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Cobblestone on Maine at one on nine
West Main Street in the village of Webster.

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I love reading reviews, and I
went to the Cobblestone on Maine facebook

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page. It's just facebook dot com
slash Cobblestone on Maine, and I saw

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this review. Left best calamario I've
had in a while, so tender and

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fresh. The staff is very friendly, and the building is something to see.

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Converted historical barn and Webster. Great
job by the owner. I couldn't

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agree more. But it's a renovated
cobblestone church. And I only say that

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not to be like sounds smugging in
a chirk, but because it's a farm

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style restaurant. When you're in there, you can't tell that it used to

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be a church. But I'll tell
you what they got the spirits. They

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got graft cocktails to match bets.
Your mood, then match the season.

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That's the weather, all right.
You sit down at that upscale bar and

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you order yourself something delicious. Maybe
you get a shareble like the pow Tots.

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It's housemaid tater tots, krispy bacon
yanches, cheese curds, housemaid gravy

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poutine. Tots. It's a great
shareable. You gotta admit it's ingenious.

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What's going on food wise over at
Cobblestone on Maine. And then they have

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intimate dining. And the great thing
is if you were in the back,

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because it's two cobblestone buildings put together, it's almost soundproof, like they could

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have music and some stuff happening in
the main dining room, but you're in

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the back, you just hear it
very softly. Though. It's really just

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an awesome, awesome place. If
you have not been there, put it

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on your list, you know.
Eat local Cobblestone on Maine at one on

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nine West Main Street in the village
of Webster, from the mac of All

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Trade Studio in Fairport and driven by
Victor Chrysler Dots Jeep Ram. It's Billified

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the Bill Moran Podcast. Well,
hello and welcome. Thanks for getting your

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pot on. Thanks for telling a
friend. That's how we spread the word

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about the Birn Ship. Day two
of tampon face. I see that.

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Yeah, they let you keep it
at least so I could give the weather

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unbelievable. So I don't know if
it's does it hurt now? Yeah,

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I will tell everybody. The answer
is no, but it does. And

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I say no, because I don't
think anybody gives a fuck. I don't

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think that there's a person that gives
a shit. And what are they gonna

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do? You know what I mean? Like, if you say to somebody,

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I would have had somebody give you
a body misses. But do you

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understand that he could go so they
can look at you and go, I

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know, I'm I'm sorry to hear
that. So I just go, No,

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everything's great, it hurts, it's
annoying. I was gonna take most

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of this all off today, but
they kept saying, wait, you know,

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don't shower. So I did,
like a Irish shower. Yeah,

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I did an Irish shower. You
can't wash your hair because you can't get

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it wet. Uh, that can
happen tomorrow, but supposed to happen later

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in the day. But I said, listen, I got a ton of

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ship, a ton of ship that
starts extremely early tomorrow. And she's like,

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yeah, probably right, And so
I got to do that. I

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have an idea, is it training
at all or is it just no,

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it's just sewn up. But they
had to go in a little deeper than

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they you know, they did it
once. They had to go back,

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They had to go back and go
for more. If this were five years

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ago and you could get those bags
at Wegmans. Yeah, these grocery bags

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put around your head, tie box? I have a did you oh you

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know what you could? I got
them on the black market. Wow,

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tied around what your face? Yeah? Around your head. I'm joking.

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Of course you would suffocate. It
was weird. It was weird going to

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the Target in Pennsylvania actually getting a
plastic bag. I'm like, oh,

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don't care, yeah, right down
here, right, I can't. I'm

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an idiot. I still keep forgetting
to, like, you know, get

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bags like grab stuff. And I'm
carrying crap out of Wegmans like an idiot.

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There's still and they and they and
they they judge you when you're like,

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do you want to pay a bag? Now? I'm good, I

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got like six things. There's I
want to spend this, just carry it

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some places. Some places can still
use them. The Chinese restaurants still use

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them. Yeah, And and there's
other semi grocery stores that still use them.

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I will not name them because I
don't know if it's how they got

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grandfather didn't. Maybe they didn't.
Maybe they're just believe. I believe I

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may have got one of Jimmy's's the
last time I was there. Probably Wow,

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well he was going on. I
think he bought them all on bulk

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when they were on sale before the
before the government changed the rules. Juzy

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was going out in the blazing glory, you know, I mean these plastic

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bags until we close this place at
the end of February twenty ninth. Take

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that. That's the Uh. Yeah, Now my wife has like these special

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bags that like you buy ahead of
time that you put your grocery. He's

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in to save the environment. You
mean they were usable ones that everybody has,

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Yeah, pretty much. Yeah,
but I always forget them. Yeah.

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She goes keep keep them in your
car so when you go in you

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could use it. But I never
remember them. Yeah. Yeah, So

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write yourself a little note, put
it on the Dashboard's like you're ninety boodling

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did not have to go grocery shopping. That's what he's doing. Yeah.

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Probably, No, I don't think
like that. I forgot. I just

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don't think understand. You just don't
have to shop. Well, next time

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you go, just pick me up
a bottle of advill Okay, what a

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liquefied card. That that's the thing
is, like, I go, somebody,

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cause somebody came in here, we
was talking to me and go,

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you know, and they go,
it's just like you. It's a hurt

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And I said no, and they
go, come on, and I go,

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yeah, but I'm gonna say no
because if there isn't a person on

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the planet that gives a flying fuck
one way or the other, I go,

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what are they gonna do? Bring
me a bottle of Adville? I

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mean, what are they gonna do? Yeah, people don't care. I

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mean. And that that was like, here's the thing that I as,

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I kind of think that way.
My thing to anybody would be do whatever

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you want to do and stop doing
it for the reaction of others, because

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no matter what anybody says to you, they don't really care. I mean

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they do. I understand they care. They care. People care. There

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are people that care about you.
But most of the time, like even

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if they're going to ridicule you,
you it's three minutes and then they're onto

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something else. It doesn't matter.
Go do what you want to do and

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don't listen to anybody. What kind
of pain is it is like just that

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dull aching, never ending, always
like almost like a sinus, like your

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head's congested, kind of dull because
it's it's it was more than I expected.

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So it's double stitch. They said
this all you know, it's I'm

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repeating myself, but it was.
It was underneath it they do stitches that

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will dissolve. Then on top they
do stitches that they have to take out

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because they want to tighten it up. So I got to go back in

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next next week and get those out. But that that's it, not until

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you're not going to have your bandage. Do the weather or anything like that.

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No, no, not, I
did do that with Yes, I

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did do that in the past,
and I well, we're trying to make

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something out of nothing. He's not
hack anymore, Dan, I'm still I

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was working at a different company and
that got around the building. You won't

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believe what they did on the show. What they had his tumor give the

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weather. Yeah, I did the
weather tumor, So I did do I

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asked his permission before I know you
did. I know you did. I

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don't care. I could do that, I could, I could say that.

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I will say like this is like
a minor form of skin cancer.

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But it does make you kind of
think because when they said to me,

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I was expecting to be like in
and out right, and they said to

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me, they call me and go
two to four hours as what we're expecting.

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Well, sounded like all right,
and I know that as as though

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I'm not super young, I am
for what they see. And and you

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know, because there was the one
guy in front of me. They ask

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your birthday and uh, he gives
nineteen thirty eight was the year, right,

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So that's like the average in there, and then there's me, So

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I, uh that was before the
boom, So I thought for sure,

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like you know, they'll cut it
and then they test to make sure they

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got it all and then they come
in and sew yup. So I'm waiting

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and then they go, oh,
we got to go back in and there's

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some over here and they show you
on it. I was like, I

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don't care, I'm not gonna know. Just get it out, Just get

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it out and repeat live like you're
dying. No, they let you choose

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your own music. They let you
choose talk about it the option. She

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said, even there like John Hyatt
really well I didn't say John Hyatt,

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I said John Mayer. But she
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only thing he may turn off is
cancer. Man. So see, that's

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the thing is though you start thinking
and I go, you know, how

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much time do you have? Right? Yeah? And I know that people

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I don't know. It's been this
weird thing lately for me because I go,

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I really believe you can do or
be or have whatever you want in

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life. You can, but we
don't. And the reason we don't is

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because of all the restrictions we put
on ourselves and all the stupid thinking and

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all the resistant thinking, Wow I
can't or I want, But you want

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stuff because you believe you'll be better
off for having it. Maybe it's a

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bigger house, a nicer car,
a lover or whatever, you know what

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I'm saying, like those things,
and I don't know, but we get

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it and then it becomes like our
reality, so we just sort of move

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on to the next thing. You're
always wanting, right, You're always wanting,

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like, there's always that thing.
But I started, I go,

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it's fleeting, But why do you
want it at your core? You know,

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Like, why do you want something
at your core? What is it?

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Satisfaction. Maybe like you want a
bigger house so every kid can have

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their own room. If you maybe
you're having a blended family now and you

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need a bigger house. There's this
house and it's not closing and whatever.

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There's all this hang up on it, and I go, well, go

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back to the reason why you want
it. You want it so everybody can

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have an ease and a flow to
life in their own space and all that

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stuff. Go back to that the
house that you're trying to get. Maybe

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there's one that's better. You know
it's in the ideal school districts. In

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the end, maybe there's one better
right right there that you don't know about.

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Just go back to that feeling.
Same thing with people, right,

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I want this part, but to
go back to what you want, the

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core base reason of why you want
it. There may be someone better.

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The players may be different, but
even better better than you ever expected,

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you know what I'm saying. So
I don't know why I keep thinking about

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that. So that's why I feel
like your plan isn't working out and you're

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banging your head against the wall on
something. Go back to the core feeling

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as to why you want this or
what you think and usually it's satisfaction,

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abundance, whatever it is. Go
back to that and try to just hold

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on to that feeling. And I
guarantee, man, everything's gonna work out

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for you. It may not work
out the way you're picturing it in your

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mind now. It may be different
people, different players, different things,

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but it probably will be better.
Yeah, you know, and I and

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I I don't know why, I
just I've been thinking of that a lot,

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you know, a lot. Well, just one of these nights,

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but sure you teach one of us
how to upload the show so we can

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do the tribute when you're gone.
It's very easy to do. It's just

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a push of a button. You're
not gonna do a tribute with me me,

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Thanks, Dan Brick, not just
call dog. It just all it

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just all just hit me at once. Well, because like here's the thing.

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If before well you say let go
and let god, Yeah, well

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the same thing. That's what I'm
saying, let go, let go of

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wanting the house, wanting the person, wanting the lover wanting. Maybe that

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person that you're banging your head against
the wall isn't the right person. But

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go back to what you want.
I want, I want connection. I

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want ease and flow with somebody.
I want these things. It'll happen.

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It just may not happen the way
you're expecting it to. But it could

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be even better. Probably will be
better. Do you know what I'm saying?

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Right? And I'm saying the same
thing, just in a different way.

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I had some house whatever, but
stop banging your head against the wall

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and try and try and just no. I had a thought and then Kevin

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derailed because I thought about what he
said about tribute to you, and I'm

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like, okay, now how do
I how do I transition out of that?

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But what was interesting to me was
about a week ago, I had

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a physical right and you what's it? Yeah? So what happened was so

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I've had some I've had some health
scares the last couple of years, but

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everything worked out well, you know, and everything turned out fine. But

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the doctor goes, all right,
we're gonna check your moles. I go,

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I've never really had those checked.
All right, it shouldn't take long.

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And I'm like, all of a
sudden, I'm noticing moles that I've

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never noticed before. They've always been
there, but all of a sudden,

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now I'm conscious of it because they
put they put it, puts it in

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your head right right, all of
a sudden, Well, you buy a

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white car and now you're setting all
these others that new? Is that new?

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Yeah? Is that? No?
None more new. But I don't

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remember seeing you last week thinking that
you needed something to move from your face

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because it looked normal. So I'm
wondering, like, how how microscopic was

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is that they noticed it? Because
I didn't. I noticed it, Okay,

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So I I because that's what scared
me, is that I don't notice

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anything on your face that was unusual
for you need to have surgery. That's

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what scares me. Oh does that
make sense? Yeah? Because you noticed

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it, But I mean I none
of them are also had a trade medical

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doctory to know what you're looking for. You might have just thought it was

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a bumper or herb or something or
nothing or nothing or is it or nothing?

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You know what I'm saying. Yes, that's why it's like, okay,

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all right, So I looked at
Yeah, well everybody you should probably

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be looked at. They'll tell you. I So I go every six months

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and then when there was the transition
to doing this and I didn't have health

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insurance anymore. I went in for
an appointment and they said, oh,

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I had new health insurance. We
don't take this health insurance and I said

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okay. I said, well,
then can I pay cash for today?

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And they said no, because it
has to go through insurance. They're like,

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I'm sorry, we can't see you. So this person I had gone

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to for well over a decade and
had actually saved my life because she found

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what she believed to be a melanoma, which is the deadly cancer, and

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said, had she let it go
to when you would normally a dermatologists go

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yeah, that's all right, you
better go have that look at she thinks

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it would have been too late because
it was so close to your sinuses and

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all this stuff. So I went
to the same guy ten years ago who

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removed this thing and got it out
and it was got clean borders, no

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problem. And he said to me, man, it's so small. He

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goes, I don't know. She
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it a melanoma yet. That's what
he said. She said melanoma okay,

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but either way, wonderful. So
now I'm like, what do I do?

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Well, I got new insurance and
I I'd like most people, you

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get caught up. I procrastinated,
and finally I'm like, man, this

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thing on my lip is weird and
it seems to be growing and it's like

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this, I don't like it.
So I found I went to exactly where

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the doctor who told me that,
Like that doctor's office said right across will

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take your new insurance. They'll take
it. You should go there. Well,

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I did nothing right. I was
so much embarrassed when I laughed,

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because you're like, oh, sorry, get out, you know what I

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mean, that's what it felt like. It wasn't the case. It wasn't

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the case, and I understand the
medical stuff. So I finally went over

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to this doctor and she did possibly
a more thorough exam than the other doctor.

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I mean, like you know,
naked, naked everything. And she

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goes, yeah, I think that
is probably a basal cell. But on

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my above my lep really small,
but it was starting to bubble up a

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little bit. And yes, so
I went and she they did a biopsy.

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She goes, it is and this
was October, and she said,

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we'll get you in and she goes, would you go see doctor Brown?

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I said, yeah, I've gone
to him before. She goes, I

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think he's excellent. They'll remove it. They you know, do something we

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can't do in the office. They
got to get clean borders and all that.

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Well, that was October. They
couldn't. He was booked out till

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March. So I got on a
waiting list thinking I would get in and

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I didn't. Nothing ever happened,
and here we are in March. So

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I got it done and I don't
know. Well, I was sitting at

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my doctor's office last week because I
had that whole congestion thing going on,

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and I finally went to the doctor
and I'm just sitting there waiting for my

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turn to be called, and somebody's
on the phone. They're like, yeah,

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we're taking new patients. We're booking
out that in March of twenty twenty

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five. Yeah, you know,
like really yeah, oh yeah, I

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I but the alisairs system is not
broken at all. I woke it up.

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I woke up with puffy eyes a
few years ago, really puffy eyes,

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and I thought maybe it was a
cash you or something that I had.

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So because I'd never had cash eyes. Oh so I work. I

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had because my boss used to have
like stacks and stuff. So I had

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some cashes all of a sudden,
next thing, you know, my eyes

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are huge. Yeah. So I
go to the doctor and they prescribe PREDNA

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zone and they go, we're gonna
have you speak to an allergy doctor.

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Okay, So the earliest we could
get you in, and now this was

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in September of twenty nineteen. The
onliest we could get you in is July

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of twenty twenty. I'm like,
uh okay, yeah, and they're on

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all the test. Now you're not
allergic to anything, like, well,

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let what happened? We don't know? Yeah, I don't know, but

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I had to wait like nine months
to find out that. Now you're fine.

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Yeah. I went two months ago
for my colon oscar be pre screen

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whatever thing that I can't We're schedule
and it's gonna be sometime in the of

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June. Yeah, okay, great, I got the medication for it already,

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that came in like two days after
I was there. But like,

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yeah, that's not gonna get lost. But I had my a fib.

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I had to wait three months before
I could see a cardiologist. Really yeah

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wow, yeah, no, rush, Well, I mean the thing is

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is because it probably isn't going to
kill you. You're young, you know,

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but it's funny you bring this up. We don't worry about it.

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This is a story from Phoenix,
Arizona. It is goes back to COVID,

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but there's a lawsuit and you'll hear
why in this update tonight from the

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ABC fifteen investigators. Caught on camera
Phoenix firefighters denying a sick woman an ambulance

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ride to the hospital. Let's be
honest, all right, So hang on,

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I'm going to start again. So
they're denying her a ride to the

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hospital. She has COVID. Okay, but you're bringing up all the being

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booked out for months, staff shortages. ABC fifteen's airing of that video prompted

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a fire department investigation, and our
senior investigative reporter Melissa Blazius is following up

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getting a copy of that final report, showing policy of violations and for the

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first time, answering why a firefighter
would talk someone out of an ambulance.

