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And energy, cancer so high,
Ecstasya sage, Cancelgema, it's not sorry

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and energy? What's up? Positive
bitches? How are we doing today?

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If you're hearing this episode, then
you are meant to be here. So

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keep listening on that Bitch's Positive Podcast. Sometimes we will laugh. Other times,

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baby Girl, we're gonna cry,
but we will always walk away feeling

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our most empowered positive bitch self.
That is Babe in true connection with herself.

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On this podcast, we unbecome who
we are not so we can fully

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step into exactly who we came here
to be. Can I get a name?

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A men? Today we're talking about
how to fully step into exactly who

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we came here to be by unlocking
our divine complet in our confidence. If

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you will, we're gonna learn how
to create validation from within, how to

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shift ourselves onto our most confident timeline, and ultimately how to claim what has

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always been ours, which is our
confidence. I don't know if you know

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this, but when you were born, you were born confidence and magnetic.

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You. When you were in your
little diaper, were screaming, crying.

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You didn't care who was in the
room. You were loud and proud that

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means that confidence is our natural states
and in security is a learned behavior.

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Would you look at that? And
here's the good news about that. If

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in security or anything that deviates from
confidence is a learned behavior, we can

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unlearn that behavior and go back home
to who we truly are, which is

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a magnetic being. You were created
to be confident, not to be so

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scared and insecure. It's a waste
of your own damn time. Who gets

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served when you are insecure but the
energy vampires of the world and Satan And

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last time I checked, you were
not playing for his team. Okay,

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before we get into it, a
couple of announcements. If you're not yet

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following me on Instagram at vibein with
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to follow me there for daily tips
and tricks on how to step into your

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most magnetic timeline. If you've not
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Her Girl, what are you doing? We are actually going to be pulling

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some themes from Show Up as Her
today, so you're gonna want to make

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sure that you have your own copy
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seventh teenth, seven seventeen, I'm
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and this will help you step onto
a most magnetic timeline, not even

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a more magnetic timeline, a most
magnetic timeline period, and it will really

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help you release what's no longer serving
you so you can fully accept in the

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right people, opportunities and places that
link to pre save will be in the

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show notes and without further ado,
let's get into today's episode. Let's first

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talk about validation. The voice we
hear the most is the one in our

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own damn head. If you're constantly
telling yourself that you're not good enough,

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that nobody likes you, that you're
not cute, guess what, You're gonna

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believe that because your subconscious mind believes
everything that you tell it. Your subconscious

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mind is like a child. It
is passive, It is a sponge,

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and it will soak up everything you
tell yourself. So first things first,

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we have to shift the narrative we
have on replay in our head, because

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that narrative is like elevate or music. It is always on and it never

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stops. It might be so unconscious
to you, playing in the background of

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everything that you do, that you
don't even notice it anymore. So step

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one is awareness. We have to
start paying attention to the words, the

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stories, the narratives that we are
speaking in our own mind. Love correspondence

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as above, so below. Your
internal world will always be reflected back to

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you in your external one. So
if you're telling yourself insecure stories in here,

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you're gonna see insecure timelines play out
in your reality. If you are

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telling yourself insecure narratives inside of you, you are going to feel that and

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then experience that in every bar,
every party, every room that you walk

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into. That at one time was
me. I would feel so uncomfortable,

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so insecure, going to a party
or a bar, and then I realized

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this isn't serving me, and it's
based on a lie. Because I was

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born confident, I didn't care if
I had a scream or cry or get

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what I wanted. I wanted that
bottle, and I threw bottles to get

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a bottle. That's a real story. My sister told me, I literally

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was just throwing bottles because I wanted
more milk. I was so confident.

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So if I am now insecure,
that means I learned insecurity along the way,

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and a lot of that was due
to the stories I was telling myself,

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well, I can't have that person, I can't have that opportunity.

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Someone else is better. That's BS
who even said that. That's all just

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a limiting belief. And what's a
belief but a practice thought? It's nothing,

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it's nothing. It's chemicals connecting in
your head. And if we want

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to go down to another layer,
okay, it's energy, awesome, cool.

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It doesn't mean anything. It does
not mean anything. I have told

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the story before, but I'm gonna
tell it again in case there's new listeners.

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I was doing interminute fasting and it
was about five PM, and I

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hadn't eaten, and I went to
the grocery store and I just bought everything.

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I didn't look at labels. I
didn't even know what I was buying.

