1 00:00:00,640 --> 00:00:10,960 Made a decision. I'll face sunny sad on. I had a vision by 2 00:00:11,240 --> 00:00:20,600 baby. So what's that everybody? Hey, it's um Friday Baby on the 3 00:00:20,679 --> 00:00:25,480 way it is, It's Friday on the way out there. She's ready to 4 00:00:25,519 --> 00:00:30,480 go. I know next month she's gonna pop. Yeah. I was invited 5 00:00:30,480 --> 00:00:35,520 to the baby shower and I can't go because I'm gonna be out of town. 6 00:00:35,920 --> 00:00:40,600 But so I sent a gift case. Anybody's checking I was invited to 7 00:00:41,520 --> 00:00:45,399 and originally I said I was going to be out of town. Yeah, 8 00:00:45,439 --> 00:00:49,759 I got this dilemma. I still have it. Okay, so let's talk. 9 00:00:49,799 --> 00:00:51,960 Let's say how to rob peeps, and then I'll ask you my dilemma. 10 00:00:52,280 --> 00:00:57,759 Okay, Leslie, why why with all the coffing, it's like drying. 11 00:00:57,960 --> 00:01:02,079 It's in our rear view mirror at this point, dry out. Alicia 12 00:01:02,119 --> 00:01:06,760 Ascalante and Kelly Bryant, She'll take you to hip hop class. And Rebecca, 13 00:01:07,599 --> 00:01:18,120 no, cutie pie, put you in my pocket. Ishan vajpaydad ass. 14 00:01:18,120 --> 00:01:22,519 Somebody got mad at us for like sexually harassing him. Fuck off. 15 00:01:23,200 --> 00:01:30,319 Um Missy and Gabby now serviced they have and I think they're getting the help 16 00:01:30,319 --> 00:01:37,040 they need. Katerina checked that Molar and Valerie, Hey, Bubba and Polly, 17 00:01:37,079 --> 00:01:40,519 we love your pancakes except when they're microwaved. And Athena we love your 18 00:01:40,599 --> 00:01:42,760 dancing. And Elizabeth Williamson, we love all your kids, all of them 19 00:01:42,760 --> 00:01:48,920 except one, and Hero all your kids love you. Kind of the reverse 20 00:01:49,239 --> 00:01:57,480 night of Rock that bassinet and Jacob You're so growlly but delightful, delight of 21 00:01:57,599 --> 00:02:01,959 light. And Leslie is going to so you're gonna get arrusted. Stop accosting 22 00:02:02,000 --> 00:02:08,599 people, Ashley so chic, and Nikki call your girl, and Laurie's gory 23 00:02:08,680 --> 00:02:14,719 and Randy may Aimes has a lot of names, not too many. None 24 00:02:14,800 --> 00:02:21,840 has more names exactly. We found that out and Rachel welcome newcomer Aaron Landho 25 00:02:22,039 --> 00:02:24,479 and Sandra Snuddy's being green and Jennifer needs to get up. Get up, 26 00:02:25,400 --> 00:02:31,719 everybody, get up, you own up, you know, own up, 27 00:02:35,039 --> 00:02:42,479 and Sarah Stefanta Christa, he makes me through and Stephanie's a stinker wrinker. 28 00:02:44,039 --> 00:02:47,800 Yeah, what was I saying? Every Oh my god, what were you 29 00:02:47,840 --> 00:02:53,000 saying about? Why? Oh you have a lima? Oh the baby shower 30 00:02:53,039 --> 00:02:58,240 this weekend? So I was supposed to Wendy's going on a girl's trip. 31 00:02:58,319 --> 00:03:06,120 She got invited to go to to South Carolina where Charleston, where her favorite 32 00:03:06,120 --> 00:03:08,719 show is filmed, which is Southern Charm. She loves that show. Okay 33 00:03:09,000 --> 00:03:13,199 um, and she's like, you please, you gotta go. Commenus cominus, 34 00:03:13,240 --> 00:03:15,000 cominus, comedus comedus. And I was like, okay, okay, 35 00:03:15,000 --> 00:03:21,240 okay. But there's been a lot going on behind the scenes, so I 36 00:03:21,319 --> 00:03:23,120 told But then I was like, okay, I'm gonna go. So I 37 00:03:23,120 --> 00:03:27,000 told Patrick, I can't come to the baby shower. But now here we 38 00:03:27,080 --> 00:03:30,159 are a few days before this weekend, I ain't going anywhere. I think 39 00:03:30,159 --> 00:03:35,319 I'm going to Patrick's baby shower. Okay, so where are you going? 40 00:03:35,360 --> 00:03:38,120 Out of town? So I am going? And how do I send a 41 00:03:38,120 --> 00:03:43,199 gift? Where? So it in the emails? Yeah, okay, invite 42 00:03:43,199 --> 00:03:46,280 there's an Amazon link for them terrible. Yeah, there was a reminder for 43 00:03:46,319 --> 00:03:51,719 that too. Yeah, it's really easy. Okay, Um. Do you 44 00:03:51,719 --> 00:03:55,919 want me to spoil the surprise for them? Like they listen? Oh? 45 00:03:55,919 --> 00:04:00,479 Oh, he does listen. I sent them there like really nice Dipe Virginie. 46 00:04:00,639 --> 00:04:02,879 They I don't know if it's the brand DIPERI I hope there's stuff still 47 00:04:02,960 --> 00:04:06,360 left there's a lot of stuff. But if not I have I always might 48 00:04:06,360 --> 00:04:11,800 go to for a baby gift is a Puma sweach jet, Like, yeah, 49 00:04:11,879 --> 00:04:13,560 you got that for the girls? Yeah, I get it for the 50 00:04:13,599 --> 00:04:15,879 girls. I get it for the boys. That's a cute one. Yeah, 51 00:04:15,919 --> 00:04:19,759 like two t you know track track suit. I bet they would love 52 00:04:19,800 --> 00:04:24,639 that. Yeah, don't listen Patrick. I usually if I go in person, 53 00:04:24,800 --> 00:04:27,759 I love to get like a book too, like like one of my 54 00:04:27,800 --> 00:04:30,519 favorite books from when I was little, like a Little While Crocodile or something. 55 00:04:31,079 --> 00:04:33,560 Um. But I'm not going to be there in person because I have 56 00:04:33,680 --> 00:04:38,560 this. I already had plans to go. I'm going out of town to 57 00:04:38,959 --> 00:04:44,680 a it's like a you never go out recovery retreat. Oh yeah. So 58 00:04:44,959 --> 00:04:49,199 it's like a lot of meetings, like you know, recovery meetings, and 59 00:04:49,959 --> 00:04:55,439 it's normally not my type of thing to do that, Like you know, 60 00:04:55,639 --> 00:05:00,800 one meeting is good for me, that's plenty, like, but I've been 61 00:05:00,120 --> 00:05:03,360 I never went to the there's this is for a certain meeting that I go 62 00:05:03,439 --> 00:05:08,000 to has a retreat every year, and I've never gone since I got sober, 63 00:05:08,040 --> 00:05:12,000 which was like you know, fourteen years ago. Because I always had 64 00:05:12,040 --> 00:05:15,519 like young kids, and then it was just like whatever. I was busy, 65 00:05:15,959 --> 00:05:17,839 but this I don't know. I was like why not? Ye, 66 00:05:18,279 --> 00:05:20,319 my plans to go and I paid for it, and then I broke my 67 00:05:20,360 --> 00:05:26,000 foot. Then I asked my friend if I should still go even though I 68 00:05:26,040 --> 00:05:28,319 have a broken foot, and she was like, yeah, totally, Like 69 00:05:28,600 --> 00:05:30,560 you're just in meetings. Yeah, what are you doing? My friend is 70 00:05:30,639 --> 00:05:35,560 driving me? Who I really like that's doing. I don't even know how 71 00:05:35,800 --> 00:05:40,399 fun it will be, but maybe it'll be good mentally. Yeah, that's 72 00:05:40,560 --> 00:05:46,399 nice. Yeah, it's been so wild not walking people like that was my 73 00:05:46,560 --> 00:05:51,199 life. I walked people every morning for seven years that we've had her, 74 00:05:51,240 --> 00:05:56,839 like every morning, like it's my job unless there was something crazy that I 75 00:05:56,879 --> 00:06:00,279 was doing that I couldn't. It's so weird to just like have John do 76 00:06:00,360 --> 00:06:05,480 it every single day and then Xander takes her every evening. Ah. It 77 00:06:05,759 --> 00:06:10,360 sucks. It does suck. And now I haven't been able to walk Phil 78 00:06:10,480 --> 00:06:13,199 because he had his stitches for two weeks. Oh yeah, how's he doing? 79 00:06:13,240 --> 00:06:15,439 Because he ain't doing that great because he got his stitches out the other 80 00:06:15,519 --> 00:06:20,399 day and they're infected. There's a couple that's infected. You said you were 81 00:06:20,439 --> 00:06:24,800 saying that he was you were worried about him. Yeah, oh that day 82 00:06:24,839 --> 00:06:27,759 when we were on the phone, I was looking at him and he was 83 00:06:27,839 --> 00:06:30,519 fine. Then I took him in that day. Oh you did go check 84 00:06:30,519 --> 00:06:33,000 it out because it looked like his belly was swollen. He was totally fine. 85 00:06:33,439 --> 00:06:38,279 But then five days later when I take him to get his stitch stitches 86 00:06:38,319 --> 00:06:41,319 out, they're like, yeah, these and I looked red. They were 87 00:06:41,319 --> 00:06:45,120 like yeah, they're a couple are infected and he's to be on antibiotics. 