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Okay, talk somebody. You gotta
hear this guy when he's talking, because

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it's through the doorbell ring cam.
Okay, it's August twenty twenty one.

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Heidi Pate has COVID, just wants
the hospital. Got she wants to go

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to the hospital. This is what
her all right, she wants to go

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to the hospital. And it's her
son talking through the thing and they said,

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do you want to take her?
Okay? Doorbell camera captured a Phoenix

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fire Captain, paramedic and firefighter EMT
talking to her son after responding to a

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nine to one one call without bringing
an ambulance for Heidi. That amulets fifty

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hundred bucks. I mean, we'll
take her. You got fifty hundred bucks.

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I know what I'd like to do
a fifty hundred bucks, Heidi explained

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to me. Now there's this whole
investigation this woman wanted. She wasn't even

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given the So it doesn't sound like
they denied it, but it sounds like

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they're trying to sort of talk you
out of it. And I wonder if

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they're talking you out of it because
they're short staffed and she's not dying at

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the moment, she's still breathing.
You. Yes, she probably does need

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to get to the hospital, but
why spend fifteen hundred you take her?

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Yeah? Take her? Yeah.
Now, this woman's point is I need

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someone to stay with my younger daughter. That was gonna be what my son

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was gonna do. He's like of
driving AIDS seventeen, sixteen, seventeen,

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I think, or maybe the twenty. So I wanted to just go by

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the ambulance. That way he could
stay home with her, keep her calm

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that her son needed to remain at
home to care for her young daughter.

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But instead he ends up driving Heidi
to the hospital where she's admitted for pneumonia.

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I wanted to be treated with resped
Current Weather Survey Emergency ABC fifteen has

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covered multiple cases of ambulance denials in
the city over the past. So I

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don't know if that if that's happening
around here or not. But when you

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were bringing up, both of you
guys bringing up and me right, I

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was October was almost six months.
Five months are tough because my wife had

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a situation two summers ago and we
called she thought she was having a heart

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attack like Dan over here, and
we called the ambulance and it took We

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had two fire trucks there within a
matter of a couple seconds, but the

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ambulance took like twenty five minutes to
get there. Just because there's no grease.

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There's no grease ambulance anymore, so
it comes from wherever, and this

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one came from Hilton. A lot
of people think. Then there was another

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call that came in the next closest
ambulance was in like North Chilai, for

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like the Greece area. If you're
having an actual heart attack, you could

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be fucked. So I worked with
a guy. Yeah, I worked with

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a guy who Yeah, I know
a guy who's whose wife called the ambulance.

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She found him dead, and the
ambulance in Rondequoix took about twenty five

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minutes to get there. I know
a gentleman who owns a baseball team in

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Geneva and Newark, and he was
telling me that he used to be able

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to rely on the ambulance to you
know, to buy sponsorships. And he

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said they had to stop because they
weren't getting paid. Because this is during

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the heroin epidemic, right, Yeah, where people were odean and they weren't

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getting paid. Well, let me
ask you that for Little League in baseball

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games your kids don't play, but
hockey, do they have an ambulance?

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No, high schools they were not
for like high school hockey, but I

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know football they have to have an
ambulance. They there was some scheduling issues

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this year, Yeah, because they
couldn't get an ambulance. Right, I

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never even I just I didn't.
I never thought of that until just now.

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Yeah, my sport that requires,
I think an ambulance. But I

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think all the pro sports like the
Nighthawks, the Amerks, the Red Wings,

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I don't have to have an ambulance
cho high school level, but that

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college. I thought when I was
a kid in my Jerkwater town, when

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I played little league, I thought
they had an ambulance at all the fields.

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When I played in a jerk watertown
too, and it was only just

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football games. Yeah, we never
played baseball. Well, there was always

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one for the football games. But
I thought when I played little league there

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would be an ambulance sort of in
the circle at the Stanford town Hall.

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Okay maybe, and we're going back, and don't forget there wasn't. But

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that was back when all the towns
had all their volunteer ambulance. They had

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volunteer ambulances, and literally across the
street from the ball field was the firehouse.

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Right, So that that makes sense
now that I'm thinking about it,

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and I think they came down to
the town wreck sometimes too. The baseball

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field in Greece is right behind the
firehouse. Yeah, did they hit a

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special butt when some would hit a
home run? But so no, you

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got a free hot dog. Did
you get a free hot dog? You

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got a free hot dog if you
hit a home run. Yeah, and

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then the coach would take everybody to
Campies, which is Campanella's, which was

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for soft ice cream and stuff.
I love the league six years in a

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rowing home runs dad, But wow, that's that that's a strange thing,

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is it, Because we're not getting
volunteers anymore, like they've been priced out.

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There's just private It's there's what two
private companies now a MS and Monroe

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And yeah, yeah, I think
they just have taken over. I mean,

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I know Victor still has Chila still. I think Pittsford has a or

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in Bushnell's base and I think that
well, I know they're all volunteers.

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You fired apartment, but form but
what about ambulance. But do you know

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anybody who's a volunteer fireman your age
right now? I know one that was

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a volunteer. He just got you
just graduated the academy, just got hired

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full time. As a firefighter.
Do you know anybody your age around here?

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Not not talking Uh Silver Creek,
that's a volunteer fire person. My

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ex wife was your exual. But
I don't know anybody else. Okay,

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I don't know anybody that's I think
volunteer that I know. You know some

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guys who were like cheap. I
don't think I know anybody volunteer, which

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is sort of a scary thing when
you think about it, because as much

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as I would always joke they were
sellersh safer when I was a kid.

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Uh, it's some funny that they
had heard one in my town. But

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you need those people at least a
lot of the smaller towns, like I

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know Hilton has a big volunteer for
us. Yeah, five or six an

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actual pain everybody else back because you'll
see you'll get a call. We went

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to a flour hockey game for Brady
and there was a call that came in

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and you just saw seventy eight cars
just pile into the fire department. Yeah,

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parking anywhere they can, didn't hop
it on the trunk. There was

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Uh. Well, when we that
that gig, I got basically booted from

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at the fire exempt Hall a lot
of those guys do work full time but

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then also volunteer in their town.
So a lot of we're retired too,

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Yeah, retired, and then they
go back and volunteer, which I think

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is great and in a way now
that I go, well, if you're

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going to talk about, maybe you
should do it. I don't know.

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Back home, they had to turn
people away. They're like, we have

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too many, Yeah, we don't
have enough fire they're doing victory out but

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yeah, but like this, but
it's like a badge of honor though.

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Yeah, they love doing it.
Yes, that's the thing. But that's

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interesting with the with the ambulance,
it's the cost and I don't know that

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you have enough EMS workers and the
ambulance, cause that's a brutal wall to

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get too. Ambulance used to be
they charge you by the mile they I

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was always five hundred dollars on my
insurance, I thought in the past.

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Now I don't know, fifteen hundred
dollars like this guy to me almost sounds

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like I'm almost close to thirty three
hundred. Yeah, and they charged his

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mileage too. Really. Yeah.
To go from my mom's house to Unity,

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which was an eight minute drive all
day long six in an ambulance with

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with the sirens going. Well,
there's a very famous story about Jerry Lawler

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and and Andy Kaufman wrestling in Memphis. Andy Kaufman, of course, this

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was chronicle in the movie Man in
the Moon about Andy Kaufman and at one

408
00:26:18,920 --> 00:26:22,400
point he told Jerry, okay,
pile drive me. Jerry's like, uh,

409
00:26:22,559 --> 00:26:26,519
okay, so he pile drives him
safely. Well, Andy makes it

410
00:26:26,519 --> 00:26:30,839
look like he broke his neck.
Yes, and he tells Jerry, give

411
00:26:30,839 --> 00:26:33,079
me an ambulance. Unity an was
gonna cost three hundred dollars. I'll pay

412
00:26:33,079 --> 00:26:37,960
for it. He goes okay,
and they bring in the ambulance. Yeah,

413
00:26:37,039 --> 00:26:40,400
he pays him cash. Next day, Jerry goes to I really hurt.

414
00:26:40,440 --> 00:26:41,839
She goes, no, you think
they bought it. He goes,

415
00:26:42,599 --> 00:26:45,039
yeah, I think they bought it
because why you just did it for effect

416
00:26:45,039 --> 00:26:48,000
to go tell yeah, because I
just wanted to sell the idea that I

417
00:26:48,039 --> 00:26:51,920
have my neck broken by you.
I was the big bad guy. You're

418
00:26:52,000 --> 00:26:52,960
the hero. And he goes,
yeah, I'll pay it. I'll pay

419
00:26:52,960 --> 00:26:55,960
the ambulance. Because he was a
you know, a rich, you know

420
00:26:56,039 --> 00:26:59,759
comedian at that point, he had
he was famous, but he wanted to

421
00:26:59,759 --> 00:27:02,759
sell It's so bad that he paid
the three hundred dollars for an ambulance back.

422
00:27:02,799 --> 00:27:04,559
That was a lot of money.
Yeah, well, now it's I

423
00:27:04,640 --> 00:27:10,359
got I thought it was five hundred
on my insurance after insurance would cover up

424
00:27:10,359 --> 00:27:12,880
to and then you were left with
a deductible of like five hundred on the

425
00:27:12,920 --> 00:27:18,200
insurance I had. I don't know. Now we got five insurance and we

426
00:27:18,200 --> 00:27:22,119
were respondible. Should we make a
pack then if one of us has to

427
00:27:22,160 --> 00:27:23,839
go to the er that the other
two will drive. Yes, okay,

428
00:27:25,119 --> 00:27:30,319
yeah, we know what it's gonna
be. It's gonna be Dan Dan all

429
00:27:30,400 --> 00:27:33,279
right, Well, speaking of that, we will take a moment big changes

430
00:27:33,319 --> 00:27:40,440
in Buffalo n segment. Well Dan
have a heart attack over this or will

431
00:27:40,440 --> 00:27:44,000
he be happy? Elsa? I'm
coming. We'll find out next. But

432
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460
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Danny, would you be in for
that? Yes, cis the Case

461
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of the Scissoring Wives at CIS Rochester. Yeah, that would be weird.

462
00:29:57,680 --> 00:30:00,640
Yeah, because it's on ion.
And then here's what's happened is that it's

463
00:30:00,720 --> 00:30:06,680
on in the days of of like
you know, streaming and bulk watching television

464
00:30:06,720 --> 00:30:10,000
binge watching. I should say they
now just put like episode after episode on

465
00:30:10,079 --> 00:30:12,000
every channel, right, so Ion
has a bunch, and then when Ion's

466
00:30:12,039 --> 00:30:17,000
done, then another channel's going to
have a bunch, and they alternate certain

467
00:30:17,079 --> 00:30:19,480
days, so there's not a night
of the week where NCIS isn't binged by

468
00:30:19,559 --> 00:30:23,319
some channel. Oh really, so
yeah, so I pretty much watched the

469
00:30:23,440 --> 00:30:26,319
entire series in the span of a
week. Do you like those shows?

470
00:30:27,079 --> 00:30:30,039
It's grown on me. It'll suck
in. Yeah, it'll suck yet,

471
00:30:30,079 --> 00:30:33,519
but I don't make a point to
watch it, although I do really enjoy

472
00:30:33,559 --> 00:30:37,720
this new cast. Gary Cole's like
the new Boss and he's so much cooler

473
00:30:37,720 --> 00:30:41,720
than the old Boss. Gibbs.
Mark Harmon was Gary Cole in Talladega Nights.

474
00:30:41,920 --> 00:30:45,759
Yeah. He played the dad.
Yeah first your last. Yeah.

475
00:30:45,799 --> 00:30:48,240
He also played the guy in Office
Space, Office Space, he was in

476
00:30:48,440 --> 00:30:53,880
Uh. I think he played in
There's a whole bunch of things. The

477
00:30:53,880 --> 00:30:59,119
Guy's been in everything. But what's
the lawyer movie? That? I really

478
00:30:59,240 --> 00:31:03,319
a lawyer movie? The Lawyer show
that I really liked, Suits Suits.

479
00:31:03,400 --> 00:31:07,279
He plays the DA, the district
attorney. He's great, he's a great

480
00:31:07,279 --> 00:31:11,000
act fantastic, always gets work.
Yeah, and he's cool too, Yes,

481
00:31:11,240 --> 00:31:14,440
yes, he's really cool. Like
like the last Mark Carmon was kind

482
00:31:14,480 --> 00:31:17,759
of like he played this guy named
Gibbs. Gibbs was kind of like he

483
00:31:17,799 --> 00:31:21,640
was a no nonsense boss or Gary
Coles, Like he's the cool boss.

484
00:31:21,799 --> 00:31:23,240
How but he gets the job done. How old is Mark Carmon? Can

485
00:31:23,279 --> 00:31:26,960
you look that up? I think
Gary Cole is also in Dodgeball. Oh

486
00:31:26,039 --> 00:31:30,000
that's right, he was like Gary
Coles. Gary Coles had a career of

487
00:31:30,440 --> 00:31:33,839
Yes, he's done it. He
plays the principal in Family Guy. He's

488
00:31:33,880 --> 00:31:38,799
been everything from comedy to this.
Yes, pretty serious. Because Mark Carmon

489
00:31:40,079 --> 00:31:45,279
was a star quarterback at U c
l A and like a really strikingly handsome

490
00:31:45,319 --> 00:31:49,960
guy. His father played at Michigan. Yes, and then I don't know

491
00:31:51,119 --> 00:31:55,319
why he didn't go pro. I
don't know if he didn't have the opportunity

492
00:31:55,400 --> 00:31:56,799
or he just was looking to get
into acting. I don't know. If

493
00:31:56,799 --> 00:32:00,279
he would have gone pro, he
would have been around the Jim Plunkett era,

494
00:32:00,400 --> 00:32:05,319
like the late seventies right early eighties
that I mean, but so that's

495
00:32:05,319 --> 00:32:07,519
it's well back then. I mean, like but he was a star.

496
00:32:07,759 --> 00:32:10,519
Well, remember like Terry Terry,
Bradshaw was the backup to one of the

497
00:32:10,839 --> 00:32:16,279
Robertson dad from seventy three from Mark
Herman Mark Harmon seventy three. Okay,

498
00:32:16,359 --> 00:32:19,640
yeah, he just recently left the
show. Looks great, he does.

499
00:32:19,799 --> 00:32:22,079
Yeah, But the thing is,
like, uh, mister Robertson was actually

500
00:32:22,079 --> 00:32:25,440
the started quarterback at Louisiana. Stay. No, well we're not Louisiana,

501
00:32:25,519 --> 00:32:29,799
one of Louisiana schools, And the
reason he didn't go pro is because they

502
00:32:29,839 --> 00:32:34,160
interfered with hunting season. Yeah,
like wow, nowadays it'd be like a

503
00:32:34,160 --> 00:32:36,240
no brainer. Ye, I'm going
to the NFL. Back then, it

504
00:32:36,279 --> 00:32:37,960
was it was a decision you had
to make. Well, I think you're

505
00:32:38,000 --> 00:32:40,480
right, because didn't a lot of
the Well I don't know about then when

506
00:32:40,519 --> 00:32:45,519
Bradshaw played, But I thought some
guys had off season jobs. Oh yeah,

507
00:32:45,559 --> 00:32:50,279
they all did, yeah, doing
stuff. Speaking of that, the

508
00:32:50,319 --> 00:32:57,119
Buffalo Bills are set to release Jordan
Poyer. But that's not all, folks.

509
00:32:58,240 --> 00:33:01,839
They are also talking that they're gonna
release Mitch Morse days Center. Yep.

510
00:33:02,119 --> 00:33:07,400
So I wonder if is there a
chance that Jason Kelcey comes out of

511
00:33:07,440 --> 00:33:12,559
retirement and he was a hit in
the stands at Buffalo. Would he possibly

512
00:33:12,599 --> 00:33:14,519
be in the field. I don't
think the answer is yes to that at

513
00:33:14,519 --> 00:33:15,640
all. He does throw a table
yesterday was on fire. I don't know

514
00:33:15,640 --> 00:33:19,559
if you saw that. No,
I didn't. Ye, he jumped through

515
00:33:19,559 --> 00:33:24,279
a table that was on fire.
Defensive back Sarah Neil, wide receiver Deontay

516
00:33:24,319 --> 00:33:28,519
Hardy, though Hearty did Okay,
he didn't do much. He had that

517
00:33:28,519 --> 00:33:31,000
one big play against Miami. Oh, that's right, just like had those

518
00:33:31,039 --> 00:33:36,319
two big plays against the Patriots two
years ago. Uh. And Tredavious White

519
00:33:36,599 --> 00:33:38,319
is going to be gone. Yeah, that's a big one. So Morson

520
00:33:38,319 --> 00:33:42,279
morson White are the big ones.
I got breaking news here too from Jay

521
00:33:42,279 --> 00:33:45,599
Glazer if you want this one.
Yeah, Bills are releasing Greg Connors as

522
00:33:45,599 --> 00:33:49,319
well as Tom can say. But
Craig's got to go. Wow, that's

523
00:33:49,319 --> 00:33:55,599
gonna be that's gonna hurt thirty million
dollars league wide increase in the salary cap.

