WEBVTT 1 00:00:28.320 --> 00:00:31.480 Okay, guys, we're just hopping right into it. Maybe we'll go back 2 00:00:31.480 --> 00:00:33.719 and record the other segments. But if you don't know, we are starting 3 00:00:33.759 --> 00:00:38.799 with this because you're gonna got some major updates. Okay, major updates. 4 00:00:38.920 --> 00:00:41.920 Well, I love AV. I can actually see you in the camera the 5 00:00:42.039 --> 00:00:45.600 camera screen. I didn't even think to do this to me. I can't 6 00:00:45.600 --> 00:00:49.399 see you, but it's okay. I did it for some reason, I 7 00:00:49.399 --> 00:00:53.920 guess because I always have my notes up. Yeah, because last episode I 8 00:00:53.920 --> 00:00:56.640 did notice I cut AV off so many times. But I think its because 9 00:00:56.640 --> 00:00:58.320 I can't see your ass. I don't know when you're about to talk, 10 00:00:58.359 --> 00:01:00.560 so I like say something, but wow, I'm looking right at you in 11 00:01:00.600 --> 00:01:04.200 this camera. That's you know what I'm saying. Yeah, I can't see 12 00:01:04.239 --> 00:01:07.640 you. I guess I lied. I couldn't feel the energy. Yeah, 13 00:01:07.719 --> 00:01:10.799 I need to see you, But now I can. Okay, you guys, 14 00:01:10.959 --> 00:01:15.519 there's a layer you're instigating. Half the episode, we talked about how 15 00:01:15.599 --> 00:01:19.799 Carpenter Bay was giving me the eck, and we decided that, you know, 16 00:01:19.879 --> 00:01:23.599 I'm not gonna go stam or anything crazy, like, it's not enough 17 00:01:23.599 --> 00:01:26.120 to like cut him off, but it definitely has a conversation, and you 18 00:01:26.159 --> 00:01:29.200 know, so I was like, okay, next one hang out, That's 19 00:01:29.200 --> 00:01:32.400 what's gonna happen. So mind you, those past two weeks he's been like 20 00:01:32.400 --> 00:01:34.239 super trying to hang out with me, because you know, the weekend before 21 00:01:34.280 --> 00:01:38.599 we spent the entire weekend together. So that next weekend he got on my 22 00:01:38.640 --> 00:01:40.959 nerves and I was like, you know what, we don't need to hang 23 00:01:40.959 --> 00:01:42.599 out every weekend anyway, but obviously I just need a space to figure out 24 00:01:42.640 --> 00:01:46.359 like where I was with my feelings and how I wanted to handle that situation. 25 00:01:46.920 --> 00:01:49.519 So now you know, we just got done recording. He hit me, 26 00:01:49.560 --> 00:01:51.959 I think the next day, I think it was a Thursday or Friday, 27 00:01:52.319 --> 00:01:55.159 and he was just like, are you working this week? I might 28 00:01:55.239 --> 00:01:57.040 have said this last week, did I tell you? He made plass okay, 29 00:01:57.959 --> 00:02:04.079 yes, oh but I told you okay. So basically the day we 30 00:02:04.159 --> 00:02:06.400 recorded, he did text me, are you working this week? I said 31 00:02:06.719 --> 00:02:08.599 tomorrow, I do have work, but you know, free this weekend? 32 00:02:08.719 --> 00:02:12.520 Like I'm not available on Friday, and he goes, okay, well, 33 00:02:12.560 --> 00:02:15.280 if you're free, let's get dinner and drinks after on Saturday. I said, 34 00:02:15.400 --> 00:02:19.479 down, let me know time and place He says, are you craving 35 00:02:19.479 --> 00:02:23.319 anything specific lately? I said, I could always do Mexican, but I'm 36 00:02:23.319 --> 00:02:24.680 down for whatever. He said, okay, great, Like I'm gonna hit 37 00:02:24.719 --> 00:02:30.280 you when I'm off work and let you know where we're going. Right Thursday, 38 00:02:30.599 --> 00:02:35.319 Saturday comes around, he texts me, I wake up. Honestly, 39 00:02:35.360 --> 00:02:38.560 I love work. Super layos editing the podcast on Friday, so I literally 40 00:02:38.560 --> 00:02:39.400 did not leave work till four in the morning because I had a bunch of 41 00:02:39.400 --> 00:02:43.159 shows to track. So I didn't wake up to like one pm, but 42 00:02:43.199 --> 00:02:46.400 I saw I had like three messages from him. He texted me like ten 43 00:02:46.439 --> 00:02:49.000 in the morning, like, good morning, how was work last night? 44 00:02:49.400 --> 00:02:53.120 I respond at one and I said, like super long with like some emojis. 45 00:02:53.120 --> 00:02:55.319 I said, I didn't leave till four am. How was your night? 46 00:02:57.319 --> 00:03:00.759 He never text me. Sunday rolls around. Oh no, and you 47 00:03:00.800 --> 00:03:06.280 guys, I something in my guy felt something like I was getting ready still 48 00:03:06.319 --> 00:03:07.400 because I was like, you know what, maybe he's like super slammed o 49 00:03:07.520 --> 00:03:12.599 work and like not. This doesn't happen often, but like one time I 50 00:03:12.560 --> 00:03:14.759 remember he did it off work at like eight. We don't have plans, 51 00:03:14.759 --> 00:03:16.319 but like we were planning to hang out. It wasn't necessarily like this time 52 00:03:16.319 --> 00:03:19.680 where he's like, let's get dinner and drinks. But I think he was 53 00:03:19.719 --> 00:03:22.199 like, let's hang out after work, and I remember hitting get up till 54 00:03:22.280 --> 00:03:23.639 nine or something, So in my head, I'm still excited to see him, 55 00:03:23.639 --> 00:03:27.159 like I haven't seen him in a whole week. I'm getting ready. 56 00:03:27.159 --> 00:03:30.199 Everything's working out of my like that's the thing. It was too perfect. 57 00:03:30.240 --> 00:03:31.400 I was like, wow, I have all this time to like shower, 58 00:03:31.479 --> 00:03:34.800 I bow, I blow drive my hair. You guys, that is a 59 00:03:34.840 --> 00:03:38.639 lot. It takes like me almost two hours a blow off my hair, 60 00:03:38.639 --> 00:03:40.759 Like give me a good blowout. I use my good body butter. And 61 00:03:40.800 --> 00:03:44.400 as I'm getting ready, I just like when things are going too perfect, 62 00:03:44.479 --> 00:03:46.080 like my makeup's coming out good. I just I was like, something's gonna 63 00:03:46.120 --> 00:03:50.719 come up, like this is too good to be true. And now I'm 64 00:03:50.719 --> 00:03:52.840 putting my makeup on finishing and I'm like, you know what if he doesn't 65 00:03:52.879 --> 00:03:54.960 hit me by six, now I'm like saying this to myself, like okay, 66 00:03:54.960 --> 00:03:58.759 seven, Like okay, if you don't by eight thirty, plans are 67 00:03:58.919 --> 00:04:03.599 canceled. Fuck him. So now it's like nine, I think I told 68 00:04:03.599 --> 00:04:06.039 myself eight forty five, if this motherfucker don't text me, I know, 69 00:04:06.240 --> 00:04:11.039 terrible, terrible, terrible. And I'm still getting ready and I'm like, 70 00:04:11.280 --> 00:04:15.159 okay, fuck this. I'm not in my head like we won't hang out, 71 00:04:15.199 --> 00:04:15.800 but like when he texted, I'm gona give him shit. But I'm 72 00:04:15.800 --> 00:04:18.560 definitely already gonna make plans because like I'm getting hell of cues. So I 73 00:04:18.639 --> 00:04:23.000 hit up my friend Sonya and I was like, hey, like what are 74 00:04:23.000 --> 00:04:24.879 you doing. She's like, I'm doing Lundra like let's go get a drink. 75 00:04:24.879 --> 00:04:27.160 So I mean her decided to go get drinks, am I, And 76 00:04:27.240 --> 00:04:29.000 I'm still thinking he's gonna text me. I'm gonna be like, well, 77 00:04:29.040 --> 00:04:31.199 I'm not with my friend. I've made plans because you like never hit me 78 00:04:32.519 --> 00:04:34.759 one of the morning, two in the morning, he never text me. 79 00:04:35.480 --> 00:04:39.920 Next day Monday, doesn't text me. You guys, I have not heard 80 00:04:39.920 --> 00:04:46.360 from this man since since worse full since his Saturday morningning. Okay, and 81 00:04:46.199 --> 00:04:49.800 at first, okay, in the beginning, like that night and like even 82 00:04:49.800 --> 00:04:51.879 the next morning, I was like, that's crazy. He ain't even hitting 83 00:04:51.879 --> 00:04:55.800 me up with the follow up text like hey, so sorry, and you 84 00:04:55.800 --> 00:05:00.439 guys know, I got irritated and deleted the text. Friend did she it 85 00:05:00.560 --> 00:05:04.120 didn't have because I would have kept looking and he has his red receipts on 86 00:05:04.160 --> 00:05:08.000 and I know I would like feel so mad if I know for sure. 87 00:05:08.040 --> 00:05:11.160 He goes like if you'd read that shit, but he's didn't text me when 88 00:05:11.199 --> 00:05:13.240 you were checking, like hold on, hold on, hold on, hold 89 00:05:13.240 --> 00:05:15.399 one, hold on, get there, okay. But I'm just like, 90 00:05:15.519 --> 00:05:18.279 at first I was like making jokes like not this motherfucker ghosted me, But 91 00:05:18.439 --> 00:05:20.920 once like Monday, Rodman is like, Okay, this is actually a ghosting. 