88 00:06:45,279 --> 00:06:49,000 And he's still continue with that fucking cone of shame that he hates and every 89 00:06:49,120 --> 00:06:53,959 all of us hate because he can't go and like what, he can't go 90 00:06:54,040 --> 00:06:56,920 in the pool, so we have to walk him outside to go to the 91 00:06:56,959 --> 00:07:00,639 bathroom. Oh it's just and he wants to go on the pool. He 92 00:07:00,879 --> 00:07:03,720 heads don't heat, just heads right for that pool and he just can't. 93 00:07:04,399 --> 00:07:10,680 So I hate that. I know, I know people is I think anxious 94 00:07:10,720 --> 00:07:14,360 that I'm not walking her because it's just not her routine. So like every 95 00:07:14,399 --> 00:07:17,920 morning she still starts like crying to me, and every evening she she's a 96 00:07:18,040 --> 00:07:21,439 really really good dog, and this isn't even to say that she's not being 97 00:07:21,480 --> 00:07:26,319 good. It's just that this is her one thing is that when it's time 98 00:07:26,319 --> 00:07:29,720 for her walk or when she wants to go out, she'll like cry to 99 00:07:29,839 --> 00:07:35,759 you like she'll go right, and then I go, I can't walk you, 100 00:07:36,000 --> 00:07:43,199 and then I have to go get like Xander under her breath. No, 101 00:07:43,439 --> 00:07:45,839 well, she speaks your language in the house. I feel like if 102 00:07:45,879 --> 00:07:47,199 she was calling me a count, it would be more of a bark, 103 00:07:47,319 --> 00:07:51,079 like she'd be like hunt, like count Hunt. Yeah, but this is 104 00:07:51,120 --> 00:08:01,839 more like mom was so um, I hate it um so Klin. Yes, 105 00:08:01,959 --> 00:08:07,519 Lego Land. We have been putting off this story for like a couple 106 00:08:07,560 --> 00:08:13,160 of weeks. What happened? Yeah, So it was Ila's birthday and her 107 00:08:13,160 --> 00:08:16,319 birthday was on a Tuesday, and we just did the normal you know. 108 00:08:16,399 --> 00:08:18,560 I took them to their play place that they liked to go to and then 109 00:08:18,839 --> 00:08:22,560 had dinner and they were like, Okay, we're gonna go down to Lego 110 00:08:22,680 --> 00:08:26,120 Land on a Thursday. So did you sing her Happy Birthday on her birthday? 111 00:08:26,160 --> 00:08:30,920 Of course? Okay did So she's not a monster, but so she's 112 00:08:30,920 --> 00:08:33,840 fully conscious. Well, I remember when my kids were really little, like 113 00:08:33,840 --> 00:08:37,720 you didn't have to tell them exactly like you did, but like I got 114 00:08:37,720 --> 00:08:39,200 her cake, saying okay, birthday with the cake at dinner. Okay, 115 00:08:39,240 --> 00:08:43,120 because like you could have just told her her birthday was on the day that 116 00:08:43,159 --> 00:08:46,879 you took her to Lego Land. Yeah, well we told her it was 117 00:08:46,919 --> 00:08:48,919 for her birthday. Okay. Um, Yeah, we were gonna go to 118 00:08:48,919 --> 00:08:52,159 Disneyland, but we know somebody that can get us tickets and they couldn't get 119 00:08:52,200 --> 00:08:54,080 them in time. So we're like, okay, we'll just go for Lake's 120 00:08:54,080 --> 00:08:58,320 birthday and for Iola's we'll go down to Legoland. Um. In the past, 121 00:08:58,320 --> 00:09:01,639 we'd go down to see diego to the zoo and stuff like that, 122 00:09:01,840 --> 00:09:05,080 but we didn't want to stay overnight. It's just too much. We're like, 123 00:09:05,080 --> 00:09:07,679 okay, we'll drive down to Lego Land, and I mean, I 124 00:09:07,720 --> 00:09:13,120 haven't been since I was ten or eleven or something like that. We leave 125 00:09:13,159 --> 00:09:18,320 the house, we get about twenty five minutes away from the house, and 126 00:09:18,519 --> 00:09:24,200 I'm right in the middle of texting you Stephanie about like some show thing, 127 00:09:24,080 --> 00:09:28,320 and then like five minutes before Blake's going like, oh, my tummy doesn't 128 00:09:28,360 --> 00:09:33,759 feel good. And they say that a lot these days. That's their go 129 00:09:33,799 --> 00:09:37,200 to excuse like if they don't want to eat their food or whatever, they 130 00:09:37,200 --> 00:09:39,840 just go, my tummy hurt. It's like, okay, I don't I 131 00:09:39,879 --> 00:09:41,960 don't believe you. You know, it's kind of crime wolf. At this 132 00:09:43,000 --> 00:09:46,320 point, she goes, how my tummy feels weird to go, okay, 133 00:09:46,360 --> 00:09:48,840 drink some water. Drink some water. And we're driving and then what do 134 00:09:48,840 --> 00:09:54,360 you know, she just let just throws up all over herself in the backseat. 135 00:09:56,480 --> 00:09:58,360 And we're twenty five minutes away now, So it's like, okay, 136 00:09:58,360 --> 00:10:01,320 do we go home? Do we like? We don't have an extra shirt, 137 00:10:01,360 --> 00:10:03,360 we don't have an extra clothes for her, so we go. We 138 00:10:03,480 --> 00:10:07,799 pull over and I, oh, let a lego land right. Yeah, 139 00:10:07,799 --> 00:10:11,120 we're driving down to San Diego, right yeah, okay, and so got 140 00:10:11,200 --> 00:10:13,960 ways to go. Yeah, we got a waste to go, but we're 141 00:10:13,000 --> 00:10:16,440 just far enough away from home that we don't want to turn around right and 142 00:10:16,559 --> 00:10:22,519 go back, So we pull off. Cars starting to stink up crazy. 143 00:10:24,039 --> 00:10:26,000 Um. We get her out and I just google it and luckily there's a 144 00:10:26,039 --> 00:10:28,960 target like right around the corner. I go, fuck it, let's just 145 00:10:30,000 --> 00:10:31,320 go to target. We'll get her like a new shirt and some pants. 146 00:10:33,720 --> 00:10:35,919 Once we get her out of carn clean her up, she's fine. We 147 00:10:35,039 --> 00:10:39,720 run to Target. We get the pants and the shorts, and and then 148 00:10:39,759 --> 00:10:43,080 I was like, well, oh well, I want a new shirt too. 149 00:10:43,039 --> 00:10:46,919 See, being with freaking toddlers is like being with like two drunks. 150 00:10:48,679 --> 00:10:50,559 We're throwing up on themselves and then you get her cleaned up, and then 151 00:10:50,559 --> 00:10:56,639 the other one's causing a fighting target. It is like being with drunks. 152 00:10:56,879 --> 00:10:58,840 We go, okay, we'll just get her a new shirt of targets. 153 00:10:58,840 --> 00:11:00,759 So then I like, well, I don't want to I want a new 154 00:11:00,759 --> 00:11:03,440 shirt too. So okay, now we gotta get Isla a new shirt too. 155 00:11:03,519 --> 00:11:07,759 So Amy runs into Target grabs two three shirts actually two for Blake and 156 00:11:07,840 --> 00:11:13,320 one for Isla. She was happy with that. And then so luckily that 157 00:11:13,440 --> 00:11:16,320 was pretty much the end of that. And we got down to Lego Land 158 00:11:16,840 --> 00:11:20,879 and I just had I just thought it was so much better than Disneyland. 159 00:11:22,679 --> 00:11:24,600 I hadn't been there and forever, and it is like, it's the perfect 160 00:11:24,679 --> 00:11:28,120 size. It wasn't too hot. It was a little hot, but it 161 00:11:28,120 --> 00:11:31,399 wasn't too hot. It's the perfect size. We went all around the entire 162 00:11:31,480 --> 00:11:37,039 part twice. We were there from like eleven am to seven pm. There 163 00:11:37,080 --> 00:11:43,879 were all the rides. We got on way faster. They went on a 164 00:11:43,960 --> 00:11:48,440 ton more rides than they did at Disneyland, and they had just a great, 165 00:11:48,519 --> 00:11:52,559 great time at Legoland, and I did too, because it wasn't we 166 00:11:52,559 --> 00:11:56,639 weren't just standing in this play Yeah. Yeah, Like the most we spent 167 00:11:56,879 --> 00:12:01,559 in line was maybe like a half hour for every single one of the rides 168 00:12:01,600 --> 00:12:05,320 except for one. There's one ride where it's like you get in like a 169 00:12:05,360 --> 00:12:11,399 Safari truck and drive around and there's just animals built out of legos, that's 170 00:12:11,440 --> 00:12:13,759 all. It is one of one of the more boring rides. We were 171 00:12:13,799 --> 00:12:16,200 probably standing in line for like an hour and a half. Oh god. 172 00:12:16,240 --> 00:12:18,840 I looked at it going like oh this is this is no problem. And 173 00:12:18,840 --> 00:12:22,399 then we get in it and we're there for like twenty five thirty minutes and 174 00:12:22,440 --> 00:12:26,120 it's like, Okay, this line is not moving, but we've already committed 175 00:12:26,159 --> 00:12:28,399 like a half hour to this, so now we can't leave. So then 176 00:12:28,399 --> 00:12:31,120 we were stuck in that dilemma. So then we just had to wait another 177 00:12:31,200 --> 00:12:35,240 like forty five minutes before we got on the ride, which was incredibly boring. 