524
00:33:55,720 --> 00:34:01,519
But the Bills are still nearly forty
million dollars over. So with this

525
00:34:01,680 --> 00:34:07,920
and the restructuring of von Miller's deal, that puts them at save some almost

526
00:34:07,920 --> 00:34:12,400
thirty six million dollars, Is that
right? Yeah, Yeah, they're break

527
00:34:12,400 --> 00:34:14,559
they're breaking, they're breaking past that. So now they're going to take care

528
00:34:14,559 --> 00:34:16,079
of all that. So they were
about forty million, forty three million in

529
00:34:16,119 --> 00:34:20,039
the hole, so they're about to
be about break even or plus minus three

530
00:34:20,079 --> 00:34:23,800
million dollars at least exact. So
well, No, the story is that,

531
00:34:24,000 --> 00:34:27,519
like they've structured the deal so next
year, if they want to get

532
00:34:27,599 --> 00:34:30,000
rid of Digs free and clear,
they could do that after next season,

533
00:34:30,119 --> 00:34:32,519
so and it won't really hurt them
too much. Okay, does this mean

534
00:34:32,599 --> 00:34:37,159
like they're all in on the offense? Not necessarily? Does it mean so

535
00:34:37,199 --> 00:34:39,840
are they going to go out and
get a receiver? Are they looking at

536
00:34:39,840 --> 00:34:44,760
a look, there's quite a few
receivers there were draft face just to make

537
00:34:44,840 --> 00:34:46,519
the draft. I think yeah,
they have Ale Yeah, a little little

538
00:34:46,519 --> 00:34:50,880
free agency. Oh yeah, they
have eleven picks in the draft as of

539
00:34:50,960 --> 00:34:53,159
right now, and I think that
they're going to trade up for guys that

540
00:34:53,199 --> 00:34:57,800
they like or trade back if there's
a lot of depth and positions they need.

541
00:34:58,039 --> 00:35:01,119
Clearly they need center, right,
I mean mc connor. McGovern's been

542
00:35:01,119 --> 00:35:05,119
moved over to center, but he's
the only center on the roster at this

543
00:35:05,199 --> 00:35:07,159
point, right, So you're gonna
have to have some depth there. They

544
00:35:07,159 --> 00:35:13,159
need receivers, period, They're gonna
need safeties, and they're gonna need corners

545
00:35:13,159 --> 00:35:15,559
and linebackers. So they got the
work cut out for him. I mean,

546
00:35:15,639 --> 00:35:17,800
it's but you have Josh Allen,
So as long as you have a

547
00:35:17,840 --> 00:35:22,119
quarterback, you're gonna be a playoff
team. But I mean it may not

548
00:35:22,199 --> 00:35:24,000
be the year that you're gonna go
to the Super Bowl? Is this an

549
00:35:24,039 --> 00:35:28,159
overstatement? If I say that Josh
Allen is one of the best two or

550
00:35:28,159 --> 00:35:30,719
three quarterbacks in the NFL currently,
it's a fact. Yeah, that's I

551
00:35:30,800 --> 00:35:34,599
think, so, I really do, and I would put it in this

552
00:35:34,719 --> 00:35:37,360
order Mahomes. And then there's a
tie between Alan and Burrow. When Burrow

553
00:35:37,400 --> 00:35:40,280
is healthy. When Burrough's healthy,
and he doesn't always state what you know

554
00:35:40,400 --> 00:35:45,840
that that's not entirely his fault.
You need to get some guys in front

555
00:35:45,840 --> 00:35:46,800
of them, you know what I
mean? Right, I think that was

556
00:35:46,840 --> 00:35:52,000
a lot of the problem for Russell
Wilson. It's like that that line that

557
00:35:52,119 --> 00:35:58,159
first seasons, like the fuck you
said, nobody? Yeah, that's the

558
00:35:58,199 --> 00:36:02,039
other thing too. Promising receivers just
didn't pan out, So what do what

559
00:36:02,039 --> 00:36:07,039
do we think with receiver wise?
Because I thought I was kind of hoping

560
00:36:07,079 --> 00:36:09,000
Mike Evans, but then they resigned
him in Tampa Bay. But I was

561
00:36:09,079 --> 00:36:13,199
kind of the draft, the draft, but the draft has some really great

562
00:36:13,280 --> 00:36:19,079
receivers. Was it a receiver who
broke this the record for I think you

563
00:36:19,119 --> 00:36:22,000
hit four two to two? Yeah, that is in the combat? Was

564
00:36:22,000 --> 00:36:24,760
that neighbors or was that I didn't
I didn't count the name he wanted didn't

565
00:36:24,760 --> 00:36:31,280
want to combine either. His name
was speedy as Ship. Okay, speedy

566
00:36:31,320 --> 00:36:35,280
as Ship. Well. I kind
of like these and if you're a Bills

567
00:36:35,280 --> 00:36:38,039
fan, I think this is a
good thing. Sentimental. It sucks sentimentally

568
00:36:38,480 --> 00:36:42,599
because White and Mortes were about the
first team to help them get back to

569
00:36:42,639 --> 00:36:45,760
the playoffs. Yes, White was
the draft pick that they that they drafted

570
00:36:45,760 --> 00:36:47,320
and he was from its first draft
and he was fantastic. It was a

571
00:36:47,360 --> 00:36:52,559
lockdown corner and a lot of these
guys like poyor too and all were fan

572
00:36:52,639 --> 00:36:55,760
favorites, did a lot of charity
stuff for for uh yeah, oh yeah.

573
00:36:57,280 --> 00:36:59,800
Poyer was a huge free agent signing. When they signed him, that

574
00:36:59,880 --> 00:37:00,920
was a big get. He and
like a hyde. But I thought they

575
00:37:00,920 --> 00:37:05,119
brought a lot of charity work.
Oh yeah, they're the great community guys.

576
00:37:05,159 --> 00:37:07,960
Do they do the balls out bowling? They might? I don't know.

577
00:37:07,039 --> 00:37:09,199
I know that. I think Payer
had a softball tournament. I think

578
00:37:09,199 --> 00:37:13,519
there's a softball game in a softball
game Buffalo State. Balls out bowling is

579
00:37:13,599 --> 00:37:16,280
something else? Okay, that's a
naked bowling Oh okay, yeah, it's

580
00:37:16,360 --> 00:37:21,960
uh, that's for charity. It's
in Pittsburgh. Are Naturalists or hosting another

581
00:37:22,039 --> 00:37:24,199
balls out bowling event where you can
bowl in the nude? Oh wow?

582
00:37:24,800 --> 00:37:29,320
April twenty eighth. The event is
for anyone eighteen and over the the neon

583
00:37:29,400 --> 00:37:35,840
lights. Who's the group sponsoring this? Pittsburgh Area Naturalists Found Pittsburgh said something

584
00:37:35,920 --> 00:37:37,519
else? What do you think?
I said? I thought, I said,

585
00:37:37,519 --> 00:37:42,000
Arian, I'm like, what like
that? That's an odd group having

586
00:37:42,000 --> 00:37:44,639
a naked bowling tournament. Again,
I mean, if you're really proud of

587
00:37:44,679 --> 00:37:50,840
your skin, nudity is required,
with the exception that women can wear bottoms.

588
00:37:52,119 --> 00:37:54,360
Now, I want you to picture
bowling. Do you know what I'm

589
00:37:54,360 --> 00:38:00,039
saying? Like the bending over the
whole thing, you know it's all and

590
00:38:00,079 --> 00:38:04,199
why wouldn't you let the guy wear
bottoms? His balls are bouncing around this

591
00:38:04,199 --> 00:38:06,760
stuff, But it's called balls out
bowling. Think about the air in that

592
00:38:06,800 --> 00:38:12,800
place with the on the ball.
How about this? How about how about

593
00:38:12,840 --> 00:38:16,719
that scene in Kingpin where Randy Quaid
looks at what he Harelson goes, geez,

594
00:38:16,719 --> 00:38:20,559
mister Munson, it's amazing to be
in the presence of so many great

595
00:38:20,639 --> 00:38:23,280
athletes and you see this fat guy
drinking a beer. Now imagine them naked.

596
00:38:23,559 --> 00:38:28,000
Okay, that's that's what bowlers typically
look like. Those running the event

597
00:38:28,079 --> 00:38:34,119
say nudism does not equal consent and
harassment and it will not be taken lightly.

598
00:38:34,360 --> 00:38:37,719
Violators will be asked to lead.
No photography or video is allowed.

599
00:38:37,079 --> 00:38:40,119
The event is a ticket event.
No tickets will be sold at the door.

600
00:38:42,239 --> 00:38:45,880
And they also say sexual activity is
not permitted, So you can't talk

601
00:38:45,920 --> 00:38:49,480
shit, you can't get a blowjob. What the hell's one of this thing?

602
00:38:50,960 --> 00:38:52,360
Well, but this is how they
live though, they're nudists. Like

603
00:38:52,400 --> 00:38:54,840
we knew a guy. We were
with a guy who was a nudist.

604
00:38:57,920 --> 00:39:00,559
He was an engineer. That dude, Yeah that he like an owl.

605
00:39:00,639 --> 00:39:04,159
Yeah, he lived like a nudist. He lived like a he was a

606
00:39:04,199 --> 00:39:07,119
newdist at home. He was a
newdist favorite. He was a wicked and

607
00:39:07,159 --> 00:39:09,159
he was a neudist, lived like
you're a newdist. He waited. Yes,

608
00:39:09,199 --> 00:39:14,039
he was a wicked and then his
wife died. Yeah. Yeah,

609
00:39:14,159 --> 00:39:16,360
they were nudists. They were nudists. Yes, well there you go.

610
00:39:16,400 --> 00:39:20,480
That's why you don't want to go
to these things. Nice guy. Yeah,

611
00:39:20,559 --> 00:39:22,639
yeah, but they were newdists.
Huh, he's an engineer and remove

612
00:39:22,639 --> 00:39:27,199
your shorts. So it's just like
this newdiest people that are uh, I

613
00:39:27,239 --> 00:39:31,079
don't know, Well, there's there's
the newest place around here. Okay,

614
00:39:31,519 --> 00:39:37,199
down it's like new Haven or something
or I don't know, it's not it's

615
00:39:37,239 --> 00:39:40,559
out in three one five. No, no, no, no, I've

616
00:39:40,599 --> 00:39:43,880
never heard of a new Haven in
three one five. Now that there's something

617
00:39:43,880 --> 00:39:46,480
out there, I might have it
wrong, but it's like it's a newdist

618
00:39:46,519 --> 00:39:52,320
resort and you can go. And
they had it and it looks like,

619
00:39:52,440 --> 00:39:54,280
honest to god, they had everybody
in the pool, and I go,

620
00:39:54,360 --> 00:39:58,320
I want to see the water level
when they all get out, because it's

621
00:39:58,320 --> 00:40:02,239
all these big fat people that we're
sitting around the pool. But it's yeah,

622
00:40:02,960 --> 00:40:06,960
nudes, you can go down for
the day you pay, you can

623
00:40:07,000 --> 00:40:10,599
come in and hang out. Wow. Yeah, there's uh Morovia, New

624
00:40:10,679 --> 00:40:14,960
York. Yes, and there's also
Sparkers New York, which looks like it's

625
00:40:15,000 --> 00:40:19,119
near Ithaca. Yeah. No,
Morovia is the one full tan Sun Club

626
00:40:19,159 --> 00:40:22,920
and Empire Haven. Empire Haven,
that's what it is. That's right,

627
00:40:23,639 --> 00:40:29,639
catch Moro Morovia. That's like,
and you don't I don't think you have

628
00:40:29,719 --> 00:40:32,239
to be completely naked, but the
weird thing. Yeah, but if you're

629
00:40:32,280 --> 00:40:35,880
gonna do that, then you kind
of have to play by the rules,

630
00:40:35,920 --> 00:40:39,000
don't you know, because if you're
not solar eclipse, because if you're not,

631
00:40:39,480 --> 00:40:44,920
oh yeah you will because if you're
not playing by a black hole,

632
00:40:45,760 --> 00:40:47,920
because it sounds like if you're not
going in and being fully nude, and

633
00:40:47,960 --> 00:40:51,800
I would never do this, but
then you're if you're not playing by their

634
00:40:51,840 --> 00:40:54,800
rules, it's almost like you're trying
to gawk. What's the point of going

635
00:40:54,239 --> 00:40:59,000
you know? Or or maybe you're
trying to test it out. You're uncomfortable,

636
00:40:59,400 --> 00:41:00,800
you know what I mean, You're
sitting by yourself, you know,

637
00:41:01,480 --> 00:41:04,519
how are you to test it out? Unless you take your clothes off?

638
00:41:05,719 --> 00:41:07,519
Well, you get down to a
speedo or something, or maybe you getting

639
00:41:07,519 --> 00:41:14,719
fish is gonna go yeah, yeah, put a sock on it. Or

640
00:41:14,719 --> 00:41:19,880
Bill Moran right through the halls of
Saint John Fishing University at the what was

641
00:41:19,920 --> 00:41:22,960
the dorm doll Dorsey Hall. That's
right. I wonder this is how the

642
00:41:23,000 --> 00:41:27,320
steel is gonna lure Russell Wilson to
come to town with this newdest thing.

643
00:41:27,639 --> 00:41:30,440
Maybe maybe balls out. I don't
think he could do it, but no,

644
00:41:30,599 --> 00:41:31,880
but he would maybe he can support
it. He could, you know,

645
00:41:32,039 --> 00:41:37,920
he could. Maybe he would send
Sierra. That would be it would,

646
00:41:38,079 --> 00:41:44,280
yes, it would a lot of
boners. Speaking of teams, So

647
00:41:44,559 --> 00:41:50,559
Oakland A's are they moving to They
are because they put out renderings. I

648
00:41:51,000 --> 00:41:54,079
had heard rumblings, but they put
out renderings and then I saw like their

649
00:41:54,119 --> 00:41:59,760
fan base went crazy and they had
to turn off the comments section on their

650
00:42:00,280 --> 00:42:02,800
Well, they're pretty hurt that they've
they've lost the Raiders now they're losing the

651
00:42:02,840 --> 00:42:07,719
A's. But if you watch the
A's over the years, there's nobody in

652
00:42:07,719 --> 00:42:13,280
that stadium in the and the reason
is because it's literally a cesspool. It's

653
00:42:13,280 --> 00:42:15,840
been described as a literal cesspool.
Like they don't even like the sewage.

654
00:42:15,880 --> 00:42:20,599
It's like ross sewage crap. But
really, yeah, it's terrible. And

655
00:42:20,639 --> 00:42:23,800
the gave that county, that town, every opportunity to people, and they

656
00:42:23,880 --> 00:42:30,559
just would they wouldn't do. What
is the what is the what's the name

657
00:42:30,559 --> 00:42:36,079
of the It's not Candlestick, No, it's I remember Ala Alameda County Colisseum,

658
00:42:36,079 --> 00:42:37,800
but I remember what the old name
was. Okay, I remember when

659
00:42:38,280 --> 00:42:43,360
was it the A's. Was I
watching the A's when they had the earthquake?

660
00:42:43,519 --> 00:42:45,519
Yeah, same stadium? Well no, no, that was the Giants

661
00:42:45,519 --> 00:42:50,360
in the A's. It was the
Bay Area Series, but the earthquake was

662
00:42:50,360 --> 00:42:54,039
a Candlestick earthquake was in San Francisco. That was okay, I remember,

663
00:42:54,679 --> 00:42:59,559
but that was the Giant's beat the
Giants in eighty nine, four games to

664
00:42:59,679 --> 00:43:02,159
one. I think, wow,
Well they go to sun City and there

665
00:43:02,440 --> 00:43:06,079
it's an odd looking stadium, but
I kind of like it. It's almost

666
00:43:06,119 --> 00:43:09,079
like a parachute canopy over top to
keep the sun out, but you've got

667
00:43:09,079 --> 00:43:13,679
open air to cool things off.
And yeah, it really is a cool

668
00:43:14,639 --> 00:43:19,000
it's an open field stadium. Because
Vegas is hot, well the plan or

669
00:43:19,079 --> 00:43:22,039
not it's hot as well. There
were two right, they looked like they

670
00:43:22,039 --> 00:43:24,920
had, and I wonder if they
run looks like the Sydney air conditioning.

671
00:43:25,039 --> 00:43:28,440
Yes it does. I wonder if
they I don't know what they do.

672
00:43:28,599 --> 00:43:30,800
Well, if anybody could run air
conditioning in an open air area, it's

673
00:43:30,880 --> 00:43:34,559
a stadium in Vegas because if you
go through Vegas, man, people are

674
00:43:34,599 --> 00:43:37,239
smoking in the casinos and you have
no idea it's so well ventilated, you

675
00:43:37,280 --> 00:43:39,760
know, like if I've been Vegas
a couple of times, it's one big

676
00:43:39,800 --> 00:43:44,079
mall, but it's awesome. And
then if you go outside on the Fremont

677
00:43:44,079 --> 00:43:47,159
Street, Fremont Street is covered.
Even though it's outside, it's it's covered.

