1 00:00:00,600 --> 00:00:15,199 Made a decision. Thanks Sonny, Sun, I had vision night. Julie, 2 00:00:15,599 --> 00:00:20,199 what's up? Everybody? Welcome to for crying out loud. Special thanks 3 00:00:20,239 --> 00:00:24,879 to that bitch Julie Kaysum for coming in last week holding down the forge. 4 00:00:24,920 --> 00:00:29,640 She was grazed. Awesome. I love her. Everybody loves Julie. Everybody 5 00:00:29,719 --> 00:00:35,359 loves Julie. Thank you, Julie. She's the exception to uh that everybody 6 00:00:35,399 --> 00:00:39,679 hates guests, right, but we've listened to you guys, and I think 7 00:00:39,719 --> 00:00:43,840 you'll notice that we do get that our guests have their own show. Yeah 8 00:00:44,320 --> 00:00:51,439 mm hmm. Right now there, let's say hello to our fabulous, fabulous 9 00:00:51,479 --> 00:00:57,520 peachee Rachel newcomer who's still she's back to being a newcomer. Yeah yeah, 10 00:00:57,679 --> 00:01:02,600 Ashley so sheic and Kelly Ladita and Amy's a hunt and Katie's rolling on e 11 00:01:02,960 --> 00:01:06,959 and not Anna Faris and Anna, I mean, uh, Aaron, who 12 00:01:07,159 --> 00:01:14,680 is Nikki? Call you girl? Leslie? One coughing and one's accosting yep, 13 00:01:14,959 --> 00:01:18,200 yeah, oh, and I have a I have a little a costing 14 00:01:18,319 --> 00:01:26,920 story too, uh Robin Wazinski over the weekend and uh yeah, and I 15 00:01:26,920 --> 00:01:30,640 got accosted. But Jacob is so Growley and Rita Rocks the Basinette with Elizabeth 16 00:01:30,680 --> 00:01:37,560 Williamson's kids and Elizabeth Williamson hot on Are. She's she's been going through something 17 00:01:37,599 --> 00:01:41,319 with one of her beautiful kids, and we wish her all the best. 18 00:01:42,159 --> 00:01:45,680 And Athena, we love your dancing Polly, we love your pancake and your 19 00:01:45,680 --> 00:01:49,079 scissor. Vallery, Bubba Fenwick, it's out of the park. Katerina just 20 00:01:49,120 --> 00:01:55,280 got that implant finally. She didn't listen to us about and she lost it. 21 00:01:56,599 --> 00:02:00,640 Gabby and Missy Oh I saw him at Springsteen last outside trying to scalp 22 00:02:00,840 --> 00:02:06,239 and they were scalping tickets, still scalping tickets when we left the shell. 23 00:02:07,239 --> 00:02:16,120 You're like holding onto shows over Yeah, do that ass Yeah. And she's 24 00:02:16,120 --> 00:02:20,319 one of them. She's a moderator on our on the religant page. She 25 00:02:20,520 --> 00:02:24,960 is keep keeping Kelly bryandt She's not your aunt and she acts like it. 26 00:02:25,759 --> 00:02:34,039 Alicia Lane from the City of al Lant almost done. Sarah's the fun and 27 00:02:34,120 --> 00:02:38,759 stuffy sticker rinker, and Christa gets stopped and Sandra, it's not easy being 28 00:02:38,800 --> 00:02:46,520 green and Jennifer get up and Aaron, you are a dirty Sanchez. Oh 29 00:02:46,520 --> 00:02:51,400 my God, you and I both. Yes, we have so much to 30 00:02:51,479 --> 00:02:53,319 talk about. We do. I feel like I haven't seen you in a 31 00:02:53,400 --> 00:02:57,360 long time. It's been a couple of weeks. Yeah, and I feel 32 00:02:57,360 --> 00:03:00,439 like a lot has had, A lot has transpired, yes, and lots 33 00:03:00,520 --> 00:03:07,520 of things, lots of travels and so concerts to start with Florida. Yeah, 34 00:03:07,560 --> 00:03:12,159 so I went to it was spring break, and I mean, my 35 00:03:12,240 --> 00:03:15,759 kids have been talking about going to Florida for a year, like you know. 36 00:03:15,000 --> 00:03:19,199 And the nice thing is is that, you know, Wendy's got a 37 00:03:19,280 --> 00:03:25,360 house there and it's in Naples and it's next door to her. Well, 38 00:03:25,680 --> 00:03:30,879 when she moved into Chicago, they moved into next door. Their next door 39 00:03:30,919 --> 00:03:35,800 neighbors had the guy had a Porsche and it said his Porsche said Rosalita on 40 00:03:35,840 --> 00:03:38,520 the license plate, which is a Bruce Springsteen song. And Wendy was like, 41 00:03:38,560 --> 00:03:42,639 oh, hell yeah, we're gonna love these people. And they had 42 00:03:42,840 --> 00:03:47,479 one daughter who married my nephew Nick and now they're in laws. Now they 43 00:03:47,479 --> 00:03:52,280 have a baby. Yeah, and do they tell that story sometimes? Oh, 44 00:03:52,560 --> 00:03:54,639 Wendy say, as soon as I saw that license plate, oh yeah, 45 00:03:54,719 --> 00:03:59,039 yes, yes, well totally. And I showed that the car was 46 00:03:59,039 --> 00:04:01,319 in Florida and they're garage and I had to show Sonny and Natalia I go, 47 00:04:01,759 --> 00:04:04,520 and Natalia loved it, you know, because she likes that song. 48 00:04:04,879 --> 00:04:10,759 But yeah, so then they they have they had a house in Florida. 49 00:04:10,840 --> 00:04:15,800 So then Wendy's ex husband, who they're still together, bought a house next 50 00:04:15,839 --> 00:04:20,160 door. So now they there's two houses next door to each other that we 51 00:04:20,279 --> 00:04:25,680 all so it's plenty of room for people. So we made it this baby. 52 00:04:26,160 --> 00:04:30,040 Wendy's still with her ex, I mean they're not officially except they're not 53 00:04:30,079 --> 00:04:35,160 officially divorced. Oh, but they're still I mean, you know, cohabitating 54 00:04:35,199 --> 00:04:40,160 it and not in Chicago, no, okay. And then they both use 55 00:04:40,279 --> 00:04:44,839 that Florida house from you know, he's there when she's not there obviously, 56 00:04:45,360 --> 00:04:50,800 so they live next door to each other. So Nicholas just had a baby. 57 00:04:50,879 --> 00:04:56,319 Well now he's like seven months old and so so cute, Like I 58 00:04:56,399 --> 00:04:59,959 barely heard the kid cry the whole time I was there. Just a sweetie. 59 00:05:00,160 --> 00:05:03,079 It's so fun to be around babies and little kids again because and especially 60 00:05:03,079 --> 00:05:05,800 being an aunt, because I can just have fun with them. And then 61 00:05:05,839 --> 00:05:09,600 it's like all right, you know, you guys do all the work, 62 00:05:09,639 --> 00:05:12,519 I get to have the fun being in the pool with them, you know. 63 00:05:13,079 --> 00:05:18,560 So anyway they're there. Then Anthony, who rarely takes vacation, he's 64 00:05:19,040 --> 00:05:25,040 you know, he works full time and he like has to plan his vacation's 65 00:05:25,079 --> 00:05:28,399 way ahead of advance. So when Anthony I found out he was going to 66 00:05:28,439 --> 00:05:30,240 be there with his wife and the two kids, I was, you know, 67 00:05:30,360 --> 00:05:32,480 Sonny and Italia. It was like we were like, Okay, this's 68 00:05:32,519 --> 00:05:35,560 gonna be a fun, big family vacation. And it was. We had 69 00:05:35,600 --> 00:05:40,720 a good time. But so it was a lot you know, I mean, 70 00:05:40,720 --> 00:05:43,639 there's a lot of a lot of us, and then there was Wendy 71 00:05:44,240 --> 00:05:46,360 and I think that's it me and there me and my two kids. So 72 00:05:47,519 --> 00:05:51,279 we had game nights, you know, like it was just so fun, 73 00:05:51,319 --> 00:05:57,240 Like it felt like a real kind of family vacation, you know, like 74 00:05:57,399 --> 00:06:00,879 getting up, going to breakfast in the morning, you know, I mean 75 00:06:00,959 --> 00:06:03,360 and then eventually, you know, people getting on each other's nerves and starting 76 00:06:03,399 --> 00:06:06,160 to argue, I mean whatever, But not with me. I was having 77 00:06:06,160 --> 00:06:10,519 a good old time Auntie Lynnette, like I get the best of ever, 78 00:06:10,680 --> 00:06:12,959 Like you know, I never get to see them, never get to see 79 00:06:12,959 --> 00:06:15,360 the kids. They see each other all the time. Right sunny, Natalia 80 00:06:15,480 --> 00:06:19,480 having a good time, so sunny, so n Italian. I flew out 81 00:06:19,800 --> 00:06:28,600 just the two of us because Sonny had March Madness basketball oh okay game that 82 00:06:28,680 --> 00:06:32,759 he had to go to on Saturday. So Italian I got because I wanted 83 00:06:32,759 --> 00:06:36,560 to get there. I wanted a head start because I had to cut I 84 00:06:36,639 --> 00:06:41,199 was cutting my short, my trip short, to get back for I had 85 00:06:41,199 --> 00:06:46,319 tickets to see Bruce on Thursday night and last night Sunday nights. Oh you 86 00:06:46,360 --> 00:06:49,079 went both nights, Well no, but I had tickets to go both nights. 87 00:06:49,120 --> 00:06:54,240 Okay. So my plan was was to fly you know, Friday with 88 00:06:54,360 --> 00:07:00,360 Natalia and get there and then fly home on Wednesday, go to Bruce thirdday. 