178 00:12:35,519 --> 00:12:37,840 Isn't there things for them to do while they're waiting? And like, 179 00:12:39,000 --> 00:12:41,519 no, no, you had said that ahead of time, and then I'm 180 00:12:41,519 --> 00:12:43,759 waiting in all the lines of when were were all the toys legs? Yeah, 181 00:12:43,399 --> 00:12:46,919 and you didn't see that they didn't have remember they used to have that. 182 00:12:48,039 --> 00:12:50,759 I don't remember that, but I would have been the lego that one 183 00:12:50,840 --> 00:12:56,559 once. Yeah, they're okay, No, maybe people were stealing them, 184 00:12:56,799 --> 00:13:00,159 yeah maybe, um, but yeah, we had a great time, and 185 00:13:00,200 --> 00:13:03,440 I the Legoland was I thought it was just so much better than Disneyland, 186 00:13:03,559 --> 00:13:05,000 but yeah it is. Yeah, we're gonna we're gonna go back to Disneyland 187 00:13:05,000 --> 00:13:09,320 in August for Blake's birthday. So nice. That's nice, girl dad, 188 00:13:09,759 --> 00:13:11,799 Yeah, girl dad. Oh yeah, that's what the audience can't see it, 189 00:13:11,799 --> 00:13:15,960 but that's what Amy got me for. Oh my lad, he's wearing 190 00:13:18,159 --> 00:13:22,120 it's a girl dy. Oh my god. We got to put that on 191 00:13:22,120 --> 00:13:24,960 our Instagram. That's so cute. I literally just said, I didn't see 192 00:13:24,960 --> 00:13:28,320 your socks. That's so funny. Cute girl dad socks. We'll take a 193 00:13:28,320 --> 00:13:33,559 picture of that from Yeah. Um, and so you were gonna tell us 194 00:13:33,679 --> 00:13:37,480 about So they just started dance lessons yea, Saturday was their first dance lesson. 195 00:13:37,519 --> 00:13:41,600 They're doing it together. It's just kind of a it's at the local 196 00:13:41,639 --> 00:13:43,360 park, so it's just kind of, you know, in like some big 197 00:13:43,360 --> 00:13:48,399 wreck room and they're in two separate classes because of their ages. And we 198 00:13:48,440 --> 00:13:52,759 didn't know that it was a ballet and a tap dance class. So we 199 00:13:52,799 --> 00:13:58,240 got there and we were the only ones without any tap shoes, so they 200 00:13:58,240 --> 00:14:01,759 were doing their tap section in their ballet shoes. Um. But it was 201 00:14:01,840 --> 00:14:05,840 very cute. They yeah, they liked it a lot. And yeah, 202 00:14:05,840 --> 00:14:09,000 at one point halfway through, Isla was like, yeah, I don't know 203 00:14:09,000 --> 00:14:13,559 if I'm into this and just kept looking at us like, go on dance, 204 00:14:13,960 --> 00:14:16,279 and then she just walk over to us and stand next to us. 205 00:14:16,279 --> 00:14:20,000 We're like what what what are you doing? Like, no, go back 206 00:14:20,039 --> 00:14:22,639 out there. She's like okay, So I don't know. She kind of 207 00:14:22,799 --> 00:14:26,279 lost a bit of interest about halfway through, but it was fine. It 208 00:14:26,320 --> 00:14:33,399 was cute, go forward. Yeah, so then you started also swim lessons. 209 00:14:33,440 --> 00:14:37,679 Uh yeah, well today was their first swim lesson and how's it going? 210 00:14:39,039 --> 00:14:41,039 Well? Um, obviously I came here to do the show, so 211 00:14:41,039 --> 00:14:45,720 I couldn't take them right, Um, so I had a feeling it wasn't 212 00:14:45,720 --> 00:14:50,080 going to go well. Blake generally likes the water, Isola not as much, 213 00:14:50,120 --> 00:14:52,960 but they've gone swimming before with us. And then I just got a 214 00:14:54,000 --> 00:14:58,039 text saying swim was a nightmare. They refused to get in. They were 215 00:14:58,120 --> 00:15:01,879 screaming and crying, and Amy had to go, I guess at some point 216 00:15:01,919 --> 00:15:07,320 into the pool with all of her clothes on. Oh my gosh. Well 217 00:15:07,320 --> 00:15:13,000 hold on, let's talk more about that. 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And Wendy's in 262 00:18:38,359 --> 00:18:45,319 the pool, you know, we had so Sonny had this ridiculous bathing suit 263 00:18:45,400 --> 00:18:48,359 that was yellow and it had an inner tube around his ass pretty much, 264 00:18:48,920 --> 00:18:53,759 so he looked like a duck. And if he which is kind of dangerous 265 00:18:53,799 --> 00:19:00,920 because if he went forward right would go he would capsize right right right. 266 00:19:00,319 --> 00:19:04,000 But he got the hang of floating. And so every night Adam would like 267 00:19:04,079 --> 00:19:07,000 throw him in the pool. And Italia too, like with her floaties, 268 00:19:07,079 --> 00:19:14,240 like throw me, throw me, and so, but Wendy really just worked 269 00:19:14,279 --> 00:19:19,279 on it with them. Yeah, And I remember Susanne's daughter, Gracie was 270 00:19:19,319 --> 00:19:26,720 over and Susanne's in the kitchen and Gracie was being really mean in Italia and 271 00:19:26,799 --> 00:19:30,359 and I think she like was splashing her and trying to I don't know, 272 00:19:30,039 --> 00:19:33,599 you know, playing it rough too too much. And when he was like, 273 00:19:33,839 --> 00:19:37,400 you know, that's shit off right now, you knock it off or 274 00:19:37,400 --> 00:19:40,880 you're getting out of the pool. And then Susanne came out and she's like, 275 00:19:41,000 --> 00:19:45,839 everything's fine. Yeah, I told you that. That was like my 276 00:19:45,960 --> 00:19:49,599 big thing that happened with my friend was also a cool thing. Her daughter 277 00:19:51,640 --> 00:19:55,400 was holding my was holding Elbie kind of down in the pool, and I 278 00:19:55,480 --> 00:19:59,680 was like stop it, and I like sharply, was like, right, 279 00:20:00,000 --> 00:20:03,640 don't do that. Yeah, and then my friend was like, don't discipline 280 00:20:03,799 --> 00:20:07,440 my kid. I will discipline my kid. And I was like, but 281 00:20:07,519 --> 00:20:11,200 yet, not disciplining your kid, and this is dangerous. Like I was 282 00:20:11,200 --> 00:20:15,440 like, that's fine, except for this is a dangerous situation and I had 283 00:20:15,480 --> 00:20:18,480 to put us stuff to it. She's holding her head under the water and 284 00:20:18,839 --> 00:20:22,240 we had a like an argument about that. Yeah, yeah, it was 285 00:20:22,279 --> 00:20:25,920 bad back then. You get a lot good now, but yeah that's good. 286 00:20:26,079 --> 00:20:30,640 Yeah. Well, when my when Elbie was little, probably around the 287 00:20:30,680 --> 00:20:34,680 same age as when Natalia and Sonny learned to swim, she learned to swim 288 00:20:34,720 --> 00:20:40,720 at her at camp so they she could like dog paddle around to be safe 289 00:20:40,759 --> 00:20:42,079 in the water. But I started giving her swim. There was like a 290 00:20:42,160 --> 00:20:48,839 guy. It's really funny because he was like a total pothead, like he 291 00:20:48,920 --> 00:20:52,680 was just a stoner and he was always like forgetting that he had lessons, 292 00:20:52,720 --> 00:20:56,000 and none of us could understand why this camp kept him employed, but they 293 00:20:56,039 --> 00:21:00,559 did, right, So sometimes you would show up and sometimes you wouldn't, 294 00:21:00,559 --> 00:21:04,000 but it was anyway. But she learned slowly over like a few months, 295 00:21:04,000 --> 00:21:08,240 like she had like twice a week lessons, like little group lessons. But 296 00:21:08,279 --> 00:21:12,000 when Sadie and Xander were old enough to go to that camp, they were 297 00:21:12,000 --> 00:21:18,200 still pretty young, and Sadie was so little that she so like, okay. 298 00:21:18,240 --> 00:21:21,000 They had two pools at this camp, and one was for kids who 299 00:21:21,000 --> 00:21:23,759 weren't very good at swimming, and it was like more of a waiting pool, 300 00:21:23,920 --> 00:21:27,079 but it was like three feet deep, and one was a regular pool 301 00:21:27,119 --> 00:21:33,440 for kids that could swim right well. Sadie was so little at that time, 302 00:21:33,480 --> 00:21:36,839 