1 00:00:00,240 --> 00:00:09,359 I made a decision. I'll face sunny sad on. I had a vision. 2 00:00:14,679 --> 00:00:20,879 So what's up, everybody. Welcome for another great week for crying out 3 00:00:20,879 --> 00:00:24,480 loud. We're already warmed up, man, we are. We have a 4 00:00:24,519 --> 00:00:29,839 good We have a good Patreon for you. This week with Special she was 5 00:00:29,879 --> 00:00:35,960 a get, as they say in the business, Sadie. She did some 6 00:00:36,079 --> 00:00:40,759 good uh dishing, she spilled some tea, yeah she did. And then 7 00:00:40,799 --> 00:00:45,200 we also had her on our Thursday show, which was really interesting and insightful 8 00:00:45,600 --> 00:00:51,799 mind of a teenager yeah yep, talk about depressed, depression and medication and 9 00:00:52,359 --> 00:00:57,079 now she was really good school stuff. Yeah. Yeah, it was fun 10 00:00:57,320 --> 00:01:00,560 but a good So we had a good week, so tune in. Yeah, 11 00:01:00,600 --> 00:01:06,000 but first let's say hi to our pete. Yeah we got Aaron Land 12 00:01:06,079 --> 00:01:10,000 ho oh and who do this? Rachel is a newcomer, so she's going 13 00:01:10,040 --> 00:01:14,159 to be a newcomer for a while. Sorry, Randy May aims, she's 14 00:01:14,200 --> 00:01:18,439 another one with too many names. Yep, Nikki call you girls, Ashley, 15 00:01:18,480 --> 00:01:23,640 You're so chic, Leslie, stop surrounding people and trying to sex traffic 16 00:01:23,719 --> 00:01:27,280 them. Would I just lose all the subtlety and I'm just like, stop 17 00:01:27,319 --> 00:01:33,879 sex traffic people and the other Leslie stop coughing exactly, and Jacob too, 18 00:01:33,920 --> 00:01:37,439 both need to stop. Need to stop being growley because it's adorable. And 19 00:01:37,719 --> 00:01:42,120 Rita rock all of Elizabeth Williamson's kids in your basinet and Hero go on with 20 00:01:42,159 --> 00:01:48,280 your bad self. Yeah, everybody's working so far. Pobbly, we love 21 00:01:48,280 --> 00:01:53,000 your pancakes, Valerie, Bubba Fenwick, Katarina, you really really need to 22 00:01:53,079 --> 00:01:57,280 check that moler. Yeah, it's getting old. It's gonna fall out of 23 00:01:57,319 --> 00:02:00,040 your mouth, Gabby and Missy speaking of teeth fallen out of your mouth, 24 00:02:00,359 --> 00:02:07,319 guys, one tooth between the two of them and one flip flop e Shaan 25 00:02:07,439 --> 00:02:14,199 varshbeg repecaial cute. Kelly Branch. She'll take you and your kids, She'll 26 00:02:14,240 --> 00:02:16,719 take everybody. She has a party bus going to hip hop hops, right, 27 00:02:17,520 --> 00:02:23,719 Alicia Escalante, Sarah Stefun, Jennifer get up, Sandra, it's not 28 00:02:23,879 --> 00:02:30,840 easy being green. Christy get this strap and Stephanie think a rinker. And 29 00:02:30,080 --> 00:02:36,120 Christy Bishop, thank you for our Christy be not Christy Krishap. Sorry we 30 00:02:36,199 --> 00:02:40,240 were talking about Christy Bishop before the Yeah, Christie b thank you so much 31 00:02:40,400 --> 00:02:45,360 for our gifts. Are you got us these great she made us these pillows. 32 00:02:45,439 --> 00:02:47,560 I'm gonna put a picture of them on Should I put it on our 33 00:02:47,560 --> 00:02:51,120 old Instagram or do I put it on our new Instagram? You can put 34 00:02:51,159 --> 00:02:53,439 it on our new one. Two. I'll probably just cut this clip too 35 00:02:53,520 --> 00:02:58,199 so everyone can see. Oh okay, she made us a pillow, a 36 00:02:58,240 --> 00:03:02,199 cunt pillow and for crying out pillow. And they they really go very well 37 00:03:02,400 --> 00:03:07,680 in studio years. They pop up against the couches, they really do. 38 00:03:07,560 --> 00:03:13,479 And also as a little bonus, she made us a little rooster pillow, 39 00:03:13,560 --> 00:03:16,319 which is just adorable. I took some pictures. I love it. Oh 40 00:03:16,439 --> 00:03:23,919 my gosh. Exciting. Yeah. So I had a nice Sunday yesterday. 41 00:03:24,520 --> 00:03:30,639 I was at the house with the kids this weekend and you know, like 42 00:03:30,800 --> 00:03:36,759 I say, it's their senior year and I'm trying to do as much with 43 00:03:36,919 --> 00:03:43,000 them as possible as you as a mother would with a with two seniors, 44 00:03:43,039 --> 00:03:46,680 because they don't want to hang out with their mom very much. They're always 45 00:03:46,759 --> 00:03:53,520 busy. Everybody's always got something going on. So Saturday, they both went 46 00:03:53,599 --> 00:03:57,680 to the same party. They went to some party on Saturday. So Saturday 47 00:03:58,560 --> 00:04:00,520 I was bored. So I was like, you know what I'm gonna do. 48 00:04:00,759 --> 00:04:04,240 I'm gonna go to the grocery store and I'm going to make I'm gonna 49 00:04:04,319 --> 00:04:09,560 make Sunday dinner, but i'm gonna start making it Saturday. I'm gonna marinate 50 00:04:09,759 --> 00:04:15,920 chicken. Wow, that's right, motherfucker's you're a go getter. I was 51 00:04:15,959 --> 00:04:18,720 a go getter this week. I was like, oh, look at me, 52 00:04:19,480 --> 00:04:24,120 you know, I was like feeling good. I'm gonna like, I'm 53 00:04:24,120 --> 00:04:27,560 gonna get ahead of it. I'm gonna marinate. So I have that in 54 00:04:27,680 --> 00:04:30,839 my head too all the time, Like whenever i'm doing something that feels very 55 00:04:31,000 --> 00:04:33,519 like, oh, I'm momming it up, like I do, have that 56 00:04:33,680 --> 00:04:40,720 like congratulatory a parade, I'm like, look at it's like just to be 57 00:04:41,279 --> 00:04:44,000 just to act like a lot of people act normally. I'm like, look 58 00:04:44,040 --> 00:04:47,360 at me, shopping ingredients at the grocery store, planning ahead, making a 59 00:04:47,480 --> 00:05:00,560 meal. Hey yeah, congoline for one. Yeah, I'm making chicken and 60 00:05:00,759 --> 00:05:04,160 a salad. Okay, all right, right, set on everybody. The 61 00:05:04,319 --> 00:05:08,800 sides. I went back and forth with the side I'm gonna do this side. 62 00:05:08,839 --> 00:05:10,439 No, I'm gonna do this size, No, I'm gonna do this 63 00:05:10,480 --> 00:05:13,759 si well, all she's got a sore mouth from her wisdom teeth, so 64 00:05:13,800 --> 00:05:15,279 I can't do corner in the cops. So never mind that side. Now 65 00:05:15,279 --> 00:05:18,680 I'm back to the side. But at least I knew what the main dish 66 00:05:18,839 --> 00:05:23,839 was. So so I went and I got chicken. I got the I 67 00:05:23,920 --> 00:05:30,240 got I got the uh, the the not the breast, the thighs, 68 00:05:30,240 --> 00:05:34,560 just the thighs, boneless, skin less thighs. And then I got uh 69 00:05:35,120 --> 00:05:40,959 drumsticks. But I got drumsticks with the bone and the skin. I was 70 00:05:41,000 --> 00:05:43,720 just trying to mix it all crazy. Yeah, you're trying a little bit 71 00:05:43,720 --> 00:05:49,040 of what's gonna happen right right enis but then you got drumsticks with the skin 72 00:05:49,120 --> 00:05:55,199 on. Yeah, no, woman, all right, crazy right, a 73 00:05:55,279 --> 00:05:58,000 little bit of this and a little bit of that. You're in the grocery 74 00:05:58,120 --> 00:06:00,519 store with two kinds and people are like, what are you do with that? 75 00:06:00,680 --> 00:06:02,399 You're like, I'm going, what do you want from me? I'm 76 00:06:02,439 --> 00:06:09,040 gonna get both. So I did. I got, so I got home 77 00:06:09,519 --> 00:06:13,759 and then I made my own because I know both of the kids. They 78 00:06:14,079 --> 00:06:17,000 both don't like the same things. So but I one thing I do know 79 00:06:17,120 --> 00:06:20,800 is they like lemon chicken. Oh, but they've been eating a lot of 80 00:06:20,920 --> 00:06:26,839 Olga's lemon chicken that she's been making with her own whatever. And I haven't 81 00:06:26,879 --> 00:06:30,639 made lemon chicken in a long time. So I we have a lemon tree. 82 00:06:30,079 --> 00:06:33,519 I was like, I'm gonna make lemon Chickeny you got a lemon tree. 83 00:06:33,600 --> 00:06:36,360 Yeah, I got a lemon tree. I didn't even have to buy 84 00:06:36,519 --> 00:06:44,920 the lemon. I think our last show, you really planned ahead. I 85 00:06:45,120 --> 00:06:47,720 grew in my like ten years, planted a lemon tree. You're like, 86 00:06:47,800 --> 00:06:53,399 I'm gonna freaking show that Stephanie in ten years. It's on. That's right. 