89 00:07:00,680 --> 00:07:03,560 Okay, Okay, So anyway, I so her and I fly out. 90 00:07:03,959 --> 00:07:09,519 I had a nice I had the best time traveling with her because it's 91 00:07:09,560 --> 00:07:13,279 just like you know, and never get to spend that one on one and 92 00:07:13,360 --> 00:07:15,959 I thought about it, it's the best. And I was thinking, it's 93 00:07:16,000 --> 00:07:19,879 like whenever we ever ever did travel, it was either you know, it 94 00:07:19,920 --> 00:07:25,360 was sunny or or or her friends or I'm going with her and her friends, 95 00:07:25,399 --> 00:07:28,519 you know, and she's with her friends. It was I've never like 96 00:07:28,600 --> 00:07:31,879 I get her alone for a long you know, a whole day of travel, 97 00:07:32,480 --> 00:07:35,519 and it's the best. It was the best. So going I'm going 98 00:07:35,560 --> 00:07:41,920 with LB this weekend because I remember I told you she got into sdsum M 99 00:07:42,160 --> 00:07:46,720 San Diego State University and so we're going to accepted Students days. So she 100 00:07:46,800 --> 00:07:50,120 and I are going to drive together on Fridays, stay in a hotel being 101 00:07:50,240 --> 00:07:54,800 all so Saturday, and then get to drive home together and so nice. 102 00:07:54,839 --> 00:07:57,800 The best part I'm looking forward to is like hanging with her in this for 103 00:07:57,839 --> 00:08:01,959 a couple hours. I know. It's just it's so and like she's really 104 00:08:03,519 --> 00:08:07,720 totally I know, and she's like relaxed, and she's like she's matured so 105 00:08:09,000 --> 00:08:13,040 much like the last I don't know, therapy. I don't know what it 106 00:08:13,120 --> 00:08:16,600 is, but it's definitely matured. It's just you know, and we get 107 00:08:16,639 --> 00:08:20,600 to we're joking and she's like, you know, Natalia is not really like 108 00:08:20,120 --> 00:08:24,879 she's she cracks jokes, but it was like a totally like she's you know, 109 00:08:26,079 --> 00:08:28,439 I don't know, it was she was like a pal, like a 110 00:08:28,480 --> 00:08:31,320 friend, right, you know, like hanging out with a friend. So 111 00:08:31,840 --> 00:08:35,279 the two of us get there, and then Sonny has his basketball game on 112 00:08:35,320 --> 00:08:41,559 Saturday, so he flies by himself on Sunday night, Easter, and he's 113 00:08:41,559 --> 00:08:45,200 got to take we got to take two planes to get there, so there's 114 00:08:45,240 --> 00:08:48,559 like a layover in Houston and whatever. Oh yeah. So and then it's 115 00:08:48,600 --> 00:08:52,480 like forty five minutes from the airport to get to her house. So he 116 00:08:52,600 --> 00:08:56,360 gets in. He I got him a car to pick him up. I 117 00:08:56,440 --> 00:09:00,639 just didn't, you know, I didn't want to risk get with them. 118 00:09:01,080 --> 00:09:03,720 I don't know, got so got the car to pick him up. And 119 00:09:03,759 --> 00:09:09,240 he gets in late Sunday night, and and then like we're having a great 120 00:09:09,279 --> 00:09:13,120 time. And then and then everybody else kind of trickles in. Like Anthony 121 00:09:13,240 --> 00:09:18,519 drove from Chicago with his family straight through for twenty four hours, straight through 122 00:09:20,000 --> 00:09:24,240 with six year old and a two year old. Oh my god, crazy, 123 00:09:24,320 --> 00:09:28,879 all right, but they were first of all, his kids are I 124 00:09:28,919 --> 00:09:31,559 mean, they're so sweet and they you know, but they're six and two. 125 00:09:33,200 --> 00:09:39,919 So yeah, they they drove straight through, and so they start trickling 126 00:09:39,960 --> 00:09:43,919 in. Sonny gets in and then and then you know, like we we're 127 00:09:45,000 --> 00:09:50,039 having a great time, and Sonny's not like really a fun in the sun 128 00:09:50,159 --> 00:09:54,000 kind of kid. And that's really like all you're doing all day, right, 129 00:09:54,039 --> 00:09:58,200 you know, and like the first day it's like at the pool whatever, 130 00:09:58,279 --> 00:10:01,039 He's okay, you know. And then she's close to the beach. 131 00:10:01,080 --> 00:10:03,919 You know, all Natali wants to do is go to the beach, beach, 132 00:10:03,960 --> 00:10:05,879 beach beach, and she's up early. She's like, when are we 133 00:10:05,919 --> 00:10:09,200 going? What are we doing when? And you can't do that to especially 134 00:10:09,360 --> 00:10:15,000 my family. They you know, there's no everybody just flies by the seat 135 00:10:15,000 --> 00:10:18,360 of their pants. There's really not a lot of planning, especially when it 136 00:10:18,360 --> 00:10:20,360 comes to the little kid. You gotta be flexible. So Anthony's got the 137 00:10:20,360 --> 00:10:26,039 two kids, then Nicholas has a six month old seven month old baby, 138 00:10:26,600 --> 00:10:31,159 you know, so it's like, but you know, they need to start 139 00:10:31,200 --> 00:10:35,320 packing to just go for a ten minute drive to the beach. They forget 140 00:10:35,360 --> 00:10:39,039 about it the night before, I know, got eight diaper bags. Yes, 141 00:10:39,120 --> 00:10:41,960 you know, as we used to talk about pack like you're going on 142 00:10:41,000 --> 00:10:45,320 a cruise, right, like you're never coming, like there's not and toys 143 00:10:45,519 --> 00:10:52,840 and yet the sun block and forget about the back sunlock, the blankets and 144 00:10:52,000 --> 00:10:56,039 pillows. Yes, so I mean you stay there for ten minutes and then 145 00:10:56,080 --> 00:11:00,120 you're like, let's go. And then the baby. Yeah. So and 146 00:11:00,320 --> 00:11:03,200 the first day Natalia is like, you know, can we go to that? 147 00:11:03,279 --> 00:11:07,799 And Nicholas and on. Everybody's sweet to my kids, especially Nicholas and 148 00:11:07,120 --> 00:11:11,399 his wife. Andrea is a people pleaser, like she's just that kind of 149 00:11:11,440 --> 00:11:15,360 a person. She's old school, like Italian girl, like you know, 150 00:11:16,480 --> 00:11:20,480 but she's definitely a people pleaser. So she never wants to ever let anybody 151 00:11:20,519 --> 00:11:24,720 down. So Natalia is like, that's her. She prays on Andrea like 152 00:11:26,559 --> 00:11:31,240 poor girl, you know. And Natalia is sleeping at their house, like 153 00:11:31,360 --> 00:11:33,279 you know, so there's Wendy's house next door. Their house is, and 154 00:11:33,360 --> 00:11:37,600 so Natalia's got her room at their house. So she's up first in the 155 00:11:37,600 --> 00:11:41,039 morning, like and of course they're up with the baby. She hears them 156 00:11:41,080 --> 00:11:43,679 and it's like, you know, she's like a shark in the water smelling 157 00:11:43,759 --> 00:11:48,000 blood, like oh, and she knows she's got their number, you know. 158 00:11:48,559 --> 00:11:52,399 And so and Nicholas too. Nicholas is just an easy going dude like 159 00:11:52,559 --> 00:11:54,519 okay, or you know, all right, you want to go to the 160 00:11:54,600 --> 00:11:58,679 beach, Sure, wait, I gotta take the baby. Oh, Okay, 161 00:11:58,720 --> 00:12:01,159 you know, it's just you know, he's just this fumbling dad. 162 00:12:01,360 --> 00:12:07,360 Andrea has a great mom, so so she doesn't want to let me tell 163 00:12:07,360 --> 00:12:09,159 you that. So the first day, it's like their first day at the 164 00:12:09,200 --> 00:12:13,480 beach with the baby, like they haven't this is their first this is the 165 00:12:13,519 --> 00:12:18,919 baby's first outing alone since he's been born. These are two new parents and 166 00:12:20,080 --> 00:12:22,840 they're gonna go to the beach for the first time with the baby. And 167 00:12:22,879 --> 00:12:26,840 they got in Italia going let's go, you know, on the clock, 168 00:12:28,080 --> 00:12:31,440 like it talks, you know, clocks ticket. So anyway, but I 169 00:12:31,519 --> 00:12:33,279 said, didn't it tell you you help them? Of course I'll help them, 170 00:12:33,360 --> 00:12:35,399 you know, blah blah blah. So they get a head start, 171 00:12:35,639 --> 00:12:39,080 you know, Wendy and I are like prepping. I'm helping Wendy get the 172 00:12:39,080 --> 00:12:43,639 house ready because Anthony's driving, you know, with the two kids, and 173 00:12:43,679 --> 00:12:46,919 she wants to get the blow up bed, and so I stay back to 174 00:12:46,919 --> 00:12:50,559 help Wendy and she gets she takes she gets them to the beach. They 175 00:12:50,559 --> 00:12:54,000 have a great time. It was their first time with the baby on the 176 00:12:54,000 --> 00:12:58,320 beach, and they had all their shit, you know, like the pop 177 00:12:58,440 --> 00:13:01,759 up ten and whatever, you know. The sunscreen, this, the that, 178 00:13:01,320 --> 00:13:05,399 and they had a great day and yeah, it was a lot of 179 00:13:05,399 --> 00:13:09,519 that. So yeah, Sonny is not that you know, so Sonny ends 180 00:13:09,600 --> 00:13:11,720 up, It's like, where's Sonny. He's on the bike. He's like, 181 00:13:11,879 --> 00:13:15,679 right, he gets a hold of one of the bikes in Wendy's garage 182 00:13:15,879 --> 00:13:20,279 and you never see him. He's just like riding around with his earbuds, 183 00:13:20,360 --> 00:13:26,200 you know, just riding around the neighborhood, listening to his porn. Yeah. 184 00:13:26,120 --> 00:13:31,279 I saw some article about like the rise in actual audio porn. I 185 00:13:31,320 --> 00:13:37,440 was like, oh, so it's actually it's an actual thing. Really wow, 186 00:13:37,960 --> 00:13:41,000 audio porn. I guess that seems like more of a girl girl. 187 00:13:41,840 --> 00:13:48,159 But anyway, go