because she hadn't even started any growth hormones, so she was teeny teeny 303 00:21:36,920 --> 00:21:41,720 tiny and she couldn't her head wouldn't be above water even in the waiting pool. 304 00:21:41,039 --> 00:21:45,039 So I was just nervous, like, so I was like, I 305 00:21:45,119 --> 00:21:48,319 need to teach get her swimming fast. So there's this company out here. 306 00:21:49,559 --> 00:21:52,519 I mean, I don't know if it matters if I say the name of 307 00:21:52,559 --> 00:21:55,880 it, but there it's a big thing out here. It's called water Whispers, 308 00:21:56,319 --> 00:22:00,599 And it's like what they're supposed to do is like teach your kids fast 309 00:22:00,599 --> 00:22:03,559 one week boot camp. You take them like every day for five days and 310 00:22:03,599 --> 00:22:06,559 they're supposed to be swimming at the end of it. Well no, not 311 00:22:06,680 --> 00:22:11,160 my kids. No, my kids were my kids and the and so some 312 00:22:11,240 --> 00:22:17,200 people at the time they were like four, because four, I think is 313 00:22:17,279 --> 00:22:22,359 the age, isn't it that they can start learning. I think at age 314 00:22:22,400 --> 00:22:26,079 four is when they can start really kind of learning. That the the well 315 00:22:26,119 --> 00:22:32,960 you can babies. But I just remember when I took my stupid class in 316 00:22:33,000 --> 00:22:34,599 the valley, you know, a mom class, right, I remember her 317 00:22:34,640 --> 00:22:38,599 saying age four is when you can really start. Don't start lessons until then, 318 00:22:38,720 --> 00:22:41,039 it's it's a waste of time whatever. I don't know. So they 319 00:22:41,119 --> 00:22:45,519 might have even been a little bit older than well it was before it was 320 00:22:45,559 --> 00:22:48,839 like after their last year preschool that's when they were going to go to this 321 00:22:48,920 --> 00:22:55,759 camp. So definitely under five, yeah, or maybe maybe just turn five, 322 00:22:55,799 --> 00:22:59,519 I don't know, whatever it was. Sadie was teeny tiny, and 323 00:23:00,279 --> 00:23:06,000 oh my god, they were horrible, like and you're supposed to, like 324 00:23:06,079 --> 00:23:10,519 the moms are supposed to or the dads or whatever whoever's there with them. 325 00:23:10,680 --> 00:23:12,880 They don't want you to be part of it. They don't want to interfere. 326 00:23:14,079 --> 00:23:17,240 It's like moms go sit back, and because they know that, they 327 00:23:17,960 --> 00:23:19,759 say, like, the kids are gonna cry because they're they're not gonna like 328 00:23:19,880 --> 00:23:23,079 it. Yeah, because they kind of hold them underwater, they make them 329 00:23:23,119 --> 00:23:26,759 and they're eventually though, they're supposed to be able to swim. Right, 330 00:23:26,240 --> 00:23:33,599 Oh my god. So first Xander, I want to say Xander was kind 331 00:23:33,640 --> 00:23:37,839 of like more mellow about it. Maybe they were even a little bit younger. 332 00:23:37,880 --> 00:23:41,880 I have video of it, so they definitely were probably four. Anyway, 333 00:23:42,319 --> 00:23:48,599 I remember that Sadie crying and screaming and like wanting no part of it. 334 00:23:48,759 --> 00:23:52,039 And eventually they were like, yeah, this isn't working. You're going 335 00:23:52,119 --> 00:23:56,240 to have to come over and like talk to them or help them or whatever. 336 00:23:56,359 --> 00:24:00,359 So I was like, okay, like trying to come for them, 337 00:24:00,400 --> 00:24:03,680 but you feel so bad because it's like they're being tortured. I mean, 338 00:24:03,759 --> 00:24:07,559 they were screaming and crying, but they want you, they want you to 339 00:24:07,599 --> 00:24:11,279 get them out of the pool, right right, don't make me, mommy, 340 00:24:11,559 --> 00:24:14,759 no, mommy. And then so Xander was like, okay with it, 341 00:24:14,839 --> 00:24:17,680 and he was being kind of cool, and then he learned a couple 342 00:24:17,720 --> 00:24:19,759 of tricks, but Sadie was screaming and having none of it. By the 343 00:24:19,880 --> 00:24:26,279 last day, somehow it turned around and Sadie was the only one who would. 344 00:24:26,319 --> 00:24:29,519 So at the last day of it, their little graduation, they're supposed 345 00:24:29,519 --> 00:24:33,200 to jump off a diving board into the deep end and then swim out to 346 00:24:33,279 --> 00:24:37,640 the instructor who's waiting for them, like whatever, and they give you a 347 00:24:37,640 --> 00:24:41,799 little videotape of it. I have it somewhere, and Sadie did it like 348 00:24:41,839 --> 00:24:45,200 a champ, and Xander at that point had totally turned around on the whole 349 00:24:45,240 --> 00:24:48,720 thing and was like absolutely not, absolutely not. And I was like, 350 00:24:49,240 --> 00:24:55,119 are my kids the only like water whisperer failures like and fucking cost a ton 351 00:24:55,160 --> 00:24:59,119 of money? Yeah, because it was were we your kids, with no 352 00:24:59,200 --> 00:25:02,160 exceptions, will learned to swim like in five days? Yeah? No? 353 00:25:02,559 --> 00:25:07,079 And then they were kind of traumatized, and even Sadie, even though Sadie 354 00:25:07,079 --> 00:25:11,559 had done it and it went fine, wouldn't do it again. It was 355 00:25:11,799 --> 00:25:15,119 years of them being as scared of the water, like not wanting to go 356 00:25:15,119 --> 00:25:18,039 in the swimming pool. And you know what changed. It was quite a 357 00:25:18,039 --> 00:25:23,240 few years later, many years later, Julie's daughter Bella taught they have a 358 00:25:23,240 --> 00:25:26,640 pool and like we would go over there and go over there, and they 359 00:25:26,640 --> 00:25:27,839 were scared of the water. And then one day Bella was like, I'll 360 00:25:27,880 --> 00:25:32,839 give you guys swim lessons and was like super gentle and fun about it, 361 00:25:32,880 --> 00:25:36,039 and they learned how to swim in like a day because they already kind of 362 00:25:36,160 --> 00:25:38,200 knew, but they just were too scared to do it right. And then 363 00:25:38,240 --> 00:25:41,599 that was it. Now they can swim. I now and I remember, 364 00:25:42,039 --> 00:25:49,119 well, how well your kids are the three? Yeah? Yeah, I 365 00:25:49,160 --> 00:25:55,240 can't wait to hear how that went next week? Yeah us, yeah, 366 00:25:55,319 --> 00:25:59,240 well two weeks from now, because so are they doing like an everyday program 367 00:25:59,400 --> 00:26:03,960 or is it gonna be on once a week? Oh yeah, maybe that's 368 00:26:03,000 --> 00:26:08,240 better though. Well, yeah, I mean I'll hear more about how the 369 00:26:08,319 --> 00:26:11,880 session went or how bad it was. But I'm hoping now I can get 370 00:26:11,920 --> 00:26:17,319 them prepared for it and so they'll know what's coming and so I can talk 371 00:26:17,400 --> 00:26:19,559 them up ahead of time, like we're going to be doing this tomorrow here's 372 00:26:19,559 --> 00:26:22,160 what you need to know. Okay, we're going later today. Here's okay, 373 00:26:22,160 --> 00:26:26,079 we're here now. Right. Oh, I'm hoping that might help, 374 00:26:26,160 --> 00:26:29,960 right a little bit. Maybe if if they do it with a friend too, 375 00:26:30,519 --> 00:26:34,319 maybe that helps. I don't know. It seems like they would like 376 00:26:34,319 --> 00:26:37,759 like it more if they were in the pool with their friend. I don't 377 00:26:37,759 --> 00:26:45,519 know, but yeah, and then I remember your I remember Sadie or I 378 00:26:45,519 --> 00:26:48,799 think it was Sadie every day wanting to jump off of the big diving board. 