87 00:06:54,000 --> 00:06:58,120 In fact, picked my own lemons out of my lemon tree. Who 88 00:06:58,199 --> 00:07:03,120 are you? By the way? You my house is under siege by the 89 00:07:03,199 --> 00:07:09,600 way of spiders? Yes, oh no word. Has anybody ran into these 90 00:07:09,720 --> 00:07:13,560 issues with spiders. I'm on next door app so I'm not the only one 91 00:07:13,680 --> 00:07:18,199 people are walking there's I took pictures. I mean, I don't want to 92 00:07:18,319 --> 00:07:21,839 like post a man people hate like OHM post pictures of spiders. It looks 93 00:07:21,839 --> 00:07:28,959 all the same, but they're these huge spiders with big webs. There's one 94 00:07:29,240 --> 00:07:33,199 outside of every window of our house. What one side of the door, 95 00:07:33,519 --> 00:07:36,800 right, by Sunny's bedroom when you walk out, if you walked out the 96 00:07:36,879 --> 00:07:41,639 back door by Sunny's bedroom, you're gonna walk right. Nobody walks out of 97 00:07:41,639 --> 00:07:46,439 there because the guy's taken over. He's his web is all in front of 98 00:07:46,480 --> 00:07:51,879 the door. Are you running into any spiders? And you Caleb, you 99 00:07:53,199 --> 00:07:59,759 with the neighborhood that you live in your hills and we're right now. It's 100 00:08:00,160 --> 00:08:05,319 mosquitoes are the problem. It's mosquitoes too. I'm getting eaten in my house. 101 00:08:05,800 --> 00:08:09,879 How dare It's terrible. It's no, and I can't. You can't 102 00:08:09,959 --> 00:08:13,399 kill him. It's really hard to kill him. Oh I got mosquito bites 103 00:08:13,439 --> 00:08:16,959 all over my me. Yeah, it's everywhere. But you've got that and 104 00:08:16,279 --> 00:08:20,360 spiders and spiders. Yeah, I think it's your neighborhood because I I haven't 105 00:08:20,360 --> 00:08:26,240 seen any spiders. Yeah really, Oh my god, there's there's there's four 106 00:08:26,519 --> 00:08:31,959 or five in different spots of our house outside, not inside, but outside. 107 00:08:31,000 --> 00:08:33,879 I did almost run into a black widow the other day, though there's 108 00:08:33,919 --> 00:08:37,240 black widows in our neighborhood. I was doing my pawn work and I was 109 00:08:37,279 --> 00:08:41,080 cleaning a waterfall, and like I just I looked at the spider got really 110 00:08:41,080 --> 00:08:43,399 close in my hand. I was like, wow, that spiders really black, 111 00:08:43,559 --> 00:08:46,559 and I go, oh fuck, that's a black widow. And then 112 00:08:46,600 --> 00:08:48,799 it was kind of cool to watch it. But yeah, I was very 113 00:08:48,879 --> 00:08:52,919 close to accidentally just brushing over it. And I don't know, you can 114 00:08:54,000 --> 00:08:56,519 a black widow can kill you, right, I don't know they could eat 115 00:08:56,559 --> 00:09:01,080 you alive. I don't know. I'm scared of the brown recluse. Oh 116 00:09:01,120 --> 00:09:09,519 there's the brown recluse in our neighborhood too. No, there's in our neighborhood. 117 00:09:09,559 --> 00:09:13,840 On the next door app, there's a video of one of our neighbors 118 00:09:13,080 --> 00:09:18,639 showing one of their spiders that they have that's out of control. That's that's 119 00:09:18,720 --> 00:09:24,480 taken over their house, taken down a monarch butterfly like video of like a 120 00:09:24,639 --> 00:09:30,679 nature video. Yes, like got the freaking butterfly in his web and he's 121 00:09:30,799 --> 00:09:35,840 like taking him. He's eating him. Oh no yeah yeah yeah, yes. 122 00:09:35,279 --> 00:09:39,399 So my point was getting the lemon tree outside. Yeah. I had 123 00:09:39,440 --> 00:09:46,120 to bob and weave like that's I'm trying to get the you know, it's 124 00:09:46,159 --> 00:09:52,519 like apocalypse now, like, you know, I look out for freaking spiders. 125 00:09:52,799 --> 00:09:56,080 Oh god, the brown recluse and let's not forget that point. I 126 00:09:56,080 --> 00:10:01,159 would just shoot the lemons out of the tree. Let's ever get brown bears 127 00:10:01,200 --> 00:10:05,559 in my neighborhood too, Yes, yes, oh my god. He took 128 00:10:05,720 --> 00:10:09,519 video of brown bears. That was another thing. Yeah, survival. I 129 00:10:09,600 --> 00:10:13,159 have a couple of clients actually in your neighborhood. And I get to the 130 00:10:13,200 --> 00:10:15,960 one person's house and they go, oh, yes, they're pawn. You 131 00:10:16,000 --> 00:10:16,279 have to take care of it. Twice a day. You know, we 132 00:10:16,320 --> 00:10:20,200 have a bear that comes by. I go, does it come by during 133 00:10:20,240 --> 00:10:26,480 the day? Is it? Is it angry? Should I have honey? 134 00:10:26,360 --> 00:10:30,799 Do I need to put keep my head on a spa? And I told 135 00:10:30,840 --> 00:10:33,679 Patrick, He's like, yeah you do. They're around, Yes, fuck, 136 00:10:33,919 --> 00:10:37,519 there they are. I'm telling you, I should show you the videos. 137 00:10:37,559 --> 00:10:41,039 There's videos of brown bears everywhere in our neighborhood. And mama bear with 138 00:10:41,120 --> 00:10:45,679 the little baby ones too, that following them around up and down the street. 139 00:10:45,759 --> 00:10:48,639 But you don't hear about any like bear attacks. And you're now there's 140 00:10:48,720 --> 00:10:58,600 not there's no bears like friendly bears, their chill hey boo boo, totally 141 00:10:58,720 --> 00:11:03,519 like Winnie the Pooh, like they're totally fine. Right, Yeah, but 142 00:11:03,879 --> 00:11:07,840 really it was what I could use them for. It kills fucking spiders. 143 00:11:07,879 --> 00:11:11,679 But anyway, so as I was getting the lemons out of the lemon tree, 144 00:11:11,159 --> 00:11:15,519 I had a bob and weep. So anyway, the night before I 145 00:11:15,679 --> 00:11:18,480 got I got the dinner ready, so I made I took the lemons, 146 00:11:20,200 --> 00:11:26,039 squeeze them like made like almost like a whole bowl of juice, and then 147 00:11:26,799 --> 00:11:31,080 diced up really thin like like you've seen this like in the in Good Fellas, 148 00:11:31,120 --> 00:11:33,480 how and they're in jail. I was gonna say, when they're in 149 00:11:33,559 --> 00:11:39,279 prison, prison with the garlic and how they're using the razorblade straight right like 150 00:11:39,639 --> 00:11:48,080 really like thin garlic cut up. And then Basil took the basil chopped up 151 00:11:48,120 --> 00:11:50,360 Basil, did you put it in the lemon juice? Put it all in 152 00:11:50,399 --> 00:11:54,919 the lemon juice making a juice? Yes, and then a little bit of 153 00:11:56,279 --> 00:12:00,720 salt, some salt and pepper, but that yes, yes. But what 154 00:12:00,879 --> 00:12:03,799 I did is take the corsalt, and because when I cleaned the chicken, 155 00:12:03,159 --> 00:12:07,600 I rub it really good with the salt, with the Corse salt, you 156 00:12:07,679 --> 00:12:11,039 know. So anyway, so then uh, salm pepper, and then I 157 00:12:11,200 --> 00:12:16,159 just marinated the chicken like in a bowl and then he just covered it and 158 00:12:16,200 --> 00:12:20,360 put the fridge. Yeah okay, yeah, all of the pieces, like 159 00:12:20,559 --> 00:12:24,440 all of it, okay all and I would stuff the skin with all the 160 00:12:24,600 --> 00:12:28,919 like the garlic and everything. But then I was like, oh God, 161 00:12:28,080 --> 00:12:31,559 is the garlic gonna be like land mines? Because my