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All right, time for second Date
Update on Kiss ninety five seven. It's

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Courtney Walmer, Jeff and Savannah.
I think we're headed to South Windsor to

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talk with Carla. She went on
a first date and now she's getting ghosted.

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Gotta get the answers. Good morning, Carla, Good morning, Hey,

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welcome to second Date Update. I
cannot wait to hear about this great

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first date you went on. Yeah, it was, honestly, it was

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like so amazing. It was one
of those like connecting ones, like the

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vibe were just they were so flowing, like you know, we met at

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this brewery and then our date was
at the brewery and we just sat and

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talk for like hours. Oh my
gosh, I love that. And you

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know what, it's like perfect.
This is a time of year that's perfect

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to sit at a brewery or a
winery. Yeah, did you do anything

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after the brewery? If you know
what I mean? Wink wink, geff.

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No, I don't think, Like
he was just such a gentleman,

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you know. It was just like
great like deep conversations and like, I

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just I had a great time.
I like texted all my friends. Oh

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oh my gosh. Okay, well
you texted all your friends. Have you

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texted him since the date? Yeah, so I have, and like I

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haven't had a response back, which
is like the issue because I just I

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don't know, maybe like I have, I don't know. I just don't

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know what happened. All right,
So you're getting ghosted. You felt the

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connection, there was an attraction,
the fact that you sat there and chatted

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for hours. Something's up. Yeah, I think he would have like reached

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out to you that day or even
the next day. So this is what

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we're gonna do, Carler. We're
gonna call Jordan and we're gonna ask him.

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Just be honest and tell us about
the date. If you're ready to

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find out why you're getting ghosted,
we're gonna make the call. Yeah.

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I think it's just I think it's
a mistake or something. Okay, all

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right, we're gonna call it Jordan
right now, because this sounds like a

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great date at a brewery for hours. Now she's getting ghosted, Savannah,

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Right, Yeah, I don't know. I mean I feel like there's always

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there's always something. I wonder we
didn't ask she drank too much? All

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right? Oh? Maybe or maybe
he did. Hi is Jordan there?

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Hi? Jordan's calling. Hey Jordan, it's Courtney. It's Walmart Jeff.

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Hey, Jordan's Savannah. You're on
the air. You're on Kiss ninety five

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seven. Good morning, Good morning. I probably should tell you why you're

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on the radio this morning. How
Jordan, I am curious. You're on

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a future we do called second date
update. That's basically if somebody goes on

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a first date and they really had
a great time, but they get ghosted

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and they want to know why they're
getting ghosted. We're like the middleman,

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and so that's why we're calling you
because Carla called us to tell us,

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tell us about the date you guys
went on. She said, it was

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amazing brewery. You sat and you
talked for hours. She's reached out to

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you. She would love to see
you again, but now you're ghosting her.

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Well, okay, so I remember
this date. It was it was

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okay, that's because we went to
a brewery and I just really really liked

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beer. Okay, she was,
I mean, the conversation was good,

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but I he was very like.
The conversation was very focused on having children.

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She asked me, if you know, you know she talked about how

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bad she wants to have kids,
and I was just like, you know,

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I don't think. I don't know
that I want to have kids.

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She just kept pushing and saying,
like, you know, well, why

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don't you want to have kids?
Like you should probably get we're at prime

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kid having age, you know.
And I was just not really interested in

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that part of the conversation, but
it always kept circling back to that,

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and it just seemed like it was
a pretty important point for her. So

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Jordan, she told us, you
guys had deep conversation, but she was

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I think she's thinking the deep conversation
was good, and you're thinking it's a

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little too deep. It's first date. We're having beer. Yeah. I

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mean, I don't even really mind
deep conversation all that much. It's just

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the fact that, like she seemed
to have a pretty intense desire to have

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children in the very near future on
how much she was bringing it up in

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the conversation, you know, And
I was just like really kind of put

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off by that, and it seemed
like I was I was feeling pretty pressured,

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and I was just like, I
don't think this is right. Oh,

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I just baby chat. It's not
good ladies on a first date I'm

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just saying, can I listen,
Jordan, I gotta be honest. Carla's

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listening in Carla too much baby talk. Listen. I don't understand, Jordan,

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because it's not that you said that
you didn't want kids. You said

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you didn't want to raise children.
And I don't think that's a deal breaker

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because like I mean, I know, it's really contemporary for everyone to do

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it together now, but like I
grew up where my mom raised me and

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my dad went off to work,
So like it just doesn't make sense because

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like what you're gonna have, You're
gonna have no kids. He's gonna take

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care of you. Like that does
don't make any sense. Like I mean,

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I don't know. I just again, I mean look like I mean,

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you're you're doing it again right now, like you're trying to exact that

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like having kids is the right thing
to do. I mean, it's just

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what I want. It's like,
you know, yeah, but that's like

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your purpose on this planet. Like
I don't under I don't know understand.

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I think we have very different ideas
of our purposes on this planet. Hey,

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Carla, so funny this actually comes
up. So I'm engaged. I'm

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gonna be getting married in my fiance
and I have this conversation because I'm the

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one that's not sure if I want
to have kids, And it's really unfair

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of you, you know, to
pressure him, like, if that's something

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that you want, then then do
it. Then maybe this he isn't the

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guy for you, but it's not
fair for you to like bully him into

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it. Well, I don't think
that I'm bullying him into it, like

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I'm just looking for a little bit
more of a timeline on that. Okay,

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well it was. Can I just
jump in just two things. I

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just have to say two things.
The first thing is, Carla, it's

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a first date. We probably shouldn't
talk about babies on the first date.

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So I can understand Jordan being no. And Savannah, you are having kids

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because we need another baby in the
studio. I will pressure the hell out

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of you anyway, all right.
So but I get it, Carla.

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The minute we brought you on,
you started yelling at him again about kids.

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I just I think you guys are
probably just in two different I get

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it. Kids are important, and
I think you're just at two different points.

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Like I feel like, Carla,
you are ready to go in and

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be a mommy. Yeah, I
mean, I'm I'm tired of waiting.

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Okay, I get that too,
And I think that if I think Jordan,

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you're you're not at that point.
So it is just clearly not a

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love match. It is definitely not
a love match. Okay, all right,

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Well then there you go. You
got your answers, Carla, and

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I wish you both well get back
out there. You will definitely find your

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love matches. I'm sure of it. Thank you, Yeah, thank you, guys,