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I just started ripping open bags,
eating in the grocery store, probably

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eating in the car. When I
got home, I looked at what I

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bought, and I was like,
Cci, what did you just do because

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you would never eat this food.
I don't remember if it was dairy or

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gluten, or packaged chemicals that are
supposed to look like food but are literally

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not food. I don't know what
that was all about, but I bought

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so many things I would never even
touch, and I realized, because I

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was so hungry for food, I
dropped my standards, I dropped my values,

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I dropped my boundaries, and I
just let anything into my cart because

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I wasn't thinking clearly. When you
are starving for confidence, validation, notoriety,

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to be seen, heard, understood
by others, because you're not giving

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it to yourself, you will drop
your boundaries, your standards, your value

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system, and you're just gonna let
anyone and everything in. And that's how

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people end up on a runaway train
that they did not mean to get onto.

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You have to start shifting the narrative
within your own damn brain. You

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have to start validating yourself on a
daily basis. How do you do this?

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Celebrate your big and little wins.
I don't care if you graduated from

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college or major dan bed, celebrate
yourself. Good job, Ceci. Today

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I went to yoga and it was
one hundred and twenty eight degrees and that

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was hard. And the girl next
to me, who I might have a

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budding new friendship. Her name was
Sophia, and she's so pretty and cool.

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She said, you did not stop
once you did amazing, and then

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the yoga instructor yelled at us for
talking, but I was like, you

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know what, thank you, and
you're right. I have really put the

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pedal to the metal today and I
didn't stop once. I was focused.

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I was engaged, and I barely
got any sleep the night before, and

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I still showed up for myself.
So I celebrated myself internally. But I

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would have forgotten to do that unless
this beautiful angel Sofia would have said something.

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And it made me feel so good. Okay, you're noticing, but

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I'm noticing myself, and there's something
to be said when you see yourself,

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when you validate yourself. The thing
is, no one knows how hard it

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is to be you, and we're
not gonna have a pity party for ourselves,

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Jesus, but that's the truth.
No one knows how hard it was

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for you to wake up today and
show up to work or show up to

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school. No one knows how badly
your heart's breaking. Nobody knows that you

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have a loved one dying. Nobody
knows that you're struggling with your own health.

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No one knows that you're fighting with
your family. No one knows that

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your friends are bullying you. No
one truly knows how hard it is to

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show up as you every single day, but you know the one person who

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does you. You know now there
are multi dimensional beings, Hello Jesus,

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Hello God, Hello, your spirit
team who also know how hard it is

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for you, and we're gonna get
into them later. But the earthly person

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who knows how hard it is for
you to show up every single day is

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you. So you gotta be celebrating
yourself. You gotta be saying, oh

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ghost cc yes, Bert, you
did it. You did it, and

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you're gonna do it again tomorrow and
the next day and the next day.

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I've said this before, but music
really helps me get into a good mood.

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It really helps pump me up.
I will put on anything by Sabrina

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Carpenter and I just I'm off to
the races. I could do three trails

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and then some find a song that
makes you feel really happy and just so

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in the moment and make it about
love or happiness or joy. And you

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know what's so funny. The other
day I was doing a trail and I

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was listening to Nonsense by Sabrina Carpenter, and this is a love song,

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and while I was listening to this, I heard God's voice cut through to

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me so clearly, and he said, I don't want you falling in love

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with someone right now, ce see, I want you falling in love with

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the process of creation, because this
season of singleness is actually this season of

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holiness. And I need you focus
on what you can do with your life,

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but this time with me by your
side, because before you were leading

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from your head, and now I
need you to lead from your heart and

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include me in all of your plans. And I'm gonna show you how different

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life looks when you include me in
every step that you take. And any

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sign or message I get for myself, I know it is also a sign

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and message for you because we're in
alignment, and that's why you're listening to

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this right now, So that message
for me is also for you. Okay,

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yeah, do what you've been doing, but this time include God.

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Do it from your heart. Fall
in love with the process of creating.

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And what are we creating. We're
creating thoughts of self validation, We're creating

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thoughts of feeling good about ourselves.
We're celebrating our big and little wins.

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We're being impeccable with our word.
When we say something, we do it.

