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Could you turn that down little bit? Jenny? Thanks, that's really high

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Wilder. Hey, it's the Minnesota
Goodbye. Got some emails, so it's

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your one and only fan and Harrison, Montana. A few months ago,

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I had told my husband that I
wanted to plan a trip to Minneapolis,

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and the look on his face was
hilarious. I said that my friends on

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the Dave Ryan Show just make it
seem like such a cool place, and

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they're always doing cool stuff. He
said, how about Florida? Of course

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he wont and yes, we're going
to Florida in October. But our daughter

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is going to college and Ohio and
I'm driving her over from Montana. I

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instantly checked our route and couldn't believe
my luck that we're driving through Minneapolis.

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Oh, We're spending Sunday the thirteenth
in the area, And of course my

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twenty three and eighteen year old couldn't
decide what to do. We were going

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to go with Fallon's recommendation of Mall
of America, but I also wanted to

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find something off the touristy radar,
so we are going with Dave's recommendation of

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can Can Wonderland. Nice. The
kids seem more excited about that the Mall

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of America. My twenty three year
old is probably more excited about the beer

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wall on Mom's tab. But whatever, La. So I'm coming to your

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now. So I'm coming to you
now to see if you can recommend a

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good, non touristy restaurant in the
area that I shouldn't miss on my one

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day visit in the area. I'm
not asking for Drake's recommendation, because I'm

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sure I would have plenty of Taco
bell the rest of the triplol Is there

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anything else we can add to our
can canned Wonderland? Let me know.

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I know Dave would recommend the cherry
in the spoon. I kid, I

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kid, I know he thinks it's
dumb. Maybe a lake with kayak rentals

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or anything, Thank you so much. If you're gonna do a lake with

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kayak, you want to go to
the Chain of Lakes, and you can

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go. I think the best place
to go is to Bidetma. Well,

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no, I mean, it depends
on what you like. So the Chain

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of Lakes are Bedemcoska, Lake Harriet, and Lake of the Aisles because they're

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connected. That's why they call it
the Chain of lakes and they're kind of

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like in a trendier Uptown area,
beautiful homes around the lake, but they're

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calm like, they're not lakes that
boats are allowed on, so they're very

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nice for kayaking or paddle boarding,
unless it's super windy it can be a

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little aggressive. Yeah. Yeah,
so I don't think Lake of the Aisles

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has rentals. I might be wrong. I don't, but Harriet does and

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Sodas Bede Micosca and either one you
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one. Yes, you can through
that like tunnels. So no, you

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can't get to Harriet to every any
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It also connects to Cedar like,
but that's like a long channel and

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kind of like if you're doing a
rental, it's not always necessarily worth it

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to go. But I've done Cedar
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But yes, either one works and
that's fun. But like she has for

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I think we're a restaurant recommendations,
she's asked for non touristy restaurant recommendations.

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I mean my first thought was Kalita
because it's not too expensive. If your

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kid is excited for fancy beer wall
and they are old enough to drink.

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I think Kalita has like some of
the most fun cocktails. But it's expensive,

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I know, but I'm trying to
think like compared to like San Jussan,

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which is like my favorite Twin Cities
restaurant. Oh, I think it's

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a little cheaper than San Jusan.
So Kalita has kind of like Latin flair

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food. Would you say, it's
kind of like tapas, so it's charable,

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like where if you ordered tacos,
it's two, it's it's it's so

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good. It's one of It's probably
my favorite restaurant in the Twin Cities,

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one of the top. North Loop
has some good things that would be a

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little bit cheaper, like Red Rabbit, SMA Smackshacks a good one. How

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they're a handful over there, I
mean low. But yeah, I don't

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I feel that's in this. I
don't go to No Lover often that because

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it's not good. It's just not
my I don't know why. I always

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go to Smackshack or Red Rabbit if
I'm at an area or parlor. They

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have great cheeseburgers. But I feel
like, if you want like kind of

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that atmosphere, like a restaurant atmosphere. Jenny's right, Khalida is not like

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downtown Minneapolis though, it's it's South
Minneapolis Minneapolis. And then if you're over

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in that area, there's also like
Mister Paul supper Club or I mean,

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there are a lot. I don't
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I think it's not too uh it's
an I always get them confused. Martinez

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over there too, But those are
places you need a reservation for it.

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And I think you said the thirteenth, which is a Sunday, so just

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make sure you check ahead of time
for sure. Yeah, hope that helps

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a little bit. And have fun. That's so cool. What a perfect

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little I mean, yeah, you'll
get a little taste of minutes and it

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must you're coming in the summer.
Next email, I thought it might be

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a good time to ask Falon about
doom Wah. I learned about doom Wah

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from Falon and following socials, but
I don't quite understand is it a person

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or who is running the site.
They have really good insider info, so

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I'm curious. Thanks Rebecca, my
understanding it was a person they started this.

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I think that they do know,
had good sources, new some people

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like in the industry, and then
now they're they've blown up, so now

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it's pretty easy to get submissions.
I'm going to guess the hardest part for

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them now is to weed out fake
ones because so many submissions come in.

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But they have a podcast now it's
a person as far as I know.