379 00:26:49,400 --> 00:26:52,640 That was Xander. That was years later when they didn't know how to 380 00:26:52,680 --> 00:26:56,960 swim and they could, and we would go to that Van Ey's pool cool, 381 00:26:57,599 --> 00:27:03,079 and Sadie wouldn't jump off of the even the low diving board it wasn't 382 00:27:03,119 --> 00:27:06,720 that high at all, and she wouldn't jump off of it. Meanwhile, 383 00:27:06,799 --> 00:27:10,640 Xander was going to the platform. Like I meant, there was a lower 384 00:27:10,759 --> 00:27:14,480 a low dive, a higher dive, higher diving board, and then a 385 00:27:14,599 --> 00:27:18,400 platform like pretty high. And Xander was like, I've been to that swimming 386 00:27:18,400 --> 00:27:22,079 pool. It's very high. It's really really high. I was scared and 387 00:27:22,200 --> 00:27:26,200 Xander was, and they were young. They were like he was going off 388 00:27:26,240 --> 00:27:29,599 and she won, like eight or nine, and Xander was going off of 389 00:27:29,599 --> 00:27:33,119 it once after another after another, and Sadie won. It wouldn't even go 390 00:27:33,160 --> 00:27:36,519 off the low was to but maybe she would go off the low one. 391 00:27:36,559 --> 00:27:40,440 She wouldn't go off the like second high one, right, she was too 392 00:27:40,480 --> 00:27:44,920 scared. And remember she was getting frustrated and remember, and then she would 393 00:27:44,960 --> 00:27:48,559 stand the whole time, and then she would walk out there, look down 394 00:27:48,680 --> 00:27:53,160 and then walk back and the kids would be going like come on, and 395 00:27:53,240 --> 00:28:00,400 then she would cry and like climb back down. Ah, do you ever 396 00:28:00,440 --> 00:28:03,160 go to the pool anymore? Oh? God, no? What are your 397 00:28:03,160 --> 00:28:04,920 next door neighbors? Don't let you go to swimming in the pool anymore. 398 00:28:04,960 --> 00:28:08,720 So we had those three guys that live there that were like amazing, We 399 00:28:08,799 --> 00:28:11,319 love them so much, and we would go. They would let us use 400 00:28:11,359 --> 00:28:17,319 the pool whenever we wanted, and then somebody else, No, then it 401 00:28:17,440 --> 00:28:19,640 was empty for a while, but we weren't and we would oh it was 402 00:28:19,720 --> 00:28:23,279 empty for a while, and we would sneak one summer and go swimming in 403 00:28:23,319 --> 00:28:27,279 the pool. We'd have to climb over the wall though, right, and 404 00:28:27,319 --> 00:28:33,079 then this there's a guy who lives in that house. Now, like one 405 00:28:33,200 --> 00:28:37,559 guy we don't really know him, so we can't sneak into the pool anymore. 406 00:28:37,920 --> 00:28:41,599 Yeah, so we don't really have pool access. Oh, come over 407 00:28:41,640 --> 00:28:48,000 to my house. What else? So you're watching something? Yeah, I'm 408 00:28:48,039 --> 00:28:53,200 watching something. It's on Apple Plus. I'm surprised that you guys haven't or 409 00:28:53,240 --> 00:28:56,720 nobody's brought it up. Maybe on our Facebook. It's with Tom Holland. 410 00:28:56,920 --> 00:29:03,960 And what's the girl writing it down? She's the girl that played um, 411 00:29:03,759 --> 00:29:12,160 uh, the one she Elizabeth, the one that went to jail the Yes, 412 00:29:12,279 --> 00:29:18,680 she played Elizabeth Holmes. Oh that's her name. Okay, yeah with 413 00:29:18,759 --> 00:29:21,880 the big eyes. Yeah, I know who you're talking about. Okay, 414 00:29:21,960 --> 00:29:26,960 So it's on Apple TV. It's called Crowded Room. Did you find her? 415 00:29:26,519 --> 00:29:32,799 I'm seeing there's Tom Holland, Amanda seafreeda Sea Freed. She was also 416 00:29:32,839 --> 00:29:36,880 on that show about like Sister Wives, not the reality show, but the 417 00:29:36,920 --> 00:29:41,079 one you know what was that show that? Um, the Big Big Yeah, 418 00:29:41,119 --> 00:29:47,039 the Big Big Love. Was she on Big Love? Yeah? Yeah, 419 00:29:47,119 --> 00:29:49,640 yeah, she was on Big Watch that again. I was thinking about 420 00:29:49,640 --> 00:29:53,839 watching either that or um, six feet under. Oh my god, I 421 00:29:53,839 --> 00:29:56,640 thought you were going to say six feet under. I wanted to start six 422 00:29:56,640 --> 00:30:02,440 feet up. I want to started again too, let's watch Okay, Yeah, 423 00:30:00,319 --> 00:30:04,920 I remember that the first season kind of sucks, but then like if 424 00:30:04,960 --> 00:30:08,160 then it got I just remember like it was one. I was like, 425 00:30:08,279 --> 00:30:11,599 God, this is one of the best shows I've ever seen. Maybe I'll 426 00:30:11,599 --> 00:30:15,920 start on season two. Yeah, because I just remember seeing part of season 427 00:30:15,960 --> 00:30:18,759 one and being like this isn't I think, how fast? Like it just 428 00:30:18,880 --> 00:30:22,359 remember but so crowded, crowded room. I didn't, I just started. 429 00:30:22,519 --> 00:30:25,759 I don't want to ruin it, though, you gotta watch it, but 430 00:30:25,799 --> 00:30:29,880 it is based on a true story. I don't want to ruin it though 431 00:30:29,880 --> 00:30:32,720 I can't. And now that I think about it, but there's a documentary. 432 00:30:32,759 --> 00:30:37,759 There's a documentary on it on Netflix. Oh okay. I mean I 433 00:30:37,799 --> 00:30:42,559 could give you a little spoiler alert because some people about what's the story? 434 00:30:42,759 --> 00:30:47,759 Well, if I tell you, the story is this kid, Tom Holland 435 00:30:48,119 --> 00:30:55,039 gets arrested because of a shooting at Rockefeller Center that he may or may not 436 00:30:55,160 --> 00:30:59,680 have done. And he gets arrested and the girl he was with they can't 437 00:30:59,680 --> 00:31:06,200 find. And Amanda is a doctor. She's I mean, she's a professor 438 00:31:06,519 --> 00:31:11,000 with the first psychology professor. She was writing papers on like Blimian stuff. 439 00:31:11,160 --> 00:31:15,799 This takes place in the seventies. Oh, I like. And the soundtrack 440 00:31:15,960 --> 00:31:19,519 is fucking phenomenal. They played the Beatles paying Floyd. It's great. Oh 441 00:31:19,559 --> 00:31:23,880 my gosh. Yeah, it's so good. So you have to just watch 442 00:31:23,920 --> 00:31:29,039 it and then I yeah, I can't give you too much. Okay, 443 00:31:29,559 --> 00:31:33,960 how many is it a whole season? Yeah? The finale is tonight, 444 00:31:33,319 --> 00:31:38,240 right, oh okay, yeah yeah, and then I want went to Netflix 445 00:31:38,279 --> 00:31:44,640 to watch the real story. So yeah, so there's a documentary and this 446 00:31:44,759 --> 00:31:48,079 is like the act. It's sort of like The Staircase where they had a 447 00:31:48,160 --> 00:31:52,839 documentary about the same case and then the right drama. Right, okay, 448 00:31:52,000 --> 00:31:56,559 right, it's really good. It's really good. I'm gonna watch it. 449 00:31:56,680 --> 00:31:59,799 Yeah, yeah, I have all those channels. Why not? Yeah? 450 00:31:59,799 --> 00:32:02,079 Why, oh my god? Did I tell you? I don't think i've 451 00:32:02,079 --> 00:32:06,960 told you, because I think this happened since last week. But I got 452 00:32:07,000 --> 00:32:12,400 into like a full on binge with the under underage undercover and just watched the 453 00:32:12,480 --> 00:32:15,960 like entire the wholes whole thing. I was texting you showing you. I 454 00:32:15,039 --> 00:32:17,599 was like I can't can't stop, won't stop. You didn't watch the first 455 00:32:17,599 --> 00:32:22,880 season though, I didn't should I It is fine, but if you watch 456 00:32:22,920 --> 00:32:25,160 the second season, it just kind of ruins it for you. They didn't 457 00:32:25,200 --> 00:32:29,480 have their ship together they do on the second season, I watched every episode. 458 00:32:29,519 --> 00:32:31,880 I was like, just couldn't stop. They were like potato chips. 