mom would make land 162 00:12:31,600 --> 00:12:37,480 mine salad. She would have like you know, the old school Italian dressing 163 00:12:37,799 --> 00:12:43,919 with the the packet, the packet of like seven seas. Yeah yeah, 164 00:12:43,000 --> 00:12:48,000 yeah yeah. So my mom would make that, but she would never like 165 00:12:48,240 --> 00:12:52,559 mix it up really well, so there would be land mines the powder rub 166 00:12:52,720 --> 00:12:56,919 the powder. Wendy used to call him land mine salad. So I was 167 00:12:58,000 --> 00:13:00,360 like, oh no, am I gonna be like my mom? It's Mike 168 00:13:00,480 --> 00:13:03,559 and am I in a landmine garlic in the thing. But Wendy was like 169 00:13:03,639 --> 00:13:05,440 no, because like when you bake it at garlic kind of like kind of 170 00:13:05,519 --> 00:13:09,159 melts all the way, like it's you know in it. It kind of 171 00:13:09,240 --> 00:13:13,480 kind of like, you know, I love the idea of you doing this, 172 00:13:13,679 --> 00:13:18,320 but having to call Aunt Wendy to a constantly yeah like wait because I'm 173 00:13:18,559 --> 00:13:22,039 you know, I member me chicken in a while, like do I come? 174 00:13:22,120 --> 00:13:24,720 I always forget do I cook it covered or uncovered? And then if 175 00:13:24,759 --> 00:13:28,559 it's boneless, how long is it is it? I'm all ears, you 176 00:13:28,639 --> 00:13:31,039 know what I as? Yeah? Is it covered? Recovered? So I'll 177 00:13:31,159 --> 00:13:35,720 uncover she said. So, so I put it in at four twenty five 178 00:13:35,919 --> 00:13:39,360 for five minutes uncovered, and then turned it down to three fifty and cooked 179 00:13:39,399 --> 00:13:45,200 it for a good hour at three fifty. Just the boneless thighs needs every 180 00:13:45,320 --> 00:13:48,159 hour, every all of it. Just that's how long I cooked it. 181 00:13:48,200 --> 00:13:50,559 Okay, did you put it in a high rex? M Okay? So 182 00:13:50,879 --> 00:13:56,000 I marinated overnight in a big bowl, right, and then I laid it 183 00:13:56,080 --> 00:14:00,919 out. Yeah. And then so then Natalia tells me her boyfriend's gonna stay 184 00:14:00,960 --> 00:14:05,440 for dinner. Oh, and You're like that's fine. Yeah, hello, 185 00:14:05,639 --> 00:14:07,840 I just cooked dinner, that's right. And I was praying secretly, praying 186 00:14:07,879 --> 00:14:11,360 it comes out good. Yeah. So I'm like, wait, okay, 187 00:14:11,399 --> 00:14:13,279 now hold on. Now I got somebody else that like, like, I 188 00:14:13,399 --> 00:14:16,600 know, sunny in Italia what they like. But I'm like, wait, 189 00:14:16,679 --> 00:14:18,279 but what is he like? Does he like tomatoes? Is he not? 190 00:14:18,320 --> 00:14:24,200 Because she doesn't like tomato? Laa? But anyway, he likes everything. 191 00:14:24,440 --> 00:14:30,559 So I made I made the chicken. I made it with with tomato medala. 192 00:14:31,000 --> 00:14:37,000 It took it like the red and the yellow tomatoes with the mazzazza la 193 00:14:37,080 --> 00:14:45,799 balls, earls and mozzarella, avocado cut up, salt, pepper and olive 194 00:14:45,879 --> 00:14:50,799 oil and basil and mixed all that. That was bomb. That was so 195 00:14:50,000 --> 00:14:54,879 good. That was yummy because it was like the avocado with the mozzarella and 196 00:14:56,919 --> 00:15:01,559 the tomatoes, the melody of the tomatoes, the calla the red. That 197 00:15:01,720 --> 00:15:05,000 was good. Vinegar too, No, I didn't put any vinegar, for 198 00:15:05,039 --> 00:15:07,159 god, I do olive oil and like a little vinegar juice. Yeah, 199 00:15:07,240 --> 00:15:09,200 that would have been good. That would have been good. Yeah, So 200 00:15:09,480 --> 00:15:13,039 I did. Okay, So I had that for salad, and then I 201 00:15:13,120 --> 00:15:16,000 had uh And then I was gonna go like corn on the cob, not 202 00:15:16,120 --> 00:15:18,480 corn on the cob, but again with her mouth, so I didn't. 203 00:15:18,879 --> 00:15:22,039 So then I did, Oh, rice peel off. So I made rice 204 00:15:22,120 --> 00:15:26,440 pelaf. Oh my god, when you were first talking about sides, I 205 00:15:26,639 --> 00:15:30,039 literally pictured rice peel off. He did, like that goes really well with 206 00:15:30,120 --> 00:15:33,960 a lemon chicken. Yes, And my kids aren't. They don't where they've 207 00:15:35,000 --> 00:15:37,799 never really had rice pelo And I love it and I'm like, and I 208 00:15:37,919 --> 00:15:41,200 know they like rice, but they're like, you know, they're okay with 209 00:15:41,279 --> 00:15:43,600 it. And I'm like, you guys are gonna love this rice. They 210 00:15:43,960 --> 00:15:46,799 loved it, loved it, ate it all gone. I wish I would 211 00:15:46,799 --> 00:15:50,960 have made two boxes of it that was like gone, and her boyfriend loved 212 00:15:52,000 --> 00:15:56,279 it, and what else did I make? And then and so so I 213 00:15:56,440 --> 00:16:00,720 marinate everything. The night before the night of Sunday night dinner comes along and 214 00:16:02,159 --> 00:16:04,399 Natalia is like, her boyfriend's over. They're doing homework. What time are 215 00:16:04,399 --> 00:16:07,080 we going to eat? I'm like six thirty. I time it so that 216 00:16:07,120 --> 00:16:11,919 we eat at sixth Sunny's watching football. I'm like, okay, dinner is 217 00:16:11,960 --> 00:16:15,240 gonna be ready. Sonny's down, call them to come eat. I lay 218 00:16:15,320 --> 00:16:22,200 everything out. I feel like I'm missing something anyway. Maybe it was the 219 00:16:22,279 --> 00:16:27,559 baggett of bread, but so lay everything out. They come out, they 220 00:16:27,639 --> 00:16:36,399 make themselves a dish and they leave. Natalia and her boyfriend. Sonny was 221 00:16:36,480 --> 00:16:37,919 like, had on, mom, I'm sitting here with you. So he 222 00:16:38,279 --> 00:16:42,159 ate with me. But Natalian and her boyfriend they leave. They go and 223 00:16:42,279 --> 00:16:45,600 like, we're gonna go eat in the other room. Well, there's no 224 00:16:45,799 --> 00:16:48,759 reason for me to really have a dining room table. And by the way, 225 00:16:48,799 --> 00:16:52,200 this is my fault. I've trained them to be to go do your 226 00:16:52,200 --> 00:16:55,480 own thing, right, but it is kind of sad when you're like our 227 00:16:55,759 --> 00:17:02,960 dining room table just stores like arts, just crap, school stuff, Alby's 228 00:17:02,960 --> 00:17:08,200 computer and yeah, it's what I'll do one one better. Yeah, I 229 00:17:08,319 --> 00:17:14,200 will literally make food and then take a plate to each of their bedrooms because 230 00:17:14,319 --> 00:17:17,720 I know they're not coming. I mean him, I have to knock it 231 00:17:18,480 --> 00:17:25,319 Xander and yeah, I've made a meal. It's pathetic, pathetic what I've 232 00:17:25,359 --> 00:17:27,160 trained them, how I've trained them. And the same with John. It's 233 00:17:27,200 --> 00:17:30,799 not even like John and I sit together like John's made himself kind of at 234 00:17:30,839 --> 00:17:34,880 home. We have this now that we have like this office area and I 235 00:17:36,039 --> 00:17:41,200 took one of one wall of desks out and there's a little futon couch there 236 00:17:41,680 --> 00:17:45,599 and John's made that like his day bed, like he hangs out there. 