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If we say we're gonna show up, we will be there. If

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we're saying that we're gonna do this, we're gonna do it. Because that

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builds confidence, knowing that you can
trust yourself to show up when you said

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you're gonna show up. Even if
you currently believe you're unlucky, insecure,

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and ugly, it doesn't really matter
because you believe that because you practice thinking

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it, you can change your beliefs
by interrupting and inserting new sentences, new

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thought forms, new ideas, new
scripts. When you have a negative thought

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about yourself, I want you to
interrupt it and say, no, no,

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no, no, I'm not subscribing
to that narrative anymore. And instead

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I'm gonna validate myself for showing up, for doing the work that I needed

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to get done, or at least
trying to do my best when all else

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fails. You're not the best in
the class, you're not the best at

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your work. Just try your best, because you really can't hate yourself for

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trying your damn best. We are
creating new thought forms, new sentences,

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new narratives, and this time we're
doing it with God by our side.

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The second thing to build confidence is
you can change you don't like about your

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life. I don't know why everyone's
trying to convince us to just accept what

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we don't like. And if you
can't see this right now, but I'm

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doing the robot. I don't like
that. Okay, when I was thirty

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plus pounds, I didn't like being
that weight. I'm not just going to

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accept it because someone's telling me that
I should. That doesn't make any sense.

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If you're not happy with something in
your life, your health, your

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body, your career, your friendships, your relationship. What news flash,

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You can change it. No,
you don't have to accept it. No,

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you don't have to say like,
oh, it's fine. It's not

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fine. If you're not happy,
God's not done, and you should not

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be either. There's no reason you
should be accepting parts of your life that

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you're literally miserable in. You can
change things that you don't like about your

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life. This brings me to page
one three in Show Up as Her Here

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we Go. I've been the girl
that hated herself and I am the girl

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who loves herself. I'll give you
a hint. One of these is way

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more fun than the other. I
love self love, but I was turned

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off by the self love movement.
I didn't understand how to just love myself.

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Then I figured out that self love
is not something that falls from the

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sky and hits us on the head. It's a muscle we have to build

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positive bitch tip. Just as we
build up physical muscle, we must also

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build up psychological self love muscles.
We wouldn't go to the gym one time

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and expect to have abs, So
don't say one affirmation and expect to love

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yourself. It's a process. We
don't have to love every version of ourselves.

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I do not love the version of
me that was constantly binging, hating

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herself self, sabotaging her relationship,
and was depressed. If someone was treating

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me the way that version treated myself, telling me terrible things about myself all

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day, forcing me to shove down
my emotions with food and hurting my relationships,

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I would not like them at all. I don't have to love that

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version of me, but I honor
and respect the contrast she showed me because

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she allowed me to clarify and love
myself for who I am now. I

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needed that older version of me to
lead me to this updated version of me.

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I don't love that version, but
I think her. Instead of wasting

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time trying to love the version of
yourself that is hurting yourself, begin to

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accept where you're at. Thank this
version of you for showing you what you

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do not want for yourself. Thank
this version of you for getting you this

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far. If you got yourself here, you can get yourself out of here

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too. You have had the power
all this time. Today you have become

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conscious of it. Imagine all the
things you can do now. I'm going

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to skip to one twenty four and
go down. To build ourselves up,

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we must accept where we are at. I tried to pretend I didn't binge

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eat. I tried the whole false
positivity thing. I tried faking it till

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you make it, And yeah,
none of that helps. Being in denial

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of parts of you will not allow
you to release those parts. Pretending you

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are happy with parts of yourself that
you despise will not allow you to change

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or release those parts either. We
don't have to remain the same if we

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do not love what's in front of
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what's in front of us to accept
what is. We can't hate ourselves into

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loving ourselves. We can't hate ourselves
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into success. We can, however, accept where we are at and decide

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to go in a new, higher
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whatever it may be. Accepting our
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It means we're opening ourselves up to
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front of you, you are shortening
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and where you wish to be.
Look at the things you do not like

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about yourself and ask yourself, are
there actual steps I can take to change

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this thing? If you don't like
your body, ask yourself? Can I

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drink more water? Can I go
for more walks? Can I eat more

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food? You have to be asking
yourself what is an actionable step I can

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take to change what I don't like? And do not tell me you tried

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everything, because you know you didn't. No, you didn't. There's always

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something else you can change. You
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there's always something else you can try
to change your life. If you do

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not like something about your weight,
acne, style, job, lack of

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coping mechanisms, Hello, that was
me for a long time, relationship to

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self or low self esteem. These
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Begin to get curious about how you
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and do research. Make a list
of actionable steps you can take. If

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the current version of you is ensure
what to change, ask the version of

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you who already has what it is
you currently desire. There are limitless versions