92 00:05:21.399 --> 00:05:24.360 Like at first I was like, maybe I'm not using the right word, 93 00:05:24.600 --> 00:05:28.279 but like to not even text me the next day an update whatever whatever. 94 00:05:30.240 --> 00:05:32.079 Second sight's crazy story. I kind of don't even want to say to 95 00:05:32.120 --> 00:05:34.800 the person is because it's like almost a legal thing. But I was talking 96 00:05:34.839 --> 00:05:38.800 to a friend who said that she also thought she was getting ghosted, right 97 00:05:39.759 --> 00:05:42.240 because I'm just venting to her, She's like, yeah, like the same 98 00:05:42.279 --> 00:05:46.399 time as you. And she said, basically, this is someone she used 99 00:05:46.399 --> 00:05:47.600 to date a long time ago. She like will always have love for him, 100 00:05:47.600 --> 00:05:49.319 but they just like never worked out, Like you know, he's just 101 00:05:49.360 --> 00:05:51.839 never gonna get a shit together. But she's going through a breakups, so 102 00:05:51.920 --> 00:05:54.920 she's been like talking to him more and they've been like you know, having 103 00:05:54.920 --> 00:05:57.480 phone calls, and in her head she's like, I think I want to 104 00:05:57.519 --> 00:06:00.759 like finally hook up with him. So she's on the phone with him like 105 00:06:00.759 --> 00:06:02.480 they always are, and he's driving, and then she said, all of 106 00:06:02.480 --> 00:06:04.920 a sudden, he like gasp, and she's like, well, what the 107 00:06:04.920 --> 00:06:08.360 fuck and he's like I gotta go. I gotta go. And she's like, 108 00:06:08.360 --> 00:06:10.279 well, are you okay, like what's wrong and he's like, yeah, 109 00:06:10.319 --> 00:06:11.759 I'm fine, I just don't want to talk about it, like I 110 00:06:11.800 --> 00:06:14.800 have to go. Hangs up, and she said the next day like he 111 00:06:14.920 --> 00:06:17.079 never texts her back, and she's like what the fuck? And then she's 112 00:06:17.120 --> 00:06:19.959 like calling him and then like I think a day passed and then she now 113 00:06:20.000 --> 00:06:23.480 she's mad, so she like literally texted him like fuck you, like are 114 00:06:23.480 --> 00:06:25.720 you goes to me right now? You know? And then she noticed he 115 00:06:25.759 --> 00:06:29.399 blogged her or like the text wasn't going through, so she had I think 116 00:06:29.399 --> 00:06:31.279 that's when she had him like on her his work phone like fuck you wow, 117 00:06:32.199 --> 00:06:36.839 or her work phone sorry, So like you gonna get this text I'm 118 00:06:36.839 --> 00:06:41.120 gonna tell you, fucking you gonna read this like you might be done with 119 00:06:41.160 --> 00:06:42.839 me, but I just want to let you know. Fuck but don't even 120 00:06:42.879 --> 00:06:45.639 think about texting me, you know if your are goes to me. She 121 00:06:45.680 --> 00:06:47.079 gets a call from his sister and she's like, Hey, did you talk 122 00:06:47.079 --> 00:06:49.319 to blah blah blah? I heard you, like saw him last Satday. 123 00:06:49.360 --> 00:06:55.399 She's like, yeah, he's in jail because he saw his ex with another 124 00:06:55.519 --> 00:06:59.879 man and got out the car and stabbed him and now was facing a tempt 125 00:07:00.279 --> 00:07:11.519 massa. It's my job, so he said, he said, gotta cut 126 00:07:11.600 --> 00:07:15.959 you back, gotta come in a fucking case. Man. The guy didn't 127 00:07:15.959 --> 00:07:19.680 die, by the way, he did not die. No, wait, 128 00:07:19.680 --> 00:07:21.000 the first thing I said that When she told me, I was like, 129 00:07:21.040 --> 00:07:26.319 well, you know he didn't go see you, you know, I mean, 130 00:07:26.920 --> 00:07:30.319 it's a legitimate excuse to not reply, right because you're in jail. 131 00:07:30.439 --> 00:07:34.319 You don't he in jail you're facing But I wonder why I didn't go through, 132 00:07:34.480 --> 00:07:42.319 like the whole blocking part. M M yeah, not still questioning him. 133 00:07:46.000 --> 00:07:48.879 He's either not over this girl or something. There's some beef with that 134 00:07:48.920 --> 00:07:51.519 guy. Oh no, all around. I think we found a little more 135 00:07:51.560 --> 00:07:56.040 details where it was maybe not asking it like she we're not can get into 136 00:07:56.079 --> 00:07:59.680 it, I legally, but exactly either way, She dotes a bullet like 137 00:07:59.720 --> 00:08:03.160 wow, that's crazy, like he just like ruined his ipen in one second, 138 00:08:03.439 --> 00:08:05.759 also goes to show he was not over his X you know, like 139 00:08:05.240 --> 00:08:09.160 all around it's all bad. Anyways, Well, good for her for finding 140 00:08:09.160 --> 00:08:13.399 out all that. For her to tell me when if something did happen to 141 00:08:13.480 --> 00:08:16.360 him, like obviously I don't think he's in jail or like died, because 142 00:08:16.399 --> 00:08:22.160 my friend definitely looked him up on local obituaries. She's like, what's his 143 00:08:22.240 --> 00:08:28.360 last name? She's crazy? Wait, I was. I was like, 144 00:08:28.480 --> 00:08:31.160 yeah, look, because would be so sad if you like, when you've 145 00:08:31.199 --> 00:08:33.360 been through it already, I get it, like you know what to do. 146 00:08:33.720 --> 00:08:37.840 So yeah, she's wild. So we googled he didn't die or at 147 00:08:37.919 --> 00:08:41.200 least it's not in the system, okay, or in jail. I know, 148 00:08:41.240 --> 00:08:43.879 I literally we don't know. We don't know. Look up the county. 149 00:08:43.600 --> 00:08:46.799 But something she did say. She was like, well, because I 150 00:08:46.799 --> 00:08:48.879 told her, I deleted the text read and then she goes, well, 151 00:08:48.960 --> 00:08:52.200 do you have a MacBook? I know, and I already know where this 152 00:08:52.279 --> 00:08:56.600 is going, because there's times where I think I talked about this last episodes, 153 00:08:56.600 --> 00:08:58.399 but like there's times where I block someone and I'm like cool, and 154 00:08:58.440 --> 00:09:01.480 I open on my laptop and I see text messages from them because it doesn't 155 00:09:01.519 --> 00:09:03.960 like correlate with your MacBook. I'm sure there's a setting you could do. 156 00:09:05.039 --> 00:09:07.559 But so when she told me that, I was like, I don't even 157 00:09:07.600 --> 00:09:11.919 want to know, Like I'm I like this whole like and I don't like 158 00:09:11.960 --> 00:09:16.080 it, but I'm like, I'm gonna see red if like this motherfucker read 159 00:09:16.080 --> 00:09:18.159 my message, like then it's like obvious, like I know he's I guess 160 00:09:18.200 --> 00:09:22.240 I'm still giving him the benefit of the doubt a little bit. I'm not 161 00:09:22.360 --> 00:09:24.279 like I'm more mad and more like fuck you, and like, I know 162 00:09:24.279 --> 00:09:26.720 this motherfucker ain't ghosting me, but a little part of me is like, 163 00:09:26.799 --> 00:09:30.960 damn, what if something did happen? So I told I didn't want to 164 00:09:30.960 --> 00:09:31.919 do that, but of course, the moment I got home, I opened 165 00:09:33.000 --> 00:09:35.639 up that MacBook and it does still say delivered okay, and he has his 166 00:09:35.679 --> 00:09:43.440 red receipts on Yeah, now you know of yeah, but also this motherfucker 167 00:09:43.480 --> 00:09:48.039 knows where I lives, so he could be at my front porch with the 168 00:09:48.039 --> 00:09:54.679 fucking jukebox, so he could leave a letter. He could roll through and 