237 00:17:45,759 --> 00:17:48,200 That's his spot. So every and when I come in in the morning, 238 00:17:48,240 --> 00:17:52,000 I've been walking people. Again. If I come in, she goes right 239 00:17:52,200 --> 00:17:55,519 straight to the back of the house to go say hi to John in his 240 00:17:55,680 --> 00:17:59,920 spot. So I'm like, bring John his meal, Bring Xander his meal. 241 00:18:00,200 --> 00:18:02,799 Bring Sadie her meal. If Elbie's home, bring her. I mean, 242 00:18:02,880 --> 00:18:06,359 it's like the dogs. The only one that you that you can call 243 00:18:06,480 --> 00:18:08,759 and say, hey, where you eat every day? You better come here 244 00:18:08,799 --> 00:18:12,359 and eat, except that on meal, on a night that I have made 245 00:18:12,480 --> 00:18:17,000 something, then she will just go from person to person. He's going to 246 00:18:17,079 --> 00:18:21,960 offer her a scrap. It's usually not me, it's like sad right, 247 00:18:22,480 --> 00:18:26,440 right, yeah, that's uh. They took off and I was like, 248 00:18:26,599 --> 00:18:30,359 I was picturing us all sitting down eating dinner together. Yeah, and I 249 00:18:30,480 --> 00:18:32,880 was like, wait, where are you two going? Well, they're watching 250 00:18:32,960 --> 00:18:37,720 the game and they can't watch it because there's no TV and where we where 251 00:18:37,759 --> 00:18:41,640 the dining room table is. So but then they can't watch it in the 252 00:18:41,680 --> 00:18:45,000 living room because Phil we'll sit there and wat you know, and Natalia doesn't 253 00:18:45,039 --> 00:18:48,400 want Phil around, and I can't put Phil outside because he gets out. 254 00:18:48,440 --> 00:18:53,960 He's been getting out anyway. So so they go off into Adam's office to 255 00:18:55,039 --> 00:18:57,519 watch it because they could sit there and watch football right in front and eat 256 00:18:57,920 --> 00:19:02,880 with the door closed, nobody bothering. That fell right, And then me 257 00:19:03,000 --> 00:19:06,920 and Sunny are just sitting in the kitchen eating by yourself. 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Elby went away for the weekend on 293 00:22:06,519 --> 00:22:11,720 her own, flew by herself, first time. Really, Yeah, made 294 00:22:11,759 --> 00:22:15,759 her own plane reservation. Wow, she did everything on her own. So 295 00:22:18,319 --> 00:22:22,160 yes, I dropped her off at the airport. Now, Elbi does have 296 00:22:22,240 --> 00:22:26,119 anxiety, so it was kind of it was I'm gonna say it was almost 297 00:22:26,200 --> 00:22:30,559 cute because she was all bold. She was. She went to go visit 298 00:22:30,640 --> 00:22:34,720 She has two good friends at Berkeley, and one of her friends it was 299 00:22:34,759 --> 00:22:41,440 their birthday and the mom was going into town too. So the girl's mom 300 00:22:41,559 --> 00:22:45,839 right, all right, yeah, I'm listening. The girl's mom was going 301 00:22:45,880 --> 00:22:52,200 into it was also coming to visit her daughter. So it turned out that 302 00:22:52,359 --> 00:22:56,200 Elby was on the same flight as the girl's mom, very randomly, because 303 00:22:56,200 --> 00:23:00,519 they were flying out a burbank. Wow, yeah, did Oakland right? 304 00:23:02,000 --> 00:23:06,519 Right? So anyway, Elbe was all excited. The ticket was not cheap, 305 00:23:06,960 --> 00:23:10,400 but she's been working a lot of hours. She just buy it recently 306 00:23:10,559 --> 00:23:14,839 is that. Yeah, yeah, has it gone up well the sooner like 307 00:23:15,319 --> 00:23:19,359 you got a more in advanced did ahead of time? Yeah? So anyway, 308 00:23:19,400 --> 00:23:25,759 though, she she I dropped her off at the gate at the airport, 309 00:23:25,880 --> 00:23:29,000 at the terminal, I should say, and then I started getting the 310 00:23:29,039 --> 00:23:33,920 texts, you know do I? So she oh, because last minute she 311 00:23:33,960 --> 00:23:37,039 found out she was going to have to check a bag because you know, 312 00:23:37,240 --> 00:23:40,359 she was just going for the weekend, so she just had a carry on. 313 00:23:40,960 --> 00:23:42,319 But then her friend was like, you have to bring a sleeping bag 314 00:23:42,559 --> 00:23:47,559 because there's nowhere really for you to sleep. Oh, so she had to 315 00:23:47,680 --> 00:23:52,680 check the bag. It's so funny on the way for the way home, 316 00:23:52,799 --> 00:23:55,960 and I don't know what she did. I literally don't know because I'll find 317 00:23:55,960 --> 00:23:57,680 out when I get home. But I told her, I was like, 318 00:23:57,759 --> 00:24:00,960 you know what if it's a pain in the ad, because you know what, 319 00:24:00,119 --> 00:24:04,640 we wrapped it in a in a like a leaf and lawn trash bag 320 00:24:06,519 --> 00:24:10,440 because it's very awkward to pack a sleeping bag, right, So I was 321 00:24:10,559 --> 00:24:12,079 just like, just we'll put it in a trash bag and then we taped 322 00:24:12,119 --> 00:24:15,240 it and then we put a tag on it with her name, and then 323 00:24:15,400 --> 00:24:18,319 she checked it that way. But then I hadn't thought it through, like, 324 00:24:18,440 --> 00:24:22,240 well, when she has to open the bag to take her sleeping bag 325 00:24:22,319 --> 00:24:23,440 out, how's she going to re So I was like, you know what, 326 00:24:25,160 --> 00:24:27,079 I mean, she doesn't really go to summer camp, and she could 327 00:24:27,079 --> 00:24:30,720 just leave it there. Just leave it there for their next guest to use. 328 00:24:32,200 --> 00:24:33,319 I don't know if they have room in their dorm room for a sleeping 329 00:24:33,359 --> 00:24:37,359 bag, but I was like, if you need a sleeping bag, Xander 330 00:24:37,480 --> 00:24:41,440 also has one. Right. They start using sleeping bags less and less if 331 00:24:41,480 --> 00:24:44,759 you're like us and you've never in your life gone camping, right right, 332 00:24:45,160 --> 00:24:48,279 exactly, then they use it for camp and you know, or they used 333 00:24:48,319 --> 00:24:52,200 to use it for like a sleepover at someone's house if you're sleeping on the 334 00:24:52,240 --> 00:24:56,400 floor, right, But nowadays kids usually have a better couch for Anyway, 335 00:24:56,799 --> 00:24:59,440 I was like, I don't know when you're gonna really need your sleeping bag 336 00:24:59,519 --> 00:25:00,960 next, so just leave it. Yeah, I was less, they could 337 00:25:02,000 --> 00:25:03,640 probably use it over there. I mean, think about the people coming and 338 00:25:03,839 --> 00:25:11,799 staying and exactly exactly. But anyway, I digress to say that she was 339 00:25:11,960 --> 00:25:15,319 very cute and she was texting me. Well, I told her I was 340 00:25:15,359 --> 00:25:18,759 gonna I was gonna kind of pull over and wait and just in case there 341 00:25:18,880 --> 00:25:21,759 was trouble. But as soon as she walked in, I was like, 342 00:25:21,920 --> 00:25:23,599 well, I don't know what kind of trouble I'm gonna hup with, Like 343 00:25:23,799 --> 00:25:27,359 what am I going to go part like park and come in? Like she'll 344 00:25:27,400 --> 00:25:30,400 figure it out just as easily as I could figure it out. I was 345 00:25:30,480 --> 00:25:33,279 like, it went in. Dao just asked somebody. There's a million air 346 00:25:33,680 --> 00:25:37,079 airplane right airplane employees, you know what I mean. Yeah. She was 347 00:25:37,119 --> 00:25:41,039 like okay, but I get a text. I so I pull away and 348 00:25:41,119 --> 00:25:44,759 then I get a text from her. She's like, hey, do I 349 00:25:44,880 --> 00:25:51,680 go to TSA pre screen or regular? So she'd never heard of that before. 350 00:25:51,720 --> 00:25:52,400 So I was like, well you have to go to regular And she 351 00:25:52,480 --> 00:25:55,559 was like okay, well what's pre screen? And I was like, well 352 00:25:55,599 --> 00:25:59,039 that's for people that it's a whole thing. Don't worry about it right now. 353 00:25:59,079 --> 00:26:02,519 It's a whole shot. You have to bring ID, you have to 354 00:26:02,640 --> 00:26:03,799 do a whole thing, and you didn't do it, so you have to 355 00:26:03,880 --> 00:26:07,400 go to a regular And she was like oh okay, and then she's sending 356 00:26:07,480 --> 00:26:11,920 me tech. She's like I made it through security, and I'm like, 357 00:26:11,160 --> 00:26:17,240 yes, look at you go. She can do whatever she wants. Yes, 358 00:26:17,960 --> 00:26:21,400 she wanted to get there really early because she we were going to stop 359 00:26:21,440 --> 00:26:22,599 for coffee, and she was like, no, I'd rather just get to 360 00:26:22,680 --> 00:26:26,799 the airport. So she was like a good hour and fifteen minutes early. 