on. Yeah, so he he's outriding his bike. 188 00:13:48,240 --> 00:13:52,919 But you know, then we we did one night we went to Benny Han 189 00:13:54,200 --> 00:14:00,679 Like it wasn't Benny Hannah, but it was a like exactly, oh my 190 00:14:00,799 --> 00:14:05,759 god, do you that's my favorite thing. I'm like a total Benny hannahor 191 00:14:05,080 --> 00:14:09,360 really yeah, I haven't been to one of them. And like I was 192 00:14:09,480 --> 00:14:11,960 upset that John didn't want to go for his birthday. I'm like, I'll 193 00:14:11,960 --> 00:14:16,000 make everybody go for their birthday. It's so cheesy, but it is. 194 00:14:16,200 --> 00:14:18,720 It's so cheesy. It's so cheesy something so fun I like the food, 195 00:14:20,080 --> 00:14:22,320 yeah, the food is delicious. Yeah. So it wasn't like a Benny 196 00:14:22,360 --> 00:14:26,960 Hannah, but it was abachi type place. And it's so funny now when 197 00:14:28,000 --> 00:14:31,039 we go out to dinner with an Italia because she's the hostess, that's her 198 00:14:31,120 --> 00:14:33,919 job at a restaurant, and like we get there and they like, seat 199 00:14:35,039 --> 00:14:37,559 us at a table that's a regular like a booth, and we were like, 200 00:14:37,960 --> 00:14:41,039 no, we wanted the you know, the table, the grill, 201 00:14:43,279 --> 00:14:46,120 and so Wendy, you know, she's like and Italian is like, O'll 202 00:14:46,159 --> 00:14:52,639 be nice to the hostesses, like, don't be mean anyway. So we 203 00:14:52,720 --> 00:14:56,000 get the table and we're all we have the whole thing to ourselves pretty much. 204 00:14:56,320 --> 00:14:58,759 And also when you have kids, you're going to dinner at like four 205 00:14:58,960 --> 00:15:03,960 thirty five o'clock because their bedtimes like seven o'clock. And Anthony is like my 206 00:15:03,120 --> 00:15:07,159 brother, how my brother used to be. It's like and I used to 207 00:15:07,240 --> 00:15:11,600 be too, like like you know, freaking eight o'clock bedtime. That's the 208 00:15:11,679 --> 00:15:15,039 law in this house. Like you're you guys are going to bed whether you're 209 00:15:15,039 --> 00:15:18,360 tired or not you know whatever. So we go to dinner and uh, 210 00:15:18,480 --> 00:15:22,879 they're flicking the things, you know, the they're throwing the shrimp and the 211 00:15:22,960 --> 00:15:28,679 chicken at everybody around the table. Then they do this weird thing where they 212 00:15:28,679 --> 00:15:31,720 had like it was kind of gross. I don't even know what was in 213 00:15:31,799 --> 00:15:35,879 the I think it was lemonade, but they had like a baby like a 214 00:15:35,399 --> 00:15:41,240 baby doll, like a like a squeeze, and then they had the like 215 00:15:41,240 --> 00:15:45,000 it's like he was peeing into your mouth and he would shoot it like to 216 00:15:45,120 --> 00:15:46,480 the people. And I saw him do it to the table next to us, 217 00:15:46,759 --> 00:15:48,679 and I was like, so he brought it out. I was like, 218 00:15:48,720 --> 00:15:50,519 oh no, no, no, no, no no no no no 219 00:15:50,519 --> 00:15:54,159 no no no no, we're not gonna need that now, put that thing 220 00:15:54,159 --> 00:15:58,240 away. This is so weird. But yeah, so we did that. 221 00:15:58,639 --> 00:16:03,679 And then and one night Wendy and I went to like there's like a like 222 00:16:04,039 --> 00:16:10,480 I really wanted to they do what do you call it bingo? But carry 223 00:16:10,480 --> 00:16:12,840 it there's like a karaoke bingo thing. But we didn't do that. When 224 00:16:12,919 --> 00:16:17,759 you have kids, you know, it's like you gotta there's a lot of 225 00:16:17,799 --> 00:16:21,000 plans kind of get you know, shut down. One day went to the 226 00:16:21,120 --> 00:16:23,759 zoo and me Sonny in Italian are like, oh hell no, like we 227 00:16:23,799 --> 00:16:26,799 stayed here. Sonny's riding his bike in Italian and I are just sitting by 228 00:16:26,799 --> 00:16:30,720 the pool. Not a lot to do like during the day except be in 229 00:16:30,759 --> 00:16:34,440 the pool or go to the beach. Well, that's the nice thing about 230 00:16:34,440 --> 00:16:37,840 your kids getting older, too, is you get to say, like, 231 00:16:37,039 --> 00:16:41,120 you know, what been done that right with the zoo. It's like when 232 00:16:41,159 --> 00:16:44,799 Gina Kimmel was like, one thing I won't be doing is going to the 233 00:16:44,840 --> 00:16:48,440 park exactly, and I even she gets to say that, she gets to 234 00:16:48,559 --> 00:16:51,799 like, not go to the park anymore. I'll do anything with you except 235 00:16:51,799 --> 00:16:53,559 go to the park. Yes, I was like, I'll do anything, 236 00:16:53,600 --> 00:16:56,799 but I ain't going to the zoo tomorrow. Like that's that's all you guys. 237 00:16:56,879 --> 00:17:00,120 Know. Me and I thought Sonny and Natalia would want to go, 238 00:17:00,159 --> 00:17:03,879 and they're like, oh no, you know, I don't know. I 239 00:17:03,919 --> 00:17:07,960 was like, you know, I don't know. But the funny thing too, 240 00:17:07,039 --> 00:17:11,240 is they go to the zoo, they're up and gone by like eight 241 00:17:11,359 --> 00:17:15,480 thirty nine in the morning, and then they're back at like twelve thirty one 242 00:17:15,519 --> 00:17:19,079 o'clock, like you know, there's not a lot. I mean it's not 243 00:17:19,119 --> 00:17:23,720 the La Zoo either. It's just done the local zoos or whatever. So 244 00:17:23,839 --> 00:17:27,599 and then at night we would play games. There's this game called Code Word, 245 00:17:27,680 --> 00:17:33,920 which we all loved and it was so fun and you get like in 246 00:17:33,000 --> 00:17:37,000 two teams and stuff and there's all these you would you would love it, 247 00:17:37,200 --> 00:17:40,799 like you got to come up. It's this whole thing. But they lay 248 00:17:40,839 --> 00:17:42,519 out all these words. It's fun. The fun thing is is you're you're 249 00:17:42,559 --> 00:17:47,759 on a team and you're playing board game. It's a it's it's there is 250 00:17:47,799 --> 00:17:51,240 no board, but yes, they put you put these words out and there's 251 00:17:51,279 --> 00:17:55,400 like twenty five words and you got it and you get You look at the 252 00:17:55,440 --> 00:18:00,200 card and there's you get you like like three. You try and get as 253 00:18:00,319 --> 00:18:07,720 many words with one by using one word like I don't know, like like 254 00:18:07,799 --> 00:18:15,319 you'll see like beach and then you'll see like restaurants. You'll have beach restaurant, 255 00:18:15,119 --> 00:18:22,039 bicycle, and then you you have to give like one word to try 256 00:18:22,079 --> 00:18:23,799 and or if you can't get three, try to get the three words. 257 00:18:23,960 --> 00:18:27,400 Or if you can't get three words, you'll you'll just say I get I'll 258 00:18:27,440 --> 00:18:30,599 just do one word you know, you can just say one word like sand 259 00:18:30,640 --> 00:18:34,079 and then they'll go, okay, beach. But but then sometimes you get 260 00:18:34,119 --> 00:18:37,920 creative, you know, like you'll think of a movie that would tie all 261 00:18:38,039 --> 00:18:42,160 like Star Wars. Somebody came, somebody just said Star Wars the movie and 262 00:18:42,799 --> 00:18:48,079 they were able to do like Falcon and like in Galaxy, you know, 263 00:18:48,200 --> 00:18:52,119 Galaxy Galaxy and like you know jet, you know what I mean, and 264 00:18:52,160 --> 00:18:56,440 then they get three three words are knocked down. So it's it's it was 265 00:18:56,519 --> 00:18:59,559 it's fun, you know, and it's like you sit there and you think 266 00:18:59,599 --> 00:19:02,039 for a while, but you can talk and chit chat. When it's the 267 00:19:02,039 --> 00:19:03,400 person's turn, they have to, like, you know, they got to 268 00:19:03,440 --> 00:19:06,839 sit there and think for a little bit. So then there's a lot of 269 00:19:06,920 --> 00:19:11,559 chit chatting and you know, so we played that and you know, it 270 00:19:11,599 --> 00:19:15,039 was it was great. It was a really nice trip. And then Sunny 271 00:19:17,240 --> 00:19:22,160 and Natalia. Why was oh, because like I was supposed to be leaving 272 00:19:22,319 --> 00:19:26,920 on Wednesday and going to stay longer, and they were staying longer. They 273 00:19:26,920 --> 00:19:30,960 were staying an extra day, they were staying. I was leaving Wednesday, 274 00:19:30,960 --> 00:19:34,200 they were leaving Friday. Everybody was leaving Friday, and they talked to me. 275 00:19:34,279 --> 00:19:38,599 Everybody talked me into staying. Oh so you skipped Bruce. I did 276 00:19:40,160 --> 00:19:42,880 only because I was able to get Suzanne was able to sell my ticket to 277 00:19:44,200 --> 00:19:48,359 one of her friends. Okay, and otherwise I wasn't. I wasn't gonna 278 00:19:48,400 --> 00:19:56,480 do it. But yeah it was and it was the Bruce played like as 279 00:19:56,480 --> 00:20:00,759 Suzanne was. Suzanne was there on Thursday night, and and we came home. 280 00:20:00,799 --> 00:20:03,960 Actually we came home Thursday night. Sorry, everybody was leaving Friday, 281 00:20:03,960 --> 00:20:07,359 but we came home Thursday, and I just stayed because you know, my 282 00:20:07,480 --> 00:20:11,599 kids were on spring break. It's their last spring breaka, so you still 283 00:20:11,640 --> 00:20:14,599 came home before they did. No, I came home with them. They 284 00:20:14,640 --> 00:20:18,079 were coming home on Friday. Everybody was leaving on Friday, but my kids 285 00:20:18,079 --> 00:20:22,200 were supposed to come home Thursday. Oh and so I extended my trip to 286 00:20:22,200 --> 00:20:26,759 come home Thursday. Okay, Yeah, let's take a quick break and then 287 00:20:26,039 --> 00:20:30,440 we'll keep going. Well, you find out how Bruce was. But this 288 00:20:30,519 --> 00:20:38,319 show is sponsored by Betterhelp. 