169 00:09:54.720 --> 00:09:56.120 be like, oh sorry, my phone died still down the hand. And 170 00:09:56.240 --> 00:10:00.720 the friend that he talked about, he has round Instagram. He could like 171 00:10:00.759 --> 00:10:05.559 message her and be like, hey, do you have Angelina's number? I'm 172 00:10:05.639 --> 00:10:09.759 and I'm just like if he did, like why you're the one that made 173 00:10:09.759 --> 00:10:13.240 the plans and he texted me that morning, I don't think he's ghosting you. 174 00:10:16.320 --> 00:10:22.600 I don't think he's that is the only thing. Yeah, or something 175 00:10:22.639 --> 00:10:30.559 crazy happened, because that's not a lot of time. Yeah, what have 176 00:10:30.600 --> 00:10:35.039 happened? Or sometime after you just didn't see the text yet you know, 177 00:10:37.159 --> 00:10:41.360 no, like dead ass, like what happened? Maybe someone died because pardon 178 00:10:41.399 --> 00:10:43.360 me, I'm still ready to be like fuck you, But now I'm just 179 00:10:43.399 --> 00:10:46.320 like, wait, does something happen? Like my the girl my friend gave 180 00:10:46.360 --> 00:10:48.799 me anxiety and I'm like wait and like for her to tell me that, 181 00:10:48.879 --> 00:10:52.200 you know, we're all about the science like all that she also got ghosted 182 00:10:52.200 --> 00:10:56.039 on the same day end up being something crazy and yeah, the delivered thing 183 00:10:56.080 --> 00:10:58.720 is what's making mad. But last time we want to go. He's one 184 00:10:58.759 --> 00:11:01.320 of those people that fucking his mailbox has like a thousand because he does in 185 00:11:01.480 --> 00:11:03.639 check that ship. So I'm like, oh, is he someone that like 186 00:11:05.080 --> 00:11:09.360 just won't check a tech this message, you know, like doesn't bother him. 187 00:11:09.720 --> 00:11:11.240 I could also yeah, and he's just like I'm just not going over 188 00:11:11.240 --> 00:11:15.440 her ship, and like I just decided to go make plans and I don't 189 00:11:15.639 --> 00:11:18.039 went drinking with his friends and got sucked up and I was like, damn, 190 00:11:18.039 --> 00:11:20.679 I fucked up. But now I can't text her if he did that 191 00:11:20.000 --> 00:11:24.159 and he didn't open it on purpose, just so that he's like, oh, 192 00:11:24.200 --> 00:11:30.559 Angelina, I want her to see that. Sorryone, that's kind of 193 00:11:31.240 --> 00:11:37.440 lame. No, oh no, And even the situation in general, like 194 00:11:37.480 --> 00:11:41.799 let's say he is ghost to me, like lie to me, like do 195 00:11:41.879 --> 00:11:43.799 you have a common courtesy to just like that? That is the worst thing 196 00:11:43.840 --> 00:11:48.159 you could do. Honestly. You could cancel the plans, say you didn't 197 00:11:48.159 --> 00:11:50.799 want to go do something else. Sorry, I gotta go feed my fucking 198 00:11:50.799 --> 00:11:52.639 goldfish, Angelina, I can't make it today. Like that's the least you 199 00:11:52.639 --> 00:11:56.320 could do. It could be a lie. And then to even further like 200 00:11:56.360 --> 00:11:58.559 not even texted me the next morning like, hey, my bad, I 201 00:11:58.600 --> 00:12:03.080 fucked up, Like that's crazy. On my birthday week, goes to me 202 00:12:03.159 --> 00:12:09.720 on my birthday week, it's crazy, that's ruthless. Just as much as 203 00:12:09.720 --> 00:12:20.240 I want so that you could just I don't think he's ghosting you. Yeah, 204 00:12:20.720 --> 00:12:24.919 Saturday, Sunday, this is Saturday. You guys about to be a 205 00:12:24.919 --> 00:12:28.200 week so you have got a new phone by now, you haven't heard back 206 00:12:28.360 --> 00:12:31.720 nothing. Nothing last night is what I checked if it was on ready to 207 00:12:31.720 --> 00:12:37.039 deliver. It's been a few days then got lost. But what was the 208 00:12:37.080 --> 00:12:41.120 time between? It was a week? Yeah, it was like a week. 209 00:12:41.320 --> 00:12:45.039 Like remember it was like the exact seventh day where we were like ready 210 00:12:45.080 --> 00:12:48.480 to be like throwing in the trash and even that one, like that is 211 00:12:48.639 --> 00:12:52.320 we were in the area of like you could go someone like I've been looking 212 00:12:52.399 --> 00:12:56.320 up and dating for like wow, no, like probably a couple of months 213 00:12:56.360 --> 00:13:00.919 at least. You can ghost me. Ah, you can't ghost me anymore 214 00:13:00.960 --> 00:13:03.679 and it's a conversation at this point, or yeah, you could definitely like 215 00:13:03.679 --> 00:13:07.679 blow me off or like it stop or like signs of I don't want to 216 00:13:07.720 --> 00:13:13.039 hang out with you anymore. But like to make plans that day, You 217 00:13:13.080 --> 00:13:16.200 made plans with me in advance, and also like it's the good morning part 218 00:13:16.240 --> 00:13:18.480 that gets me, Like, so he checked in to make sure you're still 219 00:13:18.519 --> 00:13:24.960 down right, that's another weird thing. That's like what the guys are weirdos 220 00:13:24.080 --> 00:13:28.159 we are weird. I know. Part of me is feeling like exactly, 221 00:13:28.200 --> 00:13:28.919 I'm thinking all those things too, like wow, that is weird that he 222 00:13:28.919 --> 00:13:33.320 would text me that morning, like something must have happened. But I also 223 00:13:33.399 --> 00:13:35.840 just like, don't put nothing past any guys exactly, So that's I'm just 224 00:13:35.879 --> 00:13:39.639 like, yeah, sure, that is a possibility, and like I really 225 00:13:39.639 --> 00:13:43.240 hope nothing like serious happened, like oh, if he's alive, I hope 226 00:13:43.240 --> 00:13:45.559 like his mom and dad are still alive. Like anything other than that, 227 00:13:45.559 --> 00:13:48.799 that's like tragic, you know, yeah, yeah, yeah, because you 228 00:13:48.919 --> 00:13:52.679 never know. I mean, but the slight chance that this motherfucker just left 229 00:13:52.720 --> 00:13:56.480 me on delivered and carried on living his life and doesn't give a fuck to 230 00:13:56.639 --> 00:13:58.840 one cancel the plans, check in with me, or even apologize for ghosting 231 00:13:58.879 --> 00:14:03.159 me that night is like making me. Yeah, just being on my toes 232 00:14:03.159 --> 00:14:07.200 a little bit. So I told myself, I'm not gonna be pressed. 233 00:14:07.360 --> 00:14:09.600 I'm like, this is this is as much pressed I am about though talking 234 00:14:09.600 --> 00:14:13.000 to my friends about it, Like I'm not like crying or losing sleep. 235 00:14:13.679 --> 00:14:18.679 But it's just I've never been ghosted before, so that's why I'm just like 236 00:14:18.759 --> 00:14:24.480 that's crazy. The only one that came close was that that episode that we 237 00:14:24.519 --> 00:14:28.399 had about ghosting, about ghosting, but that was like that was a one 238 00:14:28.440 --> 00:14:31.000 night stand, Like that doesn't count. It's not like a ghost really, 239 00:14:31.320 --> 00:14:37.200 Like I don't even know that guy's last name. Give it a week last 240 00:14:37.240 --> 00:14:45.360 time the first instance, a week turnover this time another week to see okay, 241 00:14:45.440 --> 00:14:48.840 cause does he know when your birthday is? Nobody knows it's coming up? 242 00:14:48.519 --> 00:14:50.559 Like I think I think he asked me a couple of times. I 243 00:14:50.559 --> 00:14:52.480 did not want to tell him because I didn't want to put any pressure on 244 00:14:52.559 --> 00:14:56.320 him having to do anything. But I think one time he did. He 245 00:14:56.440 --> 00:14:58.320 like asked me like the third time, and I think I did say, 246 00:15:00.080 --> 00:15:03.840 oh, it's next Saturday or something. I don't know till Saturday because that's 247 00:15:03.879 --> 00:15:07.159 when, well, no, we're not gonna be thinking about it that day 248 00:15:07.200 --> 00:15:13.360 because I have a birthday party. But the next day and Monday, when 249 00:15:13.519 --> 00:15:20.840 you revisit this. I don't think if this motherfucker text me on my birthday 250 00:15:20.960 --> 00:15:22.399 or on my birthday party, because it's like, fuck you, it's my 251 00:15:22.480 --> 00:15:26.440 birthday now, and I don't want to hear your stupid exceesays. And if 252 00:15:26.440 --> 00:15:31.960 it is, it better be something so good like car accident, like near 253 00:15:33.039 --> 00:15:35.360 death experience. I don't want him to be dead, but you are dead 254 00:15:35.399 --> 00:15:41.120 to me right now, so you better have almost died, or he better 255 00:15:41.159 --> 00:15:43.799 have found his motherfucking sold me like the baddest bitch ever, like Salama hiak 256 00:15:43.879 --> 00:15:46.960 level bad bitch walked in and they just clicked and he was like, Wow, 257 00:15:46.960 --> 00:15:52.840 I'm in love. Anything else other than that, I don't think it's 258 00:15:52.879 --> 00:15:56.600 that. No, I don't think I did not want that for myself. 