678
00:43:47,239 --> 00:43:51,119
They have that zipline too, right, right, So I mean,

679
00:43:51,159 --> 00:43:52,639
if anybody could pull it off,
it's Vegas. But I actually like,

680
00:43:52,840 --> 00:43:55,840
that's gonna make me want to go
to Vegas more often that there's a baseball

681
00:43:55,960 --> 00:44:00,880
stadium there. Yes, you go
watch live baseball. That's awesome. That's

682
00:44:00,880 --> 00:44:05,000
fantastic team because they've got three of
the four now. But that's what they're

683
00:44:05,039 --> 00:44:07,920
talking about too, is bringing the
NBA uh to to Vegas. So who

684
00:44:07,920 --> 00:44:13,239
would go? Uh? Well,
Oklahoma City Thunder Memphis Grizzlies might be a

685
00:44:13,239 --> 00:44:16,400
team that would go, Uh,
that's a possibility. New Orleans possibly,

686
00:44:17,000 --> 00:44:21,119
Yeah, New Orleans. They've had
they've had trouble, they've had trouble keeping

687
00:44:21,159 --> 00:44:23,480
people. New Orleans would make sense. The only problem is is that their

688
00:44:23,519 --> 00:44:28,280
ownership is the same as the Saints, so they'd have to sell the team

689
00:44:28,440 --> 00:44:32,480
and then somebody would have to relocate
them to Vegas. But there's a few

690
00:44:32,559 --> 00:44:36,920
NBA teams that are losing money that
could that could make a move. I

691
00:44:37,039 --> 00:44:39,199
totally see that. When you go
to Vegas, do you see a lot

692
00:44:39,199 --> 00:44:44,159
of like people that are just really
cheesy, kind of cool people. What

693
00:44:44,199 --> 00:44:45,719
do you say? See everybody?
You see and you see all walks of

694
00:44:45,719 --> 00:44:49,679
life from every continent in America,
in the world rather than the world,

695
00:44:50,199 --> 00:44:54,840
every continent in America, even some
penguins. You'll see everybody down there,

696
00:44:54,960 --> 00:44:59,119
and you'll see I mean like like
broke people, poor people, rich people.

697
00:44:59,199 --> 00:45:00,960
I mean, you get every walk
of life. And everyone's having a

698
00:45:00,960 --> 00:45:05,079
good time too. You don't see
a person who's upset, even like at

699
00:45:05,079 --> 00:45:07,920
the when they're losing their money.
They're having a good time. There's a

700
00:45:07,920 --> 00:45:10,039
lot of energy, right. It
probably feels good when people are cheering and

701
00:45:10,079 --> 00:45:13,800
the bells are going off and the
whistles. Everybody's kind of rooting for each

702
00:45:13,840 --> 00:45:16,920
other. Yeah, the other half
r in the bag. You know what's

703
00:45:16,920 --> 00:45:21,320
funny, though, is that you
don't see a lot of people ain't drinking

704
00:45:21,360 --> 00:45:22,960
though, No, I didn't see. I mean, people have cocktails and

705
00:45:23,000 --> 00:45:27,599
stuff, but no one's inebriated in
Vegas. It's almost like it's there's too

706
00:45:27,639 --> 00:45:32,519
much to lose. I was drugged
for four days. All right, Well,

707
00:45:32,679 --> 00:45:37,280
uh, won't take a moment.
Buffalo Bill's making those changes. They

708
00:45:37,800 --> 00:45:39,679
had to make these moves they did. The idea was it's not a bad

709
00:45:39,719 --> 00:45:44,559
move because if you start like extending
people and restructuring contracts, eventually you'll end

710
00:45:44,639 --> 00:45:46,039
up with the Rams or you gotta
pay the bill, right, and at

711
00:45:46,119 --> 00:45:49,320
least the Rams want a Super Bowl. Imagine if they had, they would

712
00:45:49,320 --> 00:45:51,679
have had to pay that bill without
winning a super Bowl and start over.

713
00:45:52,119 --> 00:45:53,480
So, yeah, it sucks that
you're gonna lose Trey White, sucks you're

714
00:45:53,480 --> 00:45:57,360
gonna lose Mitch Morse, but you
know what you gotta, you gotta.

715
00:45:58,280 --> 00:46:00,199
But you never know too, they
may come back on a different deal.

716
00:46:01,360 --> 00:46:05,440
Yeah, No, I think I
think, yeah, I think you should

717
00:46:05,480 --> 00:46:08,480
retire Jesus, he will get more
still cushions. Yeah, but he's still

718
00:46:08,480 --> 00:46:12,679
he still got a little juice left. It was a surprise that they released

719
00:46:12,760 --> 00:46:16,119
him. So he's gonna catch on
with somebody. Uh. An encounter with

720
00:46:16,159 --> 00:46:21,320
a stranger. I came upon this
on BuzzFeed and will reuse you some of

721
00:46:21,360 --> 00:46:24,239
the weird things that people have had
that an encounter with a stranger. And

722
00:46:24,280 --> 00:46:30,320
I'm thinking, Kevin, if there's
anybody at this table that has had an

723
00:46:30,400 --> 00:46:35,079
encounter with a stranger that would be
memorable, who do you think it would

724
00:46:35,079 --> 00:46:37,880
be? Who would have a story. It's always going to be Dan.

725
00:46:37,960 --> 00:46:39,239
It's always gonna be Dan, I
would have said, Stephanie Eye. We

726
00:46:39,280 --> 00:46:43,920
will that's true. She's not at
the table though. We will find out

727
00:46:44,000 --> 00:46:46,480
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728
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729
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730
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731
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759
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760
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761
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because I sometimes even though he's a
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762
00:49:15,519 --> 00:49:22,199
of reason. You all are expecting
a dog to keep somebody's dick, hampire

763
00:49:22,320 --> 00:49:24,719
to be shipped out in the same
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764
00:49:24,760 --> 00:49:28,599
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766
00:49:32,960 --> 00:49:37,719
podcasts. I am going to defend
myself. I have seen puppies eat,

767
00:49:37,719 --> 00:49:42,239
the dogs eat uh No, a
sock. I told you it. The

768
00:49:42,360 --> 00:49:45,159
jusc came out my dad had the
knot was stuck, so you had to

769
00:49:45,159 --> 00:49:47,440
pull it out of the duck.
Oh, that not was stuck. Yes,

770
00:49:47,599 --> 00:49:52,960
I wish the dog knock in thek
then in the knot. Hey.

771
00:49:52,000 --> 00:49:55,639
By the way, today is a
National Orio Cookie Day. Oh okay,

772
00:49:55,719 --> 00:50:00,000
I guess Dad's gonna have a sleep
when he gets on ass gosh. I

773
00:50:00,000 --> 00:50:06,719
I now, I never really was
a huge fan of Oreo cookies. And

774
00:50:06,719 --> 00:50:10,239
one of the reasons I wasn't was
this girl always brought them uh in third

775
00:50:10,280 --> 00:50:14,039
grade, and she had braces in
third grade, and they would get stuck

776
00:50:14,079 --> 00:50:17,000
and she'd smile you and I hated
it. Grossbeer. I can remember name

777
00:50:17,039 --> 00:50:21,159
I've done down Osmond. I thought
it was gonna be that your mom,

778
00:50:21,360 --> 00:50:23,519
mom bought the cheap stuff. She
bought them hydrox ones. Oh no,

779
00:50:23,599 --> 00:50:28,800
that was my grandmother terrible. And
my grandmother then would send into things,

780
00:50:28,880 --> 00:50:31,840
and we had hydrox socks. If
you sent back enough of the things you

781
00:50:31,920 --> 00:50:36,719
got, you got you got hydrox
socks. So we all got hydrox socks.

782
00:50:37,840 --> 00:50:38,760
Yeah, and she thought she was
doing the family of favors. I

783
00:50:38,800 --> 00:50:42,800
just bought Grady seven eleven socks because
he loves slurpies. I bought him seven

784
00:50:42,800 --> 00:50:45,960
eleven sox. That's funny, awesome, Yeah, that's funny. That's cute.

785
00:50:45,000 --> 00:50:47,679
The hydrox socks. I think my
mother gave birth to my sister wearing

786
00:50:47,719 --> 00:50:52,480
hydrox. I'm not kidding. I'm
pretty sure that that's true. Uh.

787
00:50:52,599 --> 00:50:58,840
The the cookie founder's name is Sam
Porcello was often referred to as mister Oreo

788
00:50:59,079 --> 00:51:05,480
Sam J. P after he introduced
this sugary snack. The original recipe called

789
00:51:05,519 --> 00:51:09,280
for pork fat. How about that, So it's pork fat between the cookies.

790
00:51:09,559 --> 00:51:13,199
It's a fucking heart attack, dude. I'd love to know how long

791
00:51:13,400 --> 00:51:15,960
Pricello lived. Do you think he's
rolling over in his grave with all the

792
00:51:15,000 --> 00:51:19,440
new like double stuff, the Mega
stuff, the red velvet, the lemon

793
00:51:20,840 --> 00:51:23,320
red velvet. Dude. Oh yeah, see, I like the vanilla.

794
00:51:23,800 --> 00:51:28,800
I think I had vanilla. I
got I ate some edibles and then had

795
00:51:28,880 --> 00:51:31,920
Oreo cookies and I couldn't stop eating, like the half and half, one

796
00:51:31,960 --> 00:51:35,920
side chocolate, one side vanilla.
Oh I haven't had that. Yeah,

797
00:51:36,159 --> 00:51:37,920
a lot of oo oh I like
that. You know who has a healthier

798
00:51:38,000 --> 00:51:43,840
version? Paul Newman? Yeah,
oh yeah, sure, it's boring,

799
00:51:45,039 --> 00:51:49,679
all right? What year did double
Stuffed debut? What year did doubles?

800
00:51:51,159 --> 00:51:54,920
Nine seventy three? You're the closest
seventy five? Wow, I didn't know

801
00:51:54,960 --> 00:51:59,519
that. The original recipe didn't change
much over the years until their favorite double

802
00:51:59,559 --> 00:52:05,639
stuff real cookie he was introduced.
But lard was the central Lard was a

803
00:52:05,679 --> 00:52:08,280
central ingredient making the Oriole cookie early
in the day. Lard was big back

804
00:52:08,320 --> 00:52:10,480
in the day. Yeah, still
is at the waffle house. If you

805
00:52:10,519 --> 00:52:16,199
go in to wafas, don't they
just scoop it on there? Are you

806
00:52:16,320 --> 00:52:23,320
aware of the ongoing cholesterol problem in
this country? Oriole cookies are sold in

807
00:52:23,559 --> 00:52:30,480
over one hundred countries outside of the
United States. Can you name the four

808
00:52:30,559 --> 00:52:37,800
other countries in the world where they
are they it's one of the top five,

809
00:52:37,920 --> 00:52:42,400
top five countries where they're sold United
States number one, Canada. Canada

810
00:52:42,679 --> 00:52:49,679
is fourth, China, number two, Spain. No, the other two

811
00:52:49,719 --> 00:52:52,719
are hard to come up with.
The other two members wayles, Oh my

812
00:52:52,840 --> 00:52:54,719
god, shut the fuck up.
Did you look? No, I just

813
00:52:54,760 --> 00:53:00,000
get the number three. It's Venezuela. Oh my god. Something to look

814
00:53:00,000 --> 00:53:02,760
forward to because there's nothing else to
do in Venezuela. How do you know

815
00:53:02,800 --> 00:53:05,840
you've never been there in the news
all the time. I mean, it

816
00:53:05,880 --> 00:53:08,719
can't be good. Uh, all
right, So the United States, China,

817
00:53:08,800 --> 00:53:12,840
Venezuela, Canada, there's one more. Number five, your booty,

818
00:53:14,639 --> 00:53:19,840
Uruguay, Indonesia. Yeah right,
but it'd be one that you wouldn't really

819
00:53:20,360 --> 00:53:23,480
come up with. Yeah wow,
just a little facts about the organ Now

820
00:53:23,880 --> 00:53:27,559
here's the thing though, Like,
do they have all the same ingredients that

821
00:53:27,599 --> 00:53:29,880
they have in the United States?
I believe so. I believe it's the

822
00:53:29,920 --> 00:53:32,440
same cookies that they go around the
world, because like if you take a

823
00:53:32,480 --> 00:53:36,079
bottle of Hines in France and a
bottle of Hinds. The United States,

824
00:53:36,159 --> 00:53:38,840
the bottle of Wow only has like
four In France only has like four or

825
00:53:38,840 --> 00:53:42,800
five ingredients. I don't know the
answer to that. You're right. Sometimes

826
00:53:42,800 --> 00:53:47,239
they will adjust and depending on but
I guess whatever their version of the FDA

827
00:53:47,320 --> 00:53:50,639
would be, I'm not I'm not
sure speaking of the FDA. I had

828
00:53:50,639 --> 00:53:53,239
to do this for your own benefit. Remember last week we talked about soap.

829
00:53:53,800 --> 00:53:57,679
Yeah, like Coast, Yes,
Okay, I found Coast at Wegmans,

830
00:53:57,760 --> 00:54:00,639
Yes, and Henrietta. I looked
up Point and this it is.

831
00:54:00,880 --> 00:54:01,800
It's at an eight. How to
scale it one to ten? As far

832
00:54:01,840 --> 00:54:07,000
as the cheaper, I'm set,
the cheaper the soap, right, the

833
00:54:07,000 --> 00:54:12,639
more poisonous it is. The fuck
is this poison shit you're talking? I'm

834
00:54:12,679 --> 00:54:14,920
telling you, like, if you
go to this website or this app,

835
00:54:14,960 --> 00:54:19,079
think Dirty, Think Dirty, it'll
tell you, like if you're on the

836
00:54:19,079 --> 00:54:22,760
bar code, like from a scale
from zero to ten, how poisonous the

837
00:54:22,800 --> 00:54:27,400
product is, Zero being not poisonous
at all, Ten being the most poisonous

838
00:54:27,400 --> 00:54:29,639
thing you can put on your body. Coast is in an eight. Do

839
00:54:29,719 --> 00:54:30,320
you have the app on your phone
right now? Yeah? I do?

840
00:54:30,480 --> 00:54:36,440
Scan his water I think it's it's
like cleaning products and stuff like that.

841
00:54:36,480 --> 00:54:39,159
It's not. I don't think it
does fine, I'm just I'm trying to

842
00:54:39,159 --> 00:54:44,000
debunk this appro quick. I'm not
trying to well, okay, I mean

843
00:54:44,119 --> 00:54:46,760
this is all right, think dirty. All right, I'm gonna try to

844
00:54:46,760 --> 00:54:52,840
scan and we'll see what it is. I don't think it does water.

845
00:54:52,000 --> 00:54:54,800
But let's just just for the heck
of it. Yes, please scan a

846
00:54:54,840 --> 00:55:00,360
beauty or personal care product so it
doesn't do water. Hold on, what's

847
00:55:00,360 --> 00:55:04,039
the beauty product? Where do we
have soap? We have soap? Oh,

848
00:55:04,039 --> 00:55:07,960
we have soap. We have like
down dish soap. Enhands out.

849
00:55:07,960 --> 00:55:10,400
Okay, I actually I can show
you see like this is all the stuff

850
00:55:10,400 --> 00:55:15,840
that I scanned, see coast number
eight. All right, So what what's

851
00:55:15,880 --> 00:55:20,440
the best? The best is like
that stuff that, oh gosh, the

852
00:55:20,480 --> 00:55:24,000
expensive crap like the Doctor Squatch,
which is like a three. Doctor Squatch

853
00:55:24,079 --> 00:55:28,039
was a three. Yeah, maybe, which isn't bad. Maybe I'll buy

854
00:55:28,039 --> 00:55:30,920
some dome like Dollar Shave Club shaving
cream is like an eight. Yeah,

855
00:55:31,039 --> 00:55:35,199
Jack Black's at a five. Old
spices in anate that Sarah V stuff.

856
00:55:35,199 --> 00:55:38,519
You gotta be careful with that.
What about what about Dove. Yeah,

857
00:55:38,519 --> 00:55:43,679
I used, I didn't measure done. Let me look at the dawn with

858
00:55:43,760 --> 00:55:45,519
the dawn stuff. Let's see if
like dawn registers. All right, down

859
00:55:45,679 --> 00:55:51,599
here we go down on the scale. I'm pissed. I like Coast keep

860
00:55:51,679 --> 00:55:54,639
using it. Don't let Danny dawn
it says, I gotta like unlock it

861
00:55:54,639 --> 00:55:58,320
with a free try off to pay
for it so it won't show me like,

862
00:55:58,360 --> 00:56:00,280
how how many do you get a
day that are free? Or did

863
00:56:00,320 --> 00:56:02,199
you already use up here? I
think I might have just used my free

864
00:56:02,239 --> 00:56:06,000
one. But let me do the
Purel real quick and see if I can

865
00:56:06,039 --> 00:56:10,199
get that. So you're not gonna
get it pure L again free trial.