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Oh, okay, next email,
I'm catching up on the show Minnesota Goodbye

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and have to share a duo monster
in law story. But she put Minnesota

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Goodbyes. That's why I'm doing it
on here. For the record, please

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don't say my name is. I
would never want to embarrass anybody, but

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figure especially Jenny and Fallon, would
get a kick out of this. My

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boyfriend and I are going to be
together forever because our moms are the same

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kind of crazy. They are wildly
inappropriate, invasive, hilarious, and set

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in their ways. We love them
dearly, but have to come to the

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conclusion that because we both come from
mothers like this, nobody else would be

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okay with what we put up with
on a daily faces. A few out

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of context examples. His mother has
openly told my younger brother twenty four years

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old that God spend a little extra
time on you. Oh my mom has

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blatantly told him that whoop sees are
okay at this point life, I would

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never be mad about that. This
was his first trip with our family,

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living in the same house for five
days in Callie. A year later,

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these comments still happen. At a
dinner with his parents, I ordered a

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fish on trey fried because it sounded
amazing. Dah, I didn't know they

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all also ordered fish baked slash broiled. And she looked at my plate,

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looked me up and down and said, oh, I wore a tank top

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skirt outfit where the straps tied together
on each shoulder for a bow. Look

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my mom looked him straight in the
eyes and said, than of how easy

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you're night is. Later, just
pull those books right. Oh my gosh.

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The list goes on, but you
to make you chuckle. They are

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the best in the world. And
we're so thankful that we both grew up

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with his kind of mom. So
are with this kind of mom. So

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it really is out of the ordinary
to add one more. It would probably

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be more uncomfortable to date someone with
a normal or proper mom. We figures

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lool, so love you guys.
Have a great day. That's great,

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Okay, minutes here we go.
You talked about intrusive thoughts yesterday and fallon.

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Yes, I've had those exact same
thoughts about driving, and I thought

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I was crazy and wondered what that
meant. I wondered if that meant I

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was suicidal, which I'm not,
but those thoughts freaked me out. I

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don't think I have those thoughts before
having kids. So thanks for making me

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feel a little less crazy. Love
you. We just talked about intrusive thoughts

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yesterday if you missed the podcast,
and it was kind of like I said

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that mine seemed to have gotten crazier
since I have a kid. Maybe we're

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like, you're driving, like what
if this? Like what if I drove

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into the other lane and it's not
because you actually are down or feeling that

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way, which I know some people
actually go through that in a real way,

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but this it's like a weird intrusive
thought. So that's what she is

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talking about. Nick's one. What
would Jenny do? They say? Okay,

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I was just on a flight from
Copenhagen to Stockholm, and I kid

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you, not the entire flight.
The child behind me kept kicking my seat,

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grinding his shoes under my seat,
punching the back of my chair,

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talking very loudly the entire flight.
Luckily it was only a one hour flight,

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but still, girl, it seemed
the mother only spoke Swedish soul language

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barrier. I'm trying to figure out
what to do if this happens again on

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our flight from Amsterdam back to the
US on Saturday and almost ten hour flights.

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So I ask, what would the
sensible Jenny do. Okay, on

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the short flight, I would not
have done anything, because I know it's

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short. But on a longer flight, I would turn around and like the

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nicest way possible and speak to the
parent and be like, hey, do

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you mind like getting your child to
stop kicking my seat, like whatever,

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especially if you're trying to sleep.
WI you most likely are on a ten

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hour flight, and so I would
it in like the kindest way possible.

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And hopefully, because you're returning to
the USA, person will be speaking English.

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But if there's a language barrier,
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attendant involved. I don't know,
I mean, not that the flight attendant

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who knows what the language they speaked. Yeah, but I would say something

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in like a very very kind way, like almost like I'm inconveniencing them.

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Yeah, that's how I would do
it. Same. Okay, we have

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a couple more, we'll do quickly. I listen to the podcast after the

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show, so I wasn't able to
get on the talk back, but still

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wanted to share my story of the
nicest thing a stranger has done for me.

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As y'all know, my daughter nickname
by Dave Badass, Bella, was

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diagnosed with leukemia August six, twenty
twenty one. Immediately, I began campaigning

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for blood donations. I sent blood
drive information to anyone and everyone and posted

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it everywhere I could. As I
was at a donation center with another daughter

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who had donated, the volunteer asked
us what made us want to donate.

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I told her about Bella, and
a complete stranger at the table next to

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us chimed in, saying, oh
my gosh, I'm here donating for your

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blood drive. We talked, and
long story short, he was at a

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meeting at work and his boss shared
our story and the blood drive details.

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It was amazing. Also, we're
currently doing a blood drive now for my

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birthday and Bella's birthday. It's nationwide
throughout the American Red Cross. Anyone can

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donate, so I think you can
look up it says the like the link

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is like Mama Bear Cinderella Birthday blood
Drive. I think you can look that

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up through Red Cross blood dot org. And the final one. Thanks to

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everyone for sending these. I want
to talk about people on their destination weddings.

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Some people don't want to spend a
lot of money or have a lot

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of money to attend your destination wedding. Some don't have the time or want

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to use their vacation time for your
wedding. Some people are saving their vacation

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time for their own vacation. Love
you, but people who do destination weddings

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are selfish. Instead of doing a
destination wedding, save that destination for your

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honeymoon. I don't want to go
to a destination wedding, especially out of

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the United States. They said,
please don't say my name. I mean

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it's fair. I think it's fair
to if you're like a friend of someone

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and they're expecting you to come.
But like for me, I would be

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having a destination wedding if I had
one, because I don't want a big

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wedding. I want to just most
people people can't come right now. I

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would never be mad ever, Absolutely
not. I mean I would be really

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sad if like my family, my
immediate family couldn't be there, but I

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would probably pay for them at that
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it. Yeah. So yeah,
and I think that's fair. I think

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that a lot of people the issue
is being like accepting that some people can't

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make it. Probably, but yeah, no, good point, and thank

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you for the emails. You can
send those to Ryan Show at katwb dot

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com. One more day of just
me and Jenny tomorrow, Yes,