259 00:15:58.080 --> 00:16:02.759 I'm saying life like I could excuse it that way, like you fucking love 260 00:16:02.840 --> 00:16:04.360 your life soulmate, Like okay, we can't deny that, you know, 261 00:16:04.440 --> 00:16:07.480 and she looks like somethiic. She better be twenty times hotter than me. 262 00:16:10.320 --> 00:16:15.840 Anything else happening is not justifiable. And I'm like, uh, you really 263 00:16:15.879 --> 00:16:21.440 ghost to me? Oh my birthday week is crazy? Is crazy? I 264 00:16:21.480 --> 00:16:26.639 don't think he did either. It doesn't because because you've said you've said before 265 00:16:26.679 --> 00:16:33.240 too, like like there has been times where you guys text like after a 266 00:16:33.240 --> 00:16:34.840 span of days, you know what I mean. So so this is this 267 00:16:34.919 --> 00:16:38.000 isn't. No, that's not the same thing. It's not. But because 268 00:16:38.000 --> 00:16:41.960 if you just cancel plans, you better be hitting me the next day for 269 00:16:41.080 --> 00:16:45.159 not showing up. Oh actually, I would actually get even more mad ab 270 00:16:45.240 --> 00:16:48.480 if if he hits me up on some nonchalant shit like oh we just sometimes 271 00:16:48.519 --> 00:16:52.600 we message. Know he needs to acknowledge this for sure, and there needs 272 00:16:52.639 --> 00:16:55.240 to be some kind of excuse of why this happened. So if he just 273 00:16:55.279 --> 00:16:57.480 hits me like, hey, what's up, no, I will see red 274 00:16:59.720 --> 00:17:03.279 and I I might not even I would either just be like we need to 275 00:17:03.320 --> 00:17:06.960 not talk anymore, or would actually ghost. I'm not the ghosting type, 276 00:17:06.960 --> 00:17:10.720 but like that calls for her bye. If you hit me up on some 277 00:17:10.799 --> 00:17:14.920 nonchalantch it like okay, hey, girly, that's the plan this weekend, 278 00:17:15.279 --> 00:17:23.680 you know what, I didn't even acknowledge that. And because of that, 279 00:17:26.759 --> 00:17:32.119 mm hmost yeah, that's true. I know. I think I think I'm 280 00:17:32.160 --> 00:17:33.000 just like saying it to think I would do that, But like I probably 281 00:17:33.000 --> 00:17:37.759 wouldn't for sure. It's like it sounds good though, right, but I 282 00:17:37.799 --> 00:17:41.559 feel like it's better and it's more grown of us to just say what's up 283 00:17:41.599 --> 00:17:45.839 and that's it, you know, and in your case it's on it's his 284 00:17:45.200 --> 00:17:51.599 fault the reason why you you know for sure it's not me. I guess 285 00:17:52.200 --> 00:17:56.240 if I had some actions do not even like he doesn't even deserve a response 286 00:17:56.279 --> 00:17:57.640 to me, like you know you did something bad, fuck you, But 287 00:17:57.720 --> 00:18:00.119 no, I probably would just be like we need to not talk anymore. 288 00:18:00.160 --> 00:18:03.240 But like I don't want to hear your side if he hits me on some 289 00:18:03.319 --> 00:18:08.400 nonchalant and like nothing crazy happened, because even just the situation in general, 290 00:18:08.440 --> 00:18:12.119 like if anyone has dealt with this kind of thing in my head, like 291 00:18:12.279 --> 00:18:15.920 you obviously don't respect my time, but just the dumbed down even more, 292 00:18:15.000 --> 00:18:18.839 it's just like, okay, so next time you asked me to hang out, 293 00:18:18.880 --> 00:18:22.119 am I supposed to just like not think things are confirmed until you text 294 00:18:22.119 --> 00:18:25.279 me like three hours within the event, and if that is how you're thinking, 295 00:18:25.319 --> 00:18:29.039 so am I just supposed to wait around all day and to see if 296 00:18:29.119 --> 00:18:30.759 maybe you're actually gonna hang out with me, like you said, like, 297 00:18:30.799 --> 00:18:36.839 is that just a suggestion when you make plans? No, because no, 298 00:18:37.039 --> 00:18:42.680 that's not how it works. I'm not feeling this for you. Yeah, 299 00:18:42.720 --> 00:18:51.839 I don't know. It's two red flags so close to each other. Yeah, 300 00:18:53.400 --> 00:18:59.960 it hasn't hit the one he has lost his phone or what? Right, 301 00:19:00.200 --> 00:19:02.279 I guess I'm saying it doesn't help that. Like, literally, I 302 00:19:02.359 --> 00:19:04.000 was planning to talk to him about something that bothered me for him to just 303 00:19:04.039 --> 00:19:11.359 bother me with a second thing before right right, right, right right, 304 00:19:12.359 --> 00:19:21.039 having a conversation. Not to have a whole new problem. You gotta talk 305 00:19:21.039 --> 00:19:26.680 about two things, yea, I have a list actually yeah, literally, 306 00:19:26.799 --> 00:19:30.000 And it's just like exactly like dating needs to be fun, like for this 307 00:19:30.119 --> 00:19:36.400 to like two things already, we're getting on the borderline of like not fun. 308 00:19:37.440 --> 00:19:40.279 I am having a guest. I feel like it's been not fun for 309 00:19:40.319 --> 00:19:42.279 a minute now. Okay, No, it's been fun. Yeah. That 310 00:19:42.599 --> 00:19:45.359 last thing was the only thing that pissed off. And I was like, 311 00:19:45.039 --> 00:19:48.200 and another thing that my friend, my nail tech that checked me on. 312 00:19:49.240 --> 00:19:52.279 And I think that's what I was trying to say to you, and like 313 00:19:52.279 --> 00:19:56.519 when I was not trying to justify what he said, but she said it 314 00:19:56.519 --> 00:19:57.559 perfectly because I was like, yeah, I'm just gonna tell him I don't 315 00:19:57.559 --> 00:20:00.359 like the comment he made. And she's like, well, it wasn't a 316 00:20:00.400 --> 00:20:02.279 comment that he made, like it was a response to your thing, Like 317 00:20:02.279 --> 00:20:06.240 comments are something that's unsolicited, and and that's what I was thinking when I 318 00:20:06.240 --> 00:20:07.000 say that, because it's like exactly, so not like he came up and 319 00:20:07.079 --> 00:20:10.880 like made this comment. Was like, hey, you're a friend unattractive, 320 00:20:11.039 --> 00:20:15.000 Like, well you did say yourself that you were kind of like that's the 321 00:20:15.000 --> 00:20:18.039 only thing. I'm like, even slightly defending him. Still not cool, 322 00:20:18.079 --> 00:20:21.799 like he could have lied about a different way. But exactly, it's like 323 00:20:21.839 --> 00:20:25.359 one I was pressing him, we were drinking, and exactly it wasn't a 324 00:20:25.400 --> 00:20:29.640 comment that he made. It was a response to my question, but still 325 00:20:29.720 --> 00:20:32.640 gave me the ick enough to I want to talk about this, you know. 326 00:20:33.359 --> 00:20:37.519 But it's been great, like like we were doing so good to like 327 00:20:37.559 --> 00:20:41.119 this bicker. I just talked about how we spent the entire weekend at my 328 00:20:41.160 --> 00:20:48.000 house. That's right. Yeah, this is a big enough one of it's 329 00:20:48.000 --> 00:20:53.359 starting right after the first one, the second one. No, this is 330 00:20:53.400 --> 00:20:59.000 a big one. This is definitely worth ending things for because this is just 331 00:20:59.039 --> 00:21:03.079 like, oh, you're the kind of person. Yeah, unless someone died, 332 00:21:03.200 --> 00:21:11.440 I got a car accident. Number two is kind of bio is worth 333 00:21:11.519 --> 00:21:15.720 I think two and a half. But but I agree with that, yeah, 334 00:21:17.079 --> 00:21:25.400 exactly exactly right now at least. Yeah, but you want to make 335 00:21:25.440 --> 00:21:27.079 sure, you want to make sure. Maybe he doesn't have the funds. 