866
00:56:10,239 --> 00:56:13,719
So it's it's it's not unlocked.
So you all get so many freebies a

867
00:56:13,760 --> 00:56:16,679
day. Well, I don't know. I'm trying to protect you, the

868
00:56:16,679 --> 00:56:21,360
masses. I'm trying to protect you. He just had something removed off his

869
00:56:21,440 --> 00:56:24,400
face. Basically, he's using Coast
Coast. No, probably because I laid

870
00:56:24,440 --> 00:56:28,000
in the sun as a kid,
or down in the sun without sunscreen or

871
00:56:28,039 --> 00:56:29,960
something else was on his face when
he was young. Well, that could

872
00:56:29,960 --> 00:56:32,760
be too, that could be too. That's right. So just looking at

873
00:56:34,519 --> 00:56:42,760
my face, whipped cream cake encounter
with a stranger. I'm gonna read these.

874
00:56:43,079 --> 00:56:47,639
This is some weird thing, weird
encounters. This was on BuzzFeed.

875
00:56:49,360 --> 00:56:53,079
Sitting with a tender date, this
person writes, I go to sip the

876
00:56:53,159 --> 00:56:58,960
drink he just brought back. The
waitress bumped into me, spilling it,

877
00:57:00,000 --> 00:57:02,840
oologized profusely, then escorted me to
the restroom to quote unquote clean up,

878
00:57:02,920 --> 00:57:07,039
where she informed me the date had
dropped something into my glass. Police were

879
00:57:07,079 --> 00:57:13,079
on the way. Stranger probably saved
my life. Huh, how weird would

880
00:57:13,119 --> 00:57:17,880
that be? That that the first
of all? That waitress that's where you

881
00:57:19,000 --> 00:57:22,760
got a huge got to give her
a huge tip. But how often do

882
00:57:22,800 --> 00:57:28,719
we think people are dropping some kind
of roofie in someone else's As a guy,

883
00:57:28,800 --> 00:57:30,280
I've never thought about it. I
never thought about it either, But

884
00:57:30,360 --> 00:57:34,039
when I know somebody who has worked
with we happened to him. Yes,

885
00:57:34,039 --> 00:57:36,280
we do. I went home with
a nasty headache after going with the grag

886
00:57:36,280 --> 00:57:42,880
the other day. A new study
published in the journal Psychology of Violence they

887
00:57:42,880 --> 00:57:49,519
have a psychology for that psychology on
Monday suggests drink spiking drugging someone by illicitly

888
00:57:49,559 --> 00:57:53,960
slipping a drug like GHB or xanax
into a xanax makes you sleepy. Yeah,

889
00:57:53,960 --> 00:58:00,800
I know, maybe significantly more widespread
than previous belief. Now they did.

890
00:58:00,559 --> 00:58:06,880
They did a survey of six thousand
students at three US universities. Four

891
00:58:07,000 --> 00:58:10,719
hundred and sixty two people responded,
and seven point eight percent self reported that

892
00:58:10,760 --> 00:58:15,559
they had been drugged before. Wow, it seems a lot. It is

893
00:58:15,639 --> 00:58:17,679
a lot, But I go,
how do you know that it's not just

894
00:58:17,719 --> 00:58:22,519
a hangover? What if this waitress
is just a scorn lover of this gentleman

895
00:58:22,719 --> 00:58:24,480
and he's bringing this new girl in
to stick it to her. I don't

896
00:58:24,480 --> 00:58:29,599
know, because they don't. They
don't give you any more details in this

897
00:58:29,960 --> 00:58:34,039
Reddit thing. So I'm assuming that
the guy probably got arrested and she's telling

898
00:58:34,079 --> 00:58:37,119
the truth. But you're right,
I don't know. Of those who reported

899
00:58:37,159 --> 00:58:42,840
that having been drugged, twelve point
one percent reported being the victims of unwanted

900
00:58:42,880 --> 00:58:47,880
sexual touching okay, because you're not
able to resist as much, and five

901
00:58:47,920 --> 00:58:57,039
point four percent reported that what study
authors term for sexual intercourse, that would

902
00:58:57,079 --> 00:59:00,480
be like having necrophilia, right,
if it's somebody's on all xanaxt out,

903
00:59:00,559 --> 00:59:02,239
Yeah, why would you want to
do that. And I don't know what

904
00:59:02,320 --> 00:59:07,800
GHB does, but I would assume
something, just as so much every episode

905
00:59:07,840 --> 00:59:10,400
of Lot orders for you. You'll
figure it out real that or at cis

906
00:59:10,760 --> 00:59:15,920
non ciss crimes against the baby.
That's more like sexual stuff. Gotcha,

907
00:59:15,119 --> 00:59:19,880
Yeah, I had no idea,
so so. University of South Kindlin Women's

908
00:59:19,880 --> 00:59:27,000
Studies professor Suzanne Swan led the study, told the website broadly, I guess

909
00:59:27,039 --> 00:59:30,000
it's called that. She, like
many long assumed this type of infraction was

910
00:59:30,039 --> 00:59:34,000
extremely rare, and she said I
had no idea that drink spiking was happening

911
00:59:34,039 --> 00:59:37,079
until students started bringing it up from
time to time. Since there there's hardly

912
00:59:37,199 --> 00:59:40,199
any research in this area, I
decided to get some data and figure out

913
00:59:40,239 --> 00:59:45,239
what was going on. Wow,
that's pretty scary. That's very pretty scary.

914
00:59:45,280 --> 00:59:50,239
But I've never been as a guy. I don't think we think about

915
00:59:50,239 --> 00:59:52,159
it, right. I wouldn't think
about it, do you ever? I

916
00:59:52,199 --> 00:59:53,559
wouldn't even know where to get the
stuff. Well no, no, I'm

917
00:59:53,559 --> 00:59:57,280
saying, like or do it.
I don't even mean that. I don't

918
00:59:57,320 --> 00:59:59,960
mean like we'd be the ones to
do it. I'm saying I don't ever

919
01:00:00,079 --> 01:00:04,480
to think that my drink could gets
spot well, nobody's roofy. If anybody

920
01:00:04,519 --> 01:00:10,280
puts anything in a drink, it's
a dark Yeah, it'd be like a

921
01:00:10,280 --> 01:00:13,800
prank, like putting, like putting, fouting, farting powder in your in

922
01:00:13,840 --> 01:00:15,639
your father's coffees. It'd be like
one of those types of things. It

923
01:00:15,679 --> 01:00:20,760
would be like trying to like seduce
a dude, you know, I mean,

924
01:00:21,440 --> 01:00:22,280
we're trying to steal their money.
Maybe I don't. Maybe. I

925
01:00:22,280 --> 01:00:27,159
mean there was those stupid urban legends
about like taking a medical students will try

926
01:00:27,159 --> 01:00:30,360
to remove a kidney. But we
all know that's bs. But I mean

927
01:00:31,039 --> 01:00:34,159
that do we, Dan, did
you believe that for a while? No,

928
01:00:34,360 --> 01:00:37,280
did you believe that conspiracy? Somebody
said that if Fisher once said,

929
01:00:37,280 --> 01:00:38,239
we all were like, come on, get on, that's bullshit. But

930
01:00:38,320 --> 01:00:45,880
ship in a glitter box in high
schools not. But yeah, I mean,

931
01:00:45,960 --> 01:00:49,039
like I don't think of that stuff. I was told by my cousin

932
01:00:49,079 --> 01:00:51,519
before I left the Coffer College.
He goes, you have a drink in

933
01:00:51,559 --> 01:00:52,880
your hand, you put it down, don't plan on picking it back up.

934
01:00:53,119 --> 01:00:55,960
That's a good point because it looks
someone could spit in it, do

935
01:00:57,079 --> 01:00:59,840
anything. Yeah, I mean,
I used to love to go to Padam's

936
01:01:00,119 --> 01:01:02,400
and I would I would stand right
next to the wall, pee in a

937
01:01:02,480 --> 01:01:07,719
cup and then put it up on
They had that thin little and I used

938
01:01:07,760 --> 01:01:10,480
to it was the color of beer. And I used to love to watch

939
01:01:10,480 --> 01:01:14,360
somebody, Oh my god, it's
warm, and then I start laughing.

940
01:01:14,639 --> 01:01:16,440
I would pee in cups and leave
it there because it would look like because

941
01:01:16,800 --> 01:01:21,920
that is the level. There was
a social media back then. Yeah,

942
01:01:22,679 --> 01:01:24,480
a pre med student, what you
might be. No one drank it.

943
01:01:24,599 --> 01:01:28,800
I wouldn't let anybody drink it.
And I think I did take it to

944
01:01:29,400 --> 01:01:30,719
not always, but I think I
did take it to the bathroom and flush

945
01:01:30,760 --> 01:01:32,760
it. Yeah, but I used
to. I used to write there and

946
01:01:32,760 --> 01:01:36,760
pat him whip it out when no
one was looking, and people there were

947
01:01:36,880 --> 01:01:39,239
no rules of pat. If you
get arrested for not drinking or is whipping

948
01:01:39,280 --> 01:01:43,119
your dick out in public, well
that's true too, that's true too.

949
01:01:43,199 --> 01:01:45,519
Pre med student comes by, Hey
Bill, that's awfully foamy. You may

950
01:01:45,559 --> 01:01:52,519
want to drink more wine. There's
ale on you. I got a here's

951
01:01:52,519 --> 01:01:55,199
another one. I got in an
elevator at a mall with a woman about

952
01:01:55,239 --> 01:01:59,960
twice my age. When I was
twenty, we stood in silence to the

953
01:02:00,199 --> 01:02:02,559
third floor. When she went to
get off the elevator, she turned to

954
01:02:02,599 --> 01:02:07,639
me and smiled and said, have
a nice life, and we walked in

955
01:02:07,719 --> 01:02:09,719
opposite direction. So I think about
that woman often because of that line.

956
01:02:09,880 --> 01:02:14,000
Could did you ever have a straight
like? Well, think about this.

957
01:02:14,400 --> 01:02:19,000
If if somebody, like a stranger
says that to you, that'd be weird,

958
01:02:19,519 --> 01:02:22,800
but you wouldn't really, it wouldn't
bother you. But if you had

959
01:02:22,840 --> 01:02:24,039
a friend that got off the elevator
goes have a nice life, you'd be

960
01:02:24,039 --> 01:02:27,039
like, what, I'm not gonna
talk to you on Tuesday? What's going

961
01:02:27,079 --> 01:02:30,760
on? Yeah, Dian, I
had a teacher once, a student teacher.

962
01:02:30,800 --> 01:02:32,559
I said that too. She was
a music class. We knew it

963
01:02:32,599 --> 01:02:35,840
was her last day, so I
didn't know what else to say to her.

964
01:02:35,920 --> 01:02:38,400
I said, well, have a
nice life. And you said that

965
01:02:38,440 --> 01:02:42,880
to who? To the student teacher
because it was her last daid teaching and

966
01:02:43,000 --> 01:02:45,079
I said have a nice life.
And I didn't know that I was saying

967
01:02:45,119 --> 01:02:47,440
anything wrong. I was in eighth
grade. Yeah, I thought that would

968
01:02:47,440 --> 01:02:51,280
be appropriate because I was never gonna
see this teacher it might be And she

969
01:02:51,360 --> 01:02:53,320
was like, oh, thanks,
thanks Dan. Well it's kind of sad.

970
01:02:54,079 --> 01:02:59,199
Yeah, well I didn't realize that. What was meant We're back to

971
01:02:59,280 --> 01:03:06,320
Dan being on too. What's the
stranger good looking in this? In this?

972
01:03:06,679 --> 01:03:09,280
I don't know. This is all
that's written on on the BuzzFeed,

973
01:03:09,360 --> 01:03:13,519
So I don't want to, like, we can assume all the other stuff.

974
01:03:13,559 --> 01:03:15,119
I have no idea. Here's one
though, that'll freak you out a

975
01:03:15,119 --> 01:03:17,239
little bit. This is pretty good. Does it make you wish you want

976
01:03:17,280 --> 01:03:20,159
to talk to her? You would? You would have talked to her if

977
01:03:20,159 --> 01:03:22,559
she'd know this person what I have
a nice life. Yeah. Well,

978
01:03:22,840 --> 01:03:27,239
now I'm like wondering, like what
what Okay, what does she know that

979
01:03:27,280 --> 01:03:30,719
I don't know? Yeah? Yeah? Or was she really there? Or

980
01:03:30,840 --> 01:03:34,480
was she Yeah, it's just something
that this person said. They person got

981
01:03:34,559 --> 01:03:38,519
roof feed in this one from the
last one. All right. I was

982
01:03:38,559 --> 01:03:44,079
working a service counter in retail in
nineteen ninety eight, expecting my first baby.

983
01:03:44,920 --> 01:03:50,119
A young man, very skinny and
dressed in brown came in, stood

984
01:03:50,159 --> 01:03:53,880
several feet back from the counter and
looked at me. I greeted him a

985
01:03:53,920 --> 01:03:58,159
few times, and he didn't react, you know, like, hey,

986
01:03:58,159 --> 01:04:00,639
can I help you hello. After
several minutes, he came forward and said,

987
01:04:00,800 --> 01:04:04,400
very quickly, you're six months pregnant
and you're going to have a boy.

988
01:04:05,000 --> 01:04:08,519
The dad's not around, but that's
okay. You got this. The

989
01:04:08,559 --> 01:04:12,639
baby's coming very soon early, but
don't worry. He'll do good. Before

990
01:04:12,679 --> 01:04:15,840
I could say anything, he left
the store. He was right about everything.

991
01:04:15,920 --> 01:04:19,159
Wow, no kidding. Yeah,
that would freak out. Yeah,

992
01:04:19,199 --> 01:04:21,239
that would freak me. That would
freak you, That would freak you.

993
01:04:21,519 --> 01:04:26,199
It was like an angel walking in. Think would you think angel or would

994
01:04:26,199 --> 01:04:29,280
you think devil? That would if
they were true, I think it would

995
01:04:29,320 --> 01:04:31,280
be a devil wouldn't want to approach
me. Somebody with a spirit, they

996
01:04:31,280 --> 01:04:34,480
don't want to approach. But but
an angel, possibly they're telling me to

997
01:04:34,719 --> 01:04:38,119
warm me about something. Yeah,
but I mean it's gonna be okay in

998
01:04:38,119 --> 01:04:41,000
a way. Is that nice to
know? It is nice to know she

999
01:04:41,119 --> 01:04:45,480
made up? Of course you do, of course you do. You have

1000
01:04:45,519 --> 01:04:47,480
to believe in this stuff, Kevin. People believe in anything. No,

1001
01:04:47,519 --> 01:04:49,880
I mean no, say people like, don't just share this stuff just to

1002
01:04:49,920 --> 01:04:54,000
make stuff up just for well,
I'm not saying it's it's religious. For

1003
01:04:54,079 --> 01:04:56,920
what this is on buzzfeeding. Maybe
right, they could be making it up

1004
01:04:56,960 --> 01:05:00,559
completely. But I'm trying to think. I know I've had a counters with

1005
01:05:00,559 --> 01:05:03,559
strangers, but I can't nothing that
was super memorable that I can think of.

1006
01:05:05,280 --> 01:05:09,920
I I do know of a couple
of good white night one night stands

1007
01:05:09,960 --> 01:05:12,960
for me? Did you have a
couple good nice stands? And strangers?

1008
01:05:13,199 --> 01:05:15,639
So I don't believe. Did you
ever not know someone's name that you slept

1009
01:05:15,679 --> 01:05:21,000
with? You didn't even know their
name? No, I don't think so,

1010
01:05:21,119 --> 01:05:28,400
Okay, Danny my uh no,
you knew everybody's name, Yeah,

1011
01:05:28,440 --> 01:05:30,000
but you knew their whole backstory.
Come on, my wife told me a

1012
01:05:30,039 --> 01:05:33,559
story. I'm not a fan of
mediums or anything like that, but or

1013
01:05:33,599 --> 01:05:38,159
they call media, I don't know, but anyway, medium a medium.

1014
01:05:38,239 --> 01:05:42,440
She was at an event once and
this one guy who happened to be a

1015
01:05:42,480 --> 01:05:45,599
medium was there at a party and
he noticed her kind of standing by herself,

1016
01:05:45,639 --> 01:05:48,880
and he goes okay, and she
started She started telling her telling the

1017
01:05:48,920 --> 01:05:53,920
person about like her life situation was
going on. She'd been divorced and she

1018
01:05:54,039 --> 01:05:59,039
was seeing another guy or seeing someone
and that wasn't going well. And then

1019
01:05:59,079 --> 01:06:01,000
there's this other guy she was in
interested to that wasn't going well, and

1020
01:06:01,039 --> 01:06:04,199
he goes, listen, don't worry
about the two guys that you're hung up

1021
01:06:04,199 --> 01:06:09,639
on or your ex husband. Another
one's coming. That another one that was

1022
01:06:09,679 --> 01:06:15,079
coming as you end up being me, Yeah all over feet? Why said

1023
01:06:15,920 --> 01:06:19,159
me like that? Billy? And
all she said was God, damn it?