361 00:26:26,319 --> 00:26:32,720 So in a small airport, not even like lax It's, she had plenty 362 00:26:32,759 --> 00:26:36,240 of time. Yeah. Anyway, so she got her bag checked with the 363 00:26:36,319 --> 00:26:38,480 self checked Kiosk, then she got through security. Then she's all proud of 364 00:26:38,519 --> 00:26:44,119 herself. And then she ran into her friend's mom at the gate, and 365 00:26:44,160 --> 00:26:48,119 then they flew together, and then they both they ubered to the school, 366 00:26:48,359 --> 00:26:52,079 and then she's had a I think a crazy weekend. I haven't. Here's 367 00:26:52,079 --> 00:26:56,079 the thing that I was going to tell you. I and I know a 368 00:26:56,200 --> 00:27:00,640 lot of moms can relate to this, but also a lot of us are 369 00:27:00,680 --> 00:27:06,920 really trying to be better with this. I really tried to just let her 370 00:27:07,000 --> 00:27:12,160 have fun and not life three sixty her constantly because I kind of wanted to 371 00:27:12,359 --> 00:27:15,920 just to be like, well, I had to talk with her before she 372 00:27:17,039 --> 00:27:19,960 left, and I was like, look, don't go stay with a friend 373 00:27:21,400 --> 00:27:25,519 the whole time. Do not go wandering off with any guys that you meet. 374 00:27:26,400 --> 00:27:32,519 I think she's a little bit still sad about her situation, right, 375 00:27:32,920 --> 00:27:36,680 you know. And I was like, I and you guys all know that 376 00:27:36,799 --> 00:27:41,039 Elbi is definitely not a big drinker. She's had a couple of things where 377 00:27:41,079 --> 00:27:45,519 she drink too much a couple of times over years. She's eighteen, alrighty, 378 00:27:45,920 --> 00:27:49,519 So I was like, but who knows if she's going to be maybe 379 00:27:49,599 --> 00:27:53,000 having some revenge drinking, you know a little bit of like yeah, fuck 380 00:27:53,119 --> 00:27:56,960 all that I'm gonna go crazy and have some fun. I don't think she 381 00:27:56,200 --> 00:27:59,480 is. She's not like me, but who knows. So I was like, 382 00:27:59,599 --> 00:28:07,000 listen, if you have drinks, don't go wander off with some Don't 383 00:28:07,079 --> 00:28:10,240 go wander off with some guy in a frat house to his room. I 384 00:28:10,359 --> 00:28:14,279 was like, it's just a really great way to get like assaulted. Yeah. 385 00:28:14,759 --> 00:28:18,200 It's like she was like, Mom, don't worry. We all already 386 00:28:18,240 --> 00:28:21,519 have like a girl code. Like my friends already told me that they make 387 00:28:21,559 --> 00:28:25,359 it a big point to like stick with one friend. Big girls that are 388 00:28:25,400 --> 00:28:29,160 at college there like mat people stick together. Like yeah, I was like, 389 00:28:29,200 --> 00:28:30,759 you don't want to get picked off by like oh, who's this new 390 00:28:32,119 --> 00:28:34,880 new kid? She's drunk, Like, don't you're gonna lose your phone? 391 00:28:36,319 --> 00:28:37,880 Like, make sure your phone's charged up. I was trying not to be 392 00:28:38,079 --> 00:28:41,400 too extra about it, but I was like, you know, you're out 393 00:28:41,480 --> 00:28:45,359 of college. Just be careful, right right. You don't go to the 394 00:28:45,400 --> 00:28:48,240 school. You don't know these people, you know, you just say your 395 00:28:48,279 --> 00:28:51,559 friends. So anyway, she told me she would, So then I tried 396 00:28:51,599 --> 00:28:53,079 to have some trust and not like, what am I gonna do. I'm 397 00:28:53,119 --> 00:28:56,960 not gonna start texting her at midnight? Where are you? Whose room are 398 00:28:56,000 --> 00:28:59,759 you in? Exactly? So I was like, it's not going to do 399 00:28:59,839 --> 00:29:03,720 me that much good to even see right where she is, and it's going 400 00:29:03,799 --> 00:29:07,279 to make me worry because I know her phone is going to be losing charge 401 00:29:07,400 --> 00:29:08,680 and then I'm going to be going like, oh my god, her phone's 402 00:29:08,680 --> 00:29:11,160 at six percent? What is she doing? She needs to get a charge? 403 00:29:15,000 --> 00:29:21,200 You are with your door to ask you to charge her? Yeah? 404 00:29:21,359 --> 00:29:25,000 I mean, and I remember, like last I feel like it was last 405 00:29:25,079 --> 00:29:30,079 Christmas. I got all the kids those portable charges and they already ever seen 406 00:29:30,160 --> 00:29:34,440 them take wine? Now? I know, I get so upset when my 407 00:29:34,559 --> 00:29:40,599 kids are out of charge. Yeah, like I depend on you being able 408 00:29:40,680 --> 00:29:44,400 to contact me if you need me, you know, so, and I'm 409 00:29:44,440 --> 00:29:47,519 like, my sorry, I just have to point out that I have a 410 00:29:47,799 --> 00:29:51,839 pretty old iPhone at this point, and you know, like whenever the new 411 00:29:51,880 --> 00:29:56,440 ones come out, they make the older ones really slow and the battery gets 412 00:29:56,480 --> 00:29:59,839 worse. My phone is so slow and the batteries batter that I don't have 413 00:30:00,000 --> 00:30:03,000 with me today. But I pretty much live with like a portable charger attached 414 00:30:03,039 --> 00:30:06,680 to it, and I just have to have my small phone and then a 415 00:30:06,720 --> 00:30:11,400 big ass like charger with it at all times. I just need to get 416 00:30:11,440 --> 00:30:14,440 a new one. But yeah, I'm constantly just yeah, my phone is 417 00:30:14,480 --> 00:30:17,000 just it's like a phone and a charger to get right at this point, 418 00:30:17,000 --> 00:30:18,759 just taking up all my He's got a new ish phone. I mean, 419 00:30:18,920 --> 00:30:22,880 I guess it's not that new, but it's newer than mine. She's got 420 00:30:22,000 --> 00:30:27,559 in twelve or thirteen, and it loses charge so fast. Well, the 421 00:30:27,640 --> 00:30:32,880 girls their phones, I don't know what are they're doing why their phones that 422 00:30:33,440 --> 00:30:37,599 they do their phone charged, Like I'll be watching, like I can see 423 00:30:37,599 --> 00:30:41,079 it in Italian is on the app that I have the Life three sixty or 424 00:30:41,119 --> 00:30:45,400 whatever tells you like how much juice she's got or whatever, and then next 425 00:30:45,440 --> 00:30:47,480 thing, you know, like two hours later, I'm looking and she's down 426 00:30:47,519 --> 00:30:49,720 to like three percent. What are they doing? I don't know what they 427 00:30:49,799 --> 00:30:55,599 powering a power jet? Like like like what are they making a constant documentary? 428 00:30:55,759 --> 00:30:59,960 I know, filming, you know, twenty four seven. I didn't 429 00:31:00,039 --> 00:31:03,480 know. I know. It's crazy. It's like they're they're charged and now 430 00:31:03,519 --> 00:31:07,039 they're down to nothing. Maybe they have like eighteen apps open on their phones. 431 00:31:07,119 --> 00:31:11,039 They're like instagramming and snap chatting and twittering and at the same time, 432 00:31:11,319 --> 00:31:15,079 Yeah, because it takes me all day, I wake up, I charge 433 00:31:15,119 --> 00:31:18,440 it overnight. I don't you know, most of the time, I don't 434 00:31:18,480 --> 00:31:22,480 have to recharge my phone. This bitch got charging your phone like all the 435 00:31:22,599 --> 00:31:26,960 time. Yes, yes, constant, but yeah, Sonny's got the thing 436 00:31:27,200 --> 00:31:33,079 that's attached to his phone. So I did. I'm not perfect. I'm 437 00:31:33,119 --> 00:31:36,920 a work in progress. I did like three sixty or a couple times earlier, 438 00:31:37,640 --> 00:31:40,359 and I did see that she was running out of charge, and then 439 00:31:40,400 --> 00:31:45,480 it made me so like uh that I just was like I can't look. 440 00:31:45,000 --> 00:31:49,720 But then I did get I checked one more time. I forgot when it 441 00:31:49,880 --> 00:31:52,079 was. Maybe it was like eleven o'clock at night. Maybe this was like 442 00:31:52,160 --> 00:31:56,880 on the first night, and it was back up to like seventy percent. 