459 00:32:31,519 --> 00:32:35,279 Yeah, one of the next one, one of the next one. Yeah. 460 00:32:35,319 --> 00:32:38,880 They were coming out with new episodes. Like I thought I was done. 461 00:32:38,920 --> 00:32:43,799 I thought it was done. But then when I go on my Discovery 462 00:32:43,960 --> 00:32:45,480 wherever it is, it shows you, it goes new, it shows new, 463 00:32:45,559 --> 00:32:49,319 new episode. So then I was going to watch it. I think 464 00:32:49,359 --> 00:32:52,039 I finished the season. Though, I think I finished it. I think 465 00:32:52,079 --> 00:32:54,079 it's done because it had a big thing at the end of it that was 466 00:32:54,160 --> 00:32:59,640 like, over the course of this show, we arrested this many people and 467 00:32:59,839 --> 00:33:02,079 they kind of went back and told you where everybody was. Yes, yes, 468 00:33:02,279 --> 00:33:07,599 yes, so good, isn't it. It's just fascinating. I mean 469 00:33:07,680 --> 00:33:12,319 it's fast, it is fascinating. Yeah, it's a fascinating how many of 470 00:33:12,319 --> 00:33:15,839 these guys kind of get away with it, though I know how few people 471 00:33:15,039 --> 00:33:21,079 actually spend any time in jail right for these crimes, right full on going 472 00:33:21,119 --> 00:33:23,599 after I mean, you know, twelve year old what about there was one 473 00:33:23,680 --> 00:33:29,319 guy who was like really interested in babies, remember oh I now, and 474 00:33:29,359 --> 00:33:31,519 he was like, do you think your friend he was like, he was 475 00:33:31,519 --> 00:33:35,200 like, do you have any friends that are like babies? And she's like, 476 00:33:35,240 --> 00:33:37,480 well, I have a friend who's too. Yeah. He's like, 477 00:33:37,599 --> 00:33:39,839 do you think she'd let me change your diaper? Huh? And then so 478 00:33:40,119 --> 00:33:45,480 they had to create a AI image of a baby, right because I couldn't 479 00:33:45,519 --> 00:33:47,480 use a real baby as a real picture of it, right, Yeah what 480 00:33:47,640 --> 00:33:51,680 a creep? Yeah, And then the guy was like, oh, yeah, 481 00:33:51,680 --> 00:33:53,519 she's she'd be great, Like do you think she'd want to hang out? 482 00:33:53,599 --> 00:33:58,839 Like, oh yeah, like a two year old wants babies cool? 483 00:33:58,960 --> 00:34:01,759 Right? And the mom's just gonna be cool with the two Yeah yeah, 484 00:34:01,880 --> 00:34:05,920 what the fuck? Yeah, bring your friends, we'll all hang out. 485 00:34:06,039 --> 00:34:07,679 Like how is she gonna go? Like? Can I borrow your baby? 486 00:34:08,000 --> 00:34:13,519 Right? Like? And did you see the one guy that was meeting up 487 00:34:13,559 --> 00:34:17,280 with her? And he basically just had a disgusting truck with tons of trash 488 00:34:17,320 --> 00:34:22,480 and razors and knives and duct tape. And she was like this wasn't would 489 00:34:22,480 --> 00:34:24,320 have been a real like put you in the car, take you away, 490 00:34:24,320 --> 00:34:28,920 and rape your thing. Yeah, and kill you probably kill you probably yeah, 491 00:34:28,960 --> 00:34:31,519 yeah, and I The otherwise were more like trying to wine and dine 492 00:34:31,559 --> 00:34:37,119 them. You know. It was funny because John is usually very squeamish about 493 00:34:37,119 --> 00:34:39,639 these things, but he was like couldn't get it. He was just like, 494 00:34:39,960 --> 00:34:43,320 is there another one? And I'm like, yeah, it's gonna roll 495 00:34:43,360 --> 00:34:45,400 into that. He's like, show me, like because he came in late, 496 00:34:45,519 --> 00:34:47,920 so it was like, is there do you have a favorite? I'm 497 00:34:47,920 --> 00:34:52,719 like, well, that's weird, like a favorite episode of like a Pedophile, 498 00:34:52,840 --> 00:34:55,559 A pedophile, like my favorite pedophile. And I was like, well 499 00:34:55,599 --> 00:34:59,480 I kind of do. And I showed him the Diaper Guy episode, right 500 00:35:00,480 --> 00:35:02,840 yeah, and John was just like, oh, you know when I watched 501 00:35:02,880 --> 00:35:08,360 a lot of this on my birthday, Happy birthday step but it was like, 502 00:35:08,400 --> 00:35:12,320 what a great way to spend my birthday. I laid around in bed 503 00:35:12,360 --> 00:35:15,280 because of my foot the whole day and just watched one episode after another. 504 00:35:15,519 --> 00:35:20,079 Yeah, that's the best. I'm like eight candy. And then I went 505 00:35:20,079 --> 00:35:24,639 out for dinner with Elbie and with Sadie and Xander and John and me and 506 00:35:24,719 --> 00:35:29,719 Elbi and Elbie's boyfriend. Really yeah, well, let's do let's do it 507 00:35:29,840 --> 00:35:31,280 on. Then let's talk about what you did for your birthday. Okay, 508 00:35:31,320 --> 00:35:37,119 let's talk about something really fun. Loumi Labs. Loumi Lab microdose. I've 509 00:35:37,199 --> 00:35:44,719 been taking the THHC microdose. The which one was it that we that we 510 00:35:44,840 --> 00:35:49,239 talked about, Well, we there's the microdose and then there's also a stronger 511 00:35:49,280 --> 00:35:51,679 one, Kaitlin, you're taking the stronger one sometimes, right, Yeah, 512 00:35:51,719 --> 00:35:53,480 I like to take the stronger one just to relax at the end of the 513 00:35:53,559 --> 00:35:57,880 day after I do all my pawn work and I'm gone all day and I'm 514 00:35:57,960 --> 00:36:00,039 tired and I don't want to do anything, and it's at night, and 515 00:36:01,159 --> 00:36:07,239 yeah, yes, I do the THHC microdose and it's the lesser it's the 516 00:36:07,360 --> 00:36:13,880 very less weak version, right, and I am moving up to a full 517 00:36:14,280 --> 00:36:16,400 one. I started with a half a gummy now because it just it just 518 00:36:16,719 --> 00:36:22,599 takes away all like the heaviness of feeling, of that anxiousness at the end 519 00:36:22,639 --> 00:36:25,519 of the day. And then I noticed I sleep so much better, Like 520 00:36:25,519 --> 00:36:29,840 I put I go into a really deep sleep, I don't wake up. 521 00:36:29,880 --> 00:36:35,000 It's been great. I love it. And it's microdose is available nationwide, 522 00:36:35,119 --> 00:36:37,840 by the way, and you can learn more about microdosing thc. If you 523 00:36:37,880 --> 00:36:43,039 go to microdose dot com and use the code FCL, you'll get free shipping 524 00:36:43,039 --> 00:36:46,480 and thirty percent off your first order. So and also links can be found 525 00:36:46,480 --> 00:36:51,880 in the show description. But again that's microdose dot com and the code is 526 00:36:51,920 --> 00:36:57,320 FCL. So this was kind of funny. After so we went to dinner 527 00:36:57,360 --> 00:37:00,760 at this place that I really like, this fish place, and then when 528 00:37:00,760 --> 00:37:06,360 it came home. It's called King's Fish House in cal Basis. Ever been 529 00:37:06,400 --> 00:37:08,599 there? No, but I know somebody that goes out all time. Oh 530 00:37:08,679 --> 00:37:14,000 you do, yeah, somebody you like? Yeah? Well, I just 531 00:37:14,079 --> 00:37:17,119 it's a really good restaurant. Anyway, came home, had some cake, 532 00:37:17,320 --> 00:37:23,639 and then me and Elbie and the twins and Elbie's boyfriend played Cards against Humanity? 533 00:37:27,840 --> 00:37:30,000 You ever play that? Never? I've never played You've never played it? 534 00:37:30,320 --> 00:37:35,079 But it's filthy, Yeah, that's what I hear. Yeah, it's 535 00:37:35,480 --> 00:37:39,000 filthy. I mean, like, for instance, so you know, it's 536 00:37:39,000 --> 00:37:42,800 like Apples to Apples, which I don't know if you've played that either. 537 00:37:42,840 --> 00:37:45,119 So they give you a card and it's like, um, you know, 538 00:37:45,239 --> 00:37:51,599 I don't know. My favorite song on the radio is Blank Loves Blank or 539 00:37:51,639 --> 00:37:54,079 whatever, and then you have to you get all these answer cards and then 540 00:37:54,119 --> 00:37:59,440 you pick which card you want to put in that will be funny going with 541 00:37:59,480 --> 00:38:01,800 the question in cards, okay, and then the person whose turn it is 542 00:38:02,320 --> 00:38:07,920 reads the so you read the question again, whatever it is. I went 543 00:38:07,960 --> 00:38:10,920 to the store because I was trying to find some uh, some potatoes, 544 00:38:12,119 --> 00:38:16,960 but instead I used astro gel. Right, So then you put in your 545 00:38:16,960 --> 00:38:22,960 card for astro gel, you know, a racist cop or whatever. But 546 00:38:22,039 --> 00:38:28,039 some of the cards are just like when your dick runs out of seman or 547 00:38:28,079 --> 00:38:31,519 something like really really dirty. And then as a mom, you have to 548 00:38:31,559 --> 00:38:34,760 be like, well, when I was in my twenties, that would have 549 00:38:34,760 --> 00:38:37,039 been hilarious, is it? How funny is it when you're playing with your 550 00:38:37,039 --> 00:38:42,440 fifteen year old now right now? Embarrassing? But like you don't want to 551 00:38:42,440 --> 00:38:46,679 be uncool either because the kids think it's It's like the kids find it cringe 552 00:38:47,119 --> 00:38:52,519 halfway between cringe and kind of cool funny that you're not like you you have 553 00:38:52,599 --> 00:38:55,480 to be really cool. Yeah, Like, no matter what it is, 554 00:38:55,559 --> 00:39:00,920 you have to just be like not even laugh or not go like, oh, 555 00:39:00,960 --> 00:39:02,760 I can't put this card down, this is disgusting, Like you have 556 00:39:02,840 --> 00:39:07,760 to just be like put it down and then and then you gotta stay cool. 557 00:39:07,480 --> 00:39:10,440 Yeah, and then if it's like sometimes you'll put in the grossest card 558 00:39:10,480 --> 00:39:13,880 and the person will pick it, and then I'll be like, then you 559 00:39:13,960 --> 00:39:16,840 raise your hand like that was mine because and then the kids will be like, 560 00:39:17,159 --> 00:39:22,239 mom, I'm like, well it went with the question the right. 