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Welcome back in your leadership. I'm
Chris and I'm Lorenzo, and Lorenzo on

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this episode, I want to talk
about networking. Yeah, it's a good

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topic. I think it's important,
and we're talking about actual like people and

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not computers though, right, yes, absolutely, yeah, this is uh

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okay. I want to make sure
this is not transition to an IT show

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behind your back without you knowing.
Yes, I've seen a rise in people

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posting on LinkedIn around a job they
just got, like either they were searching

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for a job for a while,
or they were laid off from their organization

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and they were on a job search
for a while and they and they are

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posting about that they landed a job, they got their new whatever the next

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thing is. And the rise that
I'm seeing is in the number of people

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who in that post on LinkedIn,
they credit their network for this opportunity,

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meaning it's not oh, I spent
you know, ten hours a day applying

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to thousands of jobs and then eventually
one one got it. It's it's I

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love ridged my network and I couldn't
have done this without that, And I

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like that. I'd like to believe
that the effort that people put into relationships

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from from a true standpoint of not
what can this person or this relationship do

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for me now or down the road, but just I like this person,

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we have similar values. Let's let's
let's be friends, right because because you

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know, you never know when your
network might come into play in terms of

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your your next career move. And
I like seeing that that rise in that.

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But but this idea of networking,
I think a lot of people they

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they assume it means in places where
they aren't normally you know, at like

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they're at a cocktail mixer or a
somebody's wedding, or at a conference,

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and they strike up a conversation and
someone has to happens to have a common

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interest. What I want to talk
about when it comes to networking is networking

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within the organization you already have.
So you're in a job right now,

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and there are hundreds, maybe thousands
of people who work in the same organization.

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And these are people who you don't
have the opportunity to work alongside every

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day. You might encounter them by
happenstance or because you're on a temporary project

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or this particular call that you were
on. But but they're right there all

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the time. I think a lot
of people think, oh, they're always

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there, almost like a relative who
lives right across town and they're they're older,

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and you find out they passed away, and you regret that you never

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reached out, and you think,
well, they're always there, they're they're

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close. I don't have to make
the effort. They're always going to be

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there. And then and then that
goes away. I think a lot of

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people leave organizations in the exact same
way. They don't ever cultivate the relationships

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and the networking that they should do
within their own organization, and they and

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they don't. They don't realize the
benefit of doing that while they're there with

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people who they wouldn't encounter normally.
Think that hurts them in the long run.

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And the people who do it the
right way, I think it just

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pays off in dividends throughout their entire
career. Yeah, I mean, it's

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it's such a great point because I
think that, you know, the the

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easy thing to do for a lot
of people is like, you're you're gonna

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show up to work, You're gonna
do what the job is, You're gonna

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work with, you know, whether
it's a team or you know, you

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you contribute your own work by yourself, but you're gonna have a direct boss,

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like you're gonna have people that are
within kind of your day to day

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circle that you'll spend most of your
time with. Typically, of course,

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if you work from home, maybe
it's a virtual team things like that,

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but there are people that you will
see and talk to or communicate with quite

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often. And I think that for
for most people, that's like okay,

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like I can I kind of exist
in this in this space and I'm gonna,

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you know, leverage my team for
what I need and build relationships and

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spend time with people that type of
thing, and and then that's typically enough.

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And I think kind of what you're
talking about. And I think what

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is a great point from the Lincoln
standpoint is like those that understand the power

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of relationships, you know, the
power of people understanding who you are,

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the work that you do, your
approach to the work, and you understanding

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them and getting to know them well. That pays off not only locally in

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the role that you currently have,
but of course into the future as well,

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because that's what happens. People change
jobs, they change companies, they

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change careers, and if you've been
a part of working with individuals and they

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know that you're someone who does great
work. They know that they can kind

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of trust you. They know that
they're aware of how you approach the work,

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how you treat other people. Those
things matter a lot as you grow

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your career. Again, whether it's
the same company over time, because you're

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the decision makers are different. So
like what you know to get from this

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job to the next job, Maybe
it's just your direct boss and the movement

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or the promotion is within their you
know, kind of organization, so they're

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the only one that's really involved.
And then you continue to move your career,