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of you in this quantum field.
This means that even if the version you

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embody now doesn't have something you desire, there is a version of you out

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there that does. If you want
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that version out loud what they did
to get those results? Ask what does

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do to achieve those results? I ask

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what does a version of me that
has my desired body due to achieve those

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results? That version of me had
knew cute workout clothes, She felt graydon

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worked out six times a week,
drank more water, stop letting herself negatively

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spiral about her body, practice gratitude, daily, meditated, did yoga,

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bless her food for consumption, and
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taking about ten minutes to sit quietly
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great, but being able to hear
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be connected to yourself to hear the
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you can start doing that thing.
Trust yourself. The answers are within you,

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you just need to ask for them
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of complaining about what you hate,
begin to turn your attention to what you

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would love and become inquisitive about how
you can get there. Positive bitch tip

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Complaining about where you are will never
get you to where you want to be.

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Set your eyes upon a positive place
so you can move towards that,

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and remember, if you keep doing
what you've always been doing, you will

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repeatedly manifest the same results. Let's
say you can't change what it is that

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is bothering you and you feel it's
giving you lower confidence. Let's say when

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you walk into your job there are
coworkers who are jealous of you, and

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so they send negativity. Instead of
seeing this as oh, I'm the weakling,

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I have to be quiet. I
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actually, if people people are picking
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light. You have so much power
that they are threatened, and therefore they're

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trying to bring you down to their
level. And by the way, have

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you forgotten about alchemy? Have you
forgotten about energy transmutation. When people are

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sending you hate, jealousy, they're
sending their limiting beliefs. You can take

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that energy and use it as fuel
to stay an extra hour at work and

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get the job done, to do
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care, to go for a walk, to start the side hustle. You

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can use the negative energy people are
sending you because at the end of the

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day, energy is energy and you
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Do not get mad, get everything
you have ever wanted. And more

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so, if you can't change the
people in your workplace, you can change

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your perception of them. Another thing
you can do is change the meaning you

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give to something. Cindy Crawford,
when she was first starting out model,

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everyone told her remove your mold,
remove your mole, remove your mole,

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and she refused. She was like, no, no, no, no,

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this mole is from my lineage.
This mole is beautiful to me,

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and therefore I'm going to rocket and
actually that is really what made her so

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famous is her mole. Same thing
with that model Winnie, I believe her

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name is. She has videlago and
she was on America's Next Top Model.

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She could have grown up being insecure
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She could have grown up and let
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she said, no, this makes
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This makes me a super star.
If you can't change something about yourself,

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most likely you can change your perception
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One of these things you can change
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your confidence. Now, the next
thing you're gonna want to do if you

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want to become confident is hang out
with yourself. How do you get to

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know someone, You need to spend
time with them. You might not feel

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confident sharing your political beliefs, your
religious beliefs, how you see the world,

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because you don't know any of those
answers, because you don't spend enough

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time with just yourself. I spend
most of my time with me, myself

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and God. I am so sure
about how I see myself. I am

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so sure of my beliefs. I
will be open if something changes my mind.

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Of course, I'm not a stone, but I am so sure about

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how I see myself, how I
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that when I walk into your room, I'm confident. I read my Bible,

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I read my books, all the
self help books. I wrote my

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own damn book. I'm confident about
how I see myself in the world because

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I spend so much time alone.
I'm confident about myself and how I see

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the world because ninety percent of the
time I'm working on me. I'm doing

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yoga, I'm broadening my brain.
I just signed up for a two week

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meditation class that just end and learned
a new process to connect with myself and

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the other side. Because I'm committed
to energetic excellence, I'm constantly working with

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a shaman, with a healer,
with somebody, constantly broadening. Well,

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maybe what if this is true,
or that's true, or this conspiracy theory.

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I am confident about myself and my
beliefs because I do the research and

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I spend time with me. Spending
time with others is great and it's lovely,

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but that should not be at the
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And it's really funny, because the
more you spend time with yourself,

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the more you're gonna recognize how cool
your own energy is. Now that I'm

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single and I have more time to
not text anyone and just really spend time

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with me, I'm like, ooh, this is fine. I enjoy being

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in my own energy. I enjoy
being with myself. It feels good to

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rest and dwell within the confines of
CC's energy, and it makes me even

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more confident. But I wasn't confident
when I didn't know myself, when I

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felt purposeless and I didn't know what
my mission was, and I didn't know

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who I wanted to be, and
I didn't know what I wanted to do,

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and I didn't know what I thought. I was not confident because I

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didn't have thoughts on my own.
I didn't have conclusions of my own.