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So Natalia is 308 00:22:03,000 --> 00:22:07,799 like, and for some reason, I have Suzanne on my Find my Friends. 309 00:22:08,240 --> 00:22:11,000 I have my kids, and I have Suzanne on Fine my Friends. 310 00:22:11,039 --> 00:22:15,039 So I don't know how that happened, but we think it's funny, like 311 00:22:15,160 --> 00:22:18,319 we can see each other where we're at. So we were we were flying 312 00:22:18,440 --> 00:22:22,640 home Thursday. We were flying over Los Angeles, you know in LAX, 313 00:22:22,720 --> 00:22:26,759 you're coming in. As you're coming in, you fly over like Sofi Stadium 314 00:22:26,839 --> 00:22:30,920 downtown LA. And Natalie is like, oh, we're gonna fly over Bruce 315 00:22:32,000 --> 00:22:36,519 right now because she's at Bruce and so we were like looking out the window 316 00:22:36,640 --> 00:22:38,480 and like she's like, Mom, thank you so much for staying. Like 317 00:22:38,799 --> 00:22:41,799 it was you know, we had a great time. So glad you stayed, 318 00:22:42,279 --> 00:22:45,839 you know, and I know it was so sweet. Yah makes it 319 00:22:45,920 --> 00:22:48,559 worth it right there totally. And the fact that she wants to sit next 320 00:22:48,599 --> 00:22:52,960 to me on the plane, like Sonny sat next to a stranger. He's 321 00:22:52,039 --> 00:22:56,640 like, I'm fine sitting by myself. I don't need you to. And 322 00:22:56,759 --> 00:22:59,759 then like you know, we were like talking and we were gonna watch a 323 00:22:59,799 --> 00:23:03,920 movie together, but we both fell asleep. But yeah, it was really 324 00:23:03,160 --> 00:23:07,200 it was really cute. So yeah, we were flying over. So Suzanne 325 00:23:07,279 --> 00:23:11,200 was able to get my tickets sold. And then I saw Bruce last night 326 00:23:11,039 --> 00:23:15,200 and I twisted my knee, which is how did you do that? I 327 00:23:15,400 --> 00:23:22,240 was dancing in the pit. Oh okay, we were So we get there, 328 00:23:22,319 --> 00:23:26,039 we're in the pit, and you know, we're really close. And 329 00:23:26,279 --> 00:23:30,960 a lot of these people I was reading on the I follow like a Facebook 330 00:23:30,000 --> 00:23:34,000 page fan of people, and you know Springsteen fans, and they're intent. 331 00:23:34,119 --> 00:23:38,880 They fly all over the world to come to la to see Bruce. And 332 00:23:40,160 --> 00:23:44,079 they were talking about getting there at six a m. This morning in the 333 00:23:44,160 --> 00:23:47,759 morning to get their wristbands to get in the pit. And I'm like, 334 00:23:48,640 --> 00:23:49,680 yeah, we used to do that in the back of the day, but 335 00:23:49,839 --> 00:23:52,200 we don't need it. You don't need it with you now. You just 336 00:23:52,279 --> 00:23:56,559 buy your ticket. But they want to be like right up in the front, 337 00:23:56,640 --> 00:23:59,440 you know, but like, yeah, Suzanne and I do too, 338 00:23:59,519 --> 00:24:03,079 but like we're like two people behind being like we don't need to be like 339 00:24:03,200 --> 00:24:06,359 touching his shoe the whole time, you know what I mean, Like I 340 00:24:06,400 --> 00:24:10,640 don't know, I mean, I get it, but but then like you 341 00:24:10,920 --> 00:24:12,279 know, people give you the like when you get into the pit, they 342 00:24:12,480 --> 00:24:15,920 like, you know, most of the fans are really nice, but this 343 00:24:15,079 --> 00:24:19,240 one guy was like, like, you know, had this like stern mean 344 00:24:19,400 --> 00:24:22,720 look, and he's tall and he's in front of us, and he's there. 345 00:24:22,880 --> 00:24:26,400 But then I was like, Suzanne's like, I think he's gonna be 346 00:24:26,440 --> 00:24:29,119 a dick. And then the other people around us were really nice, and 347 00:24:29,240 --> 00:24:30,640 then I was like, what's going on. I started talking to him. 348 00:24:32,000 --> 00:24:34,160 Turned out he was really nice. They flew in from Boston with his daughter, 349 00:24:34,279 --> 00:24:37,200 him and his wife to take them to see and I go, I 350 00:24:37,359 --> 00:24:41,680 took my kids. I flew to Boston when he was at Foxboro, you 351 00:24:41,759 --> 00:24:45,960 know, so then you like meet people. And before the show starts, 352 00:24:47,079 --> 00:24:49,200 this girl comes up to me and she's like, are you a net? 353 00:24:51,599 --> 00:24:56,000 Shut up? I took a picture with her. I go yeah, and 354 00:24:56,160 --> 00:25:00,799 she goes. I love for crying out loud. Oh my god, isn't 355 00:25:00,839 --> 00:25:03,359 that cute. I love when that happens. I was like, oh my 356 00:25:03,559 --> 00:25:07,599 god. His Ann's like, let's get a picture, took a picture. 357 00:25:07,799 --> 00:25:12,960 I don't her name. Oh gosh, she had an Alexandria I think is 358 00:25:14,039 --> 00:25:18,880 her name. And if she's listening, hello, but I don't think she 359 00:25:18,039 --> 00:25:22,240 was she's on our Facebook page or she could be, but she was so 360 00:25:22,559 --> 00:25:25,319 shy though. I was like, what are you doing, Like, let's 361 00:25:25,400 --> 00:25:30,359 hang out, like I'm having a beer, I'm excited and and and she's 362 00:25:30,480 --> 00:25:32,119 like, no, I don't want to bother you. Don't want to bother 363 00:25:32,160 --> 00:25:33,480 you. And I was like, oh, please bother me. I love 364 00:25:33,559 --> 00:25:38,599 this, like like somebody listening to our show. I love that. Like 365 00:25:38,799 --> 00:25:41,480 ah, She's like I had a feeling you were going to be here. 366 00:25:44,160 --> 00:25:45,680 Uh So she was really sweet. But yeah, it was nice. And 367 00:25:45,720 --> 00:25:48,960 then we saw Jeff Ross was in the pit. I didn't see him until 368 00:25:49,039 --> 00:25:53,839 after the show's over. But that was fun and it was a great show. 369 00:25:55,359 --> 00:26:00,279 Yeah, it was amazing. And you know John Stewart there, No, 370 00:26:00,359 --> 00:26:04,440 he's he's on the East coast is yeah, well he lives in New 371 00:26:04,559 --> 00:26:07,720 Jersey. I think he lives in Yeah, he lives in New York. 372 00:26:07,799 --> 00:26:10,640 I just I guess I always feel like he was a show well because he's 373 00:26:10,680 --> 00:26:11,920 doing the Daily Show now, so I thought maybe it was from not here. 374 00:26:12,359 --> 00:26:18,680 Oh h Now, usually you know when I would see Bruce and he 375 00:26:18,839 --> 00:26:22,279 was there, it would be on the East Coast. The people that I 376 00:26:22,279 --> 00:26:26,559 would see What made me sad was I would see all the time is Bob 377 00:26:26,680 --> 00:26:32,359 Saggott at Bruce and he would be with Jeff Ross. Yeah, that that's 378 00:26:32,480 --> 00:26:34,200 sad. But I know, I don't really, I didn't. Really Usually 379 00:26:34,279 --> 00:26:38,319 you see, like especially at LA, you know, you usually see celebrities 380 00:26:38,359 --> 00:26:41,079 and stuff. But I didn't. I don't. I mean, I'm in 381 00:26:41,160 --> 00:26:44,079 the pit, so I don't know. And they're probably sitting in the you 382 00:26:44,160 --> 00:26:48,000 know, skyboxes or wherever. But and it was at the Forum, not 383 00:26:48,079 --> 00:26:52,000 at the Staples Center. He doesn't like the Staple Center, Bruce. Why 384 00:26:52,720 --> 00:26:56,279 I don't He doesn't like people being in those boxes and those suits. You 385 00:26:56,359 --> 00:27:00,519 know, That's what I read. I don't know, and talk to him, 386 00:27:00,559 --> 00:27:03,240 that's what he told me. I mean, i'd want to know how 387 00:27:03,319 --> 00:27:07,759 Patty feels about that exactly. Well, you know, Patty freaking Patty, 388 00:27:08,160 --> 00:27:15,079 Like I don't know, she like she's not at any shows really never she 389 00:27:15,279 --> 00:27:18,920 usually is, but like for the last few years, she says, doesn't 390 00:27:18,920 --> 00:27:22,960 come around. You think, no, they're together, But I just think 391 00:27:22,039 --> 00:27:25,400 that she's you know, she can I don't know, she probably just like 392 00:27:26,000 --> 00:27:27,960 maybe she's an ass full of it. Yeah, I don't know who knows, 393 00:27:29,400 --> 00:27:33,359 but of course she shows up in LA and does two songs I could 394 00:27:33,400 --> 00:27:37,559 have done without. Oh I need to see their lovey dovey love songs together, 395 00:27:37,839 --> 00:27:40,880 like all right, and then they do another one. I'm like, 396 00:27:40,920 --> 00:27:44,599 oh, you're gonna do another one, bitch, why are you're not doing 397 00:27:44,720 --> 00:27:48,160 this singing? Huh she was singing? Yeah, she comes out and does 398 00:27:48,200 --> 00:27:52,240 it do like this two love duet songs. Oh, and not even like 399 00:27:52,359 --> 00:27:55,400 my favorite songs. There's other songs they could have picked, but whatever. 