336 00:21:29.720 --> 00:21:34.400 It'd be like that sometimes I forgot. I forgot too, but I know 337 00:21:34.440 --> 00:21:37.799 it definitely broke. And he did get a new phone, but like didn't 338 00:21:37.799 --> 00:21:38.680 have his old contacts, and like when he hit me, he's like, 339 00:21:38.720 --> 00:21:41.400 oh my god, I thought I was not gonna find your number again, 340 00:21:41.039 --> 00:21:44.440 and then sent me a picture of like his old phone with his new phone 341 00:21:45.880 --> 00:21:52.160 again, so hopefully something different. Yeah, and you know what, I'm 342 00:21:52.160 --> 00:21:55.279 someone that loses and breaks up all the time. They can't be two of 343 00:21:55.319 --> 00:21:57.960 us, they can't be we can't both be losing. And also like if 344 00:21:57.960 --> 00:22:03.079 I really wanted to see you, you like he knows where I live exactly, 345 00:22:03.319 --> 00:22:06.599 like like Angelique said, like that does sound a little crazy, Like 346 00:22:06.599 --> 00:22:08.359 sure, maybe not the first day, but like, oh I never got 347 00:22:08.359 --> 00:22:11.519 a number, so I guess I was never talking to her again, Like 348 00:22:11.319 --> 00:22:15.039 you catch you up at my apartment. You could leave me a little note. 349 00:22:15.319 --> 00:22:18.160 You can hit up one of my we have a mutual friend. You 350 00:22:18.160 --> 00:22:21.799 could be like, hey, yeah, I hate you, like can you 351 00:22:21.799 --> 00:22:33.400 send me? So that was my past couple of days. What an interesting 352 00:22:33.400 --> 00:22:36.160 little plot twists. I was so ready for that stupid ass date. Oh 353 00:22:36.200 --> 00:22:37.559 but I did look good that day. And I will say when I went 354 00:22:37.599 --> 00:22:41.440 to that bar, three different men bought me a free drink because Barten up 355 00:22:41.480 --> 00:22:42.720 comes to me saying, this person wants to buy you a shot for you. 356 00:22:44.000 --> 00:22:49.039 But of course I was pressed as hell getting I know, because it's 357 00:22:49.079 --> 00:22:53.000 like, I'm glad to be hanging out with the girl that's getting a bunch 358 00:22:53.000 --> 00:22:56.759 free drinks tonight. I'm glad you you went out. You know, I'm 359 00:22:56.759 --> 00:23:00.000 glad you're not the type of just yeah that was my thing. I was 360 00:23:00.000 --> 00:23:03.240 like, you know, I got ready. I plowed out my hair like 361 00:23:03.519 --> 00:23:06.880 I'm going, this is not gonna be a wasted makeup day, and like 362 00:23:06.920 --> 00:23:10.160 I'm exactly, I'm definitely because I would have drove myself crazy that guy just 363 00:23:10.200 --> 00:23:12.119 looking at my phone and it kept doing the time thing. I would have 364 00:23:12.119 --> 00:23:22.640 been like, okay, he's got till two ams right for you at work, 365 00:23:22.720 --> 00:23:25.400 because once it was out like that, I was like, Okay, 366 00:23:25.440 --> 00:23:27.279 he's definitely not working anymore. Like, no way he's working till two in 367 00:23:27.319 --> 00:23:32.880 the morning in the morning time, or even if you're working that late, 368 00:23:32.960 --> 00:23:34.640 like at some point you got to peet and you could text, Yeah, 369 00:23:34.960 --> 00:23:37.640 you guys, he's still at work. He never clocked out on Saturday. 370 00:23:37.640 --> 00:23:44.279 That's crazy. It's a long job building those houses or whatever he does. 371 00:23:44.359 --> 00:23:52.640 Yeah, there's a lot of cabinets. He definitely ghost you. It's just 372 00:23:52.680 --> 00:23:56.160 weird, Like, I don't know what prompted you to ghost me. I 373 00:23:56.759 --> 00:23:59.480 don't think you're being ghosted. To text me that morning is crazy. I 374 00:23:59.519 --> 00:24:04.039 don't think you being my birthday week is crazy. Plus what did you you 375 00:24:04.839 --> 00:24:11.279 Obviously it's not something you did right or when it's like he was at work 376 00:24:11.279 --> 00:24:12.599 and someone was like, hey that girl you talking to I just found her 377 00:24:12.640 --> 00:24:19.839 podcast. She said you gave her the egg and that you're balding, and 378 00:24:19.839 --> 00:24:25.000 then he like listens to every that never talked about him. That is a 379 00:24:25.079 --> 00:24:33.160 risk. That is a risk. I'd feel some type of way. If 380 00:24:33.359 --> 00:24:37.119 you have a podcast and I'm on it all the time, I think it'd 381 00:24:37.119 --> 00:24:40.720 be something that could front me about. But I don't think i'd ghost you. 382 00:24:40.799 --> 00:24:44.279 But you have a little podcasts, Yeah, I just probably tell him 383 00:24:44.279 --> 00:24:45.960 it. I would wait till we get a little more serious. I'd be 384 00:24:47.000 --> 00:24:52.319 like, for the record, Yeah, you know I do. That is 385 00:24:52.319 --> 00:24:55.440 something I should give people heads up. Okay, just let you know I 386 00:24:55.480 --> 00:24:59.640 do talk about my life. But no, I think that's why it gets 387 00:24:59.680 --> 00:25:03.279 more seriou But yeah, exactly, like you don't need permission. Yeah, 388 00:25:03.319 --> 00:25:11.079 I'm not saying we don't even know. Yeah, like that, you know, 389 00:25:11.759 --> 00:25:15.400 I don't know his name. Why, I've seen pictures of him, 390 00:25:15.400 --> 00:25:21.920 but his profile, right, I saw the hand. I did delete all 391 00:25:21.960 --> 00:25:23.640 my dating apps, not for him. But I was just like, I 392 00:25:23.640 --> 00:25:26.920 think I feeling just like more confident. I'm like, I'd rather just meet 393 00:25:26.960 --> 00:25:32.839 someone. And she got drugs on Saturday, so yeah, I know it 394 00:25:32.920 --> 00:25:34.079 worse. Man. One guy was cute, but then he left early. 395 00:25:34.160 --> 00:25:41.079 It's like, yeah, I'm just like, I don't like it's like I'm 396 00:25:41.119 --> 00:25:44.559 actively looking. I don't want to actively look. I'd rather meet someone in 397 00:25:44.599 --> 00:25:49.119 person. Yeah, to attract someone, yeah, not like And I feel 398 00:25:49.160 --> 00:25:53.000 like I feel like I could show. I feel like everybody shows who they 399 00:25:53.000 --> 00:25:56.680 are more in person because I'm profile, You're still getting to choose, you 400 00:25:56.720 --> 00:26:00.640 know, and like, I don't know. Yeah, no one lists those 401 00:26:00.640 --> 00:26:04.359 things. No one lists. Hey, might talk about about your friends and 402 00:26:04.519 --> 00:26:11.519 might ghost you day of our plan. Yeah, that's how we need honest 403 00:26:11.559 --> 00:26:15.920 dating app like put your phone, you know. Yeah, I constantly lose 404 00:26:15.960 --> 00:26:22.799 my phone and I ghost people. So now it's just a mystery if I'm 405 00:26:22.799 --> 00:26:25.559 being ghosted or if I'm not being ghosted. If something happened to this man 406 00:26:26.200 --> 00:26:29.759 I did. We did, like I said, we checked the local buttures. 