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I didn't even think for myself.
And if we're not thinking for ourselves,

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the devil will think for us.
So you need to wake up and start

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working on you. Sign up for
a class, learn something new, read

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a book, do something that your
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You cannot rely on how people view
you to be your source of how you

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view yourself. If you want to
be confident, you cannot rely on the

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projections, the opinions, the ideas
of others if you want to see yourself

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clearly, because those people have limiting
beliefs, they may have moderating spirits,

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they might have a bunch of junk
up in their trunk. You cannot rely

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on how people see you, especially
the people you grew up with, if

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you want to see yourself for who
you truly are. Because a lot of

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us, as we were children,
we created a mask of who we thought

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we had to be in order to
get love. And as we grow up,

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as we go to college, a
lot of us are able to remove

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this mask, but a lot of
us aren't. And if we're gonna rely

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on the people who knew us to
tell us who we are, now,

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we're in for a world of trouble. Baby girl. Something really interesting happens

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in the Bible. Jesus was actually
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his hometown of Nazareth, literally because
people lacked faith in him. They knew

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him as a carpenter, they knew
him as this little dude. They didn't

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see him as this prophet. They
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just knew him as Jesus the carpenter. In Mark six' five, Jesus

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says, only in his hometown,
among his relatives, and in his own

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house is a prophet without honor.
The point is the people that lived in

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jesus Us his hometown, they couldn't
see him for his truth. They could

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only see him as a past version
of himself. They couldn't see his vision.

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They couldn't understand his power, just
like the people from your past don't

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understand your vision, your power,
and the truth of who you are.

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So if they want to make fun
of you for posting, let them make

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fun of you. If they want
to make fun of you for going out

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on a limb and trying, let
them make fun of you, because you

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know who will be successful in the
end, you because you were plugged into

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you. You were plugged into your
vision, and you gave energy and thought

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to it. God gave you you
the vision, you the understanding of that

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vision. He placed it in your
heart, not theirs. This has nothing

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to do with them. There's no
doubt in my mind that when I was

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posting videos at first, I'm sure
all the girls that used to be friends

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with one hundred percent. Probably had
a group chat and were making fun of

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me. Go right ahead, because
I have my own business now, I

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have a podcast. I was invited
to be a part of an iHeartRadio panel

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in Las Vegas. I have a
published book. Make fun of me,

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Uh, send me the energy,
I'll use it as fuel. Thank you,

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thank you. I'm living my dream
purpose. I'm confident in myself.

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I feel on fire on fuel.
I'm ready to go, and I'm also

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just getting started. So if people
from my hometown or people from your hometown

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can't see what you truly have to
offer, who cares. They're not meant

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to and they don't have to.
It does not matter how they see you,

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and you can't rely on their vision
to unlock your purpose. If you

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want to understand who it is you
are, I highly recommend I invite you

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to start connecting to God. And
I just saw two O two. So

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you're on the right path and you're
understanding your relationship to this energetic electromagnetic field

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that we reside in. But it's
time you start tapping into that divine source

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creator. Through having a relationship to
God, I was able to see myself

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clearly, I was able to find
myself for who I truly am. I

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was able to see myself from God's
perspective rather than the perspective of my peers,

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who had a bunch of limiting beliefs
and was not a true reflection of

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my worth and my value. I
literally told God, God, if I'm

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so great, show me show me
it in my reality, show me it

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in my progress, show me it
in my wins, show me it in

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the people I attract, show me
it in myself. Let me see it,

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let me feel it, Let me
feel it. And I know God

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does not make any mistakes. So
you're here and I'm here. It's because

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we're both meant to be here.
I know that every room I walk into

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I'm not there by accident, because
I'm always at the right place in the

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right time, as are you.
So that literally means that every room I

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walk into, I'm walking in there
like God sent me there because he did.

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I don't need your invite I don't
need your validation, I don't need

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your opinion because this is not about
you. This is between me and God.

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Actually, so how you view me
none of my business, none of

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my concern. I'm on planet Earth
on a mission, and the only way

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to figure out that mission is to
spend time with yourself and scream at God.

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I gotta be honest. That's what
I did. I scream and cried

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at God every single day until it
was revealed. And then I didn't have

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a mental breakdown, but a breakthrough, and then here we are. You

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did not fall out of God's back
pocket. You're not here by mistake.