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then your boss's boss becomes a decision
maker. Then there might be your

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boss as bosses, you know,
partners or peers may be a part of

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a process. Like you have,
these things that happen over time where the

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amount of people involved in decisions to
your career and your day to day work

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become more and more that if you're
not building relationships or at least getting to

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know those people or you know,
helping them to see who you are and

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what you do ahead of those conversations, it can be a lot harder to

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work and navigate those opportunities versus someone
who understands and is always looking to get

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to know somebody and say hi and
spend a couple of minutes talking to them,

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find out what they do, share
with them what you do a lot

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of companies and organizations and people are
always up to grab coffee with someone or

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talk to them for a minute or
say hey, I know we just met.

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I'd love to learn more about you
and kind of the work that you

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do and see, like, are
there any elements where we kind of cross

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passed from a work standpoint, Like
will we be able to grab coffee?

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Or can I get like fifteen minutes
of your time just so we can kind

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of like get to know you a
little bit more. Most people that I've

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met in life are like, yeah, of course, like no product,

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Yeah sure, why not? And
those things are so important when it comes

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to building that network and creating those
opportunities for now and for the future.

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Yeah, that's perfectly stated. There's
a Harvard Business Review article that was published

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this week that talks about this,
and it references Carol Dweck's work on growth

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mindset versus fixed mindset, which we've
spoken about on the podcast before and around

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this idea of the work that is
needed in order to do this, and

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I like the way this article,
you know, kind of summarizes this because

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I look at networking and relationships with
people in terms of what in terms of

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how it grows your network and how
it sets you up for having your network

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be a powerful force that can act
on your behalf in the future. I

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look at relationships with people almost like
then diagrams, And so the person who

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works as a peer of mine on
my team with me, who is in

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the same place in their career as
me, in the you know, approximately

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the same you know, stage of
life as me, the then diagram between

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me and that person almost lines up
perfectly with itself. So you know,

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there's gonna be some some deviation a
little bit, but it's like two circles

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that almost completely overlap. And then
a person who who doesn't look like me,

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and who doesn't who isn't in the
same stage of life as me,

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and who doesn't work on the same
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another part of the organization doing something
differently. Those two the circle of me

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and that person, they do not
overlap at all, or they they maybe

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overlap a little bit. Because we're
the same organization, but it's a much

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further apart than diagram, And then
a person who works for an entirely other

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organization is even further apart. Another
industry would be even further apart. I

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think that because a lot of people
don't realize that even though you might change

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jobs several times throughout your career,
it's actually pretty it's a lot less likely

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for a person to change industries in
their career more than maybe once. I

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think people don't realize that even if
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lot of other people did in that
same time, and having those people in

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your network while they were there,
they're still in your network once they've left,

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And so cultivating those relationships with as
many people who have as disparate then

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diagram circles from you as possible,
that's the way to grow the network the

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most. Now, the further apart
they are from me in terms of that

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ven diagram, the more effort it
takes to build that relationship because there's less

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commonality. If I'm sitting in the
cubicle next to a person and they look

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like me and we like the same
music and we're doing the same work doesn't

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take much effort. As long as
you're not a jerk, you're probably gonna

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have a good relationship with that person. That doesn't grow your network. What

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grows your network is the effort that
it takes, and this article puts it

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in. When it comes to growth
mindset versus six mindset is that it's this

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belief that, well, if the
then diagram doesn't overlap, then there's no

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point in trying because it's not going
to work out anyway. And obviously that's

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not true. The people I know
of the best networks are the people who

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look at this from a standpoint of
the more effort that this takes, it

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means that the more likely is that
it will grow my network in a substantially

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meaningful way over time. And if
people can kind of cultivate that that mindset

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about it, I think it will
pay off in the long run. Yeah,

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it's a great point. I think
of the times when my networks have

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expanded like quickly, and those things
have always been a like. Those things

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have always happened because I was put
in a situation, or put on a

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team, or did something with my
time that exposed me to different audiences.