400 00:27:56,000 --> 00:27:59,759 And then like she she's not doing this in Cleveland, Ohio. That's for 401 00:28:00,200 --> 00:28:02,799 It's like, really, you're gonna come out in LA, like, I 402 00:28:02,839 --> 00:28:07,279 don't know. It's just so okay, all right, miss Priss. I 403 00:28:07,359 --> 00:28:11,640 ain't no play a hater, but all right, get your groove on. 404 00:28:11,240 --> 00:28:15,640 You know, I'm here to see Bruce really not you, right, thank 405 00:28:15,720 --> 00:28:18,359 god? She let and then she well, I don't care that she's in 406 00:28:18,440 --> 00:28:22,240 the band. I just don't want two songs being taken up of them doing 407 00:28:22,319 --> 00:28:29,319 their but whatever. And they weren't like super popular songs. They yeah they 408 00:28:29,400 --> 00:28:33,240 are. They're pretty popular, better than the tougher than the rest. That's 409 00:28:33,279 --> 00:28:37,799 the god Linette. That's weird to god God, I was gonna say, 410 00:28:37,599 --> 00:28:41,279 does he ever tougher than the rest he did last night? The only reason 411 00:28:41,359 --> 00:28:45,400 I say that is because you know, I don't know if you remember that. 412 00:28:45,480 --> 00:28:48,480 I love the singer Colin Hay who's from Men at Work. Yeah, 413 00:28:48,559 --> 00:28:51,440 yeah, I have Men at Work. But he has a major solo career. 414 00:28:51,759 --> 00:28:53,359 Sometimes he's still tours with Men at Work. But I used to go 415 00:28:53,480 --> 00:28:59,599 see him contantly many many years ago, like even before I met John, 416 00:29:00,559 --> 00:29:03,599 I would go see him at like Largo, right, and he wasn't that 417 00:29:03,920 --> 00:29:07,200 popular, like it wasn't a thing. Yeah, but he did. That 418 00:29:07,440 --> 00:29:12,279 was one cover that he did with oppru Springsteen's song, and I dit the 419 00:29:12,319 --> 00:29:15,440 first time hes sang that song, I was like, oh my god, 420 00:29:15,480 --> 00:29:18,640 I'm obsessed. And then I went and listened to Springsteen's version of it, 421 00:29:18,839 --> 00:29:22,319 and it's like a deep cut. It is a deep No, it's not. 422 00:29:22,559 --> 00:29:26,440 It's not a big song. I know. It's one of Jimmy Kimmel's 423 00:29:26,440 --> 00:29:30,599 favorite songs too, is yeah, yeah, yeah, and yeah, because 424 00:29:30,599 --> 00:29:34,240 it's not on like it's not on one of his big albums. It is 425 00:29:34,319 --> 00:29:38,759 a deeper cut. It's he always does it usually when whenever he does it 426 00:29:40,119 --> 00:29:41,880 since like I think the eighties. If he ever does it, it's with 427 00:29:42,039 --> 00:29:47,079 her and they sing together. It's cute, No, it is. It's 428 00:29:47,119 --> 00:29:49,160 good. I've seen it enough, like all right, like let's let's let's 429 00:29:49,160 --> 00:29:53,039 get some jungle land or something, you know. But but it was it 430 00:29:53,200 --> 00:29:56,640 was cute. But yeah, they did. Oh and then uh, Tom 431 00:29:56,720 --> 00:30:02,839 Morello came out from Rage against Machine because he used to travel with Brute. 432 00:30:02,880 --> 00:30:06,759 He's the one you know in Rage gets with the guitar strings like busted and 433 00:30:06,839 --> 00:30:11,240 he does it, you know, with this and he did two songs with 434 00:30:11,400 --> 00:30:15,519 him. They did forty one Shots, which is a controversial song about a 435 00:30:15,599 --> 00:30:21,200 black man. It was it was based on This was from I think the 436 00:30:21,279 --> 00:30:26,480 early nineties. Black guy got shot by cops forty one times in New York 437 00:30:26,559 --> 00:30:30,359 City and that's that was. He did that one. And then he did 438 00:30:30,480 --> 00:30:33,559 Ghost of Tom Joe. So yeah, Tom Morello came out. That was 439 00:30:33,640 --> 00:30:37,079 fun. It was great. It was great. Like it was a shorter 440 00:30:37,200 --> 00:30:41,599 song than I mean, a shorter show than Suzanne got. She got like 441 00:30:41,720 --> 00:30:45,960 three hours and twenty minutes. Yeah, ours was like, uh, just 442 00:30:45,200 --> 00:30:48,480 at the three hour mark, it's still a long time. It's a long 443 00:30:48,559 --> 00:30:52,359 time. Yeah, it goes by so fast, so fast. But it 444 00:30:52,440 --> 00:30:55,680 was fun. But yeah, I twisted my knee. Now it's like, 445 00:30:56,400 --> 00:30:57,759 so, how did you twist your I didn't know. It was dancing. 446 00:30:59,200 --> 00:31:00,559 Oh oh my go like at the end of the show, he does like 447 00:31:00,960 --> 00:31:06,039 dancing in the dark Glory Days Rosalie am born to like and he turns the 448 00:31:06,119 --> 00:31:10,440 lights on, so all the lights are on and everybody's dancing. So I 449 00:31:10,519 --> 00:31:12,440 don't know. I was jumping up and down and I just I didn't feel 450 00:31:12,440 --> 00:31:15,200 it when I did it, but I sure felt it this morning when I 451 00:31:15,279 --> 00:31:19,319 got up. Okay, So it wasn't like you got injured at the time. 452 00:31:21,319 --> 00:31:25,599 I mean, we're getting old. It sucks, I know, I 453 00:31:25,720 --> 00:31:29,599 know. So I know you got you got some stories. I do. 454 00:31:30,119 --> 00:31:33,799 I have some stories too. So anyway, all's well, that ends well. 455 00:31:33,880 --> 00:31:37,480 But you had a great time, had a great time. Florida was 456 00:31:37,559 --> 00:31:42,359 great and now you're back. Yeah I traveled as well. So but this 457 00:31:42,960 --> 00:31:49,480 this saga, okay, so just what this is what happened Alby? Okay, 458 00:31:49,559 --> 00:31:53,440 so we're so Elbe as I announced, like, I don't know whether 459 00:31:53,480 --> 00:31:57,279 it was last week, the week before Elbe got into San Diego State, 460 00:31:57,880 --> 00:32:04,559 the school that she didn't get into last year. So as everybody recalls, 461 00:32:04,680 --> 00:32:07,960 because I talked about it ad nauseum, because when your kids are sad, 462 00:32:07,079 --> 00:32:12,839 it's really hard to not feel sad for them. As we all remember LB 463 00:32:13,720 --> 00:32:19,759 there there's the good ucs, the top U sees, not the good use. 464 00:32:19,880 --> 00:32:22,079 But you know, it's funny because last week Julie was on here and 465 00:32:22,119 --> 00:32:25,200 she was talking about the fact that her husband, Jamil, who is now 466 00:32:25,440 --> 00:32:34,880 a pretty prestigious doctor at UCLA in adult congenital heart defects, but he went 467 00:32:34,960 --> 00:32:38,720 to UC Riverside, which is not like the good U ses, you know, 468 00:32:39,240 --> 00:32:42,599 but you know, but then he had to go to med school and 469 00:32:42,720 --> 00:32:46,720 he went to medical school, UCLA Medical School. So now what I'm saying 470 00:32:46,839 --> 00:32:50,880 is like, you can't really be a snob, but the kids get it 471 00:32:50,920 --> 00:32:53,119 in their heads, especially these LA kids that are like, I want to 472 00:32:53,160 --> 00:32:58,519 go to you know, UCLA, Berkeley, U c Irvine, U see 473 00:32:58,559 --> 00:33:01,400 San Diego. Elbie really wanted to do, you see Santa Barbara. As 474 00:33:01,440 --> 00:33:07,559 you remember, she got rejected from everywhere, including cal Poly Slow. So 475 00:33:07,200 --> 00:33:13,240 for those of you who are not from LA, it's cal Poly San Luis 476 00:33:13,319 --> 00:33:16,440 Obispo, which is a state school, but it's one of the best state 477 00:33:16,519 --> 00:33:21,640 schools. San Diego State is also one of the best state schools. So 478 00:33:21,720 --> 00:33:28,559 there's like there's like cal State Fullerton, cal State Chico, cal State Fresnos, 479 00:33:28,640 --> 00:33:30,720 you know, but people don't necessarily want to go to those. They 480 00:33:30,799 --> 00:33:36,640 want San Diego State, big raw raw school with football and you know, 481 00:33:37,480 --> 00:33:40,599 big city, right, and then there's cal Poly Slow, which is just 482 00:33:40,680 --> 00:33:45,519 a more prestigious of the cal States anyway, but there's those are still not 483 00:33:45,759 --> 00:33:51,960 the same level as like your UC Irvine you see, uh UCLA. Okay, 484 00:33:52,680 --> 00:33:58,279 So Elbe applied only this year she had to reapply. She only applied 485 00:33:58,319 --> 00:34:00,640 to schools that she would go to. This time, she was like, 486 00:34:00,240 --> 00:34:06,319 I'm not applying to like university somewhere that I wouldn't go. So she applied 487 00:34:06,880 --> 00:34:12,840 to the five UC's, the ones I just mentioned, plus how Polly Slow 488 00:34:13,280 --> 00:34:17,039 and San Diego State. She got into San Diego State. We're all happy, 489 00:34:17,480 --> 00:34:20,599 Yeah, this is going to be great. We signed up. I 490 00:34:20,719 --> 00:34:25,760 signed her up for the tour for the Accepted Students' Day because when she was 491 00:34:25,840 --> 00:34:29,960 going to go to Santa Cruz, we didn't go to Accepted students stay because 492 00:34:29,960 --> 00:34:34,599 it was full, so she couldn't go to Santa Cruz at a time that 493 00:34:34,679 --> 00:34:37,639 there were like a bunch of stuff happening and lots of kids, so it 494 00:34:37,800 --> 00:34:40,320 was kind of shitty. Like she went and it was like hard. She 495 00:34:40,360 --> 00:34:45,360 couldn't see any students. All she could see was trees. With that story, 496 00:34:45,480 --> 00:34:46,239 she was like, I don't want to go to school on a hiking 497 00:34:46,320 --> 00:34:51,599 trail. I'm not doing it. I'd rather go to community college for a 498 00:34:51,719 --> 00:34:54,159 year. But as you know, she had to go through the whole thing 499 00:34:54,239 --> 00:34:58,679 again, reapplied all these schools. So she gets into San Diego State. 