407 00:26:30.440 --> 00:26:36.839 We'll make the decision next whether or if it doesn't live by next week. 408 00:26:37.240 --> 00:26:41.000 Yeah, what if two weeks past? That's definitely it would have been 409 00:26:41.200 --> 00:26:48.839 a week and a half by the time. Yeah right, yeah, especially 410 00:26:48.039 --> 00:26:51.920 you already told him, you said, he knows when your birthday is too, 411 00:26:52.119 --> 00:26:56.640 so yeah right, you know, yeah, he could definitely call whatever 412 00:26:56.640 --> 00:27:00.079 phone service he has to be, like, look up this number. He 413 00:27:00.119 --> 00:27:03.359 could show up at your house. I feel like you guys are at that 414 00:27:03.400 --> 00:27:07.279 point where it's not shows up at your house, you know, explain everything 415 00:27:07.359 --> 00:27:11.480 happened. I don't know. Yeah, better be there with a broken leg, 416 00:27:12.359 --> 00:27:18.359 no arms, in a wheelchair. Hey, couldn't make it down the 417 00:27:18.400 --> 00:27:22.599 stairs because I lost all of my lips. But I told someone to drop 418 00:27:22.640 --> 00:27:30.480 me off just to let you know. I didn't go stee because I heard 419 00:27:30.519 --> 00:27:37.759 your podcast and I just wanted to make it clear. Yeah, you're selling 420 00:27:38.079 --> 00:27:45.160 the specific. See what is that poem I was. I was on a 421 00:27:45.240 --> 00:27:51.400 day cruise. I was trying to take a selfie and and then he also 422 00:27:51.440 --> 00:27:53.799 fell over, almost drowned. How to go to the hospital at me? 423 00:27:53.920 --> 00:27:56.480 And then it was until you recovered two days after he's like, fuck, 424 00:27:56.519 --> 00:28:03.680 where's my phone? Ship also in the ocean. So he's still recovering, 425 00:28:07.920 --> 00:28:11.559 right something my Saturday. He's nice and warm. You probably can't even eat 426 00:28:11.559 --> 00:28:14.960 the jello yet, you know what I'm saying. Yeah, he's probably not 427 00:28:15.039 --> 00:28:22.680 even speaking, But the moment he does, he's gonna be like, I 428 00:28:22.720 --> 00:28:27.880 know, no, deadass, if you really liked me and you're really about 429 00:28:27.920 --> 00:28:33.279 it, your body would recover faster in the name of love for me. 430 00:28:37.079 --> 00:28:42.720 No, like ill he gave me the ag again. But we do know, 431 00:28:44.200 --> 00:28:45.920 oh, we do know he has a weak thing, and we're not 432 00:28:45.920 --> 00:28:49.240 gonna go down that round. Don't open that door. Don't open that door. 433 00:28:49.480 --> 00:28:59.440 Just keep it pushing issues right, doesn't matter. Yeah, maybe that 434 00:28:59.480 --> 00:29:04.720 came back, you know what that would be, That would be, that 435 00:29:04.759 --> 00:29:08.200 would be legit, that would be a very legitimate. No, he finds 436 00:29:08.200 --> 00:29:12.200 out that morning. It doesn't happen that way. No, But mental health, 437 00:29:14.480 --> 00:29:17.920 now, okay, you could take a day, but the next day 438 00:29:18.000 --> 00:29:23.279 you could be back to being healthy and messaging me or okay, even if 439 00:29:23.279 --> 00:29:30.759 something yeah I really want to but even to that excuse, say something just 440 00:29:30.880 --> 00:29:33.640 really bad did happen, I feel like, yeah, sure, I'll give 441 00:29:33.640 --> 00:29:36.119 it a week. But you could at least be like, hey, I'm 442 00:29:36.119 --> 00:29:40.920 going through something right now. Yeah, hey, sorry, I've been whatever 443 00:29:41.000 --> 00:29:44.519 whatever, Because I'm thinking if something like crazy happened to me, where like 444 00:29:44.599 --> 00:29:47.160 you know that that happens like you just don't even know how you're gonna handle 445 00:29:47.200 --> 00:29:49.599 it, I would at least be like, I'm going through something right now, 446 00:29:51.519 --> 00:29:53.240 see it. Ever, and I've actually done that too, where like 447 00:29:53.519 --> 00:29:56.880 something comes up and I don't you know, you don't want to give someone 448 00:29:56.920 --> 00:29:59.720 details or you can't whatever it is right where I've been like you know what, 449 00:29:59.759 --> 00:30:02.880 I'm sorry, I haven't texted back, you know, and be very 450 00:30:02.920 --> 00:30:06.759 brief about what's going on. But yeah, I can, and I would 451 00:30:06.799 --> 00:30:10.160 just be like, hope, everything's okay. Thanks Rach exactly, at least 452 00:30:10.160 --> 00:30:11.920 for your peace of mind, and then for his too low key, because 453 00:30:11.920 --> 00:30:15.799 he's probably like, I don't obviously if I'm interested, I don't want you 454 00:30:15.839 --> 00:30:18.160 to think I'm ghosting. I don't want you to think I'm ignoring you, 455 00:30:18.160 --> 00:30:22.680 you know, exactly, So okay, I'll give it a week, which 456 00:30:22.720 --> 00:30:26.519 is like two more days. If you're hearing this and you know this is 457 00:30:26.559 --> 00:30:37.759 about you, you're lucky. You have forty eight hours for the TV show 458 00:30:37.799 --> 00:30:45.599 is the talk? Yeah, I got forty eight hours. Somebody else's phone, 459 00:30:45.200 --> 00:30:48.839 he could call he knows what station work, or you gonna call the 460 00:30:48.880 --> 00:30:53.720 station. I like to make a request, Angelina, I'm not ghosting you. 461 00:30:53.759 --> 00:31:03.559 Can you play du alifa the main line office or our person or the 462 00:31:03.559 --> 00:31:12.039 executive assistant. Oh really, it's not that Angelina, I think. Yeah. 463 00:31:12.079 --> 00:31:21.039 And also he's not ghosting her. Give us the callback man, but 464 00:31:21.119 --> 00:31:22.559 yeah, still on delivered. So I guess I made me feel like, 465 00:31:22.559 --> 00:31:25.920 oh, maybe he's not ghost to me, but he can still very much 466 00:31:26.400 --> 00:31:27.519 just be ignoring my tax and be like I'm not going to open it. 467 00:31:29.440 --> 00:31:32.160 But I also feel like he's not that smart to even think like, oh, 468 00:31:32.200 --> 00:31:36.079 don't want her to see my bad receipt on I don't know. Yeah, 469 00:31:36.119 --> 00:31:41.839 yeah, yeah, time to time will tell. Okay, we will 470 00:31:42.079 --> 00:31:48.519 visit this our next pod and then maybe even our subsequent next pot case. 471 00:31:48.640 --> 00:31:55.519 We don't know what there's that we don't see, but looking forward to this 472 00:31:55.559 --> 00:32:00.519 weekend. You guys, my thirtieth RATT day. You might be listening to 473 00:32:00.519 --> 00:32:04.920 this episode day of my birthday? So dirty, you know, you give 474 00:32:04.920 --> 00:32:08.000 them momm me something. I'm just kidding. I'm just kidding. But yeah, 475 00:32:08.000 --> 00:32:13.599 if you want to favorite tequila likea okay, I love pizza, love 476 00:32:14.039 --> 00:32:20.160 coffee, love feels coffee, love all coffee. Yeah yeah, no even 477 00:32:20.279 --> 00:32:27.720 a love card all love letter, well card, love that. But yeah, 478 00:32:27.720 --> 00:32:30.200 my mom told me this big ass party. You guys, I'm I 479 00:32:30.240 --> 00:32:31.480 feel a little baud today. I called her. She was definitely a little 480 00:32:31.480 --> 00:32:36.440 stressed out. Yeah, I don't know. She just trying to plan everything. 481 00:32:36.519 --> 00:32:38.400 She's like, don't like, a party is hard, No, my 482 00:32:38.400 --> 00:32:42.519 mom goes hard. You guys, like, don't to my Instagram. Are 483 00:32:42.559 --> 00:32:45.880 now at Angelina on air. There's a highlight with a little confetti like a 484 00:32:45.039 --> 00:32:49.000 highlight of some of the parties I'm on his strow, not even the best 485 00:32:49.039 --> 00:32:52.160 ones. But like my brother's ex girlfriend rip, she didn't die, but 486 00:32:53.240 --> 00:33:00.200 yeah, yeah, we loved her though sad damn breakups. She had the 487 00:33:00.359 --> 00:33:04.160 we she loved Jersey Shore and like it was last minute too, mind, 488 00:33:04.279 --> 00:33:07.119 this was like in a two week span. My mom put this out last 489 00:33:07.720 --> 00:33:09.680 Hello, last minute, maybe like less less than a month for sure. 490 00:33:10.799 --> 00:33:15.519 Yeah, and Jersey Shore themes like when you entered you had to like take 491 00:33:15.559 --> 00:33:19.000 a shot. We had these glow sticks, and the glow sticks stood for 492 00:33:19.079 --> 00:33:22.960 like something. She got the letter, you know, the infamous letter like 493 00:33:23.039 --> 00:33:28.079 blown up on this big ass Like it was like a whole back drop drinks. 