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So you know, I've been a
part of kind of voluntaring my time for

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decades and decades, multiple companies around, you know, different employee groups and

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things like that, and helping to
support up and coming leaders and like leaders

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development programs and like. When you
do that, you end up meeting people

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that are also passionate about that same
thing, but do jobs completely different than

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yours within the same organization. And
so when that's happened and I meet those

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individuals and we talk and we have
we share this commonality around whether it's like

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you know, advocating for helping people
find their voice and kind of like you

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know, raising their voices up,
or working with up and coming talents and

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helping them to develop from like a
mentorship standpoint. When you have that little

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bit to your point that like those
diagrams just barely touched because you're in the

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same organization, and you find that
little small thing that you have in common

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that you that you like, and
then you start to expand it. I

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found my networks really grow quickly because
it's it's interesting, it's like it's always

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happened. It's like I talked to
this person that I just met, I

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talked to that person that I just
met, we had conversations, and then

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something comes across kind of my desk
that's like, oh man, we've been

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trying to get this thing done.
We just wish that we knew somebody that

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worked over on this team. And
I'm just like, actually, I just

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met someone last week, you know, and I met them through this let

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me reach out and then I plug
two people together and then we get something

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across the finish line. And it's
like it happens almost every single time.

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And so I've learned and realized over
time that importance of networking. But to

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your point, it took effort.
It took me either, you know,

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raising my hand to take on some
responsibility, volunteering my time for some responsibility.

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Every once in a while, I
do get a signed to something where

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I have a different audience and a
different group of people around me that I'm

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meeting, and so I take advantage
of like that opportunity to talk to them

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and understand who they are and what
they do, because I just learned over

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time that that network is so critical
to getting things done quickly. And I

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leveraged my network constantly to find stuff
that people can't find, to get things

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that people are looking for to connect
people that you know, don't know who

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each other are, but they probably
should. And you know, like there's

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so much value to it to me
that I'm always looking for new opportunities to

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be in different groups where I can
learn and grow and build my own network.

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Yeah. Yeah, I look at
it from a standpoint of you know,

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if I if you're if you're picking
carrots out of the ground, you

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can't judge the what the size of
the carrot is going to be based on

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the size of the you know,
the the green sprig that's kind of sticking

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out of the ground, you know. And I think if you if you

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look at it and go, oh, I'm only gonna go for the ones

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where this is this giant thing sticking
out of the ground, and I'm gonna

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assume that the carrot below is a
good sized carrot, and that might that

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might be the case, you know, for you know, in some situations,

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but some of the biggest carrots might
not have anything sticking out of the

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ground. It might take work and
effort to get down to to the to

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where the actual you know, the
desirable part is. But but when you

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get there, it is a uh, it's something that will that will pay

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off dividends in the long run or
or it may not. And that's the

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thing that's where I think people get
stuck, is that they they they want

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to see a one plus one equals
to relationship and and and that is it.

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That's kind of an indicative of a
person who's looking to build relationships only

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with people where they are certain this
relationship will pay off for them in the

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long run. And that's not actually
networking, that's just self serving. The

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right way to build relationships is to
find ways where your skill set and the

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things that you do well and the
things that you are good at and the

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things that you are passionate about can
help others. And if you can do

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that in that way, the way
that that will grow your network is in

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a way that is selfless. And
growing your network in a way that says

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I'm only looking to help others is
the only way to grow it effectively over

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the long term. Because it's fine
to build a network with someone who you

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know they can do something for you
in the long run because they know that's

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why you're doing it anyway, And
that's fine too. You're gonna have some

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people like that in your career where
it's just necessary to do that and it's

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the smart thing to do. But
the people I know who are the happiest

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and who have this strongest, largest
networks over a long period of time are

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the ones who just trusted it was
going to happen. They put the effort

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into the individual relationship because they they
liked that process. What they derive from

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it was I like this process.
I like people in general. I like

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talking to people. I like building
relationships with people. I like digging and

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finding the commonalities that I might have
with somebody, even if it might take

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a little bit of time to do
that. And I just trust that over

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a long period of time, enough
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It's not gonna be something I can
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a it's like doing an unpaid internship. In the entertainment industry. The amount

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of people who who are like very, very successful in the entertainment industry now

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who talk about how their first job
was for the first three years, they

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didn't make any money. They got
coffee for people because what they got out

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of it was just being in the
room, right. And it's like that

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if you if you think, well, I want to get paid for every