1024
01:06:21,000 --> 01:06:27,639
All right? One more One more
stranger's encounters with a stranger. This

1025
01:06:27,679 --> 01:06:30,119
person writes, when I was fifteen, I used to ride the bus for

1026
01:06:30,159 --> 01:06:33,920
five hours and thirty five miles every
Friday so that I could practice with my

1027
01:06:34,000 --> 01:06:38,679
band I was. It was actually
four different bus changes, so I ran

1028
01:06:38,719 --> 01:06:42,400
into a lot of colorful characters.
It was a city bus in a major

1029
01:06:42,440 --> 01:06:45,480
metropolitan area. Well, one time, this older, homeless, eccentric looking

1030
01:06:45,519 --> 01:06:48,599
gentleman boarded the bus with a bottle
of wine and a brown paper bag.

1031
01:06:48,679 --> 01:06:51,679
His lips were stained. He was
clearly drunk, but not to the point

1032
01:06:51,679 --> 01:06:55,599
of being a problem or anything.
He sat across the aisle from me,

1033
01:06:55,920 --> 01:06:58,119
and I was thinking, oh,
Gray, here we go. But he

1034
01:06:58,159 --> 01:07:00,920
was calm, and eventually we started. I was uncomfortable at first, but

1035
01:07:00,960 --> 01:07:05,599
we discussed the interesting things and shared
our philosophies. After a while, his

1036
01:07:05,679 --> 01:07:10,519
stop came up. This man,
who had never met before and who knew

1037
01:07:10,559 --> 01:07:15,119
nothing about my background, stood up
and took my hand in his and kissed

1038
01:07:15,119 --> 01:07:17,599
it. Now, at first I
was thinking, great, this guy's a

1039
01:07:17,679 --> 01:07:21,400
creep who's into fifteen year old boys. But then I looked into his eyes

1040
01:07:21,440 --> 01:07:26,440
and realized he wasn't being creepy at
all. There was no devious intention.

1041
01:07:27,440 --> 01:07:30,480
He looked at me and said,
I know the pain you were feeling.

1042
01:07:30,639 --> 01:07:35,119
You lost your mother. Do not
despair. She's with you. Then he

1043
01:07:35,239 --> 01:07:38,800
explained, and I've never heard of
this, and I didn't even look it

1044
01:07:38,880 --> 01:07:45,599
up. I'm a seraphim of the
highest order. Seraphim of the highest order.

1045
01:07:45,639 --> 01:07:49,599
Seraphim and seriffim are like in the
Bible, They're like angels or angelic

1046
01:07:49,639 --> 01:07:53,800
creatures. Okay, so I'm a
seraphim of the highest order. I'm not

1047
01:07:53,840 --> 01:07:58,760
familiar and did a sort of theatrical
curtsy and walked off the butts. I

1048
01:07:58,880 --> 01:08:01,320
was left dumbfounded. The thing is, my mother had passed away from cancer

1049
01:08:01,400 --> 01:08:04,159
less than the year before that.
I was feeling completely lost without her.

1050
01:08:04,360 --> 01:08:08,800
It was the darkest time in my
life. He was, this random homeless

1051
01:08:08,840 --> 01:08:12,599
man knew this about me. How
this room, random homeless man knew this

1052
01:08:12,599 --> 01:08:15,320
about me. I'll never know.
He was like a character from the movie

1053
01:08:15,440 --> 01:08:20,520
Dogma. Maybe he'll maybe he really
was a seraphim of the highest order.

1054
01:08:20,560 --> 01:08:27,199
It still gives me chills thinking about
it. Wow. Yeah, yeah,

1055
01:08:27,279 --> 01:08:30,640
I mean that that's that would that
would be old freaky. Do you think

1056
01:08:30,680 --> 01:08:32,399
that there's angels that come to I
think I believe in angels. Yes,

1057
01:08:32,960 --> 01:08:36,760
that that could warn you stuff or
tell you about things. Yeah, I

1058
01:08:36,800 --> 01:08:41,600
don't know that they would come in
the appearance of records, but I mean

1059
01:08:41,600 --> 01:08:44,479
I do believe that, yes,
absolutely. But like acting, you know,

1060
01:08:44,680 --> 01:08:46,239
this is why he's on the bus
nobody else. I'm here to talk

1061
01:08:46,399 --> 01:08:49,039
just to Dan. I don't want
to bring a lot of attention to myself.

1062
01:08:49,079 --> 01:08:53,079
People are not gonna pay us that
homeless guy, so he's stressed up.

1063
01:08:54,439 --> 01:08:56,800
Yeah, yeah, I could see
that. I could totally see.

1064
01:08:56,840 --> 01:09:00,840
The only message is everything's gonna be
okay. Yeah. I mean I've heard

1065
01:09:00,840 --> 01:09:04,159
of a story where there was this
one girl whom she got jumped by a

1066
01:09:04,199 --> 01:09:09,760
couple of guys and you know,
was assaulted, right, and so another

1067
01:09:09,800 --> 01:09:13,039
woman like so they show it on
the news that this woman had been assaulted.

1068
01:09:13,079 --> 01:09:15,399
They described the person and where it
happened. This girl was watching on

1069
01:09:15,439 --> 01:09:18,840
television sees this. She goes,
I know the guy. I could I

1070
01:09:18,880 --> 01:09:23,199
know exactly what she's talking about.
So she goes and picks the guy out

1071
01:09:23,199 --> 01:09:26,279
of a lineup and says, that's
the guy, and then she goes,

1072
01:09:26,319 --> 01:09:28,119
can I talk to him? And
the police are like, why do you

1073
01:09:28,159 --> 01:09:30,000
want to talk to him? Because
I walked by him and he didn't attack

1074
01:09:30,079 --> 01:09:34,479
me. So he goes, sure, are you offended? No, she

1075
01:09:34,520 --> 01:09:39,319
goes, why didn't you? She's
not that hot because I walk right by

1076
01:09:39,399 --> 01:09:41,880
you, she goes. The guy
goes, yeah, you were with two

1077
01:09:41,920 --> 01:09:44,319
men. I didn't want to like
rustle two guys. She goes, I

1078
01:09:44,359 --> 01:09:47,840
was walking by myself. In other
words, there were two guardian angels around

1079
01:09:47,880 --> 01:09:50,840
her. She walked by, and
this guy sees them. He's like,

1080
01:09:50,840 --> 01:09:54,720
well, I'm not going to mess
with with her. She's with two guys.

1081
01:09:55,000 --> 01:09:57,279
Does that make sense? It sounds
a little made up that she would

1082
01:09:57,319 --> 01:10:00,199
then want to go talk to him
and find out that I don't. It

1083
01:10:00,199 --> 01:10:03,840
could be here. Here's the thing
that I think you ever you ever look

1084
01:10:03,920 --> 01:10:10,000
back on a situation when whenever it's
over whatever the situation is, maybe financial,

1085
01:10:10,039 --> 01:10:14,800
maybe relationship. Maybe like what Beth
was told, right, she's got

1086
01:10:15,279 --> 01:10:17,880
a guy it's not going well,
a divorce, another guy she's sort of

1087
01:10:17,920 --> 01:10:21,279
interested in. But and that,
and somebody says, but when you look

1088
01:10:21,319 --> 01:10:25,600
back, everything always works out.
It may not work out the way you

1089
01:10:25,640 --> 01:10:29,479
think it is in the back then, but most of the time it works

1090
01:10:29,479 --> 01:10:30,880
out better. And that's what I
was saying earlier. And stop banging your

1091
01:10:30,880 --> 01:10:34,199
head against the wall and just believe, just believe that it's all going to

1092
01:10:34,239 --> 01:10:39,520
work out, because I do think
everything pretty much works out, you know.

1093
01:10:40,119 --> 01:10:43,840
You know, I think there's some
tough things that we don't fully understand

1094
01:10:43,880 --> 01:10:46,760
in our human capability. I think
death is really can both of you guys

1095
01:10:46,760 --> 01:10:49,840
have have gone through something I've never
gone through. The loss of parent,

1096
01:10:50,159 --> 01:10:55,199
Yes, right, that that that
can turn you can turn your on your

1097
01:10:55,199 --> 01:10:57,920
head, your world on your head. You know, absolutely it was.

1098
01:10:58,000 --> 01:11:00,840
It was a rough time, I'm
sure, and I'm sure I've lost rainbows

1099
01:11:00,880 --> 01:11:03,960
and unicorns. Yeah, I've lost
the sibling too. I mean, it's

1100
01:11:04,520 --> 01:11:09,439
it's something that you know. It's
one thing also when you see it coming,

1101
01:11:09,680 --> 01:11:11,399
like my father, we knew he
had cancer. It was just a

1102
01:11:11,399 --> 01:11:15,159
matter of time. With my sister, it was like sudden dropped in after

1103
01:11:15,199 --> 01:11:17,159
a bills game, Like I don't
know what. I don't know what.

1104
01:11:16,920 --> 01:11:19,680
What's the better one? I don't. I don't know, because the pain

1105
01:11:19,760 --> 01:11:24,439
has to be the same for both, even whether you prepare for it or

1106
01:11:24,479 --> 01:11:26,880
not. I don't know. There's
no way to measure I guess there's there's

1107
01:11:26,880 --> 01:11:30,359
no there's no there's no way to
measure it. You know, it's really

1108
01:11:30,359 --> 01:11:33,600
difficult. I think it's different when
it's a parent, because the parent raised

1109
01:11:33,640 --> 01:11:36,880
you your entire life. Your sister, you know. In my case,

1110
01:11:36,920 --> 01:11:41,079
you know, she lived so far
away and we didn't live in the same

1111
01:11:41,079 --> 01:11:44,640
house. She was my father's first
my father's daughter from a previous marriage,

1112
01:11:45,000 --> 01:11:47,079
right, so while we were close, we didn't have that everyday relationship.

1113
01:11:47,119 --> 01:11:50,079
We weren't growing up together. So
it was a little bit different, you

1114
01:11:50,119 --> 01:11:54,159
know. I mean, if I
lost one of my siblings now, I'd

1115
01:11:54,199 --> 01:11:57,119
be just as devastated, maybe more
devastated. I don't. I don't know.

1116
01:11:57,560 --> 01:11:59,960
So she's been happened all of a
sudden. It's another thing when like

1117
01:12:00,079 --> 01:12:02,279
at least when you find out where
you're gonna be the first sibling to go.

1118
01:12:03,159 --> 01:12:06,039
What do you think at least if
it's like a terminal illness, Yes,

1119
01:12:06,119 --> 01:12:12,039
now you've got time to prepare for
you do when it happens. To

1120
01:12:12,079 --> 01:12:14,479
me, that's dying. I want
to I want to quick. I don't

1121
01:12:14,479 --> 01:12:15,960
want the terminal, I don't want
the long distance. I want to go.

1122
01:12:16,439 --> 01:12:19,880
I want to go tomorrow. Yes, I can understand that from from

1123
01:12:19,920 --> 01:12:23,960
your point. I'm just saying,
like, for like your kids and stuff,

1124
01:12:24,000 --> 01:12:27,560
to prepare for it, I don't
know when when the when the final

1125
01:12:27,600 --> 01:12:30,840
thing actually happens, even though you
know it's coming more so than you did

1126
01:12:30,880 --> 01:12:34,560
for your sister, does it make
the when it actually happens any less painful?

1127
01:12:34,640 --> 01:12:38,760
I think you start overthinking it at
a certain point. If it just

1128
01:12:38,880 --> 01:12:42,520
if dad just goes, he just
goes. Yeah. Yeah. The other

1129
01:12:42,520 --> 01:12:45,319
thing too, is like when you
know, I've had more situations, I'm

1130
01:12:45,359 --> 01:12:49,960
just wet and my dad lasted And
it was a little bit easier with my

1131
01:12:50,039 --> 01:12:55,520
mother because it was just it was
h Yeah, there was nothing I could

1132
01:12:55,560 --> 01:12:58,439
think about it. What we do
different and what else could we do?

1133
01:12:58,560 --> 01:13:00,800
Or when you know it's coming,
It's like it said, you can go

1134
01:13:00,920 --> 01:13:03,520
to the stages of grief too,
like bargaining, denial, acceptance and all

1135
01:13:03,520 --> 01:13:06,640
that stuff, and you fluctuate between
those. You know, what could I

1136
01:13:06,680 --> 01:13:11,079
do? Is there something I could
have done? Or you know, it's

1137
01:13:10,880 --> 01:13:13,880
it's it's difficult. I didn't mean
to make it heavy. But but but

1138
01:13:13,960 --> 01:13:15,840
that's what we're here for. But
I think my point with this too though,

1139
01:13:15,840 --> 01:13:19,239
it goes back to like, let's
take beth situation with the where the

1140
01:13:19,279 --> 01:13:24,439
guy says to her, hey,
whatever is going to stop banging your head

1141
01:13:24,439 --> 01:13:27,119
against the wall. Let life come
to you. Well, that's what I'm

1142
01:13:27,159 --> 01:13:29,600
saying, go back to the thing. If you're looking for a connection,

1143
01:13:29,720 --> 01:13:32,600
If she was looking for a connection
with somebody, stop banging your head against

1144
01:13:32,640 --> 01:13:35,920
the wall and trying to make something
work. That just isn't going to something

1145
01:13:36,159 --> 01:13:42,359
better, something that does fit everything
you want is there? Just let it

1146
01:13:42,399 --> 01:13:45,319
come in. Just let it come
in, you know, because I really

1147
01:13:45,319 --> 01:13:48,960
think, I really believe that that's
the thing. And we but we'll get

1148
01:13:48,960 --> 01:13:53,439
ourselves all twisted about. Look,
then that's just because that's what I'm saying,

1149
01:13:53,560 --> 01:13:57,239
is like the players probably will change. Right. If you feel like

1150
01:13:57,279 --> 01:14:00,319
you're begging a head against the wall, you are banging your head against the

1151
01:14:00,359 --> 01:14:02,239
wall. That is true. You
are, you're frustrated, it's not working.

1152
01:14:02,640 --> 01:14:06,520
It's not if you're looking for like
your job. You know, I

1153
01:14:06,600 --> 01:14:11,159
don't like my job. But you
want to go someplace where you feel like

1154
01:14:11,199 --> 01:14:14,359
you're valued and you can have creativity
and all. It go back to those

1155
01:14:14,359 --> 01:14:16,000
base feelings. It may not be
the place you think you're gonna go.

1156
01:14:16,079 --> 01:14:20,000
You may find an even better place
than you are now. Same thing with

1157
01:14:20,039 --> 01:14:24,199
the relationship, that's the thing.
That's where I go. I don't know

1158
01:14:24,239 --> 01:14:27,680
why. I've been thinking about that
a lot in the last twenty four hours,

1159
01:14:27,680 --> 01:14:30,600
and I'm just like, I'm not
forcing shit anymore. Fuck it,

1160
01:14:30,840 --> 01:14:33,520
I don't care. Van Wilder says, don't take life serious. Yeah,

1161
01:14:33,600 --> 01:14:36,640
never get out a lot, right, that's one thing. Yeah, don't

1162
01:14:36,640 --> 01:14:41,039
take yourself in more life too seriously. I will say this though, Yes,

1163
01:14:41,199 --> 01:14:43,760
you mentioned these stories about people who
are telling people. Now they've went

1164
01:14:43,800 --> 01:14:45,239
and found these people. They didn't
accept any money for it. They actually

1165
01:14:45,239 --> 01:14:48,199
just kind of tipped them off to
what's going to happen these stories. There

1166
01:14:48,199 --> 01:14:53,039
are people who are Charlatans who try
to take people's money. So I have

1167
01:14:53,079 --> 01:14:56,960
a plan. So between the three
of us, we should have a safe

1168
01:14:57,000 --> 01:15:00,439
word where we know if this person's
ripping us off, like if one of

1169
01:15:00,520 --> 01:15:03,920
us should pass. We go to
the medium and they try to communicate with

1170
01:15:03,960 --> 01:15:08,239
one of us and we have the
safe word, and we know if they're

1171
01:15:08,279 --> 01:15:11,520
full of crap by using this safe
word. So we ask about the safe

1172
01:15:11,560 --> 01:15:14,640
word, and if that safewoord isn't
used, then we know that they're full

1173
01:15:14,680 --> 01:15:18,359
of it. I think that's a
great fool proof planph I like that.