494 00:33:28.759 --> 00:33:30.960 We had like a separate section where was like kind of a confessional like 495 00:33:31.000 --> 00:33:34.920 the TV vibes, and we had everyone like record a message for her, 496 00:33:35.240 --> 00:33:37.519 and like we put it on a whole video so she can watch it. 497 00:33:43.680 --> 00:33:45.359 I know, it's like we're we're friends. Then that was a long time 498 00:33:45.400 --> 00:33:49.640 ago. That was I don't know, I feel like it was after the 499 00:33:49.720 --> 00:33:57.960 Jurassic Oh, that angel was invited to the Jurassic Park. Let's see, 500 00:33:58.160 --> 00:34:01.200 let's look at the highlights when it came firsts. That looks so much fun. 501 00:34:02.440 --> 00:34:10.400 Yeah. For but their grandson, my stepdad, like his side, 502 00:34:10.719 --> 00:34:15.760 they have a baby, so you know yeah yeah, oh no Jasic Park 503 00:34:15.840 --> 00:34:19.719 was before September eighteen. Oh me, Oh yeah that's not good then, 504 00:34:19.760 --> 00:34:23.079 Yeah, you're right now. My mom had a whole back job. We 505 00:34:23.119 --> 00:34:28.119 had like a dig site for the kids, like full ass sand with these 506 00:34:28.159 --> 00:34:39.000 little dig things. Your status. Oh yeah that was a park range bad 507 00:34:39.239 --> 00:34:45.239 ass. I know, I'm looking at the highlight now. Little hats like 508 00:34:45.360 --> 00:34:50.039 little I love, like like theme parties are really fun, you know, 509 00:34:50.360 --> 00:34:53.280 like oh yeah, my family loves the thing. That's cool. Machine. 510 00:34:53.519 --> 00:34:58.760 Yeah there was a fog machine and yeah, this one's gonna be lit. 511 00:34:58.800 --> 00:35:01.519 So my birthday theme is Savannah Nights, and my mom's already been showing me 512 00:35:01.559 --> 00:35:06.079 the stuff she has. We have a cigar bar. We got our favorite 513 00:35:06.119 --> 00:35:09.480 bartenders that we've been like having for our past couple. They're like a family 514 00:35:09.559 --> 00:35:15.360 owned, like small business. Yeah, and there drinks are fire the only 515 00:35:15.400 --> 00:35:17.719 thing. But I'm not gonna complain about anything because you know, I was 516 00:35:17.760 --> 00:35:20.639 on the strict to my whim. I was like everything needs to be Cuban 517 00:35:20.639 --> 00:35:22.519 thing, like the food, like I was like the first alb, I'm 518 00:35:22.519 --> 00:35:24.760 only gonna play keep music. Of course I'm in charge of the music, 519 00:35:25.400 --> 00:35:28.320 but I was editing. I was like, okay, only the first fifteen 520 00:35:28.360 --> 00:35:30.840 minutes because you know, there's a lot of themes and people to get to 521 00:35:30.000 --> 00:35:34.480 in the music. Yeah, I only got like six seven, eight hours. 522 00:35:34.559 --> 00:35:38.239 You know, I can't waste a whole hour on all Cuban music. 523 00:35:39.199 --> 00:35:44.679 But because I said that my mom at the bar, it's only rum drinks, 524 00:35:45.000 --> 00:35:47.280 which which is gonna be great. It's gonna taste good. But like 525 00:35:47.440 --> 00:35:51.159 a lot of people drink tequila though, I know there's something that's gonna be 526 00:35:51.199 --> 00:35:58.239 like rum. No, the cocktails are gonna be bombed regardless, but yeah, 527 00:35:59.280 --> 00:36:04.360 it's good, be so cute. I know I should really not say 528 00:36:04.400 --> 00:36:06.599 all of the things that are happening because we get the recap. Well, 529 00:36:06.599 --> 00:36:09.599 I'm sure something will happen for the recap all good things. So yeah, 530 00:36:09.639 --> 00:36:14.400 I can't get crazy, but I was so key, even like the drinks 531 00:36:14.440 --> 00:36:17.920 have like I don't know names and stuff. Yeah, like once she's upbeat 532 00:36:17.960 --> 00:36:21.679 because if you're a one, you know that's my old A name and old 533 00:36:21.679 --> 00:36:24.639 Instagram name too. Yeah, and then like my Instagram, bile was always 534 00:36:24.639 --> 00:36:29.519 reasonable down track eight, which is jay Z's Can I Live And one of 535 00:36:29.519 --> 00:36:37.079 the drinks is called track eight. Yeah, so she is so good, 536 00:36:37.039 --> 00:36:39.679 like, yeah, she's shown me the patty like we have a little gazebo 537 00:36:39.760 --> 00:36:43.440 section or they do because I don't live there anymore. And they just like 538 00:36:43.519 --> 00:36:45.199 redid that to be like the dance floor and they set up like all these 539 00:36:45.239 --> 00:36:50.719 disco balls and like these big as dominoes, the tate center pieces look so 540 00:36:50.840 --> 00:36:53.880 good. She send to me the drafts hello like lights, like there's big 541 00:36:53.920 --> 00:36:57.239 gas like sign that's a van and ice. There's gonna be a big as 542 00:36:57.320 --> 00:37:01.320 sig of a cigar bar. I'm excited. And I got my dress and 543 00:37:01.320 --> 00:37:05.679 it fits me. My sister, Yeah, my sister's gonna pay for my 544 00:37:05.719 --> 00:37:08.440 makeup appointment. Shout out to her, Shout out to your sister. I 545 00:37:08.440 --> 00:37:10.760 got a hairppointment the day before, so we're gonna try to keep that blowout 546 00:37:10.760 --> 00:37:15.679 intact because what I do, okay blow but like not as silky like by 547 00:37:15.719 --> 00:37:19.559 the end of the day, it's frizzy. Why did it give U today? 548 00:37:19.559 --> 00:37:25.760 But I needed to last make adness. No, I'm so excited, 549 00:37:27.880 --> 00:37:30.880 So everyone like great producer Chris said, he's gonna pull up. We don't 550 00:37:30.960 --> 00:37:37.360 see. Oh, I think he's late, but he's gonna get there. 551 00:37:37.840 --> 00:37:43.679 Okay, that's tell you too, because it's her sister's birthday. Or he'll 552 00:37:43.880 --> 00:37:46.719 there. That's fine too. You're not gonna want to do that. I 553 00:37:47.159 --> 00:37:51.480 can see him leaving. You can, but no one leaves our party early. 554 00:37:51.639 --> 00:37:54.239 I mean, yeah, you might, but no one's gonna want to 555 00:37:54.320 --> 00:37:58.480 leave early. I promise you, if you are not planning to stay the 556 00:37:58.480 --> 00:38:00.039 whole time, I would show up late then because you're not gonna want leave 557 00:38:00.039 --> 00:38:10.159 early. I already have I don't know, two of your old Jurassic No. 558 00:38:10.320 --> 00:38:15.239 My family parties. You guys, that's so cool. We're gonna have 559 00:38:15.280 --> 00:38:20.559 like blunts hidden in the cigar bar. There's cigars that you can have, 560 00:38:20.599 --> 00:38:23.159 but like my family's big smokers, so there will be. You gotta have 561 00:38:23.199 --> 00:38:27.519 to say the secret word to get it, which I haven't figured out what 562 00:38:27.719 --> 00:38:31.719 is the secret word yet. Figure it out. I'll probably just say something 563 00:38:31.800 --> 00:38:36.480 Yeah, I don't text real quick, like gonna say the secreord gos on 564 00:38:36.599 --> 00:38:42.360 what it is. Yeah, my uncle rig like he's like the O g 565 00:38:42.480 --> 00:38:45.079 in the family. And my uncle John Chris, not producer Chris, his 566 00:38:45.159 --> 00:38:47.239 dad. They're gonna be like working the cigar bars, so we'll like cut 567 00:38:47.280 --> 00:38:52.039 it for people and pass them out and like even if you don't smoke, 568 00:38:52.039 --> 00:38:54.920 like it's a good little souvenir. You know, got like customized like things 569 00:38:54.960 --> 00:39:00.039 to wrap it in. She's crazy, I don't know about starting his birthday. 