561 00:39:22,440 --> 00:39:28,119 I'm a writer and I tell jokes, and so why not. I can't 562 00:39:28,199 --> 00:39:30,280 decide if it's like something I never want to do again, or if it 563 00:39:30,360 --> 00:39:34,199 was kind of funny. That sounds fun though, I think that's fun. 564 00:39:34,639 --> 00:39:39,119 Yeah, yeah, so um yeah, And I mean the kids are funny 565 00:39:39,199 --> 00:39:43,320 and they're you know, what they're doing this week is Groundlings week? Yeah? 566 00:39:43,360 --> 00:39:46,039 What's that? What is ground Like? They go and every day every 567 00:39:46,119 --> 00:39:52,039 day, Sadie going, Sadie's going too, so and they have this friend 568 00:39:52,920 --> 00:39:58,920 so, oh my gosh, this is so funny. So Xander made this 569 00:39:59,039 --> 00:40:04,639 friend the last time he was at Groundlings. Um, and she's super sweet 570 00:40:04,639 --> 00:40:08,559 girl. And she lives though far. She lives like deep in Orange County. 571 00:40:08,840 --> 00:40:15,320 I believe is Lake Forest passed Long Beach. Yeah, it's real, 572 00:40:15,679 --> 00:40:20,599 That's where I play it. Okay, it's like getting close to San Clemente, 573 00:40:20,480 --> 00:40:22,480 Yeah, where I had to work with that stupid doctor for a while. 574 00:40:22,880 --> 00:40:29,840 Yeah. So she lives freaking far. So I suggested they're really good 575 00:40:29,840 --> 00:40:31,679 friends with her, and the parents are super nice. I mean I couldn't 576 00:40:31,679 --> 00:40:35,079 pick them out of a lineup, but I met them one time at the 577 00:40:35,119 --> 00:40:40,639 Groundlings. And then they will sometimes drop her off, and then they'll drop 578 00:40:40,639 --> 00:40:46,599 her off somewhere and then like just waste time like in the city so she 579 00:40:46,639 --> 00:40:50,159 can hang out with her friends, and then they'll come back and get her, 580 00:40:50,239 --> 00:40:52,159 which is really nice, nice something we would totally do. Yeah, 581 00:40:52,199 --> 00:40:58,920 So John took Xander to go see her for her birthday. I drove like 582 00:40:59,079 --> 00:41:04,360 basically to sant Lamente to and was an hour late because it was way further 583 00:41:04,440 --> 00:41:07,920 than he even thought it would be, and then farther than he thought it 584 00:41:07,960 --> 00:41:12,559 would be anyway. And then John went and like had to like waste time 585 00:41:12,599 --> 00:41:15,960 and he ended up because he was having so much fun and he just kept 586 00:41:15,000 --> 00:41:20,079 texting like I'm sorry, but like now we're driving to like Laguna Beach, 587 00:41:20,719 --> 00:41:24,840 and so John was such a trooper. Yeah, he just kept texting me 588 00:41:24,880 --> 00:41:29,199 and he was like, well, I'm on hour four, you know, 589 00:41:29,440 --> 00:41:31,679 And he was just like hanging out in a car in a parking lot. 590 00:41:31,840 --> 00:41:36,199 Like it's kind of what I would do for volleyball. Yeah, I would 591 00:41:36,239 --> 00:41:38,920 just go and but but I had this stupid TESTO would run out of battery 592 00:41:38,960 --> 00:41:43,920 by time I got there. I'd have fine a place to sit and charge 593 00:41:43,960 --> 00:41:46,800 it up. Anyway, in between her games, I'm hanging out with the 594 00:41:47,519 --> 00:41:52,360 moms and stuff. So I go sit in the car and just killed time 595 00:41:52,559 --> 00:41:55,360 yea in the podcast and just wait. And then she texts me we're playing 596 00:41:55,400 --> 00:41:59,239 again. I go into like, yeah, I get it. I go 597 00:41:59,280 --> 00:42:01,800 to a subway and sitting around like just killed time. I know. I 598 00:42:01,840 --> 00:42:05,880 told him at one point, because he was going to be a while because 599 00:42:06,400 --> 00:42:08,360 they had driven to the beach, I was like, why don't you go 600 00:42:08,400 --> 00:42:12,199 see a movie? Yeah, and he's like, oh, that's fine, 601 00:42:12,280 --> 00:42:15,519 it'll probably be soon. And it wasn't. It was he was down there 602 00:42:15,559 --> 00:42:21,480 from like three o'clock to like nine o'clock or something. It was insane, 603 00:42:22,159 --> 00:42:24,119 or like four to ten whatever it was. It was like six hours. 604 00:42:24,320 --> 00:42:29,559 Yeah, just sitting in the car. But anyway, the point of telling 605 00:42:29,599 --> 00:42:34,159 you that was that there, I love this girl, I love this friendship 606 00:42:34,599 --> 00:42:37,320 and they're all doing IMPROV, and I was like, why don't you just 607 00:42:37,440 --> 00:42:40,719 invite her to sleep over one night? So Improv is every day from like 608 00:42:40,760 --> 00:42:44,599 one thirty to three thirty, So it's like, why don't we just take 609 00:42:44,599 --> 00:42:46,760 her home, have her parents drop her at Improv and they go home, 610 00:42:47,159 --> 00:42:50,719 and then we take her home from We take her to our house, she 611 00:42:50,800 --> 00:42:53,119 sleeps over, yeah, like hangs out, and then we bring her back 612 00:42:53,159 --> 00:42:55,639 to IMPROV the next day, and her parents could pick her up the next 613 00:42:55,880 --> 00:43:01,599 perfect right after Improv. So then yesterday Xander's like, yeah, her parents 614 00:43:01,679 --> 00:43:05,360 like that idea so much. We want to see if we can do two 615 00:43:05,440 --> 00:43:08,159 nights. I was just gonna say why one night? Why I stop there? 616 00:43:08,400 --> 00:43:12,320 Well, I you know what, And Xander was like, is there 617 00:43:12,320 --> 00:43:14,920 any way we could do that? And I was like why. Yeah. 618 00:43:15,159 --> 00:43:19,119 It reminds me of the old days where I would tell you I love being 619 00:43:19,159 --> 00:43:22,320 the house that like the kids all come to our house. Remember when I 620 00:43:22,360 --> 00:43:27,159 had those neighbors that lived across the street that we're always like coming to our 621 00:43:27,159 --> 00:43:30,480 house and going through our pantry, right, And I was like, yeah, 622 00:43:30,559 --> 00:43:35,320 I Karen, it's summertime, that's what they do, Like yeah, 623 00:43:35,440 --> 00:43:38,559 yes, and why I have to waste all that driving back and forth. 624 00:43:38,679 --> 00:43:43,079 Right, So she's gonna come, I believe, like on So this is 625 00:43:43,159 --> 00:43:47,519 Friday, so basically today she's going home. So she's gonna come. Remember 626 00:43:47,519 --> 00:43:52,440 we recorded this earlier in the week. She's coming home with us on Wednesday, 627 00:43:52,559 --> 00:43:54,280 so her parents will drop her off and she's gonna stay Wednesday night. 628 00:43:54,559 --> 00:43:58,599 We'll take her to improv on Thursday. She'll come home with us, say 629 00:43:58,639 --> 00:44:00,320 Thursday night, and then we'll take her improv and then her parents will come 630 00:44:00,320 --> 00:44:04,199 pick her up from there. It's perfect. I know. I love that 631 00:44:04,280 --> 00:44:07,280 her parents are probably like, thank the Lord. I mean, I love 632 00:44:07,320 --> 00:44:10,920 being able to help them out. I think they're like doing the Lord's work 633 00:44:12,000 --> 00:44:15,719 by driving her so far every day to do an activity she likes. Yeah, 634 00:44:15,760 --> 00:44:19,039 but yeah, also we can help out. And also it'll just be 635 00:44:19,079 --> 00:44:22,800 fun for the kids, like a friend for two days. Yeah. Straight. 