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God is very intentional with his creations. He created the mountains and the skies

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and the birds and the bees,
and then he said, you know what

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else? This Earth needs uh?
You? You? This Earth needs you.

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So you have a purpose in your
heart. And it doesn't matter if

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it's I'm going to be a kindergarten
teacher. It doesn't matter if I'm going

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to be a first responder. It
doesn't matter if it's I'm gonna be an

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influencer. It doesn't matter if it's
I'm gonna be a mom, It doesn't

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matter if it's I'm gonna be a
superstar. It does not matter how big

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or small you perceive your purpose.
Your purpose is important on this planet and

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we need you here because if your
energy was sent here, it's because we

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need your energy here. Dolores Cannon, a famous hypnotherapist, said there were

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lines and lines and lines of souls
trying to get to planet Earth at this

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time, but you got here,
So I'm not gonna let you mess this

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up. You got yourself here.
What are you gonna do now that you're

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here? And I know, ooh, you do not come this fall or

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just get this far. I don't
even know what accent that was, but

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I do know that you're meant to
be here, and that's what truly matters.

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And I know this sounds preachy,
but what do you want me to

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do? Why? To you?
Should I pretend like I don't have a

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relationship with God? Should I pretend
that I didn't unlock a new level of

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confidence when I started connecting to God
instead of stupid, useless gossip and content.

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Should I pretend well, I'm not
going to This is my truth.

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So if you don't like it,
then click off. But if you want

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to learn how to become your most
confident self, if you want to see

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yourself for who you truly are,
who God intended you to be, before

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the programming, before the mask,
before everyone convinced you that you weren't anything,

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then you better start tapping in.
That means meditation, That means prayer,

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that means nature, that means just
sitting by the water. It can

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even mean reading. But it means
separating yourself from everyone who's just trying to

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tolerate you instead of celebrate you.
It means separating yourself from the people who

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can't see you and turn it to
the God who created you. So yeah,

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it's preachy, but it's also my
truth, and I want you to

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experience the unconditional confidence that I feel
every single time I step into a room.

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When I step into a bar,
I tell myself, my fun is

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my responsibility. God sent his daughter
here, and I'm ready to go.

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I don't need Brod at the bar
to give me a compliment. I don't

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need someone to dance with me.
I don't need someone to like me.

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Why Because I like me because I
can see myself through God's eyes and God

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loves me. Jesus loves me,
so I don't need you to love me.

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And Jesus saves us from the bare
minimum. I mean, the man

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died on a cruss for us.
So yeah, if you want me to

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go out with you, you can
pay for dinner period. I love you

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so much and that's why I'm never
gonna lie to you. And this is

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my truth. This is my story, take it or leave it. All

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I can ever do is tell you
what I've experienced and what I know to

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be true. This was a prayer
that I saw literally while I was filming

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this episode, So I'm gonna pray
over all of us, and you can

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always replay this and say yourself,
but it's from power of angelic healing.

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That's the page, and it's from
Archangel Michael, and it's on self respect.

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Dear God and angels, thank you
for helping me and all of my

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positive bitches see ourselves as you see
us through the eyes of love. Thank

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you for honoring and respecting us.
Please guide us to do the same for

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ourselves, and grant us the courage
to speak on our own behalf. We

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ask for your protection in all of
our relationships, so that we are surrounded

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by kind and loving people. This
is what I mean by asking your spirit

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team to help you. They're always
there, They're ready to help you.

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Ask them, and they will send
you resources. A random video, you'll

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find, a random prayer card,
you'll find someone just comes up to you

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and is like, oh my God, you have the best energy. They

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will send material content, people,
places, and opportunities that are reflective of

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your true inherent worth rather than your
beliefs of insecurity being reflected back to you.

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So start asking to see that instead. I love you so much.

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We are decentering our insecurities and we
are centering God instead, because God makes

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no mistakes when he put us on
this planet. Okay, as always,

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the sparkle in me honors the sparkle
in you. I hope this podcast resonated

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with you and maybe taught you something
new. If you know that someone might

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need to hear this, send this
episode to them. Give them this uplifting

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energy so they can also find their
inner sparkle. If you've not yet ordered

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your copy of Show Up as Her, be sure to do that, and

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if you would like to, please
leave a positive review on Apple Podcasts and

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Spotify. If not for me,
do it for you because good karma and

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I will see you in the next
one. See Pama, I'm sorry had

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