500 00:34:58,960 --> 00:35:02,039 I'm excited about it. I sign her up for Accepted Students Day. We're 501 00:35:02,079 --> 00:35:07,639 gonna go this weekend, which we're going right, but like a few days 502 00:35:07,679 --> 00:35:12,360 ago, and this is before I left on my trip with Robin, so 503 00:35:12,519 --> 00:35:15,079 this was Thursday. I left on Friday, so this just happened. This 504 00:35:15,199 --> 00:35:21,840 is just last weekend. I'm like, I was like talking to Elbe about 505 00:35:22,079 --> 00:35:24,880 there's this other person that I know who has a daughter that's Elbie's age and 506 00:35:24,960 --> 00:35:29,639 they're both in the same position, and that mom was saying that her daughter 507 00:35:29,679 --> 00:35:32,360 got into San Diego State and maybe we could all do Accepted Students Day together, 508 00:35:32,599 --> 00:35:37,559 right. I go tell Elbie that and I get the the tight lipped 509 00:35:37,920 --> 00:35:42,039 like I wish you guys could see me because it's like like she gives me 510 00:35:42,159 --> 00:35:46,599 this like smile like kay right, and I'm like, what's what's wrong? 511 00:35:47,320 --> 00:35:52,039 She goes nothing, I'm fine, and I'm like, you seem off, 512 00:35:52,199 --> 00:35:55,440 like aren't you You're not excited to do not want to go to see San 513 00:35:55,480 --> 00:35:59,360 Diego State? Like I think this would be a great school for you, 514 00:35:59,559 --> 00:36:02,559 you know. I was like, no, I do I do? And 515 00:36:02,679 --> 00:36:06,239 I was like, okay, well do you not want to go with my 516 00:36:06,400 --> 00:36:08,159 friend and her daughter? Is that what you're feeling like because we don't have 517 00:36:08,280 --> 00:36:12,280 to go with them? And she's like it's fine. So I'm like, 518 00:36:12,440 --> 00:36:16,239 something's wrong. And lately Elbie just hasn't been talking to me that much, 519 00:36:16,440 --> 00:36:20,800 Like I just feel like she's been a little bit remote ya you know what 520 00:36:20,840 --> 00:36:22,800 I mean? Oh yeah, yeah, yeah, And I'm like I just 521 00:36:23,039 --> 00:36:25,880 feel like something deeper is going on with her and I don't know what it 522 00:36:27,039 --> 00:36:30,920 is. So I was finally I was like, something's wrong and I just 523 00:36:31,000 --> 00:36:34,880 wish you would tell me. Is it that you just you don't want to 524 00:36:34,920 --> 00:36:38,159 go to San Diego State. A big tear falls and she goes, Mom, 525 00:36:38,239 --> 00:36:44,480 I got waitlisted at cal Poly Slow. So I was like, oh, 526 00:36:44,840 --> 00:36:49,440 okay, and she goes, it's just not good. That's the city, 527 00:36:49,519 --> 00:36:53,360 that's a state school. It just doesn't bode well for my other applications. 528 00:36:53,440 --> 00:36:59,079 And you know, my brain is like trying to do like mama brain, 529 00:36:59,440 --> 00:37:02,239 but I don't want to be like toxic positivity and like that doesn't matter, 530 00:37:02,440 --> 00:37:06,559 you know. So I'm like, well, I was like, yeah, 531 00:37:06,639 --> 00:37:10,559 but that school has a really small sociology department, like maybe they just 532 00:37:10,639 --> 00:37:15,800 don't accept a lot of transfer students. And she's like, Mom, you 533 00:37:15,239 --> 00:37:20,079 know it's not good. And I was like, well, you don't want 534 00:37:20,079 --> 00:37:22,000 to go to that school anyway. I was small and it's kind of out 535 00:37:22,039 --> 00:37:25,119 there and it's not like a big college town and it's a bunch of fucking 536 00:37:25,199 --> 00:37:30,400 nerds that cares who cares. And she's like, it's not that, it's 537 00:37:30,519 --> 00:37:35,599 that, it's it's bad news for me getting into the good like U sees. 538 00:37:36,199 --> 00:37:37,599 And I was like, well, we don't know that, like let's 539 00:37:37,679 --> 00:37:43,559 not go let's not totally go down that path. But she was set then 540 00:37:43,599 --> 00:37:45,880 she starts kind of crying and I'm like, but she's like, Mom, 541 00:37:46,039 --> 00:37:51,320 I just I just don't know if I can handle handle like what happened last 542 00:37:51,440 --> 00:37:53,239 year. I just don't know if I'm see if I can handle it. 543 00:37:53,719 --> 00:37:57,400 And I was like, I know, I know, And then in my 544 00:37:57,559 --> 00:38:00,280 mind I'm immediately like, should I tell her to call her therapist? Like 545 00:38:00,599 --> 00:38:04,400 I text her therapist? You know, you know, I get so far 546 00:38:04,440 --> 00:38:07,960 ahead of myself. I get anxious and I want to control it, and 547 00:38:07,039 --> 00:38:10,039 I'm like, I want to like be a I want to call the school, 548 00:38:10,400 --> 00:38:14,480 so like you need to let LB in. She's hard right now, 549 00:38:15,360 --> 00:38:17,920 you know. But at the same time too, I'm like, listen, 550 00:38:19,719 --> 00:38:22,840 she did everything she can do that it's sad of her control, I know. 551 00:38:23,119 --> 00:38:28,639 So anyway, eventually I'm like, do you want to go to Target 552 00:38:28,719 --> 00:38:30,920 with me? I have to dye my roots because I got gray hair and 553 00:38:30,960 --> 00:38:34,039 I'm going to be And she's like okay, So she goes to Target with 554 00:38:34,159 --> 00:38:37,760 me. I buy her some chocolate. We're having a good talk. I'm 555 00:38:37,840 --> 00:38:42,480 like, listen, we're gonna go to San Diego, like it's a great 556 00:38:42,639 --> 00:38:46,440 school. They rejected your ass last year and you got in so it's already 557 00:38:46,480 --> 00:38:50,559 you already have a great option, like we know you're gonna have somewhere to 558 00:38:50,639 --> 00:38:52,760 go. And she's like yeah, and then at the end of the night 559 00:38:52,840 --> 00:38:57,199 she's like, you know, it's fine. She goes, I'm I'm I'm 560 00:38:57,280 --> 00:39:01,039 excited to go see San Diego and with we can go with like the other 561 00:39:01,199 --> 00:39:05,440 friend and that'll be fun. And I'm like, okay, well yeah, 562 00:39:05,920 --> 00:39:12,320 yeah, go ahead. The next day, you see, Irvine decisions came 563 00:39:12,360 --> 00:39:17,639 out, so like what happens is what happened. All the kids talk about 564 00:39:19,519 --> 00:39:22,239 the decisions. They all know it's on TikTok. All these kids that have 565 00:39:22,360 --> 00:39:28,199 applied to UC's, they their decisions come out on certain days and it's throughout 566 00:39:28,239 --> 00:39:31,480 April for the transfer kids. Yeah, okay, So April fifth was UCI 567 00:39:32,199 --> 00:39:37,280 decision day, and so I was lee. I left to go drive to 568 00:39:37,440 --> 00:39:45,880 San Diego with Robin for my writer's festival on Friday. You know what, 569 00:39:45,199 --> 00:39:49,559 Let's take a quick break. Let's talk about neutrofil okay, and I'll tell 570 00:39:49,599 --> 00:39:52,039 you the conclusion of this story. 