570 00:39:00.320 --> 00:39:06.199 Yeah, hey, that's exciting. No, I'm so excited, like 571 00:39:06.280 --> 00:39:09.280 you guys. I never do anything really big for my birthday, Like I'll 572 00:39:09.320 --> 00:39:13.599 like maybe plan a dirt like that day. Like I never plan anything like, 573 00:39:13.639 --> 00:39:15.599 oh, I have this plan for my birthday. And but I always 574 00:39:15.599 --> 00:39:17.719 wanted to be thirty since I was a little girl. I probably said this 575 00:39:17.719 --> 00:39:21.039 a million times. But when I was younger, I saw an interview with 576 00:39:21.079 --> 00:39:22.920 America Fererra and they asked her what ag she wants to be forever, and 577 00:39:22.960 --> 00:39:25.639 she said thirty. And ever since my little ass saw that, I always 578 00:39:25.639 --> 00:39:30.119 wanted to be thirty. Nice And when they were like, you know what, 579 00:39:30.199 --> 00:39:30.440 I'm thinking what I want to do? Like, oh, you know, 580 00:39:30.480 --> 00:39:32.639 my friends are like we should go on a trip, we should do 581 00:39:32.719 --> 00:39:36.480 this that, I'm like, no, I want my mom to throw me 582 00:39:36.519 --> 00:39:39.679 a party because she throws the best parties, and I want the shit in 583 00:39:39.719 --> 00:39:43.679 my parents' backyard, Like I want to be with my family and like all 584 00:39:43.679 --> 00:39:50.280 my closest friends. So I'm excited. I'm excited for you, and I'm 585 00:39:50.280 --> 00:39:52.880 like, really, you know, I love making a playlist, and I 586 00:39:52.880 --> 00:39:54.360 feel like I'm always in charge of the playlist for family parties. But I'm 587 00:39:54.360 --> 00:39:58.920 obviously always thinking of like that person's day, yeah, and like and also 588 00:39:58.960 --> 00:40:00.679 who's going to be there, like not that no one's gona like my music, 589 00:40:00.679 --> 00:40:02.960 because i also want everyone to have a good time. But I'm always 590 00:40:02.960 --> 00:40:06.480 like sneaking in the bad Bunny at the end, but now vision be bad 591 00:40:06.480 --> 00:40:14.639 buy like every other song, don't because it's my birthday. So super excited. 592 00:40:14.679 --> 00:40:15.760 What do you guys have planned it for the weekend? Days with you 593 00:40:15.760 --> 00:40:25.719 guys? Oh yeah, go to my party? Matters period? Why you're 594 00:40:25.760 --> 00:40:31.679 not party? He wasn't already? Yes, I will be in Eureka that 595 00:40:31.760 --> 00:40:37.719 speakend, So yeah, so I'm excited to go. But I really wish 596 00:40:37.719 --> 00:40:44.800 I could have major party because it sounds late. Who just goes to Eureka's. 597 00:40:45.480 --> 00:40:49.039 There's a lot to do. I'll let y'all know how it goes Glenn 598 00:40:49.079 --> 00:40:54.320 urban but about like a gold Okay, so hear me out. So I'm 599 00:40:54.400 --> 00:40:58.800 low key like a hike, Like I love going on hikes and trails and 600 00:40:58.800 --> 00:41:01.159 I like seeing nature and I'm really big on that kind of stuff. So 601 00:41:01.800 --> 00:41:08.199 Areka has this like it's called like a like a Redwood skywalk thing where you 602 00:41:08.320 --> 00:41:14.360 like go up these stairs and you you walk through the forest, but like 603 00:41:15.360 --> 00:41:20.039 you're at the height of like halfway of how tall like the trees are, 604 00:41:20.199 --> 00:41:22.800 so you're not walking the floor. You're actually it's my party to go class 605 00:41:22.800 --> 00:41:30.119 some trees. Kidding, yes, But it was supposed to be. It 606 00:41:30.159 --> 00:41:32.360 was a trip in January, but the weather kind of ruined it, so 607 00:41:32.400 --> 00:41:38.800 we postponed for April, and you know, plans sounds amazing, get your 608 00:41:38.840 --> 00:41:45.800 traveling. Yeah, I look cute, but it's giving Ship's Creek, so 609 00:41:45.320 --> 00:41:53.320 we're definitely California gold Rush. No, it's literally getting Ship's Creek. Look 610 00:41:53.400 --> 00:41:55.760 up the skywalk here, that's what I think it's gonna be worth it. 611 00:41:55.800 --> 00:42:04.119 And an avenue of the Giants, which is another like this lake is killed, 612 00:42:04.239 --> 00:42:07.079 right, I am excited, Like that's what I like to do, 613 00:42:07.159 --> 00:42:10.440 you know, And I haven't done it a lot this year, and I 614 00:42:10.480 --> 00:42:17.920 need it mentally. I'm not gonna lie. So oh yeah, yeah, 615 00:42:19.880 --> 00:42:24.920 Oh there's a show called Eureka and Disney. Yeah, Eureka is mad random. 616 00:42:25.000 --> 00:42:29.280 I had a disappointment with like a client the other day and they were 617 00:42:29.320 --> 00:42:31.400 like, yeah, I guess where I'm from, just like by looking around. 618 00:42:31.800 --> 00:42:34.880 But I didn't look like behind me. And the first thing I looked 619 00:42:34.920 --> 00:42:38.960 up was the posed was Antarctica. Was like he was like, oh no, 620 00:42:39.119 --> 00:42:43.000 sorry, now he's like look behind you, and there was like a 621 00:42:43.039 --> 00:42:45.519 Phillies thing, so like, oh, Philadelphia, but literally I was like 622 00:42:45.559 --> 00:42:52.000 Antarctica, Like the doesn't have like a lot of like the big cities that 623 00:42:52.039 --> 00:42:54.760 you like come to California for, but it has a lot of national parks 624 00:42:54.760 --> 00:43:00.599 and a lot of like state parks that have really beautiful views. So yeah, 625 00:43:05.159 --> 00:43:07.320 yeah, I don't know, you know, because I like hiking to 626 00:43:07.719 --> 00:43:10.719 I'm not as much like know about all of them. But when people like, 627 00:43:10.719 --> 00:43:13.559 when I think of like the best trails, like I don't, I 628 00:43:13.559 --> 00:43:17.519 don't know, is Eureka like the hotspot. It's this one itself is not 629 00:43:17.639 --> 00:43:22.559 really like a hike per se. It's more like sightseeing trails. I think 630 00:43:22.559 --> 00:43:27.239 they're like not even that long, to be honest, but so what is 631 00:43:27.880 --> 00:43:31.639 But but it's it's something that my cousin and I have wanted to do. 632 00:43:31.760 --> 00:43:40.079 And so it's the largest coastal city between San Francisco and Portland. And we're 633 00:43:40.119 --> 00:43:45.000 supposed to be doing Utah in September. So that's exciting. That's gonna be 634 00:43:45.039 --> 00:43:49.559 like a whole week. Okay, says Eureka is a market and cultural center 635 00:43:49.639 --> 00:43:53.719 of a beautiful region filled with iconic redwoods, the world's tallest trees. It's 636 00:43:53.760 --> 00:44:00.239 suddenly beautiful, rugged, remote ocean landscapes. Okay, he's gonna go find 637 00:44:00.320 --> 00:44:06.320 himself in Eureka. We're gonna go grounding, you know. Wow, Okay, 638 00:44:06.320 --> 00:44:08.559 fine, you get a pass for missing my birthday. I guess if 639 00:44:08.559 --> 00:44:13.360 you don't show up, you have no motherfucking excuse because you're not going to 640 00:44:13.360 --> 00:44:17.760 Eureka unless you're going to Eureka, or whatever happened to Carpenter Bay happened to 641 00:44:17.800 --> 00:44:29.639 you as well. There's no other excidemn Yeah, just Chris number two, 642 00:44:30.880 --> 00:44:34.960 Chris number one, the other Chris. But yeah, I think that's it. 643 00:44:35.000 --> 00:44:37.559 We probably want to to do the segments because this one was just such 644 00:44:37.599 --> 00:44:43.960 a Thanks for helping us in you know, in this investigation. All your 645 00:44:43.960 --> 00:44:46.719 help is needed. If you have any clues, if you've seen this man 646 00:44:46.960 --> 00:44:52.679 on this wanted poster, let me know, Okay, balding, beautiful, 647 00:44:52.719 --> 00:45:04.360 smile, last name Bay, first named Carpenter. Yeah, those are the 648 00:45:04.400 --> 00:45:08.280 two things tall like, yeah, if he said last name day, first 649 00:45:08.360 --> 00:45:13.320 name Carpenter. If you see that man, call me, slide in my 650 00:45:13.400 --> 00:45:17.639 d MS, let me know and then slap him and run away like that 651 00:45:17.760 --> 00:45:27.559 was for Angelina and then walk away. Yeah. Yeah, just continue on 652 00:45:27.599 --> 00:45:30.400 living your life, but you let him know and everything. That's me again. 653 00:45:30.920 --> 00:45:34.480 So we'll give update next week on the party. Whatever happens at my 654 00:45:34.599 --> 00:45:38.280 party, it's gonna be a great night. And if hopefully Carpenter Bay is 655 00:45:38.320 --> 00:45:43.039 not, nothing bad happen. I hopefully he's not dead. But if he 656 00:45:43.199 --> 00:45:46.920 goes to me, then yes, you better be dead. And that's his 657 00:45:47.000 --> 00:45:50.800 two options. Thanks much, Breaking Out. If you like us, if 658 00:45:50.800 --> 00:45:54.760 you love us, give us five stars and nothing less. Please leave a 659 00:45:54.920 --> 00:45:59.400 review and the comments. That really helps a lot. We love going through 660 00:45:59.400 --> 00:46:01.599 it reading your comments. If you don't, don't have anything nice to say 661 00:46:01.599 --> 00:46:06.199 though, put that ship in your diary. 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