636 00:44:22,920 --> 00:44:25,880 So they're both friends with her. So Xander was friends with her originally 637 00:44:25,920 --> 00:44:30,519 because he met her doing improv, but then she came over. They all 638 00:44:30,599 --> 00:44:35,360 went to the grove. One day. They all went to this shopping place 639 00:44:35,880 --> 00:44:40,719 and Xander brought Sadie to meet her, and apparently they had a great time 640 00:44:40,840 --> 00:44:45,920 all together, and so now they're all doing improv. That's great, it's 641 00:44:45,920 --> 00:44:50,320 great. I love that. I know her summer is all about. Yeah, 642 00:44:50,320 --> 00:44:52,960 and my kids are doing so little this summer that I'm like, anyway 643 00:44:53,000 --> 00:44:57,360 I can make this week more memorable. Yeah, yeah, I was going 644 00:44:57,440 --> 00:45:00,920 to take them somewhere, but like my waking food, right, I can't 645 00:45:00,960 --> 00:45:05,039 take them on a trip right now. Yeah, my kids are doing just 646 00:45:05,159 --> 00:45:07,440 fine on their own. Dird Like, you know, Natalia is going to 647 00:45:07,480 --> 00:45:10,880 Laguna Beach, she's with her friend. Then she's going to Lake Arrowhead with 648 00:45:12,320 --> 00:45:15,519 you know, Sonny is like Sonny's hanging out with these like six of his 649 00:45:15,840 --> 00:45:20,719 friends and each one is like out of town. This was so he always 650 00:45:20,719 --> 00:45:23,559 has somebody that they're hanging out. Sonny's very close to getting his full on 651 00:45:23,719 --> 00:45:28,519 license, thank god. What's the date? Um, he has one more 652 00:45:29,280 --> 00:45:32,679 lesson that he has to take with the dude and then he can go and 653 00:45:32,840 --> 00:45:38,119 we can make a can make an appointment and take him and then his driver. 654 00:45:38,519 --> 00:45:43,599 His teacher is just such a hippie dippy dude. It's hilarious. Um, 655 00:45:43,840 --> 00:45:46,480 but he like he's now like he likes the guy, but like him 656 00:45:46,480 --> 00:45:51,400 and Sonny and his friends went to Malibu for to his dad's like on the 657 00:45:51,480 --> 00:45:57,400 fourth and I get a phone call, like on their way they got stranded. 658 00:45:57,679 --> 00:46:02,239 They his friend hit something and something was dragging on the bottom of the 659 00:46:02,239 --> 00:46:06,320 car. So they were like on their way to Malibo for Fourth of July 660 00:46:06,480 --> 00:46:09,840 to meet their dad, Adam. And so they called me and he's like, 661 00:46:10,440 --> 00:46:14,480 do you think we could borrow your car? And it's like, no, 662 00:46:15,679 --> 00:46:17,679 what the what? And I said, tell you Franandre to call his 663 00:46:17,800 --> 00:46:22,079 dad. His dad is a dude, like he should be over to come, 664 00:46:22,159 --> 00:46:24,280 you know. So anyway, long story short, he had this whole 665 00:46:24,360 --> 00:46:29,320 fiasco. But yeah, they've been driving around, you know, their parents' 666 00:46:29,360 --> 00:46:32,239 cars. He's been driving. I've been taking him for drives, like every 667 00:46:32,320 --> 00:46:36,480 night when I'm with him. It's been fun, but yeah, I can't 668 00:46:36,519 --> 00:46:39,320 wait. And then, um, I can't wait for them to drive like 669 00:46:39,440 --> 00:46:44,239 they need to have you know, I'm constantly taking to Talia to like Pasadena 670 00:46:44,280 --> 00:46:47,079 for her Berri's boot camp. Then I get sucked into doing it right, 671 00:46:47,239 --> 00:46:51,159 which is good for me, but right, but yes, she can't get 672 00:46:51,280 --> 00:46:55,239 She didn't get her permit until more recently because he took he got his his 673 00:46:55,559 --> 00:47:01,119 permit before her, Right, she took three times to get to get it, 674 00:47:01,239 --> 00:47:04,400 right, He took once, I think, and he got it. 675 00:47:05,039 --> 00:47:07,960 So yeah, so that's why he's he's eligible. But she's going to be 676 00:47:07,960 --> 00:47:13,079 eligible in a couple when when school starts, so it'll be nice. If 677 00:47:13,079 --> 00:47:15,760 they're under eighteen, they have to have a permit for six months, right, 678 00:47:15,920 --> 00:47:20,519 yeah, right, right, so then he's had their permit at fifteen 679 00:47:20,559 --> 00:47:22,559 and a half. Yeah, so my kids, one of them that has 680 00:47:22,639 --> 00:47:29,000 completed the permit, has completed the applicant you know, yeah, has their 681 00:47:29,239 --> 00:47:32,119 certificate, but they have to go past the learners protest. I have to 682 00:47:32,159 --> 00:47:36,800 go in and bring proof of the address and all that stuff. And then 683 00:47:36,840 --> 00:47:40,280 the other one, which is Xander, hasn't hasn't taken it, like is 684 00:47:40,320 --> 00:47:45,199 signed up and for the online course, but hasn't done anything yet, right 685 00:47:45,480 --> 00:47:47,559 right, he's being lazy. Yeah, I'm like, just do it so 686 00:47:47,599 --> 00:47:51,199 I can bring you guys both at the same time. Yeah, that would 687 00:47:51,239 --> 00:47:52,960 be nice. That would mean that's what I was trying to do. But 688 00:47:53,519 --> 00:47:57,960 Sonny wasn't ready yet. She was trying to you know, they were just 689 00:47:58,000 --> 00:48:01,239 at two different times. But it's getting there. They're getting there. Yeah, 690 00:48:01,320 --> 00:48:04,840 you have to bring so much stuff. You have to bring their birth 691 00:48:04,840 --> 00:48:07,559 certificate, yeah, the drivers and then at one point I had to co 692 00:48:07,800 --> 00:48:10,920 backed when I took the taliat. There was so much fiasco with her. 693 00:48:10,960 --> 00:48:15,119 I don't know why. I had to go back and get my marriage license 694 00:48:15,599 --> 00:48:19,480 because of something, because I don't know, and so I had to get 695 00:48:19,679 --> 00:48:22,920 the marriage I can go back. It was just a like, yeah, 696 00:48:22,960 --> 00:48:25,519 you have to bring proof of where you live. They're like where they go 697 00:48:25,559 --> 00:48:30,480 to school or something. Well that's what I brought. And then yeah, 698 00:48:30,599 --> 00:48:34,840 well, like you could bring a report card because you have to bring something 699 00:48:34,880 --> 00:48:37,960 that has their name, address, and data birth all on the same reform, 700 00:48:38,159 --> 00:48:42,199 right, so like it could be a doctor's bill, it could be 701 00:48:42,239 --> 00:48:45,840 a medical thing, but it has to be you know, it could be 702 00:48:45,840 --> 00:48:50,280 a bank statement, I think, but like I think. I remember I 703 00:48:50,320 --> 00:48:52,559 brought extra stuff for LB because I was like in case they don't accept something, 704 00:48:52,760 --> 00:48:55,440 right, Yeah, So I had her like report card and a medical 705 00:48:55,480 --> 00:49:00,480 thing and this and like her school ide and like yeah it's a pain, 706 00:49:00,639 --> 00:49:05,760 Yeah, it is a pain. But once they have their license home free, 707 00:49:05,880 --> 00:49:07,039 yeah, except then they need a car. Then they need a car. 708 00:49:07,239 --> 00:49:10,719 Yeah, but like I let I would let let them take my car 709 00:49:10,840 --> 00:49:15,320 like that, they have a dentist appointment. Our dentist is right up the 710 00:49:15,360 --> 00:49:19,519 streets, closer than Starbucks. So I would be like, take my car 711 00:49:19,559 --> 00:49:22,119 and go to the dentist. Yeah, it's right there, or walk Sonny 712 00:49:22,119 --> 00:49:24,599 walks. Actually, yeah, do you think you're going to get a car 713 00:49:24,639 --> 00:49:29,280 for them to share? They have one now that there's that Adam has been 714 00:49:29,360 --> 00:49:31,920 driving, so he's going to give them that car, okay, and then 715 00:49:32,119 --> 00:49:37,880 Sonny's probably gonna get it first. Oh okay, yeah, then they're gonna 716 00:49:37,920 --> 00:49:40,559 have to share. Yeah cool, all right. Well, speaking of cars, 717 00:49:40,599 --> 00:49:45,039 if you want a car and you want some help getting a car, 718 00:49:45,639 --> 00:49:50,360 um, use my friend Adam Lerner. His phone numbers three one zero nine 719 00:49:50,519 --> 00:49:53,360 nine eight seven zero four eight, or you can go to his website. 720 00:49:53,440 --> 00:49:59,000 Adam's got a car dot com and he could hook you up with the best 721 00:49:59,039 --> 00:50:00,719 deal, better deal, and you'll be able to find He knows. He 722 00:50:00,760 --> 00:50:04,840 can get used cars, he can get you a lease, he can get 723 00:50:04,840 --> 00:50:08,559 you a new car. Whatever you want to do, Adam can help you 724 00:50:08,679 --> 00:50:14,719 do it for cheaper. There's no fee, so um, it's just a 725 00:50:14,800 --> 00:50:17,159 service that he does and he gets a kickback from like the dealerships that he 726 00:50:17,280 --> 00:50:22,480 works with. Yeah, so check that out and that's it. Wow. 727 00:50:22,800 --> 00:50:29,880 Thanks Thanks Kaylin, you're a parent now, don't f it up. Good