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She'd found that 597 00:41:57,760 --> 00:42:04,159 out like two days before, right, So that morning I went to go 598 00:42:04,360 --> 00:42:08,679 drive with with Robin and I was like, I was asking Robin. I 599 00:42:08,760 --> 00:42:12,880 was like obsessing over it. I'm like, what do you think do you 600 00:42:12,920 --> 00:42:15,960 think the fact that she didn't get into that she got waitlisted for cal Poly 601 00:42:15,119 --> 00:42:17,559 Slow. I was like, Elbie thinks this is a really bad sign, 602 00:42:17,719 --> 00:42:22,280 Like what do you think And Robin's like, I just don't know. Because 603 00:42:22,320 --> 00:42:27,280 her son Jack went through this a few years ago. He ended up at 604 00:42:27,360 --> 00:42:30,199 San Diego State, but he did community college for two years. He got 605 00:42:30,239 --> 00:42:35,920 into UC San Diego. He got into some some schools, but he didn't 606 00:42:35,920 --> 00:42:38,320 apply to the same ones Elbe applied to. But anyway, she was like, 607 00:42:38,599 --> 00:42:43,679 I just don't know. Well, later that day is when I knew 608 00:42:43,719 --> 00:42:49,199 the decisions were coming out, right, So I figured she would check it, 609 00:42:49,320 --> 00:42:52,000 like before she left for work. I don't I don't hear anything from 610 00:42:52,039 --> 00:42:58,960 her, and I my heart like was just like oh, Like, I 611 00:42:59,119 --> 00:43:02,360 was like, she would have known by five o'clock, by five pm Pacific 612 00:43:02,440 --> 00:43:06,760 times she would have known. And I saw that she didn't leave for work 613 00:43:06,840 --> 00:43:08,800 until like six thirty. So I was like, she didn't get in. 614 00:43:09,760 --> 00:43:15,360 Then I was like, okay, maybe on the off off chance that she 615 00:43:15,519 --> 00:43:19,199 decided like I don't want to see bad news before I go to work. 616 00:43:19,239 --> 00:43:21,760 I don't want it to riad by night. I'll just check it later when 617 00:43:21,800 --> 00:43:24,280 I get home. So so Robin and I went out and I'll tell you 618 00:43:24,400 --> 00:43:29,400 about that. On Friday. We had we had a great time, but 619 00:43:29,519 --> 00:43:32,559 I was the whole time trying to like distract myself. Like that night Friday 620 00:43:32,639 --> 00:43:37,960 night, I was feeling really just kind of off and anxious and just like 621 00:43:37,519 --> 00:43:40,760 and in my mind, I was like, Okay, all right, Like 622 00:43:40,880 --> 00:43:44,719 she didn't get in, but what does this mean. It doesn't mean that 623 00:43:44,800 --> 00:43:47,320 she won't get into UCSB, which is like her dream school, like she 624 00:43:47,480 --> 00:43:51,199 wanted to go there last year. I was like, cause, you see, 625 00:43:51,280 --> 00:43:53,039 Irvine is one of the hardest you sees. It's like up there with 626 00:43:53,159 --> 00:43:58,480 Berkeley and UCLA, and so I'm like, you know, I don't know. 627 00:43:58,760 --> 00:44:01,599 And so that night, I I'm look, I'm reading Reddit, and 628 00:44:01,719 --> 00:44:06,559 I'm seeing all the kids going like I got into Irvine. And then I'm 629 00:44:06,559 --> 00:44:08,000 seeing other kids that are like, I have a four point zero and I 630 00:44:08,079 --> 00:44:13,000 got rejected and it's all the transfer kids, and some kids are like, 631 00:44:13,079 --> 00:44:15,360 I don't know what I had to do. I you know, I did 632 00:44:15,400 --> 00:44:17,280 everything I needed to do. I had a four point zero in community college 633 00:44:17,320 --> 00:44:22,440 and I didn't get in. And I'm reading stuff to Robin and and so 634 00:44:22,599 --> 00:44:25,760 now it's like midnight, she's been home. I'm like, if she got 635 00:44:25,800 --> 00:44:29,920 in, she would have texted me, like she would have texted she wouldn't 636 00:44:29,920 --> 00:44:32,760 have cared that it was midnight. So now I'm like, well, I 637 00:44:32,840 --> 00:44:37,400 mean she didn't get in, And I'm like, okay, I'm gonna this 638 00:44:37,559 --> 00:44:42,360 is going to be a long ass week because we're going to see San Diego. 639 00:44:42,480 --> 00:44:45,639 But she's maybe going to be in a bad mood about it. The 640 00:44:45,800 --> 00:44:49,079 rest of the decisions don't come out for another like couple of weeks, right, 641 00:44:49,800 --> 00:44:53,519 So the next day I just I'm just distracting myself and go do my 642 00:44:53,639 --> 00:44:57,519 thing, which I'll tell you about later. I do my book panel, 643 00:44:57,679 --> 00:45:00,199 and like I said, it was fun. And then I'm signing some books. 644 00:45:00,639 --> 00:45:05,719 Then I get a fucking text from John okay, and he's like, 645 00:45:05,960 --> 00:45:08,079 oh, and by the way, I had sent John a text, and 646 00:45:08,159 --> 00:45:12,480 I was like, head's up, Albi. I don't think Elbie got into 647 00:45:12,519 --> 00:45:16,119 Irvine, and she's probably really upset about it. She might not say anything. 648 00:45:16,199 --> 00:45:19,920 She's not she she's not going to tell us that she didn't get in. 649 00:45:20,079 --> 00:45:22,199 She's but she might be really, really off right. And he's like, 650 00:45:22,280 --> 00:45:27,280 Okay, well, she came in from home from work last night. 651 00:45:27,360 --> 00:45:29,320 She didn't seem like she was in a bad mood. I was like, 652 00:45:29,440 --> 00:45:31,679 that's cause she probably didn't know yet, you know in my mind. And 653 00:45:31,800 --> 00:45:35,079 he's like, she but she was on the phone, but okay, thanks 654 00:45:35,119 --> 00:45:37,800 for letting me know. So now it's like, you know, I don't 655 00:45:37,840 --> 00:45:40,639 know what time it was, but it was like noon the next day and 656 00:45:40,760 --> 00:45:44,960 he goes, uh, he sends me a text and he goes, hey, 657 00:45:45,639 --> 00:45:50,039 Albi got some news dot dot dot and I was like, yeah, 658 00:45:50,199 --> 00:45:52,840 I know, and he's like, and she's she's pretty emotional and I think 659 00:45:52,880 --> 00:45:57,199 she needs her mom. And I'm like, I'm at the I'm at a 660 00:45:57,280 --> 00:46:00,920 book signing. I was like, but I was like, it's I know, 661 00:46:01,079 --> 00:46:04,599 it's bad. I was like, but in my mind, I'm like, 662 00:46:04,679 --> 00:46:07,400 can you can you talk to her? Yeah? You can't. Like 663 00:46:07,679 --> 00:46:10,159 I'm gonna have to go get somewhere away from everybody and she's gonna be crying 664 00:46:10,280 --> 00:46:14,480 and I'm gonna need to like and I was like, I'm gonna need to 665 00:46:14,559 --> 00:46:16,920 talk her down and give her like statistics and what And I was like, 666 00:46:17,000 --> 00:46:20,559 can you talk to her? And he goes, I mean, I am, 667 00:46:20,719 --> 00:46:22,599 but I think she wants to talk to her mom. And I was 668 00:46:22,639 --> 00:46:24,719 like, okay, can you give me like a few minutes because I'm still 669 00:46:24,760 --> 00:46:28,599 with all these people, and I was like, oh, I feel so 670 00:46:28,800 --> 00:46:30,239 bad. My heart is hurting right now. And he was like, he 671 00:46:30,360 --> 00:46:36,800 was like, dumb ass. She got in, and I was like, 672 00:46:37,280 --> 00:46:40,920 I screamed so loud. I was like, right, I standing in front 673 00:46:40,920 --> 00:46:44,599 of you, was like, she got in. Robin was like cause she 674 00:46:44,960 --> 00:46:49,360 Robin had been listening to me yes for a day and af upset and she 675 00:46:49,599 --> 00:46:54,639 was Robin starts crying, crying. I'm like hugging Robin screaming. And then 676 00:46:54,679 --> 00:46:59,320 I look at my text from LB and she was like, mom, you 677 00:46:59,480 --> 00:47:04,280 bitch got Do you see Irvine? So, oh my god, that's so 678 00:47:04,559 --> 00:47:07,360 great. That's so great. We were cheering and it's just been like, 679 00:47:07,639 --> 00:47:13,639 honestly, such load off. Oh I bet. I bet, because it's 680 00:47:13,760 --> 00:47:16,519 not even necessarily that she wants to go to Irvin. She's never even been 681 00:47:16,599 --> 00:47:21,079 there. She does have a friend there who loves it. But it's the 682 00:47:21,320 --> 00:47:25,239 idea of, like, listen, even if she didn't get into some of 683 00:47:25,280 --> 00:47:29,280 the other ones, I think she would feel better knowing she's got a good 684 00:47:29,400 --> 00:47:31,760 ucy to choose from. Yes, then if she goes to San Diego and 685 00:47:31,880 --> 00:47:37,159 loves it and chooses to go there, she's doing it because she had options, 686 00:47:37,719 --> 00:47:40,800 not because it was the old that wanted. Right, How the fuck 687 00:47:40,880 --> 00:47:45,519 does somebody like Elbie like, just it's so crazy. It's California, so 688 00:47:45,719 --> 00:47:51,760 cricking hard. It's California. It's the California schools. They're all impacted. 689 00:47:52,800 --> 00:47:57,239 They're very, very difficult to get into. Like at least I know now 690 00:47:57,599 --> 00:48:00,920 with Sadie and Xander, right not to because with Elbie we were too dumb 691 00:48:01,039 --> 00:48:07,760 to realize it's hard. So also, also the major really makes a big 692 00:48:07,880 --> 00:48:14,800 difference, and we didn't know that the major. We didn't know that the 693 00:48:14,920 --> 00:48:20,599 major of psychology was so hard to get into. And this time, and 694 00:48:20,719 --> 00:48:27,159 this time she's doing sociology, which I'm hopeful will be a slightly less impacted. 695 00:48:27,199 --> 00:48:30,679 And sure she even wanted that to begin. I mean, that's the 696 00:48:30,760 --> 00:48:34,639 better route, that that's the better major that she wanted. Right then, 697 00:48:35,119 --> 00:48:39,320 she wanted psychology. But Santa Barbara, we found out that the major is 698 00:48:39,480 --> 00:48:44,800 brain science, which she realized is not her jam. Anyway, she didn't 699 00:48:44,800 --> 00:48:47,199 want to take a bunch of biology classes. And you have to take biology 700 00:48:47,239 --> 00:48:51,840 and you have to take science stuff, you know, which she was like 701 00:48:52,199 --> 00:48:58,039 chemistry, weird stuff to what she thought was a people thing, being a 702 00:48:58,199 --> 00:49:02,199 therapist. You know, sociology, it none of this matters. You have 703 00:49:02,280 --> 00:49:05,880 to go to grad school if you're going to do some of these things. 