443 00:31:56,039 --> 00:32:01,119 And the feeling of like happiness over to my whole body was better than any 444 00:32:01,200 --> 00:32:09,559 like drug or alcohol high. Seeing that green battery, yes, like you 445 00:32:09,680 --> 00:32:15,039 can relax. It got to a charge. I felt so serene. I 446 00:32:15,160 --> 00:32:17,240 was like, oh, this is so good. This is a good feeling. 447 00:32:17,680 --> 00:32:22,160 But then I was just like, why put myself in a situation where 448 00:32:22,319 --> 00:32:24,160 I need to then re check to make sure, you know. I was 449 00:32:24,200 --> 00:32:28,400 like, I'm just not going to keep checking. So I texted with her 450 00:32:28,519 --> 00:32:30,519 very infrequently, but she sent me a couple of pictures. She seemed like 451 00:32:30,599 --> 00:32:35,240 she was having a fantastic time. That's good. Yeah, they went into 452 00:32:35,279 --> 00:32:39,559 San Francisco with the friend and her mom on whatever Saturday. They had a 453 00:32:39,599 --> 00:32:44,680 great day. They went to dinner and they went to parties and you know, 454 00:32:45,240 --> 00:32:47,440 that's nice, that's awesome. Sent me some pictures she looks super happy 455 00:32:47,519 --> 00:32:52,440 and then she's flying back. So the last text I got from her, 456 00:32:52,519 --> 00:32:55,200 she was like, I'm in an uber on my way home, but I 457 00:32:55,279 --> 00:32:59,200 think John's going to have to go get her because yeah, so her flight, 458 00:32:59,240 --> 00:33:00,480 she's probably in the air right now. But then I had to tell 459 00:33:00,519 --> 00:33:02,839 her, which I hate to do, but I was like, if you 460 00:33:02,960 --> 00:33:07,680 have any issues, text dad because I'm recording. Yeah yeah, yeah, 461 00:33:08,400 --> 00:33:12,319 yeah, I do that too. I don't know. Nowadays people put that 462 00:33:12,440 --> 00:33:16,160 little uh notify you know, I'm sleeping. What it is that ye did 463 00:33:16,279 --> 00:33:21,000 not disturb thing? I don't know how to do notifications or silence? Yeah 464 00:33:21,279 --> 00:33:23,119 yeah, but then you know what you can do. You can go notify 465 00:33:23,200 --> 00:33:28,920 anyway. Right, I've done that to my kids many many times, like, 466 00:33:29,039 --> 00:33:37,839 bitch, do not silence my notifications. And then what will happen is 467 00:33:37,920 --> 00:33:45,359 you go notify anyway and then it'll I'm like, oh, you are gonna 468 00:33:45,400 --> 00:33:49,720 see my notification. So what happens if you don't? What if how do 469 00:33:49,799 --> 00:33:53,480 you notify anyway? Like you just hit it like I don't because I've seen 470 00:33:53,559 --> 00:33:59,079 it which says notify any It just notifies anyway, Yeah, pops up just 471 00:33:59,480 --> 00:34:01,720 I don't know if it makes noise, but it like they will see your 472 00:34:01,799 --> 00:34:07,039 mom's going calling you again, your mom's texting you again. Yes. So 473 00:34:07,160 --> 00:34:12,360 it's funny because this weekend Natalia is going to we're going to look at a 474 00:34:12,519 --> 00:34:15,880 college. We're going to Texas. Yeah, you are, this coming weekend, 475 00:34:16,000 --> 00:34:21,159 this coming weekend, this weekend. Okay. Yeah. So she's flying 476 00:34:21,280 --> 00:34:23,800 with her mom, her friend, her mom, she's flying with her other 477 00:34:24,199 --> 00:34:29,400 she's flying with her friend and her friend's mom on Thursday night. And then 478 00:34:29,599 --> 00:34:32,440 I'm coming on Friday because I have something on Thursday. I can't leave. 479 00:34:32,559 --> 00:34:36,960 I have to go Friday morning. So I'm going to go early Friday morning 480 00:34:37,239 --> 00:34:45,440 at a burbank which is nice to Texas, to TCU, TCU Texas Christian 481 00:34:45,559 --> 00:34:49,599 University. Oh didn't I already tell you guys that that was like one of 482 00:34:49,639 --> 00:34:53,559 her I think I told you guys that that was like her early choice decision. 483 00:34:54,480 --> 00:34:59,079 Sounds a little familiar, early decision, early decision, Yeah, oh, 484 00:34:59,199 --> 00:35:04,239 but that you not early action, but actually early to looking like how 485 00:35:04,320 --> 00:35:07,639 much she wants to go there. Yeah. Yeah, because then you're committed. 486 00:35:07,519 --> 00:35:10,440 I know, I know. So that's why we're gonna go look at 487 00:35:10,480 --> 00:35:15,159 it. Okay, So we're gonna go look at it. But it's that 488 00:35:15,400 --> 00:35:20,480 in other schools. But it's a big football school, and Stephanie, you 489 00:35:20,480 --> 00:35:22,480 should know this is the school, right, you know what I'm going next 490 00:35:22,480 --> 00:35:28,320 for now, Yes, that this is the school that that your team beat 491 00:35:28,480 --> 00:35:34,199 first week beat Yes, Colorado? Right? Oh really Dean Sanders Oh okay, 492 00:35:34,320 --> 00:35:37,400 yes, okay, yes, yes, they were like they were gonna, 493 00:35:37,480 --> 00:35:39,039 you know, we're going to digress to talk about that in a few 494 00:35:39,079 --> 00:35:43,840 minutes. It was not pretty. I'm not pretty, I know. Let 495 00:35:43,920 --> 00:35:46,119 me tell you. After our big dinner last night, Sunny and Night took 496 00:35:46,199 --> 00:35:49,519 Phil for a lot, nice long walk. I had to hear about what 497 00:35:49,800 --> 00:35:53,559 must suck to be a Denver fan tonight. Yeah, the Sunday evening. 498 00:35:54,400 --> 00:35:59,119 He had to tell me what it really like. It's got to suck to 499 00:35:59,199 --> 00:36:04,280 be a Denver fan. John told me the championship, they're fine, that's 500 00:36:04,519 --> 00:36:07,199 well, that's true, he did bring that up. But as far as 501 00:36:07,320 --> 00:36:13,599 college and NFL, it sucked to be Endeavor over the week, well because 502 00:36:13,880 --> 00:36:19,840 University of Colorado lost so bad to Oregon University of Oregon, and it was 503 00:36:20,079 --> 00:36:22,480 they just got demul They just got their asses handed to them. And I 504 00:36:22,599 --> 00:36:27,599 was like, wait, I liked football last week. This isn't fun. 505 00:36:28,119 --> 00:36:32,760 This is painful. And then did you hear about on Sunday NFL that Broncos 506 00:36:32,920 --> 00:36:38,119 and like a record, like a record beat, Yeah, like a forty 507 00:36:38,320 --> 00:36:45,400 eight spread. They want seventy twenty yeah, senty to twenty Yeah, pretty 508 00:36:45,440 --> 00:36:51,239 bad. So anyway, back to TCU. So we're going this weekend to 509 00:36:51,320 --> 00:36:53,199 go to go check it out, Okay, and I want Sonny to come 510 00:36:53,280 --> 00:36:55,599 with me, but he's like, I'm not interested in that school. So 511 00:36:55,719 --> 00:36:59,800 I'm on why you know, But I'm like, just for the fun of 512 00:36:59,840 --> 00:37:05,320 it, just to go and look at us college. But anyway, so, 513 00:37:05,519 --> 00:37:07,960 so her and I are going this weekend. Yeah, so we're leaving. 514 00:37:08,159 --> 00:37:12,920 Well, I'm leaving on Friday. She's leaving on Thursday, and she's 515 00:37:12,960 --> 00:37:17,159 gonna have a tour on Friday and then she's gonna show me after because I'm 516 00:37:17,199 --> 00:37:21,000 not gonna be able to be there for the tour, right right. But 517 00:37:21,159 --> 00:37:23,320 it's cool. Yeah, Okay, that's your first one? Is that the 518 00:37:23,400 --> 00:37:28,360 first one for her? For her, no, this will be her second 519 00:37:28,400 --> 00:37:32,559 one. Her first one she went to, uh Miami when I was remember 520 00:37:32,599 --> 00:37:37,360 when I was in Florida, right right right? Thank God for this other 521 00:37:37,440 --> 00:37:39,559 family. It's the second time. Now she's flying out with them. But 522 00:37:40,719 --> 00:37:47,519 but they're go getters. So yeah, so we'll we'll see it's so funny 523 00:37:47,599 --> 00:37:54,280 to have you where I was last year and when I was full of the 524 00:37:54,360 --> 00:38:00,039 hope. Yeah, should we oh Noah, should take a quick break? 