of those like connecting ones, like the
vibe were just they were so flowing, like you know, we met at
this brewery and then our date was at the brewery and we just sat and
talk for like hours. Oh my gosh, I love that. And you
know what, it's like perfect. This is a time of year that's perfect
to sit at a brewery or a winery. Yeah, did you do anything
after the brewery? If you know what I mean? Wink wink, geff.
No, I don't think, Like he was just such a gentleman,
you know. It was just like great like deep conversations and like, I
just I had a great time. I like texted all my friends. Oh
oh my gosh. Okay, well you texted all your friends. Have you
texted him since the date? Yeah, so I have, and like I
haven't had a response back, which is like the issue because I just I
don't know, maybe like I have, I don't know. I just don't
know what happened. All right, So you're getting ghosted. You felt the
connection, there was an attraction, the fact that you sat there and chatted
for hours. Something's up. Yeah, I think he would have like reached
out to you that day or even the next day. So this is what
we're gonna do, Carler. We're gonna call Jordan and we're gonna ask him.
Just be honest and tell us about the date. If you're ready to
find out why you're getting ghosted, we're gonna make the call. Yeah.
I think it's just I think it's a mistake or something. Okay, all
right, we're gonna call it Jordan right now, because this sounds like a
great date at a brewery for hours. Now she's getting ghosted, Savannah,
Right, Yeah, I don't know. I mean I feel like there's always
there's always something. I wonder we didn't ask she drank too much? All
right? Oh? Maybe or maybe he did. Hi is Jordan there?
Hi? Jordan's calling. Hey Jordan, it's Courtney. It's Walmart Jeff.
Hey, Jordan's Savannah. You're on the air. You're on Kiss ninety five
seven. Good morning, Good morning. I probably should tell you why you're
on the radio this morning. How Jordan, I am curious. You're on
a future we do called second date update. That's basically if somebody goes on
a first date and they really had a great time, but they get ghosted
and they want to know why they're getting ghosted. We're like the middleman,
and so that's why we're calling you because Carla called us to tell us,
tell us about the date you guys went on. She said, it was
amazing brewery. You sat and you talked for hours. She's reached out to
you. She would love to see you again, but now you're ghosting her.
Well, okay, so I remember this date. It was it was
okay, that's because we went to a brewery and I just really really liked
beer. Okay, she was, I mean, the conversation was good,
but I he was very like. The conversation was very focused on having children.
She asked me, if you know, you know she talked about how
bad she wants to have kids, and I was just like, you know,
I don't think. I don't know that I want to have kids.
She just kept pushing and saying, like, you know, well, why
don't you want to have kids? Like you should probably get we're at prime
kid having age, you know. And I was just not really interested in
that part of the conversation, but it always kept circling back to that,
and it just seemed like it was a pretty important point for her. So
Jordan, she told us, you guys had deep conversation, but she was
I think she's thinking the deep conversation was good, and you're thinking it's a
little too deep. It's first date. We're having beer. Yeah. I
mean, I don't even really mind deep conversation all that much. It's just
the fact that, like she seemed to have a pretty intense desire to have
children in the very near future on how much she was bringing it up in
the conversation, you know, And I was just like really kind of put
off by that, and it seemed like I was I was feeling pretty pressured,
and I was just like, I don't think this is right. Oh,
I just baby chat. It's not good ladies on a first date I'm
just saying, can I listen, Jordan, I gotta be honest. Carla's
listening in Carla too much baby talk. Listen. I don't understand, Jordan,
because it's not that you said that you didn't want kids. You said
you didn't want to raise children. And I don't think that's a deal breaker
because like I mean, I know, it's really contemporary for everyone to do
it together now, but like I grew up where my mom raised me and
my dad went off to work, So like it just doesn't make sense because
like what you're gonna have, You're gonna have no kids. He's gonna take
care of you. Like that does don't make any sense. Like I mean,
I don't know. I just again, I mean look like I mean,
you're you're doing it again right now, like you're trying to exact that
like having kids is the right thing to do. I mean, it's just
what I want. It's like, you know, yeah, but that's like
your purpose on this planet. Like I don't under I don't know understand.
I think we have very different ideas of our purposes on this planet. Hey,
Carla, so funny this actually comes up. So I'm engaged. I'm
gonna be getting married in my fiance and I have this conversation because I'm the
one that's not sure if I want to have kids, And it's really unfair
of you, you know, to pressure him, like, if that's something
that you want, then then do it. Then maybe this he isn't the
guy for you, but it's not fair for you to like bully him into
it. Well, I don't think that I'm bullying him into it, like
I'm just looking for a little bit more of a timeline on that. Okay,
well it was. Can I just jump in just two things. I
just have to say two things. The first thing is, Carla, it's
a first date. We probably shouldn't talk about babies on the first date.
So I can understand Jordan being no. And Savannah, you are having kids
because we need another baby in the studio. I will pressure the hell out
of you anyway, all right. So but I get it, Carla.
The minute we brought you on, you started yelling at him again about kids.
I just I think you guys are probably just in two different I get
it. Kids are important, and I think you're just at two different points.
Like I feel like, Carla, you are ready to go in and
be a mommy. Yeah, I mean, I'm I'm tired of waiting.
Okay, I get that too, And I think that if I think Jordan,
you're you're not at that point. So it is just clearly not a
love match. It is definitely not a love match. Okay, all right,
Well then there you go. You got your answers, Carla, and
I wish you both well get back out there. You will definitely find your
love matches. I'm sure of it. Thank you, Yeah, thank you, guys,