704 00:49:05,960 --> 00:49:08,440 But sociology you can do a lot with r You can like go, you 705 00:49:08,519 --> 00:49:15,000 can use it for marketing or HR or like social media stuff or like advertising 706 00:49:15,440 --> 00:49:19,519 or there's a lot of things you can do with sociology. Right, But 707 00:49:19,639 --> 00:49:22,599 if you go to grad school, she could be still be a therapist. 708 00:49:22,679 --> 00:49:25,480 It doesn't matter what you undergrad, right, right, But you get so 709 00:49:25,719 --> 00:49:30,599 caught. And also these freaking kids shouldn't really have to pick a major yet. 710 00:49:30,679 --> 00:49:32,960 They shouldn't just explain yeah, yeah, yeah. When we were in 711 00:49:34,039 --> 00:49:37,000 school, everybody was undeclared, right, you know, right, can't you? 712 00:49:37,280 --> 00:49:42,119 Does it look bad if you put undecided? Does it hurt you? 713 00:49:42,800 --> 00:49:45,159 I don't think it hurts or doesn't give you a better chance? I don't. 714 00:49:45,320 --> 00:49:50,000 I don't really, That's what I was wondering because I told Sonny, 715 00:49:50,119 --> 00:49:52,280 like for one of the school I said, maybe you should just put like 716 00:49:52,559 --> 00:49:55,679 undecided, because you know, I maybe because you never know, like what 717 00:49:55,760 --> 00:50:00,599 if there's too many people for that going for the same may I don't know. 718 00:50:00,719 --> 00:50:05,920 But they're really specific about like whether you're you're a stem kid or whether 719 00:50:06,000 --> 00:50:09,239 you're like a humanities kid. So you can't you can't stay undecided and then 720 00:50:09,280 --> 00:50:12,800 decide, oh, I'm going to be an engineer, because they're going to 721 00:50:12,880 --> 00:50:16,039 be like well or or computer science, like some of these majors are so 722 00:50:16,199 --> 00:50:20,239 impacted that you have to be like, you could be a four point zero, 723 00:50:20,719 --> 00:50:23,239 you know, cured cancer, did all these things and still get waitlisted 724 00:50:23,599 --> 00:50:30,960 because computer science is just very impacted. Well so psychology not as bad as 725 00:50:30,599 --> 00:50:35,239 as like, but of the humanities, like, she wasn't making the cut. 726 00:50:35,360 --> 00:50:38,000 So anyway, all this means to her is like I have a better 727 00:50:38,159 --> 00:50:43,000 chance. Yes, maybe I'll get options. It's possible I could get into 728 00:50:44,119 --> 00:50:47,400 Santa Barbara Berkeley, UCLA. That's a possibility. But even if I, 729 00:50:47,599 --> 00:50:51,960 even if she doesn't, I think she just feels it's going to be a 730 00:50:52,000 --> 00:50:54,199 better week. She's been in a really good mood. Yes, I feel 731 00:50:54,199 --> 00:50:59,079 the best I've felt literally in a year. That's kay awesome that she got 732 00:50:59,159 --> 00:51:04,199 into a good school. Yeah good, absolutely absolutely, And so is she 733 00:51:04,360 --> 00:51:07,760 still You're still waiting to hear from the other schools. But we won't know 734 00:51:07,920 --> 00:51:12,000 until after we've gone to accepted students stay at San Diego State. But this 735 00:51:12,119 --> 00:51:16,199 way she'll go into with a better attitude, knowing that, like she's also 736 00:51:16,280 --> 00:51:20,239 going to see Irvine, knowing that she has a chance at other schools, 737 00:51:20,679 --> 00:51:22,760 maybe she'll see San Diego State and be like, I freaking love this. 738 00:51:23,199 --> 00:51:25,920 Yeah, as LB always tells me, Mom, I'm a basic bitch. 739 00:51:27,800 --> 00:51:31,199 San Diego State is a basic bitch school. Yeah, it's all the things. 740 00:51:31,360 --> 00:51:35,800 It's girls in half tops, it's San Diego, it's you know, 741 00:51:36,320 --> 00:51:37,960 yeah, it's kids that like to go to raves. Right, you know 742 00:51:38,239 --> 00:51:42,559 this is going to be I think she's going to see herself right there. 743 00:51:42,800 --> 00:51:45,760 Right. It's not school on a hiking trail. Yeah, thank god. 744 00:51:45,039 --> 00:51:47,320 It's kids that don't want to go to school. Not a lot of trees, 745 00:51:49,079 --> 00:51:52,079 of trees, you know, just enough trees. Yeah. Yeah, 746 00:51:52,320 --> 00:51:58,000 anyway, that's awesome, I know, is great to end on. So 747 00:51:58,840 --> 00:52:01,480 at that note, how about a shout out from a friend, Adam Lerner. 748 00:52:02,360 --> 00:52:07,760 Adam's got a car dot com or his phone numbers three one zero nine 749 00:52:07,840 --> 00:52:12,400 nine eight seven zero four eight. He says he helps like two to three 750 00:52:12,440 --> 00:52:15,760 people a week for crying out loud. That's great. He's so happy to 751 00:52:15,960 --> 00:52:20,599 just answer questions or like educate if you If you don't, you don't have 752 00:52:20,719 --> 00:52:22,079 to sign up with him. You could just be like, hey, I 753 00:52:22,199 --> 00:52:25,079 just have some questions. I'm just starting the process. He'll be happy to 754 00:52:25,119 --> 00:52:28,880 talk to you, right. He loves to talk cars great and tell us 755 00:52:28,880 --> 00:52:34,159 about Mike Gerstein. Well, speaking of cars and Mike Gerstein, I love 756 00:52:34,239 --> 00:52:37,400 his slogan. By the way, it's they're number one with number two. 757 00:52:37,599 --> 00:52:40,000 I know we were laughing about that last week. So for you guys in 758 00:52:40,079 --> 00:52:45,360 the Phoenix metro area and basically all of Maricopa County, Mike is a twenty 759 00:52:45,440 --> 00:52:49,440 year plumber who can fix anything, and he can fix things right over the 760 00:52:49,519 --> 00:52:53,440 phone or zoom for all you do do it yourself, folks out there, 761 00:52:53,480 --> 00:52:57,880 and if you have any plumbing issues at all, you call Mike. And 762 00:52:57,960 --> 00:53:01,199 if you're looking for an honest, clean, polite, trustworthy plumber who won't 763 00:53:01,559 --> 00:53:05,920 gouge you, he's the real deal. You can go to his website. 764 00:53:06,039 --> 00:53:12,719 He's got it's Phoenix Plumbingsolutions dot com. And if you're in Arizona and you're 765 00:53:13,000 --> 00:53:16,760 a realtor, he has been running a camera through the main sewer lines for 766 00:53:16,880 --> 00:53:22,920 houses for sale and catching big problems. So go to Phoenix Plumbing Solutions dot 767 00:53:22,039 --> 00:53:27,639 com and check them out my pal mic. Yeah, and also don't forget 768 00:53:27,639 --> 00:53:30,599 about the Family Skeptical. It's a podcast about raising kids with no religion. 769 00:53:30,960 --> 00:53:37,000 It's friend of the show. It's her podcast. It's only there's only a 770 00:53:37,039 --> 00:53:39,119 new episode like every three weeks, so you won't get like two bucked up. 771 00:53:39,280 --> 00:53:43,280 That's nice. Yeah. Also Wilmaan and Frida. If you're in Palm 772 00:53:43,360 --> 00:53:46,079 Springs or Palm Desert, go get you some brunch. It's the best brunch 773 00:53:46,639 --> 00:53:52,079 in town. It was voted best breakfast like a million years in a row. 774 00:53:52,519 --> 00:53:55,719 Yeah. And also Basic Becky. Oh my god, Basic Becky sent 775 00:53:55,840 --> 00:54:00,280 us a pillow that I just forgot to bring into the studio and it's says 776 00:54:00,400 --> 00:54:05,159 it's Lynette and Stephanie f co l University, Like, oh my god, 777 00:54:05,199 --> 00:54:09,199 I love you University. How people were talking about how we're we have our 778 00:54:09,239 --> 00:54:14,000 in college. Remember, yes, she sent us our pillow for it to 779 00:54:14,079 --> 00:54:16,840 put on the couch here. Oh my god, I know. So if 780 00:54:16,880 --> 00:54:22,039 you want something from Basic Becky, go to just Basic Becky dot com or 781 00:54:22,079 --> 00:54:24,760 find her on Facebook at basic Becky. Yeah, I'm trying to get her 782 00:54:24,840 --> 00:54:30,480 to make me a mug that says dumb bitch juice a coffee mug. Yeah. 783 00:54:30,000 --> 00:54:32,280 Yeah, so she's looking at it, just can't figure it out. 784 00:54:32,360 --> 00:54:36,239 Yeah, all right, you guys, Hey, thank you guys. Thursday 785 00:54:36,440 --> 00:54:40,360 Wednesday we have a Patreon. Yes, it's already been recorded. And Thursday 786 00:54:40,480 --> 00:54:45,320 we have Leon Kreischer, Bert Kreischer's wife from Wife of the Party podcast that 787 00:54:45,519 --> 00:54:52,599 is our Thursday guest. She's fantastic. I did her podcast and we sat 788 00:54:52,639 --> 00:54:55,840 for like two hours. I talked and she goes there, came about the 789 00:54:57,400 --> 00:55:00,760 mommy issues, all the stuff. Love it. Tune in for that. 790 00:55:00,079 --> 00:55:05,880 And we have a zoom coming up from our Patreon a week from Sunday is 791 00:55:05,960 --> 00:55:08,679 if we're crying out loud, zoom. So go up to be on the 792 00:55:08,719 --> 00:55:13,400 ten dollars level and you can be in your hangout us. All right, 793 00:55:13,519 --> 00:55:15,599 thanks Kaylin, love you guys, your parents. Now, don't f it 794 00:55:15,719 --> 00:55:22,159 up, letting go