1174
01:15:18,520 --> 01:15:20,479
I like that as the word.
Okay, I like it. That's the

1175
01:15:20,479 --> 01:15:25,680
word. All right, we'll take
a moment. It's an advice thing that

1176
01:15:25,720 --> 01:15:29,399
I didn't get to. I think
it was last week. I dug that

1177
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1208
01:17:39,800 --> 01:17:45,119
loads, it's no big deal hairlibs. So fuck did there's anything wrong with

1209
01:17:45,159 --> 01:17:59,880
that? Got about the explosive hot
time you're doing to game point and be

1210
01:18:00,079 --> 01:18:03,720
sure to like and subscribe to Bilified
wherever you get your podcast. He laughs

1211
01:18:03,760 --> 01:18:09,840
like the million dollar Man. I
don't know what he is. He is

1212
01:18:09,880 --> 01:18:12,239
one of my favorite calls. He's
crazy. You can leave us a message

1213
01:18:12,239 --> 01:18:16,720
anytime to a sixty eighty sixties Charlie. He sounds like a Charlie. I

1214
01:18:16,760 --> 01:18:19,560
should know, but I don't.
I don't know. Do you think you

1215
01:18:19,600 --> 01:18:24,800
are cool? No? Do you
think you're cool? Kevin? Absolutely not?

1216
01:18:26,079 --> 01:18:30,479
Okay, be cool anymore? Uh
so they someone asked thirty five thousand

1217
01:18:30,560 --> 01:18:35,640
Americans that question. You have time
to do that thirty five thousand Americans.

1218
01:18:35,640 --> 01:18:39,680
So I don't know when they say
someone, I'm not sure. I don't

1219
01:18:39,680 --> 01:18:43,640
know. If this was like a
you gov poll, what percentage of Americans

1220
01:18:43,680 --> 01:18:48,199
do you think said that they were
cool? Seventy eight percent? Did they

1221
01:18:48,239 --> 01:18:51,720
confuse this with temperature or did they
was it? Was it specified out to

1222
01:18:51,800 --> 01:18:55,760
them that no, they knew what
it man, we had a bust what

1223
01:18:56,079 --> 01:18:59,479
espally, Hey, did Tommy say
anything about my lunch with him? Because

1224
01:18:59,600 --> 01:19:02,279
I'm cool? Sixty four? What
time I know him cool? I'm cool?

1225
01:19:02,319 --> 01:19:06,600
Right? Wait? Wait wait the
guy that's no longer on the planet.

1226
01:19:06,720 --> 01:19:10,000
Yes, ye had a lunch of
time. He wanted to know if

1227
01:19:10,000 --> 01:19:12,920
he said some cool because I want
time. I even think I'm cool.

1228
01:19:13,159 --> 01:19:15,960
Yeah, but he didn't mean it
like I'm cool, like I'm a hip,

1229
01:19:15,199 --> 01:19:17,760
Like like I'm a good guy.
You can tell me anything, a

1230
01:19:17,800 --> 01:19:20,760
good boss, you know, not
like because you know I'm cool, I'm

1231
01:19:20,760 --> 01:19:27,119
cool? Right? They came to
me and asked me about every well that

1232
01:19:27,640 --> 01:19:30,920
like that guy did, the others
wouldn't talk to me. I don't know.

1233
01:19:30,960 --> 01:19:32,920
It's a very strange. It was
just funny, like some cool right,

1234
01:19:33,000 --> 01:19:41,279
Yeah, uh, you're cool?
Man? What percent is Kevin?

1235
01:19:41,279 --> 01:19:45,199
Do you think? Sixty four?
Sixty four Kevin again? Closer fifty three?

1236
01:19:45,560 --> 01:19:47,680
Wow percent. I think that's time. Forty seven percent of the country's

1237
01:19:47,720 --> 01:19:53,880
being honest, twenty nine percent said
no, and seventeen percent said they're not

1238
01:19:54,079 --> 01:19:58,279
sure. Okay, yeah, now
here's sure. What the term is being

1239
01:19:58,319 --> 01:20:00,880
cool now? Though? I don't
know, uh, breaking out if you

1240
01:20:00,920 --> 01:20:05,880
ask my kids, absolutely not breaking
out into a random song during the day,

1241
01:20:08,840 --> 01:20:13,359
far or less likely if you live
in the Midwest. Only forty four

1242
01:20:13,399 --> 01:20:17,279
percent of Midwestern I think they're cool? Uh doing but be cool? Yeah,

1243
01:20:18,239 --> 01:20:20,159
I don't know. So, I
don't know. It's kind of an

1244
01:20:20,159 --> 01:20:24,520
odd thing. But the only reason
that that jumped off the page of me

1245
01:20:24,800 --> 01:20:29,520
is last night we talked about a
or on the last episode talked about a

1246
01:20:29,560 --> 01:20:35,079
survey of men, and it was
about that half of men feel pressure to

1247
01:20:35,119 --> 01:20:40,720
act manly. If you feel pressure
to act manly, away, you're cool.

1248
01:20:40,960 --> 01:20:43,520
I'm sorry you're not cool. I
feel like I'm cool. I think

1249
01:20:43,520 --> 01:20:47,119
I'm interesting. Yeah, I would
say that. Yeah, you're definitely interested.

1250
01:20:47,159 --> 01:20:49,920
I have different I just it's just
different things in life. And I

1251
01:20:50,159 --> 01:20:55,840
don't I'll go up to anybody and
talk to me. I don't give anybody

1252
01:20:55,960 --> 01:20:59,000
curious. Kevin, we were talking
in when I went to a concert.

1253
01:20:59,079 --> 01:21:03,520
We parked actually these random women and
I just drag up a conversation just because

1254
01:21:03,880 --> 01:21:08,920
they were there and I was drinking. Hey baby, where's the fire in

1255
01:21:08,960 --> 01:21:13,039
your pants? Uh? Wow,
it's interesting. Yeah, I don't know.

1256
01:21:13,319 --> 01:21:15,399
Do I think I'm cool? That's
I don't know. If I don't

1257
01:21:15,439 --> 01:21:19,359
know, I may say yeah,
I guess. I mean I do I

1258
01:21:19,439 --> 01:21:24,119
do. I know I do cool
ship. I do ship that I think

1259
01:21:24,199 --> 01:21:28,600
is cool. I think that's the
same thing for I think I do fun

1260
01:21:28,640 --> 01:21:30,239
ship. Yeah, I think I
do cool ship. Like I love,

1261
01:21:30,439 --> 01:21:33,439
you know, racing cars. I'll
do that once in a while, and

1262
01:21:33,439 --> 01:21:36,600
I love do stand up. I'll
do that once in a while. And

1263
01:21:38,119 --> 01:21:40,640
I think this is fun, And
so I do. I mean, I

1264
01:21:40,680 --> 01:21:43,199
think I do cool ship. Am
I cool? I don't know. And

1265
01:21:43,279 --> 01:21:46,479
I hang out with fun people,
that's yeah, And that's not my that's

1266
01:21:46,520 --> 01:21:49,840
not I would say that that's not
my definite. You know, that's not

1267
01:21:49,920 --> 01:21:53,920
for me to define, right,
you know, but I would say I

1268
01:21:54,279 --> 01:21:58,439
think I do cool ship that interests
me like that that kind of stuff here

1269
01:21:58,439 --> 01:22:02,920
practically do sekis guy? Well the
most interesting? There you go? No,

1270
01:22:03,000 --> 01:22:06,399
I mean I think there's certain like
you're in a band. Yeah,

1271
01:22:06,479 --> 01:22:09,600
I don't know if that makes me
cool. No, but that's a cool

1272
01:22:09,640 --> 01:22:13,039
thing. It is a cool thing. So again I would say that cool

1273
01:22:13,119 --> 01:22:16,039
has to be defined by others.
Yes, I can. You can't define

1274
01:22:16,079 --> 01:22:19,119
cool. I don't think you can
define yourself as cool. You can say

1275
01:22:19,359 --> 01:22:24,840
I do cool things, maybe I'm
cool, or you know maybe like okay,

1276
01:22:25,319 --> 01:22:28,199
I'll say this because what what what
made you a cool kid back in

1277
01:22:28,239 --> 01:22:30,399
the day and like school, what
made you cool did? Was it because

1278
01:22:30,439 --> 01:22:33,479
you had the certain clothes? Or
was it because of the people you hung

1279
01:22:33,479 --> 01:22:36,479
out with? I think it was
because of the people that like would draw

1280
01:22:36,560 --> 01:22:40,920
themselves to you. Like Colin Coward
always says, like there's this thing called

1281
01:22:41,000 --> 01:22:44,600
quarterback face. Right, So at
a young age, if you're a good

1282
01:22:44,640 --> 01:22:46,520
athlete, you have and you're a
good looking kid, all the boys think

1283
01:22:46,520 --> 01:22:49,560
you're cool and all the girls think
you're cute, so you have this quarterback

1284
01:22:49,600 --> 01:22:53,760
face and then you you know,
you automatically get the ball no matter what.

1285
01:22:53,840 --> 01:22:57,279
You're the guy that everybody's drawn to. And then if then then if

1286
01:22:57,319 --> 01:23:00,560
you get accepted by that guy,
then you have to be right. Like

1287
01:23:00,600 --> 01:23:03,880
when we would when we worked together, everybody wanted to be friends with You

1288
01:23:03,960 --> 01:23:08,000
were Tommy because you were the funny
guys in the in the building. And

1289
01:23:08,039 --> 01:23:10,439
if you thought they were, if
you liked them, then they had to

1290
01:23:10,479 --> 01:23:14,840
be cool. You know. I'll
tell you what what I think. I

1291
01:23:14,880 --> 01:23:16,800
don't think you can name yourself cool. I don't know either, That's what

1292
01:23:16,800 --> 01:23:19,960
I'm saying. I think it has
to be somebody else but that. But

1293
01:23:19,960 --> 01:23:25,439
but people do look for that validation
though from the cool guy they respect.

1294
01:23:25,479 --> 01:23:28,239
Yeah, but he likes me.
I gotta be well, you knew who

1295
01:23:28,600 --> 01:23:31,760
I'm thinking you're cool and you're thinking
I'm cool. That's not you thinking you're

1296
01:23:31,840 --> 01:23:34,600
cool. But I think that's what
goes through people's heads. No, but

1297
01:23:34,760 --> 01:23:38,960
we all knew who the cool kids
were, right, you know, and

1298
01:23:39,000 --> 01:23:41,720
you kind of knew who that who
is your Zach Morris in your school,

1299
01:23:42,760 --> 01:23:44,520
you know, like, yeah,
that's that's what I mean. I'm not

1300
01:23:44,920 --> 01:23:47,800
I'm not asking. I'm like,
that's you know, uh No, I

1301
01:23:47,840 --> 01:23:51,279
think there was. There was a
couple others. It depended as I got

1302
01:23:51,600 --> 01:23:57,399
higher up. When I got higher
up in in the grades. I think

1303
01:23:57,399 --> 01:24:00,760
by my senior year, most of
the guys, some of the guys that

1304
01:24:00,920 --> 01:24:03,880
just sort of faded off. They
weren't playing sports anymore, they weren't considered

1305
01:24:03,920 --> 01:24:10,119
as cool, and I was.
I was doing every dumb, stupid fucking

1306
01:24:10,159 --> 01:24:14,439
thing, Like if shit was going
if ship was going down, it was

1307
01:24:14,960 --> 01:24:16,960
I was involved or I knew about
it. I was involved, or I

1308
01:24:17,039 --> 01:24:20,119
knew about it that that much.
I could tell you the guy you were

1309
01:24:20,159 --> 01:24:25,159
the expert on the Poughkeepsie News at
six o'clock, we have our chaos expert.

1310
01:24:26,720 --> 01:24:29,359
Something from the stories to tell you
were the guy Fisher too. I

1311
01:24:29,640 --> 01:24:32,560
well, I tell stories about people. I would say no, But I

1312
01:24:32,600 --> 01:24:36,079
mean, I think this like most
of the time when we worked to get

1313
01:24:36,199 --> 01:24:40,560
at that place, I I just
kept my head down. I didn't I

1314
01:24:40,720 --> 01:24:43,399
just went and worked. I just
wanted to win. I didn't care.

1315
01:24:43,960 --> 01:24:47,000
And I think that any point in
my life where I just focused on like

1316
01:24:47,079 --> 01:24:50,520
doing something, and then you know, at the time my family, that

1317
01:24:50,640 --> 01:24:53,800
was it. I didn't care.
I didn't give a shit what anybody else

1318
01:24:53,840 --> 01:24:56,880
thought, and that usually made it
cool because then they're like, what's she

1319
01:24:57,000 --> 01:24:59,920
doing? And that's what I always
tried to tell my boys, is like,

1320
01:25:00,399 --> 01:25:04,000
go go stop worrying about what everybody
else thinks, and go do you

1321
01:25:04,840 --> 01:25:08,960
right? You want to be a
great athlete, Go work on just that

1322
01:25:09,079 --> 01:25:11,800
and let people go, hey,
what's he doing over there instead of trying

1323
01:25:11,800 --> 01:25:14,399
to react and fit in and do
all this stuff. It's it's hard,

1324
01:25:14,800 --> 01:25:17,760
it's hard, but that that's how
you That's how you do it. Stop

1325
01:25:17,840 --> 01:25:23,640
trying to prove or or whatever.
I always think that when you are trying,

1326
01:25:24,800 --> 01:25:29,000
not always, but a lot of
times, when we do things to

1327
01:25:29,199 --> 01:25:33,800
spite somebody else, I'm gonna fuck
their life up. I'm gonna it never

1328
01:25:34,039 --> 01:25:39,920
goes well for you, even internally, you don't feel great about yourself.

1329
01:25:40,079 --> 01:25:42,880
It may work out and then nothing
happened, but feel good for like a

1330
01:25:42,920 --> 01:25:46,920
split sec you're gonna feel You're gonna
feel shitty about that. Yeah, yeah,

1331
01:25:46,960 --> 01:25:48,560
you know what I'm saying. And
I go, why don't you just

1332
01:25:48,640 --> 01:25:54,760
go focus on something else? Eventually, something's gonna pay off. But you

1333
01:25:54,760 --> 01:25:59,079
know, trying to spite or fight
or go back or they did me wrong

1334
01:25:59,239 --> 01:26:01,840
on a fucking shit show them,
eh, show yourself, yes, don't

1335
01:26:01,880 --> 01:26:04,880
show them. Fuck them proved to
you. Fuck them. They didn't care

1336
01:26:04,920 --> 01:26:09,239
about you before, they don't care
about you now. Nobody cares about you.

1337
01:26:09,239 --> 01:26:11,640
You know, like I started out
saying, nobody gives a shit.

1338
01:26:12,439 --> 01:26:14,760
Just hey, how you doing so? Doing great? We had a boss

1339
01:26:14,800 --> 01:26:16,359
wants a different boss who you know, was told he could never be a

1340
01:26:16,399 --> 01:26:21,359
program director by a by a boss
of his. So he decided, Bob

1341
01:26:23,199 --> 01:26:26,119
he was. He told us the
story, and he said that he set

1342
01:26:26,119 --> 01:26:30,079
out his entire career to prove that
guy wrong. And when he finally got

1343
01:26:30,119 --> 01:26:32,600
to that point where he he was
a program director, guy didn't remember him.

1344
01:26:32,680 --> 01:26:38,359
Yeah. Well, but but look, Michael Jordan built his whole life

1345
01:26:38,399 --> 01:26:41,520
on that same thing, right,
and whatever is going to motivate you.

1346
01:26:41,640 --> 01:26:45,520
My point is, though, think
about how much frustration and anger and feeling

1347
01:26:45,560 --> 01:26:48,199
that is. I'm going to show
them. How about I'll show me.

1348
01:26:48,439 --> 01:26:51,760
I think this would be a really
interesting idea, and I'm just gonna do

1349
01:26:51,840 --> 01:26:57,119
it instead of fuck you know,
I'm gonna show them. I think like

1350
01:26:57,159 --> 01:27:00,319
once I started even doing that with
the break room. I stopped thinking about

1351
01:27:00,880 --> 01:27:03,760
when I thought about, I'll tell
you where it was. I'll tell you

1352
01:27:03,760 --> 01:27:10,039
exactly where it was. I remember
thinking, because there was a lot of

1353
01:27:10,039 --> 01:27:12,960
this, you know, what's we's
doing, what's we saying? There was

1354
01:27:13,000 --> 01:27:17,319
all this fighting that we were the
enemy now and shit was being said and

1355
01:27:17,720 --> 01:27:21,640
all kinds of crap. I had
a call and apologize to him for something

1356
01:27:21,680 --> 01:27:25,319
I don't even remember, but I
got win that he was upset. It

1357
01:27:25,399 --> 01:27:30,039
was all this turmoil going on.
And I remember when somebody had come back

1358
01:27:30,039 --> 01:27:38,640
into town and had taken over the
stations and they got there's ratings and they

1359
01:27:38,640 --> 01:27:43,439
got and then there were trends,
and trends are just like a monthly thing

1360
01:27:43,479 --> 01:27:49,399
that would show you how they're doing. And this person went to majority of

1361
01:27:49,439 --> 01:27:56,319
the clients that we had on the
break room. And when when this person

1362
01:27:56,359 --> 01:28:00,960
came back, they were really trying
to get that weezish. I even hate

1363
01:28:01,000 --> 01:28:04,479
talking about radio, to be quote, honestly, it makes myk just because

1364
01:28:04,479 --> 01:28:09,000
it makes you sound bitter, and
I'm not I'm just saying that, well,

1365
01:28:09,079 --> 01:28:12,479
yeah, but I just I feel
like that that's the case. But

1366
01:28:12,960 --> 01:28:16,399
so they were trying to push them
mark them out there because the name was

1367
01:28:16,439 --> 01:28:19,479
so big, and there were a
lot of people that were very, very

1368
01:28:19,560 --> 01:28:23,840
upset because they thought there was what
was called confusion that people were still writing

1369
01:28:23,880 --> 01:28:28,560
down the old station and then the
news station. So so no matter what

1370
01:28:28,720 --> 01:28:31,279
you did, whatever I did right
and I took this stuff personally, you

1371
01:28:31,319 --> 01:28:35,199
were never getting the credit. There
was not one person who was over in

1372
01:28:35,239 --> 01:28:40,680
another camp that even when the ratings
were higher for us, that they would

1373
01:28:40,760 --> 01:28:44,880
ever believe that it had nothing.
It wasn't you. It was confusion.