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single thing that I do, whether
it's money or whether it's in seeing how

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the relationship is going to pay off
for me. If you go into it

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with that mindset, you're not.
You're You're gonna build very, very shallow

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and superficial relationships with people and they'll
know that. But but it won't be

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something that will that will pay off
in the long run and it and it

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won't give you a sense of fulfillment
in terms of the people that you have

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in your network and the the broadening
of your of your worldview that you would

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get out of just genuinely liking people
and making an effort to build relationships because

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you like doing that absolutely. And
with that it brings us to this episodes

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one minute Hack. But first a
few words from our sponsors. All right,

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for this episode one minute Hackers,
or want you to do anytime you're

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meeting somebody new within your organization,
someone who don't work alongside every single day.

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You're meeting this person for the first
time, but they still work for

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the same company as you, I
want you to make a habit of asking

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for time with that person, even
if it's just you know, five minutes

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to talk about common goals and common
interests and what they do for the organization,

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what you do for the organization.
But most importantly, I want you

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to talk to that person about the
things that you're passionate about and the things

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that you believe that you're good at, so that they file that information away

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in their head, and if something
comes along that they need to get done,

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your name pops up in terms of
what you could potentially do to help

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them solve a problem. And so
it's not about making sure that you find

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out what they can do for you. It's about making sure they know what

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you like doing, what you're passionate
about, what you're good at, and

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how you want to make a difference
within the organization or the world as a

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whole. Make sure they know that
information because the more people you do that

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with, the more likely it will
be that someone somewhere down the road is

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going to come up with a situation
where they think, oh, I met

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Lorenzo two weeks or two years ago. I remember him telling me that he

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was passionate about exactly this thing.
Let me reach out to him, and

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that will happened. The more often
you do this the more likely it will

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be, and the first time it
does happen, it will feel absolutely amazing.

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It will validate every every effort that
you made. You won't think about

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the things that you did and that
didn't pay off, because again, it's

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about inserting yourself into as many places
where your passions and your beliefs and your

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values can be on display in the
work that you're getting done. So do

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it as often as you can,
and you will see the fruits of that

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labor over a long period of time. Yeah, I think it's a great

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woman to hack. And you know, I like the asking for time thing

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because sometimes you have the time and
the moment to have a conversation to get

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to know somebody, and sometimes the
space that's been created is exactly for that

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reason when it comes to like allowing
people to get together and to have conversations.

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But you know, asking for the
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hey, like i'd love to get
some time to connect, you know,

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around the work and some of my
passions, and I want to be a

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resource if anything comes across, Like
I want to be a resource, So

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like I'd love for us to connect
about that so I can kind of share

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some of that work and and kind
of and tell people and like kind of

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build my network throughout the organization,
like being upfront with that type of thing.

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So I think it's a great woman
hacking. Yeah. I think the

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most important part about this is understanding
that people inherently know that skills can be

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taught, but a desire to help
people and a genuine love of people and

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a love of creating relationships isn't something
that can necessarily be taught. And so

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when you encounter somebody and you can
make sure that they see your values on

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display, even if they are not
anywhere related to you in terms of the

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work they're getting done, in the
work you're getting done, you will make

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an impression on that person that will
that will potentially cause them to want to

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reach out in the future, even
if the skill set doesn't match. Because

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again we're talking about you know,
potential, uh, you know, long

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term business relationships. Those things cannot
be rooted in skill sets. They are

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rooted in values, and they are
rooted in you know, common interests,

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in common and mindsets. Because the
skills will be taught, the mindset cannot

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be Bring the mindset with you and
show that on display as much as you

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can, and you'll be surprised how
many times you'll have opportunities to leverage those

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into career growth where you might have
to learn a new skill, but you

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were given the door to walk through
because of the values that you showed on

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display in those little moments where you
have the opportunity to meet new people and

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cultivate those relationships. Yeah. Absolutely, I think it's such an important piece

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of like just not only like leadership, but like role modeling for your people.

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How networks are such a critical part
of getting work done along with career

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progression, and with that it brings
us to the end of this episode,

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This is hacking leadership. I'm Lorenzo
and I'm Chris, and we'll talk to

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you all next time.