525 00:38:02,159 --> 00:38:07,880 Okay, Yeah, we're back. Yeah. I think that's cool. You 526 00:38:07,960 --> 00:38:10,280 know, I think that a lot of the colleges that we went to see 527 00:38:10,559 --> 00:38:15,000 we jumped the gun a little bit. Yeah. I wish I hadn't gotten 528 00:38:15,000 --> 00:38:17,320 her so excited, But you know what, when I think about it, 529 00:38:19,360 --> 00:38:22,960 she loved Santa Barbara. She should have gotten in there. She didn't. 530 00:38:23,320 --> 00:38:27,199 But now she knows that she wants to tell like, we don't have to 531 00:38:27,280 --> 00:38:30,639 do it all again. Right, she knows that that's the school that she's 532 00:38:30,920 --> 00:38:32,679 tagging they call it, right, Yeah, I mean we're going to be 533 00:38:32,719 --> 00:38:38,239 filling out applications. She will be soon. Yeah, the transfer applications are 534 00:38:38,320 --> 00:38:43,079 due a little bit later, and they have to. It's it's hard because, 535 00:38:44,000 --> 00:38:46,000 uh, like, she doesn't have any grades yet. You know, 536 00:38:46,159 --> 00:38:50,159 she only has one class that's been graded, and that was because she took 537 00:38:50,159 --> 00:38:52,559 it the second half of summer. The classes that she's in right now half 538 00:38:52,599 --> 00:38:57,920 a semester. She really needs to finish a semester to to be able to 539 00:38:58,000 --> 00:39:01,599 send over grades, right, right, but uh, yeah, yeah, 540 00:39:01,880 --> 00:39:06,039 she'll be doing it too good. I don't I think I having to write 541 00:39:06,039 --> 00:39:08,480 the essays doing all that shit. Yeah, she's working on her essay, 542 00:39:08,880 --> 00:39:13,880 both of them. Yeah, they both are. Yeah, and they got 543 00:39:13,960 --> 00:39:17,480 a good I really liked their college counselor. He's really great. He's the 544 00:39:17,559 --> 00:39:21,800 same for both of them. And he talked to him about you know, 545 00:39:21,960 --> 00:39:28,480 Natali is on top of everything, Sonny. You know, I think I 546 00:39:28,599 --> 00:39:32,039 think it's still I think that it's it's still early. It's early, but 547 00:39:32,159 --> 00:39:37,840 also like I think he's still couldn't like doesn't know where he wants to go 548 00:39:37,159 --> 00:39:40,320 or what he was gonna ask you. Is he interested in Colorado again now 549 00:39:40,440 --> 00:39:45,679 that their whole football things said they ruined it for him the other way? 550 00:39:45,920 --> 00:39:49,239 Yeah, no, he no, but I think that the Boulder was a 551 00:39:49,360 --> 00:39:52,360 really easy school to get into, but now it's now it's gonna be He's 552 00:39:52,400 --> 00:40:00,280 like, so thanks a lot to your pald Dion Dijon Sanders. That made 553 00:40:00,320 --> 00:40:02,159 it actually harder to go to the school. I don't know. I would 554 00:40:02,199 --> 00:40:07,199 guess people want to go there now because it's exciting, right, That's what 555 00:40:07,320 --> 00:40:08,800 he was saying. He was thinking, like it's probably gonna be harder. 556 00:40:08,880 --> 00:40:13,719 Now he doesn't know for sure, but but he's applying there. I think 557 00:40:13,760 --> 00:40:17,159 he's gonna apply there. And then I think he's really gonna look into this 558 00:40:17,320 --> 00:40:22,800 Columbia School in Chicago because they do have this big, you know, alumni 559 00:40:22,960 --> 00:40:28,519 program out here, and we have friends that have gone there, and then 560 00:40:28,599 --> 00:40:30,800 we also have family that lives out of course. Yeah, that would be 561 00:40:30,960 --> 00:40:36,079 perfect for him. Yeah, so or I don't know, or maybe he 562 00:40:37,039 --> 00:40:39,760 goes to the community college out here and then I don't I don't know. 563 00:40:40,039 --> 00:40:45,039 I don't know. But Natalie's got her plan and she's like on top of 564 00:40:45,159 --> 00:40:50,440 everything, and then I can't believe it's gonna be like it's gonna be the 565 00:40:50,519 --> 00:40:55,039 holidays and like that. It's gonna be you know, Christmas, Thanksgiving and 566 00:40:55,159 --> 00:41:00,840 everything's gonna be like, you know, isn't like things are due November first 567 00:41:00,000 --> 00:41:04,440 and stuff like that, you know, or October first, No, November 568 00:41:04,559 --> 00:41:12,639 first, November first, some stuff. Yeah, the UCS weren't due until 569 00:41:12,719 --> 00:41:16,559 the end of November. I don't think of very many things or do November 570 00:41:16,639 --> 00:41:21,679 first. Maybe early decision, I think that's what it is. Yeah, 571 00:41:22,440 --> 00:41:24,800 but but you're only going to apply to one place early decision, right, 572 00:41:25,199 --> 00:41:30,079 right, you can apply early action to a bunch of places. So early 573 00:41:30,199 --> 00:41:35,000 decision means you're committed, right if they if you're in, you're in. 574 00:41:35,360 --> 00:41:38,719 In less you're supposed to get a certain amount of like financial aid, and 575 00:41:38,719 --> 00:41:42,599 then they don't give you that financial aid, and that's the only reason you 576 00:41:42,679 --> 00:41:45,719 can get out of it. I don't know how they hold people to it, 577 00:41:45,000 --> 00:41:50,840 right, But you know on my college one oh one paying for college 578 00:41:50,880 --> 00:41:55,519 one on one Facebook group, yeah, which there's really absolutely zero cause for 579 00:41:55,599 --> 00:41:59,519 me to be in that group except to like raise my blood pressure and get 580 00:41:59,559 --> 00:42:04,159 mad constantly. And then I have so many times typed out a response and 581 00:42:04,239 --> 00:42:07,840 then just erased it because I'm like why, Yeah, why am I arguing 582 00:42:07,880 --> 00:42:12,079 with? There's no reason to argue with these people, right right? Are 583 00:42:12,119 --> 00:42:16,079 you still in it? I'm in it because people are so crazy, like 584 00:42:16,599 --> 00:42:22,440 entertainment purposes. Can't stop reading the crazy. Yeah, you know what it 585 00:42:22,599 --> 00:42:27,400 is. It makes me feel better about stuff like circling back to the like 586 00:42:27,639 --> 00:42:31,360 checking life three sixty. I always I find that I I'm somewhere in the 587 00:42:31,519 --> 00:42:39,559 spectrum of like very sane parents or or more like free range parents to like 588 00:42:39,800 --> 00:42:47,519 policing every single move. Right. It's like some of these parents act like 589 00:42:47,679 --> 00:42:52,519 they're the ones applying to college. Right. They're like it's almost they have 590 00:42:52,639 --> 00:42:55,159 to keep themselves from writing I applied to this, this, this, and 591 00:42:55,280 --> 00:42:58,639 I'm doing this, and it's like, no, you're not. Your kid 592 00:42:58,840 --> 00:43:01,159 is right, you know, And I think I fall somewhere in there where 593 00:43:01,159 --> 00:43:06,119 I'm like, oh, I need to take a step back. But also 594 00:43:06,239 --> 00:43:09,199 in some ways I'm very free, Like in some ways I've always let my 595 00:43:09,320 --> 00:43:15,280 kids do stuff I think just the whole time. It's such a microcosm of 596 00:43:15,400 --> 00:43:20,119 parenting like this, this these parents who are having kids that are going to 597 00:43:20,320 --> 00:43:25,599 college, right, just shows you how different parents are in the way that, 