1374
01:28:45,199 --> 01:28:46,800
It wasn't you. It was confusion. There's no way it wasn't you.

1375
01:28:46,880 --> 01:28:53,199
It was confusion. Maybe they're right, I don't know. So, but

1376
01:28:54,239 --> 01:28:58,640
this time the trends came out and
allegedly I didn't see them. We had

1377
01:28:58,680 --> 01:29:03,880
a zero, and this person went
around to every single client and told them

1378
01:29:03,880 --> 01:29:10,479
we had a zero, so meaning
that nobody was listening to the break room.

1379
01:29:11,119 --> 01:29:15,520
And that's when I thought, you
know what, just stop thinking about

1380
01:29:15,560 --> 01:29:18,279
them and worrying about what they're saying, and stop. And I only found

1381
01:29:18,319 --> 01:29:21,479
out because somebody came to me,
and then I found out who was that

1382
01:29:21,560 --> 01:29:25,760
did it, and I found out
what other clients heard, and it bothered

1383
01:29:25,760 --> 01:29:28,960
me for a little while. And
I remember one morning sitting down in my

1384
01:29:29,039 --> 01:29:30,800
office before I went to where I
had an office in my house, and

1385
01:29:30,840 --> 01:29:34,479
I remember sitting there going, you
know what, I'm just gonna focus on

1386
01:29:34,560 --> 01:29:40,920
doing what I believe is great.
And in the end, when I decided

1387
01:29:40,960 --> 01:29:46,199
to leave there, the show was
decidedly number one. I would fucking argue

1388
01:29:46,199 --> 01:29:51,760
with anybody that at that point,
which was almost two years later, or

1389
01:29:51,800 --> 01:29:57,319
at least a year after the zero
thing, By that point there was such

1390
01:29:57,520 --> 01:30:03,560
air between us and we'su's show.
There was air. There was no fucking

1391
01:30:03,560 --> 01:30:08,560
confusion at that point. Suck my
dick. There was confusion, assholes,

1392
01:30:09,439 --> 01:30:12,039
And but it was because I stopped
thinking about you. I didn't give a

1393
01:30:12,079 --> 01:30:14,760
shit what you thought. You would
do your thing and that, and that's

1394
01:30:14,840 --> 01:30:17,199
kind of how I have to do. But I remember those confusion things,

1395
01:30:17,239 --> 01:30:23,880
and even when I left and went
over every I think every manager, every

1396
01:30:24,000 --> 01:30:29,439
person was like, there's a lot
of confusion. Was there? Was there?

1397
01:30:30,079 --> 01:30:31,920
Okay, yeah, if you say
so, because I also will tell

1398
01:30:31,960 --> 01:30:34,760
you that somebody who was the head
of that organization had pulled me and said,

1399
01:30:34,760 --> 01:30:40,359
you guys did unbelievably that the fact
that you let would do unbelievably.

1400
01:30:40,399 --> 01:30:44,720
Yeah, I knew, but I
stopped focusing on, you know, worrying

1401
01:30:44,760 --> 01:30:46,640
about what are they going to think
and what Just do what you believe is

1402
01:30:46,680 --> 01:30:50,039
best. Do what you believe is
best, and everything will always work out.

1403
01:30:50,119 --> 01:30:56,319
Compete with yourself. Two years ago, says this text. Two years

1404
01:30:56,560 --> 01:30:59,680
one of my good friends went out
with this girl twice. He liked her,

1405
01:31:00,439 --> 01:31:01,880
but she didn't like him. So
it ended there. They went out

1406
01:31:01,920 --> 01:31:04,279
twice. They went out twice,
so she gave him a second chance.

1407
01:31:04,439 --> 01:31:10,319
Yes, okay, so it ended
there. They went out twice. Se

1408
01:31:10,960 --> 01:31:15,039
see Kevin's head going So I knew
who this girl was, but we had

1409
01:31:15,079 --> 01:31:18,840
never met right, I had heard
about her, she saw pictures, knew

1410
01:31:18,840 --> 01:31:25,600
that. When we did, we
recognized each other and started talking. We

1411
01:31:25,640 --> 01:31:29,479
really hit it off and have now
gone on four dates and are really clicking.

1412
01:31:30,479 --> 01:31:33,439
On our last date and that we
run into my friend, it was

1413
01:31:33,479 --> 01:31:38,560
so awkward. After the date,
I had a nasty voicemail from my friend

1414
01:31:38,560 --> 01:31:42,840
telling me that I'm disrespecting him.
Am I a bad friend for dating the

1415
01:31:42,880 --> 01:31:45,680
girl that in violating bro code?
Or is this girl fair game now?

1416
01:31:45,720 --> 01:31:48,000
I always thought bro code was like, if you went out with somebody for

1417
01:31:48,039 --> 01:31:54,319
a while, but he really liked
her, I probably would stay away myself.

1418
01:31:55,359 --> 01:31:58,039
And if he went on two dates, but they went on two dates,

1419
01:31:58,199 --> 01:32:00,239
they were that's a guy's mom.
I think there was a lot of

1420
01:32:00,359 --> 01:32:06,560
time in between there. I'm sorry, it's funny. I don't mean to

1421
01:32:06,560 --> 01:32:10,960
get I was gonna use that,
to be honest with you. I think

1422
01:32:10,960 --> 01:32:15,680
it's fair bro code. I think
guys throw the word bro code around for

1423
01:32:15,800 --> 01:32:18,760
the term bro code around way too
liberally, way too often to me,

1424
01:32:18,880 --> 01:32:21,680
like there's nothing, there's nothing wrong. It didn't click with them, but

1425
01:32:21,720 --> 01:32:25,720
maybe it'll click with these two.
So they did. They owe to themselves

1426
01:32:25,720 --> 01:32:28,680
to explore that. It's not like
you know, if it was. I

1427
01:32:28,720 --> 01:32:30,520
think there was time, and I
meant I wrote back and I never got

1428
01:32:30,520 --> 01:32:34,199
a response saying how much time?
Because he went out with her two years

1429
01:32:34,199 --> 01:32:39,600
ago? Is this present day?
So two years later? And I don't

1430
01:32:39,640 --> 01:32:41,920
know, is this like your best
friend or are you hanging out with them

1431
01:32:41,960 --> 01:32:45,439
all the time or is it just
a casual person? And then there you

1432
01:32:45,479 --> 01:32:47,680
go, I don't know, if
you're invested for a month, two months,

1433
01:32:47,680 --> 01:32:50,159
three months, then yes, it's
bro code. If if it's two

1434
01:32:50,279 --> 01:32:54,199
dates, no, I'm with Kevin, I think less than a month,

1435
01:32:54,359 --> 01:32:56,840
you're good. Yeah, that's silly. Just keep keep going, man,

1436
01:32:56,880 --> 01:33:00,479
that's that's ridiculous. Just I think
somebody's got their ego bruise at didn't work

1437
01:33:00,479 --> 01:33:02,039
out with them. Especially, that's
what if he didn't get if you didn't

1438
01:33:02,039 --> 01:33:08,359
get her in bad then it's definitely
like if after two dates and you feel

1439
01:33:08,359 --> 01:33:10,840
like heartbroken, Okay, that's one
thing, but like how much did you

1440
01:33:10,880 --> 01:33:14,279
really have invested? It was just
missed expectations? But like that's not like

1441
01:33:14,319 --> 01:33:16,359
you had a relationship. You went
on a couple of dates. So no,

1442
01:33:16,520 --> 01:33:20,479
I just I think that's ridiculous.
Good for the other couple, let

1443
01:33:20,479 --> 01:33:24,560
them explore it. But see,
you know, it's it's so easy for

1444
01:33:24,680 --> 01:33:27,760
us to say that. But what
if what if you went out with the

1445
01:33:27,840 --> 01:33:30,479
chicken you really liked her, and
you had told your buddy, yeah,

1446
01:33:30,520 --> 01:33:32,880
man, I'm really into this chicken. Look at her and hot blah blah

1447
01:33:32,880 --> 01:33:35,560
blah blah. You go out another
date and you're like, don't go,

1448
01:33:35,800 --> 01:33:40,359
and all of a sudden, like
six months a year later, you're walking

1449
01:33:40,399 --> 01:33:43,560
and all of a sudden you see
them together. That would sting a little,

1450
01:33:43,640 --> 01:33:45,800
It would sting. But I mean, how close are you with the

1451
01:33:45,800 --> 01:33:47,399
money now? Too? I don't
know. That's the other thing, because

1452
01:33:47,439 --> 01:33:50,880
all right, what if have you
ever had anybody call you and say,

1453
01:33:50,920 --> 01:33:56,279
do you mind if I date so
and so? No? No, no,

1454
01:33:56,279 --> 01:33:59,399
no. Now I've known people who
have done that, Hey do you

1455
01:33:59,479 --> 01:34:01,920
mind if I Do you mind if
I date so and so or whatever.

1456
01:34:03,319 --> 01:34:11,039
I've even had a guy I knew
a guy who sometimes relationships will dovetail.

1457
01:34:11,319 --> 01:34:15,520
Right, you're you're not exactly out
of one, and then you wound up

1458
01:34:15,520 --> 01:34:17,600
starting a new one. And there
was a woman who was not exactly out

1459
01:34:17,600 --> 01:34:23,079
of one, and she started a
new one. And I knew the guy,

1460
01:34:23,279 --> 01:34:26,039
and I was with him and the
guy we were happening to be in

1461
01:34:26,039 --> 01:34:32,199
a bar, and he had started
seeing this woman on a pretty regular basis.

1462
01:34:32,680 --> 01:34:36,159
They might have been two three weeks
in. And there's that guy that

1463
01:34:36,239 --> 01:34:40,720
she was with last And he came
up to this guy and he said,

1464
01:34:41,600 --> 01:34:45,279
hey, uh, were you with
her? And he said, you know

1465
01:34:45,279 --> 01:34:47,600
what, I'm gonna be honest with
you. He said, I I thought

1466
01:34:47,600 --> 01:34:50,279
that things were over with you,
And yes I was, And the guy

1467
01:34:50,279 --> 01:34:54,039
goes, thanks for being honest.
He walked away. I was waiting to

1468
01:34:54,039 --> 01:34:57,000
see, like, WHOA, what's
gonna happen? Yeah, but it wasn't.

1469
01:34:57,039 --> 01:35:00,159
It was actually, he goes,
all right, thank you. Within

1470
01:35:00,239 --> 01:35:04,319
the last four years I was,
I was living by myself. Yeah,

1471
01:35:04,760 --> 01:35:09,039
I was out with wow. Yeah, and I was like, whoa,

1472
01:35:09,119 --> 01:35:11,600
I was waiting to see. Yeah. I was like. When I was

1473
01:35:11,640 --> 01:35:14,960
in college, my best friend and
I dated the same girl, not the

1474
01:35:15,000 --> 01:35:17,439
same time. We're in the same
class. And she started dating him,

1475
01:35:17,439 --> 01:35:19,439
and then when things fizzled out,
she came to me and I said,

1476
01:35:19,439 --> 01:35:21,800
do you mind if I dated her? You asked her? I asked her

1477
01:35:21,880 --> 01:35:26,159
yeah, because like they weren't really
dating yeah, you know, and I

1478
01:35:26,199 --> 01:35:28,119
was like, he's like yeah,
sure. So we kind of dated for

1479
01:35:28,119 --> 01:35:30,640
a while and things kind of fizzled
out. You know, she wasn't she

1480
01:35:30,720 --> 01:35:33,279
wasn't my type. But we found
out like a year later, she started

1481
01:35:33,319 --> 01:35:36,720
dating this other dude that we didn't
know, and that didn't work out.

1482
01:35:36,800 --> 01:35:40,760
So then she started dating his best
friend. Yeah, so she dates his

1483
01:35:40,840 --> 01:35:43,439
best friend for like two years.
I'm like, wow, this, I

1484
01:35:43,439 --> 01:35:45,399
told my best friend. This sounds
kind of familiar, right, So then

1485
01:35:45,640 --> 01:35:49,279
after the best friend of her breakup, she goes back to the previous best

1486
01:35:49,319 --> 01:35:53,760
friend the other guy, and now
they're married here like twenty years later.

1487
01:35:53,960 --> 01:35:55,800
Who knows, But I mean,
it's like, it's kind of I think

1488
01:35:55,840 --> 01:35:58,319
it's kind of weird that you're,
like, you're dating pairs of guys.

1489
01:35:58,600 --> 01:36:00,520
Maybe you figure it out, maybe
there's a certain style you like. You

1490
01:36:00,560 --> 01:36:03,279
ever look at it, Like look
at groups of kids, like I always

1491
01:36:03,279 --> 01:36:06,520
love to watch when my kids were
a little away, Like I can tell

1492
01:36:06,560 --> 01:36:11,319
what group they fit because they all
dressed tolike they all they all right,

1493
01:36:11,359 --> 01:36:14,920
they all do and so you see
that, and maybe that was her her

1494
01:36:14,960 --> 01:36:16,520
style. She liked a certain group
of guy or a certain type of guy

1495
01:36:16,560 --> 01:36:20,119
I have. I don't know how, but like nine to eleven, right

1496
01:36:20,800 --> 01:36:26,359
nine to eleven, you had a
bunch of firemen lost, and then the

1497
01:36:26,800 --> 01:36:30,800
fire the commandos would take care of
the widows. And sometimes some of these

1498
01:36:30,840 --> 01:36:34,800
guys were still married and would all
of a sudden they were leaving their family

1499
01:36:35,239 --> 01:36:40,359
to because they were bonded over this
thing and they found up with that other

1500
01:36:40,399 --> 01:36:42,439
one. Lot, Yeah, it
happened. There were a few stories,

1501
01:36:42,520 --> 01:36:45,560
like David to talk about that,
like King Staten Island or something. You

1502
01:36:45,560 --> 01:36:48,479
may, I don't I don't remember
you may. I mean I could see

1503
01:36:48,479 --> 01:36:54,960
that happening. Yeah, she goes, you didn't know the firefighter? I

1504
01:36:55,000 --> 01:36:59,159
know? Guy back home? Oh, come on, Kevin, Here we

1505
01:36:59,199 --> 01:37:01,239
go. Kevin picture at Silver Creek, nineteen ninety eight. Right. So

1506
01:37:02,600 --> 01:37:05,760
actually about two thousand and three,
so that Second Gulf War breaks out.

1507
01:37:05,880 --> 01:37:12,199
Yeah, So there's this local area
politician, a city, town councilmen or

1508
01:37:12,239 --> 01:37:16,720
whatever, and this councilman he has
to go off to a rock because he's

1509
01:37:16,760 --> 01:37:21,239
in the reserves or something like that. So a relative of minds mother in

1510
01:37:21,319 --> 01:37:24,880
law goes, hey, uh,
you're in the American lead you. Why

1511
01:37:24,920 --> 01:37:27,439
don't you go and check out his
wife and see if she needs anything?

1512
01:37:28,319 --> 01:37:30,800
And they end up having an affair. Well, yeah, it happens.

1513
01:37:30,920 --> 01:37:34,439
Yeah, it happens. We're only
human, Danny. Some men are just

1514
01:37:34,960 --> 01:37:40,760
magnetic animals. Guess I guess so? Or done wrapping it up? Wow,

1515
01:37:41,000 --> 01:37:45,079
wrapping it up. So it'll we
learned today. We learned that to

1516
01:37:45,159 --> 01:37:48,600
let go, let go, just
let go and go for what you want.

1517
01:37:48,720 --> 01:37:51,840
They focus on what you want at
that at its core, and everything

1518
01:37:51,840 --> 01:37:57,439
will work out, I promise and
our safe word is for Kevin, you

1519
01:37:57,560 --> 01:38:00,600
or Dan Marilla on Bill Moran.
We'll see tomorrow. I want to rule

1520
01:38:00,600 --> 01:38:02,439
the letter to you and me to
stop. They not a dad, the

1521
01:38:02,640 --> 01:38:06,880
apartment here in a state m hm