598 00:43:25,760 --> 00:43:29,039 you know what I'm saying, Like, yeah, when I was when 599 00:43:29,119 --> 00:43:30,840 my kids were younger, and you know, we've talked about this a lot, 600 00:43:30,920 --> 00:43:34,320 but there were things where I was like, Okay, my kids were 601 00:43:34,360 --> 00:43:36,920 eleven and I wanted to let them go trick or treating on their own for 602 00:43:36,960 --> 00:43:39,840 a little bit. And remember my friend that freaked out and was like what 603 00:43:40,039 --> 00:43:44,960 what right, Like it's just our neighborhood, Like what do you mean that 604 00:43:45,119 --> 00:43:50,719 that's not a crazy decision? Like this is just this is all very residential 605 00:43:51,000 --> 00:43:57,159 streets. It's a huge Halloween destination. And also like you know your neighborhood 606 00:43:57,239 --> 00:44:01,400 and you know it's it's it's it's their neighborhood. They had phones already, 607 00:44:01,440 --> 00:44:06,239 they were middle school, they were like in already. And my friend freaked 608 00:44:06,280 --> 00:44:09,239 out and was like, I would never let my daughter walk around. I 609 00:44:09,360 --> 00:44:14,760 was like, it's full chalk full of parents and kids. But did she 610 00:44:15,079 --> 00:44:17,880 did she know that neighborhood? Did she was? She is familiar with that 611 00:44:17,920 --> 00:44:22,599 neighborhood. Yeah, she totally knew the neighborhood. But she's just a different 612 00:44:22,679 --> 00:44:25,280 kind of parent. Although, funny enough, that's the friend who elby just 613 00:44:25,360 --> 00:44:30,519 want to go visit at Berkeley. But she's still very overprotective, very like 614 00:44:30,880 --> 00:44:34,719 constantly checking in with her daughter, and like, you know, she's just 615 00:44:34,800 --> 00:44:39,559 a little more. Oh a lot of it I think with parents stems from 616 00:44:39,599 --> 00:44:45,159 anxiety, and some parents just have less anxiety and they're not thinking about all 617 00:44:45,239 --> 00:44:50,320 the worst case scenarios constantly. I tend to be a worst case scenario parent, 618 00:44:50,480 --> 00:44:52,519 but I have to. I have to fight the urge to be over. 619 00:44:52,960 --> 00:44:57,360 But then there's some stuff that I used to tell you, like Xander, 620 00:44:57,599 --> 00:45:00,599 before he had a phone, would want to walk to the park that 621 00:45:00,000 --> 00:45:05,559 it's like four blocks from our house, and sometimes he would. But then 622 00:45:05,760 --> 00:45:08,679 one time he had a friend with him, and then the friend's mom freaked 623 00:45:08,840 --> 00:45:10,920 out that I let them go to the park, so then I had to 624 00:45:10,960 --> 00:45:15,119 go find them. And then I was like, oh my god, like 625 00:45:15,599 --> 00:45:17,480 I didn't it didn't even occur to me that that was such an awful thing 626 00:45:17,559 --> 00:45:23,199 to do, right, which it's not. I know, like every every 627 00:45:23,960 --> 00:45:29,840 every parent has their anxieties and their quirks and their whatever, right, what 628 00:45:29,920 --> 00:45:32,440 they're afraid of, And so I think I fall in the middle. And 629 00:45:32,519 --> 00:45:36,159 then I see some of these parents on the paying for college one on one 630 00:45:36,159 --> 00:45:37,519 site that I'm like, oh, that bit should be crazy, right. 631 00:45:37,679 --> 00:45:40,360 Then I'm like, I'm doing it's entertaining. Yeah, it makes you feel 632 00:45:40,360 --> 00:45:44,239 like, yeah, it makes you feel better. Yeah, I'm like, 633 00:45:44,400 --> 00:45:46,400 oh, you need to lay off, you know. But then somebody else 634 00:45:46,440 --> 00:45:51,159 could probably say the same thing about me telling these stories about life. Three 635 00:45:51,280 --> 00:45:54,800 sixtying Elbe when she's away for the weekend, she plugged in that phone. 636 00:45:55,199 --> 00:45:59,679 Right, we're all different. It's all different. If you know your life. 637 00:45:59,679 --> 00:46:06,119 Three sixteen The Girls right, all right, way bloked out the front 638 00:46:06,159 --> 00:46:08,719 door yesterday, all on her own, so maybe I got installed a little 639 00:46:09,039 --> 00:46:12,960 boy. They're putting Halloween decorations up, so she wanted to go look at 640 00:46:13,000 --> 00:46:15,519 the decorations. She just didn't tell anybody she's going out there. So, 641 00:46:16,840 --> 00:46:22,679 oh wow, what are they gonna be for Halloween? We keep saying paw 642 00:46:22,760 --> 00:46:25,400 Patrol, but they don't even really watch paw Patrol anymore, so I don't 643 00:46:25,400 --> 00:46:30,840 know if they still want to do that or something else. Yeah, that's 644 00:46:30,840 --> 00:46:35,800 an Italia last night. You know, a little hussy. What are you 645 00:46:35,880 --> 00:46:37,760 going to be for Halloween? At time? It's like we're all gonna be 646 00:46:38,000 --> 00:46:42,679 astronauts, her and her boyfriend and his friends and her. I was like, 647 00:46:42,880 --> 00:46:45,079 okay, I don't know how you're gonna like hussy that up? Yeah, 648 00:46:45,639 --> 00:46:52,960 schermuta astronaut? Are you gonna come up with? But we'll see no 649 00:46:53,119 --> 00:46:59,199 astronauts where g strings? But okay, good for you. That's funny. 650 00:46:59,639 --> 00:47:04,280 Yeah, that's kind of cutest nuts we went to. I mean we have 651 00:47:04,400 --> 00:47:07,400 to it's September still, but we did go to a halloween store yesterday, 652 00:47:07,639 --> 00:47:12,159 Oh you did, uh huh, And just to walk around. We didn't 653 00:47:12,159 --> 00:47:16,239 buy anything, but I mean I used to remember taking Sunning the Tali to 654 00:47:16,280 --> 00:47:22,800 the Halloween store and they would Natalia would want to buy the scariest, the 655 00:47:22,000 --> 00:47:28,000 scariest decorations, and Sunny would be like no, like flip out, crying 656 00:47:28,239 --> 00:47:30,960 no no. I mean they fought over this one spider. Natalia wanted the 657 00:47:31,000 --> 00:47:35,840 spider that dropped down every time you walked underneath it, and Son he was 658 00:47:35,880 --> 00:47:40,880 like hell no, hell no, no, I'll run away. That's funny. 659 00:47:42,079 --> 00:47:45,639 Yeah, I was buy the Halloween decorations I've bought are usually at cvs, 660 00:47:46,039 --> 00:47:52,239 like either on Halloween because they're already dropping the prices, or like the 661 00:47:52,400 --> 00:47:54,800 day after, and then I save it for the next year. Then you 662 00:47:54,840 --> 00:48:00,239 can get like I got this giant black like furry spider with up eyes for 663 00:48:00,400 --> 00:48:05,320 like two dollars, you know, but it was like day after I think, 664 00:48:05,519 --> 00:48:07,960 yeah, but then you gotta sit on that shit til next year. 665 00:48:07,480 --> 00:48:12,559 Yep. All right, well this was like super fun. And before we 666 00:48:12,679 --> 00:48:19,239 go, let's talk about our our our or Adam Lerner that's a car broker. 667 00:48:19,360 --> 00:48:22,440 He's going to get you a car. He could get you a car 668 00:48:22,599 --> 00:48:28,360 loan. He'll shop your loan he'll get you the used car. 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If anyone's ever vacationing there. You can check them out, 679 00:49:13,000 --> 00:49:16,400 or you can like and follow their Instagram page at Sugar Skull eight oh eight. 680 00:49:16,960 --> 00:49:21,760 And also Basic Becky get you the T shirt, the mouse pad, 681 00:49:22,000 --> 00:49:24,760 a mug with whatever you want on it, it doesn't matter. You can 682 00:49:25,280 --> 00:49:29,440 design it yourself. You can look at some of her designs, but check 683 00:49:29,480 --> 00:49:36,239 her out at just basic Becky dot com or basic Becky on Facebook. All 684 00:49:36,360 --> 00:49:38,719 Right, Friday, all Right, thanks everybody. You're a parent now. Don't enough